This is Arlen.
Arlen.
Starrin' King Josh.
And I'm Queen Lee.
What it do people? This your boy King Josh.
And I'm Queen Lee.
And you tuned in to another episode of Arlen.
Arlen.
What it do people? What it do? Long time no see.
Man, we miss y'all, man.
We apologize for the long wait.
Technical difficulties. I broke the microphone the other night.
And had to go out there and get two more microphones.
And then on top of that, the microphones did not fit the old box.
So we had to go back and get a whole new audio box.
But we is back tonight people.
Yeah, we back.
And we back better than ever.
Closing out the first season and these next couple episodes.
Man, we just want to thank y'all for the love and support.
You know, season two is going to be better than ever.
I can tell y'all that.
Thank y'all so much for staying tuned in to us.
And subscribing and downloads.
We really appreciate it.
If it weren't for y'all, man, we just want to thank y'all.
But on today's episode, man, you know we got to kill it.
Because these the last coming final episodes of season one.
But it's called Just Overbroke Today.
Jobs.
But it's dealing with a lot of stuff. Is it money over matter?
Do it matter who runs the household?
And the most important thing is, is you just over broke.
So sit back, relax, man.
And get out from the yard and kick it with your boy and your girl, man.
So let's get it.
What it do, man? Is you just over broke?
I don't say that.
Do you know what just over broke me?
Having a child. Barely making it.
Barely making it, baby.
And that's exactly about it for me. Barely making it, but I'm still here.
A lot of people don't understand that.
Like, man, we do a lot trying to make it, to try to live.
But man, it's tough out here on us, man.
It's kind of hard trying to live off a part-time paycheck and barely making the hours.
And you got bills on top of bills on top of bills.
I get a bill called my name in the morning.
Shit. Do you got my money?
I got a text message that asks me, do you still got this?
Boy, when the bill collectors call, they call.
I'm telling you, they don't play no games at all.
I had to email a baby with a mother-fucker threatening to cancel my account because I'm a past dude on a payment.
They dead-ass serious about this shit.
Like, these folks dead serious about cutting your ass off.
Like, they ain't trying to tell you, no, don't cut it off.
We're going to cut you off today, not tomorrow, but today.
They don't care because they got many more other people, so they ain't losing no money either way.
I got to give you two round of applause on that one.
Because you ain't boy-shitting on that one.
It's true.
I remember one year when I was down on health insurance and I had an outstanding bill with a high-spill.
You know what I told them?
As long as I owe you, you'll never go broke.
I ain't going to lie. I was Bill Cosby when they called me.
So when I saw the number pop up on the call ID, I went and put up my sweater on.
And when I got some jello pulling out the goddamn refrigerator, so when they called, I said, hello.
They said, yeah, is such a stuff?
I said, no, this is Bill.
Bill Cosby.
The roofie man and hung up the phone.
I was pissed off at that because you don't hang up on me, so I had to call back.
You know me. I had to get the last one.
Star 69, get the last word.
Oh yeah, I'm still, I'm still got a house phone.
Y'all people boy-shitting.
I got a call ID and everything, so when you call my house and you think it's a cell phone.
Okay.
You hear that old, very old ring tone in the background.
Yeah, that's the only thing you're going to hear.
It sound like one of the rotary phone ring tones.
Man, but you know what though?
Like, there's a lot of people that's out here trying to get it.
So how about you?
Are you just over?
White people, I'm doing bad.
Black people, hell yeah.
Baby talk, give me some.
I'm trying to tell you, I'm not playing with y'all.
Y'all said, I'm like, that's in my pockets.
And then the fucked up thing is bill week is the first two weeks of the month.
And your last check is going right back to your bills.
No spending.
Shit, who, but black folk.
We still find a way to spend it on something.
Something get cut out.
If it be a kid cell phone, if it be, nobody ain't getting no shoes.
Some groceries.
Your cell phone.
Some groceries finna come up and shout.
Can't get that.
Somebody's finna get an extra pack of baloney.
But nah, man, like just over broke, it's like the hardest thing for us.
We try and try and try so hard, man, but it be killing us not to just be ourselves.
We really be trying to get it.
