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episodes. We actually just posted one a couple hours ago before we started to
record this one. So it's been fun and today we're gonna go a little slightly
different direction and I'm gonna let Emily take it over from here. Well we
haven't cheers. Oh yeah that's right babe. Cheers that's right we are a drinking
show. Cheers. What are you having? I am having. I am having a very expensive
bottle of barefoot Moscato wine. Oh I thought you were going with the other one.
I didn't want to crack that and not be able to finish it all. Oh yeah because it
was bubbly. It was a bubbly. So it would lose its boobies. So we're drinking the same thing.
Yes we are both drinking the barefoot Moscato which you can get the big
bottle for ten bucks. Cheaper than that if you buy six at all versions. So you
just gave away where we shop. Everybody shops at all versions. Well if you're in
Southern California if you're in other places like Kroger's and stuff but
anyway. Speaking of Southern California I was looking at our statistics. That's a
tough work. And we actually have a listener in Belgium. Hello Belgium. And a
listener in... What was it? Not Russia. It was a... What was the other place? I have no
idea. Get back to us. Yes it was Belgium and like Switzerland or something
like that. I thought that was kind of interesting. And then there was a bunch
in this local area. So that was pretty cool. We know some friends of ours that
are listening to us. And so yeah it's been a fun three episodes season one
volume one. Oh my gosh. I can't with that. Yeah no it's been fun. And we're drinking the
same thing so there's not a whole lot to talk about with that. And it is a cheap
wine. Yeah normally we say how we made it. We drink like a handle in a
night. Is it called a handle when it's a wine though? It's not just a normal bottle
wine though. It's the big one. But I mean I know like liquor it's called a handle
but is the big bottle a wine? A Magnum. If it's like a champagne I think it's a
Magnum but I mean when it's barefoot do you call it a Magnum?
It's ridiculous. It's a Magnum of wine. It makes me think of the condoms. Anyway.
Moving on moving on. Moving on. We were attempted to do a tick-tock but I couldn't
get the sound to turn off. Apparently we need a social media manager. Right we
cannot afford a social media manager at this time so it is me but I was
trying to put a filter like a light filter not like a crazy filter but like I
mean we both just took showers so I have absolutely zero makeup on so I was just
putting a little glow filter just to you know hide slight blemishes but it made
me think of the fact that I really am glad that we are not well that I'm not
dating. I recently had a... I'm not dating that's weird. I think we're both well I
would both probably are dating but like in a different way but actually
these all this whole thing applies to that too because I was with some
girlfriends this past weekend and some people I didn't know when I just met and
my friend after they left had said she's not gonna post any of those pictures
that I took or approve them or whatever to go on her to her feed and I was like
why she seems really nice like what's the reason and she said because she didn't
filter them and she's like just watch she's gonna request you as a friend so
you'll go you'll go through and you'll see what I'm talking about so she's
single this girl who won't post pictures where she's not filtered and she's in
her 40s never been married and I'm like looking she did request me as a friend
and I'm like going through her page and I'm like holy moly like talk about cat
fish like talk about catfish yeah I mean I showed you I showed you the
unfiltered photos and then I showed you the filtered ones and it was like day
and night and that is crazy to me I don't know I I'm just like I can't do
that but we've had friends in the lifestyle who had some similar situations
where they've been on Cassidy and you know looked at photos and started
chatting with somebody and then they told us the story of how they went to
meet them and they were like way older not at all like they're not at all
attractive like to them you know everybody has their own so I mean I guess
this kind of does apply to what we're doing too yeah so far I would say we've
been lucky as in like who we've met is you know who we saw or who we expected to
meet right there was there's been a few where I'll see their photos and then you
know they might send a message saying hey we're gonna be at the same party you
guys are at this weekend and then you know we get there and then they come up
they're like hey we're so-and-so and it takes me a second but most of the time
it's because I recognize the boobs first so you know not everybody shares their
face photos right away on on those websites so show me your boobs I'll be
like oh I know those boobs anywhere and then then I then I start to associate
everything after that but that's a whole different thing yeah but I guess too I
mean I'm not on Cassidy a lot like you pretty much run our page for the most
part and just show me stuff so I don't know I honestly don't know I don't think
this is what you do but I we're not one of those couples that kind of trolls and
then like comments or whatever crazy okay you go I mean when I get on there I
don't see anything no but I mean we talk to people who talk to us and you're
active on like our communities that were part of but we're not just like
rando message somebody only a level five perv yeah yeah I do enough to stay
relevant and I you know if we have friends that post pictures I'll I'll
like or something like that but I don't go on like crazy like fests and and yeah
that's not really my style right and our style I guess and I don't know if
that's what our friends did that came across the catfishing I don't know I
do yeah but I just like you'd probably be more susceptible to that
susceptible because susceptible because I'll pick one of those and I'll use one
edit I'm just I'm gonna let it all go I'm gonna let you just work it out live
because I think I put an extra pee the first time I said it um because you are
