1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,480 Gang welcome back. Let's go welcome back to internet frenzy. Let's freaking go yay 2 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:12,260 We love her. We love her. We are we are here to be her 3 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:20,640 Who who is it they them I 4 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:29,080 Think that's it just we just us we are ready. We're ready to rock 5 00:00:32,940 --> 00:00:37,540 Okay, okay, okay, so let's hit let's hit it with a quick recap right to start 6 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:45,480 So little foot over there had this story of the engagement party the friend the friend of the groom 7 00:00:45,480 --> 00:00:50,180 That was important friend of the groom came and she was complaining about her breakup at the engagement party 8 00:00:50,180 --> 00:00:56,280 And got drunk and everyone felt comfortable. Yeah, it's made up all about her so major asshole behavior 9 00:00:56,280 --> 00:01:03,400 So she was the asshole. Yeah, 100% next up was the true off my chest novel of the 10 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:11,640 The couple and the one lady getting ghosted essentially and yeah, that was a crazy long story 11 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:14,720 Could have been fake not really sure 12 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:18,180 With your story was the fake 13 00:01:18,180 --> 00:01:24,000 No, no, no, no, this was good. No yours was good. Yeah, that's right. It was it was the 14 00:01:25,620 --> 00:01:32,600 The boy that was like getting pressured by the girls family to be the baby daddy. Yeah, it wasn't the baby daddy 15 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:38,440 Well, like step in and step in and be the dad. Yeah, man up 16 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:42,860 That was crazy. Everyone sucks in that story. No, not the guy 17 00:01:42,860 --> 00:01:49,580 But I just don't know any server he's serving our country and now I forgot. Thank you for your service, sir. Yeah 18 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:52,180 Yeah, but that was a no 19 00:01:52,180 --> 00:01:57,560 You don't just it's not just adopted dad. Yeah, I know I choose you 20 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:00,160 You seem like a good person 21 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:07,660 With benefits and you've been crushing on my daughter for ever. Yeah, like you're a perfect guy 22 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:11,280 Arranged marriage 23 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:18,380 No, but that was yours mine was mine was the the couple that found out that they were cheating on each other 24 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:26,520 Funny yes our reaction to that if you guys are listening you only listen on the podcast 25 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:30,880 Please go to our YouTube and watch the episode. So who had the fake? 26 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:35,860 Either Marley or Joe, I think so too 27 00:02:35,860 --> 00:02:41,020 I'm I kind of thinking Marley too until I remembered that it was me 28 00:02:42,940 --> 00:02:48,580 I guess Marley last week so I was wrong less freakin go. That was hilarious. Thank you 29 00:02:50,500 --> 00:02:52,500 I wish that was true 30 00:02:54,340 --> 00:02:56,340 Has happened but like 31 00:02:57,260 --> 00:02:59,260 She on you 32 00:02:59,260 --> 00:03:01,260 You 33 00:03:05,260 --> 00:03:09,260 Know the spider-man meme no that there's like four spiders and they're all like 34 00:03:10,180 --> 00:03:15,500 That's it but in their bedroom. Oh, I didn't mean it like that 35 00:03:15,620 --> 00:03:20,940 Well, I think whoever was cheating with the hotter person deserves up the house 36 00:03:20,940 --> 00:03:29,020 That's how they should measure it. I cheated better. I cheated up. I cheated. Yeah, who cheated on that? 37 00:03:29,020 --> 00:03:35,740 You downgraded. You got a loser. You couldn't even find someone better than me. That's embarrassing. It's terrible 38 00:03:35,740 --> 00:03:51,140 Anyhow, wait to be the fake. I'm excited to see this sequence all about 39 00:03:55,460 --> 00:04:02,100 Am I the asshole am I the asshole for telling my sister her son is only special to her 40 00:04:02,100 --> 00:04:09,380 Let's let's get into it I 41 00:04:11,580 --> 00:04:17,420 Female 26 have three older siblings. This is about my oldest sister Abby who's f37 42 00:04:17,420 --> 00:04:20,540 Abby has a son who's five and I have a daughter who's one 43 00:04:21,060 --> 00:04:25,940 Abby dealt with years of fertility issues and had probably 10 plus miscarriages 44 00:04:25,940 --> 00:04:32,580 Sucky then she had her son and of course he was Abby's miracle rainbow baby 45 00:04:32,580 --> 00:04:33,900 We were so happy for her 46 00:04:33,900 --> 00:04:39,740 But then it leads to Abby spoiling her son and letting him get away with everything because he's a miracle and he's special 47 00:04:40,340 --> 00:04:43,500 Everyone has always bit their tongue when it comes to her son because of that 48 00:04:43,980 --> 00:04:50,300 On Saturday, I had my daughter's first birthday party. It was mostly family and a few of my close friends were invited 49 00:04:50,300 --> 00:04:55,380 I invited Abby and her son because everyone else in our family was invited. So I felt bad excluding her 50 00:04:55,380 --> 00:04:59,540 We had different activities for the kids to do Abby's son didn't like any of them 51 00:04:59,660 --> 00:05:03,540 He was upset. None of the presents were for him. He didn't want to eat any of the food 52 00:05:03,540 --> 00:05:09,820 We had he then decided to try and push the cake off the table because apparently he was mad the cake wasn't his I 53 00:05:10,300 --> 00:05:15,100 Got super upset at Abby for allowing her son to act that way. She went on to say her son is special 54 00:05:15,100 --> 00:05:18,540 I said her son is only special to her which is understandable 55 00:05:18,620 --> 00:05:24,200 But to everyone else he's a spoiled brat which shouldn't be overlooked because he was your special miracle baby 56 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:26,960 Abby called me a and left crying a 57 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:32,800 Few family members have since called me an asshole because I've never dealt with the miscarriage 58 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:36,960 So I don't understand how painful it was for Abby to deal with years of that before her son 59 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:39,520 It's not that I don't realize her son is special to her 60 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:43,240 But it doesn't give the excuse for Abby to allow him to act like a spoiled brat 61 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:45,560 She is not 62 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:47,560 She did a good thing. I 63 00:05:48,280 --> 00:05:50,280 Think Abby is the worst 64 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:52,560 Like parent your kid. Yeah 65 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:54,560 Like put a 66 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:56,680 Put a leash on her 67 00:05:57,360 --> 00:06:04,480 Okay, wait, Abby which one's Abby again the mom of the special kid. Yes, so you guys think Abby's the asshole. Yes. Oh 68 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:07,280 My gosh 69 00:06:07,280 --> 00:06:09,840 Let's think about this though. What parent? 