We really want it.
But shit, it's the stressful part of letting the evil ones come in and break your day up when you know you're trying to get it.
You don't even want to be, you finna, you finna pull a double.
You don't even want to pull a double no more.
Amen.
Shout out.
You ever been put in a situation where you had to pull a double and then when that situation occurred, you don't even want to do it no more, but you end up having to finish it up?
Hell yeah, a couple times.
Shit, it was the time that everybody left and I'm on the building with C-Shift.
I don't even know what the hell going on.
I got to, as a matter of fact, take that back.
I was trying to get a battery off, because they said everything was going to get worse by the night.
Man, I turned around and looked back.
I said, fuck no.
Then the woman said, you're playing for 16 hours.
You said you're staying for another 16.
I said, no, the hell I wasn't.
I ended up doing three shifts, because I came in on A-Shift, B-Shift, and went home at 4 o'clock in the morning at C-Shift.
Then I had to be right back in at 2 o'clock that next day.
Boy, I was so hot, but I knew I was like, fuck it, that chick right there is going to be lovely.
I was down in the pool.
I was there from 10.30 that morning, 10.30 to 4, by 4.14, 4.20, something the next morning.
I was down there almost, I was down there for like 18 hours.
See, with me, I did a whole 14-hour shift.
I did my shift, plus the person who was supposed to come in over a night shift.
I did the morning shift.
I didn't go home until the next afternoon, and then had to come back and do night shift later on that day.
That's the crazy thing about it, man, when you really just got to get out there and grind, man.
You know, like, you think about the holiday season, you think about going back to school,
you think about the summertime when you're trying to pack up and move, then you got July 4th right around the corner.
Why do people like to move around that time anyway?
I mean, you got to look at it.
I'd say the best time to move is the summertime.
Because when you move in the summertime, your kids out of school,
you ain't got to worry about going to China, we register them in schools and all that other shit.
That's just like saying, that's just like the quote, just being over-broke.
Like, that's some shit right there.
You're going to spend money, and then this school might have different uniforms,
so you got to go spend money on the uniforms, you got to get them some new shoes.
School supplies?
School supplies, and you got to get it.
Girls, you got to go pay to get their hair done, you got boys, you got to pay to get their hair cut.
All right, goddamn done.
Braided, dreaded, you know what I'm saying, it's just too much money.
Then you got to think about yourself.
After you get the kids in school, you got to find a job if you ain't already got one,
or you ain't moving.
Then on top of that, I mean, you got the job, you got a job,
but on top of that, it's the, like, I got to go get this.
Now you got to go get furniture, you got to put food in the house, you know what I'm saying?
You got to find what day cares around, they can come, you know what I'm saying?
They got to pick up and drop off stuff.
You know what I'm saying?
You got to get ready to come out more money than what you finna come out of when you not in school.
When you out of school, you ain't got to worry about that.
You know, kids home for the summer, basically, you ain't got to worry about food.
You already know, you already know, boom, that's when you got to worry.
You probably, funnily wise, you are-
If I say most parents before the kids get out of school,
I say by the beginning of June, till that last day of school,
they make sure they fully stocked for the summer.
That's what my momma used to do.
My momma and sister used to go to Sam's.
I'm talking about rack up on candy.
I'm talking about, for one of y'all already know, snacks, all type of snacks.
Chips, Laffy Taffy, all type of shit.
Like, they-
Out of here, it's coming to y'all, sours, plaques, scrawls, all that shit they rack up on.
Juices, them juices that you peel open, them jujube juices.
Yeah, yeah, like, bruh, like, people don't understand.
And then she would get the white styrofoam cups for the icebergs.
So, you know, and then we did frozen iceberg popsicles.
So, it was crazy.
She would get us what type of video game the boys want for the summer.
Go get them football, mortar combat, and get basketball.
Boom, we got our games.
And grab the auto.
Boom, we got our games for the summer.
So, y'all just, dude, y'all have to wait now.
As soon as school get out, I'm talking about that-
Boom, I'm talking about that weekend, we already know what's coming Monday.
Mama finna come in the closet, she finna break out shit, and she finna get everybody that-
She get your toilets, for one.
