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podcast, Mr. and Mrs. Sweets. Sweets. Sweets. Is that what I, is that what you mean by introduce us?
Yes. Okay. Normally I do it. I like to change things up on you. Normally I welcome people back.
So are you going to do the outro? No, you're the outro. So anyways, it's been a couple of weeks
now since we did our bonus episodes. Yeah. Two weeks, right? Sounds about right. We've been,
the plan was to make this a twice a month podcast. Right. So far, we've been sticking to a pretty good
once a month podcast. Right. Which is, hey, it's work in progress. High five. I'm sorry to reach you.
But we're trying. We're trying. We're getting in more of a groove. We're getting into more of a
pattern. I think the bonus ones help like that we don't have to be all like, like so professional,
like in our seats with our microphones and our pop filters and our pop filters and all the things.
And I'm not watching the, the meters bouncing and right. Obviously the ones in quality blows.
But yeah, the quality sucks and the impromptu ones are going to be shorter. Although it was the
last one that I'm sure because I feel like I was talking really fast. The last one went, I think,
40 minutes. It was like, espresso. And it was just, it was actually kind of cool because it was the,
it was the day after. So I had every like, every detail in my head, you know, I mean, we had already
talked a little bit about it like off air, if you will, but like some of it we hadn't. And then just
things were coming to me as I was talking and I know I was talking super fast. Yes, you were.
I was driving down the freeway up in LA trying not to get us killed and she was on like,
I had my espresso and coffee and going food in the belly. You're, you're on a, you're on one
ready to discuss it all, all the things, all the things. But we did actually get a,
I'm going to pull back the curtain. The way we recorded those bonus episodes was very high tech.
We held an iPhone up between the two of us in the car. You actually were the mic stand while I was
driving. I was the mic stand. And so we actually bought some wireless lavalier mics that go into a,
that go into a little thing that plugs into the iPhone. And I think that's going to help with
the audio. Cause I would like to do more of the bonus kind of off the cuff episodes because A,
I don't have to edit those. B, I can release them like right away. And I think, you know,
when we're en route to an event or on our way home from event, it's kind of cool to document that.
So hopefully these, these little lavalier wireless mics that we got help with the quality,
just a little bit. It's not going to, it's not going to rock your world or blow your socks off.
But hopefully, you know, here's much of the, the car vibrations and the engines and the people
honking at us cause I'm driving slow in the right lane. So we'll see. Yeah. I think that it'll probably
help. Um, I mean, this was unusual. It's difficult. I know we kind of talked about potentially
doing something similar when we went to the less party last weekend. Yeah. But we didn't,
but it's like so it was a lot easier with that with the party we went to in Whittier because it was
farther away from us and what we had and we had a drive and we, you know, it was like,
there was time to do that with the less parties. A lot of times we're Ubering and if we're not
Ubering, um, the drive is only like, I mean, with traffic, it can be like, you know, yeah, who knows.
Yeah. So it's not as long as the, you know, one is a two hour drive down. Yeah. So it can just,
so it's harder. I think, I mean, if we're in an Uber, obviously that could be awkward. We're like,
Hey, we're very interesting. Yeah. Oh yeah. I could go either way. But anyway, so I don't know.
We'll see how many of those like make sense. Yeah. We're doing some stuff for new years. So
before we go any further, I know we haven't cheers. I was actually thinking that too. And I was kind
of getting parched. I hit my drink on my mic. So professional here. Cheers. Cheers. So tonight,
let's first take our sip. Our drinks are similar colors even though we have different drinks.
Yes, I will take, I will describe my drink very quickly. It is what's called a pink lemonade.
It has vodka, triple sec, sweet and sour, and then it's topped with cranberry juice.
Fairly basic, but a nice sweet drink. It's a very refreshing summer drink.
Pink lemonade. Just like pink lemonade. Just like the name. Now yours on the other hand. Mine
is also simple, but it's a little more refreshing. It's also a summer drink, even though we are
nearing winter. We are. But it is called a peach cobbler. And you always make it, but it's peach
whiskey, crown peach whiskey, because I don't like the other peach whiskies. I'm kind of a
you know, like the Jim Dean peach? No, no, they taste too whiskey. No, too sweet.
Like they're trying too hard. Yeah, it's like fake. Fake sugar or something. I don't know. It's not
fake sugar because it's not like the, not like that taste, but it's like fake peach. I don't know.
It just doesn't, I don't like it as much. So I like crown. Sorry, Jim. Sorry, Jim, beam. Yeah, sorry.
But if crown wants to sponsor me, I will accept that all day long. I don't even drink crown and
I'll accept that. I mean, I have like five bottles on the bar. So I do all different flavors. Anyway.
Oh, I know I talked, sorry. You didn't finish the recipe. I know. Side track. Just real quick side
track. I know in a previous episode, I had talked about the salt, the salted caramel whiskey and
is it caramel or caramel? Is it tomato tomato? Is it one of those things? Yeah, I think so. I will
go with that. But anyway, I, I know I talked about it and I said it's seasonal and it is the season.
