1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:08,760 Welcome back to Internet frenzy. What's up gang? We got a guest joining the 2 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:13,880 podcast for the first time. You're welcome I'm here. Thank you for joining us sir. 3 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:20,840 What's your name? Joe. He's Joe. My name is also Joe. So I'm the second coolest Joe 4 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:29,760 in the room. That's my second lap. My name is Isaiah. I'm Marley and I am Whitney. Let's go. Let's 5 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:37,920 freaking go. Let's do a recap of last week. Let's see. Starting with the crazy intervention story. 6 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:45,800 Crazy boyfriend manipulating everybody for no reason. Could be real. Could be 7 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:52,480 that she was Dalulu and is actually a drug addict. We don't know. Or the psychologist is actually not 8 00:00:52,480 --> 00:00:59,600 a psychologist. Psychologist. He could be a Faco. Okay and then there was mine. Mine was the 9 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:06,440 co-workers talking about killing the girlfriend in the group chat. Absolutely terrifying. Not just 10 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:13,080 any co-workers but all the girl co-workers. Yeah and he had a affair with one of them. Oh it was a dude? Yeah. 11 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:19,440 And he like talked to all of his girl co-workers about this fight. And they're like let's kill her. Wow. 12 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:28,560 Let's feed her to the pigs and take her teeth out. Wow. That's crazy. That was crazy. And then we got 13 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:39,400 Joe's birthday cake. But it was valid. She was mistreated. Back story helps. Back story helps. 14 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:44,120 Yeah because Isaiah doesn't care what Marley wants for her birthday cake. No. He wants to make that clear. 15 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:50,520 She didn't know. She didn't know my favorite birthday cake flavor so. Because you guys haven't 16 00:01:50,520 --> 00:02:00,960 celebrated a birthday together yet. Not in two years. And then we had Peaology Boy. The homie allergic 17 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:09,360 to peas. Friends go out of the way. We found out earlier that peas and peanuts are in the same family. 18 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:16,680 And then my 10th cousins wants to remove. Which is not in the legume family. Yes. Technically a peanut is not even a true nut. 19 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:26,360 It says that it's a legume. So what's a cashew? I don't know about cashew. I don't know that. That's like peanut kind of refers to that. 20 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:32,760 You're gonna have to get that one on Google later. Wait are you allergic to Marley? All nuts except almonds. 21 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:39,760 Are you allergic to peanuts? Yes. Are you allergic to peas? A little bit. Didn't you just say peanuts aren't technically nuts? 22 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:47,760 So my story isn't how to treat peanuts. Wait but. So now I'm gonna. But I just learned that information so now I'm gonna change how I. 23 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:55,760 Change what you're allergic to if you've been eating it. How I see it. I'm allergic to the legume family. So you're the same dude as this guy lying about pea allergies. 24 00:02:55,760 --> 00:03:04,760 Yeah. Okay well let's talk about who we think the fake story was. Could have been Marley's. Marley's was so good. Pretty freaking out there. 25 00:03:04,760 --> 00:03:14,760 I think it's gotta be the birthday cake. I wasn't here for the whole thing but. That one was actually like the realest. Awesome rewind episode too. 26 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:23,760 Yeah. It's alright. It's alright. That's fine. I'm going pee boy. Yeah I think it was pee boy. Was it you back to back? Was it you? 27 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:35,760 Oh yeah. Fake story back to back. What are the odds? One and four. Back to back to back to back. One and four twice in a row. 28 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:44,760 Well I'd prefer it to be a given person. One and four in general. I guess I'm the second smartest Joe in the room too. 29 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:54,760 For those that are listening in the podcast Joe, my Joe just rolled his eyes like literally farther than I've ever seen him. 30 00:03:54,760 --> 00:04:01,760 If you couldn't hear the sigh. I don't know what to tell you. You didn't hear that eye roll. It rewinds. It might have been I corrected him after he corrected me. 31 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:13,760 Oh. So you've met your maps by Joe. No I surrender. He wins. I surrender. I don't even blame you. Same. 32 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:21,760 Anyway. Okay so Isaiah was the fakey. Let's see what we got this week. There's no way you're going to go three times in a row. Back to back to back. 33 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:33,760 That would be crazy. What are the chances? That'd be so anticlimactic. One and sixteen. Oh okay. Wow who are you? It's not that difficult. Easy math. 34 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:44,760 What's the word? 16. Got it. Yes. I'm so good at math. Okay so I'm thinking I start. Are we ready? Yeah. Let's do it. 35 00:04:44,760 --> 00:05:09,760 So this is from Am I the Asshole. This girl 18 female got pregnant and she and her parents want me 19 male to step up and help her raise her baby. 36 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:17,760 I am not the dad but I want to go into the court. I told her no. I feel bad though. Advice needed. So listen up. 37 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:26,760 Basically this girl I always had a crush on got knocked up by some random loser and now while she is pregnant she has been wanting to date me. 38 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:33,760 Her parents want me to step up and be a man so they don't have to help her take care of the baby for like the next 18 years and have her stay with them. 39 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:45,760 She is not a piece of cake by the way. But the thing is I am not the dad. She said she wants me to be her boyfriend and for me to get a job and a place for her and me to let to live to help raise our kid. 40 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:57,760 My dad told me to tell her to go f herself and not to put my dreams to the side and that I am so young and just to kid myself and to never ever in my entire life get involved with her. 41 00:05:57,760 --> 00:06:06,760 I said her baby is not my responsibility and he will be heartbroken if I voluntarily take on this burden. He fully supports me going into the court. 42 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:13,760 I told her I do not want to get involved with her. Her dad told me I am not a real man. Update. 43 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:22,760 I have been able to successfully block this girl and her parents on all social media platforms and their phone numbers and home phone as well from my cell phone. 44 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:30,760 I have also gotten a temporary restraining order. There is a legal process you have to go through for a real permanent one but I am working on it against her and her parents. 45 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:41,760 None of them are allowed to contact me by any means including phone, email, mail, in person or by someone else. If they do, the sheriff will have his deputies go to their house and bring them to the local jail. 46 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:45,760 So that was the update on all of this but he needs advice. 47 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:46,760 Stay away. 48 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:47,760 Yeah. 49 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:49,760 He is not the asshole. 50 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:55,760 The answer to the N. Y. The asshole is not even a little bit. It is 100% on her dad. That is ridiculous. 51 00:06:55,760 --> 00:07:03,760 My thought is that, does she really care about this kid at all? It says that she wants to be my girlfriend or whatever. 52 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:07,760 There is not a chance if she is not pregnant that she is getting with him anyways. 53 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:08,760 100% 54 00:07:08,760 --> 00:07:09,760 That is such a good point. 55 00:07:09,760 --> 00:07:11,760 That is why she is kicking him because he knows. 56 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:12,760 This kid has loved me forever. 57 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:15,760 Exactly. It is like pick up the charity case. 58 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:16,760 Yeah. 59 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:26,760 Absolutely insane. I can't help but think they are kind of like targeting him because one, it sounds like he has always been in her life. 60 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:27,760 Right? Don't you think? 61 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:28,760 Yeah. 62 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:29,760 Like there is history there. 63 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:30,760 Like across the street. 64 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:31,760 Yeah. 65 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:32,760 Like always. 66 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:33,760 The parents know each other maybe. 67 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:34,760 Yeah. 68 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:38,760 And then also it is like he is going into the court and wants to. 69 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:43,760 I have heard, I am not sure, but really good benefits to that. 70 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:44,760 Right? 71 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:47,760 And so I feel like he is kind of being targeted in a sense. 72 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:50,760 Like this dad is like, he is perfect for this. 73 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:52,760 He is the perfect pick a dad guy. 74 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:53,760 Yeah. 75 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:57,760 My daughter got knocked up and now I need to pick a dad for her. 76 00:07:57,760 --> 00:07:59,760 I don't know why this guy is not chasing down the baby daddy. 77 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:00,760 Yes. 78 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:01,760 Right? 79 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:02,760 Yeah. 80 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:03,760 The dad. 81 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:04,760 Yes. 82 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:05,760 Hot take though. 