WEBVTT 00:00:06.040 --> 00:00:10.039 Yeah. Turn your volume up. This ain't small talk. 00:00:10.880 --> 00:00:26.859 This is real talk. Monday rolls around, and you 00:00:26.859 --> 00:00:31.620 know the spot. James H. Glover Network, we bring 00:00:31.620 --> 00:00:42.189 the real talk. Every single Monday we take it 00:01:08.069 --> 00:01:10.590 What is up? What is up? What is up? But if it 00:01:10.590 --> 00:01:12.310 weren't, if it weren't, it is another day, another 00:01:12.310 --> 00:01:14.450 time, and another week for yours and my favorite 00:01:14.450 --> 00:01:16.950 Monday night show. I'm talking about your favorite 00:01:16.950 --> 00:01:19.450 show, my favorite show, we'll talk Monday. You 00:01:19.450 --> 00:01:22.349 all, you all, you all. Yeah, I know. We supposed 00:01:22.349 --> 00:01:24.890 to have my sister Hannah with us again tonight, 00:01:25.109 --> 00:01:28.790 but she texts me and tells me that she's still 00:01:28.790 --> 00:01:30.930 a little bit under the weather. So we gonna, 00:01:31.870 --> 00:01:33.230 wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute. 00:01:33.530 --> 00:01:38.060 Right. When did she I am so you just forgot because 00:01:38.060 --> 00:01:42.260 I was been sick for like a month My bad. My bad. 00:01:42.359 --> 00:01:45.280 My bad. Y 'all ladies and gentlemen. That's that's 00:01:45.280 --> 00:01:48.459 how you're rolling out Ladies and gentlemen ladies 00:01:48.459 --> 00:01:53.379 and gentlemen ladies and gentlemen we got my 00:01:53.379 --> 00:01:57.879 sister my co -host Miss Panna I'll be back in 00:01:57.879 --> 00:02:03.760 the building y 'all. What is up sis? Like let's 00:02:03.760 --> 00:02:10.400 say I have missed you for real Yeah, we We have 00:02:10.400 --> 00:02:15.199 talked about what it's so Like y 'all don't understand. 00:02:15.460 --> 00:02:18.099 There's been days where she has told me I'm good. 00:02:19.000 --> 00:02:23.180 I'll be at the barbershop Leave in the barbershop 00:02:23.180 --> 00:02:29.580 and I get a phone call Mm -hmm And I'm like, 00:02:29.680 --> 00:02:33.210 all right, I got you covered tonight But y 'all 00:02:33.210 --> 00:02:39.050 look, this is the, this is why I love my sister 00:02:39.050 --> 00:02:42.430 because when she comes, we come correct y 'all. 00:02:42.669 --> 00:02:45.069 Y 'all already know it. Y 'all know how we come 00:02:45.069 --> 00:02:49.409 when we come. So since we are glad to have you 00:02:49.409 --> 00:02:54.090 back tonight. So I want you to open us up in 00:02:54.090 --> 00:03:01.430 prayer if you don't mind. I think her internet 00:03:01.430 --> 00:03:08.310 is trying to buff our owner Her internet I want 00:03:08.310 --> 00:03:13.729 you to open this up in places Am I coming through 00:03:13.729 --> 00:03:16.310 now, I just had to go to hot yeah, you good you 00:03:16.310 --> 00:03:27.030 coming through okay Thank you for allowing us 00:03:27.030 --> 00:03:30.789 to come together again and let us touch the hearts 00:03:30.789 --> 00:03:33.189 and minds of the people that we need to. We thank 00:03:33.189 --> 00:03:35.270 you for your healing power because you are the 00:03:35.270 --> 00:03:37.750 ultimate healer. We thank you for your protection. 00:03:38.449 --> 00:03:40.669 We thank you for increase. We thank you for clarity. 00:03:40.969 --> 00:03:43.009 We thank you for discernment. And we thank you 00:03:43.009 --> 00:03:45.349 for helping us evolve in our divine purpose. 00:03:45.949 --> 00:03:47.789 We are so grateful for all things that you have 00:03:47.789 --> 00:03:49.689 done for us, all things that you shall do for 00:03:49.689 --> 00:03:52.490 us, and just giving us the strength to do all 00:03:52.490 --> 00:03:56.030 things possible. We thank you for all the increase 00:03:56.030 --> 00:03:57.909 and exceedingly and abundantly things you are 00:03:57.909 --> 00:04:00.689 doing for this network, and for James and I and 00:04:00.689 --> 00:04:03.550 everyone on the network. We thank you for all 00:04:03.550 --> 00:04:06.189 our listeners. We pray that we touch them, influence 00:04:06.189 --> 00:04:09.169 them, or help them feel anything that they're 00:04:09.169 --> 00:04:12.550 missing. God, just speak through us. Touch us. 00:04:12.909 --> 00:04:15.599 It is your will and your way. In the name of 00:04:15.599 --> 00:04:22.600 Jesus. Amen. My God, for I was unmuted. Amen, 00:04:23.160 --> 00:04:26.459 amen, amen. Y 'all, I know y 'all was tired of 00:04:26.459 --> 00:04:30.259 me being by myself because y 'all, look, I was 00:04:30.259 --> 00:04:32.620 struggling. I was struggling, but we made it 00:04:32.620 --> 00:04:36.180 through it. We made it through it. I am so happy 00:04:36.180 --> 00:04:38.180 to have my sister back though for real, y 'all. 00:04:38.939 --> 00:04:40.759 So say some of that. You tell them what we're 00:04:40.759 --> 00:04:43.560 talking about tonight. Tonight we are talking 00:04:43.560 --> 00:04:46.649 about Who told you that? And I'm learning the 00:04:46.649 --> 00:04:52.990 lies that shaped you. And learning the lies that 00:04:52.990 --> 00:04:57.110 unshaped you. Mm -hmm. Some of us do kick it 00:04:57.110 --> 00:05:01.389 off. So, like, many of us are living from beliefs 00:05:01.389 --> 00:05:05.670 that we never chose. They were taught to us from 00:05:05.670 --> 00:05:09.490 various experiences, our parents, our grandparents. 