WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.000 Welcome to Hot Couple Chronicles, a podcast exploring 00:00:03.000 --> 00:00:05.839 the singing lifestyle. Our discussions may contain 00:00:05.839 --> 00:00:08.519 explicit content and adult themes intended for 00:00:08.519 --> 00:00:11.519 mature audiences. While we strive to offer valuable 00:00:11.519 --> 00:00:13.960 insights and entertainment, please be aware that 00:00:13.960 --> 00:00:16.399 the views expressed are based on personal experiences 00:00:16.399 --> 00:00:19.699 and opinions. We encourage listeners to approach 00:00:19.699 --> 00:00:22.120 the content with an open mind and to prioritize 00:00:22.120 --> 00:00:25.000 communication, consent, and respect in their 00:00:25.000 --> 00:00:27.719 relationships. Remember, everyone's journey is 00:00:27.719 --> 00:00:30.219 unique, so take what resonates with you and leave 00:00:30.219 --> 00:00:32.399 what doesn't. Thank you for joining us on our 00:00:32.399 --> 00:00:59.130 adventure. I'm Brian. I'm Moxie Mayhem. I'm Mike. 00:00:59.270 --> 00:01:03.929 I'm Sam. Amanda. I'm Rob. And I'm Ashley. And 00:01:03.929 --> 00:01:08.290 this is Cop Couple Chronicles. Everybody knows 00:01:08.290 --> 00:01:12.989 stories about all of these people. Last week, 00:01:13.010 --> 00:01:16.810 I talked with Jim, the conscious man, on all 00:01:16.810 --> 00:01:19.609 the social media platforms, where we talked about 00:01:19.609 --> 00:01:21.810 different problems and different solutions for 00:01:21.810 --> 00:01:26.590 guys. Everybody comes across a lifestyle at some 00:01:26.590 --> 00:01:29.730 point or another. This week, we're talking about 00:01:29.730 --> 00:01:33.450 not just St. Patty's Day party, but my birthday 00:01:33.450 --> 00:01:41.450 party. I guess we're just going to start there. 00:01:43.030 --> 00:01:47.870 Friday, Ashley and me drove up to Loganville 00:01:47.870 --> 00:01:52.870 for St. Paddy's Day party with Pineapples After 00:01:52.870 --> 00:01:55.189 Dark. Yeah, everybody came in on Friday. Traffic 00:01:55.189 --> 00:01:58.189 was crazy everywhere. But we all got there early, 00:01:58.290 --> 00:02:01.409 actually, to help set up everything. So that 00:02:01.409 --> 00:02:03.829 was our first little bit of fun was just decorating. 00:02:06.829 --> 00:02:11.110 Now, who had the longest commute here? Priya. 00:02:11.530 --> 00:02:14.110 I teed that up. The pre -check was great. We 00:02:14.110 --> 00:02:18.889 loved our experience. It was wonderful. We had 00:02:18.889 --> 00:02:20.969 cocktails on the plane. We had a great time. 00:02:22.050 --> 00:02:24.949 Yeah. The 2 .45 a .m. wake -up call was great. 00:02:24.949 --> 00:02:28.009 You know what? Worth it. For real. 2 .45 sucks 00:02:28.009 --> 00:02:30.710 to get up for a 5 a .m. flight, but to get there 00:02:30.710 --> 00:02:33.949 and be able to have an extra day, it was super 00:02:33.949 --> 00:02:36.740 cool. But yeah, so coming from - When I got up, 00:02:36.900 --> 00:02:38.680 I think I texted y 'all. I texted y 'all and 00:02:38.680 --> 00:02:41.360 I said, have a safe travels. I wasn't really 00:02:41.360 --> 00:02:44.000 sure what time you were flying. And Moxie is 00:02:44.000 --> 00:02:47.599 sitting there saying, I am having a cocktail. 00:02:48.520 --> 00:02:54.340 And it was 7 .30, 7 a .m. And she's an hour behind 00:02:54.340 --> 00:02:58.849 us. Airport life, baby. There's no rules at the 00:02:58.849 --> 00:03:03.629 airport. You guys got to the Lees around what 00:03:03.629 --> 00:03:05.069 time? Because I felt like you guys were at the 00:03:05.069 --> 00:03:09.169 venue pretty early. Yeah, we got there early. 00:03:09.490 --> 00:03:11.550 Then we had to go to Dollar General to waste 00:03:11.550 --> 00:03:13.969 time because we're going to beat you to your 00:03:13.969 --> 00:03:17.550 house from work. And I had to get your page and 00:03:17.550 --> 00:03:21.930 get everything to the house. That's awesome. 00:03:22.050 --> 00:03:27.000 So they surprised me when... with birthday decorations 00:03:27.000 --> 00:03:29.860 and a birthday cake that I didn't even get to 00:03:29.860 --> 00:03:38.919 try. I wouldn't have had it any other way. I 00:03:38.919 --> 00:03:40.740 planned on eating that for breakfast the next 00:03:40.740 --> 00:03:43.139 day. It crossed my mind, but then I was like, 00:03:43.240 --> 00:03:45.000 you want to go to our favorite breakfast spot? 00:03:45.180 --> 00:03:47.780 I said, all right, better choices, better choices. 00:03:48.180 --> 00:03:51.460 He twists arms pretty hard, so I get that. It 00:03:51.460 --> 00:03:54.860 hurt. He just raises an eyebrow and people listen 00:03:54.860 --> 00:04:05.560 to him. Yeah, that one. But yeah, we got to their 00:04:05.560 --> 00:04:09.639 house and we hung out and then we met Mike at 00:04:09.639 --> 00:04:13.699 the venue with all of his lighting gear. Rob 00:04:13.699 --> 00:04:18.620 contributed. That's a group effort. So we got 00:04:18.620 --> 00:04:22.000 there early to help set up and get all the decorations 00:04:22.000 --> 00:04:25.779 and merch tables and everything else. Hot balloons. 00:04:26.120 --> 00:04:29.620 I was so going to bring up the balloons today. 00:04:29.899 --> 00:04:35.529 And if anybody knows Ashley, every time... a 00:04:35.529 --> 00:04:38.490 balloon popped, I could feel part of her soul. 00:04:40.029 --> 00:04:44.810 The fairs and the carnivals where you throw the 00:04:44.810 --> 00:04:51.750 dart, we avoid those. I mean, we had like 300 00:04:51.750 --> 00:04:53.810 balloons and they were getting them blown up 00:04:53.810 --> 00:04:56.990 and everyone was, it was a team effort. What 00:04:56.990 --> 00:05:06.220 was even popping them? It was terrible. Our balloon 00:05:06.220 --> 00:05:10.139 full arch became corner balloon decorations. 00:05:12.040 --> 00:05:15.060 Eventually, we were like, no, they won't. They 00:05:15.060 --> 00:05:18.120 spent two hours. The original plan was to get 00:05:18.120 --> 00:05:21.120 everything set up and decorated and do this, 00:05:21.199 --> 00:05:23.459 but it took a lot longer than we expected, and 00:05:23.459 --> 00:05:26.339 everybody still had to get ready. We showed up. 00:05:27.180 --> 00:05:31.589 The hotel was 30 minutes away. So that's a 90 00:05:31.589 --> 00:05:33.889 -minute round trip for the guys. She did her 00:05:33.889 --> 00:05:36.329 makeup in the car on the way back. Yeah, we were 00:05:36.329 --> 00:05:39.189 in a rush. I mean, running. Us guys kind of stuck 00:05:39.189 --> 00:05:43.009 around while they took off and carpooled wherever 00:05:43.009 --> 00:05:45.629 they were going to get ready. We're running. 00:05:45.870 --> 00:05:48.370 But that night was lit. We showed up about 7 00:05:48.370 --> 00:05:50.610 .30 and things were starting to get, everybody 00:05:50.610 --> 00:05:52.470 was kind of hanging out. It was fun. There were 00:05:52.470 --> 00:05:55.389 merch tables and raffle tickets. Everything was 00:05:55.389 --> 00:05:57.129 starting to get going. It was super cool being 00:05:57.129 --> 00:05:58.910 able to see everybody and connect with everybody, 00:05:59.110 --> 00:06:02.250 especially being from out of town. So it was 00:06:02.250 --> 00:06:05.829 a really big venue, but that place was packed. 00:06:07.569 --> 00:06:12.379 Packed. felt so bad to the small town bartenders 00:06:12.379 --> 00:06:16.740 because they were doing their best they did awesome 00:06:16.740 --> 00:06:23.259 yeah they were so good at what they did and they 00:06:23.259 --> 00:06:26.600 loved what i was you know giving them for energy 00:06:26.600 --> 00:06:28.879 and they're just like hey let's connect and i'm 00:06:28.879 --> 00:06:33.220 like Yeah, let's connect. I've been going to 00:06:33.220 --> 00:06:35.800 that bar for 15 years, and I have never seen 00:06:35.800 --> 00:06:38.639 that many people in that place. That place was 00:06:38.639 --> 00:06:41.579 packed, and it was amazing to watch. What was 00:06:41.579 --> 00:06:43.360 the number, the final number? It was around 350. 