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and join the lifestyle in beautiful Southern California.

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And we're back everybody.

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We are Mr. and Mrs. Sweets.

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And we are the...

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The what?

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The podcast name.

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The sweet side of life.

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Alright everybody.

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I'm going to pre-apologize for her over here.

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Well I don't know what's happening.

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You won't even tell me what we're going to talk about.

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I can tell you need allergy pills.

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Did you take an allergy pill?

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I take an allergy pill every day.

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The problem is that I don't know why allergies are just insane right now.

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Right before we sat down she's like, can you go give me some tissues?

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I'm snotting everywhere.

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I wasn't snotting everywhere.

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She's wiping up on like her snot on the couch.

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You're gross.

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So we are the sweet side of the live podcast.

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Thank you guys for hanging out with us here tonight.

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And this is a little bit earlier than we probably would have planned for a podcast.

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It means sooner not earlier in the night because it's almost 11 o'clock.

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Yes.

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Sooner in the week.

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Because we did just release one last Friday.

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But we actually recorded that one almost a month ago.

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It was a month ago.

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Wasn't it mid-April?

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It was maybe the parties are just closer together.

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However, we are here tonight and we decided to just go ahead and release another quick

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I guess it was only like almost three weeks ago.

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So I'm saying it took a little bit to edit.

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We hope you guys listen to it because it was a lot of fun.

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We did a recap of the party and then we had five interviews after and it was pretty fun.

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It was a good time and it was probably the second only podcast of hours that you actually

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Well, because I wanted to see...

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Well, that was one that you edited a lot and...

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I couldn't really tell.

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That means I did a good time.

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And then the interviews themselves seemed to flow in the way that I remembered them.

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Congratulations to you for...

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I guess I don't know what you edited, but...

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Maybe.

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You're just trying to get more kudos.

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That's guy math.

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Than you deserve.

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That's guy math.

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Let's make this way harder than it was.

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Or let's make it sound way harder.

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It's not going to be a super long episode.

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I always say that, but we always end up in like a three hour episode.

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I had told her earlier today, I'm like, let's do a podcast.

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And I'm going to take a quick sip.

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I want to like up my nose.

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We're going to call that drink Charlie Sheen.

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My face recognition is not working on my phone tonight.

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It is weird because I'm looking for a man in finance.

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Finance.

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Oh my God.

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Six five blue eyes.

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You know his height every time you say it changes.

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I'm looking at the official at six five.

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That's so fucking picky.

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Six five.

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Trust fund.

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Finance blue eyes.

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I spend money.

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Therefore I'm in finance.

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I'm your trust fund.

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You're my trust fund.

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I don't think you meet her criteria.

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I definitely do not.

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It's probably better that way.

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So what are oh yeah our drinks.

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My drink for the night is a tonsil tickler.

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Tonsil tickler.

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What did you put in it?

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It is a pineapple rum.

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Sour apple pucker.

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It's very pineapple.

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I'm sure I didn't taste it because I'm not into the sweet sweet drinks.

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So my my baby batter should taste very nice right now.

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It's got a process.

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That's a good name for a band.

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Baby batter.

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It's just too bad.

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I am drinking mermaid water which when I saw the recipe or saw the name of it.

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It's a name.

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So I'm cheersing to some of our friends who I met Batman and Kitty who I met in my mermaid

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costume.

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So cheers to you guys.

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Three years ago.

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Yeah I don't even know.

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Three years ago and to this day they still refer to you as the mermaid.

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Our text group.

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I mean George if anyone has seen that I didn't.

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I mean I see it I guess if I look.

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I watched it so I was I actually can't even picture the person anymore.

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I can either but I think a lot of it had to do with the Hawaiian shirts.

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Because the guy was like in a Hawaiian shirt.

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I think one of the pictures.

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I've been compared to Burt Kreischer a lot.

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That's the main one that you compared to.

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I get that a lot.

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In public I have had people actually pause for autographs and they don't believe me when

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So they want to take a picture anyway.

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I have definitely taken a handful of pictures.

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I have selfies on many people's cell phones thinking that they met the Burt Kreischer.

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People telling their friends.

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What the hell are you getting me into.

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Painful topics.

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What the fuck.

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The first is Pagan.

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Thankful for you.

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And then the other one is what's that song.

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You got to know when to hold them.

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Know when to fold them.

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Where are we going with this.

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Know when to walk away.

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Know when to say goodbye.

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Know when to run.

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You never count your money.

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You sit in at the table.

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We should get a fucking Grammy.

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Is there a Grammy here.

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Grammy.

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So now really quick I just said the Pagan thing because it worked with the way I introduced

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So lately in our in our we have a Facebook group.

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Part of Swing Nations Facebook.

