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Good morning everyone!

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How's everybody doing today?

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Good, good. Has it reached 80 degrees yet?

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Not yet. We're getting there though, right?

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We're all going to take a walk later this afternoon.

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Get out and experience the wonderful warm weather.

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If you're joining us from home, thank you for welcoming us into your space.

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So I want to rewind and tell you a little story from my past.

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I was a young pastor.

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I'd recently moved my family to Syracuse, New York,

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where I'd just become the kids, youth, and young adult pastor.

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My other two job responsibilities at the church were

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tech team oversight, which I never did in my life,

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and building maintenance.

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Of course, when taking the position,

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I just assumed that I could handle it.

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All of those responsibilities may have been hard,

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but look, I learn quickly and I get things done.

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It was late winter, early spring of 2003,

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and if you know anything about Syracuse, New York,

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you know winters are a winter wonderland of snow.

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There was a record year of snowfall that year,

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somewhere in the neighborhood of 160 inches or so of snow.

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The building that was owned by the Syracuse Vineyard

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had a flat roof, and if you know anything about flat roofs,

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they hold a lot of snow, and after a staff meeting on Tuesday,

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John and I noticed several ceiling tiles in the main auditorium that were wet.

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Upon further inspection, which means I was climbing up a ladder,

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I discovered with the warming temperatures,

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the snow on the roof had begun to melt,

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and apparently there were a few holes in the roof

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because John took and bought the cheapest option available to repair the roof.

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As the week went on and the temperatures went up,

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more water began to leak from the roof to the point

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where the drips weren't drips anymore,

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but it was a flood that was going into the buckets

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that I set out underneath to catch the water.

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This was not a week of pastoring.

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This would be a week of engineering excellence.

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During the day, I was on the roof,

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shoveling snow off of the flat roof and onto the parking lot below,

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and during the evenings, I was hanging tarps from the metal drop ceiling frame

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that would catch the water, angle the flow of the water into large trash cans,

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where I had a pump and a hose that was pumping the water into the mop sinks.

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Just to let you know, we had all of our Sunday gatherings on that Sunday morning.

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John, the pastor, that's right, even used an umbrella

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and sang Singing in the Rain during his sermon intro

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because guess what?

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All the water was still coming down into the tarps,

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into the trash cans being pumped out while worship was taking place.

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After the gatherings, I grabbed my family, threw them in the car,

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and we left town for a week because I was exhausted.

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When I got back to Syracuse, I now had two weeks' worth of work to catch up on,

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and I noticed something strange about my left eye.

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It daily began to twitch.

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This was throwing off my equilibrium,

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and being honest, it just began to freak me out.

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I quickly scheduled a doctor's appointment.

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Well, I actually didn't quickly do it, just made me do it,

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only to discover this was my body's response to anxiety and stress,

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meaning my mind was being overloaded,

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and the physical result was an eye twitch or a signal that I needed to slow down.

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Has anyone ever felt that way before by a show of hands?

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I mean, let's be honest. I don't know what you're dealing with,

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but I can only imagine the financial pressure of the world today.

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You have bills to pay, kids to raise, and family to care for.

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There's relational issues. There's health challenges. There's job stress.

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There's inflation. I mean, has anyone seen the price of a dozen eggs?

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Really? Are the chickens on strike?

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I mean, is it possible not to be anxious in this world that we live in?

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Right? You open up a news app and you discover that the whole world is falling apart,

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and nobody likes each other.

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If you ever felt like you're battling with anxiety,

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and there's plenty to be anxious about, you're not alone.

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Listen to these numbers.

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In a study done in 2019, this is 2019,

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two out of three Americans said they were anxious or extremely anxious.

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That's two out of three in 2019 before the world got crazy.

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Since the pandemic, those numbers have only gotten worse,

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and the frequency and intensity of people dealing with anxiety

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is hitting record levels somewhere around 75% of our population.

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But it's challenging our younger generations.

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In fact, one study shows that 91% of those of you that have high school

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or college-age students, or you're here this morning,

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and you're in high school or going to college,

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91% of your age group report consistent and significant levels of anxiety associated with stress.

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And perhaps one of the most common and prolific mental issues of the day is anxiety.

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And if it's not stress, it's worry.

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The ongoing weight, a burden, someone you love, something you care about,

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something that you want to change, but you can't figure out how to change it.

