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What it do, what it do, what it do, what it do my people.
How your day been today?
Mine been kinda like trying to steal a loaf of bread from Walmart, I almost got caught.
Still got the baloney but left the god damn bread.
Ain't that a sign?
But on today's man, I watched a video of a young lady getting beat today, like seriously
beaten by her boyfriend.
And it made me want to touch this topic today, how far you would go for the extremes of
love or to be loved?
How far would you go?
Would you go over the edge?
Would you go over the deep end?
Like tell me, how far would you go?
Some people don't know how far it takes or how far it's supposed to go.
They hurt their own self in ways that they don't even know and it's crazy.
How you rather hurt yourself and hurt the person that you love at that, just for love?
No baby, how far would you go?
How far is the limit?
Do you have a limit on love?
Do some people enjoy it when their spouse put their hands on them?
Some people feel love that way.
I don't clarify that it's love, you know?
But we all done did some shit in our life now.
Don't get me wrong.
We all done did some shit in our life.
Yeah, it can't be the perfect squeaky clean nigga over here.
No, I done put my hands on females before.
But I had to learn from that shit, man.
There's a lot of bad shit that comes behind that shit.
I never beat a female to the point where she had to go to the hospital or she would bruise.
Like I'd slap her or choke her.
Then I got them tears or some shit like that, you know what I'm saying?
But as I got older, I had to realize I wasn't having my peace than sitting here resting
in peace or doing time behind bars.
You know what I'm saying?
A lot of us don't see that.
We deal with problems that we shouldn't deal with.
But today it took it further because I watched the video of this young lady literally getting
beat bloody.
Literally getting shot, ran over by her man.
Like it don't even take all that.
Chris Brown didn't do all that, bro.
Come on, man.
Chris Brown didn't do all that.
If it take for you to threaten your spouse with violence, y'all shouldn't be together,
man.
Like me and my spouse, we barely argue.
We jokesters.
We have more fun than we argue.
We value our peace, our freedom.
Like you would never catch me trying to beat up on her, slap her, anything.
If I do slap her, I just like to hear her jaws go, that's it.
Us in the net, we just playing.
We can be in love, but let's not be in love to the point where you got to kill me or I
got to kill you.
You see what I'm saying, people?
It's a difference when it come down to that.
It's a big difference.
Because you taking away somebody's mother, somebody's daughter, somebody's sister, but
you going to have kids yourself.
You probably got kids yourself.
Why would you want to do that to a female?
Why?
Why do you like, I had to figure that shit out when I was younger.
I told you, I had my time.
But I realized, don't come sit here.
Don't sit here.
Don't make a big deal out of something that would never, never be.
I should put this recommended for anybody else.
I'm going to say that.
Why?
I had a homeboy.
I stayed in Chapparidge with them.
I know them.
Every time I see them, I say, what's up B?
They knew me as Smiley back then.
The hardest thing for me to accept was seeing a dude that I used to see smiling, having
fun with the kids all the time, commit suicide over love.
Love is a very powerful action, man.
It speak Hindus of fucking words.
It speak a bivoulious words.
Yes, I said it.
I don't know how to say it, but I just tried to say it.
I said it, damn it.
But it speaks life.
It speaks form.
It's an action.
It's not something that you say.
It's an action.
Love can have many reactions, man.
You can meet the perfect person.
The perfect person can be the perfect stranger to you, man.
It can kill you.
It can harm you.
It can take the most precious things away from you.
Do you hear me, people?
We look at shit and we play with it.
You love a person, you can love a human being so much, and that human being can sit here
and tell you two or three things.
I don't want you no more.
I'm done with you.
Or they walk out completely on you.
Some men can't take this shit, so they turn into little bitches.
Want to fight, want to argue, want to beat the girl to the point where she don't want
to go outside and she can't go nowhere now.
So now you don't support fear until you don't want it.
