1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:23,000 This is All In. All In Family. Starring your boy Kenny Ice. And your girl, Kenny Wee. Wee 2 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:30,000 Let's get it. 3 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:52,000 What it do? What it do people? This your boy, Ken Yash. This your girl, Queen E. And you tuned in to another episode of All In. 4 00:00:52,000 --> 00:01:04,000 All In Family. What it do Queen E? What it do Ken Yash? Man just chilling like a villain on this Thursday. Good Thursday. 5 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:15,000 Thinking up a plan like Mojojojo. Thinking up a master plan. Of a master plan. Thinking up a master plan. You heard me. 6 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:27,000 But nah. Today's episode is called The 21 Questions of Love. And the reason why I say that is because there's a lot of couples that listen to this. 7 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:39,000 There's a lot of women that listen to our show. And for some of the men that listening, you can use some tips too my nigga. Don't act like you don't. 8 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:53,000 But we gonna basically focus on the topics. We gonna give you topics of, you know, it ain't topics it's basically questions today. 9 00:01:53,000 --> 00:02:07,000 But we gonna give you our experiences and our quotes on it. And see what we can bring to you that you can use. You know what I'm saying? 10 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:17,000 Right Queen E? Yes sir. That's great. Yes sir. Rebob. 11 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:30,000 But on another note. Man. Have you really thinking about fashion choice this year? 12 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:40,000 I know you wanna go all out. But you're supposed to be saving. A quick tip. All on the budget. 13 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:50,000 All on the budget. For men, bruh. You know what it is. Get some cargo shorts, some white tee. Keep it pushing. White pair of forces. 14 00:02:50,000 --> 00:03:04,000 Women. Biker shorts. A nice color tee or a nice color shirt. Keep it pushing. Don't try to live above your means this summer. 15 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:07,000 Please don't. 16 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:17,000 And on top of that. Let's get into it baby. 17 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:30,000 The first question. That I'm gonna ask is. 18 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:37,000 What type of legacy do you want to leave? 19 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:46,000 And carry on. For your soulmate. 20 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:54,000 Say that again. What type of legacy do you want to leave and carry. 21 00:03:54,000 --> 00:04:03,000 Want to leave and carry before your time is up with your lover. 22 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:10,000 Queen. What type of legacy. 23 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:17,000 I would have to say. My business legacy. 24 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:29,000 Because I know. When my time come. Before my time come. I know. My partner gonna have it all together. 25 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:35,000 And when that time come. I know he gonna continue to keep it pushing for me. 26 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:46,000 Same and vice versa. If he got a business that's making millions. When he pays. I'm gonna continue. 27 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:57,000 That's his legacy. I'm gonna forever keep that going. And remembrance of him or remembrance of her. I'm gonna forever keep that business going. 28 00:04:57,000 --> 00:05:00,000 I say the same. 29 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:07,000 Because you want to be able to leave something behind for your kids. And for your kids kids. And for their kids kids. 30 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:17,000 Also you want to leave something for your spouse to take care of the kids. So he can. Or she can. 31 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:25,000 How should I put this. Up with the situation. I'm gonna just say that. 32 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:30,000 Because right now. The word that I wanted to say. I know I can't see it. 33 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:39,000 But the word. Like I say. You want to. You leaving them at a wealthy spot. 34 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:47,000 Leave them at that. Leave them at a wealthy spot where they can reach their riches. 35 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:57,000 Now we talking about legal business affairs. Not no dope drug business affairs. 36 00:05:57,000 --> 00:06:03,000 I'm not leaving no bricks to nobody. You gonna come to my grave and buy them bitches. 37 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:08,000 Drop it in my drop box. 38 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:11,000 But. 39 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:13,000 Like I say. 40 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:20,000 I say the same thing. Because when you build an empire though. With each other. 41 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:29,000 It's a king and queens thing. If your king or your queen passed. 42 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:34,000 That legacy that y'all built y'all gots to carry on. 43 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:43,000 Because you don't want that dream that you and her had together. Or you and him had together. To die. When they die. 44 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:47,000 You want to keep it going in remembrance of that person. 45 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:58,000 Because you don't. You built something with that person. Don't. Don't take it away even though they gone away. 46 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:02,000 Okay. Question two. 47 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:08,000 What are two of the biggest problems. 48 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:18,000 Or should I say two of the biggest lessons you've learned from your previous relationships. 49 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:35,000 I learned is. That no matter how much you. 50 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:40,000 How much you love a person. 51 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:49,000 That person loves you back but they trying to fit in a material world. 52 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:54,000 And that material world ain't your world. 53 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:58,000 You know all lessons are learned. 54 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:04,000 But you realize like. 55 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:09,000 I am who I am. 56 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:14,000 You know I am based off morals and principles. 57 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:17,000 I stand alone. 58 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:20,000 And I've been through hell and back. 59 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:23,000 And that's a part of it because. 60 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:29,000 With the material shit. People don't understand hell and back. 61 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:33,000 So a person that never been through hell and back. 62 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:41,000 Can't live out of material world so it taught me to always be who I am. 63 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:43,000 Continue being who I am. 64 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:45,000 Don't let nobody take. 65 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:49,000 Don't let nobody take away what you. 66 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:53,000 What you gained throughout this lifetime. 