WEBVTT 00:00:12.700 --> 00:00:15.480 Yeah, yeah, you say you say you say you're ready 00:00:15.480 --> 00:00:18.359 today. You say you're ready. You feel like it's 00:00:18.359 --> 00:00:22.100 fate. Join Jay's and Dr. J. Sunday's 10 p .m. 00:00:22.940 --> 00:00:26.879 Don't be late for dating while anointing Sunday's 00:00:26.879 --> 00:00:37.000 10 p .m. It's great What is You are what is going 00:00:37.000 --> 00:00:41.179 on? Hey y 'all what's happening? Dude, it's been 00:00:41.179 --> 00:00:45.979 what two weeks since we've been up Two weeks 00:00:45.979 --> 00:00:49.759 since we've been no, I don't know time is time 00:00:49.759 --> 00:00:54.039 is moving so fast with all Because like I know 00:00:54.039 --> 00:00:56.960 it was but while you didn't have the grandkids 00:00:56.960 --> 00:01:01.659 Oh, I don't know cuz listen them grandkids wore 00:01:01.659 --> 00:01:08.090 me out And last Sunday, I was outside. Yeah, 00:01:08.549 --> 00:01:10.530 we're going to talk about that. No, we're not 00:01:10.530 --> 00:01:11.590 going to talk about it. We're going to get into 00:01:11.590 --> 00:01:14.689 that a little bit tonight, too. Yeah, we're helping 00:01:14.689 --> 00:01:19.430 out. Lord be offense. Yeah, we're going to talk 00:01:19.430 --> 00:01:21.909 about that, too. No, we're not. Before we get 00:01:21.909 --> 00:01:23.769 into this topic, we're going to talk about that 00:01:23.769 --> 00:01:26.189 tonight. Really? I'm not going to talk about 00:01:26.189 --> 00:01:31.140 that. OK. So welcome everybody. We just are glad 00:01:31.140 --> 00:01:35.019 to be here as the old folk used to say glad to 00:01:35.019 --> 00:01:37.319 be in the number one more time here on the James 00:01:37.319 --> 00:01:40.200 H. Glover network with dating while anointed. 00:01:40.400 --> 00:01:43.900 I am your host Dr. Rashida Jackson with my host 00:01:43.900 --> 00:01:47.519 Mr. James Reverend James H. Glover the third 00:01:47.519 --> 00:01:51.000 and This is dating while anointed and I think 00:01:51.000 --> 00:01:53.340 a lot of times people want to know what exactly 00:01:53.340 --> 00:01:56.019 are we doing or talking about what we're talking 00:01:56.019 --> 00:02:00.540 about the challenge of dating when you are set 00:02:00.540 --> 00:02:03.260 apart for God's use, because y 'all do know what 00:02:03.260 --> 00:02:05.340 anointing means, right? Meaning that you have 00:02:05.340 --> 00:02:08.460 a calling that you've already accepted, that 00:02:08.460 --> 00:02:14.580 you have a calling that is sure, and that you 00:02:14.580 --> 00:02:16.819 know in your knower without a shadow of a doubt 00:02:16.819 --> 00:02:20.659 that God has an assignment. on your life. So 00:02:20.659 --> 00:02:22.800 with that being said, we just want to keep it 00:02:22.800 --> 00:02:24.379 lighthearted tonight. We're going to do some 00:02:24.379 --> 00:02:28.699 clowning and talk about some dating horror stories. 00:02:29.400 --> 00:02:35.060 I cannot wait. I cannot wait. So for the, for 00:02:35.060 --> 00:02:37.020 me, I don't know about James, but for me, for 00:02:37.020 --> 00:02:41.759 the last nine years, I have been divorced and 00:02:41.759 --> 00:02:46.479 I am not in a relationship right now. Keyword 00:02:46.479 --> 00:02:49.550 right now, y 'all. Keyword right now. right now 00:02:49.550 --> 00:02:53.229 and dating has been interesting. I won't say 00:02:53.229 --> 00:02:55.229 that it sucks or that the dating pool is for 00:02:55.229 --> 00:02:58.449 I just think that people have too many options 00:02:58.449 --> 00:03:01.050 right now and so if you can be an option for 00:03:01.050 --> 00:03:04.250 a moment you cannot be one tomorrow because social 00:03:04.250 --> 00:03:09.610 media gives people the um the fantasy right that 00:03:09.610 --> 00:03:12.810 they have so many options in the world that so 00:03:12.810 --> 00:03:14.710 many people want to be with them are looking 00:03:14.710 --> 00:03:17.629 for them simply because of like shares or comments 00:03:17.629 --> 00:03:20.830 on a post. So with that, I'm going to get off 00:03:20.830 --> 00:03:22.650 of that. So we're going to talk about some dating 00:03:22.650 --> 00:03:28.949 horror stories. So James, James is, I call him 00:03:28.949 --> 00:03:33.169 son because James is still young and still, you 00:03:33.169 --> 00:03:36.389 know, and I have adopted her as my mama. Right. 00:03:36.569 --> 00:03:38.330 And so he got it. He want to talk tonight about 00:03:38.330 --> 00:03:39.990 some horror stories. I'm going to let him start 00:03:39.990 --> 00:03:44.810 this one off because we baby. You know what? 00:03:44.930 --> 00:03:47.340 I'm going to come out with a bang. Come on bring 00:03:47.340 --> 00:03:52.879 it don't bring it out. So And team away it's 00:03:52.879 --> 00:03:55.659 gonna be in this comment. So I know team away. 00:03:55.719 --> 00:03:58.039 Don't you say nothing? Don't you say nothing? 