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I found over Christmas, I get nerdy Christmas presents.

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My nerdy Christmas present this year was a scanner.

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You know what I'm talking about?

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A desktop scanner for my house, I know.

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Pretty cool, I love it.

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And I have a bunch of old pictures that I had never scanned

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and so I spent some of my time over Christmas

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scanning pictures and I found this old picture.

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There's like three of them, here's the first one.

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This is Park Street Baptist Church.

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It was the church my dad became the pastor at

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when I was nine years old.

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I think 20 people or so voted on him being the pastor.

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And I know that this is kind of a year or two into it

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because the parking lot, you can barely see it there,

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but the parking lot that's there is an actual

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like concrete parking lot.

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When we got there, it was a crushed shell driveway.

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The whole parking lot was old shells

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and they were like white chalky and they would get all over.

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It was like getting salt on your clothes, but it was that.

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And I would get in a lot of mess because we go outside

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and play, but anyway, we got to a parking lot.

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There's another picture, this is like the other side of it.

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There it is from the other side.

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That building is no longer there.

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They built another building on top of that.

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That's my brother and I, Shadrack, sitting.

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I'm the cute one.

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You laughed really hard.

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Okay, that's Shadrack and me and we're both wearing

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matching basketball ties, which is pretty cool,

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but that's on the stage of that particular thing.

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And then I found this picture, this is just because for fun,

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that's us going out to eat after church.

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The one on the left with the pizza is me.

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The one on the right, the middle there is my brother Shad.

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Doesn't that look like Zeke?

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I think that looks like Zeke.

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But that's my brother Shad.

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And on the right, do you see who that is on the right?

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You guys know who that is?

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That is Corey Kirschner on the right-hand side.

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Not the Indian, the little boy right there.

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That's Corey.

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I think it's, we kind of voted, didn't we?

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I'm pretty sure that's Corey.

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Anyway, who likes going out to eat after church?

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That's always fun, isn't it?

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Yeah.

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I say I like to say that like going to church has been a habit

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for me for a long, long time.

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In our family, if the church doors were open,

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you went to church.

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If there was somebody there on a Thursday vacuuming,

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we sat in our place and watched the vacuum

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because you're supposed to be in church.

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That's a joke, that didn't really happen.

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But going to church is an important thing.

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But when you think about the word church,

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and I've taught you some of this before,

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but it's good to think about.

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In English, we use the word church.

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And when you think about the word church,

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you often think about church as an institution.

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You think about church as a building.

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We use that language.

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Hey, it's time to go to church, right?

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And when we say that, we're saying we're going to a service

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and a service time.

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We're going to a location.

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Anybody here know the address for this place?

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Quick.

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Hey, there's a bunch of you.

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You know the address, 7839 County Road 236,

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Finley, Ohio 45840.

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We know that because we come here, we mail stuff here,

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and we know how to get here, that's part of it.

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But we also know that from a biblical perspective,

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the word church is translated in English.

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It really comes from the word eglacia,

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which means assembly, right?

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Assembly.

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And it means it's a group of people that come together.

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It's a group of people that assemble together.

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And so as you think about Jesus,

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and you think about what he did with the church

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and how he thinks about the church,

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the assembly, you know what assemblies do?

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Assemblies assemble.

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They come together, right?

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They spend time with each other.

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They do things together.

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And this is really a pattern that Jesus showed.

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This is a pattern of behavior that he had.

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And I think we can be followers,

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mimics, mimitates, imitators of Jesus,

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in assembling by taking into account

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his attitude and actions in assembling.

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That's really the big idea for tonight,

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is that we can do that.

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Now, I know that some of this will be reviewed

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for a lot of you, but I hope that you have a heart

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for this particular idea,

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and that you evaluate your own life and why you come

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and what we're doing as a result of this particular lesson.

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And so let's go ahead and go to the Lord in prayer,

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and then we'll get into the text tonight.

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God, we love you so much.

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I thank you for,

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I thank you for your word,

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and I thank you for this idea,

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this mystery that was once not revealed

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and has been revealed of this church,

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the assembly, this thing that you died for,

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this thing that you love.

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And I pray that you'd help us to follow you,

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to imitate you in your love for us

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and our love for each other.

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And I pray that as a result of the lesson tonight,

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that this wouldn't just be whole-hummed,

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that this wouldn't be something that I've heard this before,

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but I pray that it would be a time

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where folks would really evaluate their own heart

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in and around this thing that we call the assembly,

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the church.

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I pray that you'd help us to do that.

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We love you, in Jesus' name, amen.

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Okay, so attitudes and actions of Jesus.

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Usually I like to go to a text and stay in a text,

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but tonight I'm gonna go to a bunch of different texts

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and I hope this helps you.

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Number one, we see this, that Christ's habit was assembling,

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his habit of assembly.

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It should be our custom, it should be our habit too.

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In Luke chapter four, verse number 16, it says this,

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Pastor Corey read it last week in his message,

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but I think it bears repeating.

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It says, talking about Jesus,

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and he came to Nazareth where he had been brought up.

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This is his hometown, these are the people that knew him.

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And as his custom was, say that with me,

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as his custom was, as his custom was,

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he went into the synagogue on the Sabbath day

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and stood up for to read.

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We see here that obviously the synagogue

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and the church are two different things, right?

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But the synagogues, these local bodies of people

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who are following God and trying to worship God

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as they understood it from the Old Testament

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were groups of people that would meet

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and they would praise, they would sing, they would read,

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and someone would stand up and give the sense

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over what was read.

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They didn't have books like we have them today.

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In fact, I was listening to some research here

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in the last couple of days that talked about

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some of the differences between a lot of the Jews.

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And when Christians started writing the original text

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of the New Testament, making copies of manuscripts,

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that they would do it on the front and the back.

