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Welcome to Closer to Christ through General Conference,

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where two friends who love Jesus share our own

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approach to studying the most recent General

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Conference talks. This is Abby and Amy. Let's

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jump into it. Today's talk is called Faith, a

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Bond of Trust and Loyalty by Elder Sandino Roman

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of the Seventy. He begins his talk by telling

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a story about promising to teach a friend how

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to swim. This story ends with both of them almost

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drowning. In his own words, he said, Now we were

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both drowning. Trying my best to reach the surface,

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I prayed with all my might for a miracle from

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God. Then, slowly but steadily, the power of

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God was manifest as I felt a hand propelling

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me towards the shallow end of the pool, bringing

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us to safety. When he shared the quote from President

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Nelson that said, when you reach out for the

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Lord's power in your life with the same intensity

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that a drowning person has when grasping and

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gasping for air, power from Jesus Christ will

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be yours. And I felt like he feels that more

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than anybody from that personal story. When he

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addresses his talk. He's kind of speaking to

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children and the youth. I was surprised. I was

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like, I looked back to see if he was from a general

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presidency or something. Nope, from the 70. And

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he said, this is for the children and the youth.

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So I thought that was interesting. So let's start

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with the question. What does it mean to have

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faith in Jesus Christ? And how does believing

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in him or having a testimony of him help us to

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see him more as a real person? I love that, Abby.

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Both of them are true because childlike faith

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begins with having a testimony that he's real.

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And then I feel like as we have experiences and

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act on that faith, we're blessed with deeper

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understanding and trust in him and his character

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and his goodness. And Elder Roman asked, he kind

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of answers his question that he had before by

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asking another one. He said, have you ever thought

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of faith as trust? When we believe, when we have

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faith in Christ, we recognize his blessings and

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develop a relationship of trust with him. That

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being said, how can we increase trust in Christ?

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If you look in the notes, the footnotes, he has

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a ton of them. And he goes through and actually

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he talks about youth. You've been asked to look

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through and ponder your experiences. He, in the

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footnotes, there is lights and rays. Or is it

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rays and lights? Yeah. With the pillars and rays.

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Pillars and rays. There is the 2025 very beginning

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devotional that they had. And then there's also...

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The youth theme for the year. Look unto me. Yeah.

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And then he also has in here, he also has in

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here a guiding principle. We'll get to that.

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But there are a lot of talks in here. And this

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is, I love it because Abby, he like takes all

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these small little pieces and puts them together.

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And he brings together like... I don't know,

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five different talks. And with that, he has these

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four suggestions for how to do what they were

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asked to do. I'll do the first two. He were asked

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to meditate or ponder and meditate on Christ

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and the happiness that his atonement and gospel

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bring to our lives. And then the second one is

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make a record of spiritually defining memories.

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That's what it is. The second one was the talk

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of spiritually defining memories that he ties

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in here. He says it's for you. for your loved

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ones, and also for those in the scriptures. And

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then he gives a tip. He says, now, these testimonies

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will not bring power to your life until the Spirit

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etches them in the fleshy tables of your heart,

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which brings us to number three. Before I pop

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to number three, I'll just say that pairs really

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well with what we're studying in Come Follow

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Me. Just the power, they reiterate time and time

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again. The power that comes when you record testimony,

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it's like bearing testimony of it. And, you know,

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it may bless you in your own life, you know,

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years later when... You're having a time of struggle.

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You can look back on your own words, but there's

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a great possibility your children or grandchildren

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are going to benefit from those words that you've

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taken the time to record, which would have otherwise

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been lost. Point number three, or suggestion

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number three, was to ponder and record all that

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God set in motion for these miracles to happen

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at just the right time. So the beauty of looking

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back. When a miracle happens, you identify that

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you saw it as a miracle, but that, well, if I'm...

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on the other side of it and i'm looking back

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what little things happen that got me to this

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point there there's a lot of power in that for

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sure and then the last one to use this exercise

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an opportunity to get closer to god pray to your

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heavenly father as if it were the first time

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express your love and gratitude for his blessings

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even ask him how he feels about you and about

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the direction your life is taking love that faith

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flourishes with loyalty We notice that faith

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sprouts as we trust in Jesus Christ and blooms

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as we are faithful and loyal to him. If you want

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a true relationship with Christ, show him by

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making covenants and honoring them with faithfulness

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and loyalty. Making covenants with Jesus Christ

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builds hope. Honoring them builds faith. I feel

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like he talks about that over and over again

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and really gives good examples of it. Just a

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thought that came to my mind is like, you know

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you're in the world physical tangible people

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if i want a relationship with amy am i going

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to have that by saying man if she wants to have

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a friendship with me she's going to come and

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talk to me or do i put some initiative into it

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and i i come up and i reach out to you and i

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get to know you and i guess that's the same thing

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i'm thinking um with all of the intensity of

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a drowning uh person that you know you're reaching

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out for these relationships you're gonna it's

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talking about the extreme effort the effort to

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the best of our abilities the With the most energy

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and gusto that we can have, we're trying to say

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we want that relationship because he's always

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willing and prepared to have that relationship

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with us. He's waiting for us to use our agency

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to demonstrate we want that relationship. That's

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very good. Faith in the face of adversity. He

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talks about how should you respond to adverse

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situations that require. christ's miracles while

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challenges are inevitable and sometimes frightening

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and then again he talks about it simply walk

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undaunted toward him just as the 2025 fsy conference

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theme invites look unto me in every thought doubt

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not fear not so you might ask yourself how can

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i walk undaunted towards him so the suggestion

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is to imagine you're an explorer in an uncharted

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territory To overcome the obstacles ahead, you

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need a source of light. Your faithfulness to

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God and your constant interactions with Him are

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the fuel for your lantern. So when you encounter

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dark and perilous situations, instead of walking

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towards them blindly, you would instead turn

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on your lamp filled with the oil of faith in

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Christ to shed glimmers of hope on that uncertain

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path. How far will your faith go? How far will

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you go with your hope and faith in Christ? And

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I felt like another way to ask this is, do we

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always get to choose the miracle and the timing?

