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Hi Russ and I'm Ashley and this is Hot Couple Chronicles. Welcome back. Welcome. It's been a

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long time. It's been three weeks. Three weeks. 2025 now. Happy 2025. Happy Christmas. Happy

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everything in between. Hope everybody's holidays were amazing because I know ours were really.

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Yeah it was a good one. It was a really good holiday season this year. I was skeptical.

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We've been busy bees the last three weeks or so. We've been staying busy. I don't know how we would

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have done the podcast without taking a break. I don't know. I'm glad we took a little bit. We

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needed a little bit of a breather. I think we're going to do seasons. I think that was a good idea

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to change it and do seasons and take a couple weeks off in between just to keep everything fresh.

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Yeah because this is our love project. We do this out of love. We do this because we love it. We want

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to keep that alive and we want to keep you know keep it fresh. Yeah it's definitely a passion

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project. Doing it every week can be overwhelming. It's a full time job. I had no idea how much work

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went into a podcast. I thought you just sat down talked and put it on and I mean you can but we're

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also perfectionists. That's true. So we spent a lot of time editing the words and making sure

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making sure the training lighting is great. Yeah the picture is great. We take a lot of time and

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then we plan. We take a lot of time planning and doing all that stuff in between. But yeah we're

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just going to sit down today and talk about what's happened over the last three weeks. A lot has

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happened over the last three weeks. We've had a busy and we still are we have a busy January ahead

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so we're going to be sharing all of our stories coming with you. Yeah we do. Yeah we still got

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some more stuff. We have a whole bunch of stuff coming for every single weekend this month or

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something. So yeah it's a good way to start the year. 2025 is going to be our year. It really is.

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I can feel it. I've never felt this way before about it like during a new year. It's a good

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feeling. It's a new feeling for me but it's not my gut says this is it. It's gonna be a good one.

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I'm excited. Yeah so am I. But let's start with our weekend trip I guess. Right before Christmas.

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We'll go back to when we stopped the podcast and go from there and kind of talk about what we've

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been doing. Yeah so we was it the weekend after we our last episode? I believe so. Right after.

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Yeah but our friends asked us if we wanted to do a last minute just spur the moment spontaneous

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trip and they're supposed to be like seven of us going. We were supposed to go with them another

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couple and then their bowl and that was a new dynamic for them. They just told announced they

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were exclusive with this bowl. They were still trying to decide whether they they were going

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through that navigating like a poly relationship with the bowl and they are talking about being in

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a deeper relationship with him and being exclusive and they're kind of working through that and

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yeah so we were we were along for the ride. Yeah we were. It was definitely a different experience.

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He had been a part of their life for two years now. Yeah. And we knew of him and we knew about

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him but we never had met him. Every time we went to go meet him something would happen

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and and our schedules were always on opposites and we just miss him every single time. So we

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just now met him the first time we went and we were spending Friday through Sunday. Yeah. With

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that. A cabin. Yeah in Blue Ridge. Yeah. Right outside of Blue Ridge. You guys went up like you

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drove up with them because I had to work. Yeah. We were leaving Friday morning and you had to work.

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They wanted to get up there early and get settled and get everything unpacked and stuff. So they were

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going and they're like we can swing by and just pick you up. You can come with us. So I went ahead

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up with them. And how was that drive? That's good. We all we had a good conversation. Talked. Yeah.

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Talked our shit. Normal. Listen to some some good music. She had to work the whole time on our

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computer. So that was kind of a bummer for her. Yeah. I mean the guys we talked and just I mean

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it was like a four hour drive. Yeah. There was this particular weekend between me and the husband.

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Like we had he we had a lot of deep conversations just me and him because he was. They love picking

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our brains. They're kind of new. They're new ish to the lifestyle. Yeah. Like they've kind of

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done their own thing like privately but new ish to like being out and about and you know like

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meeting people and stuff. So they're always wanting to pick our brains and we're really close with

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them. So we don't mind at all telling them what we've seen our experience and stuff. And

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they're such good people. They are. Our favorite people. They're probably our favorite people.

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They're like my best friend. Yeah. Yeah. But through the weekend it was before the weekend

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I guess it was a fantasy for because he never really had a good experience. Most of their dynamic

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is her and bulls. So they usually have a third and it's usually a male and that's usually how

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it goes. They have played but it's not been very successful with females or with couples and stuff.

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Yeah. They haven't had the greatest experience with swapping. Yeah. So they really wanted to

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experience that. And so I kind of knew going in. I didn't really know. I don't know. I didn't know

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going into it. I know that we've always wanted to play but we've never had the chance to. Yeah.

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It's a bit we've had you could cut the sexual tension between everybody when we just hang out

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like with a freaking. But we do very vanilla usually when we're hanging out. It's very vanilla.

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It's there's you know there's children usually we have kids and they have kids and so there's

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like children. It's always a vanilla setting. Yeah. So it's really close to each other. So it's very

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exciting. We're legit really good friends not just lifestyle friends. They are like their friends

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who happen to be in less out to you. Yeah. They're like do life together friends. Yes. Yeah. So we're

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really friends that we've never had the opportunity to. We've never really spent the weekend with the

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four of us together. So we've never really had the opportunity to. And yes it was kind of a fantasy

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of hers all weekend to get me and him together. Yeah. All weekend. And so we were going to make

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that happen somehow. Well she was determined to make that happen and I was down. I mean I didn't

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mind at all being you know. Yeah. No. And we talked about it before we went and I was good with it.

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Yeah. And I'm like no I'm fine. Yeah. We've always talked about playing with boys like flirted back

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and forth. We've always discussed playing every time we go to trapeze with them or something. But

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the curve ball in this whole situation is they were trying this whole exclusive thing. Yeah.

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Trying this whole exclusive where her and the ball would only play together. Yeah. There was no.

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That was the only thing outside of her like her husband. Yeah. And if you know my husband he's

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usually the one who plays. I'm usually the one who doesn't play. So it was different for us too

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because normally he's the one who's like the main attraction. That's not true. It is true. Very true.

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And so it was different. Different. It was just a different. It was a different dynamic. But

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yeah. That's why we had a conversation about it because we knew I wasn't going to be playing.

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Yeah. And I'm like yeah that's fine. Yeah. I'm good. Yeah. She was awful on it because they were

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still navigating that and they were pretty much exclusive. Yeah. So they both wouldn't have been

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playing. Yeah. But oh we got up there the first. I got up there that Friday night. We all met. You

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guys were already out and about on the town. Yeah. We went to go get dinner and it was late. So I

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didn't get up there till like nine. Yeah. But I met you guys at a bar there in Blue Ridge or something

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like that. Yeah. And we all had a drink and then went back to the house and just hung out.

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Really. Got in the hot tub. Had a fire. Just the normal. Yeah. The normal mountain activities.

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All talked and just it was a good Friday night or whatever. But then Saturday came along we went out

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on the town and found things to do. We went shopping and went to eat. Then we were sitting

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there we were like we could be eating and drinking and doing all this comfortably at the cabin that

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we paid for with the hot tub and all the things. All our alcohol. All the things were already there.