83 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:06,760 His dad. 84 00:08:06,760 --> 00:08:07,760 Yes. 85 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:10,760 I will be heartbroken if you get with her. 86 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:12,760 I just think that is a little bold. 87 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:15,760 Like can you just like maybe support your son a little bit. 88 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:18,460 Just be like, you have a choice. 89 00:08:18,460 --> 00:08:19,720 You know what I want. 90 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:21,800 But if whatever you do, I'll support you. 91 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:22,800 Not be like heartbroken. 92 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:24,760 I feel like that is a little messed up. 93 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:25,760 I don't know. 94 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:28,760 That is like taking on a whole child that is not yours. 95 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:29,760 Yeah. 96 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:30,760 That is so young. 97 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:31,760 But like. 98 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:33,760 And the dad knows what she is doing. 99 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:37,760 But also in there it says that like the parents want him because they don't want to be taking 100 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:39,600 care of this baby for 18 years. 101 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:43,600 Is the daughter such a bum that she's going to be single for 18 years? 102 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:44,600 Yes. 103 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:45,600 Right. 104 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:46,600 You think? 105 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:48,600 He said in the post like she requires work. 106 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:49,600 Yeah. 107 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:51,600 He said she's not a piece of cake. 108 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:52,600 Yeah. 109 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:53,600 It sucks. 110 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:55,520 18 years you couldn't find anything or get a job or something. 111 00:08:55,520 --> 00:09:00,320 Like they're expecting it to be on them like the parents for the 18 years. 112 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:01,320 That's insane. 113 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:02,320 That's true. 114 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:06,200 I mean they want to make sure their girl is taken care of too. 115 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:07,200 That's like natural. 116 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:09,800 But that's the thing is they don't want to take care of her. 117 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:10,800 Yeah. 118 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:12,400 That's why they want to pawn her off to someone else. 119 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:14,000 It's like oh we don't want to take care of her. 120 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:17,240 If they're banking on his money from the Marine Corps they're not even planning on him being 121 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:18,240 there either. 122 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:19,240 Yeah. 123 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:21,800 They wanting him to take care of mommy and daddy too. 124 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:23,800 Does daddy need help too? 125 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:25,800 Wait my butt. 126 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:28,800 I'm just joking. 127 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:32,200 He's not a thing. 128 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:34,080 He does not approve of those jokes. 129 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:35,080 No way. 130 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:39,400 You got a better zinger? 131 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:42,400 No I'm just listening. 132 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:44,600 But yeah in conclusion what for advice though? 133 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:46,080 Yeah for advice. 134 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:47,080 What? 135 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:48,080 I mean he's done it. 136 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:49,240 See ya soldier. 137 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:50,240 Get out there. 138 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:54,120 Go into the Marines and don't look back son. 139 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:55,120 And thank you. 140 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:56,520 Thank you for your service kid. 141 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:57,520 Get out there. 142 00:09:57,520 --> 00:09:59,320 You're going to marry down the road sometimes. 143 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:01,240 Probably going to be a Marine too. 144 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:02,880 You'll both have a pension. 145 00:10:02,880 --> 00:10:03,880 It's going to be great. 146 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:12,160 This is from True Off My Chest and the title is My Wife Left Me After Two Months Of Marriage. 147 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:16,400 Last June, 2023, my partner and I got married after six years together. 148 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:18,000 We had a wonderful relationship. 149 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:22,200 Open communication, laughs, long term goals and it was the most stable I have ever felt 150 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:23,280 in my life. 151 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:27,680 Two months into the marriage she had abruptly left after an explosive fight on the family 152 00:10:27,680 --> 00:10:28,680 vacation. 153 00:10:28,680 --> 00:10:32,720 For context, I am a 33 female and she is a 30 female. 154 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:37,400 Before the wedding she became extremely close to a co-worker at her new teaching job and 155 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:40,080 was quite going out quite frequently. 156 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:44,680 I chalked it up to sewing her oats before being married. 157 00:10:44,680 --> 00:10:49,080 I voiced my uncomfortable feelings about the co-worker constantly texting, calling and 158 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:51,800 reaching out on all social media platforms. 159 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:56,520 My partner agreed and the communication and hanging out lessened. 160 00:10:56,520 --> 00:11:00,840 This woman came to our bridal shower and joined Bachelorette and eventually was invited to 161 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:01,840 our wedding. 162 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:05,880 A few weeks before, the wedding I saw text messages alluding to the fact that my partner 163 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:10,160 did not need to get married, can do better, etc. 164 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:15,560 I told her she is not invited to our wedding and all contacts need to be cut. 165 00:11:15,560 --> 00:11:18,520 Fast forward two months post marriage on the family vacation. 166 00:11:18,520 --> 00:11:21,880 I see my partner texting this co-worker and explode. 167 00:11:21,880 --> 00:11:26,680 My partner voiced that we both need therapy and I should look at my drinking habits and 168 00:11:26,680 --> 00:11:28,160 will take some space. 169 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:33,800 To make a very long story short, after almost 8 months of living separately, but doing couples 170 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:38,240 therapy, talking every day, personal therapy and weekly hangouts, she agreed to come home 171 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:40,800 in June after her teaching school. 172 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:42,440 School year was over. 173 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:46,200 That would be one year since our marriage and a fresh start for the both of us. 174 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:51,080 I know it seems crazy, but I believe in loyalty, marriage, and working through problems. 175 00:11:51,080 --> 00:11:55,760 When the lease was up, I simply received a text message stating I am not renewing the 176 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:57,560 lease with you and we're over. 177 00:11:57,560 --> 00:12:01,840 I have since found out through her family and friends that she is having an affair almost 178 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:04,400 the entire time of our separation. 179 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:06,760 The woman she left me for is that co-worker. 180 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:13,880 A 43 female divorcee with two children and at least one previous affair with their married 181 00:12:13,880 --> 00:12:15,720 male principal under her belt. 182 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:18,960 Obviously, I absolutely was devastated and crushed. 183 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:24,600 I have not had contact with her since we had to split all of the wedding gifts and personal 184 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:26,080 belongings from our home. 185 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:33,040 I confronted her and asked for the truth and honestly, oh truth and honesty about the situation, 186 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:38,520 she admittedly denied an affair and told me I had no real proof. 187 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:43,760 She blamed our split on my personal fault and not having her trust. 188 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:47,880 The manipulation, gaslighting, and blatant lies are the real killer here. 189 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:52,800 She was living a double life this entire time and this was probably going on before the 190 00:12:52,800 --> 00:12:53,800 wedding. 191 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:55,600 I know now they're in a full blown relationship. 192 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:59,440 She has completely moved on and erased me as if the last year never happened. 193 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:02,400 I feel so stupid and lost and confused. 194 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:05,520 My whole future has been wiped away from me and I feel helpless. 195 00:13:05,520 --> 00:13:11,600 I have been going to therapy, remain in California sober and hanging out with friends and family. 196 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:13,440 Still, who the hell did I marry? 197 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:17,520 I have so many questions for her and I never really got the closure I needed. 198 00:13:17,520 --> 00:13:22,480 Any thoughts, recommendations, or similar situations would be extremely helpful. 199 00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:50,240 How does someone just let this go? 200 00:13:50,240 --> 00:13:58,680 I think the biggest thing to me is that there's clear signs beforehand of disloyalty or at 201 00:13:58,680 --> 00:13:59,680 least some shakiness. 