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And we're back, finally. Take two of part three.
Take two of part three. So we've been busy and
we've been to a couple events and at those events
we got some shit from our friends that are listeners
that they're like, hey, you guys haven't released
anything. In like five months That's been it's
been like three four three weeks at least probably
longer than that. Yeah, maybe a month So we attempted
to record an episode Just before Thanksgiving
like the week of Thanksgiving. Yeah, so happy
Thanksgiving It was I think it was before that
it was Right before the party we went to on the
22nd So okay. Yeah So we made an attempt We got
about 15 minutes in and I had to pull the plug
was it that was that little in I thought it was
more No, we got about 15 minutes and we basically
got past the initial intro. We got past our drink
Drink of the night, which we had some pretty
good drinks, but I don't remember what they were
now So I was looking because we really don't
have a drink tonight tonight. We're sober We're
doing this sober, but we're doing it, so. We're
not doing it sober for any reason. Beggars can't
be chooser. It's a Wednesday night, and I got
to get up early. You got to get up early. So
we just decided, we kept pushing it. We were
going to do it Monday. We were going to do it
Tuesday, and then do it Wednesday. And it's just,
it got to the point where we're like, we just
need to just do it. Because tomorrow we're busy,
and then Friday night, I have a show at our meet
and greet. So I don't know what you actually
had because you what you have down here right
now listed is good night Levin That's I didn't
I don't update mine. Okay, I updated mine though.
Okay I remember writing it out when we were on
there and it was you had actually made both the
drinks Oh, that's right. Mine had the macadamia
nut too. Yeah, so mine was the macadamia nut
martini And I can't remember all, I mean, everyone
knows how to make a martini, I would think, if
you're listening. I don't know, maybe not. But
I can't remember the exact, like, oh, one ounce
of this, blah, blah, blah, but it was vodka.
Well, it was two ounces of vodka, one ounce of
macadamia nut liqueur, half an ounce of amaretto,
and an ounce of, it called for cream, but we
didn't have cream, so we just used milk. We used
milk. And yeah, shook it up, shook it up. and
you liked it it was good yeah yeah was it your
absolute favorite i don't know about my favorite
it was sweet but it was good and i had oh an
island sunset oh see which was a refreshing had
a one ounce white rum one ounce dark rum one
ounce macadamia nut liquor which is the theme
for the night macadamia nut right ounce of orange
juice half an ounce of peach liqueur and uh shake
it up It was very good. Yeah, would I have it
again? Maybe There's so many other drinks that
I'd like that better that are better. Yeah, if
I'm gonna put this amount of ingredients into
a drink and Do it all that and I'll just make
a rum runner or a painkiller. Yeah, I think that
night We also had painkillers. We did we started
with painkillers and then that was our our drink
for the podcast Yeah, but we so what happened?
Apparently I had an attitude problem. And, uh,
yes. You were, you were ornery as they say, not
horny. You were ornery. So yeah, as we sat down,
we started recording our episode and you know,
we always have a fair bit of back and forth and
we give each other shit and stuff, but this one
is so felt a little darker than usual. Maybe
I was on one and maybe you were a little oversensitive.
Maybe I am on I am on testosterone and you know
in between the dips, who knows. So whatever the
combination was you pulled the plug and said
you know what we're gonna go fuck instead of
do this. Well that was that was the other part
of it. Oh yeah so we were we were recording it
I think Friday night. Because we have our party
on Saturday, right? Yeah, okay So so what it
was in my head is I knew that I wanted to get
this podcast out So I knew if we if we sat down
recorded it I typically edit the night of because
it doesn't take take long to put the episode
together and Then I put it out, but I knew it
was already late at night we had a couple of
drinks and I knew you weren't gonna wait till
1 a .m. To go to bed And with that party coming
up Saturday, I always like to make it a point
where if we have a party the next night, I want
to spend some time with you because I want to
be the next guy to do it. You know what I mean?
Right. And if we did fully recorded this episode
and edited it, you were going to go to bed. And
I wasn't going to get that. So in my mind, I
was already starting to have a little bit of
not tension. I had this word. It's a stupid we
actually said it before and then we forgot what
the word was. It was basically the podcast was
making me bitter because I I wasn't gonna be
able to do what I wanted to do it and then when
it started getting a little kind of dark it was
just Making me a little like pissed off. I'm
like, hey, I'm doing this Not it's not the best
episode and I'm not gonna get laid. So I'm like,
you know what fuck this podcast a second. So
you had about 15 minutes and I just hit the stop
button. I'm like, we just need to, you said,
listen, I don't know if you had a bad day or
what this is done, but I'm done. And then we
went and we had sex and it was great. So sometimes,
um, You know, you got to know when to hold them.
Know when to fold them. Know when to walk away.
Know when to run. Know when to come. So anyways,
we're back. And basically what it was is we had
all that and then we had Thanksgiving weekend.
We were out with family all over the place. So
it just it we weren't able to make another episode
work. Here we are. So quit your complaining.
Yeah. Get what you get. You don't pitch a fit.
So we are back with part three of what to do
in the lifestyle or how to do the lifestyle.
It's like newbie lifestyle stuff. Newbie 101.
Newbie 101 lifestyle info. So part one and part
two, we went over all the different dynamics
and, you know, the conversations to have and...
When to have a safe word, when not to have a
safe word. Exactly. When to turn the ketchup.
catch a bottle on two cherries in your drink.
So we are at part three, which is basically you've
figured it out, you wanna go to your party, what
do you do next? So there's a bunch of different
types of parties out there. And we're gonna talk
about some of the ones that we've personally
experienced. So numero uno, the first thing I
would recommend is a meeting greet. I don't even
I didn't even think of that as a party. But yeah,
that's actually a great place to start That's
a great place to start So the good thing about
a meet -and -greet is you get to go talk to people
like -minded couples Without the pressure. Yeah,
no pressure of play because you're in a public
space unless you're me Apparently I get a little
crazy so a meet -and -greet it's it's a lot of
times there will be at public bars like a You
could have an organization or community or just
a couple of people will put something out on
your local Cassidy website, SLS, whatever it
is. Hot date, rendezvous, be like, hey, we're
going to be at this bar Saturday night. We're
going to throw a meet and greet. And then you
could have anywhere from two, four, five, six,
30, 50 couples show up. We've been at ones where
it's been 50 couples show up. That's probably
the first step, I would say, personally. That's
the safest. I mean, that was outside of we went
to F .A. initially, but then we started doing
some local meet and greets. But that was before
we technically knew ourselves to be in the lifestyle.
