1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,360 Welcome back to internet frenzy. What's happening my people? 2 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:04,880 Stop my Pete. 3 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:07,680 Let's go. 4 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:09,280 Let's go. Let's go. 5 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:10,320 Baby. 6 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:11,200 Oh no. 7 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:11,440 No. 8 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:16,240 They ain't ready. They ain't ready for the real one. 9 00:00:16,240 --> 00:00:17,280 Okay. Welcome back. 10 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:19,440 Let's go. 11 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:25,360 Yeah. Welcome back everyone. 12 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:26,400 I guess to get started, 13 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:32,720 we want to give a little shout out to our first five star review on Apple podcast. 14 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:33,520 Shout out Noel. 15 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:34,640 Oh, Noel. 16 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:35,840 Friend of the program. 17 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:41,040 Thank you so much. Here's what she said. 18 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:43,920 These guys are so hilarious in their storytelling. 19 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:46,880 It feels like I'm sitting next to them laughing and having so much fun. 20 00:00:47,440 --> 00:00:48,320 Come on over Noel. 21 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:50,640 Wish I could hang out with them. 22 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:53,120 10 out of 10 would recommend listening to their podcast. 23 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:55,440 Oh, I love that. 24 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:58,000 Thank you Noel. You can come over anytime. 25 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:01,920 So last week's episode was, it was good. There were some heaters. 26 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:04,240 There were some good ones. I think that was my favorite. 27 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:06,640 I think that was my favorite one. 28 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:11,520 It was good. There was no weak sauce ones. 29 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:14,560 Yeah, they really go, that's fake. I feel like they're all really... 30 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:16,400 Yeah, who comes up with weak sauce ones? 31 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:19,280 Don't know. Peology. 32 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:21,120 Peology boy. 33 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:26,560 So to do a little recap so that our listeners can help us decide which one was fake, 34 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:28,960 that's the objective of the podcast. 35 00:01:28,960 --> 00:01:30,400 Oh yeah, somebody mentioned that to us. 36 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:35,120 So just as a quick recap, three of these stories are real. 37 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:38,160 One of them is fake. It's that way every episode, 38 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:41,920 you're trying to determine which is the fake story. 39 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:45,280 Okay. That's the objective. 40 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:47,760 The first one was Marley's. 41 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:50,080 I think so. From last year? 42 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:51,280 The pain for the babysitting. 43 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:52,320 Yes, the mom. 44 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:56,880 The mom wanted to receive payment from the dad for watching the kid when it was his turn. 45 00:01:57,440 --> 00:01:59,040 Crazy. That's wild. 46 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:00,720 I don't think it works that way. 47 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:02,800 It shouldn't. At all. 48 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:06,000 I'm gonna charge you. Next time you go on a girls night and be like, 49 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:10,560 I'm gonna need you $27 an hour while I play video games. 50 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:11,680 Deal. 51 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:16,320 Okay. Next one was Whitney's collecting hair. 52 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:17,040 Yeah. 53 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:17,440 Mr. 54 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:18,560 Creep. 55 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:18,960 Damn. 56 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:19,760 That's so weird. 57 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:20,800 Straight creep. 58 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:25,200 I can't even imagine showing my husband collecting my hair. 59 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:29,200 You would have such a huge collection with all the hair that's in the shower walls though. 60 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:33,040 Yeah. If I wanted a head start on collecting, that's where I'd go. 61 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:34,480 Right there, down the drain. 62 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:36,080 Yeah. I'm just, get all of them. 63 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:39,280 Vacation, this was a speak of the devil. 64 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:41,520 This was your story. The vacation etiquette. 65 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:41,920 Oh. 66 00:02:41,920 --> 00:02:46,240 The family coming to town and just expecting the other family to pay. 67 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:47,120 Pay for everything. 68 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:47,600 Yeah. 69 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:48,400 It's pretty baller. 70 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:50,480 That was a good one. That one was very realistic. 71 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:51,760 I don't think that was the fake. 72 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:52,320 No shot. 73 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:53,760 No. That's like so real. 74 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:54,560 That happened. 75 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:55,200 That's real. 76 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:56,240 That happened to me one time. 77 00:02:57,120 --> 00:02:58,080 No, it didn't. 78 00:02:58,080 --> 00:02:59,920 I was like, Whitney, so with me? 79 00:02:59,920 --> 00:03:00,080 No. 80 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:01,440 Oh. 81 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:02,640 Yeah. You didn't pay for anything. 82 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:05,040 It was done when you never pay for anything. 83 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:05,680 Don't you remember? 84 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:07,760 When you traveled 20 steps to our house. 85 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:08,480 Remember? 86 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:09,760 Yeah. I don't pay. 87 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:10,480 Yeah. 88 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:12,400 I remember when I made you cookies that one time. 89 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:13,440 Yeah. I didn't pay you. 90 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:14,240 I did not tip. 91 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:16,320 You made us dinner that one time though. 92 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:18,800 Yeah. We just didn't pay by the way. 93 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:20,000 It was Kirkland, Lausanne. 94 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:22,160 Delicious, by the way. 95 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:23,440 It was homemade. 96 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:24,960 Sponsor us Kirkland. 97 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:25,680 Costco. 98 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:26,240 Costco. 99 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:26,400 Costco. 100 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:27,600 Please sponsor us. 101 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:28,640 That'd be a fire for the sponsors. 102 00:03:28,640 --> 00:03:30,960 If there was any sponsor, let's just get Costco. 103 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:31,440 Costco. 104 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:34,240 If you don't have a Costco membership, buy one. 105 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:34,800 100%. 106 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:36,640 We need to buy one. 107 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:38,800 You didn't pay enough. 