70 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:15,800 Doesn't just for the most part let their kid do what they want 71 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:19,280 But you guys don't hurt this right, but it's someone's birthday party 72 00:06:19,280 --> 00:06:25,180 Pushing the cake over being pissed off at the the presents like real zero. Oh my gosh 73 00:06:25,180 --> 00:06:27,180 Why he pushed the cake over 74 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:31,040 And she's just like letting it all happen 75 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:36,160 Yeah, I don't know. Okay. I mean it probably could have been handled a little bit differently 76 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:41,440 But that no, but think about it. This is like five years of buildup where it's just like 77 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:47,920 The kid gets away with murder. Yeah, and it's just like dude your kid is not all 78 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:50,280 All that our kids are equal 79 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:57,040 And it doesn't say that he is like special needs which would make it very different like if he was like 80 00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:04,640 If behaviorally he wasn't like up to parties just five. Yeah, and he's not getting the instruction that he needs as a five-year-old 81 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:10,400 Yeah, right like is she just let him do anything because he came from the clouds. He's a miracle 82 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:12,560 Well, and he is a miracle 83 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:18,400 Yeah, like I think that maybe that's why I'm a soft spot in my heart for her Abby is 84 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:23,760 Because of the infertility and the miscarriages like I've experienced that so I 85 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:26,920 Feel like I'm a soft spot in my heart for however 86 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:34,260 I also have a three-year-old and I definitely would be livid if she tried to push another kid's birthday cake over 87 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:36,760 so 88 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:38,760 Another thing though is like 89 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:40,600 I've seen 90 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:42,840 people close to me on like how they parent and 91 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:50,160 I don't agree with it all the time, but I have never ever ever text any of them or confronted any of them with like 92 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:53,520 This is what I think about your parenting and your kid 93 00:07:54,040 --> 00:08:01,000 So I think that's a hard thing. I would not like someone coming at me on how I parent 94 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:06,280 So I I don't know I have a little bit of soft spot for her. There's conflict 95 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:11,520 I guess yeah, I guess that's true where there's I'm not a mom unwanted contention 96 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:17,440 But still I'm sure this is something that's just built up and just think it's still it's still 97 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:21,280 Ops, it's her son's first birthday 98 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:25,600 Yeah, that's a big daughter. She almost didn't even invite them 99 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:31,480 But she only felt obligated because everybody else was gonna be there. So like she really must be like 100 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:37,320 She's already like turned off to like she already knew that that was probably what was gonna happen 101 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:41,120 But couldn't not invite them. That's true. That sucks. They're not friends 102 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:46,120 And Abby, but I'm sorry for anyone that has the name Abby, but 103 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:53,280 Usually Abby's don't do have a little attitude. You know what? It's true. That is true 104 00:08:53,280 --> 00:09:00,600 I have every abby in the world coming out perfect, of course they are because they have attitude 105 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:04,360 Yeah, exactly. No Marley's are gonna be texting us 106 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:09,120 We're not mad at you 107 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:17,960 Not mad at you. No, I'm just saying I'm just saying your name has a very stare big stereotype to me and a lot of time 108 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:19,960 It comes true 109 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:25,600 Okay, well, we'll see if the comments, you know match up to me Abby see what happens 110 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:30,360 Here's here's the number one comment you guys ready for it from Abby. I 111 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:38,880 Didn't see any from her, but maybe I could look harder. No, it says so I've dealt with multiple miscarriages and do understand the pain 112 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:41,160 still not the asshole 113 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:46,600 So for a little bit of perspective, it's like yeah, the 114 00:09:46,600 --> 00:09:49,080 It's two separate things her 115 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:55,240 Miscarrying that is hard ache that you wouldn't wish upon your worst enemy. That's the worst 116 00:09:56,480 --> 00:10:01,800 However, when you have a child and it's five and it and he's five 117 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:07,560 And he's at a birthday party and you're not parenting. Yeah, you are the asshole 118 00:10:07,560 --> 00:10:12,960 Yeah, you have to parent your children or your one child no matter how special 119 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:19,800 Yeah, yeah, and this isn't like this isn't like we're saying she's the asshole for life 120 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:22,320 