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Okay, okay, okay, so let's hit let's hit it with a quick recap right to start
So little foot over there had this story of the engagement party the friend the friend of the groom
That was important friend of the groom came and she was complaining about her breakup at the engagement party
And got drunk and everyone felt comfortable. Yeah, it's made up all about her so major asshole behavior
So she was the asshole. Yeah, 100% next up was the true off my chest novel of the
The couple and the one lady getting ghosted essentially and yeah, that was a crazy long story
Could have been fake not really sure
With your story was the fake
No, no, no, no, this was good. No yours was good. Yeah, that's right. It was it was the
The boy that was like getting pressured by the girls family to be the baby daddy. Yeah, it wasn't the baby daddy
Well, like step in and step in and be the dad. Yeah, man up
That was crazy. Everyone sucks in that story. No, not the guy
But I just don't know any server he's serving our country and now I forgot. Thank you for your service, sir. Yeah
Yeah, but that was a no
You don't just it's not just adopted dad. Yeah, I know I choose you
You seem like a good person
With benefits and you've been crushing on my daughter for ever. Yeah, like you're a perfect guy
Arranged marriage
No, but that was yours mine was mine was the the couple that found out that they were cheating on each other
Funny yes our reaction to that if you guys are listening you only listen on the podcast
Please go to our YouTube and watch the episode. So who had the fake?
Either Marley or Joe, I think so too
I'm I kind of thinking Marley too until I remembered that it was me
I guess Marley last week so I was wrong less freakin go. That was hilarious. Thank you
I wish that was true
Has happened but like
She on you
You
Know the spider-man meme no that there's like four spiders and they're all like
That's it but in their bedroom. Oh, I didn't mean it like that
Well, I think whoever was cheating with the hotter person deserves up the house
That's how they should measure it. I cheated better. I cheated up. I cheated. Yeah, who cheated on that?
You downgraded. You got a loser. You couldn't even find someone better than me. That's embarrassing. It's terrible
Anyhow, wait to be the fake. I'm excited to see this sequence all about
Am I the asshole am I the asshole for telling my sister her son is only special to her
Let's let's get into it I
Female 26 have three older siblings. This is about my oldest sister Abby who's f37
Abby has a son who's five and I have a daughter who's one
Abby dealt with years of fertility issues and had probably 10 plus miscarriages
Sucky then she had her son and of course he was Abby's miracle rainbow baby
We were so happy for her
But then it leads to Abby spoiling her son and letting him get away with everything because he's a miracle and he's special
Everyone has always bit their tongue when it comes to her son because of that
On Saturday, I had my daughter's first birthday party. It was mostly family and a few of my close friends were invited
I invited Abby and her son because everyone else in our family was invited. So I felt bad excluding her
We had different activities for the kids to do Abby's son didn't like any of them
He was upset. None of the presents were for him. He didn't want to eat any of the food
We had he then decided to try and push the cake off the table because apparently he was mad the cake wasn't his I
Got super upset at Abby for allowing her son to act that way. She went on to say her son is special
I said her son is only special to her which is understandable
But to everyone else he's a spoiled brat which shouldn't be overlooked because he was your special miracle baby
Abby called me a and left crying a
Few family members have since called me an asshole because I've never dealt with the miscarriage
So I don't understand how painful it was for Abby to deal with years of that before her son
It's not that I don't realize her son is special to her
But it doesn't give the excuse for Abby to allow him to act like a spoiled brat
She is not
She did a good thing. I
Think Abby is the worst
Like parent your kid. Yeah
Like put a
Put a leash on her
Okay, wait, Abby which one's Abby again the mom of the special kid. Yes, so you guys think Abby's the asshole. Yes. Oh
My gosh
Let's think about this though. What parent?
