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Sorry. What were you gonna say? Welcome. Welcome back.
Season two. Yes. So say welcome to season two. Welcome to season two. Of what? Of the Sweet Side
of Life podcast. Yes. Yes. All right. Yes, everybody. This is volume 17,000 season. This is officially
season two. 2024. Being recorded in mid-February. I know. It's so bad. It's because we're sick.
Well, I'm still sick. I'm like forever sick. Why are you sick? Because I had a kick ass birthday
and I got sick and I got a little bit better and then you got sick and then you got better. But then
I think I got more sick. I'm not sure. I don't think you never officially got better. You'd
had a lingering cold that turned into a very sexy flam. Yeah. But I feel we're on the up and up.
I think I'm on my upward trend. Hopefully in the next few days we've got a party coming up
that I will feel a lot better. So I mean, I don't really feel bad. I just sound like shit.
We're both still, we're both of us are still fighting a little bit of little residual. Yeah.
But anyway, so yes, this is season two, episode one of the Sweet Side of Life podcast. Yep.
Some thought we would not make it to the bar. That's all we have to say.
Exactly. So earlier at the end of what December, I said we were going to do a weekly show. We
almost did it. We got so close. We were very close. We had a couple of different shows and
but you know, the holidays hit and we did our we did the end of season one with the plush takeover
reviews. Right. Or the recap not, I guess, review. It was both. A little bit of both. Yeah. And then
then we went into January and then January is full of a lot of things and one of which is of
course your birthday weekend. So we celebrated super hard for four days straight of parties,
Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday. And you probably made out with 75% of the people we know.
Probably. So yeah. Showed my tips more than once and wrote a bull with my ass out.
In a public bar. Wait, wait, when I say bull, I'm talking about an actual like electronic bull.
I'm not talking about a guy. Which I could have done, I guess.
The options were there. We're talking about public in public. Yeah. So we did on Friday.
Well, we should do our drink. Oh, yeah, yeah. Before we get too involved.
So we are starting tonight with our beverages of choice. Yes. What is yours?
So since I was not, since I've been sick, I was like, maybe I'll do like a play on like a,
you know, and they're like, I'll just put some tessin on it or whatever. Like drink some bourbon
to help your throat. Whiskey. And so I did, mine's called a gold rush. It's bourbon, whiskey,
lemon juice, and honey syrup. Two of the things they say is best for your voices. Yeah, exactly.
Whiskey, bourbon, and honey. And lemon. Lemon juice. Yeah, lemon juice. Not for your voice
necessarily, but for like the vitamin C in it. Yeah. So this is like a, this is like a cold cocktail,
cold. But it's called, it's called gold rush. Right. What, what's the bourbon of choice tonight?
Buffalo trace bourbon. So it's two ounces buffalo trace bourbon. You only did two?
Yeah. Pussy. One ounce of, it was a cocktail I was making. One ounce of lemon juice. And then it was
one and three fourths ounce of honey syrup, which I kind of had to make my own because I started
putting just honey in it and that like didn't do anything. It just stuck to the side of the shaker.
So then I melted the honey a bit with some water, hot water. And then yeah. So I did like a homemade
honey syrup, but it actually helped because I first tasted it before I put the honey syrup in it.
And it was very tart because of all the lemon juice. Yes. So anyway, it's actually really good.
I'll actually probably drink this more frequently. Yeah. Yeah. I really like it. We'll see what it
does for me. Tonight I am having a beverage called the Jamaican McCrae's, which is a rum cocktail,
which is basically a rum runner, which is basically that's what I was thinking. That's what I was
trying to think of was basically was rum runner. It's tasted to me tasted to me like a rum runner,
very banana forward. So basically it's a it's a white rum, which I use Bacardi,
this basic Bacardi white Malibu coconut rum, which is not the strongest rum, but it's got a
nice flavor to it. And then it has a banana liqueur. And then it's got pineapple juice.
And then it's got cranberry juice. And you put it in a shaker and you shake it up. Shake, shake,
shake it up. And you end up with the Jamaican McCrae's. So that's what we're drinking. Cheers, my love.
And we were, we were just downstairs watching a new show. We'll have to talk about here.
I think maybe we watch a little bit more before we dive too deep into the discussions.
Okay. But the show is called couple to thruple. It's a brand new show on peacock. Yeah.
It's only a matter of time before there's literal like swinger shows on ABC peacock or
CBS or Nickelodeon. Yeah. Well, the Superbowl is on Nickelodeon now. So that's true. It was. I
never know. Did you see any other tiktoks about that? Yeah, I would door the expert. Yeah, she goes
a hold in penalty. A hold in penalty is when either team. Yeah. I love it. I do too. I probably
should have watched it on that because I probably would have understood more of it. You learned
the rules too. Yeah. But they probably, the Nickelodeon podcast or the Nickelodeon broadcast
probably would not have zeroed in on Travis Kelsey's package while he was holding the trophy.
