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Welcome to my channel. I am Reverend Joy Duong. And in today's video, we are going to dive

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deep into how to clarify your vision. And I'm going to be showing you guys five steps needed

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to do that. Yes, I know that people always talk about visions and dreams and, you know,

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purpose and passion and all that. But it's one thing that many talk about purpose and

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passion, but it's another that you know how to clarify your vision. And the number one

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thing I wanted to look at as you think of clarifying your vision is to reflect on your

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passions. You know, I have been opportune to be in business in the last 14 years plus,

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and I realized that the first business I established was a business where I served my ladies with,

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you know, beauty accessories. Because while I was schooling in the Philippines, I saw

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a need that needed to be filled in the life of my sisters. And that drove a passion in

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my spirit to launch a business that serves women, you know, like, you know, get them

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looking exactly how they want to look, you know, like bring the best version of themselves

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every time they, you know, keep themselves in a way that is moderate, but in a way that

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they love to see themselves look. So and that was a passion that drive me to start my first

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business in 2010 in the island of Nevis. And that passion never leave even till now. All

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it did is it grew from serving the ladies with the accessories to not entering into health

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awareness industry. And at the same time, serving the ladies and now entering into the

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coaching space, the speaking space and, you know, becoming the new midwife for women who

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want to push their purpose. But it all began with my passion. It all began in me reflecting

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on my passions. And that is the first thing you have to do in your life right now for

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you to clarify your vision, you need to reflect on your passions. What is it? Take time to

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identify activities, topics, and, you know, things that truly ignite your interest and

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enthusiasm. What activities? I love when, you know, you know, my mentors asked those

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questions in those days. They said what activities make you lose track of time? That's the first

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step to clarify your vision. What activities make you lose track of time? What is it you

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can do for somebody that you truly wouldn't bother whether they paid you or not because

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you did it from a place of joy? And what topics do you find yourself constantly researching

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or discussing? For me, as a midwife, I'm caught as somebody who want to, you know, go to the

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labor room with women who want to give them, you know, the reason to live a fulfilling

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purpose for life. I always not only search for those things that will help me grow in

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this area, I also tune into mentors that actually speak in my language. So every time passions,

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purpose, dreams, you know, are mentioned even while I was doing my day to day buying and

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selling, I still know that in my spirit as a reverend, I had a calling to help women

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push their purpose. To the land that when I got the administration two years ago, that

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is what I was going to be doing. I felt like, oh, my God, this is me that has always loved

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to help women. So what is it? Your passions are often indicators of what brings you joy

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and fulfillment. Remember that whenever you want to clarify your vision. Hey, if you're

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still here, it means that you are loving what we're discussing and you don't want to miss

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the next video that we're going to be launching. So go ahead, click the like, share and subscribe

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button as we continue to bring this value to you. So as you know, so pay attention to

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them as you clarify your vision. So as I told you guys, my, you know, my, my vision, even

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till now and for so many years, I've just been focusing towards on several ladies in

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a higher level. And even as I'm making this video, I'm making it for you who is watching

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me, who is still having difficulties about clarifying your, your, your vision. And you're

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a woman, you're watching me, you're a woman leader, you're a coach, you're a, you know,

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you're a businesswoman, you're a mom, you're a teacher, but you're still not clear. That

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is what we want to give you here. The second one is define your values, you know, coming

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into the marketplace as a reverend and being in an online space for the last almost 40

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years. One thing that stuck with me was how can I, as a godly woman, represent, you know,

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my value in the marketplace. And that means a lot. So I always admonish women to show

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up, you know, with their value in mind, make sure that you consider the principles and

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beliefs that are most important to you. Not because somebody's doing it to make you do

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it. Not because the marketplace is showing up like that to make you show up like that.

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No, that is not your brand. That is not your value. So define your value as you clarify

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your vision. Right? So stay with me. Now you have to actually ask yourself as well, what

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qualities, what qualities do you admire in others? That's how you find out your value.

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I don't necessarily say that I have problem in watching people or that not everybody can

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speak to me. No, that's not what I mean. But there's some people that show up like me.

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There's some people that I want to see. There's some people that dress like me, talk like

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me, you know, be in the marketplace like me. So even as I'm growing in this journey, my

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first thing is to watch those people that I want to be like. So what qualities do you

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admire in others? What behaviors do you find unacceptable? Those are how you build your

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value. Those are how you define your value. Your values serve as guiding principles that

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shape your decision and actions. Believe me on that. That should be the number one thing

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for you. By clarifying your value, you can ensure that your vision is aligned with what

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truly matters to you. Example, being in the buying and selling industry for almost 14

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years and still going, I realized that one thing that mattered to me was the touch and

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the impact I could have made in the life of all the women who was coming to me for that

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help for their beauty. But at the same time, I did it in a way that they could have opened

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up and speak to me. They could have, you know, asked me for prayer as a Reverend Minister.