Doesn't just for the most part let their kid do what they want
But you guys don't hurt this right, but it's someone's birthday party
Pushing the cake over being pissed off at the the presents like real zero. Oh my gosh
Why he pushed the cake over
And she's just like letting it all happen
Yeah, I don't know. Okay. I mean it probably could have been handled a little bit differently
But that no, but think about it. This is like five years of buildup where it's just like
The kid gets away with murder. Yeah, and it's just like dude your kid is not all
All that our kids are equal
And it doesn't say that he is like special needs which would make it very different like if he was like
If behaviorally he wasn't like up to parties just five. Yeah, and he's not getting the instruction that he needs as a five-year-old
Yeah, right like is she just let him do anything because he came from the clouds. He's a miracle
Well, and he is a miracle
Yeah, like I think that maybe that's why I'm a soft spot in my heart for her Abby is
Because of the infertility and the miscarriages like I've experienced that so I
Feel like I'm a soft spot in my heart for however
I also have a three-year-old and I definitely would be livid if she tried to push another kid's birthday cake over
so
Another thing though is like
I've seen
people close to me on like how they parent and
I don't agree with it all the time, but I have never ever ever text any of them or confronted any of them with like
This is what I think about your parenting and your kid
So I think that's a hard thing. I would not like someone coming at me on how I parent
So I I don't know I have a little bit of soft spot for her. There's conflict
I guess yeah, I guess that's true where there's I'm not a mom unwanted contention
But still I'm sure this is something that's just built up and just think it's still it's still
Ops, it's her son's first birthday
Yeah, that's a big daughter. She almost didn't even invite them
But she only felt obligated because everybody else was gonna be there. So like she really must be like
She's already like turned off to like she already knew that that was probably what was gonna happen
But couldn't not invite them. That's true. That sucks. They're not friends
And Abby, but I'm sorry for anyone that has the name Abby, but
Usually Abby's don't do have a little attitude. You know what? It's true. That is true
I have every abby in the world coming out perfect, of course they are because they have attitude
Yeah, exactly. No Marley's are gonna be texting us
We're not mad at you
Not mad at you. No, I'm just saying I'm just saying your name has a very stare big stereotype to me and a lot of time
It comes true
Okay, well, we'll see if the comments, you know match up to me Abby see what happens
Here's here's the number one comment you guys ready for it from Abby. I
Didn't see any from her, but maybe I could look harder. No, it says so I've dealt with multiple miscarriages and do understand the pain
still not the asshole
So for a little bit of perspective, it's like yeah, the
It's two separate things her
Miscarrying that is hard ache that you wouldn't wish upon your worst enemy. That's the worst
However, when you have a child and it's five and it and he's five
And he's at a birthday party and you're not parenting. Yeah, you are the asshole
Yeah, you have to parent your children or your one child no matter how special
Yeah, yeah, and this isn't like this isn't like we're saying she's the asshole for life
This is just like for a stupid
Situation that this is the dumbest little situation that happened and maybe she's
Awesome
Yeah, all the time except this one time
Yeah, and I will say because I do know parenting is hard. Yes, so it's not to say that like
Yeah, I don't know she actually she doesn't deserve too much slack because at a birthday party
You're on Hyler
Prevent the problems. Yeah, she might not be a permanent asshole for the rest of her life
But she's the asshole of this situation and she might just be a vacant parent
Who knows it didn't even say anything about a father. Yeah
No dads in this story, but I could play a factor there
True
That could play a factor confession. I've been secretly collecting my wife's hair and others
Oh, no
He's getting it from the shower drain for sure. Oh, did you write this? Oh my gosh, okay
Joe site 69
I
Never thought I would find myself in this situation, but here I am I
Have a dark and twisted secret that I can no longer keep hidden
Not only have I been collecting my wife's hair without her knowing
I've also developed an obsession with hair in general leading me to cross lines that I never thought I would
I
Insane it all started with my wife's hair
I would find her strands of hair on the shower wall and begin to play with it the length the texture the
Samella this guy's a freak. I can't get enough of it
As my obsession grew I found myself drawn to other people's hair as well
It's as if I can't resist the urge to possess a part of them in this unsettling way
Now when I visit friends or family, I can't help but make my way to their bathrooms
I secretly take the hair out of the brushes and pocket it
Yeah, the thrill of obtaining these forbidden trophies is intoxicating
But the guilt and shame that follow are suffocating
I have found the perfect hiding spot for my collection, but there's always a fear that my wife will find it
I store all the hair I've collected over the years neatly organized in labeled bags
Where are the bags?
I know how twisted my actions are and I'm terrified of the person I have become
The thought of confessing this to my wife to admit that I have violated not only her trust
But the privacy of others as well fills me with dread. How can I explain the sick compulsion that has taken hold of me?