67 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:59,000 Of knowledge. Of energy. Of growth. 68 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:06,000 And I realized that. 69 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:11,000 No matter how much attention you don't get from your spouse. 70 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:16,000 You push harder to seek and get that attention instead of going out there. 71 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:23,000 And trying to find it. And trying to find it from somewhere else. 72 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:30,000 I have to say my two biggest lessons from my past relationship. 73 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:34,000 One. Never let my guard down. 74 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:38,000 Because if I get too comfortable. I realize something. 75 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:42,000 When I started getting too comfortable. 76 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:44,000 Around this person. 77 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:47,000 In my mind I'm thinking we're going to be forever. 78 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:49,000 This is my forever. 79 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:53,000 But the whole time. 80 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:56,000 It wasn't that. 81 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:59,000 My other biggest lesson. 82 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:01,000 Don't tell him. 83 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:06,000 Don't give up any information that isn't necessary needed or asked. 84 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:08,000 Meaning. 85 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:11,000 You and this person been rocking for a minute. 86 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:14,000 I say a year. 87 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:17,000 He tell you everything about him so he say. 88 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:20,000 You tell him everything about you. 89 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:23,000 Do not tell him everything. 90 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:26,000 Because when the moment he or she get into an argument. 91 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:30,000 They're going to throw that shit in your face. 92 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:34,000 And that's where your trust comes in with that person. 93 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:38,000 And they'll tell him who he told. 94 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:43,000 Or who told this person this. That and the third. And so on and so forth. 95 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:46,000 Don't do that. 96 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:50,000 That is a lesson too. 97 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:53,000 Okay I got a. 98 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:55,000 This one. This one. 99 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:59,000 This one is kind of like a controversial question towards. 100 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:00,000 Like. 101 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:05,000 For the people that's in relationships. 102 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:08,000 Does social media bring couples closer. 103 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:14,000 Or create more distance and misunderstanding. 104 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:17,000 Create more distance and misunderstandings. 105 00:11:17,000 --> 00:11:19,000 Elaborate on that. 106 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:23,000 The reason why I say it creates more distance and. 107 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:25,000 No understanding. 108 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:27,000 Say for instance. 109 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:30,000 You and your girl follow each other on Instagram. 110 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:34,000 She's scrolling through Instagram and she go on your page. 111 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:37,000 She see you ain't got no pictures of her. 112 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:39,000 Nowhere on your page. 113 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:41,000 No pictures of you. 114 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:42,000 And her together. 115 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:44,000 Nowhere on your page. 116 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:48,000 But she got you and her posted up and down her feed. 117 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:52,000 Now she feel us in type of way. Now he feel us in type of way. 118 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:54,000 Why you trying to hide me. 119 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:56,000 Who you hiding from. 120 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:58,000 See social media fuck. 121 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:00,000 A lot of us up man. 122 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:05,000 And then for the ones that be liking other folks posts and stuff. 123 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:08,000 And you in a relationship with a person. 124 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:12,000 Yeah they gonna start feeling us in type of way too. 125 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:14,000 You don't like nothing that I post. 126 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:17,000 But you up and down staring at Alicia's page. 127 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:19,000 Going crazy. 128 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:21,000 You liking every picture she post. 129 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:23,000 You liking every picture Tommy post. 130 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:26,000 And that's why I say social media. 131 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:28,000 Kind of. 132 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:31,000 I feel like this. 133 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:34,000 Social media. 134 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:38,000 Was a family thing at first. 135 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:39,000 You know. 136 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:43,000 Somewhere where you can hook back up with friends and family. 137 00:12:43,000 --> 00:12:45,000 That you ain't saw in a long time. 138 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:50,000 Or you only see on the holidays and shit like that. 139 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:51,000 What. 140 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:52,000 No. 141 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:53,000 No. 142 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:54,000 No. 143 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:56,000 What fucks social media up. 144 00:12:56,000 --> 00:12:58,000 And people don't understand this. 145 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:00,000 It's the people. 146 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:03,000 That help run. 147 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:05,000 The sites. 