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California. That's right, everybody. So cow.

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OK, speed it up here, friend. We literally just

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talked about this. How's everybody feeling out

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there tonight? I'm feeling pretty good. Well,

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it might not be tonight for them. That's true.

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Could be during the day. So we are going to cover

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a couple of things in this episode. It's going

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to be a really quick episode. It's probably going

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to be an hour. So strap in, strap up, put your

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butt plug in strap on strap on. Let's go really

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quick. We're just going to do our drink of the

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night. Cheers. You don't have to make the sound.

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All right. I'll let you go first. I made a drink

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I found on Facebook or one of those things. Hold

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on, I'm trying to look for it well. All right,

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so let me, you want me to do my first? Okay,

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it's called the Hot Honey Peach Margarita. I

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thought it sounded really good. It tastes good,

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but not as good as it sounded. Oh. I don't know.

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it's um yeah two ounces of tequila i did three

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um one ounce of peach puree i use the kerns it's

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obviously like more like a peach juice so i think

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it needed more than one ounce so you know and

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that's something you just bought today yeah for

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this drink yeah One ounce of fresh lime juice

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and a half an ounce of hot honey, which I use

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the I think it's called Mike's hot honey Mike's

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hot honey. Yeah, and then you can garnish it

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with peaches or whatever So yeah, all the things

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just go into a shaker shake it up like a margarita

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pour over ice voila Speaking of shaking up. You

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said you put a tick tock out there today. Oh,

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I did. I didn't watch it yet Oh, it's like five

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seconds. It's just of our Athena's night like

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us driving there because we did a hitting the

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streets and then our fit and then us in the famous

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ice cream truck which we'll talk about a little

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later. The ice cream truck, yes. With all the

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signatures behind us and then us at Norm's. Norm's.

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Oh, the breakfast place. So yes, we uh, we had

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a fairly eventful night last weekend, right?

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Was it last weekend? I think so. No, it was the

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weekend before Last weekend. We did the pool

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party The weekend before. Oh, yeah. Yeah, you're

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right. You're right So, uh before we dive into

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athena's I just want to touch on her what we

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got coming up. So tomorrow night is uh, June

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27th and it we are celebrating Uh bud's birthday

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bud's birthday her birthday extravaganza It's

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all all the people are gonna be there. It's gonna

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be a big time big time Yeah, if you're in the

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area join us. It's a wine garden great style.

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It's open to everybody No wine and beer garden

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in Temecula Friday June 27th that starting at

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8 p .m. We're gonna be there. Yes, and then um

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It's if you are gonna come it's a red and black

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themed. Yes, that's right red and black for the

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guests If you don't own red or black, that's

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fine or black you can come As you are. Yeah.

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And then, um, we've talked about this for a few

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times and we are two seconds away from confirming

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that the hotel reservations and everything, but,

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um, July 11th through the 13th, which is a Friday

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night, Saturday night, leaving Sunday, we are

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going to EDR, the world famous EDR in Palm Springs.

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So if you want to join us there, uh, go to edrhotel

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.com. You can get all the details, but we are

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going to be there for their, uh, their second

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welcome back weekend because they, you know,

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went normal for a little bit, but they're coming

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back with the phone party. So that should be

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interesting. Yeah. Um, and we got a lot of other

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things coming up, but those are the two things

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right now coming up. Right. Right. So Athena's

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well, so first off, like you said, we, um, We

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did the hit in the streets with the sweeps. Yeah

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sweeps Yeah, sweep in the streets with the sweet

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in the streets with the sweets. So Athena's was

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fun We actually met some people who listen to

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our podcast there. We met them you met I think

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yeah, I met them prior at one of my Co comeback

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shows. Yeah a couple months ago. Yeah So, um,

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but that was really quick. So we actually got

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to chat and talk to them, hang out with them.

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Um, I know at Athena's, um, we are going to be

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calling them sweet and sour. Um, why are we calling

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them sweet? Okay. So they're very new. They got,

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just got into it in January. So, uh, you know,

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six months in. Yeah, although they've already

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been to desire so they've already done that they

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still have that but yeah, they're very new and

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They went to They're like first pool party thing

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that they went to was at be a Vita and it's in

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California for most part everything's BYOB. So

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they were bringing margarita Like the pre -mixed

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margarita to drink that day because it's easy

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you could pour like you don't have to mix things

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blah blah blah A lot of reasons that's a great

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option um And you know trying to get it take

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the edge off to obviously make it easier to be

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there And they just were not getting a buzz at

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all. And one of them was like, I'm pretty sure

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I can drive home. Yeah, like they then they realized

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like midway through or towards the end of the

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day, something of that nature, that they were

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drinking just margarita mix. It didn't have any

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tequila in it. So it's just like sweet and sour.

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So I was like, I told them, like, well, no wonder

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you didn't have a buzz. You might have had diabetes,

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but not a buzz because that's a lot of sugar

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without any. of the benefits of alcohol so anyway

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so they are now sweet and sour they are now the

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sweet and sour couple and they didn't get it

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when we uh announced their name to them well

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i mean margarita mixed sweet and sour i mean

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they are the same things basically but not a

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lot of people not everybody knows that it was

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it was a one and one together it was it was a

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play on yeah everything yeah so um but anyway

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so yeah we met them and um he was saying like

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oh you know you guys always say come if you see

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us like come out hang out with us but i just

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didn't really think you guys meant it but we

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mean it like if you see us if you see us come

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say hi like come hang out with us like we want

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to meet everybody um so that's i mean if if we

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didn't Mean it we wouldn't broadcast it to the

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world. Yeah, and where we're gonna be all the

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time Yeah, so be like just run into us if you

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run into it, but I get it He was telling me he's

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he's he's very much very similar to me like introverted

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introverted and he doesn't want to be a bother

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Yeah, and I told him I can appreciate that right

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you you're not being a bother, but you're not

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a bother So but again this this goes out to anybody

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and everybody if you see us or you think you

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see us come ask us and I dare you. So Anyway,

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so we met them we were taught we spent a good

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amount of time with them in the pool Just chatting

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it up. Look getting some information about desire

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because we've never been They had only great

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things to say about it. The food was good. The

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drinks were good The people were good like they

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had a great time. Yep Made some good connections.

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So if you're thinking about going desire, I would

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say they recommend it and it's definitely on

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our list of things to do. Yeah It's just a lot

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of commitment. Yeah. I got her naked fairly quickly.

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Yeah. So she was wearing a hat that says I'm

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not wearing underwear, but yet she was wearing

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a bathing suit bottom. So you got her to take

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that off real quick. Yeah. But I think that that's

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what their preference is. It is. It's just some

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people have to be told it's okay. Yeah. And I'm

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normally one of the first people to encourage

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that. So yeah, they're a cute couple. Super cute.

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So yeah. Handsome. Handsome. Yeah. So we hung

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out with them. And then I don't know how we ended

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up in like we were outside the pool. We were

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all putting like reapplying sunscreen or something.

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And then you start talking about coconut oil.

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Yeah, I think it's kind of we got there because

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I'm always trying to push, especially with newer

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couples. Like I love newer couples because I

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I'm I don't know. I'm I'm not super super pushy,

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but I'm good at kind of instigating a little

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bit and I think oh we were standing there and

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You and I still had our shorts on he had his

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shorts on or you had bathing suit bottoms Yeah,

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she was naked at that point cuz she owned it.

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Yeah, but I had I yeah I brought my coconut oil

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and I was just bringing up like hey have you

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guys ever used coconut oil and They were talking

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about how they, in the past, they've done some

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coconut oil and it didn't really work out. I'm

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like, well, this is like, this is the real deal.

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This is Costco. And so I like put a little bit

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on their hands or whatever. And I was like, Hey,

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maybe you should give him a little hand job.

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And then she's like, okay. And then she went

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and started rubbing and I'm like, I pulled my

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pants down and you started rubbing mine. And

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we were doing like in like a circle. Yeah. Like

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a drum circle almost. We were standing in a circle

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outside of the pool basically. It had to look

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weird from like how far. So many directions at

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once. Because like are they doing drugs? Like

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what are we doing? And then so we're standing

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there and then I was like kind of like switch

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and then she started jerking me off and vice

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versa. Yeah. So yeah, it was just it was a fun

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kind of like just light pushing a little bit.

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Yeah, it was very innocent Yeah, and uh, but

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there was people around watching like there was

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a guy watching There was a guy behind us. Why

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not though? We were like literally standing right

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by the pool in the middle of everything You're

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talking about the guy that wanted to suck your

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toes or something. Yeah Well, I don't know if

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it was the same guy but that he was with that

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guy same same group He was with the same people.

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So uh, we were doing this circle jerk hand job

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thing for the better part of like Ten minutes.

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I don't think it was that long. It felt that

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long. Like I was having a grand time It felt

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long enough to me to think to myself if I if

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they weren't so new and I knew him better like

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in a way that I knew because a lot of our earlier

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conversations were things of how they Had experiences

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where people had touched that weren't yeah, you

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know, they didn't ask and like they had had some

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just experiences like that's like not consensual

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kind of things and just people being weird, which

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whatever. But anyway, so I didn't want to be

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that weird person because otherwise I like it

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got to the point where I was like, I'm just going

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to get on my knees right now. I was I was literally

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probably. like 20 seconds away from like suggesting

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that, but in my head, I'm, I was thinking that

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same thing. I was like, I don't want to push.

