1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,140 Hello everybody, welcome back to the figuring out podcast. This is now episode five. It's now December 2 00:00:05,220 --> 00:00:10,140 We are out of November and this new month brings with us a new friend 3 00:00:10,540 --> 00:00:16,100 It's it's our friend Sam. You said the pod. I want to say friend. They shut up Sam. I hate you 4 00:00:16,620 --> 00:00:20,820 This is not a we've talked to your intro do my intro. Okay. Wait, what am I saying? 5 00:00:22,700 --> 00:00:26,820 Don't say your name we did that the first episode where I introduced y'all and then asked for your name 6 00:00:26,820 --> 00:00:28,820 So don't say your name just do 7 00:00:28,820 --> 00:00:35,300 What you're doing in school your current occupation and these yeah, you like what you're interested in 8 00:00:35,300 --> 00:00:37,300 Don't say what school you go to? 9 00:00:37,660 --> 00:00:43,660 Well, okay, so we're so I am going to a four-year college and I'm studying 10 00:00:44,900 --> 00:00:47,020 Communications and I'm gonna minor in marketing 11 00:00:48,300 --> 00:00:50,300 current occupation 12 00:00:51,740 --> 00:00:56,420 Student good communications major. Oh, I talk a lot. That's crazy 13 00:00:56,420 --> 00:00:58,420 Yeah 14 00:00:58,420 --> 00:01:03,820 Occupation is being broke. No college student that too, but my current occupation is being broke 15 00:01:03,820 --> 00:01:10,640 It's just straight up being that is that is my occupation relate down on the end. No, no, you can you you've been broken a lot? 16 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:14,960 Longer than all of us. I don't excuse for it other than poor spending habits. That's a terrible 17 00:01:16,220 --> 00:01:18,220 I know that's what I say 18 00:01:19,100 --> 00:01:20,860 Interest and hobbies 19 00:01:20,860 --> 00:01:25,300 I'm a really big movie person. Yes huge movie person. Yeah 20 00:01:25,300 --> 00:01:27,300 He could have helped me up. Yeah 21 00:01:27,300 --> 00:01:34,300 I'm so disappointed in you there was the complete wrong movie you were thinking of everything wrong in that second episode 22 00:01:34,300 --> 00:01:38,300 Hey, at least he listened. I'm pretty proud of that. The second episode is so disappointed 23 00:01:38,300 --> 00:01:41,300 The second episode was a mess and we're not gonna talk about it 24 00:01:41,300 --> 00:01:46,300 No, I'm like, why are they talking about films without me there? We were figured out about it about Alex 25 00:01:46,300 --> 00:01:50,300 I kind of brought you up. I brought you up. Yeah, Alex brought you up and was like Sam's our movie guy 26 00:01:50,300 --> 00:01:53,300 We should wait till he comes here to talk about movies 27 00:01:53,300 --> 00:01:58,300 And we can we can talk about movies a little bit here. We're still figuring it out. Alex already said it loser 28 00:01:59,300 --> 00:02:01,300 What? 29 00:02:01,300 --> 00:02:05,300 I'm still kind of figuring things out. Yeah, you're new. Yeah, that's what we were hoping to talk about today 30 00:02:05,300 --> 00:02:11,300 What it's like at a four-year college. None of us are at a four-year college as you know, and as we all know, but 31 00:02:13,300 --> 00:02:15,300 I think I'm farthest from it. But um 32 00:02:16,300 --> 00:02:19,300 Sam what you're in your what year you in? 33 00:02:19,300 --> 00:02:24,300 Second year so I'm a sophomore and you're going into your no, you're not going into it. So I'm still be a sophomore this next 34 00:02:25,300 --> 00:02:27,300 I forgot college. I forgot how semesters work 35 00:02:28,300 --> 00:02:30,300 I know me too. It's just like high school 36 00:02:31,300 --> 00:02:34,300 High school is already out of sight out of mind bro. It's gone 37 00:02:34,300 --> 00:02:41,300 It's only different if you're like ahead or if you start in the spring instead of in the fall 38 00:02:41,300 --> 00:02:46,300 But if you just go straight from high school to college, it's literally the same thing 39 00:02:46,300 --> 00:02:49,300 Fall spring your 40 00:02:50,300 --> 00:02:54,300 You're a freshman next year. It's sophomore next year's junior next year senior 41 00:02:54,300 --> 00:02:58,300 Yeah, but like my older brother's graduating half-semester early. So he's only taking three and a half years 42 00:03:00,300 --> 00:03:04,300 Smarty he graduates in a week and a half. Wow 43 00:03:06,300 --> 00:03:08,300 Let's go 44 00:03:09,300 --> 00:03:11,300 Andrew 45 00:03:11,300 --> 00:03:13,300 He wants to do 46 00:03:13,300 --> 00:03:16,300 um 47 00:03:16,300 --> 00:03:21,300 Sports medicine right sports management. It is an M. It is an a sports medicine 48 00:03:21,300 --> 00:03:23,300 But he wants 49 00:03:23,300 --> 00:03:26,300 He should he should I don't know 50 00:03:28,300 --> 00:03:34,300 Right now right now podcast on Spotify Apple music and YouTube anywhere else you find your podcast 51 00:03:36,300 --> 00:03:39,300 This is why you've listened to it, you know, that doesn't make sense 52 00:03:39,300 --> 00:03:46,300 I'm so already here. I'm so glad Sam's here, by the way. I finally don't have you only other logical 53 00:03:50,300 --> 00:03:54,300 No, but Andrew's Andrew's kind of he's speaking things out right now 54 00:03:56,300 --> 00:04:00,140 First how long have we been recording for four minutes? 55 00:04:01,300 --> 00:04:05,040 Let's go. I know I'm like I got it. It's like a rite of passage. Yeah 56 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:09,280 I know but so he's graduating this December and 57 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:15,760 He wants to do a grad program if they pay him 58 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:23,520 So there are some grad programs that'll like pay you to come out to learn go to school 59 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:27,280 They'll get like pay for housing things like that. So he will earn money 60 00:04:27,280 --> 00:04:34,400 For getting a master's so if he can get into a couple of those or into really one of them 61 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:37,280 He's gonna go back to school. But if he has to pay for it 62 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:45,880 So Sam, what do you what are you hoping to do with communications and stuff? 63 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:51,480 Yeah, you have a plan or is it just so kind of so communications is a very broad degree 64 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:54,480 You can think of it similar to 65 00:04:54,480 --> 00:05:02,000 Like a business degree or a psychology degree both of those you can go just about anywhere with do just about anything. So my 66 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:07,120 My so my dad wanted me to do marketing 67 00:05:07,840 --> 00:05:11,360 A lot of people wanted you to do a lot of people wanted me to do marketing. I 68 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:15,600 Clearly they're not good at marketing because I was not sold on the idea 69 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:21,200 Wow, oh good. Yeah. No, so I wasn't sold on the idea 70 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:25,480 So I'm like, you know what I can still get a marketing job with a communications major 71 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:29,920 And so I'm like, let's do that and that opens up other opportunities 72 00:05:30,280 --> 00:05:35,520 So I'm doing that but I'm still getting the marketing minor because I know I would it's something I'd be good at 73 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:39,960 But I'm also looking for other avenues. I'm pursuing, you know, potentially 74 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:43,400 film area I'm actually considering 75 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:47,560 Auditioning for as a to do some acting stuff next spring 76 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:51,040 Not necessarily. Yeah, not even not even necessarily because I want to be an actor 77 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:53,920 more so because 78 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:58,120 It would be a good experience having done something like that 79 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:02,720 Working in like the film industry 80 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:04,720 Dramatic enough to be an actor 81 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:06,720 That I am 82 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:08,720 Absolutely, I got you there 83 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:10,720 I don't even know what you could be but you would be good at something 84 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:11,720 Mr. Dramatic 85 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:13,720 You'd be good at something 86 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:15,720 He'd be like the fat guy on the sitcom 87 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:17,720 What? 88 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:19,720 Next Kevin Hart 89 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:21,720 What did Kevin Hart? 90 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:23,720 No, Kevin James 91 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:25,720 Kevin James. Okay, that's that's better 92 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:27,720 Do you ever see the picture of him and he's got like the hands 93 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:29,720 Yeah 94 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:31,720 Shrugging 95 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:33,720 That's such a good photo 96 00:06:33,720 --> 00:06:35,720 That one's good 97 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:37,720 So I'm considering doing some acting 98 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:39,720 Just as a 99 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:43,720 Acting just just as it would be a good experience 100 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:46,720 And it would help me like relate to actors better 101 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:48,720 Especially if I wanted to try my hand at directing or something 102 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:50,720 Yeah, actually having experience 103 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:52,720 And done it would give me a much better 104 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:54,720 Idea on how to actually 105 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:56,720 Direct. Yeah 106 00:06:56,720 --> 00:06:58,720 And when you told me that 107 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:00,720 When I was over visiting you last time 108 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:02,720 I had said that it's a it's similar 109 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:04,720 With photography and stuff like that 110 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:06,720 Because like photos I've taken recently 111 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:08,720 I've modeled in my photos for my own photos 112 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:10,720 And it's a good way to know how to like 113 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:12,720 Properly post things 114 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:14,720 Yeah, figure it out yourself 115 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:16,720 Don't roll your eyes 116 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:18,720 You knew you were in for this when you joined 117 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:20,720 I knew what I was signing up for 118 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:22,720 So it's a good I can see that mentality 119 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:24,720 I think it's a really good mentality to have like 120 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:26,720 An example and be in that position 121 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:28,720 So that you know how to 122 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:30,720 Yeah, exactly 123 00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:32,720 So yeah, I'm looking at auditioning for a couple 124 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:34,720 I actually I have one lined up that I'm auditioning for 125 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:36,720 Not sure when 126 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:40,720 But supposedly the shoot will be in March of next year 127 00:07:40,720 --> 00:07:42,720 Oh cool 128 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:44,720 And so I'm excited for that one 129 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:46,720 I kind of hope I get that because 130 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:48,720 It's a lot of my friends working on crew 131 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:50,720 A lot of people I know 132 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:52,720 And the director she's super nice 133 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:54,720 She's helped me on some of my projects 134 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:56,720 And she was the one who 135 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:58,720 She was one of the ones who's very 136 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:00,720 Like very much encouraging me to do this 137 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:02,720 And she's a theater major as well 138 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:04,720 So that in itself 139 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:06,720 That in itself will give me so much 140 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:08,720 Like help and knowledge on 141 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:10,720 How to act 142 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:12,720 The director is literally a theater major 143 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:14,720 That is what she does 144 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:16,720 So I guess 145 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:18,720 Any extra curriculars 146 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:20,720 That kind of stuff clubs 147 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:22,720 Well I know you're in a club 148 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:24,720 Yeah, the film club 149 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:26,720 Short film clubs and everything 150 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:28,720 So we won't cover it too much 151 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:30,720 And I know you kind of were 152 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:32,720 Saying that you did 153 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:34,720 Figure out how to kind of be around this 154 00:08:34,720 --> 00:08:36,720 We're not going to go into detail 155 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:38,720 But you did make a short film and that's really cool 156 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:40,720 Yeah, I wrote one with 157 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:42,720 A couple friends 158 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:44,720 I was the assistant producer 159 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:46,720 One of my co-writers was producer 160 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:48,720 And so I just kind of happened to fall into that realm 161 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:50,720 And help him out with a lot of stuff 162 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:52,720 Money, finding the locations 163 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:54,720 Communicating with crew 164 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:56,720 That's where all this money went 165 00:08:56,720 --> 00:08:58,720 No, I was 166 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:00,720 I was telling Jake earlier that I got 167 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:02,720 We had like a hundred dollar budget 168 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:04,720 I literally spent like 98 dollars 169 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:06,720 And 86, like I milked the budget 170 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:08,720 I was so 171 00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:10,720 I'm using every little bit 172 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:12,720 But I got the reimbursements for it 173 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:14,720 This past Monday 174 00:09:14,720 --> 00:09:16,720 And 175 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:18,720 I was handed 98 dollars 176 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:20,720 In cash 177 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:22,720 So I was just walking around a college campus 178 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:24,720 With a hundred dollars in my wallet 179 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:26,720 And I'm like this would be a horrible time for me to get mugged 180 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:28,720 Are muggings common? 181 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:30,720 No, well 182 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:32,720 Not that I'm aware of 183 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:34,720 Dark underside to the college you go to 184 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:36,720 I was going to say at the college he goes to 185 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:38,720 I mean 186 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:40,720 I don't know, everybody that goes there can probably afford it 187 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:42,720 I wouldn't be surprised 188 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:44,720 I wouldn't be surprised 189 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:46,720 Fair enough I guess 190 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:48,720 So that was funny 191 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:50,720 Was there another question that I forgot? 192 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:52,720 It was just extracurricular 193 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:54,720 Hobbies and that kind of stuff 194 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:56,720 The film is kind of his hobby 195 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:58,720 Anything other than 196 00:09:58,720 --> 00:10:00,720 Film club that you've been doing at school? 197 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:02,720 You're learning Japanese 198 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:04,720 Is that on your communications degree? 199 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:06,720 So yeah 200 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:08,720 As a comm major 201 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:10,720 I have to take four semesters of the same 202 00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:12,720 Language 203 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:14,720 In high school I 204 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:16,720 Took two years of Spanish 205 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:18,720 And I was homeschooled by 206 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:20,720 Like like 207 00:10:20,720 --> 00:10:22,720 I was homeschooled by all of the simros 208 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:24,720 He's a loser 209 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:26,720 You're the loser 210 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:28,720 I'm the one who had the idea to start this 211 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:30,720 Hold up 212 00:10:30,720 --> 00:10:32,720 You brought it back up but this is something 213 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:34,720 We've all talked about for like years 214 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:36,720 And who put it into action 215 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:38,720 That I'll give you 216 00:10:38,720 --> 00:10:40,720 But you tried to say that you thought of this 217 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:42,720 Who spent the money? 218 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:44,720 Who spent the money? 