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Guys is this thing on? Hi besties What is up?

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It is your host Zoe and I'm back with another

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freaking episode on the did I over share podcast

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today? Um, how are you guys doing? How are you

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guys doing? The weather has been insane. Um,

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it's either been hot cold Storming like crazy

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or nothing at all. So there's that um there's

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really nothing going on dare i say and i really

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have no business to get into either we're all

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just vibing i'm vibing i am vibing i also have

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below and Yeah Let's get into the episode. So

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today's episode is two things can be true at

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once. Yes, and what I mean by this Okay, well

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first let me say it is the key to healing two

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things to be true is that true at once I feel

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like you need to learn this and establish this

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in order to help your healing journey and or

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process What I mean by this dual nature be a

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bitch be a sweetheart. We know all we hear is

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good and bad and we are so quick to Categorize

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things when we don't need to you know, and truly

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the reason I'm thinking about this is because

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I recently had a reading Yes. Um, it was really

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good. Really, really good. And she kept saying

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to me, like, what stood out to me in this reading

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the most? It was when she would cut me off when

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I would say something like, oh, this is how it's

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supposed to be. She would immediately get it.

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She was like, no, no, no, no, stop, stop saying

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that. And, and I would always say, like, well,

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these are how things are supposed to be. This

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is how stuff was to end, you know, you know,

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I guess it's just the way it's meant to be. And

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she kept kind of urging me to stop saying that

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two things can be true at once, you know, and

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but also can't. What the fuck did I write? Oh,

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she encouraged me to stop saying that she was

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really pushing the message for me that two things

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can be true. at once you know not everything

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is end all be all and we always feel like we

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have to make a decision right then and there

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about really kind of everything in life we have

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to make why the fuck am i struggling so much

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right now and now my cat wants to chase a bug

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i really just want to cry You know what y 'all

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I'm gonna keep all this in I'm keeping all this

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in because I really just want to cry right now

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my bitch I have been so upset today, and I'm

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not even in my ludeo like I Everything is stressing

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me out And I don't know why and I really it's

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been taking me so long to start this episode

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because my cat either wants in or out Everything

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is Making my brain hurt and I'm gonna keep to

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it because we're all life. We're life. Okay,

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you know That's it. That's it. We make mistakes.

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And also that's why it's important to use commas

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when you're writing because I did not know what

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I wrote Because there was no comma right back

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to what I was saying We always kind of make it

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seem like we have to make the right decision

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There is a right decision when first of all,

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there's not a right decision at all. There's

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not There's not. It's whatever you choose to

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do, right? We always try to label things, and

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there is no right decision, like I said, and

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I think a lot of the times in life, it is really

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important when it comes to healing, thinking

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of the idea that two things are true at once,

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simply because it's such a huge part in it. You

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have to realize that everything Not a hundred

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percent, right? It's not a hundred percent your

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fault You couldn't have a hundred percent avoided

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this and like there's so many situations that

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we will go through in life Where we truly have

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that idea and you know that notion behind everything

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that hey, you know You know, this can be right

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and this can be right and I'm dealing with this

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a lot right now But I empathize with myself on

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that because I think I I'm just we're all a little

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hard on ourselves You're not a bad person for

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making a right or wrong decision. There is no

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right or wrong in my opinion like There there's

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always gonna be limits and holds in Every you

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know decision will have a different weight will

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have a different effect, right? But we can always

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navigate our way through that There's no everybody

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would make a different decision than you so there

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clearly is no right decision, right? And what

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I'm trying to say is that there's so many different

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ways to use this term as well Yeah, it's just

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it's very important and I am hating this episode

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Genuinely because what the fuck did I write like

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I can't even read my own writing It's like I

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was just brain dumping and not being coherent

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at all like I'm genuinely trying to lock in for

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y 'all because I have I've had this episode written

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for like a week because I have a thing now where

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I write the episodes a week and be like beforehand

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so like let's say that week I am not feeling

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good or something like that I can upload it but

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genuinely I am trying so hard to lock in and

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I can't because I don't understand what the fuck

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is happening so I feel like I'm just about to

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go off off rip off the head and you know this

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episode my ears a job cool Fine. It's irritating

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me too. All right. It's irritating me too because

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I don't know what the fuck is going on right

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now. You know, maybe maybe that's it. Two things

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to be tried once. This is a mess, but it's also

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perfect. Right. This is my mess. This is this

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I'm not wrong. Like I could say, oh, I don't

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want to post this episode. I could start it all

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over. Right. Or I cannot. There's no right fucking

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decision. Both are my decisions and what I want

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to do. And there will be an outcome nonetheless.