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I had kid gloves on boundaries and I don't want

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to be inappropriate. I don't want them to feel

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pressure. I didn't want them to feel uncomfortable.

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Um, like a bad level of uncomfortability, like

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obviously some of this is uncomfortable anyway,

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but I didn't want them to feel like a bad level

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of uncomfortable. the same like you got to get

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comfortable with the uncomfortable sometimes

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because you know, whether it's emotions or boundaries

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being pushed. I mean, there's, there's always

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something that's going to be pushed a bit that

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doesn't feel quite right. At least, you know,

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in the beginning stages, but it was like, it

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was, it was fun. And I was like, we could move

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this, but I was just like, you know what? This

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is very good right here. Yeah, like I don't I

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don't need to go further with it exactly So i'm

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like we can exist in this circle jerk And then

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I think what happened is somebody called out

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that there was an ice cream truck And so that

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kind of split up our little circle jerk thing

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going on. Yeah, so They had already told us that

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there was going to be like an ice cream truck

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there And we're like I was kind of like that's

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kind of weird and I didn't have we used the cash

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I brought to tip the girls and the bartenders.

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That's what I meant. I want to say girls. I know

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you knew who I was talking about. But yeah, people

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listening would know what I'm talking about.

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Like what girls are you tipping the bartenders?

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And then. I so we didn't have any other cash

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and I wasn't sure how the ice cream thing worked,

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but I didn't really want me, but I wanted to

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see it. And I was like, oh, if you guys want

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ice cream, let's just go check it out. So we

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went out there, checked it out. It was actually

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really cool. It was free, first of all, so we

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didn't even need to have any money. The ice cream

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was free and the truck was really cool. It had

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all over the ceiling. It had pictures of just

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different. Mostly musicians, but some comedians

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and some just famous people But like almost every

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musician musician you could think of like there

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was a ton and then a bunch of comedians musicians

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Yeah magicians. Oh, yeah, like you name it Yeah,

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and then all around the outside of the or the

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the inside but on the walls of the Truck were

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ice cream truck were like signatures. So they

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all had also signed the walls So there's pictures

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on the ceiling and then there's all their signatures

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and and just all over the wall And the pictures

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are them inside the truck. Yeah, that'll go later.

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Yeah, and then he had like a ton of Lanyards

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with you know passes on them from Concerts and

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things that clearly he'd been to and then he

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had like a row of like wristbands From things

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he had been to hanging over So it was just like

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and then the whole inside the truck was like

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it was it wasn't like your average like ice cream

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truck Like there was leopards like couch kind

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of it went around the edge of it And then basically

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there was just like a freezer like a small Freezer

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essentially in it that that's where the ice cream

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was like one that you would see at a convenience

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store Yeah, so that's the ice cream part of it.

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But the rest of it was like loungy with like

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I Don't know. It was just an it was just a vibe.

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It was like and the guy was a total like old

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School like hippie hippie rocker like it like

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roadie fives. He was saying that he owned like

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a couple of businesses that kind of ran themselves

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or whatever. So it sounded like he had like just

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passive incomes and then he just did this for

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fun. And he would go to go to concerts and outside

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of concerts, he'd go to comedy shows and just,

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you know, just collect all this stuff, which

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was really cool. Yeah, really cool to see. Yeah.

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So Anyway, so he had a whole, like it was a whole

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vibe in there. It was interesting to talk to

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him. He said that the truck had seen things.

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Does not surprise me. Yeah, it looked like it

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had seen things. But jokingly, you get told you

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look like Bert Kreischer. Yeah. So we found the

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picture of Bert Kreischer and his signature.

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And so then we were calling you Kurt Breicher.

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Kurt Breicher. And they took a photo of me. Yeah.

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By the same. Yeah. They're like, you got to take

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your shirt off though. I'm like, OK. So that

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was funny. Yeah So that was fun and then Later

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oh speaking of ice cream later in the night You

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found this girl that you were like, I think she

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was a single a single female there. Yeah, she

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was running around and I Had had my eyes on her

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But again, I didn't really know much where she

00:17:23.049 --> 00:17:25.390
was coming from or anything like that. Yeah.

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And anyways, she had a thing for Kurt Breicher.

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Kurt Breicher, Bert Kreischer. So at one point

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there was a guy and he goes, why don't you eat

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the ice cream sandwich off of her ass? And I

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was like, all right, that sounds innocent enough.

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And I was thinking it was going to be like ice

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cream, you know, melted on a butt cheek. And

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I was going to get on a, you know, easy enough.

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Right. So she bends over and like gets in like

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full, like doggy penetrate me. and then the guy

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proceeds to take the ice cream sandwich and like

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rub it like right in her vagina like just melted

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it like a credit card it she was warm because

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it melted like right away and he was like all

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right I'm like oh damn so I have a thing with

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eat an ass When I eat ass, it's not so much that

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I go directly for the butthole I just enjoy eating

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women out from the back and sometimes the butthole

00:18:35.380 --> 00:18:38.119
gets, you know tension, but it's not like my

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My goal is not to just butthole. Yeah, like so

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So in this case I I got to do what I like to

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do and I stuck my face down there and I'm going

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to town and I'm there for maybe five seconds

00:18:54.150 --> 00:19:01.910
and I feel like an object coming up between my

00:19:01.910 --> 00:19:06.349
lips and my tongue and Then I start lit and yeah,

00:19:06.410 --> 00:19:08.750
there's it's like between us I'm like what the

00:19:08.750 --> 00:19:11.670
fuck and I like I lick it and then I realize

00:19:11.670 --> 00:19:15.849
it's his finger and I see what he's trying to

00:19:15.849 --> 00:19:20.089
do. He's trying to finger her while I'm Hey,

00:19:20.190 --> 00:19:23.089
you should have just like Warned me right or

00:19:23.089 --> 00:19:26.750
like ask for consent because I'm not trying to

00:19:26.750 --> 00:19:30.630
lick a dude's finger and But I mean we could

00:19:30.630 --> 00:19:33.009
have worked it out better right, you know had

00:19:33.009 --> 00:19:34.930
I known that's what he was going for I would

00:19:34.930 --> 00:19:37.490
have moved more up to the butthole I mean, but

00:19:37.490 --> 00:19:40.029
So anyway, so I'm down there doing my thing and

00:19:40.029 --> 00:19:42.750
I feel a finger a hairy finger come in and I'm

00:19:42.750 --> 00:19:46.049
like And I pull back and I kind of like look

00:19:46.049 --> 00:19:47.890
and I was like whoop and then he pulls it out

00:19:48.279 --> 00:19:51.920
I'm like, all right. And I go back in, finger

00:19:51.920 --> 00:19:54.359
comes right back in. I'm like, I'm done. I'm

00:19:54.359 --> 00:19:56.599
out. And he's like, no, I keep going. I'm like,

00:19:57.160 --> 00:20:02.200
no, I am. I have completed my journey. I have

00:20:02.200 --> 00:20:04.940
checked out of this hotel. Yeah. Leaving a Yelp

00:20:04.940 --> 00:20:12.039
review. Right. So yeah, boner killer. But you

00:20:12.039 --> 00:20:16.380
know what it happens It's a story it is a story

00:20:16.380 --> 00:20:20.039
that will hold with me But anyway, so that was

00:20:20.039 --> 00:20:22.539
that was that yeah, then there was a masseuse

00:20:22.539 --> 00:20:25.019
there. There was a masseuse there giving massages

00:20:25.019 --> 00:20:26.920
It's just normal massages, but I mean everybody

00:20:26.920 --> 00:20:30.400
was obviously watching there was outside massages,

00:20:30.440 --> 00:20:34.359
but they were just they weren't like Sexual in

00:20:34.359 --> 00:20:40.789
nature or anything like that so Then we would

00:20:40.789 --> 00:20:46.170
so then we Did some parallel play well, I think

00:20:46.170 --> 00:20:48.630
yeah after the massages it was it was getting

00:20:48.630 --> 00:20:52.789
into the dark at that point and sexuality was

00:20:52.789 --> 00:20:58.430
starting to creep in and So we went to the actual

00:20:58.430 --> 00:21:00.750
indoor playrooms to go check them out. Oh, yeah,

00:21:01.029 --> 00:21:04.000
and we walked in there and Pretty much I think

00:21:04.000 --> 00:21:06.220
all the beds were taken. Yeah, some people somebody

00:21:06.220 --> 00:21:08.440
was fucking on each of the bed Yeah, and and

00:21:08.440 --> 00:21:10.400
the vibe wasn't there like we walked in and kind

00:21:10.400 --> 00:21:12.799
of looked around and the vibe just it wasn't

00:21:12.799 --> 00:21:16.319
inviting Yeah, whatever the case was. Yeah So

00:21:16.319 --> 00:21:19.880
I'm like, let me go check something I ran To

00:21:19.880 --> 00:21:23.299
one of the outdoor beds and I found when that

00:21:23.299 --> 00:21:26.599
was open. So I came back and retrieved you guys

00:21:27.200 --> 00:21:29.720
and walked you over there and by in that like

00:21:29.720 --> 00:21:32.039
one minute time it got taken but then we found

00:21:32.039 --> 00:21:35.619
another one so we ended up finding a wide open

00:21:35.619 --> 00:21:38.140
in the middle of the kind of by the massage table

00:21:38.140 --> 00:21:40.680
there was just yeah one lonely bed they have

00:21:40.680 --> 00:21:42.839
now at athena's if you have been there before

00:21:42.839 --> 00:21:44.779
but haven't been there recently they now have

00:21:44.779 --> 00:21:47.900
a saint andrew's cross so it's kind of like by

00:21:47.900 --> 00:21:52.319
the saint andrew's cross behind the cabanas basically

00:21:52.319 --> 00:21:58.039
so um yeah so we we were like You said have you

00:21:58.039 --> 00:21:59.960
done parallel play and they're like we love parallel

00:21:59.960 --> 00:22:03.240
play like perfect. Let's go Let's go parallel

00:22:03.240 --> 00:22:05.500
play for those of you that may or may not know

00:22:05.500 --> 00:22:09.299
what it is. It's typically Like two couples right

00:22:09.299 --> 00:22:13.900
next to each other Some you know, there's sometimes

00:22:13.900 --> 00:22:16.500
touching between the two couples, but it's it's

00:22:16.500 --> 00:22:18.619
fairly innocent and it's really good for beginners

00:22:18.619 --> 00:22:21.039
But it's really hot too. Yeah, cuz you get you

00:22:21.039 --> 00:22:25.259
get live porn without the pressures of, you know,

00:22:25.420 --> 00:22:27.740
having to necessarily engage with, you know,

00:22:27.839 --> 00:22:29.400
another couple if you're not ready or whatever.