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They have a Facebook group which is part of two point oh Swing Nation two point oh which

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is part of what's the podcast.

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Swing Nation is a Swing Nation.

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I don't know.

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Dan and Lacey Dan and Lacey Swing Nation.

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They have their own Facebook group.

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And I've been noticing like this past week just about every other topic has been Pagan.

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Really.

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Like the guys are asking like like what women what do you get out of it and the women are

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answering and it's like a whole thing.

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Not seen that at all.

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Well my FIP is much more interesting than yours.

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But I am in the group that fits the same.

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I don't know.

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Maybe you don't maybe you're just paying special attention.

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I'm just scrolling God.

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I don't think so.

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Maybe find some shit in that group that I don't.

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There's a lot of things in that group.

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There's things that trigger me in that group.

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There's things that I want to comment on.

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There's things I want to delete.

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My group is wild.

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It's not wild.

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It's just.

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There's a lot going on in there.

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It's actually one of the more interesting ones because we're on a lot of different.

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See here's the problem when you don't tell me what we're going to talk about.

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I'll just take something you say and I'm just going to be like a runaway train with it.

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So that's fine.

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That's what we're here for.

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So anyway that group is interesting because it has a lot of people in it and a lot of

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people are very active in it.

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A lot of the other groups I'm in that are like Swinger groups or whatever.

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There's very little activity.

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Most of it's just like hey.

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A single guy saying.

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Want to hook up or I mean I guess I'm in Kentucky tonight.

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Yeah or I guess yeah exactly or I guess some of the groups are like actually four clubs

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like Playhouse LV in Vegas or so I guess that's usually like hey we're going to be in Vegas

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you know like that's usually the post you don't really get like question posts but like

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the one the Swing Nation one like I think it's them that post a question of the day.

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Yes but then more than that like one of the moderators or something.

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Well yeah I don't think it's necessarily Dan and Lacey but one of somebody posts a question

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of the day and then people comment on that but then there's also people who will just

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like write shit like some guy the other day was writing like what I at first I thought

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it was a woman writing it and then I was like oh it was a guy that was writing it but it

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was a question was what do you think about women what do you think about seeing your

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man getting a blowjob or giving a blowjob.

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I'm they were obviously in this anonymously which is why I didn't know if it was a guy

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or a girl at first when I read it.

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It was like I'm and then when I read all of it I was like oh okay it's guy actually asking

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this question I'm interested in this but I don't know how to bring it up with my significant

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because I don't know how she'll react and if she'll be like this way or that way and

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then you know just everybody's commenting and then there's a bunch of people in there

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I mean that one actually wasn't that triggering there wasn't there was mostly positive like

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you know you have to talk to your significant.

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So when you say triggering you're talking about like bad advice yeah like yeah like there's

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there's a couple people in the there's a couple people who are pretty active in it and I think

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one of them is a single guy because he just the stuff he writes I'm like bro like seriously

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like girls will one person was on there talking about their dynamic her dynamic with her spouse

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and if it was okay that I actually don't remember to have to go back and look at it but anyway

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she was asking something if it's okay you should have prepared better for this if I

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would have known what we were talking about we don't plan to shit well you could have

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at least given me the topic and I would have went back and looked at some of this stuff

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anyway so she was writing something about their dynamic her dynamic with her spouse

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and him letting her do things but her not feeling like she could you know reciprocate

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basically the you know openness and I don't know some of this guy just like posts on there

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and I'm like you clearly don't have a significant other like yeah a single guy posting advice

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for a couple yeah it's just like the way he was writing and I'm like what like that's

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not how it works in a like in a relationship like there's given takes and if you're only

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here to take or you're only here to expect to be given to which is taking then obviously

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like this isn't necessarily the right space for you because you have to have open communication

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you have to be able to give and take you have to I don't know it was just it's just some

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of the times I'm reading the comments and then you want to like type yeah I want to type

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so bad but it's you start typing and you realize well this is not it's not going to go anywhere

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it's anything to do nothing and then I've seen this guy come pop up in multiple comment

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like thread comments and I'm like just like can we delete him like he's just so it's

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like that it's like that stuff it's just like people speaking of things that they don't clearly

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know anything about or never have been a part of yeah and then also giving like poor advice

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or or just being negative or like just things like that they that's what triggers me in those

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it comes down to the if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all or helpful

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or you know like not everybody and then like it's not just like he comments it and then

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it's just one guy there's couple we need to email this guy exactly we need to have him

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on the show no then it's just like it's not even that he just comments once and then it's

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like over he said his piece and like you know it's like oh yeah it's like people will say

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like well bro like I don't know like duh duh duh duh duh and then he's like well duh duh

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duh duh duh yeah duh duh duh duh and I'm like okay like clearly you control somewhere

