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Sweetums laughing, yeah, we keep it real Mr.

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say, yeah, come inside Open minds, no words to

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welcome, pull up a seat Let's talk lifestyle

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over a liquid treat And we're back, ladies and

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gentlemen. Your eyes say fuck you and not in

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a good way. So just let it be known that I was

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forcefully dragged into the studio tonight. Doing

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it under duress. It is Friday night. I'm exhausted.

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This was your idea. It was my idea. You said

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yesterday your yeah, I have great ideas the day

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before It's just the execution of the day of

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is where it's tough You said you're gonna go

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out you're gonna have some wine with your friends.

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You're gonna come home. We're gonna do a podcast

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I was like got it Yeah, I held up my end of the

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bargain. I went out I had one with my friends

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and I am back to do a podcast and here I am fulfilling

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my So yes, you went out with your friends and

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had a, you watched a local band at a local winery.

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Did you have a good time? Yeah, it was fun. Where

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did you go? You want to know the name of the

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winery? What else would I be asking? I don't

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know. You went to Wilson's Creek. Wilson's Creek.

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Yes. And you saw one of our, some of our friends'

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favorite band out there. And then you left me

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home all by myself because guys were not invited.

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Yeah. One guy did come. What? I told you. He

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was our right home. Oh, okay. No, he wasn't there

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for the entirety. No, he came the last set. So

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I was left home watching man movies and drinking

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vodka. Yeah. And you were out. Your whole real

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life. I'm hanging out with the ladies drinking

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wine. Yeah. And here we are trying to put together

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a semi -coherent podcast. Good luck. Both slightly

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buzzed. It is late. We gotta get up early. Good

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luck to us. Not that early. So we're not gonna,

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we're not gonna have a crazy long episode tonight.

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We just, we're gonna touch on a couple things.

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You always say that. Yeah, well, I'm sticking

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to that one. So we're just gonna recap a few

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things that we did last weekend and then I'm

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gonna touch on a couple of subjects. Well, probably

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kind of one subject. I feel like you're trying

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to like, I don't know, get me. What? I don't

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know. You're like, I was like, what are we gonna

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talk about? And you're like, You'll see. Oh,

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yeah, I very rarely tell you which work what

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we're gonna talk about. Yeah, I Like to have

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the element of surprise. I'm like a ninja Authenticity

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like a podcast ninja natural reaction Yeah, you

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brought a subject matter to me the other day

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and I'd like the idea of it But I don't think

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it's a good one to dive into tonight So we're

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gonna go all the way opposite. We're gonna talk

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about anal Oh and the do's and don'ts. Oh shit.

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Yeah No, we're not gonna talk about you know,

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because we literally have zero experience and

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you know, I've tried it with you and You said

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no, so um, that's kind of where the podcast I

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mean we could just end the podcast right here.

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I mean like this is what we do is what we know

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And done so no really quick we uh this past weekend

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we had another fun -filled weekend on Friday

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night We had our sweet side of life Meet -and

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-greet with my live band we played there. Mm

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-hmm. And once again, we packed it out. It was

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uh So listen guys when we tell you we throw these

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meet -and -greets and it's the it's not a huge

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place. Um But it it packs out and yeah, we tell

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people get there early and guess what they show

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up at 830 They're like I can't get in. I know

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sorry. I got in eventually. I do feel bad though

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Know but there are friends. So I'm like, I want

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them all to be there But we tell them to be there

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at seven. I know we can only do so much What's

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the saying? You can lead a horse to water, but

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you can't make them drink exactly. Yeah so a

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Lot of them eventually got in they just had I

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think everybody did eventually get a lot of people

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that haven't been only get into our last couple

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ones They were able to finally make it in. Yeah.

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Yeah, like one of our friends were like damn

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you funky Yeah, I guess what I can I kind of

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rap a little bit I can I can hip it hippity to

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the hoppity But um, so yeah, we if you haven't

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heard like my band plays all different types

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of music So it's a good time So if it pops up

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in this area sweet side of life my band is playing

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come check it out because it's always become

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early Definitely come early. This is the only

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time we're ever gonna tell you to come early

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But that being said We're actually, so a lot

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of times we play at this one venue called the

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Vibe Music Venue, and it's in Old Town Temecula.

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And that place, it shuts down. We play 8 .30

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to 11 .30. It's a hard out. They leave. Venue's

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closed. And we always make our way down the street

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to the Wine and Beer Garden, which is kind of

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like the local LS -friendly joint. So we actually

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just signed a contract to do a couple of shows

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there coming up this year So we're gonna be actually

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doing our meeting greets and the live band there

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so we don't have to leave the venue We just stay

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there the entirety of the night and just party.

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So we go looking forward to that we're actually

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gonna be doing one of the shows on my birthday

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and We're gonna be featuring a few other birthdays

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on that night. So we're putting all the all the

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details together. It hasn't gone public yet because

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I'm still signing the contracts and it's a it's

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a ways down the road. It is all the way in October.

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So it will be going out. We're going to try to

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make that one huge. But then so that was Friday

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night, Saturday night. We went back to MNPP,

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which is naked pool parties there in Lake Elsinore.

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They also share a property with be a Vita. So

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I'm sure you guys have heard us talk about this

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but This was their their weekend and it was there

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like welcome to spring. You said night It was

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actually a day party. It was a day night into

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the night. Yes So it was Saturday. So we spent

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our day and night there as they're like welcome

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back summer Welcome back sunshine party and had

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a great time. So we had another states other

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than, California So sorry, not sorry. So yeah,

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we literally came back from Michigan And then

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we had a pool party the next week So some of

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our friends that we met out there were like,

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all right. Hey guys, are you gonna come visit

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us next weekend pool party? They're like, yeah

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So we had a great time Saturday, I definitely

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had a good time Saturday. Yes. I was Interactive

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quite a few times interact That's what we'll

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say. That's what we'll say. Yes Beard from beard

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and butt couple texted us. He's like, all right.

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Well, what'd you do? And I'm they were there

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but they left they left for the night Yeah started

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and they're like and I said I don't kiss and

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tell and he's like, bro That's what you literally

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have a podcast about kissing and telling them.

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Well, then listen to the podcast Yeah, you finger

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bang two women. Yes with their vibe with a vibrator.

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Yes Yeah, multiple blowjobs. You got multiple

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blowjobs You know what? Am lucky your life doesn't

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suck. I am lucky in so many different ways a

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The fact that you and I have this great life

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together that we're able to do all this crazy

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shit. Yeah and be I Don't know. I hear a lot

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of people a lot of other podcasts and everybody

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talks about like the guy struggles to get the

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attention that he wants and Ultimately, the wife,

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the partner, the woman, whatever it is, always

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gets all the attention, which makes sense. But

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I have not had that struggle. And I am no Brad

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Pitt. You are a Kurt Breicher. I am a Kurt Breicher.

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But I don't know. I've just... i'm just i've

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i don't know maybe i'm just so fucking charming

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you are charming seriously i don't know like

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going into it like you guys can always have to

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kind of mentally prepare themselves like listen

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i know i'm not going to be the you know one getting

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all the attention and and that is still very

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much you know how it is but i've i've i've looked

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out pretty good yeah i've done fairly well for

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myself so So we had a lot of good time at that

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party and then when it was time to leave We were

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sitting in the uber on our way home and we got

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picked up by Bob Marley Not really Bob Marley,

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but he could have been a dude in dreads his had

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nice dreads and he had a bunch of reggae shit

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Which was like a great way in the night and we

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love reggae music. So it was a good vibe so we're

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sitting in the car and and you had put on just

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a cover up because we were naked at the the pool

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party yeah naked pool party yeah i just put my

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dress back on so you put like yeah your cover

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up your dress or whatever and then you grab my

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hand and what did you do with my hand i showed

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you that i wasn't wearing any underwear and how

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did you show that to me i did i just grabbed

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your hand and put it on my pussy and what did

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i do with my hand tell me step by step what had

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happened you fingered me You threw my thigh to

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the side and threw your thigh to the side. Yeah

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You swung my thigh away Yeah, I have I have a

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lot of like hot memories from that night, but

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that was probably one of the hottest I like we

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were talking about in the last one snapshots

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Yeah, and that was a very vivid snapshot and

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by that time and I was pretty drunk, but I'm

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like Vividly remember that and how your pussy

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felt And we went home and we fucked really good.

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Yeah, I closed the deals ladies and gentlemen

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So speaking of that it's episode 67 now Mmm,

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we're coming up on 69. I was just gonna say that

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what are we gonna do for? I know what are we

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gonna do for 69? I was thinking like Sex on Air,

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but then I hear about these other podcasts, they

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get their shit shut down because of that now.

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Oh, you can't have Sex on Air? No. You can talk

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about Sex on Air. So there was... That's kind

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of weird, because it's not like you can see it.

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You can't, but... It's just the sounds? Yeah.

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So there's a couple different podcasts. So there's

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one podcast called... new swingers, something

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or other. And they used to always kind of in

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the podcast with her giving him oral. So you

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would hear all the sounds and then like out of

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nowhere that just stopped. So I think they might

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have got a warning. But then there's another

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one I listen to a lot called the... Shit, I should

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have prepared myself a little bit. Again, I have

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no idea what I'm gonna talk about. VAMP for a

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second, babe. I want to get the name of this

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right, because they're one of my favorite podcasts.

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They are. Is it the ones in Northern California?

