WEBVTT 00:00:09.740 --> 00:00:11.119 What is up? What is up? What is up? What is up? 00:00:11.160 --> 00:00:12.080 What is up? What is up? What is up? What is up? 00:00:12.080 --> 00:00:13.560 What is up? What is up? What is up? What is up? 00:00:14.220 --> 00:00:24.359 What is up? That's why we thank her for sponsoring 00:00:24.359 --> 00:00:26.940 us. We'd ask her to go listen to her podcast. 00:00:27.519 --> 00:00:30.219 And we'd ask her to go buy her books, which you 00:00:30.219 --> 00:00:33.000 can get both of those things from the description 00:00:33.000 --> 00:00:36.859 up above. Shout out to her, we appreciate her. 00:00:37.340 --> 00:00:39.659 And we thank her for all of the love and all 00:00:39.659 --> 00:00:42.920 of the support that she gives us. God bless you 00:00:42.920 --> 00:00:45.840 and every company that smile upon you. And now 00:00:45.840 --> 00:00:49.240 it's time to get into the show. Every episode, 00:00:49.359 --> 00:01:26.659 every song, everywhere we say What is up? What's 00:01:26.659 --> 00:01:29.760 going on? What's going on James? What's happening? 00:01:30.540 --> 00:01:33.939 Hey man, look, we got um, I got my mama back 00:01:33.939 --> 00:01:37.879 tonight. Yes. Like y 'all, we appreciate our 00:01:37.879 --> 00:01:41.939 brother coming in last week and killing it. But 00:01:41.939 --> 00:01:45.579 I got my mama back tonight. Sermons for coming 00:01:45.579 --> 00:01:49.859 in and covering for me last week. Mama was babysitting 00:01:49.859 --> 00:01:54.659 the grants. Yes. Yes. Yes. So God be the glory. 00:01:54.920 --> 00:01:56.819 It's funny to say that I'm a grandma because 00:01:56.819 --> 00:02:01.579 our topic tonight is hot and heavy. When I talk 00:02:01.579 --> 00:02:05.980 about it, I get so like, it drives me up the 00:02:05.980 --> 00:02:08.780 wall. But, you know, I'm trying to learn better. 00:02:09.099 --> 00:02:12.039 So. 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Absolutely, 00:02:50.430 --> 00:02:52.590 absolutely. You wanna sponsor, you wanna advertise, 00:02:53.050 --> 00:02:56.050 hit him up, let's do it. Let's do it, let's do 00:02:56.050 --> 00:02:58.930 it, let's do it. I'm excited about that. So I'm 00:02:58.930 --> 00:03:01.090 excited about tonight's topic, James, because 00:03:01.090 --> 00:03:07.030 I know you are young and - Youngest. Youngest. 00:03:07.030 --> 00:03:09.830 Youngest is barking up these, barking up some 00:03:09.830 --> 00:03:15.090 trees. in my generation right now and it's becoming 00:03:15.090 --> 00:03:17.969 a thing. And so even though we are talking about 00:03:17.969 --> 00:03:21.210 dating, not even though, in addition to talking 00:03:21.210 --> 00:03:24.689 about dating while anointed, I wanted to talk 00:03:24.689 --> 00:03:29.409 about the age gap conversation. So it's like, 00:03:30.000 --> 00:03:32.419 We don't really think about it when it's a man 00:03:32.419 --> 00:03:36.159 who is older dating a younger woman But it seems 00:03:36.159 --> 00:03:38.800 to be taboo when it's an older woman dating a 00:03:38.800 --> 00:03:41.180 younger man. Don't you take yourself down? Let's 00:03:41.180 --> 00:03:44.300 talk about it You expressed to me at one time 00:03:44.300 --> 00:03:47.379 that you know age gaps weren't a big deal for 00:03:47.379 --> 00:03:57.259 you. So you at 38 38 36 36 36 36 What is the 00:03:57.259 --> 00:04:02.360 how do you feel about age gap? For me, it's about 00:04:02.360 --> 00:04:08.879 the maturity. So for me, I have always been instructed 00:04:08.879 --> 00:04:16.160 to older, always have. But it's funny. It's funny. 00:04:16.680 --> 00:04:19.339 It's funny that I always been instructed to older, 00:04:19.980 --> 00:04:23.980 but the younger has always been instructed to 00:04:23.980 --> 00:04:31.089 me. So it's funny how it works. For me, I just 00:04:31.089 --> 00:04:35.170 like them holder because of the simple fact of 00:04:35.170 --> 00:04:38.870 they are mature enough to handle what I'm dealing 00:04:38.870 --> 00:04:43.730 with. Okay. Like with everything that I deal 00:04:43.730 --> 00:04:48.329 with, being a CEO over a network, being a preacher, 00:04:49.350 --> 00:04:53.089 doing everything that I do, it takes a special 00:04:53.089 --> 00:04:56.170 woman to be able to walk in those rooms with 00:04:56.170 --> 00:05:00.199 me. So with that being said I need her to have 00:05:00.199 --> 00:05:03.220 like a little bit of self respect about herself 00:05:03.220 --> 00:05:08.319 to where like she's like Okay, I can handle being 00:05:08.319 --> 00:05:13.920 in these rooms with them Though I can do I can 00:05:13.920 --> 00:05:18.800 respect that but I too being you know, typically 00:05:18.800 --> 00:05:24.050 In my past I've always dated older I'm married 00:05:24.050 --> 00:05:27.029 older. My ex -husband was 10 years older than 00:05:27.029 --> 00:05:32.329 me. And so now in this season, I have a lot of 00:05:32.329 --> 00:05:36.189 young men that approach. And they're the ones 00:05:36.189 --> 00:05:37.949 that are not afraid to shoot their shot. And 00:05:37.949 --> 00:05:42.389 when I say a lot, I mean 34, 35, 36. Wait a minute, 00:05:42.410 --> 00:05:44.870 wait a minute. Tell them that you got a son that's 00:05:44.870 --> 00:05:47.790 36 years old. If they ain't older than your son 00:05:47.790 --> 00:05:52.500 at least five years, back off. But see, this 00:05:52.500 --> 00:05:55.699 is the conversation we're having. The younger 00:05:55.699 --> 00:05:58.319 children say, OK, well, Ma, you can't be rude 00:05:58.319 --> 00:06:03.120 because that's a grown man. So you can't treat 00:06:03.120 --> 00:06:06.360 him like he's a child. He's 35, 