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Welcome to Law Syrup, the show where we talk with special guests about hot topics in Canadian

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This podcast is a co-production with the Ontario Justice Education Network, also known as OJEN.

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I'm Herman Wong.

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Let's tap in.

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Before we begin, please note that this show is not intended to be legal advice or be a

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replacement for a legal representative.

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Hey everybody and welcome back to the show.

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This week I am joined by two special guests because they are my high school friends, Daphne

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Chu and Bronte Anderson.

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This week we'll be talking about our journey to law school.

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Now all three of us started in the same high school and we all took law as an elective.

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However, we all made it to law school, but on different, unique paths.

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Together we talked about challenges, resources, and where to find support along the way.

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So without further ado, here's what we discussed.

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So to get things started, let's introduce everybody.

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So how about Daphne, you go ahead and tell us who you are and what you do.

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Yeah, absolutely.

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Happy to be here.

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So I'm a litigation associate at a firm called Borden Ladner Gervais and I practice in commercial

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and civil litigation.

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Amazing.

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And Bronte?

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Daphne, that is a lovely introduction to follow.

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I am Bronte and I'm just a rising 2L at McGill here in Montreal.

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Outside of that, I hail from Stovall, Ontario.

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I'm obviously now living in Montreal and I had the pleasure of meeting Herman and Daphne

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in high school.

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Right.

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And of course, you know, right now I am currently done articling.

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So right now I'm an incoming associate at a firm called Tork and Main's LLP in downtown

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Toronto.

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And it's interesting because we all started in high school.

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We all took law in high school.

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But I guess my first question for both of you is why did you want to actually study

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law in the first place during high school?

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Yeah, absolutely.

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So I think, you know, for transparency's sake, I initially when I was younger really wanted

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to go into sciences.

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So you know, whether that was to be a doctor, a vet, an optometrist, whatever it was that,

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you know, I was certainly interested in that.

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And then I took grade 11 chemistry and I'm not sure if Bronte remembers, but that was

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a harrowing experience for me.

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And it just really opened my eyes to the fact that science was not going to be my, you know,

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my path.

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And so I still wanted a career path that was going to challenge me and be something that

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would speak to my strengths.

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And I discovered in probably grade 11, grade 12 that my strengths were going to be in writing.

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And so that's kind of how I landed on becoming a lawyer.

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And also, I guess for context, I studied in a program where I did my undergrad and my

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law degree at the same time.

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So it was a six year program and I studied political science and I got my law degree

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kind of within those six years.

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And so I decided, you know, pretty early on in grade 12 when I applied to this program

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that I wanted to be a lawyer and kind of just committed to it.

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And then here I am.

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Amazing.

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And we'll go back to your journey at UOttawa for that specific program as well.

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But Brandi first, why did you choose to study law in high school?

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That's a good question.

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It's also a really good question for you to ask me as I prepare, hopefully for a recruitment

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season this upcoming year.

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It's interesting.

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I think my answer is similar to Daphne's in the sense that it definitely wasn't the first

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career I thought of or actively tried to pursue.

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I also was initially drawn to the sciences, particularly healthcare jobs.

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And then as you may both remember, I also went through a period of time thinking that

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I would be a high school music teacher, then realized that, you know, I don't think I was

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pursuing the sciences for me truly, but saw a lot of kind of common threads from the idea

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of working in healthcare or working as an educator.

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And I kind of saw those as being something I could achieve and apply in a legal profession

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and ended up through a variety of undergraduate experiences, realizing that I actually enjoyed

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a lot of the other kind of important skills for law school and then a legal career.

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And I think ultimately, the big ones were probably one, I like writing, but particularly

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technical writing.

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And that certainly was something I got to kind of hone in my undergraduate degree in

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health social sciences.

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And I also really liked the whole kind of relationship forming and relationship maintenance

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aspect.

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The idea of working in a very client focused environment, a very collaborative environment

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was really appealing to me, as well as one in which there's a huge, huge importance of

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education.

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So there's a teaching and kind of counseling aspect.

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All of those things were really appealing on my end.

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And then quite admittedly, it also seemed like profession with a lot of different job

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opportunities and kind of different avenues or environments to work post-grad.

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And so I think I certainly entered law school with some starting interests, but they're

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obviously still crystallizing.

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And yeah, I thought it would be fun to do something where overall I knew I was headed

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in the right direction and then could still kind of narrow things down.

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By the way, you mentioned a high school music teacher, the three of us, we used to be in

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the band orchestra together.

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I used to play the clarinet.

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Daphne, what did you play?

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I played the flute and the piccolo and it was very glamorous.

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I had to wear an earplug because the piccolo was so loud and high pitched.

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And I think I've actually permanently damaged my hearing because of it.

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Did you really?

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I think so.

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And I now have like tinnitus in my right ear that flares every time there are loud noises.

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So I blame the piccolo for that.

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No, Bronte, what did you play?

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Daphne, that's funny that you should mention.

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Maybe it's not funny.

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I guess it's not a good thing that it's still an ongoing issue.

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But when you mentioned the hearing damage, I actually wrote something along those lines

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in your yearbook.

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I think I wrote, you know, I hope that the hearing damage resolves itself.

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You head off to law school, which is kind of funny.

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And then hasn't yeah, hasn't subsided, unfortunately.

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Well, that's a bummer.

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But I guess the memories still live on.

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But going back to just, you know, law in high school, I guess my path was kind of similar

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to the both of you because I was very dead set on being a surgeon when I was younger.

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A lot of it came from me reading a lot of books about like the human body and science.

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I was like, oh, this is so cool.

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And then I did grade 10 science.

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And do you remember the optics section from like grade 10 science with like concave convex

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mirrors and like prisms?

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No idea what they were talking about.

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I mean, I still managed to like survive grade 10 science.

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But since that day, I was like, yeah, I cannot be a doctor.