She finna get everybody- you finna get your toilets.
You finna get your, uh, yeah, your toilets.
You finna get your- after you get your toilets, you finna get your clothes, summer clothes.
After you get your summer clothes, you fold your clothes up and put them in the drawer, you come back.
Then you get your reading books, put your reading books up.
And then you come back, and then then, you got your- then then, you got Monday snack bags, Tuesday snack bags, Wednesday snack bags.
But you know how the days finna roll, though.
But she'll give you Sunday and Monday snack bags because- together because, hey, you know what I'm saying?
And then, boom, the girls, the fingernail polish, makeup, whatever y'all need for the summer, boom.
Boys, game- video games, shoes, clothes, y'all good for the summer.
I don't think we have to worry- I don't think we worried about for the summer was,
is daddy gonna pay our motherfuckin' farm bills?
We ain't heard from this nigga. You know what I'm saying?
But other than that, it was like, I can say, it was more fun because having my siblings around.
But just after I hit 14, and I just seen my mama really struggling then because shit just started getting,
like, just for one- I seen one- I just seen it then, like, struggling for one child, like, it was hard.
Sorry, people, we under national motherfuckin' tornado warning right now.
And we still gotta get y'all content. So, this is supposed to be a tornado, it's supposed to be a flood.
Bro, we don't know. God finna punish a lot of people, bro, this year.
Yeah, he really is.
You know what I'm saying? Like, last year they told us, like, they told us don't go outside, don't do none of this shit.
But you supposed to go outside. I'm glad I went outside earlier that day because you can feel it that day.
You felt it that day, like, when it was getting ready to come, how the sun and energy felt.
You might have more energy than anything out there, and I ain't even get number three hours of sleep that night.
And counting on yesterday like it was nothing.
I had so much energy, but I was pissed off because I got rained on.
It happens to me every fucking time we out there working.
But now I don't have to go no more because I gave the ass an excuse.
So some days that I don't want to go when it's raining and shit, like, I just know, like, we off or something, it's raining and shit,
and I know I can put more, now I can give my people more content.
I ain't do it. I did it for my, I did it for podcasts.
Season two finna be ridiculous.
We got fashion tips coming. We got breezy breathe moments coming with the fashion tips.
We got a producer, shout out to Ian.
We got Queen East stepping into a big roll around her, big dog.
And then we got Big Brother, Jonah, Joey, Joe. Black tape. Black tape.
Oh man, y'all don't want to miss it. And then we coming with real guests this time, people.
Real guests.
Say y'all please just stay tuned because y'all gonna have a ball on season two.
Man, when I say season two, we, it's video moments coming. We get to show y'all bloopers.
We get to show y'all how much we fuck up, how much we laugh.
Like, it's hard to, we start on this shit early, the people don't understand.
How much fun we be having?
It's fun though. It's all, it's all family. It's all in.
All in, all family. People caption.
And y'all family. So, like I say, we can, every page on social media from, she doing the Snapchat pages.
She gonna do our Snapchat page. She gonna do our Twitter page.
I'm gonna handle the Facebook and Instagram.
And she gonna do the TikTok pages because we gonna bring y'all little TikTok moments of us fucking up our bloopers.
Funniest moments, you know.
And I hope season three we get bigger and try to get a building, you know, a little place where we can, you know.
Expand.
Expand, you know. Have a bigger, have a bigger, you know.
Just start off small and just increase and have a bigger platform.
Bigger entertainment.
And that brings you to money over metal.
What does it mean to you?
Is it about the money or is it about what matters?
With that money.
I'm gonna sit here and spend my money on $250 shoes knowing I can sit here and go get four pair of shoes for $100.
Go get me a four pair of outfits for, she eight pair of outfits for $100.
And she gonna have me gas money at the end of the day for the week.
You know what I'm saying?
Like, it's about putting your mind, it's really putting your, it's really putting your matters over your money.
What matters over your money?
Because that one outfit for that week ain't gonna last like them four outfits is.
You spend $150 on that outfit just to go to the club for one night.
When that same $150 could have been used towards your rent, light bill, water bill, gas bill, you know, maybe even a hairstyle.