00:03:58.780 --> 00:04:03.840 So this one right here my cousin introduced us 00:04:03.840 --> 00:04:12.219 and Let me be real. I knew I Knew like this has 00:04:12.219 --> 00:04:15.240 been going on we floated back and forth for around 00:04:16.149 --> 00:04:20.790 But I knew deep down. Let's be real, y 'all. 00:04:21.209 --> 00:04:24.129 Anybody that is in mourning, you know deep down 00:04:24.129 --> 00:04:28.889 when a person ain't the person that you're supposed 00:04:28.889 --> 00:04:31.089 to take to that next level with you. When that 00:04:31.089 --> 00:04:36.209 discernment kicks in full speed ahead. Let's 00:04:36.209 --> 00:04:40.470 be real. The discernment kicked in, but I started 00:04:40.470 --> 00:04:45.860 not to listen. Okay. Okay, I decided I'm gonna 00:04:45.860 --> 00:04:51.500 do what I want to do regardless. So me and her 00:04:51.500 --> 00:04:54.540 kind of takes back and forth for a while and 00:04:54.540 --> 00:04:58.639 did our thing. And while we was doing that, there 00:04:58.639 --> 00:05:03.779 happened to be a moment where I go up to see 00:05:03.779 --> 00:05:10.040 her. Okay. Team of we, I saw her photo. Team 00:05:10.040 --> 00:05:13.459 of we told me, but this ain't it. Yeah. Even 00:05:13.459 --> 00:05:17.199 so long. leave us alone. Okay, the prophetess 00:05:17.199 --> 00:05:24.519 told you. Told me. I ain't listen. I ain't listen. 00:05:25.240 --> 00:05:31.379 So, I go, uh, go up there and we hanging out. 00:05:31.959 --> 00:05:37.980 We kicking it and started up by watching Netflix. 00:05:38.980 --> 00:05:42.199 Not a Netflix. You got a horror story on Netflix 00:05:42.199 --> 00:05:44.509 and chill. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. 00:05:44.910 --> 00:05:48.129 Okay. So we started off by watching Netflix. 00:05:49.170 --> 00:05:53.310 Netflix turned into touching, kissing turned 00:05:53.310 --> 00:05:56.769 into kissing turned into Netflix going off and 00:05:56.769 --> 00:06:02.649 Pandora coming on. Pandora comes on and our Kelly 00:06:02.649 --> 00:06:07.250 talking about seems like you're waiting. Okay. 00:06:08.949 --> 00:06:12.730 So needless to say, we all go on. We know what 00:06:12.730 --> 00:06:16.050 was about to go down. Why before it could go 00:06:16.050 --> 00:06:19.189 down out of nowhere? Now remember, this is a 00:06:19.189 --> 00:06:25.509 R &B station there. Okay. I give myself away. 00:06:28.250 --> 00:06:31.170 Oh, come on, William McDowell. Come on, William 00:06:31.170 --> 00:06:36.089 McDowell for the win. Dude, Moody is killed. 00:06:36.810 --> 00:06:39.870 Moody is killed at this moment because it's like 00:06:40.300 --> 00:06:44.660 But they do nothing after this, like, any opportunity 00:06:44.660 --> 00:06:49.600 was left. So fast forward, make a long story 00:06:49.600 --> 00:06:53.439 short, I ended up leaving. Playing was I was 00:06:53.439 --> 00:06:56.420 supposed to come back. Even after that, the player 00:06:56.420 --> 00:06:59.579 was I'm supposed to go back once a month. He's 00:06:59.579 --> 00:07:03.459 not supposed to go back. Let me tell you Jesus 00:07:03.459 --> 00:07:05.879 got a sense of humor because he kept me busy 00:07:05.879 --> 00:07:08.600 for the rest of that year so much to the point 00:07:08.600 --> 00:07:11.360 to where I couldn't sneak back away to go back 00:07:11.360 --> 00:07:16.939 up so fast or Ended up finding out some information 00:07:16.939 --> 00:07:19.540 one night my cousin and I having a conversation 00:07:19.540 --> 00:07:23.579 My cousin's mad at it at this time. So we having 00:07:23.579 --> 00:07:27.220 a conversation and my cousin mentions a name 00:07:27.220 --> 00:07:30.759 If you know that moment where you hear a name 00:07:31.410 --> 00:07:33.970 But she's thinking you you ain't hearing what 00:07:33.970 --> 00:07:39.170 you think you hear? And I'm like man, I ain't 00:07:39.170 --> 00:07:42.829 here, but I think I heard and all of once I heard 00:07:42.829 --> 00:07:46.689 the name again and This time when I heard it 00:07:46.689 --> 00:07:51.129 I Might yo I said what's this about like why 00:07:51.129 --> 00:07:54.689 you keep saying his name? It's he's like I said 00:07:54.689 --> 00:07:56.949 is she's like boy. You don't know who that is 00:07:58.959 --> 00:08:01.740 And I'm like, no, I don't know who that is. Who 00:08:01.740 --> 00:08:04.120 is it? And she said, bro, I thought you knew. 00:08:05.199 --> 00:08:09.500 I'm like, if I would've known, I wouldn't have 00:08:09.500 --> 00:08:14.319 been asking you who he is. I said, who is he? 00:08:14.740 --> 00:08:18.120 And she's like, that's her baby daddy. He be 00:08:18.120 --> 00:08:21.800 up at her house, staying all night, driving her 00:08:21.800 --> 00:08:27.459 car. That's just my baby daddy. But now, but 00:08:27.459 --> 00:08:31.699 mind you, at this time, anything that she needed 00:08:31.699 --> 00:08:37.740 and that helps. I'm making sure it's there. So 00:08:37.740 --> 00:08:41.759 you mean to tell me I'm providing while I'm not 00:08:41.759 --> 00:08:44.500 there? Mm -hmm. Mm -hmm. Is there nothing that 00:08:44.500 --> 00:08:48.620 helps? I'm providing while he's sliding. OK. 00:08:48.720 --> 00:08:53.139 Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Needless to say, I took out 00:08:53.139 --> 00:08:55.220 on the scene because I'm like, you know what? 00:08:56.189 --> 00:08:58.389 That was just my sign that I wasn't