1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,360 The podcast you're about to listen to is for adults only. Anyone under 18, please turn on 2 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:10,880 Kitsbop right now. Any opinions or advice that we give on this show should not be taken too seriously 3 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:16,320 as we are not professionals at all. With that being said, make yourself a drink and join us on 4 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:32,240 our journey as a merry couple and join the lifestyle in beautiful Southern California. 5 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:54,880 You just ruined it for me. Welcome back. Oh, we still did it. 6 00:00:57,120 --> 00:01:03,360 All your little noises before are on tape. I don't know what that was even about, but anyways. 7 00:01:03,360 --> 00:01:10,240 We were singing Wild Thing. I said, let's do it. Oh, I'm not editing none of this out just so you know. 8 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:17,280 Anyways, welcome back. I feel like I need a red light to tell me we're active. I mean, 9 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:24,720 I'm pretty sure I said, hey, are you ready? Yeah, and I said, let's do it. And then I hit the button. 10 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:28,720 So we're doing it. We're doing it. All right, I apologize for all of that, but it's staining. 11 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:33,120 Why do we keep apologizing? Because you're not close enough to the microphone. 12 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:36,080 I'm sorry. Is that a little level bouncing? I know I was listening to some of the other ones 13 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:42,160 and I'm like, what did I say there? They could just assume what I said. Anyways, welcome back to 14 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:52,400 volume three of the Sweet Side of Life podcast. You didn't put it up. You said you were going to put it up. 15 00:01:55,360 --> 00:02:00,400 There we go. Oh, geez. This is starting off for the bank. You did, yes. Thank you. 16 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:08,400 But anyways, I kind of feel like I want to start over and delete this entire thing. 17 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:21,120 Oh boy. Anyway, I'm crying. Same. Our audience is crying as well, but for different reasons. 18 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:27,840 All right. So we, should we cheers? Yes, we need to do something. 19 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:37,520 Cheers. All right guys. So as we say before, we are a have fun drinking show and just like the 20 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:42,720 other two, we do have a drink with us tonight. So we're going to do a quick cheers. Cheers. 21 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:47,760 And tonight we are drinking two different drinks. 22 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:59,280 I am having a, it's called a Malibu Bay Breeze and it is a Malibu Coconut Rum, 23 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:06,320 the very strongest rum you can get on planet earth. 21%. That's right. 24 00:03:07,920 --> 00:03:14,240 This little bit above white claw and then it's got pineapple juice and cranberry juice. 25 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:23,440 And what are you drinking over there young lady? I went whiskey. Whiskey. Whiskey. So I 26 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:33,360 literally had a like encounter, I guess. I don't know. I ran it. I ran it. So I'm sorry, 27 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:40,720 like that it is. I really just ran into the crown royal like rep at the grocery store the other day. 28 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:44,880 And I wouldn't call that an encounter. I know that's why I said it like, wait, that sounds way 29 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:48,320 like more than it actually is. It sounds much better than it actually is. I know that's what I 30 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:57,280 didn't say worse. I had an encounter. More. Like it could have been more. But it, he reminded me of 31 00:03:57,280 --> 00:04:07,920 the salted caramel crown whiskey, which I have had on the bar and I like save it for specific 32 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:13,280 drinks because it's seasonal and some seasons you can get it in some seasons you can't or some years 33 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:22,880 you can get it some years you can't. So anyway, I had my drink is the caramel apple whiskey drink. 34 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:29,680 I don't know what it's called caramel apple cider. I don't know. Anyway, it's the caramel apple crown 35 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:41,840 with a salted caramel crown whiskey, the apple crown whiskey lemon juice and ginger ale. Yes, 36 00:04:41,840 --> 00:04:48,160 but you used ginger beer. I did because I like it spicier. Yeah, I like the spicy. I like the less 37 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:54,880 sweet more spiciness of it. So do you like this drink? I do. That's my second one. Earlier I was 38 00:04:54,880 --> 00:05:09,200 drinking crown royal royal royal. They're lemonade in the can, which is just slightly slightly below 39 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:21,280 your Malibu. It was 7% slightly below your Malibu liquor. 7% 21% it's pretty. But it was actually 40 00:05:21,280 --> 00:05:26,800 pretty good too. That was actually pretty good. It's sweet but it's pretty good. Given you heartburn 41 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:33,600 you had to get to some real liquor. Yeah, it was the carbonation and the lemon. Anyway, I recommended 42 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:38,960 if you're a crown drinker the cans if you want something that you can just take to like the pool 43 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:44,560 or something of that nature and then the or the drink I just mentioned you can look it up. I think 44 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:53,360 it's called a salted caramel apple crown drink. What other information did you find out while you 45 00:05:53,360 --> 00:06:00,800 were talking at your encounter? Oh, my encounter. Yeah, so crown is coming out with a chocolate. 