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Welcome back to Internet frenzy. What's good? What's good? Happy Sunday.

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Happy Sunday. Gen Con weekend. Well, we back for another episode. Let's jump right into it. Shall we?

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We shall. All right. Last week was the youth sports chaos. I can't remember what we titled that one. Who cares?

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Youth sports are gnarly.

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Parents are nuts. Yeah, wow.

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First we had my story that was about the homie that missed the call or didn't miss the call on first and it canceled a whole tournament because of the chaos.

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Remember? Yeah. Very competitive and he was like in his fresh press brand new shirt. Sucks to suck but that seemed like a real story.

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I thought it seemed fake. Oh, bohunky.

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Next.

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We had the situation where the sister was missing her niece and niece's or niece and nephew's game. That was a good story.

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That was my story. It's just the travel. That's tough. Seemed legit. I don't think that was fake.

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I don't think it was fake either. That was a good one. Next one was the sorry dad that just shattered his six-year-old's world.

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Sorry, buddy. You just suck at baseball. That one crushed me. That's true. But he learned. The dad learned. Yep. He's a good dude.

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He learned. If he makes that mistake with another kid, then he's in trouble.

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And then the last one was coach Steve. Yeah.

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Ballistic over the missed call.

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Followed him out into the parking lot. Followed him to the gas station.

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Bottom of polar pop. I mean could be real. Sounded really similar to my real story.

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I don't know.

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Well, you might be right there.

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Right that it's real. Right that it's fake.

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What's the one where you use chat GBT? That's fake. Oh, that was me.

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No, you had the fake one. That was so crazy.

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That's so crazy.

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Nope, I knew it. I'm just a crazy girl.

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He's going on chat GBT. Wow.

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I'm just a girl, but I'm not like all the girls. Yeah.

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I could have said that better girls are girls are not boys.

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Girls are not shitty anymore. I'll tell you that much.

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We put that in the past better topics this week. Yeah.

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You think so? Yeah, I could probably do women are women can be shitty too for every episode.

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True. And I think mine actually is a little bit that.

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Ghosts of social media past.

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So kind of explain that for our listeners.

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Well, let's start out by it's October. It's spooky season.

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Yes. So we're going Halloween theme. Of course.

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And the first Halloween theme pot is going to be ghost of social media past.

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Meaning sometimes the ghosts of the past sneak up on you on social media or other online platforms, whatever. Yeah.

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That's the way I took it. Oh, 100%. I can't wait to give you my story.

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I found one that's a little different. So you're the fake? No.

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Oh, you might be the fake. Okay. Okay. We'll see. I'll be the judge. Okay.

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This post comes from am I the asshole? Am I the asshole for breaking up with my girlfriend after finding a graphic video of her online?

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Last year I am 32 went to a restaurant we used to frequent in high school with friends and saw my picture up on a wall picture was dated.

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It was from that time period after dinner.

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I asked the waitress about it and she said she didn't she said she didn't know and that I should check with the owner, which I did.

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And he was apologetic and said he would take the picture down as well as the pictures on his website.

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It wasn't just one picture. It was multiple ones from the same day.

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He owned multiple restaurants and I was prominently pictured on the websites of most of them.

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So that's his little preface of the story saying I went to a restaurant. They had pictures of me on the wall.

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I thought it was weird because it was from like 14 years prior when I was in high school.

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So it was a bit odd, but I didn't think too much of it. Didn't seem like a big deal to me.

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Two weeks ago I was with my girlfriend who's f29 and her sister and the topic came up.

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Her sister suggested that I use an app that uses facial recognition to see if the pictures are elsewhere.

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And so I did. All of those pictures from the set that showed up on this guy's restaurant sites,

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but they were just files not being actively used anymore, which is all I cared about.

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And then that's where things turned upside down for me.

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So the site I used had a limited number of faces I could search for.

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And after using mine, I still had some left.

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So my GF sister suggested we look up her and my GF as well.

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My GF didn't protest and seemed curious as well.

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So when I looked her up, there was an explicit image that showed up as the thumbnail of a video with her and some other dude.