How can I ask for forgiveness when I don't even understand the depths of it?
I know I need to seek help and confront this darkness within me, but before it consumes me entirely
I am desperate for guidance for a way to make amends and hopefully find redemption
If anyone out there has experienced something similar or can offer support in this darkest of confessions
I beg you to share your wisdom. Oh
My gosh, wow
Wow, wow, wow little hair boy little hairball boy this dude. He's like a he's like a cat
It's not advice what you give this man. I
Mean if you're gonna have an addiction this isn't like a terrible one to have like there's worse there is absolutely
And it's not like he's like
You know cutting it off people's hair and things like that. He just goes to their bathrooms grabs him out of their brush
Or the shower wall. Yeah
Every serial killer starts somewhere. Yes, it's weird stuff like that. It's a slippery slope
So I've heard
Oh
I know couldn't couldn't be me. No those hairs you put on the wall. They stay there. Yeah, what is that?
What why do girls put it like just
You're trying to like save the dream as much as you can yeah
So you just pull like a huge wall like I just every time I go to the shower
I like look to my left and it's just like
Do just more like just DNA of a crime like what?
Don't trash as a big foot you just forget you just forget to do it sometimes. Yeah all the time
Days and days are just cuz there's no way I will ever touch that
Oh, it will stay there. Yeah, well, I'm just okay, but there's literally okay
There's like girls on tiktok that are famous for like collecting all the hairs that they've lost like
Getting them all neat and then like putting them on tape and like collecting it and it's like
Wait, why are you watching that? No, I know it literally it's real guys red. It's about you. No, it's not
No, it's not okay. Let's go back to the story. What the hell?
Hey, and then I don't think there's much to say about do you think he's like a bad guy for hiding the secret or do you think it's
Probably wise he's not I just think it's really freaking weird. I don't think he's a bad guy
Yeah, I think it's just really weird. It's very weird to that. He's like I
Love it. I have this magnetism to doing it
I need it in my life, but I feel all this guilt and shame and I'm a horrible person
Yeah, but this dark desire inside me. How do I stop it from but I need I need help
I need to go to therapy, but I don't want to
It's like I mean
Yes, you just put it all out there on the post. Oh my gosh, I
Feel bad for the wife like the fact the wife doesn't know like I would hope I would catch on to that
She's just thinking
You're a freak what like I feel like it's worse though
Like he just needs to tell her rather than her find bags and bags of hair
She's gonna be like are these like girls you've murdered
Like that's what I would think I'd be like
Maybe that that's the start yeah, so I do have a comment
So there's like the top comments so this one says
Wow, this is truly chilling it takes a lot of courage to come forward with something like this
I would strongly recommend seeking professional help to address these compulsions and work towards understanding the root cause of this obsession
Your wife deserves honesty and transparency and it's never too late to seek help and make amends
And I feel like that is very well worded
Yeah, true
Like the fact none of us talked about like him seeking therapy is kind of funny. He's a lost cause bro
Sorry, you can't come back from that. It's not like a collection of like football cards. It's like it's and it's like it's other people's
What he's going he's going to Sunday dinner. He's like where's my mother in law?
I
Don't have I don't have Teresa's hair in a bag somewhere
But he might have Brooks, but I
Scared never know I'm scared. Sure. I have Kenny's
The great silver bowl of the silver fox, baby. Okay. Do you want to hear the update? Yes?
gosh, okay, oh
Gosh, oh
My gosh, that's so crazy. Oh, no
I
Told my wife the half truth. I told her I collected her hair and only hers
She was extremely shocked and what was wasn't able to grasp what I was saying
She became super angry with me because I wasn't answering the hard questions. She was asking
After hours of fighting I caved. I told her where I was hiding her hair
I didn't say anything about the others and as soon as she went to look I left. I know she has seen now
All of my collection it's been two days and I haven't heard from her. I'm so scared. What should I do?
Okay, okay, wait wait wait wait wait wait wait
I think it would have been better if he didn't label them if he didn't like it
It was just like a wad of hair that like was a collection of everybody's I feel like that would be better
But the fact that he like organized it all like that is so weird
It is so weird. It's such a red flag and like think about like what if it was like one of her best friends hair?
