Welcome to the Antonio Parkinson Project.
I am Antonio Parkinson and we are on tape three.
Third time of the charm.
Third time of the charm and I'm here with my wonderful co-host Angelica Jelly Woods.
Give her a round of applause.
She's excited to have her.
She don't even have the little squinty eyes.
There's no more because that was racist as a mother.
I shouldn't have said it like that.
She doesn't have the little squinty eyes.
She doesn't have the little squinty eyes anymore when we call her name now.
She's so comfortable in her seat.
I'm going to tell you off air what I call myself.
Got her makeup done, got her hair did.
I always have my makeup done.
She ready?
You're ready?
Were you ready, Coach?
Always.
There you go.
Coach J, give him a round of applause.
Another co-host.
Oh, not the slow slow.
Wow, that's the Marshall Clip.
I can tell.
Right.
I'm the little art Marshall.
DJ Kodak in the building, Angelica in the building.
We were talking about the top.
We're going to start with this, but we're going to talk about Will and Jada.
We just had an experience with, who was it?
Comcast.
I don't even know what their name is.
Oh my gosh.
Comcast or Xfinity?
What's the name?
Because they were saying Comcast on the phone.
But I'm sick of them.
I'm sick of Comcast.
Oh, yes.
Trash.
And so to the audience, while we're about to segue into Will and Jada, what is the
top five trash customer service company?
In any field.
We're talking about customer service.
Trash, Trash customer service.
And Coach, I'll give you at least my top two, but there's another one.
I just can't think of who it is right now.
But Sprint has to be number one with trash customer service.
And I hope they've since improved on their customer service.
But I remember when I was with Sprint, it was just hard to get people on the phone.
Sometimes you would get people on the phone that, of course, were out of the country somewhere.
And there would be a need for a translator.
So I divorced Sprint and went over to Verizon and let Verizon knock my head off on them prices.
And I will pay for good customer service.
Oh, will you now see?
I absolutely will.
And Coach, give me one.
Off top, come cast, of course.
But we just said them.
Well, I'm going to say them again.
Damn.
They made number one and number two.
Number one and two.
No, we just got Coach Jax.
We'll see how smooth that was.
He ain't going to make no decisions.
You just got Coach Jax.
I'm going to follow up.
Okay, there you go.
Because I've had a horrible time with our very own MLG.
I ain't got nothing.
I was trying to dodge that, I don't have nothing to say.
That's just me.
I don't know.
Your experience may have been lovely, but my mind has been horrible.
She was on the inside.
So you know, her Angelica was on the inside.
So she might have gone.
I can give you some input on it, honestly.
Now I can.
Got you, got you, got you, got you.
Look at that.
I felt like something was going to happen when I said that.
It was.
The whole little happen.
Yeah, but that was an interesting look, Angelica, that you had on your face.
I was hoping that Rico would have caught that.
I feel like the customer service, there is room for improvement.
The problem with here, oh God, I'm not even going to say that, but I'm going to keep that
comment to myself.
Let me choose my words, right?
It's always easy to tell people how something is supposed to be done when you're not in
that situation, especially with outages.
It's driving me crazy.
All you got, all you got to do is flip the switch.
Is that how, is that how it works?
Sometimes we don't know.
That's how it works to us.
Exactly.
We can always, we can always tell somebody how to do something, how to do it better,
we getting robbed, all this and that, you know, but then there's other factors that
people are online not saying like when's the last time you paid your bill.
You know what I'm saying?
They ain't saying that.
They tell a half of the story.
We're just going to be honest.
They going to be honest.
Park is going to clip this part.
That's what he going to do to be petty.
No, no, I ain't.
You know I'm going to clip it because this is going to be a good one.
But let's be honest.
I feel like even with, I do social media management, if you're going to come and make a complaint
and this is in line with customer service, you have to be valid.
If you're going to tell your story to the full story.
So like you don't go to the news and they'll say, oh, my bill is $1,300 or something like
that.
Right.
So you've been on the program for whatever they call it where you don't have to pay.
How they bill break.
You ain't paid in six months.
Okay.
Your bill, your bill going to add up.
Then is late fees that you're not talking about.
You ain't talking about late fees or you're not talking about the note we gave you.
Say you had a leak somewhere.
They leave all that out.
They just showed a bill.
Right.
It's like, well, we, I'm not a week.
I'm working with them.
I'm just giving them more.
You sure?
Give them the blows like you work for.
Well, I was talking about customers.
But I'm just saying you never know.
It just, because sometimes customers don't say all the parts of the story.
That's all I'm trying to say.
I don't know these $3,000 and $12,000 bills that you just made.
I don't know longer part of media.
I don't know.
I'm just, she was just talking about.
Because I don't know the behind, I don't know the behind the scenes because it could
have been a printed era.
There could have been some delay in billing or something like that.
I don't know.
I can't speak on behalf, but I'm saying there's things that happen.
Well, we know who does know.
Let's say it's Michael.
What would Michael say?
Pay that bill.
He he he he he.
Hey, you're going to be in the dog.
So, so, so, so, so, we said Comcast Angelica said Memphis Light Gas and Water.
I did not.
Who said that?
Kojak.
Oh, that was you Kojak Angelica.
Who was giving me one in top five?
I said terrible customer service with Enterprise.
You said you try to stick up for them because your experience has always been great.
Yeah, I've never had bad experience with Enterprise.
Enterprise.
Who y'all got?
Who, if you online right now, who you got?
Who has the worst customer service?
Hey, as a matter of fact, what company has the worst customer service in Memphis?
No companies.
Wow.
If we're going to get it, make it, if we're going to get it started, let's get it started
right.
Yeah.
What what local business has bad customer service?
Well, that's going to be a hot one.
And so and tell us a little bit about it.
Just drop it like Angelius.
Like Angelius.
Jelly said.
Man, you know, you know, he's my name.
Am I Angelius?
I'm a DJ.
That's what I do.
I'm Angelius.
I never heard Angelius.
Like she said before, go ahead and also drop an experience in it.
