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Welcome to Closer to Christ through General Conference,

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where two friends who love Jesus share our own

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approach to studying the most recent General

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Conference talks. This is Abby and Amy. Let's

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jump into it. Today we get to discuss Beware

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of the Second Temptation by Elder Scott D. Whiting

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of the Seventy. I think he's my relative. Love

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that. Teasing though. Welcome to the listeners.

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Amy, it's so good to be with you today. Thanks.

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Good to be here. We were talking about this talk

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and we couldn't remember what the second temptation

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was. So not that it wasn't impactful, but I honestly

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just attribute it to being late Sunday afternoon

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after so many other amazing talks. But it's so

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nice to review the talks because of this. It's

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been five months almost since we heard it is

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the conference address and it is just time to

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really see what awesome pieces of of knowledge

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we can gain from it agreed we start in the garden

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of eden with adam and eve we know that the garden

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life limited their need to progress but what

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a soft landing after leaving his presence and

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not knowing much so it was good so whatever time

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they needed there who knows how long that was

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but whatever time they needed that wasn't meant

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to be their final destination it was a test first

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of many that would prove and prepare and allow

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them to progress on their final destination to

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returning to the presence of Father and the Son.

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And we know that there was opposition in the

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garden. really the only way to have that plan

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progress is to be given some choices. Lucifer

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was allowed to try Adam and Eve. He first tempted

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Adam to partake of the fruit of the tree of knowledge

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of good and evil. And that's where we learned

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that that was the first temptation. Satan trying

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to tempt Adam and Eve to partake of the fruit

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that Heavenly Father had specifically commanded

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them not to eat. So we read in Moses 5, 10, and

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11 that both Adam and Eve both declared that

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this decision was necessary to fulfill Heavenly

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Father's plan. Adam, blessed be the name of God,

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for because of my transgression my eyes are opened,

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and in this life I shall have joy, and again

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in the flesh I shall see God. And Eve. Were it

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not for our transgression, we never would have

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had seed and we never should have known good

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and evil and the joy of our redemption and the

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eternal life which God giveth to all the obedient.

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Abby, I love these scriptures because they bring

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the element of Jesus Christ and his atonement

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back to the forefront of our minds. After transgression

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and shame, we find redemption through Christ

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who makes repentance and forgiveness possible.

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And there's just such a stark contrast between

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the way that Satan treats us when there's a mistake

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made or a sin made and the way that God and Jesus

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Christ treat us. This brings us to the second

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temptation. Ever the opportunist, Lucifer, knowing

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their exposed and weak state, tempted them yet

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again, this time to hide from God. This temptation,

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he says, I will call it the second temptation,

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is the temptation that may bring the greatest

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consequence if we succumb. So it's, again, the

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fact that we will fall many times and sin and

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make mistakes. It's what we do after the mistake.

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That will define us. Do we hide or turn from

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God or will we return to God and repent? I think

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the biggest lesson we can all apply here is just

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living in humility, knowing ahead of time that

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we are going to make mistakes. And then just

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if we can recognize and return to God as quickly

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as possible afterwards, that's the best outcome.

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He says some of us might attempt to hide from

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God because we don't want to be discovered or

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exposed and we feel shame or guilt. However,

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numerous scriptures teach us that hiding from

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God is impossible. We should jump into the scriptures

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to accentuate that point. So if we go, David

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the psalmist says, Whither shall I go from thy

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spirit, or whither shall I flee from thy presence?

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If I ascend up into heaven, thou art there. If

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I make my bed in hell, behold, thou art there.

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You can't hide. You can't hide. Elder Whiting

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speaks to the new members of the church who have

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converted to our faith and address the difficulties

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of leaving behind the old life to embrace the

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gospel fully. It's challenging to stop doing

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the things that were part of our everyday life

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and for many, many years sometimes. He says the

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adversary knows that you may be vulnerable to

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his subtle attacks, and he's going to make your

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past life, which you know left you unsatisfied

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in so many ways, now fill. unrealistically attractive.

