1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:08,580 Welcome back to internet frenzy. So let's get it. We back at it again last week was dumbest of the dumbest humans 2 00:00:08,580 --> 00:00:11,840 There were some dummies we start off with my story 3 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:18,200 Which was about the best friend's wife that said she had an affair with the friend, but she actually didn't horrible 4 00:00:18,240 --> 00:00:20,440 That could go really well with today's theme 5 00:00:21,080 --> 00:00:24,040 True it would have been better for this one. Yeah 6 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:31,680 Would have been way better for this one. Next was the man with his very stupid, but but very good-in-bed girlfriend 7 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:37,640 Was that yours? Oh, yeah, of course it was. Of course it was. We're not good these all words. That's all right 8 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:42,360 She was she was great a dumb, but he was a douche so whatever. Yeah 9 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:47,400 Next was the guy accidentally sending the pink eye text to Harris his landlord 10 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:54,600 Yeah, let's go might have been fake and then last was the employee spilling the tea at the company dinner 11 00:00:54,600 --> 00:01:00,620 The wife was I mean that the husband the boss was having an affair with the girl from HR. Yeah 12 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:03,360 Imagine that money changes you 13 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:10,400 I've heard I wouldn't know but I've heard that's what happens. I heard to I've seen with my own eyes. Yeah 14 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:12,480 We're not there yet 15 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:17,600 We're not there yet when I get five dollars it changes. I get a polar pop. I'm excited 16 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:25,000 That doesn't cost five dollars you get a box of milk. That's also that's true and have some 25 cents fair change 17 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:27,760 Just about all right. Who's who had the fake? Oh? 18 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:32,520 Oh, I thought it was I can't remember where I thought but I think you thought it was me 19 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:37,620 I'm gonna go Isaiah. I for some reason. I just always think it's you. Oh and no well shout out 20 00:01:37,620 --> 00:01:41,300 No, well, she texts me and said I after listening to last week's episode 21 00:01:41,300 --> 00:01:47,080 She said Isaiah for sure has the fake. Oh, yeah, so she guessed you as well. Oh guess what Noel? 22 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:53,080 It is not I 23 00:01:53,080 --> 00:02:03,280 Oh, it wasn't me either 24 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:16,480 Well, Marley, you're the fake sorry 25 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:23,080 Well, you stumps all of us and Noel so sorry Noel 26 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:29,760 Look next time. Yeah, try again. Let's see if she can figure out this week and our other listeners 27 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:36,780 And the rest of you see if we can find out that's right. That's the objective find out which one is AI generated 28 00:02:36,780 --> 00:02:41,440 I feel like it's getting more and more difficult personally. No, I think so too. We're getting good 29 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:45,140 Don't forget to check out our YouTube channel if you're listening on podcast 30 00:02:45,140 --> 00:02:48,120 We have a YouTube channel follow us on all your social media platforms 31 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:51,040 Insta tick tock Facebook or 32 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:54,160 Listen on Spotify Apple podcast 33 00:02:54,160 --> 00:03:14,120 Uh skeezer diesel all the podcast apps hit us up and send it to your mom. You won't 34 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:23,500 Let's get into it this week's topic is women are shitty too. Oh 35 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:28,140 That's a truth. Yes, it is 36 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:35,180 It's hard. This is hard. This is steep and I'm ready shitty women because we are those women 37 00:03:35,420 --> 00:03:39,440 We embody that so these are actually true stories about Marley and Whitney 38 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:48,040 No, no, no, not me. Yeah, no, I'm definitely not I know better than to say anything about this 39 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:56,400 About their joke this post comes from am I the asshole am I the asshole for kissing my friend's brother without his consent during a truth or dare 40 00:03:56,600 --> 00:04:01,100 Yesterday I was supposed to spend the night at my friend's house with some of my classmates and we were playing truth or dare 41 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:05,400 There really is no reason for us to choose truth since we already know a lot about each other 42 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:09,640 So we mostly just went with theirs. It was pretty fun and we had some weird challenges 43 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:14,880 I was staying next to my friend's brother and when it was my turn a classmate challenged me to kiss him 44 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:19,240 His sister immediately told my friend to change the dare and so she did to be clear 45 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:22,560 Her brother did not say anything when he heard the dare and he just laughed 46 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:26,160 So we definitely so he definitely looked like he was okay with it, right? 