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And then Elder Roman answers it this way. Remember

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my story at the pool? In that moment of despair,

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the miracle came in the way I had expected. And

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then he says this, but God does not guarantee

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that it will always be according to our will.

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Our faith must be centered in Christ and our

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hope in His blessings as He chooses to send them.

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Expect miracles. but let God prevail in our lives.

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So I do love that he, I feel like this teaching

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is important because it can take a lifetime to

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achieve. Sometimes it feels like Heavenly Father's

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not answering prayers or even listening when

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the miracles don't come, either how we expect

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them or on our own timeline. And that comes with

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like a more developed relationship with him.

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Absolutely. Sometimes like our first encounters

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with him, we were asking for a stuffed animal

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and it shows up in the next 30 seconds. And we

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were like, man, he's good to us. He just did

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the most important thing. Sometimes the miracles

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that we're asking for, they're bigger. They're

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going to take a little bit more time. We don't

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have the resources. We don't have the question

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to ask, or it's just not the right timing for

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it. So he's asking us to build the faith at these

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young ages and continue with that relationship

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and trust him enough to know when these harder

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things come along, that when we ask for that

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miracle, that we know with perfect faith and

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trust that he is going to give us what we need.

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It could be way better than we even imagined.

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But that it will come and that in the wait that

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we're just like, you know, I don't feel it yet.

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Give me eyes to see what I'm being blessed with.

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Or let me know, you know, let me know as the

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miracle is right before my eyes. And then the

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suggestion from above, when you get to the other

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side of it, the resolve has come. It's better

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than you could have even imagined. Totally. And

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you say, oh, now I see A, B, and C. What happened

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along the way to get me there? I love that. You're

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experiencing that. Like, you're right in the

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middle of the miracles. And it is so, like, it

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is so important to, like you said, just remember

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that you're maintaining that relationship. On

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our end, it's having faith and trust in his character

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and in his timing. Because I'll say it again,

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my timing is always, right now it'd be great.

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That's always my timing. It's not his. He's like,

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no, this is going to take some time. I asked

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you for it today. That's because I need it today.

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I think you've got more new. And I mean, for

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sure, we can all agree that Elder Roman needed

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to breathe in that moment, right? A little bit

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different than something that may take a while

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to foster more faith, more character on our part,

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and a more well -rounded. Disciple of God. You

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know what I mean? Disciple of Christ. And somebody

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that's preparing to be a priest or priestess

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or a god or goddess. You see like in the world,

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they'll do these studies all the time and they'll

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present a treat to a kid and they say, if you

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wait, then I'll give you two or whatever. And

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they track these kids over a lifetime. And you

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see like in these studies, you see that people

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that are more inclined to needing immediate.

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What do you call it? Gratification. Yeah, the

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immediate gratification. Tend to suffer with

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other things in life way more than the kids that

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are willing to wait. There's just more mental

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fortitude. Their lives kind of have a better

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trajectory, you know, as far as outcomes that

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we're looking for. So, of course, that's God's

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pattern. Waiting for the waiting for. waiting

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past the thing you think that you need in the

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moment for something so much better in the end

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yes and also you know what's interesting too

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when you're talking about that abby it's the

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because we're maintaining that relationship because

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we continue to trust even when the end goal hasn't

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happened yet an end goal meaning like the the

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healing that we're praying for or the you know

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the relationship or whatever it is that we are

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still looking to him and looking for, he says

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it in the very beginning of his talk. He said,

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then slowly but steadily, the power of God was

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manifest as I felt, you know? So that's what

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it is. I feel like we're looking for the hand

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of God to be manifest, even if it's not in the

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ways that we're hoping to see it in the end,

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because he's sort of saying, I'm here with you

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in the waiting, if we look for that. Yep. If

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we have eyes, we're waiting to see the big finish.

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we miss the opportunity to see the slow and steady

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progress we're making towards the big finish.

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I agree. God promises to his faithful people.

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He said this in a couple of ways. I'm going to

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read them. He says, My young friends, how much

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we love and trust you. You belong to the family

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of God and are children of the covenant. Believe

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and trust in Jesus Christ. He will enable you

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to truly become his disciples. i invite you to

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begin today to nurture your relationship with

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jesus christ make a commitment to never forsake

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him and last he says your loyalty love and trust

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in christ will shape your character and identity

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after his You will gain confidence and strength

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to overcome Satan's attacks. And when you make

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mistakes, you will yearn for his forgiveness.

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Finally, your hope for the future will be bright.

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He will trust you with his power to accomplish

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anything he expects of you, even the power to

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return to his presence. Love that.
