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Guys is this thing on? It is your host Zoe and

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I am back with another freaking episode on the

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did I over share podcast today What the fuck

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is up guys? How are you doing? I? Have been posting

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like crazy, and you have not been watching them.

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What the hell are you doing? Today I just posted

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a shop with me a rebrand dare I say for the podcast

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because I feel like oh just to say I am recording

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this all ones further out shall be recorded okay

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um I know most people like video versions better

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of podcasts so I'm delivering okay and I felt

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like as a bitch who wears the same clothes every

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day or like over and over I need to jazz it up

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a little bit I need to Promote my brand put myself

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out there and I'm not talking about like Oh dressy

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dressy. No, I'm talking about Nice loungewear

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that screams. Okay. Hey, these are her colors

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Very put together very, you know normal cuz I

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would just sit in a graphic tee. Okay, but yeah,

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I posted that today I posted the shopping version

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of that and then I posted a haul as well the

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haul I'm gonna post tomorrow. So it's not up

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yet, but watch it tomorrow cuz the haul will

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be up You guys are currently propped up on some

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disinfectant wipes, a strength finder book that

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I got from school, and then this box I have where

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I keep all my collectibles. So yeah, that's what

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you guys are doing right now. And yeah, I don't

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have any business to get into other than I'm

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so excited to fully leap into this journey with

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my podcast. I'm just so excited. So excited,

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you guys. Yeah, there's really nothing else for

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me to really get into. Oh, yes there is actually.

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I announced it if you didn't see on my Instagram.

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I did announce that I was with child, which maybe

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people probably already knew that because, I

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don't know, people are detectives. But yes, I

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am pregnant. Extremely excited. We were planning

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and I am just so excited. But yeah, that's that's

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that. It's not gonna be a whole like main thing

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like it's not I hope you guys know it will not

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be my personality Though am I might talk about

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it, especially the emotions and you know, everything

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that comes with it the process But yeah, I just

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wanted to let you guys know that and before you

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jump into this episode Listen Anywhere you find

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available if you are new hi, welcome if you're

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not new what the fuck is up? Okay Thank you for

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jumping back on this never -ending roller coaster

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Leave a review and rating if you feel so inclined

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and Yeah, just follow did I over share on every

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single platform you have okay, cuz we're active.

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I'm active I talk to you guys all the time. I

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love when you post that you listen And stuff

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like that. So yeah today's episode is Misery

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loves company and I'm especially now that I'm

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filming I don't write it down anymore So I'm

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really going off top of my head. So bear with

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me these first couple episodes. Okay, cuz I might

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tend to ramble But why I say misery loves company

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is simply because, especially after announcing

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last week, I've seen it way more. But even previously,

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it's just people love spreading their negativity

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on you, right? They love spreading their situations

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or lifestyle choices on you, right? They think

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you're a mirror for them, like, oh, hey, I went

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through this, so you're going to too, right?

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And it's just kinda, I don't know how to describe

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it. It gets so annoying when all you wanna do

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is be happy about something and, you know, just

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be like, hey, oh my gosh, I'm so happy and blessed,

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look at me. And then here comes someone ruining

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it. Here comes someone letting out their opinion

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that you didn't fucking ask for. okay here comes

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someone just shitting on everything for no reason

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like i think one of the texts i got which i don't

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know who am i gonna say like from a family member

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and it's not the first text like i've gotten

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from this family member mine just a family member

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who ruined my whole life okay like not directly

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but but very much indirectly like i don't speak

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to them anymore so it's one of them things where

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it's just like it was just uncalled for right

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and when I posted my pregnancy it was like oh

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I just I can't accept this but I guess I hope

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you just don't drop out of school because of

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it yada yada yada excuse me and you know I I'm

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gonna say like I the same response like I told

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my mom as well I remember when I told my mom

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It was one of them things where it's like I didn't

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want to tell my parents at first because we told

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Michi's family because I like the most supportive

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people in my life, right? I loved them down and

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it's like I knew that would go good and like

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some best friends knew and stuff and that was

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it because I was just like I want to hold on

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to the grace I have just a little bit longer,

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right? And then like, you know, the days go by

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and like insurance, we had to deal with all that.