Nigga, you can't go out there and strike fear until the nigga's on the corner or in the
block or in the city.
So why the fuck is you trying to strike fear into a female?
You can't make a female bow down to you.
You can't make a female give in to you.
She scared now.
That's not the type of love that you want.
You don't want that scary love.
You don't want none of that, people.
The hardest thing for a person to do in life is sit here and accept the part that somebody
don't want them no more.
That's for a man, y'all.
Not a female.
That's for a male.
Fucking male.
You can't take the repercussions in the actions.
Why is that?
You did everything else.
Why you can't take the repercussions in the actions?
And the fucked up thing is the worst kind of woman is a woman that's a scared woman
that's turned into a stand up for herself woman.
Because she's tired.
She's fed up.
She already put it in her mind.
She want to kill you.
I'm tired of this shit that was in her head.
That's the hardest thing for a man when he fed up.
Oh, there's some women out there that a dog abuse a nigga like a motherfucker.
Don't get it wrong.
I ain't just putting this all on the females.
It's some...
I mean, all on the niggas.
It's some females out there that will dog whoop a nigga and beat the shit out of a nigga,
make his whole self esteem just like a fucking nigga would do a female and fuck over them.
Nah.
Nah, pleb.
You gotta be careful who you choose or who you pick, man.
That's basically the corner story to this story.
I don't care what you say.
Be careful who you choose.
Because you can lay down...
You don't know who you laying down with.
You don't know who you fucking with.
Because guess what?
At the end of the day, show him...
Show him something that he ain't never seen before and watch him snap out.
You done gave him love.
You done fed...
Women, you can't give your all like that.
Because you don't know what type of person you dealing with.
And men, it's the same way for you.
You can't give your all when you don't know who you dealing with.
But you wanna be that person to give your all.
Hmm.
Why is that?
Why is that, young Josh?
Young Josh?
Because some of us is emotionally scarred because we didn't have love when we was kids.
We think we wasn't loved when we were kids.
Nah, that ain't it, bruh.
So you go out there and you look for that love.
No.
Hell no.
That's crazy.
Why would you do something like that?
Yo love, if you didn't get love when you was younger, the love that you out there looking
for is the wrong type of love.
Understand me and look where I'm coming from at this.
A lot of us want love as kids when we the right way.
So we look for others to love us the right way.
Some of us are wonderers.
That means as kids we would love the right way when we wanted to see the outcomes of
different type of loves.
That's crazy, I ain't it.
We believe in ourselves that we are better than what we know ourselves as of a person
right now.
Nah.
You come from within man.
You come from the trials, the tribulations, the pains, the losses.
It comes from everything.
I'm talking to my females, please man domestic violence is not love man.
He ain't gonna do it again.
He's rapping your ass every day like a beanbag.
Like a switch going off on a pistol.
He's rapping the shit at you.
He floor mayweathering your ass.
He got damn Ryan Garcia your ass.
You Haney, you Ryan, down goes Frazier.
He out leads your ass.
No stop that man.
Have a mentality ass.
Don't fight back because you gonna waste your energy.
You gonna waste a whole bunch of energy trying to fight back.
When you first see them signs, look for signs first.
When you see signs and you see that that person is not good, not righteous, leave that person
alone man.
But that's the fucked up thing because as women, the good guys are not fun.
The bad guys are more fun.
So you go out with the bad guys and the bad guys always had that pizzazz about them.
He got a bad boy type of energy that I want to get away type of energy.
I tell y'all I used to be one of them.
I know.
I stopped at the age of 25 man like 24, 25.
That shit wasn't cool to me.
You want me to hit you.
No, I'm not going through that.
It's placeable for everything that goes on in this world man.
Don't fight who you are.
Don't fight the outcome.
The outcome is bigger than anything.
The outcome is what we need.
That's the outcome.
We don't need an outcome that's going to hurt us.
We don't need an outcome that can make us fear.
