1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:06,360 Welcome back to our podcast on today's episode. We are going to be doing am I the asshole 2 00:00:14,940 --> 00:00:16,940 Starting off am I the asshole 3 00:00:17,340 --> 00:00:20,820 For making my new boyfriend get an STD test. I 4 00:00:21,660 --> 00:00:25,980 18 female started dating this guy 19 men barely even a month ago 5 00:00:25,980 --> 00:00:31,940 We haven't done anything sexual yet because when we were talking the topic of body count came up 6 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:40,220 Normally, I don't care about this, but he said his is 14 in that it started in his first year college a year ago 7 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:44,520 14 at 19 years old and in that short time 8 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:50,360 Short of a time span is a bit concerning to me minus three in the span of two years 9 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:52,640 And I got tested after each relationship ended 10 00:00:52,640 --> 00:00:57,640 I asked him if he had recently or even ever been tested and he said no 11 00:00:57,640 --> 00:01:02,960 I told him that I won't do anything sexual until he gets tested and shows me the test results 12 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:09,300 He's refusing which in itself is a red flag to me, but I guess he thinks I don't trust him in my asshole 13 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:13,360 No, that's why not 14 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:18,720 Okay 15 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:21,120 This 16 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:24,200 Is there a day for in a year 17 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:27,000 Yeah, never test 18 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:28,880 I 19 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:32,080 Don't think she should be in question. I'm good 20 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:37,720 Yeah, 14 in a year not tested 21 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:44,640 Definitely needs to get to honestly the fact that he's refusing 22 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:47,120 should honestly 23 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:51,840 Be a relationship breaker because if he's not willing to do that for you 24 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:55,160 that kind of like I 25 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:57,880 Don't know 26 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:03,580 Yeah, yeah that like before you do anything with anybody you should get tested especially like 27 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:11,480 14 in a year and you never thought hmm, let me go make sure I don't have nothing but I feel like it's the big like 28 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:17,200 Misconception that oh if I don't have any symptoms or anything like I must not have anything but 29 00:02:17,920 --> 00:02:20,600 That's not the case like 30 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:25,000 Mm-hmm. Yeah, like I know guys 31 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:28,200 more sp- I think guys like don't 32 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:35,720 Typically show symptoms of like STDs and STIs and stuff like that, but don't quote me 33 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:41,440 Don't quote me safe sex is great too guys 34 00:02:42,640 --> 00:02:44,640 Yeah 35 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:47,120 I'm just surprised I mean 36 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:51,120 The Jaycock he never thought of getting tested 37 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:56,200 I don't know how to feel about that. It's just I don't know 38 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:02,760 It's something maybe he thinks it won't happen to him. I don't know 39 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:05,320 Maybe but yeah 40 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:07,840 Yeah 41 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:09,840 He definitely needs to go get that done 42 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:11,840 Mm-hmm 43 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:12,840 It doesn't be a problem 44 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:15,840 I think I have the next one 45 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:18,840 Okay, so 46 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:23,840 Why the jerk for choosing a university based off where my crush went? 47 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:29,840 I go to a university with two campuses in two cities in opposite sides of my country 48 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:33,840 You can switch campuses at the end of each year and switch back and forth 49 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:38,840 Campus the first year campus B second year campus a third year again a 50 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:44,840 Lot of people spend two years in one and then switch to the other for their final two years 51 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:51,840 Last year was my second year and I had to make a choice of whether to stay in the campus and spent two years out 52 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:57,840 Or go to the other one. I had lived in both cities previously 53 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:03,840 It didn't have much of a preference. So I decided on the basis of whether this girl I had a crush on was switching or stay 54 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:09,840 She was the first year when I was a second year and I didn't really get to know her that well last year 55 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:17,840 The reason is I faced a pretty debilitating illness. It had diminished my looks a lot second year hair loss loss of muscle mass 56 00:04:17,840 --> 00:04:20,840 But weight gain cuts