108 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:39,840 Wow. 109 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:40,480 They're going to pay. 110 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:40,960 Wow. 111 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:41,760 Did you get some? 112 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:43,120 Oh. 113 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:45,040 They just literally nailed Ted's, you guys. 114 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:47,520 And last but certainly not least, 115 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:48,720 the best story of them all. 116 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:49,440 No, I'm just kidding. 117 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:54,240 But my story was the, she was wondering if she was an asshole 118 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:57,360 for telling her sister that her kid is not actually special. 119 00:03:57,360 --> 00:03:58,160 He's just spoiled. 120 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:01,680 Oh yeah. That one, that one gave me a little bit of anxiety 121 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:04,720 because like if that was, like if that one was real, 122 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:08,640 things are going down in that family at that point. 123 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:09,920 Marley, who do you think was the fake? 124 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:11,280 Whitney. 125 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:11,840 Oh. 126 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:15,360 I too believe it was Whitney. 127 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:16,960 The hair collection. 128 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:17,120 Yeah. 129 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:18,080 Oh gosh. 130 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:18,880 I'm going to go with 131 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:22,080 Whitney. 132 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:42,720 Well, you guys are right. 133 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:43,200 All right. 134 00:04:43,200 --> 00:04:47,200 So we've introduced just a little bit of a new idea going forward. 135 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:49,920 We're going to kind of try to categorize the stories that we find. 136 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:53,200 So this week's theme is behind closed doors. 137 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:57,680 I hope you guys brought the heat. 138 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:00,000 I brought the heat, baby. 139 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:01,120 Can I go first? 140 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:01,360 Sure. 141 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:03,920 Everyone can juggle first? 142 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:04,560 Absolutely. 143 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:05,440 Is that cool with you guys? 144 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:06,080 Sure. 145 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:10,400 Tidal says, my husband died and I have to pretend that he was a great man who loved me. 146 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:12,960 Wow. 147 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:14,800 My husband passed away three months ago. 148 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:15,920 I was relieved of that. 149 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:19,120 He abused me financially, mentally, and even physically. 150 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:22,480 When I got pregnant, he convinced me to quit my job saying he would take care of me. 151 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:25,520 I could never buy anything again without asking his permission. 152 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:28,080 I couldn't even buy a cream without asking his permission. 153 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:34,240 And he decided if I could or could not, even months ago, that I had a little money of my own, 154 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:36,480 I had to ask him for permission to buy something. 155 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:40,000 What was mine was theirs and theirs was theirs. 156 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:44,080 But I stayed there because I still loved him and I didn't have a place to go. 157 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:47,200 I had too low self-esteem and let myself be stepped on. 158 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:50,240 When I stopped loving him, he had already had his first affair. 159 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:55,360 He made me believe that I was to blame for the affair because I didn't want to have sex months after my birth. 160 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:58,160 That left me torn and I had to receive stitches. 161 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:03,360 I was already planning my exit and saving money little by little while I was working, selling things from home. 162 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:07,920 Since he wouldn't let me work outside because he was very jealous, I wanted to pay for a lawyer. 163 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:13,920 He was having another affair with a friend of his which luckily kept him busier and I didn't care anymore that he was. 164 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:15,280 He didn't pay attention to me. 165 00:06:15,280 --> 00:06:17,120 I wanted him to stay as far away from me. 166 00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:18,720 I knew that man and he knew me. 167 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:20,800 I could have made a big fuss but I didn't. 168 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:24,880 I kept quiet planning my way out while he and that man slept together in secret. 169 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:29,360 I only felt disgusted by my husband, nothing more. 170 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:32,800 But my husband died in a way I never would have expected. 171 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:33,840 He's now a martyr. 172 00:06:33,840 --> 00:06:36,400 When someone dies, all the sins of that person disappear. 173 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:38,880 Because that's what even my family thinks. 174 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:42,960 Those who knew about his affair and how he manipulated me are now talking about how 175 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:47,120 a good man he was and we shouldn't insult someone who's dead. 176 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:50,080 Everyone around me talks about how beautiful our relationship was. 177 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:56,240 His family talks about what a great man he was and how always he focused on giving everything to me and our kid. 178 00:06:56,960 --> 00:07:00,560 His affair partner hugged me at the funeral saying that my husband loved me. 179 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:02,720 His friends told me what a great person he was. 180 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:06,880 Everyone talks about how good he was and how he is now an angel in heaven. 181 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:08,880 And I have to pretend to be sad. 182 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:12,080 The day he died, I cried a lot but not out of sadness. 183 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:14,080 I cried with relief and I felt free. 184 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:18,800 It would have taken me too many years to save to pay for lawyers, 185 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:21,920 my little store, without him realizing that I was keeping money in secret. 186 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:23,920 He would have kept everything. 187 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:29,440 He would have made my life hell and I know it because he told me so every time I stood for myself. 188 00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:31,440 But now I have the house, I have everything. 189 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:34,000 I have the monthly money for being a widow. 190 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:36,080 I have my children totally with me. 191 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:38,000 I've started the psychologist. 192 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:40,800 Everyone thinks that I do it to cope with my grief but no. 193 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:42,880 It is to overcome the abuse I suffered from him. 194 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:47,280 It was really hard to pretend being sad in the funeral but I did it for my child. 195 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:49,680 I did it because now everything is over and I'm free. 196 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:55,360 If I made a fuss, my ex-mother-in-law would have done something so that I wouldn't keep anything. 197 00:07:55,360 --> 00:07:56,720 They were just like him. 198 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:59,440 But now I'm just a sad widow who needs help in their eyes. 199 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:04,400 The silly widow who didn't know anything but that's helping me to be free and have what I deserve. 