202 00:13:59,680 --> 00:14:04,640 I feel like at some point you have to find the line between what is stuff. 203 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:07,600 I guess I'm the only single one here. 204 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:09,600 You guys is all married people. 205 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:13,920 Where do you draw the line between something that is just a fault and a person that you're 206 00:14:13,920 --> 00:14:18,600 going to have to accept and everybody has faults and what is something that is blatantly 207 00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:23,880 just not something you can work through? 208 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:29,840 It makes me wonder if she mentioned that the relationship with the co-worker was like made 209 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:30,840 her a little bit uncomfortable. 210 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:34,360 She brought it up to her. 211 00:14:34,360 --> 00:14:38,880 In my mind I'm thinking what made her partner want to get married if she's already banged 212 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:42,960 in this other girl? 213 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:47,360 Something there to the point where it's like if I'm putting myself in an OP situation, 214 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:50,240 I'm not writing her off completely. 215 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:53,680 Why else would she want to proceed with me? 216 00:14:53,680 --> 00:15:00,240 That's why I don't think that it's an instantaneous like okay this relationship is over because 217 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:05,240 I'm questioning your loyalty unless she found out that she was having an affair. 218 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:08,720 Then that's obviously a whole different scenario. 219 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:09,720 I guess that's fair. 220 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:15,800 To the best of her knowledge she had chilled out on the communication with her and cut 221 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:16,800 her out a little bit. 222 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:21,560 I feel like another thing that just makes me question the integrity of her partner is 223 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:25,080 that she like broke up over text. 224 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:26,080 Oh yeah. 225 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:27,080 Terrible. 226 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:28,800 Like just had to change her plans. 227 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:30,400 I'm not redoing the lease with you. 228 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:31,400 After almost. 229 00:15:31,400 --> 00:15:32,400 Yeah. 230 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:33,400 Exactly. 231 00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:34,400 I mean you're married. 232 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:38,800 You're not even like dating somebody for a while and breaking up over text is a crazy 233 00:15:38,800 --> 00:15:41,800 play but marriage? 234 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:42,800 That's crazy. 235 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:45,280 Well yeah they've been together for six years. 236 00:15:45,280 --> 00:15:46,280 That sucks so bad. 237 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:52,120 But everything you had in life and like new and loved is just like gone with a text message. 238 00:15:52,120 --> 00:15:54,240 How do you get closure from that? 239 00:15:54,240 --> 00:15:55,920 That's the thing you don't. 240 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:58,000 They're also not like 20. 241 00:15:58,000 --> 00:15:59,000 They're what is this? 242 00:15:59,000 --> 00:16:00,000 She's like 31. 243 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:01,000 Yeah. 244 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:04,000 It's like you're at the point in life where you're like you're probably a little bit 245 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:07,280 closer to feeling like you could settle down. 246 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:08,680 It's even worse if that's the case. 247 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:13,080 But all I could think about for OP is that like she's gonna be better off. 248 00:16:13,080 --> 00:16:16,240 Like this is not the type of partner you want to spend the rest of your life with. 249 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:17,240 True. 250 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:22,200 And like yeah all of the stuff that we know about the person now it's like hopefully with 251 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:26,600 therapy and like spending time on the beach or whatever she likes to do. 252 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:30,000 Like she'll be able to get over it and find what's next for her. 253 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:33,800 Because ultimately it's like just a big huge dumpster fire. 254 00:16:33,800 --> 00:16:34,800 Yeah. 255 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:37,920 I think you do also have to kind of find a point. 256 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:40,120 I almost think it's good that it's just done. 257 00:16:40,120 --> 00:16:43,080 Like I don't know I think it's definitely worth trying to work through things most of 258 00:16:43,080 --> 00:16:47,280 the time and seeing what you can do but if it's just like if there's no remorse. 259 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:48,280 Yeah. 260 00:16:48,280 --> 00:16:50,840 Which it sounds like there is no remorse. 261 00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:53,800 It's almost easier just to clean slate. 262 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:57,960 Try to find somebody to try to try to move on and try to build yourself but sitting there 263 00:16:57,960 --> 00:17:02,280 trying to build something that was never stable is just not the right play. 264 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:07,960 Do you think the other lady even like in her mind like even was like yeah at the end of 265 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:10,480 this year we might I might get back to her. 266 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:13,480 Or do you think she was just like I'm just gonna leave her on for this whole year. 267 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:16,200 And make her think she has an idea. 268 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:17,200 Here. 269 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:19,960 Well think about it because she's not living there at that point. 270 00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:24,800 So maybe she was hoping like this girl was just going to pay rent for the rest of the 271 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:26,600 year until the lease was done. 272 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:29,160 Because her name's on it. 273 00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:35,560 And then at that point you like came I have nothing tied to her anymore at that point. 274 00:17:35,560 --> 00:17:37,560 Like I'm done. 275 00:17:37,560 --> 00:17:41,920 I didn't I like didn't even register that that could be a possibility. 276 00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:42,920 I'm smart. 277 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:45,120 People are so jacked up about money. 278 00:17:45,120 --> 00:17:46,520 Everyone and money. 279 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:47,520 Yes. 280 00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:49,000 If you're rich get off our podcast. 281 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:50,000 Yeah. 282 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:51,280 No no no stay on sponsor. 283 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:52,280 Yeah. 284 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:59,880 No what's so weird to me is that she leaves someone with she leaves her girlfriend for 285 00:17:59,880 --> 00:18:03,280 her wife for someone that has so much baggage. 286 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:04,280 So much baggage. 287 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:05,280 So much baggage. 288 00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:07,000 It's already had an affair. 289 00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:11,920 It's like multiple like bang in the principal and like there was so much in there it was 290 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:12,920 like huh. 291 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:13,920 Wait. 292 00:18:13,920 --> 00:18:14,920 I got the principal. 293 00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:15,920 She's divorced. 294 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:18,680 She has two kids and bang to the principal. 295 00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:21,840 It's not like the wife is full of integrity either. 296 00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:30,760 I mean this this whole like the affair partners school like that should be a reality TV show. 297 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:34,400 We got the principal banging the teacher without a teacher banging another married teacher 298 00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:37,920 like this is like the whole freaking thing. 299 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:38,920 Don't work at schools. 300 00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:39,920 I don't know. 301 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:40,920 Don't. 302 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:45,880 What was the what was the final like what what did it ask it was a true off my chest. 303 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:48,880 So she was getting it off the chest and she just wanted some advice. 304 00:18:48,880 --> 00:18:50,360 There's no update in general. 305 00:18:50,360 --> 00:18:51,920 Yeah there's an update. 306 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:53,240 Just go find another girl. 307 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:54,240 Yeah. 308 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:55,240 She's a kid. 309 00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:56,240 It's not necessarily that. 310 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:57,240 She'll go find another girl. 311 00:18:57,240 --> 00:19:00,320 Just just enter the core and don't look back. 312 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:01,320 Everybody's entering the core. 313 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:02,320 There's hinge there. 314 00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:04,880 Get your head in your core and get out. 315 00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:05,880 That's right. 316 00:19:05,880 --> 00:19:07,280 You can find love in the core. 317 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:08,280 You can. 318 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:09,280 Yes. 319 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:10,280 Maybe you'll find another friend. 