Put the company.
Right.
You know, let us know.
Yeah, but this is some terrible stuff out there.
And you know, so two of us, well, three of us actually, all three of us are in marketing
in some form or fashion.
And so we do understand, you know, the experience, right?
It's the experience.
How did that person feel when they walked out of that door of their business, right?
That will determine if a person is going to come into their business.
Yeah.
Right.
And if there was a better alternative to Comcast, and you know, I'm sure I will be somewhere
else, but I don't think there's the, you know, unfortunately, I don't see a better alternative.
Yeah, that's a good point.
You know, and yeah, and then some of these, some of these folks got little monopolies running
around here with bad customer service.
Yeah.
And that's terrible.
Yeah.
That's terrible.
Yeah.
Okay.
Angelica got quiet, y'all.
So, so, so in the news, in the news, you know, we'll enjoy it.
Will and Jada in the news again, they are making headlines and, and, and before we get
deep into this conversation, couple things, couple questions that we want to get answered.
And if somebody, if somebody will almost, if somebody will, you know, write these questions
down because I don't want, I don't want us to miss these questions.
And if we need to do a segment by segment, we'll do a segment by segment.
But the first question is, is, you know, Will and Jada in, in, in the news because they
were actually separated throughout all of this time, right?
And so some people are criticizing Will and Jada because they felt like they weren't telling
the whole truth and nothing but the truth about them being living in separate homes.
That's one, what should a marriage look like?
Right?
That's number one.
What should a marriage look like?
I'm glad I'm in school.
What should a marriage look like?
Right?
And then there's, there's other news that's, there's, there's, you know, swarming around
this and we might come back to this in the second segment, right?
Because the fact that, I think I saw it on TMZ and I hope I'm getting this right, that
Chris Rock, you know, was trying to holler, right at Jada and this was after the smack.
Yeah.
Right.
Is that what you heard?
It was after the smack.
Yeah.
And she played, well, I don't know.
Hold that, hold that, hold that.
No, don't, Angelica, no ADHD, don't make us jumpy gun, right?
And so, and then, and then the other, the other question is, you know, you know, Will
and Jada, they, they're still apparently they're still together, right?
And, but, but they, they may, you know, swing a little bit, they may dip a little bit.
They've been known for that.
They've been public about that.
Right, right.
And so, you know, is that what a marriage should look like?
So let's put swinging on that next, on that next question.
I'm not writing that down.
Oh, Angelica's pure right now.
So, you know, but swinging.
Yeah.
Bright a B.
Right, right.
Swinging.
Really?
Right.
So, so, so let's, let's, let's get to this question.
I think we've got about six minutes in the, in the segment left.
You know, what, what should a marriage look like, Angelica?
What, let's start with Kojax.
I don't want to get Kojax off the top.
He's going to see you off.
Look, he's squint, look at, you know how he, somebody, we do this.
I got to control all the information first.
No, why you got to consume when you need to provide the information.
Before I Kojax you.
Right, right.
Before I Kojax, yeah, Kojax is a verb.
So if you get Kojax, that means that you did not get an answer to your, you got an
answer verbally, but you did not actually get an answer.
That's the definition of being Kojax.
He was seeing you off real quick.
Right, right.
He got one answer.
Just seeing you off scratching your head like, what, what, what just happened?
He got one answer.
You be in the bed like, did he really just say that?
It could hit you later.
Yeah.
What does it mean?
Yeah, nothing.
He, he, he, he wrote straight down the middle.
You got Kojax.
Kojax, what should the marriage look like?
Man, it should look like whatever the two people designed it to be.
I feel like there was an age for everything and this is the age where we're going through
right now.
Is almost like fast food, have it your way thing right now.
So for people because they're going through a lot of mental things, I feel like you should
design it for you and that person and not try to live up to a traditional marriage.
That's how I feel.
If your wife, will you choose to be spending the rest of your life with, you can have a
conversation and you two can choose.
This is not a Kojax.
What did you do last?
If you choose, whatever you choose doing, your marriage should be between you two.
Okay, so what's up, man?
Angelica, I want to know what's up marriage you get.
I'm a beautiful marriage.
But I just felt the spirit of Kojax coming down.
I hear when I cross the line with the mic.
Everybody with all of it.
Kojax.
I feel like we got Kojax.
Right.
So, Angelica, ask that question one more time.
What does your marriage look like, Kojax?
Oh, man, it's beautiful.
It was a discussion of how we're going to go into the marriage before we created our
own reality and we're living it.
What?
He asked the question.
And we're living in it.
In our reality that we drawed and pistol fired.
Kojax was speaking in the same voice.
He was speaking in the same voice.
He was speaking in right before he got married.
Right.
Get the wife on the line.
What's your wife name?
That's a surprise for you, Dallard.
Put Papa face to him.
She's in the building.
Welcome to the marriage.
Look how you look at her.
Right.
But, but, but you know, I think, come on now.
Congratulations on your anniversary.
Yeah, I'm three years.
Yeah.
Round of applause for Angelica.
You got four more to go.
Thank you so much.
I'm going to, I'm going to, okay, let's mark this day, put it on YouTube.
It never goes away.
Okay.
I'm going to say good bye.
I'm going to, I'm going to, okay, let's mark this day, put it on YouTube, it never goes
away.
I will be, we're going to make it.
I feel like I'm maybe traditional, not like gender role, traditional, like the husband's
the breadwinner.
He takes out the trash.
You take care of the kid.
Another topic.
I'm not like that.
You know, I'm not like that.
Yeah.
You gonna take, you gonna take some notes.
Yeah.
Apply this into your life.
It will, it will.
I'm going to give you some things.
You can walk away with it.
But no, I don't think that's the answer.
No, you don't have to be.
I mean ADHD, but go ahead.
What should the marriage look like?
But I feel like there shouldn't be gender roles or no.
I don't feel like that.
You do what works best for you.
Do I think that chooses sleep around outside your marriage?
No.
Do I think you should bring somebody in your bedroom?
