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Hi there. You must be Edith. It's very nice to meet you.

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I am Edith. Nice to meet you.

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Edith, Sam, Sam.

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I am so excited.

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You are that guy. You seem to be a showman. Are you a showman?

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I try my best to be at least.

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Yeah.

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I like that.

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Do you have a TikTok page? Because I'm not sure if I'm following you or not.

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I do. I do. And I hit follow.

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Okay.

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So, you'll see me after you get off the show.

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Okay.

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I'm going to go whenever you have time.

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Perfect.

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Send her your link.

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Let's do that.

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Yeah.

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That way you guys become friends.

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Our idea is when we find really cool people to, you know, invite them into the circle.

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Keep it moving. Keep them coming back. Just kind of like a coterie of rotating people.

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After this, got to remind me to invite you to the little group chat that she made with

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the people that we've already invited for the last few people.

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That would be awesome.

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Yeah.

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And I think that way we can, you know, you can add them and they can explore your little

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community that you created. I see that you created a community, which is what we're trying

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to do over here.

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Edith said that, you know, since we're so good friends, you and I, that we're going

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to drive a little bit.

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Us? Good friends?

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Basically, back seat, podcast and ask.

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No, I wouldn't say that.

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What would you say then, Sarah?

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I call it.

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I'd say very close acquaintances, maybe even buddies if we got there.

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It'd be nice.

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If we got there, we got there.

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Current current current relationships are for bearing that right now, you know, but

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no, um, okay.

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So I probably know Sam just as bad as as long as I know you, Edith. This has been like the

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big year of me, of, of creating friendships and, you know, actually, you know, getting

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out there and not being a guy who just stays home alone and plays video games, which, you

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know, not wrong with that.

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Just can't be my whole life.

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And he also challenges me in the way that I, I don't know how to flirt, um, at all.

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And, uh, I tend to make, I'm good at riffing back and forth jokes, right? But like you,

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you could see like just when he said that, like it was funny.

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So Sam, but he's all the way, you know, just how to flirt.

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But then I just went, uh, it's because I'm so pretty.

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I'm sorry, man.

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I need that.

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But I'm ugly. It'd be a lot easier for you to flirt.

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It's okay.

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I'm going to have to have you wear a veil around me at all times just to keep the tension.

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I do the same thing.

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I do the same thing.

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Perfect.

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You guys, you guys are flirting. Okay. That's what flirting is right there.

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I mean, it's also friendship.

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All the time.

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I mean, I flirt with LeBlanc too.

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You flirt too.

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That's all I was going to say.

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I have a very flirty personality and that is unfortunate to me because most of the time

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I'm not really sure that I'm flirting.

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It just kind of happens, you know?

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And I believe flirting.

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I'm just going to touch on flirting real quick.

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Okay.

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Yeah, go for it.

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Please.

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Flirting with the right intention is great.

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Flirting with the wrong intent.

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Like you guys have the right intention.

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That's the right intention.

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You get conversation flowing, blood going, you're smiling, you're laughing, you're having

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a good time.

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It's the other kind of flirting.

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The one where you, you know, you're just doing it to get through the moment.

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Are you just trying to get through the moment?

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You're using it as like a crutch as in to get through the conversation itself.

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Now I get that.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Now almost every conversation starts with a little bit of like conversational appetizer

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in the form of a little flirt, a little back and forth until we get down to like the serious

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stuff, you know?

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And then, but yeah, but then like the conversation flies, which that's, all my friends have that

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with me where the conversation just, it just keeps going.

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It's oil that goes back and forth very well.

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Absolutely.

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That's the whole point of conversation, my man.

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Right?

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Cheers.

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So, since we're here, I got to ask, do you flirt?

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I flirt because it seems to come very easily to you and I've met your family and they're

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also, especially your father, very quick to turn a phrase to kind of bring things into

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like a sexual joke or a funny joke to kind of make the other person pause and just kind

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of wipe it up the room.

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So, do you...

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I unfortunately do that with everybody in just normal conversations.

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It always comes off as like I'm flirting.

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Most of the time I'm just trying to make jokes, just trying to riff with whoever I happen to

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be talking to, but most of the time, yeah, it definitely comes off as flirty, which is

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unfortunate, you know, because you can have like a normal conversation with like colleagues

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and they'll be like, do we need to get HR involved?

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And I'm like, I don't know what you're talking about.

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I'm not a part of this.

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As like joking, I'm not saying that actual HR, like, like, are we, is this going somewhere?

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I'm like, no, it's not.

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So I'm not going to lie.

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When I first met you, you weren't necessarily putting it on that hard, but as we got comfortable,

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it came out more and more.

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And I told my wife, I was like, you know, I don't think he means anything by it, but

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that man is coming on to me so damn hard.

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And I haven't had this from a dude since like probably like my mid 30s.

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And so it's fun for me.

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Stop, stop.

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It is.

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It is.

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And I'm like, I don't know, because I know that, you know, you got your own thing going

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on, Sam's a guy with a wife.

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He's got three kids.

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Do I have the number right?

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Three kids.

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Yeah, it's three kids.

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Hey, I'm looking to make it two if you want to buy one.

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I mean, I'm just, I'll give it away.

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No, they're amazing.

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Yeah.

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They are.

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They are.

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And so like, I know that we both got our own thing going on, but, you know, a little,

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a little playful banter back and forth like that.

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And I'm just going to end up the conversation.

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Yeah.

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And I know that when we started hanging out for the very first time at the very least

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that I was having trouble concentrating on anything mostly just the random little headaches

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or the pressure inside of my head where it's like difficult to actually talk.

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That's now gone because I know what to do.

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I had to take two ibuprofen and then whatever medication that I need to do, I need to do

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that also, but mostly just to reduce the inflammation so that way I can actually talk.

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Unless I've got past that, we could talk forever.

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Right.

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Right.

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You've got that energy.

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Do you want to tell the people why your brain is swelling?

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I'm just dumb.

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No, I've got a hyperthyroidism.

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So it's progressing really quickly.

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And so this will probably turn into a goiter at some point, which kind of sucks, but it's

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also causing inflammation throughout my entire body, including my brain, which leads to headaches

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and memory laps.

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Which is, well, I'm going through most of the time.

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And this is where Edith should come in with medical knowledge because she's got medical

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knowledge.

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Which I do have a question.

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How long have you had hyperthyroidism?

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It started really rearing.

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It's had a lot of you had it.

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December of last year.

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Since then, I've lost about 20-ish pounds.

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And it went from minor headaches to major headaches to, I just forget things now.

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So unless I'm taking like ibuprofen every so often, so reduce inflammation, I just went

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to the endocrinologist a couple of weeks ago and they're supposed to give me medication.

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They still haven't called me about it.

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But yeah, that's what it's going to happen.

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How do you feel?

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I mean, how have you changed as a person with, after hearing this diagnosis, was it

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something that you called the doctor and you said, hey, I'm feeling this way?

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Can you please help me?

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Or was it something that they diagnosed you with?

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I kind of went about it a different way because I was taking like different medications.

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I take ADHD or Adderall for my ADHD.

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And I switched over to Vyvance.

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And since I switched over to Vyvance, I've been having headaches.

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So we're just trying to figure out where the headaches came from.

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And if it's just Vyvance, switching back over to Adderall.

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But in the process, I found out that the headaches weren't actually caused by those things.

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It was caused by thyroid problems.

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So they kind of investigated and figured it out.

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Yeah, we troubleshoot it.

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We had a lot of different things that we went through to get to this point.

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But here we are.

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I've got thyroid problems.

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I'm not like packing on weights, but I'm having a hard time keeping weight on right now.

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So we'll just cross those bridges when we come to it.

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Eat more cupcakes.

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How are you handling it?

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I mean, do you have like, to see for me with my ADHD, I meditate, I go to the gym.

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I have things that I do.

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What is it you do for self care concerning this?

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I make content.

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I mean, that's one thing.

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I talk to a lot of different friends.

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I help them make contents most of the time.

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I've got a couple of friends right now that I'm currently walking through their videos

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and trying to help them out in particular.

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But mostly besides hanging out with my kids playing Dungeons & Dragons and Magic Gathering,

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I think that's like the normal coping mechanisms.

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Yeah.

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Well, it's the coping coping mechanism now, right?

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Until it's not anymore.

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So I'd say that's a pretty good list of things that you're doing for yourself.

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Now, do you have to work to...

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It's a lot of different things.

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Do you have to work as well?

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Do you have to work a job as well?

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I dance the tables at the local club.

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Yeah, there's the top of Gainesville.

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I don't really make that much money.

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They usually pay me to get off the tables.

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It's life.

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It happens.

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Sometimes you walk in, you got a string on, it gets sucked up into the booty hole.

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You can't get it out.

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You have to have other people helping you pull it all out.

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It just happens.

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Are you stripping?

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Are you taking off the old clothes, huh?

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Oh, yeah.

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Whenever I can, honestly.

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Until they start telling them, please, quick, you please.

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Please, quick, you're glad.

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Please, quick, you're glad.