This is just like for a stupid 121 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:28,480 Situation that this is the dumbest little situation that happened and maybe she's 122 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:30,080 Awesome 123 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:32,080 Yeah, all the time except this one time 124 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:39,000 Yeah, and I will say because I do know parenting is hard. Yes, so it's not to say that like 125 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:44,960 Yeah, I don't know she actually she doesn't deserve too much slack because at a birthday party 126 00:10:45,680 --> 00:10:47,360 You're on Hyler 127 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:52,240 Prevent the problems. Yeah, she might not be a permanent asshole for the rest of her life 128 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:59,240 But she's the asshole of this situation and she might just be a vacant parent 129 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:03,960 Who knows it didn't even say anything about a father. Yeah 130 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:07,640 No dads in this story, but I could play a factor there 131 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:09,280 True 132 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:16,160 That could play a factor confession. I've been secretly collecting my wife's hair and others 133 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:20,640 Oh, no 134 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:30,120 He's getting it from the shower drain for sure. Oh, did you write this? Oh my gosh, okay 135 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:34,120 Joe site 69 136 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:36,120 I 137 00:11:42,280 --> 00:11:46,360 Never thought I would find myself in this situation, but here I am I 138 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:50,320 Have a dark and twisted secret that I can no longer keep hidden 139 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:54,240 Not only have I been collecting my wife's hair without her knowing 140 00:11:54,400 --> 00:12:00,040 I've also developed an obsession with hair in general leading me to cross lines that I never thought I would 141 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:02,040 I 142 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:05,680 Insane it all started with my wife's hair 143 00:12:05,680 --> 00:12:12,280 I would find her strands of hair on the shower wall and begin to play with it the length the texture the 144 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:16,720 Samella this guy's a freak. I can't get enough of it 145 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:27,920 As my obsession grew I found myself drawn to other people's hair as well 146 00:12:27,920 --> 00:12:32,800 It's as if I can't resist the urge to possess a part of them in this unsettling way 147 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:38,800 Now when I visit friends or family, I can't help but make my way to their bathrooms 148 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:42,840 I secretly take the hair out of the brushes and pocket it 149 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:48,240 Yeah, the thrill of obtaining these forbidden trophies is intoxicating 150 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:51,400 But the guilt and shame that follow are suffocating 151 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:56,960 I have found the perfect hiding spot for my collection, but there's always a fear that my wife will find it 152 00:12:56,960 --> 00:13:01,880 I store all the hair I've collected over the years neatly organized in labeled bags 153 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:06,400 Where are the bags? 154 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:19,720 I know how twisted my actions are and I'm terrified of the person I have become 155 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:24,880 The thought of confessing this to my wife to admit that I have violated not only her trust 156 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:31,040 But the privacy of others as well fills me with dread. How can I explain the sick compulsion that has taken hold of me? 157 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:34,280 How can I ask for forgiveness when I don't even understand the depths of it? 158 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:39,360 I know I need to seek help and confront this darkness within me, but before it consumes me entirely 159 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:44,080 I am desperate for guidance for a way to make amends and hopefully find redemption 160 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:50,720 If anyone out there has experienced something similar or can offer support in this darkest of confessions 161 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:52,720 I beg you to share your wisdom. Oh 162 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:57,040 My gosh, wow 163 00:13:57,560 --> 00:14:04,160 Wow, wow, wow little hair boy little hairball boy this dude. He's like a he's like a cat 164 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:06,560 It's not advice what you give this man. I 165 00:14:08,320 --> 00:14:14,120 Mean if you're gonna have an addiction this isn't like a terrible one to have like there's worse there is absolutely 166 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:16,640 And it's not like he's like 167 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:22,200 You know cutting it off people's hair and things like that. He just goes to their bathrooms grabs him out of their brush 168 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:24,920 Or the shower wall. Yeah 169 00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:31,440 Every serial killer starts somewhere. Yes, it's weird stuff like that. It's a slippery slope 170 00:14:32,520 --> 00:14:34,520 So I've heard 171 00:14:35,920 --> 00:14:37,920 Oh 172 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:47,960 I know couldn't couldn't be me. No those hairs you put on the wall. They stay there. Yeah, what is that? 173 00:14:47,960 --> 00:14:49,960 What why do girls put it like just 174 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:56,000 You're trying to like save the dream as much as you can yeah 175 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:58,960 So you just pull like a huge wall like I just every time I go to the shower 176 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:00,960 I like look to my left and it's just like 177 00:15:00,960 --> 00:15:07,640 Do just more like just DNA of a crime like what? 178 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:14,160 Don't trash as a big foot you just forget you just forget to do it sometimes. Yeah all the time 179 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:21,780 Days and days