So right now I saw it in stores. I mean, I have two bottles on the bar, but I'll definitely get
another one before the season's over because it's seasonal. So I'm gonna drink with it.
Well, the drink I made with it, I think on the podcast was, I believe, a salted caramel apple.
I don't think you drink that on the podcast, did you? Yeah, I believe so. We'll have to double check,
but I'm pretty sure. Anyway, but it, we did talk about it and it is now the season to get it. So
if you want to try it, that's in the store. Oh, you had salted caramel apple whiskey. Yeah.
That's what I said. But what was the mixer? Ginger beer. Ginger beer.
Anyway, so this is the peach whiskey. It is triple sec. Yep. Lemon juice. Lime juice. Lime juice.
And then you use like a blackberry preserve. Yes. And you shake it really well so it kind of shakes
it up and then strain it into a glass. It's really good. Delicious. It is delicious. It's quite strong
too. Well, yeah, because it's mostly just booze. I mean, everything I said there. Basically for a
full-size glass. Like normally it's intended to come in like, well, it does one of those tiny
glasses. The rocks glasses. Yeah. We don't do our drinks like that here. Well, I mean, what's the
point then when we have to get up every 10 seconds to refill it? Exactly. There's a lot of while you're
up moments. So we just, just go hard and get the big glass. So for that big one, it's got four shots
of whiskey. Then it's got three shots of triple sec. Dang. Really? One shot of lime juice. In this
glass. Yes. Holy moly. I should be a lot drunker than I am. You're professional. I am a professional.
Or do we just call it an alcoholic? It's a professional. Alcoholics go to meetings. Yeah.
We don't go to meetings. No. And we don't have shakes in the morning. So I think we're good.
It's true. And then of course, like a table or a teaspoon of the blackberry preserves.
So it's mostly just booze. Yeah. The only real mixer is lime juice. Lime juice.
And there's, there's like one ounce, one ounce. Yeah. One ounce of that.
Well, I mean, I make my margaritas similar to that. Margaritas are four shots of tequila.
I mean, we can't, oh, I knocked that. Sorry guys, with my nails. Yeah, we can't give that recipe
because I haven't made a, I haven't made a margarita. Yes. But I did do it on a TikTok. So I kind of
gave it away on there. Speaking of TikTok, you guys got to make sure you look for us
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And speaking of people reaching out to us, we have somebody reach out to us about
we kind of asked, Hey, what do you guys want to hear about? What do you want us to talk about?
There's lots of things in the lifestyle we could talk about. We make lists on our phones every day,
things that were like, Oh, we can talk about this. Yeah, but somebody reached out and said
they wanted us to discuss the three different lifestyle resorts in Palm Springs and what our
thoughts were on them. Because we mentioned we're from Southern California. Right. So there's a lot
of great places out here, three of which are in Palm Springs. Right. And they specifically asked
about the three in Palm Springs. Two of which we have been to. We have been to. One of which we
have not been to, but we will still give you our reasons why we actually haven't been there. Because
it's kind of intentional that we, yeah, in a way that we haven't been there. Well, I have a feeling
we're going to, we're going to make it there. Because clubs and resorts and the such are
are very much like movie reviews. One person may not like movie, but I like that movie. So I don't,
I don't like to base my decisions solely on movies. I'll take it into consideration and,
you know, go from there. But without it actually being there, I can't, we can't speak too much on
it. You know, we can definitely have our reasons we haven't been there yet, mostly because I'm a
creature of habit. Once I find a place I like to go, I don't like to lose a weekend to a place that
I might not like. Right. And I mean, if we, but if we had heard like fanta, I mean, it's not just
one person who said something. So I just don't want to talk negatively about something too much
that we've never actually been to. Right. And I don't have any desire to do that either. I just,
I mean, there is reasons why we haven't been there. So yeah, there, that is what it is.
It is what it is. It is what it is. But the three resorts they asked us to talk about were
Disneyland. Where apparently there's a secret room at Disneyland. Okay, creep.
We're inside the small world. Oh my, you saw what happened this week. That naked dude was running
around. He wasn't naked. He was naked by the end. What you saw was he had his bottoms on,
but by the end he was naked and they had the dragon out. Okay, that's just too much. Whatever drugs
he was on, share them should have probably not taken them at Disneyland. He should have taken
them at one of these resorts were discussing there. It's okay to get naked. Yeah. But any who,
we digress. You digress. I digress. Okay, so the three resorts we were asked to talk about was
EDR, exotic dreams resort, Tuscany, Hills, Hills resort and why is my name, my spring,
Mountain Inn, Sea Mountain Inn Resort. It's also called SMI to a lot of people. Right. They have a
resort in Palm Springs and they also have one in Las Vegas as far as I know. It seems to be open,
but it's, I don't really, it's hard to say. Does anybody know? It's like kind of one of those
things like you don't talk about the fight club. Like it's like, is it not? We don't really know.
We see things that it is, but then it's like people have a really hard time finding it.
