1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:23,440 This is All In All Family, Stony Boy King Yacht and We Back Season 2 Daily. 2 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:31,600 What it do, what it do, what it do, what it do my people. 3 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:34,600 How your day been today? 4 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:42,880 Mine been kinda like trying to steal a loaf of bread from Walmart, I almost got caught. 5 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:46,800 Still got the baloney but left the god damn bread. 6 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:56,440 Ain't that a sign? 7 00:00:56,440 --> 00:01:05,920 But on today's man, I watched a video of a young lady getting beat today, like seriously 8 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:11,240 beaten by her boyfriend. 9 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:21,720 And it made me want to touch this topic today, how far you would go for the extremes of 10 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:27,560 love or to be loved? 11 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:32,600 How far would you go? 12 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:34,680 Would you go over the edge? 13 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:36,600 Would you go over the deep end? 14 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:44,000 Like tell me, how far would you go? 15 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:52,680 Some people don't know how far it takes or how far it's supposed to go. 16 00:01:52,680 --> 00:02:02,520 They hurt their own self in ways that they don't even know and it's crazy. 17 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:15,600 How you rather hurt yourself and hurt the person that you love at that, just for love? 18 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:22,120 No baby, how far would you go? 19 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:25,440 How far is the limit? 20 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:31,240 Do you have a limit on love? 21 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:40,640 Do some people enjoy it when their spouse put their hands on them? 22 00:02:40,640 --> 00:02:43,920 Some people feel love that way. 23 00:02:43,920 --> 00:02:51,880 I don't clarify that it's love, you know? 24 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:58,320 But we all done did some shit in our life now. 25 00:02:58,320 --> 00:02:59,440 Don't get me wrong. 26 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:01,640 We all done did some shit in our life. 27 00:03:01,640 --> 00:03:06,120 Yeah, it can't be the perfect squeaky clean nigga over here. 28 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:10,680 No, I done put my hands on females before. 29 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:13,440 But I had to learn from that shit, man. 30 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:18,040 There's a lot of bad shit that comes behind that shit. 31 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:24,240 I never beat a female to the point where she had to go to the hospital or she would bruise. 32 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:26,240 Like I'd slap her or choke her. 33 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:30,240 Then I got them tears or some shit like that, you know what I'm saying? 34 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:42,520 But as I got older, I had to realize I wasn't having my peace than sitting here resting 35 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:49,920 in peace or doing time behind bars. 36 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:55,440 You know what I'm saying? 37 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:58,600 A lot of us don't see that. 38 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:04,000 We deal with problems that we shouldn't deal with. 39 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:09,920 But today it took it further because I watched the video of this young lady literally getting 40 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:12,680 beat bloody. 41 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:19,280 Literally getting shot, ran over by her man. 42 00:04:19,280 --> 00:04:22,840 Like it don't even take all that. 43 00:04:22,840 --> 00:04:25,200 Chris Brown didn't do all that, bro. 44 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:27,880 Come on, man. 45 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:40,160 Chris Brown didn't do all that. 46 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:50,760 If it take for you to threaten your spouse with violence, y'all shouldn't be together, 47 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:51,760 man. 48 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:57,040 Like me and my spouse, we barely argue. 49 00:04:57,040 --> 00:05:00,600 We jokesters. 50 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:03,360 We have more fun than we argue. 51 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:11,720 We value our peace, our freedom. 52 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:22,160 Like you would never catch me trying to beat up on her, slap her, anything. 53 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:29,200 If I do slap her, I just like to hear her jaws go, that's it. 54 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:38,520 Us in the net, we just playing. 55 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:49,640 We can be in love, but let's not be in love to the point where you got to kill me or I 56 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:50,640 got to kill you. 57 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:56,760 You see what I'm saying, people? 58 00:05:56,760 --> 00:06:01,360 It's a difference when it come down to that. 59 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:07,640 It's a big difference. 60 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:17,120 Because you taking away somebody's mother, somebody's daughter, somebody's sister, but 61 00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:18,600 you going to have kids yourself. 62 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:20,800 You probably got kids yourself. 63 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:27,440 Why would you want to do that to a female? 64 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:28,440 Why? 65 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:29,440 Why? 66 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:37,800 Why do you like, I had to figure that shit out when I was younger. 