320 00:19:10,280 --> 00:19:11,280 Yeah. 321 00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:12,960 Hey you can find love in the core. 322 00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:13,960 Hey okay. 323 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:15,440 I don't need the core. 324 00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:16,440 Come on. 325 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:17,920 I'm finding girls. 326 00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:18,920 It's fine. 327 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:19,920 Hit him up ladies. 328 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:20,920 It's not your super. 329 00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:21,920 Hey Jordan. 330 00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:24,920 This could be really good for you. 331 00:19:24,920 --> 00:19:25,920 Maybe I'll drop the Snapchat. 332 00:19:25,920 --> 00:19:26,920 We'll see. 333 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:29,200 I was gonna say number but I don't know that I will. 334 00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:30,200 We'll do snap. 335 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:31,600 We'll do snap. 336 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:32,720 Maybe look at my LinkedIn. 337 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:33,720 We'll see. 338 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:34,720 Yeah. 339 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:36,720 Is it up to date? 340 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:37,720 No. 341 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:38,720 All right. 342 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:39,720 I love it. 343 00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:41,220 Good story Mar. 344 00:19:41,220 --> 00:19:48,160 My the asshole for telling my friend her breakup was an inappropriate topic at my engagement 345 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:49,160 party. 346 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:55,720 Me, male 32 and my fiance female 30 had an engagement party this summer. 347 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:59,680 The party was great and we had a good time with friends and family, etc. 348 00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:02,880 However, one thing really bugs both me and my fiance. 349 00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:07,520 I have her friend, Collar Madison 32. 350 00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:11,320 She was invited to the party and is someone I have been friends with for a long time since 351 00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:15,280 junior high about 11 years on the day of the party. 352 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:16,720 Oh 11 years old. 353 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:17,720 Sorry. 354 00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:20,880 On the day of the party, she told us she broke up with her boyfriend. 355 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:24,720 We consoled her and cared for her and tried to make sure she was okay. 356 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:26,760 While it's also organizing the party. 357 00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:31,600 We had 200 guests, so there was a lot of food drinks organizing to do. 358 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:33,840 So they have like millions of friends. 359 00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:34,840 Awesome. 360 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:39,640 When Madison arrived to the party, the only topic she spoke about was breaking up with 361 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:40,760 her boyfriend. 362 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:44,800 The first thing she said to me and my fiance was about breaking up and then asking a bunch 363 00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:51,400 of inappropriate questions about their sex relationship and then started asking about 364 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:56,720 our personal relationship trying to compare against her failed one and telling us things 365 00:20:56,720 --> 00:21:00,160 about her breakup and no congratulations to us. 366 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:04,480 We of course wanted to enjoy the party so tried to console and then change conversations, 367 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:07,440 lighten the mood, etc. 368 00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:10,920 But that didn't really work and essentially it was the only thing she spoke about all 369 00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:15,040 night to us and any of the 200 or so guests we had. 370 00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:20,600 She proceeded to get drunk and then talk in detail about her sex life to our friends. 371 00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:26,920 Quite a few people commented on this to us and she said was quite overbearing. 372 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:30,320 On the night I didn't bring it up with her and I didn't want to cause a scene and ruin 373 00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:33,400 the party and generally had a great night. 374 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:35,240 However this stuck both. 375 00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:39,000 This stuck in both mine and my fiance's mind and we didn't like the fact she couldn't 376 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:41,760 just celebrate us and have a good night. 377 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:46,000 So I spoke to Madison about it a week later and said that her talking about her breakup 378 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:51,000 all night wasn't very nice for us and brought the atmosphere down and that she could have 379 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,400 just enjoyed the night instead. 380 00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:57,200 That it made us feel annoyed and that we didn't like that you did that and please could you 381 00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:59,000 not do that in the future. 382 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:04,160 At the time of this conversation Madison agreed and apologized but then some days later texted 383 00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:08,600 and said actually we were wrong for bringing it up and that she thinks it's strange we 384 00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:15,320 were both bothered by her being upset, that all her friends agree we are the weird ones, 385 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:18,680 that she didn't say anything appropriate to anyone which is not true. 386 00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:23,080 So I think she's in denial about the part or embarrassed to admit it. 387 00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:28,280 That she was upset we should just support her and that we are not good friends to her for 388 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:29,840 even bringing it up. 389 00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:34,760 We now are at a stalemate as I don't want to apologize and Madison has pretty much taken 390 00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:36,200 her apology back. 391 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:42,200 Ok so I want to know, one, am I the asshole for being annoyed about Madison only talking 392 00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:47,640 about her breakup and intimate relationship details at mine and my fiance's engagement 393 00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:48,640 party? 394 00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:50,320 Let's just talk about that one first. 395 00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:56,200 Ok no but also I feel like you have to see Madison side a little bit. 396 00:22:56,200 --> 00:23:00,560 A breakup is hard especially if like it was a serious thing you can't really just turn 397 00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:04,880 around and be like partying that night or whatever. 398 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:10,440 You know like she was going hard but it does not sound like she was having a party. 399 00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:13,720 It does sound like she was having a good time and I feel like you can't blame her for not 400 00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:16,600 having a good time. 401 00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:22,440 That being said I think it's definitely on her to not be bringing everybody else down 402 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:23,760 with her. 403 00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:32,080 Yes and also it's like this isn't the time to just be like spitting out all the details. 404 00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:33,080 You know what I mean? 405 00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:36,800 And that's hard because it's like when you're so heartbroken and like your world's been 406 00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:39,560 turned upside down it's really hard not to like... 407 00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:40,560 Be impulsive. 408 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:43,880 Shut your mouth and yeah you just want to be impulsive and just like splurge it all out 409 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:49,320 and say all the details and this is what happened blah blah but there is a time and place she 410 00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:54,040 was drinking alcohol was involved which doesn't help her situation. 411 00:23:54,040 --> 00:24:00,320 But do we feel like them going to Madison and being like we feel like what you did was 412 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:02,120 wrong don't do it again? 413 00:24:02,120 --> 00:24:05,120 Do we feel like that was necessary? 414 00:24:05,120 --> 00:24:08,320 So that's the second question of am I the asshole? 415 00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:12,040 Or are they the asshole for bringing it up? 416 00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:13,040 Could I? 417 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:14,120 Yes you may. 418 00:24:14,120 --> 00:24:18,240 It takes a level of emotional intelligence to realize that that is wrong. 419 00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:24,240 So like depending on the age the frontal lobe is frontal cortex is not fully developed like 420 00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:29,760 it's understandable as she wouldn't realize but ultimately like not the place not the 421 00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:35,200 time don't bring it up and everybody would reach a certain point in life hopefully where 422 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,280 you'd realize that that's you just don't do that. 423 00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:42,440 You don't make that celebration which is a good thing it's an important decision it should 424 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:46,880 be celebrated don't make that about you despite your situation you kind of have to hold it 425 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:50,960 in and if you're really banged up about it don't go. 426 00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:54,360 And people would understand that like the friend would understand that like it's okay 427 00:24:54,360 --> 00:24:57,680 it's not the wedding it's the engagement party not that big of a deal. 428 00:24:57,680 --> 00:25:03,480 I will say though they might not understand especially because that's a childhood bestie. 