even supposed 00:08:58.389 --> 00:09:00.590 to be doing this anyway. I knew I was supposed 00:09:00.590 --> 00:09:06.289 to be doing that That's wild for real like that's 00:09:06.289 --> 00:09:08.649 crazy now when I think I'm gonna tell y 'all 00:09:08.649 --> 00:09:12.970 a horror story So this one time I was I was much 00:09:12.970 --> 00:09:14.909 much younger. This is before I got married. I 00:09:14.909 --> 00:09:18.830 was riding I went to a military ball with this 00:09:18.830 --> 00:09:22.309 young man, and I don't even I don't think I've 00:09:22.309 --> 00:09:25.460 never I don't think I saw him after that. And 00:09:25.460 --> 00:09:27.419 that's been over 30 years ago, guys. But let 00:09:27.419 --> 00:09:28.960 me tell you what happened. So I went to a military. 00:09:29.340 --> 00:09:31.500 She's talking about over 30 years ago. And she's 00:09:31.500 --> 00:09:33.879 living like she's 30 right now. Continue. OK. 00:09:34.519 --> 00:09:39.419 Clockets. But anyway, the young man, he picked 00:09:39.419 --> 00:09:43.139 me up. And he was like, oh, driving my granddaddy's 00:09:43.139 --> 00:09:45.639 car. And I'm like, OK, cool. So in the midst 00:09:45.639 --> 00:09:47.799 that he picks me up. And I'm from the country, 00:09:47.940 --> 00:09:51.100 y 'all. So we riding down a Tulane road and pitch 00:09:51.100 --> 00:09:56.379 black on our way to. this um I got so many stories 00:09:56.379 --> 00:09:59.240 um on our way to I don't know if we were on our 00:09:59.240 --> 00:10:02.559 way back or we had been to the military bow either 00:10:02.559 --> 00:10:07.279 way we get pulled over like stopped by the police 00:10:07.279 --> 00:10:12.580 all of a sudden all of these empty bottles appear 00:10:12.580 --> 00:10:15.539 out of nowhere like I wasn't drinking and he 00:10:15.539 --> 00:10:18.159 wasn't drinking but granddaddy had been drinking 00:10:18.159 --> 00:10:23.220 so when he stopped all of the bottle shifted 00:10:23.220 --> 00:10:26.419 from the back of the car under the seat, like 00:10:26.419 --> 00:10:29.919 right up under his feet. I was like, oh my goodness. 00:10:30.299 --> 00:10:32.440 And I don't know if he was swerving or what happened. 00:10:32.519 --> 00:10:35.100 I don't even remember the reason he didn't stop. 00:10:35.799 --> 00:10:39.759 But we were under age. We were not even. We weren't 00:10:39.759 --> 00:10:42.279 even 21. So the police office was like, have 00:10:42.279 --> 00:10:45.129 y 'all been drinking? And we were like, no. And 00:10:45.129 --> 00:10:47.450 then we got to get out of the car, and it's all 00:10:47.450 --> 00:10:50.629 these bottles, open bottles, bottles in the car, 00:10:50.710 --> 00:10:52.269 because granddaddy had been drinking in the car 00:10:52.269 --> 00:10:56.370 and throwing the bottles under the seat. So he 00:10:56.370 --> 00:10:59.350 made him do a breathalyzer and go through all 00:10:59.350 --> 00:11:03.389 this. We were young, young. And it was so embarrassing, 00:11:03.389 --> 00:11:06.330 because now all the people from the event are 00:11:06.330 --> 00:11:11.919 passing on the street. And we're not knowing 00:11:11.919 --> 00:11:15.240 not knowing that y 'all ain't doing nothing nothing 00:11:15.240 --> 00:11:17.779 We hadn't done nothing but Bob Grandaddy's car 00:11:17.779 --> 00:11:21.059 like so, you know, so that was like an early 00:11:21.059 --> 00:11:24.399 on horror story because it was So embarrassing. 00:11:24.720 --> 00:11:26.559 I don't think he ever called me and I know I 00:11:26.559 --> 00:11:28.379 didn't ever call him because it was really like 00:11:28.379 --> 00:11:32.419 it was one of those things where I Just met you 00:11:32.419 --> 00:11:35.279 this was like one of my cousins set us up to 00:11:35.279 --> 00:11:39.000 go for me to be his date in another It wasn't 00:11:39.000 --> 00:11:41.519 even a military ball in the high school I went 00:11:41.519 --> 00:11:44.559 to. I went with him to his in a high school in 00:11:44.559 --> 00:11:47.879 a neighboring town. So it was just like, it was 00:11:47.879 --> 00:11:50.440 crazy. It was scary because y 'all know, be in 00:11:50.440 --> 00:11:51.919 front of the country, you don't play around with 00:11:51.919 --> 00:11:55.100 the police, especially not down old dark road, 00:11:55.320 --> 00:11:57.379 Tulane highway in the middle of the woods. You 00:11:57.379 --> 00:11:59.779 don't never know if you, I mean, even right now, 00:11:59.899 --> 00:12:01.340 2020 switch, you don't know if you're going to 00:12:01.340 --> 00:12:05.639 make it home. But that was like a early on horror 00:12:05.639 --> 00:12:09.440 story of dating. Um, so yeah, I don't know where 00:12:09.440 --> 00:12:11.299 that young man is. I actually don't even really 00:12:11.299 --> 00:12:13.259 remember his name. I just remember the event 00:12:13.259 --> 00:12:17.000 but let me tell y 'all how I will curve and keep 00:12:17.000 --> 00:12:20.799 you out of situations that you don't belong in 00:12:20.799 --> 00:12:26.759 simply because you have a Call or an anointing 00:12:26.759 --> 00:12:29.259 on your life. He will move people and move them 00:12:29.259 --> 00:12:31.419 