1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:16,000 All in is all in, all family. 2 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:20,000 What it do, what it do, this your boy King Yash. 3 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:26,000 This is your cool E. And you tuned in to another episode of All 4 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:34,000 In. All family. What it do, what it do, what it do Queen E. 5 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:39,000 Man, chilling like a villain, you heard me. Thank you. Yeah, 6 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:45,000 that's good. That's good, man. On to, man, on the final topic 7 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:49,000 of tonight, man, you know, we finna motivate you and give it 8 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:52,000 to you right. 9 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:58,000 We gave you the three that you wanted to hear. But we gonna 10 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:03,000 give you something that you need to hear tonight. But first off, 11 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:09,000 Queen E. Boy, Drake done came out with a diss, but Kendrick Lamar 12 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:16,000 done came right back out with the function. It's clockwork. 13 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:22,000 Man, that's how some of y'all be in y'all relationships like 14 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:32,000 Kendrick and Drake. You can't mix the two, baby. And that's the 15 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:39,000 perfect, perfect thing about the two. Before you mix, before we 16 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:43,000 get into that though, we gotta get in, we gotta tell you the 17 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:51,000 topic, baby. And you know what the topic is? Man, they ain't 18 00:01:51,000 --> 00:02:07,000 ready for this topic. You ready? Man. First date. First 19 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:19,000 impression. The first date is the first impression. It's the 20 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:25,000 first impression is the last impression. The first impression 21 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:29,000 should always be your best impression. That last impression. 22 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:35,000 You don't want to leave no bad impression. You don't want to 23 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:40,000 leave no bad impression on that shit, bro. You don't. I'll tell 24 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:55,000 you, you don't, bro. Like, on a first date, like, the first 25 00:02:55,000 --> 00:03:00,000 date, like, first date is everything. Because the first 26 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:11,000 date gonna leave from everything from then until now. Well, 27 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:16,000 because when you look back 30, 40, 50, 60, 70 years from now, 28 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:20,000 when you married, it's all about that first date, the first 29 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:27,000 impression. See, why you think women ask you, I ain't seen 30 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:32,000 this side of you yet. A man ask you, damn, I ain't know this, 31 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:37,000 I ain't know this but truly you. I ain't know you like this. 32 00:03:37,000 --> 00:04:00,000 Is it worse than what it is? Worse than what it is? It's so 33 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:08,000 much shit that goes on with that shit that it's crazy, man. 34 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:17,000 Like, the first impression is, ooh, boy, how you dress is the 35 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:24,000 first thing. Is you dressing for success or you dressing for 36 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:49,000 failure, man. But don't, don't go up on that with no beat up 37 00:04:49,000 --> 00:05:11,000 ass shoes and no beat up ass shirt. Whole symbol. My point 38 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:24,000 is exactly. Knowing that shit hurting. Knowing that you, it's 39 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:29,000 really, really hurting. That nigga nose is stopped up now. 40 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:41,000 Baby, all I, the main thing he saying right now, baby, all I 41 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:47,000 smell is you. All I can do is smell you. Nah, man. You better, 42 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:58,000 you gotta stop it. Yeah. 43 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:03,000 Man, I'm about to tell you something. The worst thing that 44 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:10,000 you can do in this motherfucking lifetime is act like, act like 45 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:15,000 you the shit when in the middle of nowhere you really not. 46 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:22,000 Because the person not looking, if you the shit or not. Come on, 47 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:26,000 man. Your first impression, you can't be out there, man, thinking 48 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:30,000 you finna wear the same shit you wore to the club and that you 49 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:38,000 finna go on a date with. No. Dress for success, not for failure. 50 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:46,000 Absolutely. You want that date to go successful just like, I 51 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:50,000 wasn't going to say just like you going on a job. Just like, 52 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:54,000 just like you want it. I'm going to just tell you like that. 53 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:58,000 Just like you want it. You want it bad enough. 54 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:04,000 Just like to me, you going to dress down for your first date with 55 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:10,000 something casual. A nice button down shirt, some casual slacks, 56 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:15,000 some casual shoes. Like another one. 57 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:18,000 You ain't got to, nah, if you just going to the movies, don't put 58 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:24,000 on those slacks but you know, casual Air Force 1's, some nice 59 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:30,000 black blue jeans, you know what I'm saying. And always keep, and 60 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:36,000 always wear a collar shirt. Because if you wear a T-shirt, it 61 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:40,000 gives off the little boy vibes. 62 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:48,000 He's a little boy. So I can say this, if someone didn't get 63 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:52,000 well, if they're wearing jeans and a T-shirt, to their first 64 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:58,000 date, depending on where their first date takes place at, 65 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:02,000 let's take y'all clean and go to the museum. 