No.
I know the world.
I know the world we live in.
What if the two people agree to it?
Didn't you ask me what my view was?
Oh, OK.
So I have to get it.
You're right.
I know that's the point.
I know.
Right.
But I'm just saying for me and my house, there we go.
You will serve the Lord.
Yeah, really.
Yeah.
We're going to say in each other's bed, that's it.
Nobody else.
You almost spit your water out.
Did you get the oxygen?
Yeah, you got the oxygen.
You almost spit your water out.
But I believe that it just is between two people
and you have to be helpmates.
A lot of people don't have their helpmates.
That's the problem.
Yeah, I see men that carry the weight, do everything
and they have no help.
And I don't think that's fair.
That's the whole other topic.
Some people are mad at me for how I feel,
but I just think that.
So marry your helpmate, keep your bed between you
and your significant other and keep people out your business
and all that.
And you do what makes you happy.
Bam.
Yeah, you almost took us down a rabbit hole
because I was going to talk about that helpmate thing.
Why?
What's your question?
It was the way.
I don't want to go down a rabbit hole.
We're going to stay on top of the tree.
No, we're going down this hole.
I went down on what you last time.
That's why she was saying that was about that to help me.
Yeah, but the term.
But yeah, that's actually not a term, though.
It's a helper.
The way it's defined is a helper that is fit for you,
not a helpmate.
Right?
And so at the BOL.
How long ago was it?
How long ago?
Not too long.
You know, a few years.
OK.
Helpmate.
No.
Helpmate.
You need a mate that's going to help you.
Right.
Do you?
Yes, you do.
OK.
You can't do it.
No.
So what about our brothers in other lands in Africa
who got about nine of them?
So they need a lot of help.
I can't speak on that.
Right?
Got about six wives, Kojack?
Six wives.
No, he probably insane.
That's a lot to deal with.
That's a lot of estrogen and everything.
Good luck to them.
I don't know why they want to do that.
You can barely please one woman.
You're going to do that to six people?
Yeah, yeah.
We're going to.
That's in another segment.
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This mark is with Anna Podjekli Memphis.
We tuned in to the Antonio Parkinson Project.
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Welcome back to the Antonio Parkinson Project.
I am Antonio Parkinson here with my wonderful co-host, Angelica
Jelly Woods and DJ.
I'm Coach Jack.
I was getting tongue tied with all of the J's and the K's
in his name.
You know, you got Jackie.
What's my name?
What he call me?
He called you Angeli.
Angeli.
Right, right.
Right, Angeli.
And then you got Kojak.
Kojie.
Then you got all of them vows, the lowercase A's.
Well, anyway, that's DJ Kojie.
Welcome back to the show.
So we're talking about what should
a marriage look like.
And Angelica, what were you saying in the break now?
I'm trying to make sure they can hear us.
That is too funny.
Rico, you should talk to her.
She's throwing shade on you, Rico.
We're out.
OK, we good.
OK, OK.
That is hilarious.
I'm not.
I'm Rico.
I'm not throwing any shade on you.
La Cartier.
Somebody can tell La Conte right now.
She calling you the third string over here, Rico.
He coming off the bench.
Rico coming off the bench directing.
No, he's just talented.
He does it all, OK?
He does.
Rico keeps us with the sound.
We cross train.
We cross train here.
That's what they call it.
But you said what I said about marriages?
Yeah, in the break.
But it was something else, too, that we were supposed to be.
Yeah, in the break.
You were saying, what were you saying about?
About how many?
We were talking about you domesticating your husband.
I'm not domesticating him.
What does he do?
There's no such thing as generals.
He helps with everything.
He washes dishes.
He helps cook.
He helps with the baby.
He moms.
I mean, what's wrong with that?
I help take out trash.
I rake leaves if I wash you.
I wash my car, pump my gas.
We just do.
We help each other.
Right.
And I'm not knocking it, because I know your husband.
Good brother.
Real good brother, right?
But some in the brother's sphere will say he ain't him-picked,
but he got him-picked henhouse ways.
Henhouse ways?
That's what some in the brother's sphere will say.
I wouldn't say that.
Yeah.
Right.
Some people.
No.
Now, he a good brother.
I'm just messing with you.
He is?
No.
But Angelica, you're strong now.
You might be pushing him a little bit too hard, man.
I might need to come in there and just, you know.
No, you know, honestly, I told him.
I said, listen, now you were talking about my breadwinning.
Yes, I'm putting this down this rabbit hole and changing subject.
But I told him.
I told him.
I said, I promise I'm going to out hustle him.
I'm going to outwork him.
I told him I'm going to retire him early.
He can be a stay at home dad.
Man, what a blessed little proverbs woman.
Wow.
Proverbs 31.
But he's like, now, you know, I'm not doing that,
but he will never quit anyway.
Man, swallow your pride, brother.
Bite your tongue, brother.
Right.
But no, he's OK with that.
Like, he OK.
Go get the money.
You know, not that I'm a breadwinner with him now, man.
I'm not saying that.
But he has no problem with that.
I mean, you just you've got to get somebody that compliments you and that's not threatening by you,
threatened by you.
And that's that's that's the thing of pride to feel like you have to be.
You have to make the most money.
I feel like, you know, I've seen so many times time and time again,
where where some people or brothers had a woman that was going out there and getting it.
Right. And and and they would try to, you know, sabotage that or interfere with
with that woman being the best that she could be in bringing that bag home.
You know, what about that?
Coach, would you have an issue with a woman making more money than you?
No, I wouldn't.
I wouldn't.
She could make as much money as she want.
You know, but it won't stop what I'm doing.
It's I feel like it's more about what I'm set to do instead of how much money I'm making.
Because I may be on a mission trying to do something that may be with a nonprofit.
Well, I'm not making any money, but if it's my dad, then someone going after
and she's supporting that, then it's fine.
Yeah, you've got to be happy.
Some people, if you want to be a trash pickup person that makes you happy,
make you smile every day, baby, that is good.
I want you to be happy.