are just cuz there's no way I will ever touch that 180 00:15:21,780 --> 00:15:28,020 Oh, it will stay there. Yeah, well, I'm just okay, but there's literally okay 181 00:15:28,020 --> 00:15:33,540 There's like girls on tiktok that are famous for like collecting all the hairs that they've lost like 182 00:15:34,020 --> 00:15:39,180 Getting them all neat and then like putting them on tape and like collecting it and it's like 183 00:15:43,620 --> 00:15:51,140 Wait, why are you watching that? No, I know it literally it's real guys red. It's about you. No, it's not 184 00:15:51,140 --> 00:15:54,860 No, it's not okay. Let's go back to the story. What the hell? 185 00:15:56,940 --> 00:16:03,180 Hey, and then I don't think there's much to say about do you think he's like a bad guy for hiding the secret or do you think it's 186 00:16:03,180 --> 00:16:07,260 Probably wise he's not I just think it's really freaking weird. I don't think he's a bad guy 187 00:16:07,260 --> 00:16:11,740 Yeah, I think it's just really weird. It's very weird to that. He's like I 188 00:16:12,420 --> 00:16:15,020 Love it. I have this magnetism to doing it 189 00:16:15,020 --> 00:16:19,180 I need it in my life, but I feel all this guilt and shame and I'm a horrible person 190 00:16:19,180 --> 00:16:24,780 Yeah, but this dark desire inside me. How do I stop it from but I need I need help 191 00:16:24,780 --> 00:16:26,780 I need to go to therapy, but I don't want to 192 00:16:27,620 --> 00:16:29,620 It's like I mean 193 00:16:34,340 --> 00:16:38,860 Yes, you just put it all out there on the post. Oh my gosh, I 194 00:16:39,300 --> 00:16:44,980 Feel bad for the wife like the fact the wife doesn't know like I would hope I would catch on to that 195 00:16:44,980 --> 00:16:47,980 She's just thinking 196 00:16:49,740 --> 00:16:53,060 You're a freak what like I feel like it's worse though 197 00:16:53,580 --> 00:16:58,220 Like he just needs to tell her rather than her find bags and bags of hair 198 00:16:58,220 --> 00:17:01,100 She's gonna be like are these like girls you've murdered 199 00:17:03,260 --> 00:17:05,260 Like that's what I would think I'd be like 200 00:17:09,060 --> 00:17:13,420 Maybe that that's the start yeah, so I do have a comment 201 00:17:13,420 --> 00:17:15,700 So there's like the top comments so this one says 202 00:17:16,180 --> 00:17:21,300 Wow, this is truly chilling it takes a lot of courage to come forward with something like this 203 00:17:21,300 --> 00:17:28,340 I would strongly recommend seeking professional help to address these compulsions and work towards understanding the root cause of this obsession 204 00:17:28,940 --> 00:17:34,340 Your wife deserves honesty and transparency and it's never too late to seek help and make amends 205 00:17:34,860 --> 00:17:38,020 And I feel like that is very well worded 206 00:17:38,180 --> 00:17:39,740 Yeah, true 207 00:17:39,740 --> 00:17:45,540 Like the fact none of us talked about like him seeking therapy is kind of funny. He's a lost cause bro 208 00:17:46,300 --> 00:17:53,260 Sorry, you can't come back from that. It's not like a collection of like football cards. It's like it's and it's like it's other people's 209 00:17:53,260 --> 00:17:57,140 What he's going he's going to Sunday dinner. He's like where's my mother in law? 210 00:17:57,740 --> 00:17:59,580 I 211 00:17:59,580 --> 00:18:03,940 Don't have I don't have Teresa's hair in a bag somewhere 212 00:18:03,940 --> 00:18:08,500 But he might have Brooks, but I 213 00:18:09,780 --> 00:18:13,580 Scared never know I'm scared. Sure. I have Kenny's 214 00:18:14,940 --> 00:18:20,660 The great silver bowl of the silver fox, baby. Okay. Do you want to hear the update? Yes? 215 00:18:21,180 --> 00:18:23,180 gosh, okay, oh 216 00:18:24,100 --> 00:18:26,100 Gosh, oh 217 00:18:26,620 --> 00:18:30,100 My gosh, that's so crazy. Oh, no 218 00:18:30,100 --> 00:18:32,100 I 219 00:18:33,020 --> 00:18:38,060 Told my wife the half truth. I told her I collected her hair and only hers 220 00:18:38,620 --> 00:18:42,060 She was extremely shocked and what was wasn't able to grasp what I was saying 221 00:18:42,340 --> 00:18:46,700 She became super angry with me because I wasn't answering the hard questions. She was asking 222 00:18:47,500 --> 00:18:51,940 After hours of fighting I caved. I told her where I was hiding her hair 223 00:18:51,940 --> 00:18:59,160 I didn't say anything about the others and as soon as she went to look I left. I know she has seen now 224 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:06,520 All of my collection it's been two days and I haven't heard from her. I'm so scared. What should I do? 225 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:11,320 Okay, okay, wait wait wait wait wait wait wait 226 00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:15,480 I think it would have been better if he didn't label them if he didn't like it 227 00:19:15,480 --> 00:19:19,720 It was just like a wad of hair that like was a collection of everybody's I feel like that would be better 228 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:25,320 But the fact that he like organized it all like that is so weird 229 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:31,080 It is so weird. It's such a red flag and like think about like what if it was like one of her best friends hair? 230 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:33,080 Yeah, like you would think like 231 00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:41,040 It's like no guys hair really gets stuck in a brush unless as long like it's probably the majority of all those were women 232 00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:43,040 That's freaking like her family friends 233 00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:49,480 His family like you if anyone has an obsession of hair to this extent 234 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:54,660 Listening, let us know let us know please write in and say what you've done to like try and heal 235 00:19:54,660 --> 00:19:56,160 that 236 00:19:56,160 --> 00:20:00,120 If you have any advice or if you're just or has it escalated? 