00:05:10.379 --> 00:05:13.660 our aunts and uncles, sometimes churches, religions 00:05:13.660 --> 00:05:17.839 that we were into, clubs. And sometimes they've 00:05:17.839 --> 00:05:20.920 made us too much, you know, they made us too 00:05:20.920 --> 00:05:25.879 broken, too emotional, too loud, too needy or 00:05:25.879 --> 00:05:29.079 too ambitious. And today we're just talking about 00:05:29.079 --> 00:05:33.420 identifying the lies, challenging them and replacing 00:05:33.420 --> 00:05:39.100 them with God's truth. That's real, like that, 00:05:39.220 --> 00:05:42.930 that's real. Identifying the lies and replacing 00:05:42.930 --> 00:05:45.850 them with God's truth. That's what it was like 00:05:45.850 --> 00:05:49.550 there. So some of those two kick us off with 00:05:49.550 --> 00:05:52.850 the first question or the first point. I got 00:05:52.850 --> 00:05:55.829 you. What is the lie you believed about yourself 00:05:55.829 --> 00:06:05.889 for years? Man, one was that I had to be perfect. 00:06:11.279 --> 00:06:13.540 That was one of the biggest lies that I believed 00:06:13.540 --> 00:06:16.560 about myself was that I had to be perfect. Because 00:06:16.560 --> 00:06:20.040 we live in a day and time where people are expecting 00:06:20.040 --> 00:06:24.240 perfection out of you, but not willing to give 00:06:24.240 --> 00:06:26.819 perfection themselves. They want to give themselves 00:06:26.819 --> 00:06:29.420 grace, but they want you to be perfect in all 00:06:29.420 --> 00:06:39.699 things. What about you? I will say one is kill 00:06:39.699 --> 00:06:41.480 yourself, take care of everybody else, neglect 00:06:41.480 --> 00:06:44.740 yourself. You don't matter, but taking care of 00:06:44.740 --> 00:06:48.920 your elders is the most important thing it all 00:06:48.920 --> 00:06:55.180 costs. True. I think sometimes we forget about 00:06:55.180 --> 00:06:58.980 self because we don't want to be selfish, but 00:06:58.980 --> 00:07:01.839 really we need to think about self more because 00:07:01.839 --> 00:07:04.720 if you ain't thinking about yourself and all 00:07:04.720 --> 00:07:07.750 you're doing is thinking about others, who's 00:07:07.750 --> 00:07:09.490 going to be there for the others that you can't 00:07:09.490 --> 00:07:19.329 think about when something happens to you. Another 00:07:19.329 --> 00:07:22.670 thing that we've got to do is, we've got to remember, 00:07:22.870 --> 00:07:26.790 we think you always have an identity. So very 00:07:26.790 --> 00:07:30.889 true. Because a lot of us aren't identifying 00:07:30.889 --> 00:07:34.569 the same. We're not identifying what is going 00:07:34.569 --> 00:07:53.350 to be good news. And also that many of us are 00:07:53.350 --> 00:07:56.009 fighting battles rooted in words spoken over 00:07:56.009 --> 00:08:01.790 us years ago. Childhood, teenage years, it's 00:08:01.790 --> 00:08:08.870 carrying into our adulthood. facts like there's 00:08:08.870 --> 00:08:11.970 so many of us that are some of us are carrying 00:08:11.970 --> 00:08:18.209 in traumas from salary or generational cultures 00:08:18.209 --> 00:08:24.209 from salary but wondering why we can't be blessed 00:08:24.209 --> 00:08:28.430 because we came around step from past generations 00:08:28.430 --> 00:08:41.519 that others have swept into the world So, who 00:08:41.519 --> 00:08:48.379 influenced the way you see yourself? I would 00:08:48.379 --> 00:08:54.419 say number one is God for sure. It's like once 00:08:54.419 --> 00:08:57.879 I realized who I was in him, then I could be 00:08:57.879 --> 00:09:04.399 who I needed to be for him. And I think sometimes 00:09:04.399 --> 00:09:07.559 you got to realize who we are too, because I 00:09:07.559 --> 00:09:10.480 think sometimes we lose ourselves trying to please 00:09:10.480 --> 00:09:18.419 everybody else. We suffer from people pleasing. 