148 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:07,000 Like the posts they put out. 149 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:09,000 Materializes you. 150 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:12,000 To think like this post. 151 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:14,000 But you haven't noticed though. 152 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:16,000 When Facebook first started. 153 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:20,000 It had certain amount of rules and guidelines right. 154 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:22,000 But you notice now. 155 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:24,000 People started getting. 156 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:26,000 Social media had that all the way through 2020. 157 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:29,000 Until METAL brought it. 158 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:31,000 When METAL brought social media. 159 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:34,000 You got everything on social media down to Twitter. 160 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:36,000 Yeah that's what I'm saying now. 161 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:38,000 So Facebook. 162 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:39,000 Like. 163 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:42,000 Mark had shit on lock. 164 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:43,000 If you did this. 165 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:44,000 Your ass. 166 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:45,000 Your ass got down. 167 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:47,000 Your pages. 168 00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:50,000 Locked for 30 days. 169 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:52,000 You can't do number one's posts. 170 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:55,000 Social media got to the point where. 171 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:56,000 They don't care no more. 172 00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:58,000 They post anything and everything. 173 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:01,000 That's what I'm saying. 174 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:03,000 Like you got groups that. 175 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:05,000 That will tell off. 176 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:07,000 You got. 177 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:08,000 A mother fucker get mad. 178 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:10,000 They screenshot you. 179 00:14:10,000 --> 00:14:14,000 It put it more than put misunderstanding. 180 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:18,000 And then they came up with these different groups. 181 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:20,000 Hey sisters this your man. 182 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:24,000 Hey bro this your girl. 183 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:26,000 All these negative groups. 184 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:28,000 They go. 185 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:29,000 At the end of the day. 186 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:31,000 That's what I talked about last night. 187 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:35,000 It's going to take you back to domestic violence. 188 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:36,000 Well. 189 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:42,000 Social media really turned the black household apart. 190 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:45,000 It's really turned the black culture apart because. 191 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:47,000 You see hate. 192 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:48,000 You see the envy. 193 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:50,000 You see. 194 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:51,000 You see the. 195 00:14:51,000 --> 00:14:54,000 You see the. 196 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:57,000 Hey this ain't what your mama taught you. 197 00:14:57,000 --> 00:14:58,000 Girl you. 198 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:00,000 Sorry to say this in a harsh way. 199 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:05,000 But I mean this respectfully and disrespectfully. 200 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:06,000 Wake the fuck up. 201 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:07,000 Y'all. 202 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:09,000 They always they've been saying this to me. 203 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:11,000 Look you can't tell people. 204 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:12,000 Black people are. 205 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:19,000 You can't tell nobody to wake up when. 206 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:24,000 It's not possible to wake a person up when they don't want to be woken up. 207 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:28,000 So we can scream this shit all fucking day. 208 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:30,000 I heard it shit out on social media. 209 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:32,000 Wake up my people wake up bro. 210 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:35,000 I'll tell you something. 211 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:39,000 You are already a woke. 212 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:43,000 I ain't no woker you can get when it's right in front of your eyes. 213 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:46,000 That's on you if you want to believe it. 214 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:49,000 It ain't about you believe. 215 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:54,000 What they put in front of you and you see. 216 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:57,000 It's testing your faith. 217 00:15:57,000 --> 00:16:00,000 So please stop. 218 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:03,000 Comparing your relationship to somebody else's relationship on social media. 219 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:06,000 You at home sitting you and they laid up. 220 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:08,000 And you see. 221 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:10,000 Tommy and Keisha. 222 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:18,000 Who the and they out in some romantic restaurant or something doing what they do. 223 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:20,000 Now you have to sit in there like. 224 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:23,000 Why would you do stuff like this. 225 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:27,000 What you're doing is putting yourself in a competitive and like I say. 226 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:29,000 Competing situation. 227 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:32,000 And you do not want to compete in relationships. 228 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:37,000 Relationships competitions always end up fucked up. 229 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:38,000 Real bad. 230 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:44,000 You lose friendships and you also lose your spouse. 231 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:47,000 Don't believe the shit that's on social media at all. 232 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:54,000 Because they look like they're happy and they're smiling on their picture behind closed doors. 