47 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:33,200 Well wrong because after I kissed him he told me WTF I am doing and looked like he was really grossed out by it 48 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:37,640 I was honestly a bit offended and asked him why he is so grossed by me kissing him 49 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:42,400 I'm actually a pretty okay looking girl and even if I wasn't there was no reason for him to act like this 50 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:48,200 He ended up leaving the game and my friend told me that what I did was wrong on so many levels and to get out of our house 51 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:54,360 My other classmates didn't say anything so I think they were on my side, but didn't want to participate in this argument 52 00:04:54,360 --> 00:05:00,160 I will ask them when they go back home. Anyways, I did end up leaving. Do you guys think I was the asshole here? 53 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:08,040 Any guy that's single he's probably like 15. She's probably like 17. This is a win for that kid 54 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:11,200 Okay, just because that was your life growing up 55 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:14,400 It's not mean 56 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:18,280 No, dear. So you think that 57 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:23,480 He needed to say like yeah, you can kiss me before she kissed him. Yeah or 58 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:28,800 Indicated a little bit more that he wanted to do it. I don't know the dare also got changed 59 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:35,480 Yeah, so she just like she just was like I really want to do this. Yeah, I'm just gonna I'm just gonna pounce on little guy 60 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:41,560 And she's 17 he's 15 that we don't have ages. No, I say just like oh, it's probably what it is 61 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:45,900 We do know that it's her like her classmates little brothers the one that got kissed 62 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:48,560 That's kind of sad 63 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:53,480 It's just a way and like obviously the way that he responded. He doesn't really need to have a good reason 64 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:55,480 But he did not like it. It was not 65 00:05:55,480 --> 00:06:01,920 Yeah, welcome. I wish we would have known if she like grabbed his face and like kissed him or if it was leaned in and he just kind 66 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:03,000 of was like 67 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:08,680 It was like slow because then he would have time to be like no. Oh, no, he didn't he did not want it 68 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:13,560 He he got up as soon as the kiss was over. I was like, what the frick are you doing? 69 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:18,040 Do you feel like she did it out of to like get attention from all of her friends? 70 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:20,040 Like she thought it would be funny 71 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:23,480 That's really sad your little brother's friend like 72 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:28,320 Imagine me doing that to one of your little brothers when I was in like junior high or high school 73 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:33,320 Sorry, you're my little brother and I would not kiss your little brothers 74 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:40,240 If it if you kiss one of my friends, I would be pissed exactly why the 75 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:46,160 Sister was like change the dare and then kicked her out. Yeah, she proceeded to like that. Oh 76 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:49,160 Okay, now when I think about it 77 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:54,960 We'll actually go because I wouldn't do that. I think about it in the sisters like I was the guy the boy 78 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:59,840 Yeah, that's a win really so like if my best friend in high school kissed you 79 00:06:59,840 --> 00:07:04,840 I just think of don't say any names, but just go through the list and it's like you don't get to choose which one 80 00:07:04,840 --> 00:07:07,240 Yeah, it could just be any one of them 81 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:12,000 If I was 13 18 year old 82 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:19,320 I think it would have been like did guess what happened to me yesterday 83 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:24,880 She's the asshole as in the point of view for the girl 84 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:32,920 I'd be chill but obviously this kid was pissed so it was like a double whammy and just think like 85 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:40,880 It's just if he's not attracted to her not into her involuntary and she comes on to him like that. She's the worst 86 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:47,200 What what could we do or tell her to get it through her head that like what she did was not okay? 87 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:52,200 Could I I will tell you this the internet told her what they say they 88 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:59,160 Eviscerate her so first I'm gonna read her comments. She made an edit. She said please do not comment yet read this 89 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:03,960 Okay, I don't know how to explain this without being misunderstood, but could you guys do me a small favor? 90 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:08,080 I used a throwaway account for privacy reasons, but the thing is if this post blows up 91 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:11,920 There's a high chance for my friend to still see this. Could you please instead of commenting? 