200 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:06,080 Good, honestly good for her. 201 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:06,320 Yeah. 202 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:09,200 Like I kind of want to know how he died. 203 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:13,120 I know, I must have been because he doesn't sound, they don't sound very old. 204 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:13,680 No. 205 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:14,480 Like they sound young. 206 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:17,280 It was, it was like a surprise that he passed away. 207 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:18,160 That's so interesting. 208 00:08:18,160 --> 00:08:19,680 Are there any comments that like... 209 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:22,400 Nothing that indicates what happened. 210 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:25,280 Everyone's celebrating this woman saying I'm happy for you. 211 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:28,640 You're free, not even that much to unpack. 212 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:31,840 Just crazy that you never know. 213 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:35,120 You never know what someone like a relationship is going through. 214 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:40,320 Like that, they all were like hugging her at the funeral like you guys, he loved you so much. 215 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:41,760 Even though it's a fair part of that. 216 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:42,260 What? 217 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:45,040 It's the people that knew. 218 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:48,560 I'm just like how can you like, how can you do that? 219 00:08:48,560 --> 00:08:49,600 I don't understand that. 220 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:55,680 And like it makes me wonder how bad was he and did everybody actually know he was like this abusive piece of crap? 221 00:08:55,680 --> 00:08:57,440 I don't, I don't know. 222 00:08:57,440 --> 00:08:58,240 Yeah. 223 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:00,720 Why did he make her quit the job? 224 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:02,800 He said he was going to provide for her. 225 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:04,880 Do you think he was trying to be controlling then? 226 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:07,200 Like was he just like I'm going to control you now? 227 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:08,880 Like this is why I want you to quit. 228 00:09:08,880 --> 00:09:13,840 And also it could be like if she was in a successful job that can like hit a man's ego. 229 00:09:13,840 --> 00:09:17,840 And so he doesn't want her to feel confident and like powerful as well. 230 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:19,120 And like she's independent. 231 00:09:19,680 --> 00:09:20,960 She can carry her own. 232 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:28,800 It's like once that job's gone, it's very easy to like sink into like you have to rely on the provider and the family. 233 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:32,960 And like, well I don't make money so like he like can make the decisions or... 234 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:34,080 Say it. 235 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:35,760 This is big guys. 236 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:36,560 Oh no. 237 00:09:36,560 --> 00:09:37,360 Okay. 238 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:40,880 He did that because he knew he was going to cheat on her. 239 00:09:41,680 --> 00:09:44,880 And he didn't want her to leave so she had money. 240 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:45,680 Right. 241 00:09:45,680 --> 00:09:47,040 She could leave easily. 242 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:47,680 Yep. 243 00:09:47,680 --> 00:09:48,800 No it makes sense. 244 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:51,680 I don't know how planning that was but I'm sure. 245 00:09:51,680 --> 00:09:52,880 It was definitely plans. 246 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:58,160 He could have just been a big piece of crap and like it just everything he did was for himself. 247 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:00,480 Which don't make sense. 248 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:03,280 This is true off my chest. 249 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:04,800 This is behind closed doors. 250 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:10,240 It says I'm staying at my estranged brother's house without telling him who I am. 251 00:10:11,040 --> 00:10:11,280 Oh. 252 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:13,440 That's crazy right? 253 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:14,560 Here's the situation. 254 00:10:14,560 --> 00:10:17,520 I, 22 male, come from a pretty traditional family. 255 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:25,120 About 10 years ago my older brother Adam, 34 male, was disowned by our parents because he married someone from a different background. 256 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:28,640 They gave him an ultimatum, break it off or be cut out of the family. 257 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:32,240 Adam chose love and since then he's been completely out of our lives. 258 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:39,200 I was a kid back then but I never forgot how much it hurt to lose my brother even if our parents made it seem like he was in the wrong. 259 00:10:39,200 --> 00:10:44,880 As I grew older I realized how unfair the whole situation was and started wondering what really happened. 260 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:49,520 I wanted to reach out to him but I had no idea how he'd react after all this time. 261 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:51,920 I did some digging and found out where he lives. 262 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:55,680 Turns out he's renting out a room in his house as an Airbnb. 263 00:10:55,680 --> 00:10:58,640 I decided to book it without telling him who I really am. 264 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:04,720 So now I'm literally staying in my brother's house pretending to be just some random guest. 265 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:12,080 Over the past few days we've hung out a bit and I've gotten to know him as this genuine kind guy who's built a happy life. 266 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:17,840 He's even told me a bit about what went down with our parents which has only confirmed how wrong they were. 267 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:21,600 But the whole time he has had no idea that I'm his younger brother. 268 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:26,080 Part of me knows I should just come clean and tell him who I am but I am scared. 269 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:34,080 I don't know if he'll be furious at me for sneaking around like this or if he'll feel betrayed that I didn't come to him honestly from the start. 270 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:40,080 But at the same time this was the only way I could think of to get close to him without all the baggage. 271 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:44,480 Should I have been upfront from the start or was this the only way to get back into his life. 272 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:47,680 That was good. 273 00:11:47,680 --> 00:11:48,880 It's crazy huh. 274 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:53,520 I want to know what the difference was. Come from different cultural backgrounds is that what I said. 275 00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:56,000 Yeah maybe religiously or culturally. 276 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:58,720 It wasn't like a race thing I bet hopefully. 277 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:05,680 I don't think so. I mean he says we come from a pretty traditional family and then he married someone from a different background. 278 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:08,640 It has to be like maybe religion. 279 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:09,760 It might be. 280 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:16,880 So this little brother's done nothing to the older brother so I don't understand why he wouldn't come and tell him. 281 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:17,920 He's nervous. 282 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:21,200 Yeah because it's like he's been living with the parents. 283 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:24,160 And the parents probably been talking so much crap the whole time. 284 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:24,880 Right. 285 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:25,680 Yeah. 286 00:12:25,680 --> 00:12:31,760 I wonder if the older brother looks at him and is like dude we kind of look similar. 287 00:12:31,760 --> 00:12:33,840 I feel like I would recognize you. 288 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:34,800 Like you. 289 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:37,600 Be like you could be my relative somehow. 