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This never-ending weight, something that's always present within you,

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and according to the World Health Organization,

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Americans have a bigger problem with this issue than any other people in the world.

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If you can imagine, the most affluent society in the world

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is actually the most worry-filled society in the world.

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So for those of you that are Americans, congratulations, we win!

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A category that we don't want to win at all.

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So if over half, two out of three adults struggle with anxiety and worry,

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and we here gathered are in the normal percentages,

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that means that more than half of this room, look around,

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more than half of this room, and watching online,

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find yourself struggling to focus on this message.

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Because your mind is being consumed with a burden, a concern,

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someone you love, something you want to change, that's there, present,

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and you just live in that state of anxiety and worry.

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Why is it that so many of us find ourselves battling with this issue?

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So this morning, I want to try to unpack it for you,

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and I first want to tell you that at its core, it's because of our sin nature.

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Because we're born as sinners, we tend to default or lean toward fear,

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instead of defaulting toward faith.

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I mean, I can prove this to you.

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If you're awake some night at 2 a.m., I can almost promise you

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you're not trying to figure out how to manage the peace and joy that's in your life.

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If you're awake at 2 a.m., you're probably worried about your kids,

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a health issue, or somebody you love, job stress,

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or how you're going to take care of your parents in the years to come.

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Or you're worried about the big things, terrorism, wars, racism.

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Oh, it's a political year where we're going to vote for a new president.

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I mean, we live in a culture where anxiety and worry is just a commonly accepted part of life.

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And for the month of April here at HTV, we're doing a message series on mental health called Stretched Thin.

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Last week, I kicked off this series discussing the mental health myths that we find within the church.

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And today, we're going to be tackling anxiety and worry, and I want to encourage all of you that, listen,

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if you know someone that's struggling in their mental health, share these messages online.

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Go to our YouTube channel, subscribe, find last week's message, find this week's message, share it with your friends,

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because I tell you, it's life-changing for those that are struggling.

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Now, some of you might be thinking, Chris, why are we talking about anxiety and worry? Aren't they the same things?

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First, I want to say they're not.

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Second, I want to say they're related, they're close, but they're not the same.

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And their differences answer that question, which leads us to our first thought.

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Worry is experienced in our minds while anxiety is felt in our bodies.

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See, when we think about worry, we tend to experience worry in our minds.

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It's something that we think about over and over and over again.

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We literally rehearse the thoughts within our minds.

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Anxiety is different.

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See, we tend to experience worry in our minds, but we generally experience anxiety in our bodies.

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Think about my eye twitch.

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When my eye was twitching, it was a way for my body to tell me that,

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Houston, you've got a problem. You need to fix it.

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It's a little bit more holistic, where we worry, and when we worry, it's very specific.

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Anxiety is general.

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For example, we might worry that you're going to miss a flight that you have scheduled.

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I don't want to miss that flight. Hurry, hurry, we're going to be late.

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But we may feel anxious about traveling.

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Are my kids going to be okay? Do I have enough stuff? Pat.

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If you're a young person in high school or college, you may worry about an upcoming test.

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I want to do well on this exam while you feel stress over the course load that you're currently taking this semester.

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See, worry is more specific.

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And no matter what we call it, with all the problems in the world today,

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it feels like somebody needs to worry about them.

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It seems like we have to think about them. Stress, again, is more general.

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I'm overwhelmed at the rising cost of health care, food, gas.

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Am I going to survive in my current income?

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Paul, when writing to the church in Philippi, writes these words in Philippians 4, 4-6.

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Always be full of joy in the Lord. I say it again, rejoice.

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Let everyone see that you are considerate in all you do. Remember, the Lord is coming soon.

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Don't worry about anything. Now, some translations use the word anxious.

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Don't be anxious about anything. Instead, pray about everything.

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Tell God what you need and thank him for all he's done.

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Again, an amazing verse that we read in the Bible, an amazing verse that many people memorize.

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But when you hear those words, don't worry about anything.

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If you're anything like me, sometimes I kind of want to have a conversation with God and be like,

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is that even possible? How do I worry about nothing, God?

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Have you ever felt that way? It's like, God, what do you mean worry about nothing?

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Again, I don't know what you're facing or struggling with today,

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but I do want to encourage you that the most important thing you can do is identify the issue.