66 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:11,000 Yeah. I mean, it's all about the collar shirt. 67 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:18,000 The collar shirt signifies that you mean business. 68 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:26,000 Any man walks around in a collar shirt, nice pants, nice shoes, 69 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:34,000 and for a female, like knee high, put like this, knee high, 70 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:38,000 put like this. What they tell you, two inches above, it got 71 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:44,000 two inches above the knee cap, two inches above the knee cap, 72 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:50,000 keep your dress dead length. Don't wear tight dresses. 73 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:55,000 Tight dresses only signifies as giving off an instinct to a man. 74 00:08:55,000 --> 00:09:00,000 No. What you signify in that man basically for the night is, 75 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:04,000 he's finna get something. Like, don't, like, I'm a man for 76 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:06,000 myself. 77 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:22,000 Like, it's not the, what happens on the first night are adults. 78 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:25,000 Your adults don't never think what the fuck happens on the 79 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:29,000 first night. Anything can happen on the first night. Love can 80 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:31,000 attract on the first night and bring it. People don't 81 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:39,000 understand it. But what I'm telling you is, man, maturity 82 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:46,000 level of a dress, maturity level of clothes, because as a man 83 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:54,000 thinks, a man will show you the art of deception and how to 84 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:57,000 get what he want. Just like you would show him the art of 85 00:09:57,000 --> 00:10:02,000 deception to get what you want. So don't, don't, don't do 86 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:06,000 that. 87 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:30,000 It ain't all about that. It ain't all about it. But moving 88 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:37,000 on, like, it's about the second thing, the most important 89 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:41,000 thing, the first date, first impression, the best 90 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:48,000 impression. The second thing is hygiene, people. Like, if 91 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:57,000 you can't see here and realize for the men out there, women 92 00:10:57,000 --> 00:11:00,000 look at you from head to toe. You only examine three things 93 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:09,000 of the woman, body, body, body, body. You don't imagine her 94 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:16,000 hair, rear, no nothing. When you tell a person to be natural 95 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:21,000 and casual, be natural and casual, but don't be natural as 96 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:24,000 oh shit, I'm going to show you what natural is. Natural is 97 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:30,000 oh shit, I don't take baths for five days now. Natural is 98 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:38,000 getting up in there, taking a shower, putting on your best 99 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:45,000 meal good, three dabs. Three dabs for the shirt, two dabs, 100 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:49,000 two dabs on your arm, rub them in, that's it. One dab for 101 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:57,000 the neck, that's it. You don't need 22 dabs. Ladies, same 102 00:11:57,000 --> 00:12:03,000 for you, it's seven dabs, that's it. Legs, two legs, two 103 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:11,000 times before you hit your twat, two times on the stomach, 104 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:18,000 cleavage, that's it. One swipe of the cleavage, one swipe of 105 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:28,000 the stomach, one swipe of the neck, that's your seven already. 106 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:33,000 Don't sit here and get greedy with it because sometimes you 107 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:39,000 can overdo it. And when you overdo it on a perfume or 108 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:49,000 cologne, it can turn off somebody. Your first impressions 109 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:57,000 are your most critical moments. Two, half your shit. Three, 110 00:12:57,000 --> 00:13:03,000 half your shit down pat. Don't come to no female, hey baby, 111 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:09,000 yo, yo, nah. You know this ain't like the rest of the motherfucker 112 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:15,000 that you don't fucking deal with. So, shit, what you think 113 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:27,000 you're finna do? What you think you finna do? Nothing, 114 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:31,000 because half your conversation starters already down pat, 115 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:39,000 man. Don't bring up nothing that you and your homeboys or 116 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:50,000 the hood be talking about, none of this shit. Because this 117 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:56,000 woman, she done grew from the hood, she don't want to go back 118 00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:59,000 to their way. This man might not, he done grew from the hood, 119 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:03,000 he don't want to go back their way. Half your shit down pat 120 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:05,000 or what you want to talk about, the things you want to get to 121 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:09,000 know about a person. Half certain questions, don't get to 122 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:13,000 know a person all in one motherfucking night, too. It's 123 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:15,000 impossible. 