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So as I shared with the kids, we are starting

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a new series and we are looking at wisdom in

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the biblical tradition, namely three books of

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the Old Testament, Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, and

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Job, all of which come at this question of wisdom

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from unique angles. And so we begin today with

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the book of Proverbs. Will you pray with me?

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As we hear your word, O God, help us to trust

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in you with all our heart and not to rely on

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our own insight. Speak to us, we pray, and make

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straight our paths. Amen. Our second reading

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is from the third chapter of Proverbs. Let us

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listen together for God's word to us. My child,

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do not forget my teaching. But let your heart

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keep my commandments for length of days and years

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of life and abundant welfare they will give you.

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Do not let loyalty and faithfulness forsake you.

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Bind them around your neck. Write them on the

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tablet of your heart. Then you will find favor

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and high regard in the sight of God and of people.

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Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do

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not rely on your own insight. In all your ways

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acknowledge him and he will make straight your

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paths. Do not be wise in your own eyes. Fear

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the Lord and turn away from evil. This is the

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word of the Lord. Thanks be to God. We have a

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lot of walkers in our neighborhood. We have sidewalks

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and broad paths and lots of people are out walking

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all times of year, walking their dogs, walking

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their kids, walking just for the sake of walking.

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And it wasn't that long ago I was driving through

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the neighborhood and I saw a man, middle -aged

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man, walking, probably walking his dog, and he

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was wearing a tactical vest. And I thought this

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was strange. And I tried to figure out why he

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might be wearing that vest, and I couldn't come

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up with anything. Maybe he's a veteran, and he

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is comfortable wearing that when he's going out

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for a walk. I saw another one a little while

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later, another one a little while later, and

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then I started to see people wearing these slim

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-fitting life preservers as they were taking

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a walk. And I started to wonder. If walking in

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my neighborhood had suddenly become so dangerous

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that people needed to wear protection from who

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knows what, drowning while walking? Weeks and

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weeks later, after living with this confusion

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for so long, I came upon an article that was

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weighing the benefits of weighted vests. And

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a light bulb went off. These were not tactical

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vests. These were certainly not life preservers.

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These were weighted vests. And people had learned

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about these, probably online, maybe through social

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media or fitness influencers, and the trend had

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started to catch on, spreading throughout my

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neighborhood. Everyone knew what was happening,

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except, of course, for me. The problem is, obviously,

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that I am not clued in to the latest fitness

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trends. The wise sages of our time dispense wisdom

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in viral snippets and we receive and adopt their

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wisdom one idea at a time, one discipline or

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diet or product at a time, all in our pursuit.

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of a good life, a fulfilling life, a meaningful

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life, a well -lived life. So if you were to sit

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down and read the book of Proverbs from cover

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to cover, you might think that what you are looking

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at is the ancient world's version of Twitter

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or maybe TikTok. What you would find there is

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a compilation of often random and almost always

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brief nuggets of wisdom. And reading from one

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to the next is a little bit like scrolling through

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the wisdom of the internet, 140 characters at

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a time. And there in the book of Proverbs, you'll

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find advice for work and for harvest, for investment

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and companionship, for business dealings and

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for big decisions. And as you read it, you scroll

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and you swipe your way through and you find some

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that don't resonate with you. You set those aside.

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You find some you like and you click like and

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you share it or retweet it or post it or whatever

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it is you're going to do. You'll find some good

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ones in there. Proverbs 18 verse 2, a fool takes

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no pleasure in understanding but only in expressing

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personal opinion. That one might be evergreen.

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Proverbs 19, verse 21, the human mind may devise

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many plans, but it is the purpose of the Lord

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that will be established, something we would

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do well to remember. Chapter 22, verse 2, the

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rich and the poor have this in common, the Lord

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is the maker of them all. Proverbs 16, verse

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31, gray hair is a crown of glory. It is gained

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in a righteous life. We're working on that one

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as a memory verse in the Anderson house right

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now. It is true, the book of Proverbs is scattered,

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sometimes contradictory. It can feel a bit of

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a mess. And this may be how our own quest for

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wisdom feels at times. Our efforts to live well

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are also fragmented. Scattered and inconsistent

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as we pull wisdom and advice and advice from

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this source and that source wherever we can,

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trying out new plans, new programs, embracing

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new ideas and attitudes. And isn't this the nature

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of wisdom? That it's changing all the time? I

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recently read an article in the New York Times

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that was looking at changes over the course of

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a long period of time in the genre of self -help

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books. And the author of this article pointed

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all the way back to 1936 as kind of the beginning

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of this genre. The author Dale Carnegie published

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a book called How to Win Friends and Influence

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People. And in this book, Carnegie argues that

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the key is to always be friendly. even when you

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don't feel like you should be friendly. It's

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to always be positive, even if you're not feeling

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positive. So if you're feeling down, smile. If

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you're feeling sad, whistle or hum a bright,

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happy tune and that this was the key to having

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a positive influence over the people around you.