233 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:58,000 She probably whooping his ass just for the hell of it. 234 00:16:58,000 --> 00:16:59,000 Fuck that. 235 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:01,000 Fuck closed door. 236 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:04,000 And I know it's not just thing is closed doors these days. 237 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:05,000 Every door is open. 238 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:11,000 You think a door ain't open shit just walk through and see and you be like God damn. 239 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:13,000 That's what doors ain't never been closed. 240 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:15,000 They always tell you. 241 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:19,000 Doors closed doors are always open man. 242 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:24,000 Doors are more open than what you think they do what you think the naked eye is. 243 00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:26,000 I don't think I have to do it is. 244 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:29,000 Pick your head in there and see for yourself. 245 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:37,000 That's it but sometimes it just a key she like getting ass with by Tommy. 246 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:39,000 I will. 247 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:42,000 So oh yeah. 248 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:49,000 I got now this is a controversial question like a highly controversial question. 249 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:58,000 Do financial independence empower a strong relationships or lead to lack of commitment and higher break up rates. 250 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:05,000 See that is now let me repeat the yeah I'm going to repeat the question for the people that's out there. 251 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:22,000 Does financial independence empower strong relationships or lead to lack of commitment and higher break up rates. 252 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:29,000 See I'm let me start this out because I see you kind of see you have to think about this. 253 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:32,000 Say that question for me one more time. 254 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:37,000 I'm going to let you read it. 255 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:40,000 I feel like this. 256 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:42,000 Some can handle it. 257 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:45,000 Some can't. 258 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:56,000 Some is built for it because who they had in their life and some not built for it because they didn't have it in their life. 259 00:18:56,000 --> 00:19:02,000 You give a nigga something that ain't never had and then he gonna go crazy. 260 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:06,000 You give a nigga that had it all his life. 261 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:08,000 What you think he gonna do. 262 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:12,000 You don't make sure his family taken care of. 263 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:19,000 But it's a commitment that is gonna lack in it. 264 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:22,000 The time. 265 00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:30,000 See that's the hardest thing when you out there empowering yourself. 266 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:35,000 You not of your independence of making your money. 267 00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:40,000 Notice that your family is important too. 268 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:45,000 Don't never lose that lack of commitment towards your family. 269 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:50,000 Because if you start with the kids and the wife see it. 270 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:53,000 But if you start with the wife is cool. 271 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:55,000 She can't counter bear it. 272 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:58,000 But once you get down to them kids. 273 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:02,000 It's hard to bear. 274 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:10,000 So think about what the fuck you gonna do when you get money. 275 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:13,000 If you know you not gonna be with that person when you get that type of money. 276 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:16,000 Leave that shit alone bro. 277 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:18,000 Don't even start it. 278 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:23,000 Don't even start it because you know you in power and your independence mean more to you. 279 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:29,000 Than what you think it don't mean to you. 280 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:32,000 See independence is different. 281 00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:36,000 Independence is the self. 282 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:41,000 And when you make a person feel like you don't need them. 283 00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:44,000 The lack of commitment. 284 00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,000 But you forget. 285 00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:48,000 Because the money is there now. 286 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:53,000 You think everything is bought with money. 287 00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:57,000 Money do not empower the art of love. 288 00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:59,000 So that's what your intent is. 289 00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:02,000 And then you got something that intent. 290 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:03,000 Shit. 291 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:04,000 I got money. 292 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:05,000 Shit. 293 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:06,000 I got my good. 294 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:07,000 I go out here and do the fuck I want. 295 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:08,000 She ain't finna go nowhere. 296 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:09,000 Shit. 297 00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:12,000 I got millions. 298 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:13,000 Bro. 299 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:15,000 I'm gonna go fuck. 300 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:18,000 Money can't buy happiness. 301 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:19,000 And females. 302 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:21,000 One thing they are. 303 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:22,000 Like I tell y'all in every show. 304 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:24,000 They are nurturers. 305 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:25,000 They will hang along. 306 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:28,000 So long. 307 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:30,000 To that nurturer. 308 00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:32,000 That they showed. 