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we give on this show should not be taken too

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seriously as we are not professionals at all.

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With that being said, make yourself a drink and

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join us on our journey as a married couple enjoying

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the lifestyle in beautiful Southern California.

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This song is for the ladies, but fellas... Listen

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closely. And welcome back. We are... Who's back?

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We are back. Back again. With episode 57. Guess

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who's back? Tell a friend. No, really, tell your

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friends. Just kidding. So all these other podcasts

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do something special for the 69. Maybe on 69...

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We fuck on air. Yes. At least a blow job. We

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could probably do a blowjob Why is it gonna be

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a blowjob cuz it sounds fun to me I Think that

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we good We should fuck on air. All right. I'm

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not sure the legalities of that. Yeah, I'm not

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sure either Yeah, maybe I'll look into that.

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I mean no one can see us Blowjobs are allowed.

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There was a podcast They're not on anymore. But

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well, there's a reason for that Could be could

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be the blue jobs and they were gone after their

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69th episode. So guys We are go down on me. We

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could and you could play your song down on me.

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We could While you're going down on me. There's

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a lot that could be happening on our 69th We

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could do 69 on our 69th episode. It's just like

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on air 15 minutes. They're just like You eat

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spaghetti over there Maybe this is a bad bad

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choice to do it Alright guys, it's um, we're

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actually doing this episode on wine Wednesday

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We are doing a day ahead of schedule actually

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a whole week ahead of schedule is it cuz we did

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one last week Did we? I don't think so. This

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should be a bunch of episodes like question marks.

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I don't think so. It was last... I disagree.

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It was last Tuesday. I agree to disagree. All

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right. Well, I disagree as I disagree. All right.

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Clearly we've had some wine tonight. All right.

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So it's September 16th, which was last Tuesday.

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So we are now we're all of a sudden we're weekly.

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Look at us agree to disagree. Yeah, we're definitely

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not weekly but um We actually uh, we have um

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a big weekend ahead of us and We needed to get

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it done tonight because tomorrow we're packing

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Have you seen that one game that like it's like

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a game and it's like You there's a microphone

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in the middle and they put down like the word

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like family and then if you hear we And then

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I told you about it. Yeah, I think you said I

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would kill you in it No, you said you would kill

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me in it you All right guys It's gonna be a long

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one you're drinking wine tonight Clearly, clearly

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Mrs. Sweets responds to your snorting. Cheers.

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Cheers, motherfucker. So I am just drinking Barefoot

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Moscato, but you are doing a wine cocktail. It's

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called a blend. A blend, a blend. It's called

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a blend and look at those legs. A blend. It's

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your miss what it's your Moscato, but it's too

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sweet for me. So then I add like Pinot Grigio

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Got it. Is it delicious basically drink a gallon

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of wine tonight? Mm -hmm, right between the two

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of us Yeah, if we're talking about between the

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two of us yeah More than a gallon that's fine.

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I think it's about a gallon of wine. So And it's

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a school night So anyways tonight is gonna be

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a serious episode It's supposed to be out of

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all the nights we've chosen to get So You handed

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me wine as soon as I got back from the gym, I

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don't know what you expected I had expected this

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So facts as if you're a listener, you know most

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of our most of our podcasts are like stories

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or venues we're going to or just kind of fun.

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So this is going to be a very serious time of

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health and vaginal health and boner health. Boner.

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Boners. So Then we're gonna talk about this for

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a little bit and then after that if you're singing

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and then like someone's your backup person That's

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where I come into play cuz you're like boner

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health and I'm like boner kind of like a hype

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man Like boner you're like, yep. Yep So we're

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gonna talk about this maybe we don't do this

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tonight Do you want to save the vaginal health

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for another episode I actually think it's probably

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best I do it tonight. Then it won't be so clinical

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and boring. But I'll still get the message out

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there. Yes. So we're going to talk about some

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good stuff, I think. And then we're also going

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to touch on expectations of going to your first

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lifestyle event and what to bring. Like your

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backpack or your little nappy sack or whatever

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you got. Yeah, one of our listeners actually

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said hey You haven't done an episode like this

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and we've kind of danced around the topic But

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we've never done a direct episode of hey, this

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is what we bring. This is what you should because

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we bring everything as As to me it makes sense,

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but we've been to so many parties and people

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come and they don't have some of the Most basic

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things and it's like, okay. Well, maybe it's

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like liquor So let's first get into the the the

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vaginal health and stuff like that. So What's

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the swingers couch podcast a while back they've

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actually they're taking a little break right

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now, but they're getting ready to come back They

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have come back. Wait, don't call it a comeback.

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I've been here for years. Is that what it is?

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Yes but they they're getting ready to come on

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her back yes they've they've taken i'm trying

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i'm trying my hardest to be serious So they've

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taken a couple months off just to kind of you

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know recoup and relax for a little bit But they're

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back because they've been in the discord The

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past day just post on a bunch of booby and aspects

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You know, it's it's game on there. They're getting

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ready to come back So I was actually talking

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to him. Is it your Latin lovers aspects that

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are getting posted? It's it's his wife's aspects.

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Thank you very much He actually he actually did

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post a titty pic for a titty titty Tuesday So

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his tits his tits hers first and Didn't need

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to see that but fire But they're coming back

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but anyways, I think it was their last episode

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She was talking about Vaginal health and some

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of the things as a woman you need to know It's

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a hard knock life it is so one thing I will say

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is being in a monogamous you know marriage or

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a couple partners or whatever there's a lot of

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things you don't tend to have to deal with right

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because you're with your partner and like it

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or not vaginas have a bacteria in it there's

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a good bacterias and there's bad bacteria i mean

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our bodies have bacteria in them no it's just

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mostly women um our mouths men are clean all

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of our bodies Dicks have bacteria really quick

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before we go any further with this. We're gonna

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preface it. We are not doctors Yes, we're not

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doctors. We are not doctors. Anything we say

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here is used for entertainment purposes only

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Please do not sue us as we do not have any money

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to be sued for yes That being said, this is personal

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experience. Yeah, all the information we have

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is from the situations we have dealt with personally

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and or friends or friends giving us advice along

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the way and These are solutions that we have

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found have worked for us and or them That being

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said yes, please consult your doctor before starting

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any new regiments All the fine print Yes, consider

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this. Don't listen to us unless you want to.

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So if you're in like a monogamous relationship

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or a partner or whatever the case is, you will

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find you will probably not have a lot of these

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issues because probably zero because my bacteria.

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Gets along with your bacteria. We've we found

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a way our bacteria our friends. We figured out

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a way They become friends. They become lovers

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Yes, our bacteria makes bacteria babies. Yes,

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so us we're fine, but The second you go out and

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you start interacting with other people's bacterias

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as gross as that sounds They don't always get

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along they don't and a a woman's Vagina the flora

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or the flora the flora flora. I think it is It's

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very delicate again. Not doctors is very delicate.

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Your pH is very delicate Yeah, and there are

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a lot of things that can fuck with that, right?

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So so here's a couple things to learn We'll talk

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about some of our personal experiences and then

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you can be like, oh that makes sense so we my

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flora has always been on point from ever forever

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i can remember forever ever forever ever however

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once we started in the lifestyle not only in

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the lifestyle just yeah in the lifestyle i would

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say yeah even though we were just soft swapping

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we weren't even fucking people just soft swapping

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but like touching and then just like all the

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things that happen whistle -swapping, mouths,

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mostly touching in my mouth on dicks. And then

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I was gonna say something and I forgot and you

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told me not to say um because we said um too

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much so I'm trying not to say um and then I'm

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just gonna talk about the um that I'm not saying

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until I can think about it. I'm just gonna say

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shit. So the first time that we personally had

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an experience with it was many years ago we went

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to a Halloween party and there was some some

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sex with condoms of course which that in itself

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like there's still like a certain level of bacteria

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that's going to spread you know you're still

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condoms also create like a a problem too just

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like the foreign a lot of people have different

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allergies and And then the different lubes. At

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all. Every single one of those things has an

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effect. Yeah. So. So that particular, many years

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ago, we went to a party and we had a semi full

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swap. And then you had partaken in a couple of

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penises, like sucking, and you ended up getting

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a strep throat. And I will tell you if you are

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consulting a doctor for some reason I googled

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this and I have talked to many of my friends

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in the lifestyle and we all disagree with all

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of the things that doctors put out there on the

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internets about fucking strep throat and sucking

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dick. I'm sorry. It only makes sense what happened.

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The fact that, yes, I am more susceptible to

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strep throat. I used to get it as a kid. So I

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know like it's already kind of like Something

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that I'm subceptible to. You get it very easily.

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I have had a lot to drink. Let's just keep it.

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You get it. I get it. I can get it more easily

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than other people. I hadn't had it as an adult

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in like forever, but I started as. Yeah, but

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I started sucking rando dicks and all of a sudden

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it was like. I was constantly getting strep throat,

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which I've talked to some of my girlfriends and

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they've kind of said the same thing that, yeah,

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they've looked it up. And I think I even asked

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a doctor and they were like, no. And I'm like,

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that just doesn't make sense how it could be

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a no. Like it's it's bacteria and dicks obviously

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have bacteria. And I also noticed in my own personal

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experience that I get it got it less when I.

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gave oral to men after like we were in a pool

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which which makes or showered but mostly pools

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which makes sense if you're if it's chlorinated

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and their dick is basically getting washed off

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by the pool and then I suck it like like when

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i would do summer like the summer program and

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i would like circle guys and the summer dick

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program and i would just get guys on the side

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of the pool and suck dicks like that i didn't

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get strep from but just going to parties in the

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winter or things that like were just the winter

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program was rough on my on my throat so i was

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getting strep like pretty frequently which meant

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i was taking antibiotics because I was getting

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strep and that's the cure for a strep is antibiotics.

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Antibiotics obviously kill all the bacterias

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like head to toe and you're taking them for whatever

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10 days. And so it was obviously like affecting

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my vaginal flora as well taking the antibiotics.

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It killed a good bacteria. Yeah. So it killed

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my good bacteria. And my bad bacteria in my throat

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because it was just my whole body just killing

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it just nuked all of it all of it Doesn't it's

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not selective so not knowing this about antibiotics

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and then having not taken antibiotics for a long

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time like not realizing I got BV and Given that

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I hadn't been in scenario, like I had my pH like

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has always been on point, like not realizing

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kind of the like what was happening, basically

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what caused it, what? Yeah, what triggered it

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and then how to fix it. I was like, fuck like.

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Advil doesn't do it. Advil doesn't do it. And

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it kind of like put a rift between you and I,

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because you've always known me as having like

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very pH vagina. I wouldn't say a rift. It just...

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Not a rift, but it definitely it created a problem

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in our sex life. For a little time. Yeah. In

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a sense of... Like I didn't view you different.

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I just didn't know how to approach it or how

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to talk. Yeah, exactly Like it's how do you tell

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your significant other or like your partner that

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is it was my first time there was a problem you

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so yeah, and then a lot of times when you have

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Vivi as a woman at least for me like I I can't

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like people are like, you have to be able to

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know. But realistically, if you look it up, it's

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like most of the time it's not triggered until

00:17:27.890 --> 00:17:30.069
you're being penetrated like. And then that's

00:17:30.069 --> 00:17:32.869
when when you're being penetrated is when the

00:17:32.869 --> 00:17:36.440
smell actually comes up. Yep. So you're not like

00:17:36.440 --> 00:17:38.980
you can do a finger swipe. Yeah, exactly. I can

00:17:38.980 --> 00:17:42.099
like, yeah, I can like pee all day and like wipe

00:17:42.099 --> 00:17:44.160
and do all the things and be like, OK, I think

00:17:44.160 --> 00:17:47.079
I'm good. But then as soon as like you start

00:17:47.079 --> 00:17:49.019
fucking me, then it's like, OK, there's a smell

00:17:49.019 --> 00:17:52.759
now. So then it was like, OK, how to like I didn't

00:17:52.759 --> 00:17:56.200
know how to like how to fix it, what it was,

00:17:56.640 --> 00:17:59.980
what was going on, why it was like that. And.

00:18:00.279 --> 00:18:01.839
I mean, that's what I'm telling all of you guys.

00:18:01.900 --> 00:18:03.400
I don't want you guys to go through the same

00:18:03.400 --> 00:18:06.160
thing. Yeah. The first time, the first go around,

00:18:06.539 --> 00:18:08.960
if you don't know what's coming or what to expect,

00:18:08.980 --> 00:18:11.220
it can be scary. And you've never had it before.

00:18:11.220 --> 00:18:13.480
You're kind of like, fuck, what do I do? Like

00:18:13.480 --> 00:18:17.240
when I was younger, the very first woman I ever

00:18:17.240 --> 00:18:21.180
went down on, it was a horrible experience. It

00:18:21.180 --> 00:18:26.039
wasn't me. It wasn't you. She had I have no idea

00:18:26.039 --> 00:18:31.420
what was going on, but. it was very bad bb and

00:18:31.420 --> 00:18:34.019
that was the first time so i have like i have

00:18:34.019 --> 00:18:39.019
a bit of a ptsd link to it and bb is short for

00:18:39.019 --> 00:18:43.200
bacterial vaginosis um so if you're googling

00:18:43.200 --> 00:18:46.039
so when you had it it was like it triggered my

00:18:46.039 --> 00:18:49.599
ptsd a bit i didn't know a i didn't know at that

00:18:49.599 --> 00:18:54.569
point i really i knew some of the the terms,

00:18:54.630 --> 00:18:57.529
but I really didn't know pH. I didn't know this.