quickly. So I've learned I share this with you 00:12:31.419 --> 00:12:34.639 guys too that if somebody because I'm such an 00:12:34.639 --> 00:12:38.700 empathetic being because I'm an empathetic person 00:12:38.700 --> 00:12:41.980 I have a hard time not sympathizing with the 00:12:41.980 --> 00:12:44.519 person even though I know that they should not 00:12:44.519 --> 00:12:47.960 be anywhere in my presence or close to me I have 00:12:47.960 --> 00:12:51.799 a difficult time sympathize not sympathizing 00:12:51.799 --> 00:12:54.679 with them even though you know they playing games 00:12:54.679 --> 00:12:58.480 but with that I just pray a simple prayer Lord 00:12:58.480 --> 00:13:01.399 only you know the truth behind everything that 00:13:01.399 --> 00:13:04.340 is said and done if this person is for me then 00:13:04.759 --> 00:13:08.379 Let me know. You know, show me. And if they're 00:13:08.379 --> 00:13:12.779 not, cause them to blow away like the wind. Whatever 00:13:12.779 --> 00:13:14.899 it is that you got to do, Lord, to move them, 00:13:15.039 --> 00:13:17.600 move them. Don't kill them. Don't kill them. 00:13:17.860 --> 00:13:20.159 I asked the Lord not to kill them, but move them 00:13:20.159 --> 00:13:24.179 away from me. And it's still happening at this 00:13:24.179 --> 00:13:27.799 ripe old age of 49. It's still happening. He 00:13:27.799 --> 00:13:31.500 will still move them when they are not on purpose 00:13:31.500 --> 00:13:35.330 for me. I'm a leader to stop lying about our 00:13:35.330 --> 00:13:38.690 age, too, because 49 is crazy when you see people 00:13:38.690 --> 00:13:42.289 like the in the 30s. Now, without his gray hair, 00:13:42.450 --> 00:13:46.789 peeing his scalp. But yeah. So that's my one. 00:13:46.889 --> 00:13:48.929 Now, what else you got? You got to keep it up. 00:13:49.009 --> 00:13:53.570 Oh, my goodness. Ooh. I got another really big 00:13:53.570 --> 00:13:56.909 one, too. I have the worst time. Oh, my goodness. 00:13:57.470 --> 00:14:05.139 Ooh. OK. Here's one. So, good friend of mine, 00:14:06.039 --> 00:14:11.360 my cousin, same cousin. It's me and it tells 00:14:11.360 --> 00:14:15.399 me, bro, me and my boyfriend got tickets to this 00:14:15.399 --> 00:14:20.139 concert. It was a Billie Irish concert. Really? 00:14:20.440 --> 00:14:25.799 Okay, cool. So I got tickets and I didn't realize 00:14:25.799 --> 00:14:29.139 that he got tickets as well. They got them for 00:14:29.139 --> 00:14:32.330 each other for Christmas. here seats are better 00:14:32.330 --> 00:14:35.169 than her seats. So they're gonna go with here 00:14:35.169 --> 00:14:37.769 seats, but she needs to get rid of her tickets. 00:14:39.929 --> 00:14:44.230 Man, who can I see that you wanna go? Yeah, I'll 00:14:44.230 --> 00:14:47.809 go. I'm thinking about my hair. I'm single right 00:14:47.809 --> 00:14:50.769 now though, who am I gonna take? I got somebody 00:14:50.769 --> 00:14:55.429 for you. All right, cool. It's just like a concept. 00:14:56.490 --> 00:15:00.279 What's the worst that can happen? So we start 00:15:00.279 --> 00:15:07.960 texting. See cool. See straight. But I can tell, 00:15:08.279 --> 00:15:11.059 see a little ghetto. See he's just a little ghetto. 00:15:11.419 --> 00:15:17.000 I can tell him. I can tell him. So the week of 00:15:17.000 --> 00:15:21.360 the concert. I'm supposed to leave out on that 00:15:21.360 --> 00:15:23.799 Friday to go up to my cousin's to stay all night. 00:15:24.259 --> 00:15:28.080 Because the concert was on Friday night. That 00:15:28.080 --> 00:15:32.629 Wednesday. I get a text message from my family, 00:15:33.009 --> 00:15:35.830 my great aunt on my mom's side has just passed 00:15:35.830 --> 00:15:38.870 away. And the funeral was going to be on that 00:15:38.870 --> 00:15:41.049 Friday. Well, that funeral was going to be on 00:15:41.049 --> 00:15:44.789 that Saturday. So needless to say, I ended up 00:15:44.789 --> 00:15:47.730 not going. But it was like literally God blocked 00:15:47.730 --> 00:15:51.629 that one because what he did was he knew I didn't 00:15:51.629 --> 00:15:56.610 need to be nowhere near connected. But after 00:15:56.610 --> 00:16:03.190 that, man. I got a better one, but I'm gonna 00:16:03.190 --> 00:16:06.309 let you go because I got a better one. So what 00:16:06.309 --> 00:16:10.049 happened? We just ended up not going like she 00:16:10.049 --> 00:16:13.909 got mad because of the simple fact of I Couldn't 00:16:13.909 --> 00:16:17.490 go because you know if my grand if my great aunt's 00:16:17.490 --> 00:16:20.610 visitation is on that Friday. Oh I gotta be here 00:16:20.610 --> 00:16:25.990 with my family Wow, so I have horror stories 00:16:25.990 --> 00:16:30.519 y 'all horror stories things that All right. 00:16:30.860 --> 00:16:34.100 So, um, and I don't know. And I want to say this, 00:16:34.139 --> 00:16:37.179 uh, if this person ever finds this video, I would 00:16:37.179 --> 00:16:42.100 love to talk to them. But, um, I went, okay. 00:16:42.179 --> 00:16:48.000 So I graduated college and, um, and during my 00:16:48.000 --> 00:16:50.059 time of college, we played Coway and volleyball. 