Did you see that? No. He was on stage and he had a chubby. Well, he was just probably making out
with maybe miss Swift. But he was on stage and you could see just about everything and he was
pulling like the fun of his jersey down to try to take the focus off of it. They were assuming.
Yeah. And it was right on it. And then they put it, he like held a towel over it. How did I miss
this? We were at a party where there's other things going on during that period of time.
But anyways, so let's start this one over. Season two,
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It's Canadian. And we have a few in Belgium and I really want to hit Bulgaria next.
That's my next call. So let's make that happen, everybody. My next port of call. Yes, Bulgaria.
But anyways, so yes, your birthday weekend was the end of January. And yeah, it was wild.
The entire thing was just a bunch of surprises. She didn't know about anything. So on Thursday night,
her actual birthday was Thursday. So on Thursday, you had some friends.
Yes, show up. Some friends from Michigan fly all the way into town as a surprise.
Woke me up at 7.30 in the morning. By singing happy birthday to you. Yes.
And then and then we went out for dinner that night and had a good time. Friday,
we went to a local bar and I had pretty much told all of our friends in ELS that
this was the night to go out. And we had a lot of people show up that night.
Yeah, there was a lot. I felt like, wow, there's a lot of people. Like I didn't expect
it's probably 30 to 35 couples. So like 60 to 70 people, not including like the couple people that
came with us. Yeah, it was one of those things where I made an event on on Cassidy, which is where
we have our primary accounts and stuff. And I had quite a few people RSVP there. But as the night
we're on, we're on, I just kept seeing, you know, new people walking in and people were texting online
about there's a there was a line out the door. And on this particular bar on Friday nights,
hitting capacity is is kind of rare. Yeah, so it was really cool to see all the people come out.
And then you got some some some pasties with my face on it as a birthday gift from one of our friends.
So I had to show those off, of course. I found out another friend, she had her tits out at the
bar. She's like, there's so many pictures of me with my tits out like who's that I should have been
kicked out. Who? The suit that's a rural party we just went to the hosts. Oh, really? Yeah. She's
like, I should have been kicked out. And I was like, I said, well, then I guess I should have. Well,
I don't know, I guess technically, I had my nipples covered. I mean, I think that's the rule here in
California. And the nipples have to be covered. If I think you can actually be topless anywhere.
Really? I'm pretty sure there's a rule. Well, I mean, inside a bar, they probably have like a
no shoe shirt. I'm just I'm like, in general, I think, I think they're pretty lax. But if you're
in a bar, especially this particular bar, well, a friend actually said she got kicked out of this
bar for this. Yes, that's true. Yeah. So that's what shocked me. But I was so drunk. I mean, I had
there that night was the night I was probably the drunkest because I was getting people were buying
me drinks, shots, this bar pours heavy. I whenever I normally go to this bar, I usually just drink
trulys because they pour heavy. And I don't 100% trust the bar. So I'm like, yeah. So I'm like,
let's keep it simple and just do trulys. So I usually will just drink trulys there. But this
one I was like shot like I like fireball and kamikaze and tequila. And it was just the best
part about the whole thing is on Saturday morning, you had made a lash appointment. Yeah, which I
told you reschedule if you can. Yeah. And you're like, no, it's fine. Because you had no idea.
You had no idea what I figured we were I figured we were going out Friday, obviously, is why you
said that. And I know when we go out, we always go out hard. So I assumed it was going to probably be
a late night. I didn't know what we were doing. But I assumed it was going to be a late night. But
I really couldn't change my lash appointment. It was either that or don't get them done. You could
have not gotten them done. But we figured it out. Ultimately, it wasn't too painful. No, it was fine.
We ended up not saying not that late. That night. As late like we were out till. We're
we all till two. I don't even know. Honestly, that night is the only night I threw up.
You did. I threw up downstairs after you. Oh, yeah, that's right. That's right. I was downstairs
with our friends that were still that were here. And I threw up in the kitchen. And he's like,
do you want some water? I'm good. And then he was fucked up too. So I don't know. It's just a whole
thing. But that was the only night I threw up. So we we managed to get up the next day. And we got
your lashes done. Yep. We did everything. And then Saturday, we had a whole day in San Diego.
Yeah, we went to Dave and Buster's for a little bit. Because you love that. I do love Dave and
Buster's and then gambling, but like for children for children. We are there for just a couple
of hours to have lunch and that you kind of, you know, get your game on for a little bit.
But then after that, we went to Gaslamp San Diego, which is like their downtown area.