Yeah. So when we were actually jumping back into
it and kind of like, OK, this is we're going
to do and this is what it's called. And da da
da da da. We. Did go to some meet -and -greets
and we went to some where we just the other good
thing about a meet -and -greet is that you can
Because it's in a public space like a bar or
whatever You can just sit back and kind of observe
and not actually interact at all So if you don't
feel comfortable even talking to anybody you
just kind of want to see like What do they do?
Like what's everybody doing? Like what's everybody
wearing? What's every how is everybody acting?
What does everybody look like if you kind of
want to just observe that you can just go to
the bar or wherever it's being nobody even has
to know you're there nobody has to know you're
part of it or interested or anything you just
go and observe and then maybe next time you insert
yourself for lack of better words search yourself
ask first so yeah at a meeting greet like like
you were saying it's you could go with any level
of intent you could sit in the back you could
be the face of the party So I would recommend
your first time just kind of going in there,
hanging out, just, it's a date night, you and
your partner, and you could just kind of see
what's going on. We know some people that don't
like going to the meet and greets because they
are at a public bar, because they don't want
to be recognized, but you're at a bar. So you
won't get recognized unless you're the one interacting
in that type of way. Like if you go to the meet
and greets we go to now the way you and I are
there's no question what it is We're doing there.
Mm -hmm. Like it's just it's very obvious but
you can be in the back you can be sitting at
a booth you could be just You know sitting on
the outside and just observing and still totally
safe. No one has any idea that that you're a
freak, right? Yeah, so like I remember the like
I said the first one we went to we just I was
like I'm not ready to Talk to anybody and we
talked to another couple that also supposedly
was just There at the bar, but they also seemed
very interested in like what was going on around
all of us So I think we were all there for the
same reason but need that neither them nor we
wanted to Claim it yet. We are ready So at the
first couple ones we went to she would do wristbands
And we wouldn't get a wristband now and she had
a whole section that was reserved Kind of a little
bit. I think she had some caution tape, but there
was a definitive. Yeah border You and I went
there and I wanted a wristband and you're like
hell no No, so we basically got as close as we
could to the border without jumping over So yeah,
so you could do that Yeah, you just we kind of
stood there and some people came up to us and
like are you here for the da da da? We're like,
I don't know Are you what is that, you know?
Now when we when we throw our meet -and -greets
or if we're attending meet -and -greets we try
to encourage like beads we like beads Because
beads look like a party. Mm -hmm. They don't
completely stand out at a bar It's not you're
wearing like a gray or crazy -ass looking wig.
It's it's beads, you know beads or party so we
typically hand out beads to anybody at our meeting
greets that are interested in identifying themselves
or standing out enough so you know who's in your
group. Yeah because that is kind of nice too
because we have also been to meet and greets
where there's no identifying marker and then
it's like then you are just trying to have weird
conversations with people to figure out who's
there for what and who's there for not because
then you're like It's hard to know who to hit
on. Do you like your ice cream vanilla or pineapple
flavored Dole Whip? Exactly. Do you go to the
grocery store? And then you just look like a
weirdo. So I think some type of identifying marker
is key. For throwing a successful meet -and -greet
because we've been to a few that didn't and it
can be a little weird but now that we've been
doing it lately with some type of like beads
we did lays we did a Hawaiian luau type theme
party, you know couple couple months ago and
we gave out lays to people So it's just nice
to know that but again if your first -timer you
don't have to participate in that you can just
be the one Looking at everybody and watching
and seeing Now, there are some meet and greets
that are takeover style, where it's basically
the entire venue is going to be that. So that's
that's easier in a sense of you're not going
to be outed potentially. Right. But it does also
put more focus because then you're there. Yeah,
you're there for that. So people are going to
probably talk to you and interact with you whether
you know. You're ready for it. Yeah, you're ready
for it or not as I say like it or not But that's
not we don't like pressure you or anything that
yeah Whether you're ready for it or not so that
it does put a little bit more pressure But there's
still not as much as like a party or whatever
because there's again no real Expectation expectation
of play or anything like that play room there.
Yeah. Yeah, so the other thing is Very important
is to learn to use your words in the sense of,
at any of these type of parties, some people,
you're getting better. I don't think you're fully
there yet. Me? Yeah. I feel like you're talking
literally directly to me right now. I'm talking
to everybody, but I'm looking at you directly.
I feel like I'm pretty good with my words. I've
had to say no to a couple of times. And you definitely
have. You've gotten a lot better. But that's
one of the key things about going to any of these
types of types of event is you don't have to
do anything, right? You don't have to talk to
somebody. You don't it's you should be like be
nice But you know when the conversations over
it gets over Yeah, so like like we were talking
about in the previous episode. Just be respectful
Be nice, but you also can be very you can be
be forward because ultimately, you know You're
there for you. You're there for your partner.
You're not, you know, you don't own anybody,
anything. Right. So meeting greats, great, great
start. So then you have house parties. House
parties can be a couple different ways. You could
have, you know, like a DTF type house party down
to fuck where everybody just goes there and it's
fucking game on. And there's more social parties.
we've been to most most of our part house parties
we've gone to have been the social parties with
you know intentions later yeah it definitely
can get to that point but there's some house
parties where are just like it's just expected
like you walked in i i kind of feel like you
have to when you're going to your first house
party you gotta no i mean and usually though
usually the host or the flyer or whatever will
give you kind of an idea of what you're getting
yourself into. Because if if there's if they're
like not putting like, oh, there's no DJ, no
this or that. It's like, OK, well, it's probably
not like for that. It's probably more. Since
I run the Cassidy account, I see a lot of the
different parties that come through. And like
you said, a lot of parties will be like. uh,
you know, BYOB, appetizers, mixers, DJ, Jacuzzi,
that's going to be probably more of a social
party. But a lot of the flyers will be like,
this is a play party. Yeah. So if you see that
- Just know that's what it is. That's exactly
what it is. And if that's your vibe, that's your
vibe. That's not our vibe currently. Um, but
yeah. I wouldn't suggest that being a first party
to go to that would be a lot unless you're ready
to jump right in so What type of parties have
we been to? How would you describe our house
parties? Mostly social with the option. I mean
the have we ever had any that were like No, no,
we've been invited to some yeah that we know
that's kind of expectation but we haven't gone
so i'm trying to think i must say your attitude
is much better tonight isn't it thanks just had
to make the observation an attitude adjustment
yeah um i'm trying to think i don't i don't feel
like we've ever been to a party where like we
walked in and it was like this is what we're
doing well we've definitely never we've definitely
never left a party right Don't feel like we've
ever gone one I don't feel like we've ever like
showed up and it wasn't what we were expecting
left within an hour because We kind of stick
we always have fun. If yeah, we're gonna have
fun. Yeah, so I feel like we've always Had fun
and never just like bailed out like whoa, that
was too much Yeah, but we also don't go to the
parties that say like this is a play party I
think the larger our friend group gets to it
Depends on how big the party is right? Like I
don't know what people consider a party I mean
at the same for me I I think I personally enjoy
the larger parties when I'm looking at an RCP
and I see you know 200 people I'm stoked. Yeah,
I think you're that are like 20. Yeah where I'm
like, well This might be a little more a I'm
probably not gonna meet any new people and I
enjoy you know, the the NRE New relationship
energy. Yeah, they call it of meeting new people
and making those connections I love our friends,
but I do enjoy making new friends a lot. Yeah,
so when I Excuse me when I look at a party and
I see 20 people and I know all the 20 people
it's probably more of a DTF like Focused party.