00:06:44.500 --> 00:06:46.779 I couldn't imagine too many more people. It was 00:06:46.779 --> 00:06:48.600 a good party, and the people made the party. 00:06:48.680 --> 00:06:50.500 Yeah, we had a lot of cool stuff that was there 00:06:50.500 --> 00:06:52.639 to support it, but I think we had a lot of great 00:06:52.639 --> 00:06:55.500 people with Pineapples After Dark. And we have 00:06:55.500 --> 00:06:58.360 a really great crowd that comes in and is respectful 00:06:58.360 --> 00:07:01.220 of one another. And they just had a great time. 00:07:01.339 --> 00:07:03.600 On that note, I want to go back because this 00:07:03.600 --> 00:07:07.120 is the Oregon couple's first Pineapples After 00:07:07.120 --> 00:07:11.279 Dark party ever. So what was your guys' first 00:07:11.279 --> 00:07:15.399 impressions when you came in? It was a great 00:07:15.399 --> 00:07:17.680 group of people, and as soon as you walked in 00:07:17.680 --> 00:07:20.660 the door, the vibe was already, you could tell 00:07:20.660 --> 00:07:23.519 that everyone there was there for the same, we 00:07:23.519 --> 00:07:25.259 were all on the same mentality, we were all on 00:07:25.259 --> 00:07:28.920 the same path. It was a great, welcoming environment 00:07:28.920 --> 00:07:31.319 right from the beginning, and it stayed that 00:07:31.319 --> 00:07:36.740 way. Ashley went to Secrets solo one time. I 00:07:36.740 --> 00:07:39.920 would ever went to anything by myself. In comparison 00:07:39.920 --> 00:07:44.449 to other groups, is it... They've been to Miami 00:07:44.449 --> 00:07:48.009 with us, with Libertine. We've done quite a few 00:07:48.009 --> 00:07:50.009 events over the last... They were our travel 00:07:50.009 --> 00:07:54.850 buddies there for the longest time. Yes. They've 00:07:54.850 --> 00:07:57.350 been to Miami with us. We've been to Secrets 00:07:57.350 --> 00:08:03.089 numerous times together. So is this one... Does 00:08:03.089 --> 00:08:06.509 Pineapples After Dark stand out from other groups 00:08:06.509 --> 00:08:09.189 that you guys have experienced? So far, yeah. 00:08:09.269 --> 00:08:11.129 I would say it's one of my favorites so far. 00:08:12.270 --> 00:08:14.990 Honestly, everybody, it was so easy to talk to. 00:08:15.110 --> 00:08:17.410 And y 'all know from experience, like I'm a very 00:08:17.410 --> 00:08:20.769 shy person at this event. I was not shy at all. 00:08:20.810 --> 00:08:22.870 I was walking up to everybody. I was like, hey, 00:08:22.910 --> 00:08:25.769 because everybody made me feel like I was able 00:08:25.769 --> 00:08:30.689 to. That's the goal. You never know. I knew, 00:08:30.709 --> 00:08:32.750 I knew though. I was like, these. You guys are 00:08:32.750 --> 00:08:34.929 going to love them. They're going to fit right 00:08:34.929 --> 00:08:38.049 on. We've been talking pineapples after dark 00:08:38.049 --> 00:08:41.590 parties up to our close friends for a long time 00:08:41.590 --> 00:08:43.470 trying to get them up here. But they're all so 00:08:43.470 --> 00:08:46.269 scattered. It's like, all right, you got to come 00:08:46.269 --> 00:08:50.490 with us. And I haven't seen you guys in forever. 00:08:50.590 --> 00:08:52.909 So when you walk in, I was like, I didn't know. 00:08:54.970 --> 00:09:03.460 I was like, my people. We see you, lads. It was 00:09:03.460 --> 00:09:09.620 so adorable. I just felt somebody just attack 00:09:09.620 --> 00:09:14.460 me from the side. and step on my foot and i knocked 00:09:14.460 --> 00:09:18.779 you into poor sam you did and then amanda kissed 00:09:18.779 --> 00:09:22.000 it this was our second event and like the last 00:09:22.000 --> 00:09:23.799 event we went to was a year ago it was quite 00:09:23.799 --> 00:09:26.139 a while ago but this was way different last one 00:09:26.139 --> 00:09:28.500 was just like a meet and greet and this was a 00:09:28.500 --> 00:09:32.440 party so this was way different and i mean same 00:09:32.440 --> 00:09:35.990 vibe with all the people just way different vibe 00:09:35.990 --> 00:09:38.070 than when you go to secrets or other kind of 00:09:38.070 --> 00:09:40.850 takeover events and it was just cool everybody's 00:09:40.850 --> 00:09:43.990 very well meet and greets for me anyways are 00:09:43.990 --> 00:09:48.070 always hit miss because it's a vanilla bar you 00:09:48.070 --> 00:09:50.250 never know what the vibe's going to be until 00:09:50.250 --> 00:09:54.129 you get there and just pulling up and seeing 00:09:54.129 --> 00:09:55.669 everybody outside you're like oh this is gonna 00:09:55.669 --> 00:10:00.879 be a good one Our goal is to not have meet and 00:10:00.879 --> 00:10:03.840 greets. You know, we want to have full takeovers 00:10:03.840 --> 00:10:07.080 of any venue that we do. So if we're doing a 00:10:07.080 --> 00:10:10.240 party, it's got to be our house that night and 00:10:10.240 --> 00:10:12.419 make everybody feel comfortable. Because like 00:10:12.419 --> 00:10:14.440 you said, that way you know the vibe, right? 00:10:14.559 --> 00:10:17.120 The vibe is the people that you bring in and 00:10:17.120 --> 00:10:19.500 not some randos that are vanillas. Nothing wrong 00:10:19.500 --> 00:10:21.240 with that. But that is not the vibe we're looking 00:10:21.240 --> 00:10:23.519 for that night. We're looking for our people 00:10:23.519 --> 00:10:27.200 to be there and to feel comfortable. Safe, sexy, 00:10:27.259 --> 00:10:29.679 and comfortable. And there was a lot of sexy. 00:10:30.399 --> 00:10:36.679 You came out in that dress. I'm like, yep, that's 00:10:36.679 --> 00:10:43.220 the one. She's like, is this okay? Before the 00:10:43.220 --> 00:10:45.820 event, she sent me a picture and she was like, 00:10:45.860 --> 00:10:50.539 is this it? Of course, the men laughed very hard. 00:10:51.980 --> 00:10:57.309 Unless you got to take off. Absolutely. I was 00:10:57.309 --> 00:11:00.169 not complaining about Rob's outfit either. No. 00:11:00.269 --> 00:11:05.129 I love this. The stairway. I have mixed emotions 00:11:05.129 --> 00:11:09.370 about Rob because before I met Rob, I was always 00:11:09.370 --> 00:11:11.809 the best dressed. Yeah. You got competition. 00:11:12.509 --> 00:11:15.799 I got competition. When I make an outfit, I have 00:11:15.799 --> 00:11:19.120 to think about my outfit. We always look forward 00:11:19.120 --> 00:11:20.860 to seeing what Rob's going to bring out. That 00:11:20.860 --> 00:11:25.919 is why Rob and I connect so hard. When he came 00:11:25.919 --> 00:11:28.879 out in your jacket. I share my clothes with Rob 00:11:28.879 --> 00:11:31.360 because we are kindred spirits in fashion form. 00:11:35.030 --> 00:11:38.389 Yeah, everyone got a nice... There were a lot 00:11:38.389 --> 00:11:41.429 of kilts there. There were five or six. There 00:11:41.429 --> 00:11:43.389 were. Yeah, definitely. Kudos to the kilt boys. 00:11:44.210 --> 00:11:48.250 I got a video of all the kilt guys just rocking 00:11:48.250 --> 00:11:52.570 out in their own little kilt -y ways. Blind man. 00:11:53.149 --> 00:11:59.179 And it's bad for me. How many times in my life 00:11:59.179 --> 00:12:01.179 I thought, why am I recording this? And then 00:12:01.179 --> 00:12:03.360 like a week later, it's like, oh, that's why. 00:12:03.539 --> 00:12:07.120 Dancing on my phone? No. I have something like 00:12:07.120 --> 00:12:11.679 621 photos and videos from this weekend. Wait, 00:12:11.720 --> 00:12:17.039 but how many of us? Two. Yeah. That tracks. This 00:12:17.039 --> 00:12:21.909 morning. about, all right, we need you to remind 00:12:21.909 --> 00:12:24.090 us to take pictures with us. It's like, this 00:12:24.090 --> 00:12:28.210 is your duty. I have to go back and read it that 00:12:28.210 --> 00:12:33.309 way. I read it like, oh, we're in trouble. I 00:12:33.309 --> 00:12:36.009 brought my phone with full intentions of taking 00:12:36.009 --> 00:12:39.330 pictures. I said to Sam, in the afternoon, I'm 00:12:39.330 --> 00:12:43.190 going to be a good content creator. And I got 00:12:43.190 --> 00:12:45.509 out, took some pictures, and that was it. We 00:12:45.509 --> 00:12:48.129 had the conversation too. Like we're like, all 00:12:48.129 --> 00:12:51.629 right, get as many pictures as we can of anything. 