290 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:40,960 Like I'm just picturing you for anyone that doesn't know that Isaiah is my little brother. 291 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:47,120 So I feel like if that was us and you came and visited I feel like I would recognize you. 292 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:48,000 Somehow. 293 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:48,640 Somehow. 294 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:52,480 Or like I think it's a little bit easier too like they're both guys. 295 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:58,160 So like it let's say Chase our older brother's chase if he didn't know me. 296 00:12:58,160 --> 00:12:58,400 Yeah. 297 00:12:58,400 --> 00:12:59,680 But I went and visited him. 298 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:06,000 Like I'm sure you'd kind of be like do we kind of look alike because there's some resemblance. 299 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:08,240 You and Chase look nothing alike but you act a lot alike. 300 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:09,040 Oh wow that's big. 301 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:11,280 You really don't. 302 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:11,760 You don't. 303 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:12,800 Wow. 304 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:13,680 Me and Michael then. 305 00:13:13,680 --> 00:13:17,200 Who's going to tell him. 306 00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:19,680 If you're adopted I say that. 307 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:21,360 Mom. 308 00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:22,800 Dad. 309 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:26,720 I definitely think he needs to tell the brother. 310 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:28,880 I would love to have that film. 311 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:33,040 I know I need like an update or but there's not anything. 312 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:36,880 But it is like a new one. 313 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:38,560 It was supposed to two days ago. 314 00:13:38,560 --> 00:13:40,720 So he could still be at that house. 315 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:41,760 So right now. 316 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:43,520 How old do you have to be to book an Airbnb? 317 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:44,320 He's like there. 318 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:44,800 True. 319 00:13:45,680 --> 00:13:50,400 See I'm guessing he was about 10 years old when it happened and 10 years later he's 20. 320 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:52,480 I totally feel like I would recognize you. 321 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:54,320 At 10 and then. 322 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:55,600 Yes. 323 00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:56,400 Yeah I feel like. 324 00:13:56,400 --> 00:14:00,160 Yeah that's what someone said I'm 10 years older than one of my siblings and I'd know their face 325 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:00,800 anywhere. 326 00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:01,520 Please tell him. 327 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:04,480 Yeah I feel like he's good at telling. 328 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:05,600 He has to. 329 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:06,400 Yeah. 330 00:14:06,400 --> 00:14:08,160 The older brother's going to be excited. 331 00:14:09,040 --> 00:14:09,600 I would be stoked. 332 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:10,800 Especially if he's like. 333 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:13,280 Because you never did like he didn't do anything to him. 334 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:14,080 Yeah. 335 00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:14,720 It'd be different. 336 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:14,880 It was the longer dad. 337 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:17,360 He's like dude I know mom and dad are wrong. 338 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:17,680 Yeah. 339 00:14:18,480 --> 00:14:19,920 Like I think. 340 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:21,760 I've always wanted a relationship with you. 341 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:22,400 I've missed you. 342 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:23,680 I wanted to see how you were. 343 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:26,320 I've been thinking about you since I was 10 years old. 344 00:14:26,320 --> 00:14:28,800 There's so much trauma that I need to unpack. 345 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:36,400 I'm sorry I came here but I really wanted to see you and see how you're doing and you seem so happy and that makes me so happy. 346 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:39,040 Seems like this has happened to you. 347 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:41,120 Wow. 348 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:43,360 Give me my hand. 349 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:46,640 No I don't think he would be mad. 350 00:14:48,560 --> 00:14:50,400 I don't think he would be mad either. 351 00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:51,040 I don't think so. 352 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:54,000 He'd probably be happy that someone from his family is like reaching out to him. 353 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:56,720 Yeah but not only reach you out but creepily like. 354 00:14:57,920 --> 00:14:59,280 Booked the room. 355 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:02,080 Imagine the level of like. 356 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:05,520 Searching that it had to take for him to like find. 357 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:06,640 So true. 358 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:08,640 So this one's dropped my chest. 359 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:10,640 Spouse thinks they're slick. 360 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:12,640 Won't know what hit them. 361 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:14,640 Oh. 362 00:15:14,640 --> 00:15:16,640 Married for 12 years together for 18. 363 00:15:16,640 --> 00:15:18,640 We have a teenage child together and said child. 364 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:24,640 Had gone through a catastrophic illness and was hospitalized for six months. 365 00:15:24,640 --> 00:15:30,640 We had to travel for treatment and our child and I were away from home for a total of nine months. 366 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:34,640 As they were going through physical therapy rehab follow up appointments etc. 367 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:36,640 Insurance is from spouse. 368 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:40,640 So they had to return to work after six months. 369 00:15:40,640 --> 00:15:44,640 This left them back home alone for the remaining three months. 370 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:50,640 We finally make it home and the very next day spouse says they are done with me and want out of this marriage. 371 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:56,640 Came as a quite a shock because up until this point I thought everything was going great with our marriage. 372 00:15:56,640 --> 00:15:58,640 We had a lot of talks after that and decided to try and work things out. 373 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:04,640 I did some digging and found out they have been having a fair with a co-worker who is so much younger. 374 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:06,640 We could be their parents. 375 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:10,640 Spouse has no idea. 376 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:14,640 I know this and thinks we are still going to try. 377 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:16,640 I know this playing nice shit. 378 00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:24,640 And wanting to work it out is just a front by them to keep me from royally f-ing them over with the divorce. 379 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:26,640 Tell them. 380 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:32,640 The thing is although spouse make significantly more money than I do. 381 00:16:32,640 --> 00:16:36,640 I have way more resources in the form of family and friends. 382 00:16:36,640 --> 00:16:38,640 Spouses come from a small family who isn't close. 383 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:51,640 I will continue to act in love and committed to the marriage but am already working on finding the best attorney I can to make sure my kid and I get everything we deserve in serving the divorce papers when they least expect it. 384 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:56,640 Money is not an issue for me as I have a family who will do anything for me and my kids well being. 385 00:16:56,640 --> 00:17:00,640 But it will be an issue for that ass hat. 386 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:05,640 It's such perfect time. 387 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:13,640 The saddest part of all this is that our kid really needs stability in their life as they are still recovering and will never be the same moving forward. 