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Things instantly became awkward and I didn't say much.

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My GF's main concern was that her sister had seen her as exposed as someone could be.

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So the rest of the evening was pretty awkward tiptoeing around the topic and pretending it didn't happen.

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And I did the same. I didn't want to embarrass my GF or her sister any further, but it did happen and I wasn't comfortable with it.

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But unfortunately we didn't have a chance to talk about it that night.

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In the next morning we had a very early morning hike planned with friends.

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So we didn't get the chance to talk then either.

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During the hike I was thinking about it and why it was bothering me, but couldn't get my feelings figured out.

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After the hike my GF asked me what I thought and I told her where I was at.

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And that was mostly just confusion and uneasiness.

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That made her upset and she started crying on the drive back.

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I did try to comfort her, but I don't think I did a good job.

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Afterwards we went about our day not talking about it and that turned into a week.

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The entire time I was trying to rationalize the fact that obviously she had previous partners before we got together and that it shouldn't change anything.

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But unfortunately it did.

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So last week I finally decided to talk to her about it again.

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And during that conversation I realized that I wasn't going to get over it.

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But unfortunately this last week I finally decided to talk to her about it again.

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And during the conversation I realized that I wasn't going to get over it.

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So I broke up with her.

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She started crying so I comforted her a bit and called her sister to give her a ride back to her apartment.

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Get this girl out of my place.

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We dated for about a year and kind of knew each other for about three years.

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So our friends are asking what happened.

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I don't want to tell them why because that video is still online and no one in our friend group knows about it.

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Oh dang.

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I don't want to out her.

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She's texted me a few times but I've ignored the messages for now.

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At some point I do need to respond because she has to pick her stuff up from my place.

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I might be wrong but I think I handled the breakup part as well as I could.

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Obviously I couldn't get over what I had seen.

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The reason I even ask is because her sister said I was an asshole because I didn't tell her what I was thinking in regards to the video until the breakup.

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And that I led her to believe everything was okay for a week.

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Thoughts?

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Whoa.

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Who posted the video?

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I saw somewhere, I don't remember where it was, that she consented to posting it.

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So she knew about the video and she posted it.

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Was it like a pornography scene?

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Yes.

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Well I don't know about that.

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It was like a, I mean probably.

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Were you going to post explicit videos?

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Yes.

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It was like her and her partner at the time had posted it.

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Like they were comfortable with it.

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Maybe they were just exploring that together.

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Trying to make some money or something.

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She obviously didn't think it was going to show up with the face scan thing but it's not like she was like, oh my gosh, who filmed me?

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There was something that said it was a webcam recording.

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Oh okay.

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So this was very intentional consent.

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Yeah so we can't factor that in.

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She knew about it and she was okay with it.

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Is he religious?

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He doesn't say.

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Okay.

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And I don't know if it matters but it's a valid question.

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I just am wondering like if he is religious that would give him a reason as to why he wouldn't like wants his future wife.

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I don't know doing that stuff like even in the past but obviously to him it was a deal breaker and I want to know why.

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Like there's reasons why.

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Well the thing that's crazy is he doesn't really internalize it well.

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He can't really articulate why.

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He just knows that he's not comfortable with it.

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Okay.

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So I would say it's a fair point to think like maybe he was religious maybe like that was a big concern of his that like his wife you know he treats like a monogamous relationship like that's his person is like out there for the internet to see and she was okay with that.

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Like I could understand why that would be like fundamentally not okay with him.

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I will say like he obviously didn't know about this kind of stuff so he had known her for three years prior plus dating her for a year.

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He sees this he's probably like who the heck is this girl like I didn't even know she would do something like this.

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It's kind of like that initial shock factor as well.

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Does he know the guy.

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He didn't see he doesn't say I feel like he would say if he did so this had to have been like if they've known each other for three years been like and together for a year.

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Like it must have been a long time ago if I was in her shoes I'd be like oh my gosh like I need to get that taken down.

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I don't know why she like that wasn't like her first thought if she really didn't see it as a problem then she should have been like oh like I totally forgot that that's even up there.