429 00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:07,080 But that's the risk that you should be willing to take. 430 00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:09,480 If you can't go and respect their time. 431 00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:13,840 Like a text of like hey this happened I don't want to be a bummer all night. 432 00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:14,840 Yeah like I'm in a dream. 433 00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:15,840 Yeah I hate staying home. 434 00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:18,000 Yeah exactly like I can't. 435 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:21,560 Also can we know this is not some like small engagement party like that's. 436 00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:22,560 That's great. 437 00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:23,560 That is quite the engagement. 438 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:27,600 That's not like a little like hey a couple of us friends are getting together. 439 00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:28,600 That's massive. 440 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:33,200 And also to benefit the doubt with Madison she probably thought she was being a good friend 441 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:37,480 by like a miss admit a missed is that the right. 442 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:41,720 Yeah a missed all the drama that she's gotten her life her world being turned upside down 443 00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:45,960 she's still showing up whether she's showing up in the right way or the wrong way like 444 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:50,920 in her mind she's thinking like at least I showed up for you and here you are like 445 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:56,320 bagging on me for crying at your party about the breakup. 446 00:25:56,320 --> 00:26:03,800 Well she also though was trying to compare talking about their how they were doing what 447 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:04,800 they're doing. 448 00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:07,400 Yeah like what give me more details on that. 449 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:13,880 So what happened was before she got drunk she went up to the guy and the couple and 450 00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:19,560 was like trying to compare what they were doing to what they were doing with intimate 451 00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:25,240 and like yeah she was like trying to say that hers was better than theirs how are you 452 00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:29,320 guys still together kind of a thing that's that's how I read it as when I was reading 453 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:30,320 it. 454 00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:31,320 Oh that's so weird. 455 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:32,320 Oh so now you ain't about it. 456 00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:35,680 I well I mean I was very uncomfortable. 457 00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:36,680 She's the asshole. 458 00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:42,600 Yeah there's no two ways about it she's the asshole for bringing her sadness to the engagement 459 00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:45,560 party and that's really kind of like the baseline. 460 00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:49,320 Sure like maybe they could have handled it better but like if we're starting there she's 461 00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:51,240 the asshole in my opinion. 462 00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:55,480 Also do you feel like it could have gone better if they just sent her home when she showed 463 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:57,480 up the wreck. 464 00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:00,040 Like I don't think like if she showed up. 465 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:01,040 I know. 466 00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:02,880 Yeah I can't tell myself. 467 00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:05,360 I could not tell myself like look you're a mess. 468 00:27:05,360 --> 00:27:07,360 I feel like it depends how you do though. 469 00:27:07,360 --> 00:27:08,360 Turn around. 470 00:27:08,360 --> 00:27:10,360 Hey bro you need to leave like here. 471 00:27:10,360 --> 00:27:12,360 Okay well yeah if you say like that. 472 00:27:12,360 --> 00:27:15,480 But I feel like it's like hey dude like you've had such a hard day. 473 00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:18,400 We totally understand if you just like if you don't want to be here. 474 00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:19,960 Like rock, two, then go. 475 00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:24,240 So she also was looking for some validation and like she was like she was fishing for 476 00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:25,240 some. 477 00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:26,240 She was making it about her. 478 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:27,720 Yeah she was making it about her. 479 00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:28,720 I don't know. 480 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:29,720 Trying to see her sad. 481 00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:31,720 I feel bad like break up would suck. 482 00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:32,720 Yeah but you're the asshole. 483 00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:33,720 Yeah still the asshole. 484 00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:34,720 Yeah she is. 485 00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:35,720 In conclusion. 486 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:39,200 I will say on the on the confronting them I feel like there is a certain point you should 487 00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:40,200 just let it go. 488 00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:44,720 Like if you if you if you realize she's in a bad spot I feel like saying something isn't 489 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:46,640 gonna help you in any way. 490 00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:50,560 Oh I don't know if that's completely true because this is just the engagement party. 491 00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:54,120 Like and they obviously had a huge engagement party so like probably everything leading 492 00:27:54,120 --> 00:27:56,800 up to their wedding is gonna be a huge big deal. 493 00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:59,880 So like if they're like hey like don't do that again. 494 00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:05,040 I think that's pretty valid in their sense because she's gonna be coming to all the things 495 00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:09,760 and if all she ever talks about every time is gonna be the breakup like I'd be pretty. 496 00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:11,760 Yeah I don't know if she'll know. 497 00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:13,480 We'll see if she goes to the other stuff. 498 00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:15,240 Yeah if they're like still friends. 499 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:18,840 But that would be stressful like if you're the bride and that happened it's your childhood 500 00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:21,080 bestie and she did all that in your engagement party. 501 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:22,680 No no it's the guy. 502 00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:24,680 It's the guy's friend Madison. 503 00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:29,280 Oh so it's like me having a friend that was a girl. 504 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:33,360 That changes things because no wonder Madison is so pissed because she's thinking that's 505 00:28:33,360 --> 00:28:34,360 coming from the wife. 506 00:28:34,360 --> 00:28:35,360 That's like Patty's. 507 00:28:35,360 --> 00:28:37,640 That's a girl thing. 508 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:40,920 Like girls would be more upset about it than guys would be. 509 00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:46,600 Like I can't imagine Joe texting like let's say a girl like a friend of yours came to 510 00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:48,400 our engagement party. 511 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:52,760 You're not texting her unless I'm pissed and I'm telling you to text that girl. 512 00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:53,760 So she's from Whitney. 513 00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:59,920 Yes that makes it so much worse. 514 00:28:59,920 --> 00:29:02,560 But they know they they brought it up to her in person. 515 00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:03,560 That's still same. 516 00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:07,120 It's not a good look Madison. 517 00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:11,200 Yeah Madison and also like she's got to go. 518 00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:12,840 Why she yeah I don't know. 519 00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:16,200 I feel like it's weird if she's so adamant on talking to him. 520 00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:18,200 Especially with like the intimacy stuff. 521 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:19,720 Yeah that's even weird. 522 00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:23,360 She's like oh my intimacy was better. 523 00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:24,360 Yours is worse. 524 00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:25,560 We should try it together. 525 00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:26,560 Yeah. 526 00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,880 But maybe not. 527 00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:31,720 Maybe she wasn't shooting her shot with the kid. 528 00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:32,720 Maybe she just was. 529 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:33,720 Maybe it really is. 530 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:35,520 Erin out of her sadness. 531 00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:37,520 But she still is. 532 00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:40,160 Not the time to do it and she'll learn. 533 00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:44,200 Am I the asshole for kicking my husband out after we both found out we were cheating on 534 00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:45,200 each other. 535 00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:46,200 Correct. 536 00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:47,200 Love that. 537 00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:51,640 Boy you got to reset that again. 