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No, that's a different one. That's my other favorite

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podcast. Oh. You told me you can't have more

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than one favorite. I told you to VAMP. You told

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me a favorite. I gave you one job, VAMP. A favorite

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is a favorite, and you can't have more than one

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favorite is what you told me. All right, I found

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it. Hump Day Quickies. OK. So Hump Day Quickies

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has been doing their podcast for like, five or

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six years. Excuse me. And they used to, when

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they would talk about a story about something

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like he had audio recorded and he would play

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like a 20 second audio excerpt. That's a big

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word. Of her having an orgasm and it was super

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hot because you get like the audio of the story

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but they had to go back and cut that out because

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those podcasts were being cut. And it got so

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bad where They're actually now they transferred

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over to The the the company you had to pay for

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it now starts with the P So Their podcast had

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a lot of audio to it and they had to like kind

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of neuter it So that's weird. Did they put it?

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Did they get a warning explicit content warning?

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That's not the only reason they had the They

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also wanted to start protecting their identities

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more. But ultimately, they had to trim a lot

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of episodes. They had to go back and take all

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that shit out because their shit was getting

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cut. Yeah, but the cut thing is weird because

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if you put, I don't know. I don't, I mean. I

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mean, it sounds dumb. Freedom of speech. It sounds

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dumb, but whatever hosting, it's part of their

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bylaws. I don't know. All I know is I'm, I'm

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a rule follower. So while I feel like 69 could

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be a very fun show, I have a feeling it's just

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going to be another one of us talking about bullshit

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69. So we'll see. Um, so yeah, 69, your favorite

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position. I was very loud. Um, so yeah, no, no,

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no. The, my, my computer did like an update thing

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and it went through the headphones very loud.

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You couldn't hear it. Cause it's through my headphones.

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Is 69 a favorite, your favorite position? My

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favorite? No. It's it's up there. What's your

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favorite? Doggie. 100 % yeah. I do love 69 when

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there's enough light above me and I can see through

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your butt cheek and I can see the outline of

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your butt cheek through my eyes and my mouth

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is like in the pussy. Like that is one of my

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favorite. But doggy natively is like Because

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that's where I'm most likely going to come from.

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But I do love a good 69. Where I'm on bottom.

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I'm not a big fan of being on the top in a 69

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because like I don't want to drive down too hard.

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Yeah, choke me to death. You don't want me to

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die. I mean, you've got a good insurance policy

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and everything, but I'd rather keep you around

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because a lot of these parties that I have a

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good time at, I won't be allowed to attend without

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you. Or you'd be real expensive. Really expensive,

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yes. Yeah, actually, we were talking about that.

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I was talking about that with Mrs. Feelgood.

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She was at the party, the Bia Vida. Oh, the naked

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MPP and MPP party. And she came as a single female

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because Dr. Feelgood couldn't. She's free bucks.

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Yeah. So she couldn't because he couldn't come

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there. He had other obligations. But anyway,

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I was like, oh, really? And she told me she was

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free. I was like, you were free. she was like

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yeah i was free i was like well shit my man is

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costing me 60 fucking dollars and then if you

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look at it that way and then but but was sitting

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there and she's like well shit what we'll do

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is she goes next time you and me will come together

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we'll both be free and then she goes and our

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men can come together and they could pay the

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60 dollars for the both of them i was like that

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sounds like a plan to me I don't like it. I don't

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like it at all. So next time we go there, you

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and Beard are a couple. No. And then it should

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just be 60, which would be 30 each. It doesn't

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work that way. We're gaming the system. I do

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not believe they have that as an option on the

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chart. A gay male's fee. That's definitely a

00:17:15.009 --> 00:17:17.170
loophole worth looking into but I don't think

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it's a I don't think it's a viable option Anyways,

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so we did we did our show we did NPP Saturday

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And now we it's Friday of the next week. So we

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are looking at our next adventure So, let's see

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what we got coming up. Oh, I'm going to see the

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Cottonmouth Kings tomorrow night Don't give a

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fuck So that's gonna be a throwback. The Cottonmouth

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Kings were actually my first band I opened up

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for when my band moved out to California. We

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opened up for them and Zebra Head at the Roxy.

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Do you think they would remember you? I never

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met them. I hung out with Zebra Head. Cottonmouth

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Kings didn't show up till like five minutes before

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they went on. Yeah, they were I don't know Do

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you think if you told them your band's name they

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would remember? Hell no. No, hell no We were

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the first of like four bands Yeah, no nobody

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I barely remember that let alone them And they

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they smoke a lot of weed. So yeah, I don't think

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memories. They're strong. They're strong suit

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So well, they have their own lyrics. They've

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been singing for 30 years sitting in front of

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them Exactly. And that band has gone through

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a lot of different Like rappers, they basically

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have like four or five rappers at any time and

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I really don't know much about them They have

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a couple of songs I know and it was a cool opportunity

00:18:49.480 --> 00:18:51.900
a little blast from the past. So that's what

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I'm doing, but Let's see. When am I gonna put

00:18:54.720 --> 00:18:57.880
this out? I Think I'm gonna Monday. I'm gonna

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try to put it out tonight. Oh you are I'm gonna

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try because it doesn't get the best views on

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I don't care cuz here I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm

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going to talk about what's going on this weekend.

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So anyone who listens. So if you happen to get

00:19:10.160 --> 00:19:12.259
this, if you happen to wake up in the morning

00:19:12.259 --> 00:19:17.720
on Saturday, April 12th. No. Yeah. No, it's the

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11th, Saturday, April 11th. No. Oh, wait. Yeah.

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Saturday. Oh, yeah. It's already. Yeah, it's

00:19:25.140 --> 00:19:27.680
already Saturday. So I was like, no, wait. Yeah,

00:19:27.759 --> 00:19:30.500
no. So if you happen to hear this the day of

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Saturday morning, which you may or may not. There

00:19:32.829 --> 00:19:35.910
is a lust party going on in Menefee. We would

00:19:35.910 --> 00:19:38.349
be there. However, I do have my concert I'm going

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to and then on the 12th, Sunday the 12th, we

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will not be there. Sunday the 12th. We are doing

00:19:44.470 --> 00:19:47.349
another one of our Sunday fun days in Old Town

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Temecula. I love to see who shows up to that.

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Sometimes it's just like not just us, but sometimes

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it's just like our friends. And then sometimes

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other people show up who we've never met before.

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And I literally have met. Like the most random

00:20:01.579 --> 00:20:04.200
but like cool people like just and I love hearing

00:20:04.200 --> 00:20:06.700
everybody's story right now. We're sitting at

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34 people. Oh shit. I would say half of them

00:20:10.180 --> 00:20:12.519
are people we know and there's a few definitely

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people I've never seen before. Well, I hope those

00:20:15.039 --> 00:20:17.079
people who we've never seen before show up. Yeah,

00:20:17.079 --> 00:20:19.680
exactly. Because that makes good. And I feel

00:20:19.680 --> 00:20:23.259
like we've connected people who don't like who

00:20:23.259 --> 00:20:25.700
you think would never get connected. You know

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what I mean? Like even at the MNPP party thing

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or whatever, there was a couple that came and

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there's another couple that was there. So I think

00:20:36.980 --> 00:20:38.480
we called them. They're all from the same area

00:20:38.480 --> 00:20:40.299
of San Diego. Yeah, I think we called one of

00:20:40.299 --> 00:20:42.960
them the Jeep couple and the other one I think

00:20:42.960 --> 00:20:45.640
Beard named the Prada couple? Someone named the

00:20:45.640 --> 00:20:47.259
Prada couple. Prada couple, yes. Someone named

00:20:47.259 --> 00:20:50.519
them? I think it was Beard. Anyway. Yeah, because

00:20:50.519 --> 00:20:52.789
she had a Prada purse. No, it was sunglasses.

00:20:53.009 --> 00:20:54.750
Sunglasses, yes, that's right. Yeah, sunglasses.

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Nobody has a purse in the pool. I'm like, why

00:20:56.250 --> 00:20:58.569
did, yeah. Nobody has a purse in the pool. As

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I said it, I'm like, that didn't make sense.

00:21:00.490 --> 00:21:02.069
That doesn't make any sense. I was like thinking,

00:21:02.230 --> 00:21:03.849
I'm like, I hope she doesn't call me out for

00:21:03.849 --> 00:21:06.490
that. She is. And she did. Oh, me? Yeah, of course

00:21:06.490 --> 00:21:09.349
I'm going to. I mean, that's what I'm here for.

00:21:09.369 --> 00:21:11.670
So the product couple and the Jeep couple. They

00:21:11.670 --> 00:21:13.230
live very close. Minutes from each other. Yeah,

00:21:13.250 --> 00:21:15.029
and they wouldn't have met if they both wouldn't

00:21:15.029 --> 00:21:17.670
have come out to something like... Mm -hmm we

00:21:17.670 --> 00:21:19.990
were I'm not like we did it but like we're just

00:21:19.990 --> 00:21:22.869
like you're welcome guys. Yeah, but like we invited

00:21:22.869 --> 00:21:26.829
both You know what I mean? We always put out

00:21:26.829 --> 00:21:29.130
the invite to friends and friends. We haven't

00:21:29.130 --> 00:21:31.109
met yet Yeah, kind of what I always say so we

00:21:31.109 --> 00:21:33.369
had met both of them, but I'm just saying like

00:21:33.369 --> 00:21:35.269
when we get the new people Oh, yeah, yeah friends.