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And a lot of times that ended up getting to where

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it was codex like book form.

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They didn't have, back in Jesus' day, they had scrolls.

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And so in a lot of the synagogues,

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they would have some portions and they would bring

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that portion out.

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And in fact, that's what happens in this particular narrative

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where it's brought out and Jesus reads from that scroll.

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That's what they did.

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And that should be our custom too.

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Like when we ought to have a habit,

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I feel like I'm speaking to the choir here tonight,

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but we ought to have a habit of coming to church.

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At church we sing, we read the scripture,

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somebody stands up and says, this is what the scripture says.

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And I think part of what we're trying to do,

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and we're gonna talk about this later,

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but we wanna be different after we've met.

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We wanna change, we wanna make right decisions when we meet.

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In fact, that's what it says in Hebrews chapter 10,

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24 and 25.

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Christ has his habit, it should be our habit.

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He says in verse 24,

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and let us consider one another to revoke unto love

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and to good works,

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not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together

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as the manner of some is,

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but exhorting one another and so much the more

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as you see the day approaching.

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The writer of Hebrews, I've preached on this to you before.

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He says, hey, when you should be together,

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you should be assembling together,

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you should be coming together.

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What do you do when you come together?

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You provoke one another to love and to good works,

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and you don't stop doing that, don't forsake doing that.

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The assembly assembles, you ought to come together,

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you ought to assemble,

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and you ought to encourage that word, exhort,

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encouraging one another so much the more

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as you see the day, meaning the day of the Lord approaching.

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Who thinks Jesus is coming back, Sam?

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I think he's coming back very soon.

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So it's important for us to know each other,

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to love each other, to be with each other,

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and to hear the word of God proclaimed,

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and we ought to respond to it.

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So Christ's habit of assembling should be our custom.

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Christ's pattern when assembling, it should be our pattern.

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Now I've already kind of referenced to it,

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going on from verse 16 in Luke chapter four, it says this,

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and there was delivered unto him the book of the prophet Isaiah,

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and when he had opened the book,

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he found the place where it was written,

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the spirit of the Lord is upon me,

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because he has anointed me to preach the gospel to the poor,

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he has sent me to heal the brokenhearted,

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to preach deliverance to the captives,

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the recovery of sight to the blind,

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to set at liberty them that are bruised,

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to preach the acceptable year of the Lord.

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And he closed the book and he gave it again

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to the minister and sat down,

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and the eyes of all them that were in the synagogue

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were fastened on him, and he began to say unto them,

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this day is the scripture fulfilled in your ears.

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I love this passage of scripture, it goes on,

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they try to kill him, it's kind of a rough thing.

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But who agrees that if Jesus showed up to church,

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he'd be the one preaching?

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Okay, he'd be the one coming up and giving the sense.

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Like at that point, the preaching calendar

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does not matter, Jesus is gonna do that.

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And he showed up and what did he do when he got there?

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Like many of the rabbis that would teach,

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he would, in the Sabbath day, they would get,

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they would open up the word of God,

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and he would give the sense,

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and that's exactly what happened here.

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I just wanna say this out loud, I know you expect this,

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I know that you long for this, so many of you that come,

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I hope you're not just coming for the social aspect,

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you wanna come and hear the word of God.

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It's the word of God, I want to preach to you,

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not my own thoughts only.

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In fact, I want my thoughts to be guided by God's thoughts,

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I want to say, thus saith the Lord.

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This isn't like Ben's ideas, these are God's ideas.

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I want Pastor Cory and Pastor Miles.

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I want every Sunday school teacher that gets up

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to open the Bible and use the Bible.

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And when I say use it, I mean,

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make it plain, explain it, help us understand it,

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and apply it to our lives.

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That's the pattern of what Jesus would do

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when he would assemble.

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Now, something was different about Jesus.

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The many that heard Jesus says,

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he's like one that speaks of his own authority.

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He definitely saw the Old Testament as an authority,

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he would quote the Old Testament passages

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as authoritative as they are the word of God.

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But there were times that he would say,

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you have heard it said, but then he would say,

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I say unto you, you've heard it said,

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but I say unto you, and then he would go on

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and give his explanation.

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That's because he's the word.

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That's because he is able to give new revelation

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and he certainly would do that.

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And so that ought to be the pattern for us,

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not that we give new revelation,

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but that we take God's revelation and we make it clear,

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we make it plain.

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That's what we do when we assemble.

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Number three, we see Christ's love for the assembly.

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Now, before I move on to number three,

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even though I just did, Christ's pattern was assembling,

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what should our pattern be?

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It should be in assembling, our pattern should be,

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we're opening up the Bible and we're talking about it.

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That's the pattern.

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Number three, Christ's love for the assembly.

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Christ's love for the assembly.

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We should have a love for the assembly.

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If Christ's love and gave himself for the church,

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then we ought to love and give ourselves for the assembly.

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Verse Ephesians chapter five, verse 22,

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verse 22 here it says,

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wives submit yourselves unto your own husband

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as unto the Lord, for the husband is the head of the wife,

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even as Christ is the head of the church

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and he is the savior of the body.

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Therefore, as the church is subject unto Christ,

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so let wives be to their own husbands and everything.

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Husbands, love your wives,

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even as Christ also loved the church,

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what is Christ feeling towards the church?

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What is his action towards the church?

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What is his affection?

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It's love.

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As Christ also loved the assembly, the church,

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and gave himself for it.

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How did he give himself for it?

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He died on the cross.

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He bore the wrath of God for you and for me.

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He did it so that this church could exist.

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He did it so that we can do what we're doing now.

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This is why he did it.

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He gave himself for it.

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Why?

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Verse 26, that he might sanctify and cleanse it

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with the washing of water by what?