219 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:46,720 Layton did cause he has it 220 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:48,720 And you don't 221 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:50,720 I'll take digs at myself 222 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:52,720 I put the idea into action 223 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:54,720 You were all planning on getting stuff 224 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:56,720 You went and bought a bigger mixer and everything 225 00:10:56,720 --> 00:10:58,720 Cause Mr. Guitar Center 226 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:00,720 Over there made a good argument to you 227 00:11:00,720 --> 00:11:02,720 I put it into action 228 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:04,720 I'm proud of you 229 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:06,720 I'm carrying it on your back Layton 230 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:08,720 Mr. Never Opened to close the podcast 231 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:10,720 I want to put our mixer 232 00:11:10,720 --> 00:11:12,720 Into USB so the batteries 233 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:14,720 Don't die again 234 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:16,720 Those poor Amazon basics batteries 235 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:18,720 Getting ready to explode 236 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:20,720 We can do that real quick 237 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:22,720 I could do that 238 00:11:22,720 --> 00:11:24,720 Plug it in real quick 239 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:26,720 We'll continue while Sam talks 240 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:28,720 As a call major 241 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:30,720 I have to take four semesters of the same language 242 00:11:30,720 --> 00:11:32,720 In high school I took two years of Spanish 243 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:34,720 And I absolutely hated it 244 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:36,720 I said I would never 245 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:38,720 Under any SIGARM stains 246 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:40,720 At least in a school setting 247 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:42,720 Take Spanish again 248 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:44,720 I wasn't close to the idea 249 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:46,720 But it was just a horrible experience 250 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:48,720 And I didn't want to do it again 251 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:50,720 However I went from 252 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:52,720 Having a horrible experience 253 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:54,720 With one of the easier languages to learn 254 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:56,720 To choosing to learn 255 00:11:56,720 --> 00:11:58,720 One of the hardest languages to learn 256 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:00,720 From an English speakers perspective 257 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:02,720 Oh absolutely 258 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:04,720 My professor was showing me this 259 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:06,720 It was a list of the hardest languages to learn 260 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:08,720 On a scale 261 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:10,720 Japanese is literally the hardest 262 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:12,720 There's like three different dialects 263 00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:14,720 In Spanish 264 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:16,720 I'm not sure 265 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:18,720 There's like three different dialects 266 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:20,720 Oh my god 267 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:22,720 Absolutely 268 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:24,720 There's Katakana 269 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:26,720 There's Hiragana 270 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:28,720 Hiragana is like the native written dialect 271 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:30,720 That's the easiest way to say it 272 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:32,720 It's like the ABC's 273 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:34,720 Then you got the Katakana 274 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:36,720 And Katakana is 275 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:38,720 What is he doing? 276 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:40,720 I'm trying to do it on the day 277 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:42,720 I'm working on a car over here 278 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:44,720 All of a sudden we're going to hear 279 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:46,720 Zzzzzzzz 280 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:48,720 So Katakana has all the same sounds 281 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:50,720 As Hiragana 282 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:52,720 I've heard of Katakana 283 00:12:52,720 --> 00:12:54,720 So Hiragana like 284 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:56,720 For example Ka, Ke, Ki, Ko, Ku 285 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:58,720 Right? 286 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:00,720 It's just like a bunch of different sounds 287 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:02,720 And 288 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:04,720 That you have 289 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:06,720 Characters for them 290 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:08,720 Katakana, you have different characters 291 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:10,720 For the same sounds 292 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:12,720 And those characters 293 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:14,720 Are used for words that 294 00:13:14,720 --> 00:13:16,720 That was not originally in the Japanese 295 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:18,720 Language that they've taken from 296 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:20,720 Outside 297 00:13:20,720 --> 00:13:22,720 Is it only those words? 298 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:24,720 That's what specifically Katakana is used for 299 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:26,720 So Hiragana and Katakana 300 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:28,720 Are the exact same sounds 301 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:30,720 Different characters 302 00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:32,720 Katakana is used for outside 303 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:34,720 Words brought into Japan 304 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:36,720 Whereas 305 00:13:36,720 --> 00:13:38,720 Hiragana is like all the native written dialect 306 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:40,720 And then the third one is Kanji 307 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:42,720 Essentially 308 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:44,720 The easiest way to put this is 309 00:13:44,720 --> 00:13:46,720 A Chinese dude came in and was like 310 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:48,720 This is too complicated, let me simplify it to you 311 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:50,720 And started like 312 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:52,720 In somewhat combining Hiragana 313 00:13:52,720 --> 00:13:54,720 To make it more simple 314 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:56,720 However, it makes it a lot more complicated 315 00:13:56,720 --> 00:13:58,720 To learn 316 00:13:58,720 --> 00:14:00,720 That was darn Chinese 317 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:02,720 Whoa, look, once you know it 318 00:14:02,720 --> 00:14:04,720 It's, it 319 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:06,720 Kanji does make things easier to write 320 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:08,720 Because it simplifies it a lot 321 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:10,720 If you know it 322 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:12,720 It makes it a lot harder to learn 323 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:14,720 Because it adds an entire other 324 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:16,720 Dialect you have to learn 325 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:18,720 And the other problem is like 326 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:20,720 The readings 327 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:22,720 Of it changes so much 328 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:24,720 So you'll have one specific character 329 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:26,720 In Kanji that you can read 330 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:28,720 Like three different ways based on context 331 00:14:28,720 --> 00:14:30,720 I was about to say, is it like context? 332 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:32,720 Based on context or based on what the other 333 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:34,720 Hiragana and 334 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:36,720 Kanji are around it 335 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:38,720 Like you can use like 336 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:40,720 A Kanji character by itself 337 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:42,720 Could mean one thing, then you combine it with another 338 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:44,720 And it could have a different reading 339 00:14:44,720 --> 00:14:46,720 And like a different meaning 340 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:48,720 Sounds like a nightmare for a dyslexic 341 00:14:48,720 --> 00:14:50,720 So we're just gonna, we're gonna leave it at that 342 00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:52,720 Because we don't need to get even further into Japanese semantics 343 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:54,720 Yeah, I'm gonna get judged by my own 344 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:56,720 We can have a 345 00:14:56,720 --> 00:14:58,720 We can have a segment on like YouTube or something of Sam 346 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:00,720 With a blackboard and it's, this is Japanese 347 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:02,720 For beginners, what? 348 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:04,720 I am not qualified in the slightest 349 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:06,720 I can vent about it all day long 350 00:15:06,720 --> 00:15:08,720 I'm not in the slightest to teach it 351 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:10,720 Absolutely not 352 00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:12,720 Is the camera actually recording still? 353 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:14,720 Video may be fine 354 00:15:14,720 --> 00:15:16,720 Technical difficulties 355 00:15:16,720 --> 00:15:18,720 It may just be our monitoring 356 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:20,720 It's crazy, you got a big freaking wire 357 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:22,720 Honestly, I'm just 358 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:24,720 Yeah, okay 359 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:26,720 He didn't think about the fact that he's got a really long wire that he can still bring with him 360 00:15:26,720 --> 00:15:28,720 How was I supposed to plug it in with like one hand? 361 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:30,720 Honestly, I'm just too sexy and the camera just 362 00:15:30,720 --> 00:15:32,720 Kind of handle it anymore 363 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:34,720 I guess 364 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:36,720 Sam, we gotta get you out of here 365 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:38,720 Oh, my bad, sorry 366 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:40,720 Alright, that's the end of the fifth episode with Sam 367 00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:42,720 Bye, Sam 368 00:15:42,720 --> 00:15:44,720 Alright, thanks for listening everybody 369 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:46,720 My cuteness is just overloading 370 00:15:46,720 --> 00:15:48,720 It's not cute, oh yeah 371 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:50,720 Femboy you 372 00:15:50,720 --> 00:15:52,720 It's an ongoing joke I have 373 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:54,720 It is, it is 374 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:56,720 Just like his ongoing joke that he hates me 375 00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:58,720 Which is true, I'm like his test dummy 376 00:15:58,720 --> 00:16:00,720 He has to send all the hatred my way 377 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:02,720 And he sends it to other people 378 00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:04,720 Sam's my punching bag for Layton 379 00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:08,720 I warm up on Sam so I can come here and dog on Layton the whole time 380 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:10,720 You're so mean 381 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:12,720 You have to keep me around though, you can't get rid of me even though you hate me so much 382 00:16:12,720 --> 00:16:14,720 Because the thing is 383 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:16,720 If you get rid of me, then you have to start hating on someone else 384 00:16:16,720 --> 00:16:18,720 And you can't hate on Alex because he's the gem of the group 385 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:20,720 Exactly, he's the best of us all 386 00:16:20,720 --> 00:16:22,720 And you can't hate on Layton because Layton's your sugar daddy 387 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:24,720 Layton's the one I hate on already too 388 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:26,720 Layton's the final product 389 00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:28,720 I can't hate on him, he can't be the test and the final 390 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:30,720 That's fair 391 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:32,720 Hey Layton, Layton 392 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:34,720 Don't ever spend money on him again 393 00:16:34,720 --> 00:16:36,720 It's becoming more apparent 394 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:38,720 Hey, hey, hey 395 00:16:38,720 --> 00:16:40,720 I'm always available 396 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:42,720 Sam's like 397 00:16:42,720 --> 00:16:44,720 Come here 398 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:46,720 Just walks off with him 399 00:16:46,720 --> 00:16:48,720 Hey you can't steal my girl 400 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:50,720 He just sees me as a walking wallet 401 00:16:50,720 --> 00:16:52,720 I got his sugar daddy open 402 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:54,720 You guys have seen Gravity Falls right? 403 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:56,720 Yeah, I have 404 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:58,720 I remember that episode where it's how Grunkle Stan sees the customers 405 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:00,720 And they were just walking wallets 406 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:02,720 And there's one, it's a kid getting off a ride 407 00:17:02,720 --> 00:17:04,720 And he's like, I don't feel so good 408 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:06,720 And he opens, it's like the wall opening 409 00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:08,720 And the coins just come pouring out 410 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:10,720 That's what I thought of when Sam was saying that 411 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:12,720 You know, Layton's a walking wallet 412 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:14,720 Can you throw up on the podcast right now? 413 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:16,720 No, I'm not gonna throw up 414 00:17:16,720 --> 00:17:18,720 I was yawning 415 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:20,720 I was just yawning 416 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:22,720 Later in post 417 00:17:22,720 --> 00:17:24,720 Let's just have you freeze 418 00:17:24,720 --> 00:17:26,720 Where you have your mouth open 419 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:28,720 And I'll go in and I'll draw 420 00:17:28,720 --> 00:17:30,720 I don't know if you can even see it 421 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:32,720 Because I tried to cover it, maybe I didn't do a good job 422 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:34,720 Do that real quick 423 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:36,720 Okay, ready? 424 00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:38,720 Okay, perfect 425 00:17:38,720 --> 00:17:40,720 For audio listeners, we were just making 426 00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:42,720 Gestures like we were throwing up 427 00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:44,720 Or Layton was 428 00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:46,720 I did too, I didn't even give him an example 429 00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:48,720 Oh, you didn't give him an example? 430 00:17:48,720 --> 00:17:50,720 I didn't say anything 431 00:17:50,720 --> 00:17:52,720 Stop taking a valuable time 432 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:54,720 Hey guys, we're getting off track 433 00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:56,720 Hey, that's your fault, not mine 434 00:17:56,720 --> 00:17:58,720 What do you mean it's my fault? 435 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:00,720 Anyways, we're st- stop talking 436 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:02,720 No, you do it to Layton all the time 437 00:18:02,720 --> 00:18:04,720 It's only fair that someone talks to you 438 00:18:04,720 --> 00:18:06,720 He's gonna keep going, Jack, just keep trucking 439 00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:08,720 Okay, I don't know how you do it, Layton 440 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:10,720 Well, he doesn't do it, that's the thing, he just gives up 441 00:18:10,720 --> 00:18:12,720 Exactly 442 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:14,720 It just comes naturally 443 00:18:14,720 --> 00:18:16,720 Anyways, so Sam, at this four year college 444 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:18,720 It's kind of known as a party college 445 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:20,720 Have you been to any parties? 446 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:22,720 Not a party guy 447 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:24,720 No, I know people who have 448 00:18:24,720 --> 00:18:26,720 I could very easily get into the scene if I wanted 449 00:18:28,720 --> 00:18:30,720 One of my roommates got home at like 3am 450 00:18:30,720 --> 00:18:32,720 After a party 451 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:36,720 Your apartment always smells like weed 452 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:38,720 It's so bad 453 00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:40,720 It is, it is 454 00:18:40,720 --> 00:18:42,720 It's one particular person 455 00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:44,720 The guy with the shine above his door 456 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:48,720 That's a whatever 457 00:18:48,720 --> 00:18:50,720 That's a whatever 458 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:52,720 And then the other one 459 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:54,720 Yeah, parties and drinks 460 00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:56,720 Not into that? 461 00:18:56,720 --> 00:18:58,720 Nah, I respect it 462 00:18:58,720 --> 00:19:00,720 I'm glad I'm not going to four year college 463 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:02,720 I'm terrified of what I'd say if I'm drunk 464 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:04,720 Someday when we're all 21 465 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:06,720 I'll bring some of the podcast 466 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:08,720 I am lowkey terrified 467 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:10,720 I think I'm just gonna spill all the beans 468 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:12,720 Beans about what? 469 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:14,720 What kind of beans? Refried? 470 00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:16,720 Or baked? 