We've never been there and when last time we were in Vegas, we kind of looked for it, but
the address didn't, it presented a strip mall. Yeah, it didn't make sense. I'd love to try it,
but I'm sure we will at some point. It really is there. But it's just one of those things. We
have places in Vegas that we like. Yeah. We still try it. Not as many, but yeah, it's just,
when we get out, I just, I don't want a bad place. Right. So anyway. So the two that we've been to
have been EDR and SMI. SMI was actually the first one we've ever been, we ever went to. It was
the one I think you had just heard about from somebody or on something. I heard about it on
podcast. On Cassidy. Cassidy and I think it made its appearance a few times in the podcast.
Right. So SMI for me, well, it's a lot. It was our first ever resort we went to. And it was
fairly new into us getting kind of reacquainted with this whole community. Yeah, it was way
early in our, in our comeback tour. Comeback tour. Yeah. And it's all nude, like mandatory
nude. Women can wear lingerie, I think at night. Women can wear lingerie. You can wear
robes, which we went in the fall. So it was a little bit chilly. Now, I will say at night,
during the day it was warm. Yes. I will say in a, in regards to the all nude, we've since had friends
tell us that they might have loosened up on that. And that seems to be the case with their Worden
on the website. Back when we first went, the Worden was pretty, it was pretty specific. And it was
like nudities required. Guy, you know, you can wear a towel at the, in the pools and stuff like that.
You can do that. But they were pretty, pretty strict about it. But we were told by some friends
that I think have been there recently that it's a little, little looser, which makes sense. That's
going to lend itself to a lot of people. Yeah, I think they said that you can wear suits outside
of the pool, but not in the pool. Yeah, I think that's what the website says now that in the pool
and Jacuzzi is still nude, but around the pool, you can be in whatever you want. It's, it's optional.
Yeah. So anyway, what we went, it was full nude and it's also a bit of, well, okay, so first of all,
we wouldn't fall. So just remember that that's not the prime time for things going on in Palm Springs.
Like the weather's still nice, but it's chilly at night and it was windy and during the day,
it was really nice and warm. But in general, people don't think, oh, let me go to Palm Springs
in the fall. They're like mostly, you know, summer or spring break type of place. So it's
probably, it was actually pretty busy, but it was also right post COVID. Like people were itching to
get out. So it was pretty busy, but just people had masks on their penises. No, but just in general,
I think that the vibe was a lot calmer. It wasn't really like a party vibe. I didn't get it. But
also we were probably a little more introverted than we are now. Right? I know. I laughed because
like I had a towel basically up to my neck. Yeah. Like, and then I have like couple drinks in,
it went down a little bit lower and then a lower and then I was away. Yeah, I was, I had a towel
around my waist. So much to the point that my dick got like rubbed, it got chaffed because of the towel.
Because I was kind of rocking, you know, a little chub for a good chunk of the day and it was just
constantly rubbing on the towel. I remember that. So like the next day I got up, I'm like, oh man,
it's a little bit sore. This is kind of tender. So yeah, it's a real struggle. So,
but I just, I don't know, I didn't get, I also, we got to talk about the best part. There's two
best parts. Okay. Talk and tell me. Okay. Give it to me, baby. You're kind of getting ahead. So,
before we get too far into the story. So, like, like we mentioned, this is our first time at any
type of resort. We haven't had a whole lot of experiences with clubs or venues. So you really
don't really don't know what to expect. So we get in the car, we start driving, I'm following, you
know, the GPS and we're like pulling into like a residential neighborhood and it's like, what is,
where are we going? Like, I didn't know what to expect. So we pull into this dirt parking lot.
And we were staying there. So it was like a hotel to us. So we were also thinking like,
this does not look like a hotel. Like, it looks like I'm about to like crash on someone's couch.
It's like, hey bro, can I borrow the couch for you? Because so that's the other thing is like,
if I was just thinking it was a pool thing and at a house party or whatever, it would have been
a little bit different. Like pulling up to that, not thinking this was so weird.
But because it was supposed to be our hotel room as well for the night, it was kind of like,
it was our haven for the night. Wait, what's that happening? So we pulled up and we get into this
dirt lot and we park along the edge of this building and there's, you know, like commercial
dumpsters on the outside and, you know, the weeds are growing up and it just, it didn't,
it didn't look like a five star hotel. No, and it was kind of expensive. It was very expensive.
It was like almost $600 for the night. Yeah, it was like, yeah, $5.58. Like, yeah.
So we pulled up and we're just kind of like, oh, and then I know in my notes that I said you had
to go to this door, knock on the doorway for somebody to answer. And it was like this whole
thing. And then so we pull into the grass and I'm like, are you ready? Are we going to do this? And
your face, your face kind of went flush. Yeah. And also just so you guys know, we roll in,
like we're moving in because Mr. Sweets wants to have everything he could possibly.
I bring a bar. Yeah, have. So it's like, well, because I want, I want to serve myself drinks.