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I cannot do anything related to chemistry or physics or biology.

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write.

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So how about we just focus on those skills rather than doing something that I know will

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bore me and will probably confuse me.

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So I think when I saw that law was an option for grade 11, I was like, oh, I'll definitely

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do it because it's something that seems like a good career path.

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And it's something that generally interested me.

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And I'm really glad I took it.

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And the three of us, we took law in French immersion.

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Like we all took it in French.

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It was, that's right.

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So I took law in grade 11.

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And in grade 12, I did another thing.

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I did philosophy instead.

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But you two, Daphne, you were in my grade 11 French immersion law class.

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And were you with Bronte in grade 12 law?

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I'm trying to remember.

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We probably were in the same class, Bronte.

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I think we were.

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I think so.

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And throughout the process, whether you started in grade 11 or grade 12, what were some of

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your favorite memories from studying law in high school?

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Because I have my own favorite memories, but I was wondering about you guys and what you

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guys might have thought of as memorable for those two years.

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I remember we did the mock trial.

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I think that was in grade 11 that we did a mock trial.

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So it probably was in grade 11.

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And I remember I was questioning a witness and it was so fun.

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I remember it felt like a performance.

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It felt like I was kind of acting and whatever, but it was just so much fun.

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I think that was probably one of the highlights of grade 11 law.

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And then I think we also went to the courthouse that year.

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And I remember it was really fun to go to the courthouse and see a courtroom for the

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very first time.

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But I remember sitting there and listening to the lawyers questioning the witness.

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I think it was in a criminal trial.

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I can't imagine asking all these questions.

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And this is so boring.

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But overall, that trip was really, really fun as well.

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So I remember thinking after that trip, oh yeah, I can totally see myself doing this

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for a living.

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And I can see myself going to court and questioning witnesses and making submissions and that

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sort of thing.

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I remember maybe it was also in grade 11 where we had to film that video.

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Gosh, that was so fun.

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That was crazy.

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I probably still have it on my MacBook at home.

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I don't even know what that is.

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I hope it never sees the light of day.

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Oh, absolutely not.

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For those of you who don't know, we had a project, me and Daphne and another friend

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of ours, Kristy, we were in a group together and we had to do a final project where we

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had to do some sort of movie based on something legal related.

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I don't even know what the prompt was, but we decided to do a home video where we portrayed

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Madame Garofalo, bless her heart, she's retired now, but we used her as this big criminal

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mastermind.

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We literally filmed scenes in my basement.

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And I remember we took turns going to TD Bank to record scenes of the quote unquote bank

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robbery.

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Do you remember that?

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Herman, I remember this now that you mentioned the TD Bank.

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I do remember seeing this cinematic masterpiece and being very envious that I had not taken

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the class with you.

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I mean, we did a really good job.

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I think we got like an A or something on that assignment, Daphne and I.

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We did really well on that assignment.

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It was fun.

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It was camp.

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I loved it.

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And again, would I ever rewatch it or post it online?

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Absolutely not.

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But it was a fun assignment.

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now that I share on any interview that I have when people are like, why did you want to

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study law?

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And it's a true story because we went downtown, I think to 361 University Avenue, the courthouse

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there.

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And I remember the criminal trial there because it was the trial for the Eaton Center shooting

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in the food court.

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And I don't know if you remember this, Daphne, but we met with a judge that day.

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And the story that really captivated me was that she said that if you want to go to law

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school, do something fun for your undergrad.

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And then she said she did opera singing at York University.

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And I thought that was very inspiring because clearly she was like, look, if you want to

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go to law school, do something fun for your undergrad.

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It doesn't have to be legal related.

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Just do something fun where you can get good grades.

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And then if you really want to go to law school, that can still be your path.

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So that's something that really stuck with me from our grade 11 experience.

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Bronte, how about you?

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Did you have any good memories from grade 12 law class?

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I do.

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I remember.

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already kind of become frustrated with the sciences, had a very similar experience to

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the one that Daphne just described.

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Daphne was with grade 11 physics.

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And I remember starting to read, I guess, our assigned materials in grade 12 law.

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And I remember thinking to myself, okay, this is also very analytical.

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It's fun to think about rules.

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It's fun to think about problem solving in a very, you know, kind of structured way.

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But it's also fun that these are not scientific laws or formulas to remember.

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It's not a bunch of numbers to crunch.

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It has nothing to do with a parabola.

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At least the stuff that we were learning didn't have to do with a parabola.

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of this, but it kind of, I think was a bit of an aha moment that the kind of technical

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approach to problem solving that I found, I guess, intellectually fulfilling in a way

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could be achieved outside of just science and math, which is definitely a kind of a

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belief or a strongly held belief on my end up into that point.

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And again, strongly held beliefs that again, kind of evolved throughout undergrad, where

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I kind of followed a similar path of analytical and critical thinking, but not necessarily

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scientific formulas and theorems and whatnot, but rather through the social sciences.

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And then I mean, we also went on a courthouse visit in grade 12, I think, and that was pretty

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fun as well.

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Herman, you were there for sure, because we sat together.

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I wasn't there, I didn't take grade 12 law.

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Did you not?

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No, I took the OSFIE.

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Oh, then maybe it was, well, Daphne was there as well.

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How interesting.

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Like the Mandela effect.

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You just remember me everywhere you go in high school.

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No, I was definitely at the courthouse because I remember, Daphne, you were definitely there.

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I'm trying to think who else we were sitting with, but I remember that I hadn't eaten enough

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for breakfast that day and my stomach was just growling so noticeably and so horribly.

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I was very self-conscious about that.

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So I definitely remember it for that reason, as well as for, of course, the enriching educational

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experience that came along with the excursion.

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But let's move on now to the law school application process.

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Now, Daphne, you did your own special program at UOttawa, which kind of deviated from the

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traditional thing where you did an undergrad program first and then apply to law school

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with the LSAT.