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Please, quick, you're glad.

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Please, quick, you're glad.

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Please, quick, you're glad.

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Please, quick, you're glad.

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Okay, well, I...

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Actually, I make X-ray machines for cancer research.

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Say that one more time.

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It's completely different.

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Actually, like, not lying or trying to make it a joke, I make X-ray machines for cancer

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research.

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Okay.

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It's just the delivery.

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Yeah.

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Oh, my God.

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But, yeah, no, seriously, that is what he does.

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He will...

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Yes.

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Not the day to get taken off the picture.

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Sure, he would probably rather be stripping, but...

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Oh, of course.

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Obviously.

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If I could, like, use these gorgeously gorgeous looks for anything else besides just being

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pretty on TikTok, I would.

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I would.

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And until feet pics finally take off, that's me being poor.

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I mean, hey, if there's one thing I'm learning about Onlyfans and all of the different people

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who say that they have them, all the different body types and all the different presentations,

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depending on, you know, if they're non-binary or if they're cis or whatever, Onlyfans has

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a window for everybody.

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So I guarantee you there's at least 30 people out there looking for a little bit of a time.

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That's how you market it, though, and unfortunately, my main TikTok is completely centered around

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the SCP Foundation, which brings in a lot of miners.

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Yeah, that's true.

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That's true.

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So if I was going to do something like that, I would have to create a new community, build

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them up for the ground up, and then hopefully move that over, which, I mean, it's a game

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plan if I wanted to.

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And if you wanted to, but, you know, it's not, they are just yet.

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There's a couple of things that I'd have to do to my body before I want to put all of

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it on camera.

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But Edith, just...

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Thanks for your body.

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Well, thanks, buddy.

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Appreciate that.

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Edith, do you know what the SCP is?

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No, I don't.

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What is that?

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Or SCP in general?

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Secure Contain Protect.

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It is a multinational fictional government agency that helps take down anomalies, categorize

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them, and they make articles based on it.

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So when you go to look up a story that's based on the SCP Foundation, the universe that it's

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in, it is like a catalog sort of thing.

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Like you're reading the case notes of what's going on.

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It's very much like a Wikipedia type style.

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And it's one of the largest collaborative fictional efforts that I know of.

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There may be other ones out there.

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I mean, people who've played online, they play as a part of an already established fantasy,

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you know, like World of Warcraft or Diablo or something like that.

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But this was made by the creators and then held to a certain quality.

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I've tried to write a story myself.

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It got bombed into oblivion.

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People are like, no, this is horrible.

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This doesn't fit anywhere in the universe.

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I'm like, well, he's going to live in my head forever.

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So this is also, it all started as like a post on 4chan back in 2007, I believe.

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It's like Q.

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So it was like one random post and people were like, this is really cool.

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So we're just going to add on to it.

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And more and more people started adding on to it.

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Now it's thousands upon thousands of different articles that people have read.

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Like Q.

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Yeah.

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Q was on 4chan too.

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Well, yeah.

302
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But kind of like Q, if it wasn't, it's fiction.

303
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Oh, it's completely fiction.

304
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Well, Q's kind of fiction too.

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Yeah.

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Q's fiction too, but I'm just saying it's written from the base.

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I try to clown itself as anything else.

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But think of it as it's a mix of anything from Western, sci-fi, cyberpunk, government

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fiction, even sometimes some gore and bored depending on like how deep you go in and know

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what people know that, hey, this is really, you know, this is really extreme.

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People who don't want to read this don't read this.

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And it's all of these fictions put together around, I think, three major anomaly hunting

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or using like some people want to use the powers that they find.

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Some people just want to contain them.

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Some people want to destroy them completely.

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And all of these stories have just woven together to this massive website.

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I say just dive in one day and like because they hyperlink other stories and other things

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that inspired that story so you can go back and go, oh, what the heck is SCP?

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I'm just throwing a number out there.

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It would be four, three, four digits.

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Zero, six, nine, let's say.

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Yeah.

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It's a politically.

324
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No, it can be.

325
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Yeah, some of it might be.

326
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No, no, no, not real.

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It's religious in different portions, but it's like all just fake stories that people

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are writing in the perspective of being an employee at some foundation where they're

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trying to contain these anomalies.

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If you would read at least a little bit of it, you would see kind of what they're trying

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to get at.

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It brings wisdom, doesn't it?

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So we'll get to that later.

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Anyways, I make content on that's what I do.

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It's a yeah, especially his interpretation of Dr. Bright, which with that hedge trimmer

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kills me every time.

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It is supposed to be a change.

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I couldn't afford one.

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I know, I know, but you wield it like a chainsaw, which makes me even better.

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But the characters in there are wild.

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There's any it's, it's, but some of them are really serious and have tragic back stories.

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It I'm telling you that so many people have given to this thing that it is now this like

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amorphous blob of like fibrous connective tissues that each one just connects to something

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else.

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And it's, it's a we all share DNA.

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This is one way to do it.

347
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Oh, yes.

348
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Very much.

349
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It's very much mental DNA.

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Very much so.

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And there are, there are also Nazis who will say that your DNA is not pure enough to go

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into the pool and they will kick you out.

353
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I mean, that's what happened to me.

354
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I mean, yeah, you're absolutely correct though.

355
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Yeah.

356
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Yeah.

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But they do that to, to protect the, I hate to say this, the bloodline of the stories.

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So I mean, very much so that's, it's kind of what they're doing.

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You even have to appeal to a three member board on their own chat service to even put

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something in.

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You can't just point click, put something in and boom, you're done.

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They need to be approved before they go up, which makes sense because you want it to be

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okay enough that other people will be able to read it and not too far into a direction

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of like, oh, well, it's way too sexual.

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So we don't want it to be seen by like a bunch of people that could just click the link.

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Or it's just very poorly written.

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So there's no real reasons to have it on the website listed as like a specific file number.

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Huh.

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And there's, there's been video games made of this.

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There's been so many people who make content about it.

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They're like I said, his interpretation of Dr. Bright is good.

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There's another good Sherman.

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Yeah.

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Director Sherman, I think it's yeah.

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Two or four million subscribers and like that.

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I know a baby blue has a four million subscribers.

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Dr. Braint or now a team Rook is a 500,000 followers, I think, and multiple subscribers

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on to YouTube.

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So you know, if you ever, if you ever want a recommendation, I'll throw you a couple

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of some of my favorite stories, probably give you some of the, the OGs like the statue that

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we'll kill you, can somebody like be writing on this SCP thing.

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Huh.

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Can I put one of my tragic stories on there?

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A little anal, you know, a little cheatin.

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Maybe.

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I mean, worse things have happened.

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Yeah.

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Some of them, some of the stories are actually about the interactions of between the people

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who are involved in there.

390
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Yeah.

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She said, she definitely just said, I don't just slip.

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Oh, no, I have she's slipped it in there.

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Hoping that nobody would notice, but I'll tell you this right now.

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There's not many people who don't notice anal when you try to slip it in.

395
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Um, um, anyway, so is that a good idea?

396
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That's like a great idea.

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Hummer.

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You would.

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You would.

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I'm having a hurricane over here and you're talking about a Hummer.

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This is my sexual coffee.

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It's only $7 and it won't break the bank.

403
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Yeah.

404
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Where were you?

405
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You didn't even join in.

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What's wrong with you?

407
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Come on now.

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I can't believe you, Sam.

409
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Can't believe it.

410
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No, no.

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I don't know any of these references.

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I am so sorry.

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You'll catch on.

414
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You'll catch on.

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We switched so quickly from the SCP foundation to anal that I got completely lost somewhere.

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Okay, I'm an Albuquerque at this point.

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I must have taken the wrong turn at Albuquerque.

418
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Look, how old are you, Sam?

419
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How old are you, friend?

420
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I'm old enough to be your daddy.

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Oh, with a high on the end.

422
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Um, 33.

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I had to do some math.

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You didn't really think you were old enough to be my dad, huh?

425
00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:36,680
Well, no, I'm not saying that I could be your daddy.

426
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Daddy, daddy, there's a difference.

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Daddy with a little slappy, slappy.

428
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All right, so I'm going to let you guys have enjoyed the rest of the podcast.

429
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I got to go take a cold shower.

430
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No.

431
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We'll see you later, Mr. LeBlanc.

432
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Glad to be here.

433
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Oh, intermission's already?

434
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I'm going to get a package in the mail.

435
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I'm going to send you a cold shower.

436
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I'm going to try to rein this in.

437
00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:08,560
So all of this just...

438
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Hey, am I doing it?

439
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I mean, sounds nice right about now.

440
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All of this to say that he does do a lot of SCP content, so there's a lot of people who

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do know for that.

442
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He does have one that is not themed, who he just finally followed me back on that one,

443
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which I'm wondering...

444
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Oh, I was actually following you on Sitting With You 2.

445
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Oh, okay.

446
00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:33,480
So I was following the wrong one.

447
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That was my bad.