We need an outcome as a solution as I want my life.
I don't want to go down a road where I'm going to be damaged, emotionally scarred, can't
trust people, scared to trust your spouse, scared to be in a way that every day we think
about what's happened in the past.
You don't want to be that person.
This outcome is to that shit.
Y'all think I'm bullshitting.
True story.
True fucking story here.
During my time with me getting myself together, like I told y'all, I was going through something
mentally so I had to start from ground zero.
So I moved into an abandoned hotel.
I told y'all in season one, if you go back and look, I stayed with Number Addicts.
It showed me deeper than what it was, but it was a hotel connected to this hotel.
So y'all, I'm talking about this is the dead ass truth, like dead ass truth.
I literally one day, we all chilling.
I wake up, I go outside.
I ain't going to say his name.
I'm not going to put nobody's names out there like that because that's not me.
But he was a cool dude.
We always chop it up.
We always used to compete in haircuts.
Who can cut the hair the most?
Boom.
You still had to rely on your talents.
You can't never look down when you got to look good, bro.
Just know that shit.
One day he come running up, hey, hey, hey, you seen my girl?
I say, no, I ain't seen her.
He's like, all right, all right, I believe you, I believe you.
So he walk off, he looking for her, he asking everybody.
So a couple hours later, he saying, man, I'm going to kill the bitch when I see her.
I'm going to kill the bitch.
I'm like, oh man, oh man, here you go.
He was already on the run for something in Alabama.
So he was working at the hotel that I stayed beside.
He looked for her all day.
So he left, pulled off.
You know, it's Friday, he going to cast his cheek or whatever.
She come back.
That's where he at, got her changed clothes.
She hollering at.
I said, hey bro, whatever you do, think smart and be safe with what you do.
Okay, friend.
Boom, holla at.
Man, the next morning I wake up, my homeboy saying, he called her, he called her, he called
her in the room over there with old boy.
I'm like, what the fuck?
So all day he got the woman in the room.
He beating the shit out of her.
I'm talking about with a hammer, everything.
So the neighbors hear some and call the police.
He outside talking mad shit, smoking a cigarette, police pulled up.
We tell him, hey man, calm down, police right there.
Hey, if I was you, go somewhere else.
Just go over there where I'm at.
He hell not going to go back up in there and whoop this bitch some more.
I say, man, bro, it got to the point where he would talk to the police at first.
They were like, let me see you.
They all go up inside.
She bloodied in the motherfucker.
Hammer bruises everywhere from the forehead to the feet, bro.
That type of day I called a partner, but that type of day I wanted to whoop his ass because
that's a woman, bro.
She is a natural, natural.
She nurtures just like your mama nurtures.
She is a natural.
You do not touch the naturals.
Man, the ambulance had to bring a scripture to come get this woman at the hotel, y'all.
I never in my life seen some shit like that a day in my life.
It takes me back because it took me back to that day, my sister, my second oldest sister
got a dent in her forehead when her dude literally punched the shit out of her with some brass
knuckles in the forehead.
My sister had a dent in her head and literally had to have surgery, stitches and all.
I was young, but I had so much rage.
I wanted to kill him because you don't understand.
That's not my daddy child.
That's my mother's child.
She nurtured me just as well my mother did, bro.
I wanted to kill him for that.
I saw my daddy.
This why I say you got to break the generational curse because I saw my daddy get drunk and
beat my mama all the time.
I used to try, I remember jumping over there on the bed as a little child and getting slung
all the way over there to my little white little, back then you had them white little
kid beds, little real little, I mean middle little beds.
It's boom, throwing my ass off.
I realized I couldn't do nothing.
When you realize that you can't do nothing as a child, it's hard, bro.
It is insanely in hard.
I seen the day when my mama said she not finna take it no more.
I seen how my daddy broke down and couldn't be himself no more.
When a woman stand up for herself and you been doing this to her all this time, you
chased her, you chased her to do this and she get the freedom to it.