309 00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:34,000 Thought we gonna show up. 310 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:37,000 Didn't show up. 311 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:41,000 And they been feeling left alone for so long. 312 00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:43,000 After they done nurtured you. 313 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:44,000 Built you. 314 00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:45,000 Groomed you for this. 315 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:47,000 Helped you get to this. 316 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,000 Oh man. 317 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:51,000 It hurts. 318 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,000 And that's the same way for females. 319 00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:56,000 It's the same way for the female side too. 320 00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:59,000 You can sit here and say you don't need this nigga. 321 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:02,000 But you don't turn this man into a house. 322 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:03,000 Dad. 323 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:07,000 Because he set there and sacrificed. 324 00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:10,000 To make sure you got your dream. 325 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:13,000 But now the money is going to your head. 326 00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:15,000 You feel like you don't need him. 327 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:17,000 You can buy any nigga you want. 328 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,000 Let me tell you something. 329 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:22,000 You can't fucking. 330 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:25,000 Fucking buy a happy. 331 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,000 Cause when that money is gone. 332 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:31,000 That man and that woman is gone. 333 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:33,000 Meow. 334 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:35,000 Now you beg. 335 00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:36,000 Take me back. 336 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:37,000 Take me back. 337 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:39,000 No. 338 00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:41,000 You a big dog. 339 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,000 What happened? 340 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:48,000 You gotta learn to. 341 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:51,000 To step out that. 342 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:55,000 Step out that mentality. 343 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:59,000 Because your kids gonna look at the same thing. 344 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,000 Kids see everything. 345 00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:03,000 So whatever they see. 346 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:05,000 Mama doing. 347 00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:07,000 They gonna think okay it's cool. 348 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:09,000 I'm gonna grow up and I'm gonna be just like mama. 349 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,000 I'm gonna do the same thing she be. 350 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:13,000 That's what I say. 351 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:15,000 I'm gonna do the same thing he be. 352 00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:17,000 And that's just breaking down the empowers. 353 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,000 Because it's gonna go down from generations. 354 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:23,000 You can't push your own family by doing shit like that. 355 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,000 No. 356 00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:27,000 No. 357 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,000 It's rough. 358 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:33,000 Because you look at it but you don't see it. 359 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:37,000 You just happy the money there. 360 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:40,000 So what I'm gonna say is. 361 00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:49,000 To that financial independence empowers stronger relationships. 362 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:56,000 That's only to me I feel like if both of y'all are financially stable together. 363 00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:59,000 Y'all relationships will be stronger. 364 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:03,000 If y'all basically working together to make the money. 365 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:05,000 She working she got a good job. 366 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:08,000 He working he got a good job. 367 00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:14,000 Y'all probably come home at the same time. 368 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:17,000 Y'all should be doing it. 369 00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:19,000 But like he said. 370 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:24,000 If one person make the more money than the next person. 371 00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:28,000 They gonna be feeling some type of way. 372 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,000 No I'm gonna treat you like this because. 373 00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:36,000 I'm the big dog in the house and you under me and let her let it out. 374 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,000 Don't do that. 375 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,000 Please don't do that. 376 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:43,000 If you the type of female that do stuff like that. 377 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:45,000 You need to be by yourself. 378 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,000 You need to be by yourself. 379 00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:49,000 And those two you two. 380 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:54,000 If you the type of dude that just want somebody at the house all the time. 381 00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:57,000 But you giving her an allowance. 382 00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:59,000 No I'm not no child. 383 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:02,000 I just go out here and make my own money. 384 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:04,000 This is not no Diddy and Carisha shit. 385 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:10,000 Do you hear like that shit is bro. 386 00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:12,000 I'm from going out here and make my own money. 387 00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:14,000 You can still give me some of your money too. 388 00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:18,000 But I'm still make my own. 389 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:21,000 That's your choice if you give it to me. 390 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:23,000 I ain't asking for. 391 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:25,000 Like I said I'm full body and able. 392 00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:31,000 I'm gonna go out there and make it myself. 