Yeah, which is fine. That's what you do. Yeah
The only reason I don't those aren't those don't
appeal to me as much as because I can think I
want to Go into something and think like okay.
This is what I'm like my plan or not my plan
cuz I don't want to have a plan but like my idea
right like I'm feeling like yeah, I'm I'm Down
to get down tonight, but then I get there down
and who knows something could change. Yeah, or
somebody could throw off my vibe or You could
throw off my vibe or I could throw off my vibe
or whatever happens, and I don't want to be like
stuck in a situation where that's my only option.
Whereas if it's a larger event, then you definitely
have more more options to your vibe. Yeah, but
then that's also gotten us into situations where
it's like, we are being so social that we had
every intention of playing but we never got to
that point because Time just got away from us.
We show up at eight, we're drinking, we're talking
to people, we're meeting new people, seeing old
friends. Before you know it, it's 2 a .m. Before
you know it, it's 2 a .m. and it's like, okay,
it's time to wrap things up. So that leads me
to the next events. The next thing that you could
go to is longer events. Or you could go to a...
There's your hotel takeovers. Hotel takeovers
or, I mean, hotel takeovers could be one night
too. Yeah, they can be. But longer, Events or
resort resorts. That's what I was thinking. Yeah
where you're there for multiple days I like which
is probably my favorite. I do like multi multi
-day because we're a slow burn So we need that
first day to kind of work into our groove and
then typically, you know at 2 a .m I'm like,
okay, I'm ready and then 2 a .m. Most people
aren't ready. Yeah, so then I wake up the next
morning and then the next day I have that like
super heightened sexual energy and I'm like This
is where I would want to be at the second day
of a party, right? So that being said we got
one of those coming up New Year's Eve We are
gonna be at the plush New Year's Eve Hotel Takeover
in La Jolla San Diego We're gonna be out there
December 29th through the first through the first
three nights. We are gonna be there That is the
place to be. Yes, I hope so. This is going to
be our third year in a row. Yeah, we've had a
great time each time. Yeah, it's been fun. But
yeah, so there's that you can go to a takeover
like that's a full like weekend or some don't
even some don't do. Multiple like three days.
This is a pretty long one. Yeah, most hotel takeovers
I see are like two nights Friday and a Saturday.
Yeah, go home Sunday Yeah, you go to church on
Sunday type thing. Yeah, so I have to come off
your dress so you can go to church so this is
definitely on the longer side, but the hotel
takeovers are Also good for the fact of you have
your own space to go back to if you get overwhelmed.
Or if you need to recharge your battery, whether
your phone or your social, you can just go upstairs
to your room. And if you want to bring someone
with you, great. If you go back down, great.
Yeah. So you have like a little more options
when you do something like that. Same with a
resort. You would have a similar situation where
you can also go back to your own space, have
your own moments if you need to, or especially
if you're new and you need to talk to your significant
other about something, walk through stuff. Then
you have a private space to do it instead of
a party. Sometimes then you're like trying to
find some place quiet to discuss something without
making a scene or like being weird or awkward
or people coming up to you during your conversation.
And one thing I will say in, in, in relation
to that, I'm hearing my dog outside is If I'm
at a takeover or a party and I see someone in
that room having that private conversation, you
could tell when they're serious faces. That makes
it harder for me to approach them later in a
sense of like, I see it. I'm like, okay, they're
dealing with something. I don't want to make
it worse. So if you can have those conversations,
like you said, in your room where you're not
downstairs in front of everybody, then I think
that's. Also better. Yeah, you can have your
own time, you know, you know her So yeah, that's
another good idea is to go upstairs Hash it out.
Yeah, do whatever you got to do whatever conversation
you need to have and sometimes it's just you
need to go to bed and restart the next day so
Hotel takeovers and then let's talk a little
bit about resorts And we haven't been to many
resorts. No, but we've been to a couple a couple
of places that are very resort style Yeah, so
but we have never done like any of the Mexico
or no, so there's Hito which is in Jamaica then
there's desire RM and desire pearl and Cancun
and Those are like full nude lifestyle resorts
and then they have one called temptations also
in Cancun. I I believe that one's topless only
and that's not geared towards lifestyle. So you,
there's very, there's a lot of lifestyle people
there, but they don't have like play rooms and
you can't like, from what I understand, you can't
really do too much in public. What I understand
it's a lot of like girl trips will go there.
They just like the freedom. Exactly. You can
be topless and it's still fun. It's still sexy.
And that would probably be a good place to start.
If you're new in a lifestyle and you have the
opportunity to go there, I think that would be
good because then you get that openness of the
nudity and stuff like that. We can't be nude,
but topless. Yeah, topless. If you're not used
to seeing boobies in public, that can be quite
the shock. Like right now, we are very desensitized
to nudity, just because we've been around it
for quite a while now. So yeah, like when I go
to a pool, It feels weird to see Baden suits.
I've pretty much gotten to the point where I
don't want to go to vanilla pool parties anymore.
I don't, I don't want to go to vanilla hotel
pools. Like this is boring. Like I like a good
Baden suit and whatever. Sure. But you know,
I want to see everything. I want to see where
babies come from. I remember one time we went
to speaking of being desensitized. We were, it
was like, I think the first time we went to,
um, See Mountain Inn. Oh, yes, and You're sitting.
