All in is all in, all family.
What it do, what it do, this your boy King Yash.
This is your cool E. And you tuned in to another episode of All
In. All family. What it do, what it do, what it do Queen E.
Man, chilling like a villain, you heard me. Thank you. Yeah,
that's good. That's good, man. On to, man, on the final topic
of tonight, man, you know, we finna motivate you and give it
to you right.
We gave you the three that you wanted to hear. But we gonna
give you something that you need to hear tonight. But first off,
Queen E. Boy, Drake done came out with a diss, but Kendrick Lamar
done came right back out with the function. It's clockwork.
Man, that's how some of y'all be in y'all relationships like
Kendrick and Drake. You can't mix the two, baby. And that's the
perfect, perfect thing about the two. Before you mix, before we
get into that though, we gotta get in, we gotta tell you the
topic, baby. And you know what the topic is? Man, they ain't
ready for this topic. You ready? Man. First date. First
impression. The first date is the first impression. It's the
first impression is the last impression. The first impression
should always be your best impression. That last impression.
You don't want to leave no bad impression. You don't want to
leave no bad impression on that shit, bro. You don't. I'll tell
you, you don't, bro. Like, on a first date, like, the first
date, like, first date is everything. Because the first
date gonna leave from everything from then until now. Well,
because when you look back 30, 40, 50, 60, 70 years from now,
when you married, it's all about that first date, the first
impression. See, why you think women ask you, I ain't seen
this side of you yet. A man ask you, damn, I ain't know this,
I ain't know this but truly you. I ain't know you like this.
Is it worse than what it is? Worse than what it is? It's so
much shit that goes on with that shit that it's crazy, man.
Like, the first impression is, ooh, boy, how you dress is the
first thing. Is you dressing for success or you dressing for
failure, man. But don't, don't go up on that with no beat up
ass shoes and no beat up ass shirt. Whole symbol. My point
is exactly. Knowing that shit hurting. Knowing that you, it's
really, really hurting. That nigga nose is stopped up now.
Baby, all I, the main thing he saying right now, baby, all I
smell is you. All I can do is smell you. Nah, man. You better,
you gotta stop it. Yeah.
Man, I'm about to tell you something. The worst thing that
you can do in this motherfucking lifetime is act like, act like
you the shit when in the middle of nowhere you really not.
Because the person not looking, if you the shit or not. Come on,
man. Your first impression, you can't be out there, man, thinking
you finna wear the same shit you wore to the club and that you
finna go on a date with. No. Dress for success, not for failure.
Absolutely. You want that date to go successful just like, I
wasn't going to say just like you going on a job. Just like,
just like you want it. I'm going to just tell you like that.
Just like you want it. You want it bad enough.
Just like to me, you going to dress down for your first date with
something casual. A nice button down shirt, some casual slacks,
some casual shoes. Like another one.
You ain't got to, nah, if you just going to the movies, don't put
on those slacks but you know, casual Air Force 1's, some nice
black blue jeans, you know what I'm saying. And always keep, and
always wear a collar shirt. Because if you wear a T-shirt, it
gives off the little boy vibes.
He's a little boy. So I can say this, if someone didn't get
well, if they're wearing jeans and a T-shirt, to their first
date, depending on where their first date takes place at,
let's take y'all clean and go to the museum.
Yeah. I mean, it's all about the collar shirt.
The collar shirt signifies that you mean business.
Any man walks around in a collar shirt, nice pants, nice shoes,
and for a female, like knee high, put like this, knee high,
put like this. What they tell you, two inches above, it got
two inches above the knee cap, two inches above the knee cap,
keep your dress dead length. Don't wear tight dresses.
Tight dresses only signifies as giving off an instinct to a man.
No. What you signify in that man basically for the night is,
he's finna get something. Like, don't, like, I'm a man for
myself.
Like, it's not the, what happens on the first night are adults.
Your adults don't never think what the fuck happens on the
first night. Anything can happen on the first night. Love can
attract on the first night and bring it. People don't
understand it. But what I'm telling you is, man, maturity
level of a dress, maturity level of clothes, because as a man
thinks, a man will show you the art of deception and how to
get what he want. Just like you would show him the art of
deception to get what you want. So don't, don't, don't do
that.