00:18:57.529 --> 00:18:59.410
I didn't know. Yeah. So I was just kind of like,

00:18:59.509 --> 00:19:01.670
what is going on? And by the time this happened,

00:19:01.750 --> 00:19:07.589
you and I had been together for 17 years or something.

00:19:07.589 --> 00:19:11.930
So it's not like it's like although we had been

00:19:11.930 --> 00:19:14.569
together for so long because we didn't have ever

00:19:14.569 --> 00:19:16.210
experienced this, we didn't really know how to

00:19:16.210 --> 00:19:18.849
talk about it because we didn't really know was

00:19:18.849 --> 00:19:21.470
neither of us knew what was going on. Like because

00:19:21.470 --> 00:19:28.990
you weren't talking to me. I didn't know. I didn't

00:19:28.990 --> 00:19:30.890
realize it was something that like that had to

00:19:30.890 --> 00:19:33.049
be treated necessarily. It was like, oh, I'm

00:19:33.049 --> 00:19:35.950
just like today's just off or whatever. But then

00:19:35.950 --> 00:19:38.009
you were triggered by it. So then it kind of

00:19:38.009 --> 00:19:41.069
like turned your sexuality down. And then I was

00:19:41.069 --> 00:19:44.630
like responding. It was kind of messy. It got

00:19:44.630 --> 00:19:51.930
messy. Yeah. Yeah. So. That's kind of how, well,

00:19:51.930 --> 00:19:53.509
anyway, so we started doing, I don't know, I

00:19:53.509 --> 00:19:55.589
don't know who started doing research. One of

00:19:55.589 --> 00:19:58.069
us did, probably you. I think we were both probably

00:19:58.069 --> 00:20:00.789
researching in between TikToks, like while we're

00:20:00.789 --> 00:20:03.549
scrolling on the side of the bed. And I remember,

00:20:04.569 --> 00:20:08.569
and I remember like there was one night where

00:20:08.569 --> 00:20:11.799
you said, You said something like, I ordered

00:20:11.799 --> 00:20:13.880
something or I think there's something wrong.

00:20:14.240 --> 00:20:15.960
Because by that point, we weren't even talking

00:20:15.960 --> 00:20:17.660
about it. It was just like. It was just like

00:20:17.660 --> 00:20:19.599
we weren't doing anything together. Yeah. And

00:20:19.599 --> 00:20:21.940
then. And we were avoiding parties. Yeah. We

00:20:21.940 --> 00:20:24.579
were just like not. This was extremely early.

00:20:24.579 --> 00:20:26.940
Yeah, this was really early in our LS. But I

00:20:26.940 --> 00:20:29.039
remember at one point, you were in bed and you

00:20:29.039 --> 00:20:33.220
said, hey, I think I have this. And I ordered

00:20:33.220 --> 00:20:36.779
this. Yeah. And I felt like a weight lifted off

00:20:36.779 --> 00:20:40.799
my shoulders. I'm like, OK. I can see clearly

00:20:40.799 --> 00:20:45.299
I know I just saw like okay. There's there's

00:20:45.299 --> 00:20:49.319
a solution Yeah, there's an obvious now we okay.

00:20:49.359 --> 00:20:52.440
We've we can talk about this, right? I just didn't

00:20:52.440 --> 00:20:55.920
know how to bring it up to you Yeah, so we it's

00:20:55.920 --> 00:20:57.359
scary because the last thing I want to do is

00:20:57.359 --> 00:21:01.210
like make you feel you know, dirty or unsexy

00:21:01.210 --> 00:21:02.589
or whatever. Yeah, that's what you always told

00:21:02.589 --> 00:21:04.230
me. You're like, I didn't feel that way about

00:21:04.230 --> 00:21:06.509
you at all. You told me you're like, I know you're,

00:21:06.670 --> 00:21:08.630
I know it's not because you're not clean. So

00:21:08.630 --> 00:21:10.470
that's why I know it's like a medical thing.

00:21:10.470 --> 00:21:12.309
Cause I'm like, I watch you shower and like,

00:21:12.390 --> 00:21:15.029
I know you clean. Like I know, I know like, I

00:21:15.029 --> 00:21:17.730
know your hygiene level is not like you're not

00:21:17.730 --> 00:21:20.730
dirty, but it's just, it does make you feel kind

00:21:20.730 --> 00:21:23.390
of that way. I would imagine. And the last thing

00:21:23.390 --> 00:21:26.349
I wanted to do was compound that. Yeah. By like

00:21:26.349 --> 00:21:28.730
saying, Hey, so when you, when you brought it

00:21:28.730 --> 00:21:31.609
up, kind of on your own I was like oh oh yeah

00:21:31.609 --> 00:21:33.650
okay that's cool it's kind of like all right

00:21:33.650 --> 00:21:36.430
yeah I felt like we're in a direction now where

00:21:36.430 --> 00:21:41.349
we can we're figuring it out so there's a company

00:21:41.349 --> 00:21:43.730
there's multiple companies I think hers does

00:21:43.730 --> 00:21:46.690
it I think whatever but the one I used was wisp

00:21:46.690 --> 00:21:49.970
and wisp you can do like an online basically

00:21:49.970 --> 00:21:53.970
it's essentially a survey wisp .com w w isp .com

00:21:53.970 --> 00:21:57.619
yeah it's essentially a survey I mean, I don't

00:21:57.619 --> 00:22:00.500
even do like I feel like I didn't even do a consultation

00:22:00.500 --> 00:22:03.420
or anything other than I just checked a bunch

00:22:03.420 --> 00:22:05.900
of boxes. Like, do you have this? Do you have

00:22:05.900 --> 00:22:07.660
this? It's not like you're trying to get like,

00:22:07.660 --> 00:22:12.549
you know, pain meds. Yeah. So they. will either

00:22:12.549 --> 00:22:16.670
ship it ship a medication to you or they will

00:22:16.670 --> 00:22:19.309
send it to your if like if you need it immediately,

00:22:19.309 --> 00:22:22.210
they'll send it to your closest pharmacy and

00:22:22.210 --> 00:22:23.890
you can pick it up at the pharmacy and then you

00:22:23.890 --> 00:22:28.430
can either use I think it's like $90 was for

00:22:28.430 --> 00:22:32.410
the medication and the like prescription cost

00:22:32.410 --> 00:22:34.789
of you know, the doctor looking at whatever survey

00:22:34.789 --> 00:22:36.910
filled out. Let me see your pussy. Yeah, I think

00:22:36.910 --> 00:22:41.700
it was $90 for that and then or there might be

00:22:41.700 --> 00:22:44.440
a consult fee and then you just whenever you

00:22:44.440 --> 00:22:46.220
pick up your prescription, you pay whatever through

00:22:46.220 --> 00:22:51.900
your insurance. This last time it was free, but

00:22:51.900 --> 00:22:57.720
anyway, so it's a what for the BV or whatever

00:22:57.720 --> 00:23:04.170
it's a it's a. Gel that that you put into essentially

00:23:04.170 --> 00:23:06.529
what looks like like a tube. It's like a tampon

00:23:06.529 --> 00:23:08.730
tube essentially You just squirt the gel into

00:23:08.730 --> 00:23:10.769
it. I know all about those. Yeah all about tampons

00:23:10.769 --> 00:23:12.869
Yeah, you put the gel you squirt the gel into

00:23:12.869 --> 00:23:14.990
it and then you insert it in yourself. You do

00:23:14.990 --> 00:23:17.569
it overnight It's like five days and then it's

00:23:17.569 --> 00:23:19.769
gone and usually in less than five days. I don't

00:23:19.769 --> 00:23:25.240
have an issue but I try to keep that kind of

00:23:25.240 --> 00:23:28.920
like on hand just for scenarios when I haven't

00:23:28.920 --> 00:23:31.099
if I have an issue that comes up or whatever

00:23:31.099 --> 00:23:33.980
every now and then after like a Particularly.

00:23:34.180 --> 00:23:37.980
Yeah the party, but I have like a better I think

00:23:37.980 --> 00:23:41.220
system. I think a better So that was where so

00:23:41.220 --> 00:23:46.440
obviously like my first My first like experience

00:23:46.440 --> 00:23:49.400
with being out of balance with my pH was that

00:23:49.400 --> 00:23:51.220
and so it was kind of on the extreme Side because

00:23:51.220 --> 00:23:53.680
I kind of like didn't know what to do with it

00:23:53.680 --> 00:23:56.339
But I think there's like more maintenance programs

00:23:56.339 --> 00:23:59.779
and things that are like if you're not fully

00:23:59.779 --> 00:24:05.599
at like the BV kind of like full -blown whatever

00:24:05.599 --> 00:24:08.240
if you're you know, you're taking antibiotics

00:24:08.240 --> 00:24:11.519
like maybe just You know other stuff you can

00:24:11.519 --> 00:24:13.759
do or if you know, you're going to a party or

00:24:13.759 --> 00:24:15.140
you know Like I don't think you have to go to

00:24:15.140 --> 00:24:17.220
full prescription mode if that's not the thing

00:24:17.220 --> 00:24:19.440
but the other thing Wisp does have because I

00:24:19.440 --> 00:24:22.559
I personally knock on wood do not get this problem

00:24:22.559 --> 00:24:24.099
I do not have this problem, but I know a lot

00:24:24.099 --> 00:24:26.680
of women do is like urinary tract infections

00:24:26.680 --> 00:24:28.720
Like they have medications for that that they

00:24:28.720 --> 00:24:30.839
prescribe which also I think is a lot I think

00:24:30.839 --> 00:24:33.279
it's an antibiotic which then fucking triggers

00:24:33.279 --> 00:24:38.539
BV, you know, it's like a whole There's actually

00:24:38.539 --> 00:24:41.480
there's a there's a some type of antibiotic for

00:24:41.480 --> 00:24:45.160
BV. So I think there's there's different layers.

00:24:45.599 --> 00:24:48.079
Yeah. Again, we're not doctors again. But I know

00:24:48.079 --> 00:24:51.119
I just I know like I know you take them antibiotic

00:24:51.119 --> 00:24:53.460
for like urinary tract infection, then that can

00:24:53.460 --> 00:24:55.339
trigger BV. You know what I mean? It's like I

00:24:55.339 --> 00:24:57.619
feel like it just fucking sucks being a woman

00:24:57.619 --> 00:25:02.200
with her like vaginas. Being so sensitive. It's

00:25:02.200 --> 00:25:05.160
like, oh, my God. But this I as a guy just have

00:25:05.160 --> 00:25:09.210
to wash my balls. Right. Just don't get soap

00:25:09.210 --> 00:25:12.269
in the urethra and you're good. And even if I

00:25:12.269 --> 00:25:14.990
do just pee a couple of times and it's gone,

00:25:15.089 --> 00:25:16.650
it's going to burn for a minute, but you're going

00:25:16.650 --> 00:25:18.450
to be good. It's a little, it's not quite as

00:25:18.450 --> 00:25:22.910
bad as demand flu. Yeah. There you go. So I think

00:25:22.910 --> 00:25:26.369
that, um, so this company whisper, I think hers

00:25:26.369 --> 00:25:27.990
too, like there's a million of them out there

00:25:27.990 --> 00:25:32.309
that'll do all this stuff online. Um, they have,

00:25:32.349 --> 00:25:36.480
uh, They do a lot of stuff with like urinary

00:25:36.480 --> 00:25:38.700
tract infection or a lot of women's health stuff.

00:25:40.660 --> 00:25:42.200
Those are the two off the top of my head that

00:25:42.200 --> 00:25:44.180
are big. I mean, honestly, I just went online

00:25:44.180 --> 00:25:46.740
to look them up today and they have GLP ones.

00:25:46.779 --> 00:25:49.559
If you want that, like you can order them weight

00:25:49.559 --> 00:25:51.180
loss medication through them. I mean, they have

00:25:51.180 --> 00:25:54.599
a whole they got a whole plethora of things that

00:25:54.599 --> 00:25:58.099
you might want to order through them. But yeah,

00:25:58.099 --> 00:26:03.069
so. personally Just like through all the conversations

00:26:03.069 --> 00:26:05.349
I've had with like friends I think it's like

00:26:05.349 --> 00:26:07.970
good information for women to kind of know like

00:26:07.970 --> 00:26:10.269
what the dealio is and then it's kind of weird

00:26:10.269 --> 00:26:13.349
like Being in the lifestyle. It's not talked

00:26:13.349 --> 00:26:17.190
about a lot kind of the contrary though in a

00:26:17.190 --> 00:26:22.150
sense of I think the lifestyle is so about honesty.

00:26:23.150 --> 00:26:26.490
I've heard you talk with other women quite a

00:26:26.490 --> 00:26:28.630
bit, and I've been part of those conversations,

00:26:28.650 --> 00:26:32.809
and it's kind of like, this is not bad. This

00:26:32.809 --> 00:26:36.490
happens to everybody. Yeah, it's not hidden,

00:26:36.950 --> 00:26:39.609
it's not taboo. You're not dirty. If you're out

00:26:39.609 --> 00:26:42.430
there having fun, it's gonna happen to you, like

00:26:42.430 --> 00:26:45.349
you're not. So I think it's like... We're more

00:26:45.349 --> 00:26:47.569
honest with my friends. Like some of our friends

00:26:47.569 --> 00:26:50.250
are like, oh, yeah, I can't go into jacuzzi because

00:26:50.250 --> 00:26:53.309
it's going to. Yeah, I think I think we're lucky

00:26:53.309 --> 00:26:55.490
in the fact that we have friends. We have like

00:26:55.490 --> 00:26:57.190
close friends that we can talk about this shit

00:26:57.190 --> 00:26:59.950
with. But I mean, when we first started and this

00:26:59.950 --> 00:27:02.069
was first happening, I didn't feel like I could

00:27:02.069 --> 00:27:04.490
talk to anybody about this. Like I couldn't.