00:12:51.809 --> 00:12:55.769 And I literally like I sent everything I got 00:12:55.769 --> 00:12:58.889 from the weekend and it was like seven pictures. 00:12:59.110 --> 00:13:05.330 And I got no photographic evidence of it. Yeah, 00:13:05.370 --> 00:13:09.419 we have no pictures. Lindsay. The only thing 00:13:09.419 --> 00:13:11.879 we have is like Friday night and we already said 00:13:11.879 --> 00:13:15.059 it all. You blew your load too early. Right. 00:13:15.179 --> 00:13:21.100 And maybe 10 photos. I'm out. I'm out. Where's 00:13:21.100 --> 00:13:24.539 some of your highlights? When you sat beside 00:13:24.539 --> 00:13:27.659 me when you first came in, I looked over and 00:13:27.659 --> 00:13:30.000 you screamed at the top of your lungs. I was 00:13:30.000 --> 00:13:34.440 like, penguin danced again. Wait, are you talking 00:13:34.440 --> 00:13:37.840 about either of us? What are you talking about? 00:13:38.519 --> 00:13:42.220 I just wanted to hear my name. And your jacket 00:13:42.220 --> 00:13:46.779 was light. Every time. Hey, if anybody needs 00:13:46.779 --> 00:13:51.019 any advice for fashion tips for events, get the 00:13:51.019 --> 00:13:55.519 fuck up. And you will be popular. You're gonna 00:13:55.519 --> 00:14:00.580 be popular. Looking for a fresh way to connect 00:14:00.580 --> 00:14:02.639 in the lifestyle? Welcome to The Playground, 00:14:02.799 --> 00:14:05.240 a modern space where open -minded adults meet, 00:14:05.340 --> 00:14:07.340 explore, and create unforgettable connections. 00:14:08.220 --> 00:14:10.240 Built for the lifestyle community, the Playground 00:14:10.240 --> 00:14:13.580 is where curiosity meets connection. Ready to 00:14:13.580 --> 00:14:15.600 join the fun? Click the link below and start 00:14:15.600 --> 00:14:22.980 your adventure with the Playground today. Yo, 00:14:22.980 --> 00:14:25.440 when we first ran in, we walked right through 00:14:25.440 --> 00:14:29.019 the door, we saw Ryan and Moxie, we gave them 00:14:29.019 --> 00:14:31.340 quick hugs, and then as soon as, before we got 00:14:31.340 --> 00:14:33.659 to talk to them, somebody grabbed me like, can 00:14:33.659 --> 00:14:37.460 you take our picture? And pulled me away. from 00:14:37.460 --> 00:14:39.360 at the different angles you know we know how 00:14:39.360 --> 00:14:41.879 to do it and then i just gave it back to her 00:14:41.879 --> 00:14:44.039 ran back and just like bear hugged her from behind 00:14:44.039 --> 00:14:48.960 that was our first meeting i stood there and 00:14:48.960 --> 00:14:51.279 stared at her until she noticed who i was and 00:14:51.279 --> 00:14:57.860 then we had i have i see a trend going on here 00:14:57.860 --> 00:15:05.610 so i need to really focus on advance I know faces 00:15:05.610 --> 00:15:08.590 just help me with names a little bit. Yeah. I 00:15:08.590 --> 00:15:12.409 talk to so many people that that's like so common 00:15:12.409 --> 00:15:16.750 though. Mainly men. It's like, I will remember 00:15:16.750 --> 00:15:20.509 your face, but next time we talk, don't be mad 00:15:20.509 --> 00:15:22.429 if I don't remember your name. And they're all 00:15:22.429 --> 00:15:26.690 like, Oh, same, same. That's either my disclaimer. 00:15:26.730 --> 00:15:29.549 My newest thing now is someone will come up. 00:15:29.549 --> 00:15:32.580 I'm like, It is so good to meet you. And if I've 00:15:32.580 --> 00:15:35.039 met you already, it's so good to see you again. 00:15:35.120 --> 00:15:40.159 I'm stealing that. I love it. Or that awkward 00:15:40.159 --> 00:15:42.899 moment when you're like, it's so nice to meet 00:15:42.899 --> 00:15:48.340 you. And they're like, we already met. Or that. 00:15:55.019 --> 00:15:57.960 It's so good to see you and you're trying, you 00:15:57.960 --> 00:16:00.460 know, you've met him before, but you can't picture 00:16:00.460 --> 00:16:08.539 where you know them. And you're like, I just 00:16:08.539 --> 00:16:10.460 like to hear other people have the same problems 00:16:10.460 --> 00:16:15.019 as I do. You're not alone. Cause I feel, I generally 00:16:15.019 --> 00:16:17.539 feel so bad when I, we're all in this together 00:16:17.539 --> 00:16:20.580 with somebody names, like somebody's name. Sometimes. 00:16:21.639 --> 00:16:25.320 Or somebody completely first and last name drops 00:16:25.320 --> 00:16:27.700 you and they're like, oh, you're serious. You 00:16:27.700 --> 00:16:30.960 look different. You look different with your 00:16:30.960 --> 00:16:37.679 clothes on. Yes. Is this better? I did that Friday 00:16:37.679 --> 00:16:40.879 night. Give me your breasts. I'm like, okay, 00:16:41.059 --> 00:16:47.899 I know who you are. We're not making eye contact 00:16:47.899 --> 00:16:50.440 up here. I can't say how many times I talked 00:16:50.440 --> 00:16:52.820 to Rob about this. You should just put the boob 00:16:52.820 --> 00:16:56.840 pictures with their contact photos. That's fine. 00:16:57.460 --> 00:17:01.879 I'm not offended. We don't judge. We listen. 00:17:03.379 --> 00:17:09.400 Oh my goodness. yeah all right so we did a little 00:17:09.400 --> 00:17:12.980 celebration for your birthday oh yes yes so i 00:17:12.980 --> 00:17:15.859 love you guys for that i know it was a collaboration 00:17:15.859 --> 00:17:21.640 between ashley and all of you this baby had plans 00:17:21.640 --> 00:17:25.059 of getting a house and doing all the things and 00:17:25.059 --> 00:17:28.900 trying to do another round but with this baby 00:17:28.900 --> 00:17:33.369 coming There is no, I mean, we thought he would 00:17:33.369 --> 00:17:35.849 be here by now. 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And next thing 00:18:37.720 --> 00:18:40.859 I know, there's like a big marquee sign coming 00:18:40.859 --> 00:18:45.299 up behind me and a sparkly wand and bubbles. 00:18:47.680 --> 00:18:51.160 And I was being announced, which was a first, 00:18:51.259 --> 00:18:55.700 but I got announced. No, it was absolutely amazing. 00:18:55.960 --> 00:18:59.259 And I have. all of you to thank for that. Somehow 00:18:59.259 --> 00:19:01.779 I ended up with Lindsay's phone. You probably 00:19:01.779 --> 00:19:05.380 had like 50 pictures of me just randomly shooting 00:19:05.380 --> 00:19:07.619 everything. I found some random pictures and 00:19:07.619 --> 00:19:13.059 videos on my phone. You got that. The video of 00:19:13.059 --> 00:19:15.680 me and Rob dancing. That one's going on our digital 00:19:15.680 --> 00:19:19.480 frame in the kitchen. Yeah. Yes. You made the 00:19:19.480 --> 00:19:23.319 picture frame. You made it. You know that's a 00:19:23.319 --> 00:19:29.509 good night. Yes. Yeah. So how was the after party? 