Live life life for sure.
It's not always about the money.
So that's important that you're happy.
But did you guys, what is her name?
The vegan lady.
She was just here.
Tamela Brown, Tamela Brown, Tamela Brown, the vegan lady.
I know you're talking about.
I'm not. I'm not vegan.
I'm not vegan.
I'm sorry.
I don't know who the vegan lady is.
She had Wendy Williams got into it with her.
I have no idea.
You know, I don't follow Wendy Williams.
Yeah.
Somebody online with the vegan lady name.
She was just that brown Baptist.
She's just part of the vegan fast.
But anyways, she's an actor and they talked about her because she retired her husband.
She bought him something like a nonprofit or did something and Wendy Williams was like,
oh, been there, done that, take care of a man.
You're going to get played pretty much.
And she went on on him like, no, he sacrificed so that I could act.
You know what I mean?
He worked, I think two or three jobs.
He was a police officer, risked his life and all this.
Okay.
We get all these messages about this sound and all these other things and people were
just trying to talk about how she shouldn't take care of her husband, but she take care
of her husband.
But at one point he fully took care of her.
Right.
If that made sense.
Right.
So we're getting questions about what you're doing.
No, we're good.
Don't scare me like that.
It's the content she on breaking still.
Oh, really?
La Conte?
Hey, hey, hey.
Hey, Rico, La Conte throwing shade on you, man.
I know she's mean.
Right.
La Conte said it's only one La Conte.
That is too funny.
But DJ Kodak, so the woman, if she's the breadwinner, man, she walks in, you know, takes her heels
off and, you know, and, and, and say, hey, where's my dinner?
Oh, like, you don't take it too far.
Put that on, Coach.
Come on, Rico, man.
You got to look.
He don't know what you just said.
He have lists.
Rico.
He just heard dinner and he'll.
Right, right, right.
She walk in and give you a little smack on the, on the, on the bum.
Okay.
You don't take it too far.
Hey, where's my dinner?
I say, uh, you know, it's in the oven.
It's warming up for you.
You would do that.
Call his wife.
How much she make?
How much do you make?
Does she make more than you?
Whatever it is.
What's the amount?
The amount got to be significant for that to happen.
Oh, that's a good question.
Yeah.
Now, hold on, hold on, hold on.
Well, hold on, hold on.
Hold on, hold on.
30 thousand, 30 thousand.
Yeah, yeah, go on.
You really need to.
How much is enough, Coach, to walk in and attack you?
Yeah, because that's the most.
I'm going to say, I'm going to say, I'm going to say, I'm going to home bomb and say, where's
my dinner?
She said earlier about, uh, a garbage man, that's what they want to do.
Uh, so, if, let me ask you this.
I ain't going to tell you what somebody just said.
Would you, let me ask you this.
Would you, would you be with a garbage man?
If that's what they like.
Yeah, I would.
But I'll be careful picking on the sanitation worker.
No, I'm saying because people, people.
That's what they love.
They're saying, yeah, if he loved doing it, what would you be with?
People probably in white color, what's the difference?
Blue color is the industry.
But sanitation worker makes money.
I'm not saying that.
Who doesn't make, make a lot of money?
So let's, let's talk about that.
Who, who, now you all want to be careful.
Oh, I ain't going to say it, because I'll.
Right, right.
So let's just say somebody that does make a lot of money.
If you worked at a fast food chain, not saying that, and not a manager, like a front fry,
a fry flipper.
Right.
Or that person that's going door to door selling cologne.
Remember that back in the day?
Okay.
He's a manager though.
He wasn't.
But why did he got taken so far?
He was a manager going down a rabbit hole with y'all.
You know, I think no, I feel like I'm not going to spit it out.
I feel like if you do, we'll make you happy.
And if our bills are met.
How much, how much money she got?
I do want to know.
To give you a little smack on the bum bun and say, where's my dinner?
Kojak.
Oh, well, what's the pay gap need to look like?
Like I said before, it's not about.
Oh God.
Can we get a number?
Not about.
You sure you ain't no politician?
We're getting Kojak.
Well, I hang around a lot up.
Pick up some pointers.
Zoom in on the black cat.
Oh, yeah.
I am not a politician.
I'm a servant that happened to get elected.
See, that's Kojak stuff right there.
So, you know, I don't, I don't even really like politicians.
You know, I think politicians are leech like, but.
Well, I really do.
I really do.
I think politicians are more about serving themselves, right?
In a lot of cases.
Yeah.
And, you know, serving some more about serving the people.
So, but don't, don't ADHD is y'all.
Yeah, I said, come back.
I told you to come back.
Come back.
You bringing us back.
So that was, that was.
I still want a number.
He needs to stand.
You just say something and stand on it.
Well, I'm standing on what I'm standing on.
I'm standing on what I stand on.
What I see it was, it's not a dollar amount.
I said, if she supports me and what I do, if she can make it.
Well, I'm not going to ask.
We ain't talking about, we, we, that's a whole other story.
I ain't talking about, I'm talking about the food.
I'm talking, we talking about the actual food meal.
If I'm at home and I make a meal for a same baby as your meal right here.
Right.
You know, today you've been working hard, you know, doing your thing.
I support you.
Like you support me.
Right.
Kojak, you like aggressive women?
You know, no, no, I'm too old for that right now.
Oh, you're too old for that.
If you're in the past, you know,
you like to get down with them.
You like to crazy woman.
Look at, you like to get lied a little bit.
No, man.
Look, he picked up his cup.
Yeah.
As he picked up his cup.
This is, I on this side, you be lying.
You're over there.
I don't know.
But that lie, I tell him.
Yes, that one lie on him.
He just went down a little bit.
Too grown to go through some craziness.
Yeah.
So I'm in like crazy women.
That's old.
I'm in the past.
Yeah.
I think most men I know around my age,
we looking for some peace, some form of peace.
Man, what you said and I don't know about it.
Why you gotta wait till your age to want some peace?
Can't wrestle no more.
See what I mean?
