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Welcome to Milestone Moments, the show where

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we explore the journeys that lead to success.

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I'm Sheila Slick, your host and founder of Five

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Milestones. In every episode, we will bring you

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insights from the minds of entrepreneurs, leaders

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and experts who will share not just their expertise,

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but the milestone moments that have reshaped

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their journeys and led to significant achievements.

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So if you're looking for motivation, you're in

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the right place. Subscribe now and discover the

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milestones that mark the path to success. Welcome

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to another episode of Milestone Moments in Business

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and Leadership. I'm your host, Sheila Slick.

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And today, my super special guest is Julie Loken.

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J .D. She is a visibility strategist and she's

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the CEO of the Media Casters, where she helps

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visionary entrepreneurs turn big ideas into bold

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visibility. As founder of CreativeCon. Chicago's

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annual Visibility Summit, and host of the Get

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Obsessed podcast, Julie blends legal insights,

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branding expertise, and storytelling brilliance

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to amplify underestimated voices. She's also

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a best -selling author of the Hustle Smart series.

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She's a certified life coach and the mother of

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not one, not two, not three, but four boys. Welcome

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to the show, Julie. Thank you, Sheila. You did

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your research and obviously I'm a hoarder of

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experiences and children. So thank you. That's

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going to be an entire different episode. Like

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we could almost even start a podcast just based

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on some of the conversations we've had. You went

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to law school, you got a JD, yet you're not practicing

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law. You instead have built a career amplifying

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other people's voices, whether it be through

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media, through podcasting, even publishing. So

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what was that pivotal moment when you realized

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that you didn't want to practice law and do these

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other things instead? So that's an amazing kind

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of question. And not many people even know that

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I'm trained as an attorney. I come from a long

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lineage of male attorneys. Both of my grandfathers

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are attorneys. My father's an attorney. Everyone

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seems to be an attorney. We don't even have one

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plumber in our family. And I thought to myself,

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Julie, you are going to be the first woman attorney

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in the family. So I'm like, OK, let's sign up

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to be an attorney. I don't even know how I passed

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the LSATs to get into law school, but I did.

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And I would say three fourths during. Law school.

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I took I went to law school part time because

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I started when I was 27. I went into the workforce,

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kind of realized I wanted to do something different,

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was feeling my way around it. I was married and

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I was pregnant and I was in my criminal law final

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exam and started going into labor during my final

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exam. And I was like, oh, oh. I don't know if

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this is what I really want to be doing. It's

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not really for me. I want to help people. I want

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to do other things. I think I just went to do

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this to prove a point that I could actually graduate

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law school and become a lawyer because I wanted

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to do this for my family. So it was a few years

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of reckoning, figuring out who I was. I knew

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I always wanted to be a mother, obviously, four

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boys later. I didn't know I wanted to be an entrepreneur.

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My father was an excellent role model as he built

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a huge law firm in Chicago. But I didn't know

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how to articulate it in my mind. There was no

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such thing as being an entrepreneur major back

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in the day. So I didn't know really what it was

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until I hit about 40. And then I was like, bing,

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bing, bing. That is what I want to do. I want

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to be an entrepreneur. It was a long, slow process.

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Being a lawyer, yes, it was a great foundation

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to learn how to be discerning, how to negotiate,

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how to read, how to be. how to negotiate issues,

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how to look at a contract, how to communicate

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with people on a professional level that nobody

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else can understand. Yeah, and I didn't really

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want to get into the courtroom. I didn't really

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want to practice law because it is a grind. I

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didn't want to work for 80 hours a week with

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a little baby. So I started my own business online,

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which people weren't really doing that at that

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time. Sheila, and I don't know, did you have

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an online business, Sheila? back in the day I

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did but before I share that okay sorry I always

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turn the tables because I'm a podcaster too so

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I I had to warn you like I start interviewing

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the podcaster so just stop me sorry no this is

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great I just want to know what happened with

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the exam you obviously passed it because you

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earned the law degree but did you complete the

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test at that moment while in oh yeah yeah yeah

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I know No, I did. I slowed down that labor. It's

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funny. That's the son that I was pregnant with.

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He's actually in school right now for criminal

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justice. This is funny. I didn't I'm getting

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the goosebumps. I didn't even think about it

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right now. He's a junior in college. He's studying

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criminal justice and he's going to he's applying

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to law school. So isn't that weird? I was in

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law school. Well, it's maybe where he began,

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you know, where he started being born. Yeah,

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I got a B on that test. I remember I got a B

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on that test. So I'm like, oh, I should have

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got an A. But yeah, I had him shortly thereafter.