00:09:18.639 --> 00:09:20.879 We trying to run around and trying to be everything 00:09:20.879 --> 00:09:23.799 for everybody. And guys, I ain't calling you 00:09:23.799 --> 00:09:27.200 to be everything for everybody. Just be you. 00:09:29.200 --> 00:09:33.889 Yeah. I definitely, as I have grown in my relationship 00:09:33.889 --> 00:09:38.190 with God and on my journey, I definitely can, 00:09:38.350 --> 00:09:40.029 like, people ask me to do stuff and I'm like, 00:09:40.070 --> 00:09:43.129 no, that's not my assignment. And when you have 00:09:43.129 --> 00:09:45.230 that kind of response, they look at you, but 00:09:45.230 --> 00:09:48.149 I'm like, that's not my assignment. And it is 00:09:48.149 --> 00:09:58.110 such a empowering statement to say that. That's 00:09:58.110 --> 00:10:01.289 not my assignment. Like... This isn't what I 00:10:01.289 --> 00:10:04.029 was called to do. Get somebody else to do it. 00:10:05.809 --> 00:10:11.309 I remember one of the things that has helped 00:10:11.309 --> 00:10:15.730 me is learning to say no to certain people because 00:10:15.730 --> 00:10:19.649 it's like after a while you get to a point where 00:10:19.649 --> 00:10:22.629 you're saying yes to everybody else and you're 00:10:22.629 --> 00:10:28.250 telling yourself no. Like your body's on E. But 00:10:28.250 --> 00:10:31.250 you're saying yes to everybody else, just to 00:10:31.250 --> 00:10:35.509 make sure that everybody else is doing. Yeah. 00:10:38.190 --> 00:10:41.649 It took me getting sick with COVID twice for 00:10:41.649 --> 00:10:47.730 me to realize that yo, I need to slow down. I 00:10:47.730 --> 00:10:59.389 need to make sure that I'm doing. Another one 00:10:59.389 --> 00:11:09.690 would be, so my question for you would be, how 00:11:09.690 --> 00:11:15.029 do you navigate beliefs, affect, how do negative 00:11:15.029 --> 00:11:21.610 beliefs affect your decisions we make? How does 00:11:21.610 --> 00:11:26.870 that? The thoughts that we have eventually become 00:11:26.870 --> 00:11:29.990 our actions. You're gonna believe you're unworthy 00:11:29.990 --> 00:11:33.330 You often make decisions that reflect your belief 00:11:33.330 --> 00:11:38.149 so like if You were told you're always not good 00:11:38.149 --> 00:11:41.009 enough because I had that as well You're gonna 00:11:41.009 --> 00:11:43.190 feel that way when you grow up and you're adulting 00:11:43.190 --> 00:11:48.309 and your relationships And when you carry that 00:11:48.309 --> 00:11:54.429 It's going to be heavy It's gonna be hard for 00:11:54.429 --> 00:11:56.090 you to ever feel like you're excelling at something. 00:11:56.289 --> 00:11:57.990 You're not gonna really be able to take a compliment. 00:11:58.809 --> 00:12:03.009 You're always gonna feel inadequate. And I think 00:12:03.009 --> 00:12:06.269 they, you know, previous generations believed 00:12:06.269 --> 00:12:09.230 that being tough, you know, was a way, but really 00:12:09.230 --> 00:12:12.750 sometimes it just doesn't work out. And so you'll 00:12:12.750 --> 00:12:15.769 feel low about yourself and the people that you 00:12:15.769 --> 00:12:18.870 attract will see that and feed on you at that 00:12:18.870 --> 00:12:21.700 low level. and take advantage of you and then 00:12:21.700 --> 00:12:24.259 you get caught up in situations and scenarios 00:12:24.259 --> 00:12:29.259 and entanglements and it can just be like a whole 00:12:29.259 --> 00:12:38.879 like spider web of issues. I believe that because 00:12:38.879 --> 00:12:42.299 people will see how you are treating yourself 00:12:42.299 --> 00:12:45.620 and basically that you ain't treating yourself 00:12:45.620 --> 00:12:49.039 with respect. How do you expect them to respect 00:12:49.039 --> 00:12:56.799 you? Yep Because that's what they like man if 00:12:56.799 --> 00:12:58.960 he ain't respecting yourself, I'm not gonna respect 00:12:58.960 --> 00:13:02.919 them Mm -hmm because he saw me how to Sweden 00:13:02.919 --> 00:13:07.340 Mm -hmm Cuz think about it what you repeatedly 00:13:07.340 --> 00:13:10.460 think about yourself shapes how you live how 00:13:10.460 --> 00:13:18.279 you feel about yourself Say have one more time 00:13:18.279 --> 00:13:22.299 for the people in the back what you repeatedly 00:13:22.299 --> 00:13:25.200 think about yourself, shapes how you live and 00:13:25.200 --> 00:13:31.519 how you feel about yourself. How you feel about 00:13:31.519 --> 00:13:35.500 yourself shapes how you feel about yourself. 00:13:35.960 --> 00:13:40.419 I like that. I like that. I like that. That's 00:13:40.419 --> 00:13:44.340 good right there. That's real good. Because a 00:13:44.340 --> 00:13:46.799 lot of people don't believe that but it's very 00:13:46.799 --> 00:13:50.850 true. It's true like how you sweet yourself is 00:13:50.850 --> 00:13:55.450 so and others How you expect to be sweeter what 00:13:55.450 --> 00:13:59.330 you expect what you're gonna tell away Mm -hmm 00:13:59.330 --> 00:14:08.169 So yeah, I believe that first of all My next 00:14:08.169 --> 00:14:16.090 one Would be One of the scripts is that i love 00:14:16.090 --> 00:14:19.129 that goes along with that is part verbs 23 and 00:14:19.129 --> 00:14:24.129 7 where it says for as he thinks in his heart 00:14:24.129 --> 00:14:28.309 so is he and in woman's 12 and 2 says do not 00:14:28.309 --> 00:14:31.350 confirm to this pattern to the pattern of this 00:14:31.350 --> 00:14:34.809 world but be transformed by the renewing of your 00:14:34.809 --> 00:14:38.230 mind i love both of those because both of those 00:14:38.230 --> 00:14:43.649 souls like that your mind is very key thing it's 00:14:43.649 --> 00:14:52.539 important All