Through all the bars are we got a hotel room down there. And then we went to a place called
Shout House, which is a dueling piano bar, but on steroids. It's not like two pianos just going
at it having fun like they bring drummers out, they bring bass players full band, they bring
dancers, they bring like a full called the horny boys. It was like a full trombone saxophone
section. It's like a horn section. Yeah. What did I say? You said just different types of horns.
I was just saying you were doing an extra horn that I'm but it's like a dueling piano bar on
steroids. So we had a bunch of our friends there. Yeah. And then that went off. Yeah, that was fun.
They get you on stage if it's your birthday and some of our friends who who were there,
they had made me a 3d printed penises to 3d printed penises that were like,
like flexible, like they moved. So I got on the piano and my friend our friends had done
like a version ironically for this song. And I got on the piano and the guy had me
demonstrating how to properly attend to said penis using the penises I had as a prop. So I was on
showing out a stroke and blow give a blow job. Once again, all on video. We have to make a
like a we need to make a compilation video and upload everything to TikTok. Yeah.
And you can find us on TikTok at the sweet side of life podcast.
Here maybe the next week or so we'll do like a nice compilation of all the maybe the the
bull riding video. Yeah, I yeah. So then we left there and we went to double deuce, which is a bar.
It's like a kind of a country. Well, I know one side country. The other side they do hip hop.
Yeah, it's crazy. It was like they had like you walk in on the countryside and everybody's
you know, dancing on a bar like coyote ugly. And you walk through these double doors and it's like
yeah. And then the other side is where the bull was the bull was on the EDM side. And yeah.
And so some of my friends went to go. I don't know what they did. Honestly, they went to go talk to a
bouncer who then shotgunned me to the top of the line hadn't like you're going to ride the bull,
sign me in like had me sign the waiver, pulled me to the front of the line, like telling people
like the guy who is going to be next, he's like, she's going to be next. And he's like, why? And
he's like, cause she's going to be next. And he was like, okay, whatever. So then I get on the bull
and I'm in a dress, a very short dress. So obviously you sling your legs over the side of a bull and
that dress, the first like little bump your whole thing is up. My whole ass was out. The girl
It didn't take but like 10 seconds. 10 seconds. The girl, the shot girl, they had also
decided I needed a shot. So she jumped on the bull with me. She did. Yeah. So she got on the bull
behind me and gave me the shot from behind my videos again. Did I miss that? Yeah. She gave me
the shot from behind and then she's like, are you okay? Your whole ass is out. And I was just
like, whatever, fuck it. Like it's not the first time. It will be the last. So she's like, all right.
So she jumps off. So then you can really see my butt because she was kind of blocking it because
she was sitting behind me to give me the shot. And then and then I fall off of the bull and then
the guy comes back over and he's like, you're going to get back on. And I'm like, I don't think I need
to. And he's like, he was like, no, you're going to ride again. It's not over. And I was like, I'm
done. He's like, no, you have another turn. And I'm like, what are these turns? I was like, I didn't
even have a first turn. So I was like, okay, so I get back on it. And then I'm like 10 seconds and
I'm off because I mean, I have no, I don't I mean, I'm wasted. We were like, there's just no like
whatever. But yeah, but my friend said as soon as like, I got on or whatever. And my ass came up
and he was like, they're like, phones were in the sky. Like, you're definitely famous on TikTok.
I felt like we were on a at a poison concert, all the lights, the lights from the cell phones.
And yeah, I'm like, that's fine. It's just a butt. Everybody has a butt. We all have butts.
I was like, at least I was wearing underwear. I mean, it was a string tong. So that didn't really
cover much. But at least my, I don't know, I think the bull had a good time.
But you had to clarify, because if I just say, Hey, I wrote a bull, people might get a different
idea on this type of podcast. I did not do that in public. But that was a fun night though. It was,
I had like the bar guy was going giving me like, I got like, probably from that bar, I think I got
at least, at least four, I think actually five free shots of whatever they were pouring. Because
the DJ in the bathroom I met, she's like, Oh, I'm gonna give you a shot and the bar to the bar
people. Let me give you a shot. And then the bull person, let me give you a shot. And then
that one of the girls dancing on the bar, let me give you a shot. I'm like,
exactly. It was a good time. It was fun. And ironically, that's not the night you got the
most fucked up. That's funny. I know, right? Except I did lose you. You did for about a 20
minute period you you took off. To find tacos. We're in a bar in downtown gas lamp. You dress like
a hoe. I was dressed like a hoe. Never. And I walk out of the bar and I'm like, I see everybody
together. And then it's like dispersed. And I'm like, where the hell is miss Emily's sweets? And
I had to turn my location on my phone. And eventually I narrowed you down to a block.