393 00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:39,000 Well you know. 394 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,000 Oh I got a good one. 395 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:43,000 This. 396 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:46,000 These are for the ones that been together 10 plus years. 397 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:49,000 You hear me. 398 00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:52,000 How crucial. 399 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:56,000 Is maintaining physical attraction. 400 00:25:56,000 --> 00:26:01,000 And a sub 10. 401 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:04,000 A long term. 402 00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:10,000 Romantic relationship. 403 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,000 I'm gonna repeat the question. 404 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:15,000 It says how crucial. 405 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:19,000 Is maintaining physical attraction. 406 00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:26,000 A long term romantic relationship. 407 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:30,000 Now if you ain't never been in a relationship for the past 5 years. 408 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:36,000 Sit down somewhere. 409 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:41,000 You ain't never been in a relationship for the past 10 years. 410 00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:44,000 Go sit down somewhere. 411 00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:49,000 I can say that one thing. 412 00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:52,000 I had a long relationship. 413 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:55,000 It turned out to be an open relationship. 414 00:26:55,000 --> 00:27:00,000 And then we just let it go. 415 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:01,000 But. 416 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:07,000 Subtaining a long term relationship. 417 00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:11,000 Say like you will talk to this person from. 418 00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:14,000 16 years old. 419 00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:20,000 Till y'all was. 420 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:25,000 About 26, 27. 421 00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:28,000 Y'all stopped. Matter of fact 26 years old. 422 00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:33,000 Y'all ended after 10 years. 423 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:34,000 Now. 424 00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:37,000 It's hard. 425 00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:42,000 To say. 426 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:45,000 The physical traction. 427 00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:48,000 Ain't about the physical appearance. 428 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:52,000 That I had to learn to. 429 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:56,000 The physical traction is. 430 00:27:56,000 --> 00:28:01,000 Can we still get up and laugh in the morning. 431 00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:03,000 Can we still. 432 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:06,000 Can we still get up. 433 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:08,000 And laugh in the morning. 434 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:11,000 Can we still. 435 00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:14,000 Get up and laugh. 436 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:17,000 And laugh. 437 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:20,000 And laugh. 438 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:23,000 And laugh. 439 00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,000 And laugh. 440 00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:29,000 And laugh. 441 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:32,000 And laugh. 442 00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:37,000 And laugh. 443 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:40,000 Just to show the love is there. 444 00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:44,000 Before you before they even wasn't calling. 445 00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,000 See people don't understand. 446 00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:49,000 It's the simple thing. 447 00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:51,000 Can. 448 00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:53,000 Can you still rub her feet. 449 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:56,000 Can you cook when she's tired. 450 00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:59,000 Can you still do your manly chores around the house. 451 00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:02,000 Can you physically enable. 452 00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:09,000 If one of y'all start working to steal a come on and take a beer. 453 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:12,000 That's love. 454 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:15,000 That's maintaining a long. 455 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:18,000 Well you're gonna talk about each other. 456 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:20,000 Regardless. 457 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:23,000 But. 458 00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:25,000 Being. 459 00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:27,000 In a long relationship. 460 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:30,000 Is something that. 461 00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:32,000 Everybody hates for. 462 00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,000 They want that long time. 463 00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:38,000 But they don't know how to handle a long time. 464 00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:40,000 Because the long time. 465 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:43,000 Is through the emotional progress. 466 00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:45,000 Through the bad time. 467 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,000 Through the rough times. 468 00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:49,000 Y'all still smile. 469 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:50,000 Laugh. 470 00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:53,000 Cry. 471 00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:55,000 Still be all together. 472 00:29:55,000 --> 00:30:00,000 Of how it always been. 473 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,000 See people don't understand like. 474 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,000 It's a connection. 475 00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:07,000 It's not the physical. 476 00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:10,000 It's never the physical appearance. 477 00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:15,000 It's never the mental appearance. 478 00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:16,000 It's. 479 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:19,000 The small details that you can keep. 480 00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:21,000 That you know. 481 00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:23,000 That this person. 482 00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:25,000 Is. 483 00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:26,000 And are. 484 00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:27,000 And. 485 00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:31,000 Gonna be. 486 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:33,000 In the next 10 years that you. 487 00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:35,000 You make it 20. 