34, 35 years 00:06:06.360 --> 00:06:09.480 old. And for me, I cringe because my daughter 00:06:09.480 --> 00:06:16.519 is 33. My son is 30. You're 36. It's like running 00:06:16.519 --> 00:06:22.069 for my life. But then what? Say laughing at you 00:06:22.069 --> 00:06:24.889 laughing at you the why cuz I'm being honest 00:06:24.889 --> 00:06:28.209 like we being transparent I could see you now 00:06:28.209 --> 00:06:35.290 coming home to us Yeah, how old is he mama? He's 00:06:35.290 --> 00:06:39.629 about your age, but even like it didn't start 00:06:39.629 --> 00:06:42.870 it didn't start recently it started like right 00:06:42.870 --> 00:06:45.750 when I turned 40 I had a young man who was very 00:06:45.750 --> 00:06:49.660 mature had already sent like eight years in the 00:06:49.660 --> 00:06:52.860 Marine Corps was already raising a son who was 00:06:52.860 --> 00:06:56.579 29 years old. I could not get past the fact that 00:06:56.579 --> 00:07:01.459 he was 29. Very mature. This man has served the 00:07:01.459 --> 00:07:04.439 country. Very mature, but at 40 years old, I 00:07:04.439 --> 00:07:07.720 was like, OMG. Like, are you kidding me? Okay, 00:07:07.819 --> 00:07:09.980 so what stopped you from giving him a sense, 00:07:10.540 --> 00:07:14.779 besides the fact that he was younger? That's 00:07:14.779 --> 00:07:20.060 it. So tell me how you like how how does that 00:07:20.060 --> 00:07:24.639 make you feel knowing that a woman of a mature 00:07:24.639 --> 00:07:27.220 age might not talk to you or might not give you 00:07:27.220 --> 00:07:31.800 the time because of your age? I've had that where 00:07:31.800 --> 00:07:35.000 it's been like a woman that like she got all 00:07:35.000 --> 00:07:38.240 of it going on and she's taking out every box 00:07:38.240 --> 00:07:42.990 and I mean every box. And it gets to the point 00:07:42.990 --> 00:07:45.889 where, when that question of how old are you, 00:07:45.990 --> 00:07:50.050 gets asked, I'm like, I already know it's about 00:07:50.050 --> 00:07:54.470 to be a deal breaker. I already know it. Well, 00:07:54.490 --> 00:07:57.009 there's a lot of things to continue with as a 00:07:57.009 --> 00:08:01.449 woman when you start, when you, I got my microphone 00:08:01.449 --> 00:08:03.649 in the wrong place. There's a lot to continue 00:08:03.649 --> 00:08:06.709 with as a woman when you start dating a younger 00:08:06.709 --> 00:08:09.750 man, because most of the time, y 'all mamas don't 00:08:09.750 --> 00:08:15.139 be with it. But here's the thing for us young 00:08:15.139 --> 00:08:18.740 men that are mature and that know what we want 00:08:18.740 --> 00:08:22.100 out of life We ain't dating for our mama. We 00:08:22.100 --> 00:08:28.060 date him because we see something in you Yeah, 00:08:28.160 --> 00:08:32.720 but Most of us, we talk about dating while anointed. 00:08:32.960 --> 00:08:35.039 Typically if we're dating, we're dating with 00:08:35.039 --> 00:08:38.340 some intention. Like we got plans to go somewhere 00:08:38.340 --> 00:08:41.000 like marriage, not just to be dating because 00:08:41.000 --> 00:08:44.539 we want companionship. And you say we ain't neither. 00:08:45.080 --> 00:08:47.440 We might, we are probably doing that same thing. 00:08:48.879 --> 00:08:51.679 Yeah, but the families don't typically agree. 00:08:52.899 --> 00:08:56.980 And so what? Well, me or Julia's family didn't 00:08:56.980 --> 00:09:00.809 agree. Wait a minute, that's a bad example. That's 00:09:00.809 --> 00:09:03.669 a bad example. That might not have been the best 00:09:03.669 --> 00:09:07.090 example. I get it, but typically in the reverse 00:09:07.090 --> 00:09:10.610 roles. Now, I'll tell you that my son, one of 00:09:10.610 --> 00:09:17.289 my boys that I was, my son, my other son who 00:09:17.289 --> 00:09:24.009 is 36, 36, wait a minute. Yeah, 36 right now. 00:09:24.570 --> 00:09:26.769 When he was about 17, there was a woman that 00:09:26.769 --> 00:09:32.049 was 29. I was not having it. He was still in 00:09:32.049 --> 00:09:36.289 high school. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. He was still 00:09:36.289 --> 00:09:42.950 in high school and she was she was just out there. 00:09:43.210 --> 00:09:47.750 Right. And not saying that it couldn't not saying 00:09:47.750 --> 00:09:51.009 that he wasn't part of the problem. Right. But 00:09:51.009 --> 00:09:53.820 I just wasn't having it. And that was because 00:09:53.820 --> 00:09:55.779 he was still in high school. Now, if he had been 00:09:55.779 --> 00:09:58.639 18 and he was already off and going to college, 00:09:58.740 --> 00:10:01.240 that'd be a different idea. But you know, we 00:10:01.240 --> 00:10:04.639 still, we still paying for lunch money. You know 00:10:04.639 --> 00:10:06.940 what I'm saying? Like we still, you know, you're 00:10:06.940 --> 00:10:11.679 still in Japan. Huh? You talking about we still 00:10:11.679 --> 00:10:15.419 paying for lunch money. Right. We still giving 00:10:15.419 --> 00:10:21.120 you lunch money. You know and so it became a 00:10:21.120 --> 00:10:23.100 big thing and anybody that watches this that 00:10:23.100 --> 00:10:26.480 knows me that was in The church at that time 00:10:26.480 --> 00:10:29.879 understands that I went I did everything scripture 00:10:29.879 --> 00:10:32.620 say I went privately I did not you know, and 00:10:32.620 --> 00:10:36.799 this is when my space was a thing, right? I went 00:10:36.799 --> 00:10:40.740 yeah, I went to this young lady privately and 00:10:40.740 --> 00:10:44.440 she had come to our ministry with somebody else 00:10:44.440 --> 00:10:48.470 who was dating multiple women at one time or 00:10:48.470 --> 00:10:50.409 fooling around with multiple women at one time, 00:10:50.450 --> 00:10:53.710 and she ended up fooling around with my 17 -year 00:10:53.710 --> 00:10:56.029 -old son at the time, and I just wasn't having 00:10:56.029 --> 00:10:59.269 it. So I had to, you know, I felt some type of... 00:10:59.269 --> 00:11:02.509 You went through a woman to woman. I did, but, 00:11:02.690 --> 00:11:05.830 you know, I didn't get the woman -to -woman response. 