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So why don't you tell us about the special program at UOttawa that you took that lasted

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for six years?

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Yeah, absolutely.

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So this is a program where you apply straight out of high school, just like any regular

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undergrad program.

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And you can do either poli sci or you can do business.

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So I chose poli sci because I genuinely never really had that much of an interest in doing

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a BCom straight out of high school.

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to be a doctor.

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I was like, okay, I think poli sci is kind of the way to go.

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I really liked taking civics and careers all day enough in grade 10.

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So that's kind of how I ended up deciding on poli sci.

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And so in this program, I should also note that it's all in French.

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So UOttawa doesn't offer this program in English.

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And luckily, I did French immersion all throughout elementary school and high school.

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So I was pretty comfortable with doing this program in French.

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So you start with your undergrad, you do two years of poli sci or your business degree.

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You have to maintain an 8.0 GPA.

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And then after that, you start law school in your third year.

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And then for your third to your sixth year, you do a combination of poli sci, business

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courses and then your law courses.

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So typically in a year, I would do six or seven law courses and then the rest would

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be my undergrad courses.

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It's a bit strange because you do these law courses and I vividly remember going to finishing

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my crim class and then immediately after I went to Canadian politics or something.

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And it's just so different the way that you're taught in those classes that it was such a

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jarring switch, but it was interesting.

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And then at the end of the six years, you graduate with your undergrad and your jurors

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doctor.

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That's amazing.

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So you do six years and you're going to get your jurors doctor by the end of it.

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I personally took the more, I guess, I don't want to say more conventional, but I guess

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more people do an undergrad.

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They might work a bit like Bronte did.

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But for me, I did my undergrad in journalism at Carleton University.

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So I did that for four years and then I took the LSAT and that's how I went to law school.

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But Bronte, how about you tell us about how you found out about the law school application

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process?

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Like how did you find out about the LSAT, all the different schools you could apply

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to, how to enroll in those schools, and also what made you decide to work before you applied

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again for law school?

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Sure.

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I always knew that not just at the time that I actually decided to apply, but I had a long-standing

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awareness of this thing called the LSAT.

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I knew it was the law school equivalent of the MCAT and also knew that submitting an

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application, at least in Ontario, was very similar, again, to the med school application

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process and our undergrad application process where it's all kind of one centralized system.

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Definitely did a lot of Googling, a lot of reading Reddit, a lot of the CanLaw forum

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online to kind of get people's tips and tricks and get an understanding of timelines and

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just how much of a black box it really seems to be.

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Also did the typical attend information sessions, especially during COVID when a lot of them

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were online, that was helpful to hear different school perspectives and how the application

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process works.

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Then, of course, also had people like yourself, Harman, to look to who had found through the

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process successfully not that many years ago.

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That was super helpful to get people like yourself who could kind of give an honest

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take.

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I think I threw out ideas about my personal statement and CV and whatnot as I was going

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through the process, it was helpful to hear what your approach was.

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Then you also asked why it's a time off to work as well, right?

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That one's definitely multi-pronged, that answer.

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I would say that the first reason was probably to gain some sort of work experience, at least

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in the field that I studied.

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As you know, after my undergrad, I did a master's in public health.

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I really liked the topics, so wanted to get some kind of applied public health experience,

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as well as just experience in the workforce.

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I always worked multiple jobs throughout my undergrad and my master's, but it was nice

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to just be an employee for once and to not be also a student at the same time.

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Then I guess a few other reasons as well.

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I think when the decision that I wanted to get a law degree really kind of solidified

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in my mind, I found that I was having difficulty articulating why in words.

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To me, that was not a good sign.

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Let's, for lack of better terms, kill two birds with one stone.

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Let's get some work experience.

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Let's also take some time to kind of just figure out the interests, be able to at least

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articulate them, because I think that represents perhaps a lack of crystallized goals internally

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on my end.

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So that was a helpful exercise.

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Then I also saw that taking time to work could also have some advantages in terms of building

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a more diverse CV, to put it, I guess bluntly, there was also a huge financial aspect, taking

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time to not only gain experience, but also be able to save up funds to afford tuition.

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I also was aware that law school is very competitive at an admission, and so I may not have control

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over where I would end up, and that could involve significant personal expenses, whereas

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I was living at home all through my undergrad and master's.

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So yeah, a variety of reasons.

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Yeah, you mentioned Reddit and the CanLawForum, which honestly was kind of how my mom and

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I would find out about the law school application process.

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For those of you who don't know, CanLawForum, if you used to go by another name, I think

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the old website got deleted or something, but it's called CanLawForumNow.

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It's basically a forum online where users post about GPAs and what will it take to go

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to law school, and they also post things about what life is like when you're in law school,

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so recruitment processes for summer jobs and stuff like that, the bar exam.

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But I honestly found the website to be quite useful.

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People I've talked to were kind of divisive on it.

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They were like, don't look at the website because if you do, you just end up comparing

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yourself unhealthily to other people in the same position as you.

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But for me, because I didn't have any mentors in the legal profession when I was growing

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up or in high school, so Reddit and the CanLawForum, or the older version of it, was really my

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only way of kind of finding out what steps I can take, what other people have done, and

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how to have a successful journey to law school and doing all the right things to get me to

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where I wanted.

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But, you know, I wish I think in high school I took more liberties and asked for more help

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from our guidance counselors.

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If I just asked them what the way to go to law school would be, they would probably have

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a better sense of where to direct me, but that's on me for not really benefiting from

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it.

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So I recommend to all the listeners, especially if you're in high school right now, if you

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are thinking about a career in law, you can always ask your guidance counselors for help

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or career counselors, and I believe that they will be able to show you what a potential

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path to law school might be like.

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But given that we're now in a different position now, we're no longer in high school.