See, he just ain't in care about no crazy woman.
He's saying he might know a crazy woman,
but he was wrestling a little more.
Right.
Yeah, man.
We done all been through our crazy.
And Angela, you been through being crazy.
Yeah, I was.
You talking about the car?
Yeah, riding on the car.
See, like they do on the freeway here in Memphis.
Yeah.
High speed chase, riding on cars, standing behind snow banks.
What?
Standing behind snow banks.
That's new for us.
You know, we ain't got no snow banks.
No, I'm not even gonna say how this story gets parked.
So you're gonna think I'm lying.
Come on.
And it's gonna make you go left.
Look, you ready for it.
I'm not.
No.
Come on.
Do it for the vine.
Okay.
So I'm saying this crazy story.
My sister's gonna be laughing.
Anyway, I promise.
And yes, this is about Jesus.
You're gonna have to take a Jesus ride for a second.
Okay.
We're gonna take a Jesus ride.
I promise y'all was laying in my sleep.
I promise you.
We're gonna take a Jesus ride.
That's right.
We're gonna take a Jesus ride.
Okay.
I promise you.
Go ahead.
And women, we have intuition and it's true.
I think it's an extra gift that God gives us.
We just quiet it.
So if y'all agree, let me know.
I see some women on there.
I'm not crazy.
Okay.
I was asleep.
They are all identifying what you're writing.
They are.
I'm the...
Y'all could talk about maybe we want to.
I'm the VJ.
And my intuition said that someone say,
Jellica, get up and get in your car.
I said, so I got.
You listened to that voice.
I did.
Get them on the call.
I listened to my intuition because the intuition
I got in my car drove and this is Iowa.
I miss free the coast by negative 14 snow up to my butt.
Like not this snow that'd be sprinkled on the ground
and y'all by the path that real snow.
Got I went down there and parked.
He lies.
Oh, my sister says you lie bad.
I told you a lot.
You don't like it.
But anyway, let me go back.
I'm sorry.
No, don't ADHD.
Yeah, I know.
I was driving.
I was driving down and I parked my car like in a white car
that I got in the snow bank.
White car in the snow.
Yeah.
So the snow bank.
She full camouflage.
Yeah.
Right.
Because if y'all know, snow banks, they push the snow
so high by a stop sign.
Sometimes you can't see over the stop sign.
That's how high the snow is.
It goes, yes, imagine I got a car accident doing that.
So I promise I was there three minutes, three minutes,
I swear.
The car pulls up.
He in the car with a girl.
I swear to God.
And in the six foot snow bank.
3 o'clock in the morning, I was going to call that girl.
So I'm going to call Cajun one now.
Six of them.
Yes.
Look at the person.
He's getting really intrigued.
Go, Jack.
Hey.
I promise I pull.
We're going down the rabbit hole.
I'm going to tell a story.
Go ahead.
Come on.
You pulled up.
Yeah, pulled up.
So I pulled up.
In Cotley Grove.
Yeah, I pulled up right behind the car.
In the white car.
You know, you couldn't see it in the snow.
Right.
In the morning, early in the morning.
Like 3, 4 AM.
Yeah.
So in between.
And he blocked in so he can't.
Yep.
So it's a one driveway.
So it's like you pick stuff in my car
and stop.
I actually hit the car.
Oh, I didn't.
Oh my God.
I didn't mean to hit it.
It was a little step.
I didn't mean to hit it.
Go, Jack.
Him and the girl in the car, they went boom, right, right,
it was like a little slickie.
Look, boom.
It was a slickie.
But I'm going to tell the rest of it.
I'm for all that.
Larry, tell us, please tell us the rest of it.
I mean, I tried to fight.
I was dumb.
I tried to fight the girl, obviously.
In the snow.
Snow.
I was.
Pull up.
I came out my top and everything.
I was.
Wait, wait, wait.
I was.
I promise.
So you pulled up.
I mean, it's because he was trying to grab.
Like grab me so the shirt, I just let the shirt go.
You know, yeah, I did.
So wait, wait, wait, Kojack.
This is just let me look at Kojack.
Yeah.
He can't defend the red.
Put that on Kojack because, you know,
because this is one of those.
Kojack.
So let's get this straight.
OK.
So 3 AM, 4 AM in the morning.
3 AM in the morning.
Six foot snow.
Right.
She's driving in a white car.
So she's camouflaged as if she's an Arctic sniper.
Right.
It felt like a red car.
She pulls up and gives them a bump.
As little ice.
My mistake.
So apparently she was pulling up pretty fast for her
to slide on the ice and boom.
Right.
So so so they might have been in there necking.
And then then they got whiplash on their neck.
Right.
They might even bump teeth when they were trying to kiss
right and she bumps into them.
Yeah.
Right.
Kojack.
That was a Kojack moment.
Right.
And then then to to to make matters worse or better,
I guess, you know, depends on the eye of the beholder.
She's out there fighting.
Topless.
In the snow.
At 4 AM in the morning.
I ain't had one like that.
I ain't had a crazy one like that.
That's a crazy.
Yeah, that trumped it all.
Yeah, that trumped it.
Yeah, you are the queen.
Yeah.
You thought it was crazy?
Yeah.
You said it.
Oh, it was not crazy.
That's what it had up for.
I can tell you.
I can tell you some crazy story.
I was now.
You got more?
No, not about me.
I know crazy for it.
No, that's pretty crazy though.
Angelica, 3 AM in the snow is crazy enough right there.
I always know.
Like, that's what I'm saying to he.
She woke up at 3 30 AM, straight up in the bed.
I did.
I mean, like, I don't know.
No, something spoke to her.
It did.
Right.
To wake her up.
It did.
What you call it?
I said women intuition.
What did it say?
So we got to go down.
It said, Angelica, get up and get in your car
and drive down to his mom's house just like that.
Was it a female voice or male voice?
It was male.
OK.
Wow.
Mm-hmm.
OK.
Yeah, I think I'm crazy.
I bet you're a woman who I'm talking about.
And I did.
