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Welcome to Hot Couple Chronicles,

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a podcast exploring the swinging lifestyle.

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Our discussions may contain explicit content

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and adult themes intended for mature audiences.

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While we strive to offer valuable insights and entertainment,

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please be aware that the views expressed

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are based on personal experiences and opinions.

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We encourage listeners to approach the content

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with an open mind and to prioritize communication,

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consent, and respect in their relationships.

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Remember everyone's journey is unique,

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so take what resonates with you and leave what doesn't.

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Thank you for joining us on this adventure.

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Oh, oh, oh.

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Oh, oh, oh.

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Oh, oh, oh.

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Oh, oh.

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Oh, oh, oh.

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Oh, oh.

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I'm Russ.

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And I'm Ashley.

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And this is Hot Couple Chronicles.

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This is going to be a fun one.

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It is.

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I'm so tired.

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Well, do you like my shirt?

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Yes.

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There's a story behind that we didn't tell with the secret.

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We didn't tell a lot of stories.

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Once we came home and we really started talking about more things,

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like, oh my gosh, we should have said this.

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We should have told the story about this.

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I was like, there was some really hot moments that I was remembering,

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and then I was like, ah, I wanted to do more details about that.

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But that shirt has, if you're watching,

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that shirt has a lot of history.

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If the mayor is watching this, I got your shirt on.

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Yeah.

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We had stickers that we had.

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It has the same, like, we have stickers made that has the same thing on it.

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And I gave him a sticker and he gave me a shirt.

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Yeah.

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Well, first you were like, I got stickers that have that on it.

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And he was like, that's so cool.

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And he's like, give me, here, you need the shirt there.

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Yeah, I went and got him a sticker.

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Oh yeah, you went to the room and got him a promise.

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And then I gave him a sticker.

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He's like, take my shirt.

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He's like, I'm not taking your shirt.

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And I was like, no.

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And we handed it back to him and left.

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And then later on, saw him again, and then his wife was like, take the shirt.

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So then he has the shirt.

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I love this shirt.

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We now have the shirt and stickers to go with it.

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So yeah, that was a little start.

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It's a secret shirt.

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But this episode.

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Yeah, it's going to be fun.

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I want to break it up.

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It's been really serious.

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It's been real serious.

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It's been really serious.

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We've had some deep topics.

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And we have some more deep topics coming.

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So I want to do something just fun, something laid back, something funny.

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I want to hopefully have some laughs and maybe learn some more about us.

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And maybe it'll be a good time for us to hang out and talk.

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And I feel like some of these will be good conversations for other people.

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Yeah, yeah.

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It'll get other conversations going.

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What do you think?

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Yeah.

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Yeah, we're going to do some rapid fire questions first.

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And those are going to be pretty terrifying because we don't know what each other is saying.

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Yeah, I have no idea what you're going to ask.

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We each have eight questions.

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And then we are going to just rapid fire.

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They have to be quick, on the fly answers.

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And then we have more deeper discussion questions that we each have that we haven't discussed

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or talked about or anything.

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They're like on the fly.

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We're trying to get like just very, you know, authentic responses and feelings and thoughts.

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So I'm like, this is going to be really fun.

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And then we have some games.

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Is this cheating?

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Am I going to talk?

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Yeah.

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And am I the asshole?

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Am I the asshole?

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And they're going to be fun.

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They're all lifestyle related.

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And relationships.

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And relationships in general.

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So it'll be fun.

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It'll be fun.

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Hopefully we'll see.

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And if you like this stuff, if you want to play more games and do some more stuff like

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that, we're looking for like a game or some segment in each of our podcasts that we do

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that's like fun, that even if it's a serious topic we do, and then we could even like include

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guests and stuff with, but we just don't know what that's going to be.

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We're hoping to find it.

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We'll find it.

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We'll find it.

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Or somebody will help us.

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Like somebody will.

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I want it to happen authentic, like I want it to just be like, oh, that was so much fun.

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But yeah, we want to hear your reactions.

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We want to hear your answers to the stuff that we talk about.

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Because obviously we're all going to be having different opinions and stuff with different

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things.

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And then, you know, if you have your own stories, am I the asshole stories and am I cheating?

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Is this cheating stories?

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Feel free to send them in, get on socials and we want to talk more about it.

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It's going to be fun.

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It's going to be fun.

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Grab a drink and get comfy.

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And here we go.

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It's going to be exciting.

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We have our list of our questions on our phones.

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So it's going to be a little bit annoying.

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We're looking down.

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Rapid fire.

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Rapid fire questions.

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Are you ready?

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Are you going first or am I going first?

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Um, I don't know.

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It doesn't matter to me.

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I want to ask you first.

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I'll get warmed up.

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Here we go.

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All right.

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Rapid fire questions.

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Here we go.

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They have to be fast.

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All right.

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I'm the fastest.

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Pool party, dance party.

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Pool party.

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What's your favorite memory from one of our events?

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Dallas Orgy.

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Um, one word to describe our dynamic at events.

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Just one word.

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One word?

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Describe us.

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That's to be fast.

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That's a one word.

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Describe us.

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Describe us.

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Suit or casual at lifestyle events.

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Suit.

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Of course.

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That was stupid.

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Um, night out or night in.

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Like together or with.

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Together.

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Yes.

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Night out.

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Do you want to plan events or would you rather spontaneous?

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Plan.

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And what's one lesson you've learned from all of our experience in lifestyle?

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Like one lesson?

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Yeah, one quick lesson.

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Talk.

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Period.

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And then one thing you always have to bring to a lifestyle event.

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Rethmints.

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Good job.

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Not as yours.

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Pretty good.

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Pretty good.

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You ready?

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No, not at all.

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All right.

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Quick.

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Very fast.

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Lightning round.

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I'll say about that.

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Favorite lifestyle event we've attended.

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Naughty.

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One word to describe our connection.

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Electric.

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Heels or flats.

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I don't know.

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If I had the perfect feet or if I had my feet.

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Heels or flats.

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Heels.

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I always would rather do heels.

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What event outfit would you wear in every single event if you could?

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The white one from Secrets.

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Comfortable.

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Like the dress.

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Yeah, that sheer thing.

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The flowy, sheer thing.

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Yeah, it's like a body suit and a skirt.

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It looks good.

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It's comfy.

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Best city we've visited for the lifestyle fun.

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Naughty.

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New Orleans.

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New Orleans.

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New Orleans.

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How do you feel before we host an event?

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Excited or nervous?

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Both.

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Both.

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You're a little bit of a nervous Nellie.

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Yeah, I'm nervous.

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But you're excited for the-

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Yeah, I'm very nervous.

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I get it.

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I get it.

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But how do you describe our relationship?

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Don't stop the feeling.

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I knew you were going to say that.

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I knew you were going to say that.

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That's our song that, it shows itself.

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That's so coordinated.

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It's so cliché.

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I actually hate that.

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But every single place we go, any significant moment in our life, it always is there and

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it plays.

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It's annoying.

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How many times in our lifetime, it'll just randomly be gone?

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I kind of hate that.

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It shows us.

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All the time.

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Because it's so cliché.

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We didn't get to choose ours.

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I'm a cliche music person.

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What's a memorable story from a party we attended?

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Dallas Orchee is always a good story.

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Yeah, that's a good story.

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I'm sure everybody already knows that story, but yeah.

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Like the 20, 30 person or dream with a nose

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surrounded by glass.

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Well, that was the first time we introduced

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the Cajun persuasion to everyone.

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Yeah, and that was the last,

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that was a spontaneous one for us.

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That was the last.

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Yeah, we weren't gonna do it.

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And then we closed down the club.

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No, well yeah, we closed down the club,

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but I'm just saying our decision to even go,

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we weren't even planning on going.

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And we're like, it was one of those last seconds.

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We're gonna go. We did.

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We're coming home.

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Then we drove 13 hours to Dallas.

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And it took two days to get home.

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And then it took three days to go.

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And it also went on a whole road trip.

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We won like 300 bucks at a casino in Oklahoma.

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It's not too expensive.

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At a casino.

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Yeah, we used to go all the time.

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And his schedule was a lot easier to just spontaneously

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trip all of the time.

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So we were able to do that.

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That was our favorite thing to do.

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We would just go off on our own adventures

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on the way home, get stuff.

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All right, that was our other questions.

278
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Now we have just general discussion questions.

279
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You want me to start or you to start?

280
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And we're just gonna read them out loud.

281
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Oh, okay.

282
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And then we both can answer them

283
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and talk more about them then.

284
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But I have, I'll do.

285
00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:33,160
What is most embarrassing moment in-

286
00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:34,960
I know this one right off the top of my head.

287
00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:36,000
I know what it is.

288
00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:38,760
I've shared it a couple times with a couple people.

289
00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:41,200
I've apologized to you about it.

290
00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:44,840
I've apologized to the person involved about it.

291
00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:46,720
Everyone I know that's had a night like that.

292
00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:49,240
We were meeting a couple for the first time.

293
00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:51,400
Like we were talking like online.

294
00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:53,500
Like Instagram, stuff like that.

295
00:08:53,500 --> 00:08:57,460
And we had planned to meet up at this lifestyle bar

296
00:08:57,460 --> 00:08:58,300
in Atlanta.

297
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And-

298
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It was our first time.

299
00:09:01,020 --> 00:09:04,280
It was our first time at that club slash bar.

300
00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:06,660
And it was first time meeting them.

301
00:09:06,660 --> 00:09:09,160
And we were having a great time.

302
00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:10,680
It was a great night.

303
00:09:10,680 --> 00:09:13,480
We got to a point to play where they were,

304
00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:15,940
they are more of a dag vixen couple.

305
00:09:15,940 --> 00:09:18,880
So she plays solo and he plays sometimes,

306
00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:20,400
but he wasn't feeling it that night.

307
00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:25,400
And so it was us, her and a single guy.

308
00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:28,920
And we all went to a playroom

309
00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:31,600
and we were having a great time.

310
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And-

311
00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:33,280
It was hot.

312
00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:34,120
It was really hot.

313
00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:34,960
It's hot.

314
00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:39,840
And he, well, before we were,

315
00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:43,120
everybody knows like we start getting the, you know,

316
00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:45,640
sexy vibe worth about the head.

317
00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:48,960
So I took a Viagra.

318
00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:51,560
And he had just, this was early on

319
00:09:51,560 --> 00:09:53,520
and this was like starting to take it.

320
00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:57,660
And this, we've been drinking a little bit all night

321
00:09:57,660 --> 00:10:02,660
and I wasn't drunk, but I wasn't sober.

322
00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:07,760
Like I was a little tipsy, but I was feeling good.

323
00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:10,280
But we were in the middle of play

324
00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:11,640
and that Viagra kicked in

325
00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:14,220
and all my blood vessels dilated

326
00:10:14,220 --> 00:10:17,880
and that alcohol hit me all at once.

327
00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:18,720
That's hard.

328
00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:20,560
And like, I tried to shake it off

329
00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:23,960
and you noticed like my face change.

330
00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:26,800
I don't know if the color came out of my face or what.

331
00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:28,720
You just know when like the person's just-

332
00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:32,480
And at this point we kind of switched back

333
00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:35,720
or I was with you and you like, are you okay?

334
00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:38,160
Well, he was like, luckily at that very moment

335
00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:39,600
it was very easy transition.

336
00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:42,160
And I don't even remember like that part of it as much.

337
00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:43,320
Like I don't know what that was happening,

338
00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:46,200
but he was like, if I stay in her any longer,

339
00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:47,140
I'm going to come.

340
00:10:47,140 --> 00:10:50,000
So he like, I had agreed already to like,

341
00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:50,920
so it was just me and you.

342
00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:52,440
So it was really comfortable.

343
00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:54,280
Wait, if he stayed inside of you.

344
00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:55,120
Yeah.