92 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:17,040 DM me if your judgment is you're the asshole. I promise if I get a lot of YTA DMs 93 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:19,640 I'm going to accept the judgment as parole three 94 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:25,520 It's just weird if my friend sees this and sees you're the asshole comments, especially after our last argument 95 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:28,800 You guys get what I mean, right? Thank you time out. There's more 96 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:34,800 Edit one. Oh, come on guys. This post is number one in rising now 97 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:38,240 Can't you please do as I asked would you be okay posting on this subreddit? 98 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:43,440 Just to get comments full of you're the asshole and your friends sees them and they all laugh at you edit number two 99 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:47,680 Hey mods, please check your inbox as I sent you a message. It's urgent edit number three 100 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:52,440 Okay, the mods responded about auto mod and they basically told me to suck it up and deal with it guys 101 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:58,400 Please just do as I asked I accept my judgment. So she gets it ruined over and over and over again 102 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:00,960 And she panics on the post but 103 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:03,240 here 104 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:07,560 You want us to DM you if we think you're the asshole. Yeah, no, I think I'll do it here 105 00:09:07,560 --> 00:09:11,360 You're the asshole you kissed him without consent doesn't matter if you're pretty or not 106 00:09:11,560 --> 00:09:17,200 Doesn't matter if you know him doesn't matter if he didn't object saying nothing is not consent. He did not consent 107 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:24,400 Period. Yeah, amen. Somebody else mentioned like obviously if the roles were reversed if the genders were reversed 108 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:26,200 It's an older boy 109 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:30,200 Kissing a younger girl. Yeah, we all know where that goes. Here's another good one 110 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:35,480 You're the asshole laughter is often a nervous reaction and you should not interpret it as everything is okay 111 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:40,560 Him being grossed out is his right even if you're a supermodel. There are plenty of gorgeous people 112 00:09:40,560 --> 00:09:46,060 I still don't want to be kissed by you should have realized by his sister's reaction that something wasn't right and again 113 00:09:46,060 --> 00:09:48,580 You are the asshole for your dumb PM request 114 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:55,360 Yes, and it's gross to think that she's trying to be like like I'm actually like a decent looking girl like why like I'm getting 115 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:58,960 offended by your reaction like mine are not attracted to me 116 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:06,400 Yeah, like that's disgusting the reason why I picked this post. Yeah was because this is not something that a guy 117 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:10,640 Would do or could do like this situation is very much I feel 118 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:17,120 girl specific and like bro like you are the big a-hole for sure 119 00:10:17,680 --> 00:10:21,400 And yeah, I just thought this whole thing was like this screamed 120 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:25,520 Girl yeah, it's screamed women are shitty too 121 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:29,680 The thank you not all girls just the shitty ones rise to the top 122 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:36,440 This is so fitting to the theme you could be the fake. I don't know. Oh, that's a that's a good valid fair point 123 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:40,960 From somebody that has a fake story. I could have the fake you're up next 124 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:46,080 But that's I like that that was the first thing she thought of that she she had to say that before 125 00:10:46,560 --> 00:10:52,360 Before we switched her. Yeah. Yeah before it's my turn put it the blame on somebody else 126 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:56,160 Yeah, yeah, okay, everyone guess what she did focus she was focusing 127 00:10:56,840 --> 00:10:59,600 She did listen to the whole story and comprehend it 128 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:06,160 I'm so scared to say mine that I don't lose it my turn. Oh, it's like waiting 129 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:09,760 Wait, he didn't finish the story. We're still in the middle of it 130 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:17,160 Am I the asshole for sleeping with my husband's best friend to make my husband see how lucky he is to have me so I 131 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:22,120 I 32f have been married to my husband 34m for six years lately 132 00:11:22,120 --> 00:11:25,040 I felt unappreciated and like my husband takes me for granted 133 00:11:25,040 --> 00:11:29,840 He is always working or enjoying his precious hobbies like hunting or video games over our time together 134 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:34,520 And I started feeling invisible in our relationship in an attempt to get my husband's attention 135 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:41,000 I devised a plan that I now regret I noticed that his best friend Jake 33m had always shown interest in me 136 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:42,800 He comes over to her house often 137 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:45,760 