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Yeah. Or paying to. I want to if anybody that knows me my thing is I love cooking. I love

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cooking for people. So I was cooking all the meals which I love doing and there was no complaints.

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Yeah. He went to culinary school. That's like his passion. So we went back. I cooked dinner and we

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had some drinks. Chicken Alfredo and it was so freaking good. That's my birthday meal. Every

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time I asked for a meal that's usually what I ask for. It's so good. But yeah we went to the grocery

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store. Ate that and then got ready to go to the fire. We hung out by the fire and got in the hot

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tub and that's when. That's when things started shifting. Yeah. Things got a little bit spicy.

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Yeah. Now she's like OK how are we going to make this happen? Because if anyone is in lifestyle you

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know the hardest part is making that first move. Yeah that transition. Especially when you're

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friends with somebody for years and you just like are so friendly with them. It's been very vanilla

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friendship for the most part. It's like making that first step. And me and him are pretty much

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the same people. Like we have the same brain somehow. Yeah you're both anxious. Super anxious.

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Nellie's or whatever you want to call it. And I'm definitely not going to. I don't make the first move like

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ever. So yeah it's hard. It was outside of my comfort zone and so I was like I'm going to go shower.

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So I ran upstairs. Well because we were in the hot tub all hanging out. Yeah it was like no

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matter what I need to shower first before anything. Yeah get all the chlorine chemicals off. So I got

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shower and I got out of the shower and he walks into the room and shuts the door and you know the

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rest. I mean it pretty much. Yeah after that happened. We were because you got out and then

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we had already discussed. They got out. So I knew it was happening. Yeah. And so me and. Well he didn't believe that I

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wanted that I would want to play with him. Like he is me. I was going to say because you both. He's so much me.

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Yeah. He didn't believe that. He's like she's not into me. She doesn't like me. She doesn't see me like

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that. I was like yeah I do. Obviously I feel like I've been very clear about it. I don't know. But it's

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you know. Yeah. I get it. That's how I am too. But yeah he came into the bedroom and shut the door and

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then that it was pretty much easy from there on. Once you start. I missed a lot of that because I was

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in the hot tub. Yeah he stayed. He was still in the hot tub. I knew what was going on but like I didn't know the

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specifics. And we play together. We're always playing together. So that was also like a different. Yeah.

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Well and like I knew what was going on and I was fine. But it was I think we missed some communication

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along the way. And not very often do I feel a certain sort of way. But this night was different

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and I did not feel great. Yeah. He was not. I was having internal struggles. He was not OK.

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But it had nothing to do with you playing with him.

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Through the weekend we're talking and even the wife said that I was being like I didn't. I wasn't

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being real flirty and this and that. And she was making sure I was OK because I'm like no I'm just

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trying to be respectful of your guys is dynamic. They were kind of struggling. They're kind of

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going through all of it. Yeah. And there was they're navigating that whole thing. So

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anyways to allow all the conversations and then the progress of things to happen so quickly and

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we didn't get to talk right beforehand. And I didn't know that it was you and him and then

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the wife and the bowl in separate rooms. And my brain because I was in the hot tub. Everybody was

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in the same room and I assumed that the wife and the bowl were with him and you guys were just

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hanging out. I had no idea. So she had ran down and then grabbed him out of the hot tub

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and took him inside. Yeah. I didn't know that. And from my perspective to me it just looked like OK

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do you got he she got you guys together then they went to join you guys. Yeah. Yeah. And we had

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first. Yeah. And then as I sat in the hot tub alone looking at the stars because the stars were

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really bright that night I started thinking about it and just do the conversations and stuff like I

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didn't have I don't know the bowl was nice and like I didn't have a big but I just was getting

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there was a lot of red flags with him all weekend. Yeah. There was I was getting bad feelings.

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Every once in a while and just kind of like hmm. OK. He was throwing some red flags out.

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And like I was getting two different stories from that like the couple and the bowl. Yeah. And that

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was a problem all weekend and it was a tension pretty much all weekend. And that's I mean we

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whole vibe was off dinner but in my head what I'll as I sit in the hot tub I thought you were all

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together and I thought wait a minute they're all in there swapping together doing everything together

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and they just chose to know if I like I felt like the kid that wasn't big dodgeball. I've been there

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and I felt that feeling I'm like what the heck. And so for what the hour so I didn't want to over

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react. And so I sat there I was just trying to rationalize everything and going through

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it by myself and I ended up like on the back like I took a shower came out when I took a shower and

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got like my flannel pajamas on because I was cold like I like closed up the hot tub like I was stewing

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and I took a shower got warm clothes on and I was sitting on the back porch in my flannels.

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And I was doing something on the computer and he's getting on Netflix. He walked like the husband

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walked out with me and apparently I didn't realize apparently I gave him a side eye.

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And you had your hood up and you were just like I didn't mean to. It was just how I was feeling in

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that moment but apparently he's like oh shit. And I was like I'm not going to do that. I'm not going

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to do that. But apparently he's like oh shit. He's like and he's so worried about her like his main

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focus the whole weekend was making sure that you were the most comfortable. And I was and we had

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numerous conversations with about it and he thought like he messed it up because me and him are good

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friends. And that's what he's like it'd be fun to do this. He's like but I don't want to do anything.

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I won't do anything. Our friendship. That's been his number one. And so that was his where he

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immediately went because he's like me. And he goes directly to worst case scenarios. I messed up.

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It's my fault. And he thought like friendship's over. This is it. But and so but anyway like I

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apparently side-eyed him and then you came out and you started talking and you're like are you good.

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I'm like no I'm not like I was. And so we talked it out together. And then I realized what was

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actually happening where you guys were upstairs. They were downstairs. I'm like oh OK. That was

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just a really bad. I'm like I did not feel good because all these conversations I had with this

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single guy that was exclusive with one of my best friends. And he told me that he was a lot basically

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allowed to play but they didn't like it and this and that. And so I thought like you're all together

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swapping together. And it was a whole thing. And yeah it was just one of those moments. Yeah it was

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one of those. It wasn't my best moment. But we talked it out and then I was in this communication.

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I talked to him. Then he came back out. He's like are you good. I'm like I am now. Like once he

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once we talked and I said no no no none of that happened. It's and I was playing him like I wasn't

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ever mad at him. If I was mad at anybody I would be mad at the bull because he was the one that was

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being wishy washy. And he was the one that said I was he's I wasn't allowed to play at all. Yeah he's

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being very possessive. Yeah. Yeah. And the whole weekend throughout. Well long story short they're

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no longer in his life. I think yeah I think that we can kind of expose a lot of stuff and it was

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kind of uncomfortable. Yeah. But like online that was a different. It was one of the most awkward

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weekends I've had. Yeah. Yeah. And then my buddy old pal that next morning we all went to breakfast

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and had to bring it up at the breakfast table in the middle of IHOP. And I'm like like well I gotta

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make it weird. Like we talked this out. He's one of those people he's just like so anxious that if he

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doesn't say something and keep talking about it. Like we thought we talked this out. We're good.

