WEBVTT 00:00:06.000 --> 00:00:08.300 The podcast you're about to listen to is for 00:00:08.300 --> 00:00:11.580 adults only. Anyone under 18, please turn on 00:00:11.580 --> 00:00:14.279 Kidz Bop right now. Any opinions or advice that 00:00:14.279 --> 00:00:16.539 we give on this show should not be taken too 00:00:16.539 --> 00:00:18.940 seriously as we are not professionals at all. 00:00:19.379 --> 00:00:21.780 With that being said, make yourself a drink and 00:00:21.780 --> 00:00:24.420 join us on our journey as a married couple and 00:00:24.420 --> 00:00:27.199 join the lifestyle in beautiful Southern California. 00:00:58.539 --> 00:01:03.000 All right, we're here. We are here. We currently 00:01:03.000 --> 00:01:08.159 exist. It is Thursday night. It's currently way 00:01:08.159 --> 00:01:11.420 too late. May. Is it May? It's gonna be May. 00:01:11.439 --> 00:01:15.260 Yeah, it's May. May 1st. I didn't play a prank. 00:01:16.379 --> 00:01:20.620 That was last month. Oh, April 1st. It's not 00:01:20.620 --> 00:01:26.620 May Fools. All right. All right, we are here 00:01:26.620 --> 00:01:29.299 for another one. Let's start over. I don't think 00:01:29.299 --> 00:01:33.719 we can. Just kidding. So I have big news. Oh, 00:01:33.739 --> 00:01:35.780 jeez. I have big news. Just lay it on me straight. 00:01:36.280 --> 00:01:38.079 I'm just going to lay it right on your face. 00:01:38.680 --> 00:01:41.579 That's the sound of it. I just put it on our 00:01:41.579 --> 00:01:44.920 face. But before we go any further, this is the 00:01:44.920 --> 00:01:51.180 drinking show. And I got I got I did fancy lazy 00:01:51.180 --> 00:01:54.290 today. Fancy lazy. Do you have your recipe? It's 00:01:54.290 --> 00:01:57.409 like wearing your fancy shorts. My fancy shorts, 00:01:57.549 --> 00:02:00.230 baby. You know what? Do you have your recipe? 00:02:00.230 --> 00:02:02.090 Yeah, I can look it up in our texts. So cheers 00:02:02.090 --> 00:02:04.969 really quick. Cheers. We sometimes almost forget 00:02:04.969 --> 00:02:06.409 that, so we'll just go ahead and get it out of 00:02:06.409 --> 00:02:12.669 the way right now. Done and done. Ah. Ah. Ah. 00:02:12.870 --> 00:02:16.050 Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. 00:02:16.050 --> 00:02:16.750 Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. 00:02:17.590 --> 00:02:17.969 Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. 00:02:17.969 --> 00:02:18.310 Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. 00:02:18.310 --> 00:02:18.310 Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. 00:02:18.310 --> 00:02:32.039 Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Ah. Now it 00:02:32.039 --> 00:02:42.099 became karaoke. Alright, moving on. Just gonna 00:02:42.099 --> 00:02:50.919 sing the entire Stand By Me song. Drink with 00:02:50.919 --> 00:02:56.919 me I was gonna belt it but It is late. So darling, 00:02:57.180 --> 00:03:03.259 darling drink with me. Okay, what are you drinking? 00:03:04.979 --> 00:03:08.500 Tito's coconut lime refresher. That's the name 00:03:08.500 --> 00:03:12.479 of it? Refresher. That's kind of boring. Call 00:03:12.479 --> 00:03:16.300 it something different. Refresher. Refresher. 00:03:16.680 --> 00:03:18.080 No, I don't like it. Is that what it's called? 00:03:18.680 --> 00:03:22.280 Yeah. Alright, spit it out. Two ounces Tito's 00:03:22.280 --> 00:03:26.340 vodka. Incorrect. I did three. Of course you 00:03:26.340 --> 00:03:29.800 did. I don't waste time with two shots. Two ounces. 00:03:29.800 --> 00:03:32.659 If I'm getting a shaker and getting ice, you 00:03:32.659 --> 00:03:35.259 are getting no less than three. Thank you very 00:03:35.259 --> 00:03:39.199 much. Two ounces coconut cream, one ounce fresh 00:03:39.199 --> 00:03:43.400 lime juice, half an ounce simple syrup. By fresh 00:03:43.400 --> 00:03:45.919 lime, did they mean in the container that you 00:03:45.919 --> 00:03:48.560 twist off the top? It's fresh. Okay, that's fresh 00:03:48.560 --> 00:03:52.199 for me. It was as fresh as... I went into our 00:03:52.199 --> 00:03:55.979 neighbor's garden and I grabbed limes under the 00:03:55.979 --> 00:03:59.800 cover of darkness. I stole them. They didn't 00:03:59.800 --> 00:04:02.620 say stolen limes. Anyway. They taste better. 00:04:03.139 --> 00:04:05.939 And then top it with a sparkling water or club 00:04:05.939 --> 00:04:11.520 soda. We did the Waterloo lime flavor. Lime. 00:04:12.259 --> 00:04:16.680 Yes. It's topped. It was actually or it is actually... 00:04:17.000 --> 00:04:21.180 Pretty good The the cool thing I liked about 00:04:21.180 --> 00:04:24.360 it is you put obviously all the ingredients But 00:04:24.360 --> 00:04:25.920 with the exception of the soda water because 00:04:25.920 --> 00:04:28.980 you don't want to shake that So I shook everything 00:04:28.980 --> 00:04:30.759 with the coconut cream and for those that don't 00:04:30.759 --> 00:04:33.800 know what coconut cream is. It's a cream that's 00:04:33.800 --> 00:04:40.379 made from coconut But it's kind of for all you 00:04:40.379 --> 00:04:44.709 dum -dums out there it's not coconut water it's 00:04:44.709 --> 00:04:53.069 cream so it does it does over explaining the 00:04:53.069 --> 00:04:56.149 name that says exactly what it is so anyways 00:04:56.149 --> 00:04:59.790 it nailed it it thickens up the drink so it almost 00:04:59.790 --> 00:05:03.050 like a little milkshaky but what was cool about 00:05:03.050 --> 00:05:05.250 is i shook it up and it settled it was all it 00:05:05.250 --> 00:05:08.470 was all dope and then i put the soda in and like 00:05:08.410 --> 00:05:11.029 The top like bubbled and it would like it created 00:05:11.029 --> 00:05:14.990 like kind of like a cool foam. It added an essence 00:05:14.990 --> 00:05:22.649 to the drink. Like a refresher. I am having a 00:05:22.649 --> 00:05:26.569 dirty Shirley, which is Vodka Sprite, which is 00:05:26.569 --> 00:05:30.990 my daily drinker. Did you already have this? 00:05:31.850 --> 00:05:34.329 I don't know because I don't drink dirty Shirley's. 00:05:35.740 --> 00:05:38.220 But you're off the hook. I don't see it. I already 00:05:38.220 --> 00:05:43.079 had Vodka Sprite poured and I Had I had another 00:05:43.079 --> 00:05:47.060 drink planned. However, you got lazy No, no, 00:05:47.060 --> 00:05:51.639 I did not however at your last bunko party that 00:05:51.639 --> 00:05:55.240 we we talked about briefly You used all of my 00:05:55.240 --> 00:05:59.379 pineapple and all of my cranberry cans You used 00:05:59.379 --> 00:06:02.120 all of it You didn't even want that cranberry 00:06:02.120 --> 00:06:05.100 cranberry and pineapple were part of my next 00:06:05.100 --> 00:06:07.540 drink I was planning for funny thing is that 00:06:07.540 --> 00:06:09.860 was like a week ago and you could have gone to 00:06:09.860 --> 00:06:13.459 the store since then I don't do the grocery stores 00:06:13.459 --> 00:06:15.579 around here. You're the woman in the relationship 00:06:15.579 --> 00:06:20.220 Handle it. You're such a dick Handle it exactly. 00:06:20.500 --> 00:06:23.579 I'm the dick. You're the dick. I take out the 00:06:23.579 --> 00:06:30.519 trash and wash the dishes So anyways, um We're 00:06:30.519 --> 00:06:32.420 getting off track. Do you want to ride my dick? 00:06:32.680 --> 00:06:36.139 Get on this dick. Get on this dick. So it is 00:06:36.139 --> 00:06:42.519 now April or May Fools. It's gonna be May. It's 00:06:42.519 --> 00:06:46.939 late. We need to wrap this show up so we can 00:06:46.939 --> 00:06:50.519 go to bed. And we're done. Alright guys, thank 00:06:50.519 --> 00:06:52.000 you so much for hanging out with us. We just 00:06:52.000 --> 00:06:54.019 gave you one drink and that's it. But really 00:06:54.019 --> 00:06:56.360 quick, I got to conduct some business. Oh yeah, 00:06:56.360 --> 00:07:01.370 you had a big announcement. Yes, we have a sex 00:07:01.370 --> 00:07:07.089 hotline everybody you can read just that 951 00:07:07.089 --> 00:07:11.629 -226 -5261 once again get your pencils ready 00:07:11.629 --> 00:07:17.689 number two only 951 -226 -5261 that is our sweet 00:07:17.689 --> 00:07:22.269 side of life podcast sex line From with that 00:07:22.269 --> 00:07:26.939 number you have direct access to me I manage 00:07:26.939 --> 00:07:29.100 the number and then I show you the messages as 00:07:29.100 --> 00:07:32.100 they come in, right? So we got some neon neon 00:07:32.100 --> 00:07:35.100 ass recently. Yeah, we've we've been getting 00:07:35.100 --> 00:07:39.699 a lot of messages, but um the ones with Boobs 00:07:39.699 --> 00:07:41.959 and culo are the ones that jump out to me. I 00:07:41.959 --> 00:07:46.000 mean obvious obviously So we um, yeah, we got 00:07:46.000 --> 00:07:49.199 a message actually today They said sweet side 00:07:49.199 --> 00:07:53.019 new followers here and I was like, yes And then 00:07:53.019 --> 00:07:58.279 they loved yes So new listeners guys everybody 00:07:58.279 --> 00:08:01.860 welcome Amy and John They are new listeners and 00:08:01.860 --> 00:08:06.139 then we exchanged pleasantries very quickly and 00:08:06.139 --> 00:08:10.720 then they said wait Boobs and culo have a great 00:08:10.720 --> 00:08:14.540 day and they sent two very nice pictures That's 00:08:14.540 --> 00:08:20.480 my favorite color by the way boobs boobs I'm 00:08:20.480 --> 00:08:24.600 a big fan of boobs and butts so Put me in a good 00:08:24.600 --> 00:08:28.620 mood And then it's kind of funny when I'm at 00:08:28.620 --> 00:08:30.620 work. I'm in construction, like I mentioned. 