00:27:04.509 --> 00:27:06.930
Like I said, we were avoiding parties. We were.

00:27:07.319 --> 00:27:09.880
you know, there was like stuff like that void

00:27:09.880 --> 00:27:12.220
in me. Yeah, we were avoiding each other. I mean,

00:27:12.339 --> 00:27:15.119
honestly, like, realistically, like there's just

00:27:15.119 --> 00:27:16.779
things that we weren't doing because we weren't

00:27:16.779 --> 00:27:19.059
we didn't we didn't know. So that's kind of why

00:27:19.059 --> 00:27:22.640
we wanted to do this podcast, because if anybody's,

00:27:22.640 --> 00:27:24.480
you know, listening and doesn't have the friend

00:27:24.480 --> 00:27:26.920
group that we have to talk about it or doesn't

00:27:26.920 --> 00:27:28.759
feel comfortable, like I know I've talked to,

00:27:28.839 --> 00:27:30.099
like I said, I've talked to friends about like,

00:27:30.160 --> 00:27:33.160
yeah, I believe oral gives strep throat like

00:27:33.160 --> 00:27:36.730
I do. If you're if you're susceptible, yeah,

00:27:36.809 --> 00:27:39.269
if you're susceptible to it. especially when

00:27:39.269 --> 00:27:40.970
you still have your tonsils. Yeah, it doesn't

00:27:40.970 --> 00:27:43.190
make. Tonsils are gone now. So it's not. It doesn't

00:27:43.190 --> 00:27:46.630
make sense that that like the one doesn't connect

00:27:46.630 --> 00:27:48.309
to the other because it's like I'll go to a party.

00:27:48.529 --> 00:27:51.289
I'll give oral to multiple guys and then I'll

00:27:51.289 --> 00:27:54.069
have strep. It only makes like the one and it

00:27:54.069 --> 00:27:56.289
happens to happen more than once. So it's like

00:27:56.289 --> 00:27:58.750
the one thing leads to the other. I don't know.

00:27:58.750 --> 00:28:01.670
I'm not a scientist, but I feel like I don't

00:28:01.670 --> 00:28:04.029
suck as much dick as I used to. You've slowed

00:28:04.029 --> 00:28:09.009
down a bit, but I think. I think it's because

00:28:09.009 --> 00:28:16.650
different parties we go to. Yeah. So. Plus, when

00:28:16.650 --> 00:28:20.130
I was doing that, we're also kind of just fucking

00:28:20.130 --> 00:28:21.990
out more, too. Yeah, we are fucking more. But

00:28:21.990 --> 00:28:26.789
also, like some of the other time, I think when

00:28:26.789 --> 00:28:28.369
we were going to like the less parties a lot

00:28:28.369 --> 00:28:31.049
more, I was like constantly on my period. Yeah.

00:28:31.049 --> 00:28:33.869
And then there was zero. Yeah. So it was like

00:28:33.869 --> 00:28:39.789
that was my option to do. But yeah, so Where

00:28:39.789 --> 00:28:42.809
were we with this? I don't want to say We were

00:28:42.809 --> 00:28:44.490
talking about like it's good that we have the

00:28:44.490 --> 00:28:47.089
friends we do now. Yeah Because when you first

00:28:47.089 --> 00:28:49.650
enter into the lifestyle, you know the first

00:28:49.650 --> 00:28:53.309
time you get it if you if you're not aware of

00:28:53.309 --> 00:28:55.890
What can happen or what's gonna happen? It can

00:28:55.890 --> 00:28:57.990
be a little freak or your partner is not aware

00:28:57.990 --> 00:29:01.609
In our case neither one of us were ready. Yeah,

00:29:02.150 --> 00:29:04.930
now it's kind of like You know, sometimes we'll

00:29:04.930 --> 00:29:07.869
be like, oh, okay. Yeah, you're like, okay, there's

00:29:07.869 --> 00:29:09.710
something I'm like, okay, and then I'm like,

00:29:09.869 --> 00:29:11.890
cool, I'm gonna take my medication. I'm like,

00:29:12.009 --> 00:29:13.849
oh, yeah, that's not quite as fresh or whatever

00:29:13.849 --> 00:29:16.410
the case is. Oh, boom, you take care of it. I

00:29:16.410 --> 00:29:21.269
am very fresh. Massingale. No, it's like those

00:29:21.269 --> 00:29:24.410
old commercials like, mom, I'm not feeling very

00:29:24.410 --> 00:29:26.289
fresh today. I don't know what you're talking

00:29:26.289 --> 00:29:28.650
about. Old school massing girl. Well, you're

00:29:28.650 --> 00:29:30.730
older than I am. I don't know what you're talking

00:29:30.730 --> 00:29:32.650
about. I zeroed know what you're talking about.

00:29:32.650 --> 00:29:35.309
But now it's like, it doesn't happen very often.

00:29:35.390 --> 00:29:37.509
But every now and then there's just that off

00:29:37.509 --> 00:29:40.289
day where you're like, eh, could be better. So

00:29:40.289 --> 00:29:45.420
then you were talking about. And I recently was

00:29:45.420 --> 00:29:47.079
talking to one of my friends about this and actually

00:29:47.079 --> 00:29:49.599
just ordered it But you had always said like

00:29:49.599 --> 00:29:52.039
another podcast. She always does boric acid work

00:29:52.039 --> 00:29:54.220
acid So that's kind of a maintenance program

00:29:54.220 --> 00:29:56.359
where it's not prescription. You can order on

00:29:56.359 --> 00:29:59.799
Amazon And honestly if you look at boric acid

00:29:59.799 --> 00:30:02.819
on Amazon The the first thing that pops up is

00:30:02.819 --> 00:30:05.019
Amazon's choice or whatever and that's the one

00:30:05.019 --> 00:30:07.880
that my friend Got and so that's the one that

00:30:07.880 --> 00:30:12.559
I bought recently. Who's your friend? So Basically

00:30:12.559 --> 00:30:15.759
what she says, so I've only used it once, but

00:30:15.759 --> 00:30:18.000
it seems to have worked. But I mean, you don't

00:30:18.000 --> 00:30:20.640
want to use it. It's not like a daily like, hey,

00:30:20.680 --> 00:30:22.680
let's put boric acid in every day because you

00:30:22.680 --> 00:30:24.700
don't want to. That can also fuck up your pH.

00:30:25.140 --> 00:30:29.579
So just more like she uses it. She says she like,

00:30:29.759 --> 00:30:31.759
well, if she's on her period, she'll put them

00:30:31.759 --> 00:30:33.799
in and then put the tampon in like that, because

00:30:33.799 --> 00:30:35.880
during your period, we all know we I mean, not

00:30:35.880 --> 00:30:39.519
you guys, but all us women know that our pH is

00:30:39.519 --> 00:30:41.160
kind of fucked up and like we kind of get like

00:30:42.319 --> 00:30:44.940
That situation going on so she does that to like

00:30:44.940 --> 00:30:48.240
help Maintain during her period and I don't know.

00:30:48.359 --> 00:30:50.339
Maybe she does it towards the end. I'm guessing

00:30:50.339 --> 00:30:56.420
so she's not doing it every day and then It's

00:30:56.420 --> 00:30:58.700
more and then more like at like after you have

00:30:58.700 --> 00:31:01.420
a play session That's kind of where the podcast.

00:31:01.420 --> 00:31:03.779
Yeah, I'm like every every time she has like

00:31:03.779 --> 00:31:05.799
a big night She'll take it that night before

00:31:05.799 --> 00:31:08.259
she goes to bed. Yeah, and what and what taking

00:31:08.259 --> 00:31:11.220
it means is it's just it's a suppository but

00:31:11.220 --> 00:31:13.160
not in your butt in your vagina? Yeah. Is it

00:31:13.160 --> 00:31:16.500
still suppository if it's in your vagina? Vagina.

00:31:16.559 --> 00:31:20.680
Vagina satori. Vaginal satori. Vaginal satori.

00:31:21.099 --> 00:31:22.380
I don't know. Anyway, you put in vagina. Again,

00:31:22.440 --> 00:31:24.599
we're not doctors. It very much says on the bottle,

00:31:24.779 --> 00:31:28.220
do not swallow. Do not put under your tongue.

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00:32:14.899 --> 00:32:18.819
yeah, so I used it. I don't know. We had one

00:32:18.819 --> 00:32:20.519
night and I just I was like, I'm just going to

00:32:20.519 --> 00:32:23.519
give it a shot. And I mean, I didn't notice she

00:32:23.519 --> 00:32:25.700
what she told me is that you'll feel like if

00:32:25.700 --> 00:32:28.660
someone came in you and then at the end of the

00:32:28.660 --> 00:32:31.059
like the next morning you wake up and you kind

00:32:31.059 --> 00:32:34.619
of have that feeling. I feel that more when I

00:32:34.619 --> 00:32:38.930
use the Metro gel. The next day. I'm like, oh

00:32:38.930 --> 00:32:41.950
shit. It does it's like calm basically, but then

00:32:41.950 --> 00:32:44.690
I didn't really have that it wasn't I want to

00:32:44.690 --> 00:32:47.609
say I didn't really notice anything but I Could

00:32:47.609 --> 00:32:49.609
see maybe because it kind of dissolves inside

00:32:49.609 --> 00:32:52.930
of you. It's a Thomas for your pussy. Yeah, so

00:32:52.930 --> 00:32:56.630
it just Neutralizes, I guess whatever is in there.

00:32:56.650 --> 00:33:01.269
So I just tried it I I can't say if it's like,

00:33:01.369 --> 00:33:03.069
I mean, I would need to give it more time to

00:33:03.069 --> 00:33:05.250
say like, oh, it works like great. And I've not

00:33:05.250 --> 00:33:09.049
had to have to use this other medication since

00:33:09.049 --> 00:33:12.009
I started this, you know, regimen of if I play,

00:33:12.190 --> 00:33:15.930
I use it. But a lot of people, a lot of women

00:33:15.930 --> 00:33:18.890
swear by it. And I would I think it's a good

00:33:18.890 --> 00:33:21.809
plan. I think it's a good plan. And another thing,

00:33:21.809 --> 00:33:24.250
which is also good ideas are probiotic pills.

00:33:24.630 --> 00:33:28.809
Yeah. So I take a daily. Um, women's I get it

00:33:28.809 --> 00:33:33.710
from Costco. It's a women's Daily probiotic and

00:33:33.710 --> 00:33:36.390
I think that helps too. Yeah, like probiotics

00:33:36.390 --> 00:33:41.150
obviously balance your System and the women's

00:33:41.150 --> 00:33:43.769
one doesn't hurt specifically, you know, obviously

00:33:43.769 --> 00:33:46.049
formulated for a woman's body So i'm assuming

00:33:46.049 --> 00:33:49.430
it has some vaginal health in there, too It doesn't

00:33:49.430 --> 00:33:51.430
hurt. It tastes like vaginas when you put no

00:33:51.430 --> 00:33:56.529
it doesn't So I take that daily as well So, yeah,

00:33:56.710 --> 00:33:59.210
that's kind of what I do. I do my probiotic.

00:33:59.269 --> 00:34:01.170
I've been doing my probiotic, though. So it definitely

00:34:01.170 --> 00:34:05.609
the probiotic definitely doesn't prevent like

00:34:05.609 --> 00:34:09.409
BV or whatever. Yeah. If there's enough negative

00:34:09.409 --> 00:34:11.429
bacteria in your system, it's going to happen.

00:34:11.570 --> 00:34:14.250
Yeah. But I think it just it's an overall just

00:34:14.250 --> 00:34:16.429
a health, you know, just main maintenance, like

00:34:16.429 --> 00:34:19.289
you say. Yeah. And then, you know, you just handle

00:34:19.289 --> 00:34:20.889
bring out the big guns when you have to bring

00:34:20.889 --> 00:34:24.329
out the big guns. But I as a man will say to

00:34:24.329 --> 00:34:28.389
the woman, Don't ever be ashamed of that. If

00:34:28.389 --> 00:34:33.250
you're having that situation, honestly, for me,

00:34:33.769 --> 00:34:36.050
I can't speak for every man. But if I'm with

00:34:36.050 --> 00:34:39.150
a woman and I go to go down there, she goes,

00:34:39.170 --> 00:34:41.610
I'm not good right now. I'm not feeling right.

00:34:42.130 --> 00:34:44.949
In my head, I'm like, got it. It's all good.

00:34:45.809 --> 00:34:49.210
And it will not change how I view that woman.

00:34:49.409 --> 00:34:54.159
I would like, let me know when we're good. I

00:34:54.159 --> 00:34:57.239
want a woman to enjoy what I'm doing. Right.

00:34:57.280 --> 00:34:59.920
And if you're in your head, you're not going

00:34:59.920 --> 00:35:02.280
to enjoy it. A thousand percent. And the last

00:35:02.280 --> 00:35:04.579
thing I want to do is, you know, put you or me

00:35:04.579 --> 00:35:07.719
or us in a position where it does, it's not good.

00:35:07.739 --> 00:35:09.739
And then all of a sudden there's like, well,

00:35:09.980 --> 00:35:13.500
bad. And, you know, just. Yeah. So just as all

00:35:13.500 --> 00:35:16.000
I can say to women is it's going to happen and

00:35:16.000 --> 00:35:18.420
don't be ashamed of it. Yeah. I mean, I don't

00:35:18.420 --> 00:35:21.519
know one woman it hasn't happened to, to be honest.