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But yeah, that's funny. I said a male professor

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or a female professor. It was a male. Yeah, a

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lot of male professors. I feel like it was male

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heavy for sure. Did he know you were in labor?

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I'm just fascinated. Oh, probably because I was

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like. Oh, well, I was huge, first of all. And

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I was like, oh, God. And I was probably rocking

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back and forth. And I probably looked miserable.

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I was in the first row. And I was like, probably

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rocking back and forth, like horribly uncomfortable,

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you know. So he probably recognized that I looked

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horribly uncomfortable. He's like, do you need

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to step outside? And I'm like, I'm OK. I'm going

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to finish this exam. So that's when I kind of

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realized I was maybe. this might not be for me,

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but I, I recognized three -fourths through law

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school that I didn't choose this for myself.

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I was trying to prove a point, but I had to finish

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because that would be ridiculous if I didn't

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finish law school. And then I started my, really

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started my family and it just didn't make sense.

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You know, as I graduated and walked through the

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podium, my father, who was an attorney, he handed

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me my diploma and I had to tell him I Didn't

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want to be an attorney. And that was hard, but

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he understood and has supported me ever since.

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So you'll get to meet him in February. Yes, because

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I am attending CreativeCon and I look forward

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to meeting you in person. Yeah. So your question

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to me was, did I ever do online e -commerce?

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Yeah. So my first business. I was always meant

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to be an entrepreneur because I'm a fourth generation

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entrepreneur. And I thought, you know, just talking

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about business and being part of the business,

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I would sometimes work summer jobs in the family

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business. All my grandparents had businesses,

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my parents. So I thought that was just part of

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the normal conversation. So for me, it was what

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kind of business do you want to do? Now, my husband,

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he's also. an entrepreneur. And actually one

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of his two majors was entrepreneurship. So it

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was a match made in heaven. It was just a matter

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of what company are we going to start? And he

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had a business plan in hand by the time he graduated

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college. And that business has yet to be formed.

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But opportunity knocked and we found ourselves

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moving overseas. And our first company was a

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cultured marble manufacturing. And my second

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company that I co -founded, because I got pregnant

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during that first one, didn't want to be around

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chemicals and factory and construction sites,

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was with my grandmother and my mother. And it

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was a retail jewelry company. But when the internet

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was introduced, it was a window to the world.

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And I was living overseas. So I was like, well,

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how can we export our designs using this fascinating

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new tool? And I became so fascinated, would be

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the word, by this new window to the world that

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it actually led me to learn how to code a few

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years later when the mobile application was introduced.

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And by that point, I was a mother of two. So

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I started creating educational apps. I had wanted

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a master's degree, but being a mother and having...

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You know, the company overseas, it was like,

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are you having a midlife crisis is what they

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would ask me. And I said, no, I've always just

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wanted to break my own glass ceiling. Now, not

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with a law degree, but with a master's degree.

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None of the women in our family had achieved

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a master's degree. I self -taught myself pretty

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much how to code. And before you knew it, I started

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making apps. But I was a jeweler with mother

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and grandmother. So four years into that, a university

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called me in and said, NASA is having a hackathon.

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And we know that you are someone that has learned

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how to code. Can you participate? And I thought,

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a hackathon? NASA? No, no, no. And next day I

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went in after my kids were like, mother, you've

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taught us that you can't fail if you don't try

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and you're not trying. So to our surprise, NASA

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gave us a global honorable mention. That's how

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I got into IT many, many, many years ago. And

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that's what I do today. That's my story, Julie.

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That's an incredible story. I love that. When

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you said you realized that you didn't want law,

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that that's what you're. You know, family, perhaps

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kind of like with me with entrepreneurship, that

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was what you were meant to do. I think that's

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a common pattern sometimes with parents, right,

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is, oh, this is what you should do. I raise my

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kids differently, which we had that conversation.

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It was in today's day and age, right? Do you

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do you? What works for you? You don't need a

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college degree if you don't want one. You can

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do just fine with a master's or a bachelor's

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or go for that Ph .D. I think that the world

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has changed so much in these decades that there's

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opportunities. Right. And I have even told my

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kids because I think since I've graduated college,

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it was just so natural that you go to high school

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and you go to college. There's no ifs, ands or

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buts, at least how I grew up and where I grew

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up. And now I see it so differently because the

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idea of college has become such a business. Now,

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I've had one graduate from college, one's in

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college, one's getting ready to go to college,

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and I have one in the backseat. You know, he's

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still young, but not necessarily. I think every

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college isn't for everybody. And I wouldn't be

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sad if one of my kids decided not to go to college.