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But yeah it was funny. You have to make sure you're good. He's always got to make it weird. I love him.

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Yeah. If anyone if I'm glad it was them of anybody that it could have been because it could have been

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bad but I'm glad it was them. But it was a that was a different. It's a different. Experience I've

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ever had because I've that was the first time I felt that way. I felt feelings every now and

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again. But that was the first time I felt like I am not good. Yeah. I've felt that way with like and I

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felt like a third rail before. I felt that feeling. It's not. It's not a good feeling. You gotta work

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through that one. And that's what like that's the whole time. That's what I was trying to do. I was

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trying to work through it myself. Why am I feeling this way? Yeah. Yeah. And that's how I went by the

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time you guys came out. I already figured I'm like I just feel left out. Yeah. Yeah. Like I'm not mad

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that like everybody. Yeah. I just felt that. Yeah. You know I was intentionally pushed out because I

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was the fifth wheel. It was supposed to be you the husband and the bull and the wife. And that's why

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I'm like I like when I was struggling with I'm like why I even come up here. Like I would have been

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fine if I would have stayed at home because then there wouldn't have been an option. Yeah. But she

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got excited once he was busy. She was finally he has never had a good really good experience and

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she really was pushing for him to play and have fun and like let's do this. And so she was like so

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turned on and excited that she just ran and got the bull because she wanted to play right then. She

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was she was in rare form that weekend. Yeah. That day. She was in her best life. She was so excited to finally have it go down and.

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Well and that's one of the like we have a few times where we hang out with them without kids

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around. Yeah. And she likes to have fun. Yeah. Oh yeah. She's one of those. Yeah. Goes all you would never

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expect to see like knowing her from the vanilla world. She looks so innocent and sweet but so do I. So

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those ones you got to watch for. Yeah. It ends up great and good. Yeah. It turned out OK. Unfortunately

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the bulls and that relationship is kind of done. And yeah. I mean that weekend I think between us

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being completely open and honest with everyone it exposed a lot of things that everybody was. You're

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not going to say something to me. He doesn't realize how close we were. Yeah. He thought we were just

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lifestyle friends. He didn't realize that we're like. He said some pretty shady stuff and I of course

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I'm going to tell her what he's saying because I'm not. Yeah. I like that for my best friend. Yeah.

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Because you will be talking like well that's not what he said. Yeah. That's weird. What you're saying

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is totally not what's lining up. There was a bunch of red flags. It was a lot of uncomfortable and it

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was for the best I think. Yeah. They're excited and on to the next thing and they're ready to try

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some new stuff. They're still navigating and figuring it out. We all do it and feelings happen

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and jealousy happens and feeling left out happens and it's what you do with it. We always say that

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all the time like this stuff's going to happen. This was our first like in a long time where we felt

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you know something different and excitement. Yeah. Other than like yeah let's go. You know but it was

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the first time in a long time where we've had to sit down and talk positive emotions. Yeah. Yeah.

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It was a weird. It was a weird weekend. It was it was not weird. It was just different. It was. It

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with the Playground today. But then we came home and then it was Christmas. And then Christmas. So

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doing the Christmas thing we baked the cookies and did all the movies. We've watched every Christmas

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Christmas movie ever made. Yeah. Our son was all about the Christmas movies this year. I love it.

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Yeah. I was excited. I think every year before Christmas like a month before Christmas I want

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to take away his electronics. Yeah. I think that was part of it. His xbox broke. So from Thanksgiving

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until Christmas. It was it was actually on Thanksgiving. Or the day. I was gonna know it was right then. It was on

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Thanksgiving it broke because our daughter and her boyfriend were at our house. He was trying so hard to get him

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set up and get it fixed. It was just old and it needed updated. And yeah it just couldn't handle the fixed one.

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They tried. They tried so hard. But he had no electronics from Thanksgiving till Christmas. And of course

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they're off school pretty much all of that. He had his like curl book and his tablet but he didn't have

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xbox which is his main. And we told him that you know I don't think we can afford one this year.

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Yeah I don't think so. Oh that's a big one. That's a big one. It's pretty close. He was he was really upset. He was really upset.

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We played that one off good until Christmas day until he opened it. He I thought I it was

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his we were funny to watch because he was trying to be grateful for everything he was getting. He was getting all

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kind of all this stuff. Almost 13. He yeah that was all he wanted. That was it. That was the only thing on his list.

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He was trying to be so grateful and he was trying to put a smile on. But you could see the internal

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struggle. Every time he opened a present he was like defeated. And then when we got done we were like okay

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Merry Christmas. Hope you like everything. And then we kept all their big stuff and that's the stuff we gave

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them afterwards. But we let them stew on it for a second because we were so excited because they had

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some really good ones this year. And again everyone was like trying was grateful but then

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they could see the disappointment behind their items were not like under the tree. And so they were

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like okay okay. That's like go put yourself away. Yeah go take yourself to your room. And then we're like all right

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there's one more and we gave them all their big stuff. And he got his Xbox back. He geared up. He was so happy.

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Oh yeah he cried. He cried. It was a good Christmas. Everyone was happy. The kids are happy. That's all that

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matters. That's really all that matters. I cooked prime rib. Cooked a giant enormous meal like always.

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That's we eat so good. I gained at least 20 pounds. I know. Between Thanksgiving and Christmas.

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But in between Christmas and cookies and New Year's my like work pants don't fit the same. I need to get my

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stuff together. Yeah same. Definitely. That's one of my I was on my uh ornament that I wrote for this year.

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I need to get my life together. So my manifestations. I need to get my life back to health. Health

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focus. But we'll work on that. It's cold right now. It's so cold. So cold. It was supposed to be getting snow. It was this morning when I got off work.

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It was like 65. Yeah it was rainy and wet but it wasn't cold. It was humid. It wasn't cold. Like I had

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like a sweatshirt on. And all of our Georgia or Georgia or Illinois and up Pennsylvania and Jersey

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friends they're all getting feet of snow right now. But just in between me going to sleep this

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afternoon and waking up this evening. Yeah. The temperature had dropped 25 degrees. So cold.

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Like it's nuts how fast it's got cold. I'm like nope I don't like it. And then after Christmas we had

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our anniversary which is the first year we've not celebrated on our anniversary. Our anniversary is

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the biggest holiday in our house. We've always celebrated. I had to work. Yeah he worked this year so but we were

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going out for New Year's which we never do. This was the first New Year's Eve we've gone out by ourselves.

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Ever. Yeah we've never done anything on New Year's Eve. Usually Christmas we were stuck like we

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hunker down and stay in sweatpants from Christmas until they get back to school. Yeah pretty much.

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Pretty much. So we don't go anywhere. We don't do anything. But this year we went to Atlanta to trapeze.

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We were. That was a good time. We went to a New Year's Eve party at Trap and that was fun. That was good.