He literally pays more attention to me than my own husband 138 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:53,000 He compliments me too, which is very refreshing one night after a few drinks at a party where my husband was busy chatting with others 139 00:11:53,000 --> 00:11:55,880 I decided I was going to really give it a go and flirt with Jake 140 00:11:55,880 --> 00:12:03,360 It felt exhilarating and I thought I might stir something in my husband and of course it didn't his head didn't even turn my way 141 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:05,520 So I decided to take it up a notch 142 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:09,480 I asked Jake if he wanted to go with me upstairs to check out the rest of the house 143 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:14,280 He agreed things escalated quickly and we slept together when we came back downstairs 144 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:18,720 My husband was wasted with his buddies not even wondering where I went typical 145 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:21,840 I thought that if I could make Jake fall for me 146 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:25,960 It would make my husband jealous and realize how lucky he is to have me the next day 147 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:29,800 I thought I could keep it a secret but Jake texts me about how much he enjoyed the night 148 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:33,640 Unfortunately, my husband saw the messages pop up on my phone while I was in the shower 149 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:37,560 When I came out he was waiting for me pissed holding my phone 150 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:40,640 He confronted me immediately and I felt my heart drop 151 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:46,640 He didn't manage to know what was going on and I tried to explain my intentions thinking it might motivate him to appreciate me 152 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:48,800 More but it only made things worse 153 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:56,240 Now I feel guilty and confused about my actions and I the asshole for going through with this 154 00:12:56,840 --> 00:12:58,440 How? 155 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:01,320 How stupid we could literally move on 156 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:05,240 Literally going you know, she's a terrible driver too 157 00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:12,560 Holy crap, it's stupid Jake Jake's an idiot 158 00:13:12,560 --> 00:13:18,680 That's the best friend Jake's the best friend. So let's do a little bit of a digest so to make sure you guys knew 159 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:21,320 So here's Jake best friend 160 00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:26,360 Then we have the husband the wife the wife feels invisible to her husband her husband doesn't give a crap about her 161 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:32,760 That's what she feels so she thinks that she's going to flirt with Jake to try and get the husband's attention and be like look 162 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:37,920 There's other guys out there that want me to you better pay attention to me better treat me right boy 163 00:13:38,320 --> 00:13:42,600 Or you're gonna lose me to Jakey and then five minutes later 164 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:45,200 Let's go upstairs and go to bang town 165 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:50,040 Yeah, let's everyone's in the house and we're gonna go upstairs and get down to business 166 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:54,640 Yeah, and okay, but hold on oh like 167 00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:59,480 First of all, I just have to say it that screams fake to me 168 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:04,960 It sounds fake because holy shit. How do you just like how do you just eat up the stairs and do that? 169 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:11,720 Well, I know plenty of couples that have done stuff like that wasted or drinking when alcohol is involved with couples 170 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:13,440 aka 171 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:17,160 Swinging parties have we heard of them? They're all over Hulu 172 00:14:17,640 --> 00:14:21,760 Wait, can I can I share something that actually has happened to me before? Yeah? 173 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:28,400 Yeah, I was like 12 had a girlfriend went to the bathroom came out of the bathroom found out the next morning 174 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:33,840 No that when I went to pee for 30 seconds. She was making out with this dude 175 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:40,000 Is that not so he also mentioned he was 13 guess what? 176 00:14:40,000 --> 00:14:41,280 But guess what? 177 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:47,080 What you know what I did you made out with her no cuz you liked it no right after I sound that out 178 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:49,080 I went and cheated on her back. Oh 179 00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:52,160 You showed her 180 00:14:52,280 --> 00:14:54,280 That's right 181 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:58,680 Right, are you through and then I broke and then I broke up with her good 182 00:14:58,680 --> 00:15:02,320 I said hey I cheated on you and then I and then said so we got a breakup. Oh 183 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:04,880 So you took the blame? 