And I also, I like to entertain. Right. So if we meet someone, I like to have the,
hey, come the back to the room. I'll make you a cocktail. And I like to make a couple
different versions of cocktails. So yeah, I like, I like my bottles. Right. So we have like a cooler
and our suitcase and just a shit ton of stuff. I mean, I don't know. I don't even know what else
I could even say. I don't know why we had so much stuff, but like a backpack, we rolled, we rolled
deep. Like it's like so much stuff. Yeah. And we don't even bring our own bedding. Some people bring
their own bedding to these things. We just, we just assumed they were going to have pillows for us.
Yeah. So, so we, we unload the truck where we decided, all right, we're going to do this. This
is what we're doing. And then we get out, we walk all of our stuff up to this front door.
If I recall correctly, it was like a big kind of wooden door or whatever. And we rang a door.
It seemed like the side of the house. Yeah. Like very weird. Yeah. So then we rang the doorbell,
whatever it was, and then they open up. It was a girl in a strong. Yes. Oh, that's something else
you could wear too, if you wanted to, was a strong. Oh yeah. Because I remember you were looking for a
strong. Tons of strong. Yeah. So she answers the door and she's like, yeah, follow me to the office.
We'll get you checked in. We're like, great. So we start going along this path right along the
edge of the pool. And there's a bunch of people in there already, a bunch of people tanning,
you know, and at this time it was mandatory naked basically. So all these people are literally
butt naked, but naked. There's getting hand jobs on the couch. Oh, and the other thing with SMI is
they don't have any rules about where you can have sex or anything. Like, you can do it anywhere.
Like, I mean, literally anywhere. As far as I remember, the other was, no, there was,
there was no rule. He told us that during our tour. Do you remember his name? The owner?
Dooby or Dobby or... You're so close. Doobaloo. Doe. Doe. Dobby, Doobie. What's up, Dobby.
Anyway, so they start walking us around the edge of the pool and we're nervous and all of a sudden
they start announcing us as the new people. Yeah, we're like cattle. Yeah, it was like fresh pieces of
meat. I'm okay with it because I'd like to be the center of attention, but it was a little weird.
Oh, and we were dressed still. We were completely dressed. We were sober. Sober as hell. That's
probably the biggest part I struggled with is I was not ready for that and then I was sober as hell.
So they walked by and we're all like awkwardly waving everybody as they're like removing their
hands from penises and waving at us and like assessing us like, hmm. Like, and this is, you
know, one o'clock in the afternoon. This is just bright sunlight. This is great. So then, yeah,
we went in and got, you know, got our room and everything. And I just wanted to make sure we
talked about the meat parade part that I felt like. Yeah, I mean, I get why they do it. I get the
I get the point behind it. Because I would do that. I would do that. Like, I would be like,
hey, everybody, these are new friends, not meaning anything malicious by it. Yeah. But to someone
that was in our position, that was the first time ever rolling into any event like that. It was
intense because it was very intense. You know, we almost didn't get out of the car to begin with.
Right. And now all of a sudden we're like, you know, we have neon signs over our heads to say
open now. Yeah, it was a lot. It was a lot. But I'm yeah, like you said, I think I get I get why
they do it like it's to make you feel. Part of the part of the group right away. Yeah. But I don't
know if that worked, but like want to talk to you and come up to you. Yeah, I don't know if that
worked because for us, it didn't at that time. Yeah, I do get it, I guess. Yeah, it's got its pros
and cons and right. I mean, they didn't mean anything by it outside of it. Yeah. But anyway,
so we went through that whole thing. And then I think the first thing we did was
get undressed to our towels. And then we made some extremely strong drinks. I was, I was on my
Bahama Mama phase right there. So I probably had a Bahama Mama with, you know, six to seven shots
of rum in it right off the bat. Let's go. I know. It sounds so bad. It's like we have to drink to do
this stuff. But I don't know. I just feel like I need a bit of a head. I mean, now it's not.
Now I'm not the same, but as bad. I don't I don't need it to be comfortable, but I need it to
be
an extrovert version of me. Yeah, I need it to like, because normally I'm an extreme introvert.
And those that know me don't believe me. But when I'm stone cold sober,
really know you believe you those exactly know you under certain circumstances don't believe you.
Yeah, because get a couple drinks in me, I can, I can be out there. I can be a, you know,
having fun and everything. But it definitely takes a few drinks for me to get past my,
you know, social anxiety issues and stuff like that. And but do you remember where we went first?
The jacuzzi in the bench around the jacuzzi. Oh yeah, we sat around the jacuzzi. We didn't
get in the jacuzzi. We just sat around. We got in later. We did. Yeah, but that first couple hours,
we were just sitting there like, why did I like, well, yeah, because okay, so do you remember
the couple in the jacuzzi? Which couple guy and the woman. Oh, so there was a guy, an older guy
with a probably, she was probably not too, too young, but she was younger than him, but younger
than him. But she was petite. Very. And she and they're in the jacuzzi and the jets are going.