00:11:06.110 --> 00:11:11.129 I got a very vulgar, outlandish response at the 00:11:11.129 --> 00:11:14.570 time. Knowing full well that a young man at his 00:11:14.570 --> 00:11:18.970 age, with the accessibility... to a woman at 00:11:18.970 --> 00:11:22.490 her age and of that caliber, that meant that 00:11:22.490 --> 00:11:25.990 he had access to money and things, right? And 00:11:25.990 --> 00:11:28.210 that's really what, you know, somebody at his 00:11:28.210 --> 00:11:31.610 age was looking for, looking at that time, knowing 00:11:31.610 --> 00:11:33.830 that he full well was part of the problem because 00:11:33.830 --> 00:11:36.750 he wasn't, he wasn't saying, no, he was like, 00:11:36.830 --> 00:11:38.190 yeah, give it to me and I'm going to give you 00:11:38.190 --> 00:11:41.350 what you want too. We can just be real. Because 00:11:41.350 --> 00:11:43.450 her answer to me was like, he might be a boy 00:11:43.450 --> 00:11:52.090 to you, but he's all man to me. Yeah So it became 00:11:52.090 --> 00:11:54.190 a let me ask you a question. Let me ask you a 00:11:54.190 --> 00:11:57.110 question. Is the woman still living? Um, she 00:11:57.110 --> 00:12:00.309 is I did call my people I was like get your get 00:12:00.309 --> 00:12:02.970 your Vaseline your uh, and I'm the first lady 00:12:02.970 --> 00:12:07.450 at that time so Listen You can take the girl 00:12:07.450 --> 00:12:09.149 out the hood, but you can't take the hood out 00:12:09.149 --> 00:12:11.970 the girl But that's how I felt about that But 00:12:11.970 --> 00:12:14.789 I think that had he been 18 or 19 and I would 00:12:14.789 --> 00:12:17.350 have anything to say about that but 17 still 00:12:17.350 --> 00:12:23.370 in high school No. I have to ask, was she still 00:12:23.370 --> 00:12:27.210 living? Because when she said he all men to me, 00:12:28.169 --> 00:12:36.129 ma 'am, I know how crazy my mama is. Yeah. So, 00:12:36.450 --> 00:12:38.970 you know, and then when it comes to young people 00:12:38.970 --> 00:12:40.750 and my children, and that's a different story, 00:12:40.870 --> 00:12:43.950 like you exposing him to nightlife and exposing 00:12:43.950 --> 00:12:46.250 him to things that. I don't really think that 00:12:46.250 --> 00:12:48.750 somebody 17 should have been exposed to because 00:12:48.750 --> 00:12:51.590 I was exposed to things too early. So, you know, 00:12:51.669 --> 00:12:55.789 I'm very protective when it came to my children 00:12:55.789 --> 00:12:58.169 and their teenage and their formidable years. 00:12:58.669 --> 00:13:00.909 And thank God, you know, that they made it through 00:13:00.909 --> 00:13:03.830 without experiencing some of the things that 00:13:03.830 --> 00:13:06.990 I experienced. And I say some very lightly because 00:13:06.990 --> 00:13:09.070 I know there are a lot of things that I learned 00:13:09.070 --> 00:13:12.250 that had gone on that, you know, maybe I didn't 00:13:12.250 --> 00:13:15.730 know. Yeah, and it happens right but when we 00:13:15.730 --> 00:13:19.450 talk about age now me personally I don't think 00:13:19.450 --> 00:13:22.669 that in this season of my life I would like I'm 00:13:22.669 --> 00:13:25.049 about to be 50. I say it every show I'm about 00:13:25.049 --> 00:13:30.610 to be 50, but I'm not Interested in dating somebody 00:13:30.610 --> 00:13:33.450 that's 10 years older than me at this time again 00:13:33.450 --> 00:13:35.309 because I already been through that it kind of 00:13:35.309 --> 00:13:37.730 set in their ways and for me right now that would 00:13:37.730 --> 00:13:40.809 be 60 years old and And even my dad was like 00:13:40.809 --> 00:13:43.210 uh -uh because there's 60 that man slowing down 00:13:43.210 --> 00:13:45.090 He gonna be sleep by the time it's time for y 00:13:45.090 --> 00:13:47.190 'all to go out like now you don't you don't want 00:13:47.190 --> 00:13:50.309 to deal with that and he knows cuz he's 60 plus 00:13:50.309 --> 00:13:58.190 right so um Yeah age gap so how much is too much 00:13:58.190 --> 00:14:00.090 so let's look at the fact that Scottie Pippen 00:14:00.090 --> 00:14:05.149 is 60 years old dating a 23 year old girl How 00:14:05.149 --> 00:14:14.100 much is she growing? She grown. I mean, wasn't 00:14:14.100 --> 00:14:16.960 nobody saying that then when Scotty Pippin's 00:14:16.960 --> 00:14:22.759 wife was messing with Michael's son. Well, he 00:14:22.759 --> 00:14:26.779 grown. I think that people were saying something, 00:14:27.320 --> 00:14:33.820 but they they. It is usually society. accepts 00:14:33.820 --> 00:14:36.600 it more when it's a man than when a man's dating 00:14:36.600 --> 00:14:38.740 a younger woman than they do when a woman is 00:14:38.740 --> 00:14:42.220 dating a younger man. So, you know, the cougar 00:14:42.220 --> 00:14:45.279 phenomenon has been revived now. It's like, now 00:14:45.279 --> 00:14:47.580 it's the whole thing. There are people doing 00:14:47.580 --> 00:14:50.500 podcasts about it, having events, introducing 00:14:50.500 --> 00:14:52.799 older women to younger men because some younger 00:14:52.799 --> 00:14:55.399 men just don't want to date girls, don't want 00:14:55.399 --> 00:14:58.519 to date women, I'm