00:16:51.320 --> 00:16:54.139 And we, um, so, you know, it was a team of girls 00:16:54.139 --> 00:16:56.700 and boys and had a lot of people around. And 00:16:56.700 --> 00:17:01.950 I'm not a Everything I do is intentional. So 00:17:01.950 --> 00:17:07.089 I was SGA president on a board of trustees, vice 00:17:07.089 --> 00:17:09.069 president of my nursing class, doing all these 00:17:09.069 --> 00:17:12.150 things, right? And so there was this guy at school 00:17:12.150 --> 00:17:14.849 and he was just determined that he was in love 00:17:14.849 --> 00:17:17.450 with me. But we were in community college. So 00:17:17.450 --> 00:17:18.950 let me say that we went to community college 00:17:18.950 --> 00:17:22.150 and he already had, I want to say he had been 00:17:22.150 --> 00:17:25.009 married. He was young, but I think he had been 00:17:25.009 --> 00:17:29.200 married. He had two little kids. his name was 00:17:29.200 --> 00:17:31.700 Eric and I'm gonna say his name because if he 00:17:31.700 --> 00:17:33.900 ever sees this video I would love to just talk 00:17:33.900 --> 00:17:35.200 to him because I don't know what happened to 00:17:35.200 --> 00:17:42.920 him after this but so we went oh my gosh so after 00:17:42.920 --> 00:17:50.140 watching this video email So after graduation 00:17:50.140 --> 00:17:54.900 he had this plan and I can almost at this age 00:17:54.900 --> 00:17:57.319 assert what was in his mind but it was not in 00:17:57.319 --> 00:18:00.920 mine because I was like young like 19 or 20 and 00:18:00.920 --> 00:18:04.960 I was like I'm just like, okay, he's like, okay, 00:18:05.000 --> 00:18:06.799 we're gonna go on a cruise after graduation. 00:18:07.220 --> 00:18:09.700 Okay, cool. But for him, he's thinking this is 00:18:09.700 --> 00:18:12.059 gonna win her over. Now I'm telling you, if I 00:18:12.059 --> 00:18:13.880 don't wanna be with you or I don't like you, 00:18:13.960 --> 00:18:15.400 I don't care what you do, you can move heaven, 00:18:15.579 --> 00:18:19.539 you can move hell, you can do whatever. But he 00:18:19.539 --> 00:18:21.720 was insistent, he was like, oh no, I'm gonna 00:18:21.720 --> 00:18:23.660 take you, we're gonna go on a cruise, but we're 00:18:23.660 --> 00:18:27.619 gonna drive to Miami. And guys, this is so funny 00:18:27.619 --> 00:18:29.799 because it's really part of the story about how 00:18:29.799 --> 00:18:32.799 I ended up in Miami. But we'll tell that story 00:18:32.799 --> 00:18:34.759 another time. But he said, OK, we're going to 00:18:34.759 --> 00:18:36.279 drive to Miami. We're going to go on the cruise. 00:18:36.380 --> 00:18:38.400 And we're going to come back. So we went. We 00:18:38.400 --> 00:18:42.920 drove to Miami. We got on the cruise. It's so 00:18:42.920 --> 00:18:44.660 many little things that happen on that cruise. 00:18:45.079 --> 00:18:47.759 But I was there with, for me, I was there with 00:18:47.759 --> 00:18:50.759 my friend. For him, it was like, OK, I got to 00:18:50.759 --> 00:18:52.500 woo her. I got to do all these things right. 00:18:52.660 --> 00:18:55.660 So when you go on a cruise, the people move the 00:18:55.660 --> 00:18:58.420 beds together. I had them separate them cause 00:18:58.420 --> 00:19:00.779 I'm not here for that. Like he was not getting 00:19:00.779 --> 00:19:03.480 ready to trap me in no room. Anyway, y 'all understand. 00:19:05.119 --> 00:19:08.359 So we went on the cruise and I met some people 00:19:08.359 --> 00:19:11.119 cause I'm a people person. I was there hanging 00:19:11.119 --> 00:19:13.779 out. I was off the boat going on excursions, 00:19:13.900 --> 00:19:15.279 doing all these things. I don't know where he 00:19:15.279 --> 00:19:18.339 was because I was not feeling his vibe, right? 00:19:18.519 --> 00:19:22.160 So I'm just, I basically saw him at dinner time 00:19:22.160 --> 00:19:24.980 and whenever we went in our, in our state room 00:19:24.980 --> 00:19:29.789 or whatever. Literally so but knowing and I wasn't 00:19:29.789 --> 00:19:32.490 mean to him I just know we got to come back from 00:19:32.490 --> 00:19:36.309 Miami now I go travel and I always have people 00:19:36.309 --> 00:19:38.609 on alert and know where I'm at where I'm going 00:19:38.609 --> 00:19:42.230 and I know somebody in every city or I make a 00:19:42.230 --> 00:19:45.329 connection right to know that somebody know somebody 00:19:45.329 --> 00:19:48.769 know somebody and what had happened is my Aunt 00:19:48.769 --> 00:19:51.789 my great aunt they had lived in Miami before 00:19:51.789 --> 00:19:54.130 so there were some people here that if anything 00:19:54.130 --> 00:19:57.130 had happened to me or I got in any trouble. I 00:19:57.130 --> 00:19:59.170 had a phone number I could call and they knew 00:19:59.170 --> 00:20:01.410 I was coming through. Anyway, that's just let 00:20:01.410 --> 00:20:03.069 y 'all know. And that's just for safety. Y 'all 00:20:03.069 --> 00:20:06.910 should do that anyway. So we had a good time. 00:20:07.250 --> 00:20:09.769 I mean, I had the time of my life. We got off 00:20:09.769 --> 00:20:13.170 the cruise. We're driving back. We get all the 00:20:13.170 --> 00:20:21.190 way back to North Carolina to my mother's street. 