looking for strangers in there whereas if you're part of a community or
something like that you could meet them in more of a centralized open setting
where you can kind of do what you do and kind of look at them and go okay
that's not who I thought you were hold on yes let me remember okay we're good or
or we just move on with our lives and the party and everything but if you're
kind of really trying to push those like one-on-one first meets then you're
probably gonna be a little bit have a few more stories I guess of people who
didn't look mm-hmm yeah pretty much anybody that we meet for a two-on-two
you know quote-unquote date typically people we've already met IRL which is in
real life yeah I know thank you so you know we've typically met him at a party
I don't think have we ever just blindly no met someone I mean no yeah so I was
thinking no I'm not opposed to it if there's enough connection in the chemistry
in the chat or enough likenesses you know they're similar you know something
yeah I feel like it would have to be chemistry in the chat rather than just
you're hot at least this point in our journey we're not just like I mean if
somebody says what up you're hot to me I'm really okay I mean yeah I'll take it
but I think it's more we're not like I mean because there's a lot of hot people
right and then just for the reasons I just said things can be filtered ages
can be faked old pictures old pictures can be posted and then it's like you
don't really know what you're getting into but at least if you have some sort
of connection mm-hmm mentally or whatever that you know at least I've got a
good sense of humor or whatever via chat then it's I feel like for us it'd be
more likely that we would do that yeah but it hasn't happened because you come
across I mean you come across a lot of good-looking people yeah and gas fee I
mean everybody's putting their best foot forward mm-hmm not all of them are
their real foot yeah I mean I mean nobody's gonna go out of the way to put a
bad picture yeah and their profile yeah although you say that you just said that
it just reminded me of a conversation that you and I had recently where so
we're also on groups that are not on Cassidy but like mainstream media social
media sites but that there are swinger clubs or a swinger like like I'm like
was she why aren't you trying to hide Facebook just Facebook I don't know
anyway so yeah so some Facebook groups where it's like swinger groups inside of
Facebook and I know you've said you're like I know these women can't possibly
have known that their men posted these pictures because you're like look at this
photo like it's not a good one you're like she's probably has a beautiful
face but you can see in the photo that she's not like a bad-looking woman or
even man but these photos are just not like in the most awkward like side views
where she's like hunched over or like has a weird look on her face or it's like
the lighting gives like weird shadows those photos did not get approval from
the wife there in no way yeah because I know anytime I go to post anything on
any type of social media with you and me I take it I add like I you know fix the
color correction brightness you know stuff like that I don't mess around with
filters personally that's just not not my style I do color corrections and then I
send it to you and I'm like cool and then you give the approval you get the
thumbs up thumbs down we go from there but there ain't no way some of these
photos got approved the wife approval right and then it's like you think of
Cassidy most of the time what I found is run by men like women like just like me
like I'll get I I'm busy like but I'll get on every once in a while I'm not
busy I'm never way more exactly men are way more driven by porn which is
basically what Cassidy is so I'm here for the good conversations yeah okay
so I think that a lot of the pictures are obviously posted by the men and I've
seen some that I'm like that maybe we didn't need to get that close to the
vagina or yeah maybe her asshole didn't need to be like that spread but I mean
some people that may be their thing I mean for me I'm like less is more yeah
I'm all about I enjoy a nice set of movies I enjoy nice set of buns I like
vagina it's fantastic yeah but I just don't want to go to a logical exam exactly
I'm not a doctor looking to die if I'm there I'm there yeah if you're there
you're part of the process it's game on right but as far as like photos yet
you'll never I will never be like hey let's take this close up put this is
our capoean yeah put it on our cover photo for our travel folder it's like yeah
I went to a pink taco island so now yeah yeah it's a lot but I think the fight
and that's fine like if that's your thing yeah some people love it yeah and
good for them but I just think that the filters and straight yeah I just think
that the crazy filters be real yeah just be real I mean honestly if you're
really looking to meet someone in IRL then you're going to they're gonna see
you yeah you can't you can't I much rather actually like look almost worse
in a photo and then them see me in real life and be like oh my gosh she's actually
prettier that has that has has actually let's try that again that has actually
happened to me personally yeah I've seen like a couple that's supposed to be going
to a party and you know I've see I see their pictures and you know it's like
cool whatever they're looking couple but it doesn't like it doesn't strike me but
then when you actually see him at the party and you see him talking I see him
laughing and smiling then all of a sudden that couple it just they just look
better right and for a multitude of reasons right versus I've also seen the
other way where you know you go to a party and you're expecting a you know
girl a or couple a and you walk in and then they introduce themselves you're
like oh not quite what I remembered right but you know it's just it's always
great to meet everybody what whatever the story is it's it's always great to
meet new people but yeah we enjoy sometimes it's just yeah exactly I'm