488 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:37,000 It's. 489 00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:39,000 It's fighting through the patches. 490 00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:41,000 To get them. 491 00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:43,000 Not one giving up. 492 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:47,000 And the other one still trying to hold on. 493 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:50,000 Not one person getting up mad. 494 00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:52,000 But everybody getting up happy. 495 00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:54,000 You still can wake up after 10 years. 496 00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:57,000 And be like you still here motherfucker. 497 00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:59,000 Yeah you still here. 498 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:03,000 And y'all bust out laughing. 499 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:06,000 It's something that you can go back and reclaim. 500 00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:08,000 As always George. 501 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:12,000 Because you know 18 years is nothing. 502 00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:13,000 But let's. 503 00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:15,000 Boom you make it to 20 years. 504 00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:17,000 I ain't never made it to 20 years. 505 00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:21,000 That's something I'm trying. 506 00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:23,000 To make it 20 years. 507 00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:25,000 20 years you deep in the game. 508 00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:27,000 You know each other faults. 509 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:28,000 You know wrong. 510 00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:31,000 You know each other wrongs and rights. 511 00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:33,000 It's the still the emotional. 512 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:35,000 Attachment and the emotional love. 513 00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:37,000 The emotional smiles. 514 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,000 The emotional feelings. 515 00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:40,000 Of that. 516 00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:43,000 That keeps you. 517 00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:47,000 Going in a long term relationship. 518 00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:49,000 You have to feel. 519 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:51,000 You have to. 520 00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:54,000 I understand babe. 521 00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:57,000 I understand. 522 00:31:57,000 --> 00:32:01,000 You have to make the sacrifices. 523 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:05,000 You can't make the sacrifices to. 524 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:08,000 Be in a long term relationship. 525 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:11,000 Why would you want to be in a relationship. 526 00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:13,000 Because short term is not nothing. 527 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:15,000 It's not such thing. 528 00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:22,000 It's not such thing as a short time. 529 00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:26,000 Would you want to elaborate on it? 530 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:30,000 I can't say I had a relationship. 531 00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:32,000 For five years. 532 00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:34,000 I can't say that. 533 00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:41,000 If I did have that opportunity. 534 00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:45,000 I mean I feel like. 535 00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,000 Once you come to that point. 536 00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:49,000 We should be good. 537 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:51,000 Like you said. 538 00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:55,000 Still running around the house like big kids. 539 00:32:55,000 --> 00:33:00,000 Still laughing jokes with each other. 540 00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:02,000 Like find. 541 00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:06,000 Find new things to do with each other. 542 00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:09,000 That's mainly what keeps the relationship going too. 543 00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:14,000 Things for each other to do together. 544 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:16,000 You gotta keep it going. 545 00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:21,000 In the bedroom sometimes. 546 00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:27,000 Maybe not even have the sex work that night. 547 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:29,000 I just want to lay up. 548 00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:31,000 And just lay up and see your out father sleep. 549 00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:33,000 Lay up and talk to your out father sleep. 550 00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:35,000 Or both your out father sleep. 551 00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:38,000 Whatever. 552 00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:43,000 That's what makes a relationship last. 553 00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:48,000 Just knowing that that person still shows interest in you. 554 00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:51,000 You still feel the love from this person. 555 00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:54,000 No matter how mad you make this person. 556 00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:57,000 No matter how sad you make this person. 557 00:33:57,000 --> 00:34:01,000 This person still has that same love from the beginning. 558 00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:06,000 And always will. 559 00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:09,000 That's why I say you have to know. 560 00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:11,000 And feel. 561 00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:14,000 And see. 562 00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:21,000 Because if you don't. 563 00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:26,000 What can you, what are you doing? 564 00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:32,000 Like you don't, short time is not such thing as it man. 565 00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:36,000 It's never not such thing as. 566 00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:37,000 I'm going to go for what you say. 567 00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:42,000 It's not such thing as that. 568 00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:44,000 You can sit here and say it is. 569 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:50,000 But it's not. 570 00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:57,000 So that brings us to our next question. 