sorry, that are in their age 00:14:58.519 --> 00:15:00.860 group. And you just said it because you need 00:15:00.860 --> 00:15:03.679 her to be able to walk into the rooms that you 00:15:03.679 --> 00:15:06.639 are walking into because of the status that you 00:15:06.639 --> 00:15:08.879 hold, what I feel like, and you could tell me 00:15:08.879 --> 00:15:11.960 if I'm wrong, that some young men have made a 00:15:11.960 --> 00:15:14.799 life for themselves. They have access to money 00:15:14.799 --> 00:15:17.460 and resources, and they want to have a woman 00:15:17.460 --> 00:15:19.700 that's going to add to them, not someone that's 00:15:19.700 --> 00:15:23.500 coming with their hand out. I've said this before, 00:15:23.639 --> 00:15:27.519 and I'll say it again, in the age, in the where 00:15:27.519 --> 00:15:31.840 I'm at right now, in this big W6, with everything 00:15:31.840 --> 00:15:34.519 that I got going on, you got to come with more 00:15:34.519 --> 00:15:39.820 than keep facing the smile. Yeah, I mean, honestly, 00:15:40.519 --> 00:15:44.200 and I think that they look at that men your age 00:15:44.200 --> 00:15:47.059 look at women my age and say she already established. 00:15:48.179 --> 00:15:51.840 Like we can be together. We can she can she can 00:15:51.840 --> 00:15:54.220 help me finish this goal. She can add to what 00:15:54.220 --> 00:15:57.039 I'm already doing. And so they're kind of opting 00:15:57.039 --> 00:16:00.509 out of dating women in their age group. And then 00:16:00.509 --> 00:16:03.769 here we are in an in between age and we could 00:16:03.769 --> 00:16:06.029 be dating the son or the father. So we're trying 00:16:06.029 --> 00:16:09.389 to figure out, you know, now, honestly, we could 00:16:09.389 --> 00:16:11.690 be dating the son or the father. So we're trying 00:16:11.690 --> 00:16:19.370 to. We could. And, you know, but it's me as a 00:16:19.370 --> 00:16:22.809 woman at my age, I'm always thinking about what's 00:16:22.809 --> 00:16:26.149 appropriate when the fact of the matter is James, 00:16:26.350 --> 00:16:28.909 you a grown man. You don't want me to look at 00:16:28.909 --> 00:16:32.279 you as. a child, although y 'all call me mom, 00:16:32.559 --> 00:16:34.600 you don't want me to look at you that way when 00:16:34.600 --> 00:16:37.700 it comes to what you have the ability to do as 00:16:37.700 --> 00:16:46.019 a man. Right. Like for me, it's like I have had, 00:16:46.639 --> 00:16:52.500 I'm gonna be real with you. I saw my side of 00:16:52.500 --> 00:17:00.559 somebody in their fifties. Okay. Like she had 00:17:00.559 --> 00:17:04.200 it going on didn't look like she was in her fifties 00:17:04.200 --> 00:17:11.960 Had a lot going for herself was building And 00:17:11.960 --> 00:17:14.900 I might man together we could be doing something 00:17:14.900 --> 00:17:20.640 powerful We had a great conversation for a while 00:17:20.640 --> 00:17:25.400 even talked on the phone for a little bit The 00:17:25.400 --> 00:17:28.819 million dollar question got asked How old are 00:17:28.819 --> 00:17:36.019 you? And at that time I think I was like 34 33 00:17:36.019 --> 00:17:41.680 Well, I can I can speak for for a woman. I can 00:17:41.680 --> 00:17:45.079 speak for women I think that we still have that 00:17:45.079 --> 00:17:48.640 taboo about it being appropriate because even 00:17:48.640 --> 00:17:55.940 Being like chased down by somebody that is five 00:17:55.940 --> 00:18:00.299 years my senior And finally saying, okay, fine, 00:18:00.400 --> 00:18:02.299 I'll go out with you. I'll go on a date with 00:18:02.299 --> 00:18:05.200 you was a challenge for me. This man 44 years 00:18:05.200 --> 00:18:09.359 old. And I was like, because, you know, there's 00:18:09.359 --> 00:18:12.400 certain things that I look for and certain things 00:18:12.400 --> 00:18:14.859 that I, that I have an expectation of that I 00:18:14.859 --> 00:18:17.700 don't want to, that I don't want to put off on 00:18:17.700 --> 00:18:20.140 somebody or, you know, that I feel like needs 00:18:20.140 --> 00:18:25.710 to be a challenge, but man. When I say, okay, 00:18:25.769 --> 00:18:27.430 yeah, I'm going to go out with you. I'm going 00:18:27.430 --> 00:18:30.269 to date with you. Typically, my intuition has 00:18:30.269 --> 00:18:33.950 been right about, okay, this man is younger. 00:18:34.250 --> 00:18:36.650 It's some things that he has not experienced, 00:18:36.910 --> 00:18:39.809 not lived, don't understand. But it could just 00:18:39.809 --> 00:18:43.130 be that individual as a person. I really should 00:18:43.130 --> 00:18:49.089 avoid generalization, what you think. First one, 00:18:49.589 --> 00:18:52.559 because just because he's a certain age. don't 00:18:52.559 --> 00:18:56.039 mean that all of us are the same way. You know, 00:18:56.099 --> 00:19:00.059 I was on TikTok the night and I had stumbled 00:19:00.059 --> 00:19:04.420 across this a lot and the women was talking about 00:19:04.420 --> 00:19:10.400 like dating in this generation and they pulled 00:19:10.400 --> 00:19:13.940 me up there onto the live screen with them and 00:19:13.940 --> 00:19:17.299 I kind of gave my feedback on it and I said in 00:19:17.299 --> 00:19:22.539 all honesty what has happened is you've had little 00:19:22.539 --> 00:19:27.859 boys that are strapped in grown men bodies. Right. 