just I'm not saying like I'm not saying you know you know what I mean like just
be real come on girl just real and now like when we first started our profile I
seen people put like some things and I was like that's really like superficial
of them you know but I mean a lot of this is superficial like obviously we're
not trying to like mate for life but I'm just kind of like wow they were really
superficial or like they're like we have to see your your face you know and now I
kind of get it a little bit more because that's the other thing you'll see just a
woman's body and like not her face and I know for you like they have to have a
pretty face yeah I'm big on faces yeah at least a somewhat like my my move my
move is if I come across a profile and you know I enjoy like the body portion
of it but the faces aren't on there I get it I understand it completely and
that's normally where I'll send a BSP just kind of fishing just say a your
man's not in the profile you know let's see what's on that and then also faces
because a face can make or break you know for me personally yeah that's another
subject on Cassidy that we've talked about is when the dude isn't in it so
it's like all pictures of the girl which is fine because I mean obviously
that's what draws most people in because I said before most women I mean in our
profile I'm not very prevalent but I'm there right like there's enough of me you
can you know what you're getting right we don't need I mean we don't need a
million albums of the man but like at least show a few pictures of you guys
together even if you're not gonna show your faces just because and like I said
I know what I started to say was I know that a lot of women in the lifestyle are
bisexual so obviously and then the men like women so it's the women are who
draws you know you ends I get having all those pictures of a woman but at the
same time as a couple I want to see that the dude looks good too and I and I good
I'm not super I'm not superficial like no no no just you know one of us are I
mean yeah just you have us we all have a certain level of expectation whether
whether whatever it is and that that level of expectation expectation
changes daily right and it changes based on very many variables right a lot of
them aren't even physical variables right for me it's like a lot of it is
personality but I can't see that from a photo but I'm just looking at a photo I
want to see a there's a dude there and be that he you know could potentially yeah
I don't even have a type but like I'm not interested in you know and then of
course I you know you can't you can't read much into a photo but you can read
body language right so especially it when they're like a couples together you
know if they're holding hands in the picture or if they have their arms around
each other or if they're smiling in the picture you know there's a lot of things
that you can you know a lot of details you can pull from a photo right that you
know and I'm big yeah they're fun where they are are they at a bar or are they
at a you know motorcycle convention or they at a library like you know I can
look at those three scenarios and say well I'm most likely gonna get along
with the person that's at the bar right yeah so basically to get where we're
we're going oh we started with filters and then we kind of went through yeah
well I was gonna say since we're on the Cassidy conversation and what your
profile should and shouldn't have on it or maybe think maybe things to think
about I guess when you're putting a profile out there is one thing that one
of our friends was like you read the profiles and I know guys in general
probably aren't you know sitting there scrolling the profile to read it but I
do so if it's inaccurate information and I meet you I'm probably gonna approach
it differently like if you if I see like I don't know I mean I haven't really had
a situation where it's been like super super inaccurate information but like it's
just like if you if you're gonna put something out there put put it out put
out accurate information and also the profile can say a lot about you too
because there's some I've seen that it's like must show faces height weight
proportionate we only like blonde people or whatever they're just very very
specific and that's totally fine but then I'm like okay well that's not that
immediately cuts us out yeah and it probably immediately cuts a lot of
people out and for me at least why we're in it is variety like if I wanted the
exact person I'm married to what is the point right I mean there are aspects
that kind of are important to me just because I have to be able to get along
with the person just because our our way of playing is not you know fuck them
and leave like we're we like to really into foot stuff and no we're not we
really like to but we do enjoy like the social aspect of it yeah I say actually
a big part of it for us I enjoy the social aspect most of it yeah the
flirtin right and you know everything that happens after that is is a bonus
the whipped cream on the cherry and the whipped cream and you know it doesn't
always go that way and sometimes it does sometimes it doesn't and but
ultimately that the social part of it's the the most fun which is why we're not
a you know a blind date type of couple right but I mean like I said before I'm
not opposed to it but there has to be a lot of that profile that clicks like you
know we share a football team together like we like to go to the bar same
bars together or not same bars together but the same bars as each other there
has to be enough in that profile to make us do that otherwise we're more of a
party meeting greets you know that aspect of right speaking of meeting
greets speaking of we actually haven't been to a meet and greet in a minute
it's been a little bit because but what got us started back or not got us started
back so after our last so our last podcast we talked about our experience
our first experience with another couple at Freedom makers and then we talked
about how the big C hit and everything shut down and we you know digested what
happened that night and then we kind of started researching and we were home