And so you can't really see what's going on under the water, but you just see her
sit on his lap and then she just starts making, sitting on his lap like facing outward. So her
butt is in his lap. So it was like a seated reverse cowgirl. No, it was just sitting on
her lap, like sitting on his lap. Like, but she was facing away from him. Yeah. So that's a seated
reverse cowgirl. If he was laying down, if you reverse cowgirl, I'm saying seated. Yeah. I'm
making up positions, but I'm just, that's the way I visualize it. Yeah. So anyway, she's sitting,
don't argue with me. And you can't like, but then her knees are kind of like, she's almost squatting.
She had the knees were pulled up, right? Yeah, like almost squatting on his lap.
So I'm say it on his dick. Well, that's, that's the thing that we, I couldn't figure out. And I was
like, do I stare or do I look away? And I like, it was like so awkward because she's making these
like moaning crazy noises. It was like animalistic noises. It was like, and I think he was, I think
it was in her butt. I'm not 100% sure though. I'm not a bedding man, but I would, I would have put
some money on that. Cause yeah. So she, and just, and, but she was barely moving. That's why I think
it was in her butt because she wasn't like bouncing. Yeah. It wasn't going for like a full thrust.
There was no, no, there wasn't even that. It was literally almost like she was just sitting there.
And I couldn't even like see, I was like, who's, but she was making these wild noises. And I'm like,
you wanted to get in there with your hand. But I'm like sitting, but I'm sitting on the outside of
it. And I'm like, okay, clearly they're doing it in front of us. Do I watch or do I look away?
Am I being rude if I'm staring? Cause I know how my face can get. And that's what you said.
You're like, it's rude if you're not watching. Cause clearly they're doing it literally right
in front of you. And they had a, they were putting on a show. Yeah. I mean, and she was not trying to
be like quiet about it. Like it was very much like this is happening right now. But what was
happening was the mystery because I couldn't see under the water, but it was like, yeah. But I'm
like, I know how my face can get sometimes when I'm like trying to analyze something. And I have a
bit of RVF. So I'm like, I don't, it kicks in when you're kind of squinting your eyes a little bit.
Cause I really was like very like curious what was actually happening. So I'm like,
trying to figure it out. And I'm like, my face, I should probably check my face because it's
probably looking like I'm being a bitch or something. Or I don't know. It was just so
bizarre. It was like the bizarre thing I think I've ever seen. And I think it's still the
bizarreest thing I've seen. And partially because I couldn't really tell what was happening to this
day. We don't know. But I think that is what was happening. Cause she was probably just barely
moving and it was just, I don't know, hitting her in the right spot. Cause there was a very little
movement going on, but lots of noise going on. Sounds about right. And then later when we were
sitting there, we had like a lot of stuff going on over there. Later when we were sitting there,
this older guy comes by with like his like just a raging boner like, oh, he, he was on,
he was walking around just, just paraded, bonerific the whole day. He had to have been on, you know,
a quite a bit of Viagra or something. Cause that dude was, maybe he did that shot thing that you
said. Oh yeah. You know, they, it's called a triplex where you put it in your, to your penis
and it goes hard until you take the antidote and it goes away. Yeah. Cause he was like,
and it was like when I was sitting like at the pool, it's like,
face level. I kept knocking your drink over. He's being in a face level. There was that one
couple that came by us. They were nudist and they came, they were from up north and they walked over
and you and I were sitting down and they were standing up and they're like, Hey, how are you
guys doing? And I turned and I was face level with penis. Oh yeah. It was maybe 12 inches away.
And I was like, well, yeah. And they were, they were chatting with us for a little bit. They were,
they were fun. They were friendly. And then there was this, it was just a lot to take and
they were from San Diego, right? No, they were. Oh, I thought you were talking about the one from
San Diego that came over. You know what? She wasn't, she was a Charter fan. Huh? Yeah. Yeah. I guess
so San Diego. Yeah. Yeah. Oh, you know, I think they said they went to a place in San Diego or
excuse me, Sacramento and were kind of coming back down and hitting a few resorts on the way.
Yeah. But they were, they were full on nudist. Yeah. And yeah. That was the first time that I think
I've talked to a fully naked woman and I had to practice the skills of where not to look.
But I don't know. I've gotten better since. Now I've kind of to the point of like, look. Yeah.
I didn't say, I mean, it's a bad, I mean, it's not, but it's like, there's like that level. You don't
want to be creepy, but you don't, I mean, you're also, you're also there to look and enjoy and
yeah. So yeah. Anyways. And then we had the other couple that sat at the bench across the jacuzzi
and then she was giving him a blow job. They were doing a full on show. And he was he going down on
her and stuff too, I think. I remember, I just, I mean, the part that I remember is her bent over
giving him a head because her cheeks were spreading right in my eye view. So yeah, I'm sure other
stuff happened, but that was the, that's the, the snapshot that's in my eye worm.
But yeah, that was another one where it's like, do we watch or?