237 00:20:00,120 --> 00:20:06,560 Yeah, if anybody else it's a listener has put other people's hair and ziploc bags and alphabetize them in the pantry 238 00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:09,760 Let us know we'd love to hear from you 239 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:19,560 We won't shame you what you're here. Yeah, we all are here. I got all this that I could help you get 240 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:21,800 You can grab on the mine on the you know 241 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:26,080 I could sell it to you. I'll sell it to you. That's the right or left 242 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:28,520 The right is right here though. You're right or left 243 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:33,840 Like if he's sitting here, he's grabbing my left ponytail and her right 244 00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:39,840 Yeah, I'm right you're wrong. It's his but it's still be your right and her left bang 245 00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:48,400 Look at look at how we're both right you're both right in the situation Marley everybody I am right 246 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:53,600 Anyways, so that's the update. What do you think the wife's gonna do? Do you think she's gonna leave him? 247 00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:57,060 Well, she she go really? Yes 248 00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:01,720 That's the making of a serial killer, so she's not gone 249 00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:06,200 She should be or she's gonna be on an episode of 2020 250 00:21:07,360 --> 00:21:14,040 Oh, dang a fake episode generated by chat GPT. I feel like she's going to lose her mind call cops 251 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:16,200 No, I actually maybe 252 00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:20,720 She probably I think she's probably thinking that he's murdered these girls. Yeah 253 00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:25,640 Like I feel like that's what she's trying to figure out exactly where my head would go 254 00:21:25,640 --> 00:21:28,080 I would like that. I think that's like second to underwear. Oh 255 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:35,600 Oh, that's second to underwear. I got prefer underwear over hair just getting absolutely not definitely 256 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:38,440 absolutely not like hair 257 00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:40,800 Stop making this about me 258 00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:43,560 Stop collecting hair 259 00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:58,880 She you know your gut keep collecting you can collect all you want. I'm gonna stick the baseball cards. Yeah, that's where I did 260 00:22:01,120 --> 00:22:05,960 Am I the asshole for refusing to pay my son's mom to watch him 261 00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:13,480 My son's mom to watch him you guys are both doing mental math immediately 262 00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:19,960 Follow mom they're divorced 263 00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:22,920 She's the mom. He's the dad. Oh 264 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:26,960 And he has to pay her to watch their child 265 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:32,960 Wait, I know it's going now. I know my son's mom son's mom. Oh 266 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:39,040 And he's the dad. Okay. I got it. Yeah, yeah, well, we're off to a great start 267 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:42,720 Okay, I separated for my seven-year-old son 268 00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:45,560 Sean's mom Amber 269 00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:53,440 We have 50 50 custody our custody agreement have several provisions about who pays for what I am on the hook for childcare 270 00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:56,800 We did have a babysitter a sitter for the last few years 271 00:22:56,800 --> 00:23:03,480 But he said that he was moving back home in January would obviously not be available after that the fact that he's a guy 272 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:08,640 I know like never heard of a dude babysitter. Yeah me either, but it's like a son 273 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:12,160 But honestly, I would do it right now because I have zero money. So 274 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:25,320 So he's moving not available and so says and Amber and I both have agreed on a lot of things including his sitter 275 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:29,760 So neither she nor I can unilaterally Wow 276 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:32,320 That was great 277 00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:38,180 Okay, I can unilaterally hire someone to watch him 278 00:23:38,180 --> 00:23:42,960 We were discussing the matter and she found someone to replace our sitter her boyfriend Jesse 279 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:46,280 He moved in with Amber and they've been together for a couple of years 280 00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:50,200 She said that he works from home and would love to spend time with Sean 281 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:53,040 I said if is he expecting to be paid? 282 00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:57,760 She said of course and the same amount as our current babysitter twenty eight dollars an hour 283 00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:06,120 You should get a big job geez I said absolutely not I do not know him well enough 284 00:24:06,120 --> 00:24:11,320 And I suspect this more about my paying your boyfriend to watch our kid than finding a proper sitter 285 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:16,720 I don't know how he drives. I don't feel comfortable with him giving him a bath. I don't know how reliable he is 286 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:18,480 I don't even know if he wants to do it 287 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:25,840 There are other things about him that I'm not comfortable with and I pay our sitter good money because he's worth it and has a good relationship with our son 288 00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:29,520 Plus he he and I have known each other for like 30 years 289 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:33,360 We met in middle school and I would never start a sitter at twenty eight dollars an hour 290 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:38,120 Also, I'm not cool with anyone getting paid to watch my kid while on the clock for another job 291 00:24:38,120 --> 00:24:43,400 The whole idea pissed me off. We got into an argument about it. They weren't trying to double dip on me 292 00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:45,920 They both think I'm rich and they are having money issues 293 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:49,840 We've been fighting over it. So I said that I'll take over babysitter stuff 294 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:53,360 I to work from home and will make it work 295 00:24:53,360 --> 00:24:57,560 She said she didn't want me in her house and that she accused me of trying to save money 296 00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:03,520 I said no, this is about you trying to make money off watching our kid. I told her I'm not discussing this until 297 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:07,720 November because I got heated and we have a sitter for another four months 298 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:09,560 Just