00:19:28.859 --> 00:19:31.880 And what happened is these little boys that are 00:19:31.880 --> 00:19:36.279 strapped in grown men bodies and they could be 00:19:36.279 --> 00:19:39.200 60 something years old, but still got that little 00:19:39.200 --> 00:19:43.240 boy mindset. Right. And what has happened is 00:19:43.240 --> 00:19:48.099 these little boys have sat here and jacked up 00:19:48.099 --> 00:19:53.190 good women. And what has happened is the grown 00:19:53.190 --> 00:19:57.710 men have had to come back and clean up the stuff 00:19:57.710 --> 00:20:02.950 that these little boys done jacked up. So my 00:20:02.950 --> 00:20:06.309 recommendation is these little boys need to stay 00:20:06.309 --> 00:20:09.470 playing with the little girls and leave the grown 00:20:09.470 --> 00:20:14.329 woman for a grown man. Okay, y 'all. James is 00:20:14.329 --> 00:20:17.049 completely serious. So James, you said you shot 00:20:17.049 --> 00:20:19.470 your shot at somebody in their 50s. For you, 00:20:19.650 --> 00:20:23.470 what is the largest gap that you would entertain? 00:20:23.789 --> 00:20:30.349 Is it 20 years? If he was to ask me a couple 00:20:30.349 --> 00:20:33.089 of years, if he was to ask me about a year or 00:20:33.089 --> 00:20:38.730 so ago, I couldn't do 60s. I could not do 60s. 00:20:39.170 --> 00:20:46.000 Right. But if he was in your 50s, Steph carry 00:20:46.000 --> 00:20:52.000 with it. Okay. Okay. For me right now, I can, 00:20:52.059 --> 00:20:54.640 I can respect that from a man's perspective. 00:20:54.920 --> 00:20:57.940 But me, I'm just, I still battle with the idea 00:20:57.940 --> 00:21:00.099 of somebody younger, even if it's two or three 00:21:00.099 --> 00:21:04.700 years, I struggle with it. And, you know, so 00:21:04.700 --> 00:21:09.119 I'm typically right now, I'm like, five, seven, 00:21:09.299 --> 00:21:12.200 five to seven years is enough for me. I don't 00:21:12.200 --> 00:21:14.579 think I ever want to do 10 again because it was 00:21:14.579 --> 00:21:17.519 a bad experience. And that's probably the reason 00:21:17.519 --> 00:21:20.960 that I don't want to do 10 when it comes to going 00:21:20.960 --> 00:21:23.700 in that direction. But I definitely know I would 00:21:23.700 --> 00:21:28.359 not. And I'm, and I shudder to think, but I really 00:21:28.359 --> 00:21:31.180 would not date somebody 10 years younger than 00:21:31.180 --> 00:21:36.079 me. Okay. All right. So I'm going to give you 00:21:36.079 --> 00:21:41.190 a scenario. Okay. Alright ready So there's a 00:21:41.190 --> 00:21:44.950 guy, okay. Mm -hmm. That's got his own business 00:21:44.950 --> 00:21:54.150 He's got his own money Multi -millionaire Got 00:21:54.150 --> 00:21:57.390 everything going for himself like owns about 00:21:57.390 --> 00:22:03.210 three businesses He approaches you he looks good 00:22:03.210 --> 00:22:09.200 to he approaches you and he shoots his side The 00:22:09.200 --> 00:22:19.660 only problem is he's 37 years old. Now he's sucking 00:22:19.660 --> 00:22:23.380 up all of your boxes. Every box that you got 00:22:23.380 --> 00:22:27.140 he's sucking up. The only thing is he's 37 years 00:22:27.140 --> 00:22:33.319 old. He would, it would be very hard for me. 00:22:33.519 --> 00:22:36.980 I mean, he would really have to lay it on thick. 00:22:37.099 --> 00:22:39.640 He would have to convince me beyond a shadow 00:22:39.640 --> 00:22:41.660 of a doubt that he's mature enough to handle 00:22:41.660 --> 00:22:46.500 what I come with. So, okay, I'm gonna give it 00:22:46.500 --> 00:22:50.119 to you like this. He shows up to every event 00:22:50.119 --> 00:22:53.480 that you do and he don't show up empty handed. 00:22:53.640 --> 00:22:59.480 He shows up with flowers. Invite you out to dinner. 00:23:00.480 --> 00:23:03.619 Open your car door for you. There's all about 00:23:03.619 --> 00:23:06.460 it. I still would be concerned with the gap. 00:23:06.859 --> 00:23:10.660 I'm trying to overcome that. I don't even know 00:23:10.660 --> 00:23:13.319 why I'm trying to overcome it. But I'm trying 00:23:13.319 --> 00:23:15.339 to, I still would be concerned about the fact 00:23:15.339 --> 00:23:17.119 that most of the time, most of me are going to 00:23:17.119 --> 00:23:18.839 want to take you to meet their mama. And she 00:23:18.839 --> 00:23:20.599 going to be like, what's your old behind doing 00:23:20.599 --> 00:23:28.400 with my... With my young son. Then it's a double 00:23:28.400 --> 00:23:32.640 no if he don't have no children So like I can 00:23:32.640 --> 00:23:40.299 I can read my dog needs barking back in She's 00:23:40.299 --> 00:23:46.240 like no She wanted to go outside like I can release 00:23:46.240 --> 00:23:51.680 my My prohibition about dating somebody younger 00:23:51.680 --> 00:23:55.960 if he already has children right because I'm 00:23:55.960 --> 00:24:00.519 not having anymore ever. I'm not having anymore 00:24:00.519 --> 00:24:06.819 ever. And so I was the last one. I was the last 00:24:06.819 --> 00:24:11.640 one. I would prefer he already has children. 00:24:11.819 --> 00:24:15.940 But then even in that men that are in their 30s 00:24:15.940 --> 00:24:18.980 and early 40s still have little children. My 00:24:18.980 --> 00:24:26.059 children are adults. So OK. OK. But what happens 00:24:26.059 --> 00:24:30.000 James is I've been my rule and then I'm stuck 00:24:30.000 --> 00:24:32.799 dealing with somebody that is ill prepared. That's 00:24:32.799 --> 00:24:35.740 not ready. That thought they were ready, but 00:24:35.740 --> 00:24:42.980 I can be a lot to handle. So I'm gonna give you 00:24:42.980 --> 00:24:47.960 another one. Oh my Jesus. This one, same thing. 