doing nothing so why not then we orchestrated a gang bang right no and
then we we thought about it though but then we started kind of looking at
things we were on reddit and we didn't really know how did you find out about
Cassidy hmm I think I think like you said we are on reddit and we started kind
of diving into like as exhibitionism type stuff and then we started kind of
talking to a few couples and we tease the ideas of meeting up right and then the
then the idea kind of started coming back and like maybe we maybe we should do
this and then I think by this point I was starting to listen to some podcast
okay yeah yeah but most of them are on the east coast
or Central America like the center of America like Midwest I guess yeah yeah yeah for sure
do you recall when we signed up for Cassidy no I remember the exact moment
stop I do we were in Vegas we were we were in Vegas and we were sitting at that
bar that had that really kind of dirty name bar no it was like they had all the
drinks were like innuendo it might have been might have been a gay bar I'm not
sure it might have been a teak no I don't think it was a teak bar but it was
upstairs it was like a shoe maybe a shoe yeah it was a weird weird setup but
anyways we are up there I I remember the drinks were called like Bingham in the
booty juice like it was I think it was a gay bar that sounds valid but it was all
very like I said very innuendo drinks however I mean in the butt is not in
you and that's straight to the point come on her face hmm I wonder what they
mean by that so clever so so anyways so um I believe by that point we were or I
was kind of talking or listening to the podcast a little bit kind of talking
to you about a little bit and we were there and I said hey we should sign up
for Cassidy just you know kind of check it out see what's going on and you're
like okay and I pulled my phone out you're like already have the profile
set up I have it all here the website I just need the credit card information and
I was like or you know we could do like we could go monthly or we could just buy
the whole year and you're like a deal person so you're like what's the monthly
and I think it was something like $20 a month or something and then you're like
alright what's the yearly and it was like that's a hundred or something you're
like alright just do a year and I'm like oh like we have a year of this like it
doesn't work out this is gonna suck so you just close it but you but it's there
it's like the puppy you can't play with that's for you I'm like I would forget
about it we we set it up and like that was it off to the races so we started
kind of if you're not part of Cassidy it's it's very similar to all the other
LS data and websites and stuff it's you know you put your location in and you
you know look up people in that area or you look up parties or communities and
stuff like that so we started looking and we found that there was a community
based you know really close to where we live so we started looking around and
then it seemed pretty cool this particular person held a bunch of parties
in area and was also known for holding meeting greets and at the time the
community was hanky-panky but it's now embraced lifestyle events or something
like that she rebranded anyways it was hanky-panky when we first started going
and they did meeting greets at these local bars so that was kind of our first
we walked in well what I didn't it's a very local bar and I didn't want to I
didn't I get I think what you said at the time they were doing like wristbands
or something if you so it was like they had kind of a section of it wasn't a
full takeover of the bar it was like they had a section of the bar exactly and
they they she wanted you you know if you're part of it to go over and get a
wristband so other people would know in the bar which makes perfect sense was who
it did make it does make sense but not when you're scared to death not when
you're terrified for like people to see you that you aren't sure you know because
it wasn't a full takeover so literally anybody could have been at that bar yeah
and I mean not that they would have necessarily known if they didn't know
what a bracelet was but I would know what I would be freaking out so we just sat
in another part of the bar and just watched we held up the wall all the
craziness go no there wasn't really craziness but we just kind of like
people watched and like saw who went in and out and like what they were doing
and kind of just tried to get our bearings and we had a couple sit next
or sit we were at a long bar and somebody sat the same table as us
essentially and they were kind of talking in code and code and we were like
okay and they didn't have wristbands either so we weren't the only ones who
were there in code like incognito yeah very very much so but I think you said
that there was a couple there like that saw us dancing or something and then
they hit us up on Cassidy or right mm-hmm yep that was actually the second
time we did a meet and greet there oh the second time okay but we kind of did
the same thing we didn't really second one we were we were coming from a party
so we were right much more liquored up and we were having a much I'm mixing the
two yeah the the second time is when we came in from that pirate party yeah and
that's when we were dancing on a dance floor and that's when oh the first one
we wore those shirts I like his beard yeah I like her butt yeah we were kind of
you know being a little tongue-in-cheek tongue-in-bong yeah we were kind of like
we wanted to you know wear like a sexual shirt but didn't want to completely
yeah lower cover upside down pineapple at that time we no we did no I think did
we know I mean I think so I don't know maybe maybe we had a hint probably
probably had an idea at that point yeah but we went to a bunch of her events
right and we went to a few Halloween parties that she hosted right we met
some good people yeah we're still friends with yeah we had met a good group of
people there and then a hanky-panky she I want to I want a costume contest just