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So I was like, OK, I have to tell her before

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she gets an email from the doctor saying, here's

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this. Right. So I'm like, OK, hey, you know,

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and every single person on that side of the family

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shitted on it besides my brother. And it was

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one of the things I'm just like, OK, I expected

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it. I knew it. I knew it was going to happen.

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That's why I didn't like, you know, want to say

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anything. But like, hey, I expected it, but it

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still fucking hurts. Right. It was just comments

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like. I mean, I'm not happy about it, but you

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just better not drop out of school. You better

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not do this. Like, I just... Just a whole bunch

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of... Never was congratulations. Oh my gosh,

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I'm happy for you. You'll be a good mom. Like,

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it wasn't anything like that and it was just

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like... To brag on myself a little bit, I'm a

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very well -maintained woman, okay? I have all

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my shit together. Yes, there's so much for me

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to learn and there's so much more I could be

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doing. Not could be doing, could have, right?

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And like we could all be in a better place in

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life, right? But I'm a very put together woman,

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especially, and I have a great partner who I've

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been with for seven fucking years for Jesus sakes,

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okay? Like, even if the situation was different,

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like, and let's say I knew Michi for a day. or

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a month I still feel like it should be one of

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the things before you go to negativity it's much

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like hey congratulations right because what if

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I was going through it right what if I didn't

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want this now I got this on the other hand but

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it wasn't that so it's just like okay I'm going

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to try to hold on to my piece a little bit longer

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and that's what I did but and that's not the

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only situation where I felt like this was this

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situation like made me feel called to say misery

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loves company because Know these people right

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and now this can tie in with people I don't know

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who also may feel this way or have these comments

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But I know these people so I know how their life

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looks and it's one of them things I want to say

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before I get into this I'm not taking advice

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From anybody. I wouldn't want to be if I don't

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want to be you. I'm not taking advice from you.

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I Truly don't care what you have to say if I'm

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not asking for your opinion. Don't give it Unless

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I feel like it's going to be like, okay, here's

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my opinion, it's heartfelt, you know, so much

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more. But if I didn't ask for it and I don't

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want to be like you, babe, please, you are not

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the star of this show. You're not. Because it's

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one of them things, and I hate to put it in this

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perspective, but I have to in order for it to

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be understood. Because the people coming to me

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are people who hate themselves at... 60 who hate

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their lives and what they've done with it at

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40 that's not my issue because I'm 20 and I love

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what the hell I've done and I love how I chose

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to go about my life which is why I left the second

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I could because I knew I needed to love my life

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and choose what I wanted to do and even when

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I made those decisions it was very much like

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you're gonna ruin your life you don't know how

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hard it is I want you to struggle so I'm not

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gonna help you but it's just like I understand

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you know maybe engaging like letting somebody

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know okay hey like a warning maybe right because

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we all have like some friends or people who will

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do this hey before you go into this I want to

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warn you this might happen but you know best

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of luck I just want to warn you right and it's

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not one of those things when people do I want

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to call it jealousy because do we really know

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if it's jealousy right we don't sometimes they

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really most time it really is just their projected

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feelings right and okay my life went like this

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i think yours is going to as well which that's

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not the case but it's just like shut up literally

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just shut up why speak if you have nothing positive

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to say in my opinion and i i don't know i don't

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know why people do this because i've never been

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one i let people find out on their own now it

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is one of them things like if i have my best

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friend or she's doing something or if i have

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michi and I have been through this, and I'm like,

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hey, this is what happens. Me being me, I'm never

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gonna go into anything negatively, right? If

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it's one of those situations where it's like,

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oh my gosh, this is on you, fine, I'm not going

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to tell you, oh, here's the worst that could

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happen. No, I'm gonna tell you the best that

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could happen. I'm gonna tell you I wish the best

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for you. I hope you get every single thing you

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want more, and if you need help, call me. If

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anything goes wrong, call me. You know? That's

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how I move about things. So it always is peculiar

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to me when people move about things the opposite

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way, and it's very much like, hey, shitting on

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you, shitting on this, shitting on that, don't

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call me if you need help. But I mean the best.