I was right.
I mean, it was right.
So who won the fight?
Oh, she won't fight me, please.
Oh, she wouldn't.
No, she wouldn't.
She wouldn't fight you?
OK.
You look really laugh at Parkinson's.
This is hilarious.
I'm pretty sure she wouldn't.
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All right, welcome back to the Antonio Parkinson project.
I am Antonio Parkinson.
We're talking about Will and Jada here
with my wonderful co-host, Angelica Jelly
Woods and DJ Coach Jack Captain Brogan.
So we'd envirred all the way left or right somewhere,
talking about Angelica sniping folks in the snow, creeping up
on them right in the snow.
But back to the situation with Will and Jada,
they're choosing to live under this marriage or arrangement
or whatever they got right.
But live, separate lives, but continue to stay married,
rather.
And I've always been one that says,
don't let society dictate to you what your marriage should
look like.
There you go.
And you got some people that live in these arrangements.
They may live separately.
You got some people that live in the same house,
sleep in different beds.
You got some people that sleep in the same bed.
You got some people that sleep in the same bed with others
in the same house with each other.
And then you got those that are not actually married on paper
but choose to live with each other.
And that to them is their marriage.
What do y'all think about that?
Sometimes society dictates a lot of what people should do
and try to put people in cookie cutter form, cookie cutter
boxes that don't actually work for the individuals that they're
wired to be.
Right.
Thoughts on the coach?
Yeah.
I definitely agree with that because what happens is society
is corrupt.
So what they're doing right now, especially nowadays,
you got the Instagram face, you got the social media crazy.
People trying to live up to.
So I feel like you definitely can't design what your thing is
with their thing because it's two different things.
And like I said earlier before, you create your own reality.
You live in it.
You don't let nobody outside of there corrupt it.
Let me ask this question.
Let me throw this question out there.
It's going to be Angelica.
I'm prepping you for the question.
It's going to be a tough one.
And you can't say both, right?
Oh, God.
So if you had a choice, would you prefer
to have the title of marriage or the perfect forever boyfriend
that does not get married?
I don't want a forever boyfriend.
Right.
So you'd rather have a title in a mediocre or not good.
A man that's not good.
You'd rather have a title of marriage versus
that of your man of your dreams, but just didn't put the ring on your finger.
He's not the man of my dreams.
OK, so so but you don't you don't you don't.
You don't.
I told you I don't want to know.
I don't I will live mediocre.
So with my husband and that's so.
So OK, all right.
So you got you got let me hard.
Well, let me actually let me let me take a little further.
OK, OK, Kojax, zoom in.
You want to take it further?
I'm taking further.
OK.
Oh, God.
OK, the marriage is a license in the state of Tennessee.
Are you talking about a marriage where if he marry you under the eyes of God,
not get right, not not go through the formal way of checking in with the state,
paying this right paying the state.
You tell me the title or the perfect man.
There you go. There you go.
Yeah, it would be in order to get the title, you have to go through the state
of Tennessee and Jesus.
So yes. So what?
I'd rather have a title.
Why are you keep asking this?
Am I going to be clear on very clear?
I would take the title with a mediocre, whatever man.
Then be with a forever boyfriend for the rest of my life.
Right. Yes. OK.
You know what?
I asked that question on Facebook one time and when I say,
I think we had about 300 comments on it, right?
And I was really surprised at some of the answers that I got from women.
You know, they said, you know, they they rather have the title.
And man, so I can have the title and have a man that sits on the couch
and plays in the game.
You didn't say that.
I said a mediocre man. He said mediocre.
You didn't say no lazy, no hard-making working man.
No, no, I said the man of your dreams or mediocre man that gives you a ring.
Mead or command. He's just on the couch all day.
No, that's pretty mediocre to me.
That's not me. So so what's your answer?
Still the same? No, it's still the same.
But that's not a man. A man, he he works, he he eats.
That's that's a man.
That's a boy.
If he doing sit on the couch all day and I said what I said.
Well, OK, so.
That's.
OK, let me let me post this other question.
What if there were what if there were?
What if marriage licenses expired?
Oh, God.
So what if you had to renew your marriage license every four years?
Do you think that would be beneficial to marriages or detrimental to marriages?
I would be beneficial.
Oh, why? It'd be beneficial.
The same way it's beneficial that you have to.
It's a license when you drive, you got to you got to renew your license.
So the same way you got to renew your license in a marriage.
You renew your license.
Oh, Rico, catch some of these expressions.
Rico, you got to get it.
Because she is.
She is.
I'm glad I can't see here.
Yeah, but like I said, I think if you have to renew them,
it ain't not wrong with just this is called a check up.
Right. I'm surprised the state wouldn't wouldn't.
It's called a check up.
Every every other license.
He says, call it a check up.
If you have a business license, you have to renew it.
If you have a driver's license, you have to renew it.
Yeah, we going through this, but that's why I asked earlier.
Do you want to get married to the state or to the eyes of God?
Right. So do that.
Do that as a God.
It is. It is. It does never.
It never expired. Right.
You're doing this because you're on the God.
OK, you slip. You slip.
Joey added that one.
I know we're probably going to have to set up a cop for him over here at the studio
because it's true because, you know, when when his wife hears these
here's these answers, you know, she might be like, yeah, yeah.
OK, I got to I got your expired license.
I'm going to get her number after I got said, you know, we got a.
But he slipped. He slipped underneath.
He slipped. He got out there.
He got out of the room.
What about that, Angelica?
If marriage licenses expired, right?
Every four years, right?
Or every year, let's say every four years, right?
And you had to renew.
Would that be beneficial to to to would that make marriages last longer?
Or would it make them make them, you know, be more detrimental to a man?
That 50 percent will be higher of divorce rate.
They wouldn't they wouldn't go renew.
It takes a it's already marriages are already not taken seriously.
It would just take it.
It'll take from definitely people aren't making a lifetime for other reasons.
Not saying if a marriage failed as bad, we do.
But if you can do it every four years,
that definitely is taking out a life.
