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on? Hey y 'all what's happening? Dude, it's been
what two weeks since we've been up Two weeks
since we've been no, I don't know time is time
is moving so fast with all Because like I know
it was but while you didn't have the grandkids
Oh, I don't know cuz listen them grandkids wore
me out And last Sunday, I was outside. Yeah,
we're going to talk about that. No, we're not
going to talk about it. We're going to get into
that a little bit tonight, too. Yeah, we're helping
out. Lord be offense. Yeah, we're going to talk
about that, too. No, we're not. Before we get
into this topic, we're going to talk about that
tonight. Really? I'm not going to talk about
that. OK. So welcome everybody. We just are glad
to be here as the old folk used to say glad to
be in the number one more time here on the James
H. Glover network with dating while anointed.
I am your host Dr. Rashida Jackson with my host
Mr. James Reverend James H. Glover the third
and This is dating while anointed and I think
a lot of times people want to know what exactly
are we doing or talking about what we're talking
about the challenge of dating when you are set
apart for God's use, because y 'all do know what
anointing means, right? Meaning that you have
a calling that you've already accepted, that
you have a calling that is sure, and that you
know in your knower without a shadow of a doubt
that God has an assignment. on your life. So
with that being said, we just want to keep it
lighthearted tonight. We're going to do some
clowning and talk about some dating horror stories.
I cannot wait. I cannot wait. So for the, for
me, I don't know about James, but for me, for
the last nine years, I have been divorced and
I am not in a relationship right now. Keyword
right now, y 'all. Keyword right now. right now
and dating has been interesting. I won't say
that it sucks or that the dating pool is for
I just think that people have too many options
right now and so if you can be an option for
a moment you cannot be one tomorrow because social
media gives people the um the fantasy right that
they have so many options in the world that so
many people want to be with them are looking
for them simply because of like shares or comments
on a post. So with that, I'm going to get off
of that. So we're going to talk about some dating
horror stories. So James, James is, I call him
son because James is still young and still, you
know, and I have adopted her as my mama. Right.
And so he got it. He want to talk tonight about
some horror stories. I'm going to let him start
this one off because we baby. You know what?
I'm going to come out with a bang. Come on bring
it don't bring it out. So And team away it's
gonna be in this comment. So I know team away.
Don't you say nothing? Don't you say nothing?
So this one right here my cousin introduced us
and Let me be real. I knew I Knew like this has
been going on we floated back and forth for around
But I knew deep down. Let's be real, y 'all.
Anybody that is in mourning, you know deep down
when a person ain't the person that you're supposed
to take to that next level with you. When that
discernment kicks in full speed ahead. Let's
be real. The discernment kicked in, but I started
not to listen. Okay. Okay, I decided I'm gonna
do what I want to do regardless. So me and her
kind of takes back and forth for a while and
did our thing. And while we was doing that, there
happened to be a moment where I go up to see
her. Okay. Team of we, I saw her photo. Team
of we told me, but this ain't it. Yeah. Even
so long. leave us alone. Okay, the prophetess
told you. Told me. I ain't listen. I ain't listen.
So, I go, uh, go up there and we hanging out.
We kicking it and started up by watching Netflix.
Not a Netflix. You got a horror story on Netflix
and chill. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
Okay. So we started off by watching Netflix.
Netflix turned into touching, kissing turned
into kissing turned into Netflix going off and
Pandora coming on. Pandora comes on and our Kelly
talking about seems like you're waiting. Okay.
So needless to say, we all go on. We know what
was about to go down. Why before it could go
down out of nowhere? Now remember, this is a
R &B station there. Okay. I give myself away.
Oh, come on, William McDowell. Come on, William
McDowell for the win. Dude, Moody is killed.
Moody is killed at this moment because it's like
But they do nothing after this, like, any opportunity
was left. So fast forward, make a long story
short, I ended up leaving. Playing was I was
supposed to come back. Even after that, the player
was I'm supposed to go back once a month. He's
not supposed to go back. Let me tell you Jesus
got a sense of humor because he kept me busy
for the rest of that year so much to the point
to where I couldn't sneak back away to go back
up so fast or Ended up finding out some information
one night my cousin and I having a conversation
My cousin's mad at it at this time. So we having
a conversation and my cousin mentions a name
If you know that moment where you hear a name
But she's thinking you you ain't hearing what
you think you hear? And I'm like man, I ain't
here, but I think I heard and all of once I heard
the name again and This time when I heard it
I Might yo I said what's this about like why
you keep saying his name? It's he's like I said
is she's like boy. You don't know who that is
And I'm like, no, I don't know who that is. Who
is it? And she said, bro, I thought you knew.