00:08:31.180 --> 00:08:35.419 And I get like the bing sound of our sex hotline. 00:08:35.879 --> 00:08:38.360 And I'm like, uh -uh, what's going on? So I kind 00:08:38.360 --> 00:08:40.240 of have to step into a corner and like pull my 00:08:40.240 --> 00:08:43.940 phone out all discreetly. That's not weird. It's 00:08:43.940 --> 00:08:46.419 not weird at all. It'd be weird if I went into 00:08:46.419 --> 00:08:49.340 the bathroom and pulled my penis out discreetly. 00:08:49.600 --> 00:08:53.879 But hey. We listen and we don't judge. But they 00:08:53.879 --> 00:08:55.700 were actually just listening to our... Wrong. 00:08:57.019 --> 00:09:00.600 I didn't agree to that. They were listening to 00:09:00.600 --> 00:09:04.220 our polyamory episode that we did a couple episodes 00:09:04.220 --> 00:09:07.539 ago. Yeah. Where we found out it wasn't for us. 00:09:07.539 --> 00:09:11.519 It wasn't for us. But you know what? It works 00:09:11.519 --> 00:09:12.799 for people and that's fantastic. It works for 00:09:12.799 --> 00:09:15.440 some people. So yeah, thank you guys so much. 00:09:15.779 --> 00:09:18.399 We hope you go all the way back to the beginning. 00:09:18.649 --> 00:09:22.090 and uh catch all the way up there's like a thousand 00:09:22.090 --> 00:09:24.669 and twenty seven episodes i think no there's 00:09:24.669 --> 00:09:28.809 not there's what like 60 no we're actually we're 00:09:28.809 --> 00:09:33.750 on official 45 is the official like full length 00:09:33.750 --> 00:09:38.850 and then we have Like some bonus episodes that 00:09:38.850 --> 00:09:42.090 we used to do a hit in the streets with the sweeps 00:09:42.090 --> 00:09:45.129 sweeps Hit in the streets with the sweets as 00:09:45.129 --> 00:09:48.889 bonus episodes, but we found that the bonus episodes 00:09:48.889 --> 00:09:53.649 don't get views Like listens, um, they don't 00:09:53.649 --> 00:10:00.110 get zero any views at all So so we don't we don't 00:10:00.110 --> 00:10:02.429 mess with the bonus episode stuff anymore cuz 00:10:02.429 --> 00:10:04.250 yeah, they just went like I don't know who's 00:10:04.250 --> 00:10:07.549 weird Um, so yeah, we have like 45 official, 00:10:07.549 --> 00:10:09.429 but if you can include it to bonus, we're probably 00:10:09.429 --> 00:10:15.330 I think about 50 But halfway halfway to 100. 00:10:16.190 --> 00:10:22.629 Whoa So guys, um Yeah, my my big my big announcement 00:10:22.629 --> 00:10:27.450 is um, get to it Chop chop and there's someone 00:10:27.450 --> 00:10:31.250 else we're talking to on hunter sex hotline. 00:10:31.850 --> 00:10:37.500 Um They're actually north of us in SoCal and 00:10:37.500 --> 00:10:41.019 They just went on to cruise there's a cruise 00:10:41.019 --> 00:10:43.279 apparently we've all we all know about the bliss 00:10:43.279 --> 00:10:45.840 cruises But apparently there's a lot of people 00:10:45.840 --> 00:10:48.899 don't probably so we know and that's all that 00:10:48.899 --> 00:10:50.899 but we do know about them Alright, so the bliss 00:10:50.899 --> 00:10:58.779 cruise is a LS nude fun Cruise it goes twice 00:10:58.779 --> 00:11:03.830 a year April and November and it's been going 00:11:03.830 --> 00:11:06.669 on for many years and now there's like temptation 00:11:06.669 --> 00:11:09.370 cruises and there's a lot of other cruise lines 00:11:09.370 --> 00:11:11.169 that are like saying hey you know what jumping 00:11:11.169 --> 00:11:13.129 on the bandwagon people like to get naked on 00:11:13.129 --> 00:11:15.730 boats so it's so weird so there's another one 00:11:15.730 --> 00:11:17.769 that's apparently pretty brand new according 00:11:17.769 --> 00:11:21.490 to this couple that I was talking to and they 00:11:21.490 --> 00:11:25.970 just went on one they're new they did not give 00:11:25.970 --> 00:11:29.940 us permission to use their names but their names 00:11:29.940 --> 00:11:33.120 aren't even oh that's why um one of the one of 00:11:33.120 --> 00:11:37.519 the things they asked about is is how often do 00:11:37.519 --> 00:11:42.379 people use their real names in the ls and he 00:11:42.379 --> 00:11:46.799 was i'm assuming he i don't know why he no you 00:11:46.799 --> 00:11:48.360 know what it's it's a girl it's a really hot 00:11:48.360 --> 00:11:53.139 girl i'm just gonna assume um but they we'll 00:11:53.139 --> 00:11:56.620 just say they they were asking like in our experiences 00:11:56.620 --> 00:11:59.970 like do how to help people Username and stuff. 00:12:00.149 --> 00:12:08.350 So I would I told them that I would say At least 00:12:08.350 --> 00:12:13.370 80 % of people that we know use their real names 00:12:13.370 --> 00:12:16.970 But that's based off the fact that they're really 00:12:16.970 --> 00:12:18.809 good at not slipping up. Yeah, we think that's 00:12:18.809 --> 00:12:22.070 their real name We do have some friends that 00:12:22.070 --> 00:12:24.970 use alternate names that use pseudonyms or alternate 00:12:24.970 --> 00:12:29.559 names on the initial meets because You never 00:12:29.559 --> 00:12:36.159 know. Yeah But we personally Decided to not go 00:12:36.159 --> 00:12:38.159 that route because I don't did we ever think 00:12:38.159 --> 00:12:42.620 about doing Not in the not like on our not in 00:12:42.620 --> 00:12:45.179 like the LS know and we did think about it I 00:12:45.179 --> 00:12:47.700 mean, I know you had like a name you wanted you 00:12:47.700 --> 00:12:51.519 were fooling around with for a second. Yeah but 00:12:51.519 --> 00:12:56.000 I don't know I think like It would be it'd be 00:12:56.000 --> 00:12:58.799 like especially when you're drinking Yeah, it'd 00:12:58.799 --> 00:13:02.779 be like all of a sudden and to me if you can't 00:13:02.779 --> 00:13:06.960 maintain that Then it almost starts that relationship 00:13:06.960 --> 00:13:10.759 with the level of distrust, right? So I'm not 00:13:10.759 --> 00:13:13.080 let there's no judgment if you choose to do that 00:13:13.080 --> 00:13:16.000 great if you choose not to do that great But 00:13:16.000 --> 00:13:20.179 if you choose to use like alternate names, just 00:13:20.179 --> 00:13:24.000 be really good at it Yeah, because I mean, there 00:13:24.000 --> 00:13:26.039 are a lot of people. I think everybody's experience 00:13:26.039 --> 00:13:27.960 is different, too, though, because I think that, 00:13:27.960 --> 00:13:30.879 you know, we have a lot of friends, like friend 00:13:30.879 --> 00:13:33.240 friends like the bride. No, I'm saying like we 00:13:33.240 --> 00:13:35.240 have a lot of friend friends, you know. So I 00:13:35.240 --> 00:13:37.539 get that in like that context. But if I was just 00:13:37.539 --> 00:13:39.820 at some random party that I was going to see 00:13:39.820 --> 00:13:42.240 these people never again, I don't think I'd really 00:13:42.240 --> 00:13:45.299 care that much. I mean, if I cared, if I cared 00:13:45.299 --> 00:13:47.639 if they knew my real name, I don't know that 00:13:47.639 --> 00:13:54.909 I would like care. That If I used the wrong name 00:13:54.909 --> 00:13:56.370 or whatever, you know what I mean? Like I don't 00:13:56.370 --> 00:13:58.049 know like if you're seeing someone once you slipped 00:13:58.049 --> 00:14:00.029 up Yeah, if you're seeing someone like one time 00:14:00.029 --> 00:14:01.669 you're never gonna see him again But the one 00:14:01.669 --> 00:14:03.429 thing that we have, you know that we always say 00:14:03.429 --> 00:14:07.529 we have found out we found out more than One 00:14:07.529 --> 00:14:10.149 way or the other is that this community is small. 00:14:10.149 --> 00:14:15.110 It is no matter how How big it feels feel sometimes 00:14:15.110 --> 00:14:18.190 it is actually like you're like one degree away 00:14:18.190 --> 00:14:20.389 from knowing somebody who's fucked somebody else 00:14:20.389 --> 00:14:22.970 Or who's friends with somebody else or who's 00:14:22.970 --> 00:14:28.269 like it's super Small I've yeah, I've sucked 00:14:28.269 --> 00:14:32.029 a lot of dick Just by going down on another woman 00:14:32.029 --> 00:14:35.509 and I found out after the fact I'm like, oh so 00:14:35.509 --> 00:14:43.659 you were okay. I tasted familiar Yeah. So it 00:14:43.659 --> 00:14:48.159 it it could, I guess, backfire and make you seem 00:14:48.159 --> 00:14:50.799 untrustworthy. But I think also people get it. 00:14:50.799 --> 00:14:52.840 You know, there's there's definitely a level 00:14:52.840 --> 00:14:54.919 of understanding. You were trying to deceive 00:14:54.919 --> 00:14:57.500 somebody in a way. I don't think it would be 00:14:57.500 --> 00:15:00.980 like, oh, my God, you're a horrible person. Yeah, 00:15:01.700 --> 00:15:03.940 I think it's just. But at some point, it's like 00:15:03.940 --> 00:15:07.740 if you use like a alternate name and then, you 00:15:07.740 --> 00:15:09.399 know, a month down the road, you're like, all 00:15:09.399 --> 00:15:12.509 right, guys, just so you know. Yeah. Blah blah 00:15:12.509 --> 00:15:15.750 blah. Yeah, like I It's one of those things like 00:15:15.750 --> 00:15:17.990 there's no wrong way of doing it. I just know 00:15:17.990 --> 00:15:20.330 personally for us It wouldn't have worked out 00:15:20.330 --> 00:15:23.090 because yeah, I I would have been like blah blah 00:15:23.090 --> 00:15:27.570 blah blah. Yeah Yeah, so many was it was an interesting. 