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I've just finished my article, and Daphne, you're already working as a litigation associate.

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Bronte, you're still in law school.

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I have a question for you guys.

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Do you think you need to know what kind of law you want to do before you decide to go

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to law school?

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Goodness gracious.

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I hope not.

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I hope not.

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Otherwise, yeah, I hope not.

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Otherwise, that's concerning on my end, because I certainly don't have it all figured out

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at the moment, but I'm curious, Daphne, to hear your answer first.

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Categorically, no.

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Yeah, absolutely no to your question, Herman, just because even throughout law school, I

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had no idea what I wanted to practice.

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So I summered and I article at BLG, and in my summer, I thought I had figured it out,

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thought I wanted to be a litigator, but wasn't too sure, because the work you do as a student

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and the work you do as an associate, it's so different.

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As a student, you're working on very narrow issues.

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You're researching, you're drafting memos, you're maybe drafting pleadings and factums

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and other court documents, and you're only on the file for that very specific reason,

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whereas as an associate, you're on that file from beginning to end.

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And so the work that you do is just so different.

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And so I thought I wanted to be a litigator when I was a summer student, went back to

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law school for my third year and discovered that I liked tax law.

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And so I thought, okay, maybe I'll be a corporate tax lawyer.

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I don't know.

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And then so I came back as an articling student, tried tax, didn't love the corporate tax work

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as much as I thought I would, and then ended up liking the tax litigation work.

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And so I was like, okay, maybe I'll be a tax litigator.

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And then I helped out with a complex commercial litigation trial in, I want to say December

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of, yeah, December of 2023 or 2022.

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And then decided that I probably wanted to be a commercial litigator, but then, you know,

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tried health law and I really liked that.

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And so it really was a matter of trial and error for me to figure out at this point that,

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okay, I know I want to be a litigator and I know I want to do commercial litigation.

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I like health, I like tax, but it took me a long time to get to this position where

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I can comfortably say that I want to do these things.

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And I certainly think, you know, when you're applying to law school, I don't think, you

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know, you really have a sense of what it is like to be a lawyer in a specific area.

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So I think, you know, it's best to keep your mind open to all the possibilities, you know,

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try everything, try the crim stuff, try the family stuff, try the commercial stuff.

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You never know until you try.

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Yeah, I agree.

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When I was in high school, I mean, of course, I thought about being a lawyer.

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I wanted to go to law school, but my perspective of what I saw myself doing in the legal profession

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has taken more twists and turns than a season of the white load is okay.

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I mean, in high school, I was like, look, I just want to go to law school.

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I don't know what I'm going to do.

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I just want to go to law school and hopefully there I can figure it out.

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So going into law school, I was like, you know, criminal law seems fun, right?

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That's what you see on TV most of the time.

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And I did a couple of criminal law things.

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I had a great job working in my one L summer at a criminal defense firm.

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And then I did a criminal law clinic with the Crown's office in downtown Toronto.

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And that was great.

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But I think the more I had this type of experiential type of thing in my life, I kind of decided

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that maybe criminal law was not for me.

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And having the opportunity to experience all these different other types of courses like

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business law and administrative law, they've really helped me kind of shift my thinking

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and be more open-minded to other types of law.

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So again, like with you, Daphne, when Art articles, I didn't really know what I really

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wanted.

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Litigation was always in the back of my head.

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But then I also did a trial in construction law.

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And that really kind of solidified everything for me where I love just being in court.

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I love the type of presentations that you do, how much oral advocacy is needed.

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So I thought that really fit me and that's why I decided to return as an associate in

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the litigation field.

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But I personally believe that, you know, if you're in high school and you don't know what

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you want to do when you're a lawyer or working in a legal related field, I don't think that's

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a really big issue because you'll figure it out as you go.

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And the more experience you get, you'll get more knowledge of the things you're good at

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and also what you want to do as a potential career.

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But along the way, have you guys had any mentors that you can look up to during your journey

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to law school?

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Was there anyone you could ask for help or guidance?

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Or were you someone like me who just kind of turned to CanLawForum and read it?

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I wish I knew about CanLawForum when I was in high school, like when I was in grade 12

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or the predecessor to CanLawForum because I also, I'm a first generation lawyer.

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I don't really have anyone in my family or kind of in my family, friends circle or anyone

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in my life before I applied to my program that I could ask those questions to.

465
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:17,080
And I wish I did because I think there are so many things that you really need to talk

466
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:20,900
through with someone who's been there and who's gone through the experience of going

467
00:27:20,900 --> 00:27:25,200
to law school and being a lawyer and figuring out that path.

468
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:29,320
For me, it was a lot of Googling, a lot of reading about what it's like to be a lawyer

469
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:35,400
and what it's like to go to law school and being very, very afraid of the Socratic method

470
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:39,560
and like all that stuff, but never really having anyone specific to talk to you other

471
00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:44,280
than obviously family and friends and stuff to kind of talk through these things, but

472
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:47,120
no one specifically who had gone through that.

473
00:27:47,120 --> 00:27:48,120
Right.

474
00:27:48,120 --> 00:27:49,120
How about you Bronte?

475
00:27:49,120 --> 00:27:55,680
I think I relied mostly on online sources and the generosity of some strangers that

476
00:27:55,680 --> 00:28:01,560
I messaged on LinkedIn for application related information.

477
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:05,840
And then like I said, Harbin, talking to folks like you who had done the process very recently,

478
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:12,400
on my end, I think where the mentorship was particularly valuable was in really clarifying

479
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:17,440
and confirming my motivations to kind of enter the profession to begin with.

480
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:20,760
And so it wasn't necessarily obviously just lawyers that I had the pleasure of speaking

481
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:27,760
with, but even just family friends who had particularly privileged to know some women

482
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:31,800
that I think is very strong and were very successful in managing a very busy career

483
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:36,760
as well as family life and friendship and all these other important relationships.