yesterday 299 00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:16,640 She asked if I'd be open to compromise of her being the sitter on days or times when I have Sean but need a sitter 300 00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:19,640 I said, are you expecting me to pay you? She said yes 301 00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:24,760 I told her no and she has to drop this ambition of getting paid to watch her own kid 302 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:32,200 She said she could take unpaid time off work and that's why she was suggesting it. She sucks. She blows. Yeah, listen 303 00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:34,200 Here's the thing 304 00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:37,520 The mom trying to make money babysitting her own child 305 00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:43,920 That's that's insane and listen like you fall on hard times. I get it 306 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:49,120 Good like get a side hustle do something else being poor sucks. I know 307 00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:51,640 so 308 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:54,680 Like shout out to the poor that sucks 309 00:25:54,800 --> 00:26:00,080 but also like you birth that child and you're trying to profit off of its existence by 310 00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:03,800 Watching it and getting $28 an hour 311 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:09,240 You're out of your mind lady and you're an asshole and your boyfriend sucks 312 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:11,600 The boyfriend probably doesn't actually have a job 313 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,200 Like he probably doesn't work from home 314 00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:17,740 She's just saying that so that he can baby, but that would make it 315 00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:23,260 Better if he didn't have a job because then he wouldn't be getting paid for his at-home job 316 00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:26,680 While also getting paid to watch the kid at the same time 317 00:26:27,120 --> 00:26:29,720 So he doesn't have an at-home job. That's what I'm trying to say 318 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:35,280 I know but like that would probably make his case a little bit better if he didn't have a job and like 319 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,600 It's the fact that he's trying to double dip. Yeah 320 00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:43,280 Yeah, and the fact that they're saying that they don't want to double dip like 100% you are and you want to 321 00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:50,000 It's poor kid. You know, it's like mom. You want to watch me for money. Mom. Can you just be with me? 322 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:53,680 So sad he never finds that out 323 00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:58,720 I feel like as a divorced couple and you have to watch your kids. Okay, only for $28. 50% 50% 324 00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:03,920 You should be like dying to have them be with you again. Yeah, and if you get remarried 325 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:09,480 There's also step kids that get outed most likely and you're not getting paid to watch your step kids either 326 00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:13,480 My family came to visit me and expected us to pay for everything 327 00:27:15,360 --> 00:27:22,800 Truff my chest. I'm so hurt by the lack of effort and consideration by my brother and his family after they had just visited 328 00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:24,800 I just want to vent 329 00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:30,160 My brother and his wife and daughter five year old just came to visit me before they got here 330 00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:32,840 We stocked up on all the essentials and stuff for meals 331 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:37,280 They got around dinner time and everyone was pretty tired. So we all got ready for bed after that 332 00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:42,800 I have two kids of my own ages male four and female eight the following day 333 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,680 We hung out around our house eating most meals at home 334 00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:50,160 We went out for dinner and they did pay for that as a way to thank us for hosting 335 00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:56,080 We of course thanked them and said how nice it was for them to do that. We hung around our house eating most meals at home 336 00:27:56,080 --> 00:28:00,080 We went out for dinner and they did pay for that as a way to thank us for hosting 337 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:03,680 We of course thanked them and said how nice it was for them to do that on the way home 338 00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:08,320 I bought drinks for everyone for hanging out the next night. We went out to dinner again this time we paid the bill 339 00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:12,960 It was obvious that we paid but they did not thank us or even say anything about it on the way home 340 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:17,200 I bought some more drinks for everyone again. They bought ice cream for themselves 341 00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:21,760 Day three we hosted a big get-together to welcome them to see old friends 342 00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:24,960 It was expensive as we provided drinks and dinner for everyone 343 00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:30,320 We did not expect them to pay for any of this as we were the ones who decided to have the gathering 344 00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:35,280 The following day they kept ringing up how they needed some specific food for their kid 345 00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:38,080 We waited around for a good time to go to the store together 346 00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:43,680 I was going to go with my brother figuring we would split the total his wife then suggested I go by myself 347 00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:47,360 I thought maybe they would pay me back when I got home 348 00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:52,400 On my way out my sister-in-law says white claws so I buy them drinks again 349 00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:57,600 When I get home when I got home they didn't ask about the cost or anything and didn't even help put stuff away 350 00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:02,240 