Guys is this thing on? What is up besties it
is your host Zoe and I am back with another freaking
episode on the did I over share podcast today
How are you guys? Are you doing good? Are we
vibing? I'm not vibing Yeah, you know it's cuz
today's episode had a plant topic and it was
a pretty not I would say deep but you know like
our normal conversations that we have but I've
been feeling pretty sucky I'm gonna be honest
so I am making this an episode about what I've
been loving kind of like our did I over share
chats like me just over sharing and talking and
yapping about nothing But this isn't it. Did
I put these eye patches on wrong? Okay, if you're
watching this video right now and my eye patches
are on wrong Don't tell me I don't even need
to know they're doing the job. Let them be okay
But yeah, so today's just an episode about what
I've been loving I planned I did want to make
like a series of like about this kind of talks
on TikTok, but I haven't got there yet So we're
here first and you guys get it first About what's
on my mind and what I've been loving, if you
care to hear, I hope you do. Like I said, I've
been loving it. And I've been trying to tend
to myself more in what I want to be doing, my
body, my health. A lot of things like that, and
I've been trying to find new ways to do it, but
I'm also finding joy in the little things every
single day. I'm making sure that I take time
to Look at new things analyze new things or try
to learn something new to keep myself interested
So that's what I've been doing. Not really. I've
been kind of doing the lollygagging part of it
You know the cutesy fun stuff of that not really
the hard Learning but yeah, so I made a fucking
list. Okay, and if you're watching the camera
look look at my beautiful notebook Love her the
shop closed down and I will recreate it one day.
Okay, cuz that Was the best place of my life,
but she closed her shop Anyways, I made a list.
I have seven things on this list Don't know if
all are gonna be worth your time, but I I promise
you I'll make it worth your time if you are doubting
Okay So my first one Olivia Dean and in first
I would just like to say Usually when like there's
a new mainstream artist and everybody's listening
to it I don't listen because I feel like it's
going to make me now like the music anymore in
The sense that this is all I've been hearing
right I'm gonna get tired of hearing it and I'm
just not gonna want to listen to the artists
No matter how good they are and a whole bunch.
So usually I don't listen, right? But this woman
right here immediate listen immediate and I'm
like Kinda catchy, like is this just radio music
or is this fire? And I'm listening, her music
is so fucking good, y 'all. The lyrics and then
like the vibe, it gives like old black jazz,
like kinda, but like kinda poppy, like I don't
know. I give it a 10 out of 10, I love it. I've
been listening to her so much. Her music is so
freaking calming, like I love listening to it
while I'm driving. Truly, but my current favorite
song by her apparently it's a really old one.
It's called white trainers. Oh Y 'all please
go lyrically Digest that song. Okay, and then
let alone the one you love Okay, that one that
one's a little bit more popular right for a reason
it eats so bad I love her music like I cannot
get enough of that woman. Okay Like the vibe
everything is there Truly, and then and then
she sounds good like just performing as well
like true raw talent like I Love it. I love it.
I love it. I love it And it's I feel like it's
all switch up of the vibe as we've been getting
recently from Music and I'm here for it. I love
it. Love her down, and I really think you guys
should listen okay next denim outfits I don't
know what it is But like a good denim top and
like a denim pant that is matching has been doing
it for me. I want every single one, every single
one that I see all the time. So yeah, like I
said, I've been loving denim outfits, okay? I
feel like they look so clean, classy, but like
baddie. Like I don't know what it is. They are
so cute and like the whole disposable camera
thing or like actual camera. The vibes. Every
time I see one, that just looks so good. I'm
obsessed. You should see my Pinterest board right
now. It is full of denim sets. But the only thing
about denim, I'm going to be honest, denim doesn't
really fit me that good. You have to find a certain
kind of denim that actually fits me the way it's
supposed to, let alone a denim outfit. I can
never just order a set online of denim. Just
because I felt the sizing is always going to
be off like it's never really gonna fit or the
bottoms I fit the top won't like it's something
like that So it's definitely something I feel
like I need to go in person for But denim outfits
have really been doing it for me. Oh, they're
so cute and then like a pop of color somewhere
along the way Yes Next Ralph Lauren Christmas
my whole house, right last year. I was already
really setting up a vibe last year I was already
I was buying more Christmas stuff and I was just
going for a vibe that I thought was cute whole
time the vibe I thought was cute was Ralph Lauren
Christmas Maybe I was hip before it was a thing,
you know, maybe before it was why we were maybe
Maybe that was me, but I am obsessed with it.