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Is it anxiety over the current pace of your life or the pressure that you're feeling on the job?

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Are you worried about an upcoming doctor visit or a situation that your child is struggling with?

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Where Paul tells us not to worry or be anxious about anything very general,

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Jesus gets more specific, which leads us to our next thought.

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See, Jesus says, don't worry about finances, food, fitness, fashion, and your future.

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So we're going to go to Matthew chapter six, verses 24 to 25 and verse 34.

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When we read, no one can serve two masters for you will hate one and love the other.

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You will be devoted to one and despise the other.

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You cannot serve God and be enslaved to money. What is Jesus saying?

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And he starts off these verses by saying, hey, don't worry so much about your finances.

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You can't love both God and money. So don't overly focus.

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Don't be obsessed about your money. Let's continue.

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That is why I tell you not to worry about your everyday life, whether you have enough food and drink,

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there's food or enough clothes to wear. There's fashion.

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Isn't life more than food in your body? There's fitness more than clothing.

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So notice Jesus said, don't worry about food.

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And we must remember when Jesus is speaking to this crowd of people that are gathered,

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they probably would have been worried about food because they were poor.

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And their thought pattern was, where am I going to get my next meal?

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When in reality, for many of us, we worry about food on a whole different level.

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We just worry about where we're going to eat and we fight about the place that we're going to.

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And then when we get there, when we do eat, we realize that we ate too much or we ate the wrong kind of food.

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Jesus says what? Let's not obsess about that which is temporary.

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We must learn to focus on what's eternal. And don't worry about your body, he says. Why?

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Because we can obsess over our health. I believe in taking care of yourself.

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Yes, you should take care of yourself. In fact, next month, the month of May,

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we're going to be discussing that very topic in our series Physically Fit.

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But Jesus is reminding us the body is temporary. We also have to focus on our spirit.

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He focuses and challenges us as Americans. Don't worry about what you're going to wear.

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Do you realize that for many people, they worry so much about what other people think

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that they obsess over their image or over their social media posts, worried about what they're wearing?

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Do you like this outfit or is it this outfit? What about these shoes? Do these shoes match?

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Oh, does my hair look right?

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What if I was to say to some of you, if you spend as much time thinking about God as you think about what you wear,

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you might just change the trajectory of your life.

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Jesus says, don't worry so much about those things because they do not last.

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And then he says, don't worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring its own worries.

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Today, trouble is enough for today. In other words, don't obsess about the future.

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Don't freak out about something you can't control, where you're going to go to school.

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Are you going to find the perfect job? Is Mr. Right or Mrs. Right going to come along?

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Don't worry if a loved one is going to get sick or obsess over the fact that your hair might be turning gray.

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Jesus says, don't worry.

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And then what I love about Jesus is he doesn't just tell us what to do, but he gets very practical

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and he shows us how not to worry, which leads us to our next thought.

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See, what we worry about reveals where we trust God the least.

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Jesus tells us, you want to know what to do?

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Here's your plan, Matthew 6 33.

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Seek the kingdom of God above all else, live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.

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See, whenever you're worried, whenever you're freaked out, whenever you're panicked,

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whenever you don't know what to do, whenever there's too much to handle, what do you do?

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You seek first God's kingdom.

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You live righteously. You seek first his presence. You seek first his goodness that we were singing about.

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And then you will be giving everything you need.

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So I want to ask you a question. Is God first in your life?

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Is God first in your life this morning?

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Is he first in your day when you wake up in the morning

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or does your mind drift to all the things you have to do in the day?

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Does your mind drift towards the things of God as you're working

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or are you focused on all of the assignments you have to get done?

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When you think about financial pressures, do you tend to put him first,

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whatever he blesses you with, or do you put him last, or do you even consider him at all?

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Where does your mind go when it drifts?

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Does it go to the worst case scenario?

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And here's what could happen.

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For example, well, I sent a text to a person I'm attracted to, I'm interested in.

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We've gone out a few times. I saw the bubbles that he or she was texting back only to receive no response.

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I've been ghosted. They're not interested in me.

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I am sure he or she will respond when they have time.

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See, does your mind drift toward the goodness of God, the presence of God, his power, his love, his grace?

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Do you put God first in your relationship so they centered around him in every single way

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or do you choose to play house with your boyfriend or girlfriend?