00:20:21.789 --> 00:20:25.589 The street that my mother's house was on. and 00:20:25.589 --> 00:20:30.630 we get pulled over by the police. We have been, 00:20:30.730 --> 00:20:33.329 now y 'all mind y 'all, we have driven. What 00:20:33.329 --> 00:20:35.769 is it with you and the police? I don't know. 00:20:36.210 --> 00:20:38.349 The Lord be trying to protect me. I don't know, 00:20:38.369 --> 00:20:42.369 but we had driven all the way to Miami and all 00:20:42.369 --> 00:20:46.039 the way back. And we get pulled over by the police, 00:20:46.099 --> 00:20:49.200 but this gentleman gets arrested. Why does he 00:20:49.200 --> 00:20:51.900 get arrested? Because he has driven me all the 00:20:51.900 --> 00:20:56.519 way to Miami and all the way back with a suspended 00:20:56.519 --> 00:21:03.160 driver's license and with an expired registration 00:21:03.160 --> 00:21:06.259 or something was wrong on the car. And plus his 00:21:06.259 --> 00:21:08.720 license had been suspended and they were looking 00:21:08.720 --> 00:21:15.569 for him. So he gets arrested. But I have no rights. 00:21:15.869 --> 00:21:18.549 I have no, I'm 19 years old. I don't know what 00:21:18.549 --> 00:21:20.170 to do when somebody get arrested. I don't know 00:21:20.170 --> 00:21:22.829 what to do. So my mom, I called on, I was like, 00:21:22.950 --> 00:21:24.769 come get me because the police are taking me 00:21:24.769 --> 00:21:27.190 to get arrested. She was like, well, what's going 00:21:27.190 --> 00:21:29.250 to happen to the car? I wasn't even a mile from 00:21:29.250 --> 00:21:32.269 my mom's house. And I was like, they're going 00:21:32.269 --> 00:21:34.970 to told it. They told his car. They put him in 00:21:34.970 --> 00:21:37.849 jail in the county that we were in. He was not 00:21:37.849 --> 00:21:40.769 from that county, but apparently he had some 00:21:40.769 --> 00:21:43.369 stuff going on. I don't really know all the details. 00:21:43.609 --> 00:21:45.730 All I know is that I never saw him again after 00:21:45.730 --> 00:21:50.230 that day ever. I don't know. I will go to we 00:21:50.230 --> 00:21:53.670 went. My mom took me to the jail because the 00:21:53.670 --> 00:21:56.910 way the way the jail is in that county is in 00:21:56.910 --> 00:21:59.470 the middle of the of the town. So you can drive 00:21:59.470 --> 00:22:03.390 around. I don't know if she took me and they 00:22:03.390 --> 00:22:06.089 wouldn't tell me anything because I'm not related 00:22:06.089 --> 00:22:09.349 to him. They wouldn't tell us anything. I don't 00:22:09.349 --> 00:22:12.019 really know what happened to Eric, but. That 00:22:12.019 --> 00:22:16.559 was another dating horror story. And it really 00:22:16.559 --> 00:22:20.119 was predating, because I don't know, I might 00:22:20.119 --> 00:22:22.019 have considered him, but after that I was like, 00:22:22.059 --> 00:22:24.079 okay, no, because you have put my life in danger. 00:22:24.200 --> 00:22:29.400 What if we had God pull it over in Miami? Horror 00:22:29.400 --> 00:22:38.440 story. So what you got? You can call that a date. 00:22:39.539 --> 00:22:44.819 Okay, okay. Sorry, I got one point. I got one 00:22:44.819 --> 00:22:50.779 more. Sorry. And then I got one more. I got one 00:22:50.779 --> 00:22:54.220 more after this one too. Sorry. So here we go. 00:22:54.740 --> 00:22:59.279 This one right here. I was, since we're going 00:22:59.279 --> 00:23:02.599 cruise, let's go cruise. This one isn't really 00:23:02.599 --> 00:23:07.140 dating. I went on a cruise, right? As I get there, 00:23:07.680 --> 00:23:14.220 I made the decision. I am not Webber Glover on 00:23:14.220 --> 00:23:18.380 these crews. Webber Glover got left in Kentucky. 00:23:19.180 --> 00:23:22.859 We're going on to Bahamas. So we get to Florida. 00:23:24.539 --> 00:23:27.240 I'm trying to figure out my identity as we get 00:23:27.240 --> 00:23:32.140 to Florida. So as we get there, I'm on the beach, 00:23:32.680 --> 00:23:37.920 I'm sailing, and these young ladies walk up to 00:23:37.920 --> 00:23:41.880 me. it was me and a couple of the guys I could 00:23:41.880 --> 00:23:45.119 with. They woke up to us. Y 'all look famous. 00:23:46.039 --> 00:23:49.839 Are y 'all famous? So I look at my boys, my boys 00:23:49.839 --> 00:23:53.140 with me and we start laughing. I said, yeah, 00:23:53.220 --> 00:24:01.000 we are famous. Oh, who are y 'all? I said, we 00:24:01.000 --> 00:24:07.220 are new addition. What? We told y 'all was babies, 00:24:07.420 --> 00:24:09.759 oh my God, oh my God, oh my God. I said, yeah, 00:24:09.779 --> 00:24:11.940 my name is Michael Biffens, but everybody calls 00:24:11.940 --> 00:24:15.380 me Mike. That's Ronnie DeVoe over there. And 00:24:15.380 --> 00:24:19.819 then we got Ricky Bell over there with him. We 00:24:19.819 --> 00:24:24.019 left Ronnie, Johnny. We left Ralph, Johnny and 00:24:24.019 --> 00:24:27.839 Bobby in the States. We came out here by ourselves. 00:24:28.140 --> 00:24:31.180 Oh wow, that is so cool. Can we get a picture 00:24:31.180 --> 00:24:35.000 with y 'all? Yeah, of course. Take pictures. 