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It's kind of when we think about I've been hearing

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a lot about like alternate realities like how

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everything is happening at once and you know

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just to go off on a little tangent there's this

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girl on tiktok who she like is a medium for cats

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and a whole bunch of cats have been saying there's

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no future there's no past it's all happening

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now whatever decision you know you didn't make

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today it was made in a different life like let's

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say if i wanted to get oh i ordered tropical

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smoothie today in another dimension i did not

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in another dimension i ordered something else

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there's always something fucking going on there's

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never a right decision in my head now To say

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this, there are right decisions when it comes

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to certain things. I will say that. Like, murder.

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No. Right. Right. But honestly, wait. Wait. No.

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Because even that, there's no right decision.

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Wait. Wait. Because if it's self -defense, what

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are you going to do? It's still murder. But is

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it still murder? Well, death. What all? Anyway.

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But it's all still one thing, right? Is there

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a right decision? Is there? Right? Because two

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things can be true at once. Everybody has different

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viewing goggles. Everybody has different mindsets.

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Everybody thinks different. That's why, like

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if we think about judges, not every judge, I

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could like, let's say I have like theft, you

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know, not me, somebody else, somebody else stole.

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I've never stole my life. Somebody else stole

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something, right? Every single judge might give

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them something different. Every single judge,

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one judge might be lenient, one judge might not.

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Right? Who's to fucking say? Two things can be

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true at once. We really have to stop letting

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decisions define our whole life and what it's

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supposed to be because I deal with this a lot.

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Majority of the time I'm always like, well, what

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if this is the wrong decision? Like, what's the

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wrong decision? And I tend to go to other sources

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to make my own decisions, which make no sense.

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It makes no sense at all. Right. This is all

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on me. So, yes, two things to be true at once.

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I can be a bitch, but I can also be a sweetheart.

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Good and bad, good, evil, happiness, sadness.

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There's there's two sides to fucking everything,

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but neither or is right. It's your life. You

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decide what's right, what's good for you. And

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ultimately, that's it, because like, like Genuinely

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your whole mental is different from somebody

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else's you could think in your head like no I

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kind of understand this another person's like

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how the fuck do you understand that? Because

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two things can be true at once Because there's

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gonna be people that agree with them and there's

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gonna be people that agree with you Right. So

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you we have to stop letting The thought that

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we will ruin our lives or ruin a decision or

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something by what we say or how we approach it

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or what we decide in this process. You know,

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your life is not gonna fucking end because you

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didn't decide to do this today. I'm sorry, I

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stress myself out so much with this and I'm like,

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well, what if I mess it up? What if I didn't

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make the right decision and everything's just

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gonna go to shit? Why would it go to shit? Why

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would it go to shit? It's a decision. Now, there

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are some bad decisions I can say, but that's

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my perspective. That person who made the decision

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probably thought it was smart. Truly there are

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two sides to everything there are two truth now.

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What the hell else did I write? Oh This one this

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one kind of cooks and it's legible. Thank God.

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We're always trying to make sense in a complicated

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world Yes, we are Zoe. Yes. Thank you for writing

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that and I think this is why we tend to have

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that and I'll be all mindset is simple. What

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the fuck is she talking about? Exactly, this

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was her decision to write this Not mine right

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now. Two things can be true at once, right? But

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more so in a sense, we're always trying to justify

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everything. We're trying to justify relationships.

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We're trying to justify our wrongs, our rights.

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We're trying to literally justify everything.

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And that is so damaging when it comes to healing

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because... Ooh, let me say this. I seen this

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quote on TikTok the other day. And if any of

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you guys are addicts or know any addicts or have

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dealt with substance abuse or anything like that,

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there was this quote and it was like, if it keeps

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you alive, don't stop. You know, if that drug

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is keeping you alive, don't stop it yet. You

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can get sober whenever you want. Right? Right.

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But inherently, society's decision, like, bitch,

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I. Society's decision. Mind you I'm a great reader.

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I don't know what the fuck's happening. We would

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view that like oh stop taking drugs That's bad

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for you, right? But the person in their head

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they're like it's but it's good for me. It's

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keeping me alive It's doing good, right? We all

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view things different. There is no right answer

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So yes, we might say getting sober is the right

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answer, right because inherently We want everybody

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to be healthy and fine and everything But if

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that is not their correct answer at this time

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because that will not help them. That is not

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the right decision for them that is also true

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you know we also have to view this when it comes

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to other people's relationships and stuff and

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how we give our opinions on that because we're

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not in their shoes we don't know how they feel

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you don't know how i feel and what decision i

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want to make we're we might agree sometimes but

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we might not and that is perfectly okay she might

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see something in him i don't see it at all perfectly

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fine two things we draw at once he might treat

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her like a fucking queen behind closed doors

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but he's just so Hard and cold on the fucking

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outside and now that's my opinion. I I go to

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say this just to To say that we hold so Like

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well now we put so much pressure on ourselves.