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I'm so often burdened, worried, and full of anxiety is because I'm just not putting him first.

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See, what we worry about most reveals where we trust God the least.

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And this is good news because you have an incredible opportunity to simply put your cares and concerns before God.

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when we read Matthew 6, 26 to 27.

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Look at the birds. They don't plant or harvest or store food in their barns, for your heavenly father feeds them.

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Can all your worries at a single moment to your life?

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And newsflash, birds don't worry.

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Now to be clear, if a bird's hungry, the bird's going to do something about it.

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True or false?

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True or false?

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What's the difference between concern and worry?

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Concern focuses on a challenge and then moves you to action.

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It focuses on what might be a problem and then moves you to fix it.

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You might think your marriage is struggling.

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So you think about going to your husband or your wife and saying, hey, let's get some counseling or let's join a growth group.

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You may be concerned, well, I've gained 12 pounds in the last month.

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I better cut out dessert or soda or change the way I'm eating.

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Worry focuses on what's out of your control and results in inaction.

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Causes you to do nothing.

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And that's why Jesus asked the question, can any one of you by worrying at a single hour or moment to your life?

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In other words, you worry, but is anything ever gotten better because of your worry?

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Has anything ever changed because you sat there and did absolutely nothing?

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Jesus says, what? Don't do it.

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It's not helpful. It's not worth it.

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It changes nothing.

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When you worry, nothing gets better, but your mental health gets worse.

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Birds don't worry, but they don't sit around doing nothing either.

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They don't wait for God to drop worms in their nests.

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I've never seen that happen.

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He gets up, he flies around, he finds a nice golf course green.

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He gets a worm and he eats it.

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I don't know about you, but I've never heard a bird chirping at two in the morning, wide awake,

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thinking that the supply chain problem is going to result in a shortage of worms.

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but God loves us more than the birds.

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And if God's going to take care of the birds, how much more is he going to take care of you?

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So when you're worrying, when you're stressed out, essentially we're saying, God, I just don't trust you.

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I don't believe you're for me. I don't believe you're good.

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And if you think I'm judging you, I might have been awake at 2 a.m. two nights ago,

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and I wasn't thinking about how to manage all my blessings.

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I'm just like you, and I'm just as vulnerable.

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We have to realize what we worry about the most reveals where we trust God the least.

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The very thing that's keeping us awake, that's weighing us down so heavily, it may never happen.

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In fact, listen to this.

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they asked people to document what they were worried about

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and how many of their fears actually came to pass in the next 30 days.

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According to their research, 91% of their worries never came true.

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Friends, that's nine out of 10 things they were worried about never ever happened.

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And I want you to think about this, that very likely less than 10% of what you're worried about right now,

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what you're stressed out about, it's never going to happen.

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It robs us of God's peace 100% of the time, which leads us to our final thought.

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Anxiety and worry aren't sin, they're signals.

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Anxiety and worry aren't sin.

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Now I just got sent an email this week simply asking me,

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Chris, you're doing a series on mental health and you mentioned last week

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that most pastors or churches very rarely speak on the topic.

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Why is that so?

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You know, I never responded to that email, but I felt it was for all of us to hear.

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I believe, as I prayed about it this week,

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that pastors and churches don't like to share about mental health

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because it means that pastors actually have to work and do something.

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I believe that when you begin speaking about mental health

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and you begin challenging people to get healthy mentally and physically

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and see change in their lives, that results in pastors needing to meet with,

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counsel with, pray for, and encourage their congregations like we're called to do.

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And there's a lot of pastors that simply don't like to do that.

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They like to read the Bible, they like to prepare for a message,

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but they don't like to get their hands dirty doing the stuff.

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I believe in doing the stuff.

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I believe in getting my hands dirty.

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Therefore, at HCV, we're going to talk about mental health

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and we're going to talk about physical health

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and we're going to talk about being in community

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and we're going to talk about becoming better people

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because that's what God wants for us.

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Anxiety and worry is not a sin.

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How do I know that?

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Just look at Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane.

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Before he was going to give his life on the cross,

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he knelt down and begged God,

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is there any other way, God?

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He knew the suffering that was coming and he said,

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if there's any other way, may this cross of suffering,

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may this cup of suffering be removed from me.

