Welcome back to the sweet side of life podcast
with your host mr. Sweets and mrs. Sweet This
is Hitting the streets with the sweets folks.
We haven't done one of these in a hot minute.
We are currently in the car Which is the streets
part of the hit in the streets and where are
we headed my love? to the airport Where are we
going after the airport? Hopefully to Vegas hopefully
Our flights delayed So it is now Thursday Thursday
afternoon. We are in route To go to Vegas for
a Memorial Day weekend. We've been talking about
this weekend for a while now It is officially
here And we are ready to rock and roll. Yay!
Half of our group is already in Vegas waiting
for us, and the other half's coming up tomorrow.
And we're the middle half. We're the middle half.
We're like halfsies of both. So, are you excited?
Yeah. Alright. Hell yeah! Alright, that was like
the first one wasn't very convincing. So folks,
in case you haven't caught on, tomorrow, which
is Friday, We're just gonna be doing a lot of
the local stuff so we're gonna hit our tiki bars
and apparently we're gonna go to a miniature
golf place called swingers, swingers which is
perfect. We're gonna do some of that and then
Saturday we're gonna go to the Whispers pool
party from noon to five and then we're gonna
come back to Whispers Saturday night for the
Back to school sexy schoolgirl theme Yeah, and
then on Sunday, we're going to the flirts pool
party from 12 to 5 So if you guys are in Vegas,
and I did bring cards against humanity you did
All right. Well, like I said, we have to that's
gonna be strip cars against humanity I don't
know how I'll make that work. We'll figure it
out But um, so we have we we're rolling out with
a big group of friends. We got Tom and Liz are
Michigan friends. We got Beer Butt, Sam and Cole,
and the Palm Springs couple. And we're all staying
in the same hotel, not same room, but the same
hotel. So we'll see how that pans out. Chaos
is about to ensue. Vegas ain't ready for this.
Sounds like a reality show. So we just wanted
to get out there really quick. So if anybody's
out there in the Vegas area and you're going
to be going to these parties or you want to come
hang out, we are there. If you see us, come up
and say hello. Yeah, we're all down to hang out.
And we just wanted to reach out really quick,
talk about a couple of quick things. So over
our anniversary weekend, we... And by we, you
mean you. What? you just keep talking i said
you said by we want to talk about a couple of
things and you're like and moving on you're not
interjecting you're looking you're looking at
me like with the i don't even know all right
our anniversary take it away okay stop talking
take it away mr sweets over our anniversary weekend
you had planned a short evening for us let's
get to the point Get to the chorus, stop for
us. Or what did you say? Don't bore us, get to
the chorus. So we did some speakeasies. Yes we
did. And that was fun. There was 52 realms, which
was really cool. It was like a Chinese themed
speakeasy. And then we did, after that we went
to a tiki bar speakeasy called Forbidden Cove.
Very cool as well. And then we Had you had planned
for us to go to the house of black Yes, so we
went to the house of black the theme was Trailer
park tees. Yeah. Yeah. So I actually already
posted the pictures on tiktok. Yes Yeah, finally.
Can I get some credit for that? Finally we had
pictures that were tick tock appropriate because
I sure hadn't come off yet. Yeah Shortly after
that it came off. I think you ripped it in half
and then it came off. I ripped it like Hulk Hogan
style. And that was actually really interesting.
We had never been to the House of Black, so this
was our first time going. We've heard many different
things about it, but we didn't know really what
to expect. Yeah, and we definitely had heard
mixed reviews, mostly good, but... Honestly,
it wasn't anything like I was picturing at all
it was it's in this like industrial building
on like the top floor of I don't even know like
Just a random ass building in the back of an
industrial one. Yeah, it was super random And
basically it kind of goes in a circle. So like
you enter And then as they're walking you through
essentially you go through a circle like a loop
and um all the rooms have windows that you can
see into them if they're if they're actually
rooms then there's like a big open space with
um like a doctor's table and a saint andrew's
cross and some other tables some benches benches
banking benches and um a bunch of other like
just it's obviously like um people say bdsm but
it's really kink I think kink -focused. It has
BDSM elements, but it's got a lot of different
other kink stuff. Yeah, a lot of other kink stuff.