345
00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:56,520
Your vagina has that effect.

346
00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:58,080
And he's like, I can't anymore.

347
00:10:58,080 --> 00:10:59,760
And he's like, you have to go back to your husband

348
00:10:59,760 --> 00:11:00,720
because it's coming back.

349
00:11:00,720 --> 00:11:02,440
And so I was like, okay, whatever.

350
00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:03,840
We got condom on, I don't know.

351
00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:05,520
Like, I get it though.

352
00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:06,360
He wanted to keep playing.

353
00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:09,280
But so it like kind of was at a good moment.

354
00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:10,320
We were, it was just me and you.

355
00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:12,440
So it was a little bit, and it was at the end already.

356
00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:14,720
Yeah, it was towards the end.

357
00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:17,480
Yeah, like we already had fun, but yeah.

358
00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:20,680
And we was early on in our, you know,

359
00:11:20,680 --> 00:11:23,520
our Viagra alcohol learning how to-

360
00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:25,600
But you looked at me and like, are you okay?

361
00:11:25,600 --> 00:11:26,440
I said, yeah, I'm fine.

362
00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:28,480
Just trying to like, I wasn't fine.

363
00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:32,400
And it wasn't five minutes after you asked me that question,

364
00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:34,920
I tried to, trying to play it off.

365
00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:38,520
I stood up, found the nearest trash can in the corner

366
00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:41,480
and just started throwing up in the middle of the playroom

367
00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:42,640
in this trash can.

368
00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:44,920
Like it was bad.

369
00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:46,920
And we wrapped it up.

370
00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:47,960
Yeah, that's not a thing that happens.

371
00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:48,800
That's not.

372
00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:53,800
And like, we wrapped it up and we made it home.

373
00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:58,280
You drove home and yeah, well, so later on,

374
00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:01,000
I like finally talking to her and like,

375
00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:03,120
I apologize, she even didn't realize it happened.

376
00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:03,960
I know, that's not a thing.

377
00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:04,800
Like I must have hit it really well.

378
00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:06,960
It happened right at the perfect time.

379
00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:08,760
Cause we were like at the end,

380
00:12:08,760 --> 00:12:10,760
it was like me and you were together.

381
00:12:10,760 --> 00:12:12,040
It was kind of towards the end,

382
00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:14,200
we were all like wrapping up, wrapping it up.

383
00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:16,840
So I was like, and then they were all kind of

384
00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:18,640
making their way, she had to go back to her husband

385
00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:20,120
and everything and everybody was kind of going back

386
00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:23,240
to their people and then they missed it all.

387
00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:24,080
Like luckily.

388
00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:26,560
Luckily, but I was so embarrassed for the longest time.

389
00:12:26,560 --> 00:12:27,400
I apologize to her.

390
00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:29,160
She's like, I didn't even know.

391
00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:31,600
I'm like, well, I'm glad you didn't know.

392
00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:33,800
But also I'm so sorry.

393
00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:35,240
I used to, like at the very beginning,

394
00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:38,160
I used to be so nervous and scared that I would just like,

395
00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:41,440
I really would drink just out of nerves

396
00:12:41,440 --> 00:12:43,200
and then I wouldn't realize how much I was drinking

397
00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:44,680
and then I just like hit a wall.

398
00:12:44,680 --> 00:12:48,760
The first year it was like navigating that.

399
00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:52,200
Now it's like, yeah, I'd rather just not drink like that.

400
00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:54,240
I mean, like I just don't want to drink anymore.

401
00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:56,560
Like a drink to like loosen up when you get, you know,

402
00:12:56,560 --> 00:12:58,320
just socially, but like,

403
00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:00,160
I just have no interest in doing that.

404
00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:01,000
It's just like.

405
00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:04,160
Well, like I took the Viagra and then me and the guys

406
00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:05,600
did like a couple shots.

407
00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:07,160
I think that's what did it.

408
00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:08,720
And the nights where I've been like that,

409
00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:10,880
it's because I was refeed was one of them.

410
00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:13,240
So like there's other, yeah, like those kinds of things

411
00:13:13,240 --> 00:13:14,400
you can't really help.

412
00:13:14,400 --> 00:13:16,200
Yeah, that sucks.

413
00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:21,200
And then mine is, so I have hydrogeninitis supertiva

414
00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:24,160
and it is a skin disease.

415
00:13:24,160 --> 00:13:26,880
It's a chronic illness and it affects your pores

416
00:13:26,880 --> 00:13:27,960
and your pores don't work.

417
00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:29,880
And we're going to talk more on a whole episode

418
00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:31,080
and explain more about it.

419
00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:34,360
But I unfortunately get abscesses

420
00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:37,440
and my pores don't know how to filter themselves correctly.

421
00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:39,040
And so they don't work.

422
00:13:39,040 --> 00:13:41,280
So everything gets trapped and infected under my skin.

423
00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:43,920
So I end up with these lumps everywhere.

424
00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:45,680
They look like pimples or something.

425
00:13:45,680 --> 00:13:47,000
And then until they don't,

426
00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:49,880
and then they turn into like baseball size lumps.

427
00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:52,880
And it's a pretty embarrassing.

428
00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:54,960
And it also causes tunneling

429
00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:56,320
because my pores are all messed up

430
00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:57,600
and they're trying to find a way out.

431
00:13:57,600 --> 00:14:00,760
And so it causes these tunnels in my skin.

432
00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:03,720
So even when they're done, there's like scars.

433
00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:05,680
And plus they're purple, they like bruises and stuff.

434
00:14:05,680 --> 00:14:07,800
So I'm really, really self-conscious.

435
00:14:07,800 --> 00:14:08,920
That's my number one thing

436
00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:11,080
that I've been self-conscious of my whole life.

437
00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:12,560
And definitely through this journey

438
00:14:12,560 --> 00:14:13,520
with these guys and stuff.

439
00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:15,920
And most people are know about it.

440
00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:17,720
And I'm pretty much upfront at

441
00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:19,080
when we first start playing and stuff.

442
00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:20,480
I'm like, this is what's going on.

443
00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:22,880
It looks bad, but I swear it's like,

444
00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:24,880
I'm clean, everything's good.

445
00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:27,040
You know, it's not dirty or anything.

446
00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:27,880
It's not a dirty reason,

447
00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:31,520
but it's always in my head all of the freaking time.

448
00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:32,680
No matter if they know about it or not.

449
00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:34,560
No matter if they're cool about it or not.

450
00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:38,040
So the guy, we had been playing with a couple

451
00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:42,120
and then we swapped and I was with her husband.

452
00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:44,920
And we've been friends with them for quite a long time.

453
00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:47,240
This was, they've never played.

454
00:14:47,240 --> 00:14:48,680
We were at Trapeze.

455
00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:50,600
Yeah, this was actually pretty recently.

456
00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:51,440
Pretty recently.

457
00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:54,240
And we had talked for a long time and we never played.

458
00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:57,000
And this was our first time playing together.

459
00:14:57,000 --> 00:15:01,280
And we were making out and on the bed and everything.

460
00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:04,080
And then he just gets up and leaves.

461
00:15:04,080 --> 00:15:05,920
I didn't know where he went at all.

462
00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:09,920
So I was like, you know, whatever.

463
00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:13,480
I thought he went to the bathroom or condoms or whatever.

464
00:15:13,480 --> 00:15:15,520
But then of course that's where my head goes.

465
00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:19,480
Like my scarring, my HS and all of that.

466
00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:22,240
So then, I don't know, he was having problems

467
00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:23,840
because he had drank too much.

468
00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:24,680
Yes.

469
00:15:24,680 --> 00:15:27,720
And he had taken some medication.

470
00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:29,960
Same type of medication type.

471
00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:31,640
He does a shot.

472
00:15:31,640 --> 00:15:34,080
Yeah, and it hit him really hard and fast.

473
00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:36,320
And so he was like dealing with that and everything.

474
00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:37,160
And I didn't realize that.

475
00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:40,120
And that's why communication is important.

476
00:15:40,120 --> 00:15:40,960
Yeah.

477
00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:44,320
I thought that I scared him because in my head

478
00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:47,320
I saw him look at my thighs and then like in my head

479
00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:49,360
he like panicked and like ran away.

480
00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:50,320
And that's what I saw.

481
00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:51,280
That was my perspective.

482
00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:54,160
Like I scared him with my scarring and stuff in my thighs

483
00:15:54,160 --> 00:15:55,160
or like gross.

484
00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:56,360
And then I lost all this weight.

485
00:15:56,360 --> 00:15:59,200
I have like extra, I don't know, it's just not the cutest.

486
00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:02,680
So it's like, I'm always so scared about when they see you.

487
00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:04,920
And I've talked to him a couple of times since.

488
00:16:04,920 --> 00:16:06,520
And I know mostly in my head.

489
00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:09,000
But that was my first thought was like he looked down.

490
00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:12,600
We have decided that we need a redo.

491
00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:13,640
Oh yeah.

492
00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:14,640
I get what happened.

493
00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:15,720
I understand what happened.

494
00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:16,560
And it's fine.

495
00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:18,400
What's funny about that whole situation,

496
00:16:18,400 --> 00:16:19,360
and I've talked to you about it,

497
00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:22,320
but I haven't talked to these people about it is.

498
00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:23,800
I'm just very self-conscious about my fact.

499
00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:24,640
Yeah.

500
00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:28,200
I understand that's your biggest insecurity

501
00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:30,120
and you're sensitive about it.

502
00:16:30,120 --> 00:16:34,880
But I think that that situation itself is very funny

503
00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:39,880
because the day after he's texting me, apologizing to me.

504
00:16:39,880 --> 00:16:41,840
Apologizing to me.

505
00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:42,800
He's like, I'm sorry.

506
00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:44,640
I hope I didn't mess things up with Ashley.

507
00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:46,240
She's absolutely gorgeous.

508
00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:47,920
I drank too much.

509
00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:49,240
I just couldn't.

510
00:16:49,240 --> 00:16:51,640
He's like, we get excited when we go to these things.

511
00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:53,080
We go to the hotel, we start drinking

512
00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:56,080
and then we don't eat and the yada, yada, yada.

513
00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:56,920
And-

514
00:16:56,920 --> 00:16:58,520
Funny now, but it wasn't funny.

515
00:16:58,520 --> 00:16:59,360
I told you about it.

516
00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:00,200
I told you.

517
00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:02,480
So it was fresh and I told you about it.

518
00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:04,400
And you're like, no, I saw it happen.

519
00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:05,800
I know exactly what happened.

520
00:17:05,800 --> 00:17:06,880
Yeah, I was not.

521
00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:07,720
And then it was-

522
00:17:07,720 --> 00:17:08,560
You're anything else.

523
00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:11,720
Actually, last week he texted me,

524
00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:14,280
because we don't live that far apart from each other.

525
00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:18,160
And he said, just FYI,

526
00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:20,880
our hot tub gets installed next week.

527
00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:22,600
I'm like, oh really?

528
00:17:22,600 --> 00:17:25,320
And we started talking back and forth and he's like,

529
00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:31,000
and he still thinks that he messed up so bad.

530
00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:32,920
And I just, I told him straight up.

531
00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:34,240
I'm like, I told him.

532
00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:37,240
I said, it's actually hilarious to me.

533
00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:38,080
I thought it was beautiful.

534
00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:42,520
Because we, like Ashley thinks that she messed it up.

535
00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:43,360
You think you messed it up.

536
00:17:43,360 --> 00:17:44,200
I scared her away.

537
00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:46,000
And I think you're both ridiculous.

538
00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:49,400
I thought you were a good boy.

539
00:17:49,400 --> 00:17:51,520
Such is life, such is the lifestyle.

540
00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:53,240
That's why communication is very important.

541
00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:55,560
And none of us are actually like perfect at it.