00:15:27.649 --> 00:15:31.549 I mean obviously like we use mr. And mrs. Sweets 00:15:31.549 --> 00:15:36.309 So yeah but So are you saying that's not a real 00:15:36.309 --> 00:15:41.960 name IRL you might Get a different name. Wait, 00:15:42.279 --> 00:15:48.539 whoa. What is going on here? What? Your name 00:15:48.539 --> 00:15:55.960 is not Mrs. Sweets in real life? IRL? Wow. Mind 00:15:55.960 --> 00:15:59.259 blown. You're so silly. That was a big announcement, 00:15:59.720 --> 00:16:03.259 folks. That was your announcement? Yes. I don't 00:16:03.259 --> 00:16:06.480 even know what you even said. You said it for 00:16:06.480 --> 00:16:08.279 me. Like what did you even announce? that Mr. 00:16:08.360 --> 00:16:10.320 and Mrs. Sweets are not our real name. That would 00:16:10.320 --> 00:16:12.940 be a really dope last name, though, right? Stupid. 00:16:14.679 --> 00:16:18.120 I totally forgot that our listeners are called 00:16:18.120 --> 00:16:23.580 the Sweetums. Oh, gosh. Yeah. So they are. All 00:16:23.580 --> 00:16:25.460 right, guys. No one has to own that. All right, 00:16:25.659 --> 00:16:28.419 listeners, listeners, listeners. You don't have 00:16:28.419 --> 00:16:32.500 to own this or or indulge him. Listeners, Sweetums, 00:16:32.620 --> 00:16:35.740 I need you guys to here's some homework for you. 00:16:36.690 --> 00:16:43.009 I need you to text our sex line. I got two questions 00:16:43.009 --> 00:16:47.850 for you. One is, I know I've teased a podcast, 00:16:48.190 --> 00:16:51.509 my favorite podcast episode, and I'm working 00:16:51.509 --> 00:16:53.730 on it. It's just, it's a lot of work and I haven't 00:16:53.730 --> 00:16:59.059 started yet, so. What kind of work is it? I have 00:16:59.059 --> 00:17:00.960 to go through and compile the names and make 00:17:00.960 --> 00:17:02.860 sure I have all the information correct because 00:17:02.860 --> 00:17:06.019 here's the thing is one thing I've noticed is 00:17:06.019 --> 00:17:13.099 I'm a huge podcast listener and Podcast and we 00:17:13.099 --> 00:17:15.500 don't we don't do enough to lift each other up. 00:17:15.500 --> 00:17:18.789 We've talked about that. Yeah Most podcasts are 00:17:18.789 --> 00:17:21.730 very much like, you know, this is like they think 00:17:21.730 --> 00:17:23.750 there's not enough ears for everybody to live 00:17:23.750 --> 00:17:27.190 exactly and You don't hear it's not that there's 00:17:27.190 --> 00:17:29.710 I mean not right now as far as I know but back 00:17:29.710 --> 00:17:31.329 in the day there was a drama with other people 00:17:31.329 --> 00:17:34.990 not with us, but anyways, um, we're low drama 00:17:34.990 --> 00:17:38.990 real or drama, uh Right now it's just I listen 00:17:38.990 --> 00:17:43.450 to a shit ton of podcasts and outside of a few 00:17:45.019 --> 00:17:47.839 Nobody really mentions the fact that there are 00:17:47.839 --> 00:17:49.640 other podcasts out there and they definitely 00:17:49.640 --> 00:17:51.660 don't mention them my name and they definitely 00:17:51.660 --> 00:17:55.259 do not plug them like personally. Yeah, I know 00:17:55.259 --> 00:17:58.259 like us and swingers couch podcast. We we have 00:17:58.259 --> 00:18:01.019 a relationship. We've met them in real life IRL. 00:18:01.420 --> 00:18:05.390 They know our real names and We've hung out with 00:18:05.390 --> 00:18:07.250 them and we have a great relationship and we 00:18:07.250 --> 00:18:08.950 have plugged each other back and forth And I 00:18:08.950 --> 00:18:11.470 think that's how the community should be. Yeah 00:18:11.470 --> 00:18:15.069 in general So there is gonna be a show where 00:18:15.069 --> 00:18:18.569 I'm gonna put it all out there my favorites and 00:18:18.569 --> 00:18:21.769 whatnot So that kind of goes into with your homework 00:18:21.769 --> 00:18:30.190 sweetums So there's two two questions send a 00:18:30.190 --> 00:18:33.329 text to our sex line Um, if you didn't get the 00:18:33.329 --> 00:18:34.710 number, I'm not going to say it again because 00:18:34.710 --> 00:18:38.309 my phone battery died. Um, but it's, it's earlier, 00:18:38.490 --> 00:18:40.529 go to back about five minutes and I said it twice. 00:18:41.210 --> 00:18:43.890 So, and actually it's in the, uh, the podcast. 00:18:44.150 --> 00:18:46.509 Listen in the notes, bro. It is, you don't know 00:18:46.509 --> 00:18:48.569 what's in the notes, bro. I do. Cause you tell 00:18:48.569 --> 00:18:53.789 them it's in the notes, bro. So I want you guys 00:18:53.789 --> 00:18:56.190 to let us know, do you want to be called the 00:18:56.190 --> 00:19:00.700 sweetums or the sweeties? Your listeners as the 00:19:00.700 --> 00:19:03.460 listeners like your official title sweetums or 00:19:03.460 --> 00:19:07.960 sweeties I'm a fan of sweetums Sweeties is pretty 00:19:07.960 --> 00:19:11.059 cool though. And the second thing is I want you 00:19:11.059 --> 00:19:15.660 guys ladies and gentlemen to send me your top 00:19:15.660 --> 00:19:21.339 five podcast because I've I've ran out of podcast. 00:19:21.819 --> 00:19:24.619 I think I've listened to every single one on 00:19:24.619 --> 00:19:28.039 the planet Earth But here's the thing, is I know 00:19:28.039 --> 00:19:30.940 there's some that are buried, because we used 00:19:30.940 --> 00:19:35.839 to be just the sweet side of life, right? And 00:19:35.839 --> 00:19:39.720 it took about three months for us to change it 00:19:39.720 --> 00:19:43.460 into the sweet side of life, swingers and lifestyle 00:19:43.460 --> 00:19:47.099 podcast. As soon as we added those keywords, 00:19:47.779 --> 00:19:51.240 then we popped up in the top 10 of the search 00:19:51.240 --> 00:19:55.049 criteria. So I know there's... What's that? it's 00:19:55.049 --> 00:19:59.910 all about seo search engine optimization gotcha 00:19:59.910 --> 00:20:03.349 yeah so i know there are some good ones that 00:20:03.349 --> 00:20:05.809 are buried that just don't come up in my searches 00:20:05.809 --> 00:20:10.430 so please send me your top five and then um i'm 00:20:10.430 --> 00:20:12.329 like i said i want to highlight my favorites 00:20:12.329 --> 00:20:14.650 and then hopefully get some new ones because 00:20:14.650 --> 00:20:16.690 i'm running out i'm starting to just listen to 00:20:16.690 --> 00:20:20.990 music at work and it's just weird i hate that 00:20:20.990 --> 00:20:24.890 for you it's the worst um And then one of the 00:20:24.890 --> 00:20:26.450 other question that couple was talking about 00:20:26.450 --> 00:20:30.109 was They asked when my band was playing again. 00:20:30.710 --> 00:20:33.529 We currently do not have any shows booked. We 00:20:33.529 --> 00:20:37.789 have like stuff in September But that is basically 00:20:37.789 --> 00:20:40.869 right around the corner, babe. It's it's April. 00:20:41.470 --> 00:20:47.210 It's gonna be May May June July it's gonna be 00:20:47.210 --> 00:20:50.200 here before you know it is but I'm not advertising 00:20:50.200 --> 00:20:52.299 it yet because summer is gonna go quick. We still 00:20:52.299 --> 00:20:54.559 don't know really know exactly the drummer situation 00:20:54.559 --> 00:21:02.240 So anyways So Unfortunately, we do not have anything 00:21:02.240 --> 00:21:04.859 currently coming up and then the other thing 00:21:04.859 --> 00:21:09.019 they were asking is if there was anything in 00:21:09.019 --> 00:21:14.099 the the city where we're at If there was anything 00:21:14.099 --> 00:21:17.259 coming up on the 17th the weekend of the 17th 00:21:17.259 --> 00:21:22.420 May 17th We are not gonna be here because that's 00:21:22.420 --> 00:21:26.940 our anniversary weekend That it is So I have 00:21:26.940 --> 00:21:29.980 not told you yet where we are going. We are leaving 00:21:29.980 --> 00:21:35.759 on a jet plane. No, we're not getting What? Get 00:21:35.759 --> 00:21:37.740 your passport ready. I know cuz I don't have 00:21:37.740 --> 00:21:43.440 my real ID Not yet. So anyways, uh What was the 00:21:43.440 --> 00:21:47.920 big announcement? I don't know but Stop boring 00:21:47.920 --> 00:21:52.569 us get to the chorus Was there anything else 00:21:52.569 --> 00:21:58.609 I tied to that So for tonight we didn't we didn't 00:21:58.609 --> 00:22:00.710 have and I'm normally the one rambling I'm over 00:22:00.710 --> 00:22:06.269 here falling asleep So we didn't have a set concept 00:22:06.269 --> 00:22:08.509 for tonight We just kind of wanted to freestyle 00:22:08.509 --> 00:22:10.650 a little bit and talk about some things and I 00:22:10.650 --> 00:22:13.730 wanted to highlight some of our sweet homes and 00:22:13.730 --> 00:22:20.519 And then Really quick before we go on to bigger 00:22:20.519 --> 00:22:24.180 and better things. We have finalized our Memorial 00:22:24.180 --> 00:22:28.660 Day trip. Yes Guess what folks it is official. 