124 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:23,000 However that conversation goes, there might be a second date. 125 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:30,000 Nah, because this just the beginning of the date. Because 126 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:36,000 the beginning is having your conversation starters down, 127 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:39,000 making sure your hygiene, making sure your clothes is 128 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:48,000 correct. No sagging at all, fellas. No sagging, man. 129 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:58,000 Making sure you have everything that you should have. 130 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:02,000 You should have, and the most important thing, if you know 131 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:07,000 that, okay, you single, you live a single life, you got 132 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:10,000 friends, you got female friends and shit, or you got 133 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:14,000 female male friends, I mean you got male friends, females 134 00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:17,000 they got male friends, and males they got female friends, 135 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:22,000 and y'all single, but y'all bumping grind and shit. 136 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:26,000 Put your phone on DND and do not touch that, don't put it 137 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:30,000 on DND. 138 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:31,000 Put it on silent. 139 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:35,000 Put it on silent and don't touch it. Don't even look at 140 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:38,000 that bitch. Don't go look at your phone until you go to 141 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:45,000 the bathroom. Have respect. 142 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:49,000 Have respect for everything on the birthday. Have respect 143 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:52,000 for that person that you're on the date with, and also have 144 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:54,000 respect for yourself. 145 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:57,000 Yeah. 146 00:15:57,000 --> 00:16:07,000 You, you, you gotta realize like when times get harder, 147 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:15,000 shit, you always go to your phone when a date boring. 148 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:18,000 No, the date gonna get boring at some point up here, but 149 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:22,000 wait for the excitement to come. 150 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:25,000 If you go dancing. 151 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:28,000 Just understand that both of y'all are nervous. 152 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:33,000 Y'all might not have too much to talk about, but still, 153 00:16:33,000 --> 00:16:35,000 find somewhere to interact with that person instead of 154 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:37,000 trying to pick up your phone. 155 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:43,000 And ladies, don't overdo it. Don't over-talk it. 156 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:48,000 Don't give out no more information than you need. 157 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:49,000 Don't. 158 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:54,000 Don't over-talk it. 159 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:56,000 Because regardless of the point, if you getting to know a 160 00:16:56,000 --> 00:16:58,000 person and you feel like that person figure to be in your 161 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:02,000 life, you better over-talk it. 162 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:05,000 I mean, you better sit here and give out the information. 163 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:06,000 Stop holding. 164 00:17:06,000 --> 00:17:09,000 That's the whole thing about everybody wanna store shit and 165 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:11,000 hold shit back. 166 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:15,000 Like, you can fuck yourself up because when a person asks you 167 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:18,000 that, do you got anything in the beginning, you say no. 168 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:21,000 And then you come out later on with it, and they say I asked 169 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:23,000 you that shit in the beginning, or she said I asked you that 170 00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:29,000 shit in the beginning, then it's a conflict of interest. 171 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:33,000 So I'm trying to tell you, whatever that person addresses 172 00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:37,000 and asks you, be real. 173 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:42,000 Because you trying to sit here and you trying to do the most 174 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:47,000 ass, nah, I ain't like this. 175 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:51,000 Not trying to give up the shit that going on, you gonna fuck 176 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:53,000 around and not give up something. 177 00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:55,000 You gonna give up something that you hate. 178 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:58,000 You gonna miss out on something that you gonna hate, bro. 179 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:01,000 And when I say don't give out too much information, that's 180 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:02,000 not easy. 181 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:03,000 Nah, give out. 182 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:05,000 No, let me explain. 183 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:09,000 That's meaning, like, don't just start rambling and telling 184 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:13,000 him unnecessary shit that neither one of you are really 185 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:14,000 know. 186 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:17,000 I mean, it's gonna come out when you start talking about it. 187 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:22,000 You gonna get the, that's when you don't over talk it. 188 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:31,000 Like, that's when the over talking means, that's when the 189 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:38,000 over talking means don't, like, don't over, don't let him 190 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:41,000 talk some. 191 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:46,000 Let him, let her talk some. 192 00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:51,000 Don't over talk each other and don't try to make your story 193 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:55,000 more sad or more, you know, don't try to compare stories 194 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:57,000 or lies at that table. 195 00:18:57,000 --> 00:19:06,000 Like I say, be like, you know, tell the truth, like, I'm 196 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:09,000 trying a new leaf, I'm trying to get over now. 197 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:13,000 I'm looking for someone that, you know, I can, that gonna 198 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:16,000 help me and I can help them because I don't know it all. 199 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:19,000 You don't know, you might not know it all, but we can help 200 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:20,000 each other. 