right, your turn, sis. Have you 00:14:52.539 --> 00:14:55.200 ever outgrown a version of yourself but kept 00:14:55.200 --> 00:15:00.419 the old mindset? For sure, for sure. There's 00:15:00.419 --> 00:15:04.000 been a few times where I outgrew the version, 00:15:04.940 --> 00:15:07.639 but the mindset was still there because the mindset 00:15:07.639 --> 00:15:11.600 was always, let me continue to please others, 00:15:11.879 --> 00:15:14.659 let me continue to do what others expect of me 00:15:14.659 --> 00:15:19.639 to do. In our honesty, it was like I had to help 00:15:19.639 --> 00:15:22.460 grow at mindset and be like, you know what? What 00:15:22.460 --> 00:15:28.580 would God have me to do? Forget about what other 00:15:28.580 --> 00:15:30.919 people want me to do. What would God have me 00:15:30.919 --> 00:15:37.039 to do? Because as long as he's happy and as long 00:15:37.039 --> 00:15:45.440 as he's pleased I'm good Yeah, because growth 00:15:45.440 --> 00:15:50.080 requires a mental upgrade I think that's something 00:15:50.080 --> 00:15:53.200 that we have to Remember and that's why sometimes 00:15:53.200 --> 00:15:55.080 like it's hard to be around certain people that 00:15:55.080 --> 00:15:58.139 you used to be around Or like we always say you 00:15:58.139 --> 00:16:01.279 say it too like the conversations are different 00:16:01.279 --> 00:16:04.120 when you're around certain people I was just 00:16:04.120 --> 00:16:07.320 with my friend And I love her to death and she's 00:16:07.320 --> 00:16:10.120 amazing and you know, I was like, oh, I got a 00:16:10.120 --> 00:16:12.340 250 ,000 life which is policy. I'm think I'm 00:16:12.340 --> 00:16:15.309 thinking I'm on my shit, you know She was like, 00:16:15.370 --> 00:16:16.970 nah, Hannah, we do million dollar policies. We 00:16:16.970 --> 00:16:20.789 got kids. I said, OK, let me go back. Let me 00:16:20.789 --> 00:16:24.110 get on the phone and give me another policy. 00:16:24.830 --> 00:16:26.070 It needed to be, you know, she said, when do 00:16:26.070 --> 00:16:28.970 we do many? And then the question someone said, 00:16:29.090 --> 00:16:30.669 well, how much is that going to cost? I said, 00:16:30.710 --> 00:16:34.009 it don't matter. It's about these kids setting 00:16:34.009 --> 00:16:38.830 them up for leaving them something that can really 00:16:38.830 --> 00:16:43.629 change their entire life. Because think about 00:16:43.629 --> 00:16:48.559 it. You can't even get a condo for $400 ,000. 00:16:52.000 --> 00:16:56.940 Pax. And I think a lot of times in our community, 00:16:57.679 --> 00:16:59.759 in the African -American community especially, 00:17:00.679 --> 00:17:04.099 we have a bad tendency of not leaving our kids 00:17:04.099 --> 00:17:12.480 nothing but headaches and babes. But in the other 00:17:12.480 --> 00:17:15.769 parts, our other parts, our other counterparts. 00:17:17.130 --> 00:17:21.029 Ma 'am, they leaving them set up for life. They 00:17:21.029 --> 00:17:25.150 leaving them businesses. They leaving them houses. 00:17:26.029 --> 00:17:29.970 The houses paid off, deeded. Don't have to go 00:17:29.970 --> 00:17:31.630 back to work enough money to take care of them 00:17:31.630 --> 00:17:34.130 kids for the next 15, 20 years, you know what 00:17:34.130 --> 00:17:38.049 I'm saying? And still keep the kids in activities. 00:17:38.759 --> 00:17:41.099 And now we not talking Rick, we talking about 00:17:41.099 --> 00:17:45.880 real stuff where they travel, summer camps, playing 00:17:45.880 --> 00:17:49.880 two to three sports at one time, you know, dance, 00:17:50.420 --> 00:17:54.779 instrumental. You know, they really leave a whole 00:17:54.779 --> 00:17:57.819 way that you could never wrap your head around. 00:17:58.099 --> 00:18:02.160 But it is definitely an eye opener for sure. 00:18:02.299 --> 00:18:05.650 It is. That's why you gotta get into different 00:18:05.650 --> 00:18:08.849 rooms so that she can have the different mindsets. 00:18:12.910 --> 00:18:16.190 Like you gotta walk in the rooms with people 00:18:16.190 --> 00:18:22.630 that are making million dollar deals. And once 00:18:22.630 --> 00:18:24.490 you walk in those rooms with the people that 00:18:24.490 --> 00:18:27.069 are making million dollars deals, you're not 00:18:27.069 --> 00:18:29.430 gonna be able to have that five dollar mindset 00:18:29.430 --> 00:18:37.069 no more. Your walk is different. Your talk is 00:18:37.069 --> 00:18:39.910 different. The way that you handle things is 00:18:39.910 --> 00:18:46.869 totally different. Because of the connection 00:18:46.869 --> 00:18:51.650 and the conversation that you've had Like let's 00:18:51.650 --> 00:18:55.690 say what we got planned for but it's coming up 00:18:55.690 --> 00:18:59.329 Y 'all don't know it yet, but that'll be announced 00:18:59.329 --> 00:19:05.140 soon like what we got coming up It's bigger Than 00:19:05.140 --> 00:19:17.000 what we are mm -hmm It's bigger than us And that's 