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That was a good time. I'm glad we went. Yeah. We went with the. Now Trap was fun. It was. Trap's always fun.

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But the food for New Year's Eve they hyped it up and it was not great. So disappointed in the food.

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I am so sad. I understand that theme they were going for. Yeah it was the Chinese New Year the

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dragon. The year the dragon. So they were doing all. Oriental food. So they had like foe and all sorts of.

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Yeah fried rice and beef and broccoli. Teriyaki chicken. Teriyaki chicken. Problem was that it the quality of it was like freezer.

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Yeah it was totally freezer. It's something that you could go. I could go to the grocery store

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and throw in the. It was like one of those skillet meals. Yeah I was so disappointed because I mean

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they had lobster. They did have lobster. They did. It was. It was on the buffet and it wasn't.

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That's what. I don't know. They. I feel like the buffet food was better. It was. Yeah for the first time.

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And that's never. We didn't have any food in Diamond. Well they had like little.

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They had those like hors d'oeuvres and stuff like that. I wish they would have had a menu with like steak

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and like seafood. They did have that one thing that was ended up being chicken that I was hoping it

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was duck. When I grabbed it. I didn't try that one. And they had little cheesecake bites. It was like

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teriyaki chicken. It was OK. I wish they would have had a like menu back there like they normally do.

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But we were all going to the buffet and then bringing our plates back to Diamond. And it was. Yeah.

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Yeah the food was definitely lackluster. But we got. But the best part is we got to spend New Year's with

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some of the best friends. Yeah. We have. Well our pad group. Yeah. When I was out of dark has been

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the best thing we've ever done. Hands down. Best group of people we've ever met in a lifestyle.

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Well and even like New Year's Eve day we hung out all day with Davey and Lauren. Yeah. Yep. We went

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to lunch at Ponce and then we went shopping and did all the things. We spent most of the day.

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No we stayed. We woke up and they were like do you want to go get queso and margaritas for lunch. I

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was like yes please. Thank you. So we hung out at the hotel and then we left around noon and went

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there and had queso and margaritas and quesadillas. That was a very good idea. Yeah. I was glad about

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that. But yeah. And I had a really good day. We love Ponce anyway. Ponce is so nice to just walk

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around and most even went shopping. Went to a few stores. Got a few things. And you got a robe. A

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pineapple. Yes. The best purchase he's ever made in his whole life. So soft and comfortable. And I love it.

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Big fluffy chubby robe. As soon as we get done with this I'm putting it on. And it was like

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40 percent off. It was only like 30 bucks too. You can't beat it at all. It's big and fluffy.

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I'm sure you'll be seeing it in him in it many a time because he lives in it now. This is where I

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live this winter. She found it at first and she was like this is your Christmas present. Don't look at it.

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And then he was like I'm not going to wear that. Just so you know. And I'm like I will. She's even

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said she's going to go back and get it because she'll wear it. It's the best purchase ever. So he

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grabbed it and yeah we went shopping and hung out and then as always it was time to get to the

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freaking hotel. Yeah or get to get to the hotel to get back. This was the first time in a long time.

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We had we got ready and had time to take pictures and do a couple of TikToks. That's true. We were

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and we weren't in a rush. Like we were ready to go before the Uber. The thing with them is that they

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always order an Uber like seven thirty seven forty five. So it's like we got to be on our on our stuff

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because they schedule it. Usually we're just like getting Uber whenever we're done and get ready.

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And last time the Uber showed up early. We're like that's not our problem. Yeah.

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But yeah. So I know I need to be on it because there's a time limit and I've been on it

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last week and you were on like you were so good. I was excited about that dress. You were

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looked amazing. You looked amazing too. The red was on. I was I'm glad we did red. That was it

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was sharp. It was good. Everyone was in sequence. Yeah. Everybody was in sparkly. It was all

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variations of my dress. All like greens and reds and blacks. It was good. But we went with a room

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for a few and the mother motherfucking leaves which we love so much. And there was a couple

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other people that we met that I don't think we can share their names. Yeah. We never asked. We

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didn't ask before. Yeah. I'm not going to. But the whole group of us you've seen us together. We all

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took pictures together and did all the things together. And yeah we went there and did our

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normal went back got food and were disappointed by the food. So we went to go dance and had a good

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time and hung out and did the normal trap thing. And yeah. And then bringing the new year on the

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dance floor surrounded by all see I wasn't I wasn't sure because everyone for the most part

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everyone stays in diamond with this crew. They mostly hung out on the couches for the most part

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made out did all you know hung around did all the things and took pictures which I do love about

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this group everyone. The first thing we do when we get there is everyone go to the back cigar

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lounge to take pictures. Yeah. Yeah. The photo booth is the manager trap. She calls sick every

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time we show up she knows where we'll be. She's like she calls it the photo studio. Here's the photo

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studio. Everyone taking their pictures. That's what it's for. It's pretty. It's got like you'll be

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doing tours tours for new people. So you take pictures and like this is a cigar lounge but

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while these they're here it's the photo studio. So everyone takes pictures. And it's the only

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private room. It's tucked away in the back. It's big enough to fit a lot of people. And you shut

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the door and nobody's you can't get anybody in the background and it's a safe place to take pictures

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with everybody. And it's also got a cool like vibe and background school. The wall's cool.

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The bell you know the whole vibe is cool. So we take pictures. The first thing we do and get there

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because they understand it's like hurting cats. You can't get anybody all together after you know

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you wait like 10 minutes and it's too late. So you've got to immediately as soon as we get there

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we go back there and take pictures which I love because I'm really bad at taking pictures. I'm

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horrible at it believe it or not. And so it's good to just get it done get it over with while we still

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look good. All our clothes are on. Everybody's ready and then we're done. The girls are like all

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right let's go get the pictures for my makeup gets messed up. Yeah. Yeah. We're all fresh ready to go.

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We just got there. It's still early usually when we get there. It's like eight o'clock so it's kind

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of quiet. There's no one there yet so getting it over with and then then we can don't worry about

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it. We can put our phones in our lockers and keep them there and don't worry about it. So but it's

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good to have memories and I love these pictures that we've been taking and I appreciate it because

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I've been there so many times and not taken one picture or had a memory of it. So yeah it's a

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good it's fun. Yeah. And then yeah I wasn't sure I wasn't sure if I should have changed into my

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lingerie or kept my dress on for the new year. I was torn. I was like I don't know and then everybody

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else was torn so I wore my dress the whole way till the new year. You did. Everyone else gave up

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except me I think. I was the only one in a dress but and then I was like are we doing this in the

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Diamond Club? Are we doing this out in the main floor? We just we made I think we. I was like we're

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going to the main floor. I think we kind of led the. Yeah. I was like everyone needs to go and one

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place. We need to all be together. Yeah so we went to the dance floor at the very least like we'll

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just do it with a big. I knew they'd be like confetti or I'd be dropping and everything

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that'd be going on when the dance floor. That's where it's gonna go down. We went out there and we were dancing

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right before the ball dropped. They started doing my line dancing. They started doing my line

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dancing so I was already out there. As soon as like it was three minutes till midnight. We were like where's everybody at?