201 00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:24,000 A person with a person mind frame like that gets any, gets 202 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:27,000 what they want. 203 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:32,000 But if you at the table and you, man, yeah, they send me to 204 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:36,000 Mars in 2026. 205 00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:39,000 Yeah, I shot, yeah, I was in Star Wars. 206 00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:42,000 I was one, yeah, I was him right there with the mask on and 207 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:46,000 Darth Vader, Darth Vader people. 208 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:50,000 Like don't over exaggerate the shit. 209 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:54,000 Because then when the truth comes out, shit is going to be 210 00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:58,000 looking like you lied or he's going to be looking like you 211 00:19:58,000 --> 00:19:59,000 lied. 212 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:02,000 Like what was your purpose? 213 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:04,000 What purpose did that serve for you? 214 00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:05,000 Shit. 215 00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:09,000 What purpose was that for you to lie about it? 216 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:11,000 Why would you exaggerate something like that? 217 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:13,000 And it could have just been simple, like. 218 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:18,000 Because that's when you get to comparing in a competition. 219 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:21,000 Don't make it a competition. 220 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:22,000 That's step five. 221 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:25,000 Do not make it a competition. 222 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:31,000 Step six is wow, the entertaining moment is going on 223 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:34,000 that you caught up y'all verbally speaking now. 224 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:36,000 It's getting interesting. 225 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:40,000 Verbal moment is don't overthink it. 226 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:43,000 Do not overthink it. 227 00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:45,000 If you overthink, you're going to fail. 228 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:55,000 Do not overthink that shit. 229 00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:58,000 Because overthinking can cost you a lot when you're 230 00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:02,000 overthinking. 231 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:08,000 It costs you more than what you're supposed to be. 232 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:22,000 More than what you're supposed to need it or want it. 233 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:29,000 So overthinking keeps you from getting to the space you 234 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:35,000 need when you need it. 235 00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:38,000 You're closing in but you're starting to overthink at the 236 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:39,000 end. 237 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:40,000 Don't overthink it. 238 00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:45,000 Keep it mellow in your head and keep the vibe steady going. 239 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:47,000 Like Queen E said, keep it steady. 240 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:51,000 Keep the vibe going. 241 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:57,000 Your mind and your mind going to lead you to what you want. 242 00:21:57,000 --> 00:22:04,000 But your heart got to lead you first. 243 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:08,000 You got to be inclined, your heart man, and need the mind to 244 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:09,000 think. 245 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:16,000 It just beats for itself. 246 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:21,000 And the next step is once you don't, once the vibe end right 247 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:30,000 correctly, do not get in the mold as shoulder strength. 248 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:31,000 You know what I'm saying? 249 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:37,000 Like fellas, make sure, when I say shoulder strength, this is 250 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:41,000 the hardest thing for you to do. 251 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:44,000 If you're at a club and she's dancing on you after you get 252 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:47,000 through eating, y'all dancing and she grinding, shoulder 253 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:51,000 strength. 254 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:56,000 Don't sit here and try to, you know, I ain't saying don't grind 255 00:22:56,000 --> 00:23:01,000 on her, don't, but hold her. 256 00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:02,000 Why are you grinding? 257 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:11,000 Don't make it sexual, make it sensual. 258 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:14,000 Make sure them the only arms she want to be in and when she 259 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:19,000 tell her friends and her sisters the next day, he held me on 260 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:24,000 the dance floor and I never had a man to hold me like that. 261 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:28,000 Man, I held on the dance floor and I, shit, I felt sparks 262 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:29,000 when I did it. 263 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:36,000 He telling his brothers and partners, you know, don't, 264 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:43,000 like don't show, like please show restraint. 265 00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:49,000 That's what I really want you to do, show your restraint. 266 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:51,000 Please do. 267 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:54,000 That's where we fuck up when we can't show restraint. 268 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:57,000 She grinding on you, you think she ready to fuck. 269 00:23:57,000 --> 00:24:01,000 So at the end of the night, you get the, you trying to get in 270 00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:04,000 the house, you trying to give her more shots and shit. 271 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:07,000 No, don't do that. 272 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:09,000 Because she know what you're doing, so the only thing she 273 00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:14,000 going to do, she can get drunk, she can get a freak drunk off 274 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:17,000 you and call the nigga that been beating her back in for the 275 00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:18,000 last six, seven months. 