00:19:17.000 --> 00:19:20.019 what we have to realize like I had to realize 00:19:20.019 --> 00:19:25.039 like okay God like this is bigger than me this 00:19:25.039 --> 00:19:29.299 assignment is bigger than what I am This is bigger 00:19:29.299 --> 00:19:47.349 than me Yep And we thank God for it. Like we 00:19:47.349 --> 00:19:50.390 thank God that the task is bigger than what we 00:19:50.390 --> 00:19:53.170 are. Because what that does is that makes us 00:19:53.170 --> 00:19:56.930 realize like, yo, we serve a God that's doing 00:19:56.930 --> 00:19:59.690 exceedingly, abundantly more than we can ask 00:19:59.690 --> 00:20:08.670 or think. It's like we not serving no pity pack 00:20:08.670 --> 00:20:12.420 like. small things, which we thank God for the 00:20:12.420 --> 00:20:18.180 small things as well. But, y 'all, we expecting 00:20:18.180 --> 00:20:24.940 like some big things from God. So as you go higher, 00:20:25.400 --> 00:20:28.619 that mindset got a sense. Your prayer life got 00:20:28.619 --> 00:20:31.839 a sense. The way that you walk, the way that 00:20:31.839 --> 00:20:34.920 you talk, the way that you maneuver, it's got 00:20:34.920 --> 00:20:39.579 a sense. And do you know why it's got the same? 00:20:40.420 --> 00:20:46.079 Because you're moving differently. You're walking 00:20:46.079 --> 00:20:53.220 with more of an intentional. You're walking in 00:20:53.220 --> 00:21:06.440 an intentional patternality. So why do you think 00:21:06.440 --> 00:21:10.359 people struggle to accept compliments but easily 00:21:10.359 --> 00:21:18.259 accept criticism? That's funny because that was 00:21:18.259 --> 00:21:23.140 something that I struggled with And let me tell 00:21:23.140 --> 00:21:26.079 you what happened to me. I was preaching somewhere 00:21:26.079 --> 00:21:34.779 and As I was preaching at this place this person 00:21:34.779 --> 00:21:43.500 they After I finished everybody was complimenting 00:21:43.500 --> 00:21:46.980 me and telling me like they really enjoyed the 00:21:46.980 --> 00:21:52.000 message But when they did that I'm like God bless 00:21:52.000 --> 00:21:55.759 you God bless you God bless you But I have my 00:21:55.759 --> 00:22:02.819 head down And I remember somebody coming up to 00:22:02.819 --> 00:22:08.819 me. And then like, after service, this woman 00:22:08.819 --> 00:22:12.200 came up to me and she said, keep your head up. 00:22:13.559 --> 00:22:17.700 And I'm thinking, she talking about like, keep 00:22:17.700 --> 00:22:20.339 your head up. I'm like, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, 00:22:20.339 --> 00:22:21.799 yeah, yeah. Of course, of course, of course. 00:22:22.019 --> 00:22:24.599 Always, always, always. She said, no, look at 00:22:24.599 --> 00:22:30.180 me. She said, when they complimenting you. Lift 00:22:30.180 --> 00:22:33.099 that head up. Since I know you're trying to be 00:22:33.099 --> 00:22:35.480 humble with him, she said, but sir, when you 00:22:35.480 --> 00:22:40.160 preach like that, take that. Lift that head up, 00:22:40.660 --> 00:22:46.799 take that. And for me, it was because I was trying 00:22:46.799 --> 00:22:49.920 to be humble. I wasn't trying to be high and 00:22:49.920 --> 00:22:53.019 mighty. So I was like, man, let me just keep 00:22:53.019 --> 00:22:55.839 my head down like, God bless you, God bless you. 00:22:58.990 --> 00:23:06.269 But I had to work on that. What about you? I 00:23:06.269 --> 00:23:10.470 think I spent so many years getting criticized 00:23:10.470 --> 00:23:15.829 that I didn't know how to take compliments. Because 00:23:15.829 --> 00:23:19.529 I didn't grow up in a complimenting household. 00:23:20.289 --> 00:23:23.829 So that's why I'm different with my children. 00:23:24.789 --> 00:23:27.509 Even if they do things that I don't like, I always 00:23:27.509 --> 00:23:30.210 try to compliment the good things they do. I 00:23:30.210 --> 00:23:32.690 always try to reward the behavior that is positive 00:23:32.690 --> 00:23:35.630 from point so that they can have the balance 00:23:35.630 --> 00:23:38.109 of both. Like, yeah, you did it, but it took 00:23:38.109 --> 00:23:41.470 you like, oh, I don't understand it, you know? 00:23:42.289 --> 00:23:44.329 But I'm very proud of you. Or, you know, if you 00:23:44.329 --> 00:23:46.390 say, hey, you're not doing this, you're not getting 00:23:46.390 --> 00:23:49.369 this. And then I see them actually working and 00:23:49.369 --> 00:23:52.599 pushing through and persevering. I'm like, hey, 00:23:52.680 --> 00:23:54.779 your phone's ringing. Why don't you go talk to 00:23:54.779 --> 00:23:56.279 your friend for a few minutes and then we'll 00:23:56.279 --> 00:23:59.680 come back to this. So acknowledging when they 00:23:59.680 --> 00:24:03.279 do do the right things, I feel is very important. 