471 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:18,720 See what I have to deal with 472 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:20,720 What do you mean what you have to deal with 473 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:22,720 You signed up for this 474 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:24,720 You didn't have to buy that mixer 475 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:26,720 It's true 476 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:28,720 You're supposed to be supportive Alex 477 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:30,720 Alex was playing devil's advocate 478 00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:32,720 Because Sam's not 479 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:34,720 Alex always plays devil's advocate 480 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:36,720 I always play devil's advocate 481 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:38,720 Can I say? It's just who I am 482 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:40,720 Jake is being mean so I have to be nice to you 483 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:42,720 You got called out 484 00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:44,720 Did you not just hear him? 485 00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:46,720 He has to 486 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:48,720 I don't care 487 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:50,720 Layton gets crap from everybody 488 00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:52,720 So he has to take it 489 00:19:52,720 --> 00:19:54,720 I take it 490 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:56,720 That was a topic we were going to talk about 491 00:19:56,720 --> 00:19:58,720 Layton getting dogged on by everybody 492 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:00,720 We already covered that on the last episode 493 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:02,720 Briefly 494 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:04,720 Layton was like 495 00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:06,720 I don't want to sound like the victim 496 00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:08,720 Or anything 497 00:20:08,720 --> 00:20:10,720 I got the glasses so I can do it now 498 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:12,720 But 499 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:14,720 I don't feel like I sound like a victim 500 00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:16,720 I'm going to be honest Jake 501 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:18,720 I've waited years for you to have glasses 502 00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:20,720 Your entire family has it 503 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:22,720 I have been waiting for years 504 00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:24,720 I can't wait for the day 505 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:26,720 You talk about it all the time though 506 00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:28,720 You would talk about it all the time 507 00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:30,720 I pride myself on it 508 00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:32,720 Let's pass the glasses around 509 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:34,720 Passes the glasses 510 00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:36,720 While we pass the glasses around 511 00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:38,720 It's such a low prescription I can't even sell 512 00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:40,720 It's not really much of a 513 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:42,720 You had another question for me 514 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:44,720 You actually look pretty good 515 00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:46,720 Thanks 516 00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:48,720 Except that they're leaning up 517 00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:50,720 That's the point 518 00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:52,720 Just as a joke 519 00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:54,720 You're a goofy little guy 520 00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:56,720 I'm partly being sarcastic 521 00:20:56,720 --> 00:20:58,720 I'm partly being genuine I promise you 522 00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:00,720 I'm laying back on 523 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:02,720 Jake just turned on his glasses 524 00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:04,720 Alright guys, let's get back on track 525 00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:06,720 Continuing, quarter college parties 526 00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:08,720 I did make brownies once 527 00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:10,720 People thought it was weed 528 00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:12,720 I'm not surprised 529 00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:14,720 This is a story, this one's fun 530 00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:16,720 I was 531 00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:18,720 Dude, I hadn't even been 532 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:20,720 It was like the first week 533 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:22,720 of school dude 534 00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:24,720 Last year, my freshman year 535 00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:26,720 I was in a dorm with some friends 536 00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:28,720 The dorm had a kitchen 537 00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:30,720 At the community kitchen 538 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:32,720 My friends were like, hey 539 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:34,720 Let's go to Walmart real quick 540 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:36,720 Let's grab some supplies for brownies 541 00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:38,720 Let's make brownies 542 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:40,720 I was the one who made the brownies 543 00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:42,720 The other ones are the ad 544 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:44,720 Everyone else was playing Just Dance 545 00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:46,720 on the Switch 546 00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:48,720 It was something like that 547 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:50,720 I don't even remember 548 00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:52,720 I think they were playing Smash at one point too 549 00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:54,720 Also, even better game 550 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:56,720 We should play Smash together 551 00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:58,720 I'd be down for that 552 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:00,720 Yeah, so 553 00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:02,720 I was pretty much the one baking the brownies 554 00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:04,720 But I wasn't the one who paid for it 555 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:06,720 I was like, not my brownies 556 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:08,720 But I'm the one making them 557 00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:10,720 People would come up and ask 558 00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:12,720 Hey, can I get a brownie? 559 00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:14,720 I'm like, sorry buddy 560 00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:16,720 I'm just the cook, I can't actually give it away 561 00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:18,720 You can have a brownie 562 00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:20,720 If you tell me what the temperature of the oven is 563 00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:22,720 You know what I had to preheat this thing too? 564 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:24,720 Put in some work and maybe then 565 00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:26,720 Yeah 566 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:28,720 But no, the amount of guys 567 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:30,720 That obviously 568 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:32,720 Were just looking to get 569 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:34,720 A little fix 570 00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:36,720 Just a little 571 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:38,720 I just need a little bit, man 572 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:40,720 Just shaking 573 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:42,720 I'm like, sorry to disappoint you guys 574 00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:44,720 But they're just brownies 575 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:46,720 He just pulled a megaphone 576 00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:48,720 I swear, one guy looked so sad 577 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:50,720 I'm not even kidding 578 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:52,720 He was so sad 579 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:54,720 I felt kind of bad 580 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:56,720 He was looking for that za za bro 581 00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:58,720 So, on the topic of that 582 00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:00,720 A lot of the stuff 583 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:02,720 With college and all that stuff 584 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:04,720 You know, the big thing is drinking 585 00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:06,720 We eat all that stuff, but that's not the focus right now 586 00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:08,720 I wanted to kind of touch on 587 00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:10,720 The idea of wasted youth 588 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:12,720 Now that we've got Sam here and he's at this 589 00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:14,720 You know, he's at a four year college 590 00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:16,720 He's wasting his youth 591 00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:18,720 Actually, no, he's doing quite the opposite 592 00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:20,720 And that's what I think is really cool 593 00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:22,720 That's why I wanted to talk about this 594 00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:24,720 I kind of want to ask 595 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:26,720 Pick all of y'all's brains real quick about this 596 00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:28,720 But I'll start with Sam since he's 597 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:30,720 Here for this episode 598 00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:32,720 What do you think of when 599 00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:34,720 I say wasted youth? 600 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:36,720 What comes to mind? 601 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:38,720 It could be literally anything 602 00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:40,720 Just keep it brief 603 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:42,720 Maybe you need to be more specific 604 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:44,720 No, that's not even that 605 00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:46,720 That's the concept 606 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:48,720 I don't want to say it because I'm going to feel bad 607 00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:50,720 What? 608 00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:52,720 Jake 609 00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:54,720 That was so dumb 610 00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:56,720 Oh, he's about to go off 611 00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:58,720 No, no, no 612 00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:00,720 Let's keep it brief and not get too deep 613 00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:02,720 No shots towards you at all 614 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:04,720 Shots about to come 615 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:06,720 Look, so we have 616 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:08,720 Alex knows what he wants to do 617 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:10,720 He wants to be a pilot 618 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:12,720 He goes to a two year university 619 00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:14,720 He gets his associate's degree 620 00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:16,720 Thank you 621 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:18,720 Layton got like certificates for 622 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:20,720 He doesn't have any 623 00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:22,720 He doesn't have any education 624 00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:24,720 He was working on them 625 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,720 He got a job 626 00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:28,720 Fair enough, he went straight into the workforce 627 00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:30,720 I'm getting a four year education 628 00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:32,720 Since last year 629 00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:34,720 Jake, you have been 630 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:36,720 Wobbling back and forth 631 00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:38,720 On what you want to do 632 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:40,720 Which is what a lot of people do 633 00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:42,720 I'm not like crapping on anyone 634 00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:44,720 But you spend so much time 635 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:46,720 Like, oh, I don't know if I'm going to enjoy this 636 00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:48,720 I don't know if I'm going to enjoy this 637 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:50,720 Try it 638 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:52,720 Let me ask you this 639 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:54,720 How is that wasted youth? 640 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:56,720 That sounds like lack of direction 641 00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:58,720 Not wasted youth 642 00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:00,720 That's more what I see 643 00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:02,720 I think it's both pretty similar 644 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:04,720 That's why I'm trying to wobble 645 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:06,720 That's why I'm wobbling 646 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:08,720 I think about it 647 00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:10,720 I'm doing some 648 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:12,720 Now you're trying things 649 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:14,720 That's the thing 650 00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:16,720 I'm talking about this age range 651 00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:18,720 When we were talking about 652 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:20,720 What we want to do 653 00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:22,720 There were a few years 654 00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:24,720 In between high school and stuff 655 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:26,720 But a lot of that was in high school 656 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:28,720 Where it was 657 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:30,720 What's going on 658 00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:32,720 And coming out of that 659 00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:34,720 After high school, what have you done? 660 00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:36,720 I worked 661 00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:38,720 How long did it take you before you started working at Discount Tire? 662 00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:40,720 When did you start? 663 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:42,720 How many different jobs? 664 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:44,720 I had two other jobs before that 665 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:46,720 Was it only two? 666 00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:48,720 There was Ace, there was the doggy daycare 667 00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:50,720 The one day APPS 668 00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:52,720 I forgot about that 669 00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:54,720 My dad doggated you for that 670 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:56,720 You went to 671 00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:58,720 Same school as Alex 672 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:00,720 For one semester 673 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:02,720 And now you're working 674 00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:04,720 The point I'm making 675 00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:06,720 Is that you're hopping back and forth 676 00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:08,720 And yeah, you're right 677 00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:10,720 There is a lack of direction 678 00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:12,720 But you're talking about wasted youth 679 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:14,720 And it's more so just wasted time 680 00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:16,720 You're not really 681 00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:18,720 You're barely dipping your toes in 682 00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:20,720 To try something before you moved on 683 00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:22,720 That's what I'm talking about 684 00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:24,720 I'm not going to spend a year doing something 685 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:26,720 That's not what I'm saying 686 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:28,720 I'm not saying you should spend a year 687 00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:30,720 That's the issue with this 688 00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:32,720 I guess I shouldn't say the issue 689 00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:34,720 That's not what I'm trying to say, sorry 690 00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:36,720 I tried things 691 00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:38,720 Like you said 692 00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:40,720 And I didn't like it 693 00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:42,720 So I'm doing something else and I'm looking in other directions 694 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:44,720 And that's the thing, I don't have a definite direction right now 695 00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:46,720 But I'm going in some direction 696 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:48,720 And that's what I've been doing 697 00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:50,720 I've been trying different directions each time 698 00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:52,720 No, no, yeah, I agree 699 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:54,720 The more so, the point that I'm making 700 00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:56,720 Is that with everything that you've tried 701 00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:58,720 Um, sorry 702 00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:00,720 Same's getting heated 703 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:02,720 No, no, no, no 704 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:04,720 Gotta cool off, roll up the sleeves 705 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:06,720 So, so, okay, let's put this 706 00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:08,720 It's about to punch you, that's what 707 00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:10,720 Yeah, same, reach out, ah 708 00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:12,720 Wasted youth 709 00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:14,720 Shut up 710 00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:16,720 Every time I've talked to you 711 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:18,720 About what you want to do 712 00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:20,720 It's, in the past year or so 713 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:22,720 It always changes 714 00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:24,720 You're always like, oh, I'm going to 715 00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:26,720 Go to two year university 716 00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:28,720 To get my associate's degree 717 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:30,720 Oh, I'm going to do welding 718 00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:32,720 That has been brought up about five times 719 00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:34,720 You've been 720 00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:36,720 You've brought that up about five times 721 00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:38,720 We've talked about HVAC, we've talked about 722 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:40,720 An electrician, we've talked about a lot of things 723 00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:42,720 You never 724 00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:44,720 You really haven't tried it 725 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:46,720 Now you're, I think, did you say HVAC 726 00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:48,720 Or did you say HVAC, HVAC, yeah 727 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:50,720 So now you're looking, you're actually going to go try 728 00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:52,720 The point being is over the past year 729 00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:54,720 You've talked about so many things 730 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:56,720 You haven't really tried 731 00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:58,720 Any of those 732 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:00,720 About all the, the only one that you did for a semester 733 00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:02,720 