Cages. It seemed really clean to me. Yeah, very
clean. And it wasn't too hot. I know we've been
to some places where it's like, oh my gosh, it's
disgustingly hot. It was very comfortable. Yeah,
they had fans everywhere and it was a comfortable
temperature And one thing I will say really quick
is a lot a lot of at least on this particular
night It was an LS night. They have nights that
are BDSM and Excuse me, and they're dry nights.
So you can't bring liquor in and it's whatever
but this was an LS event Yeah, and a lot of LS
places we go to Feels very clicky, but I didn't
feel that at this no I could definitely tell
like you could tell people who go there regularly
yes, and Most of them were actually kind of pseudo
working the event like they had tags on yeah
But you could tell there was definitely a large
group of the people there knew each other like
yeah I could tell there was people who came together
and you could also like the dynamic so basically
when you walk in let me just get back to this
really fast because then it kind of says how
I was like seeing all of this stuff and it wasn't
I wasn't being creepy like so you walk in and
there's like um and we did a tour right but there's
nobody in the back when you first get there it
doesn't they don't open the back really until
about 10 o 'clock so when they close the doors
kind of similar to what flirts did um they close
the doors no one's in no one's out well you can
go out but you just can't come back in um you
can't leave yeah you can leave but you just can't
come back in so um Exactly So then Everybody's
kind of congregating in this like front room
area. It's tiny. It's yeah, it's where the bar
is It's where we took our pictures. It's there's
a little area with a couch and then off of it
There's like a little patio if you're a smoker
to go smoke and it's like all enclosed like it
but it's a patio anyway It's a little small area.
So everybody's kind of in that area initially.
So what I saw was I could definitely tell there
was a large group of the people there. They definitely
knew each other. They had, you know, a lot of
connection between them and friends. You know,
you could tell they were friends. There was a
small group of people, maybe four or six, that
were sitting on a couch. They looked like they
came together. So, or they met there. Like they
met up there. Not they met there, but they met
up there. So they all came with their intention
of being with each other. And they were in their
little group over on the couch. and then there
was another kind of same thing, another foursome
that they knew each other. But then there was,
but then the rest of the people, I just felt
like they knew each other, but it didn't feel
clicky. Everyone was super friendly. Like they
came, like multiple people came up to us. You
know, they could, obviously they knew. I mean,
and this is, we had talked about this. This was
the first event that we have done, I think since
we used to go to Inferno in Palm Springs. Years
ago. Yeah That we have been somewhere where we
didn't know one person. Yeah, well besides each
other obviously We didn't have any friends roll
with us because actually we didn't tell anybody
Yeah, because it was our anniversary. Yeah, we
were kind of like we didn't know what to expect
and so we were just I wanted to keep the night
free Where we didn't have any like and if we
decided to change our mind and not go to yeah
I didn't want people go to their meet us and
we turned around and left. Yeah So we just we
just kept it easy for us. Yeah, so we didn't
tell anybody we were going Well, I didn't even
know we were going because it was the whole the
whole thing that we did for anniversary was a
surprise But I thought I did tell you about the
house of Blackburn. Yeah later in the month.
Yeah, but yeah, but we didn't even yeah, we didn't
So we didn't tell anybody so nobody was there
that we knew which was the first time like I
said a really long time years So that has happened.