Well, I was right on the corner. And I started to get in tacos, started running around. Then I see,
I look inside the Mexican restaurant where you're getting some burritos or tacos. And you have your
hands full with your food. But you have one of the 3D printed penises in your mouth. And you're
holding it like it's a fucking sucker. Like, oh my God. So yeah, that's that that penis made it out
of because I think that's probably why I'm sick because so many people touch that damn thing.
Yeah. And then I had it in my mouth. Yeah. The bigger of the two I accidentally dropped at
a shop or shout house and it broke on the floor. So we had a broken penis. The other one was smaller.
That one made it out alive. Yeah. I don't know where it's at to this day. It was actually in my
pocket of my jacket, which I didn't need because it was a strangely warm evening. But it wasn't,
it was freezing, but you were just on shots. It was strangely warm. It was strangely warm. Well,
even all the girls, all the girls, we were talking about this though, all the girls when we were
walking from even from the hotel to shout house and then from even shout house to the double
dude. It was everyone was saying like, I thought like I was gonna be cold, but I'm not. It wasn't
just me. It wasn't just the shots. But anyway, I later was like, where did I, what did I do with
that penis? Like, where is it? And I found it in my jacket pocket. I put it in my pocket, probably
when I was eating my tacos. Yeah. Anyways, so the penis taco concluded tonight. No, we went up to
the roof. Yeah. Yeah, had a couple more drinks, but then eventually the night just we were supposed
to meet people on the roof. That's the problem. Yeah. So two of two of our hotel we were staying at
had like a rooftop bar, but the bar closed at a certain time, but you could still gain access to
the roof. So we had kind of talked to a few people about going up there. Yeah. So the plan was to
go up there. But then two of our friends, the friends that I thought we were going to hook up
with that night, they clear. So you're killing me right now. I know. I'm sorry. They left the bar
earlier than we did. Yeah. And then they actually, but instead of like just being like, I would do
just go to the roof, you know, and just see if it's open. They asked if the bar, if the roof was
open and the front desk said no. So then they just went, they don't want anybody up there. Yeah. So
well, because it really wasn't technically open. I mean, they had all the lights were out. The door
was open, but the lights were off and they had all the furniture covered. So yeah. So anyway,
we were, I was mine, like my thought process was we were all going to go up there, kind of like
meet up and then, you know, venture off into whatever we were doing. But then that couple ended up
asking, which I found out the following day, asking the front desk. I was like, what happened,
you guys? We were up on the roof waiting for you. Like they're like, they told us the roof was closed.
I'm like, well, I mean, technically, but it was still open. Like we all still went up there and
had a drink. And they're like, oh, we were, I was like, why would you ask the front desk? Just go.
But that's just like my mentality is like, is like, just do it and ask forgiveness later.
You're a rule breaker. So anyway, yeah, so that didn't really pan out to be what we thought it
was going to be. So we went back to our own hotel room and fucked each other, which was fun.
So it's fun. It was a victory. And then the next day,
we concluded our San Diego festivities and headed back home for a crazy day of Bunko.
Yeah. My friends that are more local and family and stuff. So that one wasn't as crazy. I didn't
really get drunk, but I had a good time. So that was a four day. It was necessary that that was a
little bit more low key than like everything else because it was like lots of nights of very heavy
drinking. It was yeah, it was three days like full days and nights of drinking. Three days and nights
of a lot of drinking. So it was nice to have that day as the last day, the finale with family and
some other types of friends and doing my birthday up. So it was like I said, it was really shocking
to me how many of my LS friends, you know, it's actually so crazy to me. What's crazy? How many
LS friends we have. Yeah. I mean, I kind of, I kind of came across that as I was like,
inviting, you know, inviting people and putting together the event and and it was really shocking
like once, you know, that night when people started showing up. Yeah. It's like one thing with the
LS is everybody RCPs, but then the night of they say, all right, well, you know, what's the better
thing or right? What's the best thing to do? Exactly. What's the most chance of more fun or
whatever. Yeah, which I get. Yeah, totally. So when you look at an RCP list on the event, like
some of our friends, they always say you just kind of cut in half 50% the list and that's your true
number, which seems to ring true. But tonight or that night, it was like 100% the list plus an
additional 100%. It was it just felt like everybody showed up people we haven't seen in months showed
up. Yeah. And it was really cool to see kind of everybody, you know, come out to just celebrate
you and your birthday and everything. So it was it was actually really cool. And and then friends
that I talked to, they were like, we had a great time. We met like cool people. We got to see people
we hadn't seen in a while. And like some of our friends that have been our friends met our other
friends that didn't necessarily know each other. So right. So it was like a lot of it was just it
was a good group of people, but it was a lot of fun. That was a lot of fun. And I guess that that
was like really surprising. And it just surprises me like, we think about like our journey where
we started. And like, just, you know, just the two of us.