448
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I was only following 13 people on there just because I wanted to see if I just removed

449
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all the people that I was personally following, if that would just help my views, you know,

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because it first goes out to the people who are friends with you and they might not watch

451
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your videos.

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They might not care.

453
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Or then to your followers.

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So I was like, maybe if I just got rid of my mutuals, maybe.

455
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Maybe.

456
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I don't add anybody from Facebook.

457
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I will not do it.

458
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Oh, yeah.

459
00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:01,320
No, no, no.

460
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I will not do it.

461
00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:05,160
Yeah, it's a strange animal.

462
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It's like none of my Facebook friends, I think they're all narcissists.

463
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Not that that's a bad thing, right?

464
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But they're all into themselves, which is fine.

465
00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:18,680
Well, I feel like if you're posting on Facebook in general, you have to have a little bit

466
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of narcissism.

467
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Yeah.

468
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A little bit, especially if you're regularly posting on Facebook, like I share my content

469
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from other places on Facebook.

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And then like there are two or three friends and like four family members who won't see

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me any other time.

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So I use that to keep in touch with them.

473
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Like they won't even answer their texts.

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They'll sure he'll answer a Facebook post if I tag them in it.

475
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True.

476
00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:44,520
Yeah, mine too.

477
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Yeah.

478
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So I try not to analyze it because everybody's got their shit.

479
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Like we've got a hurt.

480
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I just forget.

481
00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:52,640
Oh, you've got a hurt.

482
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That's right.

483
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You've got a what is it?

484
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Milton.

485
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Milton.

486
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I was thinking Matilda and I was like, it's a guy name and that's not a guy name.

487
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I don't think.

488
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Milton.

489
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Yes.

490
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It's already a category five.

491
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Yeah.

492
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I've been in the last 12 hours, something like that.

493
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It's not looking great.

494
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In fact, I was going to ask you Edith before we were talking about this when you hit record.

495
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You sound like a tried and true Floridian as in you're not leaving.

496
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You're like, other people have been wiped off the map, but we'll be okay because I've

497
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always been okay.

498
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And I worry.

499
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A father worries.

500
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A friend worries.

501
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:38,600
Yeah, my dad, I have to not answer my phone.

502
00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:39,600
Yeah.

503
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That's what you have to do.

504
00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:47,000
When there's a hurricane and I don't think family realizes that when you call six times

505
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:55,480
and you text me and you know, it's not really facilitating independence or the strength to

506
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:59,080
battle whatever fight I've got going on.

507
00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:01,760
It's more like we don't have faith.

508
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:04,560
This could be the last time I'm talking to you.

509
00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:06,560
You probably died.

510
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:07,560
Yeah.

511
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:08,560
Whatever.

512
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:14,000
You know, like if this is my time, I fucking want to go.

513
00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:15,000
All right.

514
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:20,080
This is my time if the universe is like blah, blah, blah.

515
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:21,680
I don't believe that's going to happen.

516
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:22,840
You know why?

517
00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:24,640
Because I'm going to be the only one here.

518
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:26,520
I'm going to be meditating.

519
00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:30,840
I'm going to be putting protection over this entire house.

520
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:33,200
I'm going to wash the door with salt.

521
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:34,200
I'm going to put a safe candle.

522
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:37,360
I feel like you have to do that normally in Florida though, honestly.

523
00:24:37,360 --> 00:24:38,360
Oh, sure.

524
00:24:38,360 --> 00:24:39,360
Sure.

525
00:24:39,360 --> 00:24:45,360
I want to keep all the mean gays away because I don't want to be in a relationship with

526
00:24:45,360 --> 00:24:46,360
the mean gay.

527
00:24:46,360 --> 00:24:47,360
There's mean gays.

528
00:24:47,360 --> 00:24:48,360
Yeah.

529
00:24:48,360 --> 00:24:49,360
I mean, there are.

530
00:24:49,360 --> 00:24:54,720
They love you, but they do it in a sneaky, underhanded, passive, aggressive kind of way.

531
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:57,880
As I tell my followers or anybody who will listen to me.

532
00:24:57,880 --> 00:24:58,880
I don't like that though.

533
00:24:58,880 --> 00:24:59,880
Yeah.

534
00:24:59,880 --> 00:25:04,600
Well, there are assholes of every flavor and that includes, you know, people who you

535
00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:08,600
think that you would get along with just because, you know, whether sexual orientation

536
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:13,200
or where you guys are from or, you know, what you're doing now as far as a job, you know,

537
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:16,200
you think, Hey, this person's on the same level and you just find other assholes.

538
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:17,400
So there are assholes everywhere.

539
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:20,600
You just got to be aware of that.

540
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:21,600
Touche.

541
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:22,600
Touche.

542
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:26,640
I mean, honestly, what is an asshole really?

543
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,600
It's somebody that's not going to.

544
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:31,720
I mean, they're not going to do what you want them to do.

545
00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:35,600
I mean, if you're trying to learn as much as you can about the asshole, you want to

546
00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:41,000
really like be a part of that asshole, you know, you want to really get deep here and

547
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:46,240
find out more about it, you know, every square inch.

548
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:47,240
Somebody's 33.

549
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:48,240
With the libido.

550
00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:49,240
Yeah.

551
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:50,240
Also, get over it.

552
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:51,240
Michael LeBlanc.

553
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:52,240
Yeah.

554
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:58,640
Probably still have the elasticity too, which is very important.

555
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:01,240
You know, the older you get, the less elasticity there is.

556
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:02,240
Yeah.

557
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:05,760
I've been in full words a lot of times.

558
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:11,360
Let's just look.

559
00:26:11,360 --> 00:26:12,360
Anal.

560
00:26:12,360 --> 00:26:13,360
Anal.

561
00:26:13,360 --> 00:26:19,400
Internet kind of just dropped there for a second.

562
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:24,520
So since you're on a podcast called bisexual coffee, do you have any queer nature within

563
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:26,760
yourself that you subscribe to?

564
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:29,360
Or are you just accepting of everything?

565
00:26:29,360 --> 00:26:32,760
As long as they fill out the form for consent, I'm good.

566
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:33,760
Whatever.

567
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:34,760
Oh, right.

568
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:35,760
I have a form too.

569
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:36,760
You got a form too.

570
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:39,440
There's only nine lines to it.

571
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:40,760
There's nine lines.

572
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:42,120
Oh, yeah?

573
00:26:42,120 --> 00:26:47,080
You've got to sign it nine times for consent.

574
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,560
You got to be really into it.

575
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:52,080
You have to commit to it.

576
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:53,080
Okay.

577
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:54,080
Not in the middle.

578
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:55,080
Oh, I didn't give you a consent.

579
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:56,080
Let's commit to the bit.

580
00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:59,520
What's the body of your consent form?

581
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:01,240
What's the body of my consent form?

582
00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:02,240
Yeah.

583
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:03,240
I mean, we're here.

584
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:04,240
Yeah.

585
00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:05,240
Commit to the bit.

586
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:06,240
What's the body?

587
00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:07,240
Can you make it?

588
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:12,440
Can you at least get there by like nine and be out by 10?

589
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:13,440
Out of your butt?

590
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:15,440
I mean, I mean, just within an hour.

591
00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:16,440
Okay.

592
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:18,440
I'm not going for an hour.

593
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:19,440
Okay.

594
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:20,440
I'll get three minutes in there.

595
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:21,920
A good three minutes.

596
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:22,920
Don't get me wrong.

597
00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:28,320
I'm not in a world with those three minutes, but I'm not, I'm not like crazy with it.

598
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:29,320
I'm passing.

599
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:30,320
Hold three minutes.

600
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:31,320
That's her toys.

601
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:32,320
Oh, yeah.

602
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:34,600
You know, personal stamina now I'm with standing.

603
00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:35,600
Okay.

604
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:40,560
Get yourself a nice, you know, set of toys, something to delight the senses before, during,

605
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:41,560
after.

606
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:42,560
Okay.

607
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:43,560
I'm trying to speed run this.

608
00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:44,560
Okay.

609
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:46,080
Like I'm going to get off first.

610
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:47,080
Okay.

611
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:48,080
I'm going to get off first.

612
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:49,080
I'm going to get off often.

613
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:50,080
No, you selfish.

614
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:51,080
Okay.

615
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:53,080
You're not going to get there.

616
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:57,320
No, that is a 33 year old for you.

617
00:27:57,320 --> 00:27:58,320
Like a Chihuahua.

618
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:00,320
I'm like done.

619
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:02,840
Oh, that's fantastic.

620
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:04,080
Oh, yeah.

621
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:06,920
I would call you a Chihuahua.

622
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:14,880
Actually, maybe I'm not actually by it's more like I'm just done so quickly.

623
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:16,360
I'd never really realized who it is.

624
00:28:16,360 --> 00:28:19,960
You know, as long as they signed the consent form, it's all good.

625
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:21,600
Right.

626
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:23,480
Is it as big as my pinky?

627
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:27,320
At least are we packing on a good day?

628
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:32,840
I will say that they're on a 2D screen.

629
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:37,960
We're dealing with perspective issues on a 2D screen right now.