Was, was you went to a two year university 734 00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:04,720 Um 735 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:06,720 For one semester, but he tried it 736 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:08,720 He tried it for one semester, but you've talked about 737 00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:10,720 A lot of options, and you 738 00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:12,720 Really haven't given many of those time 739 00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:14,720 Until now, until now, now you're giving 740 00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:16,720 So, the more so the point 741 00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:18,720 I'm not like trying to crap on you, more so the point is 742 00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:20,720 Uh, that I'm trying to make is 743 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:22,720 The wasted youth 744 00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:24,720 Is just not trying things 745 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:26,720 Is people just not actually giving 746 00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:28,720 Something a shot, that's what I'm trying to say 747 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:30,720 Um, cause if you're not, like you 748 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:32,720 I know so many people 749 00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:34,720 Um, who are just stuck working 750 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:36,720 Low income jobs, because they don't try 751 00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:38,720 Anything else, that's the wasted youth 752 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:40,720 When I think wasted youth 753 00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:42,720 I'm sorry, go on 754 00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:44,720 I was gonna say, this is like last thing 755 00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:46,720 I guess we'll say before we turn to Alex 756 00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:48,720 Cause I think we've grown on this 757 00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:50,720 Well no, but he started talking 758 00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:52,720 I gotta take the lead, I'm telling you 759 00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:54,720 I'm telling you, bro 760 00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:56,720 Bro, it's a conversation, we don't need all that 761 00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:58,720 So, I will say this 762 00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:00,720 You wanna go next? Yes 763 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:02,720 Okay guys, come on, hold on a second 764 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:04,720 I think one thing that 765 00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:06,720 I can 766 00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:08,720 I don't wanna say is like the main 767 00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:10,720 Reason, or use as like an excuse 768 00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:12,720 Or anything like that, but that was 769 00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:14,720 When I was in my relationship 770 00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:16,720 And that was my 771 00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:18,720 That was my main focus 772 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,720 In those two years, was 773 00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:22,720 The relationship I was in 774 00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:24,720 And I jumped all over different ideas 775 00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:26,720 And I didn't try anything 776 00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:28,720 Because I was so wrapped up in 777 00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:30,720 I agree 778 00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:32,720 I feel that 779 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:34,720 I 100% agree with that 780 00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,720 So that's why I find it hard to kind of like 781 00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:38,720 Agree with you a little bit 782 00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:40,720 Because it sounded 783 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:42,720 Yes, it still sounds more like lack of direction 784 00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:44,720 But also because 785 00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:46,720 A lot of that time was spent 786 00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:48,720 Wrapped up in a relationship 787 00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:50,720 More than it was a 788 00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:52,720 Like, figuring out 789 00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:54,720 I mean, that's something else we can talk about too though 790 00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:56,720 Yeah, and that's for another time 791 00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:58,720 I have a plan for that episode 792 00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:00,720 But I'm thinking later down the road when February comes up 793 00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:02,720 And Valentine's Day comes up 794 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:04,720 That is perfect 795 00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:06,720 And on top of that gives me a little more time 796 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:08,720 To kind of like, get over things 797 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:10,720 All I'm gonna say about that though 798 00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:12,720 Is like, if you're 799 00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:14,720 Sacrificing time that you're 800 00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:16,720 Personally growing and working on your 801 00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:18,720 On your own self and on 802 00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:20,720 Your career goals 803 00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:22,720 Then it's probably not the best idea 804 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:24,720 Not everybody's aware enough of that during the relationship period 805 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:26,720 So that's all I'll say about that 806 00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:28,720 Because that's relating to what we're talking about 807 00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:30,720 Oh, I'm sorry 808 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:32,720 We were trying 809 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:34,720 Okay guys 810 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:36,720 I'm still trying to get my point across 811 00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:38,720 And then you two are over here having your own mini conversation 812 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:40,720 Everybody's talking in my ears and everything 813 00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:42,720 I think of wasted youth 814 00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:44,720 And this is probably not gonna be popular with a lot of people 815 00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:46,720 But honestly, I think wasted youth 816 00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:48,720 Is kind of similar to what Sam did 817 00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:50,720 I just feel like partying is 818 00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:52,720 Wasting time 819 00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:54,720 It's just a total waste of time 820 00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:56,720 It depends on the party, in my opinion 821 00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:58,720 Like what? 822 00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:00,720 If we were to get together 823 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:02,720 That'd just be a hangout 824 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:04,720 And I was about to say, and invite a bunch of friends 825 00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:06,720 That like 826 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:08,720 Extended friends 827 00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:10,720 That's why I mean the type of party 828 00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:12,720 Because college parties, and your typical idea of a college party 829 00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:14,720 Where there's like 830 00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:16,720 All sorts of stupid stuff going on 831 00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:18,720 That I can agree with 832 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:20,720 When I hear party, that's what I think of it 833 00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:22,720 But there's different types of parties 834 00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:24,720 And that's why I thought that 835 00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:26,720 If you're getting your grades and you're learning 836 00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:28,720 I don't care what you do 837 00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:30,720 Hey, you know what? Still don't do drugs 838 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:32,720 I agree, still don't do drugs 839 00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:34,720 But I'm just saying 840 00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:36,720 I think that's wasted youth 841 00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:38,720 Is that you're not actually 842 00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:40,720 Making any progress 843 00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:42,720 And a lot of people make the argument 844 00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:44,720 I gotta do it when I'm young, you know 845 00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:46,720 Because I'm still figuring everything out 846 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:48,720 Whatever it is, you know 847 00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:50,720 But I disagree 848 00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:52,720 I will agree, I think that's kind of a lame argument 849 00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:54,720 Because that's the same logic 850 00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:56,720 That'll get you killed 851 00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:58,720 I was kind of thinking that 852 00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:00,720 That's kind of what I was going to say 853 00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:02,720 Like actually having fun when you're a kid 854 00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:04,720 But I was leaning more towards young not being 855 00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:06,720 Like upper high school in the college age 856 00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:08,720 But more like actual childhood 857 00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:10,720 Like late 858 00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:12,720 Like probably eight years old 859 00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:14,720 Into like your earlier middle teenage years 860 00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:16,720 How would you waste that youth? 861 00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:18,720 Man, that's a really tough thing 862 00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:20,720 Yeah, because that's the thing 863 00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:22,720 When you're younger 864 00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:24,720 You aren't focused on spending your time 865 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:26,720 Doing things you love 866 00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:28,720 You're not even aware of the fact that 867 00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:30,720 I should be learning what I love 868 00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:32,720 I didn't know what I wanted to study 869 00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:34,720 In college till literally 870 00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:36,720 Like the end of the spring semester 871 00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:38,720 Before I started 872 00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:40,720 Like literally the end of my senior year of high school 873 00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:42,720 Is when I'm like, okay, I know what I'm going to try and study 874 00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:44,720 So wasted youth is like 875 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:46,720 A certain 876 00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:48,720 You're not upset 877 00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:50,720 He's taking lead 878 00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:52,720 Let's go, Leighton 879 00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:54,720 Leighton's figuring it out over here 880 00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:56,720 I had to because Leighton was upset earlier 881 00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:58,720 But it's an age 882 00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:00,720 It's definitely an age I'd say 883 00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:02,720 When you say wasted youth 884 00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:04,720 I'd say that starts at probably around 17 to 18 885 00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:06,720 And then onward 886 00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:08,720 Because at that point you're looking for 887 00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:10,720 What you're going to do for the rest of your life 888 00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:12,720 Exactly 889 00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:14,720 If you're not like trying things out 890 00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:16,720 That's kind of what I was saying 891 00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:18,720 If you're not like trying things 892 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:20,720 If you're not experimenting 893 00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:22,720 Seeing what you like, seeing what you don't like 894 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:24,720 That's when you're wasting it 895 00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:26,720 Because you're wasting time to learn what you enjoy doing 896 00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:28,720 Kind of going back to what wasted youth is 897 00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:30,720 Especially for the age range 898 00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:32,720 Because you guys were all thinking more our age 899 00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:34,720 But I was thinking a lot younger 900 00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:36,720 I guess thinking about it for a second 901 00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:38,720 We did say youth 902 00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:40,720 Thinking about it from my point of view 903 00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:42,720 I guess it would be not sitting inside 904 00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:44,720 Like actually getting out and having a child 905 00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:46,720 I guess that's that outdoorsy part of you 906 00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:48,720 I think it's okay to 907 00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:50,720 Stay inside and play video games sometimes 908 00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:52,720 I mean I still played video games growing up 909 00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:54,720 I played Flash games, Roblox 910 00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:56,720 All that stuff 911 00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:58,720 But I still went out and I had my own adventures 912 00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:00,720 I actually had fun 913 00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:02,720 I did cool stuff 914 00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:04,720 All those times you snuck around on the golf course 915 00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:06,720 It built up character and it actually added something to me 916 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:08,720 It's stories that can be told 917 00:34:08,720 --> 00:34:10,720 Build good friendships 918 00:34:10,720 --> 00:34:12,720 Sleepovers in our underwear in the tents 919 00:34:12,720 --> 00:34:14,720 Y'all's dads or whatever 920 00:34:14,720 --> 00:34:16,720 Have told you stories of their childhood 921 00:34:16,720 --> 00:34:18,720 And so then we're like oh yeah I saw 922 00:34:18,720 --> 00:34:20,720 I built this amazing Minecraft house all day 923 00:34:20,720 --> 00:34:22,720 Spent 10 hours on it 924 00:34:22,720 --> 00:34:24,720 My dad's like oh yeah 925 00:34:24,720 --> 00:34:26,720 I rode horses out on the field 926 00:34:26,720 --> 00:34:28,720 Or one time I was riding 927 00:34:28,720 --> 00:34:30,720 Dirt bikes with my dad and you know crashers 928 00:34:30,720 --> 00:34:32,720 This whole thing 929 00:34:32,720 --> 00:34:34,720 They always have a story to tell 930 00:34:34,720 --> 00:34:36,720 My dad's was mostly baseball 931 00:34:36,720 --> 00:34:38,720 Snow, snow, snow 932 00:34:38,720 --> 00:34:40,720 That's what Iowa is 933 00:34:40,720 --> 00:34:42,720 You need something of value to you 934 00:34:42,720 --> 00:34:44,720 Something hearty in your life 935 00:34:44,720 --> 00:34:46,720 I think that's a good idea 936 00:34:46,720 --> 00:34:48,720 I think that's an interesting take on it 937 00:34:48,720 --> 00:34:50,720 Because like Alex had just said 938 00:34:50,720 --> 00:34:52,720 We were all thinking like this age right now 939 00:34:52,720 --> 00:34:54,720 And Alex was on this whole page 940 00:34:54,720 --> 00:34:56,720 I think that's an interesting idea 941 00:34:56,720 --> 00:34:58,720 Because that is 942 00:34:58,720 --> 00:35:00,720 That actually is 943 00:35:00,720 --> 00:35:02,720 Very defining years 944 00:35:02,720 --> 00:35:04,720 Without even realizing it 945 00:35:04,720 --> 00:35:06,720 That's what you 946 00:35:06,720 --> 00:35:08,720 Your whole life shapes you 947 00:35:08,720 --> 00:35:10,720 Think of the next generation 948 00:35:10,720 --> 00:35:12,720 Growing up that is spending all their time 949 00:35:12,720 --> 00:35:14,720 Indoors and not in the space 950 00:35:14,720 --> 00:35:16,720 We've already talked about this generation before 951 00:35:16,720 --> 00:35:18,720 And we all sounded like boomers when we did 952 00:35:18,720 --> 00:35:20,720 So we're not gonna go there 953 00:35:20,720 --> 00:35:22,720 I'm just saying 954 00:35:22,720 --> 00:35:24,720 Sam is a listener over there 955 00:35:24,720 --> 00:35:26,720 Let's move on 956 00:35:26,720 --> 00:35:28,720 Hold on I got something 957 00:35:28,720 --> 00:35:30,720 Do you want to do it now or do you want to do it now 958 00:35:30,720 --> 00:35:32,720 Like I said I meant to tell you like we'll get to it 959 00:35:32,720 --> 00:35:34,720 I know but I'm trying to move it along 960 00:35:34,720 --> 00:35:36,720 Because we're stuck 961 00:35:36,720 --> 00:35:38,720 I was still gonna talk 962 00:35:38,720 --> 00:35:40,720 I told you guys that was the main 963 00:35:40,720 --> 00:35:42,720 You interrupt late in every episode 964 00:35:42,720 --> 00:35:44,720 It's my turn 965 00:35:44,720 --> 00:35:46,720 Okay 966 00:35:46,720 --> 00:35:48,720 Let's slow down 967 00:35:48,720 --> 00:35:50,720 What is your idea 968 00:35:50,720 --> 00:35:52,720 I was gonna say 969 00:35:52,720 --> 00:35:54,720 Wasted youth in my idea 970 00:35:54,720 --> 00:35:56,720 And opinion is kind of a mix of 971 00:35:56,720 --> 00:35:58,720 Leighton's and Sam's 972 00:35:58,720 --> 00:36:00,720 Because I think it's the idea of like 973 00:36:00,720 --> 00:36:02,720 Not living 974 00:36:02,720 --> 00:36:04,720 A life where you're trying new things 975 00:36:04,720 --> 00:36:06,720 In a healthy way 976 00:36:06,720 --> 00:36:08,720 And that's where the healthy 977 00:36:08,720 --> 00:36:10,720 Parties and stuff like that 978 00:36:10,720 --> 00:36:12,720 Drugs, alcohol, whatever 979 00:36:12,720 --> 00:36:14,720 That's gonna screw you over 980 00:36:14,720 --> 00:36:16,720 Especially right now 981 00:36:16,720 --> 00:36:18,720 Because that's what you're gonna get stuck in 982 00:36:18,720 --> 00:36:20,720 That's what you're gonna define yourself in 983 00:36:20,720 --> 00:36:22,720 And instead of 984 00:36:22,720 --> 00:36:24,720 Say my example 985 00:36:24,720 --> 00:36:26,720 Instead of photography 986 00:36:26,720 --> 00:36:28,720 Instead of a podcast 987 00:36:28,720 --> 00:36:30,720 Instead of my friends 988 00:36:30,720 --> 00:36:32,720 Instead of outdoors 989 00:36:32,720 --> 00:36:33,720 Instead of 990 