Try to remember to edit edit that out.
But and then it's like, we, you know, kind of like just the evolution, I guess. And then now
it's like we have so many friends too many that we need to start trimming them down. And I feel
like we just meet more people and it just gets our friend group just gets bigger. Yeah. And it's
just wow, because neither you nor I are in any other aspect of our lives like have this kind of
like, or have ever have this this kind of grant like friend group, you know what I mean? Like,
well, I'm not, I'm not super social. So yeah, but yeah, so when I am with these this group, I am
even yeah, exactly. And even if we go back to like school or whatever, like, I never had a huge
group of friends at school, I never had, I was not, you know what I mean? Like I had, I'm not
going to say I was like, Oh, I was a loser. I had no friends, but I had a very tight group of small
group of friends. And I just never had this like large group of friends like I have now. But
it is pretty wild. I don't know, just wild to think about. Very like, this is what it is. But
it's also so very honest. Yeah. So basically what she's saying is when my birthday rolls around again
next year, I expect this exact same level of turnout. I mean, I do have great boobs. So they
I have a solid B cut myself. So I don't really show them that often. Maybe that's my problem.
At the thing that we did on Saturday for my birthday, I had some, we'll call them vanilla ish
friends who know what we do and who, you know, they know what we do. So they are not shocked by
anything, but they also knew the group of friends that was going to be there. So they were both,
like, they were all kind of a little bit like a little nervous. And I'm like, they're not going
to attack you like this is like the Wild West, like you're going to be fine. But then
it's like, it's like we're all running around with like dildos and everybody.
They I mean, don't get me wrong, I've been to places where that's happened, but
it's just there's consent. But yeah, so I was like saying that and then just recently,
one of the guys had said, well, now that I've seen your boobs, and I'm like, seeing my boobs is
like seeing my arms. They're constantly out. Everybody's seen them. It's not that big of a
deal. Exactly. I'm like, seeing my boobs is more, seeing my tattoos is more of a shock. But are
you speaking of, we'll call them Tom? Yeah, Tom and Liz. So we're just going to hit this subject
really quick. So we have these friends, we'll call them Tom and Liz. And they are the friends that
visited you from out of town. Yeah. And they've known about what we do for quite a while. And
they've been supportive of it. And they've kind of like talked about potentially doing it at some
point, whatever the case may be, but cool, cool. But when they visited us, it was still very,
you know, just living their basic monogamous lifestyle. So like I said, we're just going to
touch on this really quick. We're at the Shout House. And there is this couple during the dueling
piano show. You're going to go into this whole story. You can't touch on it really quick. It's
a whole last one. I'm going to touch on it. Okay. There was a couple that went on stage and they told
us to listen to the next episode for the details to see what happens to Tom and Liz. Because it
gets crazy. It goes from zero to 100. Zero to 98%, I'll say. It went to pretty much 100.
But I think we'll have to let that story be told because we're actually going to try to get our
friends on the podcast via like a Zoom phone call or something. We haven't had any guests on the
podcast yet, but we do have quite a few friends that we want to bring in and they're one of them.
So I bought all the equipment necessary to do a Zoom call. I think season two will have like
season two of our podcast. I think our intention is to have some guests people are to talk a little
bit more about their experiences too because everybody's experiences I think are different
and how they got into it are different. And I mean even just recently we reconnected with our,
I don't want to say reconnected because we've always been kind of friends, but like friends here
and there with the person. If you've listened to our first podcast, we talked about a girl who
was interested in both of us and we were friends with her and she got us kind of like
into going to Freedom makers and introduced it to us. We weren't even in the LS at that point.
Introduced us to that. But I mean if we're looking like back at the whole story, we didn't really
tell like a really good backstory about her. We just touched on it, but she was actually like a
good friend of yours and then she became a good friend of mine and we actually have as she's
gotten married and we've kind of done our own things. We've kept in touch here and there,
for milestones and things like that. We've been to each other's different birthdays and stuff and
always kept in contact and we recently, I think you and him kind of touched a little bit on like,
oh are you guys? What had happened was, yeah, we had that initial friendship and then
as you do, over time you grow apart a little bit, but then like you said, we got back together,
started hanging out and then I was doing some work at their house one day and I was asking him,
I'm like, hey, have you ever been to this particular club in the area? And he was like, yeah, we went
a long time ago and he's like, are you guys doing this now? Are you still into it? And I'm like,
yeah, actually, we kind of got back into it recently and he was like, oh shoot, maybe we need to
start talking about doing it again or something. I'm like, yeah, cool. And then literally probably
a couple, I don't know, maybe a year, two years later, I hit him up for, I don't remember what it
was, but I hit him up. I'm like, hey, there's actually a party because they live about an hour
from us and the party that we've got, we have talked about many times before the DTF communities
Lust Party, which is a monthly deal. There was one coming up. So I hit him up. I'm like, hey, I
don't know if you guys are into parties, but we got this party that we attend every month and it's
a really cool group of people. You should come out. And then he was like, that's funny. You say
that because we were just talking, maybe we should try going to some parties again. And I think it
was that one they actually came out. So that was our first actual LS event together.