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I want you to keep me in your life. Does that

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make sense? Let me know, does that make sense?

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No. Because why would I want to send anybody

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I love into straight fear? Now if it was a situation

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where let's say I've seen this one before and

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it's like she's complaining or he's complaining

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about like a toxic person in their life oh my

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gosh they keep on doing this they keep on doing

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this this is what I'm going to tell you hey this

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is probably not gonna go the right way hate to

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give you negative you know advice but I'm gonna

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let you know nine times out of ten this situation

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is not gonna work out in your favor okay it is

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not gonna make you a better person it is not

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gonna help you be more happy that's that's t

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okay that's what the fuck it is So that's how

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I approach it. And I really want you guys to

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think of how you approach these situations in

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your life. Do you? Because sometimes, let's be

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honest, sometimes we are our own misery and we

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love company and that can tie into we want to

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go lurk on some shit. We know we're going to

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get our feelings hurt. But more so in my talk

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today, think about how you approach situations

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with people. Do you? tend to come in as like

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negative nancy because it's okay if we do right

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and we're very unconscious and unaware of it

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that's okay because there's still time and you

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know time to be aware of yourself and time to

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fix these things right but it's one of the things

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i just feel like bro we're still sexy doing this

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and you still don't have any self -awareness

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about what's going on Time is up time is up and

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I hate to say because I feel like we can always

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learn But it's one of the things is easy to learn

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now if you are willing to learn now I don't care

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what age you are what life what life spots are

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in I don't care if you can learn now and you

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can realize hey Damn, I'm sorry I came across

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this way that is not what I intended to do now

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sometimes I am reflecting my own emotions because

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there has been situations where I've reflected

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my own negative emotions on other people and

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I'm just like hey Yada yada yada yada yada and

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just feeding so much negativity in this simply

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because that's that's what I felt That's what

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I went through That doesn't have to work that

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way for her What if what if she fucking shits

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out fucking stars and glitter and the situation

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goes great? Well, I'm still gonna be sitting

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here salty Still sitting here salty. So it really

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is how you need to change your view maybe on

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things but also yourself Right? Think more of

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yourself. I think most of us, in a lot of situations,

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we go bad before we go good. Now for me, I try

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to go good before I go bad, but also me being

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an over -thinker, I'm always aware of what can

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go wrong, but I don't think that's the case for

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me. Right? One of the things they tell you is

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the worst thing they can tell you is no. Or the

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worst thing that could happen is like rejection,

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or something like that. But... It's one of those

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things we have to remember when moving in our

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life. How are we going to live it? Are we going

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to live it in fear and... What's a word I want

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to say? Just because I was going to use the word

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coward, but I don't know how to put that in like

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an adjective, okay? But are we just going to

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live our lives in fear? Are we going to go about

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every single situation in life by saying... Oh

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my gosh, here's the worst that can happen to

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me. Oh my goodness, this isn't gonna work out.

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Oh my goodness, I could go get hit by a car and

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I could go do this. No, I'm not gonna say that.

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No, you wanna know what? I'm gonna tell myself,

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hey, I'm gonna get up and I'll make the best

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of my fucking day. If something goes wrong, it

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goes wrong. What can go right? Show me what can

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go right. Show me what good can happen. Show

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me how good it can get. Hey, you got a job. Interview

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right you're going to the job interview. Oh my

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gosh. I don't know if I'm gonna get it I don't

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know if I'm gonna get it. I'm so scared yada

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yada yada rather than Beating those thoughts

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into your head because I really will show up

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when you have relationships with other people

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because you might push that onto them Or you

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might feel a lot of insecurity when it comes

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to them in that topic Instead of seeing it like

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that go into the job interview and say hey I

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Can get hired on the spot? They could give me

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more than what I pay for. They could absolutely

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love me. I am perfect for this job. I am fit

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for it. That's why I applied. That's why I showed

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up today. Because I feel like this is meant for

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me. I feel like I would thrive here. This is

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where I want to be. Instead of going into everything

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so negative because it really does affect your

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outlook all over your life and every single possibility.