67 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:41,760 I told you, I had my time. 68 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:51,760 But I realized, don't come sit here. 69 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:53,600 Don't sit here. 70 00:06:53,600 --> 00:07:01,760 Don't make a big deal out of something that would never, never be. 71 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:09,240 I should put this recommended for anybody else. 72 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:13,560 I'm going to say that. 73 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:14,560 Why? 74 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:23,360 I had a homeboy. 75 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:25,360 I stayed in Chapparidge with them. 76 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:26,360 I know them. 77 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:30,640 Every time I see them, I say, what's up B? 78 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:34,640 They knew me as Smiley back then. 79 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:45,560 The hardest thing for me to accept was seeing a dude that I used to see smiling, having 80 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:53,160 fun with the kids all the time, commit suicide over love. 81 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:58,480 Love is a very powerful action, man. 82 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:05,320 It speak Hindus of fucking words. 83 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:09,560 It speak a bivoulious words. 84 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:10,560 Yes, I said it. 85 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:13,280 I don't know how to say it, but I just tried to say it. 86 00:08:13,280 --> 00:08:16,720 I said it, damn it. 87 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:22,480 But it speaks life. 88 00:08:22,480 --> 00:08:25,240 It speaks form. 89 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:29,240 It's an action. 90 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:31,800 It's not something that you say. 91 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:34,800 It's an action. 92 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:47,240 Love can have many reactions, man. 93 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:51,160 You can meet the perfect person. 94 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:56,640 The perfect person can be the perfect stranger to you, man. 95 00:08:56,640 --> 00:08:58,680 It can kill you. 96 00:08:58,680 --> 00:09:00,880 It can harm you. 97 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:04,360 It can take the most precious things away from you. 98 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:12,360 Do you hear me, people? 99 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:19,640 We look at shit and we play with it. 100 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:24,400 You love a person, you can love a human being so much, and that human being can sit here 101 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:29,360 and tell you two or three things. 102 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:32,120 I don't want you no more. 103 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:35,800 I'm done with you. 104 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:44,320 Or they walk out completely on you. 105 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:55,480 Some men can't take this shit, so they turn into little bitches. 106 00:09:55,480 --> 00:10:01,280 Want to fight, want to argue, want to beat the girl to the point where she don't want 107 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:06,320 to go outside and she can't go nowhere now. 108 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:12,320 So now you don't support fear until you don't want it. 109 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:18,200 Nigga, you can't go out there and strike fear until the nigga's on the corner or in the 110 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:20,760 block or in the city. 111 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:29,280 So why the fuck is you trying to strike fear into a female? 112 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:35,220 You can't make a female bow down to you. 113 00:10:35,220 --> 00:10:44,040 You can't make a female give in to you. 114 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:47,040 She scared now. 115 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:48,680 That's not the type of love that you want. 116 00:10:48,680 --> 00:10:57,820 You don't want that scary love. 117 00:10:57,820 --> 00:11:04,400 You don't want none of that, people. 118 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:11,720 The hardest thing for a person to do in life is sit here and accept the part that somebody 119 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:16,880 don't want them no more. 120 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:19,000 That's for a man, y'all. 121 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:20,000 Not a female. 122 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:23,000 That's for a male. 123 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:27,880 Fucking male. 124 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:34,600 You can't take the repercussions in the actions. 125 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:37,600 Why is that? 126 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:42,640 You did everything else. 127 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:50,440 Why you can't take the repercussions in the actions? 128 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:58,520 And the fucked up thing is the worst kind of woman is a woman that's a scared woman 129 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:03,520 that's turned into a stand up for herself woman. 130 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:06,320 Because she's tired. 131 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:08,600 She's fed up. 132 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:10,360 She already put it in her mind. 133 00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:15,280 She want to kill you. 134 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:20,000 I'm tired of this shit that was in her head. 135 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:24,160 That's the hardest thing for a man when he fed up. 136 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:29,920 Oh, there's some women out there that a dog abuse a nigga like a motherfucker. 137 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:30,920 Don't get it wrong. 138 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:34,440 I ain't just putting this all on the females. 139 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:35,440 It's some... 140 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:38,040 I mean, all on the niggas. 