It ain't all about that. It ain't all about it. But moving
on, like, it's about the second thing, the most important
thing, the first date, first impression, the best
impression. The second thing is hygiene, people. Like, if
you can't see here and realize for the men out there, women
look at you from head to toe. You only examine three things
of the woman, body, body, body, body. You don't imagine her
hair, rear, no nothing. When you tell a person to be natural
and casual, be natural and casual, but don't be natural as
oh shit, I'm going to show you what natural is. Natural is
oh shit, I don't take baths for five days now. Natural is
getting up in there, taking a shower, putting on your best
meal good, three dabs. Three dabs for the shirt, two dabs,
two dabs on your arm, rub them in, that's it. One dab for
the neck, that's it. You don't need 22 dabs. Ladies, same
for you, it's seven dabs, that's it. Legs, two legs, two
times before you hit your twat, two times on the stomach,
cleavage, that's it. One swipe of the cleavage, one swipe of
the stomach, one swipe of the neck, that's your seven already.
Don't sit here and get greedy with it because sometimes you
can overdo it. And when you overdo it on a perfume or
cologne, it can turn off somebody. Your first impressions
are your most critical moments. Two, half your shit. Three,
half your shit down pat. Don't come to no female, hey baby,
yo, yo, nah. You know this ain't like the rest of the motherfucker
that you don't fucking deal with. So, shit, what you think
you're finna do? What you think you finna do? Nothing,
because half your conversation starters already down pat,
man. Don't bring up nothing that you and your homeboys or
the hood be talking about, none of this shit. Because this
woman, she done grew from the hood, she don't want to go back
to their way. This man might not, he done grew from the hood,
he don't want to go back their way. Half your shit down pat
or what you want to talk about, the things you want to get to
know about a person. Half certain questions, don't get to
know a person all in one motherfucking night, too. It's
impossible.
However that conversation goes, there might be a second date.
Nah, because this just the beginning of the date. Because
the beginning is having your conversation starters down,
making sure your hygiene, making sure your clothes is
correct. No sagging at all, fellas. No sagging, man.
Making sure you have everything that you should have.
You should have, and the most important thing, if you know
that, okay, you single, you live a single life, you got
friends, you got female friends and shit, or you got
female male friends, I mean you got male friends, females
they got male friends, and males they got female friends,
and y'all single, but y'all bumping grind and shit.
Put your phone on DND and do not touch that, don't put it
on DND.
Put it on silent.
Put it on silent and don't touch it. Don't even look at
that bitch. Don't go look at your phone until you go to
the bathroom. Have respect.
Have respect for everything on the birthday. Have respect
for that person that you're on the date with, and also have
respect for yourself.
Yeah.
You, you, you gotta realize like when times get harder,
shit, you always go to your phone when a date boring.
No, the date gonna get boring at some point up here, but
wait for the excitement to come.
If you go dancing.
Just understand that both of y'all are nervous.
Y'all might not have too much to talk about, but still,
find somewhere to interact with that person instead of
trying to pick up your phone.
And ladies, don't overdo it. Don't over-talk it.
Don't give out no more information than you need.
Don't.
Don't over-talk it.
Because regardless of the point, if you getting to know a
person and you feel like that person figure to be in your
life, you better over-talk it.
I mean, you better sit here and give out the information.
Stop holding.
That's the whole thing about everybody wanna store shit and
hold shit back.
Like, you can fuck yourself up because when a person asks you
that, do you got anything in the beginning, you say no.
And then you come out later on with it, and they say I asked
you that shit in the beginning, or she said I asked you that
shit in the beginning, then it's a conflict of interest.
So I'm trying to tell you, whatever that person addresses
and asks you, be real.
Because you trying to sit here and you trying to do the most
ass, nah, I ain't like this.
Not trying to give up the shit that going on, you gonna fuck
around and not give up something.
You gonna give up something that you hate.
You gonna miss out on something that you gonna hate, bro.
And when I say don't give out too much information, that's
not easy.
Nah, give out.
No, let me explain.
That's meaning, like, don't just start rambling and telling
him unnecessary shit that neither one of you are really
know.
I mean, it's gonna come out when you start talking about it.
You gonna get the, that's when you don't over talk it.
Like, that's when the over talking means, that's when the
over talking means don't, like, don't over, don't let him
talk some.
Let him, let her talk some.
Don't over talk each other and don't try to make your story
more sad or more, you know, don't try to compare stories
or lies at that table.
Like I say, be like, you know, tell the truth, like, I'm
trying a new leaf, I'm trying to get over now.
I'm looking for someone that, you know, I can, that gonna
help me and I can help them because I don't know it all.
You don't know, you might not know it all, but we can help
each other.
A person with a person mind frame like that gets any, gets
what they want.
But if you at the table and you, man, yeah, they send me to
Mars in 2026.