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I want that gone.

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Did she give reasonings why she did that or like was there any context behind that and did he not ask questions.

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He doesn't indicate whether he asked questions or not.

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That's annoying.

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If she said I mean like to Marley's point if if she would have been like oh I did not know that was out there I will absolutely try to get that off like I completely get it if you're uncomfortable with it.

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You know it's like it's one thing if she's like if they did this stuff or like he if he knew that she like had that type of past that history.

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Yeah that's a different scenario it seems like it shocks him like he's like oh wow that's freaking crazy because if you don't.

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If that's not like a part of your normal life like that would be like jarring.

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Yeah because she obviously hasn't asked him to do anything like that so it's like.

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And she's like she was just mortified by the fact that her sister saw her naked like that was like what he said was that she was more sketched out about that somebody says info did she know there was an explicit video of her online was it posted with her permission.

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I know we kind of talked about this but this summarizes it.

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OP says it was a webcam recording so she knew it to some degree it was recorded and posted on the website without her permission.

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I was wrong.

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Oh this is taking a turn.

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But she wait it was recorded and posted on the website without her permission but she put it online herself.

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It wasn't a private moment.

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What what do we mean OP.

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It was an innocent.

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Hold up.

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We need more.

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Okay. Sorry it took me like a roundabout way.

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It was a webcam recording blah blah and then the next person says a webcam call or recording for an individual is not putting yourself on the Internet.

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It's pretty common in long distance relationships.

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She has had her trust violated and been exposed in a violating and embarrassing way.

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It's probably good you left as she knows you won't stand by her when there's problems.

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So he says if it's a long distance relationship and it's posted like that way then that's one thing.

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It wasn't for an individual.

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The guy was in the video.

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It was for a site for money says OP.

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So she did she did know it was online then it's not for some degree if you're selling it to a website.

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Either way you should have talked to her at least I did try after the hiking trip she started crying.

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If you're making money off a certain video and you're dating someone else I don't know if I feel like you should be telling your partner about it.

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100% you that's like you should disclose that.

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Yeah I would say so.

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Somebody said that you need to add this to your original post because this information is important that it was on like a website where they make money off it.

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Yeah.

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That also makes sense why she wasn't like holy shiist I need to get that off the Internet.

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She's like that's probably everywhere now.

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Like I've you know I did that for six months or whatever.

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I feel I feel bad for the girl a little bit only because it's like and if she hasn't brought that into their relationship and they've known each other three years been together for a year.

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That's a little bit.

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That's a little sad.

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The relationship comes to an end and it's already something that's like pretty embarrassing for her.

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Right.

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But.

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Talk about your your social media haunting like yours.

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Yeah.

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The past ghosts of the past.

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Yeah.

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That's right.

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Ghosts of the past baby.

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King story.

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King story.

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Does that mean like best story.

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Obviously let the people decide.

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No no no no no honey.

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Honey honey.

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Don't delete this.

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I won't.

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I'm telling you.

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Don't.

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It's better.

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Good story babe.

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Thanks.

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Not to the best story.

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Mine.

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Fake.

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Am I the asshole for clarifying via social media post that my wife's baby was the product of her elicit affairs.

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Advice needed.

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Sheesh.

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I'd blast you.

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My M 49 wife Cynthia F 45 got pregnant against my will after we had discussed and agreed on not having any more kids.

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We already have F 18 M 13 M 8 and M 4.

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I was scheduled for a vasectomy.

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She claims she was on the pill.

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Did I say that right?

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Yes.

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I'm just laughing at the.

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You're like.

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Dude.

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Sorry.

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She claims she was on the pill but I was using condoms because I wanted to make sure nothing happened.

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I had my vasectomy but she was pregnant a few weeks later.

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She was overjoyed and I wasn't.

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I didn't want to be an old dad.

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I was always in a hurry to get my pills done at work.

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I never pushed for her getting surgery because I know it's harder for women and she said injectable contraceptives hurt her health.

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I checked all my condoms and all of them had been pierced.

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We had a huge argument that ended with her crying.

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My trust has been destroyed.