542
00:17:55,560 --> 00:17:57,240
We all want to say and think we are,

543
00:17:57,240 --> 00:17:58,640
but there are moments where like,

544
00:17:58,640 --> 00:17:59,480
we should have just been like,

545
00:17:59,480 --> 00:18:00,320
this is what's going on.

546
00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:01,160
Well, here's the-

547
00:18:01,160 --> 00:18:02,000
I didn't-

548
00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:03,120
I got scared.

549
00:18:03,120 --> 00:18:04,760
Comes to the conclusion.

550
00:18:04,760 --> 00:18:06,680
When it comes to most lifestyle awareness,

551
00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:09,160
a lot of left out couples, I wouldn't say most.

552
00:18:09,160 --> 00:18:12,000
I would just say a lot that I've seen in my experience

553
00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:17,000
is we pride ourselves on being excellent communicators.

554
00:18:17,640 --> 00:18:18,480
I know.

555
00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:22,200
Which we are with our partner,

556
00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:24,000
but we're not the best communicators

557
00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:25,720
with other swinging couples.

558
00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:26,840
Yeah, yeah.

559
00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:27,880
That's, I know.

560
00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:29,880
Because we're comfortable having

561
00:18:29,880 --> 00:18:31,640
uncomfortable conversations with each other,

562
00:18:31,640 --> 00:18:33,280
but we don't know these other people enough.

563
00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:35,560
They took us years and years and years

564
00:18:35,560 --> 00:18:39,760
of all these things to make us this close.

565
00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:43,280
Swingers in general think that we're great communicators,

566
00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:45,120
which we are with our partner.

567
00:18:45,120 --> 00:18:46,320
We do a lot of us struggle.

568
00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:49,160
A lot of times they're afraid of some type of judgment

569
00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:51,440
or making somebody mad or upset,

570
00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:54,000
or you don't want to mess something up

571
00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:56,440
with another person or couple.

572
00:18:56,440 --> 00:18:58,880
And so you don't communicate your wants and needs

573
00:18:58,880 --> 00:18:59,720
to the other people.

574
00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:01,560
But luckily swingers are so good at,

575
00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:03,720
like people in the lifestyle are so good at

576
00:19:03,720 --> 00:19:05,880
later on being like, I apologize.

577
00:19:05,880 --> 00:19:08,400
Like I've gotten so many texts and messages

578
00:19:08,400 --> 00:19:11,440
after weird encounters or weird things,

579
00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:13,680
and then like, I'm sorry, I don't know what happened

580
00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:14,520
or whatever.

581
00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:16,760
Or like we've been able to open up the discussion.

582
00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:20,240
And we've come across other guys having performance anxiety.

583
00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:21,960
Yeah, that's usually where it stems from.

584
00:19:21,960 --> 00:19:25,360
And it's hard, like I get it how it's like you,

585
00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:28,800
it's hard for you not to take it personally.

586
00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:32,480
Well, that was that was with, that was that night at Trapeze.

587
00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:35,760
I thought I was thinking that I wasn't turning him on.

588
00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:38,080
That's like, and I know that is a thing.

589
00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:40,560
And I know it all the time, but like,

590
00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:42,760
it's hard sometimes when you're like,

591
00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:43,800
what am I doing wrong?

592
00:19:43,800 --> 00:19:45,640
Why am I doing, and I know it has nothing to do with it.

593
00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:47,520
And I also had a little bit more insight

594
00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:49,400
in his condition too. I know, now we'll know.

595
00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:52,600
Because before we start, like we swapped

596
00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:55,760
or started playing with the opposite partner,

597
00:19:55,760 --> 00:19:58,120
you and her were on the bed, you were talking,

598
00:19:58,120 --> 00:20:02,320
kissing, being flirty, being super sexy.

599
00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:04,600
And me and him were talking, we're just,

600
00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:06,200
me and him were just kind of talking back and forth.

601
00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:07,800
Yeah, me and him didn't really talk like that.

602
00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:10,160
And so I knew he, like.

603
00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:11,280
So we just never had that conversation.

604
00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:13,880
So he was like, I need to go do my shot.

605
00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:17,440
I'm like, okay, Mike, actually Mike, he mentioned it.

606
00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:20,160
Like I'm out of, like I didn't take anything that night

607
00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:22,320
because that was out.

608
00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:25,200
He's like, well, he's like, do you have,

609
00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:29,520
like he offered some of his, I'm like,

610
00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:31,520
but he, like I said, he uses the shot,

611
00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:34,960
which for those that know, it's an actual supplement

612
00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:37,880
that you put into your penis.

613
00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:41,200
And it makes you, it dilates those blood vessels

614
00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:42,760
and makes you hard.

615
00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:45,720
The caveat of that is there is an antidote

616
00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:49,080
to after three hours, you have to do it,

617
00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:51,800
or you can create, like it actually causes damage.

618
00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:55,200
I didn't, he didn't have the antidote on him.

619
00:20:55,200 --> 00:20:56,240
It was at his hotel.

620
00:20:57,280 --> 00:20:59,400
And I'm like, well, I don't want to do that then

621
00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:04,400
because I don't want to risk it for the biscuit.

622
00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:07,440
On bad time.

623
00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:08,260
But yeah.

624
00:21:08,260 --> 00:21:09,100
We really were down.

625
00:21:09,100 --> 00:21:12,720
So I didn't, and say 99% of the time.

626
00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:14,440
I know, but like, I know that.

627
00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:16,920
And I struggled, that was one of my biggest struggles

628
00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:18,080
at the beginning was if,

629
00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:22,560
cause I didn't realize how many men have performance issues.

630
00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:24,880
I thought it was just a me thing.

631
00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:26,400
I thought that my thighs were ugly.

632
00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:29,360
Like I said earlier, like I was just,

633
00:21:29,360 --> 00:21:30,960
I got into my head, I got in my head,

634
00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:34,040
it was because you're like, he saw you vulnerable

635
00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:35,800
and he saw what you looked like.

636
00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:37,640
You like turned him off immediately.

637
00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:40,440
And it's a hard thing to like not take it personal

638
00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:43,880
because I never had that issue with any man

639
00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:46,080
I've ever been with before the lifestyle ever.

640
00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:47,440
It was always the opposite.

641
00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:48,280
They would come like immediately.

642
00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:51,040
Well, I never had any of that type of issue.

643
00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:54,520
I've only had that problem two times.

644
00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:56,920
I know the exact two times I've had that problem.

645
00:21:56,920 --> 00:22:00,720
And from a guy's perspective, it's-

646
00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:02,880
I've watched you deal with that now.

647
00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:04,360
Over-stimulating.

648
00:22:04,360 --> 00:22:06,440
Like there's so much going on a lot of these times.

649
00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:08,280
I get it now, but I've been here for a minute

650
00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:09,440
and I've talked to a lot of men

651
00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:11,760
and I've learned a lot of things.

652
00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:15,760
And when you don't, like when it doesn't happen,

653
00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:16,920
then you get in your head,

654
00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:18,520
be like, what's wrong with me, this and that.

655
00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:21,600
And it's a whole spiral situation.

656
00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:22,440
Cause you want to.

657
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:23,280
I get it.

658
00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:25,080
I get it now.

659
00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:26,200
Yeah, I get it now.

660
00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:28,400
But yeah, that was, I took a lot of learning.

661
00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:30,160
I didn't really, that was-

662
00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:35,160
But that's why I started taking like Viagra or you know,

663
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:40,640
I call them helper pills, but it's like insurance.

664
00:22:41,120 --> 00:22:43,520
Like just like, I mostly don't need it.

665
00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:44,600
Swinger insurance for a reason.

666
00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:46,160
Yeah, it's most of the time I don't need it,

667
00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:47,000
but it's my insurance.

668
00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:48,320
We're taking in case you do.

669
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:49,880
Just in case.

670
00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:51,120
Okay, we gotta keep going.

671
00:22:51,120 --> 00:22:51,960
Sorry.

672
00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:52,800
Sorry.

673
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:53,640
Is that my turn?

674
00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:54,480
Yeah, it's your turn.

675
00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:55,320
Okay.

676
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:58,000
We've been talking about shots,

677
00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:00,680
which we can at different times.

678
00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:01,800
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679
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If you create a themed party for us, what would it be?

699
00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:50,280
I would do something fancy,

700
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:55,280
like Hollywood glamour, or pinup.

701
00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:57,400
I like anything that we can get.

702
00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:58,240
Like 20s?

703
00:23:58,240 --> 00:24:00,440
Yeah, like pinup or Gatsby, or some kind like that.

704
00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:04,640
Or we can do a fancy, pretty fancy.

705
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:05,480
We like that.

706
00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:07,320
We like gloves, we like accessories.

707
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:08,160
Yeah, and we think of the flask.

708
00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:09,000
We like accessories and hats.

709
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:10,560
Like the flask dresses.

710
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:11,720
And yeah.

711
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:12,560
We like getting fancy.

712
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,080
Sparkly headbands.

713
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:16,880
I have two.

714
00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:19,680
One is a Goodwill party.

715
00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:20,520
Yeah, that was fun.

716
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:21,360
That was so much fun.

717
00:24:21,360 --> 00:24:22,200
I wanna do it lifestyle.

718
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:23,400
We did it with vanilla friends.

719
00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:25,640
I wanna do it a little bit life-wear.

720
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:28,560
You have 15 or $20 that you can spend

721
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:31,200
for your partner's outfit, and they have to wear it.

722
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:32,160
So hilarious.

723
00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:34,960
And the second one I actually just came across,

724
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:36,560
and I think it's a really good idea

725
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,840
because you have to think about it,

726
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:43,440
is the theme was tequila mockingbird.

727
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:46,120
And the whole point is to go,

728
00:24:46,120 --> 00:24:49,840
it's like a literature themed,

729
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:52,600
but with an alcohol twist.

730
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:57,600
So it'd be like Dorian Gray Goose

731
00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:03,200
or Old Man in the Rye doesn't need any changing.

732
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:07,240
But like, or sorry, Catcher in the Rye.

733
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:10,000
I was mixing Old Man in the...

734
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:14,280
But Old Man in the Seagroups, Fahrenheit 151

735
00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:19,280
instead of Bacardi 151, like, you know, like puns.

736
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:20,280
I like a good pun.

737
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:21,920
I've given away our themes.

738
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:22,760
I know, don't steal it.

739
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:24,800
Totally steal that now.

740
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:26,800
Someone's gonna definitely steal that one.

741
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:28,280
I thought that was...

742
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:29,240
I've never heard of that one.

743
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:31,200
And people are getting very desperate for themes.

744
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:32,200
We've done all the themes.

745
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:34,520
Yeah, but I think that one,

746
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:38,160
it's for a very niche, like niche crowd.

747
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:41,640
And a lot of people would have trouble

748
00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:44,000
thinking of something like that.

749
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:45,960
But that's not something you just like...

750
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:47,280
My style, very creative people.

751
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:48,640
Yeah, we're very creative people.

752
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:51,520
But it's not something you just like Google a costume with.

753
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:52,360
You know?

754
00:25:52,360 --> 00:25:54,360
Yeah, that's why I like Kate.

755
00:25:54,360 --> 00:25:56,480
Her libertine events, I love libertine events,

756
00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:58,320
like themes, cause they make you really think

757
00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:00,400
and you can really interpret it any way you want to.

758
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,280
And it's like, I love her theme nights.

759
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:04,840
And she does inspiration that you wouldn't have thought of.

760
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:08,920
Well, like her takeovers are like a whole thing.

761
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:12,440
Like when we were in Miami, it was Miami vices.

762
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:14,280
It was all about people's vices.

763
00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:18,160
And every little activity had something to tie into it.

764
00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:19,000
I love it.

765
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:19,840
She's really good.

766
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:20,680
She's what's brought us that into it.

767
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:21,520
I love that.

