WEBVTT 00:00:01.600 --> 00:00:10.380 Guys is this thing on? What is up besties it 00:00:10.380 --> 00:00:13.359 is your host Zoe and I'm back with another freaking 00:00:13.359 --> 00:00:16.820 episode I'm a did it over share podcast and I 00:00:16.820 --> 00:00:19.399 hope you guys are doing great, you know, and 00:00:19.399 --> 00:00:22.320 I hope you're having Well an amazing beginning 00:00:22.320 --> 00:00:24.859 of December. You guys know what happened for 00:00:24.859 --> 00:00:28.660 me. I turned 21 last week That is why you got 00:00:28.660 --> 00:00:33.579 no episode I honestly I think I was gone out 00:00:33.579 --> 00:00:36.840 of this universe at the end when everything was 00:00:36.840 --> 00:00:39.899 supposed to be getting uploaded and time slipped 00:00:39.899 --> 00:00:43.840 away time slipped away but I hope your Thanksgiving 00:00:43.840 --> 00:00:47.020 was good if you celebrate and your holidays over 00:00:47.020 --> 00:00:49.119 brawl you got some black friday deals something 00:00:49.119 --> 00:00:52.350 and you know my birthday If you didn't tell me, 00:00:52.469 --> 00:00:55.649 I'm still taking number 20. Anyway, today's episode 00:00:55.649 --> 00:00:59.009 is more of a fun one. I sent out a form. Well, 00:00:59.130 --> 00:01:01.649 I put it on Instagram. That is really the only 00:01:01.649 --> 00:01:03.509 place it went. And I was just telling y 'all, 00:01:03.590 --> 00:01:05.510 let y 'all over share. It's gonna be like a little 00:01:05.510 --> 00:01:08.609 series, a little mini series, where y 'all over 00:01:08.609 --> 00:01:10.390 share for a bit, and you know, talk about anything. 00:01:10.469 --> 00:01:13.230 I literally have this labeled as, you know, rants, 00:01:13.670 --> 00:01:17.450 gossip, advice, whatever you want to talk about. 00:01:17.609 --> 00:01:23.030 okay so i got a couple i got quite a few but 00:01:23.030 --> 00:01:25.269 i'm gonna read i picked out a look a quick little 00:01:25.269 --> 00:01:28.370 handful that we can read today and before we 00:01:28.370 --> 00:01:31.969 get into this episode if you do enjoy my podcast 00:01:31.969 --> 00:01:34.569 please leave a five star rating it helps me so 00:01:34.569 --> 00:01:39.329 much and a review and follow did i share on instagram 00:01:39.329 --> 00:01:43.109 and tiktok and then my personal z o e x e everything 00:01:43.109 --> 00:01:50.490 is linked in the show notes down below okay So 00:01:50.490 --> 00:01:54.409 the first one I am going to read these are all 00:01:54.409 --> 00:01:56.829 anonymous by the way So if you want to submit 00:01:56.829 --> 00:01:59.349 chores and you're kind of like worried, you know 00:01:59.349 --> 00:02:01.090 about people know who you are. It's all anonymous 00:02:01.090 --> 00:02:04.590 Okay, so this first one she says I'm assuming 00:02:04.590 --> 00:02:10.400 yeah One type of convos I really love having 00:02:10.400 --> 00:02:12.860 is the deep ones. When you finally feel comfortable 00:02:12.860 --> 00:02:15.919 sharing that stuff, ugh, I love it. It's just 00:02:15.919 --> 00:02:17.900 so freeing to finally be close enough to open 00:02:17.900 --> 00:02:20.740 up about that hard stuff, you know? Anyway, it's 00:02:20.740 --> 00:02:23.280 Chainschool and started two weeks ago. A girl 00:02:23.280 --> 00:02:25.500 there and me have already become really close 00:02:25.500 --> 00:02:27.680 and are slowly starting to open up about that 00:02:27.680 --> 00:02:30.340 raw stuff, which I love for us, okay period. 