00:24:48.279 --> 00:24:51.740 Got everything going on. Got kids. Do we love 00:24:51.740 --> 00:24:55.750 Jesus? Yeah, he loves Jesus. He got three kids 00:24:55.750 --> 00:25:04.470 by three different women. As soon as I said the 00:25:04.470 --> 00:25:08.170 three different women, see already like three 00:25:08.170 --> 00:25:10.970 kids by three different women. Now what ages 00:25:10.970 --> 00:25:16.769 are they? Because see, wait, wait, wait, wait, 00:25:16.769 --> 00:25:28.640 wait, wait, eight, 10 and 12. No. See, the problem 00:25:28.640 --> 00:25:30.960 with it is, and this is what I want to say to 00:25:30.960 --> 00:25:34.240 all of you that are dating while anointed, dating 00:25:34.240 --> 00:25:37.359 in ministry, dating with whatever you got going 00:25:37.359 --> 00:25:41.140 on, the problem is when you set your boundary. 00:25:42.259 --> 00:25:46.380 Like my boundary said, I do not. want to date 00:25:46.380 --> 00:25:48.900 anybody with young kids. When you set your boundary, 00:25:49.339 --> 00:25:52.519 hold fast to it because exactly what you expect 00:25:52.519 --> 00:25:54.599 is what you're going to get when you deal with 00:25:54.599 --> 00:25:56.880 somebody that is, that you bent your boundary 00:25:56.880 --> 00:26:00.619 for. Because those kids, those young kids age 00:26:00.619 --> 00:26:07.259 6, 8, that age between 10 and 12. That age between 00:26:07.259 --> 00:26:10.940 zero to 12. They come all kids come first, but 00:26:10.940 --> 00:26:13.500 zero to 12 is even more so because you still 00:26:13.500 --> 00:26:16.299 a little bit too close to that baby mama You're 00:26:16.299 --> 00:26:19.720 not enough years removed from her when you have 00:26:19.720 --> 00:26:23.400 zero to five or zero to six because it's likely 00:26:23.400 --> 00:26:25.259 that she probably still want you or she gonna 00:26:25.259 --> 00:26:28.819 cause problem and I'm not here for the drama. 00:26:29.140 --> 00:26:32.279 So All right, I'm gonna give you one more this 00:26:32.279 --> 00:26:36.000 one. I was watching a podcast country plane. 00:26:36.740 --> 00:26:41.339 I was watching it. So And there's a character 00:26:41.339 --> 00:26:47.259 on the soul, Anthony. He took his girlfriend 00:26:47.259 --> 00:26:54.940 to Kentucky. See her family lives here, all of 00:26:54.940 --> 00:26:57.700 that. They came here for like a birthday party. 00:26:58.440 --> 00:27:02.000 He takes his young son that is just one years 00:27:02.000 --> 00:27:11.890 old with him to Kentucky. from Georgia and fell 00:27:11.890 --> 00:27:17.490 with the girlfriend and her son. And the baby 00:27:17.490 --> 00:27:26.049 mama is already crazy. The baby mama flies to 00:27:26.049 --> 00:27:32.589 Kentucky, pulls up at the event for the mothers 00:27:32.589 --> 00:27:36.880 for the girlfriend's mama's birthday. And when 00:27:36.880 --> 00:27:43.079 I say raise $10 worth of raise $10 worth of and 00:27:43.079 --> 00:27:45.660 like destroyed everything started an argument 00:27:45.660 --> 00:27:52.279 with everybody in there. Oh my goodness. So could 00:27:52.279 --> 00:27:58.460 you stay with this man after his baby mama then 00:27:58.460 --> 00:28:01.049 came in here? And this like the first time you 00:28:01.049 --> 00:28:03.690 done had a wedding with the baby mama like you 00:28:03.690 --> 00:28:06.309 and the baby mama done almost through hands one 00:28:06.309 --> 00:28:10.430 time before nope No, because I want her to have 00:28:10.430 --> 00:28:13.690 whatever she need to get from him and to deal 00:28:13.690 --> 00:28:17.069 with her children and that's the thing like people 00:28:17.069 --> 00:28:20.750 with young children Come with young children 00:28:20.750 --> 00:28:26.170 issues Right you got you still Your kids are 00:28:26.170 --> 00:28:27.829 young. They're formidable. They're still trying 00:28:27.829 --> 00:28:29.829 to figure out their way in life You trying to 00:28:29.829 --> 00:28:31.430 help them and then you trying to manage their 00:28:31.430 --> 00:28:34.069 mama and what gives me is when they say oh No, 00:28:34.089 --> 00:28:36.450 we cope here. Well, we get along fine I say yeah, 00:28:36.450 --> 00:28:39.349 you get along fine until you show up with a woman 00:28:39.349 --> 00:28:44.089 because then she has a problem Now now she better 00:28:44.089 --> 00:28:47.029 really if she ain't causing you problem now Now 00:28:47.029 --> 00:28:49.009 she might cause you problems if she's not married 00:28:49.009 --> 00:28:52.230 and moved on with her life So, you know all those 00:28:52.230 --> 00:28:55.210 things come into play so you guys make sure don't 00:28:55.309 --> 00:28:58.930 don't break your rules even take it from me don't 00:28:58.930 --> 00:29:02.589 lower your um not your standards but don't break 00:29:02.589 --> 00:29:04.410 your own rules because when you break your own 00:29:04.410 --> 00:29:06.309 rules you set yourself up for disappointment 00:29:06.309 --> 00:29:11.710 if you never say yes when when all your um when 00:29:11.710 --> 00:29:14.930 all your own rules for yourself are not met because 00:29:14.930 --> 00:29:18.690 then you end up you know trying to figure out 00:29:18.690 --> 00:29:21.329 okay now where we stand and what's next because 00:29:21.329 --> 00:29:23.890 people that are dealing with young children, 00:29:24.130 --> 00:29:26.490 dealing with baby mama, baby daddy drama, they 00:29:26.490 --> 00:29:30.509 are typically inconsistent in behavior because 00:29:30.509 --> 00:29:32.670 they're torn between what is right and what is 00:29:32.670 --> 00:29:35.710 wrong for them when it comes to movement with 00:29:35.710 --> 00:29:38.890 their children. And what I say to people that 00:29:38.890 --> 00:29:40.789 just cause trouble for people that move on with 00:29:40.789 --> 00:29:44.910 their lives, everybody need to grow up. Everybody 00:29:44.910 --> 00:29:48.009 need to grow up. If you're not with that person, 00:29:48.049 --> 