538 00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:53,600 Okay I'm going to say it really slow. 539 00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:54,600 Follow along. 540 00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:59,920 Am I the asshole for kicking my husband out after we both found out we were cheating on 541 00:29:59,920 --> 00:30:00,920 each other. 542 00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:04,840 My husband 34 M and I 32 F have been married for seven years. 543 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:08,280 The first few years were great but over time we started to grow apart. 544 00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:10,640 We became more like roommates than a married couple. 545 00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:13,600 We tried to fix things but nothing seemed to help. 546 00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:16,840 Eventually we just started living separate lives under the same roof. 547 00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:19,200 About six months ago I started seeing someone else. 548 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:20,440 Let's call him Mark. 549 00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:25,640 I met him through a friend and what began as a harmless conversation turned into something 550 00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:26,640 more. 551 00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:30,360 I know it was wrong but I felt neglected and unseen at home and Mark gave me the attention 552 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:32,000 I was craving. 553 00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:35,480 Last weekend I went out with friends and when I got home I had this feeling that something 554 00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:37,000 was off with my husband. 555 00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:41,240 I decided to go through his phone and that's when I found text between him and a woman named 556 00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:42,480 Anna. 557 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:45,400 It was obvious from the messages that he was having an affair. 558 00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:48,040 I was furious and confronted him immediately. 559 00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:51,400 He didn't deny it but instead he accused me of cheating too. 560 00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:55,040 That's when I realized he must have gone through my phone earlier and seen the text between 561 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,040 Mark and me. 562 00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:00,600 This is literally powerful. 563 00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:15,840 We stood there in shock realizing we were both guilty of the same thing. 564 00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:17,480 The argument that followed was intense. 565 00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:21,040 We both hurled accusations at each other, each blaming the other for why our marriage 566 00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:22,240 fell apart. 567 00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:25,960 He said I pushed him away by being emotionally unavailable and I told him that he checked 568 00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,480 out of our relationship long before I did. 569 00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:31,640 The more we argued, the more I realized how angry I was. 570 00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:34,960 Not just at him for cheating but how our marriage had become so broken. 571 00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:36,520 In a fit of rage I told him to leave. 572 00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:40,040 I said that if he wanted to be with Anna so badly he should go be with her. 573 00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,920 He tried to argue back saying we were both at fault but I didn't care. 574 00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:44,160 I needed him out of the house. 575 00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:47,880 He's been staying at a friend's place since then and we've barely spoken. 576 00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:50,440 Now that I've had time to cool down I'm feeling conflicted. 577 00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:54,200 I know we're both to blame for what happened but I don't regret kicking him out. 578 00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:58,760 It felt like the only way to take control of the situation was spiraling out of control. 579 00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:02,840 So am I the asshole for kicking him out of the house after we both cheated or was I justified 580 00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:04,600 in doing so? 581 00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:05,600 She's an asshole. 582 00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:06,600 Okay. 583 00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:07,600 Okay. 584 00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:08,600 You're not gonna like this. 585 00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:09,600 Let's unpack some of this. 586 00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:10,600 You're not gonna like this. 587 00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:11,600 No. 588 00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:12,600 Yeah, I'm probably not. 589 00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:13,600 She's an asshole. 590 00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:14,600 I don't think she's a... 591 00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:15,600 You can't just keep living together. 592 00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:16,600 Right? 593 00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:17,600 One of you's gotta get out of the house. 594 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:18,600 Someone's gotta go. 595 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:22,080 And so I feel like this doesn't have enough background information for us to say. 596 00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:26,600 It's more so dependent on like how, who was at fault in the relationship. 597 00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:29,560 And it doesn't really sound like we have a lot of that. 598 00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:33,400 But I mean like if it's on him then he low key should kind of... 599 00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:35,520 You gotta separate first so I can cool down. 600 00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:37,160 You're not gonna be able to just cool down the same house. 601 00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:38,160 Who cheated first? 602 00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:39,160 Let's not stop that. 603 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:40,160 That's literally what I was gonna say. 604 00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,160 I was like who's affair started first? 605 00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:43,160 It does though. 606 00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:48,560 Because when you like cheat you are so disconnected from your actual partner at that point. 607 00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:50,120 It sounds like it was pretty... 608 00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:51,120 But think about this. 609 00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:52,120 It's not like a long distance. 610 00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:55,040 And if there's not like a long distance... 611 00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:59,440 I do find there's difference if like he starts cheating in like four or five months down 612 00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:00,440 the road. 613 00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:01,920 She's just filled in and neglected. 614 00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:03,560 And then she goes and cheats if I have it's different. 615 00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:09,120 But it fits within like a month or so and it's like feelings that she's had already for 616 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:10,120 their whole marriage. 617 00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:13,680 Then I find that doesn't come into play. 618 00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:15,400 I get ya. 619 00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:17,880 I wish we had more context here. 620 00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:18,880 Like what do they do for work? 621 00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:20,120 Who has more money? 622 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:21,120 What do they do? 623 00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:22,120 Are they gonna get a divorce? 624 00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:23,760 Like where are we at here? 625 00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:25,320 They're definitely getting a divorce. 626 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:26,320 Yeah. 627 00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:27,320 You think... 628 00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:31,240 I wonder if there's stories out there like success stories where they both cheat on each 629 00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:32,240 other and they stay together. 630 00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:33,760 They're both like wow we... 631 00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:34,760 100%. 632 00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:35,760 You think so? 633 00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:36,760 Yes. 634 00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:37,760 Absolutely. 635 00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:40,640 Okay if you are one of those couples listening please send us your story. 636 00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:41,640 Unpopular opinion. 637 00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:46,640 I almost like those couples have a better chance than people who just had one person cheat 638 00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:49,400 because now you're both back even and you're like... 639 00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:50,400 That's true. 640 00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:51,400 Here's the thing. 641 00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:53,120 You're back even. 642 00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:54,120 You said something. 643 00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:57,160 You're like who's responsible for the marriage falling apart? 644 00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:58,160 It's both of them. 645 00:33:58,160 --> 00:33:59,160 That's true. 646 00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:01,360 In this story she says that it gets stale. 647 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:06,240 Things start to suck at a certain point and that's what causes them to both look elsewhere 648 00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:09,080 and like one in two marriages ends in divorce. 