00:19:30.490 --> 00:19:35.890 I don't know. I went to bed. We stayed up for 00:19:35.890 --> 00:19:41.089 a long time with room for a few and another single 00:19:41.089 --> 00:19:44.549 girl. We drank and talked. Yeah. I mean, it's 00:19:44.549 --> 00:19:46.529 one of those nights that we just totally hung 00:19:46.529 --> 00:19:50.150 out. We wound up going to another room and we 00:19:50.150 --> 00:19:52.230 left that room. We left quickly. But then we 00:19:52.230 --> 00:19:56.240 came back to our room. Those are sometimes the 00:19:56.240 --> 00:19:58.880 best nights. Those are like fill your soul nights. 00:19:59.440 --> 00:20:03.180 It was one of those. It was. I may have had too 00:20:03.180 --> 00:20:06.980 much tequila. We don't talk about Bruno and we 00:20:06.980 --> 00:20:13.319 don't talk about tequila. That's good. Me and 00:20:13.319 --> 00:20:18.720 Ashley went back to Lee's house and we had a 00:20:18.720 --> 00:20:26.730 birthday celebration. Oh, we did. We did. We 00:20:26.730 --> 00:20:29.690 treated them to the southern delicacy known as 00:20:29.690 --> 00:20:34.089 Waffle House. As we're walking out of the bar, 00:20:34.289 --> 00:20:39.210 Little Tipsy, I said, I would do some dirty things 00:20:39.210 --> 00:20:43.410 for a cheeseburger right now. Don't ever say 00:20:43.410 --> 00:20:48.190 that. They're like, okay. That's all Mike can 00:20:48.190 --> 00:20:50.569 hear. And he's like, all right, Waffle House 00:20:50.569 --> 00:20:56.529 it is. Show us an opening, Loganville. He understood 00:20:56.529 --> 00:20:59.630 the assignment was late. Yeah, I don't know. 00:21:02.870 --> 00:21:06.130 Everything was closed in Loganville. So I didn't 00:21:06.130 --> 00:21:09.049 look at the time until we went to bed. And it 00:21:09.049 --> 00:21:12.569 was like four. It was after four when we went 00:21:12.569 --> 00:21:15.250 to bed. You know, there is something about event 00:21:15.250 --> 00:21:18.190 weekends that time just becomes a black hole. 00:21:18.410 --> 00:21:23.150 All of us are constantly going. Well, and you're 00:21:23.150 --> 00:21:26.589 always we're always behind schedule. How early 00:21:26.589 --> 00:21:30.009 we show up. always tell me that i have to be 00:21:30.009 --> 00:21:33.009 at something an hour earlier than actually so 00:21:33.009 --> 00:21:36.289 they were like to be here at 7 30 you should 00:21:36.289 --> 00:21:39.869 be here at 30 then all right dinner is at 5 tomorrow 00:21:39.869 --> 00:21:43.410 real swinger 10 6 30 yeah you know it almost 00:21:43.410 --> 00:21:49.190 feels like 4 a .m is about swinger bedtime That's 00:21:49.190 --> 00:21:52.309 about when it's like, all right, we have to at 00:21:52.309 --> 00:21:56.450 least function somewhat tomorrow. 4 .30 is swinger 00:21:56.450 --> 00:22:01.089 bedtime. And then like between 8 .30 and 10 is 00:22:01.089 --> 00:22:05.410 morning time. You have to get packed up. You 00:22:05.410 --> 00:22:10.549 guys already know. But you did have a little 00:22:10.549 --> 00:22:13.890 bit of a birthday party afterwards. I did. We 00:22:13.890 --> 00:22:19.160 celebrated you for sure. It was nice. Some bucket 00:22:19.160 --> 00:22:23.400 list items checked off. It's always our goal 00:22:23.400 --> 00:22:26.420 to check off at least one thing. And we woke 00:22:26.420 --> 00:22:31.500 up with a surprise. Yeah. Big surprise. Was Mike 00:22:31.500 --> 00:22:36.779 and Ben real? Not yet. That footage doesn't exist. 00:22:40.250 --> 00:22:42.609 I mean, he makes a great little thing for a big 00:22:42.609 --> 00:22:51.609 guy. I didn't see that. It's all this stuff. 00:22:53.690 --> 00:22:57.890 I've seen years ago. We're all picturing it. 00:23:01.569 --> 00:23:04.630 What's a good one? There's something about that 00:23:04.630 --> 00:23:07.410 mic just reaching back and caressing your face. 00:23:08.250 --> 00:23:22.750 That was the real birthday present. Amanda and 00:23:22.750 --> 00:23:25.849 her husband also brought a birthday gift for 00:23:25.849 --> 00:23:28.490 me. They know my weaknesses, Reese's Peanut Butter 00:23:28.490 --> 00:23:32.220 Cups. 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Check out 00:24:13.440 --> 00:24:15.400 the link below and find your next favorite piece. 00:24:20.680 --> 00:24:24.740 So we woke up with a surprise. Yes, we were going 00:24:24.740 --> 00:24:28.900 to be grandparents. For those of you that don't 00:24:28.900 --> 00:24:33.079 know, we're new grandparents. Our oldest just 00:24:33.079 --> 00:24:37.500 had an old boy and we're obsessed with him. It's 00:24:37.500 --> 00:24:44.279 been four weeks of labor with these guys every 00:24:44.279 --> 00:24:47.960 day checking in and keeping them updated. We 00:24:47.960 --> 00:24:52.150 live all as a group just like... Kept in and 00:24:52.150 --> 00:24:55.069 helped us. Just being there and supporting us. 00:24:55.450 --> 00:24:58.309 This has been the true definition that we've 00:24:58.309 --> 00:25:02.509 never... Yeah, like, if we had this village when 00:25:02.509 --> 00:25:05.329 we were actually having babies ourselves, it 00:25:05.329 --> 00:25:09.230 would have been completely different. It's crazy. 00:25:09.289 --> 00:25:14.750 And, like, your guys' support from us is, like, 00:25:14.829 --> 00:25:18.150 even our daughter. like see the support that 00:25:18.150 --> 00:25:21.470 she gets through you guys through us like i was 00:25:21.470 --> 00:25:23.769 sure the pictures of him showing everybody a 00:25:23.769 --> 00:25:26.029 trap and everyone was around him looking at the 00:25:26.029 --> 00:25:28.630 baby pictures and stuff like we don't have a 00:25:28.630 --> 00:25:31.930 family you know biologically really so it's like 00:25:31.930 --> 00:25:36.670 it's babies got so much framily oh my god oh 00:25:36.670 --> 00:25:45.150 my god we oh yeah last four weeks we have been 00:25:45.599 --> 00:25:47.880 every single day on edge. And then I spent two 00:25:47.880 --> 00:25:49.779 weeks here with her in Florida. And finally, 00:25:49.880 --> 00:25:52.259 our daughter was having school stuff going on. 00:25:52.259 --> 00:25:54.079 We had, I mean, we have three other kids with 00:25:54.079 --> 00:25:57.680 busy schedules and rough work full time. So we 00:25:57.680 --> 00:26:00.299 have to go home at least for a little while. 00:26:00.440 --> 00:26:03.259 And we both just had a gut feeling that I was 00:26:03.259 --> 00:26:05.180 going to get here because I was having a lot 00:26:05.180 --> 00:26:07.339 of anxiety about getting there. And then she 00:26:07.339 --> 00:26:09.250 was like, I don't know. I just feel like you 00:26:09.250 --> 00:26:10.630 can go home if you want to. It's going to be 00:26:10.630 --> 00:26:12.450 okay. And I was like, me too. I just felt at 00:26:12.450 --> 00:26:14.549 peace that I'll get there. I'll have plenty of 00:26:14.549 --> 00:26:16.750 time. And that was all it was going to be. And 00:26:16.750 --> 00:26:19.670 we got until Thursday. I was trying to plan this 00:26:19.670 --> 00:26:22.309 party, trying to get everyone like caught up 00:26:22.309 --> 00:26:24.029 on all the plans, which I didn't know if I was 00:26:24.029 --> 00:26:25.809 going to be there or not. It was until Friday 00:26:25.809 --> 00:26:28.549 morning where I called her and was like, do you 00:26:28.549 --> 00:26:30.910 want me to come to you or do you want me to go, 00:26:30.910 --> 00:26:33.670 you know, to the party? And she was like, go 00:26:33.670 --> 00:26:37.369 have fun. I'll keep them in there until Sunday. 