You not going to do this, you fight back, you get away.
You fighting for her but she not coming back because the repercussions that she had to
face with that.
Is it worth risking your freedom going over the edge about something that's small, you
look at a n***a I'm finna kill a pile.
You got some people family that don't play that shit.
Then how you bringing into a family war?
Nah man, hell nah.
Look at the mentality that you have to have to go through and face your reality, your
past when you have to dig deep and look at yourself slapping this girl.
Whoopin' E women.
Only women that going to want you is a woman that got low self esteem that don't care.
You got some women that don't give a fuck about being knocked the fuck out.
I love him, he loves me.
You call that love?
That ain't love.
But you see as kids we take that and we evolve with it.
You got some women that watch their mommas take that shit so they sit there and take
that shit.
You got some men that saw their daddy did that shit and now they doing that shit.
How you going to stop the generational curse?
Now your son watching you whoop his momma so when he grow up he finna go ahead and whoop
his son or his daughter momma.
Nah, hell nah man.
You gots to have more wisdom as a human being.
You gots to love yourself.
Do you hear me?
Love your fucking self before you can try to sit here and fight for love.
I want to prove my love.
You going to prove it by him putting your ass in the box?
You going to prove it by him taking your eye out?
You going to prove it by getting some more denture put back in your goddamn mouth?
Nah man.
See like I said I love everybody in the world period.
I'm built on love.
And if I didn't love people, especially the females I wouldn't be telling you this.
And man I wouldn't be telling you to stop man.
It's not worth it.
Y'all ain't going out there whooping goddamn black on the street.
Y'all ain't going out there whooping TJ new.
Y'all ain't going out there whooping Pee Pee pain and all them niggas.
No.
But you want to go home and whoop on your girl.
You just going to chase her away.
Make her fall in love with the nigga of her fucking dreams.
And he might not even be the nigga of her dreams.
He might turn around and be the second version of you but worse.
You might try to kill her head, drown her.
Man stop this shit.
You go beyond and back for a nigga that slapping your head into the wall little goddamn night.
Man no.
You are a queen and for the nigga that slapping the motherfucking girl head into the wall.
You a bitch.
You can't call yourself a man, a king, a god.
You a bitch.
You want to call her a bitch but you walking on four legs more than she is.
And women you got to understand a jealous man.
Women you got to understand a low self esteem man.
You got to understand a nigga that ain't never had nothing good before.
You got to understand those types.
If you can't understand those types.
Oh man those niggas is vicious.
You going to get eaten up in the jungle.
Because you don't know nothing.
You good girls that out there trying to get in a relationship with the bad boys leave
that shit alone.
You don't know nothing about their world.
Stay the fuck out their world.
If you was raised up in a good neighborhood follow your credentials and go get you a good
nigga.
You not ready for hood shit.
You not hood man.
If you brought up in the suburbs you are not hood.
If you talking about you went to my grandmama's house your grandmama stay in the hood.
You not in the damn you not from the hood.
You went back home on the weekend.
You went back home on a Sunday.
You was there from Friday to Sunday.
And had to get your ass up.
And you spent some summers over there.
And that's the thing about people.
You pretend to be somebody you not.
So when you get into a relationship with this person.
You talking to God God I don't want this.
Why me?
I don't want to be.
No.
Because you chose something that you knew that wouldn't in your even league.
Not even in your suburban neighborhood forums.
And it's just not emotional.
It's just not emotional.
Physical damage can also.
I mean not physical but.
Bruh like.
How should I put this.
You can go through physical.
You can go through mentally.
Where a person can kill your mental state just by talking down on you.
The power of the tongue is a motherfucker.
You ain't never be shit.
You ain't shit.
Your mama ain't shit.
Bruh come on bruh.
If a person tell you you ain't shit.
There's something wrong with you.
You want to sit there and stay.
Nah.