571 00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:58,000 What's the next question? 572 00:34:58,000 --> 00:35:08,000 I know I got the hottest questions in the world. 573 00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:11,000 Next question. 574 00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:15,000 And I want people to grab a pen and paper for this. 575 00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:25,000 List the best qualities you have to bring in a relationship to a person. 576 00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:28,000 Literally. 577 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:33,000 List the best qualities you have to bring. 578 00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:38,000 To a relationship. 579 00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:45,000 Your best qualities is not you shaking ass. 580 00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:51,000 Not you selling dope. 581 00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:57,000 Not you throwing money. 582 00:35:57,000 --> 00:36:04,000 Not no hot girl goddamn summer. 583 00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:09,000 It's the attributes of the qualities as. 584 00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:17,000 What's your favorite dish you can cook? 585 00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:23,000 Do you like movie nights? 586 00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:30,000 Are you an outside the box thinker? 587 00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:35,000 Are you? 588 00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:46,000 Are you the one that going to push that person to his dream? 589 00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:49,000 Are you a stepper? 590 00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:54,000 Are you ten toes down behind yours? 591 00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:58,000 Are you? 592 00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:00,000 Can you clean? 593 00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:05,000 How good can you clean? 594 00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:09,000 Are you a good person? 595 00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:15,000 When I'm at my worstest moments. 596 00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:25,000 Can you still be you when I'm at my worstest moments to calm me down? 597 00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:35,000 Can you be there when shit not going right? 598 00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:39,000 They're my qualities people. 599 00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:42,000 Qualities. 600 00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:50,000 Not equity quality. 601 00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:55,000 Can you do you can you dance not twerk? 602 00:37:55,000 --> 00:38:00,000 Can you dance? 603 00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:08,000 Can we groove in the kitchen? 604 00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:16,000 Sex is not a quality. 605 00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:19,000 Are you a quality freak? 606 00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:21,000 When it's time. 607 00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:27,000 Are you a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets? 608 00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:40,000 It's a quality that you have to have people. 609 00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:43,000 I got a question. 610 00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:45,000 Can I ask? 611 00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:48,000 What's up? 612 00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:53,000 What is your definition of intimacy? 613 00:38:53,000 --> 00:39:04,000 My definition is 614 00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:06,000 chilling. 615 00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:09,000 Watching movies. 616 00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:16,000 Let them bump into each other. 617 00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:18,000 That's been a huge deal. 618 00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:20,000 You know. 619 00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:23,000 Let's trip out. 620 00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:25,000 Let's talk. 621 00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:27,000 Let's get drunk. 622 00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:29,000 Play cards. 623 00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:36,000 Let's do shit that's going to bring us close. 624 00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:45,000 Sex can bring us close but it also can throw you apart. 625 00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:55,000 Let's build something that leads it up to there. 626 00:39:55,000 --> 00:40:00,000 Don't let it get there. 627 00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:13,000 Let both of us resist the urge until we both can't. 628 00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:19,000 Let's know each other until we figure that we know too much. 629 00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:23,000 It's time to drop draws. 630 00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:26,000 That type of... 631 00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:31,000 If you don't have that type of... 632 00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:36,000 We can't bump like that. 633 00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:39,000 I just want to have sex all the time. 634 00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:43,000 I ain't going to sit here and say, girl, fuck you. 635 00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:47,000 Die tomorrow. 636 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:55,000 As you get older, like I said, I'm 33 but I done did a lot of shit in my life. 637 00:40:55,000 --> 00:41:02,000 But as you get older, you realize what's more important. 638 00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:07,000 You seek what you... 639 00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:11,000 You get what you want. 640 00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:13,000 You let... 641 00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:23,000 That's why when the moments come, it's in the best moments that you can ever realize when that moment come. 642 00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:28,000 The best moment you would think, motherfucker, fuck on the first night, it be, oh, man. 643 00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,000 Nah. 644 00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:35,000 You ain't let it lead up to the best moments. 645 00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:39,000 You ain't let it jump to that. 646 00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:44,000 When the best moments is realizing, hey, I can build something with this person, 647 00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:53,000 realize, hey, this is my person, realize, hey, I want to talk to this person. 648 00:41:53,000 --> 00:42:03,000 So that's why I say, like, you have to build the intimacy. 649 00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:06,000 You have to build that chemistry to the intimacy. 650 00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:09,000 Like, you have to. 651 00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:14,000 But this is all in and our family. 652 00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:18,000 And King Yash and Queen E, and we checking out this. 653 00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:33,000 Good night.