00:21:35.490 --> 00:21:37.390
We haven't met yet Yeah, but come out even if

00:21:37.390 --> 00:21:39.670
we're not your cup of tea like we have a lot

00:21:39.670 --> 00:21:42.069
of people who come out So then there's like you

00:21:42.069 --> 00:21:44.809
could find your cup of tea, right? Yeah, I actually

00:21:45.639 --> 00:21:48.039
Our friends, the bodybuilder couple, the one

00:21:48.039 --> 00:21:49.740
that gets up and sings with us all the time,

00:21:49.779 --> 00:21:54.579
my band. They're from out of this area and now

00:21:54.579 --> 00:21:56.519
they're kind of part of our group. They've joined

00:21:56.519 --> 00:21:58.579
us and now they've made all the new friends.

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They're actually going to a concert now with

00:22:01.380 --> 00:22:03.319
us. We're going to see the band that I can't

00:22:03.319 --> 00:22:05.619
pronounce. Aurora Wave. Say that one more time.

00:22:05.839 --> 00:22:07.460
Aurora Wave. For the people in the back. Aurora

00:22:07.460 --> 00:22:10.519
Wave. We are going to see them in San Diego.

00:22:11.179 --> 00:22:14.299
this weekend, but next Friday, the 17th. And

00:22:14.299 --> 00:22:16.640
they're actually joining us there. So yeah, it's

00:22:16.640 --> 00:22:19.700
been a, I love meeting new people. I love NRE.

00:22:19.900 --> 00:22:21.940
And like you said, not everybody's everybody's

00:22:21.940 --> 00:22:25.839
tea, but we welcome you to come join us and then

00:22:25.839 --> 00:22:27.720
you're gonna find your tea. Yeah, you might find

00:22:27.720 --> 00:22:29.839
somebody that you didn't, you would have never

00:22:29.839 --> 00:22:32.680
come across, right? Like, I don't know. Come

00:22:32.680 --> 00:22:35.079
across or come on. Yeah, exactly. I feel like

00:22:35.079 --> 00:22:38.700
I love seeing people connecting. Like, it's just

00:22:38.700 --> 00:22:43.200
cool to me that different, It's definitely one

00:22:43.200 --> 00:22:47.339
of the driving forces that actually keeps me

00:22:47.339 --> 00:22:50.640
going with this podcast. And it also keeps me

00:22:50.640 --> 00:22:55.299
with our community, is I do enjoy new faces meeting

00:22:55.299 --> 00:22:58.960
new faces. And it doesn't even have to involve

00:22:58.960 --> 00:23:01.420
us. Yeah, like half the time it doesn't. I see

00:23:01.420 --> 00:23:04.630
people that come out to things we've... They

00:23:04.630 --> 00:23:06.369
won't even talk to us, they just start talking

00:23:06.369 --> 00:23:08.549
to each other and it's great. We might say hi

00:23:08.549 --> 00:23:11.730
or whatever, but they find somebody that they

00:23:11.730 --> 00:23:14.069
connect with and I just think that's so cool.

00:23:15.029 --> 00:23:22.809
That's why we do it. Yeah. Because it takes someone

00:23:22.809 --> 00:23:26.289
to put together some type of event to do it.

00:23:27.909 --> 00:23:31.809
Not everybody's that person and I'd like to do

00:23:31.809 --> 00:23:34.529
events. I like organizing shit like that. So

00:23:34.529 --> 00:23:36.309
yeah, like I've had some people like, you know,

00:23:36.390 --> 00:23:37.670
thank you for putting this together. And it's

00:23:37.670 --> 00:23:41.309
like, yes, of course, let's go. So for sure.

00:23:41.450 --> 00:23:44.589
It's a good time. So we're doing another one

00:23:44.589 --> 00:23:47.650
of those, Sunday Funday. And if you catch it

00:23:47.650 --> 00:23:49.750
in time, feel free to join us. You can actually

00:23:49.750 --> 00:23:54.089
text us at the, what do I call it? The Sweden

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00:24:45.079 --> 00:24:49.359
you can send your nudie pics and, or if you need

00:24:49.359 --> 00:24:51.759
information about any of our upcoming events,

00:24:51.940 --> 00:24:53.619
you can always text me there and I do my best,

00:24:53.740 --> 00:24:58.599
my best. I do my best to text you back. I fail

00:24:58.599 --> 00:25:01.420
sometimes, but you know, it's funny is that you

00:25:01.420 --> 00:25:05.039
know how the word base and bass Yes, I felt the

00:25:05.039 --> 00:25:08.480
same So, you know how your show you did all that

00:25:08.480 --> 00:25:10.279
shit for your bass player because it was his

00:25:10.279 --> 00:25:13.779
birthday. Yes. Yes, so I was listening to some

00:25:13.779 --> 00:25:16.900
people they were reading it out loud bass. Yeah,

00:25:16.900 --> 00:25:22.559
I Mean they weren't reading it wrong. Is it somebody

00:25:22.559 --> 00:25:27.680
we know I'm not gonna I'm gonna have to reevaluate

00:25:27.680 --> 00:25:29.980
my friendship if it's people we know because

00:25:29.980 --> 00:25:33.740
that's that's a hard one What do you mean your

00:25:33.740 --> 00:25:36.940
bass players They didn't say like bass player,

00:25:36.980 --> 00:25:39.960
but they were like reading Whatever like you

00:25:39.960 --> 00:25:44.200
had like you had like will work for more bass

00:25:44.200 --> 00:25:47.279
We need to set this up. So basically what I did

00:25:47.279 --> 00:25:51.160
is for my last Last show it was my bass players

00:25:51.160 --> 00:25:55.109
50th birthday So there's a TV behind the drummer

00:25:55.109 --> 00:25:59.210
at the joint replay app and I did a hundred AI

00:25:59.210 --> 00:26:05.170
photos of him in wrestling singlets as a kid

00:26:05.170 --> 00:26:10.730
playing the bass wrestling a bear and soap operas

00:26:10.730 --> 00:26:12.849
and a water slide. So I just did a bunch of crazy.

00:26:12.869 --> 00:26:15.190
Part of Metallica. Exactly. I just like a bunch

00:26:15.190 --> 00:26:18.130
of crazy AI photos of him and just whatever.

00:26:18.490 --> 00:26:20.430
And it was on, it was like a 12 minute video

00:26:20.430 --> 00:26:22.589
that just repeated behind us. So that's what

00:26:22.589 --> 00:26:24.630
you're talking about. Yeah. I had like writing,

00:26:24.730 --> 00:26:26.890
it was like 20 bucks is 20 bucks. Yeah. And I

00:26:26.890 --> 00:26:29.089
just had a bunch of crazy shit going on. Yeah.

00:26:29.089 --> 00:26:30.910
It was a hit. It was pretty funny. It was a hit.

00:26:31.650 --> 00:26:34.190
But anyway, yeah. I heard somebody reading it

00:26:34.190 --> 00:26:37.569
out loud. Out loud. Yeah. That's funny. I laughed.

00:26:37.589 --> 00:26:44.309
I was like, wait, what? So So we've talked about

00:26:44.309 --> 00:26:47.569
that Let's really quick out. Like I said, I don't

00:26:47.569 --> 00:26:49.529
want to take this one too long because I need

00:26:49.529 --> 00:26:54.569
to go to bed But what are the some of the what

00:26:54.569 --> 00:26:59.309
are the some of the surprises? That you've had

00:26:59.309 --> 00:27:02.809
since joining the lifestyle one of the some of

00:27:02.809 --> 00:27:07.420
the biggest surprises Surprises? Surprises, yes.

00:27:08.779 --> 00:27:12.640
Or like, surprises might be a strong word. Yeah,

00:27:12.660 --> 00:27:14.740
I'm like, what do you mean surprises? Like, I've

00:27:14.740 --> 00:27:19.240
not been surprised. No, I don't know, just with

00:27:19.240 --> 00:27:21.519
all the experiences. Unexpected? Unexpected,

00:27:21.559 --> 00:27:25.240
we'll say that, yeah. I think unexpected was

00:27:25.240 --> 00:27:29.819
the friendships more than anything. Yeah? Yeah.

00:27:31.370 --> 00:27:36.049
Kind of don't like those a dick is a dick No,

00:27:36.309 --> 00:27:39.369
but I'm surprised by a few of those. Yeah, I

00:27:39.369 --> 00:27:43.430
have been surprised Whether it was good or bad

00:27:43.430 --> 00:27:50.089
the good bad the ugly I'm sitting right here

00:27:50.089 --> 00:27:54.910
Yes, I would say that was one of the last things

00:27:54.910 --> 00:27:57.430
I kind of expected. Yeah, I thought it was a

00:27:57.430 --> 00:27:59.589
thousand percent the last thing I expected. I

00:27:59.589 --> 00:28:01.569
will say though, the very - I'm not a super friendly

00:28:01.569 --> 00:28:07.789
person. Girl, same. One of the last, or no, sorry,

00:28:08.369 --> 00:28:12.049
the first, probably the first actual experience

00:28:12.049 --> 00:28:15.549
we had at Freedom Makers with that one couple.

00:28:15.589 --> 00:28:18.869
Yeah. At the end of the couple, or at the end

00:28:18.869 --> 00:28:23.000
of the night, we exchanged numbers. And they

00:28:23.000 --> 00:28:24.819
were like, yeah, come over for her barbecue.