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And he literally began to sweat drops of blood

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as he submitted to the will of God, not my will.

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In other words, I don't want this.

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I don't want this.

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But may your will be done.

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See, anxiety isn't a sin.

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It's actually a symptom or what we might call a signal.

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For example, if you know anything about your car,

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you may be driving around in your car

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and suddenly a little light goes off

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that looks like a little engine.

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Right, your car didn't do something wrong.

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It's a signal indicating that there's something wrong in the car.

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It's a symptom, it's an issue that needs to be discovered and fixed.

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You take your car to the junkyard, right?

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You just trash it.

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When that little light goes off, is that what you do?

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No, you take your car to a mechanic

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so the mechanic can fix the car.

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God bless you, high five for Jesus.

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I don't.

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In the same way, if you find yourself battling with anxiety and worry,

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this isn't a sin, it's a signal alerting you

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to identify the issue and invite God to what?

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Fix it.

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That's why Paul wrote in, again, Philippians 4, 6 through 7,

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don't worry about anything.

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Notice what he says.

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Pray about everything.

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Tell God what you need.

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Thank Him for all He's done.

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Then you experience God's peace,

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which exceeds anything we can understand.

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His peace will guard our hearts and minds

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as you live in Christ Jesus.

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He invites us to come to a place of experiencing God's peace.

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So this morning for our action steps,

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we're going to do it a little different.

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We're going to dive into the Old Testament.

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We're going to look at 2 Chronicles chapter 20,

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and we're going to look at one of the best kings of Israel.

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So as you're reading through the Old Testament,

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you'll quickly discover there were some really good kings of Israel,

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and there were some really bad kings in Israel.

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This was a good king.

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His name was Jehoshaphat.

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Everyone say Jehoshaphat.

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Jehoshaphat.

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Excellent.

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Isn't that just fun?

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Like there's just some names in the Bible.

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They're just fun to say.

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Jehoshaphat was the fourth king of Judah

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in the southern kingdom of Israel.

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And at this point, Judah had some enemies that were about to attack them.

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He was leading a good kingdom,

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and all of a sudden the Moabites are attacking.

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but it was the Ammonites, the Moabites, and the Mennonites.

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Three different enemies joined forces

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to attack King Jehoshaphat and the people of his kingdom.

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the very reason why many of us are battling with anxiety, worry, and stress today.

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We can handle one enemy force attacking us, right?

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But we can't handle several.

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For example, we can handle one difficult boss at work.

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a car that breaks down, financial issues,

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stress and a stressful marriage,

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you just started a diet,

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and in starting the diet, you went to work on Monday morning,

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and it was Crumpies Monday.

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on the day you started your diet.

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It's just too much to handle.

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Anxiety and worry from a spiritual perspective.

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Remember, I'm not a doctor.

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I'm not a counselor.

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From a spiritual perspective are simply signals alerting us to,

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number one, it's time to pray.

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It's time to pray.

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And this is exactly what Jehoshaphat did in 2 Chronicles 20,

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verse 3, 6, and 9.

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Jehoshaphat was terrified by this news, and he begged the Lord for guidance.

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He also ordered everyone in Judah to begin fasting.

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So notice what the king did.

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He prayed.

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He fasted, and then he told the entire people in the land to do the same.

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You need to pray.

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You need to fast, verse 6.

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He prayed, O Lord, God of our ancestors,

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you alone are the God who is in heaven.

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You are ruler of all the kings of the earth.

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You are powerful and mighty.

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No one can stand against you, verse 9.

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They said, whenever we are faced with any calamities such as war or plague or famine,

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we can come to stand in your presence before this temple where your name is honored.

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We can cry out to you to save us, and you will hear us and rescue us.

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In other words, God, we can trust you.

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Our faith is in you.

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We call on you, God.

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We believe that you will save us.

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And listen, friends, you can pray like that when you feel anxious,

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when you feel overwhelmed, when you don't know what to do.

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You can cry out like to God just like that.

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You can be all fancy.

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You can use Christianese, O God, Lord of our ancestors.

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You can do it.

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You can do anything.

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Or you can be like Chris, and you can just say, help.

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God, I need help.

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You can just get brutally honest.

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God, why is this happening?

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I don't understand it.

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I don't know how to deal with it.

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I don't know where it's going to end.

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I feel alone.