768
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:23,280
Okay, what is your favorite inside joke

769
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:24,600
we share about the lifestyle?

770
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:25,800
Think of any?

771
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:26,680
I mean...

772
00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:29,440
The only thing I could really think of was like,

773
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:31,280
it's not that serious to make it weird.

774
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:32,120
That's what I was getting ready to say.

775
00:26:32,120 --> 00:26:33,720
It's not that serious to make it weird.

776
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:35,800
Anytime it gets weird and it does get weird

777
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:37,000
and we're in the middle of something

778
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:39,320
that doesn't involve us, we're like...

779
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:40,160
That's a them problem.

780
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:41,000
That's a them problem.

781
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:41,840
That's a them problem.

782
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:42,680
That's an us thing.

783
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:43,520
Yeah.

784
00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:44,600
And we say that all the time.

785
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:45,680
Like sometimes you have to check in

786
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:47,880
because we've had some really messy,

787
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:48,720
we haven't that a lot,

788
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:51,200
but we have had some messy situations

789
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:53,880
where it doesn't involve us and that's not our problem.

790
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:55,320
And that's what we say all the time.

791
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:56,600
That's a them thing.

792
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:57,440
This is an us thing.

793
00:26:57,440 --> 00:26:59,080
And we have to check ourselves sometimes

794
00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:01,720
to not get involved too deep, but yes.

795
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:02,800
Okay.

796
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:07,120
What's something surprising you've learned about yourself

797
00:27:07,120 --> 00:27:09,360
through our lifestyle experiences?

798
00:27:09,360 --> 00:27:12,880
Um, I actually can speak to people.

799
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:15,040
I actually can like, I'm not good at it.

800
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:16,400
I'm not really great at it.

801
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:17,800
And the more I listen to the podcast,

802
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:19,720
the more I hate the way that I talk over people.

803
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:22,240
And I say, um, and I say, like I said,

804
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:23,560
I never saw these things.

805
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:24,640
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

806
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:27,080
I never saw any of this stuff and I'm learning.

807
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:28,000
I am learning.

808
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:29,240
I'm trying to not talk.

809
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:31,560
I just get excited and I have ADHD

810
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:33,560
and I'm very nervous, believe it or not.

811
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:36,000
This is like very outside of my comfort zone.

812
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:37,680
And the video portion of this thing

813
00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:39,480
makes me so scared more than anything.

814
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:42,040
So I'm like, it was just my voice, it'd be different.

815
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:45,240
But I'm like, ah, the whole time I want to get through it.

816
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:46,720
And I'm like, let's go, let's do it right.

817
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:48,200
And I want to make sure it's perfect.

818
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:50,800
But I am learning that I can, and you know,

819
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:53,680
really Miami really, really surprised me.

820
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:55,880
I got in front of, we were doing a seminar.

821
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:57,840
And it's a good story.

822
00:27:57,840 --> 00:27:59,640
We were doing a seminar.

823
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,240
We spent months, cause we knew about this

824
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:03,240
for like a year ahead.

825
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:06,080
So we spent months doing this seminar.

826
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:07,320
We had cards written.

827
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:09,040
We didn't go out.

828
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:11,480
We didn't go to anything at the event

829
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:12,960
until it was perfected.

830
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:14,040
We had a plan to achieve.

831
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:17,600
We had practiced and memorized.

832
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:20,120
Had a whole folder and cards.

833
00:28:20,120 --> 00:28:22,560
We get down there, he freezes up

834
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,560
and doesn't say anything at all.

835
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:26,400
And we're sitting in front of-

836
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:28,200
Five minutes in, we're going rogue.

837
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:30,560
Not even, like immediately going rogue.

838
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:33,360
And then he stands up when we start panicking.

839
00:28:33,360 --> 00:28:34,200
I lost my cards.

840
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:35,560
Cause he didn't know where his cards were.

841
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:39,480
We had done lost, abandoned that way long time ago.

842
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:42,080
I pulled the chairs close to the people and I was like,

843
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:44,400
okay, here, this is what's gonna happen.

844
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:45,840
We're gonna wing in it.

845
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:49,640
And then he stands up and he's like patting himself down,

846
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:50,520
turning around.

847
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:52,760
And I'm trying to, I mean, a conversation that's deep

848
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:54,120
and like meaningful.

849
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:57,840
And he's like, I can't find my cards.

850
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:01,240
And I'm like, we're not doing cards anymore, sweetheart.

851
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:04,480
We are way past Q cards.

852
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:08,920
So yeah, that was, I have learned that I can actually speak

853
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:11,120
to humans, turns out I can carry,

854
00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:14,120
at least carry a sentence or conversation, a sentence.

855
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:16,840
Sometimes just a sentence, but a conversation.

856
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:17,760
And what's yours?

857
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,360
So before we got in lifestyle, I had,

858
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:25,440
I was a lot like a seagull on Finding Emo.

859
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:26,640
You were mine.

860
00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:27,560
Yes. Mine.

861
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:29,200
Yeah. Yeah.

862
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:34,200
I didn't realize that I liked watching you.

863
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:37,320
And watching each other, like we liked watching each other.

864
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:40,560
Like that was something that was.

865
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:41,600
I would have never.

866
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:44,280
Yeah, before we found the lifestyle, I would have never.

867
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:45,880
I heard actually saw someone on TikTok,

868
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:47,320
like a TikTok the other day.

869
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:52,240
And she was like, my husband is mine, mine, mine.

870
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:55,480
And that makes me a selfish bitch.

871
00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:57,960
Wouldn't so be, it was, and she just kept repeating herself

872
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:00,000
over and over and he's all mine.

873
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:02,440
You look at him, I will kick your, you know,

874
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:03,920
like that's very stereotypical.

875
00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:07,560
I'm just like, man, that makes me so sad.

876
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:08,400
Yeah.

877
00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:13,400
Well, I was, I'm an odd duck in a sense that you were mine,

878
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:17,000
but also I liked showing you off.

879
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:20,040
Like I liked it when like you dressed.

880
00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:21,720
Once a year on our anniversary.

881
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:22,560
Yeah.

882
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:24,280
That's the only time we ever saw that for like

883
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:25,400
a very long time.

884
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:28,120
That was when I would describe like that feeling

885
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:30,680
was the only thing closest when we would always get dressed

886
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:34,960
in our finest and go out to dinner for our anniversary.

887
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:35,800
Yeah.

888
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:38,320
But like, I liked showing you off, but you were mine.

889
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:39,720
Like that was the type of.

890
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:41,160
Don't look, don't touch also.

891
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:42,960
I was the same way, same way.

892
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:43,800
Yeah.

893
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:46,360
Do not avert your eyes or I will get you.

894
00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:47,200
Yeah.

895
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:49,320
All right, next time, if you had to describe

896
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:52,920
our lifestyle journey in a music or a movie genre,

897
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:54,840
what would it be?

898
00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:57,280
Clifford, go.

899
00:30:57,280 --> 00:30:58,480
In a movie genre?

900
00:30:58,480 --> 00:30:59,320
What?

901
00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:02,560
Comedy.

902
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:03,400
Yeah.

903
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:04,440
Mine was dramedy.

904
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:05,760
You had dramedy.

905
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:08,160
Like a romantic comedy, dramedy, something like that.

906
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:09,000
Yeah.

907
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:09,840
Yeah.

908
00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:13,680
Like it has all the twists and turns and funny, hilarious,

909
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:15,840
but also like sexy and spicy and young,

910
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:17,560
like a modernized version.

911
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:20,200
And that's where my brain went to too.

912
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:22,920
What's my next one?

913
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:26,400
Oh, oh, this is this one you might have to think about

914
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:27,760
for a second.

915
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:28,600
You ready?

916
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:29,680
Yeah, ready.

917
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:31,360
If you could invite three people

918
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:35,080
to a lifestyle dinner party, dead or alive.

919
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:36,560
Easy.

920
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:37,400
Who would it be?

921
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:42,120
Zachary, Taylor, and I've...

922
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:44,360
Yeah, I had a feeling you were gonna say the Handsome Brothers.

923
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:46,360
If you said three, I said pig.

924
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:48,600
I mean, three in my life, those are the three people.

925
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:52,080
Mine's not that different, but completely different.

926
00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:52,920
Are you ready?

927
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:56,200
I'm a handsome fan, not hardcore for almost 30 years now.

928
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:57,640
Don't like it, get over it.

929
00:31:57,640 --> 00:31:59,000
That's why swinging is not that weird,

930
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,120
because I've been picked on my entire fucking life

931
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:02,160
for being weird.

932
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:03,200
And guess what?

933
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:04,560
I love it.

934
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:08,160
My history nerds gonna come out in this one, are you ready?

935
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:09,000
Okay.

936
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:11,040
JFK, Marilyn Monroe.

937
00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:12,440
I was afraid you were gonna go like that.

938
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:13,920
And Jackie O.

939
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:14,760
I was not gonna take it that.

940
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:16,960
All at one dinner with us.

941
00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:18,520
I was not gonna take it that.

942
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:19,360
Cheeky.

943
00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:22,000
Because I feel like that could be a really cool orgy.

944
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:22,840
Yeah.

945
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:27,840
No, I don't really wanna do an orgy with,

946
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:29,440
only Zach, just Zach.

947
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:31,360
Mac, Zach, and,

948
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:33,880
oh, that's a hardy.

949
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:35,120
That's a hard one, hardy.

950
00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:36,240
That's a hard one.

951
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:37,840
I don't know, I don't know.

952
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:39,720
Just Zach.

953
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:45,080
So Zachary Hanson, if you're listening,

954
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:46,160
we'll see you next Tuesday.

955
00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:47,000
Tuesday.

956
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:48,760
After the Atlanta.

957
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:52,040
Actually, when you hear this, it'll be already Thursday.

958
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:53,360
I've already saw you.

959
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:55,480
I saw you already hooked up, hooked eyes.

960
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:57,400
You know you're married.

961
00:32:57,400 --> 00:32:58,240
Won't do that.

962
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:00,600
But man, I have a fantasy that maybe you are,

963
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:01,760
and I just don't know.

964
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:04,400
So, I never know.

965
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:06,400
Okay, we are going to a DJ set with Taylor.

966
00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:08,000
So that's my shot.

967
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:09,400
And it's his birthday.

968
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:10,600
Maybe it's Zach's birthday.

969
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:12,120
But it's Taylor's DJing.

970
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,680
So I'm gonna show off all my swinger moves.

971
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:16,720
Cause I haven't been to a DJ Taylor show

972
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:18,320
since I've been a swinger.

973
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:20,080
And I love the DJ.

974
00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:24,480
So I am down to get funky with Taylor Hanson,

975
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:26,760
Thursday in Atlanta.

976
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:27,600
Or Tuesday.

977
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:28,440
Tuesday.

978
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:29,280
So excited.

979
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:30,120
Okay.

980
00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:31,480
What's the most creative way you've seen people

981
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:33,120
break the ice at events?

982
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:37,200
Like any break the ice at like party games

983
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:41,480
or any like ways that people, events have broken ice.

984
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:43,200
I had to think about this one too.

985
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:47,200
I mean, really it's just conversations.

986
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:49,000
Like I don't see a whole lot of-

987
00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:51,560
The other one that we've done was at Trappies

988
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:53,160
when we did the lock and key thing.

989
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:54,000
Oh, I do like the lock and key parties.

990
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:55,120
That was a really good one.

991
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:57,520
I don't know why we stopped doing like ice breaker games.

992
00:33:57,520 --> 00:33:59,240
There was actually, when we were in Secrets.

993
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:00,080
I found a bunch of these.

994
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:02,680
When we were in Secrets they had a lock and key meet and greet.

995
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:03,800
We just didn't make it.

996
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:04,640
No, did they?

997
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:06,360
Oh, I didn't know.

998
00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:07,840
The speed dating thing.