00:35:21.519 --> 00:35:25.349
Like I've talked to. All of my friends and I

00:35:25.349 --> 00:35:29.750
think every single one of them has had I mean

00:35:29.750 --> 00:35:31.889
it's different than the yeast infection. Yeah

00:35:31.889 --> 00:35:35.469
And not gonna be bacon bread. Yeah, and I mean

00:35:35.469 --> 00:35:38.130
some people I mean and some of my friends are

00:35:38.130 --> 00:35:40.670
more prone to yeast infections and again I knock

00:35:40.670 --> 00:35:43.510
on wood. That's not my problem and I Feel sorry

00:35:43.510 --> 00:35:45.530
for them because I think that's actually I from

00:35:45.530 --> 00:35:48.550
what I hear it can be painful. So again I don't

00:35:48.550 --> 00:35:51.429
know the cure for that. I know it's not a boric

00:35:51.429 --> 00:35:54.550
acid, I think it's more like you really do have

00:35:54.550 --> 00:35:58.409
to be on an antibiotic, probably for that. And

00:35:58.409 --> 00:36:01.110
then again, you're on the antibiotic and then

00:36:01.110 --> 00:36:02.730
that fucking triggers the view. It's just like

00:36:02.730 --> 00:36:06.090
a fucking cycle. But and then the other thing

00:36:06.090 --> 00:36:09.230
that I feel like is hard sometimes to talk about

00:36:09.230 --> 00:36:14.110
is when women are on their periods. And I feel

00:36:14.110 --> 00:36:19.800
like it's hard to. I've now I feel more comfortable

00:36:19.800 --> 00:36:22.059
before I just didn't want to say anything and

00:36:22.059 --> 00:36:24.780
I just like avoided everything But it's like

00:36:24.780 --> 00:36:29.360
I mean most of most women I mean We have that

00:36:29.360 --> 00:36:32.420
I guess it is what it is every guy that you're

00:36:32.420 --> 00:36:35.280
gonna potentially talk to Has dealt with a woman

00:36:35.280 --> 00:36:38.760
that is has had it, right? So it's it's not new

00:36:38.760 --> 00:36:41.940
that that is something that men know. Yeah, and

00:36:41.940 --> 00:36:45.880
we've had various episodes where you know, I'll

00:36:45.840 --> 00:36:48.659
like recently went up to one of the parties and

00:36:48.659 --> 00:36:51.619
I went up to a girl and I go how you doing good

00:36:51.619 --> 00:36:54.380
and I'm like how you doing like how you doing

00:36:54.380 --> 00:36:56.739
blah blah blah she goes yeah you can kiss me

00:36:56.739 --> 00:36:58.219
but we can't fuck tonight or you can't touch

00:36:58.219 --> 00:37:01.280
me below the belt I'm like got it yeah like okay

00:37:01.280 --> 00:37:03.420
and then there's some people who will just let

00:37:03.420 --> 00:37:04.960
you fuck around with them when they're on their

00:37:04.960 --> 00:37:07.780
period like they'll still like you've played

00:37:07.780 --> 00:37:10.769
with women who Have just had tampons in they've

00:37:10.769 --> 00:37:12.750
just told you him on my period and then you're

00:37:12.750 --> 00:37:14.570
like I really don't care as long as you don't

00:37:14.570 --> 00:37:17.929
care It's like as long as you Honesty. Yeah be

00:37:17.929 --> 00:37:20.730
upfront. I know some guys care everybody. That's

00:37:20.730 --> 00:37:23.090
a problem for some I mean, I prefer not to go,

00:37:23.090 --> 00:37:26.409
you know finger -painting Yeah, but I mean if

00:37:26.409 --> 00:37:29.150
if it's within a manageable stage and you're

00:37:29.150 --> 00:37:31.250
comfortable I'm comfortable. Yeah doesn't matter

00:37:31.250 --> 00:37:34.469
that much to me Yeah, like I'd prefer not to

00:37:34.469 --> 00:37:36.429
look like a murder scene what I've done, but

00:37:36.429 --> 00:37:38.289
right well you I don't think you've gone down

00:37:38.289 --> 00:37:42.010
on anybody with on their period. Have you um?

00:37:42.150 --> 00:37:47.039
Yeah, I think you okay It's happened. It's happened

00:37:47.039 --> 00:37:52.579
So yeah, so it's like Every guy some guys are

00:37:52.579 --> 00:37:54.219
like but there's a lot of things too out there

00:37:54.219 --> 00:37:58.280
like women Can have their cups their dish. What's

00:37:58.280 --> 00:38:01.480
the cup? What's just so the cup is a cup again?

00:38:01.739 --> 00:38:04.340
We had no idea about any of these before we got

00:38:04.340 --> 00:38:06.960
to the LS and we're like, so there's a cup There's

00:38:06.960 --> 00:38:09.000
option. I mean, I think I think cups are more

00:38:09.000 --> 00:38:10.960
common now I don't think it was the LS that got

00:38:10.960 --> 00:38:12.619
the cup triggered, but I think women are just

00:38:12.619 --> 00:38:15.909
in general more know about their different options

00:38:15.909 --> 00:38:18.349
for me for us. Yeah, I'm just saying, but I think

00:38:18.349 --> 00:38:20.809
we knew about it before L .S. Maybe not. I don't

00:38:20.809 --> 00:38:24.130
think so. Because OK, so there's a cup is I mean,

00:38:24.230 --> 00:38:26.349
it looks like a cup, like a little like a shot

00:38:26.349 --> 00:38:29.469
glass shot glass. And basically you stick it

00:38:29.469 --> 00:38:34.130
inside of you and it just yeah. it retains it

00:38:34.130 --> 00:38:37.030
retains all the liquids the uterine shedding

00:38:37.030 --> 00:38:41.889
yeah and then um the disc is kind of the same

00:38:41.889 --> 00:38:44.929
idea but it's flatter so the cup looks like a

00:38:44.929 --> 00:38:48.070
cup the disc looks like a condom how do you stop

00:38:48.070 --> 00:38:51.989
the disc from moving around it goes farther back

00:38:51.989 --> 00:38:56.050
oh but i do think like i do think it's kind of

00:38:56.050 --> 00:38:58.750
okay so we had a situation where we had a couple

00:38:58.750 --> 00:39:02.849
that We had not played with fully. They were

00:39:02.849 --> 00:39:06.630
coming over. The plan was to play like full play

00:39:06.630 --> 00:39:10.710
and the plan was like we didn't really have like,

00:39:10.710 --> 00:39:12.650
oh, we're going to fuck. But it was like they

00:39:12.650 --> 00:39:14.150
were like one of the first people we fucked.

00:39:14.150 --> 00:39:16.969
So it was like in our brain that this was probably

00:39:16.969 --> 00:39:18.550
going to happen tonight. They came over to our

00:39:18.550 --> 00:39:21.590
house and I started my period and I was like,

00:39:21.610 --> 00:39:29.030
fuck. But we had the disk. My. I didn't say anything

00:39:29.030 --> 00:39:31.210
about being on my period and like having the

00:39:31.210 --> 00:39:33.789
disk just because I felt like it was going to

00:39:33.789 --> 00:39:37.110
be weird or whatever. Like because the disk basically

00:39:37.110 --> 00:39:42.250
lays flat like you can't. If you're fucking or

00:39:42.250 --> 00:39:44.670
like you can feel it maybe, but it's not like

00:39:44.670 --> 00:39:48.190
inhibiting anything. It's like laying flat against.

00:39:49.789 --> 00:39:54.260
I don't know. I don't exactly know the. Angle

00:39:54.260 --> 00:39:57.280
angle of it, but it's at a 45 degree laying flat

00:39:57.280 --> 00:39:59.500
and it's not and like I said, it's like a condom

00:39:59.500 --> 00:40:03.500
It's not so a dick would slide past it. Yeah

00:40:03.500 --> 00:40:07.400
Okay, how does it block anything? Okay. See this

00:40:07.400 --> 00:40:10.420
again. My my I got a great not the cup makes

00:40:10.420 --> 00:40:13.980
sense to me It's a bucket. Yeah, not my doesn't

00:40:13.980 --> 00:40:16.139
make sense. Yeah, the disc goes back farther

00:40:16.139 --> 00:40:20.050
But I mean dicks only go so far Right. For some

00:40:20.050 --> 00:40:26.070
of us. So anyway, the disc, like, is definitely

00:40:26.070 --> 00:40:31.750
less intrusive to, like, penetrative sex or whatever.

00:40:32.010 --> 00:40:34.750
Like, I think we've we've had sex when you've

00:40:34.750 --> 00:40:37.050
had the cup and I'm like, oh, there it is. Yeah,

00:40:37.170 --> 00:40:39.690
I had to like cut the I had to cut the little

00:40:39.690 --> 00:40:41.550
tail on the cut because it wasn't worked. That

00:40:41.550 --> 00:40:43.630
cup was the cup didn't really work well for me,

00:40:43.630 --> 00:40:49.400
but the disc worked better. Oh, and then Wisp

00:40:49.400 --> 00:40:53.440
also has, side note, Wisp also has pills you

00:40:53.440 --> 00:40:58.619
can take, Neopron, whatever, that you can take

00:40:58.619 --> 00:41:04.519
to push your period. So if you if you know you

00:41:04.519 --> 00:41:06.340
have a big event coming up and then you're like,

00:41:06.420 --> 00:41:08.300
fuck, it's going to land like on my period, you

00:41:08.300 --> 00:41:11.699
can take these pills and essentially like it's

00:41:11.699 --> 00:41:14.440
kind of like how birth control works. essentially

00:41:14.440 --> 00:41:16.760
just like pushes your period until you stop taking

00:41:16.760 --> 00:41:19.139
them and then you have your period after you

00:41:19.139 --> 00:41:22.179
stop taking them. So Wisp also has that those

00:41:22.179 --> 00:41:25.519
pills too you can order. With that being said,

00:41:25.679 --> 00:41:27.980
I need you to track here these next couple of

00:41:27.980 --> 00:41:30.219
months, because we got New Year's Eve coming

00:41:30.219 --> 00:41:33.420
up. I can't track shit, because my period is

00:41:33.420 --> 00:41:35.320
so irregular. Well, you know when you had it

00:41:35.320 --> 00:41:37.019
last, and you know when you're going to have

00:41:37.019 --> 00:41:41.000
it next. Yeah. So by using that small mathematical

00:41:41.000 --> 00:41:41.840
equation. I don't know. No, you can't. No, because

00:41:41.840 --> 00:41:44.519
it's so irregular. And then if it's anywhere

00:41:44.519 --> 00:41:46.659
within that period, you're going to take those

00:41:46.659 --> 00:41:49.199
pills. I'm going to Crush them up in the bottom

00:41:49.199 --> 00:41:51.159
of a shake. And the thing is, you can't start

00:41:51.159 --> 00:41:53.940
the, it doesn't stop your period. It just, it

00:41:53.940 --> 00:41:55.360
doesn't like, if you're already on your period,

00:41:55.480 --> 00:41:57.239
it doesn't like, it stops it. No, we're gonna,

00:41:57.679 --> 00:41:59.599
basically we're going to the New Year's Eve event

00:41:59.599 --> 00:42:04.179
in San Diego and I just need you like with a

00:42:04.179 --> 00:42:06.659
clean bill of health, like just rolling in like

00:42:06.659 --> 00:42:09.900
hard. Cause I am, I am planning on getting freaky

00:42:09.900 --> 00:42:13.860
deaky. Okay, noted. It's gonna get crazy. Anyway,

00:42:13.980 --> 00:42:16.869
so they have that. but i wish so i kind of so

00:42:16.869 --> 00:42:18.869
we that couple we didn't i didn't say anything

00:42:18.869 --> 00:42:22.570
you were like well you could just use your disc

00:42:22.570 --> 00:42:25.090
and then like nobody will know well then he was

00:42:25.090 --> 00:42:27.269
fingering me in the jacuzzi and then we went

00:42:27.269 --> 00:42:30.719
to go fuck And he didn't say anything at the

00:42:30.719 --> 00:42:33.500
time But then later I was talking to his wife

00:42:33.500 --> 00:42:36.579
like not like way later like once we became way

00:42:36.579 --> 00:42:39.320
closer friends And we were talking about she's

00:42:39.320 --> 00:42:41.159
like, yeah, he did kind of mention there was

00:42:41.159 --> 00:42:43.619
something And then the next time he was with

00:42:43.619 --> 00:42:46.539
you there was nothing Because we had fucked him

00:42:46.539 --> 00:42:49.099
a couple of times and I was like, yeah I'm like

00:42:49.099 --> 00:42:50.500
I was like you should have just said you were

00:42:50.500 --> 00:42:53.039
on your period. I'm like, I know She goes that

00:42:53.039 --> 00:42:55.179
wouldn't have stopped him. I'm like I get that

00:42:55.179 --> 00:42:59.349
but I was like I was just so So I feel like honesty

00:42:59.349 --> 00:43:02.269
now is the best policy this hundred percent Yeah,

00:43:02.750 --> 00:43:04.389
because some guys will be fine with it and some

00:43:04.389 --> 00:43:07.809
guys won't and that's fine for me if a woman

00:43:07.809 --> 00:43:11.409
came to me is like Here's the situation. I'm

00:43:11.409 --> 00:43:14.690
cool with it. I'm gonna be cool with it If the

00:43:14.690 --> 00:43:16.570
girl says I'm not cool with it, then I'm not

00:43:16.570 --> 00:43:19.230
cool with it. Yeah, so it's like for me if she's

00:43:19.230 --> 00:43:22.130
cool We'll figure it out. Yeah, we'll give it

00:43:22.130 --> 00:43:26.360
a shot and honestly he would have he It's not

00:43:26.360 --> 00:43:28.659
like I mean like I said, I had everything under

00:43:28.659 --> 00:43:31.880
control like cuz I had the disc and it was like

00:43:31.880 --> 00:43:34.260
We could still fuck and everything was good.