00:22:28.700 --> 00:22:30.640 I thought we already talked about this We talked 00:22:30.640 --> 00:22:32.660 about it, but we didn't have shit booked. We 00:22:32.660 --> 00:22:36.240 didn't I don't believe so But anyways, so your 00:22:36.240 --> 00:22:41.180 legs are so much tanner than my foot Anyway moving 00:22:41.180 --> 00:22:47.799 on Moving on if only we had a clock or something 00:22:47.799 --> 00:22:50.720 that like What was the name of that guy with 00:22:50.720 --> 00:22:53.839 that work clock around around his neck? What 00:22:53.839 --> 00:23:00.220 was it? We have gotten a lot of emails and messages 00:23:00.220 --> 00:23:03.799 and Text most recently a friend texting us saying 00:23:03.799 --> 00:23:07.420 I'm yelling at my phone Flava Flav so apparently 00:23:07.420 --> 00:23:11.140 that is a source of a lot of bitterness that 00:23:11.140 --> 00:23:13.750 we didn't you know, instantly recall the name 00:23:13.750 --> 00:23:15.509 of this. I mean, it was late and we were drinking. 00:23:15.869 --> 00:23:20.369 Yes, it was very late. So guess what? I don't 00:23:20.369 --> 00:23:23.509 know where to take that. But so guys, Memorial 00:23:23.509 --> 00:23:31.289 Day weekend on Thursday, the 22nd, we are going 00:23:31.289 --> 00:23:35.980 where? Vegas Vegas that took you a second Viva 00:23:35.980 --> 00:23:40.980 Las Vegas So we are going to Viva Las Vegas with 00:23:40.980 --> 00:23:44.579 some our Michigan couple Michigan friends. Yep 00:23:44.579 --> 00:23:48.500 Tom and Liz We're going with beard and butt Sam 00:23:48.500 --> 00:23:52.859 and Cole Sam and Cole We're trying to get our 00:23:52.859 --> 00:23:55.759 Palm Springs couple to come yeah, they're they 00:23:55.759 --> 00:23:57.259 want to come they're trying to come but they 00:23:57.259 --> 00:24:00.690 haven't worked out the logistics yet. Yes So 00:24:00.690 --> 00:24:04.690 if you guys are in Vegas and want to meet us 00:24:04.690 --> 00:24:07.069 hang out We're gonna be at a couple different 00:24:07.069 --> 00:24:10.509 places. So on Friday, we don't know where we're 00:24:10.509 --> 00:24:11.630 gonna be. We're just gonna be running around 00:24:11.630 --> 00:24:15.410 town like crazy Saturday We are gonna be going 00:24:15.410 --> 00:24:20.630 to the Whispers daytime pool party Gonna go back 00:24:20.630 --> 00:24:24.190 to our hotel Should shower shave and then come 00:24:24.190 --> 00:24:27.430 back for the Whispers nighttime party, which 00:24:27.430 --> 00:24:31.730 is Schools out for the summer naughty schoolgirl 00:24:31.730 --> 00:24:37.150 party That's right. I got my skirt and then the 00:24:37.150 --> 00:24:41.809 following Sunday We are going to the flirts LV 00:24:41.809 --> 00:24:45.849 top party party. It's a topional Topional pool 00:24:45.849 --> 00:24:49.170 party. We have been to the flirts nighttime party 00:24:49.170 --> 00:24:51.950 had a great time So we're looking to see what 00:24:51.950 --> 00:24:56.680 the flirts pool party brings us. Yes. Yes And 00:24:56.680 --> 00:24:58.019 something tells me we're going to be hitting 00:24:58.019 --> 00:25:01.019 the tiki bars and we're just going to have a 00:25:01.019 --> 00:25:03.400 grand old time out there. So if you guys are 00:25:03.400 --> 00:25:06.220 in the area and wish to join us on that Saturday 00:25:06.220 --> 00:25:11.119 or that's that Saturday or that Sunday, shoot 00:25:11.119 --> 00:25:16.059 us a text on our sex line and I'll make sure 00:25:16.059 --> 00:25:18.400 I keep you guys in the loop with all the details 00:25:18.400 --> 00:25:21.339 and the loop the loop the loop. If you haven't 00:25:21.339 --> 00:25:24.740 been to Whispers, it's a really chill. Uh, it's 00:25:24.740 --> 00:25:28.119 a casual. It's a casual as fuck big big pool 00:25:28.119 --> 00:25:31.400 party Um, it's gonna be a lot of people there 00:25:31.400 --> 00:25:34.440 And then uh, I don't know about flirts, but I 00:25:34.440 --> 00:25:36.019 think they said they have like groups come in 00:25:36.019 --> 00:25:39.700 from arizona for memorial day Yeah, and other 00:25:39.700 --> 00:25:42.000 places. I think they have two groups coming in 00:25:42.000 --> 00:25:45.359 I would imagine from what i've seen from previous 00:25:45.359 --> 00:25:47.920 events. It's probably no less than three to four 00:25:47.920 --> 00:25:51.759 hundred people And in that area where it's at, 00:25:51.799 --> 00:25:54.980 it's going to be pumping. So we will be there. 00:25:55.059 --> 00:25:57.779 I will have my dick out. It's going to be fantastic. 00:25:59.940 --> 00:26:02.839 Because everybody wants to see that. Everybody 00:26:02.839 --> 00:26:06.019 wants to see the helicopter. Like nobody wants 00:26:06.019 --> 00:26:08.440 to see the helicopter. Keep your pants on, sir. 00:26:10.180 --> 00:26:16.940 And then let's see. And we got. Oh, we we. this 00:26:16.940 --> 00:26:19.200 past, this past weekend, right? This past Friday 00:26:19.200 --> 00:26:21.460 night. For somebody who was tired and didn't 00:26:21.460 --> 00:26:23.359 want to do this, you sure are saying a whole 00:26:23.359 --> 00:26:25.920 lot. I'm trying to get it over so I can get to 00:26:25.920 --> 00:26:27.720 bed. I have a lot of things I wanted to say. 00:26:27.819 --> 00:26:30.779 I'm trying to get it done. Last time, last podcast, 00:26:31.019 --> 00:26:33.420 you were the one on the coffee. I'm like Charlie 00:26:33.420 --> 00:26:38.119 Sheen over here right now. So last Friday, we 00:26:38.119 --> 00:26:40.480 went to the Say Less Productions meet and greet. 00:26:40.519 --> 00:26:43.099 We were talking about that one. And we saw a 00:26:43.099 --> 00:26:45.220 lot of our usual friends and we met a couple 00:26:45.220 --> 00:26:48.980 of few new listeners as well. Yes. We did not 00:26:48.980 --> 00:26:51.000 get permissions to use their names, so we will 00:26:51.000 --> 00:26:56.299 not use their names, but sup. I didn't get a 00:26:56.299 --> 00:26:59.900 good chat because it was there was a lot of people 00:26:59.900 --> 00:27:04.009 who I knew. And a lot of people who I didn't 00:27:04.009 --> 00:27:06.849 know. Exactly. And I love that for the meet and 00:27:06.849 --> 00:27:08.849 greet. Yeah, it's fun seeing new people. Yeah, 00:27:08.950 --> 00:27:11.049 fun seeing new people, fun seeing other people 00:27:11.049 --> 00:27:16.609 connecting and just. Anyway, so it was I was 00:27:16.609 --> 00:27:18.849 there was a lot going on, so I didn't get a chance 00:27:18.849 --> 00:27:21.970 to speak to them like you did, but you got a 00:27:21.970 --> 00:27:23.750 little chatty chat. Yeah, I definitely had got 00:27:23.750 --> 00:27:26.309 to chat with them a little bit, and it was kind 00:27:26.309 --> 00:27:29.349 of funny because it kind of goes into my next 00:27:29.349 --> 00:27:33.220 subject is. There's there's a place a resort 00:27:33.220 --> 00:27:37.480 out here in Palm Springs so Cal called EDR and 00:27:37.480 --> 00:27:41.400 If you're a listener, you probably heard us about 00:27:41.400 --> 00:27:46.380 five episode episodes ago Saying like fuck you 00:27:46.380 --> 00:27:53.799 er. Yeah We were hurt we were damaged we were 00:27:53.799 --> 00:27:57.180 mad we were extremely mad because Basically what 00:27:57.180 --> 00:28:03.559 it was is EDR has been like our our ls like disney 00:28:03.559 --> 00:28:06.900 world for the last couple years and We've spent 00:28:06.900 --> 00:28:10.000 moil day there labor day there fourth of july, 00:28:10.000 --> 00:28:12.240 you know, we go there off season it's just been 00:28:12.240 --> 00:28:14.440 one of our favorite places to go a lot of great 00:28:14.440 --> 00:28:19.119 memories, but they um The owner for whatever 00:28:19.119 --> 00:28:24.339 reason about eight months ago decided to I get 00:28:24.339 --> 00:28:29.619 I want to say chase the money and he he, he ripped 00:28:29.619 --> 00:28:32.819 the LS portion out, out from underneath us and 00:28:32.819 --> 00:28:36.319 just turned it into a regular resort. And it 00:28:36.319 --> 00:28:38.299 was just, it was a big surprise. It was like, 00:28:38.299 --> 00:28:41.420 what the hell kind of came out of nowhere. So 00:28:41.420 --> 00:28:43.240 we took it personally. Well, first he jerked 00:28:43.240 --> 00:28:45.660 us around for a while and not in a good way and 00:28:45.660 --> 00:28:47.400 not in the way you want to be jerked around. 00:28:47.759 --> 00:28:49.660 I didn't say jerked off. I said jerked around. 00:28:50.279 --> 00:28:56.819 Um, and then pulled the rug. Yes. So, um, however, 00:28:57.049 --> 00:29:00.390 About a month ago, we were forgiving people. 