So definitely people could tell like obviously
I mean We weren't with another couple so we weren't
like just chatting with them And we weren't and
they knew we were new to House of Black because
they gave us the tour obviously and then So people
knew we were new and they knew they could see
it anyway everybody was super welcoming I guess
is my point like yes multiple people came up
to us to say hi and you know, oh They do a lot
of single guys there. So there was some Gentlemen
that came up and took different guys that can
be talked to us, but they didn't have their wives
there So they're like, oh, I do have you know
a spouse, but she's working. I do have one of
those two. Yeah She's not here or whatever. So
there was multiple people that we talked to in
that way as well But anyway, it was I felt very
welcomed and I felt very safe They were very
like before they opened the doors. They did this
whole thing about you know consent is consent
and what the safe word is for the whole place
like you can have your individual safe words
but if you say like their safe word then that
means like people who work there will come to
see what what is going on plus everybody everybody
in the group knows what that word is and then
you're gonna immediately like look up and see
what's happening yeah so it was and then because
they keep everything like like you can't close
any doors in any of the rooms you can put a Like
a chain. It's like a rope cord. Basically what
you mark off like a bar with or whatever. Like
a little whatever. Let's just call it a chain.
A chain. It wasn't a chain. Like a velvet rope.
It was a velvet rope. Glad we got that figured
out. Well its chain just sounds so industrial
and harsh. But it was like a velvet rope. Basically
you can like block the door off with... to the
outside so people can still see in obviously
and then there was a huge ass window but um that
that basically says like hey we're playing without
you don't come in here unless we invite you in
like this is private for private only you can
view so if you're not willing to be watched or
Voyeur yourself this may not be the spot for
you because I there were no private rooms No,
this is very very voyeur and exhibitionist. Yeah
here. Yeah, which I I'm totally down with that.
We're definitely both of those exhibitionists
and voyeurs So it works. Yeah, it was like it
was like we were at the like the zoo we could
just like walk It's great. We're like walking
window to window and you could like Watching
shown and you like you scoot five feet to the
left and you got a new show and it was like,
yeah Well, there wasn't a ton of people there
But I guess it was kind of a busier day for them
from what I overheard busy for that that room
But yeah, it felt busy for this space, but it
didn't feel like it's like some place we go It's
like super proud. It wasn't I didn't feel that
way We saw some kink stuff Like I saw a guy like
who was wearing nail like he had put on these
nails and he was like rubbing his nails all over
this woman's body and then I saw obviously there
was like a threesome in one of the rooms and
then there was a foursome in one of the rooms
and then um we parallel played a little bit with
a couple that was in the uh there's a stripper
pole room yeah they're already in there fucking
and you're like let's go I'm pretty sure you're
the one that said let's go. I don't think so.
Yeah, you're the one that guided me over to the
couch. Yes, please. Take credit where credit
is due. So I blew you while he was fucking her
and then you touched her a bit but I was good
where I was at. So yeah, we did that and then
they had this bed. that had, like, at the foot
of it, it had, like, a guillotine type of situation.
Stockade. Oh, stockade, not guillotine. Don't
shove my head off. I guess it could, if there
was a... It's missing a whole piece. Yeah, a
stockade. There was, like, a stockade thing at
the foot of the bed, so I got in that, and that
was fun, actually, until I was ready to get out,
and then we couldn't get it out, and then it
started freaking me out that I couldn't get out
of it. Oh, yeah, because you're, like... We're
playing around a little bit, and you're like,
OK, I'm done. And I was like, all right. So I
started getting off the bed, and you're like,
I'm done. I'm like, OK. And I go to the thing,
and I start trying to lift it up. And it's a
restraining device. It's not supposed to be something
that you just very easily lift up. And I didn't
know the secret to this stockade, because it
was my first time ever operating a stockade.
So you're like, let's go. Come on. And I'm like.
I'm like shaking the wood trying to figure out.