Yeah, I mean, yeah, it's like, now we know it's like we knew at the time,
but the etiquette, you know, it comes with the more you see stuff like that, the more you get,
you know, feel natural around it. And when you start to feel more natural around nudity,
like right now, we can go to one of our places and somebody can be completely nude
standing right next to us talking. And I notice, I know it's there, but it doesn't,
it doesn't affect me at all. Like, you know, one of the things we're talking about is becoming
numb almost numb, almost numb to, to nudity, but then also realizing how much lamar vanilla pool
parties are. I'm like, why is nobody here taking their tops off? What the hell? Nobody's kissing
in that pool. You're not numb. You're like the reverse numb.
Reverse numb.
Bored with vanilla.
Oh, bored with vanilla. I thought you were saying like your numb to nudity, which
you are, but you also know.
I don't know if numb is the right word. You're just not as like shocked and odd by it.
You might be so be odd by it, but maybe just not shocked by it.
Yeah, I'm gonna say that.
Yeah. Yeah, we'll go with that.
Something still like what the heck is going on? There's some things that still are like,
uh, but it's not expecting that.
But yeah, so, and then they have a like club thing that they kind of do.
They have a DJ that comes in.
They have this like room between the pool and the jacuzzi.
It's a tiny room.
Yeah. And it has a bunch of, it has like a Moroccan like vibe. I mean, the whole place
kind of has like a boot.
It's all peace.
It's yeah, Buddha.
Peace, but like bunch of like pillows and like jewel tones.
They have a stripper pole.
Yeah. So I mean, that's really what you would do at in the evening.
And I don't know if that, I don't know if during the summer that changes.
Like if the, in the summer, if we had been there and it's still warm at night,
people would have, more people would have still been like in the pools and stuff.
I would imagine so. Yeah.
So it might change that kind of dynamic a bit. Like I said, we went in fall.
So it was too chilly to really go into the pool in the evening.
So kind of after everybody ate dinner, really people just either left.
If they weren't, you could order pizzas, right?
That's what we did.
Well, we just door dashed food.
Door dashed food.
Yeah. That's what a bunch of people did too.
Okay.
But anyway, oh, you mean from it?
Yeah. You could buy pizzas there.
Oh yeah.
We had to put in our order by like 5pm or something.
I think they did have like an Italian restaurant.
Yes.
Mass ordered from the restaurant.
That's what it was.
Yeah.
I think some people were door dashing food.
We door dashed at the EDR.
Yeah.
But we had never been there or done that.
So we just did what they kind of had available,
which yes was the Italian restaurant they mass order from.
So yeah. So we did that.
So anyway, I think, I mean the dancing and everything was fine.
It was fun.
But it wasn't like anything spectacular.
No. It was, it was, it was overwhelming initially,
but now that we've been to EDR, a lot of it was kind of tame to me.
Like the nighttime stuff and the playrooms, the lack of...
Well, they didn't have any playrooms.
Yeah. They had that one massage room that I think
if it wasn't massages, I think it was open for like play.
Yeah.
And of course that little dance room area had play, play aspect to it.
It did.
I think because you could kind of do it everywhere.
Anywhere, yeah.
Everybody was kind of spread out too.
Because it was like there were benches, there was like lounge chairs,
there was the pool, there was the jacuzzi, there was that little room.
I think it was maybe everybody was kind of spread out and maybe because it wasn't like
overly busy.
Although I think it was decently busy.
I mean, it was busier than some of the times we've been to EDR.
Yeah. We can't, we can't compare to any other time we've been to Sea Mountain in because we don't know.
We've only been there once, yeah.
I've, I mean, I've seen photos they published that it looks crazy busy, but then, yeah, you just,
you just know, you can't trust so far.
Yeah.
And in general, um, yeah, I don't even want to say this because I'm not even sure.
I was going to say that the crowd might be a little bit older, but I don't even know that
that's the right thing to say because I've only been there once.
So hard to say that that's exactly what it is.
The vibe was definitely for us when we went, was less party and more like couples and groups,
not, not really like, um, not really like clicky, but just like people had already kind of by the
time we got there, we came in the middle of the day and I think a lot of people probably started
like early in the day and, um, they had kind of already like coupled up or whatever and
they were kind of doing their play thing in the middle.
At that point, we weren't really even, we weren't even really looking to couple up.
Right.
Like we were like, we are open, but we weren't going there with any intentions.
We were just like, you know, like deer and deer and headlights just kind of like,
all right, let's absorb this and just go with the flow.
But we're still like, yeah, like I didn't have my head on the, I wasn't like, you know, actively
pursuing.
I was just kind of like, whoop, here we're here.
I'm thinking, I'm like, I got you here.
That's a win.
Yeah.
I'm like, we're here.
You're like, I'm not going to do anything.
I'm going to keep my hands underneath my legs and we are going to sit here and we're just going
to take in the sights and enjoy it and then see what happens.
Right.
So that was kind of our experience.
And we ended the night in a 24 person orgy.
No, we didn't.
That was kind of our experience with sea mountain and that it's, it was a good experience.
It was, it was, yeah, it was, it was intimidating at first.
I would like to go there again during summer.
Yeah.
When it's popping and it's a big party.
Yeah.