00:36:33,720 --> 00:36:35,720 Communication, instead of technology 991 00:36:35,720 --> 00:36:37,720 Your job and everything like that 992 00:36:37,720 --> 00:36:39,720 They're defining themselves 993 00:36:39,720 --> 00:36:41,720 In whatever they can do 994 00:36:41,720 --> 00:36:43,720 To get away from the reality 995 00:36:43,720 --> 00:36:45,720 Instead of improving your reality 996 00:36:45,720 --> 00:36:47,720 They're running from it 997 00:36:47,720 --> 00:36:49,720 Make your reality something good 998 00:36:49,720 --> 00:36:51,720 Everybody that is trying to live fast 999 00:36:51,720 --> 00:36:53,720 Is trying to get away from something 1000 00:36:53,720 --> 00:36:55,720 That's a good point 1001 00:36:55,720 --> 00:36:57,720 That's kind of what Sam and I 1002 00:36:57,720 --> 00:36:59,720 I think we're saying 1003 00:36:59,720 --> 00:37:01,720 There's a difference between live fast 1004 00:37:01,720 --> 00:37:03,720 And like the other idea 1005 00:37:03,720 --> 00:37:05,720 Fastly living 1006 00:37:05,720 --> 00:37:09,720 There's a difference between stuff like that 1007 00:37:09,720 --> 00:37:11,720 Where it's live fast 1008 00:37:11,720 --> 00:37:13,720 In a healthy way and live fast 1009 00:37:13,720 --> 00:37:15,720 In a like 1010 00:37:15,720 --> 00:37:17,720 Like I'm in college 1011 00:37:17,720 --> 00:37:19,720 I need to try everything 1012 00:37:19,720 --> 00:37:21,720 One means you're drug addict, one means you're using bolt 1013 00:37:21,720 --> 00:37:23,720 Anyway 1014 00:37:23,720 --> 00:37:25,720 But that's the thing 1015 00:37:25,720 --> 00:37:27,720 I think it's important to 1016 00:37:27,720 --> 00:37:29,720 Focus on you as a person first 1017 00:37:29,720 --> 00:37:31,720 And build connections 1018 00:37:31,720 --> 00:37:33,720 And stuff like that 1019 00:37:33,720 --> 00:37:35,720 And that's the wasted youth part 1020 00:37:35,720 --> 00:37:37,720 Is that you're wasting your youth 1021 00:37:37,720 --> 00:37:39,720 In things that are gonna 1022 00:37:39,720 --> 00:37:41,720 Tear you away from the things that you're gonna be good at 1023 00:37:41,720 --> 00:37:43,720 That you're gonna find passion in 1024 00:37:43,720 --> 00:37:45,720 You're gonna find interest in 1025 00:37:45,720 --> 00:37:47,720 That way we all have the same idea 1026 00:37:47,720 --> 00:37:49,720 Yeah, agree 1027 00:37:49,720 --> 00:37:51,720 Okay, so 1028 00:37:51,720 --> 00:37:53,720 Speaking of college 1029 00:37:53,720 --> 00:37:55,720 Sam has somebody that he's been talking to 1030 00:37:55,720 --> 00:37:57,720 And it's happened 1031 00:37:57,720 --> 00:37:59,720 She happens to be 1032 00:37:59,720 --> 00:38:01,720 Our number one fan 1033 00:38:01,720 --> 00:38:03,720 So guys, we've got our first fan mail 1034 00:38:03,720 --> 00:38:05,720 We've got our first 1035 00:38:05,720 --> 00:38:07,720 Are you guys official now? 1036 00:38:07,720 --> 00:38:09,720 Nice, so we've got our first fan mail 1037 00:38:09,720 --> 00:38:11,720 From Sam's girlfriend 1038 00:38:11,720 --> 00:38:13,720 Oh wow 1039 00:38:13,720 --> 00:38:15,720 Okay, Layden 1040 00:38:15,720 --> 00:38:17,720 I didn't see 1041 00:38:17,720 --> 00:38:19,720 I was looking at the bags 1042 00:38:19,720 --> 00:38:21,720 He was looking at the little 1043 00:38:21,720 --> 00:38:23,720 Okay, let me describe 1044 00:38:23,720 --> 00:38:25,720 Morgan 1045 00:38:25,720 --> 00:38:27,720 Hi Morgan 1046 00:38:27,720 --> 00:38:29,720 I swear I'm being safe 1047 00:38:29,720 --> 00:38:31,720 I didn't know if you looked at the tag 1048 00:38:31,720 --> 00:38:33,720 I thought he was passing them down 1049 00:38:33,720 --> 00:38:35,720 No, I'm giving it to everyone but you first 1050 00:38:35,720 --> 00:38:37,720 Oh my tag 1051 00:38:37,720 --> 00:38:39,720 I got it now 1052 00:38:39,720 --> 00:38:41,720 So these are goody bags 1053 00:38:41,720 --> 00:38:43,720 That Morgan made 1054 00:38:43,720 --> 00:38:45,720 And I was 1055 00:38:45,720 --> 00:38:47,720 At her house the other day 1056 00:38:47,720 --> 00:38:49,720 We made cookies, so there's a chocolate chip cookie in there 1057 00:38:49,720 --> 00:38:51,720 We made peppermint bark, which I need y'all to try 1058 00:38:51,720 --> 00:38:53,720 While we're here 1059 00:38:53,720 --> 00:38:55,720 Did she mainly make the cookies or did you 1060 00:38:55,720 --> 00:38:57,720 It was like pre-bought at the store 1061 00:38:57,720 --> 00:38:59,720 But I'm really good at rolling them into balls 1062 00:38:59,720 --> 00:39:01,720 He made brownies, so he could make cookies 1063 00:39:01,720 --> 00:39:03,720 I don't trust him 1064 00:39:03,720 --> 00:39:05,720 What do you mean? I trust you, Sam 1065 00:39:05,720 --> 00:39:07,720 Despite hating you 1066 00:39:07,720 --> 00:39:09,720 I need y'all to try the peppermint bark 1067 00:39:09,720 --> 00:39:11,720 There's a few other things in there 1068 00:39:11,720 --> 00:39:13,720 Should we do that first? 1069 00:39:13,720 --> 00:39:15,720 Japanese Kit Kat 1070 00:39:15,720 --> 00:39:17,720 I'm going to tear mine apart later because I don't want to make a mess 1071 00:39:17,720 --> 00:39:19,720 So I need all of y'all 1072 00:39:19,720 --> 00:39:21,720 The peppermint bark should be 1073 00:39:21,720 --> 00:39:23,720 In the, yeah that's it 1074 00:39:23,720 --> 00:39:25,720 Okay 1075 00:39:25,720 --> 00:39:27,720 What a sad night to break a race's bracket on 1076 00:39:27,720 --> 00:39:29,720 Seriously 1077 00:39:29,720 --> 00:39:31,720 Y'all ready? 1078 00:39:31,720 --> 00:39:33,720 Y'all gotta try this because 1079 00:39:33,720 --> 00:39:35,720 Ooh it's soft 1080 00:39:35,720 --> 00:39:37,720 Ooh that's good 1081 00:39:37,720 --> 00:39:39,720 Ooh you got some spicy in it 1082 00:39:39,720 --> 00:39:41,720 Spicy 1083 00:39:41,720 --> 00:39:43,720 What's the spicy? 1084 00:39:43,720 --> 00:39:45,720 I don't think you should have any spicy 1085 00:39:45,720 --> 00:39:47,720 I was like, wait where's the spice? 1086 00:39:47,720 --> 00:39:49,720 That's awesome 1087 00:39:49,720 --> 00:39:51,720 So yeah, you're welcome 1088 00:39:51,720 --> 00:39:53,720 I know you're not that great with spice 1089 00:39:53,720 --> 00:39:55,720 So let me tell y'all 1090 00:39:55,720 --> 00:39:57,720 Something 1091 00:39:57,720 --> 00:39:59,720 Jake, I don't think you know this 1092 00:39:59,720 --> 00:40:01,720 You're the only one who might 1093 00:40:01,720 --> 00:40:03,720 So there is this 1094 00:40:03,720 --> 00:40:05,720 It was like a lollipop that Morgan had 1095 00:40:05,720 --> 00:40:07,720 Got up at 1096 00:40:07,720 --> 00:40:09,720 Yeah, up near 1097 00:40:09,720 --> 00:40:11,720 Where I live 1098 00:40:11,720 --> 00:40:13,720 And it's like a spicy 1099 00:40:13,720 --> 00:40:15,720 Lollipop and it's like, I can't remember 1100 00:40:15,720 --> 00:40:17,720 What it is on the 1101 00:40:17,720 --> 00:40:19,720 Scoville 1102 00:40:19,720 --> 00:40:21,720 It's bad 1103 00:40:21,720 --> 00:40:23,720 And so there's like a challenge 1104 00:40:23,720 --> 00:40:25,720 You gotta leave it in your mouth for like five minutes 1105 00:40:25,720 --> 00:40:27,720 Oh my gosh 1106 00:40:27,720 --> 00:40:29,720 It's hot 1107 00:40:29,720 --> 00:40:31,720 And hailed it 1108 00:40:31,720 --> 00:40:33,720 It's in your throat and it's not good 1109 00:40:33,720 --> 00:40:35,720 But it's bad 1110 00:40:35,720 --> 00:40:37,720 And so when we were making the peppermint 1111 00:40:37,720 --> 00:40:39,720 Barque, Morgan had the evil idea 1112 00:40:39,720 --> 00:40:41,720 That we crush up 1113 00:40:41,720 --> 00:40:43,720 The rest of the lollipop that we had 1114 00:40:43,720 --> 00:40:45,720 And so we mix it in with 1115 00:40:45,720 --> 00:40:47,720 Part of the 1116 00:40:47,720 --> 00:40:49,720 The peppermint Barque 1117 00:40:49,720 --> 00:40:51,720 It's very 1118 00:40:51,720 --> 00:40:53,720 Cinnamon-y 1119 00:40:53,720 --> 00:40:55,720 And so 1120 00:40:55,720 --> 00:40:57,720 So we mixed in 1121 00:40:57,720 --> 00:40:59,720 It's 1122 00:40:59,720 --> 00:41:01,720 The spicy lollipop, it's called Satan's Toe 1123 00:41:01,720 --> 00:41:03,720 It's called Satan's Toe 1124 00:41:03,720 --> 00:41:05,720 I've heard of that one 1125 00:41:05,720 --> 00:41:07,720 It's called Satan's Toe and so we mixed it in 1126 00:41:07,720 --> 00:41:09,720 With some portions of the peppermint 1127 00:41:09,720 --> 00:41:11,720 Barque and we gave a few people 1128 00:41:11,720 --> 00:41:13,720 The spicy and we're like 1129 00:41:13,720 --> 00:41:15,720 Alright we gotta give it to Jake and Alex 1130 00:41:15,720 --> 00:41:17,720 But I said we're not gonna give it to Lampis 1131 00:41:17,720 --> 00:41:19,720 I know he can't handle spice 1132 00:41:19,720 --> 00:41:21,720 That spice is good 1133 00:41:21,720 --> 00:41:23,720 I'm not gonna eat anymore 1134 00:41:23,720 --> 00:41:25,720 Cause I'm not too hungry after 1135 00:41:25,720 --> 00:41:27,720 No that's fair, that's completely fair 1136 00:41:27,720 --> 00:41:29,720 And then there's a few other things 1137 00:41:29,720 --> 00:41:31,720 A few other Japanese things 1138 00:41:31,720 --> 00:41:33,720 Gotta get the culture in there 1139 00:41:33,720 --> 00:41:35,720 Correct for our friend learning Japanese 1140 00:41:35,720 --> 00:41:37,720 Yeah I guess 1141 00:41:37,720 --> 00:41:39,720 So Morgan is half Japanese 1142 00:41:39,720 --> 00:41:41,720 And half American 1143 00:41:41,720 --> 00:41:43,720 Alright another shout out to Morgan 1144 00:41:43,720 --> 00:41:45,720 For this stuff 1145 00:41:45,720 --> 00:41:47,720 Thank you very much 1146 00:41:47,720 --> 00:41:49,720 Thank you for the fan mail Morgan 1147 00:41:49,720 --> 00:41:51,720 I'm just doing this to anger her 1148 00:41:51,720 --> 00:41:53,720 I hope it does 1149 00:41:53,720 --> 00:41:55,720 It won't 1150 00:41:55,720 --> 00:41:57,720 I doubt it 1151 00:41:57,720 --> 00:41:59,720 Yeah I think that was a good little 1152 00:41:59,720 --> 00:42:01,720 Good little 1153 00:42:01,720 --> 00:42:03,720 Instruction from 1154 00:42:03,720 --> 00:42:05,720 Heavier conversation 1155 00:42:05,720 --> 00:42:07,720 So movies right? 1156 00:42:07,720 --> 00:42:09,720 So yeah 1157 00:42:09,720 --> 00:42:11,720 Just um 1158 00:42:11,720 --> 00:42:13,720 Hold on 1159 00:42:13,720 --> 00:42:15,720 Like I had mentioned before 1160 00:42:15,720 --> 00:42:17,720 Where are we at? 1161 00:42:17,720 --> 00:42:19,720 We got plenty 1162 00:42:19,720 --> 00:42:21,720 We got time 1163 00:42:21,720 --> 00:42:23,720 I did want 1164 00:42:23,720 --> 00:42:25,720 The latter half of this podcast 1165 00:42:25,720 --> 00:42:27,720 To be about 1166 00:42:27,720 --> 00:42:29,720 That little 1167 00:42:29,720 --> 00:42:31,720 That kind of more serious topic 1168 00:42:31,720 --> 00:42:33,720 Of how to spend our youths 1169 00:42:33,720 --> 00:42:35,720 Because that's the thing 1170 00:42:35,720 --> 00:42:37,720 With this podcast 1171 00:42:37,720 --> 00:42:39,720 That we've mentioned in other episodes 1172 00:42:39,720 --> 00:42:41,720 That's the way we kind of started this 1173 00:42:41,720 --> 00:42:43,720 Yes to goof around, yes to have fun 1174 00:42:43,720 --> 00:42:45,720 But also to talk about how we 1175 00:42:45,720 --> 00:42:47,720 Are growing, how we 1176 00:42:47,720 --> 00:42:49,720 What it's like growing up 1177 00:42:49,720 --> 00:42:51,720 Starting it up, but man that doubles toe 1178 00:42:51,720 --> 00:42:53,720 My tongue's a little swollen right now 1179 00:42:53,720 --> 00:42:55,720 You all really only want to do the serious stuff 1180 00:42:55,720 --> 00:42:57,720 I'm sorry but it's a good topic 1181 00:42:57,720 --> 00:42:59,720 Right now 1182 00:42:59,720 --> 00:43:01,720 I think it's fitting for us to 1183 00:43:01,720 --> 00:43:03,720 Talk about that especially while you're here 1184 00:43:03,720 --> 00:43:05,720 That's fair 1185 00:43:05,720 --> 00:43:07,720 Yeah 1186 00:43:07,720 --> 00:43:09,720 I'll come onto you anytime 1187 00:43:09,720 --> 00:43:11,720 Wow 1188 00:43:11,720 --> 00:43:13,720 Morgan you heard that 1189 00:43:13,720 --> 00:43:15,720 I did not advance, alright 1190 00:43:15,720 --> 00:43:17,720 I did not advance on your territory 1191 00:43:17,720 --> 00:43:19,720 I think that's an idea 1192 00:43:19,720 --> 00:43:21,720 That I kind of wanted to touch on 1193 00:43:21,720 --> 00:43:23,720 How to spend our youths 1194 00:43:23,720 --> 00:43:25,720 And kind of what we 1195 00:43:25,720 --> 00:43:27,720 What we think is a proper way 1196 00:43:27,720 --> 00:43:29,720 At this point I need clarification 1197 00:43:29,720 --> 00:43:31,720 Are we talking youths? Like Alex is talking youths? 1198 00:43:31,720 --> 00:43:33,720 No, we're talking about 1199 00:43:33,720 --> 00:43:35,720 How to spend our young adult lives 1200 00:43:35,720 --> 00:43:37,720 There you go, that's a lot better 1201 00:43:37,720 --> 00:43:39,720 What do you guys think is a good way 1202 00:43:39,720 --> 00:43:41,720 To live our lives 1203 00:43:41,720 --> 00:43:43,720 Right now and what do you guys think is the best 1204 00:43:43,720 --> 00:43:45,720 I guess best way 1205 00:43:45,720 --> 00:43:47,720 To grow up right now 1206 00:43:47,720 --> 00:43:49,720 You've got your hand raised 1207 00:43:49,720 --> 00:43:51,720 Yes teacher 1208 00:43:51,720 --> 00:43:53,720 Good school boy over there 1209 00:43:53,720 --> 00:43:55,720 I was just going to say that 1210 00:43:55,720 --> 00:43:57,720 I feel very 1211 00:43:57,720 --> 00:43:59,720 Strongly about it that if you don't 1212 00:43:59,720 --> 00:44:01,720 Know what you want to do then yes 1213 00:44:01,720 --> 00:44:03,720 Go to college but if you know what 1214 00:44:03,720 --> 00:44:05,720 You want to do and that doesn't necessarily 1215 00:44:05,720 --> 00:44:07,720 Require college to get in the door 1216 00:44:07,720 --> 00:44:09,720 At least then maybe you should try 1217 00:44:09,720 --> 00:44:11,720 It before you actually go to college 1218 00:44:11,720 --> 00:44:13,720 You've definitely got the experience 1219 00:44:13,720 --> 00:44:15,720 Of that right now 1220 00:44:15,720 --> 00:44:17,720 You went to school 1221 00:44:17,720 --> 00:44:19,720 To my understanding briefly, is that what 1222 00:44:19,720 --> 00:44:21,720 I heard Sam talk? 1223 00:44:21,720 --> 00:44:23,720 I'm about to certificate 1224 00:44:23,720 --> 00:44:25,720 I did briefly experiment around 1225 00:44:25,720 --> 00:44:27,720 With getting a certificate 1226 00:44:27,720 --> 00:44:29,720 You took that direction and then 1227 00:44:29,720 --> 00:44:31,720 You got into a company doing something 1228 00:44:31,720 --> 00:44:33,720 You love and I think that's a good 1229 00:44:33,720 --> 00:44:35,720 Advice 1230 00:44:35,720 --> 00:44:37,720 That's something I should have mentioned 1231 00:44:37,720 --> 00:44:39,720 Advice for the listeners and stuff like that 1232 00:44:39,720 --> 00:44:41,720 Which we can end on a little more 1233 00:44:41,720 --> 00:44:43,720 That's why I wanted to go first 1234 00:44:43,720 --> 00:44:45,720 That was a really good point 1235 00:44:45,720 --> 00:44:47,720 Sam D 1236 00:44:47,720 --> 00:44:49,720 Me and you easily 1237 00:44:49,720 --> 00:44:51,720 We already have, we could go into a 1238 00:44:51,720 --> 00:44:53,720 Backing board 1239 00:44:53,720 --> 00:44:55,720 I'll keep this short and simple, do drugs, drink alcohol 1240 00:44:55,720 --> 00:44:57,720 I'm kidding 1241 00:44:57,720 --> 00:44:59,720 That's a joke 1242 00:44:59,720 --> 00:45:01,720 That's not a joke 1243 00:45:01,720 --> 00:45:03,720 No, no, I'm totally serious 1244 00:45:03,720 --> 00:45:05,720 No 1245 00:45:05,720 --> 00:45:07,720 I actually 100% 1246 00:45:07,720 --> 00:45:09,720 Agree with Layton 1247 00:45:09,720 --> 00:45:11,720 Especially if you don't know what you want to do 1248 00:45:13,720 --> 00:45:15,720 Not even necessarily a four year college 1249 00:45:15,720 --> 00:45:17,720 Even just doing your associates degree 1250 00:45:17,720 --> 00:45:19,720 Community college 1251 00:45:19,720 --> 00:45:21,720 That in itself 1252 00:45:21,720 --> 00:45:23,720 Would be very beneficial because 1253 00:45:23,720 --> 00:45:25,720 You're getting yourself started 1254 00:45:25,720 --> 00:45:27,720 But just doing something 1255 00:45:27,720 --> 00:45:29,720 Not just sitting at home 1256 00:45:29,720 --> 00:45:31,720 Or 1257 00:45:31,720 --> 00:45:33,720 Playing video games, working at McDonald's 1258 00:45:33,720 --> 00:45:35,720 For the next two years of your life before you realize 1259 00:45:35,720 --> 00:45:37,720 Oh crap, I have to actually figure something out 1260 00:45:37,720 --> 00:45:39,720 Just do something 1261 00:45:39,720 --> 00:45:41,720 Alex, do you have anything? 1262 00:45:41,720 --> 00:45:43,720 Pretty much 1263 00:45:43,720 --> 00:45:45,720 Exactly the same honestly 1264 00:45:45,720 --> 00:45:47,720 I guess what I said can be applied for 1265 00:45:47,720 --> 00:45:49,720 Higher age range as well 1266 00:45:49,720 --> 00:45:51,720 I think 1267 00:45:51,720 --> 00:45:53,720 Sorry, I didn't know if you were 1268 00:45:53,720 --> 00:45:55,720 This is how conversation works 1269 00:45:55,720 --> 00:45:57,720 Kind of talk over each other a bit 1270 00:45:57,720 --> 00:45:59,720 There's no water to it 1271 00:45:59,720 --> 00:46:01,720 Not when you do it all the freaking time 1272 00:46:01,720 --> 00:46:03,720 I knew you were going to say something 1273 00:46:03,720 --> 00:46:05,720 Not when Layton doesn't get any words out 1274 00:46:05,720 --> 00:46:07,720 I am here to protect my sugar daddy 1275 00:46:07,720 --> 00:46:09,720 Yes 1276 00:46:09,720 --> 00:46:11,720 I almost said something that would have gotten me cancelled 1277 00:46:11,720 --> 00:46:13,720 In this day and age 1278 00:46:13,720 --> 00:46:15,720 I can't say it 1279 00:46:15,720 --> 00:46:17,720 Defending Layton like that 1280 00:46:17,720 --> 00:46:19,720 Makes me feel 1281 00:46:19,720 --> 00:46:21,720 Okay, anyways 1282 00:46:21,720 --> 00:46:23,720 I think the best way to kind of like 1283 00:46:23,720 --> 00:46:25,720 The best way to kind of grow up 1284 00:46:25,720 --> 00:46:27,720 And avoid wasting your youth like that is 1285 00:46:27,720 --> 00:46:29,720 Similar to what you guys said but I think 1286 00:46:29,720 --> 00:46:31,720 Outside of the career 1287 00:46:31,720 --> 00:46:33,720 Options 1288 00:46:33,720 --> 00:46:35,720 Maybe it's just the way 1289 00:46:35,720 --> 00:46:37,720 With where I am right now 1290 00:46:37,720 --> 00:46:39,720 Finding what you love 1291 00:46:39,720 --> 00:46:41,720 Do what you passion 1292 00:46:41,720 --> 00:46:43,720 Find the passion 1293 00:46:43,720 --> 00:46:45,720 Because once you find your passion 1294 00:46:45,720 --> 00:46:47,720 It's common to find what you want to do 1295 00:46:47,720 --> 00:46:49,720 Where you want to go, all that stuff 1296 00:46:49,720 --> 00:46:51,720 Right now, I'm heavily considering 1297 00:46:51,720 --> 00:46:53,720 Photography 1298 00:46:53,720 --> 00:46:55,720 But I'm still doing HVAC 1299 00:46:55,720 --> 00:46:57,720 Why do you think I'm doing communications? 1300 00:46:57,720 --> 00:46:59,720 It's literally talk 1301 00:46:59,720 --> 00:47:01,720 That's my only skill 1302 00:47:01,720 --> 00:47:03,720 Layton is working in tech, which you love doing 1303 00:47:03,720 --> 00:47:05,720 Speaking is the only thing I know how to do 1304 00:47:05,720 --> 00:47:07,720 Trust me, we've known this 1305 00:47:07,720 --> 00:47:09,720 I just took my water bottle instead of my mic 1306 00:47:09,720 --> 00:47:11,720 I dropped one 1307 00:47:11,720 --> 00:47:13,720 Alex clearly is not good at speaking 1308 00:47:13,720 --> 00:47:15,720 Alex is clearly not good at speaking 1309 00:47:15,720 --> 00:47:17,720 I'm actually a good public speaker 1310 00:47:17,720 --> 00:47:19,720 You're not good at talking 1311 00:47:19,720 --> 00:47:21,720 I let him scowl for a while 1312 00:47:21,720 --> 00:47:23,720 When I'm in the shower 1313 00:47:23,720 --> 00:47:25,720 Speaking to your water 1314 00:47:25,720 --> 00:47:27,720 Your shampoo bottles on the wall 1315 00:47:27,720 --> 00:47:29,720 He's singing 1316 00:47:29,720 --> 00:47:31,720 Thank you, thank you, thank you 1317 00:47:31,720 --> 00:47:33,720 All of them clattering on the floor 1318 00:47:33,720 --> 00:47:35,720 He's just singing in there 1319 00:47:35,720 --> 00:47:37,720 I used to 1320 00:47:37,720 --> 00:47:39,720 What songs? 1321 00:47:39,720 --> 00:47:41,720 Let it go, 100% 1322 00:47:41,720 --> 00:47:43,720 I used to sing Minecraft parodies 1323 00:47:43,720 --> 00:47:45,720 Minecraft parodies in the shower? 