999
00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:12,520
Not the nude one, but the clothing optional one.

1000
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:14,280
It was a lock and key one.

1001
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:15,880
No, I didn't know.

1002
00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:18,000
My other answer was naked speed dating.

1003
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:19,520
That's also pretty clever.

1004
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:21,080
Just to have strangers meet each other naked.

1005
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:23,200
You kind of like strip them down to nothing.

1006
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:24,720
And you have to be like, hi, what's your name?

1007
00:34:24,720 --> 00:34:25,600
It's very-

1008
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:26,440
Interesting.

1009
00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:27,600
I couldn't- Disarming.

1010
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:28,440
Yeah, I couldn't do it, but I mean-

1011
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:30,600
It's very disarming, because there's no hiding.

1012
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:32,200
But yeah, that's what I mean.

1013
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:33,120
You're very vulnerable.

1014
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:35,800
And you're just like, hi, I like to play football

1015
00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:38,720
on Thursdays and paint on Sundays.

1016
00:34:38,720 --> 00:34:39,560
Like, you know what I mean?

1017
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:41,040
Like it's very much, you're still meeting people

1018
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:41,880
you've never met before.

1019
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:43,400
So I don't know.

1020
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:44,760
I think that one was pretty interesting.

1021
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:46,520
If you can do it, I can't.

1022
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:48,920
Like the card games and stuff like that.

1023
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:49,760
Those are-

1024
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:50,600
Yeah.

1025
00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:53,240
I found a bunch of different ideas when I was,

1026
00:34:53,240 --> 00:34:55,880
cause I got my brain started when I saw that question.

1027
00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:58,320
And I was like, I can't even remember which one.

1028
00:34:58,320 --> 00:34:59,400
And I was like, oh, the lock and key.

1029
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:00,240
That was so cute.

1030
00:35:00,240 --> 00:35:02,360
Cause the men had the locks

1031
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:04,440
and the women had the keys or something.

1032
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:05,400
I know the men had the keys

1033
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:06,960
and the women had the locks around their neck.

1034
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:07,800
It was something like that.

1035
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:08,680
It was one or the other.

1036
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:11,640
And then you had to go around and you had to find your lock.

1037
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:15,480
So here's the whole downside to that one is,

1038
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:18,160
I remember that party pretty well.

1039
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:19,200
Yeah.

1040
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:20,960
And I found my-

1041
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:23,520
Yeah, it wasn't a very good system.

1042
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:24,760
Or key or something.

1043
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:27,120
There was people with keys that unlocked every lock.

1044
00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:27,960
And then there was people like,

1045
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:29,280
you know, that never found their key.

1046
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:30,120
Oh, I get it.

1047
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:31,400
There's only so many, like,

1048
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:33,240
they were just like luggage locks.

1049
00:35:33,240 --> 00:35:34,080
I know, that was a good idea.

1050
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:36,280
But there was a few things.

1051
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:38,400
And people would have multiple people

1052
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:39,400
that unlocked their thing.

1053
00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:41,560
And then they'd have, like, I had no one.

1054
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:42,800
Kind of felt sad.

1055
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:45,240
It wasn't the best.

1056
00:35:45,240 --> 00:35:47,240
No, we found yours.

1057
00:35:47,240 --> 00:35:48,240
I don't think we ended up-

1058
00:35:48,240 --> 00:35:49,080
It was, remember-

1059
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:51,920
It was the very end of the party that I finally found.

1060
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:54,360
I think who, effort, and who's mind was.

1061
00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:55,760
You did have, because I remember you had,

1062
00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:57,680
you had like two people, two or three people

1063
00:35:57,680 --> 00:35:59,040
that you unlocked. I had a couple.

1064
00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:01,000
But I found the first one, like, immediately.

1065
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:02,160
It was like the first lock.

1066
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:05,520
Party we've ever been, that was a long time ago.

1067
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:07,920
All right, and that's the end of that one.

1068
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:10,760
And next, we are going to play the game,

1069
00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:12,240
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And now we're going to play Am I the Asshole?

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We both just went on to the Reddit.

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Am I an asshole?

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We picked two.

1088
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Each got two, so we're going to take turns.

1089
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Sharing is caring.

1090
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So first, go on ahead.

1091
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Me first?

1092
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I'll let you go ahead and we'll see.

1093
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Usually they're usually-

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This one's SWE related.

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Oh, am I or not?

1096
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This one, this is the only one that is SWE related.

1097
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Okay.

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Am I the asshole for outing my SWE parents?

1099
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Yes.

1100
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I, 22F, recently found out a lot about my mother,

1101
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40F, and stepfather, 49M.

1102
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As some background, I don't live with them,

1103
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but my brother, 15M, my sister, 18F,

1104
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I shared a Life360 with my parents

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from when I did live with them.

1106
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My siblings are on there and I never left it.

1107
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My parents have been apparently having financial issues,

1108
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including asking my grandparents for some help paying rent

1109
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for multiple months, falling behind on payments,

1110
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asking me for money, et cetera.

1111
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Parents have also been going on trips,

1112
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including going to the closest largest city,

1113
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the closest largest city, coming home late,

1114
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going to the beach in another state,

1115
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but anytime we ask where they're going,

1116
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they refuse to tell us.

1117
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They're also turning off their location

1118
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anytime they go somewhere.

1119
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Well, duh.

1120
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Sounds like every Swinger I've ever heard.

1121
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Late August, they went to a state away for a vacation,

1122
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leaving my sister home to take care of everything.

1123
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Multiple dogs and farming.

1124
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They refused to say where they were going,

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who they're going with, et cetera,

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and turned off their Life360.

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On their way home, a few days later,

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I went to check the app for different reasons,

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and it showed that they had stayed

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at a well-known Swinger's resort.

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Florida?

1132
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Probably.

1133
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Do we know these people?

1134
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Probably.

1135
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Probably.

1136
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I confronted my mother and she seemed embarrassed

1137
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that her kids knew, but otherwise laughed it off.

1138
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On my phone that night, my grandmother asked me

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why my mom was acting so weird lately,

1140
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and she brought up that she thought my parents

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were at a Swinger's resort,

1142
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and the fact that on the weekends,

1143
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they go out and come home late.

1144
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And so, most likely is the fact

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that they're going to Swinger bars.

1146
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I- Swinger bars.

1147
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Yeah.

1148
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I confirmed this through the information I found out.

1149
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On top of this, I found out today

1150
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that my mother has a TikTok account with 1,500 followers.

1151
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She's got it.

1152
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Probably.

1153
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My sister confronted her about it

1154
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and told her that it was embarrassing

1155
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and asked her to remove the TikTok account.

1156
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My mother refused, saying she wants to be an influencer

1157
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and share the lifestyle.

1158
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My mother has no remorse for the account.

1159
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She doesn't seem to care that her children know.

1160
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Needless to say, my mother was furious

1161
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when she found out my grandmother knew about all of this.

1162
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She said she had no right to share that,

1163
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and that her parents, my grandparents, didn't need to know.

1164
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I feel like they had the right to know

1165
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since they were being lied to

1166
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and since they were giving my mom money

1167
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without knowing the full story.

1168
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Although I might be at fault

1169
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since my mother didn't want them to be told,

1170
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I didn't tell my grandmother myself,

1171
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but I did confirm when she asked me about it.

1172
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Am I the asshole for outing my Swinger parents

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to my grandparents?

1174
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Like the grandparents already knew.

1175
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Yeah.

1176
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They were definitely suspicious.

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Like they even brought up a Swinger resort specifically.

1178
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So like they already knew.

1179
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You didn't really out them to your brain.

1180
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Like they added themselves, Ken.

1181
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They, well, I don't know.

1182
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So we talked about this.

1183
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And if you're on social media, you're-

1184
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You're gonna get found out.

1185
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It's only a matter of time. You're outing yourself.

1186
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We found that out the hard way.

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It's only a matter of time.

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Someone will find it.

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Also.

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But she said she didn't care.

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She wasn't ashamed about it, which I did,

1192
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and she didn't wanna take it down.

1193
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So like she knew the risk.

1194
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She wanted to be an-

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But I feel like she was mad that she didn't-

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Well, that's the thing about like,

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cause her parents were what?

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40 and stepfather was 49.

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So,

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Yeah.

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I think she was assuming that her parents

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didn't have TikTok.

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And she wouldn't-

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Same.

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Therefore wouldn't find out.

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Which my parents didn't have TikTok.

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Same.

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But it was shared with them.

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They still found out on social media.

1210
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So.

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I mean, I feel like the grandparents already knew.

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So you didn't really out them.

1213
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There's nothing.

1214
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You're not really an asshole.

1215
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Yeah.

1216
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Also.

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I think the parents need to really talk to those kids.

1218
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Yeah.

1219
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I think that's the thing.

1220
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Cause they definitely have some,

1221
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obviously it's like some issues.

1222
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Yeah.

1223
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I think that-

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Like if my kids would have been like,

1225
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no, I probably would have second guessed it.

1226
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Obviously like a lot.

1227
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I would not do it.

1228
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You know what I mean?

1229
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Like I would definitely.

1230
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Yeah.

1231
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I think if our kids would have said something about

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the social media side,

1233
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we probably wouldn't have this.

1234
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:52,760
That's not what I mean.

1235
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:53,600
That's not what I mean.

1236
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I don't think we would have stopped to-

1237
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Social media.

1238
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:57,240
No, we would have still been swaggering.

1239
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We would have still had fun.

1240
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We would still have done all that.

1241
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But I don't think we would have-

1242
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Been public about it.

1243
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Been public.

1244
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I don't think we would have been in many places

1245
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or done so many things.

1246
00:42:04,720 --> 00:42:05,560
Yeah.

1247
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:07,440
Cause most of that was because of social media.

1248
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But yeah.

1249
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I definitely, if my kids were that upset about it

1250
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and like really had concern and didn't want you to do it,

1251
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then I'd be like, okay.

1252
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Long story short,

1253
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:20,440
I think the mom and stepdad need to talk to their family.

1254
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To their parents.

1255
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:22,120
Yeah.

1256
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Or better knows, but this is how we feel.

1257
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It's not an easy conversation,

1258
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but you have to.

1259
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:27,040
This is what it actually means.

1260
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And everyone knows now,

1261
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:29,840
so you have to sit down and have that conversation.

1262
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It's weird.

1263
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It's awkward.

1264
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You don't want people to let their imagination run wild.

1265
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Yeah.

1266
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:36,240
We've been there, done that.

1267
00:42:36,240 --> 00:42:37,560
It's definitely uncomfortable,

1268
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:38,880
but you have to do it.

1269
00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:39,720
Yeah.

1270
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Okay.

1271
00:42:40,720 --> 00:42:44,400
So mine is, so me, 25 and my husband, 30,

1272
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:46,480
went out to dinner with his friend.

1273
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:47,920
He's always talking about this friend

1274
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:50,480
and I didn't get a chance to meet him before.

1275
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:52,440
Husband told me he's married with kids

1276
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:54,360
and he's always inviting us out.

1277
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We have kids and I'm a state home mom

1278
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with no support system close by.

1279
00:42:57,800 --> 00:42:59,080
So in order to go out,

1280
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I have to arrange childcare and it's not easy.

1281
00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:03,360
I asked my husband who was coming to dinner

1282
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:05,440
and he mentioned his friend, his girl,

1283
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:08,160
and another couple I do know and us.

1284
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:10,040
Dinner was really great and I had a great time

1285
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:12,440
and actually clicked immediately with this woman.

1286
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:14,400
Most of my husband's friends are bachelors,

1287
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:17,400
so I found it cool that he's friends with this couple

1288
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:19,600
and I can relate more to them.

1289
00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:22,080
He even, we even planned a trip during dinner

1290
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:23,680
and they showed us all the amazing places

1291
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:25,040
they've traveled to.