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So that was the beginning of the genre, but the

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author titled this article Is today's self -help

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teaching everyone to be a jerk? And she points

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to some recent books, books that have been at

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the top of the bestseller list, at least in this

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genre, for weeks and weeks on end. Here's one

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title, The Courage to be Disliked. And another

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title, which I will paraphrase slightly, The

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Subtle Art of Not Caring. The author writes this,

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the self -help genre has determined that the

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answer to the present moment is to be unapologetically

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self -interested and broadly unapologetic. And

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as it often does, social media has taken these

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ideas and sort of distilled them down to their

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essence, to their core, in a phrase that is often

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repeated online among influencers, I guess, and

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that is this. Protect your peace. Protect your

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peace. I'm not sure how that relates to love

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your neighbor, but they'll have to save that

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one for another sermon. Protect your peace. This

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apparently is the prevailing wisdom of the present

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moment. Though I have my doubts about self -help

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books, and I certainly have my doubts about social

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media influencers. The quest for wisdom, our

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effort to live A good life in a complex world

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is not easy or straightforward. And maybe that's

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why the book of Proverbs is all over the place.

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But even though the book of Proverbs is all over

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the place, there are deep currents running beneath

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the fragments on the surface. And one of those

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has to do with this question, where do we begin?

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Where do we start this quest? Where does this

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effort begin? Where does wisdom? begin. Now,

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often we default to looking to ourselves for

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wisdom or to figure out what constitutes wisdom.

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After all, who else can decide what is meaningful

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to me? Who else can choose the best path for

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me? So, we tend to rely on our own instincts,

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our own gut. our own inner voice or insight,

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and we seek out what feels right to me. In her

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2006 book, Eat, Pray, Love, Elizabeth Gilbert

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writes, God dwells within you as yourself, exactly

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the way you are. God dwells within you as yourself,

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exactly the way you are. Now, all of my kids

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at a certain point in their development got to

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a place where as we would drive around town,

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they'd start to recognize our surroundings, start

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to feel like they knew where they were, and then,

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of course, felt like they knew how to get where

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we were going. And so from the back seat, they

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would say, when I'm stopped at a red light, Daddy,

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go this way. And do you know, sometimes they

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were right. But of course, sometimes they were

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wrong. And they might say, Daddy, go this way,

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and I would say, oh, is that the way we should

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go as I turn this way? Now, I didn't ignore them.

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I knew that what they were doing was giving voice

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to an important developmental stage. Their little

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brains are growing, and they're working, and

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that's good, and I want to encourage it. I won't

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ignore it, but I certainly won't let them tell

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me how to get where we're going. Now, this is

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the nature of my relationship. with my own inner

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voice. I do not think my inner voice is God within

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me as me, exactly as I am. My inner voice is

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more like the kid in the back seat telling me

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which way to turn at a red light. It's not to

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be ignored. Self -knowledge is important. And

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it can reveal things to me about myself, maybe

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some good things, maybe some weak things, but

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if I let it get behind the wheel, there's no

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telling what kind of trouble I'm going to end

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up in. And if the quest for wisdom begins with

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the self, then it also ends with the self. And

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we have set the boundaries for this quest from

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the very beginning. We have predetermined how

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far we will go and no farther. Proverbs 1, 7

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says, the fear of the Lord is the beginning of

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knowledge. Later on, chapter 9, verse 10, the

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fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.

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The quest for wisdom is not easy. It is not straightforward.

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But here is where it begins. It begins with the

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fear of the Lord. Now, fear can mean a whole

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lot of things, so we need to be careful. We're

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not talking about fear the way a child fears

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the monster under their bed. We're not talking

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about fear the way a parent fears that something

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terrible might happen to their child. We're not

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talking about the fear of spiders or heights

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or small spaces or anything like that. What we're

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talking about is facing something that is more

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than the self. something that is outside of us,

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above us, something that has the power, power

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over us, the power to expand the self, the power

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to transform the self. We're talking about what

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it means to acknowledge that in this life, there

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is purpose that goes beyond my own goals, that

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there is meaning that runs deeper than my own

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fulfillment. that there is reality more profound

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than my own experience or my own possessions.

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There is more to this life than what I happen

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to make of it. And it may very well be that a

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weighted vest is a really great way to build

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strength in your legs as you go for a walk. And

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it may very well be that in this tumultuous world

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that we live in, that sometimes it's going to

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be more important for us to protect our peace

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than it is to care for the neighbor in front

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of us. I'm willing to grant that there is good

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advice out there in self -help books and social

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media and all of it, but wisdom and good advice

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are not the same thing. Proverbs says, trust

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in the Lord with all your heart and do not rely.

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on your own insight, i .e. the kid in the back

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seat. Do not be wise in your own eyes. The world

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today, and perhaps the world always and forever,

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is full of advice, but often lacking in wisdom.

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Good advice places all things in the service

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of a greater self, but wisdom places the self

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in the service of greater things. The beginning

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of wisdom is having the humility to open ourselves

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to the One who can really transform us, the One

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who made us, and the One who can do surprising

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things through us. We can protect our peace,

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or we can open our lives. And opening our lives,

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we can find courage, We can find clarity and

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we can find the conviction to be faithful, to

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be fruitful, to be wise. Let us pray. God, grant

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us wisdom, but more than that, grant us the humility

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to continually be searching for the wisdom that

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you provide. to always be opening ourselves to

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you and your work of transformation in us and

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in this world. We pray in Jesus' name. Amen.