649 00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:10,800 It's not a secret that that happens. 650 00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:13,160 They were at the 7 out of 5. 651 00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:14,160 One in two now? 652 00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:15,160 Yeah. 653 00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:16,160 I believe it's... 654 00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:17,160 It used to be like one in five. 655 00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:18,160 Is it one in five or something though? 656 00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:20,400 It's been 50% for a minute. 657 00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:21,400 Yeah. 658 00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:22,400 Marriage is great. 659 00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:26,400 But they're not even talking divorce yet. 660 00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:27,400 They're literally... 661 00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:30,000 She's literally just asking my asshole for kicking out. 662 00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:34,520 I think it's more of an individual like in that time of kicking out not like permanently 663 00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:37,600 removed like I get the house you're gone. 664 00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:38,600 Yeah. 665 00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:39,600 I think it's... 666 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:40,600 What do you think that moment was? 667 00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:41,600 It just like... 668 00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:42,600 Holy shit. 669 00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:44,600 It made me think of a Spider-Man meme. 670 00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:45,600 You both cheated on me. 671 00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:47,640 Literally I just did that bit. 672 00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:48,640 So yeah. 673 00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:49,640 What? 674 00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:50,640 Yeah. 675 00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:52,840 You didn't see it before but... 676 00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:54,600 You're like three minutes behind. 677 00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:55,600 You'll see it on YouTube. 678 00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:56,600 Yeah. 679 00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:57,600 Watch it back. 680 00:34:57,600 --> 00:34:58,600 It's alright. 681 00:34:58,600 --> 00:34:59,600 I don't... 682 00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:00,600 Hit a little rewind. 683 00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:05,280 So I bet I agree with what you're saying Joe that like someone had to leave that night. 684 00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:07,240 You know like they both messed up. 685 00:35:07,240 --> 00:35:08,240 Someone had to go. 686 00:35:08,240 --> 00:35:09,240 So why does it have to be the guy? 687 00:35:09,240 --> 00:35:10,240 I don't know. 688 00:35:10,240 --> 00:35:11,240 It just ended up being that way. 689 00:35:11,240 --> 00:35:12,240 She was the first one to say it. 690 00:35:12,240 --> 00:35:13,240 She called it. 691 00:35:13,240 --> 00:35:14,240 She said... 692 00:35:14,240 --> 00:35:15,240 She called the house. 693 00:35:15,240 --> 00:35:16,240 She said it. 694 00:35:16,240 --> 00:35:18,240 She said dibs. 695 00:35:18,240 --> 00:35:19,600 I don't think it's like dibs. 696 00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:23,040 Before we get too crazy, do you guys want to hear the top comment? 697 00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:24,040 Yeah. 698 00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:25,680 Okay this had the most up folks. 699 00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:26,760 You're the asshole. 700 00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:27,760 You both cheated. 701 00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:29,880 So neither of you is innocent here. 702 00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:31,720 But kicking him out was extreme. 703 00:35:31,720 --> 00:35:35,560 Instead of trying to work through it or even just separating calmly, you escalated things 704 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:36,880 by throwing him out. 705 00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:40,040 This situation calls for more communication, not more drama. 706 00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:41,040 Yeah. 707 00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:42,040 Wow. 708 00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:44,240 That was such a mic drop. 709 00:35:44,240 --> 00:35:45,240 Dude. 710 00:35:45,240 --> 00:35:47,680 I'm going to use that for us, babe. 711 00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:48,680 I'm going to use that for us. 712 00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:50,760 I'm going to use it for you. 713 00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:51,760 I'm not leaving the house. 714 00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:52,760 I'm not either. 715 00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:54,760 I'll take I look. 716 00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:55,760 Okay. 717 00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:57,240 Here's another comment I liked. 718 00:35:57,240 --> 00:35:58,760 This one says ESH. 719 00:35:58,760 --> 00:35:59,880 Everyone sucks here. 720 00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:02,640 So everyone's the asshole. 721 00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:03,640 Both of you stepped outside. 722 00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:04,640 That is a great answer. 723 00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:05,640 Yeah. 724 00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:06,640 Both of you stepped outside your marriage. 725 00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:09,240 So you're both responsible for where things ended up. 726 00:36:09,240 --> 00:36:12,320 However, your husband shouldn't have cheated and neither should you. 727 00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:15,200 Kicking him out was just a way to avoid dealing with the real issues in your relationship. 728 00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:16,200 Yes. 729 00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:17,200 Yeah. 730 00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:18,200 They're coming so good. 731 00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:22,480 I don't think you can just unpack that in a night of finding out. 732 00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:23,480 Yes. 733 00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:29,080 I feel like you do need to like take a step back, calm down and then reanalyze your entire 734 00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:31,600 marriage because clearly there's flaws. 735 00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:34,120 Tell him what's going down. 736 00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:36,240 Mark, it's over. 737 00:36:36,240 --> 00:36:38,600 Or it's over. 738 00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:39,600 Come over. 739 00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:44,680 What if the two people they were cheating on ended up hooking up? 740 00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:46,800 And they just have a love square? 741 00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:47,800 Oh, Mark and Anna? 742 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:48,800 Yeah. 743 00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:49,800 Oh, they just have a foursome. 744 00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:50,800 Oh, sure. 745 00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:51,800 Dang. 746 00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:52,800 That's economical. 747 00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:55,200 I love that idea. 748 00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:57,560 That's not a good idea. 749 00:36:57,560 --> 00:36:58,560 Not recommended. 750 00:36:58,560 --> 00:36:59,560 Really bad. 751 00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:03,640 They always, you know, as soon as it gets to be more than two people, it just really 752 00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:04,640 complicates things. 753 00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:06,840 Is that your personal experience? 754 00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:08,920 That's not a question that you should ask. 755 00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:11,880 But why don't you start with just a normal relationship first? 756 00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:14,520 How about a monogamous one? 757 00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:15,520 Yes. 758 00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:18,520 Okay, I found one. 759 00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:20,520 That was on her side? 760 00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:21,520 You want to tell us about her? 761 00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:23,840 You want to ruin the engagement party? 762 00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:27,880 You want to ruin our pot? 763 00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:30,240 There was one comment that supported Wifey. 764 00:37:30,240 --> 00:37:32,440 It says, not the asshole. 765 00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:34,480 He cheated first and you found out about it. 766 00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:36,640 You had every right to be upset and ask him to leave. 767 00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:39,960 It sounds like your marriage was already over and his affair was just the final nail in 768 00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:40,960 the coffin. 769 00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:41,960 Cool. 770 00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:42,960 So you don't care about it? 771 00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:44,040 Wait, did he cheat first? 772 00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:45,760 You know that reminds me of this? 773 00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:49,400 It's like she cheated first. 774 00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:51,480 She found out first, seconds before. 775 00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:56,160 It's like twins getting birthed and the older twins like, I don't know, a minute older. 776 00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:57,160 Yeah. 777 00:37:57,160 --> 00:37:59,560 That's literally it. 778 00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:04,520 Like A versus B. 779 00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:05,520 So yeah. 780 00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:06,520 That's a lot. 781 00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:07,520 I don't even know. 782 00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:08,520 And like therapy. 783 00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:09,520 Therapy. 