00:24:07.440 --> 00:24:13.079 I like that. I like that. I think our generation 00:24:13.079 --> 00:24:17.839 is doing better with that. Because we've seen 00:24:17.839 --> 00:24:21.599 where the other generations have failed. And 00:24:21.599 --> 00:24:27.440 we're like, we're not going to do that. We're 00:24:27.440 --> 00:24:29.460 going to be better. We're going to do better. 00:24:29.700 --> 00:24:32.720 We're going to make sure that our kids know how 00:24:32.720 --> 00:24:44.460 proud of them, where we are. Your turn. How does 00:24:44.460 --> 00:24:50.160 comparison keep us stuck? It makes you try to 00:24:50.160 --> 00:24:52.559 be something that's you're not, try to be like 00:24:52.559 --> 00:25:04.059 somebody that you're not. Like comparison will 00:25:04.059 --> 00:25:08.680 have you trying to be a Malcolm X when God called 00:25:08.680 --> 00:25:13.829 you to be a Martin Luther King. both of them 00:25:13.829 --> 00:25:16.650 are great, both of them are powerful, both of 00:25:16.650 --> 00:25:19.630 them was powerful, both of them was great, but 00:25:19.630 --> 00:25:29.809 they was great in what they did. What do you 00:25:29.809 --> 00:25:33.670 think about that? I think that is very true. 00:25:38.509 --> 00:25:43.119 Yeah, I think sometimes And I think also it's 00:25:43.119 --> 00:25:48.579 like this internet generation It makes it harder 00:25:48.579 --> 00:25:52.680 because you see people getting it quick So you 00:25:52.680 --> 00:25:57.970 won't eat just as quick as what they get me Not 00:25:57.970 --> 00:25:59.529 what it really takes and we know that because 00:25:59.529 --> 00:26:01.130 we've been building things up from the bottom 00:26:01.130 --> 00:26:04.609 Like, you know, I had the Amazon I have the Amazon 00:26:04.609 --> 00:26:07.089 store. I had eBay, you know, and all the styles 00:26:07.089 --> 00:26:10.430 was I've done you You know, I'm saying this you've 00:26:10.430 --> 00:26:13.390 been with me with this from day one. Mm -hmm 00:26:13.390 --> 00:26:17.730 So you've seen the groundwork that we've done 00:26:17.730 --> 00:26:22.470 Mm -hmm And I've always had two jobs like I don't 00:26:22.470 --> 00:26:24.750 I think I might take a couple weeks off but I 00:26:24.750 --> 00:26:29.640 always keep two jobs and I think you know you 00:26:29.640 --> 00:26:32.619 see me go for my life insurance license like 00:26:32.619 --> 00:26:37.359 you just see me do so much and I think comparison 00:26:37.359 --> 00:26:39.460 distracts from purpose and that's the biggest 00:26:39.460 --> 00:26:43.519 thing and that that is the distraction and I 00:26:43.519 --> 00:26:47.359 think another thing people don't is that someone 00:26:47.359 --> 00:26:53.319 else's blessing doesn't diminish yours. Like 00:26:53.319 --> 00:26:59.559 for me like it's One of my friends is making 00:26:59.559 --> 00:27:03.000 a million dollars. I'm proud of him. Happy for 00:27:03.000 --> 00:27:07.859 him. Even with me and me. Yo, I'm happy for my 00:27:07.859 --> 00:27:11.180 friends out of me. Because I know eventually 00:27:11.180 --> 00:27:23.859 it'll happen to me. And God's timing. So, alright, 00:27:23.980 --> 00:27:29.009 alright, alright. All right, we're going to go 00:27:29.009 --> 00:27:34.549 to the last one. This is good. What does God 00:27:34.549 --> 00:27:36.569 say about you that you've been struggling to 00:27:36.569 --> 00:27:38.730 believe? And we're going to reference some scriptures 00:27:38.730 --> 00:27:44.470 because this is essential. Psalm 139, 14, I praise 00:27:44.470 --> 00:27:47.529 you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made. 00:27:48.210 --> 00:27:53.190 That's a good one. Jeremiah 29 and 11, for I 00:27:53.190 --> 00:27:57.220 know the plans. That I have for you declares 00:27:57.220 --> 00:28:04.180 the Lord Hmm Ephesians 2 saying for we are God's 00:28:04.180 --> 00:28:08.380 handy word created in Christ Jesus to do good 00:28:08.380 --> 00:28:15.960 works First Peter two and nine, but you are souls 00:28:15.960 --> 00:28:25.759 and people a royal priest to it my God That's 00:28:25.759 --> 00:28:27.299 the good one, but this is what we got to remember 00:28:27.299 --> 00:28:30.480 like God didn't make a mistake when he created 00:28:30.480 --> 00:28:41.000 you He made you Your worth was established by 00:28:41.000 --> 00:28:46.079 the Creator And then we got to remember that 00:28:46.079 --> 00:28:52.440 God's plan for us are not based on our past mistakes 00:28:53.600 --> 00:28:57.059 Johnny McClellan said, there's no body but a 00:28:57.059 --> 00:29:01.539 man who fell down, but continue to get up. Getting 00:29:01.539 --> 00:29:04.900 back up is the thing that we got to do. We got 00:29:04.900 --> 00:29:07.180 to continue to get up. We got to continue this 00:29:07.180 --> 00:29:09.980 over. We got to continue to get in God's place. 