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Everybody's like. Everybody starts flocking around. And then you're like oh there they are like where are

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the motherfucking leaves? Everybody's like oh here you are. There's the room for a few. We're like trying to

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find all our faces and make sure because it was packed. I mean there was a lot of people there and

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I started bawling like a fucking baby. Yeah you're like I love it here. Like my heart I don't think you

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guys understand how much this lifestyle means to me. Like this is my heart. My passion. This is everything

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and every it it just. Well I think the first New Year's we've had where it's been more than just us

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and the energy was so positive. Everyone was so happy. Everyone just looked around and everyone was so

363
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excited to be there. So happy. Living their best life and it was the best group of humans ever to

364
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:04,960
celebrate the New Year's Eve. It was so good. So good. I cried and cried. I couldn't stop crying. I was

365
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:11,280
we. But I love it. It was the first. This year was the first year we didn't go out and celebrate our

366
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anniversary because I had to work. But we did not. Did not miss our 15th New Year's kiss. No. No that's

367
00:37:20,240 --> 00:37:26,640
even before we like got to Atlanta. I was like we have the only rule. I don't care what's going on.

368
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:32,000
Where you're at. What we're doing. We're stopping and we're going to kiss at midnight. We've never

369
00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:37,280
missed a kiss ever. So we're not going to start. Yeah you said that and I'm like yeah. I'm like

370
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:45,040
wait a minute. Like when are we ever separated. I don't know. Just in case. Just in case it happens.

371
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:52,720
I can respect the plating for. Well I don't care who you're fucking what you're doing. Like you're

372
00:37:52,720 --> 00:37:58,080
stopping it. You're coming and finding me. Because we have to kiss. And that was my only rule for the

373
00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:06,240
night. Other than flirting and kissing and doing stuff. We didn't actually fuck. Yeah we left early.

374
00:38:06,240 --> 00:38:11,280
Pretty early. Pretty early. For us. Shortly after the New Year. Yeah for us. I changed my

375
00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:14,240
lingerie and then they're like okay we're going back to the hotel. Because that's where the real

376
00:38:14,240 --> 00:38:22,240
fun has been happening. So we got an Uber with all of France. You got shoved in the trunk again. I

377
00:38:22,240 --> 00:38:30,080
didn't even put clothes on. I just wore my lingerie. I didn't have a jacket. I had a petticoat.

378
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:33,440
Yeah you did have your red. I didn't bother. I was like come on let's go do this now.

379
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:40,400
We were ready. Everyone was ready. We were so ready. We were counting down the days from the

380
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:46,480
last time we saw these people. It was funny. We got back to the hotel and we got in the motherfucking

381
00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:52,640
Lee's room. And then we started thinking about it. And we're not a quiet group when we start

382
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:59,040
these things. And we thought we had a block more. But they had put a family. Like in between rooms.

383
00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:05,440
Next to them. So we were like alright who's got a line of rooms in this group that are all lifestyle.

384
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:09,520
And we were right in the middle of everything. So we hosted this time. Which we don't do very

385
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:16,240
often. We got two cream beds. But the hotel we stayed at this time. The rooms were so tiny.

386
00:39:16,240 --> 00:39:22,320
Yeah. Teeny teeny tiny. Like a dorm room style. At one time we had 20 people in our room. Yeah at

387
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:28,880
least. It was a lot. That was the number I got. What did you even count? The room for a few.

388
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:36,800
Husband. Yeah. He's like I just counted 20. I need to start counting. Cause people always.

389
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:42,880
I'm like yeah. Cause it was packed. It's always 20. 20 seems to be like the magic number for us

390
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:50,160
anymore. It's like 10 couples. Like it's nothing. That's our norm though. We only do like 20.

391
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:55,360
It's fine. It's just a small group of 20. But there's some new people in there. Yeah.

392
00:39:55,360 --> 00:40:01,680
Some really hot people in there. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. We've found some.

393
00:40:02,240 --> 00:40:08,080
Quite a few hot friends lately that we've been hanging around and I'm pretty sad about it.

394
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:16,160
It was funny cause everybody like. So we switched to our room. We put the wet blankets down on the

395
00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:24,400
beds. Which didn't last very long. They got pushed off with all the commotion. But what's funny to me

396
00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:28,880
is everybody's just kind of standing around talking cause no one. We're all standing around being

397
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:35,360
awkward cause no one. Like I said earlier. That getting started part is the hardest part.

398
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:45,120
The wife of the motherfucking Lee's. This is like all right. And she just laid down on the bed

399
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:54,480
and she's like I'm ready. And so I laid down with her. She's like Russ understands the assignment.

400
00:40:54,480 --> 00:41:06,320
Come on fuckers. And then I was on and then everybody's like yeah. And it was hot. And the

401
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:14,000
next morning picked up so many kind of rappers. Oh my god. I've never seen so many condoms in my

402
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:20,240
entire life ever. Like I've done. We've done a lot of these. We've had a lot of. We love group play.

403
00:41:20,240 --> 00:41:25,440
Group play is like our thing. It's our king. We love group play. I never have seen this many

404
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:30,480
condoms ever. We were just spending. We spent like the at least 30 minutes just cleaning up

405
00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:35,360
condoms and wrappers and wipes and everyone was using all the things. Thankfully I had a whole

406
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:40,960
bag of all the loops and things because they were putting it to good use. People were having fun. We

407
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:50,080
had fun. We were out shopping and stuff with Davey and Lauren. I remembered. We stopped. Oh crap.

408
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:55,200
Yeah. I need more condoms. And so because we had six, which is normally. Yeah, that'd be fine.

409
00:41:55,200 --> 00:42:03,760
Fine. I wasn't even planning on hosting a room, but like usually for a night six is

410
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:10,000
that means I've been with the six different ones.

411
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:27,760
I mean, like I said, my husband is not used to being left out, but not me. I don't use this condom,

412
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:36,320
but anyways, I'm like, oh crap, I better. We went through that entire box of condoms.

413
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:41,040
I mean, and I put them out. I'm like, oh, here we go. And I buy the latex free because I don't

414
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:47,040
want anybody. Yeah. There's a lot of people with late allergies and stuff. So I made sure they were

415
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:53,360
on the nightstand in between the beds and they were gone. There was not one kind of not one.

416
00:42:53,360 --> 00:43:04,000
And the condoms that were in our bag were gone. Like you bunch of sluts. I love it. I love it.

417
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:08,960
This crew knows how to get down. They know how to have fun. I got to suck all the penises. That's

418
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:17,360
all. That's all. We finally got to meet and hang out with a couple that we started talking to,

419
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:22,800
but then they had real life stuff going on for their lives. So we really just, they weren't

420
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:28,960
radio silent because they had to. Yeah. And what we understand. Yeah. Completely. That's what we

421
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:34,480
talked about that. I'm like, no, we get it. Like we're that usually. Yeah. Usually that's us. Yeah.