I should also mention that they did not help to cook or clean other than they did the dishes one time 351 00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:06,880 But with seven people you can imagine how many dishes there are the next day was pretty much the same thing 352 00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:10,240 I bought it and prepared and cooked everything then cleaned it all up 353 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:13,760 I also took them to and from the airport, which is an hour's drive 354 00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:19,440 My brother did end up giving my husband some cash around $80 saying that was all they could afford right now 355 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:23,360 I just felt taken advantage of it was clear that they did it on purpose 356 00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:27,520 I know that they're saving up for something right now and yes, we do make more than them 357 00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:31,760 However, it just feels like our hospitality was taken for granted 358 00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:33,520 There in their late 30s 359 00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:38,480 I have never stayed at someone's house and expected them to pay for nearly everything when I was young 360 00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:41,600 Sorry, this was long. I probably won't ask them for any money 361 00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:48,080 But I'll be very on the fence about hosting them again. Also. Yes, there was a lot of alcohol, but we were all on vacation 362 00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:54,320 Oh my gosh. I feel like the communication this family has is so bad though 363 00:29:54,880 --> 00:30:00,000 Yeah, like I feel like if it's getting to that point where you feel like, okay, they're not like 364 00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:05,760 They're not putting in their like they're not making an effort to like 365 00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:12,880 Pay their way. I would literally just be like, hey, so the the bill is 80 bucks. Just demo me 40 366 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:14,320 Yeah 367 00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:19,840 And on then on the other side it would be like let's say like financially they were struggling lowkey 368 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,680 You just have to communicate that and be like 369 00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:29,200 Hey, like we're not going to be able to like go out to eat somewhere expensive because we can't really afford it 370 00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:34,160 Right. I don't know like can we get fast food or you guys got to eat? We're just gonna grab fast food 371 00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:41,440 Yeah, I don't know. I feel like the communication on both sides were so bad. Yeah 100% agree 372 00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:48,320 There's there's etiquette and it's like it's not rocket science. It's kind of the implied thing here is like 373 00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:53,760 If you ask somebody to pick something up at the store for you in your mind, you know that that costs money 374 00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:54,720 Yeah 375 00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:57,600 And so it's like hey grab a pack of white claws 376 00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:01,360 Like oh, yeah grab this grab these frozen pancakes for my daughter 377 00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:07,120 It's like I'm I will I'll Venmo you 10 bucks right now. It's like that's just an understood 378 00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:09,120 Or take my card 379 00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:14,960 Like if I'm gonna send you alone take my card like and it's like no you just go my husband will stay 380 00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:17,440 You go get the food for our daughter 381 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:24,720 The biggest thing was it was the sister-in-law that told the other girl you go alone and get everything. Yeah, yeah, exactly 382 00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:26,320 That's 383 00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:28,320 She knew what she was doing. Oh, she definitely knew 384 00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:29,760 Yeah 385 00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:31,760 She definitely is the cheap one of the two 386 00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:33,520 For sure 387 00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:36,800 And it's it what you said about communication is key because 388 00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:41,840 Like you can't just you can't just show up at somebody's house like if we're hosting somebody 389 00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:44,560 Yeah, and I'm just like I'm going out and doing all the shopping 390 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:46,640 I wouldn't expect anybody to pay me back 391 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:52,080 But it's the fact that it's compounding days and that you're expecting like gratitude for the generosity 392 00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:55,200 You're expecting them to say thank you if you bought them dinner or whatever 393 00:31:55,200 --> 00:32:00,480 And if they're in a position where like at they're in their late 30s or whatever and they're making good money 394 00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:04,160 Like it's not the money. It's just the fact that they feel taken for granted 395 00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:06,800 Like I know you're broke, but you can say thank you 396 00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:13,440 Basic manners. Yeah, do you think they weren't saying thank you because they were just trying to avoid the topic altogether? 