00:02:30.960 --> 00:02:33.050 There's just something about... that when people 00:02:33.050 --> 00:02:34.909 trust me enough to tell me what they're dealing 00:02:34.909 --> 00:02:37.530 with, that makes me feel proud for us. Does that 00:02:37.530 --> 00:02:43.490 even make sense, LMAO? Yes, it does. And I'm 00:02:43.490 --> 00:02:45.430 so happy for you that you made a new friend. 00:02:45.509 --> 00:02:49.270 I love that for you. But also the deep conversations. 00:02:50.189 --> 00:02:52.610 I'm getting there. I feel like there's some stuff. 00:02:54.969 --> 00:02:57.729 I've like, I made it my personality my whole 00:02:57.729 --> 00:03:00.900 life. Like, it really defined my character. Everything 00:03:00.900 --> 00:03:03.659 that happened to me was my character. So I think 00:03:03.659 --> 00:03:05.979 healing myself out of that is gonna take me a 00:03:05.979 --> 00:03:09.080 minute to get into the way deeper stuff. But 00:03:09.080 --> 00:03:11.379 no, I'm definitely down. I love a good deep conversation, 00:03:11.400 --> 00:03:14.120 a good raw one. I love talking to you guys more, 00:03:14.560 --> 00:03:16.620 so if we can have little conversations like that, 00:03:16.879 --> 00:03:18.620 love it. But yeah, no, I'm definitely down for 00:03:18.620 --> 00:03:20.379 the deep episodes. Just give me some recommendations, 00:03:20.639 --> 00:03:23.360 and I got you. Like, what kind of topics do we 00:03:23.360 --> 00:03:27.099 want me to go into, right? Yeah, thank you, and 00:03:27.099 --> 00:03:29.759 I love girl talk as well. I love I need to have 00:03:29.759 --> 00:03:32.979 another one. Yes, I do Alright, so this next 00:03:32.979 --> 00:03:36.520 one says okay, so basically I had this one boyfriend 00:03:36.520 --> 00:03:38.840 like a year and a half ago And it was a little 00:03:38.840 --> 00:03:43.539 fling less than six months Sorry y 'all my cat 00:03:43.539 --> 00:03:46.599 is literally coming she has not left me alone 00:03:46.599 --> 00:03:49.780 And okay, so she said it was like a little fling 00:03:49.780 --> 00:03:52.000 less than six months He was awful made me cry 00:03:52.000 --> 00:03:54.830 daily, and I found out there was a whole bunch 00:03:54.830 --> 00:03:57.090 of other girls on his phone, so we left his ass. 00:03:57.729 --> 00:04:00.810 And then like another six months ago, he ends 00:04:00.810 --> 00:04:02.930 up going to my school and there is another boy 00:04:02.930 --> 00:04:05.449 who's also at my school now and they become really 00:04:05.449 --> 00:04:07.370 close. And his little friend was the cutest and 00:04:07.370 --> 00:04:09.229 I don't even care that they were friends, which 00:04:09.229 --> 00:04:11.750 maybe is bad, but it was a really recent friendship. 00:04:12.250 --> 00:04:13.969 So it's not like I even wanted to get back at 00:04:13.969 --> 00:04:16.649 my ex. I just wanted this friend. So we ended 00:04:16.649 --> 00:04:19.389 dating and it's been almost nine months and there 00:04:19.389 --> 00:04:22.980 has still been multiple cases of him Trying to 00:04:22.980 --> 00:04:25.240 make us fight or leave me and it just makes me 00:04:25.240 --> 00:04:26.839 laugh because he's the one who fucked up And 00:04:26.839 --> 00:04:29.399 his friend is the best thing my life no weird 00:04:29.399 --> 00:04:32.879 shit, but I had to get that out to another girly 00:04:32.879 --> 00:04:40.000 Girl fuck the friend Go with the friend Because 00:04:40.000 --> 00:04:43.060 I mean he fumbled like it's not you didn't do 00:04:43.060 --> 00:04:47.060 no weird shit, and I'm Assuming the friends cuter 00:04:47.060 --> 00:04:50.399 anyway, so it's really a win -win situation I'm 00:04:50.399 --> 00:04:52.459 happy for you. And I'm happy that you're happy. 