1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:04,560 We're having technical difficulties, ladies and gentlemen. 2 00:00:04,560 --> 00:00:06,560 I like my back state. 3 00:00:06,560 --> 00:00:07,560 How do you like it? 4 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:10,000 I'm digging the arch. 5 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:12,000 I'm a big fan of black and white art and general. 6 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:13,440 I'm seeing Salvador Dali. 7 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:18,000 There's a lot of cool things to look at the back behind you right now, 8 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:20,560 which there is more behind me than there normally is. 9 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:23,520 But that's because I'm house sitting in a nice house with two big dogs in it. 10 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:23,920 So. 11 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:26,000 Isn't it great to be mobile? 12 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:27,120 Isn't it great? 13 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:32,160 And to be somewhere new, to experience new things, it's always a pleasure. 14 00:00:32,160 --> 00:00:35,200 I'm super excited for the podcast tonight. 15 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:39,600 Again, it's Edith Ivey Rosenblatt with Michael LeBlanc. 16 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:44,800 And we are bisexual coffee. 17 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:49,440 It's only $7 and won't break the bank. 18 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:50,160 Yeah. 19 00:00:50,160 --> 00:00:55,440 I mean, to be honest with you, there really isn't a question in what else you should have. 20 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:57,680 You go into a coffee shop, that's what you get it. 21 00:00:57,680 --> 00:00:58,320 You know what? 22 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:00,160 That's going to be the best kind of coffee. 23 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:02,640 It's bisexual. 24 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:03,520 Absolutely. 25 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:09,040 There's a meme that I found on Reddit and it was talking about bisexual coffee. 26 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:16,080 And I clipped it, I shared it, and it captured the imagination of 2.4 million people on my 27 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:20,240 Instagram because they all got down with bisexual coffee memes. 28 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:22,000 You know what? 29 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:24,720 Because everybody can identify with it. 30 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:25,040 Right? 31 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:26,080 I wish I made it myself. 32 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:26,640 Because it's the truth. 33 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:28,240 But yeah, definitely. 34 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:30,880 And there was basically the whole punchline of it. 35 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:36,240 It was, you know, you could either stand in line and have a bisexual make you your coffee 36 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:40,720 or you can go home and make coffee yourself, which turns out a bisexual still made the coffee. 37 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:42,000 And I was like, haha. 38 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:43,440 That's right. 39 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:44,240 That's great. 40 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:47,040 Everybody's a little bisexual. 41 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:47,760 I just love it. 42 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:49,200 They just don't know it yet. 43 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:50,480 You just need to embrace it. 44 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:53,440 But no, I don't want to, I guess, straight shame. 45 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:56,960 Some people just don't have that itch, that urge. 46 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:58,320 They only look at one way. 47 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:00,400 Maybe they'll change in their life. 48 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:03,520 No one person stays the same thing throughout the entire life. 49 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:04,160 And you'll find love. 50 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:04,960 That's nirvana. 51 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:05,760 Wow, this place. 52 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:06,960 That's true. 53 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:07,680 Absolutely. 54 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:14,800 It is the cycle of life where you're dying and coming back to life over and over and over again. 55 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:19,360 You're finding out ways to live better each and every time, hopefully. 56 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:19,680 Right. 57 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:20,880 Absolutely. 58 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:23,680 And it's a first, second there. 59 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:28,720 And it only took me a split second for me to realize that you were not talking about 60 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:30,800 curcobane, but I'm right there with you now. 61 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:31,280 Yeah. 62 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:33,840 So Edith, you don't think he's come back? 63 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:35,120 You don't think he's come back? 64 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:36,560 What is he, the grunge Jesus? 65 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:37,440 Is he back now? 66 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:38,080 Yeah. 67 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:40,080 He's here to absolve us of all of our plans. 68 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:41,520 I think so. 69 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:42,800 I think he is back. 70 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:48,240 But if you ask me who is grunge Jesus in this moment, I wouldn't know. 71 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:49,280 Yeah. 72 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:52,720 I've been on the road for days, darling. 73 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:54,400 I've been traveling, you see. 74 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:55,760 You have. 75 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:59,680 You have escaped the natural wildfires out there. 76 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:04,640 If anybody's out there and root, root, root, help me out here. 77 00:03:04,640 --> 00:03:05,040 Where were you? 78 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:07,840 We had do so New Mexico. 79 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:09,280 That's where I was living. 80 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:14,000 If anybody's out there by the time you guys listen to this, I hope that your property 81 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:18,960 withstood the wildfires that just decided to just take up and run. 82 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:24,960 I saw most of the devastation was to older homes, older homes. 