1292
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:27,240
When it was time to leave, we all got out of the restaurant,

1293
00:43:27,240 --> 00:43:29,360
but she's in the restroom.

1294
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:31,000
It's freezing cold, so we said goodbye

1295
00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:32,800
and I told his friend, say goodbye to your wife.

1296
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:34,200
It was really nice to meet her.

1297
00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:37,120
He looked at me, laughed and said, she's not my wife.

1298
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:39,680
I was shocked, so I go, oh, sorry, my bad.

1299
00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:41,640
I got in the car and I'm speechless.

1300
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:42,880
So my husband asked me what's wrong

1301
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:45,360
and I asked him what all of that was about

1302
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:49,000
and isn't she the mother of his kids?

1303
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,240
So she's basically his mistress.

1304
00:43:51,240 --> 00:43:53,560
He explained to me that he's in an arranged

1305
00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:55,640
religious marriage, so it's different

1306
00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:58,840
and this is a girl he actually loves and takes places.

1307
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:02,800
Am I the asshole for being upset at my husband

1308
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:04,200
and him for not telling me?

1309
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:07,040
So they weren't married.

1310
00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:08,760
I wouldn't say she's an asshole.

1311
00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:12,200
I feel like the friend's definitely an asshole.

1312
00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:13,960
Yeah, well, no, the husband knew too.

1313
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:18,080
Like her husband knew and like they all three knew

1314
00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:20,280
about the situation except for the wife of,

1315
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:22,360
like that's the one who was doing it.

1316
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:24,720
Yeah, she definitely wasn't the asshole.

1317
00:44:24,720 --> 00:44:27,120
Everybody else in that situation is being an asshole.

1318
00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:29,360
No, her husband should have warned her.

1319
00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:30,720
Give her a little bit of an insight

1320
00:44:30,720 --> 00:44:32,800
onto their relationship with dynamic,

1321
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:34,840
especially when he's told her

1322
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:37,360
that they were married and had kids.

1323
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:38,880
I mean, like this isn't her.

1324
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:40,720
Especially when she asked who was coming to dinner,

1325
00:44:40,720 --> 00:44:43,640
he could have elaborated his girl men.

1326
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:46,280
It's Dave and his girlfriend.

1327
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:47,640
Yeah.

1328
00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:48,640
Who's not his wife.

1329
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:49,480
Not his wife, but.

1330
00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:50,320
And this is why.

1331
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:51,880
Hopefully his wife knows about.

1332
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:52,720
Yeah.

1333
00:44:52,720 --> 00:44:55,040
But I don't know.

1334
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:56,680
I don't know, it's different.

1335
00:44:56,680 --> 00:44:58,320
Yeah, I feel like everyone knew.

1336
00:44:58,320 --> 00:44:59,160
But she's not being an asshole.

1337
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:00,440
But she's not an asshole, no.

1338
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:02,600
No, everyone else is an asshole.

1339
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:05,360
They should have given her a little bit of a backstory.

1340
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:07,080
All right, now your next one.

1341
00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:08,480
All right, my next one.

1342
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:13,480
I, M39, have been with my wife, F38,

1343
00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:15,600
since we were in college.

1344
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:19,960
My wife lately started a new lifestyle, I guess,

1345
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:23,640
that believes in no deodorant, no shaving,

1346
00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:27,880
shower only gets dirty, no makeup,

1347
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:29,920
no wearing nice clothes.

1348
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:32,280
She doesn't have depression or anything.

1349
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:35,320
It started when she joined a new yoga class.

1350
00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:38,600
I've never commented because she's a grown woman

1351
00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:42,120
and I can do whatever she wants.

1352
00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:44,120
I told her it doesn't matter how I feel

1353
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:46,320
as long as it makes her happy.

1354
00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:50,520
She keeps asking, but I wanna know how you feel about it.

1355
00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:54,480
Eventually I said, you really wanna know how I feel?

1356
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:57,080
I miss the woman I fell in love with.

1357
00:45:57,080 --> 00:46:00,720
She used to dress nice, smell great, shower every day,

1358
00:46:00,720 --> 00:46:03,200
wear her makeup, brush her hair.

1359
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:05,360
I really don't like this whole all natural thing,

1360
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:08,880
but again, not my decision, so I have no say.

1361
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:12,000
She started crying and called me an insensitive,

1362
00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:16,120
vain jerk and now doesn't wanna talk to me.

1363
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:19,280
Was I the jerk when she wanted my opinion?

1364
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:20,600
Yeah, that's a hard one.

1365
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:21,800
Yeah, that's a toughie.

1366
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:23,520
That's a hard one.

1367
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:26,200
I think he could have went about it a little bit better.

1368
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:28,280
Occasionally, I mean, he has to say something

1369
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:31,000
if he's not happy about it too, like live your best life.

1370
00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:33,960
And he's still obviously being supportive.

1371
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:37,040
He said she's a grown woman, whatever makes her happy.

1372
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:37,880
He's obviously not happy.

1373
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:39,880
But he's not happy and he has to say something.

1374
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:42,200
He can't just be unhappy forever.

1375
00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:44,960
He does have to say something that may be a different approach.

1376
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:45,800
I don't know.

1377
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:49,160
Is there a different way we could do this?

1378
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:50,000
Can we do something?

1379
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:51,680
I understand we wanna be natural.

1380
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:52,520
No.

1381
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:56,080
Can we find a better way?

1382
00:46:56,080 --> 00:46:57,720
That one's a hard one, it's hard.

1383
00:46:57,720 --> 00:46:58,560
Yeah, cause.

1384
00:46:58,560 --> 00:46:59,840
Cause you don't wanna live with someone

1385
00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:02,720
that you are uncomfortable around.

1386
00:47:02,720 --> 00:47:05,080
Yeah, if you're uncomfortable all the time

1387
00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:06,400
and you're just not.

1388
00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:08,400
Yeah, it's hard, cause, yeah.

1389
00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:10,040
But then how do you tell somebody that they stink

1390
00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:11,280
without hurting their feelings?

1391
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:12,520
You kinda have to tell them.

1392
00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:13,360
Yeah, you're gonna have to.

1393
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:14,480
And then I kinda just say it.

1394
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:16,000
You're gonna have to kinda hurt their feelings.

1395
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:18,440
I know, and you should be comfortable.

1396
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:20,440
I really don't love this season.

1397
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:22,880
Yeah, you have to find a way to really carefully

1398
00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:25,440
dip your toes in there and be very careful

1399
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:28,320
and sensitive about how they might take it

1400
00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:30,320
and how they might perceive what you say

1401
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:31,680
as hurtful and stuff.

1402
00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:32,800
So I could see.

1403
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:33,640
Also try.

1404
00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:34,600
Ooh, that's hard.

1405
00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:36,800
Also try and see her perspective.

1406
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:39,040
I know, cause I get that too.

1407
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:40,480
Cause I'm like a hippie at heart.

1408
00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:42,400
I love all that stuff too.

1409
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:43,880
But, and she is a grown woman.

1410
00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:45,280
And whatever makes her happy,

1411
00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:47,960
live your best life, do whatever you want.

1412
00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:51,360
But he can also be unhappy in there.

1413
00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:52,560
So he has to say something.

1414
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:53,880
But yeah, that's a hard one.

1415
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:54,760
That's a delicate one.

1416
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:56,520
Just be very, very careful.

1417
00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:58,400
Very carefully navigate that one.

1418
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:00,360
Cause you don't wanna hurt her.

1419
00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:01,880
I mean, he obviously still loves her.

1420
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:02,720
Yes.

1421
00:48:02,720 --> 00:48:05,320
And he even said about being really careful.

1422
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:06,520
She's a grown woman.

1423
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:08,280
She, whatever makes her happy.

1424
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:09,120
That's hard.

1425
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:09,960
All right.

1426
00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:11,160
Am I the asshole for being mad

1427
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:13,400
my wife won't satisfy me?

1428
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:17,000
Me 45 male and my wife 38 female

1429
00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:19,400
have been together for 17 years.

1430
00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:20,840
We're very different people,

1431
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:23,440
but we compliment each other in most aspects of life.

1432
00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:25,160
And I love her to bits.

1433
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:26,640
Some backstory first.

1434
00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:28,120
I have some childhood trauma,

1435
00:48:28,120 --> 00:48:29,800
which makes me a pleaser.

1436
00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:32,520
I always place the need of others before myself.

1437
00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:35,360
This leads to mostly focusing on her when we have sex.

1438
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:37,480
I always try to please her and fulfill her fantasies.

1439
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:38,520
And every time we have sex,

1440
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:41,160
it's one of her fantasies that is played out.

1441
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:42,720
Now to my problem.

1442
00:48:42,720 --> 00:48:44,440
I love blow jobs

1443
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:46,880
because that is the only time I can truly focus

1444
00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:48,480
on my own pleasure.

1445
00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:51,200
When we met, she would do it once a month for me.

1446
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:53,520
Now it's more like once every six months,

1447
00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:55,920
which leaves me feeling very unsatisfied.

1448
00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:58,960
I've communicated this to her in no unclear manner,

1449
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:00,920
but she still refuses to do them.

1450
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:03,960
This leaves me not only unsatisfied,

1451
00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:06,600
but also heartbroken because I would do anything,

1452
00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:09,080
whatever she wanted in an instant.

1453
00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:10,680
This is starting to turn into resentment

1454
00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:12,120
and I need to fix this.

1455
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:14,160
Am I being unreasonable or in other words,

1456
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:15,480
am I the asshole here?

1457
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:17,280
He is not.

1458
00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:18,120
Not.

1459
00:49:18,120 --> 00:49:18,960
He is not the asshole.

1460
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:19,800
Not the asshole.

1461
00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:24,200
He's obviously, if it's like he is very-

1462
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:25,840
Once every six months.

1463
00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:26,680
Yeah.

1464
00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:29,680
Well like he obviously been so,

1465
00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:32,320
like tries to fulfill her fantasies.

1466
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:33,880
Yeah, he's a people pleaser.

1467
00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:37,040
And her needs and the fact that she doesn't feel like

1468
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:37,880
she needs to-

1469
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:39,800
The refusing part, the refusing,

1470
00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:41,840
he said he's been very clear and told her

1471
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:43,440
that's what he needs to get off

1472
00:49:43,440 --> 00:49:44,960
and like that's what he needs to be satisfied

1473
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:48,880
and she refused, the refuse word really like throws me

1474
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:51,600
because it's like your husband is telling you very clearly

1475
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:54,560
this is what he needs a little more often.

1476
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:58,520
Like I don't know, I understand the fact that

1477
00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:02,440
when even like having sex, it's fun, it feels great.

1478
00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:05,240
But if he is focused on her pleasure,

1479
00:50:05,240 --> 00:50:06,680
he's not like-

1480
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:08,800
Enjoying it like he should be.

1481
00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:11,040
Well, he's enjoying it.

1482
00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:12,440
But not as like as much as-

1483
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:13,600
Yeah.

1484
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:17,000
So like he said that a blow job is where

1485
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:19,640
he can actually focus on his pleasure.

1486
00:50:19,640 --> 00:50:20,480
Yeah, he should like-

1487
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:23,080
So the wife I feel like should be-

1488
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:26,160
A little bit more like meeting his-

1489
00:50:26,160 --> 00:50:28,880
I don't know, I feel like the wife should want to do that.

1490
00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:30,680
That's the thing is like he wouldn't-

1491
00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:34,840
Like not like, oh, yeah, it's like not that she feels

1492
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:37,360
obligated or she needs to fill his,

1493
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:40,240
like she shouldn't feel like it's a chore.

1494
00:50:40,240 --> 00:50:43,120
There's something wrong if you wouldn't want to like

1495
00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:47,600
help your spouse be satisfied and like fulfill his thing.