00:26:37.869 --> 00:26:40.170 Only had to make it a few days. Clinch. That's 00:26:40.170 --> 00:26:42.970 it. I was so scared to go. I was so scared to 00:26:42.970 --> 00:26:45.049 leave her. And I was torn. And she was like, 00:26:45.069 --> 00:26:47.849 just go ahead. So I went. And we should have 00:26:47.849 --> 00:26:49.769 known. We knew that was all it was going to take 00:26:49.769 --> 00:26:53.150 to get his little butt to finally come. And I 00:26:53.150 --> 00:26:55.650 got a text in the morning. And she said, I'm 00:26:55.650 --> 00:26:58.029 like 16. You know, they're like six minutes apart. 00:26:58.430 --> 00:27:00.970 And I think they're not going anywhere. And I 00:27:00.970 --> 00:27:03.289 think this might be it. And then I waited a little 00:27:03.289 --> 00:27:05.789 bit to see. And then I called her, and she was 00:27:05.789 --> 00:27:07.690 full -blown crying. She's like, I can't do this. 00:27:07.789 --> 00:27:09.910 I was like, I gotta get there, because it was 00:27:09.910 --> 00:27:14.609 real. It was happening. We scrambled, ran around, 00:27:14.750 --> 00:27:17.250 and jumped in their shuttle. They walked outside, 00:27:17.609 --> 00:27:19.549 and then they came back, and I just heard, well, 00:27:19.549 --> 00:27:25.109 shit. I'm going to Florida. At this point, I'm 00:27:25.109 --> 00:27:27.390 like, alright, we're going to Florida. We had 00:27:27.390 --> 00:27:29.829 fun last night. Not a big deal to me. He didn't 00:27:29.829 --> 00:27:32.990 know about Sunday. I had no idea. I knew we were 00:27:32.990 --> 00:27:36.039 going to trap. Yeah. We're just going to have 00:27:36.039 --> 00:27:37.619 a trap night with friends. He had no idea. He's 00:27:37.619 --> 00:27:39.500 like, no big deal. We'll just go. Yeah, like, 00:27:39.599 --> 00:27:42.500 it's just trapeze. I planned a surprise party 00:27:42.500 --> 00:27:45.599 for you. I paid that cake and decorations. And 00:27:45.599 --> 00:27:47.779 you have people coming in from out of town. I 00:27:47.779 --> 00:27:50.319 had to tell them. And it was the day of the party. 00:27:50.440 --> 00:27:52.740 I have to tell you what's going on. You stay 00:27:52.740 --> 00:27:54.500 because he can't be in the hospital anyway. He 00:27:54.500 --> 00:27:56.599 can't. And we have the three other kids. There's 00:27:56.599 --> 00:28:00.660 just a whole bunch of. I was like, I got to get 00:28:00.660 --> 00:28:02.799 there. So I literally grabbed all the things 00:28:02.799 --> 00:28:06.339 out of the suitcase and ran. And I got there 00:28:06.339 --> 00:28:08.559 in record time. Luckily, our house was on the 00:28:08.559 --> 00:28:09.880 way. And that's what made me feel a little bit 00:28:09.880 --> 00:28:11.579 better because it was only an extra hour and 00:28:11.579 --> 00:28:15.779 a half north -ish. And I have to go past my house. 00:28:15.960 --> 00:28:18.819 So I switched cars and I grabbed my bags and 00:28:18.819 --> 00:28:23.059 ran. And I made it in good time. And then I got 00:28:23.059 --> 00:28:27.240 there and still had five hours with her. In retrospect, 00:28:27.400 --> 00:28:30.160 we definitely should. drove separately there. 00:28:30.279 --> 00:28:34.799 Never once. I don't know why. Because we drove 00:28:34.799 --> 00:28:38.160 together, she had to leave, and then I was left 00:28:38.160 --> 00:28:45.039 with no car. And so I was relying on everybody 00:28:45.039 --> 00:28:50.220 else to get me around. And everybody here gave 00:28:50.220 --> 00:28:52.480 me a ride at some point. Drop you off at mom's. 00:28:53.200 --> 00:28:58.500 Kind of how it felt. Drop off. Time to spend 00:28:58.500 --> 00:29:02.119 time with mom now. Has he eaten yet? Don't worry. 00:29:03.000 --> 00:29:08.019 Come get your breakfast. We literally met in 00:29:08.019 --> 00:29:13.059 a parking lot. We met Moxie and Brian in a parking 00:29:13.059 --> 00:29:15.940 lot. And they're like, oh, there's my big boy. 00:29:21.259 --> 00:29:25.920 I got to sit up front and everything. I had breakfast 00:29:25.920 --> 00:29:29.220 with mom and dad. Then you got to hang out with 00:29:29.220 --> 00:29:35.839 the grandparents. It was awesome. I love memories. 00:29:36.720 --> 00:29:44.059 Good story. In the ride, we were talking. Our 00:29:44.059 --> 00:29:47.859 conversation is on the ride from the hotel where 00:29:47.859 --> 00:29:52.130 we met Mike and Sam. and i got exchanged and 00:29:52.130 --> 00:29:54.829 we were having some like awesome conversation 00:29:54.829 --> 00:29:57.329 and then like i heard like in that right i heard 00:29:57.329 --> 00:30:00.750 three different hotels and i'm like like and 00:30:00.750 --> 00:30:03.369 i'm like you know what i'm not driving and they 00:30:03.369 --> 00:30:09.069 know where they're going and then we got close 00:30:09.069 --> 00:30:12.529 and like i saw us like we got off where we always 00:30:12.529 --> 00:30:14.410 stay at trap and i'm like all right we'll probably 00:30:14.410 --> 00:30:16.210 just go into the home to sweet it's like we always 00:30:16.210 --> 00:30:18.430 stay And they're like, oh, no, we're staying 00:30:18.430 --> 00:30:20.490 over here. I'm like, oh, okay, I know that one. 00:30:22.049 --> 00:30:26.730 Meanwhile, Lindsay is texting me saying, we're 00:30:26.730 --> 00:30:29.410 room 40. I'm like, cool. I'm like, I don't know 00:30:29.410 --> 00:30:32.069 what room I'm in. This is before I checked in. 00:30:32.130 --> 00:30:34.150 I'm like, I'll just take my bags up there. And 00:30:34.150 --> 00:30:40.579 I knocked on 420 and no one was in there. Luckily. 00:30:40.579 --> 00:30:43.460 Like I'm there with my bag, like all my luggage 00:30:43.460 --> 00:30:50.880 and knocking on the door. I think you texted 00:30:50.880 --> 00:30:54.779 us. It's Lindsay and I, it's Asia and Dylan and 00:30:54.779 --> 00:30:58.420 some other folks. It's like, no, I ducked and 00:30:58.420 --> 00:31:00.460 nobody answered. Like, yeah, something's not 00:31:00.460 --> 00:31:02.980 right. That should have been the first clue. 00:31:03.099 --> 00:31:06.819 It should have been. Yeah. So I just left all 00:31:06.819 --> 00:31:10.680 my bags in front of the door and it went checked 00:31:10.680 --> 00:31:15.039 in. And she's like, I can't find your reservation. 00:31:17.559 --> 00:31:20.579 Moxie and Brian were checking in and Moxie just 00:31:20.579 --> 00:31:25.460 out the gate. We're the swingers. I think she 00:31:25.460 --> 00:31:28.119 asked, did she ask what brings you into town 00:31:28.119 --> 00:31:31.880 today? We're sorry. I just fell out of my mouth. 00:31:32.460 --> 00:31:36.180 It was a heavy bag for me to carry. I feel like 00:31:36.180 --> 00:31:38.779 a hurtle that close to trap has to hear on a 00:31:38.779 --> 00:31:42.960 regular basis. I feel like she was very... It 00:31:42.960 --> 00:31:45.000 could have been her first day on the job. She 00:31:45.000 --> 00:31:50.140 was very green. I love that for her. She was 00:31:50.140 --> 00:31:54.119 so sweet, but she was so taken back. She did 00:31:54.119 --> 00:31:56.740 not know how to act after that. She was so flustered. 00:31:58.779 --> 00:32:03.480 You don't hear that every day. No. And the poor 00:32:03.480 --> 00:32:06.559 girl had my ID and my debit card in her hand. 00:32:06.619 --> 00:32:10.160 I'm like, I don't know. I didn't make the reservation. 00:32:10.779 --> 00:32:14.880 I already know. He's like, yeah, we're all down 00:32:14.880 --> 00:32:17.160 in the lobby. I'm getting checked in. So we leave 00:32:17.160 --> 00:32:19.619 our room, go down to the lobby, which is not 00:32:19.619 --> 00:32:22.059 that big at checking. And I mean, I'm just standing 00:32:22.059 --> 00:32:24.339 there like, am I being punked? You're in the 00:32:24.339 --> 00:32:28.460 lobby and you're in the lobby. I think we might 00:32:28.460 --> 00:32:31.869 be in the wrong lobby. We're in the wrong lobby. 