Yeah, like you would think like
It's like no guys hair really gets stuck in a brush unless as long like it's probably the majority of all those were women
That's freaking like her family friends
His family like you if anyone has an obsession of hair to this extent
Listening, let us know let us know please write in and say what you've done to like try and heal
that
If you have any advice or if you're just or has it escalated?
Yeah, if anybody else it's a listener has put other people's hair and ziploc bags and alphabetize them in the pantry
Let us know we'd love to hear from you
We won't shame you what you're here. Yeah, we all are here. I got all this that I could help you get
You can grab on the mine on the you know
I could sell it to you. I'll sell it to you. That's the right or left
The right is right here though. You're right or left
Like if he's sitting here, he's grabbing my left ponytail and her right
Yeah, I'm right you're wrong. It's his but it's still be your right and her left bang
Look at look at how we're both right you're both right in the situation Marley everybody I am right
Anyways, so that's the update. What do you think the wife's gonna do? Do you think she's gonna leave him?
Well, she she go really? Yes
That's the making of a serial killer, so she's not gone
She should be or she's gonna be on an episode of 2020
Oh, dang a fake episode generated by chat GPT. I feel like she's going to lose her mind call cops
No, I actually maybe
She probably I think she's probably thinking that he's murdered these girls. Yeah
Like I feel like that's what she's trying to figure out exactly where my head would go
I would like that. I think that's like second to underwear. Oh
Oh, that's second to underwear. I got prefer underwear over hair just getting absolutely not definitely
absolutely not like hair
Stop making this about me
Stop collecting hair
She you know your gut keep collecting you can collect all you want. I'm gonna stick the baseball cards. Yeah, that's where I did
Am I the asshole for refusing to pay my son's mom to watch him
My son's mom to watch him you guys are both doing mental math immediately
Follow mom they're divorced
She's the mom. He's the dad. Oh
And he has to pay her to watch their child
Wait, I know it's going now. I know my son's mom son's mom. Oh
And he's the dad. Okay. I got it. Yeah, yeah, well, we're off to a great start
Okay, I separated for my seven-year-old son
Sean's mom Amber
We have 50 50 custody our custody agreement have several provisions about who pays for what I am on the hook for childcare
We did have a babysitter a sitter for the last few years
But he said that he was moving back home in January would obviously not be available after that the fact that he's a guy
I know like never heard of a dude babysitter. Yeah me either, but it's like a son
But honestly, I would do it right now because I have zero money. So
So he's moving not available and so says and Amber and I both have agreed on a lot of things including his sitter
So neither she nor I can unilaterally Wow
That was great
Okay, I can unilaterally hire someone to watch him
We were discussing the matter and she found someone to replace our sitter her boyfriend Jesse
He moved in with Amber and they've been together for a couple of years
She said that he works from home and would love to spend time with Sean
I said if is he expecting to be paid?
She said of course and the same amount as our current babysitter twenty eight dollars an hour
You should get a big job geez I said absolutely not I do not know him well enough
And I suspect this more about my paying your boyfriend to watch our kid than finding a proper sitter
I don't know how he drives. I don't feel comfortable with him giving him a bath. I don't know how reliable he is
I don't even know if he wants to do it
There are other things about him that I'm not comfortable with and I pay our sitter good money because he's worth it and has a good relationship with our son
Plus he he and I have known each other for like 30 years
We met in middle school and I would never start a sitter at twenty eight dollars an hour
Also, I'm not cool with anyone getting paid to watch my kid while on the clock for another job
The whole idea pissed me off. We got into an argument about it. They weren't trying to double dip on me
They both think I'm rich and they are having money issues
We've been fighting over it. So I said that I'll take over babysitter stuff
I to work from home and will make it work
She said she didn't want me in her house and that she accused me of trying to save money
I said no, this is about you trying to make money off watching our kid. I told her I'm not discussing this until
November because I got heated and we have a sitter for another four months
Just yesterday
She asked if I'd be open to compromise of her being the sitter on days or times when I have Sean but need a sitter
I said, are you expecting me to pay you? She said yes
I told her no and she has to drop this ambition of getting paid to watch her own kid
She said she could take unpaid time off work and that's why she was suggesting it. She sucks. She blows. Yeah, listen
Here's the thing
The mom trying to make money babysitting her own child
That's that's insane and listen like you fall on hard times. I get it
Good like get a side hustle do something else being poor sucks. I know
so
Like shout out to the poor that sucks
but also like you birth that child and you're trying to profit off of its existence by
Watching it and getting $28 an hour
You're out of your mind lady and you're an asshole and your boyfriend sucks
The boyfriend probably doesn't actually have a job
Like he probably doesn't work from home
She's just saying that so that he can baby, but that would make it
Better if he didn't have a job because then he wouldn't be getting paid for his at-home job
While also getting paid to watch the kid at the same time
So he doesn't have an at-home job. That's what I'm trying to say
I know but like that would probably make his case a little bit better if he didn't have a job and like
It's the fact that he's trying to double dip. Yeah
Yeah, and the fact that they're saying that they don't want to double dip like 100% you are and you want to
It's poor kid. You know, it's like mom. You want to watch me for money. Mom. Can you just be with me?