on my face from surgery, etc 57 00:04:20,840 --> 00:04:26,840 People always said I was good looking before and I knew a time I'd be in the back and as it was second year 58 00:04:26,840 --> 00:04:29,840 I looked terrible and I approached her 59 00:04:30,840 --> 00:04:33,840 Likely and it likely wouldn't be successful 60 00:04:33,840 --> 00:04:38,840 So I decided to just spend my time wait for my looks to come back by third year and then approach her 61 00:04:39,840 --> 00:04:44,840 For that to happen. Of course, I need to be not be on the same campus as her 62 00:04:44,840 --> 00:04:50,840 So I discreetly asked around where she'd be and chose the same campus. My plan worked out perfectly 63 00:04:50,840 --> 00:04:55,840 She and I stayed on the same campus and by the time this year rolled around my cuts had faded 64 00:04:55,840 --> 00:05:00,840 My hair grew back as thick as normal. I regained muscle mass and lost the extra fat, etc 65 00:05:01,840 --> 00:05:07,840 I began striking up conversations slash joking around with her and she reciprocated well, etc 66 00:05:07,840 --> 00:05:13,840 The issue is some of my friends think I'm creepy for making my choice on which campus to stay at 67 00:05:14,840 --> 00:05:18,840 On the basis of a girl. I had nothing with I don't see an issue with that 68 00:05:18,840 --> 00:05:22,840 I made my decision with no expectation that it would work or feeling that it needed to more 69 00:05:22,840 --> 00:05:28,840 So just I wanted to take the chance either way. So whether it succeeds or fails, I don't regret it later 70 00:05:28,840 --> 00:05:31,840 I don't see how that's problematic. Am I the jerk? 71 00:05:31,840 --> 00:05:35,840 I don't think he's a jerk, but it is kind of odd 72 00:05:36,840 --> 00:05:42,840 I don't know what I mean. I'm just because if he 73 00:05:42,840 --> 00:05:47,840 If he a jerk for doing that, I mean, I don't think so 74 00:05:47,840 --> 00:05:55,840 But he's definitely weird doing it. Basically the entire choice off of like a girl 75 00:05:55,840 --> 00:06:02,840 That you saw once like what if she got something that you don't like like what if something about personality, you know 76 00:06:02,840 --> 00:06:07,840 Like next thing, you know, you're like, oh no and immediately get that choice 77 00:06:09,840 --> 00:06:12,840 What was this reasoning like, okay 78 00:06:12,840 --> 00:06:18,840 If if it didn't work out, would he have regretted it? Like did he say anything like that? I'm sorry 79 00:06:18,840 --> 00:06:26,840 Let me see. I think he just said that he didn't want to regret not following her 80 00:06:26,840 --> 00:06:28,840 Yeah, I don't think he's 81 00:06:30,840 --> 00:06:37,840 I don't know like is it worth like it? I don't know that the money difference or quality difference between two campuses 82 00:06:37,840 --> 00:06:39,840 He said he's staying on campus 83 00:06:39,840 --> 00:06:48,840 Or is he just going to a different campus for school? It's like I think the same school 84 00:06:48,840 --> 00:06:57,840 They just have different campuses in different cities. Yeah, he's he's lived in both of them and didn't really have a preference 85 00:06:57,840 --> 00:07:07,840 Mm-hmm. I'm just that's weird. I don't know. Okay, that's just like that's just I don't know 86 00:07:07,840 --> 00:07:14,840 How you gonna tell okay, he gets with her. How is he going to like tell her especially since his friends know like a truth? 87 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:19,840 The truth is going to come out eventually. This is weird. It's just weird to all hell 88 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:29,840 Some people might think it's romantic. That's I don't want to say delusional but that type of romanticism is 89 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:35,840 It's like that would never work in real life 90 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:39,840 You know, I mean, so this is like, oh no 91 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:41,840 Yeah 92 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:43,840 Definitely seem like something that's like 93 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:52,840 Similar stories where they follow the person and then the person's kind of like put off and don't know how to feel about it 94 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:54,840 It's looking like some stalker shit 95 00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:56,840 Yeah 96 00:07:56,840 --> 00:08:00,840 It's cuz like why would you want to 97 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:07,840 Like conversation you asking around which campus she gonna be at I think you're gonna be like, oh, I don't know 98 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:16,840 Like conversation you asking around which campus she gonna be at I think you go to that campus and now you trying to make your move 99 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:18,840 It's like, okay 100 00:08:18,840 --> 00:08:20,840 I don't I don't 101 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:28,840 I definitely could have like come at this a little better like instead of like 102 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:38,840 Completely changing his campus he could have gone to the campus like visited and talked to her maybe but it's in a different city 103 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:40,840 I mean if it's a city 104 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:46,840 But like even then it's just like you could have you know found social media 105 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:53,840 Maybe made a move through times or maybe you can met her once I'd be able to be like, oh I'm visiting this campus 106 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:59,840 We're a little bit cuz a teacher that he's going here for I'm just asking for some help and be setting it up 107 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:07,840 The cover story sure, but you meet her once and then you go back to me things. Is it still weird? Yeah, but it's a more reasonable 108 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:09,840 Yeah 109 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:13,840 So it's like I don't I don't know 110 00:09:13,840 --> 00:09:18,840 Um, all right, so I'm gonna do something for you 111 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:20,840 For this next story 112 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:21,840 Okay 113 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:23,840 If you want to move on 114 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:26,840 Heads or tails? 