184 00:15:05,440 --> 00:15:10,960 I just wanted her to know that I cheated on her just just so that she could be like oh wow 185 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:17,000 Like I wasn't the only one cheating. Yeah, see hey, but can I point something out sure Joe the girl started it? 186 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:19,000 Yeah, she's the worst 187 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:23,960 She might be the worst human hey instead of having a conversation instead of saying hey 188 00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:28,520 Husband, I'm feeling neglected. Could you could you skip a hunting trip? 189 00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:31,600 Could you could you lay off the video games and pay attention? 190 00:15:32,280 --> 00:15:39,000 Hold on like that. Yeah, I guarantee this woman has said that so many times or she said hey you piece of shit 191 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:41,000 You should do the dishes that's exactly 192 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:47,840 Communications 193 00:15:51,040 --> 00:15:53,040 This is my new favorite episode 194 00:15:53,040 --> 00:16:00,360 This one right now and then right after she says do the dishes and he says no she calls up Jake 195 00:16:00,360 --> 00:16:02,360 She's like hey Jake 196 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:09,600 I'm feeling neglected be naked do my dishes and then do me. Yeah. Oh, yeah Jake. She's the worst 197 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:12,800 That's that's horrible. Yeah women 198 00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:19,480 This particular woman is bad if other girls if you're out here listening to this right now 199 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:25,440 And no even if you haven't done it yet, but you think you want to do something different. Yeah 200 00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:34,440 This has been lost his wife at this point and his best friend. Yeah, you know what he didn't lose hunting or video games 201 00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:38,800 Let's go 202 00:16:39,200 --> 00:16:42,920 Down I think it's just like crazy that one second 203 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:45,400 She's like okay. I'm just gonna like flirt with him 204 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:53,440 Obviously she like really she wanted to do it. Yeah, well, yeah when your husband isn't giving you attention and this other guy is like 205 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:56,560 Completely understandable 206 00:16:57,560 --> 00:17:01,660 She's been thinking about it. I'm an idiot when you say like that it's super chill 207 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:09,320 Yeah, why is he so handsome and giving her attention 208 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:13,960 Oh, I hope you get full lame 209 00:17:14,600 --> 00:17:16,600 No, that's not what I meant 210 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:20,840 Every I'm not just no, I'm not justifying what she did. I'm just saying 211 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:26,520 She obviously has been thinking about it. He was handsome and he's been on her mind for a long time. Can you blame her? 212 00:17:29,760 --> 00:17:32,040 No, I'm just saying she's thought about it 213 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:35,640 She's definitely has thought about it because you wait just a medium 214 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:41,880 Women wow, and guess what? She's definitely thought about it. That's revelatory 215 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:44,240 And guess what she's 216 00:17:44,680 --> 00:17:49,120 While she was thinking that that's shit. She was an asshole while she was thinking. Yeah 217 00:17:49,640 --> 00:17:56,200 Like oh, he's just he's playing video games again. He's like he's not with me again and Jake's doing back flips right 218 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:58,520 I wonder what Jake is doing right now. Yeah 219 00:17:58,520 --> 00:18:04,600 Dang is Jake me. No single. Oh good 220 00:18:05,320 --> 00:18:08,840 And he probably does that to every married couple in the state 221 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:14,440 So there's one comment that I did like I said 222 00:18:14,840 --> 00:18:20,000 You might have thought this would make him realize your worth, but it just created more problems 223 00:18:20,360 --> 00:18:23,120 Relationships need open communication not betrayal 224 00:18:23,120 --> 00:18:29,640 Yeah, and then there's other ones saying like you suck your husband sucks in your best friend sucks and one guy said 225 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:33,360 What if that's not even true what that he doesn't give her attention 226 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:41,480 It may be but I don't her do something like that. She's definitely trying to justify what she was doing 227 00:18:43,560 --> 00:18:46,600 She for sure is she could have reverse engineered the whole thing 228 00:18:46,600 --> 00:18:48,600 She could have been like I want to sleep with Jake and 229 00:18:48,600 --> 00:18:54,000 The only way I can do it is if I tell my husband that I was just trying to get his attention and that's why I did 230 00:18:55,520 --> 00:18:58,160 How could you tell the difference that make things better? 