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I assume that nothing she says is true.

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She also got fired when she was three months pregnant.

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I found it weird that she didn't fight it.

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Then she said she wanted to be a stay at home mom, which is exactly what I dreaded.

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This was too bad to go to work.

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For our entire 18 years of marriage, she has pushed to be a stay at home mom.

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We can't afford it.

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She gave me the silent treatment for weeks.

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I got suspicious thinking that perhaps she had resigned and was lying.

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I know it's wrong but I got into her phone.

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Long story short, she had a workplace affair and she and her AP both got canned.

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She slept with him during her training out of state and eventually scheduled every assignment out of town to cheat with him.

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He is in his late 50s married.

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She also slept with my cousin's son and he's a drug addict.

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I saw and heard messages between them.

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He would come to my house when I was out.

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I have asked the neighbor and they confirmed.

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My neighbor said Nelson would show up sometimes two days in a row when I was out.

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I checked my schedule and it could have been when I went to Ohio for three weeks.

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I came home on weekends but everything seemed normal.

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What's worse is that Nelson calls me uncle.

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I let him stay over a couple of times.

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She also used her own kids, our two youngest as leverage.

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She promised that he could see them if he didn't pressure her and kept his mouth shut.

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So she obviously put him in some type of a step daddy role.

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She told him the pregnancy was his baby.

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I hate him but I think she manipulated him because he has zero relationship with his parents or siblings

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and he kept texting her about how she was like home to him.

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I lost it and woke her up.

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She tried to claim that she was SA by both men.

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Then said she was pressured into it because they threatened her.

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I reached out to her ex-co-worker via social media but he blocked me after a couple of exchanged messages.

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Nelson did get belligerent and it could have probably ended in a real fight if I had him in front of me.

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The paternity test came out as negative.

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I moved out and got a lawyer.

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I refused to be at the hospital during child's birth.

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It was a stillborn.

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I was shocked.

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Even if it was mine, it felt dark and strange.

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I offered my kids emotional support but it didn't allow her to cry to me.

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I had to get a court order to get a DNA test on all of our kids.

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They are mine.

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A few weeks ago, people on Facebook started asking questions and attempting to call me out for not posting anything about the baby.

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I think she might have told someone that I wasn't present at childbirth because a couple people came at me.

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We are getting divorced and I'm very angry that she's still trying to milk it.

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I told each person the truth separately but eventually got fed up with looking like the bad guy

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and wrote a post saying thank you to everyone who has reached out to insult me

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but the baby was not my child as per the paternity test.

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I had to step away from social media because of it.

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Her family called me asking to take it down.

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They didn't know the full story but said this is not how things get solved.

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I'm not deleting it.

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When I worked my ass off for her family, she was texting her best friend and complaining about how I'm not the shadow of my former self, how I look old and let myself go.

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She had been begging me not to ever tell the kids about the paternity test but they needed to know the truth before she twisted the narrative.

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My daughter won't speak to her and our second child wants to come live with me.

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I had a family and despite everything, I was proud and happy and she took it away.

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Am I the asshole for refusing to take my post down?

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Am I the asshole for refusing to show compassion?

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All I want is to get out of her life and I feel like she's trying to keep me from moving on.

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Sorry if I don't make too much sense but my mind is still foggy.

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No, I just want to say, I feel like the internet is going to say that he's not the asshole.

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Like if you're like most of the posts are going to be like yeah no you're not the asshole.

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Like she shouldn't have stepped out on your marriage.

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She brought all this on herself, blah blah blah.

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Me personally, I kind of think he's the asshole.

291
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Not because of the whole scenario but like you don't need to blast that on social media.

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All jokes aside, like you have a life to live.

293
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You in like as a parent, I would think that you would just be most focused on your children's well-being.

294
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Yes.

295
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That is a horrible move for the kids.

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Like traumatizing the children.

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They don't understand anything like they don't understand enough to like to know that.

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They don't need to know that and neither does every single person.

299
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I think that the right thing for a person to do in that scenario is like go through with a divorce.

300
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Do what you got to do.

301
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Fight for custody, do whatever.