Well I started panicking. I'm like trying and
then I found out it's like you had to lift up
and then pull towards you and then lift up and
there's like increments. So it was like internally
locked but it wasn't locked. Yeah. I just had
to figure out like the combination. Which way
to get it off. But what's interesting is underneath
that bed there was like a cage and there was
like people inside the cage frolicking. Yeah
not when we were on top of the bed but not when
we were on it but then later when we. when we
circled back there was a couple uh fucking and
her sitting on his face and all the things and
then there was a i don't i didn't look too hard
to see if it was one or two people if it was
a guy or a girl i saw legs basically yeah i just
looked out i heard giggling and yeah so there
was somebody underneath in the little cage underneath
the bed there so um watch that for a bit um Yeah,
I'm trying to think what else we saw while we
were there I saw a guy get a bunch of chains
out, but I never saw what he did with them. So
I don't know if I missed it or if he just Decided
to put it away There was another couple that
I was walking by and he was getting ropes out
It actually was a foursome and he was getting
ropes out and he and I was like ooh Are you gonna
do Shabari? And he was like you're more than
welcome to join us and I went to go find you
But then we got sidetracked on something else,
I think I probably I would have had to been in
the bathroom. Yeah, maybe you're in or something
Yeah, I think you're probably in the bathroom
and because it was it was a room right by the
bathroom I didn't we didn't like separate. Yeah,
so I think it was parties. We separated Yeah,
I know we're not when we're just the only ones
and we don't know anybody else But um, yeah,
I think it was because it was the room that was
right outside of that bathroom So I think I was
just standing there looking in watching them
and then that's when he said that and I was like
let me go see like get my husband and then I
think we got side that might be when I got in
the stockade thing I'm not sure but anyway we
got sidetracked so we don't end up going back
over there which happens a lot when someone's
drinking and and then later we talked it like
what happened you were supposed to come over
we're like what oh shit that's right but anyways
yeah so what else did I see while I was there
what did you see I mean we're all there everything
you said is pretty much I didn't see as much
like kink stuff as I thought I would but I guess
because you said it was an LS night but there
were also a lot of people there who that's I
think that's their spot you know so I would imagine
they've got a little I think like what it is
is like the Friday night before that event was
a BDSM night that was that was a dry event and
realistically most people I can't say most but
it seems from what I've noticed is most people
that are into like Truly into BDSM and kink they
take it really seriously and they they take a
lot of safety precautions Exactly so I I think
like on a night like that we're gonna see bondage
light we're gonna see kink light Yeah, we're
just gonna see people that are just kind of messing
around and having fun with it Because what I
was reading is like on normal nights when they
do like the full -on BDSM nights they put on
like full -on clinics and it's it's like a scheduled
event and it's pretty intense I in my mind I
would like to say I'd like to go there but I
would have to pre -party yeah and then show up
because I have no interest in doing the Kings
per se but I wouldn't mind you know watching
them yeah but at same time I can't do LS sober
that's just my my introvertness and my shyness
would not allow for such things to happen yeah
So I would definitely at the pre -party. Yeah,
so overall I think our Decision was we definitely
would go back. Yeah, it was fun People were super
nice and it's it's close enough. It's it's nice
to have another. Yeah, it's not far from us Yeah,
it's just the reason what's taken us so long
is it's cut it's in an area that we don't like
frequent like it's not you're gonna You're just
like find yourself in this area for some random
reason like you really have to go there and that's
why it worked out with the Tiki bar and then
the other speakeasy and everything We're all
kind of in the same area. So it really did end
up working out as being like a really, you know
good night and also I just it is such a destination
and since we've heard mixed reviews about it.
I didn't want to waste a date night going all
the way out there, getting a hotel and then having
it be a let down. Yeah. So you just wasted our
anniversary night. No, I was, I was able to blend
it in with a bunch of other fun stuff. So for
some reason, if it was a let down, then it wasn't
as big of a problem. We would have gone back
to one of the other bars. Yeah, a thousand percent
I would have turned around and left again. So
it worked out, but now that we know what it is.