00:28:25.180 --> 00:28:29.980
And I was very much like, whoa. Yeah. Like, um,

00:28:30.019 --> 00:28:33.440
yeah. I didn't know this was forever. Yeah. Like

00:28:33.440 --> 00:28:37.319
I did not foresee it going this way. And we never,

00:28:37.400 --> 00:28:39.240
we never mess. I think you might've messaged

00:28:39.240 --> 00:28:42.400
them her once. Yeah. But they're probably still

00:28:42.400 --> 00:28:45.339
on our phones. Maybe. Like I wouldn't know what

00:28:45.339 --> 00:28:46.920
to search because I can't remember their names

00:28:46.920 --> 00:28:50.660
to be fair. That was a long ass time ago. So

00:28:50.660 --> 00:28:54.880
yeah, I doubt it. But I wasn't like, no, like

00:28:54.880 --> 00:28:57.279
I wasn't looking for that at all. Like, yeah,

00:28:57.640 --> 00:29:01.299
I wasn't necessarily not looking for it. I had

00:29:01.299 --> 00:29:02.900
lists. I feel like I've talked to those before.

00:29:03.059 --> 00:29:04.740
I've listened. I had listened to podcasts because

00:29:04.740 --> 00:29:06.039
you were like when we first started, you were

00:29:06.039 --> 00:29:08.759
like, hey, listen to these podcasts. And I listened

00:29:08.759 --> 00:29:12.000
to them talk about like having friends going

00:29:12.000 --> 00:29:14.940
on like family vacations with people. And I'm

00:29:14.940 --> 00:29:18.660
like, what the actual fuck? And then like fucking

00:29:18.660 --> 00:29:22.720
these people. And I'm like, this is wild. And

00:29:22.720 --> 00:29:27.200
I, to me and my brain was like, that's a hard

00:29:27.200 --> 00:29:34.279
no. That's a lot. That's a weird like no. And

00:29:34.279 --> 00:29:39.960
yeah, I didn't I didn't expect the friendships

00:29:39.960 --> 00:29:43.500
I've made. And I think that's a lot of people,

00:29:43.740 --> 00:29:46.960
though. A lot of people go into it very anti

00:29:46.960 --> 00:29:50.289
friendship because they're afraid of. Feelings.

00:29:50.549 --> 00:29:52.730
Yeah, I don't know. I mean, that might be true,

00:29:52.829 --> 00:29:58.309
too. I think I've heard from like couple people

00:29:58.309 --> 00:30:02.490
that are new that they I don't know. I don't

00:30:02.490 --> 00:30:05.730
know. I don't know the mindset that puts you

00:30:05.730 --> 00:30:07.089
into this. It's like, yeah, this is what I want

00:30:07.089 --> 00:30:09.329
to do when you think this way. But like people

00:30:09.329 --> 00:30:13.180
think like. their deviance. It's like the other

00:30:13.180 --> 00:30:15.700
situation, right? Like, okay, I want to do this

00:30:15.700 --> 00:30:18.200
and I'm normal. But those people, they're the

00:30:18.200 --> 00:30:20.960
other they're weird. Yeah. And their deviance

00:30:20.960 --> 00:30:23.619
and their I can't I can't talk to them after.

00:30:23.940 --> 00:30:25.920
Yeah, exactly. Because they might be weird. Like

00:30:25.920 --> 00:30:27.700
they're gonna like cling on and they're gonna

00:30:27.700 --> 00:30:30.880
be like, whatever. Like, it's that like other

00:30:30.880 --> 00:30:33.759
like, I think people get that mindset that I've

00:30:33.759 --> 00:30:36.259
heard. I didn't have that necessarily where I

00:30:36.259 --> 00:30:38.910
was thinking of people as like, Oh, they're deviants

00:30:38.910 --> 00:30:42.450
or they're the other, you know, like I'm normal.

00:30:42.630 --> 00:30:45.690
They're not. I didn't necessarily have that,

00:30:45.750 --> 00:30:48.950
but I have heard people talk to me and I've gotten

00:30:48.950 --> 00:30:50.970
the feeling from some newbies because we do come

00:30:50.970 --> 00:30:52.690
across because we do a lot of meet and greets

00:30:52.690 --> 00:30:54.470
and we do a lot of stuff that's pretty easy for

00:30:54.470 --> 00:30:57.430
people to show up to where it's very low pressure.

00:30:57.430 --> 00:30:59.390
I've talked to a lot of people who are just getting

00:30:59.390 --> 00:31:04.170
into the lifestyle and you I have heard from

00:31:04.170 --> 00:31:09.609
kind of several of them that like They have this

00:31:09.609 --> 00:31:13.829
like mindset that like Because they think this

00:31:13.829 --> 00:31:18.589
is not necessarily Right, but they still want

00:31:18.589 --> 00:31:22.029
to do it. So they put themselves in like a scenario

00:31:22.029 --> 00:31:26.710
of like I'm the exception to the rule and the

00:31:26.710 --> 00:31:29.109
rule is these people are deviants. These people

00:31:29.109 --> 00:31:32.200
are Naughty these people or whatever and I'm

00:31:32.200 --> 00:31:34.319
just gonna get in and get out really. Yes I'm

00:31:34.319 --> 00:31:36.640
gonna just like tap in and then be like get get

00:31:36.640 --> 00:31:38.920
what I want out of this and then tap out. Yeah

00:31:39.429 --> 00:31:43.250
and not like invest anything in it and definitely

00:31:43.250 --> 00:31:45.910
not give any information about myself. I'm going

00:31:45.910 --> 00:31:48.430
to keep myself super. I'm going to change my

00:31:48.430 --> 00:31:50.490
name. I'm going to change, like change all these

00:31:50.490 --> 00:31:51.990
things because I don't want anybody knowing who

00:31:51.990 --> 00:31:53.890
I am because they're deviants. Right. Like they

00:31:53.890 --> 00:31:56.230
have that mindset. And then I feel like they

00:31:56.230 --> 00:31:58.190
come into it and a lot of them realize like,

00:31:58.190 --> 00:31:59.869
oh, shit, no, they're just normal people like

00:31:59.869 --> 00:32:02.410
their moms or dads. They're I mean, they're coaches.

00:32:02.890 --> 00:32:05.400
I mean, there are I mean. But for the most part,

00:32:05.599 --> 00:32:07.799
it's like they're like some people are church

00:32:07.799 --> 00:32:10.259
going like, you know what I mean? Like it's the

00:32:10.259 --> 00:32:13.079
gamut of like people. So it's very interesting.

00:32:13.720 --> 00:32:16.559
I feel like like again, I didn't necessarily

00:32:16.559 --> 00:32:19.339
have that mindset that we've heard enough about,

00:32:19.339 --> 00:32:23.299
but I've heard. Yeah. And but I definitely even

00:32:23.299 --> 00:32:25.319
without that mindset, I definitely didn't have

00:32:25.319 --> 00:32:27.380
the mindset of like, I'm going to meet some really

00:32:27.380 --> 00:32:29.480
great people and have like a big, huge group

00:32:29.480 --> 00:32:33.210
of friends because I've never had. Huge group

00:32:33.210 --> 00:32:35.309
of friends and I've never been one to really

00:32:35.309 --> 00:32:42.029
do friends. Yeah, I am If you if you know me

00:32:42.029 --> 00:32:47.009
personally and at parties and stuff like that

00:32:47.009 --> 00:32:49.789
Normally before I have a couple of drinks. I'm

00:32:49.789 --> 00:32:53.009
kind of sitting there quiet. Yeah like hey, are

00:32:53.009 --> 00:32:56.049
you okay? I'm like, I'm fine even tonight actually

00:32:56.049 --> 00:32:59.690
I was with vanilla people but I was sitting there

00:32:59.690 --> 00:33:03.000
and like literally Everyone at the table was

00:33:03.000 --> 00:33:05.759
like, are you okay? And I'm like, I'm fine. They're

00:33:05.759 --> 00:33:07.700
like, you're so quiet. Normally you're like the

00:33:07.700 --> 00:33:09.000
life of the party. I'm like, well, I'm fucking

00:33:09.000 --> 00:33:11.940
sober. And that's your own car. You were at a

00:33:11.940 --> 00:33:14.660
winery. No, but I mean, I just got there. Literally,

00:33:14.660 --> 00:33:16.539
I just got there. And then they're like, you

00:33:16.539 --> 00:33:19.660
could have pre -partied. I was like, I was working.

00:33:20.180 --> 00:33:23.000
It is Friday. You work from home and you could

00:33:23.000 --> 00:33:26.619
pre -party. Okay. I drove you there. So yeah.

00:33:26.750 --> 00:33:29.750
Guess I could have exactly but anyway, and I

00:33:29.750 --> 00:33:33.690
was just like I'm just not like I Don't know.

00:33:33.690 --> 00:33:37.890
I'm just like I'm just not like Super yeah, I

00:33:37.890 --> 00:33:41.710
don't know outgoing and all these things Sober

00:33:41.710 --> 00:33:45.150
when I get drunk I get very friendly. It's it

00:33:45.150 --> 00:33:49.990
kind of like before my last gig I Have to pretty

00:33:49.990 --> 00:33:52.130
much be sober through my gigs because the alcohol

00:33:52.130 --> 00:33:56.500
messes with my throat my voice So I've unfortunately

00:33:56.500 --> 00:34:00.359
had to make the lifestyle change of not drinking

00:34:00.359 --> 00:34:04.160
during my shows. So that in turn makes me very

00:34:04.160 --> 00:34:07.920
sober for the first hour while people are filing

00:34:07.920 --> 00:34:12.380
in and they're all talking to me. And I'm not

00:34:12.380 --> 00:34:15.179
going to use the word uncomfortable, but it is

00:34:15.179 --> 00:34:17.639
a bit uncomfortable because I'm like, I am so

00:34:17.639 --> 00:34:21.170
introverted. And without alcohol, I'm like sitting

00:34:21.170 --> 00:34:23.130
there, putting on my best face, trying to, you

00:34:23.130 --> 00:34:26.690
know, be there and be nice. But it is, it is

00:34:26.690 --> 00:34:29.389
rough. Yeah. And then finally I get to go on

00:34:29.389 --> 00:34:30.869
stage for three hours and I don't have to get

00:34:30.869 --> 00:34:33.090
off the stage because we just play straight through.