Yeah, which is so crazy. That's what I'm like. It's so crazy because we've been like, they got us,
like she got us into it, essentially. I mean, I want to say goddess, I mean, she introduced us
kind of introduced us to the event, the vibe. She introduced us to the vibe in FAA. Yeah. And then
which FAA, if you didn't hear our first episode is a used to be a, it's a now defunct club in
Southern California. It's now an Amazon facility. Yes. Now an Amazon facility. So it was Freedomakers
slash club FAA. It's been out here for 20 something years. It was like a staple in the community.
It was one of the only places really to go to out here for a while. Yeah. For a long time.
But that's what we talk about when we say FAA. Yeah. So she was the one who kind of told us about
the place. And then I think they went through their own lifestyle journey. It's kind of what I
understand. We talked briefly about it. They had their own group of friends, but I don't know what
happened there. So I don't know. Maybe we can have them on too. And they can talk about their
little, their kind of like how they've gotten through their side of events. Yeah. Cause,
but yeah. So they stayed, we all stayed friends and reconnected and you made out with her at the
last party. But it was kind of funny though, because some of you might be able to like associate
with this, but when you've had somebody as a friend, friend for such a long time,
it is kind of weird to attach a sexual sexualization to them. Yeah. So the first time they came out,
we're standing around and I was just like, well, you know, back in the day, we were attracted
to each other. So I was like, Hey, can I see your boobs? Well, and you're still attracted to her. Of course.
But I was like, Hey, can I see your boobs? And she pulled him out. I'm like, that was easy. That was
too easy. I'm like, well, mine were already out. Exactly. I was like, I really make things a little
more comfortable. I was like, can I feel your boobs? She's like, yeah. So that, that was like odd at
first, not weird, but odd because it's like, it's something that never happened. Like it should
have happened probably years ago, but it just never did. Yeah, everything happened for a reason,
you know, exactly. So it, it was like, okay, interesting, you know, cool. And it stopped there
because I'm like, I'm, I'm still very shy. Yeah, like I have to, I have to know. Well,
someone suggested her and I make out. That was me. Yeah, I'm sure it was you. You're shy. It was at
the end of the night, we were saying our goodbyes. And I was like, I think you guys should say goodbye.
Goodbye to each other. So also I'd like for you to, I'd like to see you guys make out.
Chop, chop. Let's go. Let me just get it done. So that was the second time. And then they ended
up coming to another party and then we were on the back porch and I don't know how it came up, but
back in the day, like we're talking 20 years ago, 20 years ago, over 20 years ago, before I even met
you, it was right before you met me. Because it was, because I got the documentation. I was like,
let me see the date on this. I'm going to need a stamp. I'm going to need to see a time stamp.
So back in the day on Myspace, you know, we all, this was on like AOL.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're right. Yeah, the AOL chats. I was Myspace era. You were before that.
Yeah, this was AOL when you had to get the little CD and you bought like the free 90 minutes or
whatever. I totally don't know what you're talking about. Exactly. You were too busy growing up.
So during that time, we were all part of like a group that went out clubbing and stuff like that.
And you know what? When you say were, you're talking about the girl and you and your little
group. You guys had a whole group. Yes, we had, we were all part of like a group. Yeah.
Pretty scandalous group, I should say. Yeah. But it was a fun group. And I just like every other,
you know, male had a penis picture. I had a penis picture. I had one, I had a few, but there was
one that I was particularly proud of. I mean, it was a good picture. And so I definitely distributed
it around quite a bit. You get a picture. You get a picture. I felt like Oprah out there on AOL.
But that being said, that I was like, say for the record, I never got that picture.
You didn't. You did not. Never got that picture. I don't know. I don't know why. I don't know why
either. I don't know. This is the first time I sign it. 25 years later. Spoiler alert.