302
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Take care of your kids and don't be petty.

303
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Well they did have like older kids.

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Even that post would be like probably super humiliating, humiliating like for them especially because

305
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they are on social media and I'm sure their friends all like know what's going on, blah blah blah.

306
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So I say in that sense like yeah I definitely shouldn't be like put out there like oh this kid's not mine.

307
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It's like such a complicated situation too because in a weird way I feel for the mom having a stillborn baby.

308
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Yeah.

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Her husband who she did love even though she didn't treat him right.

310
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Yeah.

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Is abandoning her.

312
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She's going to lose the affair partners and the nephew cousin like what the what the.

313
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Yeah, it's a drug addict.

314
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Like yeah.

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He was 29 by the way.

316
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And she's how old?

317
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She was like similar.

318
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She's also 12.

319
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Oh no because they have.

320
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She's 45.

321
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Everyone sucks here.

322
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That's what that's the verdict.

323
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There you go.

324
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Oh okay so question.

325
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I have a question for you.

326
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When infidelity leads to a child is there ever a moral obligation to keep the affair private for the sake of family unity or does transparency always take priority?

327
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Well and it's like but it's also not healthy to tell the kids.

328
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And like I feel like most people if that were the case there's an affair woman gets pregnant.

329
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That relationship should probably be over.

330
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That's what I think.

331
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Yeah.

332
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If you get pregnant by somebody else's kid our relationship should probably end.

333
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Yes.

334
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But it doesn't mean that I or whoever is cheated on should go and be like kids.

335
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Hey I know that you're nine but you I just want you to know that mom did something bad with another person and that's why we're divorced and that baby's not mine.

336
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Like that doesn't make any sense.

337
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It's like you they need to be old enough and needs to be like hey you know you don't really need all the context right now but here's what here's what you need to know.

338
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Mom and dad love each other but it didn't work out.

339
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We're going to go our separate ways.

340
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Like that you don't need to go into all the details with children.

341
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Yeah.

342
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I say with the younger kids definitely.

343
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But like how old is old enough.

344
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I don't know.

345
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I don't know.

346
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But didn't they say they had like an 18 year old and yeah.

347
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So like I feel like they should know.

348
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Yeah they've got 18 13 8 and 4 so really just the 18 year old.

349
00:20:33,360 --> 00:20:46,360
But guys can we just talk about real fast like she was literally trying to get pregnant so bad she was no she was also banging other guys but her husband as well and she was poking holes in the condoms.

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Lady is a crazy savage.

351
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Like that's why old.

352
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That would be horrifying as a man to see their spouse do that secretly and like you had no idea.

353
00:20:58,360 --> 00:20:59,360
Yeah.

354
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I mean.

355
00:21:00,360 --> 00:21:01,360
Oh it sure me out.

356
00:21:01,360 --> 00:21:08,360
I've heard horror stories so I just like I blow it up blow the condom up first and make sure it holds air and then before I put it on.

357
00:21:08,360 --> 00:21:10,360
Oh my God.

358
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That exposed.

359
00:21:12,360 --> 00:21:14,360
Oh my gosh.

360
00:21:14,360 --> 00:21:16,360
Please I know you want another kid.

361
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Oh my word.

362
00:21:19,360 --> 00:21:31,360
Do you think honestly truly do you think they'll ever be true healing or closure in this relationship between them closure maybe healing only if they go their separate ways and they get therapy for a long time.

363
00:21:31,360 --> 00:21:35,360
So my story is from true off my chest.

364
00:21:35,360 --> 00:21:40,360
So the title is my dead friend posted on an Instagram story and I can't explain it.

365
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Dead.

366
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Dead and a friend.

367
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It's really crazy.

368
00:21:47,360 --> 00:21:51,360
A few days ago something strange happened that I can't shake off back in college.

369
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I had a close friend Mike and we were inseparable online tagging each other and memes staying up late chatting on Facebook.

370
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But like most friendships after college we drifted apart a few years ago.

371
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Mike died in a car accident.

372
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It was hard to process but we hadn't spoken in years so I mourned quietly.