I think you're sitting in the jacuzzi and this
girl's like standing kind of on the step So her
tits are at eye level with you. I was sitting
down in the lawn chairs Oh, and she came over
and he was naked too. Yeah, and they're having
a full -on conversation I'm sitting down and
my face is at nut and vagina level and I'm like
looking up and I'm trying to have the conversation
concentrate because i think they were talking
about the chargers they were charger fans i think
i had a charger hat on or something so they were
charger fans i'm a charger fan so they were having
a full -on conversation you know his nuts are
shaking and he's you know 18 inches from my face
and it was very awkward initially but now it's
like totally like whatever so that was different
yeah So I think later when you told me about
it you were sitting in the spa and she was still
talking to you and she was standing On a step
and it was like her boobs are right. Yeah, there's
probably they talked to us a couple of times
but the first time was yeah, it was like fairly
early in our time there and we're like sitting
there and I don't think I was sitting with you
and that happened I think I went to you were
because I offered to I said do you want to go
into a room and have some shots? Oh, they said
no, we're not drinking right now. I was like,
okay fair enough So that was I was trying to
like get his ball sack out of your face. I was
trying to get his ball sack in my room. I think
I was just trying to move the conversation somewhere
else, because it's like, let's get into neutral
ground in my room. I need more alcohol. We're
going to continue this conversation. So. So out
here in Southern California, which is where we're
at, there is not much in the way of. resorts.
We have one called EDR and Palm Springs, which
is the closest thing we have to a true resort.
There's, I think, but I'm getting there. Well,
you said the only thing I said the closest. Okay.
The closest. So EDR has like, you know, 40 rooms,
multiple pools. It's kind of like a resort. That's
probably one of our favorite places. It's It's
gone some changes if you've listened to our podcast.
It's up and down Yeah, we we've told them the
fuck off and then like the couple of months later.
We apologize and can we please come back? so
I Think they're still good right now, but it's
coming up on So you got EDR and then we also
have sea mountain in which is a smaller version
There's maybe 10 rooms 10 12 rooms one pool more
expensive It's more expensive. It's a cool place.
It's fully nude though. You have to be nude for
the most part. You can be in transition with
your towels and stuff, but for the most part
they want you to be nude. And then there's another
place in Lake Elsinore called Bia Vida. Which
is you can't stay you can't stay there i'm kind
of going from big to small But it's it's resort
vibey in a sense of they have a pool jacuzzi
They have like cabanas you can rent. Yeah, and
they party there and it's a great place to go
highly suggested We'll be going back there in
the summer for sure But outside of the californias
They have secrets in florida Yeah, which is a
really nice one. We didn't stay there. We stayed
at the hotel next to it, but. And then there's
a lot of other places just we haven't been to.
We were not super traveler swingers in a sense
of. We would love to be. We would love to be.
But fortunately here in Southern California,
there is a lot to do. So we're not left yearning.
Right. We can. Where we're like, oh, we really
need to travel. We don't. And we need to spend
the money and we need to. You take the time off
work and plus some people have the hard fast
rule of you know We have to go at least two hours
from our house to play We play in our backyard
literally and figuratively After parties, let's
go so So there's so much shit in this area to
do so it's kind of like we don't have to go places
we want to but we don't have to because yeah,
and definitely if we Somewhere that there is
something we want to try it. Yeah, but we yeah
Speaking of that there is a actual really nice
place in Nashville. Is there from it's I forgot
what it's called, but it's uh They were talking
about it on swing nation I Can't remember you
have to look it up But not right this second.
I want to say temptations, but it's not temptations,
but trapeze trapeze might be it there's a Trapeze,
they have a couple different locations. I think
it might be trapeze though. Don't take my word
for it. That's a club, right? Yes. Okay, not
a resort. If you guys are from Nashville, send
us a message to our super sexy Sweetums line
and recommend, because I only bring up Nashville
because we are going to Naughty in New Orleans
in July. We're gonna be out there for Like a
week. Yeah, like five six days and then we're
gonna do like two days in Nashville before you
come back home So we don't really your days that
we're gonna be in Nashville though. It's like
Tuesday through Thursday. Yeah, it's not gonna
be like a party night Yeah, Sunday through I
don't know cuz we're really that whole week.
It was really just I looked at places that we
wanted to visit that are close ish to New Orleans
like it's like a Going from New Orleans to Nashville
is like us going to Vegas Like it's a quick trip
flight like you said like an hour. So yeah, it's
a quick flight So I was like, oh we wanted to
go to Nashville. So Yeah. We've heard they've
had a pretty decent music scene there, but it
was definitely, yeah, it was definitely like
a secondary thing. And our primary is obviously
we're staying in New Orleans for naughty. So
we're in New Orleans from like Monday through.
I want to say it's a whole week. I want to say
it's like Monday through Sunday. Sounds about
right. And then Monday, the following Monday
through like Wednesday or something, we're in
Nashville. It's a really short trip in Nashville,
but. Anyway, so whatever whatever it is you're
recommending they have to kind of be like midweek
It can't be like a club. That's only open on
Saturday because we won't be there. What do we
where can we get in trouble on a Tuesday? So
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Like one in her mouth and two in her hands. She's
busy. So I would say she's a very busy girl.
Very nice pictures. Thank you so much, late couple.
And he said that he would like to be a bull for
us. Yes. But with the wife that looks like that.
I think we're going to have to bring her into
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So resort. We talked about resorts. We talked
about parties. We talked about meeting greets.
What other hotel takeover? Oh yeah. Cruises.
That's something else we haven't done, but we
will eventually. The problem with cruises is
They're there from what I understand at least
bliss cruise does like two a year or then maybe
they've added a third Yeah, I've heard they're
gonna come out of I've heard they're gonna come
out of California so what it is is two of the
crew. There's the November and I think April
or something like that They are always East Coast.
Yeah, Florida and I think they do one out of
Georgia So for us to go from Southern, California
to there That alone is a travel day and then
you have a travel day coming back and you have
like a five to six to seven day cruise. We just,
big time commitment. We can't do that. So from
what I understand, I think Bliss Cruise is starting
to do like a three or four day cruise now. And
they're also eventually going to come out of
the West coast as well because from what I understand,
I keep saying that because I'm just, from what
I remember from other podcasts, they got new
owners recently, like within the last eight months
to a year So I think the old owners maybe got
just complacent We're doing our two cruises and
we're good. The new owners are making changes
adding new features and Adding more cruises.