231 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:05,000 This is from am I the asshole am I the asshole for breaking up with my fiancee after hearing her bullying 232 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:11,960 My ex-girlfriend we have been together three years engaged for one before her I dated Sarah 34 female 233 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:15,960 We all are acquaintances and while we don't hang out with Sarah occasionally 234 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:20,880 We run into her while my breakup with Sarah wasn't amicable. We are very cordial now 235 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:26,640 We don't talk but my fiancee didn't keep it this way did she we were at a housewarming party and Sarah was there 236 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:30,880 Which set my fiancee on edge and I noticed that but I didn't say anything because she's an adult 237 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:36,400 Then I overheard her talking to Sarah and some other girls my fiancee was laughing and telling Sarah omg 238 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:41,840 You are so fat now. It made me it when Sarah left. I asked my fiancee what the f 239 00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:46,360 She laughed and said it was nothing Sarah did look like she gained a little weight 240 00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:52,060 She left to get more wine and one other friend told me that my fiancee always bullied Sarah 241 00:19:52,060 --> 00:19:58,320 I don't want to be married to a bully. I tried talking and discussed discussing it why it wasn't okay with my fiancee 242 00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:02,080 But she was brushing it off and not seen any problems. I broke up with her 243 00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:06,320 She started crying and begging but I said it was over. I don't want to be married to a bully 244 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:11,960 She called me the asshole and that I chose Sarah over her my fiancee everyone is calling me an asshole 245 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:17,600 The only reason I can think of to why she calls me the asshole is that my fiancee liked me way before we got together 246 00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:19,560 Even before I got together with Sarah 247 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:25,840 So maybe it was personal for her given the new information that my fiancee never liked Sarah and I got together with her 248 00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:33,400 I feel like he did the right thing if you're seeing your fiancee, right? Yeah, you're seeing your fiancee 249 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:37,360 Literally bully someone right in front of you and like it's nothing 250 00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:42,080 Right and you confront them about it and you're like hey like what the heck is that all about? 251 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:48,080 You come to find out she's been doing it for years, right? I don't know that would be really hard for me. I don't 252 00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:52,240 Love that. Yeah, that's a major. It is a big turn off 253 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:55,360 Very on the track and there probably was more to her 254 00:20:56,000 --> 00:21:00,920 Characteristic wise that he just didn't really vibe with like maybe she was stuck up or right? 255 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:08,480 I had priorities that were different than his it takes a certain type of person to be that big of a douche to someone's face 256 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:12,400 Like to fat shame somebody to their face 257 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:18,040 Yeah, and like in a group like that's like that is f'd up 258 00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:23,080 Yeah, no, that's it. That's enough of an ick to call it off 259 00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:29,160 But it's obviously there's a lot more to it than just the one instance like to me. That's like a big character flaw 260 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:35,480 Yes, obviously people are gonna say things behind people's backs some people are more of assholes than other people 261 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:41,960 I don't I mean, I don't think that's any of it is like cool, but to do it to somebody's faces 262 00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:49,280 You're a different level and yeah, she should be single well and think about like I mean that was just Beyonce 263 00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:52,120 He's gonna spend the rest of his life with her. He's gonna marry her 264 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:58,700 It was a totally different level and when you're looking to marry someone you death there looking at them like okay 265 00:21:58,700 --> 00:22:00,840 They're gonna be the future mother or father of my children 266 00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:07,760 Build a life with them that is definitely not someone you would want to do it with and I'm really glad he 267 00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:10,200 realized she was the asshole and she was 268 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:17,640 shitty and said goodbye honestly you shout out to him for having the balls to call it off if that is the only thing that 269 00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:20,200 He could cite that's the only reason that he could give like 270 00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:26,800 Good for you, bro. That's yeah, he must have a good feeling read this comment. This is from OP 271 00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:33,880 He says according to my friend my fiance has always bullied Sarah for not being from our social status 272 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:38,640 I didn't know anything about it never noticed it either. You're not in our club 273 00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:41,280 You're not rich like us and you're fat. Bye 274 00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:46,960 Wife cheated while I'm deployed wow that I think that's all I need to say 275 00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:52,200 I learned back in April that my wife of five years 30f was having an affair with a guy 276 00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:57,720 She worked with we have a daughter who is two together. We had build a comfortable life together 277 00:22:58,080 --> 00:23:03,360 Previous to this we had been going through a rough patch, but I thought it would be something we would work through 278 00:23:03,360 --> 00:23:09,160 