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I was running a ministry, not just the buying and selling, but I was touching life and I

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was touching it in a higher level. I'm not saying you're not touching life right now,

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but for you to truly clarify your vision, you really have to define your value so that

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it can be aligned with whatever calling you have. And the other one I keep saying lately

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is set wise goals. You know, people talk about smart goals, space-free goals, things like

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that. That's powerful. But I had a revolution lately around the world wise and the law began

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to show me that as kingdoms, you know, when you call kingdom, you're actually calling

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a king and the dome, which I call the domain. And now the king rules the domain. And that

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is what happens when the kingdom, there comes a king. So the law began to show me the word

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of wisdom, which comes with the wise and the domain. And now the wise in this domain rules

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this domain. And now for you to really clarify your vision, I will admonish you to, you know,

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set a wise goal. And how do that, what is that W-I-S-E? You want to know. The first

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thing whenever you setting your goal is, is it workable? You know, that's the first W

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word in the wise. And the I is, am I going to be intentional? Is this going to wake me

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up in the morning intentionally ready to achieve it or in the week or in the month? And the

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third word there, which is the S is, is it going to be, do I have a strategy around this

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goal so that I'll be able to achieve it? And the last one is, am I excited? Am I eager?

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Is there something about this goal that is not going to die? Like now I'm walking through

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the process of helping a lot of women, you know, win over here and celebrate all their

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small win and even be in the labor room with them. Because I know labor is not easy. Contraction

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is not easy. The time to deliver your baby that you're carrying, which is that, you know,

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dream God has given you, that desires that you have, that passion, that purpose, that,

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you know, that excitement that you carry for you to deliver it and deliver it effortlessly.

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I am excited to walk around it with you to get you doing. And that is my job. So is my

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goals in the day wise enough? Are they workable? Am I intentional? Is it, do I have a strategy

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around it? And also am I excited to, you know, do these goals? That is how you clarify your

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vision. And the fourth one is visualize your ideal future. I love when people talk about

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visualization. And a lot of people want to say it in all manner of different ways about

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visualizing, visualizing. You keep hearing it. And I'm telling you, there's power in

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it. I always tell, you know, as simple as it sounds, I have a son. He happens to be

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the very first child I have. And I have three daughters after him. But when I went to the

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hospital and my gynecologist told me that I was not able to bring out, bring a child

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right now because of my stomach was all filled with fibroid. I don't know who is watching

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me you're going through fibroid season. I understand what you're going through. And

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I was there. But one thing that happened to me those days, which is why I want you to

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pay attention when it comes to visualizing your ideal future. I'm telling you, to clarify

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your vision, to get to where you're going, to make sure that everything runs well, this

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is very important. And it's really something I want to share with you. So when the gynecologist

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told me that it wasn't possible at that time if I didn't do what they say I should do,

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which is go do surgery, and many women said even after surgery, it's not guaranteed that

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your womb will be free for you to bring out a child. And being a fit person those days,

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I really didn't want to go through the surgery. But one thing I remembered vividly from the

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part of visualization is that I always visualize this son that is always with me. Even to the

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lender I visualize him until he became a reality in my subconscious mind. I just know there's

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a son. So when my gynecologist said I was like, you're serious? I know I have a son.

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So that knowing, that power of visualizing him for so many years without even seeing

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him, but I knew he was there in my future. And that future has come now because I'm married,

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I'm ready for a child. I began to speak into my life. From the time the doctor revealed

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that statement to me, I went home and I took up a bottle of water, telling you guys reality,

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and every morning I had a big bottle of water that I was doing what I call rituals with

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in the sense that I sit down with a bottle of water, I put my Bible down, Reverend Joy,

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you know, and I begin to pray. And I begin to pray. But in that prayer, I was only reminding

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God that I have a son. Come on, I have a son. I've seen my son. I know my son is alive.

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I know my son is almost here. And no fibroid, no surgery, no doctor is saying, kid, nothing

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is going to be on my way for my son who I've seen for all these years going through the

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Bible school in Philippine. He was so close than ever. There's no way he's not there.

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So I call for you to come. So when I go to that room, ladies, let me tell you something.

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I'll just be doing this. And you know, the process I'll start crying, I'll start, you

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know, praying, I'll start reading the word of God. And I use my water at the end of the

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whole process. I use my water and I drink and I say, yes, killing in the name of Jesus.