630
00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:42,320
You know, you got to get close to the camera.

631
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:43,840
Is it the size of my head?

632
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:47,760
You know, see that's it all depends on how close you are to the camera.

633
00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:50,120
I can slap you with it.

634
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:53,600
We can just find a way of like a side by side.

635
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:57,480
This is actually a date between Sam and Michael LeBlanc.

636
00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:58,480
Okay.

637
00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:00,480
It could be a date between all three of us.

638
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:02,600
I mean, crazy things have happened.

639
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:04,600
Are you going to make a sandwich?

640
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:05,600
Are you going to make a sandwich?

641
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:07,760
I was thinking more like a spit roast or a knife or a tower.

642
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:09,960
I mean, if we could just high five.

643
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:10,960
Three minutes.

644
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:11,960
We'll cut it, honey.

645
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:12,960
Three minutes.

646
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:13,960
Absolutely.

647
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:16,280
You're not the one high-fiving, Michael.

648
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:17,280
You're the one in the middle.

649
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:18,280
Oh, fantastic.

650
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:21,280
Three minutes he can handle.

651
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:23,280
How about that?

652
00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:29,360
Hey, I said the toys for a reason because toys are very important when it comes to sexual

653
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:31,360
health, especially.

654
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:32,360
I mean, I know what I know.

655
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:33,360
I know what that wheels in there.

656
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,640
I mean, it's not going to get crazy until you get the transformers coming in.

657
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:38,520
See, like, I know what I can do.

658
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:41,000
I know what my body has.

659
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:46,480
Like I've tried all types of different like things as far as like to make things longer.

660
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:50,840
There are a few tricks that I've learned over the years, but overall, it's not a long

661
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:52,680
stamina game with me.

662
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:57,320
So that's why I make sure that we have good toys both for either myself or, you know,

663
00:29:57,320 --> 00:29:58,440
my partner at the same time.

664
00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:01,440
So it's important.

665
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:02,440
It's important.

666
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:03,440
It's important.

667
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:04,880
Somebody with kids, personally, it's never a long time.

668
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:08,600
It's just whenever you can as quickly as possible.

669
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:10,000
That makes sense.

670
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:11,920
I'm going to interrupt for a second.

671
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:12,920
Oh, please do.

672
00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:13,920
I need you to.

673
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:14,920
I need you to.

674
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:16,880
I need you to.

675
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:25,960
So I just came out, Sam, not too long ago, and I've noticed something about looking back

676
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:29,480
on my life and I like men.

677
00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:30,480
I do.

678
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:31,840
I like them a lot.

679
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:38,600
And it seems like the sex was always good with my friends, but never good with anybody

680
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:43,160
I was in a romantic relationship with.

681
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:50,520
And I realized that when you set boundaries with a friend, they will honor them.

682
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:56,400
You set them with a straight man and it, it would turn them into a misogynist.

683
00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:58,960
Their ego would come up.

684
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:07,000
Straight men are like this, you know, the, what I love about you two, you are men, men,

685
00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:09,400
men, men, all day long men.

686
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:13,360
But you are afraid of fucking nothing.

687
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:14,360
Okay.

688
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:15,360
No label.

689
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:18,360
You know, you're both obviously married.

690
00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:19,360
Okay.

691
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:23,120
The best thing to tornado is kind of terrify me, but I see what you're saying.

692
00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:25,480
But it's like, yeah, I gotcha.

693
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,320
That kind of, we all have our little fighters.

694
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:29,320
I'm scared of spiders.

695
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:30,320
I'm scared of, yeah.

696
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:31,320
No, I gotcha.

697
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:32,320
I'm not scared of much.

698
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:34,320
I'm not scared of much anymore, but I'm 55.

699
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:36,080
No, there's a little bit of a confidence there.

700
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:37,080
There's absolutely.

701
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:39,200
And I feel like if you're going to walk into a bedroom, you need to have at least a little

702
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:41,320
bit of confidence walking in.

703
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:42,320
Yeah.

704
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:49,920
Like, tell me, tell me, because we have straight male listeners.

705
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:52,040
Tell me you're talking to them.

706
00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:55,040
You're talking to them as friends.

707
00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:58,560
What could they do to help their relationship?

708
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:03,400
You guys are, you've got good functioning, lovely relationships.

709
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:08,440
What do you think is the first thing that helps you with your wife?

710
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:14,680
I feel like most straight guys in America, at least, have a problem with just not doing

711
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:15,680
anything.

712
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:16,680
So just chill.

713
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:25,800
Figure out how to come up with a time for you to just sit down and not want very much.

714
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:27,520
Make your mind go to different places.

715
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:31,920
So that way, when they actually, your partner wants to go to that place where you want to

716
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:37,440
actually have sex, you all are both on the same page.

717
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:40,560
I feel like that's the main part.

718
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:41,560
Yeah.

719
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:45,120
I feel like most of the relationships are either one person really wants it while the

720
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:48,320
other person doesn't, and it's never on the same page.

721
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:52,960
So if you're always wanting there, then you need to just drop it a little bit.

722
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:56,480
Figure out some other way to get to that point where you're on the same page.

723
00:32:56,480 --> 00:33:01,520
Because communication in the bedroom or just like in relationships in general is the most

724
00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:03,760
important part.

725
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:05,520
Just drop it a little bit.

726
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:07,700
Yeah, that's good.

727
00:33:07,700 --> 00:33:08,700
That sounds like something.

728
00:33:08,700 --> 00:33:09,700
I'm not just dropping it.

729
00:33:09,700 --> 00:33:10,700
Figure out something else.

730
00:33:10,700 --> 00:33:14,400
I feel like that's something that Edith really touches on a lot of time is where ego gets

731
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,040
in the way of a good relationship.

732
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:21,160
And being in that state where you're constantly wanting something and you think that you need

733
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:26,800
it and it's all about you is definitely just swimming in your own ego.

734
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:31,840
So yeah, that tracks.

735
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:34,160
If you're in a relationship, you're going to get there.

736
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:38,080
I mean, it's not going to happen instantly, but you are going to get to that point again.

737
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:40,840
So just don't worry about it.

738
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:43,480
Figure out some other way to figure out your time.

739
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:45,240
Just fill it up with as much as you can.

740
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:47,720
So that way, when you are there, you're there.

741
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:53,560
To touch on communication, which is obviously huge in all aspects of a relationship, not

742
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:59,400
being afraid to say what's on your mind because you think that the other person is going to

743
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:00,840
receive it wrong or something like that.

744
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:04,040
If something's on your mind, it's really important to you and you think it's really important

745
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:05,880
between you two.

746
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:06,880
Don't be afraid to say it.

747
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:13,040
At the very least, if the person say that you are bringing out a kink that you have

748
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:15,880
and that you really want to try out.

749
00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:22,160
If you are in a comfortable relationship and you say that kink and you say it with not

750
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:29,160
worrying whether or not they're going to say they're into it or not, then it becomes easier

751
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:30,160
to say.

752
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:34,160
Because I've been in a couple of relationships where I was like, hey, I'm really interested

753
00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:35,160
in XYZ.

754
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:38,840
And that person goes, yeah, that's probably not going to happen with me.

755
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:40,000
I was like, that's cool.

756
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:43,960
That's why they create certain toys to facilitate the experience.

757
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:47,880
But the important part is actually being able to talk about it directly, face to face.

758
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:52,480
Because if you're worried about even bringing it up in the first place, you might not be

759
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:54,800
the right person or with the right person.

760
00:34:54,800 --> 00:35:00,360
Or if you're the person that has a problem with listening to other people's kinks and

761
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:05,720
stuff, you might need to seek at least therapy or a way to figure out your own self.

762
00:35:05,720 --> 00:35:07,720
Sexual therapy is huge.

763
00:35:07,720 --> 00:35:10,320
Say that again, Sam.

764
00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:11,720
Say that again?

765
00:35:11,720 --> 00:35:15,000
Say that one more time.

766
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:16,400
That one more time.

767
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,920
What you just said.

768
00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:20,160
Okay.

769
00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:22,960
So getting to the point where you can talk to somebody.

770
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:27,600
And if you're not okay with talking to them or they're not okay with talking to you, one

771
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:28,680
of you all has to fix it.

772
00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:30,200
You need to go to therapy.

773
00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:32,240
You need to figure yourself out.

774
00:35:32,240 --> 00:35:33,400
And possibly even go together.

775
00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:38,160
I mean, couples therapy also works pretty well when it comes to sexual health as well.

776
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:41,920
And I would actually almost recommend couples therapy if you're thinking about sexual therapy

777
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:47,760
because the person's only going to get one side of whatever is wrong.

778
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:49,600
They're going to get one side of that conversation.

779
00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:55,960
You're not going to be able to see the misconnections or the possible bridges between the two people.

780
00:35:55,960 --> 00:36:01,280
Or three people or four depending on what kind of situation you're in.

781
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:06,200
As you said, this is mostly for the straight guy community specifically.

782
00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:07,200
Yeah.

783
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:10,040
Yeah, a straight guy community.