83 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:26,960 The newer homes were still standing. 84 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:34,480 So got the Alto as a village probably north of me and they got the worst of everything. 85 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:35,680 So. 86 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:39,680 Oh, well, I hope it's not too bad. 87 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:42,560 I don't know anything about the injuries or anything. 88 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:44,480 If anything was, I think everybody got evacuated. 89 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:46,960 It sounded like everybody got evacuated at a pretty good time. 90 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:49,520 Like nobody was really caught by surprise. 91 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:54,720 And it was wild because it actually affected some of the work that we have here in Georgia 92 00:03:54,720 --> 00:04:02,240 because we work with people who are over there in Arizona, Nevada, Texas, but basically Texas over 93 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:04,480 not all the way into California yet. 94 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:07,360 We can't justify going out all the way out in California yet. 95 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:08,880 But you know, somebody was like, yeah. 96 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:11,680 There's an app called watch duty. 97 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:12,000 Yeah. 98 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:13,920 I apologize for interrupting you. 99 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:15,200 I just wanted to let you know. 100 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:22,960 There is an app called watch duty and it tells you about all the fires in the United States of America. 101 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:27,680 Every one of them, how they're blazing, what can be expected. 102 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:39,040 And it's updated by volunteers, people who have been firemen or EMS or and they go and they assess the fires. 103 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:45,440 Actually, mostly a lot of those fires are fought by people who volunteer. 104 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:46,960 They're not even getting paid. 105 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:51,840 Bless the volunteers in general because I mean, there are people out there who 106 00:04:51,840 --> 00:04:52,640 Volunteers. 107 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:53,040 Yeah. 108 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:53,440 Yeah. 109 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:56,960 Who have a passion for going out there, make sure everybody stays safe. 110 00:04:56,960 --> 00:05:03,360 I've thankfully never been in a fire situation, but I can only hope that if I do, there are people out there 111 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:05,520 willing to help me out in the same way. 112 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:08,400 Can I tell you what I learned? 113 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:09,360 You sure can. 114 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:11,760 Nothing fucking matters. 115 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:14,800 I thought you were just going to stop with the start of the word nothing. 116 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:15,600 Yeah. 117 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:16,720 Well, okay. 118 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:18,720 Let me elaborate on that a little bit. 119 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:29,520 Anything that would normally bring you suffering, anything that would like, you know, coming out for me last year was really painful. 120 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:34,400 And I don't know why I thought my friends wouldn't accept me. 121 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:39,360 My friends that I had, didn't accept me. 122 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:49,360 But the new friends that I've made like you, Kitty Rebellion, Mel the Podcaster, Freakbase, just to name a few. 123 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:51,360 They want to see me do well. 124 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:53,360 Adam A. Vittable, I'm really excited. 125 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:55,360 I really want you to meet him too. 126 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:57,360 You'll love him to pieces. 127 00:05:57,360 --> 00:06:03,360 But these, yeah, these people want you to do well. 128 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:12,320 Instead of what I've experienced my whole life has been competition and people who didn't want me to do well. 129 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:14,320 Well, that matters. 130 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:16,320 We are just kind of like lips in the pan, aren't we? 131 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:28,320 We just have to enjoy our time here, make the best out of it, try not to dwell, keep moving forward, find people who are decent to be around because life's too short to be around assholes. 132 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:30,320 Find your high-vibed tribe. 133 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:46,320 Find the people that don't reside in anger all the time or frustration or victimhood or because what I've noticed is being around that group of people kept me stuck. 134 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:50,320 You could feel that they didn't want you to do well. 135 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:52,320 You could feel it somehow. 136 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:54,320 It's like a cloud. 137 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:56,320 It's like a miasma that just kind of weighs you down. 138 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:58,320 I've got a friend of mine, a very recent friend. 139 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:02,320 I met him at work and at first he was kind of standoffish. 140 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:06,320 I thought he was kind of an asshole actually and I don't know how he felt about me. 141 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:10,320 He's never really told me about the first inklings of how he felt about me. 142 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:14,320 But like after we got the talk, talking, he said that to me. 143 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:18,320 He was like, you've got that energy. 144 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:20,320 You've got that fit. 145 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:22,320 You're one of my tribe. 146 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:30,320 I had known him maybe like three months at that point and it felt so cool at that point because I was already kind of feeling that way. 147 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:40,320 We had enough differences to make conversations interesting but we had enough similarities that we could also kind of geek out about some stuff. 148 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:50,320 It was like one of the first few times in my adult life that I had made a friend that it wasn't like a romantic connection that I was looking for or anything like that. 149 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:52,320 It was just like a work friend. 