Yeah, I shot, yeah, I was in Star Wars.
I was one, yeah, I was him right there with the mask on and
Darth Vader, Darth Vader people.
Like don't over exaggerate the shit.
Because then when the truth comes out, shit is going to be
looking like you lied or he's going to be looking like you
lied.
Like what was your purpose?
What purpose did that serve for you?
Shit.
What purpose was that for you to lie about it?
Why would you exaggerate something like that?
And it could have just been simple, like.
Because that's when you get to comparing in a competition.
Don't make it a competition.
That's step five.
Do not make it a competition.
Step six is wow, the entertaining moment is going on
that you caught up y'all verbally speaking now.
It's getting interesting.
Verbal moment is don't overthink it.
Do not overthink it.
If you overthink, you're going to fail.
Do not overthink that shit.
Because overthinking can cost you a lot when you're
overthinking.
It costs you more than what you're supposed to be.
More than what you're supposed to need it or want it.
So overthinking keeps you from getting to the space you
need when you need it.
You're closing in but you're starting to overthink at the
end.
Don't overthink it.
Keep it mellow in your head and keep the vibe steady going.
Like Queen E said, keep it steady.
Keep the vibe going.
Your mind and your mind going to lead you to what you want.
But your heart got to lead you first.
You got to be inclined, your heart man, and need the mind to
think.
It just beats for itself.
And the next step is once you don't, once the vibe end right
correctly, do not get in the mold as shoulder strength.
You know what I'm saying?
Like fellas, make sure, when I say shoulder strength, this is
the hardest thing for you to do.
If you're at a club and she's dancing on you after you get
through eating, y'all dancing and she grinding, shoulder
strength.
Don't sit here and try to, you know, I ain't saying don't grind
on her, don't, but hold her.
Why are you grinding?
Don't make it sexual, make it sensual.
Make sure them the only arms she want to be in and when she
tell her friends and her sisters the next day, he held me on
the dance floor and I never had a man to hold me like that.
Man, I held on the dance floor and I, shit, I felt sparks
when I did it.
He telling his brothers and partners, you know, don't,
like don't show, like please show restraint.
That's what I really want you to do, show your restraint.
Please do.
That's where we fuck up when we can't show restraint.
She grinding on you, you think she ready to fuck.
So at the end of the night, you get the, you trying to get in
the house, you trying to give her more shots and shit.
No, don't do that.
Because she know what you're doing, so the only thing she
going to do, she can get drunk, she can get a freak drunk off
you and call the nigga that been beating her back in for the
last six, seven months.
Which one you want?
Take it how you want it.
I'm just telling you the real.
Like you can't get no real in there for real.
I'm just telling you the, it's just the guy and the truth.
Like if you going to do that shit, man, just know like you
going to, you didn't show restraint.
You tried to over pursue it.
And with me, the point about it, don't show pursuit.
When you do that, don't show pursuit.
When he try to, when he get trying to press it harder
against you, you kind of spin around and spin off of him.
And then you go back and then you do the thing and if he do
it three times, he do it, he do it probably three times in a
row, probably two times in a row.
I warned you once, second time if you do it again, that's your
sign as what he is trying to show himself.
See, a woman going to see how you going to pursue her, that's
why your first impression got to be your best impression.
Show restraint, show how you feel.
Show like, hey, I'm looking for more than just a fuck thing.
You know what I'm saying?
Show her that.
Now after that night, get ready, it dies down.
This is the most important part of them all for people.
Showing who, that's when, that's when the game, that's when
the game, when she like you, that's when the game is going
to start.
I want to see how long he going to last, if I make him wait
for it.
Fellas, give up, fellas, before Queen Eve spit off of that,
because she is right, before she spit off of that, fellas,
give up, don't, this still could tie into over-presumably,
but this is how to keep the continuance.
Give her a kiss on the cheek.
Kiss on the forehead, it shows morals and principles that you
are that nigga.
Kiss on the forehead and be like, I see you, I see you next
week, yeah, I see you next week.
If you're free Wednesday, I'll take you to brunch.
This is how you do it, this is how you keep the continuance.
This is going.
For you to get that second date, for her to text you and say,
I had a good time and I can't wait, sneak that question in,
I like so, you don't snuck that question in at the table,
and you know what she work at, you know what she do.
Bro, you can show up with six flowers, one flower, two flowers,
it's a fucking flower.
Do something, you can't swing it, like, okay, let's say.
I mean, you did that, but you ain't only, like, after the
first date, you don't, you know, you getting prepared to go on
the second date.