00:29:01.190 --> 00:29:03.829 I don't hold grudges. I do, but I can be forgiving 00:29:03.829 --> 00:29:08.509 for the right reasons. Yes. So, um, so we got 00:29:08.509 --> 00:29:11.730 an email saying it was like, Hey guys, we're 00:29:11.730 --> 00:29:15.029 back. You know, the, the abusive girlfriend is 00:29:15.029 --> 00:29:18.869 back in town. You want to hang out? And, uh, 00:29:18.869 --> 00:29:22.789 and we're like, maybe. So basically it looks 00:29:22.789 --> 00:29:26.440 like I'm not really sure the whole situation 00:29:26.440 --> 00:29:29.099 yet. I'm I'm still going and I'm dipping my toe 00:29:29.099 --> 00:29:31.079 and I'm still nervous about the whole thing but 00:29:31.079 --> 00:29:34.279 it looks like they're going back to at a minimum 00:29:34.279 --> 00:29:38.059 clothing optional and they say LS friendly like 00:29:38.059 --> 00:29:41.220 EDR it used to be basically the only rule was 00:29:41.220 --> 00:29:44.299 No sex in the pool or no sex in the water in 00:29:44.299 --> 00:29:47.339 general but I mean you could do poolside everything 00:29:47.339 --> 00:29:50.279 and shenanigans and everything else outside of 00:29:50.279 --> 00:29:53.519 that was fine, but Don't know I'm still getting 00:29:53.519 --> 00:29:57.220 mixed messages like if they're going back all 00:29:57.220 --> 00:30:02.740 the way to old school or if they're just LS friendly 00:30:02.740 --> 00:30:05.059 clothing optional cuz I they did say they're 00:30:05.059 --> 00:30:07.940 they have the mazes back. They're gonna have 00:30:07.940 --> 00:30:12.200 playrooms But the the front page of EDR hotel 00:30:12.200 --> 00:30:17.220 comm Still has some mixed messages. So I actually 00:30:17.220 --> 00:30:22.829 sent an email to Don which is He's kind of big 00:30:22.829 --> 00:30:26.029 in this area. He's worked at basically all of 00:30:26.029 --> 00:30:28.390 the Ellis resorts at one time or another and 00:30:28.390 --> 00:30:30.690 everybody kind of knows him as a driving force 00:30:30.690 --> 00:30:32.890 within the community for these types of resorts. 00:30:33.450 --> 00:30:36.650 And he was like with EDR and he wasn't. Then 00:30:36.650 --> 00:30:41.069 last I heard he left EDR when they went vanilla. 00:30:42.329 --> 00:30:45.490 But from what I understand, Don is back. So that's 00:30:45.490 --> 00:30:47.970 a good sign because he has - Guess who's back? 00:30:48.580 --> 00:30:51.819 Don is bad. So he's got like he's got like the 00:30:51.819 --> 00:30:56.160 right mindset of How to properly do it. So I 00:30:56.160 --> 00:30:59.319 actually sent an email to management at EDR and 00:30:59.319 --> 00:31:02.119 asked him to forward it to Don and I requested 00:31:02.119 --> 00:31:05.859 like to do a podcast interview to Clear up any 00:31:05.859 --> 00:31:07.700 misconceptions. Let's clear up. Let's get the 00:31:07.700 --> 00:31:11.319 air clear LS community may understand where we're 00:31:11.319 --> 00:31:14.990 headed because here's the thing is is Understand 00:31:14.990 --> 00:31:17.569 you want your business to make money and if your 00:31:17.569 --> 00:31:19.690 business is failing for whatever that reason 00:31:19.690 --> 00:31:22.690 is you're gonna look Elsewhere how can I monetize 00:31:22.690 --> 00:31:25.029 this right? But we weren't the problem. We weren't 00:31:25.029 --> 00:31:28.170 the problem. I think I think the owners They 00:31:28.170 --> 00:31:31.369 tried something different It didn't work and 00:31:31.369 --> 00:31:34.009 now they're trying to go back and there's a lot 00:31:34.009 --> 00:31:36.990 of people scoring right now Yeah, and I know 00:31:36.990 --> 00:31:39.049 there's a lot of people in our community friends 00:31:39.049 --> 00:31:41.609 that are just like no fuck that place and very 00:31:41.609 --> 00:31:45.599 much where we were Handful of episodes ago. So 00:31:45.599 --> 00:31:49.460 but at the same time I do want them to succeed 00:31:49.460 --> 00:31:53.140 in Our world right because we always had a great 00:31:53.140 --> 00:31:55.039 time doing it for them. We're doing it for us 00:31:55.039 --> 00:31:58.700 exactly So I'm trying to get Don on the phone. 00:31:58.700 --> 00:32:00.940 I'd love to get him on a podcast Just so we can 00:32:00.940 --> 00:32:03.299 kind of clear the air. Let's let's figure out, 00:32:03.299 --> 00:32:06.259 you know exactly what's going on what to expect 00:32:06.259 --> 00:32:11.680 because July 12th is a foam party and I personally 00:32:11.680 --> 00:32:14.059 have every intention on booking there that weekend. 00:32:14.700 --> 00:32:17.240 But before I pull that trigger, I want to know 00:32:17.240 --> 00:32:20.500 exactly what I'm walking into. Yeah. And if it's 00:32:20.500 --> 00:32:25.059 just a clothing optional, you know, no play on 00:32:25.059 --> 00:32:29.420 the the pool deck. I'm OK with that. I just I 00:32:29.420 --> 00:32:31.759 want to know the rules and I want to know that, 00:32:31.759 --> 00:32:33.759 you know, this is for real and this is going 00:32:33.759 --> 00:32:37.559 to stick around. And and and I want everybody 00:32:37.559 --> 00:32:41.160 else. that has like a vested interest in this 00:32:41.160 --> 00:32:44.160 to let's all come together and help them succeed 00:32:44.160 --> 00:32:46.440 and and maybe keep this place around for us because 00:32:46.440 --> 00:32:50.079 You know, we need these places. Yeah Otherwise, 00:32:50.099 --> 00:32:52.480 we're just in our homes. Yeah in our own pools, 00:32:52.539 --> 00:32:54.299 but we don't even have a pool So that's that's 00:32:54.299 --> 00:32:59.779 a problem is we need a pool But that being said 00:32:59.779 --> 00:33:03.619 There's another place out in Palm Springs called 00:33:03.619 --> 00:33:07.589 SSR secret Springs Resort and actually reached 00:33:07.589 --> 00:33:11.509 out to them too because this would be a prime 00:33:11.509 --> 00:33:15.809 time for them to really step up in the game because 00:33:15.809 --> 00:33:21.289 they're known in the community, but they're newish. 00:33:22.029 --> 00:33:24.789 So I'd love for them to get a voice on the podcast 00:33:24.789 --> 00:33:27.269 and kind of tell us more about them. We have 00:33:27.269 --> 00:33:30.049 not been there personally, so I can't say anything 00:33:30.049 --> 00:33:31.769 about that, but I'd love to hear what they have 00:33:31.769 --> 00:33:35.490 to say because... They seem like they're flyers 00:33:35.490 --> 00:33:37.430 or event flyers and I know we have some friends 00:33:37.430 --> 00:33:41.869 that have been there. Anastasia, she used to 00:33:41.869 --> 00:33:44.450 be the host for Via Vita and all that stuff. 00:33:45.549 --> 00:33:48.789 We were talking to her at a party and messages 00:33:48.789 --> 00:33:51.369 and she said she loves the place and she said 00:33:51.369 --> 00:33:55.829 thumbs up. So I was like, great, thumbs up. So 00:33:55.829 --> 00:33:58.509 I reached out to them trying to get them on the 00:33:58.509 --> 00:34:01.960 phone. So I got some... some lines in the water 00:34:01.960 --> 00:34:04.880 because summer's coming up and I gotta have somewhere 00:34:04.880 --> 00:34:08.699 to pull my wiener out. Speaking of pulling my 00:34:08.699 --> 00:34:12.280 wiener out, we do have a place here on our side 00:34:12.280 --> 00:34:15.159 of town called Bia Vida. Don't take a breath. 00:34:17.079 --> 00:34:19.500 We have Bia Vida and I can't wait till their 00:34:19.500 --> 00:34:21.260 summer parties but they haven't really posted 00:34:21.260 --> 00:34:25.190 any big summer parties yet. But as soon as we 00:34:25.190 --> 00:34:27.550 get there, we will post all of that parties and 00:34:27.550 --> 00:34:31.590 we will be at all the events with all the wieners. 00:34:35.650 --> 00:34:39.030 So speaking of that weekend, July 12, now that 00:34:39.030 --> 00:34:44.869 you've stopped talking, um, Dr. Feelgood's birthday 00:34:44.869 --> 00:34:47.309 is that weekend. Oh yeah, that's right. That's 00:34:47.309 --> 00:34:50.070 right. So we, I was talking to them at the Cove 00:34:50.070 --> 00:34:53.809 and they're in it, they're Current plans are 00:34:53.809 --> 00:34:57.530 SSR. Yes. I'm trying to convince them to move 00:34:57.530 --> 00:35:03.329 it to EDR if EDR is working out because SSR, 00:35:03.369 --> 00:35:05.449 we do want to try it and we want to go. Yes. 00:35:05.449 --> 00:35:08.130 And definitely like that sounds like fun. However, 00:35:08.889 --> 00:35:11.610 they from what I am. Initially, we thought they 00:35:11.610 --> 00:35:13.590 had no rooms on site. Now I find out they have 00:35:13.590 --> 00:35:16.530 like six, which is not big enough for the amount 00:35:16.530 --> 00:35:19.090 of people we would like to attend. Yes. Said 00:35:19.090 --> 00:35:24.150 event. So yes. um i was like how would you feel 00:35:24.150 --> 00:35:27.070 about moving it to edr because then all of us 00:35:27.070 --> 00:35:28.670 could be there and stay on site and we can make 00:35:28.670 --> 00:35:31.530 it like a really big party but i don't know i 00:35:31.530 --> 00:35:33.070 honestly don't even know what they had planned 00:35:33.070 --> 00:35:35.449 like if They already had a big group of people 00:35:35.449 --> 00:35:37.630 going. I mean, it sounded like it was still kind 00:35:37.630 --> 00:35:39.949 of in the works when I was talking to him. Everything's 00:35:39.949 --> 00:35:42.050 very preliminary on both of our sides, I think. 00:35:42.090 --> 00:35:44.949 Yeah. So I was like, we could do combine it and 00:35:44.949 --> 00:35:47.110 you could have a phone party for your birthday. 