784
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:14,120
I love them all.

785
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:16,480
I love all people.

786
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:23,480
And I've noticed in my travels over this summer is that we're all just really fucking cool.

787
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:29,600
I mean, differences, I believe you have to make them up.

788
00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:36,480
In order to misunderstand somebody, you got to make up some bullshit so you can treat

789
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:38,000
them like crap or whatever.

790
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:44,320
You're so used to going down like a lane where you know when something happens, you're

791
00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:47,760
supposed to respond a certain way, whether you saw your parents do it when you were growing

792
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:50,880
up or like, you know, this is how couples react in movies.

793
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:54,720
So when something happens, you immediately jump up and you're like, I have to react this

794
00:36:54,720 --> 00:36:55,720
way.

795
00:36:55,720 --> 00:36:56,720
You don't have to.

796
00:36:56,720 --> 00:37:01,240
You can just figure it out through actual communication.

797
00:37:01,240 --> 00:37:03,400
And that's a killer too.

798
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:06,280
I don't think that I was going to pull out a Reddit story today because I don't have

799
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:07,880
a second screen in front of me.

800
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:15,440
I see that kind of story on Reddit all the time where guys, it seems to be guys mostly,

801
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:19,560
but I think it's just because those are the stories that are being told who are being

802
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:24,320
outed as people who run their relationship, whether normally their sexual relationship

803
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:30,400
and sometimes even just their regular communication game as if they're getting it from a movie,

804
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:35,040
as if they're getting it from porn, you know, something on the screen has told them either

805
00:37:35,040 --> 00:37:41,160
Andrew Tate has told them to neg every woman he sees or Johnny sins has said to wear as

806
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:44,440
many costumes as possible and how drive women until they're goo.

807
00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:49,120
And then they think, Hey, that's all we got to do when they're not able to do that.

808
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:50,680
It completely ruins them.

809
00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:51,680
Yeah.

810
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:52,680
Yeah.

811
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:55,480
Not everybody's going to react the same way that your porn is.

812
00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:56,480
That's true.

813
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:57,480
Everybody's slightly different.

814
00:37:57,480 --> 00:37:58,840
You guys are so great.

815
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:01,280
I love you both so much.

816
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:02,280
So one more question.

817
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:03,280
Love us both a little bit harder, baby.

818
00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:08,800
I love you both.

819
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:09,800
What's your other question?

820
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:12,200
Very, very wise.

821
00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:13,880
This shit is good.

822
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:15,200
Okay.

823
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:24,920
So when you're out, both of you and how do you react when you're around misogyny?

824
00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:31,200
When you're when you can smell it, when you can see it, when you somebody is actively

825
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:38,960
engaged in their ego and the deep in the bullshit that is misogyny and codependency

826
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:39,960
and the Patriot.

827
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:44,080
Well, first you got to like peel back the onion of like, is this a joke or is this not

828
00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:45,080
a joke?

829
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:47,560
Cause I feel like guys in general, when they start getting onto their guys group and start

830
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:51,840
talking, they use it mostly as a, as a joke and as a crutch for humor.

831
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:56,160
And then once you get past that points, you can at least figure out how to, how to talk

832
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:57,160
with them.

833
00:38:57,160 --> 00:39:01,120
Whether it's like, Hey man, I need you to stop or a dickwad.

834
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:02,120
Shut the fuck up.

835
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:03,120
You know, right?

836
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:04,120
Depends on the situation.

837
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:11,200
That's why I like the little community that I'm a part of with you on discord and you'll

838
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:15,000
get guys in there who, you know, you can tell when they're blowing off steam, but then they're

839
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:19,920
also like a couple of days later, they're in the one part of the discord that's all

840
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:23,360
about like feelings and shit because, you know, they realize that the caliber of the

841
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:28,040
human being that's around them, which I think is also important is to be an example of somebody

842
00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:38,040
who doesn't use misogyny or ill, ill taste in jokes constantly when you talk because,

843
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:42,800
you know, variety is the spice of life, but also if you are just leaning on that, then

844
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:47,640
that means that you, you have something else underdeveloped in your conversational skills.

845
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:52,280
So being a beacon of somebody who can practice like that, I think helps with other guys who

846
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:59,240
are, are, are suffering with either close mindedness or what not.

847
00:39:59,240 --> 00:40:03,000
Having that said, there is a slight problem with that on the discord that you're referring

848
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:06,200
to the guys discord that Maddie had made.

849
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:10,680
I have a problem with like, I don't want to actually say anything because most of those

850
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:16,000
guys I don't really know or more importantly, there's like two in particular that I'm not

851
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:21,480
going to like name names, but they have a problem with like pointing it out and almost

852
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:24,040
laughing at it if anybody does like pop out.

853
00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:28,480
So you'll see like maybe somebody posts something in those like boards where we're really trying

854
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:31,640
to like delve deep and it's like, Hey buddy, are you okay?

855
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:36,000
But then like it turns into a joke and it happens like so quickly and it's always the

856
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:37,000
same people.

857
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:39,600
So it all depends on the sort of people that you surround yourself with.

858
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:40,600
That's true.

859
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:41,600
That's true.

860
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:46,480
They say that a measure of your own self is the, the company that you keep.

861
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:48,800
Oh, true.

862
00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:55,600
And I try, that's why if I do see that on there, it's for me it's so infrequent, I guess

863
00:40:55,600 --> 00:41:02,520
it's because I'm looking for specific people to post and whatnot, which there is, I have

864
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:09,400
two things that I've known about myself over time is one that I am a confrontational avoidant

865
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:18,400
that, that has gotten that, that particular thickness that has numbed me over the years

866
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:24,360
is thinned as well because I'm with somebody whose arguments is a love language.

867
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:34,680
And so I have learned that argument is very healthy actually avoidance itself causes stress

868
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:40,880
and causes a whole bunch of knotted feelings inside of you to just make things worse.

869
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:46,680
And here recently, I got to tell ourselves or on top, go ahead.

870
00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:47,680
I'm sorry.

871
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:48,680
Okay.

872
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:49,680
I just, just, just real quick.

873
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:56,680
I wanted to say that I haven't seen, I haven't, I haven't seen misogyny in my face in quite

874
00:41:56,680 --> 00:41:57,680
some time.

875
00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:00,840
Maybe that's because where I am and the company I keep or whatnot.

876
00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:02,800
I've seen a whole lot of other things.

877
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:03,800
I've seen drug users.

878
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:09,200
I've seen people who are down on themselves actually more than they're down around on

879
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:10,520
other people.

880
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:12,200
And maybe it's because I'm not interacting with them.

881
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:15,800
If I did, maybe I'd find out more about them, except for this one person who I was sitting

882
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:20,240
in her living room and I was telling her about my podcast.

883
00:42:20,240 --> 00:42:22,920
I was telling her, telling her about our podcast as well.

884
00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:24,720
I mentioned that it was called bisexual coffee.

885
00:42:24,720 --> 00:42:30,560
And as soon as I said that, she clutched her metaphorical pearls and said, Oh, and just

886
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:33,840
like she was telling me what the weather was, she went, Oh, I'm homophobic.

887
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:37,480
And I went, she said it just like that.

888
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:38,480
Just like that.

889
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:43,280
I have never in real life had the chance to give somebody the double finger guns, but

890
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:44,280
I did do this woman.

891
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:46,560
I went, wow.

892
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:48,160
And that's why we're not having a conversation.

893
00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:49,160
She's like, Oh, I'm sorry.

894
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:50,160
I hurt your feelings.

895
00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:51,160
You didn't hurt my feelings.

896
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:53,280
You just kind of showed me what the lay of the land was here.

897
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:55,280
I'm going to go ahead and finish helping your daughter.

898
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:59,560
That's the whole reason I was there was helping somebody move.

899
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:06,280
And I don't think five year old younger me would have done that had I not be with somebody

900
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:11,520
who challenges me to not just say the things I think she wants to hear.

901
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:13,000
And so that's growth on my part.

902
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:14,560
Isn't that incredible?

903
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:15,560
Yeah.

904
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:23,440
So let me tell you, I have to deal with misogyny day in and day out because the patients that

905
00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:33,840
I take care of can be anywhere from, I mean, they've been young, but 55 to 102.

906
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:34,840
Some of that old school.

907
00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:37,400
I have so many.

908
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:38,960
I have them all over.

909
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:40,680
I have tattoos all over.

910
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:47,840
And with tattoos, both legs, both arms.

911
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:55,840
And what happens when I go into a patient's room is that, you know, if they're a misogynist

912
00:43:55,840 --> 00:44:01,960
or even the woman can be, what do they call a misogynist woman?

913
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:03,080
They call her Karen.

914
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:05,440
They call her an actress.

915
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:08,440
They call her a woman hater.

916
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:09,440
Yeah.

917
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:12,640
A bastion of self-hate.

918
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:21,520
They just lay into me about my, lay into me at least four people, at least in a day.

919
00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:25,640
And then I'll have men tell me, oh, you're so beautiful.