141 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:44,560 It's some females out there that will dog whoop a nigga and beat the shit out of a nigga, 142 00:12:44,560 --> 00:12:53,200 make his whole self esteem just like a fucking nigga would do a female and fuck over them. 143 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:55,280 Nah. 144 00:12:55,280 --> 00:13:01,560 Nah, pleb. 145 00:13:01,560 --> 00:13:09,760 You gotta be careful who you choose or who you pick, man. 146 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:15,640 That's basically the corner story to this story. 147 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:17,480 I don't care what you say. 148 00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:19,440 Be careful who you choose. 149 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:21,600 Because you can lay down... 150 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:24,440 You don't know who you laying down with. 151 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:27,720 You don't know who you fucking with. 152 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:31,360 Because guess what? 153 00:13:31,360 --> 00:13:39,160 At the end of the day, show him... 154 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:44,120 Show him something that he ain't never seen before and watch him snap out. 155 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:45,120 You done gave him love. 156 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:46,120 You done fed... 157 00:13:46,120 --> 00:13:52,040 Women, you can't give your all like that. 158 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:59,120 Because you don't know what type of person you dealing with. 159 00:13:59,120 --> 00:14:02,240 And men, it's the same way for you. 160 00:14:02,240 --> 00:14:12,480 You can't give your all when you don't know who you dealing with. 161 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:16,800 But you wanna be that person to give your all. 162 00:14:16,800 --> 00:14:17,800 Hmm. 163 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:19,800 Why is that? 164 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:25,080 Why is that, young Josh? 165 00:14:25,080 --> 00:14:26,520 Young Josh? 166 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:39,720 Because some of us is emotionally scarred because we didn't have love when we was kids. 167 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:44,640 We think we wasn't loved when we were kids. 168 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:51,400 Nah, that ain't it, bruh. 169 00:14:51,400 --> 00:15:00,280 So you go out there and you look for that love. 170 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:02,320 No. 171 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:06,320 Hell no. 172 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:07,320 That's crazy. 173 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:11,320 Why would you do something like that? 174 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:22,520 Yo love, if you didn't get love when you was younger, the love that you out there looking 175 00:15:22,520 --> 00:15:26,760 for is the wrong type of love. 176 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:30,040 Understand me and look where I'm coming from at this. 177 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:34,520 A lot of us want love as kids when we the right way. 178 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:41,360 So we look for others to love us the right way. 179 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:47,440 Some of us are wonderers. 180 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:53,400 That means as kids we would love the right way when we wanted to see the outcomes of 181 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:57,960 different type of loves. 182 00:15:57,960 --> 00:16:04,120 That's crazy, I ain't it. 183 00:16:04,120 --> 00:16:25,560 We believe in ourselves that we are better than what we know ourselves as of a person 184 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:28,560 right now. 185 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:32,720 Nah. 186 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:35,920 You come from within man. 187 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:44,720 You come from the trials, the tribulations, the pains, the losses. 188 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:53,080 It comes from everything. 189 00:16:53,080 --> 00:17:05,240 I'm talking to my females, please man domestic violence is not love man. 190 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:06,240 He ain't gonna do it again. 191 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:12,640 He's rapping your ass every day like a beanbag. 192 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:14,880 Like a switch going off on a pistol. 193 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:16,800 He's rapping the shit at you. 194 00:17:16,800 --> 00:17:21,420 He floor mayweathering your ass. 195 00:17:21,420 --> 00:17:25,360 He got damn Ryan Garcia your ass. 196 00:17:25,360 --> 00:17:27,560 You Haney, you Ryan, down goes Frazier. 197 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:29,600 He out leads your ass. 198 00:17:29,600 --> 00:17:33,280 No stop that man. 199 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:37,960 Have a mentality ass. 200 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:41,640 Don't fight back because you gonna waste your energy. 201 00:17:41,640 --> 00:17:51,040 You gonna waste a whole bunch of energy trying to fight back. 202 00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:56,320 When you first see them signs, look for signs first. 203 00:17:56,320 --> 00:18:08,040 When you see signs and you see that that person is not good, not righteous, leave that person 204 00:18:08,040 --> 00:18:11,840 alone man. 205 00:18:11,840 --> 00:18:21,600 But that's the fucked up thing because as women, the good guys are not fun. 206 00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:29,860 The bad guys are more fun. 207 00:18:29,860 --> 00:18:42,040 So you go out with the bad guys and the bad guys always had that pizzazz about them. 208 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:49,200 He got a bad boy type of energy that I want to get away type of energy. 209 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:55,000 I tell y'all I used to be one of them. 210 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:58,000 I know. 211 00:18:58,000 --> 00:19:06,440 I stopped at the age of 25 man like 24, 25. 