So sad he never finds that out
I feel like as a divorced couple and you have to watch your kids. Okay, only for $28. 50% 50%
You should be like dying to have them be with you again. Yeah, and if you get remarried
There's also step kids that get outed most likely and you're not getting paid to watch your step kids either
My family came to visit me and expected us to pay for everything
Truff my chest. I'm so hurt by the lack of effort and consideration by my brother and his family after they had just visited
I just want to vent
My brother and his wife and daughter five year old just came to visit me before they got here
We stocked up on all the essentials and stuff for meals
They got around dinner time and everyone was pretty tired. So we all got ready for bed after that
I have two kids of my own ages male four and female eight the following day
We hung out around our house eating most meals at home
We went out for dinner and they did pay for that as a way to thank us for hosting
We of course thanked them and said how nice it was for them to do that. We hung around our house eating most meals at home
We went out for dinner and they did pay for that as a way to thank us for hosting
We of course thanked them and said how nice it was for them to do that on the way home
I bought drinks for everyone for hanging out the next night. We went out to dinner again this time we paid the bill
It was obvious that we paid but they did not thank us or even say anything about it on the way home
I bought some more drinks for everyone again. They bought ice cream for themselves
Day three we hosted a big get-together to welcome them to see old friends
It was expensive as we provided drinks and dinner for everyone
We did not expect them to pay for any of this as we were the ones who decided to have the gathering
The following day they kept ringing up how they needed some specific food for their kid
We waited around for a good time to go to the store together
I was going to go with my brother figuring we would split the total his wife then suggested I go by myself
I thought maybe they would pay me back when I got home
On my way out my sister-in-law says white claws so I buy them drinks again
When I get home when I got home they didn't ask about the cost or anything and didn't even help put stuff away
I should also mention that they did not help to cook or clean other than they did the dishes one time
But with seven people you can imagine how many dishes there are the next day was pretty much the same thing
I bought it and prepared and cooked everything then cleaned it all up
I also took them to and from the airport, which is an hour's drive
My brother did end up giving my husband some cash around $80 saying that was all they could afford right now
I just felt taken advantage of it was clear that they did it on purpose
I know that they're saving up for something right now and yes, we do make more than them
However, it just feels like our hospitality was taken for granted
There in their late 30s
I have never stayed at someone's house and expected them to pay for nearly everything when I was young
Sorry, this was long. I probably won't ask them for any money
But I'll be very on the fence about hosting them again. Also. Yes, there was a lot of alcohol, but we were all on vacation
Oh my gosh. I feel like the communication this family has is so bad though
Yeah, like I feel like if it's getting to that point where you feel like, okay, they're not like
They're not putting in their like they're not making an effort to like
Pay their way. I would literally just be like, hey, so the the bill is 80 bucks. Just demo me 40
Yeah
And on then on the other side it would be like let's say like financially they were struggling lowkey
You just have to communicate that and be like
Hey, like we're not going to be able to like go out to eat somewhere expensive because we can't really afford it
Right. I don't know like can we get fast food or you guys got to eat? We're just gonna grab fast food
Yeah, I don't know. I feel like the communication on both sides were so bad. Yeah 100% agree
There's there's etiquette and it's like it's not rocket science. It's kind of the implied thing here is like
If you ask somebody to pick something up at the store for you in your mind, you know that that costs money
Yeah
And so it's like hey grab a pack of white claws
Like oh, yeah grab this grab these frozen pancakes for my daughter
It's like I'm I will I'll Venmo you 10 bucks right now. It's like that's just an understood
Or take my card