00:04:52.519 --> 00:04:55.019 You're in a nine month relationship. And I think 00:04:55.019 --> 00:05:00.259 you sent this one like a month or two ago. So 00:05:00.259 --> 00:05:02.720 what, like almost a year now? Congratulations. 00:05:02.779 --> 00:05:06.480 I'm so happy for you. But it's so fun. But don't 00:05:06.480 --> 00:05:10.199 ever feel bad. And that dude is a loser and he's 00:05:10.199 --> 00:05:12.480 miserable, clearly, because he's still trying 00:05:12.480 --> 00:05:17.519 to bother you. But you and your new man got locked 00:05:17.519 --> 00:05:22.240 in for real. I love that for you. Alright, next. 00:05:23.079 --> 00:05:27.889 This says... One time I became friends with a 00:05:27.889 --> 00:05:30.370 girl in the grade below me and decided I was 00:05:30.370 --> 00:05:32.410 asked if she wanted to have a sleepover. She 00:05:32.410 --> 00:05:34.310 made it to my house and we were just chilling. 00:05:34.829 --> 00:05:38.009 I had a poster wall at the time that had an odd 00:05:38.009 --> 00:05:40.589 missing spot lol. She just asked, where did that 00:05:40.589 --> 00:05:43.350 poster go? I responded with, oh I gave it to 00:05:43.350 --> 00:05:46.389 this kid I'm talking to blank and her jaw dropped. 00:05:46.490 --> 00:05:48.269 After finding out we were both talking to the 00:05:48.269 --> 00:05:52.509 same guy. My heart was broken, but she was crying 00:05:52.509 --> 00:05:54.889 and younger than me. So all I did was comfort 00:05:54.889 --> 00:05:57.269 her We are no longer friends and three years 00:05:57.269 --> 00:06:00.129 later I'm now dating that guy and I kind of hate 00:06:00.129 --> 00:06:01.990 myself for fucking with him again because I don't 00:06:01.990 --> 00:06:07.709 trust him at all from the past experiences TTT, 00:06:08.110 --> 00:06:11.149 I don't even know my take. Hold on. Wait, let 00:06:11.149 --> 00:06:15.230 me let me read digest First of all, she's younger 00:06:15.230 --> 00:06:16.370 than you. You don't have to feel bad because 00:06:16.370 --> 00:06:19.839 she's younger than you No, no shade like I'm 00:06:19.839 --> 00:06:22.519 not the younger one. I'm just saying like don't 00:06:22.519 --> 00:06:28.980 make yourself feel bad um Talking to the same 00:06:28.980 --> 00:06:31.459 guy, and I'm sorry girl, but now you're dating 00:06:31.459 --> 00:06:33.540 him like did he change like I need the updates 00:06:33.540 --> 00:06:36.060 It's like this is the same guy because you still 00:06:36.060 --> 00:06:38.019 said you have trust issues, so that just kind 00:06:38.019 --> 00:06:41.019 of leads me to think like Is there an issue? 00:06:42.120 --> 00:06:43.660 Do we not trust him are y 'all still together? 