00:29:10.220 --> 00:29:13.240 Continue to ask God for forgiveness. Continue 00:29:13.240 --> 00:29:16.240 to sow up better than what we was on the day 00:29:16.240 --> 00:29:28.910 before. And then we got to remember You we were 00:29:28.910 --> 00:29:33.930 created on purpose and for a purpose Like God 00:29:33.930 --> 00:29:40.369 had a plan for every last one of us Now it's 00:29:40.369 --> 00:29:42.309 playing for you is different than it's playing 00:29:42.309 --> 00:29:50.240 for me But the thing is he has a plan and what 00:29:50.240 --> 00:29:53.319 we got to remember is God's plan for us doesn't 00:29:53.319 --> 00:29:58.339 stop until that final buzzer goes off when he 00:29:58.339 --> 00:30:00.740 calls us home that's when the plan stops because 00:30:00.740 --> 00:30:03.220 that means we've done all that we were supposed 00:30:03.220 --> 00:30:12.160 to do so y 'all first off i'm just so glad to 00:30:12.160 --> 00:30:15.440 have my sister back with me tonight like whoof 00:30:15.440 --> 00:30:21.380 y 'all don't understand like I was telling prophetess 00:30:21.380 --> 00:30:25.900 team a week, the other day, I said, what people 00:30:25.900 --> 00:30:30.859 don't realize is the bond that Hannah and I have 00:30:30.859 --> 00:30:38.960 is so imbalanced. I said, and the reason why 00:30:38.960 --> 00:30:45.440 that is is this is being what, a decade? Oh, 00:30:45.519 --> 00:30:47.279 I'm longer than that because Angelic Bobby 13. 00:30:50.230 --> 00:30:53.950 How old was my Nisi poo? She was a Nisi poo. 00:30:54.130 --> 00:30:58.170 So this like young like the young one Was she 00:30:58.170 --> 00:31:04.990 like it's over a decade for sure Definitely I 00:31:04.990 --> 00:31:08.730 would say cuz Nisi poo was a Nisi So she was 00:31:08.730 --> 00:31:17.329 like one So that's what I'm saying y 'all like 00:31:17.559 --> 00:31:20.980 When y 'all see our chemistry on the air, y 'all 00:31:20.980 --> 00:31:28.299 gotta understand that chemistry comes from hard 00:31:28.299 --> 00:31:33.059 work. That chemistry comes from, we have to point 00:31:33.059 --> 00:31:38.700 to where now we can go two weeks or three weeks 00:31:38.700 --> 00:31:41.700 where we don't talk on the phone. But the minute 00:31:41.700 --> 00:31:46.460 we get back on that phone, it's like ain't nothing 00:31:46.460 --> 00:31:51.559 happened. And we always know when like, we're 00:31:51.559 --> 00:31:55.240 sick or we're going through something. Because 00:31:55.240 --> 00:31:57.779 it all started with my daughter having a seizure. 00:31:59.039 --> 00:32:02.759 She has complex fever seizures. So her temperature 00:32:02.759 --> 00:32:04.700 rises and she seizes when she gets the illness. 00:32:05.579 --> 00:32:08.720 And it all stemmed from water day at summer camp. 00:32:09.799 --> 00:32:12.759 But she got the fever and then the diagnosis 00:32:12.759 --> 00:32:16.519 of what caused it came later. Um, and it was 00:32:16.519 --> 00:32:19.200 my kindest and then when she's sick, I hold her. 00:32:19.519 --> 00:32:21.519 She's like a baby. She's like a newborn, even 00:32:21.519 --> 00:32:23.700 though she's almost four feet tall, 40 over 40 00:32:23.700 --> 00:32:27.960 pounds. And, um, then I got it. Like I got her 00:32:27.960 --> 00:32:31.079 back healthy. I sit her down for a week and our 00:32:31.079 --> 00:32:33.960 God is a healer. Um, she's had multiple seizures 00:32:33.960 --> 00:32:37.799 and no damage because God is amazing. And after 00:32:37.799 --> 00:32:40.599 the seizure, we got a, we came home with the 00:32:40.599 --> 00:32:45.640 hospital and, um, I got it about a week later 00:32:45.640 --> 00:32:49.359 when she was good, but it just went shake. It 00:32:49.359 --> 00:32:51.339 was like bronchitis, so I did a telebusy, you 00:32:51.339 --> 00:32:55.039 know, trying to save money. And I just kept trying 00:32:55.039 --> 00:32:56.920 to dance. I don't feel good. Like, and my voice 00:32:56.920 --> 00:32:59.380 was gone. And as I was talking to my customers 00:32:59.380 --> 00:33:02.579 and talking to James, after a week of finishing 00:33:02.579 --> 00:33:05.599 the medicine, and it was antibiotic and steroids, 00:33:06.000 --> 00:33:07.680 I just wasn't right. And I said, my body is just 00:33:07.680 --> 00:33:10.319 weak. And I was talking to somebody like, you 00:33:10.319 --> 00:33:11.839 know, you need to go back. Like, you need to 00:33:11.839 --> 00:33:14.230 go see a real doctor. And I sat down and I was 00:33:14.230 --> 00:33:15.930 like, let's go to the doctor. Sunday, I was sitting 00:33:15.930 --> 00:33:18.190 down at a date and I was like, I gotta go. My 00:33:18.190 --> 00:33:21.289 body ain't right. I had to sit up for kids. And 00:33:21.289 --> 00:33:23.630 I went. And I was like, hey, I need a chest x 00:33:23.630 --> 00:33:25.589 -ray. Like this ain't normal. We a week off. 00:33:26.150 --> 00:33:29.269 I got a vacation coming up. My kids are looking 00:33:29.269 --> 00:33:30.589 for, we gotta figure out what's going on. And 00:33:30.589 --> 00:33:33.769 I'll chill out. Just, you know, you might have 00:33:33.769 --> 00:33:35.190 a little dismissive. Well, it's just, you know, 00:33:35.250 --> 00:33:37.369 cause you got asthma. It's just to my God. I 00:33:37.369 --> 00:33:40.009 said, it don't make sense. Like we seven days 00:33:40.009 --> 00:33:42.980 fast in medication. And when I couldn't go to 00:33:42.980 --> 00:33:44.980 the gym anymore, I knew it was bad. Like I couldn't 00:33:44.980 --> 00:33:46.920 finish my workouts. I could only do like 10, 00:33:46.940 --> 00:33:49.680 15 minutes. And all my cardio, I couldn't even 00:33:49.680 --> 00:33:51.059 get to the weight lift and I'd be exhausted. 