276 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:19,000 Which one you want? 277 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,000 Take it how you want it. 278 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:22,000 I'm just telling you the real. 279 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:26,000 Like you can't get no real in there for real. 280 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:30,000 I'm just telling you the, it's just the guy and the truth. 281 00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:37,000 Like if you going to do that shit, man, just know like you 282 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:41,000 going to, you didn't show restraint. 283 00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:46,000 You tried to over pursue it. 284 00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:54,000 And with me, the point about it, don't show pursuit. 285 00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:59,000 When you do that, don't show pursuit. 286 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:04,000 When he try to, when he get trying to press it harder 287 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:13,000 against you, you kind of spin around and spin off of him. 288 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:16,000 And then you go back and then you do the thing and if he do 289 00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:20,000 it three times, he do it, he do it probably three times in a 290 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:23,000 row, probably two times in a row. 291 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:27,000 I warned you once, second time if you do it again, that's your 292 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:34,000 sign as what he is trying to show himself. 293 00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:37,000 See, a woman going to see how you going to pursue her, that's 294 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:41,000 why your first impression got to be your best impression. 295 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:44,000 Show restraint, show how you feel. 296 00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:50,000 Show like, hey, I'm looking for more than just a fuck thing. 297 00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:52,000 You know what I'm saying? 298 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:56,000 Show her that. 299 00:25:56,000 --> 00:26:03,000 Now after that night, get ready, it dies down. 300 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:13,000 This is the most important part of them all for people. 301 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:22,000 Showing who, that's when, that's when the game, that's when 302 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:25,000 the game, when she like you, that's when the game is going 303 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:26,000 to start. 304 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:29,000 I want to see how long he going to last, if I make him wait 305 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:34,000 for it. 306 00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:47,000 Fellas, give up, fellas, before Queen Eve spit off of that, 307 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:52,000 because she is right, before she spit off of that, fellas, 308 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:57,000 give up, don't, this still could tie into over-presumably, 309 00:26:57,000 --> 00:27:03,000 but this is how to keep the continuance. 310 00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:06,000 Give her a kiss on the cheek. 311 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:12,000 Kiss on the forehead, it shows morals and principles that you 312 00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:15,000 are that nigga. 313 00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:21,000 Kiss on the forehead and be like, I see you, I see you next 314 00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:25,000 week, yeah, I see you next week. 315 00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:30,000 If you're free Wednesday, I'll take you to brunch. 316 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:34,000 This is how you do it, this is how you keep the continuance. 317 00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,000 This is going. 318 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:39,000 For you to get that second date, for her to text you and say, 319 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:45,000 I had a good time and I can't wait, sneak that question in, 320 00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:49,000 I like so, you don't snuck that question in at the table, 321 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:52,000 and you know what she work at, you know what she do. 322 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:59,000 Bro, you can show up with six flowers, one flower, two flowers, 323 00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:03,000 it's a fucking flower. 324 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:07,000 Do something, you can't swing it, like, okay, let's say. 325 00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:11,000 I mean, you did that, but you ain't only, like, after the 326 00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:15,000 first date, you don't, you know, you getting prepared to go on 327 00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:17,000 the second date. 328 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:18,000 That's what I'm saying. 329 00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:20,000 So, I'm just saying, you want to start, you don't want to go 330 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:26,000 in fast with just doing some spectacular, because the small 331 00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:28,000 shit, because. 332 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:34,000 Let's say first date, we bring up one rose, second date. 333 00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:38,000 No, you can't, it ain't no rose, it ain't no rose. 334 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:41,000 It's no rose on the first date, y'all, just me, don't make 335 00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:45,000 yourself feel like you desperate. 336 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:46,000 That's what they mean? 337 00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:47,000 Yes. 338 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:50,000 You can tell me something, because I didn't know that. 339 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:51,000 Yes. 340 00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:52,000 I didn't know that flowers. 