I'm like, if I would've known, I wouldn't have
been asking you who he is. I said, who is he?
And she's like, that's her baby daddy. He be
up at her house, staying all night, driving her
car. That's just my baby daddy. But now, but
mind you, at this time, anything that she needed
and that helps. I'm making sure it's there. So
you mean to tell me I'm providing while I'm not
there? Mm -hmm. Mm -hmm. Is there nothing that
helps? I'm providing while he's sliding. OK.
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Needless to say, I took out
on the scene because I'm like, you know what?
That was just my sign that I wasn't even supposed
to be doing this anyway. I knew I was supposed
to be doing that That's wild for real like that's
crazy now when I think I'm gonna tell y 'all
a horror story So this one time I was I was much
much younger. This is before I got married. I
was riding I went to a military ball with this
young man, and I don't even I don't think I've
never I don't think I saw him after that. And
that's been over 30 years ago, guys. But let
me tell you what happened. So I went to a military.
She's talking about over 30 years ago. And she's
living like she's 30 right now. Continue. OK.
Clockets. But anyway, the young man, he picked
me up. And he was like, oh, driving my granddaddy's
car. And I'm like, OK, cool. So in the midst
that he picks me up. And I'm from the country,
y 'all. So we riding down a Tulane road and pitch
black on our way to. this um I got so many stories
um on our way to I don't know if we were on our
way back or we had been to the military bow either
way we get pulled over like stopped by the police
all of a sudden all of these empty bottles appear
out of nowhere like I wasn't drinking and he
wasn't drinking but granddaddy had been drinking
so when he stopped all of the bottle shifted
from the back of the car under the seat, like
right up under his feet. I was like, oh my goodness.
And I don't know if he was swerving or what happened.
I don't even remember the reason he didn't stop.
But we were under age. We were not even. We weren't
even 21. So the police office was like, have
y 'all been drinking? And we were like, no. And
then we got to get out of the car, and it's all
these bottles, open bottles, bottles in the car,
because granddaddy had been drinking in the car
and throwing the bottles under the seat. So he
made him do a breathalyzer and go through all
this. We were young, young. And it was so embarrassing,
because now all the people from the event are
passing on the street. And we're not knowing
not knowing that y 'all ain't doing nothing nothing
We hadn't done nothing but Bob Grandaddy's car
like so, you know, so that was like an early
on horror story because it was So embarrassing.
I don't think he ever called me and I know I
didn't ever call him because it was really like
it was one of those things where I Just met you
this was like one of my cousins set us up to
go for me to be his date in another It wasn't
even a military ball in the high school I went
to. I went with him to his in a high school in
a neighboring town. So it was just like, it was
crazy. It was scary because y 'all know, be in
front of the country, you don't play around with
the police, especially not down old dark road,
Tulane highway in the middle of the woods. You
don't never know if you, I mean, even right now,
2020 switch, you don't know if you're going to
make it home. But that was like a early on horror
story of dating. Um, so yeah, I don't know where
that young man is. I actually don't even really
remember his name. I just remember the event
but let me tell y 'all how I will curve and keep
you out of situations that you don't belong in
simply because you have a Call or an anointing
on your life. He will move people and move them
quickly. So I've learned I share this with you
guys too that if somebody because I'm such an
empathetic being because I'm an empathetic person
I have a hard time not sympathizing with the
person even though I know that they should not
be anywhere in my presence or close to me I have
a difficult time sympathize not sympathizing
with them even though you know they playing games
but with that I just pray a simple prayer Lord
only you know the truth behind everything that
is said and done if this person is for me then
Let me know. You know, show me. And if they're
not, cause them to blow away like the wind. Whatever
it is that you got to do, Lord, to move them,
move them. Don't kill them. Don't kill them.
