Welcome to my channel. I am Reverend Joy Duong. And in today's video, we are going to dive
deep into how to clarify your vision. And I'm going to be showing you guys five steps needed
to do that. Yes, I know that people always talk about visions and dreams and, you know,
purpose and passion and all that. But it's one thing that many talk about purpose and
passion, but it's another that you know how to clarify your vision. And the number one
thing I wanted to look at as you think of clarifying your vision is to reflect on your
passions. You know, I have been opportune to be in business in the last 14 years plus,
and I realized that the first business I established was a business where I served my ladies with,
you know, beauty accessories. Because while I was schooling in the Philippines, I saw
a need that needed to be filled in the life of my sisters. And that drove a passion in
my spirit to launch a business that serves women, you know, like, you know, get them
looking exactly how they want to look, you know, like bring the best version of themselves
every time they, you know, keep themselves in a way that is moderate, but in a way that
they love to see themselves look. So and that was a passion that drive me to start my first
business in 2010 in the island of Nevis. And that passion never leave even till now. All
it did is it grew from serving the ladies with the accessories to not entering into health
awareness industry. And at the same time, serving the ladies and now entering into the
coaching space, the speaking space and, you know, becoming the new midwife for women who
want to push their purpose. But it all began with my passion. It all began in me reflecting
on my passions. And that is the first thing you have to do in your life right now for
you to clarify your vision, you need to reflect on your passions. What is it? Take time to
identify activities, topics, and, you know, things that truly ignite your interest and
enthusiasm. What activities? I love when, you know, you know, my mentors asked those
questions in those days. They said what activities make you lose track of time? That's the first
step to clarify your vision. What activities make you lose track of time? What is it you
can do for somebody that you truly wouldn't bother whether they paid you or not because
you did it from a place of joy? And what topics do you find yourself constantly researching
or discussing? For me, as a midwife, I'm caught as somebody who want to, you know, go to the
labor room with women who want to give them, you know, the reason to live a fulfilling
purpose for life. I always not only search for those things that will help me grow in
this area, I also tune into mentors that actually speak in my language. So every time passions,
purpose, dreams, you know, are mentioned even while I was doing my day to day buying and
selling, I still know that in my spirit as a reverend, I had a calling to help women
push their purpose. To the land that when I got the administration two years ago, that
is what I was going to be doing. I felt like, oh, my God, this is me that has always loved
to help women. So what is it? Your passions are often indicators of what brings you joy
and fulfillment. Remember that whenever you want to clarify your vision. Hey, if you're
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button as we continue to bring this value to you. So as you know, so pay attention to
them as you clarify your vision. So as I told you guys, my, you know, my, my vision, even
till now and for so many years, I've just been focusing towards on several ladies in
a higher level. And even as I'm making this video, I'm making it for you who is watching
me, who is still having difficulties about clarifying your, your, your vision. And you're
a woman, you're watching me, you're a woman leader, you're a coach, you're a, you know,
you're a businesswoman, you're a mom, you're a teacher, but you're still not clear. That
is what we want to give you here. The second one is define your values, you know, coming
into the marketplace as a reverend and being in an online space for the last almost 40
years. One thing that stuck with me was how can I, as a godly woman, represent, you know,
my value in the marketplace. And that means a lot. So I always admonish women to show
up, you know, with their value in mind, make sure that you consider the principles and
beliefs that are most important to you. Not because somebody's doing it to make you do
it. Not because the marketplace is showing up like that to make you show up like that.
No, that is not your brand. That is not your value. So define your value as you clarify
your vision. Right? So stay with me. Now you have to actually ask yourself as well, what
qualities, what qualities do you admire in others? That's how you find out your value.
I don't necessarily say that I have problem in watching people or that not everybody can
speak to me. No, that's not what I mean. But there's some people that show up like me.
There's some people that I want to see. There's some people that dress like me, talk like
me, you know, be in the marketplace like me. So even as I'm growing in this journey, my
first thing is to watch those people that I want to be like. So what qualities do you
admire in others? What behaviors do you find unacceptable? Those are how you build your
value. Those are how you define your value. Your values serve as guiding principles that
shape your decision and actions. Believe me on that. That should be the number one thing
for you. By clarifying your value, you can ensure that your vision is aligned with what
truly matters to you. Example, being in the buying and selling industry for almost 14
years and still going, I realized that one thing that mattered to me was the touch and
the impact I could have made in the life of all the women who was coming to me for that
help for their beauty. But at the same time, I did it in a way that they could have opened
up and speak to me. They could have, you know, asked me for prayer as a Reverend Minister.