So anyways, we're on the back porch talking and somehow that picture comes up and she is like,
oh my God, I still have that picture. And I'm like, no, I don't even own that picture currently. I
don't even know where that's at. Can you text it to me? It's like, yeah, text it to me because I mean,
I was a bit skinnier then. But the dick's still the same. It showed a little bit better in that
picture than it does now. But hey, whatever. So anyways, so she's like, I still have that
picture and we're like, no. And then she goes into her drop box and she starts diving through some
folders and all of a sudden, boom, my dick pic is on her phone. I'm like, holy shit, I am not ever
running for president because she will she will she's got all the dirt. She's got all the dirt on
you. She's got all of it. So that was I was impressed. I was impressed as well. I was like,
I was impressed by the dick pic. But I'm like, this is that's that's crazy. Her husband was like,
what the hell? What else do you have on there? And then I was like, wait a second, I would like
to see a time stamp on this. When did you get this picture? And when did we get together? It was
literally like two months before we met. The pic was taken. Sounds about right. Yeah. The math adds up.
The pic was taken and distributed. I will say, since we've been together, I've only sent that
dick pic out roughly 25 to 30 times. Got it. Just so happens I wasn't one of those people. You were
not one of them. Well, you had it in real life. So anyway, so yeah, that that was quite the that
was quite the thing. And then, um, yeah, a little bit later in the night, you know, a couple drinks in.
I don't remember exactly where prompted it, but I don't remember either. Because you said I was
standing there, but I you were yeah, you were standing there and it was just like one of those
things. Yeah, we were on the dance floor. Yeah. And it was just one of those things where I like
looked at her, she looked at me and I was like, I think we need to kiss. And yeah, she was a good
kisser. You told me she was a good kisser. So I'm like, I think I had to check it out myself.
But um, I told her I'm like, that was 25 years into making. So that was that was interesting.
That was, uh, yeah, kind of crazy, like how just things come around. Circle, full circle. Dick
picks just circle back around. My dick picks circle back around. And uh, yeah. So yeah, it was kind
of, uh, kind of fun. So hot to see where things go with that. But um, yeah, it was, uh, it was cool
to have the originator of the end, the originator, the instigator, all of the above. Because I mean,
if it wasn't for them, who knows? I mean, I mean, we might have still fell into this, but
it wouldn't have been, it would definitely would have been different because we would have had no,
no reason to ever hear of freedom makers. Right. And yeah, there was, I mean, I mean,
my brain, my brain didn't even like, wasn't even operating on that level. Yeah. Cause as she said
that you told her that you didn't think I would be into it when she first said something to you,
which makes sense. We had just barely started dating. Yeah. I mean, we just barely started dating.
And actually I wasn't even probably old enough to go at that time. Probably not originally,
not the, not the very first time. But it was, I mean. But you might not have even wanted,
she might not know, she might not have known I wasn't old enough to go because maybe she was on
the younger side too of your guys's group, I think. And she's only a little bit older than I am.
Yeah. I mean, I, I may or may not have provided her with alcohol. Yeah, exactly. I'm pretty sure the,
the, what's, what's it called the, the time limit where you can prosecute.
Oh, the statute of limitations. I'm pretty sure the statute of limitations is over by now for that.
So I don't know that I was even old enough to go because like I said, she was on the younger
side of your guys's group, I think. And I'm a little bit younger than she is. So yeah, I
probably wasn't even old enough to go initially when it was brought up. So that's part of the
reason. And then once I was old enough, it just never worked out. But yeah, we wouldn't have,
I don't know that we would have even have had known about her, had a reason or,
I wonder where she heard about it. I will have to ask her because. Yeah, I don't know that I've
even asked her that. Yeah, I, yeah, I don't know. Yeah. Cause back in that day, I mean, I'm sure
there was groups like there are now. Yeah. But I don't know if like the, the Cassities and the
SDCs and the SLSs are of the world are, were around about that. I don't have no idea. Yeah. I mean,
all the apps from now, like the three funds and field and all, none of those were around and
adult friend finder wasn't around. So it's like the social media aspect definitely was lower.
What have been Craigslist? Was that even around? Craigslist, Craigslist actually back in the day
before they, they cranked down on it was big for a lot of sex working stuff, which is why they
had to clamp down on it. Cause. Just became a porn site. I think it was like probably liability and
people, you know, got hurt and all that stuff. So, anyways, so, so yeah, we, we, I told, I told
them about the party coming up this weekend. So we might see them. Yeah. They want to do a,
a live interview. I think she just had a birthday. Yes. So, or it's coming up. It's around mine.
Yeah. So I can't remember the exact date. But yeah. So yeah, we got a, so we'll celebrate
her birthday if they come out. Yeah, for sure. So yeah, for this season, I think we want to touch
on a lot of, like you said, some, some more interviews. We have the equipment capability now
of doing, you know, a couple more people in the studio and, you know, I got. AKA our guest room.
Our guest room, my, my recording studio. It's my man cave recording studio, music production
studio, yeah, video game room. So I think we want to do some more. Yeah. We had a couple people
say they want to be on. We got the founders of the DTF community. Yeah, they want to be on.