I asked the Lord not to kill them, but move them
away from me. And it's still happening at this
ripe old age of 49. It's still happening. He
will still move them when they are not on purpose
for me. I'm a leader to stop lying about our
age, too, because 49 is crazy when you see people
like the in the 30s. Now, without his gray hair,
peeing his scalp. But yeah. So that's my one.
Now, what else you got? You got to keep it up.
Oh, my goodness. Ooh. I got another really big
one, too. I have the worst time. Oh, my goodness.
Ooh. OK. Here's one. So, good friend of mine,
my cousin, same cousin. It's me and it tells
me, bro, me and my boyfriend got tickets to this
concert. It was a Billie Irish concert. Really?
Okay, cool. So I got tickets and I didn't realize
that he got tickets as well. They got them for
each other for Christmas. here seats are better
than her seats. So they're gonna go with here
seats, but she needs to get rid of her tickets.
Man, who can I see that you wanna go? Yeah, I'll
go. I'm thinking about my hair. I'm single right
now though, who am I gonna take? I got somebody
for you. All right, cool. It's just like a concept.
What's the worst that can happen? So we start
texting. See cool. See straight. But I can tell,
see a little ghetto. See he's just a little ghetto.
I can tell him. I can tell him. So the week of
the concert. I'm supposed to leave out on that
Friday to go up to my cousin's to stay all night.
Because the concert was on Friday night. That
Wednesday. I get a text message from my family,
my great aunt on my mom's side has just passed
away. And the funeral was going to be on that
Friday. Well, that funeral was going to be on
that Saturday. So needless to say, I ended up
not going. But it was like literally God blocked
that one because what he did was he knew I didn't
need to be nowhere near connected. But after
that, man. I got a better one, but I'm gonna
let you go because I got a better one. So what
happened? We just ended up not going like she
got mad because of the simple fact of I Couldn't
go because you know if my grand if my great aunt's
visitation is on that Friday. Oh I gotta be here
with my family Wow, so I have horror stories
y 'all horror stories things that All right.
So, um, and I don't know. And I want to say this,
uh, if this person ever finds this video, I would
love to talk to them. But, um, I went, okay.
So I graduated college and, um, and during my
time of college, we played Coway and volleyball.
And we, um, so, you know, it was a team of girls
and boys and had a lot of people around. And
I'm not a Everything I do is intentional. So
I was SGA president on a board of trustees, vice
president of my nursing class, doing all these
things, right? And so there was this guy at school
and he was just determined that he was in love
with me. But we were in community college. So
let me say that we went to community college
and he already had, I want to say he had been
married. He was young, but I think he had been
married. He had two little kids. his name was
Eric and I'm gonna say his name because if he
ever sees this video I would love to just talk
to him because I don't know what happened to
him after this but so we went oh my gosh so after
watching this video email So after graduation
he had this plan and I can almost at this age
assert what was in his mind but it was not in
mine because I was like young like 19 or 20 and
I was like I'm just like, okay, he's like, okay,
we're gonna go on a cruise after graduation.
Okay, cool. But for him, he's thinking this is
gonna win her over. Now I'm telling you, if I
don't wanna be with you or I don't like you,
I don't care what you do, you can move heaven,
you can move hell, you can do whatever. But he
was insistent, he was like, oh no, I'm gonna
take you, we're gonna go on a cruise, but we're
gonna drive to Miami. And guys, this is so funny
because it's really part of the story about how
I ended up in Miami. But we'll tell that story
another time. But he said, OK, we're going to
drive to Miami. We're going to go on the cruise.
And we're going to come back. So we went. We
drove to Miami. We got on the cruise. It's so
many little things that happen on that cruise.
But I was there with, for me, I was there with
my friend. For him, it was like, OK, I got to
woo her. I got to do all these things right.
So when you go on a cruise, the people move the
beds together. I had them separate them cause
I'm not here for that. Like he was not getting
ready to trap me in no room. Anyway, y 'all understand.
So we went on the cruise and I met some people
cause I'm a people person. I was there hanging
out. I was off the boat going on excursions,
doing all these things. I don't know where he
was because I was not feeling his vibe, right?