Like if I'm gonna send you alone take my card like and it's like no you just go my husband will stay
You go get the food for our daughter
The biggest thing was it was the sister-in-law that told the other girl you go alone and get everything. Yeah, yeah, exactly
That's
She knew what she was doing. Oh, she definitely knew
Yeah
She definitely is the cheap one of the two
For sure
And it's it what you said about communication is key because
Like you can't just you can't just show up at somebody's house like if we're hosting somebody
Yeah, and I'm just like I'm going out and doing all the shopping
I wouldn't expect anybody to pay me back
But it's the fact that it's compounding days and that you're expecting like gratitude for the generosity
You're expecting them to say thank you if you bought them dinner or whatever
And if they're in a position where like at they're in their late 30s or whatever and they're making good money
Like it's not the money. It's just the fact that they feel taken for granted
Like I know you're broke, but you can say thank you
Basic manners. Yeah, do you think they weren't saying thank you because they were just trying to avoid the topic altogether?
Doesn't matter probably it doesn't matter. I'm just and they probably felt awkward a little bit too like we know
What we're doing is wrong. So let's try to keep it as low key as possible
I also was thinking too like I know when I go and visit people like I am
Like spending money on like the travel airfare gas or whatever. Were they traveling far to visit him?
Does it say or at least like
Am I on the right track there? Like they could have thought that like
Okay, we'll spend all the money on getting us there and by that point you guys take care of us. Yeah, I don't know
Still it's not which is wrong. Yeah
And that's like I feel like for that to be the case. You're almost assuming that they're like
It's paying for your presence like I'm gonna I'm gonna spend money to vacation
But I'm gonna stay at your house and you have to repay me by buying me alcohol because I paid for my plane ticket
it's like
If you
Wow big take right here actually what?
So how much did the white claws and kids food cost more than $80 question mark
It sounds like you all went out to eat twice each paid for the other ones so far so even
That's
That's a bold comment. No, but it's all the drinks
I think it was because they're they're they did the shopping for all the food they ate at the house at the house and
One time going out idle. It's not that comment
It's no, but then the person says you did host so like when you eat out
Yes, you'd split bill, but you like when you're eating at the house
Yeah, it's not like they're gonna go bring their own groceries. I would never yeah
Someone's coming to visit me. I'm buying groceries and stuff and I wouldn't be like, hey, this was a hundred dollars
Them owe me 15. You can eat out of my fridge
Yeah, that's the thing is like so people are like that
Well, I won't be visiting people like that and they can't visit me right actually
They'll love it because I'll have a stock full fridge and say go for it
Don't send me any money
Do not Venmo me
Drink all the white claws by the way, I'm gonna Venmo you for for drinking my white claws
Let me pay for your airfare. Yeah, I'm gonna split the cost of airfare with you. Here you go
Plus tip
Who do you tip?
I'm gonna tip you for being here and being a being good company
The and for eating all my food can I have some hair?
Where's the hairbrushes? I just want your hairbrushes, please
Plus your mom's and your mom's new dogs, you're you know
What where are you going with that?
I do it's crazy. It's so crazy because like no one knows what you're saying. I know
Everyone on the podcast they can only just hear this. They know
You'll never know they go to the youtube and watch that whole little
Oh, okay, who's the fake though like just like a little just a little
Could have been could have been
Is he over there a little is as a boy?
Only because that's the longest post you've ever brought besides the first one which was a fakey
Just a thought
Could have been marlies
Could have been yours. What was yours again, Joe? I just so forget. Yeah, wait hold on
Oh, you guys don't remember mine
What was it?
It was
Am I the asshole for telling my sister her son is only special to her
Oh, yeah, that's a real story. I feel like that's normal. That is yeah that happens in every family in America
America
I think it's between you two right here the two the two females two girly pops
frenzy
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