Definitely want to go back. In fact, they're
having I want to say it's in August or September
they're having their I Did I think it's 20 year
anniversary 15 15 or 20 year anniversary party
and I would imagine that's gonna be a big one
Yeah, so I'd like to try to get out to one of
those and just they were telling us about another
party But we were like, oh no, we're in Vegas.
They're doing something this weekend Yeah, I
think because then people who are in the area
might want to go What was it? Damn it. Well,
check it out. Yeah, check it out on House of
Blue or House of Black. House of Black's website.
Houseofblack .com. Yeah. And they're doing some
sort of event this weekend. Yes. Because they
were all like, oh, you have to come. Oh, it's
prom, right? Was it prom? Prom is coming up,
but I don't know if it was this week. Maybe not.
Anyway, check it out if you're in the area and
you want to check it out. Yeah, if you're in
the San Diego area. Yeah, they're having some
bigger events this weekend, but again, we were
going to Vegas so we couldn't commit to anything,
but Yeah, so That's that. So two thumbs up. We're
definitely gonna go back Speaking of things coming
up we got we got a lot of stuff coming we got
June, what is it? June 12th. I don't know mid
-june sometime. We're doing a local pool party.
I thought it was the 21st. Yeah, I think you're
right. Anyways, it's gonna be it's gonna be on
our websites and all that stuff We'll talk about
it soon as it comes up, but that's open invite
So if you're in the area of Southern California
and you would like to come party That's gonna
be a really fun one. And then we got we're gonna
be at Long Beach here soon for some music and
doing kelly vibes then we got uh bia vidas parties
are coming up we got edr coming up yeah we got
a lot of fun stuff guys so all of this stuff
is in our cassidy uh in our community so if you
go online you can find all that information by
searching up um the sweet side of life community
and all of our events are posted in there And
you can also text our text sex line. I don't
have it in my brain, but it'll be in the description
for this podcast. So it's also, you've said it
on a million other podcasts. I have been getting
a lot of, a lot of new to these pictures and
I've been loving it, but we, we got our first
penis the other day. And it was tattooed. Yeah,
it was a tattooed dick. The tattoo was dick.
The dick was tattooed. It was a tattoo of a dick
on a dick. So yeah, that was a first. It kind
of took me by surprise because we've been getting
photos from this couple for a while. And I was
like, I saw a photo come through. I'm like, ooh.
And all of a sudden it was like, bong. Dick.
Dick in my face So I was like, oh so I showed
it to you when I got home and it was all good
fun We love it guys. So keep the pictures coming
keep the stories coming questions And our next
full -length podcast we're gonna discuss in depth
one of our emails from our listeners But I have
one more thing before we end this show. What's
up, babe? So I'm sure you guys have heard We
go back and forth the swingers couch podcast
I've mentioned that before there's an app out
there called discord and it's basically like
a unadulterated uncensored Kind of like that
for the bot sensors you the bots can be set up
to since you fucked the bots But it's like it
basically like a chat group and within the chat
the community There's a bunch of different rooms
for whatever it is. You're looking for so anyways
swingers couch podcast Started one a while back
called swingers paradise And I'm in there and
I go talk with a lot of people and I've been
getting shit because apparently I haven't advertised
it properly on the podcast So this is the advertisement
guys. Check it out swingers paradise discord.
I'm going to in the descriptions I am going to
put the direct links, but you just click on it
and it'll take you directly to the channel and
then you Join it You go into the start here or
welcome center broom and then just follow all
the directions before you know it You'll be seeing
a pictures of autumn sins cool cool Ito And I
haven't posted any cool Ito's in there. I've
posted your Tatas in there a few times, but have
you know I have Anyway, so make sure you check
it out guys the swinger paradise discord Like
I said, the link will be in the description of
the podcast and I think We're in traffic now.
So I really need to pay attention. Yeah, and
we're getting really close to the airport. Hopefully
so that being said While enjoying the sweet side
of life keep your pineapples upside down believe
in unicorns and keep shaking it up Love you babe.
Love you too. How do I stop this thing?