388 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:22,640 They went from a normal child to one with special needs who will forever be depend on others and I am going to make sure this asshole supports our kid for the rest of their life. 389 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:35,640 To do edit spouse thinks they are going to be able to continue this foolishness where they have full access to our home and our family only when they feel like being around and still be able to carry on with their life. 390 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:43,640 What I mean by get what my kid and I deserve is keeping said home and spouse continue to support our child with their medical expenses. 391 00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:50,640 Says a lot about other people though when they assume I'm trying to take spouse for all they've got and ruin their career. 392 00:17:50,640 --> 00:17:54,640 If I did this our child would not be able to get anything. 393 00:17:54,640 --> 00:18:00,640 Okay so the main thing this man did this wife was he cheated on her with a younger woman correct? 394 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:01,640 Was there anything else? 395 00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:03,640 No that was just something light. 396 00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:05,640 No that's not light. 397 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:13,640 But she was gone for nine months with the kid while the kid was having like something terrible happened to the kid like probably like a dirt bike accident. 398 00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:16,640 And is now like having to learn to walk again. 399 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:18,640 You said like almost dead. 400 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:19,640 I thought you said illness. 401 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:21,640 Maybe illness I don't know. 402 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:23,640 Cause that changes things. 403 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:26,640 I'm just saying like they're having to go through all this rehab and stuff. 404 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:33,640 She's doing all the work to take care of their child while he's being in some kid that could be their kid. 405 00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:35,640 Like probably just turned 18. 406 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:38,640 And she found out and is not going to tell him. 407 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:40,640 Shout out to mom. 408 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:41,640 Good for you. 409 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:42,640 Yeah. 410 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:43,640 Prep up. 411 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:44,640 Yeah. 412 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:46,640 Destroy that ass hat. 413 00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:49,640 Yeah. 414 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:53,640 Joe and I were in therapy and stuff and we talk about like our protection modes. 415 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:57,640 You can definitely see her protection mode is more similar to mine. 416 00:18:57,640 --> 00:19:04,640 It's like toughen up, get shit done, figure it out and be a big girl and make things happen. 417 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:05,640 Yeah. 418 00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:09,640 And if you've got to destroy someone along the way you're going to do that. 419 00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:10,640 Yeah. 420 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:11,640 No it's. 421 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:12,640 It's perfect. 422 00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:14,640 It's pretty simple at all. 423 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:17,640 Cause did I write that? 424 00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:19,640 It goes really well with mine. 425 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:25,640 Curl up into a ball and cry for three days. 426 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:33,640 So I do, I do, I'm like good for her, but I also, I know it's a protection and I know she's going to need that. 427 00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:37,640 That protection is going to mention crumble and she's going to be alone and sad. 428 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:40,640 Now that she needs him, that's not what I'm saying. 429 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:41,640 Oh, she'll be rich. 430 00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:42,640 Nevermind. 431 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:43,640 She'll be fine. 432 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:44,640 She's going to be alone. 433 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:45,640 She has a lot of family. 434 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:50,640 She does have family support system, but I would highly recommend going to therapy too 435 00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:55,640 because that's a lot of to unpack and you can't just be strong all the time. 436 00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:56,640 But I'm proud of her. 437 00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:57,640 Yeah. 438 00:19:57,640 --> 00:19:59,640 But do it after you ditch the loser. 439 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:00,640 Yeah. 440 00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:01,640 Get crazy first. 441 00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:07,640 Get rid of him and then go to therapy and then remarry and live happily ever after. 442 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:11,640 I found out my sister is looking up ways to poison someone and I'm freaking out. 443 00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:13,640 This is on true off my chest. 444 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:16,640 This has been tearing me apart for days and I need to get it off my chest. 445 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:19,640 My sister and her husband have always seemed like the perfect couple. 446 00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:23,640 They've been married for about five years now and everyone thinks they're the happiest 447 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:27,640 perfect couple, but I just found out something that has me completely shaken. 448 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:30,640 A few days ago, I was at my sister's place and she asked me to grab her phone from her 449 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:33,640 room while she was busy with something in the kitchen. 450 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:37,640 I grabbed it, but as I was walking back downstairs, her phone buzzed the notification. 451 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:40,640 I didn't mean to snoop, but it made me curious and I didn't really think it was a big deal 452 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:41,640 if I looked. 453 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:43,640 So I swiped up to unlock her phone. 454 00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:47,640 She always used the same code since forever and it opened up to a browser she was on. 455 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:49,640 The site she was on made my stomach drop. 456 00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:54,640 I'm not proud of it, but I looked at what she had been searching after I saw that and 457 00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:56,640 what I saw made my stomach drop. 458 00:20:56,640 --> 00:21:00,640 She had been searching for information on how to poison someone. 459 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:03,640 I'm talking freaking the other word. 460 00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:09,640 Detailed searches like how to poison someone without trace, undetectable poisons and how 461 00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:11,640 long does it take for poison to work? 462 00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:15,640 I just stood there in shock scrolling through more of her search history. 463 00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:16,640 It wasn't just a one time thing. 464 00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:19,640 She had been researching this for weeks, maybe even longer. 465 00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:24,640 The searches were all so specific that I couldn't even convince myself it was some kind of accident 466 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:25,640 or a sick joke. 467 00:21:25,640 --> 00:21:28,640 She's seriously looking into how to poison someone and I have no idea why. 468 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:32,640 The worst part is I have no clue who she's planning to do this to. 469 00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:34,640 Is it her husband? 470 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:35,640 Someone at work? 471 00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:37,640 I'm terrified to even imagine it. 472 00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:41,640 I mean outside her life seems perfect, but if she's researching something like this, 473 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:44,640 there's obviously something very very wrong. 