1496
00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:48,840
I don't know, but we are swingers

1497
00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:52,480
and they're probably vanilla nod

1498
00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:55,120
because once that's probably when they had sex too.

1499
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:55,960
Yeah.

1500
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:58,720
Not very often, but I don't know.

1501
00:50:58,720 --> 00:51:00,880
Yeah, he's not the asshole.

1502
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:01,720
No, she is.

1503
00:51:01,720 --> 00:51:04,720
Keep communicating and she's got to give a little bit.

1504
00:51:04,720 --> 00:51:06,480
She's got to give a lot of days.

1505
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:11,080
Yeah, especially if he's getting her off.

1506
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:11,920
Yeah.

1507
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1515
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So now it's, is this cheating?

1516
00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:39,240
Yes, now we're gonna do, is this cheating?

1517
00:51:39,240 --> 00:51:43,040
So it's just our opinions on if these people.

1518
00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:47,400
It was very hard to find anything good, decent,

1519
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:48,880
because everybody's cheating.

1520
00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:50,880
If you feel like you're going to Reddit.

1521
00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:53,000
If you're feeling guilty about something,

1522
00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:53,840
it's probably cheating.

1523
00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:54,680
They're running to Reddit and be like,

1524
00:51:54,680 --> 00:51:56,320
I just want this one guy to tell me I'm fine.

1525
00:51:56,320 --> 00:51:58,680
I already know what my answer is going to be.

1526
00:51:58,680 --> 00:51:59,520
Yeah, same.

1527
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:00,360
This one was really hard.

1528
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:02,080
I was trying to do two for each and I was like,

1529
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:03,560
no, we're just going to do one cheating

1530
00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:06,440
because this is not as good as I thought it was going to be.

1531
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:08,960
It's all a bunch of cheaters that are just like,

1532
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:09,960
trying to justify it.

1533
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:10,800
Okay.

1534
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:11,840
Is it my turn?

1535
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:12,680
Go on.

1536
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:13,520
Okay.

1537
00:52:13,520 --> 00:52:14,760
This all started with my girlfriend

1538
00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:17,760
and I took a kink quiz a while back.

1539
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:18,600
Those are fun.

1540
00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:21,120
Basically we found some online quizzes for couples

1541
00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:24,880
to help bring some new sex kink ideas to the bedroom.

1542
00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:28,040
I selected group sex as an interest of mine

1543
00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:29,720
and she did not.

1544
00:52:29,720 --> 00:52:33,560
After we compared, she said that she was a little insecure

1545
00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:36,200
that I picked something that I wanted to try.

1546
00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:38,080
I told her that it's not something I needed

1547
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:41,400
or want right now, but the idea was pretty hot.

1548
00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:42,840
She still felt weird about it.

1549
00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:45,560
So I said, let's not bring it up again.

1550
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:48,000
And the conversation pretty much ended for a while.

1551
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:50,920
A couple months ago, she brings it up again

1552
00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:53,480
and says she actually is interested in it now.

1553
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:55,120
So she's been thinking about it.

1554
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:57,280
I was confused and quite honestly,

1555
00:52:57,280 --> 00:52:59,120
I thought it was a test.

1556
00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:02,080
I told her again that I don't really need it right now,

1557
00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:05,320
but we can talk about it as a fantasy if she wanted.

1558
00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:08,520
We both thought a couple swap would be more ideal

1559
00:53:08,520 --> 00:53:11,840
since I'm not bi and she really isn't interested

1560
00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:13,400
in a woman.

1561
00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:17,040
She then told me that maybe we could explore it

1562
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:18,040
in the near future.

1563
00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:20,680
Well, two days ago, she told me she had a meetup

1564
00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:24,480
with another couple and decided to have a threesome

1565
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:27,360
with them after a girls night out.

1566
00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:30,320
I was dumbfounded by the disclosure and told her

1567
00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:33,440
it was cheating and she claims it isn't.

1568
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:36,160
Her reasoning is that she was insecure,

1569
00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:38,520
needed to take the first step.

1570
00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:43,520
But now that she has, she realizes that it's not a big deal.

1571
00:53:43,720 --> 00:53:48,040
Now she wants to sign up for a swinger dating site

1572
00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:50,240
that the other couple was on.

1573
00:53:50,240 --> 00:53:53,320
I left and haven't returned since the discovery

1574
00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:55,960
and I'm seriously considering ending things.

1575
00:53:55,960 --> 00:53:57,680
We've only been dating a year,

1576
00:53:57,680 --> 00:54:00,120
but things were getting serious.

1577
00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:02,680
This is definitely cheating, right?

1578
00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:06,800
Or should I have never even, and then it ended.

1579
00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:08,880
Yeah.

1580
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:10,160
It's definitely cheating.

1581
00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:12,000
Yeah, yeah, sure. 100%.

1582
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:15,000
Like, just cause you talked about like group sex

1583
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:16,840
and threesomes doesn't give you the-

1584
00:54:16,840 --> 00:54:18,080
Well, we brought it up one time, so.

1585
00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:18,920
Yeah.

1586
00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:19,740
Gave me consent.

1587
00:54:19,740 --> 00:54:20,580
They didn't say it doesn't.

1588
00:54:20,580 --> 00:54:21,420
They didn't say I consent to do this.

1589
00:54:21,420 --> 00:54:24,440
Oh, I just needed to get the monkey off my back.

1590
00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:26,760
Yeah, you do that with consent.

1591
00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:28,880
With your partner or at least with consent

1592
00:54:28,880 --> 00:54:30,360
or like you do it together.

1593
00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:31,640
It's a together thing.

1594
00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:34,800
Yeah, that's definitely not, don't do that.

1595
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:35,640
Yeah, don't do that.

1596
00:54:35,640 --> 00:54:36,460
Definitely don't do that.

1597
00:54:36,460 --> 00:54:37,300
Don't do any of that.

1598
00:54:37,300 --> 00:54:38,140
That's a horrible thing.

1599
00:54:38,140 --> 00:54:38,980
It's that good.

1600
00:54:38,980 --> 00:54:39,880
That good at all.

1601
00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:41,360
You guys could have so much fun together,

1602
00:54:41,360 --> 00:54:42,720
but you're just not-

1603
00:54:42,720 --> 00:54:44,240
Yeah, you just ruined it.

1604
00:54:44,240 --> 00:54:46,680
Yeah, you fucked it all up now.

1605
00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:49,880
All right, mine is, okay.

1606
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:54,320
Me 45M and my wife 45F.

1607
00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:57,080
We've been exploring with other couples

1608
00:54:57,080 --> 00:54:59,080
and some single guys for threesomes.

1609
00:54:59,080 --> 00:55:01,840
About a year ago, we decided to try hot-lifing,

1610
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:03,280
which we enjoy.

1611
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:05,360
I recently found out accidentally

1612
00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:09,080
that she had sex with someone while on a business trip.

1613
00:55:09,080 --> 00:55:10,600
She said it wasn't a big deal

1614
00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:12,560
and that it was her right to enjoy herself

1615
00:55:12,560 --> 00:55:14,480
when the opportunity arose.

1616
00:55:14,480 --> 00:55:16,780
She argued is the same as when she plays

1617
00:55:16,780 --> 00:55:18,480
with single guys alone.

1618
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:20,840
She's always shared everything with me before.

1619
00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:23,280
Is this cheating?

1620
00:55:24,840 --> 00:55:25,680
Yes.

1621
00:55:25,680 --> 00:55:26,500
Yes.

1622
00:55:26,500 --> 00:55:27,340
All of it was.

1623
00:55:27,340 --> 00:55:29,440
It was hard to find anything good.

1624
00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:30,280
I know.

1625
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:32,200
Because when she goes out with single guys,

1626
00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:33,440
You are in with it.

1627
00:55:33,440 --> 00:55:34,280
Like you are in on it.

1628
00:55:34,280 --> 00:55:35,640
It was communicated.

1629
00:55:35,640 --> 00:55:38,920
It's not, you're not.

1630
00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:41,960
I think she's trying to argue that it just happened.

1631
00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:43,680
It just was an opportunity.

1632
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:44,520
Yeah.

1633
00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:47,200
And then I know already know how she's trying to frame it,

1634
00:55:47,200 --> 00:55:48,840
but yes, you are cheating.

1635
00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:49,680
That's cheating.

1636
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:50,880
She cheated on you.

1637
00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:51,720
Yes. Period.

1638
00:55:51,720 --> 00:55:53,360
As it was so hard to find anything.

1639
00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:54,200
That wasn't cheating?

1640
00:55:54,200 --> 00:55:55,040
They're always cheating.

1641
00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:55,860
It was all cheating.

1642
00:55:55,860 --> 00:55:56,700
Well, here's the thing.

1643
00:55:56,700 --> 00:55:58,640
If you have to go to Reddit

1644
00:55:58,640 --> 00:56:00,920
to try and justify what you did.

1645
00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:03,280
Well, if you feel guilty,

1646
00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:04,640
if you had to hide something

1647
00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:06,720
or somebody's being hidden from you,

1648
00:56:06,720 --> 00:56:08,640
or lying, anything. Period.

1649
00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:09,480
Like it's cheating.

1650
00:56:09,480 --> 00:56:11,600
If she don't know or he don't know, then yes it is.

1651
00:56:11,600 --> 00:56:12,440
Yeah.

1652
00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:14,000
If you're in a relationship with that person

1653
00:56:14,000 --> 00:56:17,920
and they're not aware and they're not in on all of it,

1654
00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:18,960
then you're cheating.

1655
00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:20,960
If she doesn't know all the background

1656
00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:23,280
and the details ahead of time, it's cheating.

1657
00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:24,120
It's cheating.

1658
00:56:24,120 --> 00:56:25,160
Period.

1659
00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:26,000
I know.

1660
00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:26,840
It was hard.

1661
00:56:26,840 --> 00:56:29,160
I didn't find one that was not cheating.

1662
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:30,000
It was hard.

1663
00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:31,520
It was really hard to find anything at all

1664
00:56:31,520 --> 00:56:35,400
that wasn't like, I just literally just grabbing stuff,

1665
00:56:35,400 --> 00:56:36,240
anything.

1666
00:56:36,240 --> 00:56:37,280
So I'm like, this is all just cheating.

1667
00:56:37,280 --> 00:56:38,400
So I'll find a short one.

1668
00:56:38,400 --> 00:56:40,400
I tried to find a short one to read.

1669
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:43,440
Cause some of them are like 12 paragraphs all to say, yes.

1670
00:56:43,440 --> 00:56:44,520
Yes, you are a cheater.

1671
00:56:44,520 --> 00:56:45,360
Yes.

1672
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:48,680
You're, if she got cheated on or you're a cheater.

1673
00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:49,520
Yeah.

1674
00:56:49,520 --> 00:56:52,480
I finally started watching that, Ashley Madison.

1675
00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:54,840
I refused to watch that for so many months, months,

1676
00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:56,080
months, months, because I already knew what it was,

1677
00:56:56,080 --> 00:56:59,280
but all it is, is a bunch of people who are not monogamous

1678
00:56:59,280 --> 00:57:01,520
and they don't know what the fuck to do.

1679
00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:03,280
They could all be doing it together.

1680
00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:05,840
It's all the cheating wives and then the cheating husbands

1681
00:57:05,840 --> 00:57:07,200
and they all just go there.

1682
00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:08,680
But if they would just open up with their sponsors.

1683
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:09,520
I remember when that whole scandal.

1684
00:57:09,520 --> 00:57:10,640
It's for cheating men.

1685
00:57:10,640 --> 00:57:12,560
That's what the whole thing is.

1686
00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:16,240
It's, they found like 40 million.

1687
00:57:16,240 --> 00:57:17,080
Well, they got hacked.

1688
00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:17,920
Like 40 million.

1689
00:57:17,920 --> 00:57:19,520
Yeah, like 40 million.