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By the word.

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Understand that when Jesus died,

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he didn't just die so that we could be converted,

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like I said this morning,

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so that we could be saved.

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Clearly that's part of it.

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He sanctifies us.

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He sets us apart if any man be in Christ,

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he's a new creature.

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But then he is sanctifying us how?

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By the washing of the water, by the word.

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He wants us to be more like him.

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That he might present it to himself a glorious church,

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not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing,

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but it should be holy and without blemish.

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So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies.

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He that loves his wife loves himself.

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For no man ever yet hated his own flesh,

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but nourished it and cherished it,

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even as the Lord of the church.

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For we are members of his body, of his flesh,

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and of his bones for this cause.

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Shall a man leave his father and mother

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and shall be joined into his wife,

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and the two shall be one flesh.

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I think it's interesting,

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and we've talked about this before.

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Verse number 31 says,

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for this cause shall a man, this is quoting Genesis.

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For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother,

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shall be joined to his wife,

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and the two shall be one flesh.

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He's talking about, when that first was said,

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he was talking about how that woman was made out of man

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and how that there was a help then meet for

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or appropriate for Adam when Eve was made out of Adam

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and brought to Adam.

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And he says, when he saw that, he says,

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this is now bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh,

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she shall be called woman because she was made out of man.

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And it says for this cause,

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because woman was made out of man,

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because woman was made for man,

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and man was made for woman.

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Because that's true, a man will leave his father and mother

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and cleave to his wife.

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Here he kind of lays out this idea

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that it's, he says in verse 30,

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we are members, who's we?

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In verse number 30, who's we?

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Go back one slide, Kevin.

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So I'm in the love of their wiser own body,

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he loves his wife loves himself,

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no man ever yet hated his own flesh,

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but nourished and cherished in it,

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even as the Lord, the church,

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for we are members of his body, who's we?

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The church, we are members of his body.

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You agree?

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Christ is the head, we're the church.

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We're members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.

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Do you see the correlation?

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He's saying, Adam said, this is bone of my bone flesh

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and my flesh, talking about man and woman.

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Now what Paul's saying is, we, the church,

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the bride of Christ are members of his body,

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of his flesh, and of his bones.

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The two have come together to make one, right?

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And he says, for this cause, now referencing,

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what not man and woman only, but Christ in the church.

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Do you get it?

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For this cause, shall a man leave his father or mother,

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shall be joined to his wife, and the two shall be one flesh.

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Okay, Paul, are you talking about Adam and Eve?

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Are you talking about Christ in the church?

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And he says, this is a great mystery,

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but I speak concerning Christ and the church.

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Just so you understand why I'm quoting Genesis,

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it's because God always had in mind to picture,

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through a husband and wife, Christ and the church.

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It's something that they didn't understand

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until now, I'm getting to say it.

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Now I'm getting to show you, Christ loved us so much,

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and the picture of that is, a husband and a wife

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loving each other, sacrificially loving each other.

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And so he says, verse 33,

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nevertheless, let every one of you in particular,

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so love his wife even as himself.

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And the wife see that she reverence her husband.

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The perfect picture of a husband is Jesus.

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He would not ask us to do something that he did not do.

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And what did Jesus do for the church?

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Verse 33, he loved the church even as himself.

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Does that blow your mind?

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Christ loves you.

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He loves me.

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And the wife see that she reverence her husband.

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The wife see that she respect her husband,

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that she submits to her husband.

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And so, I'm not trying to teach you about marriage tonight,

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although I am trying to teach you about marriage tonight.

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What am I trying to say?

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Point to the church.

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It's not just me.

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Everybody point, come on, let's do it, let's do it.

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We're going over people who haven't joined yet,

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but basically, I'm joking.

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This is the church, right?

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Christ loved the church and gave himself for it.

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Who am I to love?

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Who am I to love?

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Let's point to the same people, right?

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It's supposed to love the church.

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It's an important thing.

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Number four, I think this is important.

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Number four, Christ's attitude towards assembling

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and towards the assembly, towards the church.

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Number four, Christ started the assembly.

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That means we should be on his mission.

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The assembly ought to be on his mission.

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It's his church.

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He started it.

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It ought to be on his mission.

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Matthew 16, 13, when Jesus came into the coast of Caesarea

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Philippi, he asked his disciples, saying,

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whom do men say that I, the Son of man, am?

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And they said, some say that our John the Baptist,

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some say Elias, talking about Elijah,

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and others say Jeremiah's or one of the prophets.

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He says unto him, but whom say, unto them,

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whom say ye that I am? And Simon Peter answered and said,

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thou art the Christ, the Son of the living God.

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And Jesus answered and said unto him,

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blessed art thou, Simon Barjona,

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for flesh and blood has not revealed to thee,

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but my Father wish is in heaven.

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And I say also unto thee, thou art Peter,

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and upon this rock I will build my church, my assembly,

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and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it.

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Interesting that Jesus, when you think about the word assembly,

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Jesus essentially says, hey, my assembly is gonna be built

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on this idea, what is the idea?

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He says, the idea is, verse 16, it's what Peter said,

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it's what Little Stone said,

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thou art the Christ, the Son of the living God.

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Amen?

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For you to be the true church, for you to be,

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we believe in a regenerate church membership,

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what do we mean?

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That saved people are part of the church.

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Unsafe people are part of the church, right?

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So if you believe that Jesus is the Christ,

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the Son of the living God, if that is your profession,

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if that is your trust, then you are a part of Christ,

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you're a part of his body, you're a part of the church.

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And he says, to Peter, upon this rock,

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I will build my church and the gates of hell

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shall not prevail against it.

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This church is this assembly.

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When Jesus ascends to heaven and there is the assembly

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of people in the upper room that are then indwelled

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by the Holy Spirit on the day of Pentecost, okay?