474 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:45,640 I don't know what to do. 475 00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:46,640 Do I confront her? 476 00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:47,640 Do I go to the police? 477 00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:48,640 What if I'm overreacting? 478 00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:52,640 And it's something completely innocent, though I can't imagine how it could be. 479 00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:55,640 What if she finds out I know and does something drastic? 480 00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:56,640 What if she's trying to poison me? 481 00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:59,640 I've been carrying this around for days and it's making me sick. 482 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:03,640 I love my sister, but I'm scared of what she might do if this is real. 483 00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:06,640 I just don't know what the right move is and it's killing me inside. 484 00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:09,640 Listen, she's having an affair. 485 00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:14,640 It's always about that and she's getting rid of her husband so that she can be with the affair partner. 486 00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:17,640 And we're going to see it on 2020 in a month, I promise. 487 00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:19,640 You know what's so dumb is... 488 00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:20,640 Oh my gosh. 489 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:22,640 That is the first place. 490 00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:24,640 Like cops are going to look. 491 00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:25,640 It's research history. 492 00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:26,640 That is so dumb. 493 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:28,640 She's going to get caught so fast. 494 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:29,640 So fast. 495 00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:31,640 It's like not even worth it, girl. 496 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:35,640 Honestly, the brother would be doing a favor by like talking to the cops about it before she actually does it. 497 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:36,640 Honestly, yeah. 498 00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:37,640 Because it lasts... 499 00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:39,640 Would she even go to jail? 500 00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:42,640 It would be like a conspiracy to commit a murder. 501 00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:43,640 Exactly. 502 00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:44,640 So she would go to jail. 503 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:46,640 Like she would have probation or something, right? 504 00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:48,640 Definitely there would be legal consequences. 505 00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:49,640 I don't know if that's a felony. 506 00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:51,640 Probably should be if it's not. 507 00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:56,640 And the guy would just divorce her like they should and just throw their answer away and no one has to be killed. 508 00:22:56,640 --> 00:22:59,640 But what if she just lies and say, it was actually I was going to kill my boss. 509 00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:00,640 It wasn't you, honey. 510 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:01,640 Doesn't... well. 511 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:03,640 Wouldn't matter for obviously her. 512 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:05,640 Well, I guess that's a term marriage but it doesn't... 513 00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:06,640 But would it? 514 00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:11,640 Because if you found out Isaiah was going to play me a poison, would you say bye? 515 00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:12,640 That's so valid. 516 00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:13,640 I would not. 517 00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:14,640 What if it was like... 518 00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:15,640 Yeah, you'd never... 519 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:16,640 What if Isaiah or... 520 00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:19,640 If she was playing a poison anyone, I'd be like, get the hell away from me. 521 00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:20,640 Yeah. 522 00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:21,640 Awww. 523 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:22,640 Don't please anyone. 524 00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:23,640 Don't frown. 525 00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:24,640 Just don't try to kill anyone. 526 00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:25,640 I would not. 527 00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:26,640 Be a normal person. 528 00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:30,640 You're making Wiley sad you would leave her unconditioned love. 529 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:31,640 For any reason. 530 00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:32,640 Isaiah. 531 00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:33,640 Whoa. 532 00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:34,640 For that reason, you... 533 00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:36,640 For murder, I would... 534 00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:38,640 Yeah, it was just going to come to my boss. 535 00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:39,640 Isn't that crazy though? 536 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:43,640 Do you guys feel like the best thing he should be doing though is immediately going to the 537 00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:44,640 cops? 538 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:45,640 Do you think he should confront her? 539 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:46,640 Is it a he or she? 540 00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:47,640 Doesn't matter. 541 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:48,640 It's the brother. 542 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:49,640 It's the brother, so it's a wife. 543 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:54,640 It's the husband and wife and it's like Isaiah seeing it off my phone. 544 00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:55,640 Dog. 545 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:56,640 The sister. 546 00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:57,640 You better save my life. 547 00:23:57,640 --> 00:23:58,640 I would say something to you. 548 00:23:58,640 --> 00:23:59,640 What would you do? 549 00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:00,640 I would confront you. 550 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:04,640 Yeah, I feel like I would be like, what the hell is this? 551 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:05,640 What is going on dude? 552 00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:06,640 You would confront me that... 553 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:07,640 Okay, so if it was my sister. 554 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:12,640 If I saw that on your phone, I'd be like, dude, what is this? 555 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:13,640 No way. 556 00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:14,640 I... 557 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,640 Especially with how many searches there were. 558 00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:17,640 Yeah, I would ask. 559 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:18,640 She'd point it at you. 560 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:19,640 And you'd be like... 561 00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:20,640 Aw. 562 00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:21,640 And then I'd say, drink this drink. 563 00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:22,640 Okay, I'm packing in a jail. 564 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:23,640 Yeah, you'd be like, where's Joe? 565 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:24,640 And you'd be like, don't ask. 566 00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:25,640 He's gone already. 567 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:30,640 I'm on the toilet. 568 00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:35,640 Well, I'm surprised you would confront me. 569 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:36,640 What if you were younger? 570 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:38,640 Like what if this brother's a little younger? 571 00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:40,640 Like now I feel like if I came at you, you would... 572 00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:43,640 I mean, you still wouldn't beat me up because I'm stronger. 