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else there but it's weird because it's not even my it's not yours at all it's not like

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it's not why that the one day you told me you kind of got triggered by some stuff I'm

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like what are you talking about like triggered like I look at shit and I I'll read it I'm

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like oh that's dumb I don't agree with that but it doesn't like trigger me but you can

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the thing that it makes me upset is that there's a lot of misconceptions in this lifestyle

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and there's a lot of people who are actually seeking like advice and so it when I see people

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just commenting bullshit or like not leaving room for the person to kind of decide for

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themself and just being very like one way that's it you know because that's definitely

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not it the one thing we've learned is there's so many different dynamics different styles

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of people handle in their shit like it's all there's no right way there's no wrong way

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like there's so many different ways so when people say well this is the way it is or maybe

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you're not or I mean this guy like we'll just call the person like call the person out without

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knowing like he'll be like well maybe you're not giving enough to your relationship or

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maybe you're not clearly what I've seen in my life is you're not doing enough and it's

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like but you don't even know this person so why are you telling them they're not doing

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something the right way because there is no right way instead of posing to be like well

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have you thought about this yeah or like that it's really his approach force in their their

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opinion yeah exactly and exactly I don't know and then like I said it just seems like it's

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coming from a perspective whenever he posts and there's a there's a couple of them I say

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he and I'm when I say he I'm more generalizing just people like that but they post and it's

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like you you know they're not coming from a place of the fact that they know what they're

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talking about cuz yeah like I said like it won't be anything about like oh single guys

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give me your perspective but it's like clearly he's coming from that perspective cuz or he's

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coming from perspective of being the lifestyle previously and then now he's divorced I don't

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know like he clearly hates women like that's what I feel alright I don't know it's like

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his I feel like we need to get the guy in the show somehow I really want to go the people

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on the chat kind of go against them though yeah there's people who are commenting against

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them but then but then most people just want to keep it positive so they just skip over

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it right they just read it probably got triggered like I did and then just like skipped over

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it and then wrote their own people that are that hard in their views you're not gonna sway

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them through words on you know so you're not you're gonna sit there and argue back and

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forth them about all you can do is like put in your your your actual thoughts to the original

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poster and just like ignore which reminds me of the group I got kicked out of when I did

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respond that's true is that the conversation we were supposed to have today you got no

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that wasn't it you got kicked the fuck oh I got kicked out of a Facebook group because

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I argued with the moderator and that is not me which is so fucking weird normally you

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not arguing no with people on Facebook like I'm not on there to write shit like I am the

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quiet scroller who just scrolls past people and then like text you about some bullshit

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or screenshots it to you or whatever like I'm not the one to call on on stuff but I did

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get kicked out of a Facebook group because the one of the moderators didn't like the

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fact that I was arguing with him and now I feel the need to tell everybody about this

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well that group I'm pretty sure is gone that that particular party I believe is over yeah

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because of that guy probably I'm sure that guy had yeah okay so I have to say what I'm

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trying to think I'm trying to think I'm not gonna say the guy's name because I he's still

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in the area that's not part of another group or part of yeah I'm really not here to start

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a fight but I feel like I need to tell this story right now okay so we were part of a

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Facebook group yes and it was a party group yes and it was a house party yes it was very

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new yes in Riverside yes and because there weren't at that time we were we weren't even

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we were part of the DTF community but they weren't doing house parties they were doing

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meet and greets what it was is this this particular house party was popular back in the day pre

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covid okay and it was after covid when all these parties started coming back in yeah

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and that's when they had like a new host like I think the person who owned the house was

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still part of it but they had like new people yeah kind of running it and but they were

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trying to revamp it basically but anyway we're not gonna name you had heard of it I don't

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even remember the name I honestly don't either yeah I remember the name of the guy but I'm

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going to say it was in Southern California Riverside County type something yeah so we

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we're like okay there we were part of the DTF community we weren't really part of a lot

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of other communities is like kind of early ish really early yeah but DTF at that time

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had not brought back their party so they were only doing meet and greets so we really hadn't

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gone to any house parties or anything like that so we're like and clearly at this point

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um freedom makers which talked about a lot was gone so we're kind of looking for something

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that was where we could go have fun play like and you know just have a good time and so this

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party seemed to fit all those boxes it was close to where we lived we could Uber there

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like we had some friends in the area which initially we didn't invite them but then like

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then we did because we were like oh you guys are in the area so then we invited them which

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thank god we did yeah because we got there and I was like 20 years younger than the youngest

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person there besides our group yeah well and as far as attractiveness level you're looking

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at me but nobody knows what we're talking about it's low it was low it was real low yeah it

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was the bar was set very low the bar was set super low I mean that party was fucking fun