So I'm really looking forward to that and there's
also a couple other Cruises that are starting
to pop up that are very similar, but I kind of
want to do the og the bliss The other problem
with the bliss is that shit sells out like a
year in advance. Yeah So that's a big commitment
time wise and a bit big commitment money wise
for something that we Can't say for sure we can
even do yeah, we've actually had I've heard I've
had some people I've talked to who've been on
bliss and I've heard positive and negative stuff
so like positive I mean people just say they
have like a blast like it's just like non -stop
good time But then I have heard that some people
have said like they didn't like that because
it was so many people on a ship I mean, how many
people does a ship hold like fifteen thousand?
No, no fifteen hundred. I mean Yeah, yeah, I
think the biggest bliss cruise I want to say
is like three thousand or three. That's like
the big okay, so you have three thousand people
on a boat and so basically they said like you
kind of have to make connections like like if
you see somebody you have to that you're interested
in you have to connect with them and try and
jump on it yeah and then also and we've known
this from just going on regular cruises with
people that we know it's like your phones don't
work so how do you exchange information and then
you can list cruise has an app okay Then you
could, those don't always work though. We've
dealt with that too. Yeah. But anyway, you can
like see someone like, but then you never see
them again because there's 3000 people on a boat.
You know what I mean? Yeah. Like, so there can
be, so I've heard like two sides of it. So, um,
I mean, I still want to do it. Don't get me wrong.
I first of all, I like cruising. So there's that.
And then, um, I can only imagine it enhances
or gets enhanced when you have a bunch of partiers
who want to have sex on the cruise. Yeah, I can
imagine it would probably be pretty intense.
Yeah. Looking forward to that. But as it is right
now, we can kind of really only do one big trip
a year and next year is already spoken for. Right.
So. Naughty, here we come. So cruises, resorts,
hotel takeovers, parties, meet and greets. What
else are we missing here? I feel like there's
something, but I can't. I can't think of it.
I don't know. I'm like. I mean, there's more
intimate gatherings, obviously, with people.
Dates. Dates. Yeah. Just general dates. Yeah.
That is not our go -to personally. No. But we've
always had a good time on our dates. We've never
had like a bad time where it was like. We haven't
really gone on very many dates. Yeah. We've gone
on a handful. But we have had people who've like
canceled last minute, which I think we talked
about that before. Yeah. Is like meeting up with
people just one -on -one. You don't, you run
the risk of them. canceling and then you're kind
of scrambling to figure out what to do worst
case scenario you're with your your yeah but
if you yeah i mean if obviously like clearly
like sure you just do a date with your significant
other but if you had if you were a more intentional
couple and then you know that could definitely
yeah no i'm i don't want to say ruin a night
but it could More than I potentially. Yeah. I
mean, it definitely takes your night another
way. And you're kind of trying to figure out
what else to do. Well, a lot of times, if you're
doing on it, going on a date, a lot of times
people will like get a hotel room. Yeah, there's
and then there's also like prep that like can
go into that. Like women get waxed or like doing
things which, you know, you might not do just
for your significant other. But if you know you're
going to be hooking up with somebody, there might
be other things that you invest time and money
in. especially if you're in an area where you
don't have a lot of party options you don't have
you know like then you're kind of like put a
lot into one thing one basket and you're then
don't put all your eggs in one basket like don't
count your chickens until they hatch okay recently
we had friends that had a date planned and then
Yes, suddenly it changed and here they were reaching
out to us to figure out what we were doing and
we were doing some vanilla shit. So they tagged
along with that. But that's definitely not how
I think they planned that night to go. No, not
at all. Not at all. But, you know, so they got
to hang out with us. True. That's a win. But
yeah, so that's not our cup of tea plus i think
again going back to my like whole pressure thing
like if i change my mind i want to be able to
change my mind and not feel like i've let people
down or like so that's the whole other thing
with dating is that if i've changed my mind or
i'm not feeling it or whatever Eat some bad seafood.
I want to be able to like pull the ripcord and
not feel bad about it You not feel like you let
other people besides yourself. Yeah, like your
partner. Yeah, exactly Yeah, if you're at a party
and you're not feeling it, then that couple can
go to another couple exactly. There's more options
Yeah, so so I think Unless and we're missing
something painfully obvious which I'm sure we
are probably it's like literally probably hitting
us people are screaming at their freaking phones
right now You forgot about beep. Yeah, so we
apologize for that So I think we're gonna move
on right now past the different types of parties
So I have a couple of rules of thumb. I'd like
to or some Pro we'll say a pro tip pro tip pro
tip I would suggest because I'm an introvert
so it's It takes for me to get like I gotta I
gotta have some drinks before I start talking
to people But I think a good Piece of advice
would be to go with the intention on trying to
meet three couples Not even with the sense of,
you know, you're going to bang these three couples
just to kind of help you get out of the box.
Yeah. Cause more often than not, if you're a
new couple going to any one of these types of
parties or whatever, you might end up a wallflower.
You might sit there and if you're sitting there
at like leaning against the bar or sitting on
a chair, just talking to your partner, you're
like internally, you're probably hoping that
someone comes and talks to you. but more than
likely your body language and the way you're
sitting there and the way you've kind of put
yourself away from people, that alone is going
to prevent a lot of people from coming up to
you. And I've seen that at some parties. And
once I have a couple of drinks, I try to pick
up on some of those, those couples and try to
bring them into our group. And sometimes it fails
miserably. I've had people look at me like I'm
a fucking idiot. And they're like, get away from
me. I'm like, got it. But then there's some people
that I can get off the chairs and bring over
and introduce them to some people, but you're
not going to get that at every party. So I think
you kind of have to, one thing, uh, Dan and Lacey
always talk about on their podcast is they get
called clicky a lot. Right. And I think it's
easy to call a click or call out a click. But
you're also partially responsible for that, right?
Because like they say they're like you might
you might listen to our podcast, but we don't
know you right so like Um one complaint they
often get is you know, we came to your party,
but you didn't even say hi to us It's like how
the fuck are we supposed? You know what I mean?
Yeah, there's 500 people here. I'm supposed to
say hi to everybody Yeah, do like you you kind
of put yourself out a little bit say hi to me
And it's like, we'd love to say hi to people
in my vicinity. But so basically what I'm getting
at is like, you can't go to a party, sit in a
corner, leave the party and then say everybody
there was clicky. Yeah. Which we do hear sometimes.