484
00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:42,120
And it was wonderful to have some meaningful conversations and honest conversations with

485
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:48,800
them to talk about what are the advantages of pursuing that type of lifestyle and equally

486
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:52,040
what are some of the disadvantages and how you kind of reconcile that with your value

487
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:58,240
system in order to hopefully set yourself on a track towards fulfillment in a bunch

488
00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:02,840
of domains of your life, career being a really big and important one, at least in my value

489
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:03,840
system.

490
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:08,080
But also I was very privileged to have mentors during my undergrad.

491
00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:14,520
I worked at the same clinical research job five, six years and was really lucky to work

492
00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:17,560
closely with a clinician scientist.

493
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:21,360
And I think she really exemplified to me what hard work looks like.

494
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:26,960
I think there's a lot of aspects of what I perceived as her approach to career life and

495
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:28,120
excellence in her career.

496
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:32,440
I think there are a lot of things from that that I try to emulate.

497
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:33,440
That's great.

498
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:35,960
And those relationships are very important, you know, because you really need a support

499
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:40,360
system when you go on this journey to law school, whether it's family or friends, you

500
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:44,360
really need those type of people to kind of lift you up along the way because it can be

501
00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:45,880
a very stressful process.

502
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:50,400
You know, there's so many things to keep track of, whether it's all the types of recruitment

503
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:55,000
activities you have to participate in or having good enough grades to get into law school

504
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:56,880
or getting good references.

505
00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:59,800
It's very important to have a support system in place.

506
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:04,440
But now that you're at the places that you are looking back now, what was the hardest

507
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,680
part of getting to law school in the first place?

508
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:08,480
Maybe Bronte, we'll start with you.

509
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:09,480
Sure.

510
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:13,440
But on my end, I think the big one is just uncertainty.

511
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:19,920
I think it's in my mind, it almost seemed like a bit of a blessing and a curse that

512
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:22,560
the path to law school doesn't have to be linear.

513
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:28,640
And there aren't, you know, super, super strict criteria or boxes that one has to check in

514
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:33,240
order to kind of guarantee a good likelihood of acceptance.

515
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:37,680
So while that provided a wonderful amount of room to kind of explore other interests,

516
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:43,960
in a way, I think, at least on my end, I found myself, you know, always questioning, okay,

517
00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:45,800
well, how will this look on a CV?

518
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:49,680
Or, you know, what opportunity could this lead to in the future?

519
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:54,240
Or, you know, how would an admissions person perceive this?

520
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:59,040
And I think I think I like to hope that I try to keep a good rein on that.

521
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:03,740
But I think it was still somewhat of a like an emotional or psychological burden that

522
00:31:03,740 --> 00:31:06,400
took away from the fun or the joy of applying.

523
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:09,560
Yeah, I think it's just the big uncertainty.

524
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:14,960
But as hard as it is sometimes to remember that, you know, we're not defined by an acceptance

525
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:17,040
or a rejection or a job title.

526
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:18,800
And it sounds really trite.

527
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:22,200
But at least that's something that I kind of had to wrestle with a little bit along

528
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:23,200
the way.

529
00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:24,200
And I think I still am.

530
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:25,200
How about you, Daphne?

531
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:29,120
What was the hardest part about this whole journey to law school for you?

532
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:30,120
Yeah.

533
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:38,600
I think what Bronte is saying about the uncertainty of everything really applied to my situation

534
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:43,080
as well, just because so, you know, to get into law school from my program, I had to

535
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,120
maintain a certain GPA.

536
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:51,680
And so that meant, you know, starting day one of first year of university, every assignment,

537
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:58,400
every quiz, every exam, every, you know, participation point, what have you, mattered.

538
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:06,840
And so that was a very, very stressful, you know, burden to carry for two years.

539
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:11,840
You know, for me, it was a matter of bringing my best to every single assignment or every

540
00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:15,280
single thing that I was graded for.

541
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:22,040
And so, you know, when I would get maybe not the best grade on something, it would really

542
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:27,080
make me feel very uncertain about my prospects of getting into law school.

543
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:33,040
And so I really had to figure out a way to manage that stress of everything.

544
00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:35,720
And it was so great to have such a good support system.

545
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:39,120
And I have had a great support system, you know, throughout my undergrad and throughout

546
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:40,120
law school.

547
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:41,840
And I think that was really, really key.

548
00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:47,200
And it helps put things into perspective and helps you remember that this is not the be

549
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:49,640
all end all of your life.

550
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:54,280
Like, okay, just because you don't get into law school doesn't mean you are a failure

551
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:58,600
or, you know, all these other words that you might call yourself just because you didn't

552
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:00,440
get to what you wanted.

553
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:07,040
And I remember distinctly in I think it was in first year, maybe second early second semester,

554
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:09,560
I wasn't getting the grades that I needed.

555
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:14,040
And, you know, in the moment, I wasn't really giving myself the grace of, okay, like, this

556
00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:18,920
is your first time going to university, you might not know exactly how to study or, you

557
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:21,720
know, how to write a university exam.

558
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:22,920
It's so different from high school.

559
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:26,440
Like, I didn't really give myself that latitude.

560
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:31,240
And so I was seriously considering leaving the program because I was thinking, okay,

561
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:37,560
well, maybe if I switch now and do, you know, a regular undergrad degree and do co-op, that

562
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:41,280
would be better in terms of job prospects down the line.

563
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:47,400
It would be better in terms of maybe one day applying to law school, you know, in the future.

564
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:51,440
But I, you know, was talking to friends and family about that.

565
00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:55,600
And someone told me, you know, just try.

566
00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:56,600
That's all that matters, right?

567
00:33:56,600 --> 00:34:01,800
That you tried and that you can look yourself in the mirror in a few years and say, okay,

568
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:03,540
I did the best that I could.