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don't get me wrong we had a good time we have a good time wherever we go like I said the

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first impression was not the greatest the first impression was terrible thank god we had to

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run our friends thank god we could burn otherwise we might have turned around and went yeah exactly

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the one good part was okay our friends were there we had a good time with them which that's

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a whole another story um but we they had a massage therapist essential massage therapist

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there do you remember that I remember her yeah so I actually contacted her after that party

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because she wasn't doing it anymore right or she was only doing it within the guy or she had

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no no only in LA or something she was doing it doing it and doing it and doing it now she was

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definitely doing it and she also said that she had a guy that she worked with yeah and but they

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would do like a hotel hotel buyouts or whatever they were not a buyout but they would rent a

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couple hotel rooms and they would host like a big massage party and I had told her I'm like well

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let us know when you're doing one yeah yeah yeah like because I mean that's your fantasy you got

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massage fantasies I definitely have massage fantasies and uh they have not been fulfilled yet so

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here we are so but yeah she uh she had said this that and the other thing but it was shortly

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thereafter once once it kind of went south with that particular person I didn't really follow

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up anymore just because I they were attached they were attached in your brain I mean 100% they were

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attached one way or the other they were like the guy or just the party the party the party host

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all of it was attached yeah so I was like well I'm not I just kind of you know pull myself away

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yeah so anyway that was a good part I had a very central public nudity public massage like

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uh in the middle of the living room but it was that was that was fun so that was it was a fun

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party I mean we had a good time but like I said if it would have been it was great we brought our

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friends yes our friends were needed because we really didn't like it was nobody else really at

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the party we were wanting to no no so anyway so that so Nila's to say this party was not popping

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it was not party was not popping but we stayed part of the group and we were kind of like so we

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were yeah exactly because it was kind of coming back we're like okay let's see we're still part

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of the facebook group let's pump it up let's advertise it yeah for us yeah for us I was like

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let's be part of the group like let's invite friends like let's make it younger let's make it

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because they did have a venue which is hard to get they had a pool I mean the venue had a layout

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a little ghetto but it was fine it was fine it is what it is yeah I saw I saw potential yeah there

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was potential there and I'm like let's let's be part of the group let's try to be like a positive

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part of the group and yeah so so we did however a little bit however the party host one of the

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not it wasn't a party host he was a moderator he was a moderator the party host was female he was

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like a co-host he was like a co-host moderator of the facebook group anyway he would just post

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like random slightly degrading things for women and I'm not talking degrading in like a way of like

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subdom or like stuff like that where it could be your kink no I'm not talking about that kind of

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degrading I'm talking about like stuff that's just like he would just post off the wall shit for

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instance the one that triggered me was he posted this whole thing like this random fucking article

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he got to I don't know to him in some whatever about squirting being p and that basically if

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if you like squirting or if a girl squirts she's pissing on you essentially and not only that said

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that he had like an experience or something no yeah no not only that when people then posted

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stuff in the comments of like you don't know what you're talking about there actually hasn't been

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enough like research on this like there's research this way there's research that way

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he then proceeded to post this is what picture this is what really triggered me he's then proceeded

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to post a picture of a woman of a woman without her face but like water or pee or squirt I don't

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know what it was but a liquid like underneath her butt or whatever I mean was Facebook appropriate

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enough that you just saw her legs essentially and like a wet mat and he then said like oh she works

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at Starbucks this is my regular play partner and this is like when she and for sure she peed on me

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or something like that something to that effect and I'm thinking to myself did this woman consent

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to him posting this picture saying who she was like he didn't say her name but if you know him and

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you know who his regular play partners are I'm sure not many of them work at fucking Starbucks

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yeah like then you know who she is and he was a regular person in a lot of groups yeah so a lot

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of people knew him so I'm like she just basically I don't know did he get consent like that's like

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that's not right I can't imagine with the negative context that context attached to that yeah that it

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was yeah because he was just basically like she peed on me and I'm like but but it's not in a way

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of like I liked it like I asked for it it was like oh I was playing with her and then she just peed on

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me like this bitch peed on me yeah exactly so it was just it was negative the way he wrote it he

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called her out essentially like it was out of nowhere and it was out of nowhere and it was unnecessary

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it's kind of like with the whole like you don't talk about religions you don't talk about like all

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this other stuff yeah it was just let's keep the conversation positive and sexy yeah and then he

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just out of nowhere just posted this and it was like but it wasn't the first time he had posted

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some other stuff and like just random it wasn't enough to trigger you yeah just but this random

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stuff he would post and it's like that is so a it's unsexy b it's like this girl I don't I don't

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see her consenting anywhere on here she's not here does she even know yeah does she even know you

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posted this like it just and and for a lot of women like who do squirt like it could go either way