I'm not about I don't I don't know if I've heard
it about us, but I I'm sure it's been said. I'm
sure it has. But I have heard people like recently
we went to the Halloween party we went to. And
we just happened when we went to dinner. We were
sitting at the bar and we happened to sit next
to this couple that said something about Mr.
Sweet and Sour shirt. And then the conversation
started. We realized they were going to the same
party that we were going to later. And then we
saw them at said party. And so obviously, especially
Mr. and Mrs. Sweet and Sour started talking to
them a lot and, you know, engage with them or
whatever. But. He had said they went to another
party and I can't remember which one it was But
he said this one was better because it didn't
feel as clicky But I was also thinking because
the party with great conversation. Yeah, I was
I was also thinking like besides Mr. And Mrs.
Sweet and sour like talking to them. They did
sit themselves in a chair at a table in the corner
away from everybody. But because we had seen
them at the bar earlier that day, obviously we
engaged with them. But had we not, I probably
don't I don't know that I would have. I mean,
I don't know if that they would have. You know
what I mean? Like they're there. It's just sitting
there situation kind of made it so that it was
like, OK, you could scoot your chairs over a
little bit more and kind of. Make yourself more
almost put yourself in the way of some people.
Yeah, so then there's a oh, excuse me Yeah, or
some people don't like taking their drinks because
most parties at in Southern California or in
California Are like BYOB because you can't serve
liquor with nudity. So People but people have
this like weird thing about taking their drinks
to the bar like a lot of places will actually
have a bartender and they'll have mixers and
stuff and even if you have beer for they'll open
the beer for you or whatever, or because they're
like, oh, I don't I don't want to like what am
I to pay somebody to serve me my own liquor?
Basically, there's a level of expectation. Well,
you should tip, but there's usually you usually
have no party we have been to. Are you paying
for your own drinks? But it is kind to tip somebody
who's working there. But. The whole thing is
some people are like, oh, well, I'm not going
to bring it to the bar because I don't want to
tip Yeah, which is so silly to me because you're
gonna go you would go to a bar You would pay
for someone else's liquor and you would tip like
that just seems insane to me. But anyway, that's
my own personal pet peeve. But um This really
grinds my gears. Yeah, this really grinds my
gears. But one thing I'm like If you want to
get to know people or you want like where is
the better place to bump into somebody or start
a random fucking conversation every time we go
to the bar to get a drink every time we end up
talking to somebody and it also forces you to
walk the crowd. Exactly. It forces you to get
up, whereas some people will just come to a party,
bring their cooler, sit themselves down in the
corner and expect things to just happen around
them. And it's like, that's not how life works.
Yeah. And that's not how any bar works. And that's
not how any social gathering works. Right. Like,
so you can't you can't expect to sit with your
liquor, like in the corner and not like interact
with anybody and expect people just interact
with you. If you have to be part of the party,
which I think a good way to do that is just Tip
the bartender five fucking dollars for opening
up your beer and Go to the bar when you want
a beer. You know what I mean? You're getting
really hot over here Yeah, cuz it's just like
seems to me like such an easy idea. Just take
your liquor to the bar Tip or even don't tip
I don't care but it's nice to tip you should
tip but or even even if you even if you want
to stick with your original plan of making your
own beverage, take your drink that you made and
walk towards the bar. Yeah, walk towards the
bar. And put yourself in an area where other
people are drinking and talking. So it's just
a matter of, you know, it's a 50 -50 transaction.
Right. Like you can't go to a party, sit in a
corner and get upset and call it clicky. You
have to like, you have to meet people in the
middle. So you sometimes have to get out of your
comfort zone a little bit. And I get it. I have
a bubble, I have a huge comfort zone and it takes
a lot to get out of it. But because we have a
large friend group now. But we didn't start with
that. What I'm saying is like now it's easier
for me because everywhere we go we know somebody
and it's not like we're walking in fresh off
the streets. But I only say this like to kind
of help you along. So try to meet three couples.
Walk up and introduce yourself. Hi, my name is
dot dot dot How did you get in the lifestyle?
Where are you guys from great? It doesn't have
to be a groundbreaking conversation five minutes
exchange pleasantries if you have liquor with
you, maybe have a shot together, you know, whatever
and Something that um, I I personally have to
do is I have to introduce Or I have to get introductions
twice Because the first time I meet someone I'm
analyzing him and her in a sense of, Hey, that's
what we're here for. You know? So if someone
comes up and introduces me, my first go or introduces
themselves to me, my first go to is I'm looking
at him, looking at her, looking at her smile,
looking at him, looking at his teeth. Like, I'm
just like, I'm taking it in. Very rarely do I
catch the name on the first go around. So I always
come back with, Oh, I'm so sorry. What was your
name again? And then the second time it normally
locks in. And I've had people say that they're
like, yeah, I didn't catch your name either.
I'm like, yeah, like I get it. Like, cause this
is, this is a little bit different. A music's
typically loud. There's a lot going on. There's
a lot of eye candy. You're very easily distracted.
I'm like squirrel. Yeah. So just make sure you
introduce yourself twice. And it's just for me,
it's better cause then it locks in a name. So
now we're at the party and we met a couple of
people right and they come up to others are like
hey I'd really like to play with your ding -dong
What do you do? They say I've had that a couple
times. Yes So what do you do at that point you
go and you grab your bag? What's in your bag?
Do you say wait that so we're assuming you want
them to play with your ding -dong? Well, they
asked me, I rarely say no. That is true. Let's
be honest. I think the only time I've ever said
no is when the person that asks me, I'm totally
interested in it, but I know I'm in a extremely
soft state and I know I'm not going to get hard.
quickly. Yeah. Whether it I haven't taken my,
you know, my Bluetooth or whatever the case is.
And I'll be like, Hey, that sounds great, but
I know I can't be ready for that right now. Yeah.
And it's like, it's very polite way. Like that
one time we were in that jacuzzi and that one
girl was like, Hey, and I'm like, that sounds
awesome, but I can tell you right now it's not
going to work for a couple of minutes. So let's
just circle back. And I've had a few of those.