115 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:28,840 Tails 116 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:29,840 Tails? 117 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:31,840 Yeah, I guess yeah tails 118 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:33,840 Okay 119 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:41,840 So am I the a-hole for making a real-life Pokedex of girls at my university? 120 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:43,840 What is that? 121 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:45,840 What? 122 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:48,840 Do you guys know the basis of a Pokedex real quick? 123 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:49,840 I do 124 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:51,840 Like a voodoo doll? 125 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:54,840 No, no, no, so a Pokedex, okay, you know Pokemon, right? 126 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:56,840 Yeah 127 00:09:56,840 --> 00:10:02,840 Okay, so the Pokedex is like every time you capture like a random Pokemon, right? 128 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:06,840 It gives you description like all the information about the Pokemon and 129 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:12,840 It like so it basically shows you everything and a Pokedex is basically like a library of that 130 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:24,840 So say so in the original game you captured all of them you would have a full library of all the Pokemon in that region basically 131 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:29,840 So it's like I don't know how to simplify it 132 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:31,840 But 133 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:33,840 So 134 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:38,840 So especially in your college I began working on this project casually 135 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:47,840 I like to keep notes on women that talk about their favorite things, the activities they enjoy, gags and candy that they like, sappy ass like that 136 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:50,840 I suck at remembering things so I decided to keep a spreadsheet 137 00:10:50,840 --> 00:10:54,840 Eventually after getting a handful of entries I offhandedly mentioned it to my friend Google 138 00:10:54,840 --> 00:11:02,840 One had the idea that I shared with them so they could keep all new entries as they caught different entries 139 00:11:02,840 --> 00:11:04,840 So this expanded further 140 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:10,840 Right now 40 guys have access to it and it's mainly guys in my frat 141 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:15,840 And the women who are featured girls are from different sororities 142 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:21,840 We also added more information such as where you should take them if you really want to press them 143 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:26,840 And we don't keep this information for nefarious or scumbaggy reasons 144 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:28,840 I doubt that 145 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:35,840 Just to help us know what we can do, just to help us know what to do when we want to depress certain girls 146 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:40,840 Like the original idea of this was to keep information like their favorite colors so we had to get their favorite colors 147 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:42,840 Now it's helping a lot of guys 148 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:44,840 Somehow 149 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:49,840 A girl that was on the list found out and was pissed the fuck off 150 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:57,840 She was able to trick it back to me so I'm assuming someone was looking for her snitch when the Poke-Dex was not making the girl like him 151 00:11:57,840 --> 00:12:01,840 So she's pissed off and made it out to be a guy for hooking up with women 152 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:03,840 But it's most definitely not that 153 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:06,840 It's just to impress them to make dates easier 154 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:07,840 That's it 155 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:13,840 She's made a big deal of this telling so many girls around campus and now saying by the start of the fall semester 156 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:17,840 None of them will be visiting our frats or going to our parties 157 00:12:17,840 --> 00:12:23,840 Now all these guys are mad at me when I'm not even the one who told the girls about the list and they're all using the list 158 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:27,840 I also think it's very unfair to say at least since sex wasn't about it at all 159 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:32,840 Am I the asshole? There's an edit 160 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:33,840 I'm not a stalker 161 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:39,840 There's no information that could be used to hurt somebody only to have a better date and it isn't about sex 162 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:41,840 I never used it for just sex 163 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:44,840 Now how y'all feeling about this? 164 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:46,840 That shit is