00:24:35.690 --> 00:24:39.950 Now some older women walk up there and she looked 00:24:39.950 --> 00:24:42.390 at me and she said, no, I know darn well, y 'all 00:24:42.390 --> 00:24:46.730 ain't no new addition. She said, but I'm gonna 00:24:46.730 --> 00:24:49.049 make y 'all famous and make these young girls 00:24:49.049 --> 00:24:51.609 think as young new addition. Come on. So we took 00:24:51.609 --> 00:24:56.690 a photo with her so fast forward. I go, they 00:24:56.690 --> 00:25:01.190 had karaoke on the cruise. So I go up there and 00:25:01.190 --> 00:25:04.920 I started singing karaoke. The night before the 00:25:04.920 --> 00:25:08.220 last night I do I'll make love to you boys to 00:25:08.220 --> 00:25:14.279 me So while I'm singing I Don't do it regular. 00:25:14.519 --> 00:25:16.740 I walk out there. I'm flirting with the ladies 00:25:16.740 --> 00:25:24.200 in the audience all that so I Leave out next 00:25:24.200 --> 00:25:27.579 morning. I wake up. I go to this like little 00:25:27.579 --> 00:25:31.440 thing on the boat My two cousins was with me 00:25:31.440 --> 00:25:34.339 as well So they look at me and they're like, 00:25:34.420 --> 00:25:37.359 we get down there to this little funk sitting 00:25:37.359 --> 00:25:42.000 on the boat and this woman starts staring a hole 00:25:42.000 --> 00:25:45.680 into me. And my cousin's like, do you know her? 00:25:46.220 --> 00:25:51.279 I'm like, I have no idea who she is. So finally 00:25:51.279 --> 00:25:55.420 she finally built up the courage as he walked 00:25:55.420 --> 00:25:58.519 over there to me. She said, you Mike, right? 00:25:59.279 --> 00:26:02.869 I said, yeah, I'm Mike. And she said, honey, 00:26:02.970 --> 00:26:07.289 I heard you in karaoke and you did amazing. I 00:26:07.289 --> 00:26:10.730 said, thank you, thank you. And she said, so 00:26:10.730 --> 00:26:14.369 you singing tonight too? I said, nah, probably 00:26:14.369 --> 00:26:16.910 not. I said, I'm probably not singing tonight. 00:26:17.390 --> 00:26:19.869 She said, oh no, honey, I'm here with my sororities 00:26:19.869 --> 00:26:22.109 sisters and I didn't tell them about you. You 00:26:22.109 --> 00:26:24.609 got the same. I said, we'll see what I can do. 00:26:25.130 --> 00:26:27.009 So I talked to my cousins, I said, yo, check 00:26:27.009 --> 00:26:29.390 it out. We go on the karaoke late tonight, because 00:26:29.390 --> 00:26:32.630 I'm not trying to sing. So we get to karaoke 00:26:32.630 --> 00:26:35.369 late because I'm thinking you get there like 00:26:35.369 --> 00:26:39.269 40 minutes late. The car is already full I Got 00:26:39.269 --> 00:26:44.549 me no room Well Soon as I walk in them ladies 00:26:44.549 --> 00:26:47.589 sitting right there. Oh, no, here he is Come 00:26:47.589 --> 00:26:49.549 here honey. Come here. Come here. Come here. 00:26:49.549 --> 00:26:51.849 Here's you the song book pick whatever song you 00:26:51.849 --> 00:26:54.910 want. You need anything to drink honey Yeah, 00:26:54.910 --> 00:26:57.869 water will be nice. Oh honey, I'll get that right 00:26:57.869 --> 00:27:02.059 now for you Oh my goodness. So first of all, 00:27:02.200 --> 00:27:08.359 Mike. So fast forward. We leave out. Do us on, 00:27:08.599 --> 00:27:13.259 I leave out. So now remind you, this is December 00:27:13.259 --> 00:27:18.559 in Bahamas. Bahamas in December, like right before 00:27:18.559 --> 00:27:22.339 Christmas, the weather is perfect. Like it's 00:27:22.339 --> 00:27:25.619 like 80 degrees in the states, they freezing 00:27:25.619 --> 00:27:29.599 cold. So. And the Bahamas, I'm walking around, 00:27:30.059 --> 00:27:34.119 t -shirt on, basketball shorts, ceiling. So now 00:27:34.119 --> 00:27:37.000 we're back in the United States of America. I'm 00:27:37.000 --> 00:27:41.359 having to put on a toboggan, a weed sweatshirt, 00:27:42.319 --> 00:27:45.740 a jacket, boots, because it's freezing cold. 00:27:47.299 --> 00:27:49.480 So I'm like, ain't no way anybody's going to 00:27:49.480 --> 00:27:53.460 recognize me. So we out here, we in customs, 00:27:54.559 --> 00:27:59.210 and we getting ready to leave. And all at once, 00:27:59.329 --> 00:28:03.170 about 30 people in front of us. All at once, 00:28:03.250 --> 00:28:08.910 all I hear is, Hey, Mike. Oh my gosh. Me. Hey 00:28:08.910 --> 00:28:12.289 ladies. Can we just get your telephone number, 00:28:12.670 --> 00:28:16.029 Mike? Yeah, sure. I got my fake text that telephone 00:28:16.029 --> 00:28:23.089 number. So fast, boy. May, July. I'm out with 00:28:23.089 --> 00:28:25.329 one of my other cousins. And we are the Martin 00:28:25.329 --> 00:28:30.009 Luther King Day. in this king museum. So we at 00:28:30.009 --> 00:28:33.710 the gift shop and there's this woman standing 00:28:33.710 --> 00:28:38.670 there holding to you. That's it. I ain't never 00:28:38.670 --> 00:28:43.630 seen her day in my life. So I finally get what 00:28:43.630 --> 00:28:46.430 I'm getting and I'm leaving out. And the woman 00:28:46.430 --> 00:28:48.630 said, I'm so sorry. She said, but I got a question 00:28:48.630 --> 00:28:51.990 for you. I said, yeah, what's going on? She said, 00:28:52.289 --> 00:28:54.890 what's your name? I said, my name is James Glover. 