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That's one of his tactics. Or make you think

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that you really can't ever shed that old coat

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that you used to wear. Yeah, he's got a lot of

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different tactics. But take a step back into

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your previous life and remember that there is

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repentance and the atonement of Jesus Christ

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is there to help fortify you and bring you back

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into your new life. A quote from the talk, we

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plead with you not to heed the accuser's voice.

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We love you. You can do it. We accept you. And

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with the Savior, you will have strength to do

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all. That's a fun little power chant. Right?

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Totally. Powered chant. I love that, Abby. Another

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thing to remember is community that the Church

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of Jesus Christ offers and brings to the life

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of its members. As far as the second temptation

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goes, Elder Whiting had this to say to converts

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who would want to return to their previous lives

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because that might have felt more comfortable.

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He says, if you hide from Him and distance yourself

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from your newfound faith community, then you're

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distancing yourself from the very source that

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can and will give you the strength to overcome.

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So now, Abby, this begs the question, as I was

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reading this, I just had the question, you know,

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am I being the best version of myself in looking

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out for converts and fellowshipping them and

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being a soft place to land or asking them how

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they're doing? I feel like that could be something

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that each of us could ask, kind of like the last

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talk that we did, just in, you know, kind of

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seeing where we are as far as... of fellowshipping

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and ministering, and then this specifically,

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looking out for our friends who are newest converts.

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This talk has given me some things to ponder

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on and see where I can prove, and I do aspire

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to live up to his call. He says, as his saints,

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each of us must foster a culture of belonging

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in the church that is loving, accepting, and

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encouraging of all who desire to progress along

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his path. There's so much strength that comes

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as we remain part of a supportive community.

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We're all stumbling at some time or another,

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but we're progressing, you know, slowly and steadily.

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And we're often blessed by the love others demonstrate

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to us, which is exemplifying charity and the

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love of Jesus Christ. Love that, Abby. What if

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we all embodied this? We're all stumbling, yet

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progressing while blessed with the love of Christ.

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I will say, like one of my reels this week was

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a little snippet from a podcast. It's called

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Lean In With Lizzie. And she's got to be a member

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of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter -day

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Saints. And she has different guests on. And

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the gal, don't know her name, but the gal that

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was a guest, her story was that she was at BYU

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and she fell pregnant, sophomore, junior year

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or something. So she has to make that call home.

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mom, dad, worst news possible. And they say,

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you're pregnant. And she's like, how did you

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know? And dad says, can I come and get you? Comes

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and gets her, helps her. She's like waiting for

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like the hammer to drop, like some anger, some

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like, like just to be so disappointed and upset

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or whatever. And she's down in a room one night

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and he comes down there and he's like, you don't

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feel like you should pray. That's exactly what

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you should do. You don't feel like you should

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go to church. You think that it'll embarrass

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us. Like we want nothing more than for you to

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be with us in our church. And like what an impact

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that made. I don't know how she felt in that

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moment. I don't know if that was like enough.

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Like the fact that she's doing this podcast with

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Lynn and with Lizzie must mean that it was a

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turning point for her or just such a tender moment

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in her life. And I thought a lot of times it's

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our kids that teaches those things. You know,

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how are you going to respond in a situation when

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you've taught your kids a certain way, they choose

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another one, like that's when real love is demonstrated.

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Not when they're doing things perfectly and exactly

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like you imagine this perfect plan going. You

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know, they're going to make different decisions.

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They're going to make opposing decisions. And

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if you can react, if you can prepare yourself

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to react like the Savior would, He absolutely

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wouldn't do it by shame, anger, disappointment.

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I'm like, there's a lot of words that could come

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to mind. But this talk was such a great reminder.

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Sometimes we're going to be the sinner, and it's

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going to be love and acceptance and the opposite

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of shame and fear to bring us out of that. And

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hopefully we can prime ourselves to be that same

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saving being for somebody else. Yeah, that's

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a really good thought. So this goes for every

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member of the church, all of us. This is the

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quote. To those who may be in hiding. We implore

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you to come back. You need what the gospel and

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the atonement of Jesus Christ offer, and we need

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what you have to offer. God knows your sins.