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And they are now empowered as that body of believers

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in that upper room.

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Let me ask you a question.

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How did they all get there?

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How did they get there?

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Did Jesus have something to do with assembling

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that assembly?

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Absolutely, if it wasn't for Jesus,

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they wouldn't be assembled anymore.

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In fact, that's what happened.

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And so he had that assembly, he helped them believe in him,

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they trusted in him, because they were there together,

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they were filled with that Holy Spirit

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and then he had commissioned them

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and that's what they went out and did.

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And so the Great Commission is our mission,

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that's what we do.

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Number five, here's the last one.

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Oh, before I, I'm so excited about moving on, let's pause.

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If his mission was to build his church on the earth

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and it's by believing in Jesus Christ

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that we all go to heaven,

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then we don't get to like choose

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what our mission is gonna be as a church.

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Does that make sense?

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We don't get to vote on what our mission is gonna be.

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What's our mission?

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We glorify God, we do it in this church age

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by reaching people, discipling people

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and sending people out to minister.

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That's what we do, it's called the Great Commission.

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That is our mission.

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Can we vote on that?

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Who votes with me?

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Come on, I said we can't vote on it

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but we should just like all admit

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that that's what we're trying to do.

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Okay, very good.

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Number five, number five, Christ's assumption was assembling.

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Christ's assumption was assembling, it should be defended.

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Matthew chapter 18, I love this.

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Jesus is talking and he says,

519
00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:46,720
Moreover, if thy brother shall trespass against thee,

520
00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:49,200
go and tell him his fault between him and thee alone,

521
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,560
if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother,

522
00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:54,880
if he will not hear thee, then take with thee one or two more

523
00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:56,080
that in the mouth of two or three,

524
00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:58,360
when it says every word may be established.

525
00:24:58,360 --> 00:25:00,960
And if he shall neglect to hear them,

526
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:04,240
tell it to the church.

527
00:25:05,660 --> 00:25:08,260
Tell it to the church, tell it to the assembly.

528
00:25:08,260 --> 00:25:09,840
What is he saying?

529
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:13,040
My point in bringing this up is this,

530
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:16,520
that Jesus assumed there's already been an assembly

531
00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:20,000
that started and he's telling his disciples,

532
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:21,680
this is how you're gonna do life together

533
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:23,280
as part of the assembly.

534
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,760
If there's a problem, one on one,

535
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:29,360
if he doesn't hear you two or three,

536
00:25:29,360 --> 00:25:30,280
and if he doesn't hear you,

537
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:31,800
then you take it to the assembly.

538
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:32,960
What is he trying to say?

539
00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:35,640
You're gonna be a part of an assembly.

540
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:36,480
You get it?

541
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:37,840
You're gonna be part of a church.

542
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:41,080
But if he neglect to hear the church,

543
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:46,080
let him be unto thee as a heathen man and a publican, right?

544
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:48,800
And so then Peter,

545
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:53,040
down in verse 20 says,

546
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:54,880
down in verse 21,

547
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:55,920
then Peter came to him and said,

548
00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:58,080
Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me

549
00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:00,600
and I forgive him till seven times?

550
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:03,760
Jesus said to him, I say none of thee until seven times,

551
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:07,040
but until 70 times seven.

552
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,600
I think it's interesting that right after Jesus teaches

553
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:12,120
about church discipline,

554
00:26:12,120 --> 00:26:13,880
being disciplined in the body,

555
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,600
like dealing with people in the body,

556
00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:18,840
that Peter goes, well, how often do we have to do this?

557
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:20,840
How often do we need to forgive?

558
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:22,120
You know why?

559
00:26:22,120 --> 00:26:25,840
Because when people get together in a symbol,

560
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:26,840
we mess up.

561
00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:32,360
Anybody ever been offended by somebody at church, right?

562
00:26:32,360 --> 00:26:35,440
You're like, oh, nobody wants to raise their hands, right?

563
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:39,480
Generally when you're offended, you're offended by people,

564
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:41,480
right?

565
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:43,000
People are flawed, people are messed up.

566
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:46,120
And sometimes at church, your expectations are high

567
00:26:46,120 --> 00:26:48,480
because we're all supposed to be Christians,

568
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:49,320
and act christianly.

569
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:52,000
And sometimes Christians don't act like Christians,

570
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:55,680
and all God's people said, oh me, right?

571
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:57,640
Sometimes I don't always act like a Christian.

572
00:26:57,640 --> 00:26:58,880
And it's in that assembly,

573
00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:01,640
we ought to love each other and care about each other

574
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:03,280
and forgive each other.

575
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:08,120
That's true from every leadership position

576
00:27:08,120 --> 00:27:11,680
on down to the youngest kid we got.

577
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:14,000
We ought to forgive each other and love each other.

578
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:16,600
So, what were our points?

579
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,040
What was Jesus' attitude and actions?

580
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:21,200
Actions, when he was here on the church,

581
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:24,080
he had a habit of assembly.

582
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:26,320
He would get together, he would come together.

583
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:27,640
That was his custom.

584
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:32,000
His pattern in it was that he would do what they taught

585
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:34,400
him to do and what he wanted in the assembly.

586
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:39,400
He wanted people to preach the word and make it clear.

587
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:41,360
It's clear that his attitude towards the assembly

588
00:27:41,360 --> 00:27:42,680
was that he loved it.

589
00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:44,880
It should have our affection too.

590
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:48,720
Christ started the assembly, he had a mission for it.

591
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:51,160
We don't get to change his mission, we do his mission.

592
00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:52,000
Amen.

593
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:54,200
And the number five, his assumption was

594
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:57,480
that this thing, this assembly that was going to be started

595
00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:01,440
was gonna continue on until he raptures it out one day.