the last first one and then we won the Halloween yeah yeah the Halloween party
yeah yeah and then we at we won the meeting greet contest oh yeah we won oh
yeah we were actually lucky with her her crowd loves us I guess I won the first
Halloween party we went to I won the costume contest the second Halloween
party we went to we as a couple won the couple costume contest and then the one
that was at the meet and greet we won that one as a accidentally actually got
entered in unknowingly and then one that one yeah well now I feel like we have to
tell what our costumes were so the first one where I won was I was a mermaid you
were mermaid and you were a captain my outfit wasn't quite as impressive right
this is a topless mermaid I think yeah my boobs that did it that one just
clenched the wind and then the second one the second Halloween costume contest
that we won we were Fred Flintstone and Betty Rubble the original swingers some
people looked at us and they're like they kind of got it but then they once
they thought about it they're like oh damn okay yeah yeah and then this year
we should go as Barney and switch it and then the one that we won at the bar the
meet and greet where we didn't enter ourselves we didn't even know there was
a costume contest I don't think but it was also Halloween meet and greet we were
Bundy Peggy Bundy and Al Bundy yes like not the
serial killer we're Ted Bundy and his victims no we were Alan Peg Bundy and I
think the bartender's boyfriend entered us because he was like this is so good and
then yeah I remember we were in the audience is drinking with some friends
and we heard Al Alan Peg Bundy please come to the stage and we're like what and
they're like their motion and at us and like yelling at us like let's go you're
slowing down our costume contest right we just kind of me and they're up there
and we're standing there like still in shock like what the hell is going on I
hit somebody off though we did Alice in Wonderland group was really mad because
they did a lot of work on their makeup but we literally ordered ours on Amazon
and these people probably designed their designer I heard that those people go
around town and try to just win costume contest like they're that's like what
they do I don't know professional cost to my ears like they're part of like the
drama group or something probably but the couple that was second place I don't
know they were their costume was good but they were the most interesting man in
the world in a bottle of beer I think yeah yeah yeah I've seen that one before
actually that someone else I think it was at the Halloween party we were at
that we won whatever anyway one of the Halloween parties you're like one of
the ones that we won there's so many of them I know but so yeah communities and
groups are good ways to meet and greets are good like soft ways to meet people
like you're not there's not pressure yeah there's not a lot of pressure there's
always an after-party right so if you really want to or a before party or
before party but if you want to step it up to the next level there's definitely
someone in the crowd that's ready to go there but most of them overall the
meeting greets are very kind of low-key low pressure pressure and they're a
blast though yeah me personally and then we have another group that were part of
that does well you they've not done meet and greet in a minute but they do
parties mm-hmm you're gonna say their name I'm looking at you I was watching
so yeah basically let me backtrack just a little bit let me backtrack just a
little backtrack so we got this hanky-panky group and we were you know
really loyal to her parties and stuff like that and but um she kind of started
toning down in her toning down her events a little bit she stopped doing as many
house parties and the meeting greets started to be more of like a quarterly
or like almost a yeah I guess a quarterly thing so we kind of had to fill
the void with something so we you know we started looking more towards our other
communities and we found there's a community local to our area and Riverside
County called DTF communities and so we were looking at their profile and they
had a lot of a lot of people in the group and and the the host were attractive
people and really all right let's check this out so they used to do meeting
greets monthly out in men ify area at a bar which I will not name and they used
to do it monthly and it was a great time and that place was packed I mean it
would it wouldn't be a hundred percent takeover but it basically was yeah the
bar was a really slow in general and so when their 200 people showed up it was
yeah primarily a takeover yeah I mean yeah this bar cool bar at all but yeah on
a standard standard Saturday night you know you're lucky if you have 20
regulars in there you know drinking beer so you knew it was a big space a big
space a big restaurant with a big bar attached to a big dance floor stage and
it was a great venue but it just didn't do anything particularly in this area but
on the meeting greet nights it was popping there'd be two to three hundred
people there so we started going to those and we met a you know really fun
group of people we met the hosts Roberto and Catarina and they have like I said
DTF communities you can check them out on Cassidy I don't I'm not sure if they're
on whatever the other websites are I don't we don't have memberships on any
other websites I can't remember what the other ones are called but I don't think
they have any others but any who um so yeah we started going to these events and
after COVID they started the meeting greets again but I guess pre COVID before
we knew them before we were even you know really doing our stuff they were
really well known in the area for having parties house parties yeah so after a
while after everything kind of cleared up a little bit they decided to start
hosting their parties again and they're called the Lest parties it's a house
party and it's great fun I guess that it's a great group of people we've met a
lot of great friends there and is there anything else you'd like to share Emily
about this community no I don't really think there's I think you said most of