00:22:29.980 --> 00:22:32.420
Right. And again, we were, we were kid gloving

00:22:32.420 --> 00:22:35.460
just to make sure. Well, yeah. I mean, they had

00:22:35.460 --> 00:22:37.339
said they had, well, he had told you, I guess

00:22:37.339 --> 00:22:39.720
that well, when we got over there, uh, you guys,

00:22:39.880 --> 00:22:41.740
I think you went to the bathroom and he, he came

00:22:41.740 --> 00:22:43.839
up to me and he's like, all right, here's, here's

00:22:43.839 --> 00:22:46.640
kind of how we play. Here's our rules. And it

00:22:46.640 --> 00:22:50.160
was pretty much everything, but, uh, penetration

00:22:50.160 --> 00:22:53.210
penetration. And I was calling, Oh, Okay, maybe

00:22:53.210 --> 00:22:56.130
so it sounds like we could have pushed earlier

00:22:56.130 --> 00:22:59.990
for more but think that everything happened perfectly

00:22:59.990 --> 00:23:02.349
in my opinion so yeah, everything have everything

00:23:02.349 --> 00:23:06.309
happens the way it should and yeah, so we did

00:23:06.309 --> 00:23:10.210
that and then Yeah, I think D. I touched I was

00:23:10.210 --> 00:23:13.349
touching like her leg or something at a few just

00:23:13.349 --> 00:23:16.789
to kind of you know cross that barrier, but we

00:23:16.789 --> 00:23:20.640
weren't close enough where It was like it was

00:23:20.640 --> 00:23:22.839
kind of awkward for me like to lean to this like

00:23:22.839 --> 00:23:26.480
I'm not I don't I'm not long -armed but at some

00:23:26.480 --> 00:23:29.000
point fucking my knee went through the bed though

00:23:29.000 --> 00:23:33.660
and I was like, oh Yeah, well you guys both started

00:23:33.660 --> 00:23:36.400
on your knees on the cement going down on us

00:23:36.400 --> 00:23:40.000
and Well, you know you going down on me and him

00:23:40.000 --> 00:23:42.920
going down on her it was and I was like that

00:23:42.920 --> 00:23:45.220
like I just kept thinking that does not seem

00:23:45.220 --> 00:23:48.579
like it's comfortable and At that stage in the

00:23:48.579 --> 00:23:50.079
game, you know, you're not even thinking about

00:23:50.079 --> 00:23:54.180
it the next day. I was like But yeah, we were

00:23:54.180 --> 00:23:56.180
going down on you guys for quite a while and

00:23:56.180 --> 00:24:05.240
then got up and started to foot Anyway, so In

00:24:05.240 --> 00:24:08.599
talking to them So I think that's how the night

00:24:08.599 --> 00:24:12.660
for the most part. Oh, then we went to um, I

00:24:12.660 --> 00:24:14.259
mean, that's how the sexual part of the night

00:24:14.259 --> 00:24:17.700
ended and then we were like, oh we were we were

00:24:17.700 --> 00:24:22.240
going to go eat and our hotel was by a Norm's.

00:24:22.740 --> 00:24:25.680
So we. Which is like a Denny's. It's a nicer

00:24:25.680 --> 00:24:27.339
Denny's for people that don't know what it is.

00:24:27.339 --> 00:24:29.259
I don't know about. I guess it's nicer. It's

00:24:29.259 --> 00:24:31.880
definitely nicer. Oh, it's definitely nicer.

00:24:32.420 --> 00:24:34.660
Please. So it's 24 hours, but it was by our hotel.

00:24:35.500 --> 00:24:38.920
And so we were like, oh, we're going to go eat

00:24:38.920 --> 00:24:40.759
or whatever. And they're like, oh, do you like.

00:24:40.970 --> 00:24:42.970
do you guys want company like we'd like we want

00:24:42.970 --> 00:24:46.130
to go eat too so um because athena's has like

00:24:46.130 --> 00:24:47.890
food here and there but i never eat when i'm

00:24:47.890 --> 00:24:50.750
there and i think you ate a little bit i think

00:24:50.750 --> 00:24:52.730
they ate a little bit but other than that there

00:24:52.730 --> 00:24:55.069
wasn't a lot of eating do you hear that what

00:24:55.069 --> 00:24:57.769
me rambling that's the sound of a commercial

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00:25:37.779 --> 00:25:45.539
so much. All right. And we're back. So we went

00:25:45.539 --> 00:25:51.519
to Norm's. Continue. Had to break for our little

00:25:51.519 --> 00:25:55.160
commercial deal. So, okay. So we went to Norm's

00:25:55.160 --> 00:25:59.240
and yeah, so they, they drove us there actually.

00:25:59.900 --> 00:26:01.839
Yep. And because they were drinking sweet and

00:26:01.839 --> 00:26:06.099
sour all day. Yeah. And so we had breakfast with

00:26:06.099 --> 00:26:08.160
them. And then they took us to our hotel and

00:26:08.160 --> 00:26:10.640
then we said our good nights And that was it.

00:26:10.680 --> 00:26:13.720
It was fun. Um, but in the time talking to them

00:26:13.720 --> 00:26:15.420
They're actually coming tomorrow night. Yes,

00:26:15.420 --> 00:26:18.579
they are coming tomorrow night over and over

00:26:18.579 --> 00:26:21.420
again They also went to the pool party. We went

00:26:21.420 --> 00:26:23.200
to last weekend. That's true. They did that too

00:26:23.200 --> 00:26:26.359
Yeah, they're just they dove right in so no pun

00:26:26.359 --> 00:26:30.259
intended um So in talking to them and actually

00:26:30.259 --> 00:26:32.619
there's another listener who's been texting you

00:26:32.619 --> 00:26:37.779
and um Who he what did he he tell you how it

00:26:37.779 --> 00:26:39.440
is? He's supposed to be talking to his wife tonight,

00:26:39.440 --> 00:26:43.279
but we'll see if he actually does yeah but he

00:26:43.909 --> 00:26:47.009
He told you how do you talk his question was?

00:26:47.369 --> 00:26:49.910
How do you talk your spouse or how do you get

00:26:49.910 --> 00:26:51.869
your don't you can't cover your mouth when you're

00:26:51.869 --> 00:26:54.890
talking? My eyelashes like sticking in my eyes.

00:26:54.890 --> 00:26:58.390
I was trying to get it out So his question was

00:26:58.390 --> 00:27:00.009
I'm looking at you to look at your phone to look

00:27:00.009 --> 00:27:02.690
at the actual like text But basically it was

00:27:02.690 --> 00:27:05.049
how do you get or how do you talk to your spouse

00:27:05.049 --> 00:27:07.049
about getting into this? Yeah, more or less.

00:27:07.150 --> 00:27:09.420
Yeah, I don't need the exact words. Yeah It was

00:27:09.420 --> 00:27:12.160
like how do you how do you approach the subject?

00:27:12.160 --> 00:27:14.640
Yeah more or less Yeah, so I think a lot of people

00:27:14.640 --> 00:27:16.460
have a lot of different ways of approaching the

00:27:16.460 --> 00:27:20.400
subject I think I was telling you to tell this

00:27:20.400 --> 00:27:23.720
guy. I don't know if you did like what is his

00:27:23.720 --> 00:27:28.119
name? Did he say we could say his name? I'm pretty

00:27:28.119 --> 00:27:31.579
sure he did Well, I don't want to say it. I don't

00:27:31.579 --> 00:27:33.299
say it if you I think I know what his name is

00:27:33.299 --> 00:27:35.420
We've talked we've tied pretty sure we've talked

00:27:35.420 --> 00:27:39.000
about him and used his name in the past past.

00:27:39.519 --> 00:27:47.779
But anyway, he was asking and I personally think

00:27:47.779 --> 00:27:51.220
obviously you have to know Ivan. Oh, he said

00:27:51.220 --> 00:27:53.720
we can use this. Yes. No, he said absolutely

00:27:53.720 --> 00:27:56.359
under no conditions to use my name. Sorry, Ivan.