00:43:34.260 --> 00:43:37.940
There was no likes. Yeah, so I don't know I should

00:43:37.940 --> 00:43:39.719
have just said it cuz then he was like thinking

00:43:39.719 --> 00:43:43.039
I had some weird Alien vagina. No, he didn't

00:43:43.039 --> 00:43:45.460
she said she didn't say that but I had like a

00:43:45.460 --> 00:43:51.900
mouse trap So so ultimately what it boils down

00:43:51.900 --> 00:43:57.219
to you guys is Guys and girls you're gonna encounter

00:43:57.219 --> 00:44:02.420
some shit in this Lifestyle journey that you

00:44:02.420 --> 00:44:05.619
may or may not get in, you know everyday monogamous

00:44:05.619 --> 00:44:10.820
life and The biggest thing from my point of view

00:44:10.820 --> 00:44:14.300
is nothing to be ashamed of and communicate communicate

00:44:14.300 --> 00:44:17.840
Honesty. Yeah talk about it and you're not the

00:44:17.840 --> 00:44:21.280
only one Literally, you are not the only thousand

00:44:21.280 --> 00:44:24.440
percent. You're not yeah And you're not dirty.

00:44:25.559 --> 00:44:27.980
And it's, it's kind of funny because there's,

00:44:28.039 --> 00:44:30.840
there's some times where we're in a playroom

00:44:30.840 --> 00:44:34.179
or something and we're like, Oh, somebody has

00:44:34.179 --> 00:44:36.679
BV in here. And it's like, we almost want to

00:44:36.679 --> 00:44:40.340
zero them out and pull them like, Hey, WISP .com

00:44:40.340 --> 00:44:44.380
girl. It'll take care of it really quick. Of

00:44:44.380 --> 00:44:46.739
course we wouldn't do that, but it's just, it's

00:44:46.739 --> 00:44:49.019
like, just don't be ashamed of it. Just, you

00:44:49.019 --> 00:44:55.409
know, Get it taken care of simply, simply. It

00:44:55.409 --> 00:45:00.989
is simply. Continue. Yeah. And that is actually

00:45:00.989 --> 00:45:03.329
going to carry us over. Is there anything else

00:45:03.329 --> 00:45:05.730
you wanted to touch base on that? I don't know.

00:45:05.869 --> 00:45:09.230
I'll probably interrupt you at some point. So.

00:45:10.909 --> 00:45:13.090
You are correct. We're only gonna be doing this

00:45:13.090 --> 00:45:14.869
for an episode. We don't we're not gonna be getting

00:45:14.869 --> 00:45:16.610
into the other shit I was talking about. I told

00:45:16.610 --> 00:45:19.389
you I thought that was gonna take a lot. I told

00:45:19.389 --> 00:45:21.670
you're always like you're always like babe. It's

00:45:21.670 --> 00:45:24.250
gonna be like 15 minutes I'm like the fuck it's

00:45:24.250 --> 00:45:26.449
gonna be 15 minutes. Sometimes I forget how long

00:45:26.449 --> 00:45:31.949
-winded you are So as we're as we're sitting

00:45:31.949 --> 00:45:34.030
here talking about vaginal health, I think it's

00:45:34.030 --> 00:45:40.849
time to talk about us guys penis health Wash

00:45:40.849 --> 00:45:44.030
them, wash them balls. So guys, the secret to

00:45:44.030 --> 00:45:48.070
penis health is soap and water. And we're done.

00:45:49.349 --> 00:45:52.769
And scene. There's a lot that goes on with men.

00:45:53.250 --> 00:45:57.469
As we get older, you have to use like, you don't

00:45:57.469 --> 00:46:00.690
have to use but Blu Chu. That's what I use for

00:46:00.690 --> 00:46:03.289
my, it's an ED medication. I don't have - You

00:46:03.289 --> 00:46:05.289
say as you get older, it has anything to do with

00:46:05.289 --> 00:46:09.429
your age. No, as you get older, A lot of guys

00:46:09.429 --> 00:46:13.730
have to take it. Right. Because it is a ED medication.

00:46:14.010 --> 00:46:18.269
I do not have ED, which is erectile dysfunction.

00:46:18.710 --> 00:46:21.789
I just like to use it for sport. Recreationally.

00:46:22.150 --> 00:46:24.230
Yes. So a lot of guys use it recreationally.

00:46:24.650 --> 00:46:28.369
Swinger's insurance. Swinger's insurance. So

00:46:28.369 --> 00:46:30.610
a lot of people like to, I said them again, a

00:46:30.610 --> 00:46:33.630
lot of people will use it as insurance because

00:46:33.630 --> 00:46:36.849
you go to an event, you get overwhelmed mentally.

00:46:37.389 --> 00:46:40.090
The thing with penises is you can be totally

00:46:40.090 --> 00:46:45.869
into the situation, but if your mind sees something

00:46:45.869 --> 00:46:48.429
or hears something or focuses on something, it's

00:46:48.429 --> 00:46:50.309
a fucking rabbit or a squirrel. It's like, boop,

00:46:50.309 --> 00:46:53.170
boop, boop. And your dick will go down faster

00:46:53.170 --> 00:46:57.289
than anything. So I like to use Bluetooth personally.

00:46:57.530 --> 00:47:01.070
There are a lot out there. There's hymns, there's

00:47:01.070 --> 00:47:05.429
shameless sex has some new stuff. One thing I

00:47:05.429 --> 00:47:07.650
heard about through Shameless Sex, which I was

00:47:07.650 --> 00:47:11.269
gonna order, was they have a combination pill

00:47:11.269 --> 00:47:16.869
where it's Viagra and it's mixed with the Cialis.

00:47:17.190 --> 00:47:20.570
Cialis. Cialis. Cialis? No, it's Cialis. I've

00:47:20.570 --> 00:47:23.610
heard the commercials. Okay. Alrighty then. You

00:47:23.610 --> 00:47:26.329
guys are about to get your first live death on

00:47:26.329 --> 00:47:35.400
the podcast. So right now I use a Viagra. I'm

00:47:35.400 --> 00:47:38.360
definitely not saying that correctly. But it's

00:47:38.360 --> 00:47:42.000
the active ingredient in Viagra. Viagra is the

00:47:42.000 --> 00:47:45.000
brand, but the active ingredient is now used

00:47:45.000 --> 00:47:47.440
in Blue Chew and all these other things. So I

00:47:47.440 --> 00:47:51.239
use a 45 milligram Blue Chew, which the Viagra's

00:47:51.239 --> 00:47:53.280
you get if you go to like a doctor, I think they're

00:47:53.280 --> 00:47:55.119
like 100 milligrams. A lot of people cut them

00:47:55.119 --> 00:47:57.300
in half or they just take the whole hundred.

00:47:58.159 --> 00:48:00.980
On the Blue Chews. YOLO. Yellow on the blue choose

00:48:00.980 --> 00:48:04.579
it does say you can take two pills I think I

00:48:04.579 --> 00:48:07.360
read the the highest recommended dose of Viagra

00:48:07.360 --> 00:48:10.320
is a hundred milligrams So I try to stick with

00:48:10.320 --> 00:48:12.880
the 45 and sometimes I'll take another one later

00:48:12.880 --> 00:48:14.980
in the night If I if I feel it because they only

00:48:14.980 --> 00:48:20.019
last about four to six hours However, I first

00:48:20.019 --> 00:48:23.820
heard about shameless sex Did that they did that

00:48:23.820 --> 00:48:25.980
combination pill. I actually heard about that

00:48:25.980 --> 00:48:29.900
on spring nation because shameless sex the CEO

00:48:29.900 --> 00:48:32.179
or whatever was doing like an interview when

00:48:32.179 --> 00:48:35.360
one of their podcasts and lo and behold blue

00:48:35.360 --> 00:48:39.500
chew Now has that exact pill. It was only a matter

00:48:39.500 --> 00:48:43.019
of time So I just ordered some of that tonight

00:48:43.019 --> 00:48:46.380
ladies and gentlemen so if you go to blue chew

00:48:46.380 --> 00:48:50.780
if you have if you have a Prescription there

00:48:51.099 --> 00:48:54.840
It is called the max and it is 45 milligrams

00:48:54.840 --> 00:48:59.139
of the viagra with 18 milligrams of the cialis

00:48:59.139 --> 00:49:02.380
So this is going to be interesting. So speaking

00:49:02.380 --> 00:49:04.860
of actually let me interrupt you. I just remembered

00:49:04.860 --> 00:49:11.239
something speaking of um four to six hours of

00:49:11.239 --> 00:49:16.980
boners Um boners of boners all the boners so

00:49:16.980 --> 00:49:22.800
my friend actually Just sent me some information

00:49:22.800 --> 00:49:25.500
on the I have not tried it yet. She has tried

00:49:25.500 --> 00:49:30.000
it. She said It's pretty good. She liked it enough.

00:49:30.460 --> 00:49:37.639
It's a shot. Yeah, so on It's v -y -l -e -e -s

00:49:37.639 --> 00:49:42.340
-i That's the medication name. Violacy? Violacy.

00:49:42.500 --> 00:49:46.380
Yeah, so vaginal. I don't know. Youth? I don't

00:49:46.380 --> 00:49:53.860
know Vaginal Cialis, I don't know. Anyway, it's

00:49:53.860 --> 00:49:56.639
the first FDA approved treatment for low sex

00:49:56.639 --> 00:50:03.679
drive in women. So, in certain women who have

00:50:03.679 --> 00:50:05.659
not gone through menopause, so I guess you can't

00:50:05.659 --> 00:50:07.599
have gone through menopause for this. I haven't

00:50:07.599 --> 00:50:09.980
tried it yet, I'm planning on kind of giving

00:50:09.980 --> 00:50:12.019
it a little shot to see if it gives you a little

00:50:12.019 --> 00:50:13.880
boost. What'd she say, you basically give you

00:50:13.880 --> 00:50:16.969
a shot and it's like a four to six hour? Like

00:50:16.969 --> 00:50:19.789
a Viagra equivalent. Yeah, it's like a women's

00:50:19.789 --> 00:50:23.010
Viagra type of thing. So you take it 45 minutes

00:50:23.010 --> 00:50:30.750
before sexual activity so it's a shot and You

00:50:30.750 --> 00:50:34.289
can drink with it you I think she said you can't

00:50:34.289 --> 00:50:37.269
take more than six shots in a month period or

00:50:37.269 --> 00:50:39.469
something Something about it. Oh eight you oh

00:50:39.469 --> 00:50:41.670
eight times a month. You can't take more than

00:50:41.670 --> 00:50:44.409
I mean, that's one weekend every Saturday and

00:50:44.409 --> 00:50:47.849
Sunday. Yeah so you can't get horny during the

00:50:47.849 --> 00:50:53.670
week yeah so she says she so she says she pays

00:50:53.670 --> 00:50:55.590
zero dollars actually it says most people pay

00:50:55.590 --> 00:50:59.730
zero dollars with their um prescription okay

00:50:59.730 --> 00:51:01.570
with their medication or with their insurance

00:51:01.570 --> 00:51:04.309
but anyway so i'm gonna look into this just to

00:51:04.309 --> 00:51:06.090
see if it gives you a little me a little boost

00:51:06.090 --> 00:51:10.050
for parties i've already ordered it for you um

00:51:10.050 --> 00:51:12.769
it's obviously again one of those online but

00:51:12.769 --> 00:51:16.570
this is i think just the i don't think they Don't

00:51:16.570 --> 00:51:22.090
think this website No, I think you do I just

00:51:22.090 --> 00:51:25.889
think I don't think it's the I don't this I don't

00:51:25.889 --> 00:51:27.849
they sell anything else. I don't like wisp which

00:51:27.849 --> 00:51:30.630
has literally everything like like I said, you

00:51:30.630 --> 00:51:37.369
can get Frickin anything from wisp like weight

00:51:37.369 --> 00:51:41.300
loss or medication from wisp but Anyway, she

00:51:41.300 --> 00:51:43.500
said she kind of maybe saw like a difference

00:51:43.500 --> 00:51:45.599
her husband was kind of saying like it was kind

00:51:45.599 --> 00:51:49.760
of fun But anyway, so that's called wine well

00:51:49.760 --> 00:51:54.619
Yeah Well, the reason this kind of came up is

00:51:54.619 --> 00:51:57.780
because the next topic I was gonna get to was

00:51:57.780 --> 00:51:59.500
with the blue choose and all that but one of

00:51:59.500 --> 00:52:03.559
the biggest changes for me personally was testosterone

00:52:03.559 --> 00:52:10.619
supplements because TRT replacement and I would

00:52:10.619 --> 00:52:14.639
say maybe 10, 12 years ago, I got a physical

00:52:14.639 --> 00:52:18.900
and I got a blood rash and they said my testosterone

00:52:18.900 --> 00:52:22.960
was borderline low, but nothing to be concerned

00:52:22.960 --> 00:52:26.380
about and I left it at that. And about three

00:52:26.380 --> 00:52:29.360
months, three months ago, I was just starting

00:52:29.360 --> 00:52:31.659
to feel like just extremely run down. Like I've

00:52:31.659 --> 00:52:35.679
always had a sex drive, but it often had to be

00:52:35.679 --> 00:52:39.760
triggered either by you. Like initiating a little

00:52:39.760 --> 00:52:43.400
bit like if you initiated like if you like I

00:52:43.400 --> 00:52:45.440
walk by you and you grab my butt it would like

00:52:45.440 --> 00:52:47.940
And it was like kind of trigger something but

00:52:47.940 --> 00:52:51.000
it like at parties and stuff It was always there

00:52:51.000 --> 00:52:53.579
but just like day -to -day stuff. It took a little

00:52:53.579 --> 00:52:56.440
bit of a trigger So I was that and I was just

00:52:56.440 --> 00:52:59.800
run down really tired. So I went to get mine

00:52:59.800 --> 00:53:02.440
done and apparently, you know, I don't again.