I'm currently deployed which makes dealing with the issue more challenging to navigate after getting caught 279 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:13,720 She apologized, but I didn't buy it and I felt I was only being given lip service 280 00:23:13,900 --> 00:23:19,120 We agreed there was no coming back from this and I truly went from being madly in love with this woman 281 00:23:19,120 --> 00:23:23,280 To the sound of her voice and seeing her makes me see red anymore 282 00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:29,040 She expressed multiple times that she hates me wants to be with the affair partner and wants to be divorced immediately 283 00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:33,360 She has this guy over at my house most days of the week late at night 284 00:23:33,360 --> 00:23:40,960 And she brings him around my daughter to just despite me because she says I can do what I want and you can't control me 285 00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:46,560 She has also given this individual the garage coat to to come and go freely from my home 286 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:51,360 She has played the victim card and all this and truly believes the lies. She's telling me 287 00:23:51,360 --> 00:23:57,880 I want so bad every day to post this to social media and destroy her and her image since she's always cared so much about 288 00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:02,240 Public perception of her I feel like there's things in there 289 00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:08,280 But he is not saying like why does she hate him so bad or is she actually that crazy? 290 00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:11,560 He's deployed. Let's so I'm with you 291 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:19,560 Listen, I'm with you. I I'm gonna give her a shred of the benefit of the doubt and say that there has to be something more 292 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:26,840 To the story as to why she hates him so much and he's just presenting like the very clean cut. She cheated on me 293 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:29,680 I'm serving America and I did nothing wrong 294 00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:33,900 But she's banging some other dude and letting him in the house all time blah blah like 295 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:38,440 1000% there's more to the story. However 296 00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:44,040 Unless he's cheating while he's deployed or something. Yeah, she's still 297 00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:49,920 Yeah, yeah, definitely don't cheat on us American soldier 298 00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:55,480 Is she asking for a divorce? I might have missed that like she wants one. He wants it, but why doesn't he? 299 00:24:56,240 --> 00:25:00,640 Well, he's deployed like I'm sure that you wouldn't want to be like yeah 300 00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:03,440 Just fax me the paper and I'll sign the divorce one 301 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,400 Yeah, I'm sure you have to figure it out when he's like that 302 00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:08,960 But wait, there's more there's some kind of text 303 00:25:09,360 --> 00:25:15,960 He says I'll share the exact text that happened in the last few days between her and I I know that the things have been hard for us 304 00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:20,800 For quite some time now, but I also know that it doesn't give me an excuse to do what I did 305 00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:28,400 Yep, I am truly sorry for that. I am sorry that I hurt you in a way that will probably never be repaired in your eyes 306 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:33,160 I'm not asking you to forgive me because I know that you have every right to hold a grudge 307 00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:37,560 With that being said I want us to get back to a healthy place where we can discuss 308 00:25:38,360 --> 00:25:40,600 Child and a parenting plan for when you get back 309 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:46,080 I understand if you don't want to do that and want to go ahead with court determine a parenting plan 310 00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:51,760 I am just trying to do what is right for the child. So let me know I do not want to fight 311 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:56,280 Her following up the next day. Let me know if you want to schedule a time to talk about the child 312 00:25:56,280 --> 00:26:02,400 I prefer to correspond about matters such as a child or the way ahead as far as your text from last night 313 00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:07,880 I'm still thinking it over and getting my thoughts in order before I give a response her. That's fine 314 00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:11,040 I understand we can talk through text take your time if that's what you need 315 00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:13,320 I won't rush you my response a week later 316 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:16,160 I don't wish to fight and would like to move forward 317 00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:20,480 But I won't compromise on what I expect as far as acceptable terms for the way ahead 318 00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:28,040 If these terms can be agreed on I'm more than okay with settling out of court having my attorney draft the documents 319 00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:31,440 And so like what he's saying is he just wants 50 50 320 00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:39,600 Yeah, and like all the money is split like very fair. Yeah, it's all fair stuff. Love to hear about a good clean divorce 321 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,000 Yeah, like 322 