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they could be like oh I think it like the woman herself could think it's p and then she doesn't

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want to do it and then when she does she's embarrassed and then or like the other way of

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like people who are like no or it could be like you it could do two things like I could also

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squirt but I could also piss on you like I could do either one like you know what I mean I don't

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know it's just like and then there were so many people in there like I'm a nurse like and also

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posting other like articles like written by medical journals that said no like it's not it's

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different it's female ejaculation like there was like so many things but he would just go in there

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and be like no this is wrong like everything somebody posted like oh you know blah blah and so I

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finally you just turned that whole chat into like he turned it into a shit show yeah and it was like

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everybody against everybody and but most people were like against him and so I commented on his

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post and I'm like basically just told him like this is so unsexy this is so inappropriate like

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why are you bringing this up I said would you like it if I brought up a bunch of studies about male

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erectile dysfunction in the lifestyle like that's not sexy I'm not bringing it up like that's

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fucking stupid like why would you bring something like that up no you wouldn't make it a context

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yeah yeah exactly no you wouldn't like it you know it's like why bring something up that has

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negative connotation into a sexy like thing like this when this isn't a place for like a medical

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journal like I don't I'm like I'm not nobody asked you nobody commented like hey what are your thoughts

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on this like nobody fucking cares what you think nobody fucking cares what you have to say about

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this specific like you're not a female like you have no place to speak about this so it really

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triggered me I'm already if you don't want to heat it out like just thinking about relax so if you

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don't want to participate don't participate move on yeah but to bring it to a forum and just like

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let's throw it out there it was just so annoying and guess what that was the last party we ever

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went to yeah it was well he kicked so finally after I said the thing about I think I said something

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else to him and then he was like you need to just relax I'm just bringing up information and I was

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like negative and that's what it was I said something to him and then in the comments and then he

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commented again about just relax I'm just bringing up information this is what I think or whatever I

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have and then I brought up the thing about okay well I'm just gonna start posting shit about male

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erectile dysfunction and the rampant use of blue pills in the lifestyle is that okay like let me

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just start posting that shit everywhere and like let's just talk about that so he was like nope so

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he deleted me from the group messaged me and said I don't even know like something about

460
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:24,320
I don't know he private messaged you which is also against the group rules right yeah he private

461
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:29,360
messaged me something and then I was just but then he blocked me that guy was such a creep yeah

462
00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:35,920
then he blocked me and I was like oh my gosh like you're an idiot like serious idiot but they

463
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:41,920
but you were still in the group I was in the group for a second though but then I so then we've I

464
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:47,760
realized after you were in the group he had deleted his post because he had triggered so many people

465
00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:57,680
yep and then he and then he posted a post about which is such a fucking boomer thing to do

466
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:06,560
is post a thing which he was is post a thing that says apparently my post has triggered people

467
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:12,960
so I have removed it and like what the fuck so that everybody is now re-asking him what he posted

468
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:17,920
that triggered everything and we're just starting it again it's like if you fucking delete it and

469
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:23,440
then he would delete it and then he was re-posting what his original thing exactly he was re-posting

470
00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:28,800
what his original post was and it was like I I know his name right it just popped on my head

471
00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:32,080
oh I knew it from the moment we started talking about this I'm not gonna say it though but

472
00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:38,800
he is part of some other group or part of I don't remember what it was yeah oh I remember

473
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:43,600
and then you were like you're like look who's on the list I'm like oh god I remember who it is

474
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:49,200
yeah I do so anyway it's just like but I haven't seen any posts from him whatever group he's in

475
00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:58,080
he's quiet yeah and as long as he keeps his fucking mouth shut I'm fine yeah that's just like

476
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:06,640
just dude just but you know what what that group um I don't I'm pretty sure they don't do parties

477
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:15,200
no they just yeah there was nothing there it was and if they would have sucks because yeah exactly

478
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:19,760
if we love to support things that are fun things that are good yeah and like you said you saw

479
00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:24,960
potential and it's like yeah it was close enough to us yeah and it's cool they had a pool and we

480
00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:31,280
could have probably helped them or they probably could have helped themselves by not posting

481
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:36,400
shit like that like there's plenty of people in southern California especially that area

482
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:43,600
yeah very close to that area we know other groups in that area that could have hosted stuff there

483
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:50,640
like it's just annoying that one person can just like totally ruin a vibe and he is that one person

484
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:57,520
he's got my blood pressure going relax have a drink of your mermaid water my mermaid water

485
00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:03,120
I know well I will say this is not the direction I saw that thing and see that's why you got to

486
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:08,720
give me what you're going for but this is exactly what I wanted because sometimes I just need to

487
00:34:08,720 --> 00:34:22,240
light the match and you're the fire I'm always going to be the fire so um we digress I don't