So I'm just, I basically saw him at dinner time
and whenever we went in our, in our state room
or whatever. Literally so but knowing and I wasn't
mean to him I just know we got to come back from
Miami now I go travel and I always have people
on alert and know where I'm at where I'm going
and I know somebody in every city or I make a
connection right to know that somebody know somebody
know somebody and what had happened is my Aunt
my great aunt they had lived in Miami before
so there were some people here that if anything
had happened to me or I got in any trouble. I
had a phone number I could call and they knew
I was coming through. Anyway, that's just let
y 'all know. And that's just for safety. Y 'all
should do that anyway. So we had a good time.
I mean, I had the time of my life. We got off
the cruise. We're driving back. We get all the
way back to North Carolina to my mother's street.
The street that my mother's house was on. and
we get pulled over by the police. We have been,
now y 'all mind y 'all, we have driven. What
is it with you and the police? I don't know.
The Lord be trying to protect me. I don't know,
but we had driven all the way to Miami and all
the way back. And we get pulled over by the police,
but this gentleman gets arrested. Why does he
get arrested? Because he has driven me all the
way to Miami and all the way back with a suspended
driver's license and with an expired registration
or something was wrong on the car. And plus his
license had been suspended and they were looking
for him. So he gets arrested. But I have no rights.
I have no, I'm 19 years old. I don't know what
to do when somebody get arrested. I don't know
what to do. So my mom, I called on, I was like,
come get me because the police are taking me
to get arrested. She was like, well, what's going
to happen to the car? I wasn't even a mile from
my mom's house. And I was like, they're going
to told it. They told his car. They put him in
jail in the county that we were in. He was not
from that county, but apparently he had some
stuff going on. I don't really know all the details.
All I know is that I never saw him again after
that day ever. I don't know. I will go to we
went. My mom took me to the jail because the
way the way the jail is in that county is in
the middle of the of the town. So you can drive
around. I don't know if she took me and they
wouldn't tell me anything because I'm not related
to him. They wouldn't tell us anything. I don't
really know what happened to Eric, but. That
was another dating horror story. And it really
was predating, because I don't know, I might
have considered him, but after that I was like,
okay, no, because you have put my life in danger.
What if we had God pull it over in Miami? Horror
story. So what you got? You can call that a date.
Okay, okay. Sorry, I got one point. I got one
more. Sorry. And then I got one more. I got one
more after this one too. Sorry. So here we go.
This one right here. I was, since we're going
cruise, let's go cruise. This one isn't really
dating. I went on a cruise, right? As I get there,
I made the decision. I am not Webber Glover on
these crews. Webber Glover got left in Kentucky.
We're going on to Bahamas. So we get to Florida.
I'm trying to figure out my identity as we get
to Florida. So as we get there, I'm on the beach,
I'm sailing, and these young ladies walk up to
me. it was me and a couple of the guys I could
with. They woke up to us. Y 'all look famous.
Are y 'all famous? So I look at my boys, my boys
with me and we start laughing. I said, yeah,
we are famous. Oh, who are y 'all? I said, we
are new addition. What? We told y 'all was babies,
oh my God, oh my God, oh my God. I said, yeah,
my name is Michael Biffens, but everybody calls
me Mike. That's Ronnie DeVoe over there. And
then we got Ricky Bell over there with him. We
left Ronnie, Johnny. We left Ralph, Johnny and
Bobby in the States. We came out here by ourselves.
Oh wow, that is so cool. Can we get a picture
with y 'all? Yeah, of course. Take pictures.
Now some older women walk up there and she looked
at me and she said, no, I know darn well, y 'all
ain't no new addition. She said, but I'm gonna
make y 'all famous and make these young girls
think as young new addition. Come on. So we took
a photo with her so fast forward. I go, they
had karaoke on the cruise. So I go up there and
I started singing karaoke. The night before the
last night I do I'll make love to you boys to
me So while I'm singing I Don't do it regular.
I walk out there. I'm flirting with the ladies
in the audience all that so I Leave out next
morning. I wake up. I go to this like little
thing on the boat My two cousins was with me
as well So they look at me and they're like,
we get down there to this little funk sitting
on the boat and this woman starts staring a hole
into me. And my cousin's like, do you know her?
I'm like, I have no idea who she is. So finally
she finally built up the courage as he walked
over there to me. She said, you Mike, right?
I said, yeah, I'm Mike. And she said, honey,
I heard you in karaoke and you did amazing. I
said, thank you, thank you. And she said, so
you singing tonight too? I said, nah, probably
not. I said, I'm probably not singing tonight.