I'm like, okay, sounds great. I'll catch up with
you later. But what's this bag we're talking
about so I Am so see this is what happens what's
in the bag This is what happens when I don't
drink my my brains fully firing and I'm like
Yeah, but you're just talking to yourself hey,
I'm here I can hear my own voice in my headphones
So we like to carry a backpack that carry you
know that has like our change of clothes because
At certain events like you'll go in your street
clothes and you might change into a theme wear
for the night And then you might dress down later
into some lingerie or something which we didn't
talk about any of that we didn't So we can have
that really fast right now. Yes, so a lot of
expectations so a lot of first of all a lot of
us are leaving the house with People here. We
don't want to know Them to know where we're going
or what we're doing like a trench coat So yeah,
there's things that a lot of times you have to
leave in not exactly what you plan on being in
at the party Or you're getting into an uber or
something like that and you have to be dressed
for that. So Depending on the party that you're
going to most I mean swingers we like our we
like our themes most have themes And I would
say The the Theme kind of gives you an idea of
how to dress. Yeah, but I mean each Party can
have a different Like some can be more casual
like a meet -and -greet will probably be more
casual Obviously, you can't be naked or in lingerie
or anything because you're gonna be in public
But you still want to dress like sexy as a woman
in my opinion and when I say sexy to me that
means like what you feel sexy in that doesn't
mean what your husband wants you to wear or what
so and so down the street is wearing or like
what's popular or whatever the case may be I
personally for me I think that people look the
sexiest in what they feel sexy in so sometimes
for me that's leggings and a crop top sometimes
for me that's a dress sometimes for me that's
jeans like whatever it is like you're feeling
good in that day like you always want me to like
try on my outfits before the party and I'm always
like that doesn't make sense for me and it doesn't
make sense for me because Tuesday I might feel
great in a dress and whatever like heels but
then when it comes to Friday I'm not feeling
great in that anymore and now yeah it is and
now I'm feeling more I'm feeling better in all
black because I just don't feel my best, but
this is what I feel the best in or whatever.
So I think that whatever you wear, whatever the
theme, you have to feel sexy and confident in
it. Otherwise, I think people can tell when you're
uncomfortable, you're pulling at things or you're
not walking with your head up and. not in a confident
way, I think that's important. First and foremost,
whatever you wear, wear the clothes, don't let
the clothes wear you and be confident in what
you're wearing. But beyond that, there's themes
and we like to dress in the themes to an extent.
So I think themes really lend themselves to the
females most of the time. Yeah. And then like
if there's a theme I personally like to wear
as the male. Like to wear like say it's a country
theme I'll wear just a stupid Amazon shirt that
says this is my country shirt and I'll wear like
a pair of Cowboy boxers or you know something
simple. Yeah, like you said comfort Yeah, and
then the girls typically dress a little bit more
in the theme, right? But there's some guys that
go Full theme. Yeah. So the theme definitely
lends itself to give you kind of a vibe and an
idea. But I do also recommend for the females.
Oh, and you have to, too, because you if you
wear your boxers, you can't just walk in on that.
So you have to dress in two outfits. But is bring
more than one thing because you may one you don't
want to be. Overdressed or underdressed right
like that's kind of like the thing to You may
start feeling a certain type of way But maybe
once the party goes and you you're getting like
more comfortable. You're like, okay I'll go change
into like a lingerie or something like that that
I feel I mean half the time by the end of the
party I'm naked or topless or I had a minimum
topless or something of that nature me personally,
but Not every girl gets there or wants to do
that So it's really just about your comfort level,
but I do I would say bring Wear what you're confident
comfortable in but bring something else that
you think you have felt good in before. Because
your confidence could vary. Yeah, because you
start maybe having some drinks or girls or, you
know, people are like, oh, you look great tonight
or whatever. And it kind of like boost your confidence.
Other groups start coming out and you're like,
yeah, that sounds like fun. Yeah. Or somebody.
Yeah. Somebody dresses down. You're like, oh,
they look cute. I wish I had something that was
a little more dressed down. And then some parties
require you to like some parties. And they'll
say it on the invitation, but some require you
at a certain point to change into some sort of
long. lingerie or we've been to one personally
I know there's a party that yeah does that around
this area but we've never been never been to
it I don't think we have yeah I personally that
happens a lot in like I think Europe and stuff
I hear yeah I've heard to like on Previous podcasts
I was listening to like in the Midwest like house
parties They'll shut down like they'll close
the door at like a certain time and then they
want people to dress up and when we're in Vegas
they didn't require it but they definitely had
a time when they wanted us to dress down at the
Flirts that we went to in Vegas, so it's true.
There's definitely Kind of a trend that there
that The later in the night girls do tend to
whether or not the party requires it or it's
suggested that girls and even guys to get more
naked i mean obviously like that opens up the
doors for like okay we're gonna we're open to
you know playing or we're open i mean it's definitely
not like consent but it's definitely it's putting
yourself out there more in a way of like it changes
the vibe of the party yeah for sure it makes
things definitely more sexual i typically change
i get down to like some boxer briefs And that
that just for me says, all right, you know, business
is open. Like if you want to want to come in
and you want to grab the dog, like it's here.
Like there's no silly shorts or jeans in the
way. So, yeah. So I would say in your bag, for
sure, bring changes, if not more than one, like
at least a change of clothes to dress into later.
So that's kind of like the overall backpack backpack
backpack That we we carry around but inside that
backpack is another bag and That is our sex bag
Guess what's in our sex bag? Sex vibrator we
have typically I carry at least two variations
of vibrators and then I have a big Master massager
that goes in the backpack itself because it's
like 18 inches long That's the one with like
a super big battery and yeah the wand they call
it yeah so in our personal bag we have condoms
obviously obviously lube lube us personally our
favorite lube is coconut oil The thing about
coconut oil is it is oil so not all Condoms are
good with it in the sense that if you use like
a certain brands and certain material, it can
ultimately be broken down by the oil and the
coconut oil. So we like to use, uh, I think it's
a Trojan nitrile condom because it is like rated
for oil. So that's what we use personally, but
everybody, you know, has, uh, uh, what's that
other lube? The starts with an E easy. X, X,
X, no. K, Y? K, Y, K, Y. Like I saw it in my
head. K, not a E. Not even close. I saw it in
my head. Consonant, not a vowel. And then there's
uber, uber lube. I think that's a water -based
one. And then there's another one that we have
from Promescent. That's an aloe -based one. That
was a pretty good one. But the thing about all
these other lubes personally is They get tacky.
They get sticky. Yeah. Coconut oil is freaking,
it's just, it's slick. Coconut oil is nice for
like hand jobs, blow jobs. You can put it in
your mouth. Um, whereas the other lube's not
great for those, but obviously if you're having
sex with a condom, I feel like any of the lubes
kind of work. Yeah, for sure. But biggest thing
is just make sure you personally are using the,
uh, condom that is, you know, Rated for whatever
type of lube you are exactly because if you've
used the wrong one It doesn't like break it in
like two seconds, but it can break it down over
a period of time a bigger risk so Coconut oil
lube and then we vibrators and we have I do carry
some wipes coconut wipes Like hygiene ones hygiene.