it but yeah we're gonna save some of it because here probably in the next you
know two to three podcasts we're actually gonna bring them in here and do a
interview with them so there'll be a lot of details about their group that will
let them kind of fill in the dots I don't want to give away too much and I
just kind of want to give you an idea of the group if you're in the area like I
said Riverside County, San Bernardino County, LA County even, this group spans
Orange County, San Diego, this uh yeah San Diego County this group spans quite far
so it's a I think they have use of they have like 300 or 3,000 yeah 3,000
members they have 300 but I mean no they have a shit ton of people members or
more I don't know it's I think it's 4,000 yeah and you know we're part of a
lot of communities in this area and most most communities are you know a thousand
maybe 1200 so they're definitely doing it for a while yeah exactly and I think
what I like about their group is that it's diverse yes I know we've been to
some things where it's not as diverse and I just like the diversity like it's I
don't know I've talked about this before about being clicky and things like that
and I think that while some people can and I can even get caught up in that when
I'm with like all my friends you know in the lifestyle you don't do it on purpose
but no when you have that group of your core group and you're in a conversation
you accidentally right and you've told me many times you know I'll be talking
and I'll inadvertently like back you know back myself in in front of somebody
and cut them out of the group and you're like hey like move you're cutting them
out I'm like oh shoot you know yeah I don't mean to but it's just that happens
yeah well we do our best to try include everybody that we can into things as
much as they want to be included some people are like don't talk to us but I
was gonna say that we so we we do go to their parties but before we were going
to their parties like we said we were going to the hinky-pinky parties and
one party that kind of actually we just re ran into somebody that we met at that
party at the pool that she was at the last Halloween party we were at mm-hmm
and then and she's aggressive like right didn't she message you before and was
like I'm gonna I want to fuck you guys or something and I was like well that's
kind of intimidating I think that was verbatim yeah it was something it was
something very much to that like it was like hey we're going to the party we
want to play with you guys yeah and I I personally don't I'm not as intimidated
by that but I can see how it could be very like it's very forward it's yeah
and I mean I get it good for her but yeah there's absolutely nothing terrifies me
there's absolutely nothing bad about her approach because for me I like to
know intent I like to know intent like I know I want to know exactly what you're
expecting and what you're cool with and all that stuff because my biggest thing
is I'm I can be very shy I can be very very introverted so I'm not typically
gonna be the one to make any type of first move unless I know you know I'm
very confident that you're attracted to me and you wish to pursue this or
whatever so when I get a message especially from a woman and it's like
hey this is what I want ABC that tells me alright I know exactly what you know
yeah is expected of me or whatever yeah I'm cool but I can see how it can be
like right and it didn't end up happening that night oh not at all because she got
so drunk yeah poor thing and but we did end up talking to another group of
people I don't know if you had talked to them before or you just met them there
but there was one couple we were interested in and they I did not talk to
them at all there's two couples that I knew were going that I'm like all right
these these guys kind of fit our our profile right you know I could see the
interest could be both you know for you and I yeah and when they walked in I
remember I was like yeah you can't point right but I can
don't be weird you can point here because then point and shows interest so we were
really interested in them I think for me I was more interested in them than any
of the other ones like I was I was kind of good with I was good with both the
couples we were talking to I mean I was good with both of them but I felt more
of like the chat seemed to flow better I guess yeah yeah and the other the other
couple that had the emergency they they did seem to like I think they were kind
of newish yeah some people say like oh we got out of it we got into it back into
it that's what they were trained we're trying to kind of figure out our feet
and stuff so they were a little more they're like one point they were talking
and then they kind of went over to your corner and we're talking a little bit and
came back so I kind of got that feeling of like apprehension from them yeah I
did too and it kind of killed the flow of the conversation a little bit for sure
I mean right well and then they had an emergency and then they had to take off
they left the party but a girl and her man I mean he they were obviously
pushing for to hook up with us but then it's like I said she got really drunk so
she couldn't participate any longer I think he probably took her home or
something at some point I don't know where they went but anyway we ended up
with that other I don't even know how that happened actually do you remember
how that happened because we did end up with the other couple I know we went up
stairs do you remember how it was so fast and we have been drinking I've been
drinking but I mean it was I think it was literally it was just literally like I
think we were just you know having a chat about just random stuff and then you
want to go upstairs maybe it was it was like that it was just yeah it was just
so fast and we what's even funnier is like downstairs we didn't there wasn't a
lot of like touching flirting right like normally most situations when we enter
into a play situation there's always that that touch boundary a little bit of
making out a little bit of booby slapping you know stuff like that but