573 00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:45,640 But we would put up a good fight. 574 00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:47,640 But what if you were like 12? 575 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:48,640 No dude, she's tough. 576 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:49,640 She whoops my butt. 577 00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:51,640 What if you were like 12? 578 00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:53,640 That would be a little scary. 579 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:57,640 I would go say something to mom and dad. 580 00:24:57,640 --> 00:24:59,640 I'd be like, mom? 581 00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:04,640 Mom, when he's making me scared, she's got poison on her bones. 582 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:05,640 She's scared. 583 00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:06,640 Do you guys want to hear some of the comments? 584 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:07,640 Yeah. 585 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:09,640 It says, whoa, that's intense. 586 00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:10,640 I'm so sorry you're going through this. 587 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:14,640 It might sound extreme, but you need to take screenshots of her search history in case she 588 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:15,640 deletes it. 589 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:19,640 If this turns into something more serious, you'll need evidence to back up your claims. 590 00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:21,640 Then I'd talk to her and try to understand what's going on. 591 00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:26,640 If she's in a bad mental state, she might need help, not punishment. 592 00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,640 And I disagree. 593 00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:31,640 I feel like there should be consequences to something like that. 594 00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:33,640 There should be major punishment. 595 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:38,640 And yeah, of course, I would hope she would get help. 596 00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:44,640 Like let's get her in some like crazy intensive like therapy, but also there should be punishment 597 00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:45,640 there. 598 00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:46,640 That's what I felt. 599 00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:48,640 Yeah, I'd like to know who it was for. 600 00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:49,640 Who was she trying to poison? 601 00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:51,640 It was definitely the husband. 602 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:52,640 Probably. 603 00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:53,640 It's always the husband. 604 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:54,640 And I'm telling you, she has a boyfriend. 605 00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,640 Yeah, because that's the only one that you're around enough to be able to poison like slowly. 606 00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:02,640 You're not just like, oh yeah, I'm going to poison my, well, maybe never mind. 607 00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:06,640 I mean, the brother did mention that they've always like, everyone's always thought they've 608 00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:07,640 had like a perfect relationship. 609 00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:09,640 Those are always the one. 610 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:10,640 Yeah, that's true. 611 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:11,640 Okay. 612 00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:14,640 So the updates, I told the cops about my sister's search history. 613 00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:17,640 First of all, thank you to everyone who commented on my original post. 614 00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:21,640 I was overwhelmed by the responses and it really helped me think through what I needed to do. 615 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:26,640 I made an anonymous call to start with explaining the situation and what I'd found on my sister's 616 00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:27,640 phone. 617 00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:30,640 I didn't give them her name at first because I was still struggling with the idea of getting 618 00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:31,640 her into serious trouble. 619 00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:34,640 But the officer on the other end was very calm and understanding. 620 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:38,640 They assured me that they would handle it delicately, but they also made it clear that they couldn't 621 00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:39,640 ignore something this serious. 622 00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:41,640 They asked me to come in and talk to them in person. 623 00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:42,640 So I did. 624 00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:46,640 I brought my phone with the screenshots of my sister's search history as evidence sitting 625 00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:47,640 showing them everything. 626 00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:51,140 I felt like the worst brother in the world, but I knew I had to do it. 627 00:26:51,140 --> 00:26:52,640 So he never confronted the sister. 628 00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:54,640 He never asked her like, what was this about? 629 00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:56,640 Like, were you just like messing around? 630 00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:57,640 Like, whatever. 631 00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:00,640 And you just went, well, here's the thing though. 632 00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:05,380 When we watch crime shows and stuff, like there's, sometimes you'll like randomly search 633 00:27:05,380 --> 00:27:10,640 something that could maybe look like, wait, why would you search that? 634 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:12,640 But I'm making myself sound psycho. 635 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:15,440 But it was also on like weird websites. 636 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:19,440 And it was like, he said like for weeks, like a deep. 637 00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:20,440 Yes. 638 00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:22,940 And that's where it's like, okay, that's major red fuck. 639 00:27:22,940 --> 00:27:27,440 This is in sisters like really bad criminal anyway. 640 00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:28,440 Yeah. 641 00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:32,440 Because how hard is it to go to private mode? 642 00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:34,440 Not hard. 643 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:40,440 So like, there's all this search history from weeks of her plotting to take out her husband 644 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:42,440 so she can be with her boyfriend. 645 00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:47,440 Yeah, because everything is about that. 646 00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:48,440 Yeah. 647 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:51,940 The police thanked me for coming forward and told me they would investigate quietly to 648 00:27:51,940 --> 00:27:53,440 make sure no one was put at risk. 649 00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:57,600 They asked me not to talk to my sister about it just yet, which was really hard. 650 00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:00,940 Every time I saw her after that, I felt like I was betraying her for not saying anything, 651 00:28:00,940 --> 00:28:03,280 but I trusted the police knew what they were doing. 652 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:06,180 A few days later, I found out they had spoken to my sister. 653 00:28:06,180 --> 00:28:10,040 She called me freaking out, asking if I knew why the police had come to talk to her. 654 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:13,040 I had to play dumb, which was one of the hardest things I've ever done. 655 00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:17,920 Apparently they approached her under the guise of a general inquiry, but it must have rattled 656 00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,880 her because she didn't mention any of the other search history or poisoning. 657 00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:22,480 She just seemed scared. 658 00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:24,380 Since then, she's been acting really paranoid. 659 00:28:24,380 --> 00:28:26,920 She's been checking in on her husband constantly. 660 00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:30,400 And I think she might suspect that someone knows what she was planning. 