150 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:56,320 It was an actual friend that happened and it felt really good. 151 00:07:56,320 --> 00:08:08,320 I'd have to say over the last four years I've been working on doing that myself because I live in a completely different state than I did five, six years ago. 152 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:10,320 Literally, actual state. 153 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:16,320 Can you tell me a little bit about the state that you were in five years ago? 154 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:21,320 It's going to be over six years now. I have such a hard time tracking time just over things. 155 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:23,320 Let's say six years right now. 156 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:25,320 Literally, I was in a different state. 157 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:34,320 I was in South Carolina but I was in a, there were a lot of other metaphysical states that I was in like depression, being overweight. 158 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:37,320 I had diabetes that was creeping up in me and I didn't know it. 159 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:41,320 It's just been divorced a couple of years past with my mom. 160 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:44,320 Yeah, I was just wondering what was going on. 161 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:46,320 Yeah, I saw ahead. 162 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:48,320 I was like, somebody's working in the background for you. 163 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:54,320 I'm a couple of years at that point into my mom just having passed and everything. 164 00:08:54,320 --> 00:09:00,320 Sure, I was in South Carolina but I wasn't dealing with any of my loss. 165 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:12,320 I was just surviving, wearing really loose clothing over my body just to hide the weight, cutting off my hair because I didn't want to deal with it and just living, just trying to survive. 166 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:19,320 I was finding the right people after my mom passed, after my separation, well, during my separation. 167 00:09:19,320 --> 00:09:36,320 That really set me on a path to where I am now where I seek out people with fantastic energy and I talked to people to learn how to face my problems instead of just letting them own me, being more open with my sexuality. 168 00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:42,320 Actually, I'm actually wearing the Nautica Pride shirt that I found in Belk. 169 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:44,320 It was the only one. 170 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:45,320 I love it. 171 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:47,320 Yeah, it looks excellent. 172 00:09:47,320 --> 00:09:49,320 It was the only one there left. 173 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:50,320 It was in clearance. 174 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:52,320 It was hiding behind shirts and it fit me exactly. 175 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:55,320 Like I was like, I was made for you. 176 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:59,320 Yeah, and I wore this to Pride with a whole bunch of other things. 177 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:03,320 Actually, I'd love to send you a couple of photos if you want to kind of like splash them on the screen. 178 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:04,320 I would love that. 179 00:10:04,320 --> 00:10:05,320 Absolutely. 180 00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:07,320 Share your Pride experience. 181 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:08,320 Would you please? 182 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:10,320 I would like to hear all about it. 183 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:14,320 First off, it was my first Pride event ever. 184 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:19,320 And I'd like to thank the people who I've been talking to first and foremost. 185 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:29,320 And I've been doing a lot of thinking about this and trying to really not really tally all the queer people in my life, but I don't have a lot of queer people in my life that aren't family. 186 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:41,320 Specifically the family that I married into, if any of my actual blood family is queer at all, it's not something they're willing to share because I've got bigots and scared people all throughout my actual blood family. 187 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:45,320 But I don't have a lot of actual queer friends. 188 00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:48,320 And which is why like... 189 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:49,320 You have me. 190 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:50,320 You have me. 191 00:10:50,320 --> 00:11:06,320 You were the first that I can think of because I've made acquaintances of the years and I got along with them famously, but nobody who I was able to actually just sit down and talk to get to know the way that I have you. 192 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:20,320 Because of me talking to you and at the time in your life and being able to interview you like after you have come through your revelations and you would start coming out and everything and coming into your own and realizing your own energy. 193 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:30,320 I was like, I've known for so long that I'm by and I'm not trying to be part of a community. 194 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:39,320 You don't have to be part of Pride, but if it's something that you want to do, if you want to... 195 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:42,320 This is what I'm telling myself like a month or so ago. 196 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:59,320 I was like, I don't have to be a part of Pride, but if I really want to celebrate who I am instead of just kind of shrugging whenever anybody asks, you know, if anybody asks or just keeping it all to myself when there's literally a whole month of not having to be part of Pride. 197 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:09,320 If you're like a whole month of not keeping to yourself and remembering those who were before us who had to be quiet. 198 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:11,320 And you picked us. 199 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:17,320 Yeah. And I'm like, I have to. It started to become like a need for me. 200 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:20,320 And so the cool thing about that as well, I was going through that. 201 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:23,320 I was talking to my wife and I'm like, hey, I want to go to Pride. 202 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:30,320 I'm like, all right, let's do this. I don't know if I'm going to be off, but if I can't get off, I want you to go. Like, we'll get you an outfit and everything together. 203 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:37,320 Right. That's the kind of love you want to be around is the one that fosters the person that you are. 204 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:42,320 The one that says, hey, go ahead, grow and love yourself. 