00:35:47.449 --> 00:35:50.829 Boom. Boom. So and everybody can stay on site 00:35:50.829 --> 00:35:52.530 because they have a lot of rooms at EDR versus 00:35:52.530 --> 00:35:55.550 six at SSR. Yes. But anyway, so we're talking 00:35:55.550 --> 00:35:58.789 about that. So who knows? Maybe Dr. Phil Good 00:35:58.789 --> 00:36:01.489 will have his birthday. Maybe there and then. 00:36:05.920 --> 00:36:14.340 Speaking of him, he at the Cove. Yes, for the 00:36:14.340 --> 00:36:20.119 Salus meet and greet. He asked me to go dance 00:36:20.119 --> 00:36:25.099 with him and So I was like, okay, and I'm like, 00:36:25.199 --> 00:36:26.960 but I'm warning you I danced like a millennial 00:36:26.960 --> 00:36:30.659 like facial expressions and all like I make all 00:36:30.659 --> 00:36:33.579 the mean muggin faces and I do all the things 00:36:33.579 --> 00:36:37.780 and So we were dancing and I was in a shirt that 00:36:37.780 --> 00:36:40.199 was like a crop top kind of but it was more like 00:36:40.199 --> 00:36:43.079 a boob holder But it was long sleeves. So it 00:36:43.079 --> 00:36:45.489 kind of gives you a false sense of security, 00:36:45.630 --> 00:36:47.230 like you're fully covered because you've got 00:36:47.230 --> 00:36:49.449 sleeves. You feel all the fabric on your arm. 00:36:49.590 --> 00:36:51.610 You're not even thinking about. Yes. So I was 00:36:51.610 --> 00:36:54.409 dancing and this is a vanilla bar, but we had 00:36:54.409 --> 00:36:57.889 most of it. Yeah, there's it was quite it was 00:36:57.889 --> 00:37:01.710 over half a full of us people, us hooligans. 00:37:03.409 --> 00:37:07.630 And I'm dancing and then I Dr. Feelgood is a 00:37:07.630 --> 00:37:10.369 lot taller than me. Yeah. um so he's just crazy 00:37:10.369 --> 00:37:12.469 because you're tall i'm tall but he couldn't 00:37:12.469 --> 00:37:15.309 so he can't see like he couldn't while we were 00:37:15.309 --> 00:37:16.989 dancing i don't think he could see but basically 00:37:16.989 --> 00:37:19.590 my top started rising as i was dancing and i 00:37:19.590 --> 00:37:21.989 didn't realize it and i went down and felt and 00:37:21.989 --> 00:37:24.280 then like i went i like kind of thought maybe 00:37:24.280 --> 00:37:25.820 something. So then I grabbed my boobs and I'm 00:37:25.820 --> 00:37:28.139 like, oh my God, half my tit is out. Both tits. 00:37:28.300 --> 00:37:31.260 Both tits are out. And a half of your tit is 00:37:31.260 --> 00:37:35.039 a lot of tits. It's a lot of tits. So. It's not 00:37:35.039 --> 00:37:37.840 like a mild under boob. No, it was a serious 00:37:37.840 --> 00:37:41.639 under boob. And like I was telling someone, I'm 00:37:41.639 --> 00:37:48.440 like, if my if my nipples weren't so like high 00:37:48.440 --> 00:37:52.449 up on my boobs. Yeah. Then it would have totally 00:37:52.449 --> 00:37:54.110 been nipples out if they would have been a little 00:37:54.110 --> 00:37:56.949 lower But so I told him like you didn't even 00:37:56.949 --> 00:37:59.510 tell me and nobody here told me and like why 00:37:59.510 --> 00:38:02.130 would anyone tell you? Why would anyone say anything? 00:38:02.130 --> 00:38:04.510 I would slap anybody that says ma 'am. Your tits 00:38:04.510 --> 00:38:09.030 out. That's just rude. Yeah, but we're all looking 00:38:09.030 --> 00:38:11.170 out for each other though. Yeah, nobody was looking 00:38:11.170 --> 00:38:13.670 out for me because then I was like, okay I got 00:38:13.670 --> 00:38:16.250 to keep it at 10 and 2 like that movie Hitch 00:38:16.250 --> 00:38:19.349 with Will Smith and Kevin James. I'm like, this 00:38:19.349 --> 00:38:22.460 is how I can't Can't, you know, put my hands 00:38:22.460 --> 00:38:25.159 up. Nope. Cannot put my hands up because they're 00:38:25.159 --> 00:38:28.679 playing my song. We had that same issue a while 00:38:28.679 --> 00:38:31.980 back on one of our Sunday fun days. Yeah, I was 00:38:31.980 --> 00:38:34.559 wearing a crop top. Yeah, this one was less secure. 00:38:34.760 --> 00:38:36.199 The crop top I was wearing at Sunday fun day 00:38:36.199 --> 00:38:38.139 was less secure. It was more hanging crop top. 00:38:38.139 --> 00:38:40.239 That was just. Yeah, that was. And so when I 00:38:40.239 --> 00:38:42.739 was like a T -shirt. Yeah, it was a T -shirt. 00:38:42.980 --> 00:38:45.239 So when I jumped around and put my hands up, 00:38:45.280 --> 00:38:48.820 my tip was out. So somebody was on constant shark 00:38:48.820 --> 00:38:53.369 patrol. Pulling my shirt down That's cuz I was 00:38:53.369 --> 00:38:55.670 wasted. Yes. I think that was the night I threw 00:38:55.670 --> 00:39:01.130 up it was Speaking of Sunday fun day Sunday the 00:39:01.130 --> 00:39:02.809 fourth this coming weekend here in just a few 00:39:02.809 --> 00:39:05.150 days or fourth be with you. May the fourth be 00:39:05.150 --> 00:39:09.869 with you May May prank fools day. No, that's 00:39:09.869 --> 00:39:12.250 it's not it's not it's not gonna happen. I'm 00:39:12.250 --> 00:39:15.489 gonna make anything It's not gonna be if we're 00:39:15.489 --> 00:39:18.150 doing another Sunday fun day folks I know it's 00:39:18.150 --> 00:39:21.050 kind of last minute, but it's on it's on Cassidy 00:39:21.050 --> 00:39:23.369 if you if you're on Cassidy and you want to join 00:39:23.369 --> 00:39:27.510 our sweet side of life community you can see 00:39:27.510 --> 00:39:29.630 all of our like a little events that we do in 00:39:29.630 --> 00:39:32.909 town and Like the bigger events will always put 00:39:32.909 --> 00:39:34.869 here on the podcast But sometimes we do like 00:39:34.869 --> 00:39:36.809 little Sunday fun days and stuff that are kind 00:39:36.809 --> 00:39:39.969 of just random But they're LS based but you know, 00:39:39.969 --> 00:39:41.829 we don't make a big deal But if you guys are 00:39:41.829 --> 00:39:45.050 in the area on Sunday the fourth we are gonna 00:39:45.050 --> 00:39:47.909 be doing it Sunday fun day style So you can find 00:39:47.909 --> 00:39:49.510 all that information. I don't know why we always 00:39:49.510 --> 00:39:52.570 say it like it's um, like a Hot Wheels commercial 00:39:52.570 --> 00:39:57.030 or something You actually bought me a t -shirt 00:39:57.030 --> 00:39:59.110 that says Sunday fun day that I'm gonna wear 00:39:59.110 --> 00:40:05.570 so Did it come? Coming tomorrow. So basically, 00:40:06.130 --> 00:40:08.829 Sunday Fun Day, this version of it, since football 00:40:08.829 --> 00:40:11.449 season is not currently going, it's going to 00:40:11.449 --> 00:40:14.409 start with karaoke, and then it's going to move 00:40:14.409 --> 00:40:18.670 to a live band, some live music. So if you want 00:40:18.670 --> 00:40:22.409 the deets, hit me up on my text line, or on our 00:40:22.409 --> 00:40:25.610 text line. Sex line. Sex line. What was the number 00:40:25.610 --> 00:40:28.139 again? I don't remember and your phone is dead. 00:40:28.400 --> 00:40:33.619 You don't have it. 951 -226 -5261. You lied. 00:40:33.820 --> 00:40:38.619 Your phone isn't dead. It's 1%. So if you want 00:40:38.619 --> 00:40:41.639 the deets and you're in the SoCal area, Riverside 00:40:41.639 --> 00:40:44.440 County, shoot us a message and I can give you 00:40:44.440 --> 00:40:48.199 the deets. But let's see. I think I covered all 00:40:48.199 --> 00:40:50.260 the biggest things I really wanted to cover. 00:40:50.420 --> 00:40:51.460 Was there something that you wanted to touch 00:40:51.460 --> 00:40:54.579 on? We didn't really talk about anything that 00:40:54.579 --> 00:40:56.750 we talked about talking about. Well, we just 00:40:56.750 --> 00:41:00.510 freestyled it, baby. We did. Yeah. I feel like 00:41:00.510 --> 00:41:05.349 we have a pull them back to curtain. We have 00:41:05.349 --> 00:41:08.829 a notepad on our iPhones because we are both 00:41:08.829 --> 00:41:13.630 cool iPhone users. People on Android, stop screwing 00:41:13.630 --> 00:41:15.969 up our group chats, guys. I can't. Making them 00:41:15.969 --> 00:41:19.889 green. I can't. I can't do it. But anyways, we 00:41:19.889 --> 00:41:22.369 have a shared notepad that we just. Write down 00:41:22.369 --> 00:41:24.449 random ideas and stuff like that and we have 00:41:24.449 --> 00:41:27.769 a whole bunch of a list of random shit That we 00:41:27.769 --> 00:41:31.230 were planning on getting to tonight When we could 00:41:31.230 --> 00:41:33.210 get to kind of quickly. Yeah. Yeah, what's your 00:41:33.210 --> 00:41:37.750 idea? How to say no how to say no. Yes one of 00:41:37.750 --> 00:41:41.670 our friends asked us they've they've been in 00:41:41.670 --> 00:41:45.750 the LS for a while now and he was just like, 00:41:45.969 --> 00:41:53.949 how do you say no and You just say no No, you're 00:41:53.949 --> 00:41:56.949 ugly. No, you don't say that. You don't ever 00:41:56.949 --> 00:42:01.409 say that. That's not nice. No, it's rude. It's. 00:42:01.969 --> 00:42:04.650 I don't know. I've I've personally never had 00:42:04.650 --> 00:42:07.369 a problem saying no. Yeah, you actually have 00:42:07.369 --> 00:42:11.150 a strong suit at that. Yeah, I have all the problems 00:42:11.150 --> 00:42:15.230 saying no, but usually if I'm not with you, it's 00:42:15.230 --> 00:42:17.590 easy because I just say, oh, we. Play together. 00:42:17.670 --> 00:42:20.670 Refer to me. Yeah, I say, oh, we will talk to 00:42:20.670 --> 00:42:22.610 him. Yeah. And which is true. We do play together. 