I was running a ministry, not just the buying and selling, but I was touching life and I
was touching it in a higher level. I'm not saying you're not touching life right now,
but for you to truly clarify your vision, you really have to define your value so that
it can be aligned with whatever calling you have. And the other one I keep saying lately
is set wise goals. You know, people talk about smart goals, space-free goals, things like
that. That's powerful. But I had a revolution lately around the world wise and the law began
to show me that as kingdoms, you know, when you call kingdom, you're actually calling
a king and the dome, which I call the domain. And now the king rules the domain. And that
is what happens when the kingdom, there comes a king. So the law began to show me the word
of wisdom, which comes with the wise and the domain. And now the wise in this domain rules
this domain. And now for you to really clarify your vision, I will admonish you to, you know,
set a wise goal. And how do that, what is that W-I-S-E? You want to know. The first
thing whenever you setting your goal is, is it workable? You know, that's the first W
word in the wise. And the I is, am I going to be intentional? Is this going to wake me
up in the morning intentionally ready to achieve it or in the week or in the month? And the
third word there, which is the S is, is it going to be, do I have a strategy around this
goal so that I'll be able to achieve it? And the last one is, am I excited? Am I eager?
Is there something about this goal that is not going to die? Like now I'm walking through
the process of helping a lot of women, you know, win over here and celebrate all their
small win and even be in the labor room with them. Because I know labor is not easy. Contraction
is not easy. The time to deliver your baby that you're carrying, which is that, you know,
dream God has given you, that desires that you have, that passion, that purpose, that,
you know, that excitement that you carry for you to deliver it and deliver it effortlessly.
I am excited to walk around it with you to get you doing. And that is my job. So is my
goals in the day wise enough? Are they workable? Am I intentional? Is it, do I have a strategy
around it? And also am I excited to, you know, do these goals? That is how you clarify your
vision. And the fourth one is visualize your ideal future. I love when people talk about
visualization. And a lot of people want to say it in all manner of different ways about
visualizing, visualizing. You keep hearing it. And I'm telling you, there's power in
it. I always tell, you know, as simple as it sounds, I have a son. He happens to be
the very first child I have. And I have three daughters after him. But when I went to the
hospital and my gynecologist told me that I was not able to bring out, bring a child
right now because of my stomach was all filled with fibroid. I don't know who is watching
me you're going through fibroid season. I understand what you're going through. And
I was there. But one thing that happened to me those days, which is why I want you to
pay attention when it comes to visualizing your ideal future. I'm telling you, to clarify
your vision, to get to where you're going, to make sure that everything runs well, this
is very important. And it's really something I want to share with you. So when the gynecologist
told me that it wasn't possible at that time if I didn't do what they say I should do,
which is go do surgery, and many women said even after surgery, it's not guaranteed that
your womb will be free for you to bring out a child. And being a fit person those days,
I really didn't want to go through the surgery. But one thing I remembered vividly from the
part of visualization is that I always visualize this son that is always with me. Even to the
lender I visualize him until he became a reality in my subconscious mind. I just know there's
a son. So when my gynecologist said I was like, you're serious? I know I have a son.
So that knowing, that power of visualizing him for so many years without even seeing
him, but I knew he was there in my future. And that future has come now because I'm married,
I'm ready for a child. I began to speak into my life. From the time the doctor revealed
that statement to me, I went home and I took up a bottle of water, telling you guys reality,
and every morning I had a big bottle of water that I was doing what I call rituals with
in the sense that I sit down with a bottle of water, I put my Bible down, Reverend Joy,
you know, and I begin to pray. And I begin to pray. But in that prayer, I was only reminding
God that I have a son. Come on, I have a son. I've seen my son. I know my son is alive.
I know my son is almost here. And no fibroid, no surgery, no doctor is saying, kid, nothing
is going to be on my way for my son who I've seen for all these years going through the
Bible school in Philippine. He was so close than ever. There's no way he's not there.
So I call for you to come. So when I go to that room, ladies, let me tell you something.
I'll just be doing this. And you know, the process I'll start crying, I'll start, you
know, praying, I'll start reading the word of God. And I use my water at the end of the
whole process. I use my water and I drink and I say, yes, killing in the name of Jesus.