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I think by doing this by Telling ourselves like

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hey you have to make the right decision, right?

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And let's say like I'm giving you guys so many

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examples, but like you want to go to three different

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colleges Every single one will give you a reason

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on why they are the best and you will think to

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yourself Well, what if I make the wrong decision?

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Is there a wrong decision truly now? There might

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be a better option or a worse option. That's

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that's true because we know that you know, we

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got some Texas We got numbers we got everything

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right, but when it comes to you, what is the

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right decision for you? Right just then I was

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buying it. I was getting a gun the other day

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cool cool dude kept trying to sell me this other

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one He kept trying to sell me to two other ones,

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a Taurus and something else. And I'm like, no,

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I actually, I think I want to go with this. Like

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it's just way better. It slides better, cocks

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better. Like I think I really want this one.

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And he just kept trying to push me the other

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one. And I'm just like, no, I think I want this.

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He's like, well, this is the better decision.

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I think this is the better decision. Two things

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to be true at once because he was a vet. He probably

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knows statistics on the guns, but I'm like, I

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am way more comfortable with this one. And guess

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what? I love that gun. I went to the range. It

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shot perfectly. Everything was fine. But Two

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things can be true at once. Right? Right. Right.

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Are you guys getting what I'm saying now? Is

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it clocking to you? Because maybe it wasn't clocking

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to me when I was writing down all of this. Oh!

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Said and speaking about my most recent episode.

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I think this ties in with why we take the route

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We take in life when it comes to our careers

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dreams and aspirations We feel like we have to

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choose one path majority of the time, right?

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We choose like like we feel like there is a right

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path. I have to do this I have to be right, you

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know, if I do something else, it's not gonna

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be right but you You don't need one plan right

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the things that we are dealing with in life,

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let's say change, love, death, sexuality, healing,

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everything, none of them have concrete clean

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answers. None of them have one singular outcome.

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None of them predict the future and are the best

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option 100%. No. Now, When we talk about certain

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things, yes, there are things that are better.

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But when it comes to life and your decisions

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and the shit you go through, there is no right

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answer majority of the time. Your right answer

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is how you feel, right? We are literally just

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doing our best, trying our best to make it. And

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in my opinion, if you can do that in the best

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way possible for you, then there is no wrong

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decisions. There is no wrong decisions because

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you are being the most authentic You you can

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be essentially and Okay, think about ying and

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ying and yang ying and yang. Yes, right the black

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and white things There will always be two truth

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against birds of a feather flock together two

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peas in a pod There's there's always two we always

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see this heaven and hell we always see this But

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like isn't that because then when you think of

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heaven and hell then they throw in purgatory

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like so much shit comes with it Everything something

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so what's the right decision? Right? You can

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think about the Bible. Everybody has their own

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interpretation of the Bible. So who am I to tell

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you that's wrong? Right? Who am I? So you're

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reading this, right? And you're like, well, I

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shouldn't do this because that decision is wrong.

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But somebody else interpreted it completely different.

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Right? That is what I mean. We as humans take

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things at face value. And we think, okay, well,

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I need to figure out this now we need to get

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it solved we need to get it figured out and everything

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has to be right but i i believe you should always

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be open you should always give yourself accessibility

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and take a route where you give yourself options

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you give yourself freedom and allow yourself

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to make the wrong decisions right to make any

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decision you want because who knows where it's

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going to lead you who knows it might have been

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wrong in the moment, right? We might think, oh,

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this might have been a bad decision at first,

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right? And then five years comes and then you

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look back on the decision, you're like, damn,

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it really helped me get to where I was today,

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you know? That's also why I have no regrets because

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I wouldn't be where I am without my past, right?

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You need to stop placing so many limitations

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on yourself. We don't have to be all one and

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all the same, no. We don't have to be organized

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and have the right job the right job. No, you

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don't But it's also okay to ask for help It's

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important to allow yourself to know that you're

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not a failure Because you didn't do something

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right because you didn't do something quick enough

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or take or it took you longer You're not a failure

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because of that You What do I mean I think overall

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What I'm trying to say is there is never one

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answer. There's never a right answer. Or, you

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know, the best thing you could have done. I think

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being messy and having these two truths means

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you are human. It means you are just living and

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learning and succeeding. And I think the biggest

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thing in life is learning and allowing yourself

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to grow and make mistakes and have these things

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happen. But also stop being so damn hard on yourself

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throughout the whole process. Stop. We make things

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so difficult, so, so difficult on ourselves.