488
00:34:22,240 --> 00:34:31,200
even know what I digressed or shot in the uh we progressed in the words of swingers couch podcast

489
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:38,320
we digress like a motherfucker is that what they say yes when they go off on their ranch they say

490
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:46,560
we digress like a motherfucker I digress like a motherfucker um well you're not 35 minutes in

491
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:51,760
what were you going to try to talk about where did we start pegging

492
00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:59,680
was that really something you were going to try to talk about I had two topics pegging but

493
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:06,960
was it really a topic how much can we talk about pegging I pegged you exactly

494
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:17,760
no it was I tried no you succeeded I mean it wasn't like a uh a week long I was when I was with um

495
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:24,640
when I was with the girls at that uh passion party like who you discussed and pegged yeah no I

496
00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:29,280
was at that passion party yeah yeah yeah and we were all sitting on the couch and we were talking about

497
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:33,360
we had they had one of the dildos out or whatever I don't I know you guys were like sitting in the

498
00:35:34,720 --> 00:35:37,760
like all the guys were sitting in like a different room I don't know if you guys could hear us but

499
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:45,360
we were we were talking about all we could hear from over there was we were we were talking about

500
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:50,160
nothing was made out we were talking about pegging because uh they brought out a dildo or whatever

501
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:54,800
and then somebody brought out oh no they brought our strap on and so we started talking about pegging

502
00:35:55,600 --> 00:36:03,280
and then um we were all talking about like how like we've all tried to do it to our men but that

503
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:09,360
they all like squirm and then we're we all started going into like how you guys tell us like if you're

504
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:13,360
trying to put it in like if you're trying to do anal and we're like no and you're like archer back

505
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:19,520
it'll be fine just relax I'm gonna put it in slow it's gonna be fine like we were all we were all

506
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:29,200
like just saying all the things you guys say to us and it was all the fucking same just relax archer

507
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:40,240
back do you need to drink more all of those are true I'm gonna be gentle we need more lube here's the

508
00:36:40,240 --> 00:36:52,560
thing your introduction to me was a finger in the shower that had a ring on it that's not pegging

509
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:59,520
that's that no that was your introduction to anal play we'll say that okay you chose your finger

510
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:05,040
which had your big ass wedding ring on it well why did why did I choose that finger I don't know

511
00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:09,040
I don't think that was the finger I think it was no I think I had another finger I think it was this

512
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:12,480
one but I had a different ring on there was a ring I normally was your right forefinger

513
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:18,880
forefinger and you had her you had something on it yeah there I used to wear a ring on this finger

514
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:29,840
yeah it got stuck inside me it's getting it um so that was our first attempt at that now that's

515
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:35,920
not pegging definitely but you kind of scared me a little bit with the ring oh you liked it

516
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:43,760
the problem is with fingers I have nails back then you didn't no I don't believe so I've always had

517
00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:49,200
nails and not really there's like a small period of time without nails well that was when it happened

518
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:56,800
and then um you you we tried we tried another episode I was on my back though so there's no

519
00:37:56,800 --> 00:38:03,280
arching of the back no there was one time where I tried with Roger you didn't try you you you

520
00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:10,240
you succeeded Roger the dildo yeah I was on my back you're on your back yes I thought you were bent over

521
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:16,480
the only person I would bend over is Ryan Reynolds

522
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:29,600
kidding unless he's into it there's a there's a lot of guys that have a man crush on Ryan

523
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:35,920
Reynolds I mean who the fuck wouldn't right anyways no we we tried it briefly I was on my back

524
00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:46,000
but we tried it with Roger which is a full size dildo dildo I mean yeah and I I I took it

525
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:54,160
up to about maybe we'll say mid that's bullshit bullshit my ass yeah exactly exactly that's like

526
00:38:54,160 --> 00:39:00,560
what you guys say I'm almost in that I was halfway in I'm gonna I was scared of product coming out of

527
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:11,680
from Roger what my it's happening my butthole juice oh no you weren't halfway in that I was always

528
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:16,560
Bon Jovi in the home you felt like it was because it was it felt like a lot which is how women feel

529
00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:20,000
when y'all are trying to stick your dicks in her ass well you guys are a bunch of pussies

530
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:28,080
you had barely the head oh no I had to hold on bull shit but what it boils down to you folks

531
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:34,880
is um it's not really my thing at the moment I wish it was because I I tried it because

532
00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:41,520
you know I'm I'm open to trying things especially when it's a woman delivering the apparatus

533
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:47,200
and I've heard fantastic things about it and at some point I might try it again with something

534
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:52,720
slightly smaller than Roger exactly something resemble in like a number two pencil

535
00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:59,040
very solid school those are the best so let's do a number two pencil next time