00:34:33.510 --> 00:34:35.829
And that's beautiful because then like later

00:34:35.829 --> 00:34:38.030
then I can have a drink and then I get to come

00:34:38.030 --> 00:34:42.389
out and play. But the friendship thing took me

00:34:42.389 --> 00:34:46.730
by surprise because we had that one, one episode

00:34:46.730 --> 00:34:50.829
or one experience and then we didn't have anything

00:34:50.829 --> 00:34:53.650
again for a while and then we started going to

00:34:53.650 --> 00:34:57.090
the the meeting greets and We we didn't put on

00:34:57.090 --> 00:34:59.630
the bracelets. We stood in the corner and you

00:34:59.630 --> 00:35:02.369
know, we called people clicky I'm sure we didn't

00:35:02.369 --> 00:35:06.269
call anybody clicky but but At the time we were

00:35:06.269 --> 00:35:08.929
like we would never and then here we are yeah,

00:35:08.929 --> 00:35:11.750
you know throwing meeting greets and doing all

00:35:11.750 --> 00:35:14.269
that shit and Like I remember back in the day

00:35:14.269 --> 00:35:16.570
when we would meet somebody we would like are

00:35:16.570 --> 00:35:18.789
you one kick? Are you on kick? No, I'm just like,

00:35:18.829 --> 00:35:21.070
what's your phone number? Yeah, because it's

00:35:21.070 --> 00:35:23.349
like that mentality of like, what are they going

00:35:23.349 --> 00:35:25.150
to do? You have to hide. Yeah, you have to hide

00:35:25.150 --> 00:35:28.010
yourself. So they Google my number and they they

00:35:28.010 --> 00:35:30.889
find out my name. Yeah. Last name. Yeah. OK.

00:35:31.230 --> 00:35:36.570
Yeah. All right. Like, OK. Yeah. So it's it's

00:35:36.570 --> 00:35:38.530
you kind of yeah, you kind of get past that.

00:35:38.530 --> 00:35:40.090
Now it's just so much easier. Like, hey, what's

00:35:40.090 --> 00:35:41.809
your number? And we just chat and blah, blah,

00:35:41.989 --> 00:35:44.409
blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Yeah. Well,

00:35:44.409 --> 00:35:47.579
it is easy. It is. Oh, I mean. Until the freaking

00:35:47.579 --> 00:35:49.639
people have Android phones and you have green

00:35:49.639 --> 00:35:52.760
chat. There is a difference though between meeting

00:35:52.760 --> 00:35:55.139
people online and meeting people in person. Yes.

00:35:55.280 --> 00:35:57.320
I do feel much more comfortable obviously meeting

00:35:57.320 --> 00:35:59.380
somebody in person and giving numbers and stuff

00:35:59.380 --> 00:36:01.079
because then you're like no. You know they're

00:36:01.079 --> 00:36:04.719
still okay. Again my whole thought process is

00:36:04.719 --> 00:36:07.340
never like this community as a whole is deviant

00:36:07.340 --> 00:36:10.300
but obviously there are some weirdos. There are

00:36:10.300 --> 00:36:12.699
some weirdos right. Like there's people who take

00:36:12.699 --> 00:36:15.519
advantage of the fact that like we're so open

00:36:15.519 --> 00:36:19.340
or like yeah we're willing to do xyz so then

00:36:19.340 --> 00:36:23.699
you do get people who can be weird about that

00:36:23.699 --> 00:36:26.260
and then we've also had people who've had people

00:36:26.260 --> 00:36:30.480
who've been scorned and then fucking made their

00:36:30.480 --> 00:36:33.400
lives hell we've had some friends that have been

00:36:33.400 --> 00:36:37.480
doxed and yeah yeah so there is a little bit

00:36:37.480 --> 00:36:41.739
yeah that's not i mean I don't think that's the

00:36:41.739 --> 00:36:44.940
norm. No at all out of all the friends. We've

00:36:44.940 --> 00:36:51.239
had it's it's it's a small Yeah But if I meet

00:36:51.239 --> 00:36:53.699
somebody in person, I definitely feel much more

00:36:53.699 --> 00:36:58.239
like okay, yeah, you know sure yeah Yeah, I don't

00:36:58.239 --> 00:37:02.860
online. I don't give out my number my real cell

00:37:02.860 --> 00:37:08.840
number I give out my suicide of life number and

00:37:08.840 --> 00:37:12.769
then Eventually, if we continue conversations

00:37:12.769 --> 00:37:15.289
and we hang out in person, then you eventually

00:37:15.289 --> 00:37:17.409
get migrated to my real number, which a few of

00:37:17.409 --> 00:37:19.809
you have recently, so congratulations. You made

00:37:19.809 --> 00:37:26.210
the cut. Speaking of made the cut, the product

00:37:26.210 --> 00:37:30.750
couple, up to this point, they only had my sweet

00:37:30.750 --> 00:37:33.309
side of life number, just because, whatever,

00:37:33.449 --> 00:37:36.050
we just communicated there. But there was a couple

00:37:36.050 --> 00:37:39.690
of pictures of me in a... A woman's shirt. Crop

00:37:39.690 --> 00:37:42.929
top. A woman's crop top that he desperately wanted

00:37:42.929 --> 00:37:46.349
to send me. Miss Prada's shirt. Desperately wanted

00:37:46.349 --> 00:37:49.809
to send me. It looks much better on her, by the

00:37:49.809 --> 00:37:53.510
way. It was you and then the Jeep couple man.

00:37:53.610 --> 00:37:57.269
Was he in his wife's shirt? Yep. It was a pretty

00:37:57.269 --> 00:38:00.449
funny photo, but he was trying to send it through

00:38:00.449 --> 00:38:02.710
and it didn't go through, so I gave him my actual

00:38:02.710 --> 00:38:04.349
number and then they came through and I kind

00:38:04.349 --> 00:38:07.030
of regretted that decision. But here we are.

00:38:07.289 --> 00:38:11.190
At least you have a copy of your blackmail. Yes.

00:38:12.090 --> 00:38:14.769
Thank you. Now I know what I'm going to be blackmailed

00:38:14.769 --> 00:38:18.550
with. I will not be running for politics anytime

00:38:18.550 --> 00:38:23.050
soon. So, so yes, friendship. That's definitely

00:38:23.050 --> 00:38:26.150
a huge surprise, but it's a good surprise because

00:38:26.150 --> 00:38:30.070
honestly, if it wasn't for the friendship part,

00:38:30.090 --> 00:38:34.280
I don't know if we would be LS. Because we wouldn't

00:38:34.280 --> 00:38:36.380
have continued. Yeah, because our approach to

00:38:36.380 --> 00:38:41.880
DLS is Very much more friendship friendship hangout

00:38:41.880 --> 00:38:45.659
based. Yeah, then DTF because we're we're not

00:38:45.659 --> 00:38:49.219
DTF like we'll get down when we get down But

00:38:49.219 --> 00:38:51.980
we're not like that type. So if we didn't have

00:38:51.980 --> 00:38:54.699
the friendship portion of it I don't I don't

00:38:54.699 --> 00:38:58.860
know if our our Vibe would even work out because

00:38:58.860 --> 00:39:02.099
it would be very like Once every two months meet

00:39:02.099 --> 00:39:04.599
up a random in and yeah I don't I just don't

00:39:04.599 --> 00:39:06.900
see it working if we weren't in it for the friendship

00:39:06.900 --> 00:39:09.699
part of it I could see it working. We obviously

00:39:09.699 --> 00:39:12.039
wouldn't have as many experiences and probably

00:39:12.039 --> 00:39:18.679
not As fulfilling yeah, but um I could see us

00:39:18.679 --> 00:39:22.480
like going to Like events where there are multiple

00:39:22.480 --> 00:39:25.219
days and then something still happening. Yeah

00:39:25.219 --> 00:39:29.500
potentially or like like EDR where it's like

00:39:30.300 --> 00:39:32.000
Well, we definitely wouldn't be able to do a

00:39:32.000 --> 00:39:36.599
podcast where you could do multiple Days and

00:39:36.599 --> 00:39:39.280
like slow burn into something even if you weren't

00:39:39.280 --> 00:39:41.619
gonna exchange anything because we have done

00:39:41.619 --> 00:39:45.000
that where we've gone and We have a couple of

00:39:45.000 --> 00:39:48.480
randos. Yeah a couple of randos, but I mean if

00:39:48.480 --> 00:39:50.519
you take that over the but we probably would

00:39:50.519 --> 00:39:52.380
do more of that right like we probably would

00:39:52.380 --> 00:39:55.440
spend more time at EDR and like maybe more time

00:39:55.440 --> 00:39:58.769
doing Maybe, because yeah, right now we can literally,

00:39:58.989 --> 00:40:01.570
the weekend of, we can throw out an event, we

00:40:01.570 --> 00:40:03.969
can have 25, 30 people, we can hang out, and

00:40:03.969 --> 00:40:06.630
it's really easy. So I guess if we had the try

00:40:06.630 --> 00:40:13.550
harder, maybe, I don't know, perhaps. So yeah,

00:40:13.969 --> 00:40:18.449
that's a huge thing. And then for me, I enjoy

00:40:18.449 --> 00:40:20.849
the LS, and it surprised me because, I feel like

00:40:20.849 --> 00:40:25.369
an essay. Because well you had time to prepare

00:40:25.369 --> 00:40:28.449
you just not really no, this is this is brand

00:40:28.449 --> 00:40:32.929
new to me, too. I Just uh, like we were talking

00:40:32.929 --> 00:40:34.969
about earlier. I'm not the friendliest person

00:40:34.969 --> 00:40:40.849
So it really actually challenges myself to step

00:40:40.849 --> 00:40:45.610
outside of my my safety Yeah. I think you have

00:40:45.610 --> 00:40:47.849
to do that. You have to. It's just like the people

00:40:47.849 --> 00:40:49.650
we always talk about. Like you can't sit in a

00:40:49.650 --> 00:40:51.590
corner and call it clicky. You have to put yourself

00:40:51.590 --> 00:40:52.650
out there. When people say clicky or when people

00:40:52.650 --> 00:40:54.889
say, oh, people already know each other. Well,

00:40:54.969 --> 00:40:56.329
yeah, they know each other because they met each

00:40:56.329 --> 00:40:58.550
other and they only meet each other because people

00:40:58.550 --> 00:41:02.769
stepped outside of their comfort zone and went

00:41:02.769 --> 00:41:06.250
talk to people. So like, I feel like I've gotten

00:41:06.250 --> 00:41:10.989
pretty good. about expressing interest in someone.