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And that was how when we went back to the doctor and the doctor saw that I was pregnant,

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he couldn't believe it. He even turned and told my husband, I heard this lady make comments

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like I have a father who is going to listen to me. So just tell me what it is I need to

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tell him. And he turned and asked me, who was your father? I said, God. And I heard

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him also. I heard her say also that she's been carrying this son. How come fibroid now?

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Where did you come from? He was actually the one testifying to my husband. All I told him

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in that room that day because he wasn't there. Ladies, what am I saying? Visualization even

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giving back to your business. I tell people we just closed a three days powerful summit.

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Every time I look at those videos, both the prayer recording I did and the live event

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we did, I tell myself this was how I visualized my life running since the last 90 days. Every

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speaker I had on that call was just exactly what I visualized that summit was going to

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be and the lives that it was going to transform. So you really have to cultivate that place

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where you just visualize so that you can clarify your vision. And now what did I love about

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clarifying your vision is that once your vision is clear, once your laser focus to what you're

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called here to do, your vision, the real line that is there, once you really know this is

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what I'm called to do, you will be so amazed how you take off and run. And the last one

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is stay flexible and open-minded. I like this part because why is important to have a clear

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vision for your future is equally important to remain flexible and open-minded to new

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opportunities and possibilities. Life is unpredictable and circumstances may change unexpectedly.

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I just put this here so that you don't have to say, oh, it didn't go how I wanted. I give

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up. No, things happen. By staying adaptable and open to change, you can navigate through

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challenges and seize opportunities that align with your evolving vision. Like what we've

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been discussing, you haven't even started. You're watching, you haven't started. Hey,

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before I forget, if you're new to this channel, make sure to subscribe. We have so many things

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we're going to be bringing to you because God has called us this season to help you

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push your baby true. And to conclude on this particular case today, remember our topic

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is how to clarify your vision. And we have five ways that we want you to, the steps you

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should take so that this will be complete. So you won't get frustrated along the road

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when obstacles or challenges happen. Make sure that you reflect on your passions. That

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is what is going to trigger. For me, that's the first trigger. Reflect on your passion.

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Make sure that you're putting from the place of your passion what you can do when nobody's

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even watching. What gives you joy? You know, the things that you want to search about,

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things that really bring out the best in you is what your passions are, right? Define your

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values. That is going to help you clarify your vision as well. State specific. You know,

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I call it wise goal. Remember we discussed a wise goal. State specific wise goal. Like

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they are specific, but they are wise enough. Where we discussed the W, the I, the S, and

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the E, which is what workable, intentional, strategic, and the last is eager, excited.

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You are excited to do this goal regardless of the obstacles on your way. And the fourth

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one is visualize your ideas. I highly recommend that. If you do, you will be so amazed how

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you look back and see that everything you visualize is just coming the way you wanted.

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Like I'm on a journey right now to help. I call it millions of women. How long is this

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going to take? I don't know. But I know for the last three and a half years I've been

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helping people from living their best life with health products to living their best

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life for making extra income. And now I'm on a journey that I've always believed God

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is calling me to do, to push, to help women push through, push their purpose, push their

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dreams, their desires, and be in the labor room with them. Because it's not going to

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be easy. But just help them. Let them know, yes, you can do this. Go ahead, push. Go ahead,

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push. So you're watching me. You want to push that purpose. You want to collaborate. You

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want to work with me. You want to say, okay, Coach, I want to hear more of what you're

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saying. We are having a master class coming next Wednesday. And that master class is going

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to help you redefine the whole thing that you need. And you're going to start from there.

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So just, you know, inbox me, text me once you want to be part of the, it's a free master

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class on Wednesday. Very free. You don't have to pay for it. So just message me or click

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the link below when I post it so that you can be part of the master class. Right? And

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what is, you know, what are we going to be doing that day? We're going to help you, show

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you the way that you'll be able to push your purpose. That's why we are here. And the last

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one is what stay flexible and open-minded. Don't let it not be a do or die. But remember,

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it's something you love to do. So you can build on it. You can grow on it and you can

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get to the top just by doing it. So with these five pointers, you can clarify your vision

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and set yourself on the path towards achieving success and fulfilling mental life. I love

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that. Yes. So ladies, ladies, ladies, remember this is your season. So take advantage to

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everything that is out there for you. Take advantage to all the possibilities, all the,

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you know, all the systems, the strategies and the knowledge that you can use to help

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yourself push your purpose and just clarify starting by clarifying your vision. So until

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next time is Reverend Joy Doe and make sure to subscribe to like to share as we keep

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bringing this amazing new you. That's what I call it to you. Remember bless and joyous.

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Bye bye.