397 00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:20,560 Doesn't matter probably it doesn't matter. I'm just and they probably felt awkward a little bit too like we know 398 00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:24,080 What we're doing is wrong. So let's try to keep it as low key as possible 399 00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:28,720 I also was thinking too like I know when I go and visit people like I am 400 00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:35,040 Like spending money on like the travel airfare gas or whatever. Were they traveling far to visit him? 401 00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:38,560 Does it say or at least like 402 00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:41,440 Am I on the right track there? Like they could have thought that like 403 00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:47,840 Okay, we'll spend all the money on getting us there and by that point you guys take care of us. Yeah, I don't know 404 00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:50,480 Still it's not which is wrong. Yeah 405 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:55,440 And that's like I feel like for that to be the case. You're almost assuming that they're like 406 00:32:56,080 --> 00:33:00,400 It's paying for your presence like I'm gonna I'm gonna spend money to vacation 407 00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:07,200 But I'm gonna stay at your house and you have to repay me by buying me alcohol because I paid for my plane ticket 408 00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:09,280 it's like 409 00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:11,520 If you 410 00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:16,480 Wow big take right here actually what? 411 00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:22,160 So how much did the white claws and kids food cost more than $80 question mark 412 00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:28,080 It sounds like you all went out to eat twice each paid for the other ones so far so even 413 00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:31,920 That's 414 00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:34,880 That's a bold comment. No, but it's all the drinks 415 00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:40,560 I think it was because they're they're they did the shopping for all the food they ate at the house at the house and 416 00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:44,080 One time going out idle. It's not that comment 417 00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:49,120 It's no, but then the person says you did host so like when you eat out 418 00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:52,640 Yes, you'd split bill, but you like when you're eating at the house 419 00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:56,560 Yeah, it's not like they're gonna go bring their own groceries. I would never yeah 420 00:33:56,640 --> 00:34:01,920 Someone's coming to visit me. I'm buying groceries and stuff and I wouldn't be like, hey, this was a hundred dollars 421 00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:04,960 Them owe me 15. You can eat out of my fridge 422 00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:08,880 Yeah, that's the thing is like so people are like that 423 00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:14,880 Well, I won't be visiting people like that and they can't visit me right actually 424 00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:18,400 They'll love it because I'll have a stock full fridge and say go for it 425 00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:21,440 Don't send me any money 426 00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:24,000 Do not Venmo me 427 00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:29,680 Drink all the white claws by the way, I'm gonna Venmo you for for drinking my white claws 428 00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:35,200 Let me pay for your airfare. Yeah, I'm gonna split the cost of airfare with you. Here you go 429 00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:37,760 Plus tip 430 00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:39,200 Who do you tip? 431 00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:42,240 I'm gonna tip you for being here and being a being good company 432 00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:45,760 The and for eating all my food can I have some hair? 433 00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:51,120 Where's the hairbrushes? I just want your hairbrushes, please 434 00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:56,560 Plus your mom's and your mom's new dogs, you're you know 435 00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:02,960 What where are you going with that? 436 00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:07,360 I do it's crazy. It's so crazy because like no one knows what you're saying. I know 437 00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:11,920 Everyone on the podcast they can only just hear this. They know 438 00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:16,800 You'll never know they go to the youtube and watch that whole little 439 00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:27,200 Oh, okay, who's the fake though like just like a little just a little 440 00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:40,160 Could have been could have been 441 00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:42,160 Is he over there a little is as a boy? 442 00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:48,720 Only because that's the longest post you've ever brought besides the first one which was a fakey 443 00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:53,120 Just a thought 444 00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:55,200 Could have been marlies 445 00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:59,840 Could have been yours. What was yours again, Joe? I just so forget. Yeah, wait hold on 446 00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:02,880 Oh, you guys don't remember mine 447 00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:03,920 What was it? 448 00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:05,200 It was 449 00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:09,120 Am I the asshole for telling my sister her son is only special to her 450 00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:17,120 Oh, yeah, that's a real story. I feel like that's normal. That is yeah that happens in every family in America 451 00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:18,480 America 452 00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:22,800 I think it's between you two right here the two the two females two girly pops 453 00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:25,440 frenzy 454 00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:27,440 So tell us in the comments 455 00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:33,040 Who you think the fake is please we're here for it follow us on tiktok follow us on instagram 456 00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:39,600 Subscribe to our youtube channel and listen wherever you get your podcasts and write us five stars 457 00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:42,080 Tell your friends if you want 458 00:36:42,720 --> 00:36:45,520 We'd appreciate much love you guys see you next week 459 00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:47,520 eight 460 00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:49,520 one two three 461 00:36:49,520 --> 00:37:03,520 my guy