I love the color scheme of it all I like how
clean but also homey it looks. My biggest thing
is I like things that look cozy, warm, inviting,
but also like personalized and go together. And
I just feel like a Ralph Lauren Christmas ties
that in all together. And I know it sounds corny
coming out the mouth, right? But look it up.
Look it up. It is my favorite theme or like brand
of Christmas there is. Like just imagine that
and then some Home Alone on the TV. Lord that
just sounds like I love it and my lips are dry
as hell, but I lost my favorite lip gloss so
I'm vibing right okay And I don't like I'm gonna
like drive myself insane if I get up and try
to look for it because I've been looking for
it forever so that is what I've been doing okay
and then the next thing I've been loving is spoiling
myself quite literally I have the second I want
something I buy myself it right I deserve it
I'm really at the point where I delayed myself
gratification for so long for absolutely no reason
I put every single thing in my life above gratification
and making myself feel good or doing things for
myself so now when I want something granted I
still am financially responsible about it you
know but when I want something now I get it for
myself right I deserve it and then I can use
it for a video on top of it like what I deserve
it so today I bought myself a new concealer I
got myself the hourglass concealer. I've been
wanting to try it for so long. The only thing
I have for my hourglass is the primer. I have
both of them. I have the normal one and then
the one with sunscreen in it. Oh my gosh, both
are 10 out of 10. Though I can't say the normal
one that's like silicone. That will always be
my tried and true but it is so freaking expensive
for not a lot. Like the size is pretty small
and it's like $50. And I just feel like that's
not a smart. investment for me at the moment
like at the moment like I can find dupes and
I can finish the sunscreen one and you know I'm
getting my sunscreen in but that stuff makes
my makeup look well it is airbrush that's what
the name is but it literally makes my face look
fake like my makeup looks so damn good when I
use that primer oh love it and next I want to
try the danessa myricks and I also have a patrick
ta blush palette in my thing right now but I
heard there's a dupe for that and I usually get
the dupes but I'm trying to get nice things so
I'm really stuck if I should find a dupe from
like I don't know I don't think Juvia's Place
is a dupe but like maybe compared to that price
-wise you can say that but usually I either stick
with Juvia's Place or Elf and I really Really
want to try to up the game like do I get the
petric top do I get that expensive ass makeup?
It's nice, and I feel like it's worth it, and
I'll make me feel good so maybe down the line
I will I just got a new concealer though so for
makeup wise that concealer is $40 Yikes, that's
crazy um So yeah, I'm gonna get something eventually
in a little bit in a little bit cuz it's my birthday
month Oh my gosh guys. Did you know that my fucking
birthday month? I'll be 21 this month 21 big
Sagittarius in the building. Okay, big Sagittarius
in the building I'm excited though my birthday
the past two years has just been falling on a
very Well, I don't know today like this year
is on a Saturday, right? But it's also two days
after Thanksgiving last year was on fucking Black
Friday. Like it's just been very inconvenient
But I'm vibing anyway And I need to buy a dress.
I need to buy some bundles so I can do my hair.
Um, I gotta do a lot. That is a lot of money
and I want my nails done too. And I also want
to buy myself birthday presents. Like, why not?
I deserve it. So... Yeah, I need to be working,
okay? I need to be locking in, okay? Because
I... I never do anything for my birthday, guys.