this was just like talking and then he's like let's go and that's I think I went
upstairs and changed I'm sure you did you change it I think what happened was I
feel like maybe I went upstairs to use the restroom or something and then I
changed and then came back down and it was like well let's go back upstairs or
so I don't know I feel like I don't know something I don't I don't remember but
anyway it doesn't matter we ended up upstairs with them yes and we ended up
well the trying to find a room but all the rooms were taken in the master
bedroom there was a orgy and then there was some couples in the other bedroom
there's one a bedroom downstairs there were couples in those rooms so I mean
it was a big party so I think that we well we ended up going into the master
bedroom bathroom because that seemed the most open like we weren't bugging
anybody who was already an orgy right so I think he he bet me over the sink and
started fucking me from behind what did you do I think you ate her out right
yes I was I was eating her out from behind and also from forwards yeah there
was a sippy in there but neither of us got on it yeah I was scared I didn't
want to get on the sippy in person we definitely got to try that but not in
the middle of an orgy right because yeah who knows what the clean-in protocol has
been at that point right and so then so he was fucking me from behind you were
eating her out all which ways and then we kind of moved over to the bed and
things got a little like sketch there yeah then it we were kind of in an orgy
and this party did allow single males and it was a lot of single males yeah and
the girl you were with you realized at that point like that she was drunker
than you thought she was well when when I was eating her out at the bathroom like
I could tell she was drunk hell we all were right but she kind of seeing I
could tell like alright maybe I don't know I'm not sure like exactly where this
is gonna go and I was already kind of putting the mental breaks on in my head
I'm like this is fun you know you kind of continue this you know angle but I
don't know if I'm gonna go any further and then like you said we transferred
over to the bed and she was on her back and and then like there was guys kind of
feeling her from the side and and I was like sitting there between her legs and
I just it just hit me at that point I'm like she's just out of it yeah the room
was lit so in the bathroom we were obviously like it was dark so I think
you can really see yeah because yeah now that you said that he was eating me out
from the back too and then we went over to the I think he was trying to fuck me
but I'm tall so I don't think he could so I think that's when he went to eating
me out then we moved over to the bed and then he bent me over the bed and that's
I think that's what that happened but then there was all the single males there
and then you were like uncomfortable with the fact she was so drunk and people
are trying to touch her and she didn't really seem like she realized it and yeah
like and I was like I can't I was like I can't keep her in this situation yeah
because a I'm not I'm done right and I'm not I'm not gonna it wasn't making you
comfortable not at all and then there was other single guys trying to fuck me
after him and I couldn't even see who they were yeah it was just you were
already uncomfortable so it was like okay let's go yeah it was like it was fun
for a little bit yeah it was an experience yeah and not to say anything
bad about single guys but sometimes it's just like okay yeah I mean it was it was
literally all dudes it was like a zoo of lions and when they throw that lamb leg
over and they all fight over it that's exactly what it was and it was just it
was creepy because they got into like a zombie mode and you know they're all
drunk and yeah or on drugs who knows who knows I'm just like this is this is not
my scene and you know that was that was our first intro to anything like that
right that was pretty in pretty intense but I mean we didn't purposely do that
we went upstairs with the intention on going with a couple yeah and then you
know once I think they were much more experienced at us because I think they
the ones that ultimately like said all right fine let's just go into this
bedroom you know what I mean it was like if it was if there was us you know
driving that bus we probably would have been like well let's just go back downstairs
and you know maybe something will open up later right but yeah we definitely got
drawn into that it was fun but it was pretty intense I think at some point too
I was on the floor like on the bedroom floor which like I don't know I lost all
kinds of things that night I had because I was Betty Rubble I had bone clips in
my hair and I had bone clips on my clothes and I had my earrings and still
never found those earrings but yeah and then we went so we but we saved the night
so we went downstairs and we're like okay it was late though it was super late
at that point at that point everybody was gone except who was in the rooms
basically right people were waiting on ubers you know it the party itself was
definitely winded down yeah and then I don't know how it happened I don't know
why like I don't know why I never remember how these things happen I guess
because they just happen but I was there waiting we were waiting for our Uber I
had gotten basically dressed again into something to get into an Uber and I'm
understanding that the front door was just on the door just on the inside of
the front door and all of a sudden I'm on my knees giving three guys blowjobs
like I don't know how that and I became the third okay I remember three dicks
I it wasn't actively third like I was I poked in just so I'm like hey because
then there was a there's another woman there that was also there with her her
husband her husband was kind of off just a little bit to decide talking to
somebody else and yeah he had talked to me originally earlier and then I think
he had talked to me actually before I started giving those guys blowjobs like