00:06:44.060 --> 00:06:46.800 I need an update on an update are y 'all still 00:06:46.800 --> 00:06:51.220 together Okay, let me know Is he a piece of shit 00:06:51.220 --> 00:06:53.740 still or did he you know is he a good guy now? 00:06:53.879 --> 00:06:55.860 You shouldn't be feeling bad because you're happy 00:06:55.860 --> 00:06:58.800 That's shitty though that y 'all are both messing 00:06:58.800 --> 00:07:00.899 with him and it like really I kind of need ages 00:07:00.899 --> 00:07:04.920 with this as well like were y 'all kind of Aware 00:07:04.920 --> 00:07:07.019 of what was going on like were you of age or 00:07:07.019 --> 00:07:09.639 was this like fourth grade? Where were we at 00:07:09.639 --> 00:07:14.389 okay? Thanks Next, oh this one's short. It says, 00:07:14.910 --> 00:07:16.709 one time I was fucking with this dude and it 00:07:16.709 --> 00:07:19.750 was so bad I turned gay and now I'm not ever 00:07:19.750 --> 00:07:25.529 trying to look back. I don't clock the fuck out 00:07:25.529 --> 00:07:34.709 of that. Is it worth it? Do you like it? Honestly, 00:07:34.889 --> 00:07:37.170 sorry I was itching the fuck out of my eye. Do 00:07:37.170 --> 00:07:42.910 you like it? I'm happy for you. You know? Be 00:07:42.910 --> 00:07:49.050 who you are She said bitch Let me go get a bitch 00:07:49.050 --> 00:07:51.649 because you fucked up my life so bad honestly 00:07:51.649 --> 00:07:55.610 Can I say I agree there's an all -woman society 00:07:55.610 --> 00:08:01.649 Why would we need? You know what y 'all I'm starting 00:08:01.649 --> 00:08:05.569 to brainstorm, but yes, I'm so happy for you 00:08:05.569 --> 00:08:10.230 I love this new journey for you. I don't know. 00:08:10.230 --> 00:08:13.430 I'm just happy for you I'm I kind of feel bad 00:08:13.430 --> 00:08:17.029 for you in a way Because now I'm trying to think 00:08:17.029 --> 00:08:20.310 about how bad this experience was To really make 00:08:20.310 --> 00:08:22.750 you like make a whole switch not even we didn't 00:08:22.750 --> 00:08:28.889 even go by first we went full so That's okay 00:08:28.889 --> 00:08:32.549 That's okay. We're team scissor over here, so 00:08:32.549 --> 00:08:38.669 Look up girl Next one y 'all my cat What is up? 00:08:39.009 --> 00:08:44.870 Hello ma 'am Okay, anyway next I'm 22 years old 00:08:44.870 --> 00:08:47.990 and I can't drive and don't have a job nor Do 00:08:47.990 --> 00:08:50.789 I have any job experience? but I'm trying and 00:08:50.789 --> 00:08:53.389 my family thinks that I'm not and they because 00:08:53.389 --> 00:08:55.570 they don't want to help and when I bring up no 00:08:55.570 --> 00:08:57.990 one wants to help me I get told to shut up because 00:08:57.990 --> 00:09:01.129 they are trying to help and That I'm not trying 00:09:01.129 --> 00:09:03.230 to get my stuff together when in reality is the 00:09:03.230 --> 00:09:11.159 other way around Your family's hatin'. They act 00:09:11.159 --> 00:09:13.919 like they've never been young before or experienced 00:09:13.919 --> 00:09:17.860 life. You're 22. It's all the time right now 00:09:17.860 --> 00:09:20.240 to be getting yourself together. You should never 00:09:20.240 --> 00:09:23.419 feel ashamed because you are in your head behind. 00:09:23.480 --> 00:09:27.320 You're never behind in any type of way and it's 00:09:27.320 --> 00:09:32.139 very disheartening to hear that they're not helping 00:09:32.139 --> 00:09:35.240 you but in turn kind of thinking they are and 00:09:35.240 --> 00:09:38.299 you're just lazy. Which I can imagine how draining 00:09:38.299 --> 00:09:39.899 that is, especially if you have to be around 00:09:39.899 --> 00:09:43.019 them, so I really am sorry for that. But I think 00:09:43.019 --> 00:09:46.919 I just want to let you know that 22 is the perfect 00:09:46.919 --> 00:09:49.779 age to be doing that. Your 20s are for living 00:09:49.779 --> 00:09:54.000 and experiencing