1324 00:47:45,720 --> 00:47:47,720 That's good 1325 00:47:47,720 --> 00:47:49,720 What a vibe 1326 00:47:49,720 --> 00:47:51,720 I think that's a big way 1327 00:47:51,720 --> 00:47:53,720 A big thing to keep in mind 1328 00:47:53,720 --> 00:47:55,720 As you grow up is that 1329 00:47:55,720 --> 00:47:57,720 Yes, go A direction 1330 00:47:57,720 --> 00:47:59,720 I agree because that's what I'm doing now 1331 00:47:59,720 --> 00:48:01,720 Doing HVAC 1332 00:48:01,720 --> 00:48:03,720 But I've also got photography classes on my schedule 1333 00:48:03,720 --> 00:48:05,720 It's doing something 1334 00:48:05,720 --> 00:48:07,720 Doing A direction 1335 00:48:07,720 --> 00:48:09,720 But also following my passion 1336 00:48:09,720 --> 00:48:11,720 I would also be a really good example of that 1337 00:48:11,720 --> 00:48:13,720 I'm going for a communications 1338 00:48:13,720 --> 00:48:15,720 major, I'm going for a marketing 1339 00:48:15,720 --> 00:48:17,720 minor, I'm following that path 1340 00:48:17,720 --> 00:48:19,720 However, at the same time 1341 00:48:19,720 --> 00:48:21,720 I am also experimenting in the film 1342 00:48:21,720 --> 00:48:23,720 industry, I'm also trying my hand 1343 00:48:23,720 --> 00:48:25,720 seeing what I like, what I don't like 1344 00:48:25,720 --> 00:48:27,720 So I'm pursuing A route 1345 00:48:27,720 --> 00:48:29,720 But I'm also seeing what other opportunities 1346 00:48:29,720 --> 00:48:31,720 lie ahead of me 1347 00:48:31,720 --> 00:48:33,720 Kind of funny, sorry, I was going to say 1348 00:48:33,720 --> 00:48:35,720 Because you were talking about like 1349 00:48:35,720 --> 00:48:37,720 Going to college for something, you actually like trying 1350 00:48:37,720 --> 00:48:39,720 something like that 1351 00:48:39,720 --> 00:48:41,720 Because my degree isn't specific to what 1352 00:48:41,720 --> 00:48:43,720 I'm doing, like I don't even need a degree 1353 00:48:43,720 --> 00:48:45,720 to fly airliners 1354 00:48:45,720 --> 00:48:47,720 Oh my gosh, I got my pepper stuff in me 1355 00:48:47,720 --> 00:48:49,720 in my mouth 1356 00:48:49,720 --> 00:48:51,720 It stays there forever, it's Satan's 1357 00:48:51,720 --> 00:48:53,720 Hope for a reason, dude 1358 00:48:53,720 --> 00:48:55,720 You just want to keep on sucking 1359 00:48:55,720 --> 00:48:57,720 I hate you 1360 00:48:57,720 --> 00:48:59,720 It's kind of funny 1361 00:48:59,720 --> 00:49:01,720 This next semester, spring semester 1362 00:49:01,720 --> 00:49:03,720 I'm taking things 1363 00:49:03,720 --> 00:49:05,720 Two classes that are entirely 1364 00:49:05,720 --> 00:49:07,720 unrelated to anything 1365 00:49:07,720 --> 00:49:09,720 I might be doing 1366 00:49:09,720 --> 00:49:11,720 a class on construction 1367 00:49:11,720 --> 00:49:13,720 materials testing 1368 00:49:13,720 --> 00:49:15,720 And then one on Linux, like the operating 1369 00:49:15,720 --> 00:49:17,720 system, I'm super excited 1370 00:49:17,720 --> 00:49:19,720 I can help 1371 00:49:19,720 --> 00:49:21,720 You don't know anything about Linux? Yeah, I do 1372 00:49:21,720 --> 00:49:23,720 How much? Well, I mean, not enough to teach 1373 00:49:23,720 --> 00:49:25,720 a class, but enough to probably help you 1374 00:49:25,720 --> 00:49:27,720 As well as I know your mom, oh my gosh 1375 00:49:27,720 --> 00:49:29,720 I'll be good at tech 1376 00:49:29,720 --> 00:49:31,720 Layton can do internet, I can kind of do 1377 00:49:31,720 --> 00:49:33,720 Linux 1378 00:49:33,720 --> 00:49:35,720 You've got your Raspberry Pi Pico 1379 00:49:35,720 --> 00:49:37,720 that you can do too 1380 00:49:37,720 --> 00:49:39,720 I know, but you've got circuits 1381 00:49:39,720 --> 00:49:41,720 like circuiting and everything like that 1382 00:49:41,720 --> 00:49:43,720 Physical electronic circuits and stuff 1383 00:49:43,720 --> 00:49:45,720 So, are you 1384 00:49:45,720 --> 00:49:47,720 You're finished with your thought, right? I don't want to interrupt 1385 00:49:47,720 --> 00:49:49,720 It's just kind of funny, I'm glad you get some 1386 00:49:49,720 --> 00:49:51,720 Shut up, Sam, I'm going to interrupt you all the time 1387 00:49:51,720 --> 00:49:53,720 This is the only episode you're going to 1388 00:49:53,720 --> 00:49:55,720 be on after this, you're done 1389 00:49:55,720 --> 00:49:57,720 Kick him off 1390 00:49:57,720 --> 00:49:59,720 You can't kick him off 1391 00:49:59,720 --> 00:50:01,720 There's a vote 1392 00:50:01,720 --> 00:50:03,720 I'll just kick you off the Discord or something 1393 00:50:03,720 --> 00:50:05,720 It sucks 1394 00:50:05,720 --> 00:50:07,720 I'm sorry 1395 00:50:07,720 --> 00:50:09,720 You kicked me out once 1396 00:50:09,720 --> 00:50:11,720 You know what, I'm going to fin Jake 1397 00:50:11,720 --> 00:50:13,720 Go ahead, Jake 1398 00:50:13,720 --> 00:50:15,720 I really should 1399 00:50:15,720 --> 00:50:17,720 I'm sorry, Layton, see we're all figuring out 1400 00:50:17,720 --> 00:50:19,720 Shut up 1401 00:50:19,720 --> 00:50:21,720 It all comes together 1402 00:50:21,720 --> 00:50:23,720 I think that's a big part 1403 00:50:23,720 --> 00:50:25,720 of the growing up thing is 1404 00:50:25,720 --> 00:50:27,720 Do what you love, and that's the thing 1405 00:50:27,720 --> 00:50:29,720 I guess I kind of want to just say real quick is 1406 00:50:29,720 --> 00:50:31,720 Do what you love 1407 00:50:31,720 --> 00:50:33,720 And love what you do 1408 00:50:33,720 --> 00:50:35,720 You can't pursue stuff like 1409 00:50:35,720 --> 00:50:37,720 Parties and drugs 1410 00:50:37,720 --> 00:50:39,720 I got a major in alcohol 1411 00:50:39,720 --> 00:50:41,720 Maybe you just want to get into brewing 1412 00:50:41,720 --> 00:50:43,720 What I want to do for a living is 1413 00:50:43,720 --> 00:50:45,720 Drugs dealing, come on 1414 00:50:45,720 --> 00:50:47,720 Shut up 1415 00:50:47,720 --> 00:50:49,720 I'm asking a solid question for all our 1416 00:50:49,720 --> 00:50:51,720 drug dealers out there 1417 00:50:51,720 --> 00:50:53,720 I'm going to go in and edit you out of the scene 1418 00:50:53,720 --> 00:50:55,720 And I'm going to delete your track 1419 00:50:55,720 --> 00:50:57,720 And it's just going to be us talking 1420 00:50:57,720 --> 00:50:59,720 That's fair 1421 00:50:59,720 --> 00:51:01,720 I would do that too 1422 00:51:01,720 --> 00:51:03,720 Yes, so I think 1423 00:51:03,720 --> 00:51:05,720 That's something that 1424 00:51:05,720 --> 00:51:07,720 Is another, I guess 1425 00:51:07,720 --> 00:51:09,720 Going into advice 1426 00:51:09,720 --> 00:51:11,720 Stay away from that stuff 1427 00:51:11,720 --> 00:51:13,720 Just waste time, that's all it does 1428 00:51:13,720 --> 00:51:15,720 All it's going to do is take you away from the things 1429 00:51:15,720 --> 00:51:17,720 That you should be doing, the things that you 1430 00:51:17,720 --> 00:51:19,720 Probably want to be doing 1431 00:51:19,720 --> 00:51:21,720 Having fun doesn't mean wasting time 1432 00:51:21,720 --> 00:51:23,720 If you find the thing that you love 1433 00:51:23,720 --> 00:51:25,720 Then it's not a waste of time to be doing it 1434 00:51:25,720 --> 00:51:27,720 And 1435 00:51:27,720 --> 00:51:29,720 No, no, no 1436 00:51:29,720 --> 00:51:31,720 I have a question 1437 00:51:31,720 --> 00:51:33,720 This is 1438 00:51:33,720 --> 00:51:35,720 To play devil's advocate 1439 00:51:35,720 --> 00:51:37,720 You say if you find the thing that you love 1440 00:51:37,720 --> 00:51:39,720 Then you do that instead 1441 00:51:39,720 --> 00:51:41,720 What if 1442 00:51:41,720 --> 00:51:43,720 What you love 1443 00:51:43,720 --> 00:51:45,720 Don't do is 1444 00:51:45,720 --> 00:51:47,720 Drugs 1445 00:51:47,720 --> 00:51:49,720 Stop, come on 1446 00:51:49,720 --> 00:51:51,720 I'm muting you 1447 00:51:51,720 --> 00:51:53,720 This is me partially joking 1448 00:51:53,720 --> 00:51:55,720 Genuinely 1449 00:51:55,720 --> 00:51:57,720 Because they're like don't do that 1450 00:51:57,720 --> 00:51:59,720 It's not a waste of time, just find what you want to do 1451 00:51:59,720 --> 00:52:01,720 Find what you love 1452 00:52:01,720 --> 00:52:03,720 So now I am curious 1453 00:52:03,720 --> 00:52:05,720 Say that someone says that is what they love 1454 00:52:05,720 --> 00:52:07,720 What's your response 1455 00:52:07,720 --> 00:52:09,720 I got a good response for this 1456 00:52:09,720 --> 00:52:11,720 There's a time and place 1457 00:52:11,720 --> 00:52:13,720 There's no time and place for drugs 1458 00:52:13,720 --> 00:52:15,720 Well, let me 1459 00:52:15,720 --> 00:52:17,720 That's a good point that you make 1460 00:52:17,720 --> 00:52:19,720 To a degree 1461 00:52:19,720 --> 00:52:21,720 Like I said, devil's advocate 1462 00:52:21,720 --> 00:52:23,720 A lot of people, I will say a lot of people 1463 00:52:23,720 --> 00:52:25,720 In our age will probably say something like that 1464 00:52:25,720 --> 00:52:27,720 I think that's a good 1465 00:52:27,720 --> 00:52:29,720 Idea and I don't have 1466 00:52:29,720 --> 00:52:31,720 I said 1467 00:52:31,720 --> 00:52:33,720 Having fun doesn't mean wasting time 1468 00:52:33,720 --> 00:52:35,720 But that doesn't mean 1469 00:52:35,720 --> 00:52:37,720 All fun isn't wasting time 1470 00:52:37,720 --> 00:52:39,720 Some fun is 1471 00:52:39,720 --> 00:52:41,720 The reason I ask this 1472 00:52:41,720 --> 00:52:43,720 Especially with our generation 1473 00:52:43,720 --> 00:52:45,720 You can't just say actually that's not true 1474 00:52:45,720 --> 00:52:47,720 Here's the facts 1475 00:52:47,720 --> 00:52:49,720 A lot of people our age 1476 00:52:49,720 --> 00:52:51,720 Completely disregard the facts 1477 00:52:51,720 --> 00:52:53,720 So we're having 1478 00:52:53,720 --> 00:52:55,720 This conversation 1479 00:52:55,720 --> 00:52:57,720 There's going to be people listening about our age 1480 00:52:57,720 --> 00:52:59,720 Who might have that opinion and that view 1481 00:52:59,720 --> 00:53:01,720 And they're not just going to be like, oh, they're saying this 1482 00:53:01,720 --> 00:53:03,720 But that's not what I believe 1483 00:53:03,720 --> 00:53:05,720 Because I truly enjoy this 1484 00:53:05,720 --> 00:53:07,720 That's why I ask the question 1485 00:53:07,720 --> 00:53:09,720 I will say and I think is building off of 1486 00:53:09,720 --> 00:53:11,720 Latens a little bit 1487 00:53:11,720 --> 00:53:13,720 Like they said 1488 00:53:13,720 --> 00:53:15,720 There's a time and a place 1489 00:53:15,720 --> 00:53:17,720 But I think 1490 00:53:17,720 --> 00:53:19,720 Specifically someone our age 1491 00:53:19,720 --> 00:53:21,720 Don't just wait until you're older 1492 00:53:21,720 --> 00:53:23,720 And then you're going to rush 1493 00:53:23,720 --> 00:53:25,720 To chase something 1494 00:53:25,720 --> 00:53:27,720 That's what I meant 1495 00:53:27,720 --> 00:53:29,720 Especially when it comes to alcohol 1496 00:53:29,720 --> 00:53:31,720 That's what I meant by 1497 00:53:31,720 --> 00:53:33,720 That's what I meant by it 1498 00:53:33,720 --> 00:53:35,720 The kind of thing of like 1499 00:53:35,720 --> 00:53:37,720 If that's what you love doing 1500 00:53:37,720 --> 00:53:39,720 Then clearly you haven't tried anything else 1501 00:53:39,720 --> 00:53:41,720 Clearly you have given up on the other options 1502 00:53:41,720 --> 00:53:43,720 That you have because 1503 00:53:43,720 --> 00:53:45,720 Things that are 1504 00:53:45,720 --> 00:53:47,720 The reason I say that is because 1505 00:53:47,720 --> 00:53:49,720 Alcohol, drugs of any kind 1506 00:53:49,720 --> 00:53:51,720 That stuff changes your perception 1507 00:53:51,720 --> 00:53:53,720 It's not something you actually love 1508 00:53:53,720 --> 00:53:55,720 It makes things more fun 1509 00:53:55,720 --> 00:53:57,720 It takes your mind 1510 00:53:57,720 --> 00:53:59,720 Off of certain things 1511 00:53:59,720 --> 00:54:01,720 And that is the problem 1512 00:54:01,720 --> 00:54:03,720 It's a distraction 1513 00:54:03,720 --> 00:54:05,720 It doesn't matter if that's what you love doing 1514 00:54:05,720 --> 00:54:07,720 Because if you love doing that 1515 00:54:07,720 --> 00:54:09,720 Then clearly you haven't found something that actually brings you joy 1516 00:54:09,720 --> 00:54:11,720 Yeah 1517 00:54:11,720 --> 00:54:13,720 I like that 1518 00:54:13,720 --> 00:54:15,720 When I say a time and a place, I guess that's what I was meaning 1519 00:54:15,720 --> 00:54:17,720 It's more artificial joy 1520 00:54:17,720 --> 00:54:19,720 I'm trying to say 1521 00:54:19,720 --> 00:54:21,720 I think that's what it is 1522 00:54:21,720 --> 00:54:23,720 It's drugs and alcohol and stuff like that 1523 00:54:23,720 --> 00:54:25,720 That's a pretty good result 1524 00:54:25,720 --> 00:54:27,720 That was just a question that I figured I'd ask 1525 00:54:27,720 --> 00:54:29,720 It gives you a fake happy 1526 00:54:29,720 --> 00:54:31,720 It amplifies the small stuff 1527 00:54:31,720 --> 00:54:33,720 Oh my gosh Alex 1528 00:54:33,720 --> 00:54:35,720 It amplifies 1529 00:54:35,720 --> 00:54:37,720 They're just figuring it out too 1530 00:54:37,720 --> 00:54:39,720 True 1531 00:54:39,720 --> 00:54:41,720 I think that's the thing 1532 00:54:41,720 --> 00:54:43,720 It makes the small stuff seem so much bigger 1533 00:54:43,720 --> 00:54:45,720 So that you can enjoy that small stuff 1534 00:54:45,720 --> 00:54:47,720 Go find the stuff that isn't that small 1535 00:54:47,720 --> 00:54:49,720 Go find the big stuff 1536 00:54:49,720 --> 00:54:51,720 So that you don't have to rely on things that are going to screw up your head 1537 00:54:51,720 --> 00:54:53,720 That are going to 1538 00:54:53,720 --> 00:54:55,720 Throw off this development process that you're in 1539 00:54:55,720 --> 00:54:57,720 So that you can just enjoy things 1540 00:54:57,720 --> 00:54:59,720 That aren't actually all that fun 1541 00:54:59,720 --> 00:55:03,720 It's the same thing with friendships and stuff like that 1542 00:55:03,720 --> 00:55:05,720 Don't be friends with people 1543 00:55:05,720 --> 00:55:07,720 That are going to encourage you to do stuff like that 1544 00:55:07,720 --> 00:55:09,720 Well, Barjik 1545 00:55:09,720 --> 00:55:13,720 I have been the worst influence on you guys 1546 00:55:13,720 --> 00:55:15,720 But not in that case 1547 00:55:15,720 --> 00:55:17,720 I'll accept this response 1548 00:55:17,720 --> 00:55:19,720 I'll accept your response 1549 00:55:19,720 --> 00:55:21,720 I won't push for that 1550 00:55:21,720 --> 00:55:23,720 Building on it 1551 00:55:23,720 --> 00:55:25,720 Again, when I said time and place 1552 00:55:25,720 --> 00:55:27,720 I meant when you're older 1553 00:55:27,720 --> 00:55:29,720 When you're legal age to drink 1554 00:55:29,720 --> 00:55:31,720 And I'm not saying 1555 00:55:31,720 --> 00:55:33,720 That I think alcohol is bad 1556 00:55:33,720 --> 00:55:35,720 You should never drink alcohol 1557 00:55:35,720 --> 00:55:37,720 Because it's only a waste of time 1558 00:55:37,720 --> 00:55:39,720 That's not what I'm saying 1559 00:55:39,720 --> 00:55:41,720 You can't tell me our age does it moderately 1560 00:55:41,720 --> 00:55:43,720 It's always overdoing it 1561 00:55:43,720 --> 00:55:45,720 Things can be alright in moderation 1562 00:55:45,720 --> 00:55:47,720 I can 100% test to that 1563 00:55:47,720 --> 00:55:49,720 Because I have done things in moderation 1564 00:55:49,720 --> 00:55:51,720 Don't do it now 1565 00:55:51,720 --> 00:55:53,720 I'll say, I'll straight up say it 1566 00:55:53,720 --> 00:55:55,720 I've done the weed thing before 1567 00:55:55,720 --> 00:55:57,720 And I did it in moderation 1568 00:55:57,720 --> 00:55:59,720 And I stopped 1569 00:55:59,720 --> 00:56:01,720 Because it wasn't worth it 1570 00:56:01,720 --> 00:56:03,720 It wasn't going anywhere 1571 00:56:03,720 --> 00:56:05,720 It wasn't something I enjoyed 1572 00:56:05,720 --> 00:56:07,720 It was something that was like 1573 00:56:07,720 --> 00:56:09,720 I have a classmate 1574 00:56:09,720 --> 00:56:11,720 I swear about 70% of the classes 1575 00:56:11,720 --> 00:56:13,720 He'll show up and be like 1576 00:56:13,720 --> 00:56:15,720 Dude, I'm wasted 1577 00:56:15,720 --> 00:56:17,720 I smoked so much weed last night 1578 00:56:17,720 --> 00:56:19,720 That's another thing 1579 00:56:19,720 --> 00:56:21,720 Do you think that's cool? 1580 00:56:21,720 --> 00:56:23,720 It puts you to sleep 1581 00:56:23,720 --> 00:56:25,720 I will say that 1582 00:56:25,720 --> 00:56:27,720 So many times he's come 1583 00:56:27,720 --> 00:56:29,720 He's sat down next to me and be like 1584 00:56:29,720 --> 00:56:31,720 Dude, I am out of it 1585 00:56:31,720 --> 00:56:33,720 That's the way I say it 1586 00:56:33,720 --> 00:56:35,720 It's moderation 1587 00:56:35,720 --> 00:56:37,720 If you're like that, it's not moderation 1588 00:56:37,720 --> 00:56:39,720 Nobody moderates it 1589 00:56:39,720 --> 00:56:41,720 At our age 1590 00:56:41,720 --> 00:56:43,720 The problem is then it gets into the realm 1591 00:56:43,720 --> 00:56:45,720 Where it's dangerous and throws off your health 1592 00:56:45,720 --> 00:56:47,720 You negate responsibilities 1593 00:56:47,720 --> 00:56:49,720 You don't go pursue stuff you want to do 1594 00:56:49,720 --> 00:56:51,720 So it wastes time 1595 00:56:51,720 --> 00:56:53,720 That's why it's unhealthy 1596 00:56:53,720 --> 00:56:55,720 I think 1597 00:56:55,720 --> 00:56:57,720 I was going to say something I forgot 1598 00:56:57,720 --> 00:56:59,720 Dang it 1599 00:56:59,720 --> 00:57:01,720 I'll chime in and maybe you think about it 1600 00:57:01,720 --> 00:57:03,720 Because 1601 00:57:03,720 --> 00:57:05,720 For me, when our age is out 1602 00:57:05,720 --> 00:57:07,720 Partying, drinking, whatever 1603 00:57:07,720 --> 00:57:09,720 I have 1604 00:57:09,720 --> 00:57:11,720 And this is getting way down the line 1605 00:57:11,720 --> 00:57:13,720 I have a 401k 1606 00:57:13,720 --> 00:57:15,720 I have a pension plan with the company 1607 00:57:15,720 --> 00:57:17,720 That I'm with 1608 00:57:21,720 --> 00:57:23,720 Think of this for just a second 1609 00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:25,720 What age do you usually 1610 00:57:25,720 --> 00:57:27,720 Graduate college? 1611 00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:29,720 21ish? 1612 00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:31,720 By the time I'm 23 1613 00:57:31,720 --> 00:57:33,720 I'll be fully vested with Vidani 1614 00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:35,720 Which means I get money for life 1615 00:57:35,720 --> 00:57:37,720 We're going to have to cut at that 1616 00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:39,720 Just a fun little fact though 1617 00:57:39,720 --> 00:57:41,720 I said the name 1618 00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:43,720 Fun little fact though 1619 00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:45,720 When it comes to graduating in college 1620 00:57:45,720 --> 00:57:47,720 That age is slowly getting pushed back 1621 00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:49,720 Especially nowadays 1622 00:57:49,720 --> 00:57:51,720 It is so much more common for 1623 00:57:51,720 --> 00:57:53,720 People around our age 1624 00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:55,720 To do what I do 1625 00:57:55,720 --> 00:57:57,720 To take gap years 1626 00:57:57,720 --> 00:57:59,720 Multiple even 1627 00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:01,720 We're looking at 23 1628 00:58:01,720 --> 00:58:03,720 24, 25 is becoming a very common 1629 00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:05,720 Age 1630 00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:07,720 To finally be graduating with just 1631 00:58:07,720 --> 00:58:09,720 Your bachelors, not even your masters 1632 00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:11,720 So, literally if 1633 00:58:11,720 --> 00:58:13,720 By the time I'm 23 with the company that I work for 1634 00:58:13,720 --> 00:58:15,720 I will be fully vested to get 1635 00:58:15,720 --> 00:58:17,720 A paycheck for the rest of my life 1636 00:58:17,720 --> 00:58:19,720 Even if I didn't work, it wouldn't be enough to live on 1637 00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:21,720 But it would be something 1638 00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:23,720 Oh my gosh, sorry 1639 00:58:23,720 --> 00:58:25,720 That's the thing with stuff like 1640 00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:27,720 And I say this talking about career stuff 1641 00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:29,720 Especially with stuff like weed 1642 00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:31,720 Big companies, they care about who's 1643 00:58:31,720 --> 00:58:33,720 Works for them, they're going to drug test you 1644 00:58:33,720 --> 00:58:35,720 And that's the problem, you spend all of your 1645 00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:37,720 College experience smoking 1646 00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:39,720 It's going to be in your system, it doesn't matter 1647 00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:41,720 How long you stop for 1648 00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:43,720 It doesn't matter if it's a month or two in advance 1649 00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:45,720 Before you're like 1650 00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:47,720 Besides the fact that it's just in your system 1651 00:58:47,720 --> 00:58:49,720 Which will make a company like 1652 00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:51,720 No, there is a drug test 1653 00:58:51,720 --> 00:58:53,720 It leaves your system eventually, that's what I was saying 1654 00:58:53,720 --> 00:58:55,720 But like, for a certain period of time 1655 00:58:55,720 --> 00:58:57,720 Depending on your body type and everything like that 1656 00:58:57,720 --> 00:58:59,720 It's not going to leave 1657 00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:01,720 Besides, that's just one reason 1658 00:59:01,720 --> 00:59:03,720 That companies wouldn't want you there 1659 00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:05,720 Because you have it in your system possibly 1660 00:59:05,720 --> 00:59:07,720 But besides that, it's kind of a show of your personality 1661 00:59:07,720 --> 00:59:09,720 You show up 1662 00:59:09,720 --> 00:59:11,720 It's kind of what we've been talking about 1663 00:59:11,720 --> 00:59:13,720 Another thing that companies are looking at 1664 00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:15,720 Is your social media accounts 1665 00:59:15,720 --> 00:59:17,720 And what you post 1666 00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:19,720 Parties and stuff like that 1667 00:59:19,720 --> 00:59:21,720 It's not going to look good 1668 00:59:21,720 --> 00:59:23,720 If you go 1669 00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:25,720 Whatever you say 1670 00:59:25,720 --> 00:59:27,720 It will reflect on you 1671 00:59:27,720 --> 00:59:29,720 So you always have to be careful there too 1672 00:59:29,720 --> 00:59:31,720 Yeah, I mean 1673 00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:33,720 I'm not speaking from first hand experience 1674 00:59:33,720 --> 00:59:35,720 But I can attest 1675 00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:37,720 If I showed up high to work 1676 00:59:37,720 --> 00:59:39,720 Or even hungover 1677 00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:41,720 I'm getting fired 1678 00:59:41,720 --> 00:59:43,720 I don't even have a career level job 1679 00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:45,720 At discount, but if I did that I'd be fired 1680 00:59:45,720 --> 00:59:47,720 I'd be on the spot 1681 00:59:47,720 --> 00:59:49,720 That's actually the first job 1682 00:59:49,720 --> 00:59:51,720 I got actually drug tested to work for 1683 00:59:51,720 --> 00:59:53,720 Oh wow 1684 00:59:53,720 --> 00:59:55,720 Dang it, I had it again 1685 00:59:55,720 --> 00:59:57,720 I was going to say, especially in college 1686 00:59:57,720 --> 00:59:59,720 With everybody 1687 00:59:59,720 --> 01:00:01,720 Acting like idiots 1688 01:00:01,720 --> 01:00:03,720 Especially when you're in your formative years right now 1689 01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:05,720 Especially 1690 01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:07,720 Some people could say the argument 1691 01:00:07,720 --> 01:00:09,720 But in Canada, it's 19 1692 01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:11,720 The legal age is 19 1693 01:00:11,720 --> 01:00:13,720 Canada is like 1694 01:00:13,720 --> 01:00:15,720 Different cultures have different personalities 1695 01:00:15,720 --> 01:00:17,720 It's a lot more volatile here 1696 01:00:17,720 --> 01:00:19,720 People there can't moderate at that age sometimes 1697 01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:21,720 And a lot of people in Canada 1698 01:00:21,720 --> 01:00:23,720 Are a lot nicer 1699 01:00:23,720 --> 01:00:25,720 They can handle their emotions a lot better 1700 01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:27,720 They are of better mental state 1701 01:00:27,720 --> 01:00:29,720 They mature faster? 