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I'm desperate.

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I am frustrated.

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I can't get out, God.

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Will you change this situation?

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See, you can just cry out to God in honesty and have faith

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that will hear the cries of your heart.

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And he will save you.

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He will free you.

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He will provide for you.

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Now, Dr. Carolyn Leath is a communication pathologist

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and cognitive neuroscientist.

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I'm not sure what that means other than she's very smart.

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And she authored the book, Switch On Your Brain.

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In the book, we learn that she discovered, now listen to this,

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it's been found that in 12 minutes of daily focused prayer

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over an eight-week period, you can change the brain

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to an extent where it can be measured on a brain scan.

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12 minutes of daily focused prayer over an eight-week period.

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12 minutes a day, done consistently over time,

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can change your brain.

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Here's the power.

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Not only does prayer touch the heart of God,

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invite him to act, but it changes the chemistry of your brain.

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And this is incredibly exciting because remember,

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we learned last week our brain is not fixed, right?

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And this is good news because sometimes our brain goes to

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all the wrong places and stays there.

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We live in an era where science has now shown that the brain can change

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and we can actually direct and change our brains.

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The term is called neuroplasticity.

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And last week we talked about, if you missed it,

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the more and more you think about a thought,

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the more that thought becomes easier to become a part of your life

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because you're creating millions and millions of neural pathways

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through your brain that God designed.

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He can renew and change your brain by reading the Bible as you focus on it.

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And prayer can not only touch the heart of God,

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but can change the chemistry in your head.

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In fact, the word in Scripture most often translated as anxiety

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is the Hebrew word, marina.

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And this word literally means dwelling or pondering on fearful or anxious thoughts.

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It literally is an image of meditating on the negative.

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In other words, some of us, we're training our brains to be anxious.

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We're rehearsing what could go wrong.

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There's this, there's that.

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Everything's falling apart.

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And we're training our neural pathways in our brain

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to focus on the negative rather than the positive.

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And it may be natural to think about what could go wrong,

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but friends, prayer is not natural.

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Prayer is supernatural.

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And while we may be natural to think about what could go wrong,

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prayer supernaturally breaks the cycle, right?

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You're normal if you feel anxious, if you feel stressed out, but it's what?

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It's a...

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Thank you.

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People, come on.

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My bachelor's degrees in elementary education, you guys just failed.

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Okay?

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Class participation, you just failed miserably.

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Okay?

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Can I say that again?

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Miserably.

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Whew.

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You're normal if you feel anxious.

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It's a...

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Thank you.

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Take it to God.

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Right?

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Take it to God.

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That's what Jehoshaphat did.

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Second Chronicles, 2012.

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Oh, our God, won't you stop them?

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We are powerless against this mighty army that is about to attack us.

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We do not know what to do, but we are looking for your help.

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And for many of us, we don't know what to do.

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There's too much.

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I can't handle it all.

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I'm freaking out.

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I can't hold it all together.

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I don't know where to turn.

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And listen, I want to encourage you, no human being can handle it.

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You weren't designed to handle it on your own.

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You were designed to be in relationship with your Creator.

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Right?

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Anxiety is not a...

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Oh my gosh.

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Okay.

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We're going to go back to the chalkboard.

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Okay?

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So you can just picture that just gruesome noise of a piece of chalk.

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You know, as a kid, you're just shuddering.

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Man, the way we were brought up as kids.

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Okay.

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I want you to take something away from here this morning.

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Okay?

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Anxiety and worry is not a sin.

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Thank you.

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It's not a sin.

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It's not a sin.

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It is a...

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Sign.

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There we go.

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You got something.

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Your life is forever changed.

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It is April 14th, 2024.

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We are at the Hub City Vineyard and you learn something new.

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All right?

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It's a signal that we need God.

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Right?

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I don't know where to turn, but we can turn to God.

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That's why we read in 1 Peter 5, 6 through 7, humble yourselves under the mighty power of God.

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At the right time, He will lift you up in honor.

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Give all your worries and cares to God, for He cares about you.

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Now, the NIV translation reads, cast all your anxieties on God because He cares about you.

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We must remember, Peter was a fisherman, so he uses the term cast as a way to remind us in casting a line,

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when you have anxiety and worry, when you identify the issue, what are we to do with that issue?

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We cast it to God.