00:53:02.559 --> 00:53:04.989
I'm not a doctor but They want our levels to

00:53:04.989 --> 00:53:07.110
be like a thousand, twelve hundred, thirteen

00:53:07.110 --> 00:53:12.309
hundred. And I was, and 300 was considered very

00:53:12.309 --> 00:53:16.969
low. I was at 196. So I was basically a woman.

00:53:18.070 --> 00:53:22.190
So I got on TRT immediately. And I would say

00:53:22.190 --> 00:53:24.050
within the first couple of weeks, I noticed a

00:53:24.050 --> 00:53:26.769
difference. My sex drive is up. Yeah. Now I'm

00:53:26.769 --> 00:53:29.449
like, you know, grabbing at you like a wild animal.

00:53:29.449 --> 00:53:31.869
Yeah. Every night I said, I said, whenever I

00:53:31.869 --> 00:53:35.170
see you coming, I'm like, do, do, do, do, do,

00:53:35.269 --> 00:53:39.190
do, do, do, do. But I think I think part of the

00:53:39.190 --> 00:53:40.989
attraction of the shots you were talking about

00:53:40.989 --> 00:53:44.429
is to bring you closer to my level. Yeah, because

00:53:44.429 --> 00:53:48.510
when we so when I we. OK, we go to the same doctor

00:53:48.510 --> 00:53:51.449
and I had all my levels checked first, which

00:53:51.449 --> 00:53:53.909
is kind of what initiated your like, OK, I should

00:53:53.909 --> 00:53:56.429
maybe go get my levels checked. So I had all

00:53:56.429 --> 00:53:59.579
the things checked for me. And she was like,

00:53:59.679 --> 00:54:01.400
how's your sex drive? And I was like, I think

00:54:01.400 --> 00:54:03.719
it's, you know, good. I said normal, you know,

00:54:03.780 --> 00:54:05.739
I mean, honestly, in all these questionnaires,

00:54:05.780 --> 00:54:08.159
it's always like, how is it? And it's like, well,

00:54:08.300 --> 00:54:10.800
what are we comparing it to? I mean, for me,

00:54:10.800 --> 00:54:13.880
it's fine. For us, it's fine. Like we have, I

00:54:13.880 --> 00:54:16.320
mean, I feel like we're equal and we're good

00:54:16.320 --> 00:54:20.099
and we have sex and every six months. No, we

00:54:20.099 --> 00:54:23.750
have sex. And, you know, it's like, OK. Well,

00:54:23.889 --> 00:54:27.469
then once you got on the testosterone and and

00:54:27.469 --> 00:54:29.889
your sex drive went up and you're like constantly

00:54:29.889 --> 00:54:32.510
I'm like, shit, my sex drive might be low. I'm

00:54:32.510 --> 00:54:37.030
like, I do not have the same energy level you

00:54:37.030 --> 00:54:40.329
have. And I'm like, I need a break. But I mean,

00:54:40.550 --> 00:54:43.690
honestly, all my girlfriends who've had their

00:54:43.690 --> 00:54:46.090
husbands go through like the TRT first part of

00:54:46.090 --> 00:54:48.429
it, we've all kind of had the same conversation

00:54:48.429 --> 00:54:51.469
of like, yeah, I was like, OK, I'm going to shower.

00:54:52.069 --> 00:54:53.230
I'm going to do this, I'm going to do that, I'm

00:54:53.230 --> 00:54:54.610
going to get in bed, I'm going to just like put

00:54:54.610 --> 00:54:55.989
those covers on, I'm going to sleep, and then

00:54:55.989 --> 00:54:57.630
he's not going to touch me because I'm asleep.

00:54:58.409 --> 00:55:00.449
With you it's your mouth guard. I know, for me

00:55:00.449 --> 00:55:03.570
I wear a night guard. So I'm like, okay, I'm

00:55:03.570 --> 00:55:05.190
going to put my night guard in and I'm going

00:55:05.190 --> 00:55:07.809
to sleep. And I was like, don't look at me. Once

00:55:07.809 --> 00:55:10.570
the night guard's in, I know it's over. Actually,

00:55:10.809 --> 00:55:12.150
that hasn't stopped me before. It hasn't stopped

00:55:12.150 --> 00:55:15.969
you. See, the thing for me is it didn't, this

00:55:15.969 --> 00:55:20.170
also translates to the lifestyle. It didn't.

00:55:20.159 --> 00:55:23.639
Really change my drive. Like I'm always thinking

00:55:23.639 --> 00:55:28.980
about sex. I'm a guy But it it put in a closing

00:55:28.980 --> 00:55:34.440
gear. Yeah So energy and energy like I all day

00:55:34.440 --> 00:55:36.639
long I'd be thinking about sex and you know flirting

00:55:36.639 --> 00:55:38.900
Yeah, we actually had this conversation quick

00:55:38.900 --> 00:55:41.579
continue. Sorry I cut you off and And then when

00:55:41.579 --> 00:55:43.820
I would get home, I would take a shower. I would

00:55:43.820 --> 00:55:46.630
eat dinner Seven eight o 'clock. We watched some

00:55:46.630 --> 00:55:48.849
shows and then I would just be exhausted. Yeah,

00:55:49.050 --> 00:55:52.309
so I didn't really have like a closing gear But

00:55:52.309 --> 00:55:56.550
now it's like alright, I work hard. I think about

00:55:56.550 --> 00:55:59.130
sex all day I came home still thinking about

00:55:59.130 --> 00:56:01.769
sex and then it's like eight o 'clock nine o

00:56:01.769 --> 00:56:06.050
'clock We're doing sex, you know, it's like and

00:56:06.050 --> 00:56:08.230
then that translates directly to the lifestyle

00:56:08.230 --> 00:56:13.340
in the sense of I've always had fun flirty soft

00:56:13.340 --> 00:56:16.679
stuff, but now it's like I have that time to

00:56:16.679 --> 00:56:21.079
go fuck gear. And if you listen to the last couple

00:56:21.079 --> 00:56:23.980
of the podcasts, you can see where it's like,

00:56:24.039 --> 00:56:26.900
okay. Yeah, it's turned up. It's turned up and

00:56:26.900 --> 00:56:32.900
it's given me just more confidence and just all

00:56:32.900 --> 00:56:35.920
that stuff. So I would say guys, if you haven't

00:56:35.920 --> 00:56:39.360
gotten yours checked, I mean, you don't have

00:56:39.360 --> 00:56:42.889
to be old as fuck. 30 years old go get it checked

00:56:42.889 --> 00:56:46.250
because everybody's body is different everybody's

00:56:46.250 --> 00:56:49.610
body you utilizes the testosterone differently

00:56:49.610 --> 00:56:53.309
and You could be you could be 30 years old and

00:56:53.309 --> 00:56:55.909
have the testosterone of a 50 year old There's

00:56:55.909 --> 00:56:58.070
60 year olds that have never been touched and

00:56:58.070 --> 00:56:59.829
they have the testosterone of a 20 year old.

00:56:59.829 --> 00:57:02.880
So it's There's no standard across the board.

00:57:03.119 --> 00:57:04.880
If you're low, you're low, regardless of your

00:57:04.880 --> 00:57:07.900
age. And a lot of these companies, they have

00:57:07.900 --> 00:57:10.480
like free evaluations. You can go in and get

00:57:10.480 --> 00:57:14.260
checked. And there's so many options. You can

00:57:14.260 --> 00:57:16.980
do pellets where they put something in your body.

00:57:17.360 --> 00:57:21.260
I do shots where I do shots in my legs. I did

00:57:21.260 --> 00:57:22.860
another company, I did them in my stomach, but

00:57:22.860 --> 00:57:24.500
the new company I work with right now, I do them

00:57:24.500 --> 00:57:27.820
in my legs. Little needle, it's over twice a

00:57:27.820 --> 00:57:31.489
week, done. Good times. Yeah, I was going to

00:57:31.489 --> 00:57:37.570
say, and for men, testosterone is typically a

00:57:37.570 --> 00:57:42.070
covered like medication that that you can prescribe.

00:57:42.349 --> 00:57:46.469
So your insurance prescription coverage will

00:57:46.469 --> 00:57:49.349
cover it if you're in America. I know we have

00:57:49.349 --> 00:57:51.230
people in other countries and that's true. You

00:57:51.230 --> 00:57:57.230
probably can get that shit for free. But we are

00:57:57.230 --> 00:58:01.099
in America. And so But for men, it is typically

00:58:01.099 --> 00:58:04.800
a covered medication. And realistically, if for

00:58:04.800 --> 00:58:06.739
some reason you don't have insurance, like you

00:58:06.739 --> 00:58:09.539
can find places and it's it can be relatively

00:58:09.539 --> 00:58:12.579
cheap. Yeah. The other thing I would say is that,

00:58:12.579 --> 00:58:15.300
again, if you're in America or even if you're

00:58:15.300 --> 00:58:17.059
in other countries, I really don't know how health

00:58:17.059 --> 00:58:21.099
care works everywhere. But again, not a doctor,

00:58:21.139 --> 00:58:26.940
not a doctor. They. There's a range, right? Like.

00:58:26.989 --> 00:58:31.789
For men, it's like 300 to like 1300. So there's

00:58:31.789 --> 00:58:35.050
like, I mean, a huge difference between the two.

00:58:35.110 --> 00:58:39.289
I would say if you're going like, well, if you're

00:58:39.289 --> 00:58:41.190
in America and you're going to your just regular

00:58:41.190 --> 00:58:43.889
doctor and they test you and they say, oh, well,

00:58:43.889 --> 00:58:47.289
it's in normal range and you're at 300, I would

00:58:47.289 --> 00:58:52.809
go seek out a doctor that specializes in hormone

00:58:52.809 --> 00:58:56.500
and like. therapy and that kind of thing to actually

00:58:56.500 --> 00:59:00.619
like look at a Full panel because unfortunately,

00:59:00.980 --> 00:59:03.699
you know in some of our health care systems.

00:59:03.699 --> 00:59:05.940
It's just like gets told like oh, you're in normal

00:59:05.940 --> 00:59:08.380
range So you're good, but like 300 really is

00:59:08.380 --> 00:59:12.260
low for a man very low when you think about the

00:59:12.260 --> 00:59:16.900
fact that you could be at 1300 or whatever so

00:59:16.900 --> 00:59:21.699
Just Like that's the thing. I don't know. I really

00:59:21.699 --> 00:59:23.599
don't understand why they give such a wide range.

00:59:23.699 --> 00:59:25.380
It's like for everything, it's the same way.

00:59:25.380 --> 00:59:27.960
It's like all the different things is the range

00:59:27.960 --> 00:59:29.719
is so high. And it's like, well, where the fuck

00:59:29.719 --> 00:59:31.400
should I land? Because that seems a little bit

00:59:31.400 --> 00:59:35.920
excessive. And women, too, I mean, since we're

00:59:35.920 --> 00:59:39.500
on the world of testosterone, like women obviously

00:59:39.500 --> 00:59:43.159
have testosterone as well. And that's one thing

00:59:43.159 --> 00:59:47.260
that women should also get tested when you're

00:59:48.199 --> 00:59:53.679
I mean, Perry, Pree and menopause, because all

00:59:53.679 --> 00:59:55.780
those hormones can fuck with you, too, so that

00:59:55.780 --> 00:59:58.119
you're not because if you have low sex drive

00:59:58.119 --> 01:00:01.639
or you find yourself hating your husband and

01:00:01.639 --> 01:00:04.039
you didn't used to hate him, like maybe go get

01:00:04.039 --> 01:00:08.079
your hormones checked. It's not always your husband.

01:00:08.460 --> 01:00:11.719
Maybe go get your hormones checked and see because

01:00:11.719 --> 01:00:15.909
they're unfortunately. testosterone like replacement

01:00:15.909 --> 01:00:18.070
therapy for women is not covered by insurance.

01:00:18.250 --> 01:00:20.510
Most insurances are. I don't know. I don't know

01:00:20.510 --> 01:00:24.449
if any. But anyway, it's considered like an elective,

01:00:24.449 --> 01:00:26.889
I guess, which it shouldn't because we all produce

01:00:26.889 --> 01:00:31.869
it. But yeah. So I think it's something to like

01:00:31.869 --> 01:00:33.949
for women to get checked to if you feel like,

01:00:33.949 --> 01:00:36.719
man, my. Energy level is low like the same thing

01:00:36.719 --> 01:00:38.699
you were saying like that men get like obviously

01:00:38.699 --> 01:00:41.480
ours shouldn't be as high as men's but Like if

01:00:41.480 --> 01:00:43.760
my energy level is low if my sex drive seems

01:00:43.760 --> 01:00:47.500
low if I currently like I used to yeah If I used

01:00:47.500 --> 01:00:50.260
to love my husband now, I hate him. Um, I've

01:00:50.260 --> 01:00:54.519
said that three two three times now Maybe you

01:00:54.519 --> 01:00:57.340
need to get your testosterone added on. So what

01:00:57.340 --> 01:00:59.380
do you currently use you have a cream, right?