205 00:12:42,320 --> 00:12:51,320 Now, I believe Marley understands truly what it's like to be repressed and have somebody tell her, hey, you can't be you. 206 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:58,320 Yeah. She knows how she's had people try to tell her that, which is why she was never in a serious relationship before she met me. 207 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:02,320 Too many people were trying to be like, okay, you're basically a token female on my arm. 208 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:06,320 Like she had a, she had a couple of dates with this one guy. 209 00:13:06,320 --> 00:13:11,320 Every single date was about, okay, we're going to do whatever we're going to do. 210 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:15,320 But mostly I need to make sure I can hear the football game every time you can just hang out with me. 211 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:18,320 And so, you know, that's essentially what it is. 212 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:23,320 My mom's not here. Could you just sit there? Look pretty. Be nice. 213 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:25,320 But I'm going to do what I want to do. 214 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:34,320 Yeah. Yeah. Let's, let's eat in silence at the bar while I sit there and stare at a TV, you know, and she was like, I need somebody who's a little bit more complicated than that, 215 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:38,320 who actually appreciates me for the person who I know that I can be. 216 00:13:38,320 --> 00:13:42,320 And not even the person that I know that I can't, the person that I am now, damn it. 217 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:52,320 Like, you know, and she's such a, she's such a force and that comes out in so many like passionate ways, including fighting. 218 00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:56,320 You know, she's one of those people that if I'm agreeing with her all the time, something's wrong. 219 00:13:56,320 --> 00:14:00,320 She needs to know that, you know, she can't possibly be right all the time. 220 00:14:00,320 --> 00:14:05,320 There's got to be some balance in this world. She wants somebody to help her reminder of that. 221 00:14:05,320 --> 00:14:16,320 When did it become blasphemous to tell your partner, Hey, you know, maybe you shouldn't fry the hamburger like that. 222 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:24,320 Maybe it's going to come out. You could flip it twice and hope for the best, but don't leave it in the pan to continue. I've done that. 223 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:26,320 Yeah. And let's not get offended. 224 00:14:26,320 --> 00:14:42,320 The domestic traits that have caused fights like me washing this one. I swear to God, I thought she was going to like, like come down and bring the wrath of all the gods above us down on me. 225 00:14:42,320 --> 00:14:55,320 She comes out there and I'm washing the car with her grandmother's green washcloth, one of one of her set out of a set and she just, she, she, I've never say I've never seen her turn that color. 226 00:14:55,320 --> 00:15:04,320 Purple since then. And she was quick to let me know that I was wrong. And I just, at this point, I've had a couple of fights with her. None is, none is where she was angry at that. 227 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:08,320 I just, I just let her say it. I just, I took it all. 228 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:09,320 It must be important. 229 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:10,320 Yes. 230 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:16,320 And that's exactly what I thought. And so I just took it out. I was like, I am so sorry. She's like, I bet you are. 231 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:25,320 She ran off and she, she, she cooled down for a moment because she realized that she really wasn't saying anything at that point. She was just screaming. 232 00:15:25,320 --> 00:15:27,320 She was just frustrated at that point. 233 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:37,320 And she came back to me. She's like, she's like, I'm still mad at you. And I was like, and previous fights that I've had with people, I expect like both of us to say I'm sorry. 234 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:43,320 But I realized at that point, I fucked up like, I was the one to say sorry at that point. 235 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:46,320 For a motion, for a motion. 236 00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:47,320 Yeah. 237 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:59,320 Wouldn't you say that in a relationship, where we've gotten is that when I've noticed is when you're communicating your feelings. 238 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:12,320 And the other choose the other person chooses to misunderstand. Like, it's kind of a choice at that point. Like, if you had said, well, who gives a shit about these dirty, nasty old washcloths anyway. 239 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:16,320 You know what I mean? That would be invalidating her feelings. 240 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:21,320 I really, she was just getting frustrated because she didn't want to use the washcloths. 241 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:32,320 She was in the right. And I will say this. And this is something that I learned. I was kind of a heathen. When we first got together, I knew nothing of proper towels and proper cloths for different things. 242 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:37,320 I had no idea what a duvet was. I still thought a trivet was pronounced trivet. 243 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:51,320 There are things that I've learned over the last four or five years. This particular washcloth I picked because it was so pristine, because it was a very well put together. 244 00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:52,320 Yeah. 245 00:16:52,320 --> 00:17:06,320 I didn't think about it. I was like, it's a cloth in the house. And it was an eye opener for me that, yes, we are together, but there are going to be things that we are going to hold in value that the other person just either a won't understand. 246 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:12,320 Or be, you know, doesn't want to understand because it's not in their, it's not in their sphere. They know it's important to them. 247 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:13,320 It's not in their realm. 248 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:14,320 Yeah. 249 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:19,320 Yeah. They don't necessarily have to cherish it the same way that the other person does, but respect still has to be there. 250 00:17:19,320 --> 00:17:21,320 So, thank you. 251 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:35,320 Well, no, haven't we all? I mean, I have done a lot of growing in regards to people too. What I was taught, what I was taught by my parents was that they were not going to be able to do anything. 252 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:44,320 What I was taught by my parents was that they didn't respect each other. My mom would want my dad to do something and my dad would ignore it. And then it would make my mother angry. 253 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:53,320 My dad would want my mom to do something. And when she didn't do it, he would come over to us and complain to us about mom. 254 00:17:53,320 --> 00:18:02,320 So, can you imagine the training that I got about relationships? It was all disrespecting people. 255 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:03,320 Yeah. 256 00:18:03,320 --> 00:18:12,320 Respect is love. That's what I was taught. And that's what a lot of people are taught is that you need to stand in your lane. 257 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:21,320 If somebody wants you to do something for them, you need to stay where you are. Don't communicate with them and don't do what they want. 258 00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:24,320 And that's neurodivergence right there. 