784 00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:10,520 Yeah, therapy. 785 00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:11,520 I always do it. 786 00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:15,800 So like, are we rooting for them as a couple to stay together? 787 00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:16,800 No. 788 00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:19,360 It sounds like the ship has well sailed. 789 00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:22,840 But like, ultimately it's what are they looking for individually? 790 00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:23,840 What did Mark have? 791 00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:25,040 What did Anna have? 792 00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:28,960 And like, if you can find that in your marriage, you're already there and like divorce is messy. 793 00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:32,400 It doesn't mention things about kids that also goes into it a lot. 794 00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:35,040 So I mean, if there were kids. 795 00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:36,240 34 and 32. 796 00:38:36,240 --> 00:38:40,280 So they're also like, they're like, but if they have kids, those are gonna be young 797 00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:41,280 kids. 798 00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:42,280 Yeah. 799 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:43,280 Yeah. 800 00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:44,780 That's sad. 801 00:38:44,780 --> 00:38:46,200 I honestly am stumped. 802 00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:47,720 I don't know who has the fixed story. 803 00:38:47,720 --> 00:38:49,280 Oh gosh, I didn't think about that. 804 00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:51,160 They all sounded really good tonight. 805 00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:52,160 Yeah. 806 00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:55,520 I think it's either either Marley or Joe. 807 00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:56,520 Okay. 808 00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:57,520 Wow. 809 00:38:57,520 --> 00:38:58,520 Here's the thing. 810 00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:05,200 He has to be the greatest freestyle of all time to come up with top comments. 811 00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:07,640 Three more comments on top of this thing already. 812 00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:08,640 That's pretty insane. 813 00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:10,680 I mean, I don't know. 814 00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:15,320 Even if everyone sucks your comment, that's pretty crazy to pull out of his back pocket. 815 00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:16,320 I don't know. 816 00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:19,040 Marley's chat GPT before us all. 817 00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:20,680 I don't think it was Isaiah's. 818 00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:22,520 There's no way he would get three in a row. 819 00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:24,520 Yeah, there's not. 820 00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:27,080 And that one sounded like way better than all his other fake ones. 821 00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:30,120 So either he got really good at like fixing. 822 00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:31,120 Oh, yeah. 823 00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:32,120 What was yours? 824 00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:33,120 I don't even remember. 825 00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:34,120 It was. 826 00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:36,120 It was so long ago. 827 00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:38,800 Remember, yours was the females. 828 00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:41,680 Yours was the Marine Corps trying to pawn off the kid. 829 00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:42,960 The engagement party. 830 00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:43,960 The engagement party. 831 00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:44,960 Oh, yeah. 832 00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:48,360 No, yeah, that sounded that sounded legit. 833 00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:52,520 I could see I could see chat GPT going on right in a little novel. 834 00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:54,080 Yeah, that was pretty cool. 835 00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:55,800 Yeah, I could hear you right. 836 00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:58,680 I think I'm going to turn to Marley. 837 00:39:58,680 --> 00:40:00,680 Oh, the left. 838 00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:03,320 Yeah, left after two months. 839 00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:04,320 Two women. 840 00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:05,320 Well, I'm excited. 841 00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:06,320 Looking forward to knowing. 842 00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:07,320 I know. 843 00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:08,320 I feel like this will be a good one. 844 00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:09,320 I'm going to sign this up until next week. 845 00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:10,320 That right now. 846 00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:13,320 Can we give a guess? 847 00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:14,320 Yeah. 848 00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:16,600 I'm guessing Marley. 849 00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:18,960 I think I'm going through off my chest, bro. 850 00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:20,280 I think I can't vote myself. 851 00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:21,280 I think Joe. 852 00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:24,280 You're going to vote yourself. 853 00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:26,280 No, no, no, no. 854 00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:30,200 That's not what I meant. 855 00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:31,200 That's not what I meant. 856 00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:32,200 I think I'm going to go. 857 00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:36,080 Man, it's either between you two. 858 00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:37,560 Hey, boy, let's go. 859 00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:38,960 Wait, what was yours again? 860 00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:42,840 You're so confident on the 19 year old taking the 18 year olds. 861 00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:43,840 Oh, yeah, yeah. 862 00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:44,840 Kids? 863 00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:45,840 That's also a good one. 864 00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:50,520 I think I'm going to go with Joe. 865 00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:51,520 So we're split? 866 00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:52,520 What do you think? 867 00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:53,520 Oh, yeah. 868 00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:54,520 Marley or something. 869 00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:55,520 Marley. 870 00:40:55,520 --> 00:41:00,760 Just because I think Marley's was so long that she wouldn't have. 871 00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:02,200 That chat, you can't write that much. 872 00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:05,880 Well, I just don't think she would have like went through and edited all the things chat 873 00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:08,720 that she does wrong of that long. 874 00:41:08,720 --> 00:41:09,720 Like for it to be like. 875 00:41:09,720 --> 00:41:12,720 Yeah, I'm going to say how you got edited at all. 876 00:41:12,720 --> 00:41:13,720 I don't know. 877 00:41:13,720 --> 00:41:14,720 I don't know. 878 00:41:14,720 --> 00:41:15,720 Oh, well, you have to edit things. 879 00:41:15,720 --> 00:41:16,880 I just asked more questions. 880 00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:17,880 I'm going to go. 881 00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:18,880 I'm going to go Joe. 882 00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:19,880 I'm going to go Joe. 883 00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:20,880 Fine answer, Joe. 884 00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:21,880 Okay, Marley. 885 00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:22,880 I can't vote myself. 886 00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:23,880 That's kind of sus, but I'm going to stick to my gun. 887 00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:24,880 Dude, she's so good. 888 00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:25,880 I can't vote. 889 00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:26,880 I'm going Marley. 890 00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:27,880 It's a crazy day. 891 00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:28,880 Oh, my God. 892 00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:29,880 Guys, great job. 893 00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:30,880 I'm going Marley. 894 00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:31,880 I'm going Marley. 895 00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:32,880 I'm going Marley. 896 00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:33,880 I'm going Marley. 897 00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:34,880 It's a crazy day. 898 00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:35,880 Oh, guys, great stories. 899 00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:36,880 That was a good one. 900 00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:38,880 Thank you for having me on the podcast. 901 00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:42,880 Yeah, we wish you could be on every week. 902 00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:43,880 Followers for your cute girl. 903 00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:44,880 I'm on Snapchat. 904 00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:45,880 Let's go. 905 00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:46,880 How old are you? 906 00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:47,880 Jordan underscore all red zero one. 907 00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:48,880 I'm 22. 908 00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:50,880 Overfeed that one more time. 909 00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:52,880 Jordan underscore all red zero one. 910 00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:54,880 Fremzy's on three. 911 00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:55,880 Nope. 912 00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:56,880 I'm out of this. 913 00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:57,880 Fremzy's. 914 00:41:57,880 --> 00:41:58,880 Peace out. 915 00:41:58,880 --> 00:41:59,880 I love you guys. 916 00:41:59,880 --> 00:42:14,880 Later, guys.