I want to give it a chance to see, because I mean, a lot of people actually say
that sea mountain in is party.
And that's not what we got, but I think it, a lot of it, a, like you said, it was right after
COVID.
Yeah.
B, it was fall.
And, you know, it was just, it was chill.
So I want to definitely go back there, like, you know, maybe next summer when it's popping and
yeah, cause I mean, I do recall like that next morning, waking up and walking out and
everything was calm.
I'm like, I want to do this again.
And then, you know, we ended up stumbling into a EDR and that became, you know, one of
our stomping grounds.
Yeah.
So, but we're not going to go into a full EDR review right now.
No, but we can kind of touch on Tuscany.
Why, yeah, we can talk.
Yeah.
So we, we have a Minda Tuscany.
It was on our list.
It still is on our list, I think, but it's just that we've had friends, we've had multiple
friends, not just one, but multiple friends basically say you have to go with a group of people
to have and really to have a good time because like go with like a group that's doing like a
takeover or something like that.
Cause it's really what I've heard is it's really pretty, like the pool area is really
beautiful is what I've heard, but that it also where it's not completely lifestyle,
it is a topless resort.
And like our friends who went there that we met in Palm Springs, they said that when they were
there, cause we met them the night they were there.
And I don't think it was a fur, I don't know if it was the first time they had been there,
but they were, they had stayed there all day.
The one, the friends that we met in Palm Springs at the karaoke bar.
Okay.
They were, they were there that day.
They, I don't know if they stayed the night before.
I know the night we met them, they weren't staying there that night, but I don't know if
they stayed the night before or if they were just planning on doing a day thing and then,
but anyway, they basically said that when they were there that it was primarily like
bachelorette parties, just like, let me do something crazy and go to this like topless place.
That sounds fun.
And, but they're not there, but they're not there to like
meet people or play or be respectful of like things.
You know what I mean?
I don't know.
And just like, it's not the same as like people who are in the lifestyle and like, no,
it's not fully lifestyle is what I've understood.
So that's why you kind of have to go with your own people because you just never know
what crowd is going to be there when you're there.
I will say we're part of, we're part of a lot of different communities on Cassidy.
And there for a while, it seemed a lot of people were holding event takeovers at Tuscany,
but I have not seen a group within the last year saying that they're going there for a takeover.
So, I mean, that speaks volumes, but I did also hear that, you know, I think they got a new owner
recently.
Yeah, I did hear that.
So it's, I think it's going to be one of those things that maybe, you know, we typically go to
EDR and we do a week in there, maybe one weekend we do like SMI one day and then Tuscany the next
day and just kind of moving of stuff.
But yeah, yeah, I mean, travel like work.
It is work.
But who's the one that always moves the suitcases?
Thank you.
So, but, you know, in a sense of like we're not putting all our eggs into one basket at one place,
you know, I think that might be fun.
You know, try to pick a weekend and we do, you know, maybe Tuscany on Saturday or maybe Tuscany on Sunday.
I mean, the thing is you just never know which one to do first and then it's like, did we really give
them a chance if we went on Sunday?
Yeah.
Because we know things are usually like slower on Sundays.
But I will say, were you there, did this conversation at the last party?
There's a advertisement that's used for Tuscany and it's got these boobs on it
and nice boobs.
And of course, why would you use bad boobs on an advertisement?
Are there bad boobs?
There are no such things as bad boobs.
But we just met the owner of those boobs.
We didn't just meet them, but I just confirmed at the last party.
Oh, I think I was there.
Yeah, you were kind of there, but I had.
I vaguely remember this conversation, but I don't remember who I kind of remember who it was.
Yeah.
But it was just kind of funny because I've seen the advertisement.
Oh, I remember who it was.
Yes.
The blonde.
Yes.
Yeah.
And we're sitting there and I'm like, I've seen the advertisement because it's the main
flyer that goes out on every single thing.
And we're sitting there and we've met this couple prior, but then it just kind of dawned on me.
We were talking to her at the last party and she was telling us she's like, she's a big supporter
of Tuscany.
And she was saying how I guess she's friends with the owner.
So she tries to support them and help them out anyway.
And I looked at her, I go, are you the boobs on the flyer?
She goes, yes.
I am like, I know those boobs.
So it was just kind of funny.
I'm like, put two and two together.
So are you the face with the boobs?
Got a face with the boobs.
So anyways, so yeah, like she said, we're going to eventually we're going to have to do a taste test.
Yeah, we'll check it out.
But that's why we have it.
Wait, am I talking about the boobs or the?
I thought you taste tested those that night.
I didn't taste test those.
I didn't taste.
Same on you.
Fail.
You said you were going to do a taste test.
Fail.
Celebrity boobs and you didn't taste test them.
They will be at the next one and they were also going to be going to the same New Year's Eve event we're going to.
There you go.
Let's touch on that really quick.
We'll just let's finish up the review.
I'm like my ADHD mind is like next, next, next.
Moving on.
I'm like boobs.
Next, next boobs.
So clearly we go to EDR a lot.