00:28:55.400 --> 00:28:59.180 I said, my name is James. He says, everything 00:28:59.180 --> 00:29:02.759 OK? She said, honey, I was in the Bahamas in 00:29:02.759 --> 00:29:07.519 December. And I met a man that looks just like 00:29:07.519 --> 00:29:12.420 you. And his name was Mike. I said, well, you 00:29:12.420 --> 00:29:15.240 know, they say everybody got a twin wife. Have 00:29:15.240 --> 00:29:20.589 a good day, man. So y 'all y 'all got to watch 00:29:20.589 --> 00:29:23.990 out for James because he changes his um he impersonates 00:29:23.990 --> 00:29:27.589 other people and changes his name. So oh Yeah, 00:29:27.589 --> 00:29:32.430 we can that day Like literally that time when 00:29:32.430 --> 00:29:35.890 I tell y 'all like Lizzie There was enough my 00:29:35.890 --> 00:29:39.730 cousins were being their wombs by 12 midnight 00:29:39.730 --> 00:29:45.369 Going to bed I'm going to the parties on the 00:29:45.369 --> 00:29:49.470 boat. Oh, I'm sailing I'm not going back into 00:29:49.470 --> 00:29:53.089 the room until about 435 o 'clock. I know that's 00:29:53.089 --> 00:29:56.289 right. So they get enough time about let's go 00:29:56.289 --> 00:29:59.430 eat breakfast. Man, I'm just getting back in 00:29:59.430 --> 00:30:02.130 the room. Y 'all wake me up when it's time to 00:30:02.130 --> 00:30:04.809 go to the excursion. So I'll meet up with y 'all 00:30:04.809 --> 00:30:09.230 then. So even then, like as we walking out there 00:30:09.230 --> 00:30:12.970 on the boat, people stopped me. Hey, Mike. Hey, 00:30:13.009 --> 00:30:15.710 ladies. How y 'all doing? It's good seeing you, 00:30:15.809 --> 00:30:18.970 Mike. Good to see y 'all, too. Moral of the story 00:30:18.970 --> 00:30:22.950 is don't play it because they could follow you 00:30:22.950 --> 00:30:26.450 all the way. Oh, wait, wait, wait, it is what 00:30:26.450 --> 00:30:32.089 is even funnier is So that last night I sung 00:30:32.089 --> 00:30:36.829 like I was asked to so I get off the stage And 00:30:36.829 --> 00:30:42.369 a guy that I know from sinking He walks up behind 00:30:42.369 --> 00:30:47.650 me. He's James And I might Who in the heck is 00:30:47.650 --> 00:30:50.130 calling me by my government? It's all the background. 00:30:50.410 --> 00:30:52.769 I'm like, man, what up? He said, man, come here, 00:30:52.910 --> 00:30:54.809 come here, come here. So he takes me over there 00:30:54.809 --> 00:30:58.250 to his fiance. He said, I told you I knew him. 00:30:58.809 --> 00:31:02.250 He said, he said, see, tell me I didn't know 00:31:02.250 --> 00:31:05.230 you. He see, tell me I didn't know you. And she 00:31:05.230 --> 00:31:10.750 said, well, he said, I know him. And he's like, 00:31:11.069 --> 00:31:13.450 I'm like, how do you know him? He said, I know 00:31:13.450 --> 00:31:16.859 him from singing, but his name ain't Mike. His 00:31:16.859 --> 00:31:24.400 name is not Mike. So more or less the story is, 00:31:24.720 --> 00:31:28.019 do not tell lies, people. So listen, that's been 00:31:28.019 --> 00:31:30.220 our time on Dating Waila Dorches. Tonight, if 00:31:30.220 --> 00:31:31.660 you want to keep up with us, we're going to go 00:31:31.660 --> 00:31:33.839 live on TikTok. Make sure you check it out. Ten 00:31:33.839 --> 00:31:36.799 minute, actually. Yeah, so make sure you. 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Keep dating, keep 00:32:33.940 --> 00:32:37.109 getting data, keep finding out. what other people 00:32:37.109 --> 00:32:39.349 have on their minds and what's going on, because 00:32:39.349 --> 00:32:42.329 if you keep it up, eventually you will stumble 00:32:42.329 --> 00:32:44.970 across what God has purposed for you, whether 00:32:44.970 --> 00:32:47.890 it be that you are a man searching, looking for 00:32:47.890 --> 00:32:50.430 your wife, or you are a woman waiting to be found. 00:32:50.930 --> 00:32:53.430 We all must give God something to work with. 00:32:53.650 --> 00:32:56.450 One thing that is for sure. and another is certain 00:32:56.450 --> 00:32:59.589 that you cannot experience the supernatural without 00:32:59.589 --> 00:33:02.289 doing the natural. Faith without works is dead 00:33:02.289 --> 00:33:05.730 even in your dating life. You cannot expect for 00:33:05.730 --> 00:33:08.309 him to show up in your living room while you're 00:33:08.309 --> 00:33:10.609 watching Netflix by yourself. You got to get 00:33:10.609 --> 00:33:13.470 out and be among the people. Do the natural thing 00:33:13.470 --> 00:33:17.210 so God can do the supernatural. God bless you. 00:33:17.990 --> 00:33:21.680 We'll see you all next week. Same time. Same 00:33:21.680 --> 00:33:33.559 channel. See y 'all. Peace. We love y 'all. Hello, 00:33:33.680 --> 00:33:36.779 hello, hello. Thank you for watching another 00:33:36.779 --> 00:33:40.099 episode on James J's Club and Network. We appreciate 00:33:40.099 --> 00:33:43.519 you for all of your love, all of your support 00:33:43.519 --> 00:33:48.420 and all of your comments. Now what I need y 'all 00:33:48.420 --> 00:33:51.559 to do is like this says right here. like and 00:33:51.559 --> 00:33:54.200 subscribe. 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