00:27:58.039 --> 00:28:02.859
No, he said, yeah, go ahead. Yep. So we are good.

00:28:03.220 --> 00:28:08.460
So Ivan said he was asking like, how do you Well,

00:28:08.460 --> 00:28:12.759
it said that well he So basically he was like,

00:28:12.839 --> 00:28:15.220
you know, how do you bring it up? And then I

00:28:15.220 --> 00:28:17.720
was like what level of discussions have you had

00:28:17.720 --> 00:28:22.059
before and then he said we had a small experience

00:28:22.059 --> 00:28:27.160
in Vegas it was that whispers and Something about

00:28:27.160 --> 00:28:29.859
it. He didn't go into detail, but there's something

00:28:29.859 --> 00:28:32.799
about the vibe of that night. She didn't particularly

00:28:32.799 --> 00:28:38.559
like So, I don't know if they had a bad experience

00:28:38.559 --> 00:28:41.579
or just the club wasn't what they expected I

00:28:41.579 --> 00:28:45.680
don't know but it sounds like he is trying to

00:28:45.680 --> 00:28:49.619
get her to go to another another event and I

00:28:49.619 --> 00:28:52.279
Don't know if she shut the door on it. Yeah,

00:28:52.279 --> 00:28:55.160
he's like what else like how can I do this? Yeah,

00:28:55.160 --> 00:28:57.839
yeah, and I was telling them like the birthday

00:28:57.839 --> 00:29:02.160
party tomorrow is Basically a meeting greet right

00:29:02.160 --> 00:29:08.269
which is the lowest Form of LS event like the

00:29:08.269 --> 00:29:10.589
lowest pressure because it's at a public bar

00:29:10.589 --> 00:29:14.250
You know the most you're typically gonna do best

00:29:14.250 --> 00:29:16.250
case scenario is make out with somebody at a

00:29:16.250 --> 00:29:21.230
public bar and Even that's pretty wild So I've

00:29:21.230 --> 00:29:23.009
been talking to him and I'm like you should try

00:29:23.009 --> 00:29:24.990
talk to her, you know, they're cuz they're fairly

00:29:24.990 --> 00:29:28.089
local and You know, he was like, how do we do

00:29:28.089 --> 00:29:32.650
that? I'm like, well honesty You know the LS

00:29:32.650 --> 00:29:36.099
is all about honesty Yeah, definitely don't trick

00:29:36.099 --> 00:29:38.339
her and just bring her to the bar Yeah, that's

00:29:38.339 --> 00:29:40.420
the last thing you want to do is be like hey,

00:29:40.720 --> 00:29:44.799
let's go to a bar Yeah, all the you know an hour

00:29:44.799 --> 00:29:49.730
from us and I think I think you're right. So

00:29:49.730 --> 00:29:51.950
people getting into this or wanting to get into

00:29:51.950 --> 00:29:54.190
this I think meet and greets are like the easiest

00:29:54.190 --> 00:29:57.430
probably thing to do because it is a public place

00:29:57.430 --> 00:30:00.630
and You can I mean, I remember one of the first

00:30:00.630 --> 00:30:02.609
meet and greets we went to we kind of just sat

00:30:02.609 --> 00:30:06.069
to the side and Didn't really interact with anybody.

00:30:06.069 --> 00:30:08.170
We didn't get the wristbands. They were giving

00:30:08.170 --> 00:30:12.390
out. Yeah, we were like just watching and kind

00:30:12.390 --> 00:30:14.990
of seeing like if we could pick out who it was

00:30:14.990 --> 00:30:18.059
and We were interested in anybody and just talking

00:30:18.059 --> 00:30:21.359
and then it's very exploratory Yeah, and so it's

00:30:21.359 --> 00:30:24.039
kind of like lets you dip your toes in just to

00:30:24.039 --> 00:30:26.700
like see like are they a bunch of freaks or are

00:30:26.700 --> 00:30:29.559
they just normal people and You know just happen

00:30:29.559 --> 00:30:31.680
to have a side a little bit of both Yeah, so

00:30:31.680 --> 00:30:33.539
when we were talking to sweet and sour about

00:30:33.539 --> 00:30:40.920
their You know experience on how they kind of

00:30:40.920 --> 00:30:43.019
like open the door to each other their origin

00:30:43.019 --> 00:30:46.819
story Yeah, it sounded like they had a if I remember

00:30:46.819 --> 00:30:49.799
correctly and I was obviously drinking but they

00:30:49.799 --> 00:30:53.319
had a friend who I think it was maybe a married

00:30:53.319 --> 00:30:55.680
couple that had said something about like what

00:30:55.680 --> 00:31:02.359
they did something they did and um And both of

00:31:02.359 --> 00:31:05.980
them sweet and sour both thought that the other

00:31:05.980 --> 00:31:09.539
person would have been super judgy and like very

00:31:09.539 --> 00:31:13.519
like against it or whatever. And they surprised

00:31:13.519 --> 00:31:16.440
each other in the fact that they kind of just

00:31:16.440 --> 00:31:18.799
both had the mentality of like, well, it's their

00:31:18.799 --> 00:31:22.640
marriage. And if that's what they, you know,

00:31:22.920 --> 00:31:25.480
want to do and they're both like consenting to

00:31:25.480 --> 00:31:29.099
it and they're both good with it and, you know,

00:31:29.240 --> 00:31:33.049
then. That's you know more the merit like yeah,

00:31:33.289 --> 00:31:34.710
whatever, you know what? I mean more power to

00:31:34.710 --> 00:31:37.309
them. That's their thing So I get so then because

00:31:37.309 --> 00:31:39.589
I kind of looked at each other Yeah, so because

00:31:39.589 --> 00:31:42.190
they both had that mentality. It was like, oh,

00:31:42.190 --> 00:31:45.690
okay so and then I think that kind of opened

00:31:45.690 --> 00:31:48.430
up from what it sounds like it opened up conversations

00:31:48.430 --> 00:31:51.650
and then Those conversations kept opening and

00:31:51.650 --> 00:31:55.009
then I think They listened to a couple podcasts

00:31:55.009 --> 00:31:59.609
and kind of got some thoughts on that they thought

00:31:59.609 --> 00:32:02.369
that but like things that people think like he

00:32:02.369 --> 00:32:04.630
was telling me is like I thought like, like you

00:32:04.630 --> 00:32:08.109
think of like dirty swingers like, you know,

00:32:08.750 --> 00:32:14.650
that they're just like trashy and super horny

00:32:14.650 --> 00:32:17.470
and like, you know, and I mean, everybody can

00:32:17.470 --> 00:32:21.549
be those things, right? Like, yeah, but everybody's

00:32:21.549 --> 00:32:24.869
those things in an aspect, but we're also People

00:32:24.869 --> 00:32:28.450
yeah, so I think he said especially going to

00:32:28.450 --> 00:32:36.029
RM Or yeah desire or whatever they He's like

00:32:36.029 --> 00:32:38.190
especially going to that like you just realize

00:32:38.190 --> 00:32:44.369
like people are just normal people and Good people

00:32:44.369 --> 00:32:47.529
and I think that's like what we kind of learned

00:32:47.529 --> 00:32:51.619
like what we've I mean, not that I never really

00:32:51.619 --> 00:32:53.400
had that mentality. I mean, honestly, I didn't

00:32:53.400 --> 00:32:56.099
even know what swingers were necessarily. Well,

00:32:56.640 --> 00:32:59.779
we are our origin story. We went to clubs back

00:32:59.779 --> 00:33:01.900
before we even knew what they were. We just knew

00:33:01.900 --> 00:33:05.160
it was open sexually. Right. And then once we

00:33:05.160 --> 00:33:08.160
realized what we're going to, then it all kind

00:33:08.160 --> 00:33:10.880
of clicked. We never had like a negative. I started

00:33:10.880 --> 00:33:12.599
dotting and the T's started crossing. And then

00:33:12.599 --> 00:33:14.859
we all of a sudden now we're talking about on

00:33:14.859 --> 00:33:18.720
a podcast. But yeah, like the people there he

00:33:18.720 --> 00:33:20.180
was like the people we've met have just been

00:33:20.180 --> 00:33:22.480
like so kind and then he also said like just

00:33:22.480 --> 00:33:26.940
watching his wife like open up and Be more confident

00:33:26.940 --> 00:33:30.059
in herself, which I can say a hundred and thousand

00:33:30.059 --> 00:33:34.359
million percent that for me like being in the

00:33:34.359 --> 00:33:37.539
LS has a thousand percent helped with me feeling

00:33:37.539 --> 00:33:40.420
more confident about myself and better about

00:33:40.420 --> 00:33:44.700
myself because It's like in monogamy world like

00:33:44.700 --> 00:33:48.200
you don't get hit on Well, you do, but it's not

00:33:48.200 --> 00:33:50.759
that I didn't, but you're taught to ignore it.

00:33:51.140 --> 00:33:52.740
Exactly. You're taught to, yeah, you're taught

00:33:52.740 --> 00:33:54.440
to ignore it. Like, so even if I did get hit

00:33:54.440 --> 00:33:57.339
on, I wouldn't entertain it. And so it would

00:33:57.339 --> 00:34:00.400
basically be, and you wouldn't tell me, right.