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They need a direction. But I think entrepreneurship

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is such a big, big component now. I think these

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kids have ideas if they have a mentor, if they

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have a vocation. And Gary Vee, in a conversation

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I had with Gary Vaynerchuk, he was one that really

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opened my eyes to it. Just in today's world,

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you don't necessarily need to walk out with $200

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,000 of debt and you're working at. McDonald's,

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no offense to people who work at McDonald's,

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but walking out with $200 ,000 of debt and working

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a minimum wage job is very commonplace these

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days when you really have an idea, a spark surrounding

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yourself with people and a vocation or you have

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an idea. There are so many other options now

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besides college. I think we were, yeah, college,

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college, college, but kids aren't making the

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money or doing the things they really truly want

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to. That being said, I'm not sure college is

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for every single person these days. And I think

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men or women, we really got to listen to our

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hearts. What do we love to do? Because I've seen

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so many people miserable in those golden handcuffs

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for so many years that are in that job, in that

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job, and they hate it. How many friends do you

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have that complain about their nine to five and

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they can't get out of it because they need their

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benefits? They need their health insurance. They

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have their 401ks. There's no escape. They have

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those golden handcuffs. There's no escape. They

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didn't listen to their heart. And they've lived

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that life. And, you know, they have regrets.

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So I don't want at least my children to live

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with those regrets. Nor you. You got to think

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about you, too, now that the kids are growing.

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Yeah, I don't live. That's one thing I don't

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live with. I don't live with regrets, obviously.

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With my introduction, you can tell I just jump

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in with two feet, as long as I'm not making anybody

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else suffer with my decisions. I want to learn

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more about how you amplify underestimated voices.

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What does that mean? And what's your why behind

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that? I technically I'm a media strategist, so

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I see things that other people don't, especially

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people in business. I'm a PR strategist, plain

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and simple. I work with all businesses from Fortune

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500 companies to people who've worked in the

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White House to reality television stars to solopreneurs,

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just the whole gamut. But I elevate their voices

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through not social media, but earned media. So

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the difference is social media. I feel like I

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make people angry when I say this. Social media

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to me is the lowest hanging fruit. Everyone can

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do it. And you are pretty much brainwashed to

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just be on social media 24 -7. You lose so much

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time. You think, oh, you're going to become famous.

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You're going to become rich. But it's really

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the earned media. It's getting in the press,

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in the mainstream press that really elevates

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your brand reputation. That's where I elevate

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them. Why did I get into this? Well, I'm a journalist

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at heart. I love writing. My background is in

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journalism. That's what I went to school with.

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I've always been a writer and I've always elevated

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other people because I technically, if you really

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want to go back to it, I never had a voice. I

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was always told to shut up. Not by my family.

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My family always elevated me, but I was always

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quirky, weird, not weird, but I was always. and

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loud and like, ooh, and different and always

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just, you know, I just had no filter, really.

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I just said what I thought and was very creative.

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And people just didn't get it. Everyone wants

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to follow a certain line, and I just didn't.

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I would be like, let's do this, let's do that.

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Still to this day, people say that, and I decided,

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you know, I'm going to let my voice shine. I

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like to see other people's voices shine. And

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I love to see people's voices shine on a really

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big scale. That's why I do what I do. So now

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give us one trick, one action we can take to

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get out of the social media and live with that

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bigger, better opportunity that you mentioned.

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And you really don't, I mean. You do need someone

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like me consistently, but you don't need me.

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You can do your own PR if you want to. For example,

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you can go on X, aka Twitter, and you want to

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become friends with journalists. So Twitter is,

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if you like social media, and I'm, you know,

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I'm telling you to go on social media. If you

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like social media, look for the hashtag journo

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requests, hashtag journo requests. That's J -O

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-U -R -N -O -R -E -Q -U -E -S -T -S. And that's

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a great hashtag. If journalists are looking for

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quotes or experts, they are on Twitter and you

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can just see maybe they're looking for you and

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just pitch them. Pitch journalists or go on muckrack

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.com. That's where all the journalists are. I'm

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verified on muckrack. And find the journalist

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that speaks to you, your expertise, and that's

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where you can pitch them. Start pitching journalists.

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Don't tell them all about you. Know what they're

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talking about. Send them a short snippet, whatever

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you're doing, whatever you're an expert with.