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We give it to God.

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God, I'm hurting.

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I'm desperate.

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Because of my marriage, I'm giving it to you.

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I'm believing you are going to change.

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I feel alone.

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My heart is racing.

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I'm sweating.

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I'm freaking out about my kids, but God, I'm giving my kids back to you.

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I'm freaking out about money, but God, I'm giving you my budget.

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I'm tithing.

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I'm putting you first.

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I can't handle all the tension in the world, God.

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I'm turning off my news app and focusing on your truth.

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Does that make sense?

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You cast your cares onto Him.

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In other words, if it's in your mind, it's on God's heart, and it's big enough for Him to handle.

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We give it to Him.

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We pray about it.

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Then what do we do?

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Well, if you're anything like me, we pray about it, and then we listen for 32 seconds,

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and we look around for another minute, and if nothing changes, we pick it back up and take control.

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Because we think we have to fix it, and we think that we can manipulate God.

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But that's just not what we're called to do.

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Anxiety is a signal, right?

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Worry is a signal alerting us it's time to pray, leading us to our next stop.

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It's time to pause.

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It's time to pause.

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After the prayer, Jehoshaphat did this in 2 Chronicles 20, 12 to 13.

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We do not know what to do, but we are looking to you for help.

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As all the men of Judah stood before the Lord with their little ones, wives, and children.

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Notice they stood.

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And I don't want to be critical, right?

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But I'm a doer.

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I'm a motivator.

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I'm an activator.

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I get things done.

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And it's hard for me to pause.

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Because when I feel like I'm standing here, I feel like there's something I could be doing.

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But sometimes God tells us to do nothing.

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To just stand there.

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There are times where God will tell you to be still.

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How do I know that?

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Psalm 46, 10.

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Be still and know that I am God.

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I will be honored by every nation.

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I will be honored throughout the world.

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God, I don't know what to do.

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I don't have the power.

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My eyes are on you.

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Be still and know that he cares about you and he loves you.

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So in doing nothing, you're telling me, Chris, that God heals anxiety?

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Sometimes.

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Did you know why?

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Sometimes we're too busy and our mind is racing and by being still, anxiety is removed.

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But sometimes it's a process.

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Sometimes God directs you to read a portion of the Bible and that verse begins to renew your mind.

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Sometimes God will lead you to read an article about your diet and about what you're eating

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and make you realize the chemistry of your body is all in a whack

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because you are eating too many processed foods.

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Or maybe God will lead you to go and see a doctor and that doctor will recognize that the chemicals in your brain

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are just out of whack and give you a prescription that can normalize your thoughts.

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Or maybe you need to go do ministry with someone who looks at some of the trauma from your past

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and your family life so that you can face it, get forgiveness and healing from it.

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You take it to God.

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And so while they waited, the Spirit of the Lord came over a man named Jehysiel

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and he says this in 2 Chronicles 20, 15 and 17.

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He said, listen, all you people of Judah and Jerusalem, listen, King Jehoshaphat, this is what the Lord says.

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Don't be afraid.

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Don't be discouraged by this mighty army for the battle is not yours but God's.

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But you will not even need to fight.

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Take your positions and stand still and watch the Lord's victory.

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He is with you, O people of Judah and Jerusalem.

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Do not be afraid or discouraged.

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Go out against them tomorrow for the Lord is with you.

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And that's truth.

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God is with you.

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If you are in a relationship with Jesus, he's for you.

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He loves you.

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He cares about you.

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And his power is real.

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He will never leave you.

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He'll never forsake you.

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Anxiety is not a sin.

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It's a signal alerting you it's time to pray.

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It's time to pause.

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And finally, leading to our final step, it's time to praise.

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2 Chronicles 2, 20 to 22, early the next morning, the army of Judah went out into the wilderness of Tokoa

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on the way to Jehoshaphat.

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On the way Jehoshaphat stopped and said, listen to me, all you people of Judah and Jerusalem,

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believe in the Lord your God and you will be able to stand firm, believe in the prophets and you will succeed.

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And then before I continue, I did something really weird.

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In my limited understanding of warfare, I wouldn't have made this decision.

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Now please understand I was never in the armed forces.

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Okay.

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But what he does is he sends out his worship team on the front lines.

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Right.

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They're weapons that Jehoshaphat sends out, right.