It's taking a lifetime out of it.
If that's not lifetime, four years, not lifetime.
It makes it it makes it too easy to quit.
We always we think everything is easy.
And we are we are we're in a generation where we could just
we just move on.
What happens to the fight and what happens to the figuring out?
Not saying every situation is different, you know, whatever.
I'm not saying anything.
I'm just just like we look like we only got 72 more days with him.
And I'm lying.
Nothing.
Yeah, how many more days?
Yeah, you got 72.
Four more now.
Every lifetime.
I'm like, what?
Thank you. Thank you.
But he's like, no, you know, I said I do.
I said, I'll ask forever.
I'm going to try to, you know, put it is going to make it's an easier escape.
Go. But like I said, last time we always looking for an escape.
Go see what you let me say this here.
What you're saying, further less me know that marriage shouldn't be just on paper.
And we are we're fearing having to pay an artist.
So we're we're fearing a state more than we are God.
I'm not even considering this.
I'm not even considering the state at this point.
But you are you saying because the state is the only thing
that's going to give you expire, you don't it never have to expire under God.
You don't have to go downtown and renew anything.
Kojak saying a word, Kojak is not Kojak in us right now.
He's word because because the marriage is a marriage of the soul, right?
And in the mind, right? More than it is.
Oh, God, you almost made me say something.
I was there, you know, but but real talk to me to and I've always been saying this,
but I always get ran off with rates and pitch for Kojak.
So I'm going to get ran off with me.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I don't be by yourself.
You know, the, you know, the man made portion of marriage.
I always say is about money, right?
So and let me give you an example.
If it was just the two of you on an island and you had to depend on each other,
you know, for your survival and you loved each other because because there's a common.
There's a true bond there, your survival, right?
There is no no preacher or no justice
of peace who don't even know you there to validate you love this other person.
Yeah.
And you don't even know you and he and he that's y'all getting people
who don't know you out of myriad.
So you know, I go ahead and people, you know, I got I got I got the
power vested in me to make you almost made me say some I wouldn't let you marry me.
Oh, now I'm just not going to get the pill on the way.
Wow.
Just that white.
Right.
Oh, no, no, no, no, really.
Oh, I'm the head.
Hey, Rico, if I'm in, if I'm in a movie, I'm gonna die one of them slow motion
deaths like, oh, yeah.
Are you serious to die?
Right? You really can marry somebody.
Yeah, I can marry somebody.
Yeah, yeah, I can marry you.
Yep.
So when you get ready, renew them vows, right?
And you need somebody, you know, call me one 800.
I can marry you.
See the fact that you got to wait 100.
I'll be all wrong.
So there's gonna be like them lawyer commercials that's on the radio right now.
I'm just mad.
Parkinson.
Oh my God.
No, you don't.
You don't.
I ain't got nothing to say.
Yeah.
I got the power vested in me to marry you.
Oh, now watch this.
Now watch this.
Now, what do I know about how you really feel about you and you?
You and you.
Not a thing.
That's why you wouldn't marry.
But that has that has.
That is the point.
But that has to do with the couple that has that has to do with the people that's
getting married, who married me actually knew me.
They counsel me still in my life.
Your husband.
Yeah.
How?
But who did they know first?
My husband.
They knew your husband first so they know him better than they knew you.
Yeah.
So so now what if what if they knew your what if I don't care?
No, you can't.
I like you.
Go ahead.
I want to do it.
Come on.
No, but what?
But I can say don't cop out.
Okay, I'm not gonna cop out because I don't want to put this bag on your husband.
No, he's a big.
He's a big.
He's a big boy.
Right.
So so so let's say it's a situation right where one of my friends wants me to marry
him and his girl, right?
Yeah.
But I know he'll hold.
Oh yeah.
Right.
I know this right?
You know it.
Right.
Yeah.
And so and so and then you see what I'm saying?
Right.
Man, I'm setting this warming up for failure.
Right.
Because I know what it is.
And you know, I mean, I just I just you know, I look you know, let me tell you what I look
at this like.
I remember when I first got elected, right, and I was sitting in committee or
the local committee and this group of natives came before us and they said, we
need you to declare us Cherokees so that, you know, they can then get federally
declared and you know, and you know, whatever happens with all of that.
Right.
I felt that I felt so uncomfortable doing that because I'm like, who in the M.I.
Yeah.
To tell you who you are.
Yeah.
You see what I'm saying?
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah, you know, and that's why I'm sitting here.
I don't know how I look at to, you know, when you have this stranger because I was
the stranger, right, to tell them who they were, right?
Who am I to tell you that you really love this woman or validate what you're saying
about this woman or about this man?
That's not your.
Stranger, stranger marry you.
Who?
Stranger marry you when you get married.
Yeah.
And he didn't know shit about me.
Right.
Yeah.
Seriously.
You know, and you know, I mean, absolutely nothing, right?
But but it went on to marry me anyway.
And you see how that worked out, right?
So, right, right.
But the only person that can truly validate only being that can truly validate your
love for that person that you're trying to, you know, be eternally committed to is God.
Is God, right?
Because God knows everything that you're doing.
And, you know, but these, these other folks don't know Jack, man, you know, you
might be doing some weird stuff and a lot of people are.
And apparently that's why they're not standing.
That's why they're not together.
Yep.
This is how I feel. Everything you're saying is true and right.
But at the end of the day, you still have to have the paper signed.
There's certain things that you just have.
It's the law, the land that you have to abide by in order for it.
If you die, there's there's certain things that as a girlfriend or that they're
not going to honor, opposed to as a wife.
Lies. Let me tell you why you said.
Why?
Get an attorney on.
Now, we ain't got to get no attorney because.
We're going to say a will.
And LLC will do the same exact thing.
A will?
That marriage license.
A will.
Who a lot of people don't have a lot of people don't even have that common sense
to even do that.
Well, I'm just saying, no, I'm saying, no, no.
It's available.
Please. Right.
Who do who doing it besides you two?
Who said we were doing it?