569
00:34:03,540 --> 00:34:07,120
And whether or not I got in, that didn't matter as much in the moment.

570
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:11,440
It was more of a matter of, okay, like, let's just do our best and try, try to manage the

571
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:15,800
stress and try to get through this with sanity.

572
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:16,800
And then you'll figure it out.

573
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,560
Now that's great advice from the both of you.

574
00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:20,560
Yeah.

575
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:24,520
I think this advice probably applies at any phase and maybe Daphne, you can relate and

576
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:25,520
Herman as well.

577
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:31,360
I feel like sometimes along the application process, the process just seems so long and

578
00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:37,120
rejection one year seems just overwhelming the idea of having to wait an entire other

579
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:42,600
year and like another year of uncertainty to maybe not even get in the next year.

580
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:45,800
And at least on my age, having taken time to work and come back to school a little bit

581
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:50,320
older than most and knowing that by time I graduate, I'll be a little bit older than

582
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:51,320
most.

583
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:55,480
I feel like when I was applying, doing the calculations in terms of, okay, well, if I

584
00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:58,960
get rejected this cycle, that means I have to wait all the way up until, you know, X,

585
00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:00,680
Y, Z in order to apply again.

586
00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:03,560
And the whole thing starts over and I'll be even older.

587
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:10,520
But I think I received some good advice that, you know, you can be 30 having taken the shot

588
00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:16,560
a few years back to try to apply, gotten in and you'll be 30 and you'll be a lawyer or

589
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:22,000
you can sit and ruminate and kind of be afraid to jump and go right in and kind of give it

590
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:27,480
your all and just take the risk and live with the, I guess, the thrill of that and then

591
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:31,840
still be 30 and not be a lawyer or perhaps not be where you want to be.

592
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:32,840
I don't know.

593
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:37,360
I think it's important to remember that at least, you know, think of the statistics,

594
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:42,600
the average age of a law school applicant is somewhat young and while a year or two

595
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:46,960
or three can seem like a really long time in the grand scheme of things, it's really

596
00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:47,960
not.

597
00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:52,880
That's not to downplay the stress associated with that waiting game.

598
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:57,720
But I think that's something that if I reflect upon, I probably could have tempered more

599
00:35:57,720 --> 00:36:01,760
on my end and would have maybe found useful.

600
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:02,760
Yeah.

601
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:07,120
I definitely relate to what the two of you have said, especially the fear of disappointment.

602
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:12,240
That's what I found to be the hardest part of this whole recruitment and education cycle

603
00:36:12,240 --> 00:36:16,720
is just the fear of disappointment, of disappointing myself, disappointing my family.

604
00:36:16,720 --> 00:36:21,520
And, you know, it was always the fear, for example, as you both have mentioned, of failure

605
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:26,440
as well and not getting into the school I might have wanted to go to, not getting the

606
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:31,680
grades I wanted for a certain course, and then just kind of going down this rabbit hole

607
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:35,960
of anxiety where it's like, well, if I don't get a good enough mark on this course or in

608
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:39,560
my degree in undergrad, then I can't apply for law school because I'm not competitive

609
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:40,560
enough.

610
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:44,160
And so you're thinking that, oh, well, if I don't have the references, I'm definitely

611
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:47,520
not going to get into law school because if I don't have good references, no one's going

612
00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:50,480
to seek me out as a potential candidate.

613
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:54,680
And at a certain point, you really do have to face that fear of disappointment or the

614
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:55,680
fear of failure.

615
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:59,920
And I guess what you both have said is that it's not always the end all be all.

616
00:36:59,920 --> 00:37:04,220
The decision to get into law school or being accepted to go into law school is not the

617
00:37:04,220 --> 00:37:08,440
end of the world all the time because there's so many different factors that play, economical

618
00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:11,480
factors, the amount of students they can take in a certain year.

619
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:16,360
All of these play a factor in terms of whether or not you get accepted into law school.

620
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:19,720
One thing that has really helped me saying throughout this process is that you're not

621
00:37:19,720 --> 00:37:20,720
alone.

622
00:37:20,720 --> 00:37:22,520
You're not alone in this process.

623
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:27,480
You're not alone in being anxious about getting into law school or what law school might be

624
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:31,100
like or what your potential career might be like.

625
00:37:31,100 --> 00:37:34,240
There are so many other people, and I would say maybe the majority of people are in the

626
00:37:34,240 --> 00:37:37,400
same position as you, where they're still trying to figure things out.

627
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:41,800
They're worried, and I think it's just a natural part of this entire journey to law school

628
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:42,800
process.

629
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:46,360
But again, as I said earlier, it's really important to have a support system in place

630
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:51,680
that can be there to uplift you throughout the way, that can hear your worries and concerns

631
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:55,000
and provide you the support that you need.

632
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:58,600
But I guess one of my last questions I can ask the two of you is that if you could give

633
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:03,520
advice to your high school day self, what would you say to them now to prepare them

634
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:04,520
for law school?

635
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:06,520
Maybe Daphne will start with you.

636
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:08,560
Yeah, for sure.

637
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:13,560
I think Bronte touched on this earlier.

638
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:20,360
I think it's very, very important to figure out why you want to pursue law, because the

639
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:25,760
application process is long, law school is long, the recruitment process to get into

640
00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:32,360
a job is challenging, it's stressful, and then a career in law is long, and hopefully

641
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:33,480
it's long.

642
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:40,360
And so because it's such a challenging profession, I think it's so important to figure out, okay,

643
00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:42,840
what is the reason I am doing this?

644
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:47,480
And when you are facing more challenging moments, you can look back at that piece of paper that

645
00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:52,360
you wrote your reason down, look back at it and think and say to yourself, okay, this

646
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:54,000
is why I'm doing this.

647
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:56,860
And this is why I am pulling these long hours.