01:00:59.639 --> 01:01:02.420
Yeah, so I not your favorite though. Yeah, so

01:01:02.420 --> 01:01:04.780
I I don't know if it's working I haven't retested

01:01:04.780 --> 01:01:08.739
yet. I just started I still hate you No, I don't

01:01:08.739 --> 01:01:12.880
hate you but because my that was the one thing

01:01:12.880 --> 01:01:16.380
I had told her when I went back because like

01:01:16.380 --> 01:01:19.760
your sex drive skyrocketed and mine was like

01:01:19.760 --> 01:01:22.019
still where it was before so i felt left behind

01:01:22.019 --> 01:01:24.139
so i was like okay and i knew she had told me

01:01:24.139 --> 01:01:27.440
my testosterone level was low on the low side

01:01:27.440 --> 01:01:30.119
but not super low so then when i went back i

01:01:30.119 --> 01:01:31.980
was like so now my husband wants to fuck all

01:01:31.980 --> 01:01:35.340
the time and i don't so maybe i should get like

01:01:35.340 --> 01:01:39.179
figure this out so i started a cream testosterone

01:01:39.179 --> 01:01:42.670
cream but um egg test again in like a month to

01:01:42.670 --> 01:01:46.030
see if it's Raised my levels at all, but some

01:01:46.030 --> 01:01:48.210
women do pellets because it's like an it's like

01:01:48.210 --> 01:01:50.949
a slow release I think i'm gonna start blending

01:01:50.949 --> 01:01:53.809
testosterone in with your pre -workout drink

01:01:53.809 --> 01:02:01.489
So, um, but yeah, so I think so everybody that's

01:02:01.489 --> 01:02:05.349
like just I think general like sex hormone health,

01:02:05.369 --> 01:02:09.219
but So one thing I'll say though is I know right

01:02:09.219 --> 01:02:12.000
now like you can go and get testosterone I don't

01:02:12.000 --> 01:02:14.460
like the black market almost like you can you

01:02:14.460 --> 01:02:18.719
can get testosterone Yeah, and we have some friends

01:02:18.719 --> 01:02:20.940
when you can get it in Mexico or whatever and

01:02:20.940 --> 01:02:24.219
we've had some friends that just self, you know

01:02:24.219 --> 01:02:27.619
self -diagnosed and self -administer and They

01:02:27.619 --> 01:02:30.480
get like really high and that in itself is not

01:02:30.480 --> 01:02:32.539
good because it thickens your blood. Yeah, it

01:02:32.539 --> 01:02:36.130
can create blood clots Yeah, and then also The

01:02:36.130 --> 01:02:38.130
thing, again, we're not doctors, but the thing

01:02:38.130 --> 01:02:39.949
about, from what I understand about testosterone,

01:02:40.670 --> 01:02:43.869
is your body takes the testosterone in, and what

01:02:43.869 --> 01:02:47.329
it doesn't use, it turns into estrogen. So they

01:02:47.329 --> 01:02:49.530
have what are called DEM blockers, which are

01:02:49.530 --> 01:02:51.949
pills that you typically want to take if you're

01:02:51.949 --> 01:02:54.570
taking testosterone, so you don't overload your

01:02:54.570 --> 01:03:00.590
body with estrogen. Like recently I take them

01:03:00.590 --> 01:03:03.670
but every now and then at work my nipples will

01:03:03.670 --> 01:03:06.329
be ice hard like they will cut glass They are

01:03:06.329 --> 01:03:08.429
super sensitive. Like I'm on my period. Yeah,

01:03:08.550 --> 01:03:10.570
and I think it's just cuz the first time you

01:03:10.570 --> 01:03:12.429
got your period I was like, oh my god, what's

01:03:12.429 --> 01:03:16.469
happening? My co -workers like hey So I think

01:03:16.469 --> 01:03:18.550
it's like at that particular time. My body is

01:03:18.550 --> 01:03:21.230
just overloaded with estrogen and I only get

01:03:21.230 --> 01:03:23.610
it maybe once a week, like for an hour or so

01:03:23.610 --> 01:03:26.489
I'll be like, Hey, how you doing? I want to go

01:03:26.489 --> 01:03:29.849
to the beach and like show them off. But, um,

01:03:30.710 --> 01:03:34.469
so just, I would just recommend going to a doctor

01:03:34.469 --> 01:03:37.369
and get it monitored. Cause there's a range you

01:03:37.369 --> 01:03:39.769
want to fall between anything above that range.

01:03:40.230 --> 01:03:43.090
It can become an issue. Right. And you don't

01:03:43.090 --> 01:03:44.329
want to be too high. You don't want to be too

01:03:44.329 --> 01:03:47.670
low. Yeah. I mean, it sounds great. Yeah. Number

01:03:47.670 --> 01:03:49.409
like testosterone and you're fucking, you know,

01:03:49.550 --> 01:03:52.860
Hulk, but it's not good. Your body's not designed

01:03:52.860 --> 01:03:55.440
to take that and it's just gonna turn all that

01:03:55.440 --> 01:03:57.400
extra shit into estrogen and you're gonna cry

01:03:57.400 --> 01:04:02.219
in commercials. Yeah, you cry, hard nipples that

01:04:02.219 --> 01:04:05.639
are sensitive. You're gonna be like crying while

01:04:05.639 --> 01:04:09.860
you jerk off. That's not sexy. No, not sexy at

01:04:09.860 --> 01:04:13.380
all. So I think we've covered everything we intended

01:04:13.380 --> 01:04:16.440
on covering in this episode. Did we? I think

01:04:16.440 --> 01:04:20.469
so. I mean at least for the the health side of

01:04:20.469 --> 01:04:22.929
the episode. Interesting how women's health took

01:04:22.929 --> 01:04:25.409
a lot more time than the men's health. Yeah.

01:04:25.630 --> 01:04:27.829
Yours was just about boners and testosterone.

01:04:28.639 --> 01:04:32.179
You know it I mean then like halfway cover women's

01:04:32.179 --> 01:04:35.219
health But I just covered the basics the basics

01:04:35.219 --> 01:04:37.780
of what to expect for me It was like the basics

01:04:37.780 --> 01:04:40.380
of what to possibly expect when try to get a

01:04:40.380 --> 01:04:44.440
little less We get when getting into the LS it's

01:04:44.440 --> 01:04:47.239
gonna introduce a lot of you know potential I

01:04:47.239 --> 01:04:50.119
don't want to say problems but issues and if

01:04:50.119 --> 01:04:53.070
you know how to Take care of them. Yeah, it's

01:04:53.070 --> 01:04:56.010
not that big of a deal. Yeah, so well, you're

01:04:56.010 --> 01:04:58.130
just in you're just introducing a lot of foreign

01:04:58.130 --> 01:05:06.389
objects Yeah, exactly Toys fingers condoms lube

01:05:06.389 --> 01:05:11.090
Dicks and also like mouths. It's really uh You

01:05:11.090 --> 01:05:13.150
got to kind of find out what kind of condoms

01:05:13.150 --> 01:05:15.190
your body's good with yeah, because a lot of

01:05:15.190 --> 01:05:18.590
people have latex allergies, so I I don't even

01:05:18.590 --> 01:05:21.090
use latex anymore. I just went and I paid extra

01:05:21.090 --> 01:05:23.829
for all the really good condoms I have. You know

01:05:23.829 --> 01:05:26.190
who did not know that you could order condoms

01:05:26.190 --> 01:05:32.070
on Amazon? Who? Beard and Butt. What? Yeah. Yeah.

01:05:32.250 --> 01:05:34.349
You can get anything on Amazon. I think they

01:05:34.349 --> 01:05:36.809
they found out from you when we were all in Big

01:05:36.809 --> 01:05:39.269
Bear. But when we were at dinner the other night.

01:05:39.469 --> 01:05:41.949
They were telling me they're like, we just we

01:05:41.949 --> 01:05:44.690
just found out you can order condoms on Amazon.

01:05:44.690 --> 01:05:46.650
They're so much cheaper. I'm like, you can get

01:05:46.650 --> 01:05:49.309
I literally looked at them the exact same way

01:05:49.309 --> 01:05:51.730
you looked at me looking at me like right now.

01:05:51.730 --> 01:05:56.309
It's like, who are you and what? So like you

01:05:56.309 --> 01:05:58.570
go to the grocery store every single time they

01:05:58.570 --> 01:06:02.909
said they stop at like CVS. Wow, bro. Yeah, I

01:06:02.909 --> 01:06:06.570
have like I have more condoms in my go to bag

01:06:06.570 --> 01:06:09.789
than I will ever use in my entire life. I could

01:06:09.789 --> 01:06:12.849
go to a party and just like rain condoms like

01:06:12.849 --> 01:06:15.510
I'm at the strip club and I will still go home

01:06:15.510 --> 01:06:19.429
with way too many. So yeah, I buy the high quality.

01:06:19.570 --> 01:06:22.829
I got a bunch of skins and then I also have some

01:06:22.829 --> 01:06:26.070
Trojan ones for when I'm using coconut oil as

01:06:26.070 --> 01:06:29.769
the lube because coconut oil isn't good with

01:06:29.769 --> 01:06:34.250
all the I have nitrile. Yeah. So do some research

01:06:34.250 --> 01:06:37.750
and don't be afraid to buy a halfway decent condom.

01:06:37.820 --> 01:06:39.880
Yeah, because that's gonna stop a lot of problems

01:06:39.880 --> 01:06:44.039
too. Yes, and on the condom train and by the

01:06:44.039 --> 01:06:47.280
way, not everybody's a magnum. So yeah, on the

01:06:47.280 --> 01:06:52.000
condom train. I would especially if you're new,

01:06:52.420 --> 01:06:55.659
I would every time you get new condoms, I would

01:06:55.659 --> 01:06:58.659
test them with your partner. Because what we

01:06:58.659 --> 01:07:01.739
found recently is that you ordered like a shit

01:07:01.739 --> 01:07:05.420
ton of condoms and like Because it because you

01:07:05.420 --> 01:07:08.059
wanted to get like a certain night trial or I

01:07:08.059 --> 01:07:11.519
don't know what you're getting anyway and They

01:07:11.519 --> 01:07:15.480
were smaller. They were tighter than the other

01:07:15.480 --> 01:07:18.139
ones that we had been using So then when you

01:07:18.139 --> 01:07:19.880
were putting them on they were fucking with both

01:07:19.880 --> 01:07:21.460
of us like both of us were trying to put them

01:07:21.460 --> 01:07:24.199
on They were super fucking tight. They would

01:07:24.199 --> 01:07:29.199
not roll so then in the whole scenario of exactly

01:07:29.199 --> 01:07:32.730
men like any squirrel situation it fucks up your

01:07:32.730 --> 01:07:35.769
boner if it takes more than five seconds to put

01:07:35.769 --> 01:07:38.570
a condom on you're at risk of that sucker going

01:07:38.570 --> 01:07:42.710
down so we previously have obviously like being

01:07:42.710 --> 01:07:47.090
just us together for years we hadn't used condoms

01:07:47.090 --> 01:07:49.550
and then when we started getting lifestyle we're

01:07:49.550 --> 01:07:52.130
like okay we're gonna use condoms obviously and

01:07:52.130 --> 01:07:53.630
then well not obviously i mean some people don't

01:07:53.630 --> 01:07:55.590
that's whatever that's you do you boo but that's

01:07:55.590 --> 01:08:01.809
not us so we We're like, okay. Well you were

01:08:01.809 --> 01:08:04.309
like, okay Well, I need to do this with you first

01:08:04.309 --> 01:08:07.170
so that I can like figure it out with you like

01:08:07.170 --> 01:08:10.170
you're my guinea pig essentially and then see

01:08:10.170 --> 01:08:11.769
if I'm gonna be able to do this kind of thing.

01:08:11.849 --> 01:08:14.929
Yeah, and So we were like, okay, we're good and

01:08:14.929 --> 01:08:17.029
we didn't but when we got when you got the new

01:08:17.029 --> 01:08:20.090
ones We didn't test them and that kind of fucked

01:08:20.090 --> 01:08:23.550
us up in Like a scenario whatever because it

01:08:23.550 --> 01:08:26.109
was like fuck that's like really tight. Yeah

01:08:26.170 --> 01:08:29.789
So like one I was I got on but then like the

01:08:29.789 --> 01:08:32.289
second one I went to roll it on and it was like

01:08:32.289 --> 01:08:34.710
it was like I was like we have this working backwards

01:08:34.710 --> 01:08:37.350
like you were I was trying to help you and I'm

01:08:37.350 --> 01:08:39.829
like this is not working and then of course because

01:08:39.829 --> 01:08:41.630
it wasn't working you were getting softer which

01:08:41.630 --> 01:08:44.829
was making it not work even more and it was like

01:08:44.829 --> 01:08:48.470
yeah it was just a mess so I will practice I

01:08:48.470 --> 01:08:51.529
was a practice and invest in good investing good

01:08:51.529 --> 01:08:53.210
condoms and always make sure you buy the right

01:08:53.210 --> 01:08:56.300
size Yes. Yeah. Like I said, not everybody is

01:08:56.300 --> 01:08:58.939
a magnum. You might like to think you are, but

01:08:58.939 --> 01:09:01.380
not everybody is a magnum. And also that being

01:09:01.380 --> 01:09:04.760
said, some of you guys are indeed magnum and

01:09:04.760 --> 01:09:06.260
you're using a smaller condom. Yeah. And you

01:09:06.260 --> 01:09:07.939
need to use a proper condom because that was

01:09:07.939 --> 01:09:09.239
the other thing when we were trying to put that

01:09:09.239 --> 01:09:10.720
condom on you. I'm like, this is going to break.