341 00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:56,000 If a man bring you flowers on the first date, he ain't been on 342 00:28:56,000 --> 00:29:01,000 dates in years, this is first time, he a little desperate, 343 00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:05,000 he just don't, no, no. 344 00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:08,000 See, people don't know that, like, what this shit really 345 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:14,000 means, like, that man, how he feel about you after that first 346 00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:20,000 date is going to make him gain the ability to see, to look in 347 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:24,000 the simple shit like, man, I got to be a lamb, I want to go 348 00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:28,000 get a flower. 349 00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:31,000 You bring that shit on that first date, you bring that shit 350 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:33,000 on that first date, you ain't going to never see them flowers 351 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:39,000 in that goddamn house again. 352 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:44,000 They're going to be dead. 353 00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:49,000 On that second date, before that second date, you got to 354 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:54,000 surprise her, you got to be, that's when you show her the 355 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:58,000 simple, like, that sweet side of you. 356 00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:02,000 Like, you want to go up there with a little, you want to go, 357 00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:05,000 you know it's the simple shit that females love, so you got a 358 00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:10,000 little box of chocolates, hearts, or whatever, you know, 359 00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:13,000 the little different flavors, if she like the different flavors, 360 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:16,000 and you go get the little rose. 361 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:20,000 But you don't go send nobody. 362 00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:25,000 You just, you go up there and you tell them, just call her 363 00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:29,000 down. 364 00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:32,000 Just a surprise, just for her, because she been thinking about 365 00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:35,000 you as well, she just can't tell you, because on the first date, 366 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:38,000 after the first date, nobody, like I say, nobody wants to 367 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:44,000 leave that, oh my God, this is the one impression. 368 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:47,000 Nobody want to have that impression. 369 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:51,000 So the main thing you want to do, and I'm telling you this 370 00:30:51,000 --> 00:31:00,000 because I know this is, this is how you attract love. 371 00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:05,000 It's the small things. 372 00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:08,000 So, 373 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:13,000 What small sweet gesture would you do? 374 00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:16,000 Nah, I don't tell my shit. 375 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,000 It's different. 376 00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:21,000 Because if I tell, you going to be expected for this shit. 377 00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:23,000 Motherfucker going to be expected for it. 378 00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:27,000 So I tell when it's not, when it's supposed to be unexpected. 379 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:31,000 That's the best obvious, oblivious thing to being, 380 00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:33,000 having secure and keys. 381 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:38,000 It's the significance of timing. 382 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:42,000 Nah, hell nah. 383 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:48,000 Because I don't, me, I didn't never go on fucking dates. 384 00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:52,000 It was always, let's go out of town. 385 00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:55,000 And we act like little ass kids, we weren't no date. 386 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:58,000 We was little kids, we fucked, we do, we do, we go back 387 00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:04,000 and we go to our own little worlds again. 388 00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:07,000 Like, 389 00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:13,000 like, what I do is, 390 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:17,000 if I like you, you been in my house a couple times and whatever, 391 00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:21,000 then yeah, we can go out on a date because yeah, I'm getting to know you. 392 00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:25,000 We done fucked, I kind of know you, I kind of like you. 393 00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:27,000 Boom. 394 00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:30,000 You done come over to my house, I'm going to set it up, 395 00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:32,000 regardless of what the romantic edge done. 396 00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:38,000 I'm not that person that goes out because I know I can cook. 397 00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:48,000 And I'm not American, so I can cook, what the fuck. 398 00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:53,000 I know my heritage is. 399 00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:56,000 So that's the best part about me. 400 00:32:56,000 --> 00:33:00,000 And then just the laughter and the entertainment that I bring. 401 00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:04,000 Because I dive deep in, I dive deeper than what, 402 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:08,000 it's the conversation with me that people like. 403 00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:14,000 Because I dive deeper than what people expect me to dive in. 404 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:18,000 And I can pull out deeper, I can go deeper and deeper. 405 00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:23,000 And the attraction will pull deeper and deeper to me because you be like, 406 00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:28,000 I ain't never, the way he speak, the way he talk, he got sense, he normal. 407 00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:30,000 He a regular person. 408 00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:35,000 We look at him as a thug, but this nigga's really a regular guy. 409 00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:42,000 And that's how people feed off to my attract, like, that's what attracts people. 