00:34:00.559 --> 00:34:03.180
Cause it would upset me. Right. And then make

00:34:03.180 --> 00:34:06.069
you want to fight. And it's just like, Yeah,

00:34:06.069 --> 00:34:08.469
so then you just like feel guilty about it if

00:34:08.469 --> 00:34:11.110
it does happen and then so that guilt doesn't

00:34:11.110 --> 00:34:14.730
make you feel good So then it's like, okay then

00:34:14.730 --> 00:34:16.730
I'm not I don't it was almost like I don't want

00:34:16.730 --> 00:34:21.650
to be hit on because like don't look at me Because

00:34:21.650 --> 00:34:24.849
I don't want like the feeling of guiltiness or

00:34:24.849 --> 00:34:27.929
whatever So I mean, like I said definitely has

00:34:27.929 --> 00:34:30.090
helped and he just said it like for him. He was

00:34:30.090 --> 00:34:35.659
like it He feels like that this helped He's like

00:34:35.659 --> 00:34:38.940
I didn't think I could love my wife more Yeah,

00:34:39.059 --> 00:34:42.039
and it's crazy because I feel like I'm more connected

00:34:42.039 --> 00:34:44.139
and I'm more Yeah, when he was telling us that

00:34:44.139 --> 00:34:46.059
in the pool his voice was crack and I could yeah

00:34:46.059 --> 00:34:48.440
He had like it was making him a little bit emotion.

00:34:48.639 --> 00:34:50.460
I don't know what to hear But he was oh he was

00:34:50.460 --> 00:34:52.980
wearing sunglasses, but I saw making him a little

00:34:52.980 --> 00:34:58.500
bit emotional to talk about his wife His wife

00:34:58.500 --> 00:35:02.099
and like how he was feeling about her and just

00:35:02.099 --> 00:35:08.630
how like proud he is of her and just so I totally

00:35:08.630 --> 00:35:11.769
digress there but that was a cute like nice moment

00:35:11.769 --> 00:35:16.969
to like hear someone else talk about how like

00:35:16.969 --> 00:35:20.369
doing like this like just the switch because

00:35:20.369 --> 00:35:23.730
of like him always him thinking like oh it's

00:35:23.730 --> 00:35:26.849
dirty it's this it's that and then the like the

00:35:26.849 --> 00:35:29.500
complete 180 once he's like been in it and met

00:35:29.500 --> 00:35:32.280
people and realized done things and like realized

00:35:32.280 --> 00:35:35.960
like and seeing that like his relationship change

00:35:35.960 --> 00:35:40.039
and um And the whole time i'm just like how can

00:35:40.039 --> 00:35:45.699
I get a hand job? I'm like, yes. Yes, sir. So

00:35:45.699 --> 00:35:48.139
which one's sweet? Which one's sour? Yeah, wait

00:35:48.139 --> 00:35:50.820
of them two. Yeah, I don't know. I'm gonna go

00:35:50.820 --> 00:35:54.010
with her sweet. He's sour. Okay Yeah, but yeah,

00:35:54.010 --> 00:35:56.469
okay. I think she's got more kick than he does.

00:35:56.489 --> 00:35:58.869
So I think he's the sweet one and she's the sour

00:35:58.869 --> 00:36:02.050
I'm I don't know. I'm she's I think she's got

00:36:02.050 --> 00:36:04.530
I'm thinking we might we might might have to

00:36:04.530 --> 00:36:06.969
do a taste test. You know, i'm saying No, i'm

00:36:06.969 --> 00:36:08.909
saying. I mean, i'm sure they both taste sweet,

00:36:08.909 --> 00:36:13.969
but Uh -huh, i'll just i'm just thinking about

00:36:13.969 --> 00:36:16.889
it now. All right um, so yeah, it was it was

00:36:16.889 --> 00:36:20.869
a it was a nice it was a nice for us because

00:36:21.889 --> 00:36:24.750
We've been in it for a while, but I still very

00:36:24.750 --> 00:36:26.750
much consider us like new because in a sense

00:36:26.750 --> 00:36:32.170
of Like we are a slow burn. We always have been

00:36:32.170 --> 00:36:35.570
right, you know So for how how long we have been

00:36:35.570 --> 00:36:38.590
in it our our experiences are still fairly limited,

00:36:38.949 --> 00:36:41.570
right? So it's but it is really good to hear

00:36:41.570 --> 00:36:45.789
like that that fresh right that fresh aspect

00:36:45.789 --> 00:36:48.190
Yeah, like I I remember when I first got that

00:36:48.190 --> 00:36:52.150
I still very much feel that way So it was it

00:36:52.150 --> 00:36:55.230
was cool kind of being reminded of like the innocence

00:36:55.230 --> 00:36:58.309
of it and right and when you first get into it

00:36:58.309 --> 00:37:03.510
Yeah, so back to Ivan's story Yes, and his question

00:37:03.510 --> 00:37:07.570
was how do you approach this? Conversation and

00:37:07.570 --> 00:37:11.199
I I think that say listen woman. No I think that

00:37:11.199 --> 00:37:12.920
honestly is obviously the best policy, but I

00:37:12.920 --> 00:37:15.780
also think you have to be easy because the last

00:37:15.780 --> 00:37:17.639
thing you want is somebody to think like, oh,

00:37:17.659 --> 00:37:19.139
they're bringing it up just because they want

00:37:19.139 --> 00:37:25.239
to go fuck a bunch of people. So I think like

00:37:25.239 --> 00:37:27.860
it's hard to say what the best way is. I mean,

00:37:27.940 --> 00:37:30.880
obviously you and I. We did all that. So you

00:37:30.880 --> 00:37:32.980
kind of knew where my head was. And then, of

00:37:32.980 --> 00:37:35.400
course, sweet and sour. Like they had that experience

00:37:35.400 --> 00:37:37.760
where they both realized, like, oh, I'm kind

00:37:37.760 --> 00:37:40.179
of seeing where her head is or his head is, you

00:37:40.179 --> 00:37:43.239
know, on this whole situation. So I feel like

00:37:43.239 --> 00:37:45.139
you kind of. But if you've been to Whispers and

00:37:45.139 --> 00:37:47.760
you've done something like that with your wife,

00:37:47.920 --> 00:37:51.380
then is probably is easier to approach it in

00:37:51.380 --> 00:37:53.639
the mindset of like, hey, do you remember when

00:37:53.639 --> 00:37:57.469
we went to Whispers? Like, I know. XYZ wasn't

00:37:57.469 --> 00:38:00.030
like the best experience for you. But again,

00:38:00.030 --> 00:38:03.349
we don't know what her bad experience was. It

00:38:03.349 --> 00:38:05.590
didn't even say bad experience. It just said

00:38:05.590 --> 00:38:09.090
didn't enjoy the vibe. Yeah. So that can mean

00:38:09.090 --> 00:38:10.349
a thousand different things. Yeah, exactly. And

00:38:10.349 --> 00:38:13.190
I mean, I can get that. Like, I get that if you're

00:38:13.190 --> 00:38:16.170
at Whispers on the Saturday we were there, I

00:38:16.170 --> 00:38:18.449
can see how you wouldn't enjoy the vibe. And

00:38:18.449 --> 00:38:20.510
I mean, the first time we went to Whispers, you

00:38:20.510 --> 00:38:22.539
didn't have the best time. No, I didn't. But

00:38:22.539 --> 00:38:25.440
it wasn't my first experience. So I was willing

00:38:25.440 --> 00:38:28.179
to give it another shot. Yeah. I think that the

00:38:28.179 --> 00:38:31.300
key with a lot of these is understanding that

00:38:31.300 --> 00:38:34.380
every experience is going to be different and

00:38:34.380 --> 00:38:37.860
you can't judge the entire thing on one experience.

00:38:37.980 --> 00:38:40.880
It's just like going to, you know, Disney world

00:38:40.880 --> 00:38:44.469
and you not like in one roller coaster. because

00:38:44.469 --> 00:38:46.610
this one went backwards like you might like the

00:38:46.610 --> 00:38:48.809
ones that go forward you just you have to try

00:38:48.809 --> 00:38:51.070
different roller coasters different rides really

00:38:51.070 --> 00:38:54.550
weird analogy so anyway so you just have to try

00:38:54.550 --> 00:38:57.329
super fucking weird analogy you just have to

00:38:57.329 --> 00:38:59.989
try different things because you're gonna get

00:38:59.989 --> 00:39:02.650
different vibes if you want to i mean you have

00:39:02.650 --> 00:39:05.909
to that's the thing but i just think maybe you

00:39:05.909 --> 00:39:08.429
bought the swinger membership but they didn't

00:39:08.429 --> 00:39:12.800
i even hasn't no it's it's auto bill The wife's

00:39:12.800 --> 00:39:17.340
like, what is this charge? But I do think I do

00:39:17.340 --> 00:39:22.699
think using that experience to bring up again,

00:39:22.699 --> 00:39:24.280
it would be probably easier for me to speak on

00:39:24.280 --> 00:39:26.340
this if I knew exactly what she didn't what part

00:39:26.340 --> 00:39:29.059
of the vibe she didn't like. But but bringing

00:39:29.059 --> 00:39:31.139
that up again and just being like, hey, do you

00:39:31.139 --> 00:39:33.420
remember when we did this? And I know this part

00:39:33.420 --> 00:39:36.019
wasn't, you know, your favorite. But what about

00:39:36.019 --> 00:39:40.079
this part? Like you enjoy this aspect of it like

00:39:40.079 --> 00:39:43.559
and then you can. Focus on that aspect right

00:39:43.559 --> 00:39:47.559
you try to you know put that forward right? So

00:39:47.559 --> 00:39:49.780
I don't know or just tell her how you felt like

00:39:49.780 --> 00:39:52.639
oh I feel like and the other the other thing

00:39:52.639 --> 00:39:54.679
I was telling you to tell him is that he could

00:39:54.679 --> 00:40:01.440
use even us as like like a Way in like a key

00:40:01.440 --> 00:40:05.239
like so I came across this podcast this couple

00:40:05.239 --> 00:40:11.570
wildly is into this Ethical non -monogamy. It's

00:40:11.570 --> 00:40:14.510
wild. Um, i've started listening to them and

00:40:14.510 --> 00:40:21.010
like what are your thoughts on that? Uh or Listen

00:40:21.010 --> 00:40:23.650
to one with me and then have a conversation around

00:40:23.650 --> 00:40:26.929
it like what your thoughts are on it and what

00:40:26.929 --> 00:40:30.630
you know if so if if someone's response is like

00:40:30.590 --> 00:40:34.650
No, never gross not doing it then shelf it for

00:40:34.650 --> 00:40:36.949
them. Yeah. Yeah, I would put it on the shelf

00:40:36.949 --> 00:40:39.449
They're clearly not open to the conversation.