1702 01:00:29,720 --> 01:00:31,720 That's the thing 1703 01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:33,720 With America 1704 01:00:33,720 --> 01:00:35,720 Right now, sure 1705 01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:37,720 Most of us are legal age 1706 01:00:37,720 --> 01:00:39,720 We're all 19, I'm being dumb 1707 01:00:39,720 --> 01:00:41,720 I'm 20 1708 01:00:41,720 --> 01:00:43,720 I'm underage 1709 01:00:43,720 --> 01:00:45,720 We're all capable of drinking if we go to Canada 1710 01:00:45,720 --> 01:00:47,720 But the problem is we've grown up in America 1711 01:00:47,720 --> 01:00:49,720 We have the American mindset 1712 01:00:49,720 --> 01:00:51,720 We're developing because we develop slower 1713 01:00:51,720 --> 01:00:53,720 Than people in different countries 1714 01:00:53,720 --> 01:00:55,720 Alcohol still affects 1715 01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:57,720 We're not developing, it matures 1716 01:00:57,720 --> 01:00:59,720 It's a different mature rate 1717 01:00:59,720 --> 01:01:01,720 When you go to college, and you go to parties 1718 01:01:01,720 --> 01:01:03,720 Surrounded by stupid people doing stupid things 1719 01:01:03,720 --> 01:01:05,720 And you join 1720 01:01:05,720 --> 01:01:07,720 It only is going to teach you that 1721 01:01:07,720 --> 01:01:09,720 That's what it is 1722 01:01:09,720 --> 01:01:11,720 You be stupid, that's the thing 1723 01:01:11,720 --> 01:01:13,720 And then 1724 01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:15,720 It's a whole problem 1725 01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:17,720 It goes downhill, you don't focus on things 1726 01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:19,720 You're more focused on 1727 01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:21,720 Going to parties, having fun 1728 01:01:21,720 --> 01:01:23,720 Having fun, I should say 1729 01:01:23,720 --> 01:01:25,720 More than you are 1730 01:01:25,720 --> 01:01:27,720 Focusing on the life ahead of you 1731 01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:29,720 And you're more focused on 1732 01:01:29,720 --> 01:01:31,720 Living fast 1733 01:01:31,720 --> 01:01:33,720 Living in the moment 1734 01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:35,720 And all that is, is a moment 1735 01:01:35,720 --> 01:01:37,720 It's not the rest of your life 1736 01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:39,720 That you have to think about 1737 01:01:39,720 --> 01:01:41,720 Do something you love, then you've got 1738 01:01:41,720 --> 01:01:43,720 That moment, last forever 1739 01:01:43,720 --> 01:01:45,720 As long as you have that job that you love 1740 01:01:45,720 --> 01:01:47,720 As long as you have the friends 1741 01:01:47,720 --> 01:01:49,720 The friends that you have 1742 01:01:49,720 --> 01:01:51,720 That are fun to hang out with, that are fun to do things with 1743 01:01:51,720 --> 01:01:53,720 You know, you live in the moment 1744 01:01:53,720 --> 01:01:55,720 It's just going to be a moment 1745 01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:57,720 It's just going to be a moment 1746 01:01:57,720 --> 01:01:59,720 Congrats, thank you 1747 01:01:59,720 --> 01:02:01,720 That's the thing with this 1748 01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:03,720 I think our people, our age, is they're so focused on 1749 01:02:03,720 --> 01:02:05,720 Not wasting their youth 1750 01:02:05,720 --> 01:02:07,720 That they live in the moment 1751 01:02:07,720 --> 01:02:09,720 And when they live in the moment, they waste their youth 1752 01:02:09,720 --> 01:02:11,720 Another thing 1753 01:02:11,720 --> 01:02:13,720 I guess 1754 01:02:13,720 --> 01:02:15,720 Don't make that face 1755 01:02:15,720 --> 01:02:17,720 He's thinking 1756 01:02:17,720 --> 01:02:19,720 For me personally, I think alcohol 1757 01:02:19,720 --> 01:02:21,720 Or drugs would have been 1758 01:02:21,720 --> 01:02:23,720 My absolute downfall 1759 01:02:23,720 --> 01:02:25,720 And the reason for that 1760 01:02:25,720 --> 01:02:27,720 Is because I was already super 1761 01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:29,720 Anxious as a kid 1762 01:02:29,720 --> 01:02:31,720 And so I still am 1763 01:02:31,720 --> 01:02:33,720 In certain ways, but being 1764 01:02:33,720 --> 01:02:35,720 In a career level job, and going to 1765 01:02:35,720 --> 01:02:37,720 People's houses, and not having anybody 1766 01:02:37,720 --> 01:02:39,720 There, and just all the things I've 1767 01:02:39,720 --> 01:02:41,720 Experienced with 1768 01:02:41,720 --> 01:02:43,720 And having independence 1769 01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:45,720 I have grown so much 1770 01:02:45,720 --> 01:02:47,720 Huge amount 1771 01:02:47,720 --> 01:02:49,720 I think that's a 1772 01:02:49,720 --> 01:02:51,720 Really important thing to focus on as well 1773 01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:53,720 Is that that kind of stuff stops your growth 1774 01:02:53,720 --> 01:02:55,720 It halts it right there 1775 01:02:55,720 --> 01:02:57,720 They're going back to what you're saying 1776 01:02:57,720 --> 01:02:59,720 They're running from 1777 01:02:59,720 --> 01:03:01,720 It's taught me to be 1778 01:03:01,720 --> 01:03:03,720 Comfortable in the uncomfortable 1779 01:03:03,720 --> 01:03:05,720 The people that try to live fast 1780 01:03:05,720 --> 01:03:07,720 By doing stupid things, like alcohol 1781 01:03:07,720 --> 01:03:09,720 Or drugs 1782 01:03:09,720 --> 01:03:11,720 All those things 1783 01:03:11,720 --> 01:03:13,720 Are going to do 1784 01:03:13,720 --> 01:03:15,720 Is help you live fast, and help you run fast 1785 01:03:15,720 --> 01:03:17,720 Run from your problems, run from your reality 1786 01:03:17,720 --> 01:03:19,720 That kind of stuff 1787 01:03:19,720 --> 01:03:21,720 What was it that you had said 1788 01:03:21,720 --> 01:03:23,720 About 1789 01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:25,720 Living in the moment 1790 01:03:25,720 --> 01:03:27,720 It was 1791 01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:29,720 It was like when you 1792 01:03:29,720 --> 01:03:31,720 I forgot 1793 01:03:31,720 --> 01:03:33,720 I can't remember exactly 1794 01:03:33,720 --> 01:03:35,720 It was something negative 1795 01:03:35,720 --> 01:03:37,720 Towards it 1796 01:03:37,720 --> 01:03:39,720 When you live in the moment 1797 01:03:39,720 --> 01:03:41,720 In the context I was talking about 1798 01:03:41,720 --> 01:03:43,720 At the same time 1799 01:03:43,720 --> 01:03:45,720 Obviously it's somewhat out of context 1800 01:03:45,720 --> 01:03:47,720 However 1801 01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:49,720 What I will say 1802 01:03:49,720 --> 01:03:51,720 When you live in the future 1803 01:03:51,720 --> 01:03:53,720 You can't live in the future 1804 01:03:53,720 --> 01:03:55,720 Tons on the context 1805 01:03:55,720 --> 01:03:57,720 I see what you're saying 1806 01:03:57,720 --> 01:03:59,720 When you live in the future 1807 01:03:59,720 --> 01:04:01,720 That's what brings upon anxiety 1808 01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:03,720 And panic 1809 01:04:03,720 --> 01:04:05,720 When you live in the past 1810 01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:07,720 That's why you don't live in the moment 1811 01:04:07,720 --> 01:04:09,720 You live in the present 1812 01:04:09,720 --> 01:04:11,720 I totally didn't follow that 1813 01:04:11,720 --> 01:04:13,720 That's why I said live in the moment 1814 01:04:13,720 --> 01:04:15,720 You can plan for the future 1815 01:04:15,720 --> 01:04:17,720 You can think about the past 1816 01:04:17,720 --> 01:04:19,720 That's all part of your present 1817 01:04:19,720 --> 01:04:21,720 That's why I said live in the moment 1818 01:04:21,720 --> 01:04:23,720 I wanted to touch on that 1819 01:04:23,720 --> 01:04:25,720 Because I'm like 1820 01:04:25,720 --> 01:04:27,720 I like that 1821 01:04:27,720 --> 01:04:29,720 Living in the present 1822 01:04:29,720 --> 01:04:31,720 Is a little bit of the future 1823 01:04:31,720 --> 01:04:33,720 A little bit of the past 1824 01:04:33,720 --> 01:04:35,720 That's the reality 1825 01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:37,720 That's the reality 1826 01:04:37,720 --> 01:04:39,720 Should we explain how 1827 01:04:39,720 --> 01:04:41,720 Because I'm imagining my mom hearing this 1828 01:04:41,720 --> 01:04:43,720 What do you mean? What's the difference between the present and the moment? 1829 01:04:43,720 --> 01:04:45,720 That's what I was about to say 1830 01:04:45,720 --> 01:04:47,720 The present is what you get on Christmas tree 1831 01:04:47,720 --> 01:04:49,720 The moment is right now 1832 01:04:49,720 --> 01:04:51,720 The moment is I'm talking to you three 1833 01:04:51,720 --> 01:04:53,720 The moment is 1834 01:04:53,720 --> 01:04:55,720 This is all that matters? 1835 01:04:55,720 --> 01:04:57,720 The moment is your current situation 1836 01:04:57,720 --> 01:05:01,720 The present is a little bit of yesterday 1837 01:05:01,720 --> 01:05:03,720 A little bit of tomorrow 1838 01:05:03,720 --> 01:05:05,720 All of today 1839 01:05:05,720 --> 01:05:07,720 Your present is 1840 01:05:07,720 --> 01:05:09,720 I'm talking to you guys 1841 01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:11,720 I've had fun 1842 01:05:11,720 --> 01:05:13,720 With you guys doing this podcast 1843 01:05:13,720 --> 01:05:15,720 When I go home 1844 01:05:15,720 --> 01:05:17,720 I'm going to go sleep 1845 01:05:17,720 --> 01:05:19,720 A little bit of what I'm going to do tomorrow 1846 01:05:19,720 --> 01:05:21,720 The present is 1847 01:05:21,720 --> 01:05:23,720 Kind of 1848 01:05:23,720 --> 01:05:25,720 It's just today 1849 01:05:25,720 --> 01:05:27,720 It's not the moment of 1850 01:05:27,720 --> 01:05:29,720 This exact situation that we're in 1851 01:05:29,720 --> 01:05:31,720 Maybe a better way to put it 1852 01:05:31,720 --> 01:05:33,720 Is not constantly thinking about the past 1853 01:05:33,720 --> 01:05:35,720 Also not constantly thinking about the future 1854 01:05:35,720 --> 01:05:37,720 That's why I said a little bit of 1855 01:05:37,720 --> 01:05:39,720 That's what I meant by that 1856 01:05:39,720 --> 01:05:41,720 Different words I guess 1857 01:05:41,720 --> 01:05:43,720 You have to have a little bit of everything 1858 01:05:43,720 --> 01:05:45,720 You can't know where you've gone without knowing where you've been 1859 01:05:45,720 --> 01:05:47,720 You can't 1860 01:05:47,720 --> 01:05:49,720 Live where you are right now without knowing where you want to be 1861 01:05:49,720 --> 01:05:51,720 But you can't only be where you are now 1862 01:05:51,720 --> 01:05:53,720 And that's the thing 1863 01:05:53,720 --> 01:05:55,720 You live in the moment 1864 01:05:55,720 --> 01:05:57,720 You live fast, you're running from your things 1865 01:05:57,720 --> 01:05:59,720 And then the problem is 1866 01:05:59,720 --> 01:06:01,720 You're so focused on living the moment 1867 01:06:01,720 --> 01:06:03,720 You don't see what's ahead of you 1868 01:06:03,720 --> 01:06:05,720 And then 1869 01:06:05,720 --> 01:06:07,720 You're stuck in that moment 1870 01:06:07,720 --> 01:06:09,720 You're stuck running 1871 01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:11,720 Because you slow down 1872 01:06:11,720 --> 01:06:13,720 Your past is going to catch up with you 1873 01:06:13,720 --> 01:06:15,720 You keep running 1874 01:06:15,720 --> 01:06:17,720 You're not going to know what's going to hit you next 1875 01:06:17,720 --> 01:06:19,720 And that is the issue that people come 1876 01:06:19,720 --> 01:06:21,720 I think that's why people continue to do stuff 1877 01:06:21,720 --> 01:06:23,720 Is they are so focused on running 1878 01:06:23,720 --> 01:06:25,720 And running is good to them 1879 01:06:25,720 --> 01:06:27,720 From the sad, from the bad 1880 01:06:27,720 --> 01:06:29,720 From all the things that you need to sort out 1881 01:06:29,720 --> 01:06:31,720 And that's the problem 1882 01:06:31,720 --> 01:06:33,720 The uncomfortable 1883 01:06:33,720 --> 01:06:35,720 After enough running, they might actually beat Usain Bolt 1884 01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:37,720 They keep running 1885 01:06:37,720 --> 01:06:39,720 They're going to trip, they're going to fall 1886 01:06:39,720 --> 01:06:41,720 It's going to catch up with them, they're going to get back up and start running again 1887 01:06:41,720 --> 01:06:43,720 But they might beat Usain Bolt 1888 01:06:43,720 --> 01:06:45,720 Or they'll trip and fall and never get back up 1889 01:06:45,720 --> 01:06:47,720 Wow, that's dark 1890 01:06:47,720 --> 01:06:49,720 I mean 1891 01:06:49,720 --> 01:06:51,720 Crashed and burned 1892 01:06:51,720 --> 01:06:53,720 I mean kind of that way 1893 01:06:53,720 --> 01:06:55,720 I think 1894 01:06:55,720 --> 01:06:57,720 To kind of like round this off 1895 01:06:57,720 --> 01:06:59,720 You got to face those problems 1896 01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:01,720 The things that you're running from 1897 01:07:01,720 --> 01:07:03,720 The things that are going to hurt you 1898 01:07:03,720 --> 01:07:05,720 You got to push through them 1899 01:07:05,720 --> 01:07:07,720 I was thinking about this the other day 1900 01:07:07,720 --> 01:07:09,720 Think of it like this 1901 01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:11,720 There's a thorn bush 1902 01:07:11,720 --> 01:07:13,720 Right in front of you 1903 01:07:13,720 --> 01:07:15,720 You can either run the other direction 1904 01:07:15,720 --> 01:07:17,720 Or you can go through the thorn bush 1905 01:07:17,720 --> 01:07:19,720 If you go through the thorn bush 1906 01:07:19,720 --> 01:07:21,720 It's going to stay right there 1907 01:07:21,720 --> 01:07:23,720 You're going to keep moving through the thorn bush 1908 01:07:23,720 --> 01:07:25,720 It's going to suck, but you're going to get through it 1909 01:07:25,720 --> 01:07:27,720 But if you run the other direction 1910 01:07:27,720 --> 01:07:29,720 That thorn bush is going to chase you 1911 01:07:29,720 --> 01:07:31,720 And when you come back that direction 1912 01:07:31,720 --> 01:07:33,720 It's still going to be right there 1913 01:07:33,720 --> 01:07:35,720 And that's the problem 1914 01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:37,720 You got to push through the thorns 1915 01:07:37,720 --> 01:07:39,720 It's going to hurt like hell when you do it 1916 01:07:39,720 --> 01:07:41,720 And it's going to suck 1917 01:07:41,720 --> 01:07:43,720 But once you get through it, you're home free 1918 01:07:43,720 --> 01:07:45,720 You'll come out with some scars 1919 01:07:45,720 --> 01:07:47,720 You're going to come out with scars 1920 01:07:47,720 --> 01:07:49,720 But you're going to be past it 1921 01:07:49,720 --> 01:07:51,720 And if you keep running that other direction 1922 01:07:51,720 --> 01:07:53,720 All it's going to be is right back to that thorn bush 1923 01:07:53,720 --> 01:07:55,720 And that's the problem 1924 01:07:55,720 --> 01:07:57,720 With people our age 1925 01:07:57,720 --> 01:07:59,720 Is they're so focused on getting 1926 01:07:59,720 --> 01:08:01,720 And it's not just our age to be clear 1927 01:08:01,720 --> 01:08:03,720 There's people to get in that pattern for life 1928 01:08:03,720 --> 01:08:05,720 There's people all over the world 1929 01:08:05,720 --> 01:08:07,720 Of all ages that do that 1930 01:08:07,720 --> 01:08:09,720 They are so focused on avoiding the thorn bush 1931 01:08:09,720 --> 01:08:11,720 Trying to go around it, trying to get away from it 1932 01:08:11,720 --> 01:08:13,720 And they don't focus on maybe the fact that 1933 01:08:13,720 --> 01:08:15,720 It's clear on the other side 1934 01:08:15,720 --> 01:08:17,720 And so I think that's 1935 01:08:17,720 --> 01:08:19,720 The ultimate advice that we can kind of give someone 1936 01:08:19,720 --> 01:08:21,720 Our generation is 1937 01:08:21,720 --> 01:08:23,720 Keep moving forward 1938 01:08:23,720 --> 01:08:25,720 Don't run from things 1939 01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:27,720 And don't get distracted with those kind of people 1940 01:08:27,720 --> 01:08:29,720 Move through stuff 1941 01:08:29,720 --> 01:08:31,720 Find the people that are going to help you move through that stuff 1942 01:08:31,720 --> 01:08:33,720 And then find what you love 1943 01:08:33,720 --> 01:08:35,720 Find what you want to do 1944 01:08:35,720 --> 01:08:37,720 Find a direction 1945 01:08:37,720 --> 01:08:39,720 Doesn't have to be 1946 01:08:39,720 --> 01:08:41,720 The direction you want to do right away 1947 01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:43,720 Just find a direction 1948 01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:45,720 Travel that direction 1949 01:08:45,720 --> 01:08:47,720 And do little branch offs 1950 01:08:47,720 --> 01:08:49,720 You know? 1951 01:08:49,720 --> 01:08:51,720 You know our parents are smart 1952 01:08:51,720 --> 01:08:53,720 They didn't tell us that stuff for no reason 1953 01:08:53,720 --> 01:08:55,720 That's the thing, you come do it now 1954 01:08:55,720 --> 01:08:57,720 Always trust the ice cream truck 1955 01:08:57,720 --> 01:08:59,720 Okay 1956 01:08:59,720 --> 01:09:01,720 But that's the, I think 1957 01:09:01,720 --> 01:09:03,720 Especially right now 1958 01:09:03,720 --> 01:09:05,720 At least for me 1959 01:09:05,720 --> 01:09:07,720 I've thought about it before and I'm like, dang 1960 01:09:07,720 --> 01:09:09,720 My parents made a lot of sense 1961 01:09:09,720 --> 01:09:11,720 Like when I was younger, don't do that stupid thing 1962 01:09:11,720 --> 01:09:13,720 Yeah, exactly 1963 01:09:13,720 --> 01:09:15,720 Wow, who would have thought 1964 01:09:15,720 --> 01:09:17,720 I'm a lot happier now that I haven't 1965 01:09:17,720 --> 01:09:19,720 Done that stupid thing 1966 01:09:19,720 --> 01:09:21,720 Or even when it comes to like the weed thing 1967 01:09:21,720 --> 01:09:23,720 Yeah 1968 01:09:23,720 --> 01:09:25,720 It was sure, I mean it was fun 1969 01:09:25,720 --> 01:09:27,720 It's a drug, of course it's fun 1970 01:09:27,720 --> 01:09:29,720 But then 1971 01:09:29,720 --> 01:09:31,720 Then I finish it 1972 01:09:31,720 --> 01:09:33,720 And right now I have never been happier 1973 01:09:33,720 --> 01:09:35,720 With my life and I'm not doing any of that stuff 1974 01:09:35,720 --> 01:09:37,720 I have actually 1975 01:09:37,720 --> 01:09:39,720 I have moved through my stuff 1976 01:09:39,720 --> 01:09:41,720 I've moved through that thorn bush 1977 01:09:41,720 --> 01:09:43,720 And now I'm home free 1978 01:09:43,720 --> 01:09:45,720 I'm only slightly shocked that you're saying now 1979 01:09:45,720 --> 01:09:47,720 You've never been happier because I'm here right now 1980 01:09:47,720 --> 01:09:49,720 And you really have 1981 01:09:49,720 --> 01:09:51,720 Oh Sam, I'm so happy that you're here 1982 01:09:51,720 --> 01:09:53,720 I thought of this because you were saying 1983 01:09:53,720 --> 01:09:55,720 You've never been happier and stuff 1984 01:09:55,720 --> 01:09:57,720 But we've only been really talking about 1985 01:09:57,720 --> 01:09:59,720 How 1986 01:09:59,720 --> 01:10:01,720 Finding something to do kind of 1987 01:10:01,720 --> 01:10:03,720 Is what brings you together 1988 01:10:03,720 --> 01:10:05,720 But it's about finding connections as well 1989 01:10:05,720 --> 01:10:07,720 People, like our friend group here 1990 01:10:07,720 --> 01:10:09,720 It's not many, it's only four of us 1991 01:10:09,720 --> 01:10:11,720 It's support 1992 01:10:11,720 --> 01:10:13,720 Yeah, people are going to hold you up 1993 01:10:13,720 --> 01:10:15,720 The friends that you have 1994 01:10:15,720 --> 01:10:17,720 They're going to keep you in that mentality 1995 01:10:17,720 --> 01:10:19,720 That you have or they're going to push you out of it 1996 01:10:19,720 --> 01:10:21,720 People that truly care about you 1997 01:10:21,720 --> 01:10:23,720 And people that want to see you grow 1998 01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:25,720 Are going to push you away from the things 1999 01:10:25,720 --> 01:10:27,720 That maybe you want to do 2000 01:10:27,720 --> 01:10:29,720 In the regard of running 2001 01:10:29,720 --> 01:10:31,720 They're going to tell you to stop 2002 01:10:31,720 --> 01:10:33,720 They're going to tell you to turn around 2003 01:10:33,720 --> 01:10:35,720 And they're going to tell you to face your problems 2004 01:10:35,720 --> 01:10:37,720 Those are the people that truly care about you 2005 01:10:37,720 --> 01:10:39,720 That are going to push the uncomfortable conversations 2006 01:10:39,720 --> 01:10:41,720 Are going to push the hard topics 2007 01:10:41,720 --> 01:10:43,720 But are going to be there when you're going through that 2008 01:10:43,720 --> 01:10:45,720 And then they're going to be the people 2009 01:10:45,720 --> 01:10:47,720 That are going to stick with you after you're through that 2010 01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:49,720 Foundational friends 2011 01:10:49,720 --> 01:10:51,720 Yeah, and say to you, hey 2012 01:10:51,720 --> 01:10:53,720 Glad you got through that 2013 01:10:53,720 --> 01:10:55,720 Let's go do something, let's go have fun 2014 01:10:55,720 --> 01:10:57,720 Let's get past that 2015 01:10:57,720 --> 01:10:59,720 This is 90 2016 01:10:59,720 --> 01:11:01,720 Probably 95% of my whole entire friend group 2017 01:11:01,720 --> 01:11:03,720 And some people may say that's sad 2018 01:11:03,720 --> 01:11:05,720 That it's three other people 2019 01:11:05,720 --> 01:11:07,720 But it's not that sad 2020 01:11:07,720 --> 01:11:09,720 Because we've been friends for so long 2021 01:11:09,720 --> 01:11:11,720 And I don't know 2022 01:11:11,720 --> 01:11:13,720 I feel like I shouldn't be talking about this 2023 01:11:13,720 --> 01:11:15,720 Sam's got all sorts of friends over there 2024 01:11:15,720 --> 01:11:17,720 Sam's the extrovert over there 2025 01:11:17,720 --> 01:11:19,720 Well, okay, you're a little different 2026 01:11:19,720 --> 01:11:21,720 I get that 2027 01:11:21,720 --> 01:11:23,720 He's a little special over there 2028 01:11:23,720 --> 01:11:25,720 I agree with everything y'all are saying 2029 01:11:25,720 --> 01:11:27,720 You need those people who are going to be there 2030 01:11:27,720 --> 01:11:29,720 And who are going to push you to be better 2031 01:11:29,720 --> 01:11:31,720 And you need those people 2032 01:11:31,720 --> 01:11:33,720 But it's also okay to make other friends 2033 01:11:33,720 --> 01:11:35,720 Oh, by all means 2034 01:11:35,720 --> 01:11:37,720 Which isn't a disagreement with you 2035 01:11:37,720 --> 01:11:39,720 All that to say 2036 01:11:39,720 --> 01:11:41,720 That doesn't mean push away other people 2037 01:11:41,720 --> 01:11:43,720 That just means that you need people to hold you down 2038 01:11:43,720 --> 01:11:45,720 So that you can go out and make other friends 2039 01:11:45,720 --> 01:11:47,720 That maybe have disagreeing points of view with you 2040 01:11:47,720 --> 01:11:49,720 That maybe don't 2041 01:11:49,720 --> 01:11:51,720 We'll do those parties 2042 01:11:51,720 --> 01:11:53,720 And we'll do that 2043 01:11:53,720 --> 01:11:55,720 I know a lot of people who do that 2044 01:11:55,720 --> 01:11:57,720 I'm friends with them 2045 01:11:57,720 --> 01:11:59,720 I love them, they're awesome 2046 01:11:59,720 --> 01:12:01,720 And I'll have good talks with them 2047 01:12:01,720 --> 01:12:03,720 It's how I get information 2048 01:12:03,720 --> 01:12:05,720 It's how I make connections 2049 01:12:05,720 --> 01:12:07,720 So that's always good 2050 01:12:07,720 --> 01:12:09,720 But yeah, you need those people who will hold you down 2051 01:12:09,720 --> 01:12:11,720 With your beliefs 2052 01:12:11,720 --> 01:12:13,720 I guess what we should have asked is 2053 01:12:13,720 --> 01:12:15,720 Sam, who are your best friends? 