Just simple shit.
Because you didn't need that outfit.
You got a bunch of other clothes in the back of your closet.
You have a million clothes in the back of your closet and you wear them only once.
That's just stupid as hell.
I beg.
That shows you what your priority is like.
Because it's filled with me, I'ma, and I'ma, because I ain't, because this bush was, y'all had me hot right there.
I told you we done upgraded people.
Yeah. Big upgrade.
Big upgrade.
But yeah, for those who like to just splurge on stuff like that, do better with your money, your time.
Just period.
You never know what somebody else is going through the same, they might be living just like you, but differently.
You might see the same thing that you got for $175.
They wouldn't have got that same thing for $25.
It's not the fact that you can call me cheap for doing that.
It's the principle about it.
I don't give a fuck.
It's the woman make the clothes and the man make the clothes.
We can sit here, bro, I shop on Tmoo.
Half of the shit I got on from Tmoo, y'all niggas think I'm up here buying thousand dollar shit.
Motherfucker tell me the other day, tomorrow I said, Dine, you got more than a cup, Dine, cuz, you got money.
I see the pictures you be taking.
You fresh as a weekend.
Nigga, them off $8, $7, $12 pair of pants.
Well, I bought me a whole outfit for $8.
$8 shirts.
I bought me a pair of shoes for $5.
Man, I thought you was a gang, bro.
It's about knowing money and what matters with this money.
Your kid...
Half the time, I don't even shop online for my stuff.
I go straight to the 5 and below or SimpliTeen where everything is $10 and below.
And I guarantee if I go to SimpliTeen with $100, I'm coming out of there with at least six outfits.
Not even including tacks.
It come with like six outfits plus like three pair of shoes.
Not even including tacks.
And that's enough clothes to last me for the next season.
I'm trying to tell you, man, cuz people don't understand, like, you gotta have this shit, bro.
Like, you don't have to have it.
I've never been that materialistic person.
I don't care what it is.
All I care is that it's my preference.
I'll be a happy gold camper if I go to a thrift store and find something that I like.
See, that's the whole point.
I ain't in with that.
I'm in the area where motherfucker was giving hand-me-downs.
Like, my brother's sister, cousins, they boyfriends giving me shits.
I was in that area.
They were giving me jubol from the 90s and the 2000s.
How you think I feel wearing some of my brother's old clothes growing up?
I wore my daddy's fucking prom suit to my motherfucking middle school prom, nigga.
And he went to prom in the fucking...
Don't get me started.
In the fucking...
Oh, that's a traditional tradition.
...in the fucking...in the 60s.
That's an early generation.
I wore his shit in the 20s, 60s, and the 2000s, nigga.
I had that shit fly.
I don't think I didn't put on with the fucking shoes.
The bitch had heels on them.
Like, you had heels on the bottom, bitch.
Like the disco?
Like disco shoes.
They were disco shoes.
I was back in the disco area.
Man, that man had me like this.
That's how I felt.
With the butterfly collar?
Oh, wait.
Okay.
Bell bottles with the big block head shoes.
I hit it on the head.
Hit it on the hammer, goddammit.
Like, people don't understand.
Nigga, it got to the point where nigga...
I was about to be like goddam...
Alisa D. Carapin Queen!
I was about to wear some Billy Ocean drawers to school.
My daddy had Speedos.
Like I said, where he from, that shit ain't...
Speedos ain't shit, nigga.
You can walk around in the streets in Speedos.
But you do that nowadays.
No, you can do it nowadays.
Motherfuckers ain't gonna fuck with you.
No, I'm talking about nowadays in America.
You do it up here, period, motherfuckers.
Everybody, they daddy finna call.
They call to talk about your head.
Oh, damn.
That's why I say, man, it got to be metal.
What matters the most, money came back.
I'm gonna put it like that.
It's the small things that matter to you.
And I ain't even small thing.
It's the things that you...
It's the thing that you can't see.
But then when you look back on it, you see it.
And you be like,
ain't no motherfucking way I overlooked that bullshit.
That's what I'm calling like the overlooked part.
Sometimes you have to overlook your demeanor.
Overlook your self-esteem, your ego.