00:40:39.670 --> 00:40:42.809
They're clearly not ready for it But if they're

00:40:42.809 --> 00:40:45.449
like, oh, that's interesting. I mean more you

00:40:45.449 --> 00:40:50.690
know Good for them or whatever. Yeah, then maybe

00:40:50.690 --> 00:40:53.909
they're willing to entertain it a little bit

00:40:53.909 --> 00:40:58.630
more or listen to the podcast I mean or I will

00:40:58.630 --> 00:41:04.789
say One mistake he made what's that is? Him and

00:41:04.789 --> 00:41:08.250
I We've been chatting for you know a hot minute

00:41:08.250 --> 00:41:12.989
here. Yeah over our Sex line which the you probably

00:41:12.989 --> 00:41:17.050
heard the number in our commercial taking new

00:41:17.050 --> 00:41:23.230
pit nude pics, please One thing I think he he

00:41:23.230 --> 00:41:25.949
failed to do as in at least for this coming party

00:41:25.949 --> 00:41:31.119
is You gotta set the stage early, right? And

00:41:31.119 --> 00:41:33.539
we have been talking now for a while, and I told

00:41:33.539 --> 00:41:35.579
him about the party. I'm like, it's low pressure.

00:41:36.019 --> 00:41:39.099
Okay, cool, I'll talk to her. I hit him up today,

00:41:39.139 --> 00:41:41.699
the day before the party. I go, hey, did you

00:41:41.699 --> 00:41:43.400
guys figure it out if you can come? He goes,

00:41:44.119 --> 00:41:46.480
I haven't been able to talk to her yet. We have

00:41:46.480 --> 00:41:48.599
some alone time. I'm gonna talk to her tonight.

00:41:49.920 --> 00:41:53.039
Fail. you got to give her a chance to process.

00:41:53.280 --> 00:41:56.260
Yeah. Or maybe not. Maybe I don't know. You don't

00:41:56.260 --> 00:41:58.340
know her, but the fact that she's the type of

00:41:58.340 --> 00:42:00.019
person who, I think the fact that we've had all

00:42:00.019 --> 00:42:02.960
this conversation that maybe he's the processor

00:42:02.960 --> 00:42:05.300
and she's the one who's like, maybe you never

00:42:05.300 --> 00:42:07.199
know. We'll see if they come tomorrow. Yeah.

00:42:07.579 --> 00:42:10.219
Dive right in. But I just, I just think like

00:42:10.219 --> 00:42:13.099
for me, I would have been like, I would have

00:42:13.099 --> 00:42:16.369
planted a seed. And then you know, like two weeks

00:42:16.369 --> 00:42:18.010
ago and like hey, there's this thing coming up

00:42:18.010 --> 00:42:20.130
in a couple of weeks. What do you think? Oh,

00:42:20.130 --> 00:42:22.110
yeah, we'll talk about it later You gotta you

00:42:22.110 --> 00:42:25.170
gotta give that time of talking about it later

00:42:25.170 --> 00:42:29.070
Because this drop in like the night before that's

00:42:29.070 --> 00:42:31.510
that's I don't know. I don't think that's the

00:42:31.510 --> 00:42:35.010
best route, but but that's us It could work,

00:42:35.250 --> 00:42:39.170
you don't know her. He could be like, hey babe,

00:42:39.369 --> 00:42:43.389
there's this meet and greet thing going on. This

00:42:43.389 --> 00:42:47.289
podcast that I've been listening to. It's a lot

00:42:47.289 --> 00:42:50.250
of people who are likely at Whispers that time

00:42:50.250 --> 00:42:52.809
when we were there. We should go. They all said

00:42:52.809 --> 00:42:56.469
you should come. So we'll see if they show up

00:42:56.469 --> 00:43:00.070
tomorrow, bright eyed and bushy tailed. I will

00:43:00.070 --> 00:43:02.699
give you a high five and see. You are correct.

00:43:03.000 --> 00:43:05.260
I didn't say I'm correct. I'm just saying I will.

00:43:05.260 --> 00:43:07.300
I will tell you, you are correct. Oh, will you?

00:43:07.500 --> 00:43:10.059
Yes. If they show up and they're like, Hey guys,

00:43:10.400 --> 00:43:13.039
high fives, high fives, high fives all around.

00:43:13.039 --> 00:43:15.760
Um, but anyways, I just, I think in general,

00:43:15.960 --> 00:43:20.739
unless you know your, your person is okay with

00:43:20.739 --> 00:43:24.480
that, I think it's best to plant the seed, talk

00:43:24.480 --> 00:43:28.480
about it, build it up, give it time to let process.

00:43:29.400 --> 00:43:31.800
Um, And then another thing, I know we've talked

00:43:31.800 --> 00:43:34.019
about this previously, but it's very much related

00:43:34.019 --> 00:43:38.159
to the subject now is if you're the one that's,

00:43:38.159 --> 00:43:43.059
um, the instigator of the whole thing, don't

00:43:43.059 --> 00:43:47.900
involve yourself too much in, in groups. And

00:43:47.900 --> 00:43:51.019
you know what I mean? Like don't go in one sided

00:43:51.019 --> 00:43:53.639
so hard. Cause we've talked about it. Like there's

00:43:53.690 --> 00:43:56.889
some guys that join all the Facebook groups and

00:43:56.889 --> 00:43:59.469
all the things and they join all the sites without

00:43:59.469 --> 00:44:02.090
their, their person knowing. And then they come

00:44:02.090 --> 00:44:04.329
to them and they're like, Hey, I've been checking

00:44:04.329 --> 00:44:06.650
this out. And the other person's like, Oh yeah,

00:44:06.750 --> 00:44:08.750
cool. Like what have you been doing while I'm

00:44:08.750 --> 00:44:10.750
on this Facebook group, this Facebook group,

00:44:10.829 --> 00:44:13.690
this Instagram thread. And all of a sudden, all

00:44:13.690 --> 00:44:16.590
of a sudden you've, you've started this adventure

00:44:16.590 --> 00:44:19.969
without your person. And that is not a good way

00:44:19.969 --> 00:44:22.349
to start because the person's already going to

00:44:22.349 --> 00:44:25.889
be feeling like behind the eight ball and like,

00:44:26.510 --> 00:44:28.610
you know, I can't believe you, you, you went,

00:44:28.610 --> 00:44:31.309
you did all this without me. It's like, it's

00:44:31.309 --> 00:44:33.389
one thing if you listen to a couple of podcasts

00:44:33.389 --> 00:44:37.409
and you say, Hey, but just don't like completely

00:44:37.409 --> 00:44:39.590
dive in the pool without letting them know you're

00:44:39.590 --> 00:44:43.449
going swimming. See, that was a good analogy.

00:44:43.969 --> 00:44:46.849
Your Disneyland one was shit. Everything I say

00:44:46.849 --> 00:44:52.789
is fucking gold. Eat a dick. How about that and

00:44:52.789 --> 00:44:57.369
Another thing guys wordle if you guys haven't

00:44:57.369 --> 00:45:01.349
played it New York Times they have a daily wordle

00:45:01.349 --> 00:45:06.269
What you can do is like Whoever you play like

00:45:06.269 --> 00:45:09.070
your person and whoever wins they get to choose

00:45:09.070 --> 00:45:12.250
how they come that night Has nothing to do with

00:45:12.250 --> 00:45:16.809
any of this. This is just a just a free nugget

00:45:16.809 --> 00:45:20.550
of information for us So I think we're gonna

00:45:20.550 --> 00:45:22.289
be closing someone out pretty soon. Is there

00:45:22.289 --> 00:45:25.150
anything else you wanna, any whipped cream you

00:45:25.150 --> 00:45:29.110
wanna put on the top of this pumpkin pie? Well,

00:45:29.250 --> 00:45:33.570
good luck, Ivan. Yeah, hope to see you, actually

00:45:33.570 --> 00:45:35.949
hope to see you today because you're gonna be

00:45:35.949 --> 00:45:38.329
listening to this if you do on Friday morning.