So we'll have to do another podcast talking solely about EDR because I wonder where are we at, babe?
Yeah, we got a lot.
Oh, we're at 45 minutes.
Yeah, we can't wrap this up in 15.
No.
You'll have like an hour.
I mean, we talked about a place we didn't really like for 45 minutes.
I know.
Why did you say it like that?
It's not that we really like it.
It's just that we're just, it's just, it wasn't.
It wasn't our favorite so far.
Favorite so far.
But I think we will try Tuscany.
I just.
Yep, for sure.
Um, I don't know, like you said, it's just so hard whenever we're down there.
It's like we have things that we want to do.
We love all the Tiki bars.
Yeah.
We love EDR and, you know, we used to go to Inferno when I was out there.
Yeah.
So that's no longer there.
So anytime we go to Palm Springs, it's just, we know what we like and we know it works for us.
And yeah, it's kind of hard to break the habit.
I know.
And it's like, it's like we drive all the way out there and then we have like not the best time and we go, we have FOMO like, oh, we could be at EDR.
Yes, there's so many places, but so we'll definitely, once, I think once summer comes around, we'll make sure it's, it's prime time, you know, we'll make sure it's the night of a big party.
Yeah.
I did hear it was really pretty.
Yeah.
I mean, yeah, I've heard that from multiple people.
So we'll just have to check it out.
I don't know about the rooms.
I'm trying to think what people have said about the rooms.
I think they're dated, but I think that's all of Palm Springs is dated.
Yeah, it's, they're not going to be Hilton's when you go there.
And yeah, Palm Springs in itself is.
Yeah, it's an older city.
But um, totally, totally bra.
Okay.
You're gonna, you're gonna come back.
I was.
But anyways, um, so yeah, that I think that's going to wrap up that side.
We'll have to talk about EDR on the next one.
Yeah.
We have a lot to say about that one.
And maybe, maybe not the next one, next one, but I would say in the next three
episodes we'll hit EDR because we got some other things we have to,
we have a whole list of things we want to talk about too.
I don't want to do just review after review after review.
You know what I mean?
But we'll see.
We'll see.
You're giving me eyes like.
Well, I mean, it was asked of us.
It was asked.
And we did some of it.
We did two or three.
Two of three.
That's pretty good.
Yeah.
Speaking of listeners, I'm looking at my, uh, my, uh, what's it called, analytics.
We have, uh, we have listeners, listeners.
We have, I'm going to assume, assume a listener in Romania.
Okay.
This listener has downloaded six episodes, which is.
We're only six.
I thought we had, oh, I didn't say which episode number we were.
Well, now we'll never know.
Fuck.
Anyway, so we have somebody in Romania.
I can only assume it's the same person because there's only like 20 people or so in Romania.
Okay.
Hey, if you're listening now, shout out, send us an email.
Shout out to Romania.
Um, we got a listener in Canana.
Did that Canada?
Yeah.
Six listens.
Blame Canada.
So it looks like I'm going to assume just probably one listener as well.
Just download it all.
Well, tell your friends about us.
Yeah.
Tell your friends.
We have a listener in Brussels, Belgium.
There we go.
Five episodes downloaded.
Boom.
And then we go to, um, we got Signapore.
They only listened to one.
Signapore did not like what we had to say.
They did not enjoy it.
We have one person in a United Kingdom.
All right.
Just one listen though.
So, sorry guys.
You know, I think it was not a fan of us either.
They didn't like us.
Um, we have Germany.
One listen as well.
What is up with those Europeans?
They did not want to listen to us.
They're not as perverted as I thought they were.
Right.
And then, uh, finalize and then all the other countries and stuff.
Ecuador.
We got one listen in Ecuador.
And Gaia, Gaia Kill, Gaia Quill, Naik Will.
I don't know.
Sorry.
Ecuadorian guy or girl.
But give us another listen.
I dare you.
But, um, and then we have a lot of things to say.
They'd have to listen to this to hear that.
That's true.
Anyways.
And, uh, something I also realized I have forgotten in just about every episode,
except I think for the very first one is I always wanted to.
Talk about another podcast.
Yeah.
Talk about another podcast.
So, this one is called Swinger's Couch Podcast.
Okay.
It's a couple from, I believe Florida, if I understand it correctly, because they always talk about.
All of the freaks are in Florida or California?
You know, I would say probably 50% of the podcasts I listen to are Florida based.
Florida got some freaks.
They do.
So, these people always go to Secrets, which is the one in Kissimmee, Florida.
I'm a Florida boy, so I, at some point we got to go check that place out.
But, uh, yeah, Swinger's Couch Podcast, they, uh, they're on Episode 41.
They're a good listen.
Enjoy.
And, um, you know what?
I think we're going to go ahead and wrap this up before it gets too crazy.
How do you feel about that, babe?
I feel like when you're enjoying the sweet side of life,
keep your pineapples upside down, believe in unicorns, and keep shaking it up.
Love you, baby.
Love you too.
I did it right, right?
You totally did.
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