And that was how when we went back to the doctor and the doctor saw that I was pregnant,
he couldn't believe it. He even turned and told my husband, I heard this lady make comments
like I have a father who is going to listen to me. So just tell me what it is I need to
tell him. And he turned and asked me, who was your father? I said, God. And I heard
him also. I heard her say also that she's been carrying this son. How come fibroid now?
Where did you come from? He was actually the one testifying to my husband. All I told him
in that room that day because he wasn't there. Ladies, what am I saying? Visualization even
giving back to your business. I tell people we just closed a three days powerful summit.
Every time I look at those videos, both the prayer recording I did and the live event
we did, I tell myself this was how I visualized my life running since the last 90 days. Every
speaker I had on that call was just exactly what I visualized that summit was going to
be and the lives that it was going to transform. So you really have to cultivate that place
where you just visualize so that you can clarify your vision. And now what did I love about
clarifying your vision is that once your vision is clear, once your laser focus to what you're
called here to do, your vision, the real line that is there, once you really know this is
what I'm called to do, you will be so amazed how you take off and run. And the last one
is stay flexible and open-minded. I like this part because why is important to have a clear
vision for your future is equally important to remain flexible and open-minded to new
opportunities and possibilities. Life is unpredictable and circumstances may change unexpectedly.
I just put this here so that you don't have to say, oh, it didn't go how I wanted. I give
up. No, things happen. By staying adaptable and open to change, you can navigate through
challenges and seize opportunities that align with your evolving vision. Like what we've
been discussing, you haven't even started. You're watching, you haven't started. Hey,
before I forget, if you're new to this channel, make sure to subscribe. We have so many things
we're going to be bringing to you because God has called us this season to help you
push your baby true. And to conclude on this particular case today, remember our topic
is how to clarify your vision. And we have five ways that we want you to, the steps you
should take so that this will be complete. So you won't get frustrated along the road
when obstacles or challenges happen. Make sure that you reflect on your passions. That
is what is going to trigger. For me, that's the first trigger. Reflect on your passion.
Make sure that you're putting from the place of your passion what you can do when nobody's
even watching. What gives you joy? You know, the things that you want to search about,
things that really bring out the best in you is what your passions are, right? Define your
values. That is going to help you clarify your vision as well. State specific. You know,
I call it wise goal. Remember we discussed a wise goal. State specific wise goal. Like
they are specific, but they are wise enough. Where we discussed the W, the I, the S, and
the E, which is what workable, intentional, strategic, and the last is eager, excited.
You are excited to do this goal regardless of the obstacles on your way. And the fourth
one is visualize your ideas. I highly recommend that. If you do, you will be so amazed how
you look back and see that everything you visualize is just coming the way you wanted.
Like I'm on a journey right now to help. I call it millions of women. How long is this
going to take? I don't know. But I know for the last three and a half years I've been
helping people from living their best life with health products to living their best
life for making extra income. And now I'm on a journey that I've always believed God
is calling me to do, to push, to help women push through, push their purpose, push their
dreams, their desires, and be in the labor room with them. Because it's not going to
be easy. But just help them. Let them know, yes, you can do this. Go ahead, push. Go ahead,
push. So you're watching me. You want to push that purpose. You want to collaborate. You
want to work with me. You want to say, okay, Coach, I want to hear more of what you're
saying. We are having a master class coming next Wednesday. And that master class is going
to help you redefine the whole thing that you need. And you're going to start from there.
So just, you know, inbox me, text me once you want to be part of the, it's a free master
class on Wednesday. Very free. You don't have to pay for it. So just message me or click
the link below when I post it so that you can be part of the master class. Right? And
what is, you know, what are we going to be doing that day? We're going to help you, show
you the way that you'll be able to push your purpose. That's why we are here. And the last
one is what stay flexible and open-minded. Don't let it not be a do or die. But remember,
it's something you love to do. So you can build on it. You can grow on it and you can
get to the top just by doing it. So with these five pointers, you can clarify your vision
and set yourself on the path towards achieving success and fulfilling mental life. I love
that. Yes. So ladies, ladies, ladies, remember this is your season. So take advantage to
everything that is out there for you. Take advantage to all the possibilities, all the,
you know, all the systems, the strategies and the knowledge that you can use to help
yourself push your purpose and just clarify starting by clarifying your vision. So until
next time is Reverend Joy Doe and make sure to subscribe to like to share as we keep
bringing this amazing new you. That's what I call it to you. Remember bless and joyous.
Bye bye.