They want to come on. We have my whiskey friend. They want to be on. We have
Tom and Liz. Tom and Liz. So we're going to have to do that one remotely. Yeah. Figure that one out.
So we'll have to see how we do. Hopefully we'll get some more stories. Yeah.
Yeah. And then we have a lot of stuff coming up. We've just, well, we just did a Super Bowl party.
We didn't have one. We went to a Super Bowl party. We've got a DTF party. I don't even think we've
had a podcast since we did our last DTF party. No, we have not. Yeah. So we had, we've been to a DTF
party, last party, Super Bowl party. Super Bowl party was an LS party. Was an LS party. And then we
have a party this weekend. Yeah. So Saturday, February 17th, if you guys get this one in time,
it is in Minifee. You can check it out on Cassidy. If you look up DTF community,
their next party is Saturday, February 17th. And it's an open party. You can check it out there
in RCP and pay online and do all that fun stuff. We're going to be there. Yes. And then we also have
what's it called? Oh, Memorial Day weekend. Yeah. We have a few more parties between that though.
Yeah. Nothing concrete though. We have parties, but things are going to pop up. But yeah, the
less the less thing is a monthly thing. Yeah. And then Memorial Day and then we've just decided
we're doing Dirty Vegas. Dirty Vegas in June. Which we've never done. Nope. So we're still trying
to figure that out because we need to know about the hotel situation. So if you know about the
hotel situation for Dirty Vegas, maybe you can email us and tell us how we get a book hotel.
Yes. Because we've been trying to get a hold of the Plesh people for that. I think it's sold out.
I think we're going to have to go overflow. Overflow. But I just like to know where that is,
you know, because I don't want to just book somewhere and just, I don't know. The closest hotel
to where the Dirty Vegas is at is the Sahara, I think. So I wonder if they would... There's like
probably other boutique hotels that just aren't popping up. That's what I'm saying. Yeah. Maybe.
Maybe the parking grouches. No, because I think there was one literally almost connected to it.
Really? I don't know. I was looking at another thing. But anyway, that's, I digress. Yes. So yeah.
We've got a lot of stuff going on and we're going to talk about it. Yeah, there you go.
About right now though. Because my voice is shot. And I'd like to do maybe halfway through this season,
do like a Q&A episode where we compile all the questions we get from our listeners.
And then we can just do a nice Q&A because there's some good questions coming in that we haven't
really addressed yet on the podcast. So if you have any questions you'd like to ask us,
you can shoot us an email at thesweetsideoflifepodcastatoutlook.com and make sure you follow us
on TikTok at the sweet side of live podcast. And we're going to probably open up like an Instagram
or like a Twitter X, whatever it's called these days here pretty soon because I know we're missing
a lot of people out there as well. And Reddit too. Reddit. Reddit. Reddit's like a bar after 2am.
Nothing good happens on Reddit. No, it really doesn't. And it's very weird. There's very odd
rules on some of these groups in Reddit. Yeah. They're like, don't capitalize any M's. We're
going to get banned from the group. Like I remember a while ago you were in a group called Smiles.
Yeah. And if there was like any cleavage in the Smile group, you got kicked out. Yeah. And I was
like, what? But then some people were like full nude but they had a smile. Like it was so weird
that I was another one about eyes. And if the picture wasn't close enough to your retina,
you got banned. You got banned. It's like so weird. Yeah. I want to see the guys that are
moderating in these groups. You can't show two eyes at once because you might get your nose in it.
God forbid your eyes are cross-eyed. Right? Maybe that's a fetish. It probably is. Anyways.
We digress. We digress. So when it was, it's going to be back season two. We're going to try to get
back onto a bi-monthly schedule now that the sicknesses are on the mend and we got some other
parties coming up. So wish us luck in that journey. Yeah. Hopefully we don't get sick at these parties.
Exactly. That is one bad thing about the LS. Yeah. Sicknesses go around. Every party,
we're not even talking about like, you know, the STDs or the STIs or like just colds. Like
everybody's, you know, got cooties of some kind. And you go to these parties and just, you know,
you know, being close contact and it's just, it's like a gamble and leaving every party without a
cold or some kind. Definitely a gamble. But it's a gamble that we like to do. It's a, what's the,
what's the term? It's a calculated risk. Yes. Calculated risk. So anyways, thank you guys
for listening so much. We are Mr. and Mrs. Emily Sweets. And when enjoying the sweet side of life,
keep your pineapples upside down, believe in unicorns and keep shaking it up. Love you, baby.
Love you too. I love you. I love you. I wrote the book of love. I think my voice is going to get
deeper than you are. You think so? I don't know. Home. Home. All right. Rouse. This out.
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