and figuring stuff out and messing 00:09:54.000 --> 00:09:57.980 up and doing good and celebrating and people 00:09:57.980 --> 00:10:00.580 who love you will support that and they will 00:10:00.580 --> 00:10:03.700 understand you. So that's my advice for you, 00:10:03.799 --> 00:10:08.389 okay? Love you, for real. text me finisuber okay 00:10:08.389 --> 00:10:14.970 um excellent i had seen this one when it came 00:10:14.970 --> 00:10:18.710 in y 'all lol i feel like you know who this is 00:10:18.710 --> 00:10:22.340 but oh well I'm married and I'm currently cheating 00:10:22.340 --> 00:10:25.480 on my husband with a romantic YN. He has four 00:10:25.480 --> 00:10:28.279 kids and he's a felon, but I see the potential 00:10:28.279 --> 00:10:31.100 in him and he's obsessed with me. I think I'm 00:10:31.100 --> 00:10:33.840 his first bad bitch lol. I want to follow my 00:10:33.840 --> 00:10:36.379 heart and get a divorce. Just ease my mind because 00:10:36.379 --> 00:10:38.620 I'm tired of cheating on my husband. Every time 00:10:38.620 --> 00:10:41.720 I try to leave him he gets petty or spends so 00:10:41.720 --> 00:10:44.100 much money to keep me here. I'm so lost. Help 00:10:44.100 --> 00:10:51.049 me. I do know who the - i thought you left that 00:10:51.049 --> 00:10:53.450 nigga no because i'm over here telling me she 00:10:53.450 --> 00:10:58.429 like i think she left that nigga like can't be 00:10:58.429 --> 00:11:00.889 because i was missing i was i was missing you 00:11:00.889 --> 00:11:05.009 we was reminiscing and i'm like is this why did 00:11:05.009 --> 00:11:08.090 she dip and then i see this i'm like god damn 00:11:08.090 --> 00:11:12.269 it but also let me take it back because i'm sorry 00:11:12.269 --> 00:11:16.750 and like no shape but please help me so god in 00:11:16.750 --> 00:11:21.240 my eyes you are such a headstrong woman, very 00:11:21.240 --> 00:11:23.399 independent. Like, you're very much go -getter, 00:11:23.519 --> 00:11:29.379 right? When I first read this, I said a felon 00:11:29.379 --> 00:11:34.700 would work. Like, no judgment, but like, it just 00:11:34.700 --> 00:11:39.340 seems so, like, this is a whole 180. And I love 00:11:39.340 --> 00:11:43.340 it. Like, I'm here for it, honestly. Leave you 00:11:43.340 --> 00:11:46.360 should have been left I think you need to choose 00:11:46.360 --> 00:11:50.179 you and be happy and do what you want to do for 00:11:50.179 --> 00:11:55.679 once but also like this is a deep question I 00:11:55.679 --> 00:11:59.799 Understand like maybe spending some money When 00:11:59.799 --> 00:12:01.539 you like when you're trying to leave and he'll 00:12:01.539 --> 00:12:03.620 spend some money on you But like can't the other 00:12:03.620 --> 00:12:05.740 one just spend the money on you like just did 00:12:05.740 --> 00:12:10.259 Just dip or like Do we have mutual agreements? 00:12:10.740 --> 00:12:12.799 Like, I feel like he can send you certain money 00:12:12.799 --> 00:12:16.399 every, like, a certain amount of money every, 00:12:16.399 --> 00:12:19.200 like, once a month, like, I don't know. I don't 00:12:19.200 --> 00:12:22.980 know, y 'all. But, I do, I am happy for you. 00:12:23.000 --> 00:12:28.539 I think it is time for you to explore and figure 00:12:28.539 --> 00:12:31.899 things out and have fun. A romantic Y and with 00:12:31.899 --> 00:12:33.460 four kids really just got me though, I wanna 00:12:33.460 --> 00:12:35.220 be honest. I looked at that