00:32:33.450 --> 00:32:36.970 We got, wait. It was like in Tommy Boy when it's 00:32:36.970 --> 00:32:41.750 like, you need a different map. Oh, wow. I have 00:32:41.750 --> 00:32:46.750 two abdominal muscles now. But then we got to 00:32:46.750 --> 00:32:48.609 the right hotel, which was just around the corner, 00:32:48.710 --> 00:32:51.630 literally like a two minute drive. Yeah. But 00:32:51.630 --> 00:32:55.210 got checked in, hung out. And then at that point, 00:32:55.269 --> 00:32:57.490 I, before we had to go, I had to talk to Ashley 00:32:57.490 --> 00:33:00.519 because this is the first time. like i had an 00:33:00.519 --> 00:33:03.319 idea of what our boundaries were but this was 00:33:03.319 --> 00:33:11.140 the first time i was by myself and i needed to 00:33:11.140 --> 00:33:14.400 hear confirmation of what the boundaries were 00:33:14.400 --> 00:33:17.900 i really had that conversation ever because we 00:33:17.900 --> 00:33:21.440 are just now thinking about me going solo and 00:33:21.440 --> 00:33:24.500 i just he's always the one who's working and 00:33:24.500 --> 00:33:27.099 i'm always the one if available i'll go so i 00:33:27.099 --> 00:33:30.109 never thought and especially making he called 00:33:30.109 --> 00:33:33.809 me and she was like eight centimeters dilated 00:33:33.809 --> 00:33:36.630 like it was happening like it was going so fast 00:33:36.630 --> 00:33:38.769 and i was like i have to it was just overwhelming 00:33:38.769 --> 00:33:40.930 because i was like this is not how we're supposed 00:33:40.930 --> 00:33:43.009 to have this conversation like we just haven't 00:33:43.009 --> 00:33:45.190 had that conversation yet and i was like i'm 00:33:45.190 --> 00:33:48.329 feeling a lot of like anxiety not you know just 00:33:48.329 --> 00:33:51.109 everything going on pressure i don't know but 00:33:51.109 --> 00:33:53.730 then as we were talking and we did you know get 00:33:53.730 --> 00:34:00.559 a moment to finally yeah i didn't have to talk 00:34:00.559 --> 00:34:02.819 you down a little bit because i knew you were 00:34:02.819 --> 00:34:05.299 stressed like you were on that edge i'm like 00:34:05.299 --> 00:34:09.219 baby i'm like it's fine i really get it and i'm 00:34:09.219 --> 00:34:12.360 sorry i know you're supposed to be here or i'm 00:34:12.360 --> 00:34:14.159 supposed to be there and we're supposed to be 00:34:14.159 --> 00:34:16.940 do all these things together but that's not the 00:34:16.940 --> 00:34:19.039 situation we're in right now it was a lot of 00:34:19.039 --> 00:34:23.099 like i yeah just felt full that had to be really 00:34:23.099 --> 00:34:26.400 hard to process in the moment because like that 00:34:26.400 --> 00:34:28.679 does not give you any time to think about like 00:34:28.679 --> 00:34:32.389 the the possibilities and i commend you so much 00:34:32.389 --> 00:34:35.670 for that because it if i put my foot in your 00:34:35.670 --> 00:34:41.369 shoe i would be a 15 out of 10 to ask him until 00:34:41.369 --> 00:34:43.550 i calm down and finally like it took a little 00:34:43.550 --> 00:34:45.349 while sitting there and like working through 00:34:45.349 --> 00:34:48.429 it and i was just like i am freaking out i'm 00:34:48.429 --> 00:34:51.090 terrified i'm anxious i'm excited i'm scared 00:34:51.090 --> 00:34:54.949 and then it's like we're discussing boundaries 00:34:54.949 --> 00:34:58.010 and like what i'm okay with him doing and stuff 00:34:58.010 --> 00:35:00.110 at the same time i would say i'm not freaking 00:35:00.110 --> 00:35:02.510 out because of the situation that he's like him 00:35:02.510 --> 00:35:04.630 going solo and who even like what he's doing 00:35:04.630 --> 00:35:08.050 it was just everything everything you're making 00:35:08.050 --> 00:35:10.710 me make a decision right now and it wasn't like 00:35:10.710 --> 00:35:13.210 maybe like if you just want me to go and hang 00:35:13.210 --> 00:35:16.309 out and have you know drink and just have a good 00:35:16.309 --> 00:35:18.530 time and dance or whatever like we can i don't 00:35:18.530 --> 00:35:21.650 have to play to have fun like that had nothing 00:35:21.650 --> 00:35:26.050 to even do with yeah like i'm fine with it like 00:35:26.050 --> 00:35:28.269 personally i've thought about it we've never 00:35:28.269 --> 00:35:30.369 really talked together but i've already been 00:35:30.369 --> 00:35:32.570 like it's okay if he goes in place a little the 00:35:32.570 --> 00:35:34.710 same situation you know kind of as long as we're 00:35:34.710 --> 00:35:37.570 both familiar same boundary same idea and we 00:35:37.570 --> 00:35:39.929 need i knew that but in the moment i was like 00:35:41.550 --> 00:35:44.829 We had talked about it briefly, but it was all 00:35:44.829 --> 00:35:48.769 hypothetical. When you go from hypothetical to 00:35:48.769 --> 00:35:52.190 real life situations without a transition period, 00:35:52.809 --> 00:35:57.869 that's a lot. On top of the baby, right? And 00:35:57.869 --> 00:36:00.409 on top of that, our daughters in labor were both 00:36:00.409 --> 00:36:04.369 anxious and worried about the baby and our daughter. 00:36:04.829 --> 00:36:10.489 That was what was going on that night. So I will... 00:36:11.559 --> 00:36:14.719 i will tell you guys that i'm telling on all 00:36:14.719 --> 00:36:17.440 of us the rest of us were having conversations 00:36:17.440 --> 00:36:21.980 all about russ and his comfort and what was going 00:36:21.980 --> 00:36:24.840 to be okay and what was not probably either before 00:36:24.840 --> 00:36:26.539 around the same time that you guys were chatting 00:36:26.539 --> 00:36:31.280 so we were very much aware and gonna take care 00:36:31.280 --> 00:36:35.500 of him one way or the other i think that was 00:36:35.500 --> 00:36:38.539 the ultimate factor is because it's kind of the 00:36:38.539 --> 00:36:42.400 same way like when Ashley goes on her own is 00:36:42.400 --> 00:36:46.039 we know who she's around. She's technically alone 00:36:46.039 --> 00:36:48.019 because I'm not with her, but she's not alone. 00:36:49.059 --> 00:36:53.099 We know you guys are going to keep an eye out 00:36:53.099 --> 00:36:57.320 and make sure everybody's safe. We know it's 00:36:57.320 --> 00:37:01.880 not... You guys are the ultimate decision makers 00:37:01.880 --> 00:37:05.940 when we talk about that type of stuff. None of 00:37:05.940 --> 00:37:11.030 the BDSM stuff, that's... off limits like I'm 00:37:11.030 --> 00:37:14.949 not not something we want to navigate yet and 00:37:14.949 --> 00:37:18.650 that's what we agreed on and I'm like alright 00:37:18.650 --> 00:37:23.670 and so we ended up going to trap getting in and 00:37:23.670 --> 00:37:27.610 oh shoot I have one more guest Hold on one second. 00:37:27.750 --> 00:37:29.710 Looking to add some excitement to your social 00:37:29.710 --> 00:37:32.769 life? 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Don't 00:37:54.550 --> 00:37:56.610 miss out on the excitement. the link below and 00:37:56.610 --> 00:38:04.809 get started with three fun today i'm super excited 00:38:04.809 --> 00:38:11.190 for this guest i know oh yeah we know who this 00:38:11.190 --> 00:38:21.550 guest is there she is did we name her yet we 00:38:21.550 --> 00:38:26.469 named her at trap That's right. Her name is Trashly. 00:38:29.170 --> 00:38:36.070 And everybody signed her. She got you a free 00:38:36.070 --> 00:38:38.949 monster at the gas station, didn't she? Not a 00:38:38.949 --> 00:38:41.190 free monster, but the security guard was not 00:38:41.190 --> 00:38:52.050 amused. So at one point, I... Had my tie undid. 