00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:45,960 Son of really cordial then this is what she said. Well, I was thinking more of a progressive 323 00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:49,920 Parenting plan for the child. She's only two and is very dependent on me 324 00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:54,600 She hasn't seen you in a year and and will be very uncomfortable leaving me and going with you 325 00:26:54,600 --> 00:27:00,080 And even before you left she was very attached to me. So what I was suggesting is the first year do 80 20 326 00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:04,160 Then the next year 70 30 and work our way to 50 50 327 00:27:04,360 --> 00:27:10,840 That way she is more comfortable and that gives you more time to get settled all the major decisions would still be decided by both of us 328 00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:15,160 I don't care about anything else in your agreement. That's not what I'm worried about or me 329 00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:19,080 I'm not at all willing to do anything less than 50 50 and then she goes 330 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:24,640 I know but I'm asking you to put aside your pride and do as best for the child. I get where she's coming from 331 00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:27,200 I get where she's 332 00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:33,720 Bad, just yeah, I get where she's coming. No, no, no, but I get that like the child probably 333 00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:39,760 Definitely is more dependent on her more attached to her which is but like a whole year of 334 00:27:40,360 --> 00:27:43,840 Like well like how long is this? I'm gonna be deployed. Yeah 335 00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:49,280 How do you know that bro 336 00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:53,960 How does this work when he gets the child he has to be home? No way 337 00:27:53,960 --> 00:28:00,400 He's gonna get deployed but what like what do you think he's gonna do if he gets deployed then obviously the child's gonna go back with mom 338 00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:06,280 He better. I think he's probably get end his career with 339 00:28:07,360 --> 00:28:12,000 Being in the army. I got it. Well, it just depends like there's yeah 340 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:19,360 There's if he did then a hundred percent fifty fifty. Don't yeah, don't take the job into account. Just think you have 341 00:28:19,360 --> 00:28:24,480 Yeah, but not like 80 20 for a whole year. Like how is that gonna make it better? Okay? 342 00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:31,440 I don't care. She sucks. She cheated on this guy when he left to go serve our country so that we could be free 343 00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:33,600 She's a yeah 344 00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:40,480 No, but listen, this is that this is the real point the whole point is that she didn't she didn't suggest 80 20 70 30 345 00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:44,080 Because of his deployment because of the potential of him going back 346 00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:47,280 She suggested that because she said the child's really attached to her 347 00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:51,720 No, if you guys are getting divorced child needs to learn to be comfortable with that 348 00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:54,480 So the best thing is 50 50 right away 349 00:28:55,000 --> 00:29:00,480 No way around it. Yes, the mom is gonna go through separation anxiety. She's gonna be devastated 350 00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:07,600 But that's a choice when she decided when she decided to yeah give some other guy the garage code 351 00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:10,880 One four three two 352 00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:12,040 pound 353 00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:18,320 Town he got your job. Oh what happened is the neighbor across the street called him and said hey 354 00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:19,440 I think your wife's cheating on you 355 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:25,440 I saw that in one of the later texts and then that's kind of how he caught on and figure that just out there like in the 356 00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:28,840 Battlefield you get in one night and it's like hey an important message 357 00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:36,960 Like oh Jerry Jerry texted me. I'm wondering why he's gotta say oh this guy in a fort focus outside 358 00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:43,040 For some reason he knows how to get into the garage 359 00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:45,720 Some dude rolled up in the Dodge neon 360 00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:50,920 He a soul your wife and your daughter call him daddy 361 00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:59,360 Wait are you back 362 00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:02,760 You look really good 363 00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:08,640 Good, okay, who do we think is the fake? I don't know. I don't think it's Isaiah 364 00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:13,560 Who's the fake? 365 00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:27,560 Yeah, yours is good 366 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:35,600 Too good. I think it's either one of the girls. Well, let us know in the comments Instagram tiktok YouTube Facebook 367 00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:38,560 Let us know which which story you think is the fake 368 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:44,920 Please follow us on your favorite podcasting app. Please. 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