422
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:38,800
Usually we're the ones that, you know, kind of accidentally goes to people. We don't require

423
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:44,560
much attention. We just check in here and there when we, when we can. But we met then she was,

424
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:51,760
oh, I loved her. So he is. Yeah. Yeah. He was fun. He was fun. So we got to play with them finally.

425
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:58,800
Finally. And she likes it. They like it rough. Yeah. Which we love. Which we like. If you like

426
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:02,160
it rough, we're usually, we're probably going to connect pretty well. And then of course we had

427
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:09,440
the motherfucking Lees and the room for a few. And we love all of them so much. But I didn't realize

428
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:16,240
this. We are Unicorn friend that's usually in this group with us. She was in our room. I didn't, she

429
00:44:16,240 --> 00:44:21,680
didn't play at all. I didn't even realize it at the time. I didn't either. Cause I was seeing on like

430
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:27,840
the pad Facebook. Oh yeah. I did see that. I saw that. I saw she's like mother nature. That was in our group.

431
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:34,640
Yeah. Say, oh, like new year. It was like a new year's thing. And body count starts. Body count restarts.

432
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:41,600
And people are commenting on it. It's like, well, it lasted like an hour. Hour and a half. Yeah. But the one.

433
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:47,840
Yeah. She said, she said mother nature made sure that I didn't, I didn't restart or whatever. Yeah.

434
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:53,520
I saw that and I was like, so she was just. I remember making out with her. Yeah. But I'm like,

435
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:58,480
yeah, I assume she was playing. When you're in that situation, you're focused on what you're going

436
00:44:58,480 --> 00:45:03,280
and doing. And then people are just behind you doing other things. It's hard to keep track of

437
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:09,120
what everyone's doing and. It's hard to keep track of you. Yeah. I know. I can't keep track of

438
00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:16,240
it. I know. Like I'm making sure you're good. A couple people, 20 people. There's a lot going on

439
00:45:16,240 --> 00:45:22,160
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440
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447
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Yeah, it's coming. So he's been planning a surprise birthday party. So that's not so much a surprise

448
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:15,600
anymore. All right. So I reached out to, I made a group text with me and four other husbands of

449
00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:22,320
close friends of ours. And I said, Hey, I have this Airbnb. I want to book it for Ashley's birthday

450
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:30,480
on, you know, like the 24th through the 26th. It's five days a week. And I'm like, Hey, I'm

451
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:34,720
like, it's five bedrooms. They're all adult beds. There's not, it's not what those air babies were.

452
00:46:34,720 --> 00:46:41,520
It's like this room's bunk bed. Yeah. Like they're all like real bedrooms. And they have, it has,

453
00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:46,960
there's a hot tub at the house, private. And it's a few minutes away from trapeze. And it's only a few

454
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:50,960
minutes away from trapeze. I'm like, how about we, which is hard to find. Like are you guys, it's

455
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:57,040
everybody down and they're like, we're down. Let's do that Ashley. And so I got funny stories with

456
00:46:57,040 --> 00:47:08,960
this, but we, I planned it, I booked it and I forgot that that Airbnb account is linked to that

457
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:14,880
hot couple in GA email address. And as soon as I booked it, I saw the email and I'm not an email

458
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:20,720
person. I'm not a notification person. It's just ruined. So I sent you a text and I'm like, why are

459
00:47:20,720 --> 00:47:28,080
you so, you just saw it, but yeah, we have a group go out of house for your birthday. I didn't see it.

460
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:33,040
I just like, I don't get any notifications on my phone. I turned everything off. I don't get any of that.

461
00:47:33,040 --> 00:47:39,920
I'm like, I just sent them face palm emoji. I'm like my bad. But now I know. And I'm so excited.

462
00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:44,720
We're spending Friday through Sunday with them. And it's like, you couldn't have handpicked a better,

463
00:47:44,720 --> 00:47:49,440
like you did perfect with the group of people and everyone gets along. Everyone's super close. Yeah.

464
00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:54,560
I was pretty, it was a good group. Everybody knows each other. And I still need to reach out to like

465
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:59,040
other friends saying, we're going to be at trapeze. Yes. But so if you want to come trapeze, we're

466
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:04,080
celebrating my birthday, January 25th. We want everybody there. All of our friends there. So it's

467
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:12,320
going to be fun. But so in this process of the last few weeks, like where I nailed down the house,

468
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:21,040
I was trying to plan everything with trap and with everything going on, I made, I started with

469
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:28,320
just the husbands. And then I said, well, since the cat's out of the bag,

470
00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:36,160
go ahead and add your wives to this group. And it was like hurting cats. As soon as we got,

471
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:42,720
like the guys were all like straight to the point, we're in this and that. As soon as we got you girls

472
00:48:42,720 --> 00:48:47,600
in there, and this is before I added, I was like, I'm going to keep Ashley out of it so we can still

473
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:54,880
plan as a big group, but still keep some sort of surprise. And it was like hurting cats. And it

474
00:48:54,880 --> 00:49:03,840
wasn't five minutes into this group text with these other eight people that you start seeing nudes,

475
00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:12,480
but whole but whole penises and boots, like it was just a great added me to it. And my phone

476
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:19,280
glitched so hard trying to get all the pictures. I was trying to delegate some volunteers to help

477
00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:28,400
me because they live. So I don't have to do everything myself. And it was like, they're

478
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:35,520
it being flirty and funny and this and that. And I'm like, so I need I'm being like the moderator.

479
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:41,280
I'm like, what kind of cake shops are around you? This and that. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Like looking

480
00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:48,480
about whole first. Yeah, exactly. I like. OK. So I said to text to the group. I'm like, all right.

481
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:56,000
So this got a lot spicier than I was expecting. I'm adding Ashley just for transparency.

482
00:49:56,000 --> 00:50:03,600
And I call it the smut group text. It was originally it was just actually birthday. Now it's smut.

483
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:11,040
But yeah, I'm like, I don't think anything. I actually did this. But yeah, I'm like any

484
00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:19,520
planning things like I'll just text you directly. I've never had a birthday like this before ever.

485
00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:27,040
But yeah. But also, I was hesitant doing this because we also have other friends with the same

486
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:34,000
birthday. Everyone has the same birthday as me and everyone we were invited for the type of thing to

487
00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:40,800
with another group of friends. And I had to send her a text message to be like, hey, this is why I

488
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:46,960
have responded. I feel so bad. I didn't like I love you both. But I also want actually to feel

489
00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:51,360
celebrated. I want I want everybody to feel celebrated because everybody deserves to feel

490
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:59,280
celebrated on the birthday. But I also feel that if we had the same air and be with you two, it's

491
00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:06,800
hard to balance two people's birthdays, you know, in the same house. We can celebrate everyone at

492
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:14,320
that club. Yeah. And that way it still is you feel celebrated yourself and then we can celebrate

493
00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:20,160
together. So that was my thought. And like I felt I didn't I was struggling with it for. Oh, yeah. I

494
00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:25,600
still struggle. I'm still struggling because I mean, it's not just like her. It's a lot of people all

495
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:31,360
share the same. That's actually how this group text started with the guys, because I was looking

496
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:38,000
for some type of like guidance because I was back and forth back and forth. And they're like, you're

497
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:43,760
in a tough spot. I'm like, but also like, there's quite a few like also I want everybody to feel

498
00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:48,960
celebrated. I don't want to hurt their feelings because I care about them. But also you are my

499
00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:58,160
priority. So I need that's why I ended up like I'm needed to focus on you. It's there. I hate to say

500
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:04,800
it, but their emotions aren't my that's their husband's responsibility, which I don't know.