Your ego only gonna...
And then when you look back on it,
you gonna be like, yeah, I'm glad I chose the path that I chose.
It ain't even the path you chose.
It just, when you look back on it, you gonna be like...
Because you got some people that look back on it
and be like, damn, back then I was spending goddamn $900 on clothes.
Just in a day.
You got some people that were like that.
When I had my little moment, my little run,
there were times where I'd sit here and goddamn,
I'd go to Amazon and spend $500, $600 on clothes.
I'm talking about I damn got bags and bags,
Amazon boxes coming to the door.
My mama told me, what I got?
I said, huh, I give her some money, she on Amazon.
My mama knew, I told her one thing,
I knew my mama had this relationship, we knew we wanted.
And there ain't no point of sitting here going to buy it for each other.
It ain't the feeling of I'm going to get it myself.
It was the matter over the money part that mattered to us.
When you sit here and you think about some shit,
think about your lifetime,
you just think about some of your mama moments.
You'll overlook that moment where,
damn, we had to help your ass up, woman.
I got tired that day.
You'll overlook that part.
But people will think like, damn, it's the money part.
And I didn't know what the money part was.
The happiness part right there.
It's something that money can't buy.
People don't understand.
Money can't buy happiness.
Even the most powerful people in this world got money.
And they are unhappy.
Sad, niggas, look sad as fuck.
They just walking around with millions.
Take my boss man for once.
No offense.
He a fun guy, cool, laid back, understanding guy.
Hey, bro, you want me to tell you what you can't take away from me?
It's seeing my kids going to their sports events.
You know what I'm saying?
When they get to that point where they feel good,
they got damn, they get ready to make their leap into a bigger sport.
High school is the most funnest time to go watch your kid play sports.
Basketball games, football games, baseball games, track.
Man, bro, working all the time, bro.
Trying to make that money.
And you missing out on the best moments of life.
And guess what?
You missing out on the best moments and you getting fucked over at the same time
because you getting rained on.
Shit, fucking grass ain't coming on time.
Crazy shit, you trying to put other shit in, you can't put nothing in front of money.
God is not, God say I ain't even give you money.
I didn't make this money.
So I'm trying to stop what you doing.
I can stop your money for the day and you can take your ass home
and get what motherfucker got to do.
Stop, like this.
Come on, y'all.
Put a hoe on it.
That's the crazy thing about it.
That's what you going to do.
A lot of people be sitting here.
In suspense.
Like for what?
You can't, baby.
You can't.
You can't do it like that.
I'm sitting here, tell my son, because shit ain't going your way.
Fuck that shit up.
You get mad because your car note is fucked up.
So I don't think you hear this.
That's what you call a bad day.
Tell my son, when the clouds gone, the clouds been over, bro.
It ain't no such thing as a cloud ahead, bro.
You want to put clouds in your head because they tell you it's clouds in the sky.
Money is more than anything, bro.
I give up money.
Money to me don't matter.
This is what I'm saying.
In all my relationships, all my relationships, I done sat here.
I done gave money.
And I realized that's the only thing people wanted me to do.
I'm in a relationship now, while it's a motherfucker that's, hey, huh, spoil yourself.
What the fuck?
I ain't know nothing about this shit.
What the fuck is this?
That's for you.
Instead of saying you going to pay me back if I give it to you, we in a relationship.
This a thing.
This what I'm paying you back for.
They think money matters.
Just because everybody in their family, you think they...
I don't give a fuck if you mad to a white man.
You not happy.
You mad to that white man because you need a stack.
You got the money.
Nah, I want the money.
It was stability.
That if he ever happen come something happen to him, it goes to you.
And he go something that you can have and lean back on.
A person, I look at this and this is real time, a person was trying to outdo their entire family.
They wanted the best kids.
They wanted the best looking kids.
They wanted the best life.
They didn't want nobody to flourish but them.
Nobody can be above them.
You sit there, you tell your brother business, tell what he doing to his wife, to his wife.
You sit there, nah, let's get more people.
You in everybody business because you unhappy with yours at home.
Because guess what, you always want to spend money but he got to control that money.
See, he got his 40 acres in the mill.