01:09:10.779 --> 01:09:12.899
Like it was so tight on your dick. I was like,

01:09:13.180 --> 01:09:16.479
this is not like this is like there's no give

01:09:16.479 --> 01:09:19.720
to it. Like it's literally like I'm like it's

01:09:19.720 --> 01:09:26.430
like. Like fat man in a little coat Alright,

01:09:26.430 --> 01:09:28.890
I love how you're referring to my penis as a

01:09:28.890 --> 01:09:33.289
fat man in a little coat on that note I think

01:09:33.289 --> 01:09:36.989
we just need to check out cuz I Think it's getting

01:09:36.989 --> 01:09:38.710
a little cray up in her. I was trying to think

01:09:38.710 --> 01:09:41.010
of something that was tight and that's the first

01:09:41.010 --> 01:09:54.289
thing that came to my mind All right. Hi, guys.

01:09:54.449 --> 01:09:57.689
Well, thank you for listening to this extremely

01:09:57.689 --> 01:10:02.029
serious podcast. And maybe we'll come at you

01:10:02.029 --> 01:10:03.850
again next week. We'll see what happens. But

01:10:03.850 --> 01:10:05.970
I think our next one, we're going to have to

01:10:05.970 --> 01:10:09.949
get into what to expect and what to bring as

01:10:09.949 --> 01:10:14.130
first timers or second timers to your first or

01:10:14.130 --> 01:10:17.960
second LS event we got. All the details and all

01:10:17.960 --> 01:10:19.880
the details and tricks, all the tips and tricks

01:10:19.880 --> 01:10:23.500
we know from California. Yes. Every state's different.

01:10:23.520 --> 01:10:26.279
A lot of it's going to pertain to everywhere.

01:10:26.279 --> 01:10:29.140
But as far as some of the stuff, yeah, it's not

01:10:29.140 --> 01:10:33.880
going to really make sense. Yeah. But that being

01:10:33.880 --> 01:10:37.539
said, really quick, we are going to New Year's

01:10:37.539 --> 01:10:40.720
New Year's New Year's Eve. plush party events

01:10:40.720 --> 01:10:43.659
down in San Diego this year. We're going up the

01:10:43.659 --> 01:10:45.920
29th through the 31st. We're gonna be there three

01:10:45.920 --> 01:10:49.199
nights. If you're on Cassidy, look into local

01:10:49.199 --> 01:10:52.460
parties and we actually started a sweet side

01:10:52.460 --> 01:10:56.119
of life like hangout group for that event. We're

01:10:56.119 --> 01:10:58.779
already up to like 30 people and the idea of

01:10:58.779 --> 01:11:04.020
that is to just have like a level of like a friendship

01:11:04.020 --> 01:11:06.409
circle going into the event. So this is kind

01:11:06.409 --> 01:11:08.289
of for people that maybe don't know a lot of

01:11:08.289 --> 01:11:10.210
people or maybe it's their first time there.

01:11:10.329 --> 01:11:13.630
Yeah. It's always nice to know. Or if you know

01:11:13.630 --> 01:11:16.250
everybody, come come join our group. It's we're

01:11:16.250 --> 01:11:18.829
not there's no rules. It's just, you know, why

01:11:18.829 --> 01:11:21.670
you started it. Was that the reason why you started

01:11:21.670 --> 01:11:24.189
it? Yeah, I just I just know people haven't gone

01:11:24.189 --> 01:11:26.729
to the event. I know there's a lot of questions

01:11:26.729 --> 01:11:30.579
and plush is horrible with their. They throw

01:11:30.579 --> 01:11:32.479
good events, but they're terrible at responding

01:11:32.479 --> 01:11:34.619
to people. So actually, I posted today, I'm like,

01:11:34.720 --> 01:11:36.840
if you guys have any questions about the events,

01:11:37.460 --> 01:11:39.819
post them. We'll do our best. We can let you

01:11:39.819 --> 01:11:41.680
know what the food trucks are, what to expect

01:11:41.680 --> 01:11:44.579
on the first, second, third night, and just kind

01:11:44.579 --> 01:11:47.520
of general questions. And then as we get closer,

01:11:47.800 --> 01:11:50.000
I'm looking to just kind of have some people

01:11:50.000 --> 01:11:53.260
kind of. build up some connections before we

01:11:53.260 --> 01:11:55.579
even get there. And this is really good for people

01:11:55.579 --> 01:11:59.260
that are maybe on the shyer side or first timers

01:11:59.260 --> 01:12:01.180
that don't know what to expect. Maybe they don't

01:12:01.180 --> 01:12:03.260
know anybody. You're going to know a few people

01:12:03.260 --> 01:12:05.760
right off the bat. We'll be there. And I'm going

01:12:05.760 --> 01:12:08.840
to do some type of chat group where we can all

01:12:08.840 --> 01:12:10.939
like, hey, we're getting ready to head downstairs

01:12:10.939 --> 01:12:14.920
to dot dot dot. Join us if you want. And especially

01:12:14.920 --> 01:12:16.859
because some people say plush events can be a

01:12:16.859 --> 01:12:19.699
little clicky. Yeah, I think that and I have

01:12:19.699 --> 01:12:21.680
heard this from my other friends that have gone

01:12:21.680 --> 01:12:24.760
to this one and gone to other events that it's

01:12:24.760 --> 01:12:27.279
this is their least clicky and I don't find it

01:12:27.279 --> 01:12:30.060
clicky at all. But and again, friends who have

01:12:30.060 --> 01:12:31.939
said other plush events have been clicky have

01:12:31.939 --> 01:12:34.680
said this is the least of the clicky events.

01:12:34.800 --> 01:12:38.140
But that way, I feel like things aren't as clicky

01:12:38.140 --> 01:12:39.899
when you kind of have your own click, I guess.

01:12:40.239 --> 01:12:43.640
I think the people. The people that say things

01:12:43.640 --> 01:12:47.199
are clicky might say that because they're not

01:12:47.199 --> 01:12:53.199
with their click. I know we have been, us personally

01:12:53.199 --> 01:12:56.380
have probably been called clicky if we're at

01:12:56.380 --> 01:12:59.619
a party and then someone comes in and they just

01:12:59.619 --> 01:13:02.579
see us in a group. We do our best to try to include

01:13:02.579 --> 01:13:05.840
everybody, but it's just. It is what it is. Clicks

01:13:05.840 --> 01:13:09.260
exist. Clicks are friends of groups. Yeah. But

01:13:09.260 --> 01:13:13.140
we always have room. Exactly. The biggest thing

01:13:13.140 --> 01:13:17.380
is... Sweet and Sour are the most recent addition

01:13:17.380 --> 01:13:20.600
to our click, if you will. Welcome to the click,

01:13:20.699 --> 01:13:26.989
bitches. Ultimately, we're just trying to form

01:13:26.989 --> 01:13:29.630
a little community that's gonna go there and

01:13:29.630 --> 01:13:31.270
and you know, you'll have some friends built

01:13:31.270 --> 01:13:33.850
in Yeah, it's a great party. So if you guys are

01:13:33.850 --> 01:13:37.310
joining us You can go to plush parties calm and

01:13:37.310 --> 01:13:39.670
then just click on the New Year's Eve link They

01:13:39.670 --> 01:13:42.449
still have rooms at the host hotel, but buy them

01:13:42.449 --> 01:13:44.229
soon because they're gonna sell out really soon

01:13:44.229 --> 01:13:46.850
It's always a great party. If you have any questions,

01:13:46.850 --> 01:13:51.310
you can text our our Sexed sex I was going to

01:13:51.310 --> 01:13:54.369
call it the secret I have no idea what you call

01:13:54.369 --> 01:13:56.909
it then. I call it something different every

01:13:56.909 --> 01:14:00.789
time. The Sweden sex line. The line you get boobs

01:14:00.789 --> 01:14:03.189
on. I get a lot of boobs. And vaginas. I love

01:14:03.189 --> 01:14:05.810
boobs and vaginas. And ass. And ass. Ass, ass,

01:14:05.810 --> 01:14:08.189
ass, ass, ass, ass. I've been noticing... All

01:14:08.189 --> 01:14:10.689
right, ladies, ladies. I almost said ladies and

01:14:10.689 --> 01:14:14.609
gentlemen, but actually gentlemen too. On the...

01:14:14.609 --> 01:14:18.430
I keep saying on the... The group I've been getting

01:14:18.430 --> 01:14:21.510
a lot of boobs. I love boobs. I've been getting

01:14:21.510 --> 01:14:26.390
handful of vaginas, but not a lot of ass so Your

01:14:26.390 --> 01:14:32.789
mission because I need more ass And our sex line

01:14:32.789 --> 01:14:36.470
does also accept videos so I'm just saying not

01:14:36.470 --> 01:14:38.189
very long ones though because I think some people

01:14:38.189 --> 01:14:42.140
try to send one and you never Yeah, you could

01:14:42.140 --> 01:14:44.659
separate into two if you really have to. There's

01:14:44.659 --> 01:14:46.880
always a way. Nature finds a way. There's a will,

01:14:46.899 --> 01:14:50.420
there's a way. Exactly. So that being said, we

01:14:50.420 --> 01:14:53.239
are well above our standard time. So if you would

01:14:53.239 --> 01:14:55.859
like to take it away and let all the sweetums

01:14:55.859 --> 01:14:58.800
know. Maybe you should do it. In a world full

01:14:58.800 --> 01:15:01.680
of pineapples. Oh no, that's the swing nation.

01:15:03.300 --> 01:15:09.270
Be sexy. No, that's not it. I don't I don't remember

01:15:09.270 --> 01:15:12.529
what it is. Do you not enjoy the sweet side of

01:15:12.529 --> 01:15:15.010
life? Keep your pineapples upside down believe

01:15:15.010 --> 01:15:18.010
in unicorns and keep shaking it up. Love you,

01:15:18.149 --> 01:15:19.670
babe. Love you, too. I only did that because

01:15:19.670 --> 01:15:21.470
people told me they sound think it's recorded.

01:15:21.609 --> 01:15:25.170
This is me live every time live. Well, I mean

01:15:25.170 --> 01:15:27.890
like live like I'm alive like currently singing.

01:15:28.149 --> 01:15:31.890
Yeah, we were the intros pre -recorded the outros

01:15:31.890 --> 01:15:34.090
pre -recorded But not that part the commercials

01:15:34.090 --> 01:15:36.170
pre -recorded. There's a part. There's a whole

01:15:36.170 --> 01:15:38.350
nother outro I know but that people think that

01:15:38.350 --> 01:15:41.909
part right there is not that's live say it again,

01:15:42.010 --> 01:15:48.850
but in Spanish All right, that's your mission

01:15:48.850 --> 01:15:53.489
is to learn it in Spanish, yeah All right. Next

01:15:53.489 --> 01:15:55.010
next episode, you're going to give me a second.

01:15:55.189 --> 01:15:58.789
I can chat GPT this shit. All right. I guess

01:15:58.789 --> 01:16:03.770
she's going to embarrass herself. So, yes. So

01:16:03.770 --> 01:16:06.810
like I was saying, oh, my show last weekend was

01:16:06.810 --> 01:16:09.869
a freaking success. We packed the place again

01:16:09.869 --> 01:16:11.970
with all of our sexy friends. The sweet side

01:16:11.970 --> 01:16:14.350
of life. Keep your pineapples upside down. Believe

01:16:14.350 --> 01:16:17.329
in unicorns and keep shaking it up. Translate

01:16:17.329 --> 01:16:23.420
to Spanish. And on Friday, November 14th, we're

01:16:23.420 --> 01:16:26.140
going to join forces again with Say Less Productions

01:16:26.140 --> 01:16:27.819
and we're going to have another meet and greet

01:16:27.819 --> 01:16:31.880
with live music from my band, The Get Down Party.

01:16:32.739 --> 01:16:35.119
So let's pack it out again, folks. Again, all

01:16:35.119 --> 01:16:36.680
this information will be out there. Keep your

01:16:36.680 --> 01:16:39.140
pineapples upside down. Believe in unicorns and

01:16:39.140 --> 01:16:42.600
keep shaking it up. Fuck. All right. Well, maybe

01:16:42.600 --> 01:16:45.680
on next episode, she'll have this ready. because

01:16:45.680 --> 01:16:49.380
it I just noticed it it picked up your we packed

01:16:49.380 --> 01:16:53.000
the place again with and then it was like so

01:16:53.000 --> 01:16:58.319
it's going to say we pack the place again with

01:16:58.319 --> 01:17:01.239
babe okay this is what I was actually going to

01:17:01.239 --> 01:17:36.720
say dulce de la vida mantena tu pastel If you

01:17:36.720 --> 01:17:38.720
would like to get in contact with us, please

01:17:38.720 --> 01:17:41.739
email us at the sweet side of life podcast at

01:17:41.739 --> 01:17:45.250
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01:17:45.250 --> 01:17:47.529
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01:17:47.529 --> 01:17:47.909
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