501
00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:11,360
I felt a certain way and I'm still struggling with it a little bit. I do feel guilt because I

502
00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:18,080
feel like I don't want to steal their thunder. But I unfortunately, for some reason, share a birthday

503
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:23,520
with everyone in the world. Like even my best friend is a few days before mine and we all have

504
00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:30,240
and like hers the day after it's or the same day as my share of the same day with multiple people

505
00:52:30,240 --> 00:52:36,480
that I know. So it's always been a group party. It's always been a group birthday. I've never had

506
00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:42,160
like a birthday weekend. So it's that's why I know that. That's why I was trying to get you.

507
00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:49,360
And we tried to do this. I tried to do this a couple of years ago, like trap. Yeah. And

508
00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:56,320
you're still sharing a birthday with the guy. I'm like, so Bella and Ashley's birthday. I just

509
00:52:56,320 --> 00:53:02,720
wanted to be Ashley's birthday. I wasn't expecting it because I just assumed we would all be together.

510
00:53:02,720 --> 00:53:08,880
All the birthday girls like we always do and do that. But I wasn't expecting this, but I'm

511
00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:13,920
really excited. So it's going to be good. Yeah, it's going to be so much fun. We're all playing.

512
00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:18,320
Everyone meshes. We're all planning to bring games and stuff because Friday night's going to be chill.

513
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:22,640
I'm excited about that. I'm getting some stuff together. And I think we're just going to be

514
00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:27,680
hanging out at the house and chill. That's what I'm like most excited about. It's just like having time to just

515
00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:33,120
not have an agenda or time or anything. It's going to be fun. That's my favorite thing. They're just,

516
00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:37,600
everybody with the thing at the house with is so chill. Everyone meshes so good together.

517
00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:42,640
Everybody gets together. Yeah, they all. Yeah. It's chemistry. I'm so excited for your birthday.

518
00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:47,120
It's going to be like my birthday too. I'm so excited. I just get to play in this one.

519
00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:51,120
Yeah, it's going to be fun. I'm excited. But then this weekend I will be at Trappie's again. I have

520
00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:55,840
lots of Trappie's time. He has to work, unfortunately. Yeah, I have to work. So this is going to be a solo

521
00:53:55,840 --> 00:54:03,440
trip for me. I would love to go to this one because life is spice. Everyone's going to be there.

522
00:54:03,440 --> 00:54:07,840
And a lot of our friends are going to be there. Crack and Beards are going to be there. And they

523
00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:14,160
have been seeing them in a year and a half or so. And we are super, super close with them. I mean, we talk.

524
00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:20,880
You and her talk. All the time. And they're expecting a baby boy. And so this will be their

525
00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:25,840
last hurrah before he gets here. And so I'm really excited to see that. And I'm so excited for them.

526
00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:29,440
Yeah, because they've been trying to. Oh my gosh, she's been trying to have a baby for such a long

527
00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:36,400
time. Yeah, so I'm excited for them. This is like their last hurrah. So cannot wait. But there's

528
00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:43,120
something so many people and friends that we've made along the road. And I'm also having really

529
00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:47,680
high anxieties about it. And there's some people there I haven't seen in a long time as well. So

530
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:52,880
yeah, navigating that. Plus it's supposed to snow and we have to drive to Atlanta and he has to go

531
00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:59,520
to work. The snow this year is bullshit. That's freaking ridiculous. So like how does it snow in 20 years?

532
00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:04,880
Well, guess what? We live here now. So sorry. You're welcome. But that's us. That's our fault.

533
00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:10,080
But also it's not. I mean, we are going to be fine. We know how to navigate in a dusting of snow,

534
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:15,360
but it's everyone else panicking that I'm worried about. And Atlanta, being in Atlanta and driving

535
00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:20,720
Atlanta. Oh my gosh, I'm so anxious. We're going to close down the state if it snows. We're going to

536
00:55:20,720 --> 00:55:26,000
close the state down. I don't know. I'm anxious about it. I mean, luckily it's happening Friday

537
00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:30,800
and the club and everything's happening Saturday. So we do have that. That'll be okay. It's going to

538
00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:37,760
be in the forties on Saturday. So it should be long gone and fine. But I'm an anxious kind of girl.

539
00:55:37,760 --> 00:55:42,960
So I'm just having anxieties. There's some things. I don't know. I'm just, I don't know. I think

540
00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:46,320
there's going to be so many people there that I'm worried that I won't have anyone to hang out with,

541
00:55:46,320 --> 00:55:49,840
which is so weird. I don't know if anyone's going to want to hang out with me because there's so

542
00:55:49,840 --> 00:55:54,400
other options. You told me that earlier. I'm like, that's ridiculous. Especially without you.

543
00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:59,040
You're my partner in crime. I think that's really what it's about is because, you know,

544
00:55:59,040 --> 00:56:02,160
you won't have to. I'm going to feel lonely no matter how many people are there just because

545
00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:08,240
they're not there. It's not the same, but I do think I want to support Spices. They're our people.

546
00:56:08,240 --> 00:56:12,800
Yeah. Rider dies. Like we love them so much and they're hosting with Pinellas After Dark.

547
00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:21,840
And yeah, Swing Nation. We've known the Spices for like four, five years. We've known them for a long

548
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:26,480
time. Swing Nation. We've known them for that long and we've known and we're really close with

549
00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:31,200
Pinellas After Dark now. And so it's all their night. So I'm like, I really want to be there to

550
00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:36,480
support everybody. And it's within, like I can do it. I have nothing going on. I can get there. I

551
00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:42,720
have it all planned out, all worked out. It just, I get anxious. I get anxious sometimes.

552
00:56:42,720 --> 00:56:43,440
Yeah, what happens?

553
00:56:43,440 --> 00:56:45,760
I've been anxious about it all.

554
00:56:45,760 --> 00:56:46,400
Yeah.

555
00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:47,200
So we shall see.

556
00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:49,600
But do you have anything other than April?

557
00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:51,840
Um, nope. That's all we have.

558
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:55,840
Well, they haven't announced it yet, but they're planning something it looks like for Pad.

559
00:56:55,840 --> 00:57:00,880
Yeah, Pad just put out like a little teaser thing and it's all green, shamrock.