00:45:38.989 --> 00:45:41.570
If you listen to this on Saturday, oops, you

00:45:41.570 --> 00:45:46.539
missed it. We had a great time, I'm sure. There's

00:45:46.539 --> 00:45:48.440
always going to be another one. We are always

00:45:48.440 --> 00:45:54.460
announcing pool parties. We always do pool parties

00:45:54.460 --> 00:45:57.679
during the summer. And then once football season

00:45:57.679 --> 00:45:59.920
rolls around, we start doing Sunday fun days.

00:46:00.559 --> 00:46:02.960
And these are all public events we talk about.

00:46:03.739 --> 00:46:07.659
So everybody can come hang out with the suites.

00:46:07.949 --> 00:46:11.210
Yeah, I was also just thinking you just asked

00:46:11.210 --> 00:46:13.489
me because the whole thing was like, how do you

00:46:13.489 --> 00:46:16.329
bring it up? I think other people to we've heard

00:46:16.329 --> 00:46:18.929
Swinger's couch podcast talk about how they kind

00:46:18.929 --> 00:46:22.449
of brought it up and they would be like Fucking

00:46:22.449 --> 00:46:25.849
and then like talk about oh, what if fantasies?

00:46:25.969 --> 00:46:28.250
Yeah fantasies like what if so -and -so is here?

00:46:28.269 --> 00:46:30.989
What if so like what if there was another guy

00:46:30.989 --> 00:46:34.909
or whatever and So I think there's a lot of different

00:46:34.909 --> 00:46:39.340
ways to bring it up But I think part of it is

00:46:39.340 --> 00:46:41.039
knowing your person well enough to know what

00:46:41.039 --> 00:46:43.920
way works best for them. Yeah Cuz that could

00:46:43.920 --> 00:46:49.159
be that could be very hot But if then if but

00:46:49.159 --> 00:46:51.019
your person could be like why are you thinking

00:46:51.019 --> 00:46:54.320
about other people? Why right like you? You gotta

00:46:54.320 --> 00:46:56.940
you gotta gauge that but I mean, yeah, it's you

00:46:56.940 --> 00:46:59.559
know role -playing fantasy. It can definitely

00:46:59.559 --> 00:47:03.519
be a back door in Because yeah, you can be like,

00:47:03.699 --> 00:47:05.579
you know, I'm thinking about you doing this this

00:47:05.579 --> 00:47:07.480
this and oh, yeah That sounds fucking hot. Yeah,

00:47:07.579 --> 00:47:09.179
and everybody comes and it's like you get that

00:47:09.179 --> 00:47:12.480
post not clarity and yeah, like I was weird like

00:47:12.480 --> 00:47:15.019
I came because I was thinking about my wife sucking

00:47:15.019 --> 00:47:17.900
another guy's dick and all of a sudden you're

00:47:17.900 --> 00:47:20.329
like Start feel icky and you're like no just

00:47:20.329 --> 00:47:23.030
get over it get over that ickiness. Yeah, it's

00:47:23.030 --> 00:47:25.210
gonna be there It's gonna be there for a while.

00:47:25.210 --> 00:47:27.269
You just kind of have to get past it Yeah, so

00:47:27.269 --> 00:47:28.829
there I mean there's a lot of like yeah, like

00:47:28.829 --> 00:47:30.730
you said talk about fantasies. I mean we've done

00:47:30.730 --> 00:47:34.090
that like I'll be sitting on your face Stroking

00:47:34.090 --> 00:47:36.469
your dick and I'll be going And I'll be like

00:47:36.469 --> 00:47:38.590
what if some what if a girl was sucking your

00:47:38.590 --> 00:47:48.489
dick right now? So yeah All right, so I think

00:47:48.489 --> 00:47:50.150
there's my phone I'm gonna text somebody really

00:47:50.150 --> 00:47:55.289
quick. I think there's a I think there's a lot

00:47:55.289 --> 00:47:57.969
of ways to approach the situation and so there's

00:47:57.969 --> 00:48:01.150
not really one like The point here is I guess

00:48:01.150 --> 00:48:03.590
there's not really like one best way to do it

00:48:03.590 --> 00:48:06.929
It's all depends on your person and it also depends

00:48:06.929 --> 00:48:08.889
on like what level of experiences you guys have

00:48:08.889 --> 00:48:11.289
had up to that point like when we were talking

00:48:11.289 --> 00:48:13.030
to the sweet and sour couple they were like yeah

00:48:13.030 --> 00:48:15.809
we we did some kinky things in vegas and then

00:48:15.809 --> 00:48:17.849
turns out they went to a burlesque show which

00:48:17.849 --> 00:48:20.949
for them was kinky at the time and that and that

00:48:20.949 --> 00:48:23.489
can be kinky and i don't know what level of conversation

00:48:23.489 --> 00:48:25.929
they had or whatever but i think they kind of

00:48:25.929 --> 00:48:27.710
joked they kind of laughed about after they said

00:48:27.710 --> 00:48:30.130
it because they were like now like things that

00:48:30.130 --> 00:48:33.010
they see and do just in the past six months two

00:48:33.010 --> 00:48:34.769
hours later they're like they're like circle

00:48:34.769 --> 00:48:38.360
jerk they're basically like i mean the The burlesque

00:48:38.360 --> 00:48:40.500
show is essentially like a vanilla thing, right?

00:48:40.579 --> 00:48:43.000
But, but I mean, that's something to like, do

00:48:43.000 --> 00:48:44.900
you ever go to strip clubs with your spot? Like

00:48:44.900 --> 00:48:46.760
you're sitting, you watch porn, significant other.

00:48:46.920 --> 00:48:49.940
Do you watch porn together? Like things like

00:48:49.940 --> 00:48:52.239
that. Like if, if those, those are all gateway

00:48:52.239 --> 00:48:54.800
things to talk about, like what do you think?

00:48:55.380 --> 00:48:59.760
Yeah. Cause with porn you can, you can watch

00:48:59.760 --> 00:49:03.420
porn and then you can comment on the other person.

00:49:03.699 --> 00:49:06.300
Right. And if you like, oh, I love the way her

00:49:06.300 --> 00:49:08.639
ass looks or look at her tits, they look great.

00:49:09.400 --> 00:49:13.300
If if she or he is able to get over like that,

00:49:13.400 --> 00:49:15.980
that's a huge hurdle. Yeah. To me that you could

00:49:15.980 --> 00:49:17.980
do that. I mean, that's one way to do it. Or

00:49:17.980 --> 00:49:20.260
you could be starfish. Or you could be like,

00:49:20.380 --> 00:49:22.579
it would be so hot if you were her and that was

00:49:22.579 --> 00:49:24.840
happening to you. Yeah, there's a bunch of different.

00:49:25.119 --> 00:49:26.659
You were him and that was happening to you. Do

00:49:26.659 --> 00:49:30.320
it all. So it doesn't have to necessarily be

00:49:30.320 --> 00:49:32.719
like. Because that might be a little much for

00:49:32.719 --> 00:49:35.159
somebody to be talking about somebody else if

00:49:35.159 --> 00:49:38.159
you're not really in that position but to say

00:49:38.159 --> 00:49:43.460
like oh if It would be really hot to see you

00:49:43.460 --> 00:49:48.719
in like that Scenario or whatever. Yeah What

00:49:48.719 --> 00:49:50.980
do you like and that starts a conversation? So

00:49:50.980 --> 00:49:53.260
I think there's a lot of different ways but Definitely

00:49:53.260 --> 00:49:55.719
if your person is not if you don't do any of

00:49:55.719 --> 00:49:58.320
those things together and nothing, you know,

00:49:58.320 --> 00:50:01.130
it's super like your Sex life is super vanilla

00:50:01.130 --> 00:50:04.289
or non -existent and you guys it's gonna you're

00:50:04.289 --> 00:50:06.909
gonna have a longer road I guess and so you're

00:50:06.909 --> 00:50:10.070
gonna have to Take it. I've heard like people

00:50:10.070 --> 00:50:13.050
taking like two you two three years to like even

00:50:13.050 --> 00:50:15.190
get to the first house party or something And

00:50:15.190 --> 00:50:17.510
then everybody has a different road. So yeah,

00:50:17.550 --> 00:50:18.829
everybody has a different road in a different

00:50:18.829 --> 00:50:25.110
speed A different roller coaster ride See fucking

00:50:25.110 --> 00:50:29.369
brilliant Just say it. I'm brilliant. So it's

00:50:29.369 --> 00:50:31.449
hard. So again, I just repeat myself It's hard

00:50:31.449 --> 00:50:33.590
to say what is the best way to do it because

00:50:33.590 --> 00:50:36.489
I don't think that that really exists the best

00:50:36.489 --> 00:50:39.409
way is whatever way gets you you know to where

00:50:39.409 --> 00:50:42.969
you want to be and It can be slow. It can be

00:50:42.969 --> 00:50:46.730
fast. It can be direct or it can be like You

00:50:46.730 --> 00:50:50.449
know all over the place Who knows? So we're really

00:50:50.449 --> 00:50:52.369
bad at giving advice on these types of things

00:50:52.369 --> 00:50:54.989
because it's I want to be realistic. Like you

00:50:54.989 --> 00:50:56.869
can't just be like, oh, here is the way. The

00:50:56.869 --> 00:50:59.449
only way is this way. Yeah, there's no such thing

00:50:59.449 --> 00:51:02.710
as the wrong or right way. Just like once you're

00:51:02.710 --> 00:51:05.010
in it, there's no right or wrong way to do it.