596
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:02,280
Amen.

597
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:04,880
And so we ought to be unified in that.

598
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:06,800
All of that stuff, hopefully that you, amen,

599
00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:07,640
and you believe.

600
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:09,920
Let me give you some tips, okay?

601
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:13,320
These are some things that I think ought to govern

602
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:16,360
the way you think about this thing that we do

603
00:28:16,360 --> 00:28:18,600
called assembling, okay?

604
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:20,800
Here's just some things that I just wrote down.

605
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:23,680
I'm like, this is like what we need to do

606
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:26,000
when we come together, okay?

607
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:29,800
When you come to assemble with the assembly,

608
00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:31,920
let me give you some things you ought to be thinking.

609
00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:35,580
Number one, look for somebody to encourage.

610
00:28:35,580 --> 00:28:38,420
You ever need encouragement?

611
00:28:38,420 --> 00:28:40,580
In fact, in Hebrews he said,

612
00:28:40,580 --> 00:28:43,980
don't forsake the assembling of the selves together, right?

613
00:28:43,980 --> 00:28:46,900
But provoke and love into good works.

614
00:28:46,900 --> 00:28:51,220
One of the things that I have the privilege

615
00:28:51,220 --> 00:28:55,820
and the honor of doing as the pastor

616
00:28:55,820 --> 00:29:00,260
is trying to help people when they're going through difficult.

617
00:29:00,260 --> 00:29:01,820
I think that's a good thing.

618
00:29:01,820 --> 00:29:06,140
Is trying to help people when they're going through difficulty.

619
00:29:09,180 --> 00:29:14,180
And I see people come into church

620
00:29:15,780 --> 00:29:18,340
and everybody thinks that they're doing great

621
00:29:18,340 --> 00:29:20,100
and I know they're not doing great.

622
00:29:21,260 --> 00:29:24,820
And everybody that says fine when you say how are you

623
00:29:24,820 --> 00:29:25,820
is not fine.

624
00:29:27,340 --> 00:29:28,620
It's a greeting.

625
00:29:29,900 --> 00:29:31,220
They're not lying and they're just saying,

626
00:29:31,220 --> 00:29:32,060
hey, yeah, doing good.

627
00:29:32,060 --> 00:29:32,900
Good to see you.

628
00:29:32,900 --> 00:29:34,140
They're being positive.

629
00:29:34,140 --> 00:29:36,460
But not everybody is doing fine.

630
00:29:36,460 --> 00:29:39,940
Sometimes life is hard.

631
00:29:39,940 --> 00:29:42,980
And so if you need encouragement

632
00:29:42,980 --> 00:29:46,060
and I need encouragement and we need encouragement,

633
00:29:46,060 --> 00:29:47,060
you know how it's gonna happen?

634
00:29:47,060 --> 00:29:48,820
It happens when we actually decide

635
00:29:48,820 --> 00:29:50,540
I'm gonna be in encouragement.

636
00:29:50,540 --> 00:29:54,340
I'm gonna look for someone to encourage.

637
00:29:54,340 --> 00:29:56,620
So when you come to church,

638
00:29:56,620 --> 00:30:01,620
here's my, this isn't a mandate.

639
00:30:02,260 --> 00:30:04,340
This is now my opinion.

640
00:30:04,340 --> 00:30:06,900
Okay, I'm telling you when there's no like command

641
00:30:06,900 --> 00:30:09,580
from the Lord that says what I'm about to say,

642
00:30:09,580 --> 00:30:11,620
but I think the spirit of it's there.

643
00:30:11,620 --> 00:30:14,900
Don't just come in and plop down and fold your arms

644
00:30:14,900 --> 00:30:16,820
and go, well, somebody bless me.

645
00:30:18,780 --> 00:30:19,620
Right?

646
00:30:21,180 --> 00:30:25,220
I think it's good that when the service is about to start,

647
00:30:25,220 --> 00:30:27,540
don't just plop down, go sit with somebody,

648
00:30:27,540 --> 00:30:31,300
go talk to somebody, go ask them how they're doing

649
00:30:31,300 --> 00:30:33,700
in such a way that they know you actually care

650
00:30:33,700 --> 00:30:34,540
about the answer.

651
00:30:34,540 --> 00:30:36,380
It's not just a greeting.

652
00:30:37,380 --> 00:30:38,940
Hey, how are you?

653
00:30:38,940 --> 00:30:42,580
What's going on with, didn't you have a surgery or something?

654
00:30:42,580 --> 00:30:44,420
You know, how's your wife?

655
00:30:44,420 --> 00:30:46,620
How's your husband actually dig in?

656
00:30:46,620 --> 00:30:48,300
I wanna know how you're doing.

657
00:30:48,300 --> 00:30:51,260
Can I, how cool would it be to pray with each other

658
00:30:51,260 --> 00:30:52,180
in between the pews?

659
00:30:52,180 --> 00:30:53,900
That happens around here a lot.

660
00:30:53,900 --> 00:30:55,540
So look for someone to encourage.

661
00:30:55,540 --> 00:30:58,180
Number two, their bullet points.

662
00:30:58,180 --> 00:31:00,300
So the second bullet point.

663
00:31:00,300 --> 00:31:03,020
Look for places and people to serve.

664
00:31:03,020 --> 00:31:06,860
Look for places and people to serve.

665
00:31:06,860 --> 00:31:10,740
Jesus said, I came not to be minister unto,

666
00:31:10,740 --> 00:31:14,940
but to minister, to give my life a ransom for many.

667
00:31:14,940 --> 00:31:18,260
He said to his disciples, the greatest among you

668
00:31:18,260 --> 00:31:20,580
shall be your servant.