259 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:25,320 Yeah. 260 00:18:25,320 --> 00:18:27,320 So, I had to unlearn that. 261 00:18:27,320 --> 00:18:54,320 That's a relationship schism that is hard to breach until you find someone I think that is wildly different from the people that you've known before, which is why I, as much as I really enjoy monogamy, there's something to be said for a serial monogamous path as well, because people change so much like in my first relationship. 262 00:18:54,320 --> 00:19:05,320 And it ended because of the way that we grew. We grew in different ways. I had things that I was talking about like future things, buying a house and whatnot. She didn't want to get that serious. 263 00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:13,320 I mean, it had been 14, 15 years, she didn't want to get that serious. There were other things that she still wanted to do. And she saw that as like a limitation. 264 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:25,320 And so that relationship ends and then I find somebody who challenges me where I am now and the growth that I'm doing. And I mean, there are things that she's learned. 265 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:29,320 And like I said, I'm her first serious relationship. 266 00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:43,320 Like so she's like talking about like therapy and whatnot, just to make sure that, you know, we both are emotionally responsible enough to talk to somebody else and go, Hey, is this normal instead of just going, of course, this is normal. 267 00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:50,320 And then like build like either weird resentments or weird ways of coping that we don't tell the other one because they're spear. 268 00:19:50,320 --> 00:20:00,320 Like she's doing a lot of growing with that as well. It's cool to grow with somebody. And that's what a relationship should be. You don't, you don't just meet somebody and go, All right, this is it. 269 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:07,320 This is how the relationship looks. No, it starts to change and it starts to grow and it starts to meld. And all of a sudden you're doing this on camera. 270 00:20:07,320 --> 00:20:28,320 It's so cool. When you do it, and this is where everything that I've ever been taught, the letting go, okay, the high vibe, the staying in a place of love, the meditation exercise, just communications going to be at the very, very top. 271 00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:47,320 Absolutely. Now when I'm with my dear friend that I've known for over 25 years, and we've just recently, it's like we've been living separate lives, but growing together and just kind of calling each other and checking in with one another. 272 00:20:47,320 --> 00:21:02,320 And we'll talk about things we've learned and just experiences we've had. The letting go, we've done together. It's almost in tandem. Just the friendship just got stronger and stronger and stronger. 273 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:22,320 And I might add that I was the girlfriend of her husband's brother and, you know, just very naive. I didn't understand what was expected of me or I just was dumber than a bag of hammers. 274 00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:40,320 I hadn't experienced life. I hadn't talked to people. I hadn't tried to relate to anybody. I was very selfish in regards to, I'm already okay. I'm fine. I don't need any help. You know what I'm saying? 275 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:41,320 Yeah. 276 00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:42,320 She's over here laughing. 277 00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:43,320 Because it's true. 278 00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:56,320 I'm reminded of that meme and I'm sure you've seen it of that dog that's wearing the hat and he's in the middle of a bar. It's a little cartoon dog and the bar's on fire. And he's just sitting there calmly at a table and he's going, this is fine. This is fine. 279 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:57,320 Everything's fine. 280 00:21:57,320 --> 00:22:12,320 Yeah. There's no need to worry about anything. I have all the coping mechanisms that I'll ever need. Nothing's ever going to change. And this, damn, okay. Yeah. I thought it was that too until I went to therapy. And I was like, I've got some things to do. 281 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:28,320 But to go back to your original question that led us to the relationship talk was, Marley was wildly enthusiastic about me going to Pride. And we went to Belk. I had a $70 belt card that I had for my birthday and I hadn't had a chance to use it yet. 282 00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:41,320 And so we went there and I was like, I don't want to just wear jeans and a t-shirt. This is my chance to wear something different. And so like, those are swimming trunks that fit well with the color and the shirt can to came. 283 00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:56,320 It was still very much my style and down to the like kind of floppy sun hat thing that I wear when I go walking. But Marley was able to find clothes because she got the day off. She got the actually the whole weekend off and she was able to find clothes that matched with that. 284 00:22:56,320 --> 00:23:14,320 And she was worried that they wouldn't get in on time, but they did tour. It came through and clutch shout out to sword. Everything came together. The outfit looked great. She walked around with my walking stick and this one little girl walked by and called her like a, like a gay witch or a queer sorceress or something like that. 285 00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:25,320 You know, Marley, yeah, Marley is, she is straight, but she, she didn't like wreck the girl. She's an ally though. She definitely is. Yeah, definitely is. 286 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:32,320 And I took the stick from her and I was like, all right, so what am I? You're a queer wizard. I'm like, yeah, damn right I am. 287 00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:47,320 You know, little kids, they just say whatever they do. It was great. It was a whole good time to rewind a little bit as we were getting dressed and getting ready and everything. She was like, do you want to do anything, makeup or anything? 288 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:58,320 And then we went to the hotel room and I was like, I was thinking about putting color in my beard and the color of the bisexual flag. I think that would be really cool. And she's like, okay, we'll see what we have. 289 00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:15,320 She picked up not only beard dye, like just day, like day or two beard dye, but also spray paint in case something didn't pick up right. And so I just let her go crazy with that because when it comes to like, she's done costuming for plays before and I've seen the things that she's pulled 290 00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:27,320 out of like the trash closet and make like these float some in jets and puppets for Ariel, a little mermaid. And the things that she does when she's, she's like the beautiful mind guy instead of seeing numbers and stuff. 