536
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:08,880
edged a blunt edge yeah you don't want the sharpened or do I I mean no that's hard no hard no

537
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:17,040
no so yeah I I added peg into the thing just because going all the way back to the original

538
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:22,720
start of the conversation was I just I've seen an abundance of that topic in the swingers oh

539
00:40:22,720 --> 00:40:30,960
Swinger Society that's what it is um yeah Swing Nation is the podcast Swinger Society is

540
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:39,440
the Swinger Society 2.0 yes that's what it is Facebook yes yeah exactly so I've just seen an

541
00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:44,320
abundance of that topic so I was like this is getting kind of popular let's talk about it

542
00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:50,080
really quick so yeah I have not seen that I don't even think I've seen one comment

543
00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:55,200
like I said the only thing I've seen now you're gonna see it a lot because your your Facebook

544
00:40:55,200 --> 00:41:02,000
now I've said pegging 10 times now it's gonna Amazon's gonna be out of control your Facebook's

545
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:09,200
my Facebook I tick tocks with full of suggestions so annoying is that I was talking to somebody

546
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:17,200
about some dental products the other day and all of a sudden now all these companies are

547
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:22,080
hitting up on my I'm like I wasn't even on my own cell phone when I talked about it

548
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:29,200
like why is it that's why whenever I have my cell phone out I like to just talk about random

549
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:35,680
I'm like G strings boobies and all this like random stuff and then it works that way it works

550
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:43,280
it it's way into my algorithms there's actually a lot of posts on Swinger Society that don't end up on my

551
00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:49,680
I don't see any of these uh yeah you need to change there's a ton of people who

552
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:55,040
who I might have said to show less because I feel like I'm in so many fucking groups like every other

553
00:41:55,040 --> 00:42:00,240
post is like a freaking Swinger post and I'm like I don't need all of this on all of this on that's

554
00:42:00,240 --> 00:42:05,280
probably what it is you probably did a follow less probably did that yeah so you only get like maybe

555
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:12,640
the highly commented yeah post or whatever it is but I don't I'm still not seeing there's a lot of

556
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:17,280
stuff about jealousy well you can you can go ahead and dig into this one guy posted I thought this

557
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:24,640
was funny today I actually saw it he said I'm single and an attractive man there's a picture there

558
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:34,160
it's like I'll be the judge of that it's just a funny way to put it I'm a single attractive man

559
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:41,440
it's like most ladies would agree I'm like who's calling you attractive literally I'm almost halfway

560
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:46,800
through and there's like nothing about pegging I think this was in your brain it could have been

561
00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:51,120
maybe maybe it's just yeah could have been there could have been because you know how they post

562
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:58,400
the question of the day do you think a question of the day was about pegging I have no idea and then

563
00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:01,840
everybody commented on it and then you just went through the comments and you're like everybody

564
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:08,320
wants to get pegged um I don't really go through the comments I typically just see the that's the

565
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:13,360
best part about Facebook yeah I don't I don't have the time for that I have a job why are you

566
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:20,080
even on Facebook oh what's everyone's thoughts on pegging I saw that one that was a day ago okay so

567
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:26,400
you didn't go into the comments I don't think so because I don't really care about people's thoughts

568
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:32,480
on it just made me think well a lot of people are pegging people exactly there's a lot of whole

569
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:38,400
lot of pegging is amazing yeah I love it both physical feeling and also not being the one in

570
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:48,480
charge there you go see I don't I peg my guy weekly and we both love it see the thing about pegging

571
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:55,520
is I've heard you can have your most intense orgasms via your prostate yeah so I'm all about

572
00:43:56,400 --> 00:44:04,640
finding the button whatever it is whatever it is I'm down to try it so you just said button if

573
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:09,280
somebody's post was how about using the search button there you go

574
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:27,040
but babe that's like the only one in here about pegging but what I was saying is is I'm

575
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:35,520
I'm down to find like the most pleasurable but outside of the physical aspect of it I don't

576
00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:42,960
have any of that like I want to be dominated I don't want to be not in control because I don't

577
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:50,160
have any of those that's not my makeup yeah I'm literally thinking if this feels good let's

578
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:56,320
fucking try it yeah but I I'm not like laying back where I'm like okay someone else take control that

579
00:44:56,320 --> 00:45:03,840
is not my game I think that probably like is opposite for you yeah like it'll definitely

580
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:11,200
is hard for you to release control 100 so I'm just like if it feels good it feels good but yeah so

581
00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:16,720
a lot of a lot of other people have other reasons for liking it and or enjoying it whatever it is

582
00:45:16,720 --> 00:45:22,480
and that's awesome mm-hmm that's not my style so I'm just like if it feels good it feels good