648
00:38:56,860 --> 00:39:02,600
This is why I'm studying so hard and making sure my application looks as good as it can,

649
00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:05,840
because I'm doing this for whatever reason it is.

650
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:13,120
And I think that that will really help sort of manage those difficult moments, because

651
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:16,440
let's face it, there will be difficult moments.

652
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:17,440
Yeah.

653
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:18,440
Amazing.

654
00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:19,440
And Bronte?

655
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:22,480
Yeah, I think my answer is similar to Daphne's.

656
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:28,960
And I think in terms of trying to figure out and articulate the why, one question that

657
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:34,840
I find helpful that was suggested to me and that I would suggest to other people is, would

658
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:39,520
you be making your choices and in this case, applying to law school or to intend to enter

659
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:44,840
the legal profession, would you make the choice if no one would ever know?

660
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:49,600
If no one would ever know that Bronte is a lawyer or even later down the line that Bronte

661
00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:54,280
works at XYZ firm, would you still be chasing the same thing?

662
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:59,440
And at least on my end, that's always been a very good prompt or reflection starter to

663
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:01,600
really figure out the why.

664
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:07,480
And I find that in cases where the answer would be no, like I really don't think I'd

665
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:13,080
be chasing this goal if no one else would ever know, I find that those reasons are the

666
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:15,480
ones that are not sustainable.

667
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:19,320
And I think there's probably a lot, we can probably all relate to it.

668
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:23,360
There's a lot of allure to trying to chase something that's hard to get with the goal

669
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:25,200
of achieving it.

670
00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:30,240
And because of my work background, I ended up with a lot of peers who were trying to

671
00:40:30,240 --> 00:40:31,720
get into medical school.

672
00:40:31,720 --> 00:40:36,920
I had a conversation, a good friend of mine who's now in med school and we were talking

673
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:43,800
about, is part of the allure to getting a law school acceptance, just the fact that

674
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:50,880
I've won some sort of race and that out of a big group, I've managed to secure an acceptance,

675
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:55,680
that's not enough to want to go to law school, just like having a particular job title shouldn't

676
00:40:55,680 --> 00:41:00,640
necessarily at least in my value system shouldn't necessarily be enough to warrant, you know,

677
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:03,800
choosing a particular practice area or work environment.

678
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:08,680
So I think that perspective has been helpful and it's one that I would recommend to other

679
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:12,160
folks who are still in that discernment process about the why.

680
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:15,000
Wow, this is a really good answer.

681
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:16,560
Like you two have gave a really good answer.

682
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:21,680
My less formal tip for my younger self would be find something that you love and stick

683
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:24,080
with it throughout this entire period of time.

684
00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:29,480
If you love to go swimming, if you love to play badminton, if you love to read, keep

685
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:33,800
that with you throughout your entire journey to law school, it will keep you sane and it

686
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:35,320
will keep you balanced.

687
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:40,120
You know, I feel like so many of us, we rushed during this entire journey, we're always thinking

688
00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:43,280
in the next step like, oh, okay, I got to send this to law school, then I'll do this

689
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:47,120
and that, then I can go to XYZ firm and then I'll come back for articling.

690
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:51,320
But I think one thing that I've really learned throughout this process and that I would recommend

691
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:55,720
to not just my younger self, but anyone looking to go to law school is to remember the things

692
00:41:55,720 --> 00:41:58,760
that you love and take those with you on your journey.

693
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:03,400
Take time to spend time with your family and friends, take time to go outside and explore

694
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:04,680
the city.

695
00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:09,120
I think oftentimes we get so caught up in the process that our brains are wired to think

696
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:14,760
100% about recruitment and grades and all that and those are of course very important,

697
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:19,240
but I think it's also extremely important to make sure your life is balanced so that

698
00:42:19,240 --> 00:42:23,200
you also get to enjoy life throughout this process and that you're not leaving things

699
00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:27,560
behind that you don't want to just because you want a certain job title or want to work

700
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:29,240
in a certain career.

701
00:42:29,240 --> 00:42:33,840
And I think, you know, in terms of the mentors I look up to, they're able to achieve both

702
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:38,040
and that's something that's really inspiring to me is that people don't have to lose the

703
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:42,120
part of themselves that makes them happy in exchange for a job.

704
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:45,920
And in the end, the best case scenario is of course if both your job and the things

705
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:47,520
that you love make you happy as well.

706
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:52,000
So I would recommend that to anyone who's looking to pursue a career in law.

707
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:56,940
Now my final question is, and this is kind of similar, but instead of talking to students

708
00:42:56,940 --> 00:43:01,920
who might be thinking go to law school, what would you say to parents who have kids that

709
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:03,000
want to go to law school?

710
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:07,840
What would you say to them to kind of give them more confidence in their children's decisions

711
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:10,340
to pursue this type of career?

712
00:43:10,340 --> 00:43:14,080
What would help them the most in this point of their children's lives?

713
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:15,080
Sure.

714
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:21,320
I think on my end, I would advise parents or guardians or any kind of, I guess, person

715
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:27,600
who is taking interest in the outcome of the law school applicant would probably just be

716
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:33,080
to, you know, despite best intentions and efforts to really understand the process,

717
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:39,720
it's okay if you don't because the person involved in the process, the applicant or

718
00:43:39,720 --> 00:43:45,360
the person contemplating becoming an applicant probably doesn't have to figure it out themselves.

719
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:47,160
It's a black box and that's okay.

720
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:54,560
So, you know, as much as it might be easy to kind of take on the same stress as the

721
00:43:54,560 --> 00:44:01,560
prospective law student, maybe just trying as hard as it may be to just accept that,

722
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:06,480
you know, it's unreasonable to ever fully understand the whole situation and it might

723
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:09,360
be uncomfortable, you know, it's ultimately okay.

724
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:13,200
So just try to be supportive, I think, with that in mind.

725
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:15,160
Yeah, I echo all of that.