920
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:30,840
I come in and that's the first thing they say.

921
00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:32,280
It's not how I want to be seen.

922
00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:35,000
I'm your nurse.

923
00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:38,280
You know, I mean, I'm not here to be beautiful.

924
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:41,720
It's not a part of a conversation that I want to have with you.

925
00:44:41,720 --> 00:44:42,720
Yeah.

926
00:44:42,720 --> 00:44:45,120
It is weird to leave off any conversation with thought.

927
00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:52,200
But also, like being a general bigot when it comes to that sort of stuff isn't something

928
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:57,320
that you need to move forward with in today's society, even if you are like a hundred years

929
00:44:57,320 --> 00:45:01,040
old, which I mean, if you're a bigot and you're a hundred, you'll be gone soon.

930
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:02,040
Who cares?

931
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:03,040
It's true.

932
00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:04,040
Living on borrowed time.

933
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:05,040
I'm sorry.

934
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:06,040
I wasn't really saying that.

935
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:11,480
But I mean, well, I was just here for a good time.

936
00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:15,560
Another short time that women, right here for a good time.

937
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:17,680
Wait, and a short time.

938
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:18,680
There we go.

939
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:19,680
Yeah, that's the word.

940
00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:20,680
I say wait, not a long time.

941
00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:21,680
So what?

942
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:22,680
Yeah.

943
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:25,560
Michael, I was assuming that I was going to be dead by 30.

944
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:26,560
And look at you.

945
00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:27,560
I'm sorry.

946
00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:28,560
Look at you now.

947
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:29,560
Yeah.

948
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:33,040
If you've you've you've your own expectations, Miss Edith continue.

949
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:43,040
Well, I was just going to say that I know if I'm dealing with it all day long, I don't

950
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:48,000
want to come home and have to deal with it too.

951
00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:54,480
And that's the thing I was asking you before you're, you know, with a straight man and

952
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:55,480
I like them.

953
00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:57,160
I think they're so funny.

954
00:45:57,160 --> 00:46:02,600
They're funny and they have all these quirks and everything's got to be a certain way and

955
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:07,520
they've got to be stoic and they've got to be a man and everything's got to be masculine.

956
00:46:07,520 --> 00:46:09,440
And sure, I love all that shit.

957
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:16,720
But when it comes down to the misogyny part, that means they come first with everything.

958
00:46:16,720 --> 00:46:18,720
They come first in the bedroom.

959
00:46:18,720 --> 00:46:21,600
They come first in the house.

960
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:24,480
They come first with their family.

961
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:26,800
They come first me.

962
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:28,040
I'm just vibing.

963
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:30,320
I'm just loving people.

964
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:32,680
That's why I am queer Edith.

965
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:37,000
But you also have like an emotional maturity about you that most straight men don't actually

966
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:38,000
have.

967
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:41,400
They haven't had to confront themselves in those sort of situations also.

968
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:45,520
Like they haven't had the opportunity to even think, Hey, maybe I'm not supposed to come

969
00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:49,440
first in this sort of situation, especially a bed.

970
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:50,440
But still.

971
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:59,160
Now, of course, everybody should know that women's vaginas are slick when you juice them

972
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:04,040
right up when you work them a little and you turn up the volume there and you are supposed

973
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:05,040
to do that.

974
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:08,640
Well, you know that you have three kids.

975
00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:11,680
Michael, I'm waiting on a kid.

976
00:47:11,680 --> 00:47:15,040
I don't know if that's going to happen.

977
00:47:15,040 --> 00:47:23,560
Marley did her raising of her of kids when she was doing nannying and I can see so much

978
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:27,520
in her and especially one of the kids that she helped raise.

979
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:32,800
If we do anything, it's maybe like adoption idea in our own home.

980
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:35,120
Yeah, I've got a problem with it.

981
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:44,640
But I do want to say that obviously grouping the entirety of any part of humanity into

982
00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:50,480
one thing, whether it be gay, whether it be trans, whether it be straight is going to come

983
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:52,520
with so many different permutations.

984
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:55,280
So obviously, if you're hearing this right now and you're straight guy and you're like,

985
00:47:55,280 --> 00:48:00,560
hey, I'm not machismo, I'm actually, I consider myself.

986
00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:02,200
A nice guy.

987
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:03,200
Yeah.

988
00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:09,240
You see the figure of a woman, but you like the phallic nature of a penis.

989
00:48:09,240 --> 00:48:10,240
It's okay.

990
00:48:10,240 --> 00:48:11,240
It's going to be...

991
00:48:11,240 --> 00:48:12,240
Right it is.

992
00:48:12,240 --> 00:48:18,880
Everybody who, they may consider themselves straight who just enjoys like a little bit

993
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:20,640
of ass play with a finger.

994
00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:27,800
Or maybe they are, they don't consider themselves as maybe toxic masculine, you know, with the

995
00:48:27,800 --> 00:48:34,160
one that, you know, don't approach your feelings, keep everything bottle inside, be stoic forever.

996
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:35,960
But you know, they're still straight.

997
00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:40,560
So again, I just wanted to put that out there in case anybody's listening.

998
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:44,720
Well, I want to reach out to everyone, especially straight men.

999
00:48:44,720 --> 00:48:53,440
Like you don't have to be so, so manly just because there's a book on, you know, there's

1000
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:57,840
GQ, there's a version of men and then there's muscle health.

1001
00:48:57,840 --> 00:48:58,840
I haven't talked about GQ in a while.

1002
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:03,640
There's a version of men and there's men's health and there's a version of men.

1003
00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:07,920
And then I have the version that I like and every woman in the world has the version that

1004
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:09,480
they like.

1005
00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:16,400
And we've been putting out content forever telling men, Hey, this is what we want.

1006
00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:25,800
And it's almost like, so part of me thinks that misogynistic men are that way, just so

1007
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:32,960
like you said, Sam, they don't have to address all those shitty emotions that they have.

1008
00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:36,440
Like their mom did everything for them and they don't know how to do shit.

1009
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:41,960
Right, or they just never learned that there was an emotional depth that they could ever

1010
00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:42,960
get to.

1011
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:46,440
Homosexuality, especially in the South is like demonized.

1012
00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:47,440
Yeah.

1013
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:48,440
Yeah.

1014
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:53,880
I mean, I'm glad that we're even getting some rates that we are and the recognition and

1015
00:49:53,880 --> 00:50:00,680
everything, which I'm hoping we may not even have to buy tickets or anything, but I'm hoping

1016
00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:06,200
to see you here in Atlanta this month.

1017
00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:07,200
I'm coming.

1018
00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:08,200
I'm coming.

1019
00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:09,200
Are you coming?

1020
00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:10,200
For the Pride Parade.

1021
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:11,200
I'm coming.

1022
00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:12,200
Are you coming?

1023
00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:13,200
Yeah, you.

1024
00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:14,200
Oh, what are you coming up?

1025
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:15,200
What day?

1026
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:16,200
What day?

1027
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:18,200
It's in the end of October.

1028
00:50:18,200 --> 00:50:21,720
I hope it's Sunday because I have something to do that Saturday.

1029
00:50:21,720 --> 00:50:23,720
But we'll find out.

1030
00:50:23,720 --> 00:50:27,360
We'll have to drive and sleep on your couch.

1031
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:32,720
But the fact that we're even getting that is good.

1032
00:50:32,720 --> 00:50:39,120
I saw a lot less blow back than I thought I was going to when I went to Pride this year.

1033
00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:41,520
Obviously, it was also my first time in Pride.

1034
00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:45,760
So maybe I was a little like glitzing-glammed and taking a look at everybody and just reveling

1035
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:46,760
in the color.

1036
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:54,400
But I felt like it was a smooth event, say, for one group that decided to tag along at

1037
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:59,560
the end of the parade, waving their banners and saying something that sounded like it

1038
00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:07,280
was pro-gay, but when you listen to it, it was about the punishments of being gay.

1039
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:09,680
And it was the way that we're saying it.

1040
00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:14,160
Protesters like that, they almost have their own form of poetry that when you hear it,

1041
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:15,720
something's wrong with what they're saying.

1042
00:51:15,720 --> 00:51:23,280
And that was about the only thing that I really heard while we were walking along the road.

1043
00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:28,120
So any belief I want you to know is mental illness.

1044
00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:32,960
Something that's floating around in your brain.

1045
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:36,640
Science is the only thing that is constant.

1046
00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:39,680
Science has a hypothesis.

1047
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:43,040
You have to go through an entire hypothesis.

1048
00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:49,000
You have a thing where you have a certain amount of understanding of the world, so science

1049
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:50,000
kind of makes sense.

1050
00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:54,280
But you still have a belief in it by the end of the day.

1051
00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:59,240
But religion in general, when taken to the extreme, definitely is a problem.

1052
00:51:59,240 --> 00:52:00,400
Mentally.

1053
00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:05,360
And I had to realize this, you guys.

1054
00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:06,360
Okay.

1055
00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:09,640
So I was born into a Baptist cult.

1056
00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:14,960
My dad just recently told me to listen to Andrew Tate.