212 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:08,800 That shit wasn't cool to me. 213 00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:10,800 You want me to hit you. 214 00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:16,400 No, I'm not going through that. 215 00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:23,880 It's placeable for everything that goes on in this world man. 216 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:29,320 Don't fight who you are. 217 00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:32,040 Don't fight the outcome. 218 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:35,840 The outcome is bigger than anything. 219 00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:45,400 The outcome is what we need. 220 00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:50,580 That's the outcome. 221 00:19:50,580 --> 00:20:00,400 We don't need an outcome that's going to hurt us. 222 00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:07,440 We don't need an outcome that can make us fear. 223 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:15,400 We need an outcome as a solution as I want my life. 224 00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:21,960 I don't want to go down a road where I'm going to be damaged, emotionally scarred, can't 225 00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:35,520 trust people, scared to trust your spouse, scared to be in a way that every day we think 226 00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:42,480 about what's happened in the past. 227 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:44,560 You don't want to be that person. 228 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:47,480 This outcome is to that shit. 229 00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:49,880 Y'all think I'm bullshitting. 230 00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:50,880 True story. 231 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:56,880 True fucking story here. 232 00:20:56,880 --> 00:21:03,480 During my time with me getting myself together, like I told y'all, I was going through something 233 00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:06,000 mentally so I had to start from ground zero. 234 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:08,920 So I moved into an abandoned hotel. 235 00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:20,840 I told y'all in season one, if you go back and look, I stayed with Number Addicts. 236 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:32,760 It showed me deeper than what it was, but it was a hotel connected to this hotel. 237 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:44,400 So y'all, I'm talking about this is the dead ass truth, like dead ass truth. 238 00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:50,440 I literally one day, we all chilling. 239 00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:55,120 I wake up, I go outside. 240 00:21:55,120 --> 00:21:57,280 I ain't going to say his name. 241 00:21:57,280 --> 00:22:03,000 I'm not going to put nobody's names out there like that because that's not me. 242 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:08,160 But he was a cool dude. 243 00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:09,860 We always chop it up. 244 00:22:09,860 --> 00:22:11,520 We always used to compete in haircuts. 245 00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:14,520 Who can cut the hair the most? 246 00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:15,520 Boom. 247 00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:18,200 You still had to rely on your talents. 248 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:21,400 You can't never look down when you got to look good, bro. 249 00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:24,400 Just know that shit. 250 00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:30,800 One day he come running up, hey, hey, hey, you seen my girl? 251 00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:33,800 I say, no, I ain't seen her. 252 00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:38,360 He's like, all right, all right, I believe you, I believe you. 253 00:22:38,360 --> 00:22:41,960 So he walk off, he looking for her, he asking everybody. 254 00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:46,120 So a couple hours later, he saying, man, I'm going to kill the bitch when I see her. 255 00:22:46,120 --> 00:22:47,120 I'm going to kill the bitch. 256 00:22:47,120 --> 00:22:51,600 I'm like, oh man, oh man, here you go. 257 00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:56,080 He was already on the run for something in Alabama. 258 00:22:56,080 --> 00:23:02,080 So he was working at the hotel that I stayed beside. 259 00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:06,360 He looked for her all day. 260 00:23:06,360 --> 00:23:08,080 So he left, pulled off. 261 00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:11,960 You know, it's Friday, he going to cast his cheek or whatever. 262 00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:18,160 She come back. 263 00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:22,160 That's where he at, got her changed clothes. 264 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:23,160 She hollering at. 265 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:28,880 I said, hey bro, whatever you do, think smart and be safe with what you do. 266 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:29,880 Okay, friend. 267 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:32,880 Boom, holla at. 268 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:42,760 Man, the next morning I wake up, my homeboy saying, he called her, he called her, he called 269 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:45,160 her in the room over there with old boy. 270 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:46,920 I'm like, what the fuck? 271 00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:50,080 So all day he got the woman in the room. 272 00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:52,520 He beating the shit out of her. 273 00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:56,480 I'm talking about with a hammer, everything. 274 00:23:56,480 --> 00:24:04,640 So the neighbors hear some and call the police. 275 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:09,800 He outside talking mad shit, smoking a cigarette, police pulled up. 276 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:12,120 We tell him, hey man, calm down, police right there. 277 00:24:12,120 --> 00:24:13,840 Hey, if I was you, go somewhere else. 278 00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:15,640 Just go over there where I'm at. 279 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:19,120 He hell not going to go back up in there and whoop this bitch some more. 280 00:24:19,120 --> 00:24:28,840 I say, man, bro, it got to the point where he would talk to the police at first. 