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You cannot hide from Him. Reconcile yourself

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before Him. And I would say, just from personal

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experience, sometimes people, they're there,

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they're still attending, but there is a piece

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and part of them that they feel like they have

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to hide. That's a good point. And it would be

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so cool to know that in our congregations, in

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our families, in our circles, that we make people

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feel safe enough. Like the love of our Savior

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is... is evident in us enough that they feel

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safe to bring the hidden parts out. That is a

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very good point. I love that. Yes, yes to that.

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I love what President Nelson says above when

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you talked about the idea of all stumbling yet

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progressing while being blessed by the love of

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Jesus Christ. Very easy to visualize that. I

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know, right? Another way to put it is the process

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that we take in overcoming the world. So he says,

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Overcoming the world is not an event that happens

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in a day or two. It happens over a lifetime as

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we repeatedly embrace the doctrine of Christ.

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We cultivate faith in Jesus Christ by repenting

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daily and keeping covenants that endow us with

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power. And then he says this, we stay on the

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covenant path and are blessed with spiritual

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strength, personal revelation, increasing faith,

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and the ministering of angels. And when I read

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this quote, it brought me back to my year of

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cancer. We almost would laugh. at the word process.

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It seemed like every month or every week I'd

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receive a priesthood blessing where the Lord

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reminded me that this is a process. I say it

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all the time now. I would have loved to have

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it be one and done or just have it been a lot

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shorter, but that was not the way that the Lord

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worked this miracle. It required time, patience,

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humility, waiting on the Lord, skills learned

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that layered on top of each other later, and

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it also required daily faith in Jesus Christ.

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of President Nelson's quote, through it all,

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I was absolutely blessed with spiritual strength,

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personal revelation, and the ministering of angels.

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So when I read this quote, it sounded to me that

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every challenge that we face in this life is

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an opportunity for us to overcome this world.

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That's kind of what it felt like to me. We aren't

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expected to do it perfectly. Stumbling yet progressing

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while blessed by the love of Jesus Christ is

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good enough. And maybe add to that quote, and

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not meant to do it alone either, with ministering

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angels, paired with, yoked with our Savior Jesus

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Christ. Absolutely. And ideally, we're blessed

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with families that can be that strength. Unfortunately,

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some people aren't, but you can create a community,

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a family community in your church congregations.

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Yes. Totally reminds me, as you said that, it

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reminds me of Elder Holland's quote, which I

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absolutely love, that said, because Jesus walks

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such a lonely path, you do not have to. That's

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true. And I would say... You know when somebody

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has to give up a lot to join the church and like

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an old way of life and then Satan starts using

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the tactic like you love that life. Like why

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did you give it up and entice you with it? Sometimes

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those friends are very good at like kicking it

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into high gear and really making you feel loved

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and welcome. It's not a bad idea, especially

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around new members or members that are struggling,

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to be that community for them. You know, the

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opposing force, the opportunity for them to have

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other people see them, see them for who they

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are, and know that they're trying to turn away

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from things that they used to be. They have to

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have something to turn to. Callings, activities,

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temple work, you know, that's part of the missionary

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program, right? That in really making a full

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conversion and a full turn of heart, that we're

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filling the old. the old used to be with better

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things that really bring lasting joy and happiness

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and, and, you know, snuffing out the thoughts

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that Satan wants to put in there that, that,

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Oh, what you were experiencing before was great

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and joyful. Yeah. That's so good. The rain in

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the background picked up a little bit and it's

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just tender. Like that's, that's a, can you all

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hear that rain? Those are prayers and blessings.

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It's so great. Did you get to finish everything

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that you thought of? Yeah. Okay. Do you have

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anything else you want to add? I think I've said

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enough. I love it. Thank you so much for sharing

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your thoughts and just your heart, Abby. In closing,

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this is the end of the talk. Beware the second

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temptation. Avail yourself of the miraculous

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healing power of the atonement of Jesus Christ.

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This is the very purpose of our existence. Thanks

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for being with us. We'll see you next time. Thank

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you.