1057
00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:17,080
I quit speaking to my dad.

1058
00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:21,280
I went to Riodosa, New Mexico to take care of my dad.

1059
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:28,160
And I realized the reason I'm suffering is because this fucker is constantly talking.

1060
00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:32,400
I mean, I was there and they played Trump the entire time.

1061
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:37,280
My stepmother was like, we need to kill the Democrats.

1062
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:38,280
Kill them.

1063
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:39,280
You both come back, pick dogs.

1064
00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:45,000
Yeah, I mean, this is the shit I grew up with.

1065
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:50,600
And I just woke up one day and I said, no more.

1066
00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:51,600
I'm done.

1067
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:55,560
I mean, I was in middle school and they were talking about what the Republican Party was

1068
00:52:55,560 --> 00:52:56,560
doing at the time.

1069
00:52:56,560 --> 00:52:59,480
And I was like, that doesn't make sense.

1070
00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:03,360
I'm supposed to be like nice to people.

1071
00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:05,360
And that's all that converted me.

1072
00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:07,160
It was super easy.

1073
00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:12,360
Well they, this is what, and I won't talk about politics too much because it's all about

1074
00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:13,360
beliefs.

1075
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:14,360
Right.

1076
00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:15,480
It's all about beliefs.

1077
00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:20,840
And all Washington DC does is raise money.

1078
00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:23,400
How many emails have you guys gotten?

1079
00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:30,480
I get inundated with emails and texts, donate, donate, donate so we can win.

1080
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:32,360
It's all a crock of shit.

1081
00:53:32,360 --> 00:53:33,920
My amulets get the same thing too.

1082
00:53:33,920 --> 00:53:37,120
But I'll tell you this, I don't have my fingers in any of those polls.

1083
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:38,120
Thank goodness.

1084
00:53:38,120 --> 00:53:44,600
The only thing that I'm getting is the same three commercials on YouTube.

1085
00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:48,120
Because you know, YouTube ads, they're gonna show up.

1086
00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:49,120
Commercials on YouTube?

1087
00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:50,120
Oh yeah.

1088
00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:51,120
Yeah.

1089
00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:52,840
I'm gonna send you something later.

1090
00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:54,320
We'll talk about this afterwards.

1091
00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:56,000
We'll get rid of those.

1092
00:53:56,000 --> 00:53:57,560
That's it.

1093
00:53:57,560 --> 00:53:59,640
All my phone though, that's the problem.

1094
00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:01,920
I don't have a good ad block on my phone.

1095
00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:02,920
On my computer though.

1096
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:03,920
Yes.

1097
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:05,920
Now, I'm talking about the phone.

1098
00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:08,880
I don't use a computer.

1099
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:10,880
I'll listen to that.

1100
00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:21,560
Me and Claudia haven't been having ads since they killed YouTube Vans back in 2001.

1101
00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:23,680
And we only had ads for like a month.

1102
00:54:23,680 --> 00:54:25,120
And I was like, I ain't doing this.

1103
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:26,120
This sucks.

1104
00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:27,120
Okay.

1105
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:28,120
Yeah.

1106
00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:29,120
Cool.

1107
00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:31,800
Because yeah, that's one of the most things I've listened to.

1108
00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:33,480
Young people.

1109
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:37,040
This is why I vibe with young people.

1110
00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:39,440
I'm 55.

1111
00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:43,360
And I have a very select group of women that I hang with.

1112
00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:48,440
And they are all living and vibing, taking care of themselves.

1113
00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:52,960
Their husbands are doing whatever their thing.

1114
00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:56,200
You know, my husband's doing his thing.

1115
00:54:56,200 --> 00:55:02,240
Everybody is doing their thing because the capitalist idea of a relationship doesn't

1116
00:55:02,240 --> 00:55:03,240
work.

1117
00:55:03,240 --> 00:55:09,600
And yelling at your partner because they haven't done A, B, and C when you still have A, B,

1118
00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:13,000
and C to do, it's not your business.

1119
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:14,000
You know what I'm saying?

1120
00:55:14,000 --> 00:55:15,000
That's the kind of relationship I want.

1121
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:16,000
I am man.

1122
00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:19,000
And I sit in recliner when I get home from work.

1123
00:55:19,000 --> 00:55:20,440
I worked all day.

1124
00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:22,640
So I don't do laundry.

1125
00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:23,720
Whose kids are these?

1126
00:55:23,720 --> 00:55:24,720
I don't know.

1127
00:55:24,720 --> 00:55:26,360
I may have participated.

1128
00:55:26,360 --> 00:55:27,360
Yeah.

1129
00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:35,600
I actually have found myself in a situation where I am doing most of the laundry and cooking

1130
00:55:35,600 --> 00:55:39,880
simply because of the fact that Marley's schedule doesn't allow her to do that at night when

1131
00:55:39,880 --> 00:55:40,880
she gets home.

1132
00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:42,720
She's getting home at like 9 o'clock.

1133
00:55:42,720 --> 00:55:46,040
We both got to be in bed by like maybe 10, 30, 11 o'clock.

1134
00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:51,360
So like to think that we could switch back and forth for her is like, OK, well, I know

1135
00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:55,840
I cooked dinner last night, but you know, you got to cook dinner the next night.

1136
00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:57,760
That's never going to work for us.

1137
00:55:57,760 --> 00:56:01,560
And so I bring my strength to the table.

1138
00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:04,880
She brings her strength to the table.

1139
00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:08,480
And you know, mine just happens to be the things that like some guys would be going,

1140
00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:10,560
wow, you're cooking and cleaning most of the time.

1141
00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:12,400
Like why are you doing that?

1142
00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:15,840
And luckily I don't have the kind of friends that ask me that.

1143
00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:16,840
Yeah, me either.

1144
00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:17,840
I think I used to.

1145
00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:18,840
That makes sense.

1146
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:21,360
I used to.

1147
00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:24,040
And part of the reason why I'm glad I moved states.

1148
00:56:24,040 --> 00:56:27,640
It was part of the problem while I was there.

1149
00:56:27,640 --> 00:56:31,560
I think it was also I mean, at the end of the day, as long as you're using communication

1150
00:56:31,560 --> 00:56:33,920
with your partner, you're good, man.

1151
00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:35,080
Yeah.

1152
00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:38,400
And if they're not using communications with their partner, they're not.

1153
00:56:38,400 --> 00:56:40,040
It's on them.

1154
00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:44,440
You know, I have a Google reminder on my phone that comes in every day for 30.

1155
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:47,000
Ask Marley what she wants for dinner.

1156
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:49,720
And sometimes we've already settled it.

1157
00:56:49,720 --> 00:56:53,320
Sometimes none of us have thought about it because, you know, nothing got thought out

1158
00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:55,160
the day before or anything like that.

1159
00:56:55,160 --> 00:56:58,200
And so we both know that we're probably going to Wendy's.

1160
00:56:58,200 --> 00:57:03,320
But that little thing, that little reminder was like one of the best things I think I've

1161
00:57:03,320 --> 00:57:04,320
done.

1162
00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:06,520
It's been on my phone now for a year.

1163
00:57:06,520 --> 00:57:11,160
And that has fostered like a little bit of like mid afternoon conversation.

1164
00:57:11,160 --> 00:57:13,600
If she can, sometimes she can't get to the phone.

1165
00:57:13,600 --> 00:57:14,800
But a lot of times it's just a text.

1166
00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:16,800
It's like, Hey, I got this set out.

1167
00:57:16,800 --> 00:57:18,720
What do you want me to do with it?

1168
00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:19,960
And that works.

1169
00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:21,360
It's a great idea.

1170
00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:22,360
It was a great idea.

1171
00:57:22,360 --> 00:57:26,080
I can't, I can't pat myself enough on the back for that one.

1172
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:27,080
You know what?

1173
00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:29,320
I am proud of you.

1174
00:57:29,320 --> 00:57:30,600
Just the little things.

1175
00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:34,120
I'll tell you what used to set me off.

1176
00:57:34,120 --> 00:57:41,960
My husband, I would send him a text, Hey, let's go to a movie or let's do something.

1177
00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:44,960
And he would always text back.

1178
00:57:44,960 --> 00:57:47,280
Maybe.

1179
00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:50,880
And I felt ick every time he did that.

1180
00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:54,400
Yeah, such a milk toast response every single time.

1181
00:57:54,400 --> 00:57:57,360
Never asked me if I wanted to go to a movie.

1182
00:57:57,360 --> 00:57:58,360
I'm sorry.

1183
00:57:58,360 --> 00:58:00,160
You need to be dated.

1184
00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:01,160
Yeah.

1185
00:58:01,160 --> 00:58:03,520
You need to be taken out.

1186
00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:05,720
Unfortunately for me, I used to do that sort of thing.

1187
00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:09,480
I used to be the sort of person that's like, Hey, we can't do that sort of thing.

1188
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:12,640
We're not actually going to go out or I'm the one that's stopping it and not really

1189
00:58:12,640 --> 00:58:15,000
bringing things up.