281 00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:30,640 They were like, let me see you. 282 00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:34,440 They all go up inside. 283 00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:37,640 She bloodied in the motherfucker. 284 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:49,920 Hammer bruises everywhere from the forehead to the feet, bro. 285 00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:53,840 That type of day I called a partner, but that type of day I wanted to whoop his ass because 286 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:57,960 that's a woman, bro. 287 00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:04,160 She is a natural, natural. 288 00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:10,440 She nurtures just like your mama nurtures. 289 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:11,640 She is a natural. 290 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:15,040 You do not touch the naturals. 291 00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:25,480 Man, the ambulance had to bring a scripture to come get this woman at the hotel, y'all. 292 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:39,960 I never in my life seen some shit like that a day in my life. 293 00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:46,880 It takes me back because it took me back to that day, my sister, my second oldest sister 294 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:53,920 got a dent in her forehead when her dude literally punched the shit out of her with some brass 295 00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:55,040 knuckles in the forehead. 296 00:25:55,040 --> 00:26:04,960 My sister had a dent in her head and literally had to have surgery, stitches and all. 297 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:12,040 I was young, but I had so much rage. 298 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:17,600 I wanted to kill him because you don't understand. 299 00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:19,320 That's not my daddy child. 300 00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:24,520 That's my mother's child. 301 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:30,520 She nurtured me just as well my mother did, bro. 302 00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:34,960 I wanted to kill him for that. 303 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:37,520 I saw my daddy. 304 00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:42,440 This why I say you got to break the generational curse because I saw my daddy get drunk and 305 00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:48,000 beat my mama all the time. 306 00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:51,840 I used to try, I remember jumping over there on the bed as a little child and getting slung 307 00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:56,000 all the way over there to my little white little, back then you had them white little 308 00:26:56,000 --> 00:27:02,760 kid beds, little real little, I mean middle little beds. 309 00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:07,880 It's boom, throwing my ass off. 310 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:12,320 I realized I couldn't do nothing. 311 00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:18,960 When you realize that you can't do nothing as a child, it's hard, bro. 312 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:31,320 It is insanely in hard. 313 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:37,480 I seen the day when my mama said she not finna take it no more. 314 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:48,080 I seen how my daddy broke down and couldn't be himself no more. 315 00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:55,520 When a woman stand up for herself and you been doing this to her all this time, you 316 00:27:55,520 --> 00:28:00,280 chased her, you chased her to do this and she get the freedom to it. 317 00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:05,000 You not going to do this, you fight back, you get away. 318 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:08,760 You fighting for her but she not coming back because the repercussions that she had to 319 00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:09,760 face with that. 320 00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:31,440 Is it worth risking your freedom going over the edge about something that's small, you 321 00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:41,720 look at a n***a I'm finna kill a pile. 322 00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:50,240 You got some people family that don't play that shit. 323 00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:56,000 Then how you bringing into a family war? 324 00:28:56,000 --> 00:29:11,720 Nah man, hell nah. 325 00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:24,360 Look at the mentality that you have to have to go through and face your reality, your 326 00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:30,680 past when you have to dig deep and look at yourself slapping this girl. 327 00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:36,120 Whoopin' E women. 328 00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:42,120 Only women that going to want you is a woman that got low self esteem that don't care. 329 00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:47,680 You got some women that don't give a fuck about being knocked the fuck out. 330 00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:51,320 I love him, he loves me. 331 00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:52,320 You call that love? 332 00:29:52,320 --> 00:30:00,640 That ain't love. 333 00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:13,560 But you see as kids we take that and we evolve with it. 334 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:17,680 You got some women that watch their mommas take that shit so they sit there and take 335 00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:21,320 that shit. 336 00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:31,960 You got some men that saw their daddy did that shit and now they doing that shit. 337 00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:38,320 How you going to stop the generational curse? 338 00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:43,240 Now your son watching you whoop his momma so when he grow up he finna go ahead and whoop 339 00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:47,440 his son or his daughter momma. 340 00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:59,720 Nah, hell nah man. 341 00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:07,120 You gots to have more wisdom as a human being. 342 00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:11,120 You gots to love yourself. 