1690
00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:21,880
Like names and credit cards and things like that.

1691
00:57:21,880 --> 00:57:22,720
Yeah.

1692
00:57:22,720 --> 00:57:24,400
I remember when it all happened and everybody's like,

1693
00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:27,080
oh, I'm like, that sucks for them.

1694
00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:29,520
It's like the, I've watched like a few episodes now

1695
00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:31,560
and I'm like, or the first two episodes.

1696
00:57:31,560 --> 00:57:33,560
And it's like, this guy is there.

1697
00:57:33,560 --> 00:57:35,360
He's like, I love my wife.

1698
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:36,480
She's my everything.

1699
00:57:36,480 --> 00:57:37,440
Like he's obsessed with her.

1700
00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:38,840
And he's like, I still love her.

1701
00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:42,040
I love the idea of like flirting with other people

1702
00:57:42,040 --> 00:57:42,880
and being with other people.

1703
00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:44,520
He's like, I can still love her.

1704
00:57:44,520 --> 00:57:46,240
I have two kids just cause I have two kids.

1705
00:57:46,240 --> 00:57:48,440
I mean, I just don't love the one like the other one.

1706
00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:49,400
I love them differently.

1707
00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:52,080
And he's like, like, you're like Polly.

1708
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:52,920
He's like, it's okay.

1709
00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:53,760
He's like, you know what I mean?

1710
00:57:53,760 --> 00:57:54,600
It's okay.

1711
00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:55,960
You just, you know, and they're just describing

1712
00:57:55,960 --> 00:57:57,520
non-monogamy and stuff.

1713
00:57:57,520 --> 00:58:00,120
And I'm like, oh, if they only knew

1714
00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:02,440
they didn't have to go behind their spouses

1715
00:58:02,440 --> 00:58:06,440
back all these 40, like millions and millions of people.

1716
00:58:06,440 --> 00:58:08,320
And the women are cheating too.

1717
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:11,040
And then the people who developed it were like,

1718
00:58:11,040 --> 00:58:12,160
the wives aren't gonna say anything

1719
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:13,360
about the husbands being on there

1720
00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:14,760
cause they're looking for the same thing.

1721
00:58:14,760 --> 00:58:16,120
And so they all kept on hush hush

1722
00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:17,680
just millions and millions and millions of people.

1723
00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:18,720
And they think that we're weird

1724
00:58:18,720 --> 00:58:21,200
cause we're doing it together.

1725
00:58:21,200 --> 00:58:22,040
I know.

1726
00:58:22,040 --> 00:58:23,200
Like that's what, yeah.

1727
00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:24,040
It's crazy.

1728
00:58:24,040 --> 00:58:24,880
I don't know.

1729
00:58:24,880 --> 00:58:25,720
That's it.

1730
00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:28,920
We had a whole new episode on that Mormon mom talk.

1731
00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:33,920
Swinging is ruining our relationship and our marriage.

1732
00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:36,040
And cheating is okay.

1733
00:58:36,040 --> 00:58:37,600
So we're just, we're not gonna,

1734
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:40,480
so I'm just gonna do what everybody says.

1735
00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:42,520
Just cheat on my wife.

1736
00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:45,680
Way, that's way more acceptable.

1737
00:58:45,680 --> 00:58:47,200
Way more acceptable.

1738
00:58:47,200 --> 00:58:48,360
I could go on and on forever,

1739
00:58:48,360 --> 00:58:50,040
but that's all the time we have.

1740
00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:50,960
That's it.

1741
00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:52,400
We are done.

1742
00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:53,240
Yeah.

1743
00:58:53,240 --> 00:58:55,280
We are going to do our next episode

1744
00:58:55,280 --> 00:58:57,720
is going to be about our weight loss journey.

1745
00:58:57,720 --> 00:58:59,440
I know a lot of people have been wanting

1746
00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:01,200
to hear this one for a long time.

1747
00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:03,440
They have so many things that people be asking for.

1748
00:59:03,440 --> 00:59:06,160
So I'm like, everyone's always intrigued by that.

1749
00:59:06,160 --> 00:59:08,720
They love all the details about that.

1750
00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:09,560
Well, it's hard.

1751
00:59:09,560 --> 00:59:10,400
So this will be delayed.

1752
00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:12,560
Everybody knows how hard it is to lose weight.

1753
00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:13,560
Yeah.

1754
00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:15,080
And kind of our struggles.

1755
00:59:15,080 --> 00:59:15,920
Yeah, struggles.

1756
00:59:15,920 --> 00:59:17,560
Everyone's like, how do you do it?

1757
00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:20,040
Yeah, that's pretty much what we're gonna talk about.

1758
00:59:20,040 --> 00:59:21,080
Don't say that now,

1759
00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:22,880
because that takes up the whole episode.

1760
00:59:22,880 --> 00:59:25,240
But yeah, that's gonna be our next episode.

1761
00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:26,600
Don't tell them all of it now.

1762
00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:28,280
You can do it too, but you'll beat me.

1763
00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:31,160
Everyone can do it too, but you don't wanna.

1764
00:59:31,160 --> 00:59:34,240
And then, yeah, the only thing we have on the books

1765
00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:37,000
is April, we just booked our room for April.

1766
00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:38,880
Oh, and secrets in April.

1767
00:59:38,880 --> 00:59:41,920
In April, we are going back with the Swingers Society,

1768
00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:44,440
and those tickets go on sale.

1769
00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:45,800
They're for sale now.

1770
00:59:45,800 --> 00:59:47,600
Yeah, they are for sale in this episode.

1771
00:59:47,600 --> 00:59:49,840
They will be in the show notes.

1772
00:59:49,840 --> 00:59:52,080
Definitely, trying to get all you guys there.

1773
00:59:52,080 --> 00:59:55,280
I'm trying to get every single one of our friends,

1774
00:59:55,280 --> 00:59:58,160
every single person, lifestyle or not,

1775
00:59:58,160 --> 01:00:00,240
anyone who's been following us, been down,

1776
01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:02,000
who's been interested in going to secrets.

1777
01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:03,920
We have friends that are vanilla that are going

1778
01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:05,520
that have been to trapeze and stuff.

1779
01:00:05,520 --> 01:00:10,400
Some friends of ours hopefully are going that we love.

1780
01:00:10,400 --> 01:00:12,440
And we want to just get everybody in as many people

1781
01:00:12,440 --> 01:00:13,440
there as possible.

1782
01:00:13,440 --> 01:00:18,440
And I think this time, because we can,

1783
01:00:18,600 --> 01:00:22,040
they can track the link that's on in the show notes.

1784
01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:22,880
They can track that.

1785
01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:25,120
So we'll use our code.

1786
01:00:25,120 --> 01:00:28,040
And I think we're gonna do a luncheon on Saturday

1787
01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:30,840
in our room with us and everybody that booked

1788
01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:31,680
using that link.

1789
01:00:31,680 --> 01:00:32,520
We do that link.

1790
01:00:32,520 --> 01:00:34,320
We get some free lunch, some drinks.

1791
01:00:34,320 --> 01:00:35,360
We're gonna do like a private party.

1792
01:00:35,360 --> 01:00:36,560
And like a private party.

1793
01:00:36,560 --> 01:00:39,080
Now we're doing margaritas and pizza.

1794
01:00:39,080 --> 01:00:40,960
We're going back to the OG.

1795
01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:42,720
We're going back to where we started.

1796
01:00:42,720 --> 01:00:45,800
We're going to have our own margarita and pizza.

1797
01:00:45,800 --> 01:00:48,960
And we're gonna do some super cool, extra cool swag bags

1798
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:52,200
for everybody who books through our link as well.

1799
01:00:52,200 --> 01:00:54,760
So if you want to come hang out, have pizza and margaritas

1800
01:00:54,760 --> 01:00:59,400
and four days of secrets time, which is the best.

1801
01:00:59,400 --> 01:01:03,040
And I mean, it is the best time to hang out.

1802
01:01:03,040 --> 01:01:06,600
So make sure you use that link down below.

1803
01:01:06,600 --> 01:01:09,160
Yes, and you'll be added on.

1804
01:01:09,160 --> 01:01:11,600
Because if you come to our room and hang out,

1805
01:01:11,600 --> 01:01:12,760
that's perfectly fine.

1806
01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:14,760
But don't expect the swag bag

1807
01:01:14,760 --> 01:01:16,840
if we don't know you were coming.

1808
01:01:16,840 --> 01:01:18,440
Everyone's invited to our room.

1809
01:01:18,440 --> 01:01:22,240
But we have to pre-plan the swag bags.

1810
01:01:22,240 --> 01:01:24,280
So get in on those swag bags.

1811
01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:26,920
So we know how much stuff to bring down.

1812
01:01:26,920 --> 01:01:28,120
Yeah, we're thinking we're gonna do that.

1813
01:01:28,120 --> 01:01:30,080
More than probably.

1814
01:01:30,080 --> 01:01:31,160
It's gonna be good.

1815
01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:32,000
It's gonna be a good time.

1816
01:01:32,000 --> 01:01:33,200
We need to go back to that.

1817
01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:35,480
I'm sure we have some friends, Cajun Persuasion,

1818
01:01:35,480 --> 01:01:37,080
is gonna be really excited about that.

1819
01:01:37,080 --> 01:01:38,160
Because he was very upset

1820
01:01:38,160 --> 01:01:39,000
we didn't have margaritas and pizza.

1821
01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:39,840
He was upset.

1822
01:01:39,840 --> 01:01:41,080
That's the last secret.

1823
01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:44,280
He walked by with his pizza and knocked on our window.

1824
01:01:44,280 --> 01:01:45,720
He was like, well, I guess I gotta get a little more pizza.

1825
01:01:45,720 --> 01:01:48,040
You guys are having cupcakes and frontman puts.

1826
01:01:48,040 --> 01:01:48,880
Yeah, he was upset.

1827
01:01:48,880 --> 01:01:49,880
Yeah, he was not happy.

1828
01:01:49,880 --> 01:01:51,840
Because that's been our thing for all these years.

1829
01:01:51,840 --> 01:01:53,040
It's been margaritas and pizza.

1830
01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:54,560
So we're going back to Margarita's.

1831
01:01:54,560 --> 01:01:55,400
We're coming back.

1832
01:01:55,400 --> 01:01:56,240
We're bringing the blender down.

1833
01:01:56,240 --> 01:01:58,880
Book your room 141 and yeah,

1834
01:01:58,880 --> 01:02:01,200
if you wanna get near us, around us,

1835
01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:02,840
book all around us, all our friends.

1836
01:02:02,840 --> 01:02:03,880
We want everybody there.

1837
01:02:03,880 --> 01:02:06,840
We want all the, as many people as we possibly can for April.

1838
01:02:06,840 --> 01:02:07,800
It's a good time of the year.

1839
01:02:07,800 --> 01:02:09,400
It's gonna be really, really good.

1840
01:02:09,400 --> 01:02:10,240
It'll be fun.

1841
01:02:10,240 --> 01:02:12,360
So definitely book your room fast

1842
01:02:12,360 --> 01:02:13,640
because they're selling out quick.

1843
01:02:13,640 --> 01:02:15,320
This one's going really quick

1844
01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:16,880
because there's a lot of people jumping on it

1845
01:02:16,880 --> 01:02:18,960
because it was so much fun last month.

1846
01:02:18,960 --> 01:02:19,800
Yeah.

1847
01:02:19,800 --> 01:02:20,640
Okay.

1848
01:02:20,640 --> 01:02:21,960
That's all we got for today.

1849
01:02:21,960 --> 01:02:23,440
That's it.

1850
01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:24,800
It's not that serious.

1851
01:02:24,800 --> 01:02:26,120
Don't make it weird.

1852
01:02:26,120 --> 01:02:26,960
Love you guys.

1853
01:02:26,960 --> 01:02:55,800
Bye.