00:38:52.070 --> 00:38:54.809 I just kind of tied my tie around her and had 00:38:54.809 --> 00:39:00.110 her on like a necklace. And walking around. And 00:39:00.110 --> 00:39:05.530 when Dylan and Asia and I were riding back to 00:39:05.530 --> 00:39:08.110 the hotel, because they were my roomies, Saturday 00:39:08.110 --> 00:39:12.130 night. And chauffeurs. I'm like, before we go 00:39:12.130 --> 00:39:14.809 to the hotel, just stop at the gas station right 00:39:14.809 --> 00:39:21.860 there. And I had to get a monster. So the security 00:39:21.860 --> 00:39:24.019 guard in the gas station, because we left trap 00:39:24.019 --> 00:39:27.059 early, what, midnight -ish? Yeah, probably about 00:39:27.059 --> 00:39:28.820 1230 because the weather was getting so bad. 00:39:29.019 --> 00:39:31.340 Yeah, yeah. And the security guard just looked 00:39:31.340 --> 00:39:33.829 at me and he's like. Gave me one of those dad 00:39:33.829 --> 00:39:35.730 looks. You know what I'm talking about? Everybody 00:39:35.730 --> 00:39:37.750 knows the dad look. I'm so disappointed in you. 00:39:37.929 --> 00:39:41.070 I'm like, don't pretend like this isn't funny. 00:39:41.349 --> 00:39:44.650 Like, I haven't said that. Like, we're all grownups 00:39:44.650 --> 00:39:48.449 here. You've seen this before. Dude, I am a grandfather. 00:39:48.789 --> 00:39:53.150 Yeah. Back in my day. About your kids. My God. 00:39:55.110 --> 00:39:59.809 But, yes, one of the workers at Trapeze, it was 00:39:59.809 --> 00:40:03.269 also his birthday. And he was also having a granddaughter. 00:40:04.050 --> 00:40:09.429 Yes. Wow. That was so sweet. Yeah. So we had 00:40:09.429 --> 00:40:12.150 a moment while we were eating. Right after we 00:40:12.150 --> 00:40:14.369 were eating dinner, we went back and everybody 00:40:14.369 --> 00:40:18.690 got pictures together in the photo studio. We're 00:40:18.690 --> 00:40:21.590 sitting. I'm texting Ashley. And I see a text 00:40:21.590 --> 00:40:26.389 say, there's 30 more minutes. I'm like, oh, snap. 00:40:26.489 --> 00:40:29.079 It's coming. And I'm sharing all this information 00:40:29.079 --> 00:40:31.280 with everybody. Everybody's on the edge of their 00:40:31.280 --> 00:40:35.480 seat waiting for updates. And I just have my 00:40:35.480 --> 00:40:38.519 phone just waiting for text messages. Nothing. 00:40:39.320 --> 00:40:41.440 Everything's going on around me. I'm just focused 00:40:41.440 --> 00:40:45.500 on my phone. And then I finally start getting 00:40:45.500 --> 00:40:50.420 pictures. And I show everybody. And there was 00:40:50.420 --> 00:40:58.110 so much. love around that table. It was insane. 00:40:58.829 --> 00:41:03.349 Of my favorite pictures. It was scary there for 00:41:03.349 --> 00:41:05.829 a moment. It was terrifying. We had a little 00:41:05.829 --> 00:41:09.329 bit of scare there. I really do think the love 00:41:09.329 --> 00:41:12.650 surrounding that whole everything going on at 00:41:12.650 --> 00:41:14.650 the same time that he was with you guys and everyone 00:41:14.650 --> 00:41:17.510 was surrounding it. I was just thinking about 00:41:17.510 --> 00:41:21.010 it. Thank you for your support and love and being 00:41:21.010 --> 00:41:26.800 there with him. There was genuine tears from, 00:41:26.940 --> 00:41:31.539 like, room for a few said it best is, I feel 00:41:31.539 --> 00:41:36.179 like we all got a grandbaby. We all got a grandbaby. 00:41:36.340 --> 00:41:39.440 I felt it when we were in there. We're all adopted. 00:41:39.940 --> 00:41:42.960 Pineapple grain. He mentioned after we missed 00:41:42.960 --> 00:41:49.190 the best picture opportunity when... He was born, 00:41:49.309 --> 00:41:51.510 like we took a picture, like a celebration picture 00:41:51.510 --> 00:41:55.210 after we got baby pictures. And it looked, from 00:41:55.210 --> 00:41:57.050 the outside looking in, it looked like a birthday 00:41:57.050 --> 00:42:00.170 shot, like a happy birthday shot. But it was 00:42:00.170 --> 00:42:05.010 really a toast to the grandbaby. And we should 00:42:05.010 --> 00:42:07.349 have, one of us should have held up that marquee 00:42:07.349 --> 00:42:10.889 sign with his name on it. We thought about that 00:42:10.889 --> 00:42:13.369 afterwards. Yeah, we missed that opportunity. 00:42:14.230 --> 00:42:16.809 It was a double birthday. It was. There were 00:42:16.809 --> 00:42:20.130 some big shots. Yeah. They were doubles. Oh, 00:42:20.309 --> 00:42:23.809 spicy place. You don't have that many humbling 00:42:23.809 --> 00:42:27.409 moments and spaces like that around like true 00:42:27.409 --> 00:42:31.610 friends. And it was heartwarming. And I just 00:42:31.610 --> 00:42:36.250 love you guys. It was an incredible moment. 21 00:42:36.250 --> 00:42:39.579 years from now. 21 years from now, you'll be 00:42:39.579 --> 00:42:41.719 sitting down with him and he'll be saying, let 00:42:41.719 --> 00:42:43.679 me tell you about the moment I learned you were 00:42:43.679 --> 00:42:48.059 born. Yes. That's why I told him, I'm like, this 00:42:48.059 --> 00:42:50.619 is going to make the best story later down the 00:42:50.619 --> 00:42:53.940 road. Yes. It's going to be gold. Had all these 00:42:53.940 --> 00:42:55.920 great friends. We had all these great moments. 00:42:55.940 --> 00:42:58.880 And, oh, where were you? Don't worry about it. 00:42:59.079 --> 00:43:00.880 We were out. Don't worry about it. Don't worry 00:43:00.880 --> 00:43:04.320 about it. After all of that excitement, I was. 00:43:04.860 --> 00:43:09.519 drug back to the back big playroom that was amazing 00:43:09.519 --> 00:43:12.380 i'm sure you were kicking and screaming yeah 00:43:12.380 --> 00:43:17.019 twisting my arm kicking and screaming they virtually 00:43:17.019 --> 00:43:21.639 tied to tie me up and carry me i mean he fought 00:43:21.639 --> 00:43:26.099 it the whole way and honestly i thought we were 00:43:26.099 --> 00:43:28.360 just getting pictures like i just thought you're 00:43:28.360 --> 00:43:30.599 getting spicy pictures that's why we're going 00:43:30.599 --> 00:43:35.489 back there the same thing and then I don't even 00:43:35.489 --> 00:43:37.929 know who pushed me onto the bed, but somebody, 00:43:38.090 --> 00:43:41.510 it was a push. Sounds like something Moxie would 00:43:41.510 --> 00:43:46.050 do. I think it was. And next thing you know, 00:43:46.070 --> 00:43:52.389 I had five, five women, six. 12 feet. There's 00:43:52.389 --> 00:43:58.070 12 feet. It was about six. Surrounding me on 00:43:58.070 --> 00:44:02.719 the bed doing. Unspeakable things. The Lord's 00:44:02.719 --> 00:44:07.139 work. The Lord's work. The foot picture was pretty 00:44:07.139 --> 00:44:13.940 red. That was just for somebody special. And 00:44:13.940 --> 00:44:16.340 then Sam's over there trying to guess. I'm pretty 00:44:16.340 --> 00:44:20.820 sure I got the reason I guessed right. You knew 00:44:20.820 --> 00:44:23.239 everybody's feet. I knew three of the five. You're 00:44:23.239 --> 00:44:30.429 the original foot finder. And... It was funny 00:44:30.429 --> 00:44:33.389 because I was surrounded by all these gorgeous 00:44:33.389 --> 00:44:36.809 women. All I could hear behind me were all the 00:44:36.809 --> 00:44:40.530 husbands on the bench right at my head saying, 00:44:40.769 --> 00:44:49.809 oh no, such a rough life. There was at least 00:44:49.809 --> 00:44:53.199 one small little chorus of happy birthday. Yeah, 00:44:53.239 --> 00:44:56.099 there was. I remember getting high fives and 00:44:56.099 --> 00:44:59.780 handshakes. The picture of the guys on the bench 00:44:59.780 --> 00:45:04.639 also. That was awesome. I was just trying not 00:45:04.639 --> 00:45:06.800 to step on y 'all as I'm doing the video. Dancing 00:45:06.800 --> 00:45:12.280 around everybody in my white shoes. Yes. You 00:45:12.280 --> 00:45:14.840 were definitely the photographer for the night. 