00:41:11.570 --> 00:41:13.829
Like you've told me that in the past. Yeah, you

00:41:13.829 --> 00:41:17.050
are good at that. And guys who you talked about

00:41:17.050 --> 00:41:19.230
earlier, like you've done pretty good for yourself

00:41:19.230 --> 00:41:22.949
because like you literally like, you can play.

00:41:23.969 --> 00:41:29.389
I mean, if you want to, you can. And I think

00:41:29.389 --> 00:41:34.170
that like guys who say, I don't know any guys

00:41:34.170 --> 00:41:36.539
who. or like I never get to play or what I don't

00:41:36.539 --> 00:41:40.880
know yeah but I would say that guys who don't

00:41:40.880 --> 00:41:43.800
do that it's probably because they're not putting

00:41:43.800 --> 00:41:46.519
their interests out there like they're not saying

00:41:46.519 --> 00:41:49.639
what what they want because guys I will tell

00:41:49.639 --> 00:41:52.760
you most women there's only a handful of women

00:41:52.760 --> 00:41:57.619
that I personally know that will show their cards

00:41:57.619 --> 00:42:02.039
yeah right out the gate most women you have to

00:42:02.170 --> 00:42:05.210
Make the first move you have to show you in all

00:42:05.210 --> 00:42:11.989
fairness like society has Made it so women Are

00:42:11.989 --> 00:42:14.550
not allowed to do that right like you're a slut

00:42:14.550 --> 00:42:17.389
if you do that and again I know this is different,

00:42:17.389 --> 00:42:20.489
but we've all been like from a young age We've

00:42:20.489 --> 00:42:24.510
been told like don't like show too much interest

00:42:24.510 --> 00:42:27.409
Don't you know put yourself out there like be

00:42:27.409 --> 00:42:32.139
meek be mindful you know and so even though In

00:42:32.139 --> 00:42:35.219
this, I definitely don't feel like necessarily

00:42:35.219 --> 00:42:38.659
that way. I'm fighting like years of training

00:42:38.659 --> 00:42:43.519
and society and just everything telling me don't

00:42:43.519 --> 00:42:46.099
be sexual. Like, don't you know what I mean?

00:42:46.780 --> 00:42:51.519
Like so. Yes, it helps when a guy definitely.

00:42:52.849 --> 00:42:55.150
Tells you what they want like for me and then

00:42:55.150 --> 00:42:57.610
it gives you permission to be like as a woman

00:42:57.610 --> 00:43:00.429
That's how I feel to be like, oh cool. I want

00:43:00.429 --> 00:43:03.670
that too. Yeah for me like I've noticed like

00:43:03.670 --> 00:43:07.130
if if a woman walks up to me and in my head I'm

00:43:07.130 --> 00:43:09.309
thinking wow, she's hot. I'll say right out the

00:43:09.309 --> 00:43:11.969
gate Yeah, you are so beautiful like right out

00:43:11.969 --> 00:43:14.489
the gate and it's just like I just put it out

00:43:14.489 --> 00:43:18.030
there and if they don't do anything with it,

00:43:18.170 --> 00:43:21.769
then I can kind of base my next move off of that.

00:43:22.090 --> 00:43:23.750
Sometimes they're like, oh, thank you so much.

00:43:23.789 --> 00:43:25.769
And they walk away. And I'm like, OK. Cool. I

00:43:25.769 --> 00:43:27.349
just probably made her day. But yeah, I'm not

00:43:27.349 --> 00:43:31.210
going to pursue that anymore. But then if they

00:43:31.210 --> 00:43:33.010
say, oh, thank you, and they touch your arm,

00:43:33.230 --> 00:43:37.469
then I'm like, oh, OK. So I've gotten pretty

00:43:37.469 --> 00:43:42.300
good at making that first show of interest. And

00:43:42.300 --> 00:43:44.639
you, I know personally, you need someone to show

00:43:44.639 --> 00:43:47.139
that first interest. Yeah, for sure. Because

00:43:47.139 --> 00:43:49.079
there's a lot of guys, a lot of people we hang

00:43:49.079 --> 00:43:51.300
out with and stuff that I know like are into

00:43:51.300 --> 00:43:54.239
you, but they're quiet and shy. And you're kind

00:43:54.239 --> 00:43:55.980
of like in the background, you're like, I have

00:43:55.980 --> 00:43:59.000
no idea. I'm like, bitch, they are. They're just,

00:43:59.059 --> 00:44:02.019
they're not me. Like, in the sense of like, they

00:44:02.019 --> 00:44:04.139
won't necessarily say that first, they're shy

00:44:04.139 --> 00:44:08.400
or whatever the case is. So guys. Don't be afraid

00:44:08.400 --> 00:44:11.079
to make that first. It's not even a first move

00:44:11.079 --> 00:44:13.860
It's not even like you're going in for a kiss.

00:44:13.860 --> 00:44:17.860
It's just it's literally just a word yeah, and

00:44:17.860 --> 00:44:21.820
a word can be like boom just it shows interest

00:44:21.820 --> 00:44:24.719
and that's all it takes a lot of times to get

00:44:24.719 --> 00:44:27.880
that fire started let her know and also vice

00:44:27.880 --> 00:44:30.780
versa like I love it when a girl is forward with

00:44:30.780 --> 00:44:34.340
me, yeah and Some are pretty crazy like to come

00:44:34.340 --> 00:44:37.639
up and strike grab my nipples and start Like

00:44:37.639 --> 00:44:41.019
not speaking about UV. I'm not talking about

00:44:41.019 --> 00:44:45.860
V from the V and our couple at all Not one bit

00:44:45.860 --> 00:44:51.840
am I talking about you? but she has She's very

00:44:51.840 --> 00:44:54.380
forward and I appreciate the hell out of it if

00:44:54.380 --> 00:44:57.039
I have any if I go to a like an event I'm feeling

00:44:57.039 --> 00:45:00.579
down she walks in I'm like, I'm good She's like

00:45:00.579 --> 00:45:02.769
grabbing my nipples and she's like All right,

00:45:02.769 --> 00:45:04.489
so I'm going to suck your dick under the table

00:45:04.489 --> 00:45:07.469
right now. I'm like, no, we can't do that right

00:45:07.469 --> 00:45:11.989
now. We're at McDonald's. So, yeah. So she's

00:45:11.989 --> 00:45:15.730
very forward. But not all women are. No. So,

00:45:15.730 --> 00:45:20.389
yeah, we kind of took a turn there. Is that what

00:45:20.389 --> 00:45:24.730
you're thankful for? V's foreignness? It's one

00:45:24.730 --> 00:45:27.889
of the things. She has a few other things I'm

00:45:27.889 --> 00:45:32.139
thankful for as well. However. We digress like

00:45:32.139 --> 00:45:34.739
a motherfucker. So I think that's kind of what

00:45:34.739 --> 00:45:36.860
I just wanted to hit on. It was like just some

00:45:36.860 --> 00:45:38.760
surprises we've had since we've started. It's

00:45:38.760 --> 00:45:40.880
been a couple of years now. And did you say surprise?

00:45:40.960 --> 00:45:45.300
Did you say yours? That was the exact same thing.