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But become friends with those journalists. And

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those are two little snippets. And I'm happy

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to give you some more so you can put them in

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your show notes if you want. Anything you want

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to share on my share notes. So now let's talk

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about CreativeCon. My favorite topic, by the

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way. Well, it is coming up. And I'm so excited

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I get to meet you in person. So I want to hear

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all about it. How did this concept come up and

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what made you want to create it? This is its

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third year. This year is really the explosion

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year. And it is like planning a wedding every

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single year. And I'm not kidding. It is one time

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a year live event. We have a beautiful venue

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downtown Chicago. Perfect location. That's besides

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the point. But we have a gathering of entrepreneurs,

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small businesses, solopreneurs who are looking

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to up level their businesses and brands who are

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looking to be around real thought leaders. who

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are looking to meet and touch, not touch in a

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creepy way, but touch thought leaders and network

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like heck. Network, network, network. Because

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one thing I know is all the conferences I go

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to, it's like you sit there in a seat, you listen

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to person after person after person, pitch, pitch,

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pitch, pitch, and then you go home. The biggest

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thing I take away from most conferences is the

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Rolodex of network of people I meet at the most.

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You forget everything else. So I want to eliminate

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that velvet rope. I want you to meet people,

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have conversations with people, even the people

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on stage, and create a community. It becomes

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the community thereafter that you have not just

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that day, but thereafter. People that you can't

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quit. That was the onus for me by going to all

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these conferences. It was five years ago, six

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years ago. I started in my head and brought on

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Dom Domaski, and we slowly brought a team we

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trusted, and it's grown. And now this year, Jim

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Quick, the renowned brain coach, David Meltzer

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is coming again, Justin Guarini from American

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Idol, Kim Walsh Phillips, just VaynerX, the president

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of VaynerX, Gary Vaynerchuk's partner, going

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to be there. Great amount of great speakers.

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And it's for entrepreneurs and small businesses

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who want to level up in a very personalized way.

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So the event begins on a Friday. There's a networking

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event on that Friday. Then it's all day Saturday

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and it runs through Sunday. Now, I got the VIP

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ticket, so I'm really excited to be able to join

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some of these events. And the venue looks absolutely

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stunning. So where can the audience? Learn more

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or buy those tickets to be able to join us at

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CreativeCon. Well, if you want to meet Sheila

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Slick in person, join us. Get your ticket because

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Sheila's, first of all, going to be there and

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she's a VIP. We're going to roll out the red

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carpet for her at www .creativecon .com, C -R

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-E -8, the number eight, T -I -V -E, con, C -O

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-N, dot com. CreativeCon .com. And it's going

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to be amazing. And every person feels like a

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VIP when they walk through those doors. It's

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going to be super fun. A lot of surprises, a

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lot of snacks, fun, networking, and amazing thought

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leaders that you will get to meet personally.

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You will leave a changed person entrepreneur.

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Before I let you go, I want to learn all about

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your podcast. So you have three podcasts. I do.

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I have three podcasts. The first podcast is called

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Get Obsessed. It is the flagship podcast in my

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arsenal of podcasts. It is a personal development

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podcast. It has been just a joy to do that. My

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second podcast is called the Creative Entrepreneur

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Podcast. It is a reflection of my love for business.

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I do that with my partner, Dom Domasky. It is

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a reflection of CreativeCon as well. It is branded

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with CreativeCon, and we've been doing that three,

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four years, I would say four years. And the third

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one is a true crime podcast, which really has

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not launched because it's an investigative podcast

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about an unsolved murder here in the suburbs

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of Chicago. So stay tuned because we're going

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to solve that murder. It's called Murder in Morton

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Grove. So you're going to put your legal hat

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on for that one? Well, it's more like investigative

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journalist hat. You know, just trying to figure

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out who murdered these two high school girls

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back in 1979. And I pretty much know who did

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it. But, you know, you need the evidence. You

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can't convict somebody without the evidence.

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And that's the sticking point. And the sad part

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is I want this solved before the families die

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because it's 45 years old. That's the sad part.

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So you are using your legal hat. I heard you

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use the word evidence. That's legal terminology,

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Julie. Maybe I am. Maybe I am. My last question

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is, what is the one thing that you think most

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people get wrong about building authentic visibility

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today? I touched on it a little bit. Social media

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is important. It is a component. to building

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a brand. You need it. It's great to build your

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domain authority. I'm not diminishing that, but

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it's not the only thing. People forget about

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earned media. You need to have a Google knowledge

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panel, which means Google recognizes you. You

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want to be able to be searched. If people can't

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find you on Google, you know, why are you building

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a business? So don't forget the other things.

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Earned media, getting in the press, getting on

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TV, getting... exposure on many different levels.

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So do dabble in social media, but don't focus

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totally on that. Well, thank you so much for

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joining me today, Julie. Thank you, Sheila. It's

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been amazing. I adore you and I'm honored to

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be here. Thank you all for tuning in to another

00:24:29.799 --> 00:24:32.539
episode of Milestone Moments in Business and

00:24:32.539 --> 00:24:34.400
Leadership. Until next time.