00:51:05.010 --> 00:51:06.690
You know, some people got to figure out what

00:51:06.690 --> 00:51:09.929
works for you. Yeah. Some people like like us,

00:51:10.010 --> 00:51:12.630
we're slow burners. We usually don't do date

00:51:12.630 --> 00:51:15.210
nights. Like date fuck nights like we usually

00:51:15.210 --> 00:51:17.449
don't like meet couples to then just directly

00:51:17.449 --> 00:51:19.889
go fuck them like yeah We don't we don't rent

00:51:19.889 --> 00:51:22.230
hotels with the intention. Yeah, that's not there

00:51:22.230 --> 00:51:25.110
like right now. We've ended up at hotels Yeah,

00:51:25.150 --> 00:51:26.949
we've definitely ended up at hotels and it's

00:51:26.949 --> 00:51:30.050
not our Our initial goal, right? But we have

00:51:30.050 --> 00:51:31.710
friends that that's what they like to do and

00:51:31.710 --> 00:51:34.309
that's great for them And I love that for them

00:51:34.309 --> 00:51:36.809
for us. That doesn't work the same way for us.

00:51:36.989 --> 00:51:40.000
So um There's also, again, once you get in it,

00:51:40.000 --> 00:51:42.599
there's not even one way to do it. It's like

00:51:42.599 --> 00:51:46.599
everybody has their own kind of path and realistically,

00:51:46.800 --> 00:51:51.619
this is for us. So it doesn't really matter what

00:51:51.619 --> 00:51:53.920
everybody else does or wants to do or whatever.

00:51:54.139 --> 00:51:57.619
It's like if it doesn't suit our relationship,

00:51:57.820 --> 00:52:03.280
then it doesn't work for us. Think that's important

00:52:03.280 --> 00:52:05.980
to remember is that people getting into it. You

00:52:05.980 --> 00:52:08.099
don't have to go from like zero to a hundred.

00:52:08.340 --> 00:52:11.800
I mean Go to meet and greets and just because

00:52:11.800 --> 00:52:14.039
if you go zero to a hundred There's a good chance

00:52:14.039 --> 00:52:16.599
you're gonna go negative 50 Yeah, and then you

00:52:16.599 --> 00:52:18.639
got to make up the ground just to get to that

00:52:18.639 --> 00:52:20.559
like base level again to where the point where

00:52:20.559 --> 00:52:22.579
everybody trusts each other again, right? And

00:52:22.579 --> 00:52:25.780
then and that's not everybody like some people

00:52:25.780 --> 00:52:27.840
can go zero to a hundred But most you know some

00:52:27.840 --> 00:52:31.420
I think most people When they're getting into

00:52:31.420 --> 00:52:36.420
it with no context prior like they probably start

00:52:36.420 --> 00:52:38.900
off a little bit slower I think a lot of also

00:52:38.900 --> 00:52:41.559
has to do with how you're raised like how you're

00:52:41.559 --> 00:52:43.559
pre -programmed exactly how you're pre -programmed

00:52:43.559 --> 00:52:47.880
about sex and sexuality and religion I mean all

00:52:47.880 --> 00:52:50.840
those things play like guilt and all that plays

00:52:50.840 --> 00:52:56.840
a like role into How you feel and then once you

00:52:56.840 --> 00:53:00.219
get in it like like how you can process everything

00:53:00.219 --> 00:53:03.280
and how you can move that way. And then also

00:53:03.280 --> 00:53:05.719
it has to do a lot with to like, how are you

00:53:05.719 --> 00:53:09.039
feeling like, like your sex drive, like everyone's

00:53:09.039 --> 00:53:10.840
sex drive is different. So just because you're

00:53:10.840 --> 00:53:14.619
in the LS doesn't mean you have like the super

00:53:14.619 --> 00:53:16.659
high sex drive that you want to go have sex all

00:53:16.659 --> 00:53:19.860
the time. Some people do. And I'm so happy for

00:53:19.860 --> 00:53:23.139
them. And some people don't. And, you know, so

00:53:23.139 --> 00:53:25.780
it's just every again, everybody's on their own

00:53:25.780 --> 00:53:28.909
path and they all start different. So. That's

00:53:28.909 --> 00:53:31.449
my you just got to find your yellow brick road.

00:53:31.449 --> 00:53:34.969
There you go. That's my two cents My ten cents

00:53:34.969 --> 00:53:36.869
is something like that. What does everyone say?

00:53:36.929 --> 00:53:39.429
That's my two cents. My ten cents are free Who

00:53:39.429 --> 00:53:42.510
sent you sent you sent for me? I don't know.

00:53:42.510 --> 00:53:45.630
I know this looks like a job for me. So everybody

00:53:45.630 --> 00:53:50.150
On that note controversy because it feels so

00:53:50.150 --> 00:53:53.909
empty without me All right. Oh just gonna task

00:53:53.909 --> 00:53:57.239
it I go tip for tap While we're talking about

00:53:57.239 --> 00:54:02.320
music tip, July 26, we talked about it on the,

00:54:02.320 --> 00:54:06.940
um, on the, uh, last episode, the goodies. Oh

00:54:06.940 --> 00:54:11.800
yeah. We are going to OB San Diego, July 26.

00:54:11.940 --> 00:54:13.719
I'm pretty sure it's a date. Let me come. Yeah,

00:54:13.719 --> 00:54:16.400
it is. It is. Yeah. And they're so the goodies

00:54:16.400 --> 00:54:19.300
we talked about them. They're a couple who they're

00:54:19.300 --> 00:54:22.239
a reggae band. Also a reggae band. We actually

00:54:22.239 --> 00:54:24.980
you played their music in the last episode. Yep.

00:54:25.179 --> 00:54:29.079
Yep. The hitting the streets. So cool people

00:54:29.079 --> 00:54:33.829
from what we know. That we found out they're

00:54:33.829 --> 00:54:36.949
actually friends with the steel workers steel

00:54:36.949 --> 00:54:39.530
workers and the steel worker couple they go way

00:54:39.530 --> 00:54:43.570
back and So we're making a whole event. We made

00:54:43.570 --> 00:54:46.650
a Cassidy event. I gotta get a better name for

00:54:46.650 --> 00:54:49.070
the steel worker couple I think they said we

00:54:49.070 --> 00:54:51.849
can use their real names, but I'm gonna double

00:54:51.849 --> 00:54:54.829
check that. Yeah, we'll check that but um, we're

00:54:54.829 --> 00:54:57.090
gonna see them tomorrow Yeah, so we'll confirm

00:54:57.090 --> 00:55:00.559
that anyway, so Yeah, we already got a hotel

00:55:00.559 --> 00:55:02.900
booked. We're going to be at the harp. What's

00:55:02.900 --> 00:55:05.719
that? Yeah, the harp that is at the harp. Yeah,

00:55:06.440 --> 00:55:08.539
I just thought it was funny. We get a text from

00:55:08.539 --> 00:55:11.900
her and she's like, you guys know the goodies

00:55:11.900 --> 00:55:15.880
or you saw the goodies and I was like, yeah.

00:55:17.179 --> 00:55:23.380
She's like, he's my reggae boyfriend. Yep. I'm

00:55:23.380 --> 00:55:26.599
like, of course you know them. You guys know

00:55:26.599 --> 00:55:30.539
everybody. That is for sure. So yeah, the 26

00:55:30.539 --> 00:55:33.599
we got a hotel room booked. Um, we're going to

00:55:33.599 --> 00:55:36.360
go to the harp. We're trying to make it a LS

00:55:36.360 --> 00:55:39.739
kinky reggae party. So it's gonna be a good time.

00:55:40.059 --> 00:55:42.719
Yes. Yes. All right. Now I think we're done.

00:55:43.300 --> 00:55:46.000
I was done 15 minutes ago. I know. I just wanted

00:55:46.000 --> 00:55:47.719
to really wrap that up. You had a lot of good

00:55:47.719 --> 00:55:49.480
points. I'm glad we didn't finish when I wanted

00:55:49.480 --> 00:55:57.880
to. All right. When enjoying the sweet side of

00:55:57.880 --> 00:56:00.599
life keep your pineapples upside down believe

00:56:00.599 --> 00:56:04.699
in unicorns and keep shaking it up People don't

00:56:04.699 --> 00:56:07.780
realize that you say that. Oh, I know they said

00:56:07.780 --> 00:56:10.519
that someone is like, oh no. Oh, I think it was

00:56:10.519 --> 00:56:14.659
Mr. Sweet and sour he was saying um That's not

00:56:14.659 --> 00:56:16.699
recorded. I'm like, no, I literally say it every

00:56:16.699 --> 00:56:18.139
single time He's like you've gotten really good

00:56:18.139 --> 00:56:19.860
at saying it the exact same way and i'm like,

00:56:19.920 --> 00:56:24.210
well, I say it a lot exactly All right, so when

00:56:24.210 --> 00:56:27.289
enjoying the sweet side of life, keep your pineapples

00:56:27.289 --> 00:56:31.369
upside down. Believe in unicorns and keep shaking

00:56:31.369 --> 00:56:36.210
it up. Love you, baby. Love you too. I love you.

00:56:36.989 --> 00:56:41.829
I love you all. If you would like to get in contact

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with us, please email us at the sweet side of

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life podcast at outlook .com or you can always

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find us on any one of our socials that are listed

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in the podcast links.