almost I think wanting to play too but I wasn't really sure yeah yeah yeah we were
like we're we're kind of checked out at that point right we were ready to go and
then yeah I'm standing there and and you know she's over there doing her thing on
her under knees I'm like okay party's still going and I'm talking to this
other woman and and you know she's good looking I'm telling her how good looking
she is and she's kind of stand there and she's having a good time and then I'm
like hey what are you allowed to do are you are you allowed to play or like you
guys just like you know what's your dynamic and she goes I can do anything I
want I go well do you happen to want to suck my dick and she just she jumped
straight down and went went to town and I remember sitting there like get not done
I looked over at you and you had your hands full and yeah that was a great
end to the night and you're watching your phone like we have an uber coming I'm
one literally yeah that's the worst that has happened to us a couple of times now
and it's the worst right well I don't have to deal with that you just tell me we
gotta go I am the the uber tracker and I don't like being late I don't I hate
making anybody wait for me well plus it's hard to get one that late at night it
was like probably three or four it was three just about 3 a.m. and yeah you
kind of you don't get this one you're not gonna it was raining that day and
there was other people there waiting for it so it was like so I just remember
like okay it's gotta go gotta go and I've I hate telling you know woman like you
have to stop I am sorry you have to stop
that's the word there was a another actual because that's that's the end of
that story right yeah then we never came we got an over we went home but just to
kind of briefly touch on a very similar thing we were actually one of these DTF
less parties and normally we have a you know a full range of the night available
to us you know we don't have any times we have to be home but on this particular
night we did have to be home and I had called the Uber and all of a sudden the
kitchen turned into four or five guys lined up against the kitchen oven area
we're all down there our pants are down and women are just like twerking on us
it was just like out of nowhere just happened so I got this I got this you
know but just bouncing all up and down my dick and my dick's flopping all over
the place and I'm like Uber fuck and again it's one of those situations like
excuse me ma'am I'm gonna need you to like pass her off to somebody else you're
like I'm just gonna move your little tiny bit to the left I'm like you're like
welcome you're welcome friend to the guy next to you exactly next now you got
to so that those situations they just they pop up on you sometimes you know
you're having a good time then all of a sudden oh shit yeah and that's what we've
always said we're like the crazy thing about this like not the crazy thing but
the I don't know the one thing about this is that you just never know yeah you
just never know like things we've gone to parties and we've done nothing like
we've just we've gone we've gone many good people and yeah like we've gone to
parties with quote-unquote intentions which is not anything you should do and
then it just goes the complete opposite or you can go with a complete blank slate
and end up in some crazy shit or you can spend an entire weekend at a nudist
resort and nothing happens so it just you just never know it's just it's all
about vibes I mean the craziest nights can be just you're out and you just run
into somebody and they they recognize you and next thing you know you're in a
hotel room right yeah it's cray I know you never know that's the fun part about
it it's unpredictable so basically what this all boils down to is don't use
filters
hashtag no filter hashtag no filters no no hashtag no filters hashtag put your
real age up or at least something close to it or believable at least like take a
poll from your friends and see what what age you think you look like they think
you look like and then also what else no filters oh show the dude show the dude
it's fine not to show your face we get that yeah if you're looking to meet
somebody you probably gonna need to show your face yeah cuz yeah it's it's it's
tough to you know meet anybody at a party if you have nothing to recognize
them from or whatever and fill out your profile like put some actual content on
your profile a little bit a little bit or at least if you're gonna fill it out
fill it out accurately and don't just write some random shit that literally
makes no sense what's funny is is I'm that's a female perspective I was I'm
the man I I look at I look at photos first and then if I notice that there's
something in there that you know perks my interest then I'll I'll do a quick
brief read of the profile to see if there's anything that's gonna turn you
off hmm because there's been a few where I look at the photos I'm like oh okay
that's that's good and I'll pass it off to you and you're like did you read the
profile I go no it goes babe they're looking they're a poly couple they're
looking for only you know romantic interest and they want to get married
and I'm like they're looking for a boyfriend like oh like some of these
things I'm like dude just read the profile like if it says like yeah some of
the stuff I'm like this is not us this is the they are not our people like this is
not what we're looking for yeah so this episode I went everywhere it did go
everywhere so and I was and this is why we don't put a plan in place because you
wanted a plan in place so we put a plan and now we just did over an hour of
blabbering that's why we should have a plan plans actually work negatively I
want a tight 15 but anyways like it went through my brain well Mike you can't
say that didn't mean age what did you mean dick size tight you wouldn't
fucking know what to do I know I would know what to do with a 15 it's nobody
knows what to do with the 15 anyway so we're gonna go ahead and hang this one
up and call it a night and when enjoying the sweet side of life keep your
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