410 00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:44,000 How long? 411 00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:52,000 That's what makes people attracted to me, I guess, is what I'm saying? 412 00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:53,000 Yeah. 413 00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:54,000 Okay. 414 00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:58,000 So yeah, I was like, that's how I do it. 415 00:33:58,000 --> 00:33:59,000 You know what I'm saying? 416 00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:02,000 But get you some roses. 417 00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:06,000 And me, I'm the type of person, I run your bath water, I run your both bath water. 418 00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:11,000 I make sure, like, I will sit here, like, if I come over to your house, 419 00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:16,000 and you give me a key and I stay, I'm going to clean your house, 420 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:21,000 both bath, kids put down, kids going to say, oh, man, I had fun with him today. 421 00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:23,000 Cool, that's me. 422 00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:26,000 I ain't the type of person that's, I'm not a bad guy. 423 00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:30,000 I never been a bad guy, so I can't portray the bad guy, bro. 424 00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:34,000 I'm a good guy, but people step on my toes, so I have to turn on the bad guy, bro. 425 00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:36,000 That's the fuck-throw situation. 426 00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,000 See what I'm saying? 427 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:41,000 I love her, not the father. 428 00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:48,000 But on another note, you know, roses, stop by a job, 429 00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:52,000 even if you just feel like you want to put a couple dollars in the envelope, 430 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:57,000 without the roses, and just give her a teddy bear, a big ass teddy bear or something, 431 00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:59,000 that's the romantic jester. 432 00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:01,000 If I was you, I don't do the roses. 433 00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:04,000 I get a teddy bear, buy a little blanket she can wrap up in, 434 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:10,000 because she always feel comfort because it's something that she can always going to put on, 435 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:15,000 because she always going to think of you when you do shit like this. 436 00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:18,000 As she wrap herself up in that blanket, she always going to think about, 437 00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:22,000 damn, he bopping that blanket. 438 00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:29,000 I'm going to love this blanket forever, forever, ever, forever, ever, forever, ever. 439 00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:34,000 Yes, Ms. Jackson, forever, ever. 440 00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:40,000 So it's about the sweetest thing, and you warming her up to the second date, 441 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:44,000 because the second date, you might got a bigger surprise. 442 00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:51,000 Out of three dates, you feel like, shit, fuck, I want to check her out of town. 443 00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:56,000 You check her out of town, and she act just as classy in the streets, 444 00:35:56,000 --> 00:36:00,000 but even freaky in the sheets, you finna marry her. 445 00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:02,000 That's the one. 446 00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:06,000 It's all about the first impression. 447 00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:19,000 The first impression is what the definition is to be that, be that, I know you what you feekin'. 448 00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:25,000 I don't know the song, but he showed you how funky, he showed you just right, 449 00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:32,000 he showed you just love it, love it all night, just beat it. 450 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:37,000 I'm trying to tell you, you got to beat it, man. 451 00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:43,000 Michael Jackson, go get Bubbles. 452 00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:47,000 I need Bubbles, I need Bubbles right now. 453 00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:50,000 I love Michael Jackson, man, that's what my nigga, 454 00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:56,000 especially when I heard he pimp slapped the shit out of Bubbles and had Bubbles praying. 455 00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:58,000 Yeah, man. 456 00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:03,000 But first impression, best impression, love yourself, love the thought, 457 00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:09,000 but also go up in there with a basically stable mind, frame, ass, 458 00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:12,000 you know what you want, you know what you got to get out of it, 459 00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:19,000 and you know that love is a short period of time, you need to take advantage of it now. 460 00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:23,000 Because we bringing all hot topics out for the rest of the week, 461 00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:27,000 because next week is probably going to be fashion week, sex week, 462 00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:32,000 you never know what week you going to get out of us now. 463 00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:36,000 It might be teaching how to clean up week, 464 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:41,000 which we is because some of y'all motherfuckers don't know how to clean, bro. 465 00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:46,000 Oh, first impression, base off too, before I forget, 466 00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:54,000 whoever go over whoever house, fellas, make sure you have your own house. 467 00:37:54,000 --> 00:38:00,000 Females, make sure you have your own fucking house as well, 468 00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:04,000 but make sure that hole is clean. 469 00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:09,000 A nasty bitch won't get a bitch. 470 00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:13,000 You only attract nasty niggas. 471 00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:17,000 You only nasty niggas like nasty females. 472 00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:21,000 And I think nasty niggas is nasty females, 473 00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:24,000 that's something that I can't stoop myself to, 474 00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:28,000 because it's a nasty negative situation. 