2054 01:12:15,720 --> 01:12:17,720 Is not my question 2055 01:12:17,720 --> 01:12:19,720 This is a make or break question 2056 01:12:19,720 --> 01:12:21,720 This is a make or break question, Sam 2057 01:12:21,720 --> 01:12:23,720 Who are my best friends? 2058 01:12:23,720 --> 01:12:25,720 The door is right there 2059 01:12:25,720 --> 01:12:27,720 Or you know what 2060 01:12:27,720 --> 01:12:29,720 Who's your core group? Maybe not your favorite 2061 01:12:29,720 --> 01:12:31,720 I'll go with his favorite 2062 01:12:31,720 --> 01:12:33,720 Core group 2063 01:12:33,720 --> 01:12:35,720 Morgan 2064 01:12:35,720 --> 01:12:37,720 Doesn't count 2065 01:12:37,720 --> 01:12:39,720 Girlfriends don't count 2066 01:12:39,720 --> 01:12:41,720 That doesn't count, that's a given 2067 01:12:41,720 --> 01:12:43,720 That's separate 2068 01:12:43,720 --> 01:12:45,720 It's like family 2069 01:12:45,720 --> 01:12:47,720 It's definitely y'all 2070 01:12:47,720 --> 01:12:49,720 I've known you 2071 01:12:49,720 --> 01:12:51,720 13 years 2072 01:12:51,720 --> 01:12:53,720 Yeah, probably 2073 01:12:53,720 --> 01:12:55,720 Something like that 2074 01:12:55,720 --> 01:12:57,720 Alex, I think a little bit longer than that 2075 01:12:57,720 --> 01:12:59,720 A year or two after that 2076 01:12:59,720 --> 01:13:01,720 Before that 2077 01:13:01,720 --> 01:13:03,720 And then Jake, somewhere in that area 2078 01:13:03,720 --> 01:13:05,720 I think a little bit less 2079 01:13:05,720 --> 01:13:07,720 I think we really started talking like middle school 2080 01:13:07,720 --> 01:13:09,720 Yeah, but I 2081 01:13:09,720 --> 01:13:11,720 I've known you longer 2082 01:13:11,720 --> 01:13:13,720 That was really when we started clicking together 2083 01:13:13,720 --> 01:13:15,720 It was like middle school, but I've known you longer 2084 01:13:15,720 --> 01:13:17,720 Which was a really good time 2085 01:13:17,720 --> 01:13:19,720 For us, especially 2086 01:13:19,720 --> 01:13:21,720 I will say it was a really good time for me 2087 01:13:21,720 --> 01:13:23,720 Because having you guys around at that time in my life 2088 01:13:23,720 --> 01:13:25,720 I was terrible 2089 01:13:25,720 --> 01:13:27,720 I mean, at that point in time 2090 01:13:27,720 --> 01:13:29,720 So I had always hung out with Alex 2091 01:13:29,720 --> 01:13:31,720 Alex and I 2092 01:13:31,720 --> 01:13:33,720 Hung out for a long time 2093 01:13:33,720 --> 01:13:35,720 And I hung out with him for a long time 2094 01:13:35,720 --> 01:13:37,720 I met 2095 01:13:37,720 --> 01:13:39,720 Late in through Alex 2096 01:13:39,720 --> 01:13:41,720 But when I really started hanging out with 2097 01:13:41,720 --> 01:13:43,720 You two 2098 01:13:43,720 --> 01:13:45,720 What is happening? 2099 01:13:45,720 --> 01:13:47,720 I'm trying to be discreet about it 2100 01:13:47,720 --> 01:13:49,720 I'm just going to ask, is the phone still recording? 2101 01:13:49,720 --> 01:13:51,720 It should be 2102 01:13:51,720 --> 01:13:53,720 Our monitoring hasn't been working 2103 01:13:53,720 --> 01:13:55,720 No, no, you're good 2104 01:13:55,720 --> 01:13:57,720 So 2105 01:13:57,720 --> 01:13:59,720 What was it? 2106 01:13:59,720 --> 01:14:01,720 At that time when I started 2107 01:14:01,720 --> 01:14:03,720 Hanging out with Alex and Jake Moore 2108 01:14:03,720 --> 01:14:05,720 I had just like 2109 01:14:05,720 --> 01:14:07,720 Stopped hanging out with another 2110 01:14:07,720 --> 01:14:09,720 Group of friends 2111 01:14:09,720 --> 01:14:11,720 Huge click, there was a lot of us 2112 01:14:11,720 --> 01:14:13,720 But like I wasn't 2113 01:14:13,720 --> 01:14:15,720 Treated the best 2114 01:14:15,720 --> 01:14:17,720 I was bullied a little bit 2115 01:14:17,720 --> 01:14:19,720 I'll be honest 2116 01:14:19,720 --> 01:14:21,720 Which I mean, when you look at this dynamic 2117 01:14:21,720 --> 01:14:23,720 Maybe not bullied, teased 2118 01:14:23,720 --> 01:14:25,720 What are you talking about? 2119 01:14:25,720 --> 01:14:27,720 It was probably a borderline 2120 01:14:27,720 --> 01:14:29,720 Because of how consistent it was 2121 01:14:29,720 --> 01:14:31,720 That's the thing 2122 01:14:31,720 --> 01:14:33,720 This friend group 2123 01:14:33,720 --> 01:14:35,720 This is a little rough, but 2124 01:14:35,720 --> 01:14:37,720 This is all in love 2125 01:14:37,720 --> 01:14:39,720 This is, I 2126 01:14:39,720 --> 01:14:41,720 Put it on the record, I don't hate Sam 2127 01:14:41,720 --> 01:14:43,720 Jake's the bully 2128 01:14:43,720 --> 01:14:45,720 Jake's the bully 2129 01:14:45,720 --> 01:14:47,720 When I'm here in person and he sees 2130 01:14:47,720 --> 01:14:49,720 My pretty face, he just 2131 01:14:49,720 --> 01:14:51,720 Fall in love 2132 01:14:51,720 --> 01:14:53,720 I understand what you're saying 2133 01:14:53,720 --> 01:14:55,720 It's like 2134 01:14:55,720 --> 01:14:57,720 Borderline because when it comes to 2135 01:14:57,720 --> 01:14:59,720 Bullying, it's like 2136 01:14:59,720 --> 01:15:01,720 It's a consistent thing 2137 01:15:01,720 --> 01:15:03,720 I was going more off a level 2138 01:15:03,720 --> 01:15:05,720 We're slowly going further into 2139 01:15:05,720 --> 01:15:07,720 How we met and everything 2140 01:15:07,720 --> 01:15:09,720 Cliff notes 2141 01:15:09,720 --> 01:15:11,720 I was about to wrap it up 2142 01:15:11,720 --> 01:15:13,720 I apologize 2143 01:15:13,720 --> 01:15:15,720 I felt like we were about to start moving 2144 01:15:15,720 --> 01:15:17,720 I was just going to talk about 2145 01:15:17,720 --> 01:15:19,720 That and what not 2146 01:15:19,720 --> 01:15:21,720 It's fine 2147 01:15:21,720 --> 01:15:23,720 It's a longer episode 2148 01:15:23,720 --> 01:15:25,720 What are we at? 2149 01:15:25,720 --> 01:15:27,720 We can split into two 2150 01:15:27,720 --> 01:15:29,720 Teased, bullied, whatever you want to say 2151 01:15:29,720 --> 01:15:31,720 And then 2152 01:15:31,720 --> 01:15:33,720 I was finally 2153 01:15:33,720 --> 01:15:35,720 I was just done with it 2154 01:15:35,720 --> 01:15:37,720 After a specific moment 2155 01:15:37,720 --> 01:15:39,720 And I'm like 2156 01:15:39,720 --> 01:15:41,720 I did not appreciate that 2157 01:15:41,720 --> 01:15:43,720 I'm done 2158 01:15:43,720 --> 01:15:45,720 And then that's when I started hanging out with y'all 2159 01:15:45,720 --> 01:15:47,720 And that was so much fun 2160 01:15:47,720 --> 01:15:49,720 So for clarification 2161 01:15:49,720 --> 01:15:51,720 cardboard boxes down the grass hill 2162 01:15:51,720 --> 01:15:53,720 We would go dumpster diving 2163 01:15:53,720 --> 01:15:55,720 For cardboard boxes Sunday morning at 2164 01:15:55,720 --> 01:15:57,720 Church and then we'd ride the cardboard 2165 01:15:57,720 --> 01:15:59,720 Boxes down 2166 01:15:59,720 --> 01:16:01,720 Sometimes like sleds, sometimes like 2167 01:16:01,720 --> 01:16:03,720 Snowboards, sometimes we wouldn't even tear the box 2168 01:16:03,720 --> 01:16:05,720 Apart, we'd just lay in the box 2169 01:16:05,720 --> 01:16:07,720 And slide down 2170 01:16:07,720 --> 01:16:09,720 It was so much fun 2171 01:16:09,720 --> 01:16:11,720 My first ever incest story 2172 01:16:11,720 --> 01:16:13,720 That was your first ever incest story 2173 01:16:13,720 --> 01:16:15,720 That's so funny 2174 01:16:15,720 --> 01:16:17,720 Where were you going with the whole knowing each other for a long time? 2175 01:16:17,720 --> 01:16:19,720 Cause we were talking about 2176 01:16:19,720 --> 01:16:21,720 A core friend group 2177 01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:23,720 Just a core friend group 2178 01:16:23,720 --> 01:16:25,720 I was just answering the question 2179 01:16:25,720 --> 01:16:27,720 I don't remember what the point was 2180 01:16:27,720 --> 01:16:29,720 The point is we've all known each other for a really long time 2181 01:16:29,720 --> 01:16:31,720 And we're all really good friends 2182 01:16:31,720 --> 01:16:33,720 Oh you know you were saying that it was a really good time for you 2183 01:16:33,720 --> 01:16:35,720 And I'm like oh it was a really good time for me 2184 01:16:35,720 --> 01:16:37,720 Because of the situation 2185 01:16:37,720 --> 01:16:39,720 I was just trying 2186 01:16:39,720 --> 01:16:41,720 To make the point that 2187 01:16:41,720 --> 01:16:43,720 People are okay 2188 01:16:43,720 --> 01:16:45,720 Like I'm okay with only having this 2189 01:16:45,720 --> 01:16:47,720 Amount of friends close to it 2190 01:16:47,720 --> 01:16:49,720 And then Sam on the other hand 2191 01:16:49,720 --> 01:16:51,720 He has us as his core group 2192 01:16:51,720 --> 01:16:53,720 So everybody meets 2193 01:16:53,720 --> 01:16:55,720 It doesn't even get close buddy 2194 01:16:55,720 --> 01:16:57,720 Everybody needs that core group 2195 01:16:57,720 --> 01:16:59,720 Half the people in the discord 2196 01:16:59,720 --> 01:17:01,720 That's a big issue with people in our generation 2197 01:17:01,720 --> 01:17:03,720 And our age and stuff is that 2198 01:17:03,720 --> 01:17:05,720 They feel like they have to have 2199 01:17:05,720 --> 01:17:07,720 A ton of friends 2200 01:17:07,720 --> 01:17:09,720 They have to know a ton of people 2201 01:17:09,720 --> 01:17:11,720 People end up 2202 01:17:11,720 --> 01:17:13,720 Finding themselves 2203 01:17:13,720 --> 01:17:15,720 Finding that core friendship 2204 01:17:15,720 --> 01:17:17,720 In the group that they shouldn't 2205 01:17:17,720 --> 01:17:19,720 In the group that is full of other people 2206 01:17:19,720 --> 01:17:21,720 Of like mindedness 2207 01:17:21,720 --> 01:17:23,720 Of running from things 2208 01:17:23,720 --> 01:17:25,720 Of let's go get drunk 2209 01:17:25,720 --> 01:17:27,720 Let's go do this, let's go party 2210 01:17:27,720 --> 01:17:29,720 Let's go distract ourselves 2211 01:17:29,720 --> 01:17:31,720 They're so focused on finding the friends 2212 01:17:31,720 --> 01:17:33,720 That they fit themselves into a friend group 2213 01:17:33,720 --> 01:17:35,720 That doesn't fit them 2214 01:17:35,720 --> 01:17:37,720 And who they are 2215 01:17:37,720 --> 01:17:39,720 And the idea that 2216 01:17:39,720 --> 01:17:41,720 Let's get away from our problems 2217 01:17:41,720 --> 01:17:43,720 And so 2218 01:17:43,720 --> 01:17:45,720 And they may end up leaving 2219 01:17:45,720 --> 01:17:47,720 People who would have been really good 2220 01:17:47,720 --> 01:17:49,720 Core friends behind 2221 01:17:49,720 --> 01:17:51,720 And all they're gonna do is strengthen the bad habits 2222 01:17:51,720 --> 01:17:53,720 By 2223 01:17:53,720 --> 01:17:55,720 You know community, because community is a powerful thing 2224 01:17:55,720 --> 01:17:57,720 Oh it's everything I think 2225 01:17:57,720 --> 01:17:59,720 I wouldn't have gotten 2226 01:17:59,720 --> 01:18:01,720 Through like the break up 2227 01:18:01,720 --> 01:18:03,720 A few months ago 2228 01:18:03,720 --> 01:18:05,720 If it weren't for you guys 2229 01:18:05,720 --> 01:18:07,720 I'm just that good 2230 01:18:07,720 --> 01:18:09,720 All of you just 2231 01:18:09,720 --> 01:18:11,720 Oh yeah you're welcome 2232 01:18:11,720 --> 01:18:13,720 I hate all of you 2233 01:18:13,720 --> 01:18:15,720 But 2234 01:18:15,720 --> 01:18:17,720 Like actually you guys have been such a 2235 01:18:17,720 --> 01:18:19,720 Formative group for me and honestly 2236 01:18:19,720 --> 01:18:21,720 You guys were the friends that 2237 01:18:21,720 --> 01:18:23,720 Pull me 2238 01:18:23,720 --> 01:18:25,720 Like I already said it, I was kind of the bad 2239 01:18:25,720 --> 01:18:27,720 Influence of the group 2240 01:18:27,720 --> 01:18:29,720 And I'm actually 2241 01:18:29,720 --> 01:18:31,720 I'm probably a lot better off right now 2242 01:18:31,720 --> 01:18:33,720 Than I could have been if I wasn't y'alls friends 2243 01:18:33,720 --> 01:18:35,720 And I was friends with the people I was 2244 01:18:35,720 --> 01:18:37,720 In high school 2245 01:18:37,720 --> 01:18:39,720 I hated to say it but I kind of felt that was the case 2246 01:18:39,720 --> 01:18:41,720 No I didn't 2247 01:18:41,720 --> 01:18:43,720 You guys have been my good 2248 01:18:43,720 --> 01:18:45,720 Influence 2249 01:18:45,720 --> 01:18:47,720 And you've been our bad 2250 01:18:47,720 --> 01:18:49,720 It balances out 2251 01:18:49,720 --> 01:18:51,720 The yin and the yang 2252 01:18:53,720 --> 01:18:55,720 And I think that's a 2253 01:18:55,720 --> 01:18:57,720 Really important thing is 2254 01:18:57,720 --> 01:18:59,720 Like from someone who has been in a stage 2255 01:18:59,720 --> 01:19:01,720 Where I've done stupid stuff 2256 01:19:01,720 --> 01:19:03,720 In the realm of what we've talked about 2257 01:19:03,720 --> 01:19:05,720 I've never drank and I really have 2258 01:19:05,720 --> 01:19:07,720 No intention to until I'm old enough 2259 01:19:07,720 --> 01:19:09,720 That's one thing that I have always 2260 01:19:09,720 --> 01:19:11,720 Not done 2261 01:19:11,720 --> 01:19:13,720 But like 2262 01:19:13,720 --> 01:19:15,720 Coming from someone who has come from something 2263 01:19:15,720 --> 01:19:17,720 Like that and has been in those situations 2264 01:19:17,720 --> 01:19:19,720 Before and been friends with people that have 2265 01:19:19,720 --> 01:19:21,720 Only enabled me to do stupid stuff 2266 01:19:21,720 --> 01:19:23,720 It's 2267 01:19:23,720 --> 01:19:25,720 It's really important 2268 01:19:25,720 --> 01:19:27,720 It sounds like the wind 2269 01:19:27,720 --> 01:19:29,720 It's been important and it's been huge 2270 01:19:29,720 --> 01:19:31,720 To pull me out of that 2271 01:19:31,720 --> 01:19:33,720 And so coming from 2272 01:19:33,720 --> 01:19:35,720 I guess it adds credibility 2273 01:19:35,720 --> 01:19:37,720 To have a prime example 2274 01:19:37,720 --> 01:19:39,720 Of why friendships are 2275 01:19:39,720 --> 01:19:41,720 So important 2276 01:19:41,720 --> 01:19:43,720 I just wanted to say one more thing on this 2277 01:19:43,720 --> 01:19:45,720 As someone 2278 01:19:45,720 --> 01:19:47,720 Who knows 2279 01:19:47,720 --> 01:19:49,720 A lot of people 2280 01:19:49,720 --> 01:19:51,720 It is also so incredibly hard 2281 01:19:51,720 --> 01:19:53,720 To keep up with all of them 2282 01:19:53,720 --> 01:19:55,720 That is the hardest thing about being 2283 01:19:55,720 --> 01:19:57,720 So talkative and like 2284 01:19:57,720 --> 01:19:59,720 Easily making friends with people 2285 01:19:59,720 --> 01:20:01,720 It's the fact that 2286 01:20:01,720 --> 01:20:03,720 I don't have time 2287 01:20:03,720 --> 01:20:05,720 To go get lunch with everyone 2288 01:20:05,720 --> 01:20:07,720 Much less I don't have the money to go get lunch with everyone 2289 01:20:07,720 --> 01:20:09,720 Unless they're willing to buy me 2290 01:20:09,720 --> 01:20:11,720 All this food all the time 2291 01:20:11,720 --> 01:20:13,720 McDonald's, Roards, Manning 2292 01:20:13,720 --> 01:20:15,720 Exactly 2293 01:20:15,720 --> 01:20:17,720 That is the thing 2294 01:20:17,720 --> 01:20:19,720 About having so many friendships 2295 01:20:19,720 --> 01:20:21,720 However having so many friendships 2296 01:20:21,720 --> 01:20:23,720 Could also present very good things 2297 01:20:23,720 --> 01:20:25,720 Because 2298 01:20:25,720 --> 01:20:27,720 Graduation parties 2299 01:20:27,720 --> 01:20:29,720 Making a lot of money 2300 01:20:29,720 --> 01:20:31,720 For the one time in your life 2301 01:20:31,720 --> 01:20:33,720 For the one time 2302 01:20:33,720 --> 01:20:35,720 You just always know that 2303 01:20:35,720 --> 01:20:37,720 Out of a hundred people 2304 01:20:37,720 --> 01:20:39,720 One is going to pick up 2305 01:20:39,720 --> 01:20:41,720 Start with the closest people 2306 01:20:41,720 --> 01:20:43,720 But if they're not there, one is going to pick up 2307 01:20:43,720 --> 01:20:45,720 I can count on one of you three to pick up 2308 01:20:45,720 --> 01:20:47,720 Well it depends when you call me 2309 01:20:47,720 --> 01:20:49,720 Jake is always on the toilet 2310 01:20:49,720 --> 01:20:51,720 Alex 2311 01:20:51,720 --> 01:20:53,720 Never since he's gone 2312 01:20:53,720 --> 01:20:55,720 He's always on the birds 2313 01:20:55,720 --> 01:20:57,720 His is always on silent 2314 01:20:57,720 --> 01:20:59,720 I always pick up 2315 01:20:59,720 --> 01:21:01,720 You do always pick up 2316 01:21:01,720 --> 01:21:03,720 I always pick up 2317 01:21:03,720 --> 01:21:05,720 No you don't always pick up 2318 01:21:05,720 --> 01:21:07,720 When have I not picked up 2319 01:21:07,720 --> 01:21:09,720 Starts wasting off dates 2320 01:21:09,720 --> 01:21:11,720 It was exactly 11pm 2321 01:21:11,720 --> 01:21:13,720 I almost always pick up 2322 01:21:13,720 --> 01:21:15,720 You do almost always pick up 2323 01:21:15,720 --> 01:21:17,720 If I have my phone on me I pick up 2324 01:21:17,720 --> 01:21:19,720 If my phone is not on me then I obviously won't pick up 2325 01:21:19,720 --> 01:21:21,720 Who would have thought 2326 01:21:21,720 --> 01:21:23,720 My phone is actually 2327 01:21:23,720 --> 01:21:25,720 A mile away and I'll pick up 2328 01:21:25,720 --> 01:21:27,720 You said just sprints 2329 01:21:27,720 --> 01:21:29,720 Leighton's calling 2330 01:21:29,720 --> 01:21:31,720 Leighton's calling 2331 01:21:31,720 --> 01:21:33,720 But only for Leighton 2332 01:21:33,720 --> 01:21:35,720 I come crashing out of my bathroom door 2333 01:21:35,720 --> 01:21:37,720 Leighton's calling 2334 01:21:37,720 --> 01:21:43,720 I think this is a good point to tie things off 2335 01:21:43,720 --> 01:21:45,720 All in all 2336 01:21:45,720 --> 01:21:47,720 It's big to have good friendships 2337 01:21:47,720 --> 01:21:49,720 Doesn't mean you don't have to have a ton of friends 2338 01:21:49,720 --> 01:21:51,720 But have a core group that's going to support you in a healthy way 2339 01:21:51,720 --> 01:21:53,720 Live a healthy lifestyle 2340 01:21:53,720 --> 01:21:55,720 If you want to 2341 01:21:55,720 --> 01:21:57,720 Right now 2342 01:21:57,720 --> 01:21:59,720 The best advice that I think we can all semi agree on 2343 01:21:59,720 --> 01:22:01,720 Is that 2344 01:22:01,720 --> 01:22:03,720 You gotta find a direction in life 2345 01:22:03,720 --> 01:22:05,720 Doesn't have to be the final direction 2346 01:22:05,720 --> 01:22:07,720 It just has to be a direction 2347 01:22:07,720 --> 01:22:09,720 Find what you love 2348 01:22:09,720 --> 01:22:11,720 Find your passion 2349 01:22:11,720 --> 01:22:13,720 Find your friends that are going to support that 2350 01:22:13,720 --> 01:22:15,720 And then find a direction 2351 01:22:15,720 --> 01:22:17,720 Do you think those 2352 01:22:17,720 --> 01:22:19,720 And do this all in a healthy way 2353 01:22:19,720 --> 01:22:21,720 Avoid stuff like drugs 2354 01:22:21,720 --> 01:22:23,720 Stop running 2355 01:22:23,720 --> 01:22:25,720 Start moving through the pain 2356 01:22:25,720 --> 01:22:27,720 Not away from it 2357 01:22:27,720 --> 01:22:29,720 Do drugs, drink alcohol, get a girl pregnant 2358 01:22:29,720 --> 01:22:31,720 American dream 2359 01:22:31,720 --> 01:22:33,720 At least that's what this is 2360 01:22:33,720 --> 01:22:35,720 It seems like now 2361 01:22:35,720 --> 01:22:37,720 I think 2362 01:22:37,720 --> 01:22:39,720 Can we all agree on this? 2363 01:22:39,720 --> 01:22:41,720 Sam 2364 01:22:41,720 --> 01:22:43,720 For one second 2365 01:22:43,720 --> 01:22:45,720 Back to no 2366 01:22:45,720 --> 01:22:47,720 Back to no 2367 01:22:47,720 --> 01:22:49,720 I think that's a good place to end it 2368 01:22:49,720 --> 01:22:51,720 Thank you everybody for listening 2369 01:22:51,720 --> 01:22:53,720 Thank you for sitting through a longer more serious episode 2370 01:22:53,720 --> 01:22:55,720 I want to do the fun episode 2371 01:22:55,720 --> 01:22:57,720 Don't worry you will do a fun episode 2372 01:22:57,720 --> 01:22:59,720 Thank you for joining us Sam 2373 01:22:59,720 --> 01:23:01,720 Thank you for the goodies Morgan 2374 01:23:01,720 --> 01:23:03,720 Thanks Morgan 2375 01:23:03,720 --> 01:23:05,720 Thanks everybody for listening 2376 01:23:05,720 --> 01:23:07,720 Thanks for sitting through this long more serious episode 2377 01:23:07,720 --> 01:23:09,720 We'll be back to our regularly scheduled 2378 01:23:09,720 --> 01:23:11,720 Shenanigans 2379 01:23:11,720 --> 01:23:13,720 Next episode next week 2380 01:23:13,720 --> 01:23:15,720 You mean bullying me 2381 01:23:15,720 --> 01:23:17,720 When we talk about something 2382 01:23:17,720 --> 01:23:19,720 Probably a little more light hearted 2383 01:23:19,720 --> 01:23:21,720 Come back next week then 2384 01:23:21,720 --> 01:23:23,720 Anyways 2385 01:23:23,720 --> 01:23:25,720 You all have a great night 2386 01:23:25,720 --> 01:23:47,720 We'll talk to you all later