You don't have your 40 acres in the mill.
You got the 40 acres in the mill because of him.
And even if something happen to him, that land, I don't let shit go to his brothers and sisters because that's a part of the code.
That's a part of inside there, you know, knowing me, I got a home girl.
I ain't gonna lie, anything I need to know about a person, a mother fucker can tell me, bro.
Like of their expenses, of life savings and how that shit go.
Like, bro, she can tell me everything, bro.
Like, she told me some shit like this.
And you think I'm bullshitting.
She said, Josh, if I tell you, your family put all their money because you know how much money they got.
I said, no.
She said, y'all will be 200 million away from a billion dollars.
I said, why the fuck the money going?
Because I don't got shit.
What she say?
They got their money doubling up in a wealth.
So when somebody insurance, they learn from the white people.
I ain't talking about the white people like them.
I'm talking about what's their people name that own the world, them big people.
Major corporations and shit that own the whole world.
Rothschilds and shit like that.
Taking out what they do, this is what they do.
Whoever die, they have insurance policy.
You get two insurance policies on you.
One for your family and one for your wife and kids and one for your family.
The one for your family, after you die, is the most highest one.
So they going to double up and go right back into the family account.
Now to be a part of my family, I told you, is money over matter regardless.
To be a part of my family, you have to, it's like a sacrifice.
You sacrificing your self-esteem level, your humanity, who you are to be pushed around by people
who can't feel like they can cut you off at any time, any point, any moment.
Think about it.
Why you think my so-called brother does me the way he do?
And I ain't talking about Mr. Bennett.
I'm not talking about my brother Bennett.
Why you think a person compromises when he get around?
Talk so much shit about it.
We want to get around, what he do?
Compromise.
People never catch me fucking compromising people.
They don't like me.
Nobody do.
Nobody.
You want to follow to their footsteps like they want you to so they can control you.
I'm too sleep in the game for this shit.
They know this shit.
One thing about it, who my daddy is, you can't take the power away from me.
Who his daddy is and who his daddy is and who his daddy upstairs is and who father that gave,
the first person that gave what's life into manhood, who our original father upstairs.
You can't fucking touch me.
You can talk to all that shit, but you won't fucking touch me because you know who I am.
You know what I represent.
You know I don't give a fuck about this shit over here, but you know I can get somebody over here.
Real quick.
So it don't matter about you talking to them.
What the fuck?
Talking about this little shit here?
Y'all ain't doing shit here, nigga.
Y'all armies don't even be, y'all ain't even packing, what's 50 niggas compared to a whole fucking city.
And then not the ones, we just talking about inner city limits.
We talking about the ones you gotta walk in the woods for.
The voodoo people, voodoo nation, hoodoo nation, zombie land, skull island, skull nation.
Come on, man.
When you have other people in a whole fucking little part again that fucks with you well,
and know like we gonna leave this person alone, because he just two different kinds, two different breeds.
He brought a breed from where he stayed to here, and he already a breed from here,
and he mixed it up there with that breed, and he brought back a breed that ain't even been seen before.
You think I walk with him?
I shut up and walk off because I know my mouth.
I don't wanna say nothing because I know what I'm gonna do to you if you say something smart, big.
I'm gonna wrap your ass in the face.
You think, well, I don't have to worry about niggas over there talking about me behind my back.
You hear niggas talking about me behind my back, I guess believe he done it over with.
Motherfuckers ain't feelin' little motherfuckers talk about me back over there.
They just like Nate.
Nate so loyal.
I love my brothers Nate to the point where he so loyal, he just cheap.
But that's one brother I never had talk about me behind my back, period.
Nate gonna help us before he destroys.
That's why I keep Nate close.
Him and Justin, Justin ain't even my brother but like my brother.
But if you see if it's only one brother that I'm really close to, it's Nate.
It's Nate, or it's a couple of them.
They just don't come around.
My brothers are just like me, we high.
It's money. Stack your money, mind over matter.
Boom. Five years from now after you come back, been on your feet, when your girl look and be like,
where you get all that goddamn money from?
You be like, man, shut the fuck up and let's vibe bitch.
That's it. That's how it's always been our family code.