373
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Fast forward to last week.

374
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I was scrolling through Instagram stories when Mike's profile popped up.

375
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I froze.

376
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His account had been inactive since he had passed.

377
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I clicked on the story and it was just a text.

378
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Miss the old days.

379
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I stared not sure what to think.

380
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His family didn't have access to his accounts and it disappeared as soon as I tried to refresh it.

381
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No trace.

382
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No screenshot.

383
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Nothing.

384
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I don't believe in ghosts but it felt like Mike was reaching out.

385
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It's been on my mind ever since.

386
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What?

387
00:22:37,360 --> 00:22:38,360
Yeah.

388
00:22:38,360 --> 00:22:40,360
Yo spooky season.

389
00:22:40,360 --> 00:22:45,360
You okay but honestly like just really picture yourself one of your really good friends.

390
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You're on social media and boom you see that and then it's gone.

391
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I don't want to say I would die.

392
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That would scare the crap out of me.

393
00:22:54,360 --> 00:22:55,360
Right.

394
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But like I feel like people get hacked all the time.

395
00:22:57,360 --> 00:22:58,360
True.

396
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But deleted that fast.

397
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That's definitely given me October vibes.

398
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Yeah that's spooky.

399
00:23:03,360 --> 00:23:08,360
That's definitely something that only happens on Friday the 13th in October.

400
00:23:08,360 --> 00:23:09,360
There is an update.

401
00:23:09,360 --> 00:23:11,360
Which is really good.

402
00:23:11,360 --> 00:23:12,360
Yeah.

403
00:23:12,360 --> 00:23:17,360
So it says after posting about Mike's Instagram story something else happened that I can't

404
00:23:17,360 --> 00:23:21,360
shake the day after I got a Facebook on this day memory.

405
00:23:21,360 --> 00:23:26,360
It was an old post from Mike from like eight years ago that said life's too short to lose touch.

406
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I didn't remember the post until I saw it but now it felt like a punch in the gut.

407
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I was already thinking about him and then that popped up out of nowhere.

408
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At first I chalked it up to be a coincidence but then two nights ago I got a message from

409
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the Facebook account.

410
00:23:40,360 --> 00:23:46,860
It just said hey remember this at this point I'm thinking it's some weird hack but when

411
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I checked his account still hasn't been active since he died.

412
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:51,160
I haven't replied yet.

413
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:55,400
It could be someone messing with me but no one else I know has mentioned anything happening

414
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on his account and it seems too specific.

415
00:23:58,360 --> 00:24:03,360
Our last conversation before this before we drifted was about losing touch and now this

416
00:24:03,360 --> 00:24:07,360
I don't believe in ghosts it's like Mike is still out there lingering in my social media

417
00:24:07,360 --> 00:24:08,360
in a way I can't explain.

418
00:24:08,360 --> 00:24:14,360
Why is he have so much guilt for like drifting apart maybe he dogged him maybe he like wasn't

419
00:24:14,360 --> 00:24:17,360
a good friend to him and he like Mike was reaching out.

420
00:24:17,360 --> 00:24:23,360
Hey bro can you come pick me up from the bar and he's like we're not friends anymore and

421
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then he drives drunk and dies.

422
00:24:25,360 --> 00:24:28,360
It could have been his fault and he's haunting him.

423
00:24:28,360 --> 00:24:29,360
He could be haunting him.

424
00:24:29,360 --> 00:24:30,860
I didn't even think about that.

425
00:24:30,860 --> 00:24:34,720
Yeah maybe he was really pissed about how it all ended.

426
00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:38,200
You know what now that you say that I definitely be down to haunt some of my friends that aren't

427
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:39,200
very good friends.

428
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:43,280
I dare you to call one out right now and if they're not a good friend they're definitely

429
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:45,360
not listening to the podcast anyway.

430
00:24:45,360 --> 00:24:47,240
I was gonna make a joke but.

431
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:49,160
But you don't have one to give.

432
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:59,040
Huh no I was just what if what if Mike faked his death.

433
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:05,520
What if he faked it disappeared to Belize and then it's just logging in and being like

434
00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:06,520
miss you bro.