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Like, I think we would be much happier as a society

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if we didn't put so much pressure on ourselves

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to do the right thing, right? We have to eventually

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learn, learn it all, right? We will learn. It

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comes with age. It comes with growth, right?

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We will. We will. We will. We will. And if you

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need to cut somebody out in traffic, I would

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say it's not always a smart decision, because

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everybody's crazy. Everybody does things. But

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who am I to tell you that? Who am I to tell you

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that? Who am I to tell you that? See? First example.

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First example. Now, inherently, this goes to

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say, like, don't take this into the world and

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be like, oh, my gosh, I can just do illegal things

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because Zoe said two things can be true and this

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illegal thing can help me in 10 years. That is

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not what the fuck I said. That is not. What the

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fuck I said? Because I said there are some things

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that are inherently right and wrong, right? We

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know some shit is wrong. Wrong is fuck, okay?

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But I do think there are limitations, essential

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limitations around everything, right? There's

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always a new perspective. There's always... Something

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better out there. There's always something worse

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out there There's always something better. You

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could be doing something worse. You could be

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doing There's so much in life and we put so much

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pressure on ourselves to be perfect Because we're

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not we're not we're not we're not we're not So

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allow yourself allow your brain to relax to relax

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Focus on what's making you happy in that moment,

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right and now I love you all, and I think you

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guys are all very critical thinkers, right? I

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hope so. Use your critical thinking though. There

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are some things where we're like, okay, hey,

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this might not be the best thing for me right

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now. Think of it like that. Word it like that

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to yourself. Because hey, this might not, if

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you hear my dog scratching himself in the background,

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cool, cool, cool, cool. This was what my life's

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doing today. And you know what? What, Zeus? Do

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you want to join the podcast or something? Do

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you wanna hop on the mic? Anyways, like everybody's

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just gonna have a different opinion. Everybody's

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moves different. Nobody's life looks the exact

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same. Nobody's life is picture perfect. Nobody

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is perfect. And I think we need to stop being

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so hard on ourselves. Two things can be true

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at once. Two things can be true at once. So.

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Yeah, that was today's episode and I'll have

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another one out for you in like three days. Three

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days? I know, it's one I'm filming with Jordan.

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It's gonna be like, either a weekly, I don't

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know how often we're gonna be doing it segment,

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where we kind of have like a girl talk together

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why she's giving me a facial. A type of facial.

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I'm gonna have like a new one all the time. But,

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yes. And I think what we're talking about is

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being a fool in love on Tuesday because Jordan

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is a fool in love. She is she is she is she is

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and I think you guys will really relate to her

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a lot She is a very strong and powerful woman

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and I think you guys will love her Just as much

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as you love me. What can I say? What can I say?

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And yeah, if you enjoyed this chaotic mess of

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a fucking episode, I I don't know what it was

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I don't and I couldn't tell you but I feel like

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it would be a disservice to not post it and Show

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y 'all that there are some issues Behind the

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fucking scene clearly there's sometimes there's

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a lot going on and Zeus is still chasing this

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bug. I Don't even see the book. I don't see shit.

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I think it might be a net. I don't even know

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how That happened, but anyway That's that that's

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what the hell is going on right now Okay, also

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Zeus got out yesterday. I lost my shape my heart

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dropped to my ass I was outside and I think two

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milliseconds screaming hello no fucker was in

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the bushes hissing at me when i picked him up

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i'm sorry you're startled i'm startled this isn't

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even about you i thought i lost my child i thought

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i lost my child oh my gosh and like also like

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i am just been vibing i've really been trying

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to lock in For and I really have been locking

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in I have been putting in so much work behind

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the scenes for y 'all thinking about so much

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new shit And I also want to do another episode

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soon where I do like where you guys leave your

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stories or like you guys vent rant Do whatever

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you want to do. So make sure you're following

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the did I overshare Instagram? I'm not gonna

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keep repeating this because I'm going to post

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a Google forms and you guys all better sign up

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and talk Okay, okay, because I can't be the only

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one did over sharing here. I can't I can't, and

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if y 'all make me be the only one who's over

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sharing, pow -pows for everybody. Everybody,

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okay? So, you know, this was something new. Clearly,

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clearly, maybe not new. I think I'm always a

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little chaotic, but usually I edit it all out.

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But yeah, I love you guys so much, and I hope

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you enjoyed the episode. If this is your first

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one, please, please go back. Go back in the archive

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and and find some other ones because This is

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not a good impression. Okay, but I love you guys

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to stay blessed stay rich Stay bad bitch. Bye