The first five years after you done been through a wealth drive, bro, stack your money for the first five years.
Don't let your left hand know what your right hand doing.
That's from your girl to your motherfucking kids to nobody.
You gonna look broke, feel broke all the time.
You can go get money but you don't wanna touch that money
because you know in the next five years you looking like, boy, I'm gonna bow on these bitches.
Me and Bape, boy, we friend them.
Ooh, boy, they, ooh.
Motherfuckers don't even see that.
Motherfuckers see all that money and be like, boy, what you been doing?
Who you rob?
I ain't rob nobody.
I just stack my money.
And I'm gonna still be shopping cheap when I get it.
I'm gonna just buy them bundles.
Mind over matter.
And the last topic, we gonna hit on people because I took up a little bit too much of time
because I'm happy that I'm back, baby.
Hell, I gotta get a clap because I'm happy we back.
Dude, it matter who runs the household.
Or my blackhead.
I wouldn't say.
Hell yeah.
Why you say yeah, it matter who run the household?
Hell, if you a couple and y'all been married and it's different
and y'all don't claim like a couple on y'all Texas, it matters.
It matters.
Why does?
It matters who bring home the bacon because the one with the bacon carries the most.
Get the carry the both of the kids.
Carry the three kids.
Now, if she right there behind you, that's a 50-50 deal.
Y'all gotta split that.
But if she on top, she get the carry the two.
If you on top, you get the carry the two.
But I feel like.
It's always been about a breadwinner in the household.
Let's be for real.
If you know this nigga working at McDonald's and your motherfucking ass working at UMC.
That McDonald's check ain't cutting it, boo boo.
Hold on.
It ain't cutting it.
You gots to go, George.
It ain't cutting it.
Like the white boy George say, it ain't working for you, bud.
You know what that dude told Joey on Full House?
It ain't working for you, Joey.
You got to change it, Joey.
That's just real talk.
But it matters.
You want somebody to least match your motherfucking money.
If you making $50,000 a year, he least got to be in the $25,000, $30,000 range.
He can't be in the $10, $15,000 range.
Now if you just love him and you just want to be happy and you ain't doing it for love,
but get what?
Nine days.
You got to match my motherfucking energy.
You got to match my energy.
So it's all about the breadwinner in the household either.
Bitch, shut up.
I make the money.
You broke ass nigga, shut your ass up.
I make the money.
See, that's when the problem come in and then the relationship wears out.
It's like a competition.
It's more than a competition.
But why should it be a competition?
Because?
Because if everything's supposed to be 50-50, where is there a competition?
You got to ask the Millennials, nah, I'm too high.
Let's get out the illusion.
Yeah, they get rid of it.
But why?
Why are you competing?
What is the point of competing with each other?
Is it going to be competing?
If it's supposed to be 50-50, why should you compete?
You going to compete because, guess what?
Guess what?
What?
You going to compete because this not our age and day.
This shit not us.
It never will be.
That shit want this, no people don't understand, man.
And it's just real talk.
You have to understand that this shit not us.
We don't live for the day.
We not only live for tomorrow.
We living.
We just live in the present moment.
And the present moment ain't into the, ain't into today no more.
Some of us don't understand.
We already done left this earth, bro.
As spiritual people, we done gone.
Now the ones that spiritual just sitting back ain't got what they doing.
Now we just sitting here, hey, watching everybody kill each other off.
The ones in hell going through hell right now.
Now, it's just you done did all this crazy shit to the point where you don't even, it's not you.
You don't feel the same. You recognize that you know it.
You move faster. You move smarter.
You move brilliant. Now you focus on the new path that God sent for you.
But in this day, guess what?
Bitch, I got me a chick. You got a chick.
You got a chick. I got a chick. Let's get a chick.
Let's see, instead of trying to compete for who got the bigger chick, let's get the chick together.
Nah, they getting the chick together.
But let her bag be bigger than his bag be modern day.
She'll sit here and tell that nigga, this how you know this modern day shit.
Real talk.
I got my nigga, my nigga, I ain't got a word.
You crazy.
Oh yeah. Yeah, yeah, I said it. They said it. Yeah.