669
00:31:20,580 --> 00:31:22,140
And it doesn't have to be a position,

670
00:31:22,140 --> 00:31:23,780
it can just be an attitude.

671
00:31:23,780 --> 00:31:24,860
Hey, how can I help?

672
00:31:24,860 --> 00:31:28,100
How can I, how can I help what's going on around here?

673
00:31:28,100 --> 00:31:30,060
How can I help the body?

674
00:31:30,060 --> 00:31:32,860
Not just the institution, not just the programming.

675
00:31:32,860 --> 00:31:37,580
How can I help the people in my church community?

676
00:31:37,580 --> 00:31:39,020
How can I do that?

677
00:31:39,020 --> 00:31:39,960
Here's the third one.

678
00:31:41,660 --> 00:31:44,700
Look for a decision to make.

679
00:31:44,700 --> 00:31:46,820
Look for a decision to make.

680
00:31:46,820 --> 00:31:47,660
What do I mean?

681
00:31:47,660 --> 00:31:52,660
Teaching and preaching are similar, very, very similar,

682
00:31:55,420 --> 00:31:57,860
but also sometimes different.

683
00:31:57,860 --> 00:32:01,980
I think inherent in the preaching of God's word

684
00:32:01,980 --> 00:32:06,980
is this idea that I'm trying to call you to a decision.

685
00:32:08,380 --> 00:32:11,340
I'm not just trying to inform you of what to know,

686
00:32:11,340 --> 00:32:15,500
I'm trying to help you to grow in obedience.

687
00:32:15,500 --> 00:32:17,180
Does that make sense?

688
00:32:17,180 --> 00:32:19,900
And so that means that when we come to church,

689
00:32:19,900 --> 00:32:22,180
when we listen to the word of God,

690
00:32:22,180 --> 00:32:23,940
what we're trying to do is, okay,

691
00:32:23,940 --> 00:32:25,460
this is what the word of God says

692
00:32:25,460 --> 00:32:27,220
is my life matching up to that.

693
00:32:27,220 --> 00:32:29,020
Do I need to make a decision to repent?

694
00:32:29,020 --> 00:32:30,900
Do I need to make a decision to obey?

695
00:32:30,900 --> 00:32:32,620
What do I need to do?

696
00:32:32,620 --> 00:32:35,420
That needs to be your attitude every time

697
00:32:35,420 --> 00:32:40,420
you come to the church.

698
00:32:40,420 --> 00:32:41,860
Here's a fourth bullet, ready?

699
00:32:43,100 --> 00:32:45,060
This again, not command.

700
00:32:45,060 --> 00:32:46,980
I just think that this is an attitude thing

701
00:32:46,980 --> 00:32:49,020
that can be really helpful, okay?

702
00:32:49,020 --> 00:32:50,140
Do this in the right area.

703
00:32:50,140 --> 00:32:51,980
Number four, take notes.

704
00:32:53,420 --> 00:32:54,260
Take notes.

705
00:32:55,460 --> 00:32:56,380
Here's what I mean.

706
00:33:01,460 --> 00:33:02,500
What's the point?

707
00:33:05,300 --> 00:33:08,580
What is the point of preaching?

708
00:33:09,660 --> 00:33:11,620
What's the point of Bible teaching?

709
00:33:11,620 --> 00:33:16,620
The point of Bible teaching is Bible obedience, right?

710
00:33:19,060 --> 00:33:20,900
The point of it is life transformation.

711
00:33:20,900 --> 00:33:22,420
Do you agree with me?

712
00:33:22,420 --> 00:33:24,340
We're not just learning it to know it,

713
00:33:24,340 --> 00:33:26,500
we're learning it to obey it.

714
00:33:26,500 --> 00:33:28,220
And for that to transform our lives.

715
00:33:28,220 --> 00:33:30,700
Okay, not trying to be critical.

716
00:33:30,700 --> 00:33:32,180
If you feel like I'm talking about you,

717
00:33:32,180 --> 00:33:35,260
I'm not because I don't have anybody in mind, okay?

718
00:33:35,260 --> 00:33:37,100
I'm not talking about you.

719
00:33:37,100 --> 00:33:41,140
But which person seems like they're more engaged

720
00:33:41,140 --> 00:33:44,620
and more eager for life transformation?

721
00:33:48,260 --> 00:33:49,180
This guy?

722
00:33:54,780 --> 00:33:56,380
I don't have a pen, where's my pen?

723
00:34:03,340 --> 00:34:04,180
This guy.

724
00:34:05,500 --> 00:34:06,860
Who seems more engaged?

725
00:34:08,300 --> 00:34:09,580
Right?

726
00:34:09,580 --> 00:34:13,020
The one who's ready to like, okay, what does the word say?

727
00:34:13,020 --> 00:34:15,180
I've got my Bible, I'm listening.

728
00:34:16,340 --> 00:34:18,380
Which one's more engaged?

729
00:34:18,380 --> 00:34:19,420
The second one, clearly.

730
00:34:19,420 --> 00:34:22,620
Why do I put blanks in your bulletin?

731
00:34:22,620 --> 00:34:26,420
I wanna prompt you to like, write some of this down.

732
00:34:26,420 --> 00:34:28,620
If you write it down, you might actually end up doing it.

733
00:34:28,620 --> 00:34:29,740
I don't know.

734
00:34:29,740 --> 00:34:30,740
Does that make sense?

735
00:34:32,980 --> 00:34:37,980
Remember like, who's, this they have this,

736
00:34:37,980 --> 00:34:41,780
I understand now that Bob Evans is an Ohio thing,

737
00:34:41,780 --> 00:34:43,500
but we had it in Florida.

738
00:34:43,500 --> 00:34:46,940
Who's been to Bob Evans the last month?

739
00:34:46,940 --> 00:34:47,780
Okay, cool.