00:42:22.610 --> 00:42:25.170 So it's not a lie. But I'm just like, oh, we 00:42:25.170 --> 00:42:27.110 play together. So, you know, we have to figure 00:42:27.110 --> 00:42:30.769 that out or whatever. But and then when they 00:42:30.769 --> 00:42:35.550 go figure it out with you, you say no. My thing 00:42:35.550 --> 00:42:38.110 here, the thing with us is, you know, we've said 00:42:38.110 --> 00:42:41.590 it countless times is we are more about the hang 00:42:41.590 --> 00:42:45.550 than the bang. And that is very much true. The 00:42:45.550 --> 00:42:49.050 bangs are fun. They're great. And plays fun but 00:42:49.050 --> 00:42:51.710 I mean, you know when people like want to like 00:42:51.710 --> 00:42:54.050 go into a whole nother room and make it a whole 00:42:54.050 --> 00:42:58.190 thing The vibe for us has to be very right. Yeah 00:42:58.190 --> 00:43:02.250 more often than not it's not right for whatever 00:43:02.250 --> 00:43:05.170 reason it's you know, most of the time it literally 00:43:05.170 --> 00:43:08.030 has nothing to do with the particular couple 00:43:08.030 --> 00:43:12.579 or whatever. It's just we're busy doing something 00:43:12.579 --> 00:43:15.139 or we're talking to people because at a lot of 00:43:15.139 --> 00:43:19.360 the events we go to, we kind of are semi -hosty. 00:43:19.519 --> 00:43:21.719 Like we go around and we greet people and we're 00:43:21.719 --> 00:43:23.519 kind of busy. Well, you have a whole thing about 00:43:23.519 --> 00:43:25.780 you hate seeing someone like in a corner, like, 00:43:25.820 --> 00:43:28.980 yeah, not enjoying themselves. Yeah, you try 00:43:28.980 --> 00:43:31.639 to bring people in. So you're running around 00:43:31.639 --> 00:43:34.739 doing all that. That has backfired only once 00:43:34.739 --> 00:43:40.389 so bad. We were at a lust party. Many many many 00:43:40.389 --> 00:43:43.530 months ago and there was this couple they were 00:43:43.530 --> 00:43:46.670 sitting at a table and they look terrified They 00:43:46.670 --> 00:43:49.789 look terrified And I was watching them from afar 00:43:49.789 --> 00:43:51.630 and I'm like, I'm gonna I'm gonna be you know, 00:43:51.650 --> 00:43:55.190 let me go. Let me go talk to them And I walked 00:43:55.190 --> 00:43:58.130 up I'm like, hey guys, are you new here? And 00:43:58.130 --> 00:44:01.090 they looked at me. They gave me a stank eye They 00:44:01.090 --> 00:44:04.309 look like I stole their lunch money And there 00:44:04.309 --> 00:44:06.829 they looked at me go. No, we're waiting on somebody 00:44:08.579 --> 00:44:13.159 enough said Bye -bye, I was kind of like well 00:44:13.159 --> 00:44:14.940 while you're waiting would you like to have a 00:44:14.940 --> 00:44:21.820 enthralling conversation? I Don't know it could 00:44:21.820 --> 00:44:23.539 have been like the fact I was probably wearing 00:44:23.539 --> 00:44:25.980 underwear or something. I don't know a stupid 00:44:25.980 --> 00:44:28.119 shirt a stupid shirt I said stupid shit on it, 00:44:28.119 --> 00:44:33.219 but I didn't let that deter me No, so in fact, 00:44:33.239 --> 00:44:35.920 I still I still go out of my way. So I think 00:44:36.920 --> 00:44:39.239 I think it takes somebody out. It probably takes 00:44:39.239 --> 00:44:42.739 a good amount of like, um, courage for somebody 00:44:42.739 --> 00:44:45.480 to ask, you know, if you want to hook up or whatever. 00:44:46.019 --> 00:44:50.239 So I think you have to definitely be kind, but 00:44:50.239 --> 00:44:54.739 be direct because you can be caught in like this 00:44:54.739 --> 00:44:56.719 whole like not now type of thing. Like I've seen 00:44:56.719 --> 00:44:59.199 people say, oh, not tonight or whatever. But 00:44:59.199 --> 00:45:00.579 then if they're really interested, they're just 00:45:00.579 --> 00:45:02.760 going to chase you on Cassidy and be everywhere 00:45:02.760 --> 00:45:05.679 you are. Find you, you know, that's that's so 00:45:05.679 --> 00:45:08.099 kind of my approach though. Normally I say no, 00:45:08.099 --> 00:45:10.719 we're good right now. Yeah. And I kind of, I 00:45:10.719 --> 00:45:14.179 don't, I don't be like, I don't say no, we have 00:45:14.179 --> 00:45:17.559 zero interest in you get out of my view, you 00:45:17.559 --> 00:45:21.880 know, part this, you know, so I always try to 00:45:21.880 --> 00:45:25.139 be nice and pleasant about it. Yeah. Um, so that's 00:45:25.139 --> 00:45:27.679 kind of like almost what I will, what I would 00:45:27.679 --> 00:45:30.519 say is, you know, no, we're good right now. Um, 00:45:30.639 --> 00:45:34.579 and then. It it does open it up for later if 00:45:34.579 --> 00:45:37.780 they want to But then I mean if we're truly not 00:45:37.780 --> 00:45:39.579 interested then the same answer is gonna come 00:45:39.579 --> 00:45:42.980 out then right it's up to that person to Well, 00:45:42.980 --> 00:45:46.340 do you do you take this the information and file 00:45:46.340 --> 00:45:48.780 it away as not interested or does that mean let's 00:45:48.780 --> 00:45:52.699 turn it up? Yeah, and then you know harder at 00:45:52.699 --> 00:45:56.239 some point, you know We've never been there where 00:45:56.239 --> 00:45:59.300 I've had to be like fighting to like there's 00:45:59.300 --> 00:46:05.139 a certain Like they're not people. Those are 00:46:05.139 --> 00:46:07.019 not the people we're going to like fully engage 00:46:07.019 --> 00:46:09.940 with either. Yeah. If we're truly not interested. 00:46:09.980 --> 00:46:12.519 Exactly. Exactly. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Like we'll 00:46:12.519 --> 00:46:14.739 engage at a party. Yeah. But like we're not going 00:46:14.739 --> 00:46:16.360 to be like, yeah, let's exchange phone numbers 00:46:16.360 --> 00:46:18.679 and let's do all of these things and let's, you 00:46:18.679 --> 00:46:22.659 know, come like text, respond in text when they've 00:46:22.659 --> 00:46:24.840 texted us or whatever, if they've gotten our 00:46:24.840 --> 00:46:27.119 number or whatever, whatever the case may be. 00:46:27.119 --> 00:46:30.119 Or if they message us on Cassidy. So I think. 00:46:31.800 --> 00:46:35.139 I don't want to say ghosting, but telling no 00:46:35.139 --> 00:46:39.539 saying no, thank you. The vibe isn't there. I'm 00:46:39.539 --> 00:46:43.519 not feeling the vibe or you're a great like you 00:46:43.519 --> 00:46:46.559 guys are awesome. But see, I don't think you 00:46:46.559 --> 00:46:52.300 have to go that far. Yeah, I just. My job is 00:46:52.300 --> 00:47:00.250 to be nice at all times. But firm. Yeah. and 00:47:00.250 --> 00:47:03.789 and is coming from their side like you miss a 00:47:03.789 --> 00:47:05.389 hundred percent of the shots you don't take a 00:47:05.389 --> 00:47:07.170 thousand percent of the shots you don't take 00:47:07.170 --> 00:47:10.630 one thousand hundred of the shots you don't take 00:47:10.630 --> 00:47:12.170 i'm gonna i'm gonna keep going i got all night 00:47:12.170 --> 00:47:14.389 baby affinity and apparently got a lot of energy 00:47:14.389 --> 00:47:16.809 right now affinity of the shots you don't take 00:47:16.809 --> 00:47:22.250 so yeah so uh basically so how do you say no 00:47:22.250 --> 00:47:25.170 um you just say no i think you just have to learn 00:47:25.170 --> 00:47:29.019 to say no and it takes practice And here the 00:47:29.019 --> 00:47:31.199 problem is, is the person that's asking this 00:47:31.199 --> 00:47:34.280 question, he is one of the most friendliest people 00:47:34.280 --> 00:47:37.840 in the world that we have ever met. He's just 00:47:37.840 --> 00:47:40.679 so like, so I could see how it might be hard 00:47:40.679 --> 00:47:45.400 for him to throttle it down and say no, because 00:47:45.400 --> 00:47:49.780 his actions are just so friendly that it's very 00:47:49.780 --> 00:47:54.739 easy to, you know, misconstrue maybe what he's 00:47:54.739 --> 00:48:00.909 actually vibing. Yeah, so that's it. And how 00:48:00.909 --> 00:48:05.210 do you accept no as an answer? With grace. Yeah. 00:48:05.289 --> 00:48:08.170 I've been told no. Yeah. Now when we talk about 00:48:08.170 --> 00:48:11.050 the vet couple, I still have yet to kiss her. 00:48:11.050 --> 00:48:16.889 Yeah. I think she was probably one of the first 00:48:16.889 --> 00:48:20.269 people to tell me no in a very direct way. Yeah. 00:48:20.329 --> 00:48:23.190 And it didn't hurt my feelings at all. Yeah. 00:48:23.309 --> 00:48:27.079 I was like, oh, okay. Because the thing is, I'm 00:48:27.079 --> 00:48:32.519 not here trying to get a relationship that's 00:48:32.519 --> 00:48:35.420 gonna be my life. I'm just here for a good time. 00:48:36.320 --> 00:48:40.659 And I want the other person that is on the other 00:48:40.659 --> 00:48:44.300 side of that question or whatever it is to also 00:48:44.300 --> 00:48:48.780 be there for a good time. And if what I'm proposing 00:48:48.780 --> 00:48:51.300 to you isn't a good time, then please tell me 00:48:51.300 --> 00:48:55.289 now. Like we can be friends, like we're friends 00:48:55.289 --> 00:48:57.070 with them. At some point I'm going to kiss her 00:48:57.070 --> 00:49:00.769 again. We've made strides. We have made strides. 00:49:00.929 --> 00:49:03.170 That's one of the last times we hung out. We 00:49:03.170 --> 00:49:05.710 have made strides. Her nipples were in my mouth 00:49:05.710 --> 00:49:09.230 and it's getting there. It's getting there. It's 00:49:09.230 --> 00:49:10.989 only a matter of time. So you're that guy who 00:49:10.989 --> 00:49:13.389 takes note and is like, it just means later. 