291 00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:41,320 It's all costuming and makeup that's floating around when she looks at something. And so she gets my beard colored, right? This side was easy to do because the pink, I mean, it was blue, purple and then pink. 292 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:51,320 The pink on this side, it was just too bland. And so she was like holding up broke, tore Christmas cards over just the right spot. She's like, all right, hold these here. I want to spray it down. 293 00:24:51,320 --> 00:25:01,320 And then she looked at me. She's like, do you want to do anything else? I'm like, I like it when you do my eyeliner. And she's like, all right, screw it. She found the right eyeliner and I had blue eyeliner. 294 00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:09,320 And then she's like, you want any, you want any anything else? I'm like, what does it need? You know, because I'm trusting her. Like she's the one that sees my face. 295 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:17,320 Sure, I'm going to go out there, but she's not going to go out there and make me not representing my best self. She's like, I think a little bit of silver sparkle will go well. 296 00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:28,320 She's like, I don't necessarily like sparkle. She's like, I know, but I think it's going to work. And it did. It did. It was so good. I looked so cool. And then we go out there to the parade. It was. 297 00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:45,320 The pictures. Yeah. So, so fun. There was only one little little blip of people being protesting assholes, but they were doing it in that way that they're holding rainbow stuff, but they're saying stuff that was like rainbow is for faith, not for love or something like that. 298 00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:47,320 Like it was, it was like. 299 00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:49,320 So their message was skewed. 300 00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:50,320 Yeah. 301 00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:53,320 Yeah, it's a thing where it's like, yeah. 302 00:25:53,320 --> 00:26:03,320 And so, but that, but the cops broke that up pretty quickly. It's like, nah, man, this isn't what this is about. But of course we're in Augusta, Georgia in the middle in the beginning of summer. 303 00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:13,320 We got a lot of sun. We sweated it out. We drank not enough water. There was a festival afterwards where I got to interview people. I'm still working on that video because the audio is horrible. 304 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:15,320 And. 305 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:16,320 Add music. 306 00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:29,320 No, it was just, it's a new microphone that work gave us. They had extra microphones and it's a nice microphone. I just don't know how to use it yet. I should have stuck with a microphone that I knew, but I was like, oh, this will look good on camera. 307 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:37,320 But yes, the people who are there, who are representing, who are just being unabashedly themselves. 308 00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:56,320 Isn't it amazing? I went to Albuquerque Pride. Yeah, I'm glad you had a great time and you needed to have that good time. And I saw the pictures of the food and everything makes you a, and I saw your costume or your, you know, your pride outfit. 309 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:57,320 Yeah, I couldn't. 310 00:26:57,320 --> 00:26:59,320 I can't wait until it's louder. 311 00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:01,320 Well, I loud. 312 00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:20,320 I have grown up knowing that especially like I even when I was a teen, I knew this phrase that I'm chromophobic, like putting colors on myself was like clashing colors or two bright colors was not anything that was really interested in as a teen as I've gotten older. 313 00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:21,320 It's been a lot better. 314 00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:22,320 Right. 315 00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:25,320 I've been really rocking my bisexual laces. I love those damn things. 316 00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:34,320 I actually wore this shirt. This will tell you where I am in the mindset because, you know, I kind of work with some people who are more along the line at the conservative lean. 317 00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:39,320 I like their, yeah, by no means are they MAGA supporters or anything like that. 318 00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:46,320 But I was afraid of the idea of putting too much color on this month as the month has gone on. I might not screw it. 319 00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:57,320 I'm wearing this shirt, which says love is love on there with the rainbow on it and everything and my bisexual laces and my little beaded bracelet thing that has the color on there. 320 00:27:57,320 --> 00:28:00,320 And nobody gave me a second glance. Nobody gave you. 321 00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:02,320 No, people don't care. 322 00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:08,320 Like I said, they're too busy living their life doing what's right for them. 323 00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:24,320 And, you know, I stayed with a woman while the Riodoso, while Riodoso fires were burning and she was very much into politics and very much a Democrat. 324 00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:31,320 And I came out immediately because I don't, I don't, I want to know if you're going to be triggered. 325 00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:42,320 Just eliminate your ass right now. Okay. So I showed him my tattoo. I'm going to show it to you now. I don't think you've seen it. 326 00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:45,320 I got a tattoo. 327 00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:47,320 Yep. 328 00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:50,320 So I got a tattoo. Hold on. 329 00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:54,320 That's right. Bisexual coffee. 330 00:28:54,320 --> 00:29:00,320 Oh, girl, you are, you have gone whole hog into this. That is amazing. 331 00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,320 Yeah. 332 00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:06,320 That is great. I'm dedicated. I am dedicated. 333 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:11,320 When I say the thought of a tattoo actually did pass my brain. 334 00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:15,320 Don't have one yet, but I know that during pride. 335 00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:20,320 Yeah. Well, there's, there's been some that I've designed that I really enjoyed. 336 00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:31,320 There was one that played with the idea of a sex, a fluid sexuality, a fluid gender fluid type situation. 337 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:34,320 But that one really doesn't fit who I am anymore. 338 00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:37,320 And if anybody ever finds that online, it's theirs. Yes. 339 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:45,320 So over the last two episodes, we started off with a Reddit post and it was actually reading another story that somebody else posted. 340 00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:53,320 And what I did, what I'm choosing this time is a Reddit post that I put out there on r slash polls, P O L L S. 341 00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:56,320 And I wanted to know if that I'll just read it. 342 00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:58,320 It tells you exactly everything that you need to know. 343 00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:00,320 It says straight people. 