00:45:15.139 --> 00:45:17.860 It was a lot of up -close rust for me. Yeah, 00:45:17.880 --> 00:45:20.380 so we did all that. We went back to the hotel 00:45:20.380 --> 00:45:24.590 relatively early, about midnight. I slept in 00:45:24.590 --> 00:45:29.530 a wet bed. The end. You mean nobody changed your 00:45:29.530 --> 00:45:32.650 sheet? No. No, I didn't have you there to change 00:45:32.650 --> 00:45:37.849 my sheets. I failed you, Mike. I should have 00:45:37.849 --> 00:45:41.070 thought about that. I'm sorry. No, it was okay 00:45:41.070 --> 00:45:45.650 because I did find a dry spot for my feet. And 00:45:45.650 --> 00:45:49.309 Dylan Asia's like, well, you can come over to 00:45:49.309 --> 00:45:51.900 our bed, but... I think ours is more wet than 00:45:51.900 --> 00:45:56.119 yours. Gotta stop spilling those drinks. There 00:45:56.119 --> 00:46:00.619 was a lot of sexiness going on, but I felt like 00:46:00.619 --> 00:46:06.539 between like one 30 and like three, it was just 00:46:06.539 --> 00:46:10.840 a whole bunch of people half naked or fully naked 00:46:10.840 --> 00:46:16.539 and just talking and having like fun, like just 00:46:16.539 --> 00:46:19.280 joking around. There was so many laughs. I'm 00:46:19.280 --> 00:46:24.579 talking like full out belly laughs. And again, 00:46:24.800 --> 00:46:28.420 that was probably the pinnacle of the night was 00:46:28.420 --> 00:46:33.800 just everybody just there. I hate that we missed 00:46:33.800 --> 00:46:39.699 it. Me too. We did look at all the pictures and 00:46:39.699 --> 00:46:44.480 we were crying. I mean, even Trashly got in on 00:46:44.480 --> 00:46:47.519 it. back in the hotel room. Sometimes we got 00:46:47.519 --> 00:46:49.619 on top of somebody and she was like bouncing 00:46:49.619 --> 00:46:53.539 on them. At one point, I didn't even take my 00:46:53.539 --> 00:46:56.900 pants off there for the longest time and I was 00:46:56.900 --> 00:46:59.260 just watching, laying on the bed, just watching, 00:46:59.380 --> 00:47:03.659 having a great time. Happy to be here. Asia looked 00:47:03.659 --> 00:47:06.960 at me and we were kissing and she's like, are 00:47:06.960 --> 00:47:09.420 you going to take your pants off? I guess so. 00:47:11.360 --> 00:47:15.880 He talks me into it. The number of times I'm 00:47:15.880 --> 00:47:19.260 in a group situation in my sweats and comfy clothes. 00:47:19.500 --> 00:47:22.800 Yeah, it was just an amazing night. Even though, 00:47:22.840 --> 00:47:25.280 like, that's why I kept telling Ashley, I'm like, 00:47:25.360 --> 00:47:27.539 I had fun. It was a blast. Everybody was amazing. 00:47:27.699 --> 00:47:31.179 But it just wasn't the same without her. But 00:47:31.179 --> 00:47:34.960 we definitely made the best out of the night. 00:47:35.380 --> 00:47:38.000 I think we all feel that sentiment, though. It 00:47:38.000 --> 00:47:40.960 is. The other half. But yeah, we're out of time. 00:47:41.239 --> 00:47:43.909 We have to go. That is all the time we have. 00:47:44.050 --> 00:47:47.590 We have plenty more chances to continue this. 00:47:47.630 --> 00:47:49.869 We plan on talking to the motherfucking Lees. 00:47:50.090 --> 00:47:53.710 They are going to come with us in April to Secrets 00:47:53.710 --> 00:47:58.210 with Swinger Society. We're dragging them, kicking 00:47:58.210 --> 00:48:00.889 and screaming to our favorite place. We're kidnapping 00:48:00.889 --> 00:48:05.590 them. We're going Wednesday to Secrets. We're 00:48:05.590 --> 00:48:08.889 going. We're going to do some playground promotions 00:48:08.889 --> 00:48:13.659 and meet some folks. So we're excited. We're 00:48:13.659 --> 00:48:15.639 going to see Brandon. We've got some other PAD 00:48:15.639 --> 00:48:21.639 folks down there. Yes. And you have the glow 00:48:21.639 --> 00:48:24.599 party coming up that just dropped as we're recording 00:48:24.599 --> 00:48:27.579 this. It just dropped your tickets for sale. 00:48:27.960 --> 00:48:30.500 Yes. And we'll have a link for that below on 00:48:30.500 --> 00:48:32.599 the show notes. June. Yep. We are going to teeny 00:48:32.599 --> 00:48:36.179 in Atlanta. It was amazing in the blast. We have 00:48:36.179 --> 00:48:39.039 the same DJ we had last time. I believe his name 00:48:39.039 --> 00:48:41.900 is DJ Life of Spice. Does anybody know him? I 00:48:41.900 --> 00:48:43.260 think I've heard that name before. I've heard 00:48:43.260 --> 00:48:47.360 of him. Kind of familiar. I heard he's pretty 00:48:47.360 --> 00:48:49.699 good. He's amazing. I listen to him on Spotify 00:48:49.699 --> 00:48:51.840 every now and then just to keep that rhythm going. 00:48:52.079 --> 00:48:54.500 I listen to him all down here, actually. I still 00:48:54.500 --> 00:48:57.139 listen to his Secrets mix from the first time 00:48:57.139 --> 00:48:59.559 we went to Secrets. I still listen to it on SoundCloud. 00:48:59.699 --> 00:49:03.340 I listen to his Pigeon Forge mix from Haunted 00:49:03.340 --> 00:49:05.940 in the Hills. That's a good one. Yeah. Yeah. 00:49:06.409 --> 00:49:08.530 So come. We're all fans. We're all big fans. 00:49:08.650 --> 00:49:11.150 Come to the party. It's going to be amazing. 00:49:11.409 --> 00:49:14.030 Always a great time. We're going to have more 00:49:14.030 --> 00:49:15.809 and more new friends coming. There's so many 00:49:15.809 --> 00:49:18.949 new faces and new people. And we got the hotel 00:49:18.949 --> 00:49:22.030 right across the street, right? A hotel. So it's 00:49:22.030 --> 00:49:25.050 not a full takeover, but there is an option to 00:49:25.050 --> 00:49:27.949 get the hotel. Probably about 80 % of the hotel 00:49:27.949 --> 00:49:30.429 right now. I'm hoping we can expand that to 100, 00:49:30.590 --> 00:49:33.550 but we'll see. Depends on how many people buy 00:49:33.550 --> 00:49:36.730 tickets. Buy damn fast. Is it the same one from 00:49:36.730 --> 00:49:40.170 last year? It's a little closer. And it's not 00:49:40.170 --> 00:49:44.909 the same one. So we're excited about that. We'll 00:49:44.909 --> 00:49:47.869 all be together again. And we have two nights. 00:49:47.889 --> 00:49:49.630 So if we want to come in on that Friday night, 00:49:49.690 --> 00:49:53.639 you can come in Friday night too. Yes. My brother's 00:49:53.639 --> 00:49:56.320 birthday is June 22nd, so I've already told him 00:49:56.320 --> 00:50:01.420 your birthday is on Sunday. But like four o 'clock. 00:50:01.579 --> 00:50:05.719 But yeah, you're having a birthday dinner. Yeah, 00:50:05.800 --> 00:50:09.380 dinner. Oh, we love you guys. Get your tickets. 00:50:09.460 --> 00:50:13.599 Come to that. And I think I might be doing the 00:50:13.599 --> 00:50:17.019 next podcast next week at home again. We'll be 00:50:17.019 --> 00:50:20.289 reunited. Yes. Not really sure what that episode 00:50:20.289 --> 00:50:23.789 will be on yet. I already know. We have to drive 00:50:23.789 --> 00:50:26.250 by where you live on the way back from Florida. 00:50:26.590 --> 00:50:32.829 Good to know. Yeah. I just want to thank all 00:50:32.829 --> 00:50:37.829 of you for being our people. And we love all 00:50:37.829 --> 00:50:42.090 of you. And thank you for making my birthday 00:50:42.090 --> 00:50:46.170 weekend unforgettable. Yeah. I think it's me. 00:50:46.630 --> 00:50:54.260 Yeah. Amanda's next. Is it Amanda or Mr. Stout? 00:50:57.800 --> 00:51:00.579 I'm not sure. We'll find each other. We'll figure 00:51:00.579 --> 00:51:04.960 it out. But as always, it's not that serious. 00:51:05.559 --> 00:51:06.539 Don't make it weird.