661 00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:36,040 I haven't seen any sign that she's gone through with anything, but I'm on edge all the time 662 00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:37,040 now. 663 00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:39,880 I can't tell me they would keep an eye on things and advise me to stay alert, but not 664 00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:42,480 to confront her unless I absolutely had to. 665 00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:46,200 They're handling it from here, but I'm still scared for her husband, for my sister, and 666 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:48,720 for what's going to happen to her family if this all comes out. 667 00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:52,560 I'm relieved that I told someone, but I'm also heartbroken that it came to this. 668 00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:55,320 I just hope that whatever happens next, it doesn't end in tragedy. 669 00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:59,520 I'll keep you all updated if anything major changes, but for now I'm trying to hold it 670 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:01,400 all together and keep my family safe. 671 00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:02,400 Thanks again for all your support. 672 00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:05,480 It means more than I can say. 673 00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:06,760 How terrifying is that? 674 00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:10,640 Now the police know, and this dude's just having to sit and wait on what's going to 675 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:11,640 happen. 676 00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:12,640 Yeah, no. 677 00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:13,640 How long? 678 00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:14,640 How long? 679 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:15,640 Is the police going to take? 680 00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:16,640 Because it's not like they can just... 681 00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:20,760 Well, they can't really do anything unless she does something. 682 00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:23,160 They might have tapped her phone and now they can... 683 00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:24,160 Are they allowed to? 684 00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:26,160 I don't know what's illegal. 685 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:28,880 Yeah, if they have suspicion of what. 686 00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:31,160 They're going to search for it. 687 00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:32,160 This is horrible. 688 00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:33,920 This guy didn't handle it right. 689 00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:34,920 Sorry. 690 00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:35,920 What would you have done? 691 00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:37,640 What would you do right now? 692 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:39,800 You have the conversation with the police. 693 00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,040 They say, don't say anything. 694 00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:43,040 Why? 695 00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:44,040 No. 696 00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:48,600 Why would I be loyal to the police when they're not doing anything? 697 00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:53,320 All that dude has to do, all the husband has to do is drink orange juice at the wrong 698 00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:58,760 time and he could die because this lady's trying to take him out. 699 00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:05,000 It seems to me like the only right thing to do would be like, okay, police, I saw this, 700 00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:06,200 I'm freaking out. 701 00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:08,440 Like, what are you going to do to make sure nobody dies? 702 00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:09,440 Right. 703 00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:14,120 And if you're not, like if you're not going to do something right away, then 100% am either 704 00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:20,640 telling the husband or telling my sister, I saw this stuff, told the police, you're 705 00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:22,400 not going to kill me right now. 706 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:26,640 But I'll take your astotherapy and you can figure your shit out. 707 00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:27,640 I disagree. 708 00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:28,640 I definitely would tell... 709 00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:30,200 I don't trust the police. 710 00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:35,440 Oh, I would tell the police first and then I would tell the police I'm telling the husband, 711 00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:37,400 I don't care what you say. 712 00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:38,960 I am going to tell the husband. 713 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:39,960 There's no addition. 714 00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,800 No, but you said you were going to talk to the sister as well. 715 00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:44,600 I would not... 716 00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:49,040 I don't know if I would confront the sister because I would be nervous that it would just 717 00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:50,600 push her to do it quicker. 718 00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:51,600 I would... 719 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:55,720 Like she would fall on panic because now the cops know and everything and she obviously 720 00:30:55,720 --> 00:31:01,160 has an end goal, which is to kill that specific person and I don't know if that would push 721 00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:02,520 her over the edge. 722 00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:04,840 Or maybe she gets help and she doesn't... 723 00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:08,960 Yeah, she kind of, I don't know, it kind of feels like she would be the person that 724 00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:12,280 gets super spooked by the cops and just forgets the whole thing. 725 00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:15,440 Let's talk about who we feel like was the fake. 726 00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:20,400 I think it was either between the girl, it was the girl, it was one of the girls. 727 00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:21,400 One girl for sure. 728 00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:22,400 Wasn't he? 729 00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:23,400 Wasn't he? 730 00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:24,400 I think it was Whitney. 731 00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:25,400 I think so. 732 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:26,400 What? 733 00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:27,400 She got in 200 out. 734 00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:28,400 Mine was good. 735 00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:30,400 No, mine was not the fake. 736 00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:33,400 Was yours fake? 737 00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:34,760 I think it was Whitney. 738 00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:35,760 It was not me. 739 00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:37,760 But I do think it was... 740 00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:39,760 Could have been Joe. 741 00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:41,760 Oh yeah, could have been. 742 00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:42,760 Probably not. 743 00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:43,760 Yeah, I think it was Marley. 744 00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:44,760 I think it was Whiter Joe. 745 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:45,760 I vote Joe. 746 00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:46,760 I vote Marley. 747 00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:51,760 We ain't voting right now. 748 00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:56,520 Follow us on socials and give us a rating on your favorite podcasting app if you're 749 00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:57,520 our best friend. 750 00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:59,720 Yeah, if you're our frenzy. 751 00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:00,720 Frenzy on three. 752 00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:02,520 One, two, three. 753 00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:03,520 Frenzy's. 754 00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:05,240 I love you guys. 755 00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:07,360 Thanks so much for listening. 756 00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:09,480 Every Tuesday 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