344 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:02,320 This is to really, really just straight people. 345 00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:11,320 I'd love to know, would it wear you out to know that your bi partner had a relationship with someone of the same gender or any gender that's different from you? 346 00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:15,320 I'm asking for a podcast conversation. I let him know exactly what I'm doing. 347 00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:20,320 And it was a written response to the, am I the asshole post that you found? 348 00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:29,320 Am I the asshole for not telling the girl that I'm bisexual, which for sake of time and whatnot, we can read that on the next episode and have more discussion about that. 349 00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:33,320 But I wanted to talk about the poll that we had, which was very interesting. 350 00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:37,320 Only 40 people. You know, I'm a small time guy. Not a lot of people. 351 00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:42,320 That's nice. 40 people. No, no, no, they are paying attention. 352 00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:47,320 You walk into a room and 40 people are in the room. That's a lot of people, you know? 353 00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:52,320 So more people, more men, right? More men voted. 354 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:57,320 See 14 plus nine. That's 25 people. 25. No, that's not right. 355 00:30:57,320 --> 00:30:59,320 14 plus nine is 23. 356 00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:07,320 23 men voted, which means 17 women voted if the numbers are, anybody could have clicked on these buttons. 357 00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,320 I'm just going to go take these for face value. 358 00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:14,320 Answers were, I'm a straight woman. I don't like it. I'm a straight woman. I'm okay with it. 359 00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:17,320 And then I'm a straight woman and I don't care. 360 00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:23,320 Like it's never been on the radar. And then the other three answers were, I'm a straight man. I don't like it. 361 00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:27,320 I'm a straight man. I'm okay with it. And I'm a straight man. I don't care either way. 362 00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:35,320 So what the numbers are showing here is that there's a majority of men that just say, oh, I'm okay with it. 363 00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:38,320 Yeah, I'm fine. Not by much. It's nine. 364 00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:42,320 That's the thing. Women say I'm a straight woman and I'm okay with it. 365 00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,320 Only got five out of the 17 votes. 366 00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:50,320 Whereas out of the 23 votes, nine men said that they were okay with it. 367 00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:53,320 But women were more ambivalent. 368 00:31:53,320 --> 00:32:00,320 Well, actually, I would say the same amount of ambivalence either because it was six for I don't like it and six for I don't care. 369 00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:03,320 Seven for I don't like it. Seven for I don't care. 370 00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:18,320 So it still shows that men, and this is what I've gotten from other conversations and you see this as a lot of posts and whatnot, 371 00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:25,320 especially if the more that we read these stories, I think you'll see it is that when men see a woman bisexual, 372 00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:32,320 like they're straight and you see that they're the partners by sexual or they come across somebody and their interests and they find out that they're bisexual, 373 00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:37,320 they start thinking, maybe, maybe there's a chance for a threesome. 374 00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:48,320 You know, it's it should be an ongoing conversation like we were saying before in in relationships. 375 00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:51,320 Sexuality is kind of a deal. 376 00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:58,320 Like if if I'm with a man and he wants to be with a man, I would like to know. 377 00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:01,320 I mean, not that I would get down on him or anything like that. 378 00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:03,320 I would just like to know. 379 00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:04,320 Yeah. 380 00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:05,320 Okay. 381 00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:06,320 All right. 382 00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:09,320 So anyway, I feel like, okay, I'm your partner. 383 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:19,320 We're partners and we're both traveling this life together and you are free to do what you want to do and I'm free to do what I want to do. 384 00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:23,320 But at the same time, let's check in with one another. 385 00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:30,320 That way we're building and fostering trust and love and we're not building and fostering fear. 386 00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:37,320 And I love the fact that your answer comes from a. 387 00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:45,320 I want for a solid base with communication to know exactly what your partner wants needs out of the relationship. 388 00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:47,320 And that's great. 389 00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:52,320 The more that we dig the more that we dig into am I the asshole and bisexual Reddit. 390 00:33:52,320 --> 00:34:13,320 I think you're going to think we're going to see more of the stories with a guy if he's in the same boat and less because there's there seems to be a large amount of emotionally stunted people out there guys and women both and but guys tend to on Reddit at least tip their hat towards. 391 00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:22,320 All right girl on girl action that's what I can get out of this relationship and it's obvious with the way that they write it. 392 00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:25,320 I'm so afraid that that's what those numbers showed me there. 393 00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:29,320 I'm hoping for the best for humanity, but we will see. 394 00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:43,320 Two women together is a beautiful thing. Okay, let's just get out of bed. I and I've seen, you know, I've seen two guys together too. And the older that I feel the right. 395 00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:45,320 The more I appreciate that. 396 00:34:45,320 --> 00:35:00,320 It also depends like, I mean, what's going into where we're seeing these are either I mean I've never seen actual people have sex in front of me, like in life in real life. It's all been through watching porn. 397 00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:02,320 And it's not like I watch a lot. 398 00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:06,320 You're my age. Yeah, you will have seen it. You will have seen it at some point. Yeah. 399 00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:07,320 All right. 