She said, oh no, honey, I'm here with my sororities
sisters and I didn't tell them about you. You
got the same. I said, we'll see what I can do.
So I talked to my cousins, I said, yo, check
it out. We go on the karaoke late tonight, because
I'm not trying to sing. So we get to karaoke
late because I'm thinking you get there like
40 minutes late. The car is already full I Got
me no room Well Soon as I walk in them ladies
sitting right there. Oh, no, here he is Come
here honey. Come here. Come here. Come here.
Here's you the song book pick whatever song you
want. You need anything to drink honey Yeah,
water will be nice. Oh honey, I'll get that right
now for you Oh my goodness. So first of all,
Mike. So fast forward. We leave out. Do us on,
I leave out. So now remind you, this is December
in Bahamas. Bahamas in December, like right before
Christmas, the weather is perfect. Like it's
like 80 degrees in the states, they freezing
cold. So. And the Bahamas, I'm walking around,
t -shirt on, basketball shorts, ceiling. So now
we're back in the United States of America. I'm
having to put on a toboggan, a weed sweatshirt,
a jacket, boots, because it's freezing cold.
So I'm like, ain't no way anybody's going to
recognize me. So we out here, we in customs,
and we getting ready to leave. And all at once,
about 30 people in front of us. All at once,
all I hear is, Hey, Mike. Oh my gosh. Me. Hey
ladies. Can we just get your telephone number,
Mike? Yeah, sure. I got my fake text that telephone
number. So fast, boy. May, July. I'm out with
one of my other cousins. And we are the Martin
Luther King Day. in this king museum. So we at
the gift shop and there's this woman standing
there holding to you. That's it. I ain't never
seen her day in my life. So I finally get what
I'm getting and I'm leaving out. And the woman
said, I'm so sorry. She said, but I got a question
for you. I said, yeah, what's going on? She said,
what's your name? I said, my name is James Glover.
I said, my name is James. He says, everything
OK? She said, honey, I was in the Bahamas in
December. And I met a man that looks just like
you. And his name was Mike. I said, well, you
know, they say everybody got a twin wife. Have
a good day, man. So y 'all y 'all got to watch
out for James because he changes his um he impersonates
other people and changes his name. So oh Yeah,
we can that day Like literally that time when
I tell y 'all like Lizzie There was enough my
cousins were being their wombs by 12 midnight
Going to bed I'm going to the parties on the
boat. Oh, I'm sailing I'm not going back into
the room until about 435 o 'clock. I know that's
right. So they get enough time about let's go
eat breakfast. Man, I'm just getting back in
the room. Y 'all wake me up when it's time to
go to the excursion. So I'll meet up with y 'all
then. So even then, like as we walking out there
on the boat, people stopped me. Hey, Mike. Hey,
ladies. How y 'all doing? It's good seeing you,
Mike. Good to see y 'all, too. Moral of the story
is don't play it because they could follow you
all the way. Oh, wait, wait, wait, it is what
is even funnier is So that last night I sung
like I was asked to so I get off the stage And
a guy that I know from sinking He walks up behind
me. He's James And I might Who in the heck is
calling me by my government? It's all the background.
I'm like, man, what up? He said, man, come here,
come here, come here. So he takes me over there
to his fiance. He said, I told you I knew him.
He said, he said, see, tell me I didn't know
you. He see, tell me I didn't know you. And she
said, well, he said, I know him. And he's like,
I'm like, how do you know him? He said, I know
him from singing, but his name ain't Mike. His
name is not Mike. So more or less the story is,
do not tell lies, people. So listen, that's been
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don't y 'all be discouraged. Keep dating, keep
getting data, keep finding out. what other people
have on their minds and what's going on, because
if you keep it up, eventually you will stumble
across what God has purposed for you, whether
it be that you are a man searching, looking for
your wife, or you are a woman waiting to be found.
We all must give God something to work with.
One thing that is for sure. and another is certain
that you cannot experience the supernatural without
doing the natural. Faith without works is dead
even in your dating life. You cannot expect for
him to show up in your living room while you're
watching Netflix by yourself. You got to get
out and be among the people. Do the natural thing
so God can do the supernatural. God bless you.
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