435
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:09,400
He could be a baller for all we know or Belize.

436
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:11,840
He seems like an Italy kind of guy honestly.

437
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:13,320
Name a city in Italy.

438
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:14,320
Venice.

439
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Can you name another.

440
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:16,600
Can you.

441
00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:17,600
Rome.

442
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:19,600
Okay I'll name one.

443
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:20,600
Rome.

444
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:24,240
Don't lose touch with your friends.

445
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:28,800
Truthfully when you have friends that are like good friends don't lose touch with them.

446
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:32,800
That's a that's like that's the moral of the story if you ask me.

447
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:33,800
Oh yeah.

448
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:37,160
Like you don't want to have regrets if somebody does kick the bucket unexpectedly.

449
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:38,160
Yeah.

450
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:41,200
Like take the time reach out to your friends.

451
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:42,200
It's important.

452
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:43,440
Rest in peace Mike.

453
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:48,360
This is from true off my chest it says I have a good reason to believe one of my Facebook

454
00:25:48,360 --> 00:25:54,120
friends murdered her husband and I don't know what to do about it.

455
00:25:54,120 --> 00:25:59,400
So it says this artsy girl from my hometown married a much older guy about two years ago.

456
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:04,040
They moved to Mexico and within eight months after they've been married he went missing.

457
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:08,920
They had a super loud obvious fight that sent it ways onto Facebook.

458
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:14,400
She went ghost for a few days hugely odd for her freaked out about how he was missing for

459
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:15,720
a day or two.

460
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,280
Then she was straight back to posting her first draft.

461
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:22,440
He doesn't seem to have a ton of family but I know he has a daughter late teens early

462
00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:23,440
20s.

463
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:28,480
She seems to be looking there's zero there's zero anything about it except his change profile

464
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:33,560
pictures to one with text on it about his age height name etc.

465
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:37,240
That picture came from a single post on a page about missing people in Mexico.

466
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:40,980
I'm not sure to what degree an investigation occurred.

467
00:26:40,980 --> 00:26:42,400
If one did at all.

468
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:46,360
She posted incredibly odd song lyrics about homicide.

469
00:26:46,360 --> 00:26:50,720
The social media behavior was off the charts sketchy but that means nothing.

470
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:54,680
The thing that really gets me in August of last year she stole someone's dog and had

471
00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:55,680
it euthanized.

472
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:57,640
I don't know who to tell.

473
00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:01,320
I don't know what to do but I think I'm Facebook friends with the killer.

474
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:02,320
Call the cops.

475
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:03,320
Literally.

476
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:04,320
9.

477
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:05,320
1.

478
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:06,320
1.

479
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:11,920
No that's literally so scary because you know that show that we watch the or you guys

480
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:15,560
have seen it too like is it the murder in the 21st or something like that.

481
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:16,560
Oh yeah.

482
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:17,560
21st century.

483
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:18,560
We recommended that to you I think.

484
00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:19,560
Yeah you did.

485
00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:21,200
I think it's really like that.

486
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:25,160
How people literally are solving murders through stuff like that.

487
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:27,920
They solve their own murders through like their digital trail.

488
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:28,920
Right.

489
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:29,920
Yeah.

490
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:30,920
Do you guys want to hear some comments.

491
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:31,920
Yes.

492
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:38,200
Someone said this is the correct answer OP and most of the cold cases for murder disappearance

493
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:42,640
that later gets solved to do so because of tips like this that give the police somewhere

494
00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:45,440
to look that they had no reason to before.

495
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:49,920
They may even be able to be anonymous over the telephone telephone depending on what

496
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:51,240
evidence you may have.

497
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:53,080
You're calling an anonymous tip.

498
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:54,080
Why not.

499
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:55,320
They do live in Mexico.

500
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:58,600
Oh that's probably why he's still missing.

501
00:27:58,600 --> 00:27:59,600
Right.

502
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:03,840
Because they're probably just not big like they probably don't care as much.