I'm saying like I'm saying, but who who in your regular who in your regular
circle, regular life, you hear more stories of people who don't change things
over who do X, Y, Z. I know a situation.
Yes, that they don't have their affairs in order and they end up being you just
you the you mean.
But here's what here's what an LLC does, though.
You can set up an LLC or a partner and it lays out the dissolution of the
LLC on the front end.
What's the difference?
That's actually better than how you know, marriages are set up.
Right.
And y'all look, don't run me off with rakes and pitchforks.
Let me look into the camera.
Don't run me off with rates.
Hit him in the head with the camera.
Facts of how an LLC works.
No, that's good.
They should know.
Yeah.
So we don't know.
I didn't know that.
So a partnership set up, set up, you know, we ain't saying that.
You know, if you go, if you ain't, if you not, if you're choosing not to
get married, right?
And trying to, an alternative route, set up a business, set up a partnership,
set up an LLC.
And then when you split apart, then it's already decided.
You said then when you split apart, I said, if you, I said, when you split apart,
about they really split apart, then, then, you know, it's all laid out, you
know, about how, where, where the properties, how the property is going to be
divided and it's done on the front end.
I see Judge David Poole on there.
Judge, hey, chime in.
Let us know if we're, if we're talking fictitiously or not, you know, judge,
or any of the other judges that may be watching, you know, I would like to hear,
but seriously, you know, so, you know, they're, you know, because marriage,
marriage, you know, in the traditional form is really a contract.
That's what it is.
It's a contract about property.
That's really what it, that's, you know, I'm not trying to minimize it.
You know, so y'all, y'all, please go easy on me.
But, but, but it is a contract, right?
That, that, that's going to decide benefits and this, that another marriage.
I don't look at it that way.
I guess I look at marriage and maybe I live in La La Land.
Actually, somebody has told me that I live in fairy tale land.
Cause even when I said, even what I expected about of a man, this lady,
she actually told me, she might be listening.
She said, Jelica, that don't exist.
And I'm sorry.
I had a daddy and that's what I saw.
So to me, it exists.
Right. And I, and I get that.
But let me ask you this.
So yeah, I, what you going to ask me?
Let me ask you this though.
But, but think about this, think about this.
Before you get married to that person, you are in that fairy tale
La La Land that, which is beautiful, which is nothing wrong with that.
No, no fairy tale.
I'm not knocking that right.
But well, before you, before you actually hopped the broom, right?
Y'all are spending all your time together, probably living with
it together, done had sex, right?
All of these things, right?
Yeah.
You're all of the above.
So you already pretty much married before you even get married.
That technically is marriage, but I didn't want to get, I didn't want to
get all that rabbit hole.
We went on a road here and watch this though.
Before you get separated or divorced, before y'all physically separate
and divorce, you've already physically separated and divorced before the
paperwork even hits months or years before the paperwork.
Y'all already been divorced because you're not in communal with each other.
Yeah.
For Will and Jay, it's 2016.
They might be.
2016 is the last time they were together.
So 2016.
They're not even together.
That's a long time.
What they put online and setting that as relationship goes.
That's a scary thing.
Like people are looking at people and want to be, how they present their
stuff online and wishing and hoping to have that.
And that's not even the case.
But what if it works for them?
You know, Will and Jay, they're still.
It ain't, it ain't work.
And they got a lot of mess going on.
He done slapped West card guy, kicked out the Grammys.
He, she done got caught with a, I mean, she go with a 20-some-year-old
saying this, or somebody's friend.
They had a lot of mess.
It's really messed.
Her son friend, what's the singer name?
Augusta Cina.
They didn't have a lot of mess.
They didn't have a hold on tech.
They had a lot of mess.
The only reason they had mess is because it became public, but it wasn't
messed when it wasn't public.
It was just them living their lives.
Right.
And so, and, but it was what works for them.
They're still married.
You can't, you can't, you can't dispute the fact that they are still married.
When a lot of these folks that don't even do it like that are not even married.
They may not even be happy.
Who not may not.
Jayden and Will, you don't even know that.
We don't know, but they're still married.
There are a lot of people that's still married and happy.
And they have absolutely.
What does that mean?
They stand together for kids, cheaper to keep us.
Right.
They lazy or that's all they know out of comfort.
So.
And that's what the expiration date will solve.
No, no.
Why would I stay in something when at this point I can leave?
But she can leave if she wants to.
You don't do no crap.
When they married, they would have a fit.
No, no, no.
You know, have you ever been divorced?
No.
OK.
No, but the point is you are if you are there will always be the best.
There will always be in the back of your head.
It will always be in the back of your head.
That makes you act right.
No, or OK, or countdown these days like doing a jail sentence.
So that they'll make them they'll make everybody act right.
They're doing a jail sentence.
That's not everybody.
I got one.
I can lay down a little bit of time.
I ain't got number three years with this.
Right.
But if you a lifetime, it makes you it.
I mean, in love.
No, you're a lifetime.
Tell when Angelica gets passionate.
It's a lot.
I guess I don't feel that way about my marriage.
And that's good.
We want you to stay Polly Peerheart, because, you know, we want you to say Polly Peerheart.
We want you to stay that way.
I think it's beautiful.
You know, I think that's beautiful, right?
You say right.
Right.
It's nothing wrong with that.
I think that's beautiful.
And I hope that that that that would the same way.
You know, Google Gaga over you too.
I think that I think that's absolutely.
You see how she blushed.
Go there.
Yeah, yeah.
She gonna cry when she get in the car.
Yeah, right.
Right.
You know, they come to my home, we are that we are what we represent.
But I love that.
I love it.
I think that's good, you know, but it doesn't work like that for everybody.
I know.
Right.
So, yeah.
So look, we're three minutes over the segment.
Oh, you know, this was the third segment.
Was it not?
We had 10.
Right.
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Right.
I'm not crazy.
Women know the intuition.
If you agree with me, say yes, the intuition, because it is a man's voice.
It's a gift.
Yeah, it's a gift.
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