343 00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:13,600 Do you hear me? 344 00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:20,880 Love your fucking self before you can try to sit here and fight for love. 345 00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:25,360 I want to prove my love. 346 00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:31,400 You going to prove it by him putting your ass in the box? 347 00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:38,380 You going to prove it by him taking your eye out? 348 00:31:38,380 --> 00:31:43,760 You going to prove it by getting some more denture put back in your goddamn mouth? 349 00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:46,520 Nah man. 350 00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:50,040 See like I said I love everybody in the world period. 351 00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:52,040 I'm built on love. 352 00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:58,200 And if I didn't love people, especially the females I wouldn't be telling you this. 353 00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:02,720 And man I wouldn't be telling you to stop man. 354 00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:08,000 It's not worth it. 355 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:13,600 Y'all ain't going out there whooping goddamn black on the street. 356 00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:15,840 Y'all ain't going out there whooping TJ new. 357 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:21,760 Y'all ain't going out there whooping Pee Pee pain and all them niggas. 358 00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:23,400 No. 359 00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:27,040 But you want to go home and whoop on your girl. 360 00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:33,240 You just going to chase her away. 361 00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:40,720 Make her fall in love with the nigga of her fucking dreams. 362 00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:43,000 And he might not even be the nigga of her dreams. 363 00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:45,920 He might turn around and be the second version of you but worse. 364 00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:51,240 You might try to kill her head, drown her. 365 00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:59,320 Man stop this shit. 366 00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:11,160 You go beyond and back for a nigga that slapping your head into the wall little goddamn night. 367 00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:14,640 Man no. 368 00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:21,080 You are a queen and for the nigga that slapping the motherfucking girl head into the wall. 369 00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:22,080 You a bitch. 370 00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:25,720 You can't call yourself a man, a king, a god. 371 00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,720 You a bitch. 372 00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:35,520 You want to call her a bitch but you walking on four legs more than she is. 373 00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:39,800 And women you got to understand a jealous man. 374 00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:45,040 Women you got to understand a low self esteem man. 375 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:50,320 You got to understand a nigga that ain't never had nothing good before. 376 00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:52,680 You got to understand those types. 377 00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:54,720 If you can't understand those types. 378 00:33:54,720 --> 00:34:00,120 Oh man those niggas is vicious. 379 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:04,120 You going to get eaten up in the jungle. 380 00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:09,520 Because you don't know nothing. 381 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:13,560 You good girls that out there trying to get in a relationship with the bad boys leave 382 00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:14,960 that shit alone. 383 00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:16,400 You don't know nothing about their world. 384 00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:19,320 Stay the fuck out their world. 385 00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:24,840 If you was raised up in a good neighborhood follow your credentials and go get you a good 386 00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:25,840 nigga. 387 00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:29,400 You not ready for hood shit. 388 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:30,400 You not hood man. 389 00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:33,480 If you brought up in the suburbs you are not hood. 390 00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:38,400 If you talking about you went to my grandmama's house your grandmama stay in the hood. 391 00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:41,240 You not in the damn you not from the hood. 392 00:34:41,240 --> 00:34:45,360 You went back home on the weekend. 393 00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:48,240 You went back home on a Sunday. 394 00:34:48,240 --> 00:34:49,720 You was there from Friday to Sunday. 395 00:34:49,720 --> 00:34:51,680 And had to get your ass up. 396 00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:58,440 And you spent some summers over there. 397 00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:01,360 And that's the thing about people. 398 00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:07,120 You pretend to be somebody you not. 399 00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:12,120 So when you get into a relationship with this person. 400 00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:22,080 You talking to God God I don't want this. 401 00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:23,080 Why me? 402 00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:24,880 I don't want to be. 403 00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:25,880 No. 404 00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:31,760 Because you chose something that you knew that wouldn't in your even league. 405 00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:43,760 Not even in your suburban neighborhood forums. 406 00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:45,360 And it's just not emotional. 407 00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:46,960 It's just not emotional. 