00:29:50.950 there's a reason and even if he circled the block 00:29:50.950 --> 00:29:52.730 or she circled the block, would you eat? Would 00:29:52.730 --> 00:29:55.130 you still be together? No, be happy for them. 00:29:55.890 --> 00:29:57.789 That's there's a whole nother discussion. We 00:29:57.789 --> 00:30:00.470 can have a sound surrounding kids, but I don't 00:30:00.470 --> 00:30:02.750 want to date nobody with no little kids. So I 00:30:02.750 --> 00:30:05.890 don't we don't even got to get into that. But 00:30:05.890 --> 00:30:08.670 that isn't the discussion we could have. Well, 00:30:09.329 --> 00:30:14.029 OK, so all right. Before we close out, I'm going 00:30:14.029 --> 00:30:18.339 to be one more. The kids are adults. Kids are 00:30:18.339 --> 00:30:22.019 adults. Okay. All right. Not adults yet, but 00:30:22.019 --> 00:30:29.000 they like 14, 15. So basically adults, basically 00:30:29.000 --> 00:30:37.900 adults. The kids are 14, 15 and 16. He's in his 00:30:37.900 --> 00:30:44.329 late 30s. Okay. So I mean he started having kids 00:30:44.329 --> 00:30:49.549 when he was younger like probably 20 21 20 21 00:30:49.549 --> 00:30:56.049 So he's like my Got everything going for himself. 00:30:56.789 --> 00:31:02.109 He don't want no more kids Would you give him 00:31:02.109 --> 00:31:13.799 a side where his mama It's mama is your best 00:31:13.799 --> 00:31:21.160 friend. Oh, no, no, no No, no, no No, no, no 00:31:21.160 --> 00:31:25.940 No, you think about it your best friend your 00:31:25.940 --> 00:31:29.180 best friend's mama do not want her dating she 00:31:29.180 --> 00:31:33.599 can't even think of what y 'all Potentially could 00:31:33.599 --> 00:31:41.220 get into no way Jose or Maria You know you like 00:31:41.220 --> 00:31:43.940 I was thinking about it. I was out you almost 00:31:43.940 --> 00:31:46.299 had me on the you almost had me on the hook, 00:31:46.299 --> 00:31:50.579 but The minute I said the mama is your best friend. 00:31:50.740 --> 00:31:55.279 You like oh heck no Take me off of this rain 00:31:55.279 --> 00:31:58.519 right now. No, I'm off of this train boy back 00:31:58.519 --> 00:32:01.519 up Go over there sit down there for you because 00:32:01.519 --> 00:32:06.019 no sir We're not doing that And it would, for 00:32:06.019 --> 00:32:08.839 me, like it would have to be, and definitely 00:32:08.839 --> 00:32:10.859 not somebody close to me, not my best friend, 00:32:10.980 --> 00:32:12.940 not one of my friend's children, absolutely not. 00:32:13.359 --> 00:32:17.819 But for me in somebody, and I know you don't 00:32:17.819 --> 00:32:21.880 need the permission or the admonishment of people 00:32:21.880 --> 00:32:23.900 you don't when you're talking about two adults 00:32:23.900 --> 00:32:27.440 and a man that is 35 years old, 34 years old 00:32:27.440 --> 00:32:31.839 is a grown man. But I still would for me to feel 00:32:31.839 --> 00:32:34.119 good and this is just my mind say where I'm at 00:32:34.119 --> 00:32:37.519 right now About our relationship. I would want 00:32:37.519 --> 00:32:40.880 to know that it was accepted by his family Although 00:32:40.880 --> 00:32:43.900 he still have the right at 34 35 years old to 00:32:43.900 --> 00:32:47.799 make his own decision 36 37 whatever it is but 00:32:47.799 --> 00:32:50.900 at 49 years old I still will feel awkward and 00:32:50.900 --> 00:32:54.319 I think that Probably societal norms has done 00:32:54.319 --> 00:32:57.299 that and it just may be wrong to think that way. 00:32:57.819 --> 00:33:00.599 So I think that people should be, you know, people, 00:33:01.059 --> 00:33:04.460 all of y 'all, everybody is free to date who 00:33:04.460 --> 00:33:06.819 they want to no matter really what the age gap 00:33:06.819 --> 00:33:09.400 is. When we were talking about to consenting 00:33:09.400 --> 00:33:14.339 adults, I do not think that people should exercise 00:33:14.339 --> 00:33:17.849 pedophilia. Now that is absolutely no. Chilled 00:33:17.849 --> 00:33:20.509 if young people are underage you should not be 00:33:20.509 --> 00:33:23.970 dating them. That is just an absolute No outright 00:33:23.970 --> 00:33:27.950 absolutely not. No, that's a no for me So when 00:33:27.950 --> 00:33:30.490 I talk about my son being 17 and this lady being 00:33:30.490 --> 00:33:34.309 29 that was a no he is underage You should not 00:33:34.309 --> 00:33:37.890 like don't don't don't do that like I don't I 00:33:37.890 --> 00:33:41.029 don't think that that's good at all but She's 00:33:41.029 --> 00:33:45.390 still living huh? She lucky she's still living 00:33:45.769 --> 00:33:50.650 Well, when I tell you, God is gracious. Hallelujah. 00:33:51.509 --> 00:33:56.309 He's an amazing God. Um, but yeah, age gap. Age 00:33:56.309 --> 00:34:01.309 gap. I know my mama. She was ready, dude. What 00:34:01.309 --> 00:34:04.230 behind first? Ask questions later. Absolutely. 00:34:04.609 --> 00:34:07.529 I'm talking jogging pants, Vaseline, ball cap 00:34:07.529 --> 00:34:13.590 and a baseball bat ready. You know, um, but our 00:34:13.590 --> 00:34:15.429 children get into things and they perpetuate 00:34:15.429 --> 00:34:18.190 situations as well so we can't take the responsibility 00:34:18.190 --> 00:34:20.889 off of them but somebody that's under age should 00:34:20.889 --> 00:34:24.769 never be considered as a consenting adult. They 00:34:24.769 --> 00:34:28.210 can't even sign their own name for anything like 00:34:28.210 --> 00:34:31.230 for nothing they barely got a driver's license. 