560
00:57:00,880 --> 00:57:03,200
Shamrock. So we're assuming it's St. Patrick's Day.

561
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:04,000
Which is your birthday weekend.

562
00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:05,440
Which is my birthday weekend.

563
00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:08,880
So it's a Russ weekend. Joke's on them. They didn't even know it.

564
00:57:08,880 --> 00:57:09,600
They didn't even know it.

565
00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:10,720
It's your birthday weekend now.

566
00:57:10,720 --> 00:57:13,600
So that's happening.

567
00:57:13,600 --> 00:57:19,520
We just informed them that is that. But yeah, keep an eye on that on all the socials.

568
00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:23,120
Get on the playground. All that's going to be below. Get on there.

569
00:57:23,120 --> 00:57:23,360
Yeah.

570
00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:26,080
That's where all of these friends and people are.

571
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:31,120
You'll be at Trap the 11th and I'll put the, your birthday night at Trap on there.

572
00:57:31,120 --> 00:57:34,720
25th, come out. Both nights. Come out the 11th, come out the 25th.

573
00:57:34,720 --> 00:57:36,480
Come hang out. Come hang out on Trap Ease.

574
00:57:36,480 --> 00:57:38,560
It's going to be a great group of people.

575
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:44,800
Let's go celebrate the spices this weekend and then let's go celebrate.

576
00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:49,120
That's what I'm excited about. Celebrating you on the 25th.

577
00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:50,720
Like I'm excited.

578
00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:52,640
Don't say it like that.

579
00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:56,320
No, I just want to have fun with my friends. I just want to hang out with my friends.

580
00:57:56,320 --> 00:57:57,920
I want it to be all about that.

581
00:57:57,920 --> 00:57:58,720
And we're doing pink.

582
00:57:59,680 --> 00:58:03,520
Figuring out Trap Ease on the 25th do pink because pink, I'm a pink whore.

583
00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:04,880
Pink and rose gold is my...

584
00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:08,000
I'm making everybody out of your car pink.

585
00:58:08,000 --> 00:58:09,120
I've already done it.

586
00:58:09,120 --> 00:58:10,800
Yeah. I don't think they're too excited.

587
00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:16,000
They're being good jams about it, but pink is my obsession.

588
00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:21,120
Well, I think a couple girls already bought dresses for Trap for that Saturday night, the 25th.

589
00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:23,600
And they weren't pink.

590
00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:26,960
But then like we weren't planning on going...

591
00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:31,680
A lot of them were not planning on going on the 11th for a spice night.

592
00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:36,000
So I'll just wear that dress for the spice night on the 11th.

593
00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:38,800
And then I'll get a pink dress for your birthday.

594
00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:39,600
A pink slut.

595
00:58:39,600 --> 00:58:41,680
Ah, the pink. That's my obsession.

596
00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:43,920
So I am super excited about that.

597
00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:48,400
But yeah, come the 11th of January and the 25th of January to Trap Ease Atlanta.

598
00:58:48,400 --> 00:58:49,120
Come join us.

599
00:58:49,120 --> 00:58:51,840
It's going to be such a good time both weekends.

600
00:58:51,840 --> 00:58:54,080
You can't go wrong with either group of people.

601
00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:56,400
It's going to be packed out this weekend.

602
00:58:56,400 --> 00:58:57,680
This weekend is going to be packed.

603
00:58:57,680 --> 00:58:58,320
Packed out.

604
00:58:58,320 --> 00:59:01,520
So make sure you get there early, especially if you want to upgrade.

605
00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:03,040
But it's going to be insane.

606
00:59:03,040 --> 00:59:04,240
It's going to be a good time.

607
00:59:04,240 --> 00:59:04,960
It is.

608
00:59:04,960 --> 00:59:06,800
It's a good crew.

609
00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:07,360
Going to be fun.

610
00:59:08,560 --> 00:59:09,280
Yeah, that's it.

611
00:59:09,280 --> 00:59:09,840
We're out of time.

612
00:59:09,840 --> 00:59:10,960
We are way over time.

613
00:59:10,960 --> 00:59:11,360
But...

614
00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:11,760
Are we?

615
00:59:11,760 --> 00:59:12,000
Yeah.

616
00:59:12,000 --> 00:59:12,880
Oh, we're going to need to...

617
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:13,520
So fun.

618
00:59:13,520 --> 00:59:15,120
This was a quick one.

619
00:59:15,120 --> 00:59:18,400
Oh, we had a lot to talk about because we haven't been on here for so long.

620
00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:18,720
Yeah.

621
00:59:18,720 --> 00:59:20,640
We need to catch you guys up on our life.

622
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:26,080
But next Wednesday, I am doing a solo episode all about my problems.

623
00:59:26,080 --> 00:59:30,320
Don't put it like that.

624
00:59:30,320 --> 00:59:32,640
Don't say it like that.

625
00:59:32,640 --> 00:59:37,200
We're going to talk about having chronic illness and my journey with dealing with HS

626
00:59:37,200 --> 00:59:39,920
and being in the lifestyle and all of that.

627
00:59:39,920 --> 00:59:42,800
You'll find out what that is and more about it and everything.

628
00:59:42,800 --> 00:59:43,760
And it's just me.

629
00:59:43,760 --> 00:59:44,880
So hopefully you like it.

630
00:59:44,880 --> 00:59:45,280
I don't know.

631
00:59:45,280 --> 00:59:46,000
We're going to try.

632
00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:47,040
We're going to try some different topics.

633
00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:50,800
I know a few people actually have it as well and have chronic illness.

634
00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:56,320
So we've had women come up to you and talk about it.

635
00:59:56,320 --> 01:00:00,000
And we wanted to share a little bit about me because it's a huge, huge, huge part of

636
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:03,360
me and explains a little bit about my body and what you might see here.

637
01:00:04,320 --> 01:00:07,120
But hopefully it resonates with people and it's not too bad.

638
01:00:07,120 --> 01:00:11,280
It was weird trying to record it by myself and not having somebody to bounce off of or

639
01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:14,560
keep me on track or I don't know, a lot of rambling.

640
01:00:15,440 --> 01:00:15,680
Yeah.

641
01:00:15,680 --> 01:00:17,600
If you like, you're talking to yourself.

642
01:00:18,080 --> 01:00:19,280
She's just winging it over here.

643
01:00:19,280 --> 01:00:21,280
But hopefully you enjoyed a little bit.

644
01:00:21,280 --> 01:00:22,800
But yeah, that's next week.

645
01:00:22,800 --> 01:00:27,280
And until then, I will talk to you next Wednesday.

646
01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:27,600
Yeah.

647
01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:29,520
We'll be here for a while now.

648
01:00:29,520 --> 01:00:32,720
But as always, as always, it's not that serious.

649
01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:33,920
Don't make it weird.

650
01:00:33,920 --> 01:00:35,120
We love you guys.

651
01:00:35,120 --> 01:00:35,520
Bye.

652
01:00:35,520 --> 01:00:49,600
Bye.