408 00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:47,960 Physical damage can also. 409 00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:49,960 I mean not physical but. 410 00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:51,960 Bruh like. 411 00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:56,240 How should I put this. 412 00:35:56,240 --> 00:35:59,400 You can go through physical. 413 00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:01,720 You can go through mentally. 414 00:36:01,720 --> 00:36:07,000 Where a person can kill your mental state just by talking down on you. 415 00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:10,520 The power of the tongue is a motherfucker. 416 00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:11,520 You ain't never be shit. 417 00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:12,520 You ain't shit. 418 00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:13,520 Your mama ain't shit. 419 00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:16,520 Bruh come on bruh. 420 00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:21,840 If a person tell you you ain't shit. 421 00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:25,240 There's something wrong with you. 422 00:36:25,240 --> 00:36:29,120 You want to sit there and stay. 423 00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:32,160 Nah. 424 00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:34,680 A motherfucker tell you. 425 00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:35,680 You ain't shit. 426 00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:39,320 But you sit there and want to stay. 427 00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:46,240 Physical and mental abuse is the same. 428 00:36:46,240 --> 00:36:53,080 Because mentally you can't take it when a person talking like that to you. 429 00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:54,080 Nobody can. 430 00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:57,080 Not even a man. 431 00:36:57,080 --> 00:37:01,560 If a nigga out there talking to him bad. 432 00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:03,680 By him in the streets to his face. 433 00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:04,680 He can't take that shit. 434 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:09,120 He going to be ready to fight kill and everything. 435 00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:18,200 So yeah you have to stop that shit. 436 00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:20,440 And ladies. 437 00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:25,680 If you got a man that's good don't turn him bad. 438 00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:27,280 Do not do. 439 00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:28,280 Nah. 440 00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:29,280 Nah. 441 00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:33,880 Don't be killers right there. 442 00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:35,240 You want to turn a nigga bad. 443 00:37:35,240 --> 00:37:36,560 You want a bad mouth from him. 444 00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:37,840 You want to do something. 445 00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:38,840 Hit me nigga. 446 00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:39,840 So when he finally. 447 00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:42,160 6 years after y'all done been together. 448 00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,160 He finally just knocked your fucking head off. 449 00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:47,160 He done say I'm tired of this shit. 450 00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:48,160 You can't go nowhere man. 451 00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:49,160 You're stupid. 452 00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:51,880 He knocking your head off every motherfucking day man. 453 00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:54,760 Because you want to talk shit. 454 00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:55,760 Stop. 455 00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:57,760 And ladies do. 456 00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:09,680 If you got a good nigga don't stop bullying that man. 457 00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:16,680 Stop making that man feel lesser than what he is. 458 00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:20,200 You putting your hand all in his head. 459 00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:21,200 That finger. 460 00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:24,960 That finger. 461 00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:30,840 Nah man don't do that. 462 00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:34,400 You killing him emotionally inside. 463 00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:35,400 Not on the outside. 464 00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:36,400 The inside. 465 00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:38,880 The man get destroyed from the inside. 466 00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:41,880 Not the outside women. 467 00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:48,720 Man learn that man. 468 00:38:48,720 --> 00:38:52,680 You will never know who you are. 469 00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:53,680 What you is. 470 00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:54,680 Because you. 471 00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:57,800 You want to. 472 00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:00,320 You want to be the abuser. 473 00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:08,320 The abuser always lose in the end. 474 00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:16,120 Ike Intena showed you that shit man. 475 00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:21,400 Follow your heart. 476 00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:25,280 Not the way he do for me. 477 00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:26,280 The sex. 478 00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:27,280 The money. 479 00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:28,280 Nah. 480 00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:38,400 Anytime a nigga come with those three things you fucked up. 481 00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:40,280 He feel like he can ring you. 482 00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:42,840 He feel like he own you then. 483 00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:44,200 Nah. 484 00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:46,360 Nobody should never feel owned bro. 485 00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:48,640 Unless you in a marriage. 