Never like the most I'll do is the dinner. I
never dress up. I never make myself feel good
or you know do anything so Hopefully if you know
every year I try to make plans right hopefully
this year at six Hopefully this year I do something
for myself and go out and make myself feel good
and do all that I deserve it So I think I'm gonna
try I have been on princess Polly looking at
dresses all Like weak okay, and the one I fell
in love with this is yellow dress. That's also
on this list guys. I've been loving yellow That
soft baby yellow and like outfits Granted I am
NOT tan at all like I have the whitest skin ever
Ever known you wouldn't even know all black like
truthfully. I am so pale and then even in the
summer I don't even tan, but now it's winter
like I'm white as hell, and I was like maybe
I should something maybe Maybe I can learn a
thing or two. Maybe I should self tan. You know,
I need a little bit of color because I feel like
yellow might wash me out if I'm white as hell.
Right? Like, now if I have some glow going on
and look a little tan, I might look a little
better. But I also have a red dress in the cart
just in case things don't go that smoothly. And
I also don't know my dress size online. Like
I said, nothing's accurate, so I'm just kinda
vibing. Oof. Hopefully I buy bright and you know
the vibes are good and the dresses are my size
and everything works out afternoon over turns
Times right and everything else and I'm just
trying not to be basic also with my nails like
usually I always get frenchies or like some Plain
color, but I think I might go basic and just
get some long like red burgundy stilettos Don't
know I usually don't get stiletto either and
I don't get long I hate long nails actually,
but I feel like it's so anti -cunt like I Need
the long nails sometime to just bring Like a
bitch out for bro. Like I just need sometimes
I need that possess and I feel like I'm needing
that possess for my birthday rightfully so again
um Next one I had written down was building my
brand y 'all I have been working behind the scenes
on within soul So much like I wanted to be a
physical store one day But it's just online right
now and I currently only am doing readings on
my Etsy Which is there they are linked below
if you want a reading for me, please? Please
I give great readings. Okay. Um, I Have that
up right now, but I currently am making homemade
incense homemade candles and herbal blends as
you guys know All my baddies know what the herbal
blends. I'm here The hardest part about it all
has been the whole branding part of it, you know?
Like, figuring out how I want my design to look
on a box, you know? Um, how do I make it look
right on a box? And a lot of the tea, like, bags
that they sell are so fucking ugly. I don't want
a paper cardboard bag. to be selling my tea in,
but I also don't want a plain glass jar. Like,
you know, like I just think everything looks
the same and I really want myself to be creative.
And I have like the inspo I want, but I have
no clue on how to find people to do that for
me, truthfully. So that's where I'm kind of stuck
at. It's that whole designing part in figuring
out how I want to navigate that stuff, right?
And then, next. Oh, I already talked about the
color yellow. Lastly, what I have been loving
is how we are now stepping back into creative
writing. I just feel like we didn't write for
a while, a lot like the collective did not write
for a while, and now we got sub -stack trending
again. People are going viral for their sub -stacks,
like that one that just went viral, having a
boyfriend is embarrassing, and stuff like that.
the girlies are writing again. I love writing
and I was also feeling stuck for a while too,
right? But I love seeing other people write because
I can read your work and get inspired and help
my brain grow. And I just feel like Substack
has been such a great release for that, but also
a big, what do I want to say? Like safety net,
maybe? It's been making me feel really good and
not I don't sit there and wallow in boredom.
I'm actually doing something, but also learning
and gaining new perspectives as I do. There's
also a huge different, like vast, diverse community
on Subsec, like people from all around the world
and you can just read it. And I think it is the
coolest thing and I love that it is trending
now. I have been loving Subsec, truthfully. but
yeah that was my quick short episode you guys
will have a longer one in a couple days okay
i'm trying to lock in right right giving myself
hugs and kisses but you know i've been vibing
I hope you guys lied with me through this episode
as well, just talking about the things I've been
loving and that have made me feel good. I hope
you have some things that you have been loving
and that have been making you feel good. Also,
I just decorated some of the house for Christmas.
I sold my tree, so I'm waiting for my new Christmas
tree to come in. But yeah, the house is gonna
fall out a lot in this bitch, so I should be
getting fall out a lot too, right? But yeah,
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