00:45:45.440 --> 00:45:48.500
I was like, was I not listening? No, it was kind

00:45:48.500 --> 00:45:51.800
of, it was, it was mostly your, your thought

00:45:51.800 --> 00:45:54.380
of the friendships because I did not anticipate

00:45:54.380 --> 00:45:58.059
that I was looking for that. Yeah. Because up

00:45:58.059 --> 00:46:00.900
until i've never done the vanilla friendship

00:46:00.900 --> 00:46:03.840
thing because i hate small talk yeah i like real

00:46:03.840 --> 00:46:08.699
talk yeah so or sexual talk sexual talk that

00:46:08.699 --> 00:46:11.719
i can be real with so yeah bullshit talk i'm

00:46:11.719 --> 00:46:15.320
like i am so much happier with a group of lifestylers

00:46:15.320 --> 00:46:18.599
just being able to shoot the shit play grab ass

00:46:18.599 --> 00:46:24.260
and speak my mind yeah and uh that is where my

00:46:24.260 --> 00:46:28.440
my friendship meter Is good with like I still

00:46:28.440 --> 00:46:30.760
I can't do vanilla friendships right now. Yeah,

00:46:30.880 --> 00:46:33.599
I don't I don't really I don't think I have any

00:46:33.599 --> 00:46:36.760
Like I just there's nobody in my phone book where

00:46:36.760 --> 00:46:43.239
I'm like, oh this sounds fun No, I'm like no

00:46:43.239 --> 00:46:46.099
this is not worth it like pool parties regular

00:46:46.099 --> 00:46:50.679
pool parties now boring I'll sit in the corner

00:46:52.010 --> 00:46:54.349
I'm good. Everybody's got to keep their clothes

00:46:54.349 --> 00:46:57.190
on. That's no fun. That's boring as hell. And

00:46:57.190 --> 00:46:59.869
I think the other thing I was surprised about

00:46:59.869 --> 00:47:03.750
is kind of going back to earlier, how well I've

00:47:03.750 --> 00:47:06.409
done. Cause growing up I had a, I was really

00:47:06.409 --> 00:47:11.190
insecure. I still am to an extent, but grown,

00:47:11.429 --> 00:47:14.010
definitely growing up and very insecure. And

00:47:14.010 --> 00:47:16.489
I didn't have much experience with the opposite

00:47:16.489 --> 00:47:20.400
sex before you frankly. Yeah. So being able to

00:47:20.400 --> 00:47:23.380
go out there and, and flex my, my muscle, quote

00:47:23.380 --> 00:47:27.019
unquote, not the, not the veiny one, but you

00:47:27.019 --> 00:47:30.400
flex that too. But the, you know, just the, the

00:47:30.400 --> 00:47:33.219
mentality of it, like, Oh, wow. I am flirting

00:47:33.219 --> 00:47:37.039
and flirting. I am desirable to some people.

00:47:37.239 --> 00:47:39.780
Like, yeah, that was huge. That built up my confidence

00:47:39.780 --> 00:47:43.059
a lot. And I know that did with you too. Like,

00:47:43.239 --> 00:47:46.320
yeah, everybody wants to fuck me. Shit. Fuck

00:47:46.320 --> 00:47:51.960
you. Your percentage is definitely higher than

00:47:51.960 --> 00:47:54.599
me. I'm still sitting at probably a 50 -50 and

00:47:54.599 --> 00:47:57.219
I'm fine with that. I do good with those odds.

00:47:58.480 --> 00:48:00.139
But yeah, those are all - You do better than

00:48:00.139 --> 00:48:03.239
me most days. That's because I put myself out

00:48:03.239 --> 00:48:09.079
more than you. Kind of goes back to that. So

00:48:09.079 --> 00:48:13.000
yeah, that's probably the biggest thing. So let's

00:48:13.000 --> 00:48:15.360
wrap that subject up. Unless there's something

00:48:15.360 --> 00:48:18.000
else you wanted to talk about any other surprises?

00:48:18.800 --> 00:48:20.559
No, I don't think so. We're already going way

00:48:20.559 --> 00:48:23.800
longer than anticipated. This is what I do. Yeah,

00:48:23.820 --> 00:48:27.619
you just ramble. I suck you in and suck you off.

00:48:27.780 --> 00:48:32.980
I do. So before we conclude this episode of The

00:48:32.980 --> 00:48:37.219
Sweet Side of Life, episode 6 to 7, I do want

00:48:37.219 --> 00:48:39.119
to touch on one more thing. What's that? That

00:48:39.119 --> 00:48:42.880
is not your puzzle. EDR. That's not my pussy.

00:48:43.000 --> 00:48:44.300
That's not I want to touch on one more thing.

00:48:44.300 --> 00:48:51.639
That's nacho. Oh EDR EDR is a Lifestyle resort

00:48:51.639 --> 00:48:54.380
in the beautiful city of Palm Springs, California

00:48:54.380 --> 00:48:59.099
We have ranted and we have raved and then we've

00:48:59.099 --> 00:49:02.559
ranted again and we have broken up with EDR and

00:49:02.559 --> 00:49:06.980
we have a very We have a very volatile relationship

00:49:06.980 --> 00:49:12.460
with EDR right now We're kind of, we started

00:49:12.460 --> 00:49:17.159
dating again. Sort of. So. We're getting ready

00:49:17.159 --> 00:49:19.760
to see each other. Yes, we are planning our big

00:49:19.760 --> 00:49:22.739
date. We made plans for our date. So we're communicating.

00:49:22.900 --> 00:49:27.400
So we've had multiple friends say that they've

00:49:27.400 --> 00:49:30.460
been there recently and they've had some subpar

00:49:30.460 --> 00:49:36.139
experiences. It was trash. And I can see all

00:49:36.139 --> 00:49:40.809
their reasoning and it sounds bad. So. We always

00:49:40.809 --> 00:49:44.590
go to EDR for Memorial Day Party. We do three

00:49:44.590 --> 00:49:46.530
days there, and we've done that for the last

00:49:46.530 --> 00:49:49.389
four years. Something like that. We've always

00:49:49.389 --> 00:49:52.690
had a great time. So we were gonna originally

00:49:52.690 --> 00:49:55.769
do something local, but we decided to just go

00:49:55.769 --> 00:49:57.809
back to EDR, because we love the city of Palm

00:49:57.809 --> 00:50:01.690
Springs, because the local places to us, they

00:50:01.690 --> 00:50:04.550
don't really offer like an overnight option,

00:50:04.590 --> 00:50:06.289
because it's not a hotel. It's just kind of like

00:50:06.289 --> 00:50:09.889
a pool party thing. But I like staying in a hotel

00:50:09.889 --> 00:50:12.349
on site where you can wake up in the morning

00:50:12.349 --> 00:50:15.710
wake up naked And then just do your day naked

00:50:15.710 --> 00:50:18.429
like whatever whatever. It's just no rules. Yeah

00:50:18.429 --> 00:50:23.190
There's rules. Just not normal rules. Yes Some

00:50:23.190 --> 00:50:26.309
pie you can't poop on the deck Jiminy Christmas

00:50:26.309 --> 00:50:31.070
you said it I did not say that So we decided

00:50:31.070 --> 00:50:33.750
let's go ahead and do it poop on the deck. Let's

00:50:33.750 --> 00:50:37.280
go ahead and book it Even with some of the the

00:50:37.280 --> 00:50:40.679
reviews coming in. So yeah, we reached out to

00:50:40.679 --> 00:50:44.860
I Don't know if he's the manager. I'm not sure

00:50:44.860 --> 00:50:48.699
what his official title is And I asked him about

00:50:48.699 --> 00:50:51.260
the concerns. I'm like, are you addressing them?

00:50:51.300 --> 00:50:56.039
And he said yeah I have a feeling since EDR is

00:50:56.039 --> 00:50:59.360
a very seasonal spot. Like you don't really go

00:50:59.360 --> 00:51:01.460
there necessarily during the winter I mean you

00:51:01.460 --> 00:51:03.699
can but it's not really gonna be we've been there

00:51:03.699 --> 00:51:06.769
and it's been slow So I have a feeling they just

00:51:06.769 --> 00:51:10.150
kind of don't want to spend the money while they're

00:51:10.150 --> 00:51:11.889
not bringing in the money. And they're going

00:51:11.889 --> 00:51:13.869
to clean it up for the seasonal, which is what

00:51:13.869 --> 00:51:17.150
I'm hoping. Yeah. So we did book our rooms. We

00:51:17.150 --> 00:51:19.989
are going to be there the Friday through the

00:51:19.989 --> 00:51:23.869
Monday morning of Memorial Day weekend. If you

00:51:23.869 --> 00:51:25.929
guys are in the area, we'd love for you to join

00:51:25.929 --> 00:51:29.280
us there. If you're thinking about coming. Text

00:51:29.280 --> 00:51:32.539
our our sweet side of life sex line sweetums

00:51:32.539 --> 00:51:35.519
line and let us know I'm thinking about putting

00:51:35.519 --> 00:51:38.500
actually like an event on Cassidy. That's kind

00:51:38.500 --> 00:51:42.179
of like a cure like a curated group of our friends

00:51:42.179 --> 00:51:45.519
But just going to that party. I just kind of

00:51:45.519 --> 00:51:47.280
put it so I can make sure I get it out to all

00:51:47.280 --> 00:51:48.960
of our friends on our friends list and all that

00:51:48.960 --> 00:51:52.639
community stuff. And hopefully we can turn it

00:51:52.639 --> 00:51:54.559
into a really good party and hopefully EDR turns

00:51:54.559 --> 00:51:57.079
it around. Like you said, we talked to the manager

00:51:57.079 --> 00:52:02.579
and he said he is working on it. He said he understands

00:52:02.579 --> 00:52:07.039
all the concerns. He had to step away for a little

00:52:07.039 --> 00:52:10.039
bit. And I think that's where things got a little

00:52:10.039 --> 00:52:15.010
cuckoo over there. And so he's back. So he said

00:52:15.010 --> 00:52:17.130
that he's already fixed a bunch of things that

00:52:17.130 --> 00:52:21.829
people said was a concern. And it's on his list

00:52:21.829 --> 00:52:27.449
to continue and keep it nice. And we know that

00:52:27.449 --> 00:52:31.969
this particular manager, he's a solid dude. Anytime

00:52:31.969 --> 00:52:34.469
he's been there, he gets shit handled. Yeah,

00:52:34.570 --> 00:52:36.730
he makes it happen. I put my faith in him. Yeah,

00:52:37.449 --> 00:52:41.929
he knows what we expect. He knows what makes

00:52:41.929 --> 00:52:46.909
a resort money. I use resort loosely. When we

00:52:46.909 --> 00:52:49.750
were in Michigan and we were talking to the couple

00:52:49.750 --> 00:52:51.670
at one of the parties that we went to or the

00:52:51.670 --> 00:52:55.730
party we went to and they were saying they're

00:52:55.730 --> 00:52:58.030
going to go to Vegas for Memorial Day. Oh yeah.