726
00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:20,520
I think the most important thing that really got me through to where I am today is having

727
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:26,680
a really great support system in my parents, you know, in my friends and my partner, etc.

728
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:34,000
And it makes a world of difference knowing that the people around you understand or are

729
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:37,840
trying to understand and are being patient with you as you're trying to figure out what

730
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:39,440
you're doing with your life.

731
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:44,680
And you know, as you're studying for exams super late into the night and might have to,

732
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:49,980
you know, cancel the dinner or like you can't make a certain event and being understanding

733
00:44:49,980 --> 00:44:56,400
of that because this profession does take a lot of time and it does take sacrifice on

734
00:44:56,400 --> 00:45:00,480
the person doing it but also on the people around them.

735
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:07,800
And while their patience is not infinite, and I don't mean to say that, you know, you

736
00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:11,400
should take advantage and just, you know, cancel plans all the time and like I would

737
00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:13,840
never recommend that obviously.

738
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:19,360
But if you have someone in your life that is looking to go to law school or is in law

739
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:26,880
school, I think the most important thing is to be supportive and to be a person in their

740
00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:33,320
corner championing them and just being someone who can be a safe space.

741
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:36,080
The person is probably very hard on themselves.

742
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:41,680
If they're anything like me, and I know a lot of my friends who went to law school also

743
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:46,180
are like this, where, you know, you're so hard on yourself and you judge yourself so

744
00:45:46,180 --> 00:45:53,400
harshly based on your grades and your performance and you know what job you get during recruitment,

745
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:59,280
that if you can be the person who can just be so understanding and just a safe place

746
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:05,280
for them to just be a person that makes a huge, huge difference.

747
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:08,560
Yeah, and I definitely agree with both of you.

748
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:13,480
And I think really can be distilled into two words and my recommendation to any parent

749
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:17,640
or guardian who has a child who wants to go to law school is just this.

750
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:18,640
Be there.

751
00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:22,440
Be there for your kids throughout this whole process because it will be a long process

752
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:26,680
and you know, you can take it from me, Daphne and Bronte, we're here today, that it will

753
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:31,480
be very long, but it's also a very rewarding process and being there for your kids along

754
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:33,680
the way will mean so much to them.

755
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:37,640
You know, especially like my mom, she'd been there for me every step of the way and making

756
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:42,560
sure that I was following everything I needed to in order to get to law school and beyond

757
00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:47,680
and just being there and checking in with your children, asking them how they're doing,

758
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:51,280
asking them whether or not the choices that they're making align with their interests

759
00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:52,280
and their needs.

760
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:55,660
I think it's so important to have that support system in place.

761
00:46:55,660 --> 00:46:59,600
And we've talked about support systems a lot throughout this podcast episode already, but

762
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:03,320
it really is important and crucial to have to have those people in your life that you

763
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:08,320
can look up to or that you can be that person for your kids to let them know that everything's

764
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:11,760
going to be okay in time and that you will support them no matter what.

765
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:16,960
I think throughout all the stress that comes into the journey, it is so, so, so beneficial

766
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:21,360
to have someone to look up to, like a parent who says that everything's going to be okay

767
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:22,940
in the end.

768
00:47:22,940 --> 00:47:26,760
But apart from that, those are all the questions I have for the two of you today.

769
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:31,120
I want to thank you both so much for joining me on this episode of Law Syrup and for having

770
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:37,280
a little mini high school reunion because honestly, the last time I saw you guys together,

771
00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:38,280
what year was that?

772
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:41,160
Oh my gosh, probably graduation, wasn't it?

773
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:42,160
It might've been.

774
00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:45,280
And that was like, was that, well, how many years ago was that?

775
00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:47,280
That's a very revelatory question, Herman.

776
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:48,280
When did we graduate?

777
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:49,280
I had the same thought last night.

778
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:54,040
I think it has been since the high school graduation that all three of us were together.

779
00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:56,800
No, we had that party at Daphne's house.

780
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:58,440
But that was high school graduation, I think.

781
00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:00,400
The one where we all signed our names on the poster.

782
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:01,400
Oh, we did.

783
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:03,840
Daphne, do you sell that poster?

784
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:04,920
I do actually.

785
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:06,240
It's in my parents' house.

786
00:48:06,240 --> 00:48:07,720
Oh, that's cute.

787
00:48:07,720 --> 00:48:08,720
Yeah.

788
00:48:08,720 --> 00:48:10,720
It's in my, like, it's in my old bedroom.

789
00:48:10,720 --> 00:48:11,720
Oh my gosh.

790
00:48:11,720 --> 00:48:12,720
Yeah.

791
00:48:12,720 --> 00:48:13,720
Okay.

792
00:48:13,720 --> 00:48:16,240
We'll do an in-person reunion soon one day, hopefully.

793
00:48:16,240 --> 00:48:18,440
But thank you so much again for joining us today.

794
00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:21,960
I think today has been a really good day and a really good episode.

795
00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:27,240
And I hope that this episode can serve as a balm or, you know, something that can encourage

796
00:48:27,240 --> 00:48:32,240
students who might not know where their path might lead yet in terms of their career.

797
00:48:32,240 --> 00:48:36,200
And I hope that listening to this episode and listening to your guys' words, it really

798
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:41,200
will help them find a little bit more support and guidance along the way to a lot of school.

799
00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:45,560
So thank you so much to you two for joining me today and until the next time.

800
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:47,160
Thank you so much for having us.

801
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:48,160
What a treat.

802
00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:49,160
Thank you, Herman.

803
00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:51,840
Yes, thank you.

804
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:54,280
Thank you for tuning in to this episode of Law Syrup.

805
00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:59,160
Law Syrup is produced by me, Herman Wong, and the Ontario Justice Education Network.

806
00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:02,800
For more information, check out ojen.ca and our show notes.

807
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See you next time.