475 00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:32,000 I don't want to never be negative, I always want to be positive. 476 00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:37,000 But man, y'all got to tune in, because we brought tomorrow Queen E, 477 00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:41,000 she should make it in, she should make it to the studio about three, 478 00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:47,000 and we going in four, five episodes back to back, you know, 479 00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:49,000 not four, five episodes, we probably going to do, 480 00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:51,000 I'm probably already going to have two put out, 481 00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:55,000 so we probably going to hit three tomorrow to make sure 482 00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:59,000 it's five episodes completely put out for y'all, 483 00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:04,000 because we love y'all, man, and the energy that y'all bring to me, 484 00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:07,000 I don't know how they feel about the energy, 485 00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:11,000 but the energy you give to me, I ain't going to lie, Queen E be happy as a motherfucker, 486 00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:17,000 because she can't wait, she sit down in her fucking workstation, 487 00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:21,000 and be ready for me to just pull the mics and shit up, 488 00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:24,000 like a little ass kid just answer, what we talking about today? 489 00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:28,000 Huh, huh, huh, huh, huh, huh. 490 00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:34,000 So, I ain't going to lie, so yeah, the energy that you give to us, bro, 491 00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:38,000 we love it, it's the vibe, it's the consideration, it's the love, 492 00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:44,000 it's the monstrosity, it's the energy, it's the faith, it's the spirit, 493 00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:51,000 it's the vibration of them all that you give to us, man, 494 00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:56,000 and we thank y'all, because we meeting goals this month 495 00:39:56,000 --> 00:40:01,000 that's probably going to have people looking at us soon, 496 00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:10,000 and we already top March in a two, and then ten points away from topping, 497 00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:16,000 motherfucking April, so I thank y'all, 498 00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:22,000 and it's just going on the seventh day of fucking May, 499 00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:30,000 and we are proud to say we have loyal subscribers, loyal people, 500 00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:37,000 and like I said, I love the subscribers because y'all give us that 501 00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:45,000 that notice that we can be anything we want to be, we being heard, 502 00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:50,000 and I thank you for it, man, and we just going to keep reaching new heights 503 00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:55,000 for y'all and keep bringing y'all stuff, because I promise you, 504 00:40:55,000 --> 00:41:02,000 on my mama grave, the ones that held us down, 505 00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:07,000 the ones we going to do the shows, we going to come to your city 506 00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:15,000 and do the shows with and for, you will be a co-host on this motherfucker as well 507 00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:18,000 when we come to your city. 508 00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:29,000 I mean your city tonight, blowing on that dodo, that dodo, 509 00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:34,000 folk do, no I'm just playing, but we love y'all, we thank y'all for this man, 510 00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:41,000 because we want to give y'all something that we know that people want to gossip 511 00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:45,000 and give y'all gossip so y'all can go back in y'all relationships 512 00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:50,000 and go back in friendships and you know that shit takes off on you 513 00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:56,000 and put that gossip energy on you. 514 00:41:56,000 --> 00:42:01,000 I don't want that, you don't want that, you shouldn't want that, 515 00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:15,000 but our energy is to make sure that you basically are the top tier fans, 516 00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:21,000 you are the most loyal fans, and man when this merchandise come out, 517 00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:25,000 man I can't wait because I know y'all going to fuck with us, 518 00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:28,000 I know y'all going to support us. 519 00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:35,000 Please post, send us pictures of the shirts, you wearing the outfits, 520 00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:41,000 you know we going to put you on our page and make you a star of your own, 521 00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:45,000 we want to give you that level of what you giving us. 522 00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:54,000 You give us your support, so our energy is to give you that same support 523 00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:58,000 so we can come back and keep receiving that support. 524 00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:07,000 So you know like I say, sooner or later I know God's will this podcast can go up, 525 00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:11,000 like I said I don't give a damn why I do turkey days in your city for Thanksgiving, 526 00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:18,000 I wouldn't give a damn, you hear me, but hey man it's just a thought that counts, 527 00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:22,000 I love y'all, stay safe, stay good out there, 528 00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:30,000 Queen E you want to say anything before we slice the mic. 529 00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:34,000 She over here getting high high folks, in the studio before she go. 530 00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:43,000 I'm sorry Adam, I just want to say thank you for this, thank you, stay tuned. 531 00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:47,000 This been another episode of All In. 532 00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:49,000 All in fans. 533 00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:54,000 Tune in to your boy King Ash. 534 00:43:54,000 --> 00:44:02,000 Catch you tomorrow 10 o'clock, Lemme cut square there. 535 00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:21,000 Gross.