740
00:34:48,900 --> 00:34:52,220
At the Bob Evans in St. Pete, Florida,

741
00:34:52,220 --> 00:34:55,420
years and years ago, I remember this,

742
00:34:55,420 --> 00:35:00,420
they would put the mugs for coffee out, right?

743
00:35:01,460 --> 00:35:03,940
And when they put the mugs in the saucers out,

744
00:35:03,940 --> 00:35:05,300
they would put the mugs on the table,

745
00:35:05,300 --> 00:35:06,340
like pre-put them there,

746
00:35:06,340 --> 00:35:10,140
and the mug would be on its top, right?

747
00:35:10,140 --> 00:35:12,500
It would be flipped over, right?

748
00:35:12,500 --> 00:35:15,220
And what did you do if you wanted coffee?

749
00:35:15,220 --> 00:35:17,380
You flipped it over, right?

750
00:35:17,380 --> 00:35:22,380
You're telling the server, hey, I want coffee.

751
00:35:22,420 --> 00:35:24,740
And all guys, people said, amen.

752
00:35:24,740 --> 00:35:26,100
Turn it over, right?

753
00:35:27,740 --> 00:35:31,100
If you don't flip it over, you won't get anything.

754
00:35:31,100 --> 00:35:34,820
If you keep it on the top, you don't get anything, right?

755
00:35:34,820 --> 00:35:38,100
And there's a sense in which when you're like,

756
00:35:38,100 --> 00:35:39,860
when you're ready to receive,

757
00:35:41,140 --> 00:35:42,900
when you're ready to study, you're here,

758
00:35:42,900 --> 00:35:45,540
you're taking notes, what you're kind of doing,

759
00:35:45,540 --> 00:35:48,260
I want, behavior doesn't change your heart,

760
00:35:48,260 --> 00:35:50,980
the heart affects the behavior.

761
00:35:50,980 --> 00:35:52,300
Does that make sense?

762
00:35:52,300 --> 00:35:53,820
But in a sense, what you're doing

763
00:35:53,820 --> 00:35:55,220
is you're flipping that cup over.

764
00:35:55,220 --> 00:35:57,020
God, I want to get something today.

765
00:35:58,020 --> 00:36:00,540
God, I want to be different today

766
00:36:00,540 --> 00:36:03,100
because of what's being taught.

767
00:36:03,100 --> 00:36:05,940
There's a lot more attendance than there is obedience.

768
00:36:09,300 --> 00:36:12,060
There's a lot more attendance than there is obedience.

769
00:36:12,060 --> 00:36:14,860
I want to be affected by what God's doing here,

770
00:36:14,860 --> 00:36:16,100
what God's saying here.

771
00:36:16,100 --> 00:36:18,860
So taking notes is not the end all be all.

772
00:36:18,860 --> 00:36:20,900
I'm not saying if you take notes, then you're a good Christian.

773
00:36:20,900 --> 00:36:23,340
There's some people that never take a note in the world

774
00:36:23,340 --> 00:36:25,780
and they are obedient and growing.

775
00:36:25,780 --> 00:36:27,220
That's not the point, but the point is

776
00:36:27,220 --> 00:36:29,660
to turn that cup over, okay?

777
00:36:29,660 --> 00:36:30,980
Now I lost all my sermon notes.

778
00:36:30,980 --> 00:36:31,820
Here we go.

779
00:36:31,820 --> 00:36:32,660
Next one.

780
00:36:36,620 --> 00:36:37,660
I literally dropped all my notes.

781
00:36:37,660 --> 00:36:38,500
I don't know where they are.

782
00:36:38,500 --> 00:36:39,340
Here we go.

783
00:36:39,340 --> 00:36:40,260
Next one, Kev.

784
00:36:41,340 --> 00:36:44,060
Sing loud.

785
00:36:46,460 --> 00:36:49,100
Sing loud.

786
00:36:52,700 --> 00:36:57,700
Is singing just the thing we do to get to the preaching?

787
00:36:57,700 --> 00:37:00,740
When we're singing, we're trying to make our melodies

788
00:37:00,740 --> 00:37:03,620
and our hearts to the Lord.

789
00:37:03,620 --> 00:37:05,140
We're trying to prepare our hearts

790
00:37:05,140 --> 00:37:07,700
for the rescuing of God's word.

791
00:37:07,700 --> 00:37:09,860
You're like, but I'm not very good at singing.

792
00:37:09,860 --> 00:37:11,700
Who cares?

793
00:37:11,700 --> 00:37:14,940
Maybe the people around you, maybe they care, okay.

794
00:37:14,940 --> 00:37:18,340
But sing, this is about Jesus, this is about the Lord.

795
00:37:18,340 --> 00:37:19,340
Sing out.

796
00:37:19,340 --> 00:37:20,940
Again, it's an attitude thing.

797
00:37:20,940 --> 00:37:21,780
Then the last one.

798
00:37:22,780 --> 00:37:24,100
I think it's the last one.

799
00:37:24,100 --> 00:37:27,780
Oh no, two more things, respond to the invitation.

800
00:37:27,780 --> 00:37:28,620
Respond to the invitation.

801
00:37:28,620 --> 00:37:30,980
You want to get a lot out of it?

802
00:37:31,980 --> 00:37:34,380
Who thinks it's a good thing when people respond?

803
00:37:35,380 --> 00:37:36,220
Yeah.

804
00:37:36,220 --> 00:37:38,980
Have you ever judged somebody?

805
00:37:38,980 --> 00:37:41,180
Man, I'm glad they're going down, they need it.

806
00:37:41,180 --> 00:37:42,380
Have you ever done that?

807
00:37:42,380 --> 00:37:43,820
You don't have to say yes or no.

808
00:37:43,820 --> 00:37:46,020
If you've done that, you need to come down.