Yeah, like if you want to wipe down after yes
or whatever If you want to spit your gum out,
you know, stuff like that. I personally, I like
to carry a couple and assorted sizes of cock
rings. Cause cock rings are fantastic in my opinion.
Cause just like a lot of other guys that have
issues with condoms, like you can be hard as
a rock, but that That you know 15 20 seconds
it takes for you to grab that condom wrapper
unwrap it Figure out which way it goes on because
there's two ways and you're always gonna pick
the wrong way And you're fucking fumbling with
that condom and by the time it you got a fucking,
you know a spaghetti noodle in your hand I love
that cock ring because I can get nice and hard
Without the condom put that cock ring on and
then it gives you you know All the time you need
to get that condom on and then once you're doing
your thing then it's all good. So I personally
have quite a few in my bog. What's in your bog,
baby? Along with ED medicine, I use Bluetooth.
So that's my go -to. And then of course we have
Gluck Gluck 2000. It's a hair tie. Hair tie.
And then it's not in our sex bag necessarily,
but in our backpack, we like to carry gum. Yeah,
so there's two different bags. Let me break break
it down There's a big bag like the backpack and
then there's a smaller bag, which is like more
purse size Which you can carry into a playroom.
Yeah, so you're not hauling a backpack into a
playroom. You're just taking your little bag
that has just your, which is all the things you
just named in it. Um, you know, the, like the
things you're going to probably need immediately.
Yes. During you don't need your change of clothes
necessarily if you're running into a room. Yeah,
exactly. So, uh, there's two bags, essentially
a bag with a bag, but yeah. So the one you just
described is the one we would take into like
a playroom. The bigger bag we would take to a
party would probably carry our liquor in it,
our - Liquor, change of clothes. Change of clothes.
It would have things like Advil. Yes. Toms. Peptobismal,
because the worst thing you can get is get, because
a lot of times if you're going to a party, you
know, you might be nervous. And what's the very
first thing that typically happens when you're
nervous? Your stomach starts to rumble, right?
Yeah, or you get nauseous. You get the poopies.
I would hope you wouldn't do that. before you
would go into a playroom. So no, I carry Pepto.
I haven't really had to use it, but you never
know. You go out to dinner before and then you
just, your stomach a little rumbly and that's
the least sexy you can feel when your stomach's
bothering you. Yeah. So carry a little Pepto.
Tums, if you get heartburn, Advil. What else
have we had? Do we have it there? Gum, like you
said. What else? I'm trying to think. A lot of
places. It's right there. the bag but i think
you emptied it out for him when we went out yeah
thanksgiving it definitely goes through inventory
changes oh permission pasties i bring pasties
a lot because some places uh we like i said i
tend to be the one getting topless but there
are some places where they want you to cover
your nipples so if i take my top off then i'll
have pasties uh what else is in that bag I think
that covers the primary a towel a towel. Yeah,
a lot of places you'll a lot of places have showers,
but they won't provide you towels so or if you're
playing somewhere and you want to put a towel
down so that you're not if there's like You know
if you're a squirt or bring your squirt blanket.
Yeah Yeah, you should do that. That's common
courtesy Yes You never know yeah So I think like
you said hygiene wipes, yeah In case there's
not a shower and you want to clean up between
Partners or just when you're done or whatever
You know a lot of people actually also carry
like a toothbrush toothpaste. Yeah I've never
I've never thought about that. Yeah, a lot of
places you go actually have mouthwash in the
bath. Yeah mouth. Yeah so Yeah, I think that
kind of covers like I figure the alcohol kills
everything. I was kidding. That's the hope I
think that pretty much covers what's in our bag.
I mean, it's gonna it's gonna change I bring
lip gloss Lip sense. Yep, whatever you I guess
need to refresh. Yes lip gloss Leave your dignity
at home. Yeah, women could bring makeup. I don't
bring makeup. Oh Tampons. Oh, yeah tampons. You
never know. You never know cuz one thing we've
scene is like you can be fine and then we'll
go to pound town for an hour and all of a sudden
you've started your period yeah so and if not
you one of your friends right so it's always
good to to you know carry some in your bag and
then you know you can be the the hero for someone
else or for your own wife and uh also i heard
they're really good with bullet wounds like you
can stuff it inside just like that who's getting
shot Hopefully nobody but you never know What
are you playing? What parties are you going to?
This is wild I'll take you back to my hood So
I think that that I think that's gonna wrap up
this this episode, I think we finished up our
part three So now newbies know all the things
they need to know they're ready to go out into
the world with their backpack backpack Mean we
can only guide him for so far But we we got a
couple of parties now we've gone to we got to
talk about and This come in Friday the the fifth
right fifth or sixth fifth fifth My band is gonna
be playing again at the Cove in Murrieta and
we're doing a sweet side of life meet -and -greet
We we know a lot of you guys are already signed
up for that, but you can find it on Cassidy comm
If you go into the party section, we're on the
fifth, or you can just search the sweet side
of life. Apparently it was emailed to everybody
10 ,000 times today. Yes. Yeah, Cassidy just
over did a server exchange or overhaul or something
and it got all buggy and it sent like my invite
like 10 times to people and people were messaging
me all angry. I'm like, it's not me. It wasn't
me. They won't even let you do that even if you
wanted to. No. Yeah, Cassidy has like governors
on when you can send and how many times like
six or seven days like You have to wait between
so you basically you're not allowed to spam people
which is you know makes sense But they did it
for us. Yeah, so People are like, yeah, we get
it. We get it. You're doing this fucking party.
Got it dick But um, so yeah, I think we're gonna
be done with this episode Part three Is over
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One thing, going into, it's December 3rd right
now. 2025 is almost over. 2026, 2026. 2026? 2026
is the year of the sweets. We are going to go
big or go home. We'll probably end up going home.
What? I would like to make some, some changes
going into 2026. I'm going to get a new cohost.
Oh, that sounds good. Yes. Just speaking like
a Spanish accent. Hola. No, I want to, um, I
want to try to do some, I would like to do some
more interviews, like over Skype, zoom, FaceTime,
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Alright guys, I think we're done here. Alright,
it's starting to get a little ridiculous now.
It's getting weird now. It's getting very weird
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