for a minute and 00:12:35.220 --> 00:12:38.000 I said, oh, that's different. That's different 00:12:38.000 --> 00:12:42.539 for you. But I'm here for it. I think this is 00:12:42.539 --> 00:12:45.360 your time, your era, and I think you should have 00:12:45.360 --> 00:12:48.000 been left that man. You should have been left 00:12:48.000 --> 00:12:55.480 that man. Too good of a woman. Well, I think 00:12:55.480 --> 00:12:57.779 you're too good of a woman. I don't know what 00:12:57.779 --> 00:13:02.340 you got going on, but I'm happy that you're having 00:13:02.340 --> 00:13:07.740 fun. Truly truly. I'm so happy for you. Okay 00:13:07.740 --> 00:13:11.220 next Girl, I miss my ex and I think he got a 00:13:11.220 --> 00:13:14.120 new number on me I tried getting into a new relationship 00:13:14.120 --> 00:13:16.919 sex was good, but he just wasn't my ex and here 00:13:16.919 --> 00:13:22.399 I am again still missing him I'm sorry. I am 00:13:22.399 --> 00:13:24.960 NOT team X over here. I will never defend this 00:13:24.960 --> 00:13:28.500 bullshit because Why is he an X? Okay now? Okay. 00:13:28.539 --> 00:13:30.299 Wait, wait If you give me a reason he's an X 00:13:30.299 --> 00:13:31.820 because y 'all just had some falling out or some 00:13:31.820 --> 00:13:34.039 shit, okay I'll be there. But if he cheated or 00:13:34.039 --> 00:13:35.480 something, I'm not about to sit in your face 00:13:35.480 --> 00:13:37.519 and tell you you should miss that man. Never 00:13:37.519 --> 00:13:41.279 a day in your fuck ass life, okay? Never. But, 00:13:41.519 --> 00:13:43.740 if it was just a little disagreement or like 00:13:43.740 --> 00:13:47.500 a little bad timing, fuck that man. I'm saying. 00:13:47.759 --> 00:13:53.519 Okay, um. But, he got a new number on you and 00:13:53.519 --> 00:13:58.179 he didn't reach out yet? I think fade should 00:13:58.179 --> 00:14:00.720 be caught the next time you link up. If you link 00:14:00.720 --> 00:14:02.590 up... I hope you link up because clearly you 00:14:02.590 --> 00:14:05.629 still want it back and like if it's a good decision 00:14:05.629 --> 00:14:09.669 Well, it's not like a damning one make it you 00:14:09.669 --> 00:14:12.490 know, but if it's toxic don't do that shit Don't 00:14:12.490 --> 00:14:14.330 do that shit and you're still missing them that 00:14:14.330 --> 00:14:16.909 like what was so good because if the sex was 00:14:16.909 --> 00:14:20.049 good in this new relationship What is your ex 00:14:20.049 --> 00:14:24.990 got? Because he's your ex So what redeeming qualities 00:14:24.990 --> 00:14:29.620 did he have? Girl, I got a lot of questions. 00:14:29.659 --> 00:14:34.299 I need updates. Okay, I really do I Really need 00:14:34.299 --> 00:14:40.659 updates. Okay um next So I'm dating but not dating 00:14:40.659 --> 00:14:43.200 this guy long distance. We've known each other 00:14:43.200 --> 00:14:49.580 for a while We've known each other for a while 00:14:49.580 --> 00:14:55.559 off and on for a few years develop family Younger 00:14:55.559 --> 00:14:57.980 and in high school then got hit with the I want 00:14:57.980 --> 00:15:02.759 my ex comment and I got upset and blocked Ended 00:15:02.759 --> 00:15:05.360 up on blocking him years later and then got a 00:15:05.360 --> 00:15:09.460 sorry back for a long time after texting What 00:15:09.460 --> 00:15:15.480 did I just do? Y 'all technology is not my friend 00:15:15.480 --> 00:15:17.480 today, but it's not the retrograde because I 00:15:17.480 --> 00:15:21.299 ended So I got blocked and that's rude as fuck. 00:15:21.759 --> 00:15:24.320 And then I text wanting to talk about why I blocked. 