583
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:31,200
but the time we did try it I'm like yeah didn't feel good no didn't feel I did walk a little

584
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:38,800
funny the next day and so this is me being wide open literally figuratively being wide open

585
00:45:40,160 --> 00:45:44,960
and nobody hold that against me please and babe yes there was only one post about you know what

586
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:49,440
it was in your brain that everybody was talking about it I'm gonna go ahead and mute your microphone

587
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:54,720
right now because you're kind of annoying me and yes I think this guy has the same shirt you do

588
00:45:54,720 --> 00:46:04,000
or D referee I have that shirt yes so um in conclusion we are clearly like to restate we are

589
00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:09,680
not going to get to our other topic which is funny because that's the main topic I wanted to other

590
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:16,000
topic no one win to walk away no win to say no from people conversations and I was going to

591
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:25,840
lead into the LA thing oh there's another thing on here see this is what's your perfect size and

592
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:34,400
what size do you prefer so they say small is four and under medium is five to six large is seven to

593
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:41,840
nine extra large is 10 to 12 extra extra large is 13 and up clearly we're talking about dick size

594
00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:49,760
um and I think it just depends on what you're trying to do no right if you're trying to stick

595
00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:56,880
into my ass I'm definitely not taking a six five to six seven to nine ten to twelve or 13 I'm going

596
00:46:56,880 --> 00:47:04,480
for a small four and under I'm going for and I'm also gonna need less girth and I'm like let's go

597
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:08,080
for a pinky yeah and then people are like oh six I'm on the buy side but it's like

598
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:17,040
I think girth is more of a factor I don't know when you're in your butt

599
00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:26,320
in your butt girth for sure that's well length though I mean I guess both like your your vaginal

600
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:34,320
walls are like built to take you know I think they say the average like depth of a vaginal

601
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:39,120
canal is like five inches or something before you start tapping the door in the cervix yeah

602
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:46,160
and that's fine and dandy and then I like the girth from that point is it's all good because I mean

603
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:54,960
it's it's just going out but in your butt I mean you're yeah there's I don't know we're gonna have

604
00:47:54,960 --> 00:48:03,600
to get a like a professional anal connoisseur here on this podcast because I mean I think

605
00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:09,040
my anaconda don't unless you got six or less

606
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:16,880
I mean I said four or less let's you could take six if you like I will take four I think I'm gonna

607
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:23,680
go with two or less and no girth please zero girth just give me a pinky and just touch the button

608
00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:29,920
we're good to go we have to find the button we've got to find the button I've I've tried to find

609
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:34,400
I have to find the button for you I've tried to find a button on my own I don't know maybe my button

610
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:40,560
is broken because there's no button there's nothing happening for me there no but I think we have to

611
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:47,120
cut this off here it's now later than way way later and I thought I was we're gonna you got me all

612
00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:54,560
wound up I know I got you wound up for 50 minutes on a subject which was just supposed to be a

613
00:48:54,560 --> 00:49:01,680
kind of a quick laugh but that's what happens with you yeah I took this train and I wrote it off a

614
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:12,720
cliff we're gonna call this the crazy train yep so anyways um it is now midweek on the week of

615
00:49:12,720 --> 00:49:23,760
uh May 14th right 14th 15th so we just want to really quick this Saturday night which is May 18th

616
00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:33,200
we are gonna be at the DTF LUS party cowboy boots and daisy dukes you know it sexy country bring

617
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:42,400
that country by it uh I got some nice outfits for Saturday as to you and then um there's a new

618
00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:52,800
sheriff in town that's for sure oh lord have mercy there's a new sheriff all right and then

619
00:49:52,800 --> 00:50:02,160
um just one more reminder next week which is Memorial Day weekend we're gonna be at EDR

620
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:10,880
in Palm Springs Southern California we're gonna be there from Friday celebrating a couple friends

621
00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:17,280
birthdays yeah Friday all the way through Monday we got Memorial Day we got a couple of friends

622
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:24,240
birthdays we got spankens going out it's gonna be a very eventful weekend so if you guys are in the

623
00:50:24,240 --> 00:50:32,000
area you can come check it out the hotel itself is sold out however they do have day passes so if

624
00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:38,560
you wanted to come you could buy a day pass come hang out for the day Saturday is the hot day Friday

625
00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:48,720
is fun Sunday is fun but Saturday is the place to be so you can come check us out there that being said

626
00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:54,880
when enjoying the sweet side of life keep your pineapples upside down believe in unicorns and

627
00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:58,240
keep shaking it up I love you baby love me too

628
00:50:58,240 --> 00:51:07,680
if you would like to get in contact with us please email us at the sweet side of life

629
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:13,920
podcast at outlook.com or you can always find us on any one of our socials that are listed in the

630
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