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He sends out a lady with a tambourine, an acoustic guitar, a drummer.

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And of course, there's this big funky horn that they're just blowing on the front lines.

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Right.

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And you're reading this, you're reading the scripture to think, wait a minute, if that's me,

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I'm sending the few, the proud, the Marines to lead the way.

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Right.

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And the general is Dwayne the Rock Johnson, destroying the armies that are up front in front of him.

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Right.

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My man Jehoshaphat, right.

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Jehoshaphat goes, hey, Brandon, Brandon Lake, get up there.

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Chris Brown, Kerry Jobe, we need you on the front lines.

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Go tell the enemies that they're blessed and sing your songs of praise back to them.

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And you think I'm making it up.

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Look, after consulting the people, the king appointed singers to walk ahead of the army,

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singing to the Lord and praising him for his splendor.

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This is what they sang.

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Give thanks to the Lord, his faithful love endures forever.

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At the very moment they began to sing and give praise, the Lord calls the armies to start fighting amongst themselves.

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And see, it takes faith in this moment when you're hurting right now, when you're full of anxiety,

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when you don't know what to do, when you're stressed out beyond belief about decisions that you need to make.

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It takes faith to praise before the blessing, before the anxiety ever leaves.

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It takes faith to praise.

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And after Jehoshaphat prayed, after he paused and waited, and after he praised, before he saw anything,

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God worked and God fought the battle for him.

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The Bible says in 2 Chronicles 20, when all the surrounding kingdoms heard that the Lord himself had fought against the enemies of Israel,

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the fear of God came over them.

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So Jehoshaphat's kingdom was at peace for his God had given him rest on every side.

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God fought the battle and God gave them rest.

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Earlier in my opening, I shared about my left eye twitch.

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To this day, I continue to experience that eye twitch.

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Just a few weeks ago, many of you learned last week when I opened this series that Easter Sunday was coming.

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I was trying to figure out parking issues, how to find more parking, how to get a bigger building,

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how to get more chairs in this room because we need more chairs in this room, how to reach more people, how to baptize 47 people.

715
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:07,000
And guess what happened to my left eye?

716
00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:12,000
It began to twitch because I was taking control.

717
00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:19,000
When I lay awake at night thinking about all the places I need to be, Thursday night I was up at 2 a.m.

718
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:25,000
I'm in the middle of my crazy spring schedule. I'm coaching several teams. I'm pastoring a church.

719
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:28,000
I'm a father. I'm a husband. Right?

720
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:34,000
Oh, did I mention I'm supposed to go to Kenya? And two weeks ago, I lost my passport.

721
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:39,000
I have no idea where it is. We've lost it.

722
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:44,000
And suddenly, I couldn't sleep.

723
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:50,000
But friends, this is how I fight my battles. I pray. I take it to God.

724
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:56,000
I don't know what to do. The enemy's pressing in on every side, but I'm keeping my eyes on Him.

725
00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:59,000
This is how I fight my battles.

726
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:04,000
By nature, I'm tempted to do something, to act.

727
00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:08,000
But sometimes God says, no, Chris, you've got to wait. You've got to pause.

728
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:13,000
You've got to sit in my presence and let Him do what only He can do.

729
00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:21,000
And then what do I do? I thank Him. I worship Him. I give Him praise. I pray. I pause. I praise.

730
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:25,000
This is how I fight my battles.

731
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:31,000
Because Ephesians 6 tells us, if you don't know this, we're not fighting against flesh and blood,

732
00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:37,000
but against evil rulers and authorities and the sun-seeing world, against mighty powers in the dark world, and against evil spirits.

733
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:42,000
Don't be discouraged. The battle is not yours. God is with you.

734
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:50,000
So what do we do? We pray. We pause. We praise.

735
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:57,000
And then that's when Philippians 4 comes to life. You'll experience God's peace, which exceeds anything you can understand.

736
00:46:57,000 --> 00:47:01,000
His peace will guard your hearts and minds.

737
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:06,000
And many of you right now, you say, Chris, this one hit home.

738
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:10,000
I'm sitting here. I'm struggling. I'm feeling surrounded. I'm overwhelmed.

739
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:20,000
And you know what we're going to do? We're going to pray, pause, and pray.

740
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:44,000
I pray. I pause. I praise.