486 00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:51,120 You own each other. 487 00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:54,320 Paperwork own each other. 488 00:39:54,320 --> 00:40:03,440 And you still don't own that person cause God own both of y'all. 489 00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:14,120 So stop trying to lead yourself into something that can literally tear you apart. 490 00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:19,040 Rip you to shreds. 491 00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:26,520 Take you and break you down into itty bitty pieces. 492 00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:28,080 Cause you can't. 493 00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:32,480 It's hard to put yourself back up out the itty bitty pieces bro. 494 00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:41,000 You can half way put yourself up but you ain't never fully put yourself back together. 495 00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:47,960 We get the signs ladies especially cause it goes on with you everyday. 496 00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:54,400 Women lose their life everyday to domestic violence. 497 00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:58,960 Everyday a woman is being murdered. 498 00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:04,320 Beaten by domestic violence. 499 00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:11,760 If you see someone getting domestic violence bro even if it's not your business just call 500 00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:18,880 the police and keep going man. 501 00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:26,200 They don't ask for savior but hey somebody do need savior out there. 502 00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:27,200 So stop. 503 00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:32,240 And man stop putting your hands on these females. 504 00:41:32,240 --> 00:41:36,800 Cause if you not putting your hands on the niggas in the street stop putting your hands 505 00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:40,520 on the females. 506 00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:42,200 Stop trying to be the tough guy. 507 00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:44,200 Love that woman. 508 00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:45,200 Care for that woman. 509 00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:46,640 Nurture that woman. 510 00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:49,160 Because your momma is a nuturer. 511 00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:53,640 She taught you how to nurture. 512 00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:56,760 Don't sit here and try to be that I'm Tyrone. 513 00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:59,320 I beat yo ass. 514 00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:01,440 Nigga Tyrone still got his ass beat. 515 00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:07,520 Remember that. 516 00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:09,200 So stop playing. 517 00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:12,000 Nobody wants to be in a graveyard. 518 00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:15,680 Nobody wants to be in a prison. 519 00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:21,360 If you know you can't be with each other just separate. 520 00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:23,120 Go your separate ways. 521 00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:27,960 If it's not going to work just go your separate ways. 522 00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:35,440 If you got to put your hands on the person or you got to feel like that person is going 523 00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:40,720 to put their hands on you leave people. 524 00:42:40,720 --> 00:42:44,080 Because it's not worth the risk. 525 00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:47,920 It's not. 526 00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:50,520 And I had to make this tonight. 527 00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:59,560 Because men and young men out there you have to understand. 528 00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:02,940 A woman is a nuturer. 529 00:43:02,940 --> 00:43:10,840 She nurtures the male. 530 00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:15,920 She comforts the male like the mothers do to you. 531 00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:23,040 She is your friend just like your sisters and your friends in the street are. 532 00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:26,600 Your cousins as a female and nieces. 533 00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:30,600 Think about them when you want to put your hands on the female. 534 00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:37,120 Think about the nurturers and think about that you harm in a nutural. 535 00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:46,520 Think about the repercussions of harm in a nutural that God provided to have his to bring 536 00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:52,240 seeds for you. 537 00:43:52,240 --> 00:43:56,240 Think about that man. 538 00:43:56,240 --> 00:44:08,160 Because at the end of the day is you going to risk it all for love. 539 00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:21,640 Ladies men are you going to risk it all over jealousy, self esteem issues. 540 00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:30,400 And women are you going to risk it all over because you have emotionally ties from the 541 00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:31,400 past. 542 00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:42,720 I told you on season 1 go heal first before you date anyone. 543 00:44:42,720 --> 00:44:49,080 Love yourself before you harm somebody else. 544 00:44:49,080 --> 00:45:00,480 This your boy King Yash and you've been tuned in to the hottest, hottest upcoming podcast 545 00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:05,000 coming out of Mississippi. 546 00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:11,120 Shout out to Queen E, shout out to Black Tape. 547 00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:14,080 You know we coming. 548 00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:15,080 Love y'all. 549 00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:16,080 Stay safe out there. 550 00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:23,880 And for my young ladies and my ladies. 551 00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:27,080 Be careful man. 552 00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:47,080 Love don't have no face.