809
00:37:46,020 --> 00:37:46,860
Okay.

810
00:37:48,540 --> 00:37:51,100
It shouldn't be, oh man, finally they're done.

811
00:37:51,100 --> 00:37:54,180
It should be praise the Lord, they have the courage

812
00:37:54,180 --> 00:37:56,820
to make a decision for the Lord, right?

813
00:37:56,820 --> 00:38:00,900
And so, hey, it's a good thing to respond to the invitation.

814
00:38:00,900 --> 00:38:01,740
Last one.

815
00:38:03,260 --> 00:38:04,100
Bring a guest.

816
00:38:07,460 --> 00:38:08,940
You want to hear the sermon differently?

817
00:38:08,940 --> 00:38:11,860
You want to experience everything differently

818
00:38:11,860 --> 00:38:14,700
than just another old Sunday at church?

819
00:38:14,700 --> 00:38:17,100
Have someone who's lost sitting next to you.

820
00:38:18,100 --> 00:38:20,100
Have someone who's lost their mind.

821
00:38:20,100 --> 00:38:23,900
Have someone who doesn't know Christ sitting next to you.

822
00:38:23,900 --> 00:38:27,740
All of a sudden you realize the stakes just went way up,

823
00:38:27,740 --> 00:38:29,900
right?

824
00:38:29,900 --> 00:38:32,940
And you know what happens when people hear the word of God?

825
00:38:34,820 --> 00:38:36,620
They're far more likely to respond to it

826
00:38:36,620 --> 00:38:38,660
than if they had never heard it before.

827
00:38:38,660 --> 00:38:41,460
You want to experience something incredible?

828
00:38:42,300 --> 00:38:44,260
Sit next to a lost person.

829
00:38:44,260 --> 00:38:47,380
I remember years ago we had a Muslim lady

830
00:38:47,380 --> 00:38:50,260
that we were working on that we were inviting to church

831
00:38:50,260 --> 00:38:52,620
and she finally came, she finally came to class

832
00:38:52,620 --> 00:38:56,900
and we were talking on that day about Isaac and Ishmael.

833
00:38:56,900 --> 00:39:00,780
And I remember thinking, oh man, I wonder if she understands

834
00:39:00,780 --> 00:39:05,780
and I'm talking about fight between the Jews

835
00:39:05,780 --> 00:39:07,340
and now the Muslims that are happening now,

836
00:39:07,340 --> 00:39:09,380
like that's where it started.

837
00:39:09,380 --> 00:39:12,300
Just life is different, church is different

838
00:39:12,300 --> 00:39:14,700
when you are experiencing it, when you're on mission

839
00:39:14,700 --> 00:39:17,580
and it's happening right then.

840
00:39:17,580 --> 00:39:20,620
And so you pray different, hey God,

841
00:39:20,620 --> 00:39:23,300
would you help Pastor Ben not to mess up today?

842
00:39:23,300 --> 00:39:25,980
Help him to be clear, because this person

843
00:39:25,980 --> 00:39:29,460
doesn't know Jesus as Savior.

844
00:39:29,460 --> 00:39:31,260
Who thinks it's important to bring guests to church?

845
00:39:31,260 --> 00:39:36,260
Yeah, so man, imagine if you prepared your heart

846
00:39:37,540 --> 00:39:40,060
before you came, if you look for somebody

847
00:39:40,060 --> 00:39:41,340
who encouraged when you show up,

848
00:39:41,340 --> 00:39:43,900
it's not about you, it's about everybody else.

849
00:39:43,900 --> 00:39:45,900
That you look for places to serve,

850
00:39:45,900 --> 00:39:47,980
you're looking for people to impact,

851
00:39:47,980 --> 00:39:50,700
you're looking to be changed as you show up,

852
00:39:50,700 --> 00:39:53,700
you're looking for God to fill up your cup, right?

853
00:39:53,700 --> 00:39:55,820
To give you something to live in.

854
00:39:55,820 --> 00:39:58,340
And you're writing that down and when it's time to sing,

855
00:39:58,340 --> 00:40:01,540
you're singing because it's not about you, it's about him.

856
00:40:01,540 --> 00:40:03,820
And you're trying to give him praise and glory.

857
00:40:03,820 --> 00:40:07,340
And when there's a decision to make,

858
00:40:07,340 --> 00:40:09,780
you're responding even at the invitation

859
00:40:09,780 --> 00:40:11,820
and sometimes you even bring someone

860
00:40:11,820 --> 00:40:12,820
that needs to hear it with you.

861
00:40:12,820 --> 00:40:16,780
Man, if that was the way that you approached assembling

862
00:40:17,740 --> 00:40:19,820
when the doors come open, man,

863
00:40:19,820 --> 00:40:22,660
we'd have to build new buildings around here.

864
00:40:22,660 --> 00:40:24,820
We would, maybe we were gonna do that anyway.

865
00:40:24,820 --> 00:40:28,180
We'd have to do more, because I believe God would show up

866
00:40:28,180 --> 00:40:30,220
because he'd have our hearts.

867
00:40:30,220 --> 00:40:32,740
And when he has our hearts, then he affects our hands

868
00:40:32,740 --> 00:40:34,420
and our feet and our mouth.

869
00:40:34,420 --> 00:40:37,740
And there's a whole lot of people that need Jesus.

870
00:40:37,740 --> 00:40:41,820
There's a whole lot of people in this town that need Jesus.

871
00:40:41,820 --> 00:40:43,780
And we can do that.

872
00:40:43,780 --> 00:40:47,060
We can help reach them with the power of the Holy Spirit

873
00:40:47,060 --> 00:40:51,260
when we work together as the assembly.

874
00:40:51,260 --> 00:41:13,260
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