weird 165 00:12:46,840 --> 00:12:49,840 Yeah that is so weird 166 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:52,840 Like that's so inauthentic 167 00:12:52,840 --> 00:12:57,840 Like what happened to just talking to people and getting to know them via authentic self? 168 00:12:57,840 --> 00:12:59,840 Exactly 169 00:12:59,840 --> 00:13:04,840 My vision on it is that even the things they say like this isn't about sex 170 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:09,840 If it's only for a better date it's still weird because it's like 171 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:13,840 Their favorite thing is public information to these 40 guys 172 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:14,840 Exactly 173 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:15,840 So for example 174 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:20,840 Like from my vision it's like if somebody knew that 175 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:26,840 Like I had to think about that I don't tell a lot of people ever since I got on campus 176 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:33,840 Unless you really get to know me is that I'm really into like rally and like motorsport 177 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:37,840 So if a girl on the second date is like hey 178 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:42,840 Do you like this thing? I'll be really confused because it's like 179 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:47,840 Huh well I'll also be impressed if she likes the thing or it's like hey is it X, Y, and Z? 180 00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:51,840 Because I've been hearing about it from this person and that person 181 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:55,840 So yeah but then I find out that somebody told her 182 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:58,840 Then I'll be upset because it's like 183 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:00,840 I guess I don't know 184 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:08,840 That's very odd like that's very off putting like why is there a list about information? 185 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:13,840 Like I don't care if it's you know how they say it's all it's just innocent favorite color what they like 186 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:15,840 No that shit is weird 187 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:17,840 Yeah 188 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:19,840 I just want to know on your own like 189 00:14:19,840 --> 00:14:21,840 Yeah 190 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:25,840 Alright so the comments on this post I'm actually looking at them right now 191 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:29,840 All of them are like blowing through OP even after the edit 192 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:33,840 Where they're saying nah they're saying just for the dates they're trying to 193 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:35,840 They're trying to sell more 194 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:42,840 There's no way because if they want to buy that they make the effort and not do the stock distribution weird shit 195 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:44,840 Yeah exactly 196 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:47,840 It's like these are frat boys 197 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:52,840 Oh lord and I know they I know I know they like frat boys too 198 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:57,840 I'm sorry there's no they aren't from like a non-BWR Jesus Christ 199 00:14:57,840 --> 00:15:01,840 Yeah that's definitely not an HBC like that is a PWI 200 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:04,840 Because at this point if we heard we would have heard about that at this point 201 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:05,840 No we wouldn't 202 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:06,840 I feel like these boys 203 00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:09,840 Like Jesus wow 204 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:10,840 Very odd 205 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:13,840 And that girl has every right to be mad like 206 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:16,840 Why are you putting folks information out there like that 207 00:15:16,840 --> 00:15:19,840 And then it's like he's not even taking accountability for his actions 208 00:15:19,840 --> 00:15:25,840 The biggest plow hole and the most like speaking line for me though is the whole 209 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:28,840 What was it 210 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:30,840 Blah blah blah blah blah 211 00:15:30,840 --> 00:15:35,840 I assumed somebody was simping for her snitch when the Pokedex wasn't making the girl like him 212 00:15:35,840 --> 00:15:42,840 I don't know how that line is of itself is just like nah 213 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:44,840 Like that is the fairest of all 214 00:15:44,840 --> 00:15:46,840 I'm like a holy 215 00:15:46,840 --> 00:15:51,840 Like why are you trying to manipulate people into liking you and then getting mad when they don't like you 216 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:54,840 You're just with your own time bro give up 217 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:56,840 These kids are lost 218 00:15:56,840 --> 00:15:59,840 This is about a year ago though 219 00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:03,840 And I think it's spring semester summer semester so 220 00:16:03,840 --> 00:16:05,840 But yeah it's a lot 221 00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:08,840 Now do you want one more story or nah 222 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:10,840 I have a good one 223 00:16:10,840 --> 00:16:12,840 Go ahead 224 00:16:12,840 --> 00:16:15,840 All right it's kind of lengthy 225 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:17,840 But it says 