1190
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:16,440
Personally it was just money.

1191
00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:20,560
And now I kind of just gave up and we could do stuff that's not expensive, but most of

1192
00:58:20,560 --> 00:58:23,000
the time for me personally, it's just money.

1193
00:58:23,000 --> 00:58:25,560
If we can't afford it, we're not going to go out.

1194
00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:30,120
But I'm trying to figure out that stuff on myself because I'm not going to be poor forever

1195
00:58:30,120 --> 00:58:37,120
and going to like Wendy's and sitting down inside isn't going to change anything.

1196
00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:38,840
But it'll fix things.

1197
00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:39,840
Yeah.

1198
00:58:39,840 --> 00:58:40,840
Yeah.

1199
00:58:40,840 --> 00:58:44,360
I mean, the fact that you're even going to suggest something else after the word no,

1200
00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:45,360
which is important.

1201
00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:49,080
I went into my second marriage saying, I'm never going to say the word no.

1202
00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:52,600
It took me four months to realize that that was a bad idea and I was hurting myself and

1203
00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:58,320
her by not really like adding any bit of me into it.

1204
00:58:58,320 --> 00:59:02,760
And that's what, you know, after saying no and saying, Hey, maybe we can do this instead.

1205
00:59:02,760 --> 00:59:05,480
Like, you know, ain't got the money or what have you.

1206
00:59:05,480 --> 00:59:08,880
So yeah, we went full circle, man.

1207
00:59:08,880 --> 00:59:12,240
We discussed Sam and the SCP.

1208
00:59:12,240 --> 00:59:13,240
Is it?

1209
00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:14,240
Yeah, you can.

1210
00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:15,240
There you go.

1211
00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:16,240
The SCP foundation.

1212
00:59:16,240 --> 00:59:17,240
And I'm going to look that up.

1213
00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:18,240
I'm going to educate myself on that.

1214
00:59:18,240 --> 00:59:21,120
There's a lot of communication.

1215
00:59:21,120 --> 00:59:27,480
Not being scared to indulge in emotional concepts with men.

1216
00:59:27,480 --> 00:59:28,760
Yeah.

1217
00:59:28,760 --> 00:59:30,160
Yeah.

1218
00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:34,080
Finding a way to watch YouTube without ads.

1219
00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:37,040
I feel like we got, we all got a little bit of this conversation like this.

1220
00:59:37,040 --> 00:59:38,040
There we go.

1221
00:59:38,040 --> 00:59:39,040
I think that's good.

1222
00:59:39,040 --> 00:59:40,520
We had a great time.

1223
00:59:40,520 --> 00:59:41,520
I had a great time.

1224
00:59:41,520 --> 00:59:43,520
Sam, you are so nice.

1225
00:59:43,520 --> 00:59:45,020
I like you so much.

1226
00:59:45,020 --> 00:59:46,020
I thought you liked Sam much.

1227
00:59:46,020 --> 00:59:48,760
I would say you were pretty, but actually, you know what?

1228
00:59:48,760 --> 00:59:50,840
You are very pretty, Miss Edith.

1229
00:59:50,840 --> 00:59:51,840
This is the end of the conversation.

1230
00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:52,840
You waited until the end of the conversation.

1231
00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:53,840
Yeah, that's good.

1232
00:59:53,840 --> 00:59:54,840
You didn't lead off with that.

1233
00:59:54,840 --> 00:59:55,840
You didn't open up a book and go, wow.

1234
00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:56,840
No.

1235
00:59:56,840 --> 00:59:57,840
You know, the old dude.

1236
00:59:57,840 --> 01:00:12,800
The guy was a little old dude from the, I guess he was, the guy was from the, oh

1237
01:00:12,800 --> 01:00:16,600
God, he was born in like the thirties.

1238
01:00:16,600 --> 01:00:20,960
I mean, that was, they didn't, they didn't use their minds.

1239
01:00:20,960 --> 01:00:22,600
They just looked at shit.

1240
01:00:22,600 --> 01:00:23,600
Yeah.

1241
01:00:23,600 --> 01:00:24,600
Okay.

1242
01:00:24,600 --> 01:00:25,600
I like you.

1243
01:00:25,600 --> 01:00:26,600
Okay.

1244
01:00:26,600 --> 01:00:31,600
I'll put my winky wink in your, that's what they did.

1245
01:00:31,600 --> 01:00:32,600
Right?

1246
01:00:32,600 --> 01:00:33,600
Right?

1247
01:00:33,600 --> 01:00:34,600
That's why we have HR.

1248
01:00:34,600 --> 01:00:37,600
It's pretty fun.

1249
01:00:37,600 --> 01:00:38,600
It's a national pastime.

1250
01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:39,600
Men just.

1251
01:00:39,600 --> 01:00:40,600
Keeps the world going around.

1252
01:00:40,600 --> 01:00:41,600
Couple of pumps.

1253
01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:42,600
True.

1254
01:00:42,600 --> 01:00:43,600
A couple of pumps.

1255
01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:49,800
Oh, that's all I'm ever getting is a couple of pumps.

1256
01:00:49,800 --> 01:00:50,800
Okay.

1257
01:00:50,800 --> 01:00:51,800
Any more than that.

1258
01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:55,400
And I'm probably going to have like a slip disc, a hernia or something.

1259
01:00:55,400 --> 01:00:58,680
I'm in there and out so quickly.

1260
01:00:58,680 --> 01:01:01,160
Oh, it's for your health.

1261
01:01:01,160 --> 01:01:02,160
That's what I'm hearing.

1262
01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:03,160
Good for you.

1263
01:01:03,160 --> 01:01:06,200
I like a good 20 minutes of a good.

1264
01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:09,880
That's what world record is.

1265
01:01:09,880 --> 01:01:14,480
I'm giving that least of 45 seconds to do, Jesus Christ.

1266
01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:16,640
Like there's a sandwich I got to make.

1267
01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:18,480
Then I want to have a conversation.

1268
01:01:18,480 --> 01:01:21,880
That's why I'm going to clean the house.

1269
01:01:21,880 --> 01:01:26,480
I mean, we can get it in and out quickly, you know.

1270
01:01:26,480 --> 01:01:27,480
Man.

1271
01:01:27,480 --> 01:01:28,800
Now, I will say this.

1272
01:01:28,800 --> 01:01:33,600
After, afterwards, some cuddling and conversation is actually one of the things that I do thoroughly

1273
01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:34,600
enjoy.

1274
01:01:34,600 --> 01:01:39,800
It's because one of the reasons why I like Marley so much is she's such a touch and

1275
01:01:39,800 --> 01:01:40,800
talk person.

1276
01:01:40,800 --> 01:01:44,280
So it works very well with us.

1277
01:01:44,280 --> 01:01:48,920
But as I've told her before, I'm not going too many details into our life when it comes

1278
01:01:48,920 --> 01:01:52,320
to that because as I've said before, this is my podcast, not hers.

1279
01:01:52,320 --> 01:01:53,320
Yep.

1280
01:01:53,320 --> 01:01:54,320
And that's it.

1281
01:01:54,320 --> 01:02:00,320
Opening up completely on this sort of thing feels a little weird and I'm still not there

1282
01:02:00,320 --> 01:02:02,320
yet, but it's a practice.

1283
01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:03,320
You get there.

1284
01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:04,320
You get there.

1285
01:02:04,320 --> 01:02:09,680
You can't really open up completely the ass part of life.

1286
01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:13,760
Until you get out and spread out.

1287
01:02:13,760 --> 01:02:14,760
Okay.

1288
01:02:14,760 --> 01:02:16,760
So that's why I thought this was going.

1289
01:02:16,760 --> 01:02:17,760
Good job, guys.

1290
01:02:17,760 --> 01:02:18,760
Good job.

1291
01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:19,760
It's a full circle.

1292
01:02:19,760 --> 01:02:21,760
That is really in the full circle.

1293
01:02:21,760 --> 01:02:22,760
All right, guys.

1294
01:02:22,760 --> 01:02:24,960
I love you guys so much.

1295
01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:28,200
I'm so glad I got both of you in the same room, so to speak.

1296
01:02:28,200 --> 01:02:29,200
Yep.

1297
01:02:29,200 --> 01:02:30,200
All right.

1298
01:02:30,200 --> 01:02:34,800
Maybe at the end of October.

1299
01:02:34,800 --> 01:02:40,800
Do you want to give your sign out, your normal sign out, with the people expect from you?

1300
01:02:40,800 --> 01:02:43,120
I always say, hello, darlings.

1301
01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:44,120
Peace out.

1302
01:02:44,120 --> 01:02:46,120
Word to your mother.

1303
01:02:46,120 --> 01:02:48,120
And tell her I said hello.

1304
01:02:48,120 --> 01:02:49,520
Yeah, there we go.

1305
01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:51,520
I'll talk to you guys later.

1306
01:02:51,520 --> 01:02:52,520
Peace.

1307
01:02:52,520 --> 01:02:53,520
Bye.

1308
01:02:53,520 --> 01:03:07,800
Bye.