00:33:51.920 --> 00:33:53.799 And I still didn't have my voice. And I was just 00:33:53.799 --> 00:33:56.599 like, okay, God. And I was praying through it. 00:33:57.019 --> 00:34:01.420 And I asked them for a chest x -ray. And we did 00:34:01.420 --> 00:34:03.319 the chest x -ray. We found out that I had like 00:34:03.319 --> 00:34:07.119 lingular pneumonia. And they were like, oh, and 00:34:07.119 --> 00:34:09.820 then the whole treatment plan changed. And I 00:34:09.820 --> 00:34:12.099 was still actually finishing up my medication 00:34:12.099 --> 00:34:14.880 when I was on vacation with my kids, but I got 00:34:14.880 --> 00:34:16.820 them on that vacation because their granny was 00:34:16.820 --> 00:34:18.519 looking forward to it. They had a heart -set 00:34:18.519 --> 00:34:20.980 on it. And I want them to have those experiences, 00:34:21.159 --> 00:34:29.699 you know? And y 'all, that's why I like, but 00:34:29.699 --> 00:34:31.880 that whole time I was second on, I'm like, yo, 00:34:31.960 --> 00:34:36.539 you good? Are you sure? You need anything? What's 00:34:36.539 --> 00:34:39.849 up? I told her I'm like, don't worry about the 00:34:39.849 --> 00:34:46.789 soul. I got you on that. Because for us, it's 00:34:46.789 --> 00:34:51.730 deeper than the soul. We family. Everybody here 00:34:51.730 --> 00:34:54.309 on this network, it's bigger than the soul. It's 00:34:54.309 --> 00:35:03.289 family. And I can say Tima Wee and Hannah told 00:35:03.289 --> 00:35:08.880 me back in February. when my mom was here and 00:35:08.880 --> 00:35:11.739 we didn't know what was going on with her like 00:35:11.739 --> 00:35:15.699 literally i remember i got a message from both 00:35:15.699 --> 00:35:20.980 of y 'all do y 'all like and we said damn like 00:35:20.980 --> 00:35:23.079 ain't no questions asked because i was gonna 00:35:23.079 --> 00:35:26.119 try to pull through and try to see but i can't 00:35:26.119 --> 00:35:29.400 make sake as far as getting some cells done they 00:35:29.400 --> 00:35:41.429 like no like i ain't no cells this week And that's 00:35:41.429 --> 00:35:46.269 why I love them because we That's what we do 00:35:46.269 --> 00:35:49.949 we support each other beyond the soul behind 00:35:49.949 --> 00:35:53.690 the movement Beyond all of that we support each 00:35:53.690 --> 00:36:00.469 other in real life So we love y 'all be thank 00:36:00.469 --> 00:36:04.130 y 'all we Thank y 'all for watching. Please go 00:36:04.130 --> 00:36:06.590 over there to thespinnerwords .com and vote, 00:36:06.829 --> 00:36:09.429 vote, vote, vote, vote, vote, voting is still 00:36:09.429 --> 00:36:13.389 going on. We nominated in four different categories. 00:36:13.690 --> 00:36:17.110 We're nominated for block show of the year, block 00:36:17.110 --> 00:36:20.170 speaker of the year for block show. It's James 00:36:20.170 --> 00:36:22.949 J. S. Glover Network for block speaker. It's 00:36:22.949 --> 00:36:27.030 James J. S. Glover and we're nominated for podcast 00:36:27.030 --> 00:36:30.530 of the year. and podcaster of the year. For podcaster 00:36:30.530 --> 00:36:34.150 of the year, it's James Glover Network and podcaster, 00:36:34.530 --> 00:36:37.929 it's James Glover. I'm gonna put that in the 00:36:37.929 --> 00:36:41.590 comments. We need y 'all to go over there and 00:36:41.590 --> 00:36:46.550 vote as many times as y 'all can because we trying 00:36:46.550 --> 00:36:49.210 to come home with all four of those trophies. 00:36:51.250 --> 00:36:54.789 All four. We not trying to leave nothing on the 00:36:54.789 --> 00:36:57.920 table this season. We're coming home with everything 00:36:57.920 --> 00:37:04.139 that God promised us. So as I always say, sometimes 00:37:04.139 --> 00:37:06.179 our disappointments are nothing more than God's 00:37:06.179 --> 00:37:08.840 appointments, meaning some things that we look 00:37:08.840 --> 00:37:11.079 at as bad. God has only turned it around for 00:37:11.079 --> 00:37:16.239 our good. And for the first time in a long time, 00:37:16.239 --> 00:37:19.340 I am finally getting to hear my favorite saying, 00:37:19.500 --> 00:37:22.679 come on. Do not let your procrastination be the 00:37:22.679 --> 00:37:26.739 assassination of your success. Yes, yes, yes, 00:37:26.739 --> 00:37:29.800 yes, yes. Y 'all go over there and listen to 00:37:29.800 --> 00:37:32.219 the podcast. It will be released at 12 midnight 00:37:32.219 --> 00:37:36.059 and tune in tomorrow for Walking in Kingdom Destiny. 00:37:36.699 --> 00:37:37.579 God bless y 'all, please.