00:49:14.150 --> 00:49:17.969 Exactly. I'm patient. I won't get there. I am 00:49:17.969 --> 00:49:24.820 a patient man. there's there's definitely been 00:49:24.820 --> 00:49:27.960 some looks that tells me how that's a hell no 00:49:27.960 --> 00:49:33.119 like she does not want none of this and that 00:49:33.119 --> 00:49:35.920 that I've given up on that like I'm good like 00:49:35.920 --> 00:49:44.380 I understand I know that look but there there's 00:49:44.380 --> 00:49:46.619 there's one couples that one couple we are friends 00:49:46.619 --> 00:49:48.360 with right now that are confusing the hell out 00:49:48.360 --> 00:49:50.730 of us Yeah, and we're just gonna leave it at 00:49:50.730 --> 00:49:53.829 that. Yeah, I Know some of our other friends 00:49:53.829 --> 00:50:02.409 are gonna be like who is it? So, yeah Basically 00:50:02.409 --> 00:50:06.769 just boils down to be respectful. Yeah on both 00:50:06.769 --> 00:50:11.010 sides of it be gracious be gracious Be as kind 00:50:11.010 --> 00:50:13.710 as possible without leading on I would say be 00:50:13.710 --> 00:50:17.789 as direct and kind as possible. Yes I would much 00:50:17.789 --> 00:50:20.650 rather hear like oh, no, thank you with a good 00:50:20.650 --> 00:50:26.110 smile. Just okay got it. Yeah boom done Yeah, 00:50:26.110 --> 00:50:30.190 and then uh And they're just say maybe later 00:50:30.190 --> 00:50:34.190 if if you're not feeling it at the time, right? 00:50:34.289 --> 00:50:36.190 You could literally just say now's not a good 00:50:36.190 --> 00:50:38.809 time Hey, let's talk later or let's exchange 00:50:38.809 --> 00:50:41.630 numbers and then you know, send me booby picks 00:50:41.630 --> 00:50:44.239 or whatever, you know Yeah, so from some of the 00:50:44.239 --> 00:50:46.059 stuff I hear is like some people go to these 00:50:46.059 --> 00:50:48.119 clubs and then they probably don't again going 00:50:48.119 --> 00:50:50.039 back to what I said earlier They don't see these 00:50:50.039 --> 00:50:53.079 people again. Yes, you know, so it's probably 00:50:53.079 --> 00:50:56.099 easier to say no in that situation Maybe and 00:50:56.099 --> 00:50:58.199 to accept it I guess because it's like I'm never 00:50:58.199 --> 00:51:00.380 gonna see this person again it may be a little 00:51:00.380 --> 00:51:03.579 bit harder in like a group of people who you 00:51:03.579 --> 00:51:07.500 kind of constantly run into which is more our 00:51:07.500 --> 00:51:10.280 scenario where we are constantly running into 00:51:10.510 --> 00:51:12.309 a lot of the same people. We meet a ton of new 00:51:12.309 --> 00:51:14.909 people, but we do run into a lot of the same 00:51:14.909 --> 00:51:19.789 people. So that was very profound. I think. Well, 00:51:19.789 --> 00:51:22.110 we do. I mean, there is like we do go places. 00:51:22.309 --> 00:51:24.409 I'm not saying like we're so like connected with 00:51:24.409 --> 00:51:27.190 whatever. We're just our group of friends. But 00:51:27.190 --> 00:51:29.869 again, going back to the community is actually 00:51:29.869 --> 00:51:34.730 a lot smaller than people think. Yeah. That. 00:51:36.170 --> 00:51:42.530 It's definitely important to. Be kind and be 00:51:42.530 --> 00:51:45.090 because you don't want to be known as like the 00:51:45.090 --> 00:51:48.610 bitchy couple or like the rude ones Yeah, like 00:51:48.610 --> 00:51:51.610 whatever so that that word goes out and then 00:51:51.610 --> 00:51:54.070 yeah you become and then nobody wants then people 00:51:54.070 --> 00:51:56.329 you are interested don't want to they won't even 00:51:56.329 --> 00:52:00.250 like interact with you because they If they they 00:52:00.250 --> 00:52:03.010 might have a fear of rejection and if you're 00:52:03.010 --> 00:52:06.679 known to be Yeah. Dicks. Yeah. They're like, 00:52:06.780 --> 00:52:08.539 well, I don't want to talk to them. I want them 00:52:08.539 --> 00:52:11.199 to be dicks to me. And plus, I think sometimes, 00:52:11.260 --> 00:52:13.219 too, like you said, like we're always we're more 00:52:13.219 --> 00:52:15.400 here for the hang than the bang. But that doesn't 00:52:15.400 --> 00:52:18.559 mean the bang won't happen. But also we're a 00:52:18.559 --> 00:52:24.840 slow burn. Yeah. And and I think that so to say 00:52:24.840 --> 00:52:27.800 no, not right now is probably pretty truthful 00:52:27.800 --> 00:52:31.139 because, you know, there's in a lot of cases, 00:52:31.179 --> 00:52:35.139 there's likely a chance, but we're just not probably 00:52:35.139 --> 00:52:37.219 those people who are going to go like immediately 00:52:37.219 --> 00:52:41.039 back to a room seconds after meeting you. And, 00:52:41.039 --> 00:52:43.840 you know, like that's probably not I mean, I'll 00:52:43.840 --> 00:52:46.860 probably suck your dick. But I mean, it has happened 00:52:46.860 --> 00:52:51.019 like it has happened. And I mean, there's scenarios 00:52:51.019 --> 00:52:52.940 where it's happened, but it's just not it's not 00:52:52.940 --> 00:52:55.480 like if we took all of our scenarios together. 00:52:55.519 --> 00:52:58.380 Yeah, it's probably a small percentage of them. 00:52:58.579 --> 00:53:01.650 So I think. Think putting it out there of like 00:53:01.650 --> 00:53:07.449 no not tonight or not right now or you know No, 00:53:07.489 --> 00:53:12.849 thank you for now. I Don't know it it's hard 00:53:12.849 --> 00:53:16.730 to say no and it's hard to be told no, yeah I'm 00:53:16.730 --> 00:53:19.789 good with both frankly. Yeah. Yeah, I feel bad. 00:53:19.789 --> 00:53:23.630 I've been told no so many times in my life Before 00:53:23.630 --> 00:53:27.860 this journey, so I'm kind of used to it You were 00:53:27.860 --> 00:53:30.559 one of the few that said, sure, why not? And 00:53:30.559 --> 00:53:33.760 it took a while. It took a long time. Yeah. A 00:53:33.760 --> 00:53:39.460 lot of flowers. A lot of flowers. Just a little 00:53:39.460 --> 00:53:42.119 bit of Bill Cosby. Speaking of our anniversary. 00:53:42.380 --> 00:53:52.320 Oh, yeah. Right. So this will be 20... 24 years. 00:53:52.599 --> 00:53:57.000 No, 23 years together. Together or married? together, 00:53:57.079 --> 00:54:03.820 married. Sixteen. Oh, yeah. It's a long time. 00:54:03.920 --> 00:54:08.420 Yeah. Telling me. Look at us now. Yeah. Fucking 00:54:08.420 --> 00:54:18.300 other people. All right. I couldn't think of 00:54:18.300 --> 00:54:22.400 anything to say. I just made you speechless. 00:54:22.840 --> 00:54:25.230 Well, it is true, though, because. fucking other 00:54:25.230 --> 00:54:28.250 people on Valentine's Day, right? Yeah. Yeah. 00:54:28.489 --> 00:54:31.369 So here we are. Here we are. Um, so if you want 00:54:31.369 --> 00:54:35.309 to pencil yourself in for our anniversary, I'll 00:54:35.309 --> 00:54:37.349 let you know where we're going to be. Samia, 00:54:37.349 --> 00:54:41.590 Samia sexed. Dead. That's funny. So anyways, 00:54:41.610 --> 00:54:44.170 I think we're going to call it, uh, we touched 00:54:44.170 --> 00:54:47.010 on one thing. We touched on a lot of things. 00:54:47.489 --> 00:54:50.610 Yeah. Um, so I think one of the next episodes, 00:54:51.130 --> 00:54:54.320 again, I want to do the podcast thing. podcast 00:54:54.320 --> 00:54:59.199 spotlight. And then one of the other things we 00:54:59.199 --> 00:55:02.159 want to talk about is that one by yourself. Nobody 00:55:02.159 --> 00:55:07.400 wants to hear just me. So one of the other topics 00:55:07.400 --> 00:55:11.539 we want to discuss is the struggle of the four 00:55:11.539 --> 00:55:16.019 way connection and how we haven't really struggled 00:55:16.019 --> 00:55:19.239 with it. We hear a lot about it or I hear a lot 00:55:19.239 --> 00:55:22.739 about it on a lot of podcasts and And, uh... 00:55:22.739 --> 00:55:25.179 Well, it's because our pers - our perspective 00:55:25.179 --> 00:55:28.280 is different. How so? Are we gonna just talk 00:55:28.280 --> 00:55:29.619 about it now? We're gonna just roll right into 00:55:29.619 --> 00:55:30.960 it? No, no, no. I just - I just answered this 00:55:30.960 --> 00:55:33.320 question really quick. What's your - how is our 00:55:33.320 --> 00:55:36.420 perspective just different? Because... Well, 00:55:36.420 --> 00:55:38.880 I don't know if it's different, but our perspective 00:55:38.880 --> 00:55:44.320 lends itself to not requiring, like, all boxes 00:55:44.320 --> 00:55:49.539 checked. Right? Okay. Yeah. I see what you're 00:55:49.539 --> 00:55:53.840 saying. That's a teaser folks sounds exciting, 00:55:54.019 --> 00:55:56.800 right? So make sure you tune in for the next 00:55:56.800 --> 00:56:01.440 one because you're gonna get more of that That 00:56:01.440 --> 00:56:05.639 was riveting riveting Boxes checked hang for 00:56:05.639 --> 00:56:09.239 the bang. Oh Bang hang bang the hang hang the 00:56:09.239 --> 00:56:11.579 bang. So that's right folks We are the sweet 00:56:11.579 --> 00:56:15.360 side of life podcast Mr. And mrs. Sweets, which 00:56:15.360 --> 00:56:22.380 apparently is not our real name All right folks, 00:56:22.960 --> 00:56:26.320 I think we're gonna be out see y 'all next time 00:56:26.320 --> 00:56:28.980 See some of y 'all on Sunday fun day Sunday fun 00:56:28.980 --> 00:56:32.019 day. You know where to go When enjoying the sweet 00:56:32.019 --> 00:56:34.300 side of life keep your pineapples upside down 00:56:34.300 --> 00:56:39.460 believe in unicorns and keep shaking it up Love 00:56:39.460 --> 00:56:49.079 you, baby. 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