00:34:31.550 --> 00:34:34.349 You should not be in your 20s you know dating 00:34:34.349 --> 00:34:39.900 somebody that age. Look at me and say He might 00:34:39.900 --> 00:34:42.860 be ascending a boy to you, but he's all made 00:34:42.860 --> 00:34:49.300 to me honey Right. So no So, you know this tonight 00:34:49.300 --> 00:34:51.639 was dating while anointed talking about the age 00:34:51.639 --> 00:34:54.659 gaps and a lot of times we just keep these things 00:34:54.659 --> 00:34:56.960 Especially in the church. We sweep it under the 00:34:56.960 --> 00:34:59.920 rug when in reality a lot of the times pastors 00:34:59.920 --> 00:35:03.119 are 10 and 20 years older than their wives and 00:35:03.119 --> 00:35:08.989 I saw a video. I know they are I've seen a video 00:35:08.989 --> 00:35:16.190 of this pastor that was preaching. And he literally 00:35:16.190 --> 00:35:21.809 said. They was talking to him about his wife. 00:35:23.550 --> 00:35:26.369 And he said, and to the congregation, y 'all 00:35:26.369 --> 00:35:28.989 stop asking her, what am I going to do with her? 00:35:29.590 --> 00:35:33.929 Yes, I know she's 18. And I know I'm 50, but 00:35:33.929 --> 00:35:42.710 that's my wife. She's 18 so She's she's considered 00:35:42.710 --> 00:35:45.530 an adult, but that's still I'm sending the video. 00:35:45.690 --> 00:35:47.809 I'm missing the video I think I know we talk 00:35:47.809 --> 00:35:50.230 about and I and the thing about it is I still 00:35:50.230 --> 00:35:53.730 think me personally That's too much for me if 00:35:53.730 --> 00:35:55.849 I was her parents that would be too much for 00:35:55.849 --> 00:35:58.730 me that be too much for me to accept But at the 00:35:58.730 --> 00:36:01.929 same time she's a consenting adult and she can 00:36:01.929 --> 00:36:03.989 sign her name on that marriage license I don't 00:36:03.989 --> 00:36:07.219 have to sign her over But a 50 year old man, 00:36:07.360 --> 00:36:09.760 I don't think there's any conversation or anything 00:36:09.760 --> 00:36:13.639 that is relatable between the two other than 00:36:13.639 --> 00:36:16.059 the fact that you could be her grandparent or 00:36:16.059 --> 00:36:18.840 raise her at this point. And a lot of times it 00:36:18.840 --> 00:36:21.679 has to do with narcissistic control and behaviors 00:36:21.679 --> 00:36:25.860 is that much of a gap. You don't want anybody 00:36:25.860 --> 00:36:28.800 that's gonna push back and not tell you no, so 00:36:28.800 --> 00:36:32.389 you find somebody that. And I will take that 00:36:32.389 --> 00:36:37.230 back. He's 63 and she was 18. Oh, yeah. No, he's 00:36:37.230 --> 00:36:43.269 a Nat dirty old man Dirty old dirty old man That's 00:36:43.269 --> 00:36:47.530 the way I see that so all to all the Cougars 00:36:47.530 --> 00:36:50.250 and tigers out there Do you do your thing but 00:36:50.250 --> 00:36:53.150 do it God's way? Whatever you do and make sure 00:36:53.150 --> 00:36:55.389 that you know You're dealing with consenting 00:36:55.389 --> 00:36:58.050 adults and you're not taking the vulnerability 00:36:58.050 --> 00:37:03.019 of somebody's child For you know, for an advantage 00:37:03.019 --> 00:37:06.639 me personally me personally I'm looking seven 00:37:06.639 --> 00:37:09.840 years my senior seven eight years my senior might 00:37:09.840 --> 00:37:13.400 just will not go to ten My senior is my tops 00:37:13.400 --> 00:37:17.280 and I'm still working on that age gap in the 00:37:17.280 --> 00:37:29.679 other direction. I think Y 'all, give me about 00:37:29.679 --> 00:37:32.599 a couple of months. I'm gonna get a, except 38 00:37:32.599 --> 00:37:36.039 or 39. In a couple of months, I should be looking 00:37:36.039 --> 00:37:40.000 at my 50 -some -year -old husband. I'm gonna 00:37:40.000 --> 00:37:46.719 say 38 or 39. 38 or 39 would be a good starting 00:37:46.719 --> 00:37:49.159 point. Y 'all pray my strength in the Lord dealing 00:37:49.159 --> 00:37:52.019 with Reverend James H Glover, because we got 00:37:52.019 --> 00:37:54.719 to get him married, y 'all. We gotta get him 00:37:54.719 --> 00:37:57.579 married. I love y 'all with the love of Christ. 00:37:57.800 --> 00:38:01.300 This has been dating while anointed on this first 00:38:01.300 --> 00:38:05.019 Sunday. Sunday, yes. He's doing the same. And 00:38:05.019 --> 00:38:07.280 we came with a big topic tonight. So we hope 00:38:07.280 --> 00:38:09.800 that you all enjoy. Please, in the comments, 00:38:10.500 --> 00:38:13.500 tell us what your thought process is. We're gonna 00:38:13.500 --> 00:38:15.360 go back and read the comments. Make sure that 00:38:15.360 --> 00:38:18.400 you like, share, and follow us on the James H 00:38:18.400 --> 00:38:20.579 Glover Network. We'll see you back here. All 00:38:20.579 --> 00:38:26.679 over. All over. Every. Look, and y 'all second 00:38:26.679 --> 00:38:30.079 out. Dr will see them. I've been talking soon. 00:38:30.340 --> 00:38:33.119 We are going to start doing some tick tock lives. 00:38:34.219 --> 00:38:36.079 Oh yeah, we're going on. I'm about to go on tick 00:38:36.079 --> 00:38:38.420 tock in a few minutes. I'll be on tick tock. 00:38:38.559 --> 00:38:42.079 So y 'all hit us up. We may go. We may go ahead 00:38:42.079 --> 00:38:45.469 and set our timing for tick tock soon, but. Y 00:38:45.469 --> 00:38:48.070 'all like, follow, share, listen to us on all 00:38:48.070 --> 00:38:51.130 podcast streaming networks. Tell somebody else 00:38:51.130 --> 00:38:53.989 about this conversation and make sure that you 00:38:53.989 --> 00:38:56.530 light up the chat and let us know what your thought 00:38:56.530 --> 00:39:00.550 process is. If you LOL' it, LOL. If you got some 00:39:00.550 --> 00:39:03.309 input, give some input. 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