A motherfucker tell you.
You ain't shit.
But you sit there and want to stay.
Physical and mental abuse is the same.
Because mentally you can't take it when a person talking like that to you.
Nobody can.
Not even a man.
If a nigga out there talking to him bad.
By him in the streets to his face.
He can't take that shit.
He going to be ready to fight kill and everything.
So yeah you have to stop that shit.
And ladies.
If you got a man that's good don't turn him bad.
Do not do.
Nah.
Don't be killers right there.
You want to turn a nigga bad.
You want a bad mouth from him.
You want to do something.
Hit me nigga.
So when he finally.
6 years after y'all done been together.
He finally just knocked your fucking head off.
He done say I'm tired of this shit.
You can't go nowhere man.
You're stupid.
He knocking your head off every motherfucking day man.
Because you want to talk shit.
Stop.
And ladies do.
If you got a good nigga don't stop bullying that man.
Stop making that man feel lesser than what he is.
You putting your hand all in his head.
That finger.
Nah man don't do that.
You killing him emotionally inside.
Not on the outside.
The inside.
The man get destroyed from the inside.
Not the outside women.
Man learn that man.
You will never know who you are.
What you is.
Because you.
You want to.
You want to be the abuser.
The abuser always lose in the end.
Ike Intena showed you that shit man.
Follow your heart.
Not the way he do for me.
The sex.
The money.
Nah.
Anytime a nigga come with those three things you fucked up.
He feel like he can ring you.
He feel like he own you then.
Nah.
Nobody should never feel owned bro.
Unless you in a marriage.
You own each other.
Paperwork own each other.
And you still don't own that person cause God own both of y'all.
So stop trying to lead yourself into something that can literally tear you apart.
Rip you to shreds.
Take you and break you down into itty bitty pieces.
Cause you can't.
It's hard to put yourself back up out the itty bitty pieces bro.
You can half way put yourself up but you ain't never fully put yourself back together.
We get the signs ladies especially cause it goes on with you everyday.
Women lose their life everyday to domestic violence.
Everyday a woman is being murdered.
Beaten by domestic violence.
If you see someone getting domestic violence bro even if it's not your business just call
the police and keep going man.
They don't ask for savior but hey somebody do need savior out there.
So stop.
And man stop putting your hands on these females.
Cause if you not putting your hands on the niggas in the street stop putting your hands
on the females.
Stop trying to be the tough guy.
Love that woman.
Care for that woman.
Nurture that woman.
Because your momma is a nuturer.
She taught you how to nurture.
Don't sit here and try to be that I'm Tyrone.
I beat yo ass.
Nigga Tyrone still got his ass beat.
Remember that.
So stop playing.
Nobody wants to be in a graveyard.
Nobody wants to be in a prison.
If you know you can't be with each other just separate.
Go your separate ways.
If it's not going to work just go your separate ways.
If you got to put your hands on the person or you got to feel like that person is going
to put their hands on you leave people.
Because it's not worth the risk.
It's not.
And I had to make this tonight.
Because men and young men out there you have to understand.
A woman is a nuturer.
She nurtures the male.
She comforts the male like the mothers do to you.
She is your friend just like your sisters and your friends in the street are.
Your cousins as a female and nieces.
Think about them when you want to put your hands on the female.
Think about the nurturers and think about that you harm in a nutural.
Think about the repercussions of harm in a nutural that God provided to have his to bring
seeds for you.
Think about that man.
Because at the end of the day is you going to risk it all for love.
Ladies men are you going to risk it all over jealousy, self esteem issues.
And women are you going to risk it all over because you have emotionally ties from the
past.
I told you on season 1 go heal first before you date anyone.
Love yourself before you harm somebody else.
This your boy King Yash and you've been tuned in to the hottest, hottest upcoming podcast
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Love y'all.
Stay safe out there.
And for my young ladies and my ladies.
Be careful man.
Love don't have no face.