400 00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:08,320 You probably know. 401 00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:09,320 Maybe. 402 00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:11,320 Just check it. 403 00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:13,320 It'll be interesting for 404 00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:18,320 Because there are so many things that she doesn't know. 405 00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:35,320 There are so many. She's she's not like me. She's she's not chronically online. She doesn't know the the the wild, the weird, the interesting, the strange. She's just now finding out at the at her age and like over the last four or five years. 406 00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:37,320 Yeah, I am with her. 407 00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:45,320 I mean, what does this mean? She'll she'll like read like a meme across because we've got to she's got a couple of friends on Instagram that have kind of like a 408 00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:46,320 meme wars. 409 00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:47,320 Yeah. 410 00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:56,320 Oh, crude taste when it comes to their memes. And then she goes, what does ATM mean when it comes to sex? And I went, do you want to know? 411 00:35:56,320 --> 00:36:00,320 No, no, I mean, kind of guess it could be. 412 00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:01,320 It means. 413 00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:07,320 Oh, okay. Go ahead. I can edit that's the perfect setup because yes, it means ask the mouse. 414 00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:10,320 When we're talking about. Yeah. So deposit. 415 00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:25,320 I mean, so I was like a there are some things that you can find out all by yourself if you want to if you really want me to know I know much more things that I've stumbled across in my time. 416 00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:34,320 I need to know everything. She doesn't dirty. She doesn't need to know that. No, I mean, he doesn't need to know about fluffing. 417 00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:41,320 Actually, that's the one thing she may know because she's shared. Should we why is we're getting to know each other? 418 00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:42,320 Pride to. 419 00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:44,320 Yeah, I'm sure. Yeah. 420 00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:54,320 But as we were getting to know each other, we were we were getting the electric the sexual energy was was there like just over the phone. 421 00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:58,320 I hadn't even had a chance to really meet her yet. We were both like very excited about each other. 422 00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:02,320 So we would, you know, share what we were interested in and whatnot. 423 00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:07,320 Tell from the things that she told me that she was interested in what she did know. 424 00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:10,320 She may know what flipper is. Maybe. I don't know. 425 00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:14,320 This is maybe we could just get her get her to read a quiz online. 426 00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,320 That will probably never happen. 427 00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:23,320 I'm not traumatizing. You do that. Don't do that. Don't do that. Don't traumatize Marla. 428 00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:27,320 Oh, my God, this has been so fun. My face hurts so bad. 429 00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:32,320 Well, hey, before you go, because we got we got a little bit of time and I think my battery can withstand it. 430 00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:34,320 I don't know how bad yours is right now. It's not the red. 431 00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:39,320 We'll just let the freaking laptop die. Just two cameras. 432 00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:42,320 Well, real quick. How was your pride experience? 433 00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:47,320 So I went to pride in Albuquerque. It was just one of the adventures that I went on. 434 00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:54,320 And for whatever reason, I had a I had a horrible cold and I drove three hours to Albuquerque went to pride. 435 00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:59,320 I was there for two hours and the people were amazing. 436 00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:05,320 But I will never do that again. I'll tell you because it's probably been my hundredth. 437 00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:10,320 No, I'm not a hundred, but I doubled up on pride. 438 00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:14,320 So I'd go to I'd go to Tampa pride, then I'd go to St. Pete pride. 439 00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:19,320 And I would go to Port Richey and that's true because they're pride, you know, 440 00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:24,320 and it's going on through all the months. So you could probably actually, you know, I hopped around. 441 00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:36,320 I got around and, you know, you need to come down here in October because October coming out national coming out days in October. 442 00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:41,320 I don't remember what day it's on. I want to stay a sense, which if it is my that means it's my mom's birthday. 443 00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:48,320 And I think that's hilarious. That would be another something good to associate with that. 444 00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:55,320 But that's when Atlanta holds its pride parade because there were other, I mean, they do pride stuff. 445 00:38:55,320 --> 00:39:03,320 I'm sure there are other pride parades, but there's a good huge pride themed event in Atlanta in October. 446 00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:06,320 It's cool. You can sign me up. 447 00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:12,320 I do have a lecture or end alive that I'm doing with Kitty rebellion. 448 00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:19,320 So I'll just sign my ass up. Just put it in my book of many things to do, honey. 449 00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:31,320 Hell yeah. That's what I'm talking about. I think I just got a verbal contract that me and Edith will be going to the Atlanta pride event in October. 450 00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:32,320 That's right. That's right. 451 00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:42,320 I guess we'll go ahead and call the short just because having to deal with things when they die in the middle and trying to get all that going. 452 00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:45,320 You don't want to deal with that. Why don't we call that here? 453 00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:54,320 All right. Thank you for listening to what do we buy sexual coffee with Edith and friends and that's my friend, Michael LeBlanc. 454 00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:56,320 Thank you so much. Peace out. 455 00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:58,320 Good bye. 456 00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:00,320 Where's the button? Hold on. 457 00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:02,320 There.