00:15:24.840 --> 00:15:27.320 We got together and then I basically asked for 00:15:27.320 --> 00:15:29.320 a breakup or space because I'm not mentally where 00:15:29.320 --> 00:15:31.759 I need to be in life. So how can I pour into 00:15:31.759 --> 00:15:36.399 a relationship where I need him to be in life? 00:15:37.080 --> 00:15:39.519 but the communication on his end sucks like if 00:15:39.519 --> 00:15:42.259 you love someone then you make time clock it 00:15:42.259 --> 00:15:44.539 we're both in college now with busy majors but 00:15:44.539 --> 00:15:46.259 I feel like if you have the time to go to a friends 00:15:46.259 --> 00:15:48.500 event then you have time to respond to a text 00:15:48.500 --> 00:15:52.179 and or communicate clock it he's in Jersey and 00:15:52.179 --> 00:15:57.639 I'm in Texas by the way I'm a 21 I'm a 21 black 00:15:57.639 --> 00:16:00.879 female I think that much say it just says I'm 00:16:00.879 --> 00:16:08.759 I'm a 21 black and he's 21 Female 21 black and 00:16:08.759 --> 00:16:13.440 he's male 21 Arabic. I was looking at that If 00:16:13.440 --> 00:16:16.220 that's important at all It is important, you 00:16:16.220 --> 00:16:19.580 know why and you know, this might be generalization 00:16:19.580 --> 00:16:21.759 and you can tell me if that's fucked up and or 00:16:21.759 --> 00:16:25.620 wrong Okay, let me know with all like humility. 00:16:25.620 --> 00:16:28.059 I'm so serious. I'm so serious right now if this 00:16:28.059 --> 00:16:38.509 is wrong DM me, please But as I've heard it Arabic 00:16:38.509 --> 00:16:41.490 they're they're kind of like this you know they're 00:16:41.490 --> 00:16:44.789 very emotionally unavailable but very tricky 00:16:44.789 --> 00:16:47.590 you know they buy you a lot of shit but then 00:16:47.590 --> 00:16:51.009 detached I've heard they're very toxic if look 00:16:51.009 --> 00:16:53.929 y 'all look y 'all I heard they're extremely 00:16:53.929 --> 00:16:58.429 toxic but fun to be around if you want a good 00:16:58.429 --> 00:17:02.190 time like that's all I heard so I wouldn't say 00:17:02.190 --> 00:17:04.490 go look for commitment from this man especially 00:17:04.490 --> 00:17:06.609 we already have the pre -signs now it'd be different 00:17:06.609 --> 00:17:08.470 if I was just judging him based off this right 00:17:08.470 --> 00:17:13.849 but girl he's already been wishy -washy block 00:17:13.849 --> 00:17:17.970 that man you can find another you can find another 00:17:17.970 --> 00:17:21.710 you can you're still you're young too shit we're 00:17:21.710 --> 00:17:25.299 all young find another one Okay? You'll find 00:17:25.299 --> 00:17:29.539 one who looks better, smells better, is nicer, 00:17:29.880 --> 00:17:32.960 and fucking knows how to communicate. Okay? And 00:17:32.960 --> 00:17:35.740 he's in college. Granted, where I'm in college, 00:17:35.920 --> 00:17:39.740 you know, you're probably in college, like... 00:17:39.740 --> 00:17:43.759 I just don't trust men. I just... Why is he not 00:17:43.759 --> 00:17:45.859 communicating? Why can't he text you back, you 00:17:45.859 --> 00:17:48.859 know? Because that is... Correct you make time 00:17:48.859 --> 00:17:50.539 for people you love who you actually want to 00:17:50.539 --> 00:17:52.220 be around you