00:52:58.449 --> 00:53:00.650
Then I was like I was drunk and I was trying

00:53:00.650 --> 00:53:03.389
to talk them into going to EDR And then I said

00:53:03.389 --> 00:53:05.710
resort and I'm like, well, let's let me just

00:53:05.710 --> 00:53:09.849
pull it back. I feel like your idea of resort

00:53:09.849 --> 00:53:11.510
We very different where were they talking about

00:53:11.510 --> 00:53:13.670
going to in Vegas? They were saying they were

00:53:13.670 --> 00:53:15.570
gonna just go to like they're like, oh, yeah

00:53:15.570 --> 00:53:17.690
There's this topless pool and I was like Maria.

00:53:17.909 --> 00:53:20.469
Yeah, I was like do not do that You have so many

00:53:20.469 --> 00:53:22.190
better choices. I was like, there's so many better

00:53:22.190 --> 00:53:25.130
choices out there. That is fine for Vanellis.

00:53:25.550 --> 00:53:27.530
I'm gonna tell you now, but if you forget, I'm

00:53:27.530 --> 00:53:30.710
like, just text us, we'll send, we'll tell you.

00:53:31.349 --> 00:53:33.590
But I was like, there's flirts, there's Playhouse,

00:53:33.730 --> 00:53:36.829
there's Whispers, there's places you can actually

00:53:36.829 --> 00:53:39.929
play. Go to Maurea if you want, if you just wanna

00:53:39.929 --> 00:53:42.630
be topless. I've heard Maurea's good, there's

00:53:42.630 --> 00:53:45.030
a lot of hot people there, but it's, I don't

00:53:45.030 --> 00:53:46.630
know, it's not gonna lend itself to play. Flirts

00:53:46.630 --> 00:53:48.429
had a lot of hot people there too, and you could

00:53:48.429 --> 00:53:52.380
play. I don't know well in the playroom now.

00:53:52.380 --> 00:53:54.360
I think it's more yeah, I'm not sure what the

00:53:54.360 --> 00:53:57.019
rules have changed. I think it's more open irregardless,

00:53:57.199 --> 00:53:59.599
but You could definitely play in a playroom.

00:53:59.800 --> 00:54:04.039
Yes. Yes, regardless. Yes, not irregardless regardless

00:54:04.039 --> 00:54:10.059
um Yeah, so anyway, I told them I was like you

00:54:10.059 --> 00:54:12.559
should come to EDR We're gonna go to EDR for

00:54:12.559 --> 00:54:14.699
Memorial Day. Yeah, we'll have to reach out to

00:54:14.699 --> 00:54:18.199
them again. Yeah, I mean I mean If they're coming

00:54:18.199 --> 00:54:20.340
from Michigan, I don't know if EDR is the best

00:54:20.340 --> 00:54:25.139
representation of what happens in. Like, I don't

00:54:25.139 --> 00:54:28.340
know. I'm pretty sure he would just be pretty

00:54:28.340 --> 00:54:31.840
happy to see you. I think you're you're a fair

00:54:31.840 --> 00:54:34.780
enough representation of California. He would

00:54:34.780 --> 00:54:39.119
be just fine. I'm pretty sure. Plus, like I said,

00:54:39.340 --> 00:54:42.119
Palm Springs is a beautiful place. He likes Tiki

00:54:42.119 --> 00:54:44.420
bars now. So, yeah, it's a well, no, it's a different

00:54:44.420 --> 00:54:47.880
guy. Was I was talking about was the guy the

00:54:47.880 --> 00:54:50.820
guy we met at the? You're talking about the guy

00:54:50.820 --> 00:54:54.420
we took to the T bar. Yes. I know the cut the

00:54:54.420 --> 00:54:55.800
different couple They definitely said they're

00:54:55.800 --> 00:54:57.260
coming out to California. This is the couple

00:54:57.260 --> 00:54:59.679
that talked about Lisa then. Yes. All right.

00:54:59.699 --> 00:55:03.800
This is the couple in the gave us the The medication

00:55:03.800 --> 00:55:05.880
that's supposed to it's not making up your vitamin.

00:55:05.960 --> 00:55:11.230
But yeah, so apparently just a public service

00:55:11.230 --> 00:55:12.889
announcement. No, this is not medical advice.

00:55:12.909 --> 00:55:15.369
This is zero medical advice. I am not a medical

00:55:15.369 --> 00:55:18.170
professional. However, this guy told us that

00:55:18.170 --> 00:55:21.969
if you take lecithin, it increases your load.

00:55:22.130 --> 00:55:24.829
I haven't started taking it yet. I've been taking

00:55:24.829 --> 00:55:27.969
it, not for my cum load, but I also saw it like

00:55:27.969 --> 00:55:30.190
helps with like brain function. Yeah, I saw that

00:55:30.190 --> 00:55:34.110
too. It has other, I thought I saw it open. I

00:55:34.110 --> 00:55:37.280
was like, I can use some brain function. Actually,

00:55:37.280 --> 00:55:40.260
if any of those are good things, I could use

00:55:40.260 --> 00:55:43.880
some brain function, digestive health, and if

00:55:43.880 --> 00:55:48.940
I get a nice thick load, it's a win -win. So

00:55:48.940 --> 00:55:52.000
yeah, I'll have to see how your load is this

00:55:52.000 --> 00:55:55.760
weekend. You're just dropping loads all over

00:55:55.760 --> 00:55:59.039
the place. You get a load, you get a load, you

00:55:59.039 --> 00:56:03.059
get a load. You've never been like a load dropper,

00:56:03.219 --> 00:56:05.519
but we'll see. I've only been, maybe I'll become

00:56:05.519 --> 00:56:09.449
a squirter. It's gonna be a very thick squirt.

00:56:11.630 --> 00:56:16.590
Now it's feeling a little gross. I don't know,

00:56:16.650 --> 00:56:17.929
I'm gonna have to see what this is all about.

00:56:17.929 --> 00:56:19.070
I've only been taking it for like three days.

00:56:19.210 --> 00:56:20.690
I didn't even, three days you've been taking

00:56:20.690 --> 00:56:23.510
it? Three or four days. Okay, that makes sense.

00:56:23.510 --> 00:56:26.349
I was wondering why it was open. I'm like, maybe

00:56:26.349 --> 00:56:28.329
I shouldn't take this. I assumed you were gonna

00:56:28.329 --> 00:56:30.070
ask me like, hey, this is open. I grabbed the

00:56:30.070 --> 00:56:32.849
bottle today and I was like, huh. But I'm like,

00:56:32.869 --> 00:56:34.869
I didn't think you were taking it, but that makes

00:56:34.869 --> 00:56:39.260
sense. Well, shit, I'm gonna have to catch up.

00:56:39.940 --> 00:56:45.800
Thick loads together. Outload each other. That's

00:56:45.800 --> 00:56:52.219
so gross. I don't know if, I don't really need

00:56:52.219 --> 00:56:54.340
to, I don't want to thicken my load. I just want

00:56:54.340 --> 00:56:57.059
more. I mean, I have a, okay, why are we even

00:56:57.059 --> 00:57:00.099
talking about this? Cause it's a podcast that

00:57:00.099 --> 00:57:02.539
we talk about stuff. I have a, I have a decent

00:57:02.539 --> 00:57:04.860
load right now. If you have a great load, if

00:57:04.860 --> 00:57:07.699
I don't, if I, if I don't masturbate for a day,

00:57:08.679 --> 00:57:12.119
I can present some decent product, but we have

00:57:12.119 --> 00:57:14.400
pictures to prove it. That is true. Maybe I make

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it the cover of the podcast. Um, so I wouldn't

00:57:18.659 --> 00:57:20.659
mind a little bit more, but I don't know how

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thick, cause if it's any thicker, I'm going to

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like feel that coming out even more. Might be

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cool though. Yeah, I was like, do you wanna know?

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I'm not sure well I'm gonna have to start taking

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it before you eat. This is gonna be this is gonna

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be the next episode where you ask me What was

00:57:34.510 --> 00:57:37.030
your biggest surprise? And then I'm gonna ask

00:57:37.030 --> 00:57:39.489
you and you're like how thick my load was and

00:57:39.489 --> 00:57:45.909
how it felt coming out Be like chicken soup It

00:57:45.909 --> 00:57:49.829
can be if it's sex or chunky Alright guys, let's

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wrap this shit up I think we need to finish this

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one. I don't think it needs to be chunky. That's

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gross. I'm starting to get a little delirious

00:57:56.409 --> 00:57:58.750
right now. Oh guys, Naughty and Nolans were doing

00:57:58.750 --> 00:58:00.670
it this year. We'll talk more about it later.

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Take it away, babe. When enjoying the sweet side

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of life, keep your pineapples upside down, believe

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in unicorns, and keep shaking it up. I love you,

00:58:08.489 --> 00:58:10.789
babe. I love you too. My voice is like dead.

00:58:13.929 --> 00:58:20.239
I sound like a smoker. Chunky ludes. Ew. Big,

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chunky loads. Ew. Wait, this is for our friends

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in Michigan. Ew. Loads. Bye.