226 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:24,840 Am I the asshole for not wanting to transfer from my 20 year old male school to my girlfriend a 19 year old female school 227 00:16:24,840 --> 00:16:30,840 For some background information we are both sophomore students in college and have been dating since high school 228 00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:35,840 Senior prom king and queen and all that jazz and we were seen as perfect 229 00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:44,840 My girlfriend was taking an athletic scholarship to school up north while I was to remain on an academic scholarship back in our home state 230 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:46,840 Roughly 18 hours apart 231 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:51,840 We did long distance and did have a hiccup at the start due to something like this situation 232 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:59,840 She wanted me to transfer to something closer to her because I was not able to see her every day or at least weekends like she wanted me to 233 00:16:59,840 --> 00:17:06,840 I ended up working hard and saving money to go see her every month because this was a small airport 234 00:17:06,840 --> 00:17:10,840 To small airport it was roughly a thousand dollars every month 235 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:20,840 She would end up having a career ending injury playing her sport and would end up deciding to transfer to another state school in our home state with an academic scholarship 236 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:24,840 Now she is telling me that even though we are only six hours apart 237 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:31,840 And I can go see her every weekend that it is not enough and I need to transfer to her school or it's not going to work 238 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:37,840 My school is the eighth ranked school in my major while hers is in the 104th 239 00:17:37,840 --> 00:17:44,840 My school didn't offer the doctorate program she wants to enter in either so that's not an option for her 240 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:53,840 She is stating that I won't be making enough money to save and go see her and buy groceries while not being able to work Friday Saturday and Sunday morning 241 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:56,840 In that if we were with each other I could 242 00:17:56,840 --> 00:18:04,840 However I don't think this is logical at all because if she cared about my money this summer would have gone different 243 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:13,840 After her career ending injury I quit my college serving job and moved in with her to take care of her after she had her major surgery 244 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:15,840 She could not walk for eight weeks 245 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:25,840 The original plan was that I would help her 24-7 for the first two weeks and then I'll be able to get a job during the days to take care of her 246 00:18:25,840 --> 00:18:33,840 This did not come to pass and after eight weeks was when she let me get a job 247 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:38,840 That being said no one hires a college student about to head back to college in four weeks 248 00:18:38,840 --> 00:18:45,840 I struggled immensely watching my bank accounts hit zero and nearly filing for unemployment benefits 249 00:18:45,840 --> 00:18:57,840 Now with virtually not many not what the heck now with virtually no many she wants me to transfer colleges no money I think you meant money 250 00:18:57,840 --> 00:19:03,840 Virtually no money she wants me to transfer colleges in which I would have to pay for all of it by myself 251 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:10,840 Without any parental support like I do now in a much worse program with way less opportunity than my current school 252 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:25,840 This her second time she has given me this ultimatum and I can't transfer so my question is am I the asshole for not wanting to transfer away and wanting to continue trying long distance 253 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:34,840 Definitely not I think my brother needs to leave for real 254 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:40,840 I don't I'm sorry but like there's no way 255 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:55,840 Like she's forcing him to risk because I don't like that stuff but who try to force people to go to a different college even though you know hey money like it's better financially for me 256 00:19:55,840 --> 00:20:05,840 It's like you can hold out if you really like that person you would just hold out how many ever years even if you're injury 257 00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:10,840 So I think for the college and monster. 258 00:20:10,840 --> 00:20:26,840 Yeah, and his college like he has more benefits with his major and whatnot like it's a better fit for him. And if you were to transfer, it's worse so 259 00:20:26,840 --> 00:20:30,840 I think she's pretty selfish. 260 00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:43,840 Oh yeah, she did work. Right. You ain't go see him. You ain't spend no money. You ain't try to let him get a job because you want to be catered to and 261 00:20:43,840 --> 00:20:54,840 Now you want him to transfer you like you're very demanding and ain't doing nothing to, you know, right. So him you want to be together. Yeah, it's a lot. 262 00:20:54,840 --> 00:21:01,840 I wouldn't be with her but that's just me. 263 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:20,840 It's definitely not the a home. But it's nice he still wants to work things out them. Yeah, he has more willpower than I would. That's what I'm saying after that second one. Yeah, I'm sorry I can't do this. 264 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:28,840 Thank you for watching our podcast. This was my now Cameron. 265 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:51,840 We'll see you in the next episode.