That's what I'm saying.
So, I'm just saying, you want to start, you don't want to go
in fast with just doing some spectacular, because the small
shit, because.
Let's say first date, we bring up one rose, second date.
No, you can't, it ain't no rose, it ain't no rose.
It's no rose on the first date, y'all, just me, don't make
yourself feel like you desperate.
That's what they mean?
Yes.
You can tell me something, because I didn't know that.
Yes.
I didn't know that flowers.
If a man bring you flowers on the first date, he ain't been on
dates in years, this is first time, he a little desperate,
he just don't, no, no.
See, people don't know that, like, what this shit really
means, like, that man, how he feel about you after that first
date is going to make him gain the ability to see, to look in
the simple shit like, man, I got to be a lamb, I want to go
get a flower.
You bring that shit on that first date, you bring that shit
on that first date, you ain't going to never see them flowers
in that goddamn house again.
They're going to be dead.
On that second date, before that second date, you got to
surprise her, you got to be, that's when you show her the
simple, like, that sweet side of you.
Like, you want to go up there with a little, you want to go,
you know it's the simple shit that females love, so you got a
little box of chocolates, hearts, or whatever, you know,
the little different flavors, if she like the different flavors,
and you go get the little rose.
But you don't go send nobody.
You just, you go up there and you tell them, just call her
down.
Just a surprise, just for her, because she been thinking about
you as well, she just can't tell you, because on the first date,
after the first date, nobody, like I say, nobody wants to
leave that, oh my God, this is the one impression.
Nobody want to have that impression.
So the main thing you want to do, and I'm telling you this
because I know this is, this is how you attract love.
It's the small things.
So,
What small sweet gesture would you do?
Nah, I don't tell my shit.
It's different.
Because if I tell, you going to be expected for this shit.
Motherfucker going to be expected for it.
So I tell when it's not, when it's supposed to be unexpected.
That's the best obvious, oblivious thing to being,
having secure and keys.
It's the significance of timing.
Nah, hell nah.
Because I don't, me, I didn't never go on fucking dates.
It was always, let's go out of town.
And we act like little ass kids, we weren't no date.
We was little kids, we fucked, we do, we do, we go back
and we go to our own little worlds again.
Like,
like, what I do is,
if I like you, you been in my house a couple times and whatever,
then yeah, we can go out on a date because yeah, I'm getting to know you.
We done fucked, I kind of know you, I kind of like you.
Boom.
You done come over to my house, I'm going to set it up,
regardless of what the romantic edge done.
I'm not that person that goes out because I know I can cook.
And I'm not American, so I can cook, what the fuck.
I know my heritage is.
So that's the best part about me.
And then just the laughter and the entertainment that I bring.
Because I dive deep in, I dive deeper than what,
it's the conversation with me that people like.
Because I dive deeper than what people expect me to dive in.
And I can pull out deeper, I can go deeper and deeper.
And the attraction will pull deeper and deeper to me because you be like,
I ain't never, the way he speak, the way he talk, he got sense, he normal.
He a regular person.
We look at him as a thug, but this nigga's really a regular guy.
And that's how people feed off to my attract, like, that's what attracts people.
How long?
That's what makes people attracted to me, I guess, is what I'm saying?
Yeah.
Okay.
So yeah, I was like, that's how I do it.
You know what I'm saying?
But get you some roses.
And me, I'm the type of person, I run your bath water, I run your both bath water.
I make sure, like, I will sit here, like, if I come over to your house,
and you give me a key and I stay, I'm going to clean your house,
both bath, kids put down, kids going to say, oh, man, I had fun with him today.
Cool, that's me.
I ain't the type of person that's, I'm not a bad guy.
I never been a bad guy, so I can't portray the bad guy, bro.
I'm a good guy, but people step on my toes, so I have to turn on the bad guy, bro.
That's the fuck-throw situation.
See what I'm saying?
I love her, not the father.
But on another note, you know, roses, stop by a job,
even if you just feel like you want to put a couple dollars in the envelope,
without the roses, and just give her a teddy bear, a big ass teddy bear or something,
that's the romantic jester.
If I was you, I don't do the roses.
I get a teddy bear, buy a little blanket she can wrap up in,
because she always feel comfort because it's something that she can always going to put on,
because she always going to think of you when you do shit like this.
As she wrap herself up in that blanket, she always going to think about,
damn, he bopping that blanket.
I'm going to love this blanket forever, forever, ever, forever, ever, forever, ever.
Yes, Ms. Jackson, forever, ever.