make time for what the fuck you 00:17:52.220 --> 00:17:54.660 want to do Okay, so if he's not making time for 00:17:54.660 --> 00:17:57.859 you No shade, but he don't want to talk to you. 00:17:57.859 --> 00:18:00.599 So block that man Block that man and find another 00:18:00.599 --> 00:18:03.220 okay or focus on you do you need to do and do 00:18:03.220 --> 00:18:07.099 it makes you happy? Okay, as I'm meeting up with 00:18:07.099 --> 00:18:10.000 a guy. I've been texting this Friday. We're meeting 00:18:10.000 --> 00:18:12.349 in a club. So don't worry Good, because I was 00:18:12.349 --> 00:18:15.670 worrying. It's a public place. Shaking in my 00:18:15.670 --> 00:18:17.890 boots, but also low -key exciting, question mark, 00:18:17.930 --> 00:18:20.450 question mark, question mark. Extremely exciting. 00:18:21.309 --> 00:18:24.390 Well, it's crazy that you sent me this no -dem 00:18:24.390 --> 00:18:27.690 update. How was the date, sister girl? You got 00:18:27.690 --> 00:18:30.670 to text me. Actually, you're going to comment 00:18:30.670 --> 00:18:32.829 on the next forum, and you're going to let everybody 00:18:32.829 --> 00:18:35.930 know how this date was. Are we still talking 00:18:35.930 --> 00:18:39.170 to him? What did you guys do? Was it fun? Were 00:18:39.170 --> 00:18:43.839 you nervous? Was it exciting? um yeah and like 00:18:43.839 --> 00:18:46.579 at a club like did you dance did you get drunk 00:18:46.579 --> 00:18:48.980 would you drink i mean i just need i need all 00:18:48.980 --> 00:18:51.819 the deets all the information so if you could 00:18:51.819 --> 00:18:55.339 go ahead and text me that that would be wonderful 00:18:55.339 --> 00:18:57.799 and i'm just so excited for you the dating scene 00:18:57.799 --> 00:19:02.319 so fun you're living life and i don't know i 00:19:02.319 --> 00:19:04.619 feel like it gives you a chance to learn about 00:19:04.619 --> 00:19:06.539 so many people even if you don't see anything 00:19:06.539 --> 00:19:10.250 lasting but It is fun, and I am excited for you, 00:19:10.289 --> 00:19:12.349 but you need to keep us updated, okay love bug? 00:19:12.809 --> 00:19:18.509 Thanks. But, alright guys, I love you so much 00:19:18.509 --> 00:19:20.809 and I hope you enjoyed today's episode where 00:19:20.809 --> 00:19:24.190 you heard a little bit about your brethren and 00:19:24.190 --> 00:19:27.950 your sisters. Yes, we learned about each other 00:19:27.950 --> 00:19:32.490 and it was funny and it was fun and all my girls 00:19:32.490 --> 00:19:36.750 and gays and baddies and men, I have men listeners 00:19:36.750 --> 00:19:41.109 too. Y 'all are all shit and I hope you choose 00:19:41.109 --> 00:19:42.910 you and whatever you're going through in life 00:19:42.910 --> 00:19:48.549 right now May it only get better No worse as 00:19:48.549 --> 00:19:51.089 above so below. Okay, all right I love you guys 00:19:51.089 --> 00:19:53.009 so much exactly what I said at the beginning 00:19:53.009 --> 00:19:55.529 look in the show notes and if you liked listening 00:19:55.529 --> 00:19:58.990 to me leave a five -star rating in a review and 00:19:58.990 --> 00:20:01.250 You can DM me post if you're listening to me. 00:20:01.250 --> 00:20:02.970 I will love when you guys talk to me on Instagram. 00:20:02.970 --> 00:20:07.119 I have been DMing you back so many of you guys 00:20:07.119 --> 00:20:10.900 and yeah I love you so much and I hope you enjoyed 00:20:10.900 --> 00:20:12.220 bye