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So... Yeah, misery just truly loves company people

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who are upset or down in their lives or I Don't

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know have something crazy going on It will always

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show whether it shows within themselves or within

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you and that's not a bad thing Like I said before

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because we all find ourselves in these spots,

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right? We all go through shit crazy shit a lot

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of shit. I'm going through a lot of crazy shit,

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but I can't i'm at the spot in my life where

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i can't project that i'm michi i'm going through

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so much negative family shit where it's traumatizing

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the fuck out of me i can't automatically assume

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that's gonna happen to michi i can't i can't

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say oh your people will never get better this

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will never happen this will never happen because

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why would i say that why i need to always have

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hope that hey this might be my situation but

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i know that on the other side of life that's

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not his He gets to have a better life. He gets

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to have these blessings in a loving and supportive

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group around him Right and that will help you

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that will help your mood so much It has helped

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me look on the bright side of things granted

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I've always been a very optimistic person some

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might say too optimistic, but I don't think that's

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I don't think that's a thing and Compared to

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like me and me check and really see it in our

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personalities because he's a realist. He's a

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very much realist Goodness gracious. He blows

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my Dululu sometimes But me saying so optimistic

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has changed me to see the good in everything.

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Even when there's so much bad going on, I can

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always see the good. I can always see the growth.

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I can always say, hey, but this small thing made

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today a good day. But this was worth it today.

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You know, things mighta, nothing probably went

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to plan, and things probably were shit. But I

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got some ice cream. But I got a raise last week.

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So I'm gonna be making more money. So my checks

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bigger or Hey, I got an extra follow on my tik

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-tok account. So I got a new listener It's little

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things you really just have to take into perspective

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Because sometimes you are the misery that lost

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company Okay, and you don't want to be that and

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you can be it I'm gonna give you you can be it

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for maybe a couple days or a week Whatever your

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situation may be go through it feel that pain

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but be grounded enough and aware enough to reflect

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on it and flip it. Alchemize, babe. Please flip

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that shit into something that will help you because

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the negative thoughts will not get you anywhere.

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You need to flip it and say, hey, this is the

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best that could happen. You know what? Show me

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how good it can get. I wake up every morning

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saying, show me how good it can get. Show me

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how good my life can get. Show me every single

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blessing I can receive today. Every single blessing.

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I tell myself every single day, hey, I have,

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bro, brands are emailing me at this moment just

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waiting to click send, rather than waking up

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thinking, oh my gosh, I still haven't got an

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email yet. I don't think that. No, because I

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know my worth, I know where I'm at, and I'm like,

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hey, this is the best that can happen. And you

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know what, if it doesn't happen that day, oh

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my gosh, it's gonna happen tomorrow. You we have

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so many more days, and I would rather speak so

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much life into myself and those around me Rather

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than just not you know and just be negative about

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it and be Upset and hurt all the time. I can't

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live like this, and I don't think you guys should

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either At all no matter what's going on shit

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might suck like she gets real bad And you know

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one of these days I'll be able to talk about

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some of the stuff that I can talk about But I

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need you to know I know shit can get bad, I know

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shit can be hard, but if you become your own

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light, if you don't have to rely on anybody else

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to be that light for you and to be that spark

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and joy and optimism for you, you will turn into

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that misery love company. You will be that six

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-year -old who is still jealous and hateful.

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Even if you don't think that's you on the outside,

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that's you mentally, verbally. Because that's

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how you come off, because you never took the

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time to heal. You never took the time to find

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your light, and find your joy, and find your

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happiness. And you must. It is so important that

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you find this joy within yourself. Okay? And

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that is today's episode. Misery loves company,

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huh? I hope you guys enjoyed it. Like I said,

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And post it if you are listening. I don't know.

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Bye.