So it's about the sweetest thing, and you warming her up to the second date,
because the second date, you might got a bigger surprise.
Out of three dates, you feel like, shit, fuck, I want to check her out of town.
You check her out of town, and she act just as classy in the streets,
but even freaky in the sheets, you finna marry her.
That's the one.
It's all about the first impression.
The first impression is what the definition is to be that, be that, I know you what you feekin'.
I don't know the song, but he showed you how funky, he showed you just right,
he showed you just love it, love it all night, just beat it.
I'm trying to tell you, you got to beat it, man.
Michael Jackson, go get Bubbles.
I need Bubbles, I need Bubbles right now.
I love Michael Jackson, man, that's what my nigga,
especially when I heard he pimp slapped the shit out of Bubbles and had Bubbles praying.
Yeah, man.
But first impression, best impression, love yourself, love the thought,
but also go up in there with a basically stable mind, frame, ass,
you know what you want, you know what you got to get out of it,
and you know that love is a short period of time, you need to take advantage of it now.
Because we bringing all hot topics out for the rest of the week,
because next week is probably going to be fashion week, sex week,
you never know what week you going to get out of us now.
It might be teaching how to clean up week,
which we is because some of y'all motherfuckers don't know how to clean, bro.
Oh, first impression, base off too, before I forget,
whoever go over whoever house, fellas, make sure you have your own house.
Females, make sure you have your own fucking house as well,
but make sure that hole is clean.
A nasty bitch won't get a bitch.
You only attract nasty niggas.
You only nasty niggas like nasty females.
And I think nasty niggas is nasty females,
that's something that I can't stoop myself to,
because it's a nasty negative situation.
I don't want to never be negative, I always want to be positive.
But man, y'all got to tune in, because we brought tomorrow Queen E,
she should make it in, she should make it to the studio about three,
and we going in four, five episodes back to back, you know,
not four, five episodes, we probably going to do,
I'm probably already going to have two put out,
so we probably going to hit three tomorrow to make sure
it's five episodes completely put out for y'all,
because we love y'all, man, and the energy that y'all bring to me,
I don't know how they feel about the energy,
but the energy you give to me, I ain't going to lie, Queen E be happy as a motherfucker,
because she can't wait, she sit down in her fucking workstation,
and be ready for me to just pull the mics and shit up,
like a little ass kid just answer, what we talking about today?
Huh, huh, huh, huh, huh, huh.
So, I ain't going to lie, so yeah, the energy that you give to us, bro,
we love it, it's the vibe, it's the consideration, it's the love,
it's the monstrosity, it's the energy, it's the faith, it's the spirit,
it's the vibration of them all that you give to us, man,
and we thank y'all, because we meeting goals this month
that's probably going to have people looking at us soon,
and we already top March in a two, and then ten points away from topping,
motherfucking April, so I thank y'all,
and it's just going on the seventh day of fucking May,
and we are proud to say we have loyal subscribers, loyal people,
and like I said, I love the subscribers because y'all give us that
that notice that we can be anything we want to be, we being heard,
and I thank you for it, man, and we just going to keep reaching new heights
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on my mama grave, the ones that held us down,
the ones we going to do the shows, we going to come to your city
and do the shows with and for, you will be a co-host on this motherfucker as well
when we come to your city.
I mean your city tonight, blowing on that dodo, that dodo,
folk do, no I'm just playing, but we love y'all, we thank y'all for this man,
because we want to give y'all something that we know that people want to gossip
and give y'all gossip so y'all can go back in y'all relationships
and go back in friendships and you know that shit takes off on you
and put that gossip energy on you.
I don't want that, you don't want that, you shouldn't want that,
but our energy is to make sure that you basically are the top tier fans,
you are the most loyal fans, and man when this merchandise come out,
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I know y'all going to support us.
Please post, send us pictures of the shirts, you wearing the outfits,
you know we going to put you on our page and make you a star of your own,
we want to give you that level of what you giving us.
You give us your support, so our energy is to give you that same support
so we can come back and keep receiving that support.
So you know like I say, sooner or later I know God's will this podcast can go up,
like I said I don't give a damn why I do turkey days in your city for Thanksgiving,
I wouldn't give a damn, you hear me, but hey man it's just a thought that counts,
I love y'all, stay safe, stay good out there,
Queen E you want to say anything before we slice the mic.
She over here getting high high folks, in the studio before she go.
I'm sorry Adam, I just want to say thank you for this, thank you, stay tuned.
This been another episode of All In.
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Gross.