503
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:08,720
Well the Mexican government wouldn't but I'm pretty sure the US government could get involved

504
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:11,800
like they're were the US citizens they were right.

505
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:16,200
I don't think he was I think they both just they just both randomly moved to Mexico.

506
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:17,440
That's like that's low key.

507
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:18,440
That's a real thing.

508
00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:21,840
People are doing that like wealthy people from the states are going and buying beach houses

509
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:22,840
in Mexico.

510
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:23,840
Yes.

511
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:24,840
Retiring in Mexico.

512
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:25,840
Yeah.

513
00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:26,840
Right.

514
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:27,840
How do you think she killed him.

515
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:29,880
Put a bull cartel night and then fed him to the pigs.

516
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:32,040
I've heard that works really well.

517
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:36,160
Well if I ever disappear you guys now you know how it happened.

518
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:37,600
I don't know where to find things.

519
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:38,600
Check the pigs.

520
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:40,600
I'm sure I would make the bacon taste really good.

521
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:42,600
Oh.

522
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:45,040
I'm never eating bacon again.

523
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:46,040
Till tomorrow.

524
00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:49,520
Then don't make don't make jokes about killing me.

525
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:50,520
I didn't.

526
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:51,520
I don't know.

527
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:54,560
I feel like there are multiple ways like in Mexico especially like it could have been

528
00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:55,560
a hit.

529
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:57,680
Well no because they they were arguing.

530
00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:01,080
People heard them yelling and fighting and then all of a sudden yeah and then all of a

531
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:03,400
sudden she he disappears.

532
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:06,440
Dang so she whacked him.

533
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:09,880
He like stabbed him like slit his throat or something.

534
00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:12,240
Or she cleaned up all that blood too.

535
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:13,240
Yeah.

536
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:17,640
Well she waited two days to post anything about it.

537
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:18,640
About him being missing.

538
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:19,640
Yeah.

539
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:20,640
Like two days later.

540
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:24,600
Well like the thing is is two days later she posts that he's missing but I don't think

541
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:26,480
she went to the cops in Mexico.

542
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:28,320
I think she just posted that he was missing.

543
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:34,360
The weirdest thing is she posted a video or a song on her social media about killing

544
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:35,640
like homicide.

545
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:41,040
See that to me is that's enough where like if anybody's looking into the murder at I

546
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:45,520
mean the disappearance at all you always go to the spouse first.

547
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:46,520
Right.

548
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:48,840
So you get caught.

549
00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:53,520
But like if that's the case she's over here like no no I just he ran away after we were

550
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:54,520
drinking one night.

551
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:55,880
I haven't seen him since.

552
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:58,960
Meanwhile here's a post about like I killed him.

553
00:29:58,960 --> 00:29:59,960
He's dead.

554
00:29:59,960 --> 00:30:02,520
I buried him.

555
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:03,720
Tell us what you think.

556
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:04,720
Which one's the fake.

557
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:06,480
Well I have no idea who's the fake.

558
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:09,840
If I had to say guess.

559
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:13,080
It was Isaiah's because Isaiah's was good.

560
00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:15,000
Actually no it was Joe.

561
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:16,000
I don't know.

562
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:17,560
I'm guessing Marley.

563
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:19,560
Tune in next week and you'll find out.

564
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:21,680
Cast your votes.

565
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:22,680
Tune in tune in.

566
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:23,680
Thank you guys for the support.

567
00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:25,480
Thanks for listening to another episode.

568
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:26,480
October is going to be fun.

569
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:27,480
If you like spooky.

570
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:28,480
Yes.

571
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:32,600
We're going to keep it rolling with the theme the vibes of spooky season.

572
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:36,280
And next week we might even dabble into like a little true crime action.

573
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:39,120
Little more like real scary stuff.

574
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:40,120
Like real scary stuff.

575
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:41,120
Yeah.

576
00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:42,120
We're excited.

577
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:45,240
I like to try to go like funny but like I think we could do.

578
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:46,360
I think we could do something.

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00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:48,640
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594
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Ha.

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Oh.

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That was new.

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That was new.

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Oh.

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Oh.

618
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Oh.

619
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Oh.