46 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:05,760 We are not sponsored by crown. We are not. We should be though. I do have I did get a fanny pack from 47 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:15,200 that guy. But they're coming out with a chocolate crown. So I'm interested to find out about that 48 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:21,200 because I'm wondering if it's going to be like all there's are actual like whiskey base, not like 49 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:25,920 Bailey not like a Bailey's drink. So I'm kind of interested anyway. So we'll see when that comes 50 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:32,880 out. I'm thinking it's probably going to be a fall drink that they bring but they are going to bring 51 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:39,680 back their salted caramel he said this year too. I am not a whiskey guy. No, you're not. When you 52 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:44,000 were just talking I just hear blah blah. I know I have to talk whiskey with some other people and 53 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:50,880 usually not women. No, I know there's a lot of women that like whiskey. I just in general most 54 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:59,280 of my friends don't. So well speaking of whiskey, what we one of the things we said in the first 55 00:06:59,280 --> 00:07:06,240 episode is that we were going to feature a podcast at the end of every episode. And we kind of ended 56 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:12,320 the last episode kind of abrupt because I was getting like a lot of texts and I was getting very 57 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:19,680 distracted. So we just kind of ended it just before it was going into a sexy story. However, 58 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:27,840 I'm going to go ahead and just throw out a podcast right now called casual swingers. And 59 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:33,680 they have been around for quite a while and every episode or every yeah every episode they have a 60 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:38,800 feature called whiskey of the month. Oh. Because they are huge whiskey drinkers. There we go. 61 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:45,680 So they have this great feature where I think it's like they feature whiskey that's under either 40 62 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:50,800 or 50 dollars. They don't want to get into the super high-end ones but they kind of do under 63 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:56,720 40 or 50 and they throw out some great recommendations. So if you guys are looking for something like 64 00:07:56,720 --> 00:08:02,480 that, check it out. Casual swingers. You can find them on iTunes and Spotify and all those other 65 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:09,440 places you can find. And at the end of this episode, I'm actually going to throw a second bonus 66 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:15,840 podcast that I recommend. We're going to run out of podcasts before our podcast is over. Well, 67 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:21,760 hopefully. Hopefully our podcast doesn't end at three episodes. I have so many recommendations. 68 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:29,120 Honestly, we'll just keep talking even if nobody's listening. That's fine. Let's just go. So what's 69 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:36,000 funny is as of the record in this third volume, this third episode, we still have not gone public. 70 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:43,440 I have yet to upload anything because I'm lazy and I just I just haven't done it yet. And you know 71 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:48,000 what? It's probably better. We have like three episodes. We'll throw them all up online and then 72 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:52,880 you can kind of just dive in. You're going to throw all three. I think you should put our first two, 73 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:57,680 which you've already like, I guess we'll call it edited. I mean, honestly, people, we didn't really 74 00:08:57,680 --> 00:09:06,000 edit either, either of the episodes, any of the episodes. And I think that's on purpose. Like we 75 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:15,840 want to be well when I say scripted. When I say edit, all I simply do is I, you know, take out any 76 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:24,480 super weird noises. I add the music, the outros, and just any mistakes we might have made. Like if 77 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:30,160 we say something that we don't want to go out. But ultimately, that's a very little because 78 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:36,160 yeah, we'd like she said we don't have scripts, which is good or bad depending on how you look at it. 79 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:44,320 Because I do tend to ramble. But yeah, that's pretty much it. So. 80 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:50,480 So I think you should put out the first two, and then you can edit, you know, do a little bit of 81 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:56,160 editing or whatever, whatever might be needed for this one. And then in a couple weeks, put out this 82 00:09:56,160 --> 00:10:00,800 one by that time, hopefully we have another one so then we can stay on like a roll. Because I feel 83 00:10:00,800 --> 00:10:06,320 like if you put all three out, we're not going to have anything. How about I put half of the first 84 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:14,960 one? Oh my god, I hate you. No, it's not a good idea. I can split them. We'll do volume one and volume 85 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:23,200 two of a 30 minute episode. It's like 15 minutes. And you know what? That's not good. So speaking of 86 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:30,160 that, we've, we've never really discussed what our plan is as far as how, how often are we thinking? 87 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:35,360 Are we going to release? Is this like a, I don't know, I like it's definitely not a daily. No, 88 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:41,200 I can't do daily. It's too much stress. It's exhausting. We do have actual jobs. Unfortunately. 89 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:50,160 But even if we didn't, yeah, this is a lot. Plus we were not that exciting. No, we're really not. 90 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:54,560 We had to really look at each other today and be like, do we have anything to say? And we didn't, 91 00:10:54,560 --> 00:11:01,520 but we still got on here. No, we, we were watching our TV shows and we were just like, you know what? 92 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:07,520 We just got to do this. Got to turn on the microphones. Give a little test one, two. Speaking 93 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:16,880 of TV shows. Oh, here she goes. So one thing we kind of talked about, um, discussing is we are, 94 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:20,960 and you never used to be, but now it's like, well, if I'm going to watch Hot Girls, I can, 95 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:30,160 let's do it. Let me do, I'm fine with it. So we watched together like the dating ish kind of 96 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:37,920 like all the people in bathing suits, just, I don't know how to call it like that. Just the 97 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:42,960 shows that are like the crap reality shows. Yeah. The crap reality shows where everybody's, 98 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:47,440 someone's trying to date somebody or maybe they're all trying to date or whatever, but 99 00:11:48,160 --> 00:11:55,200 love Island. Yeah. So tonight we were watching this show and initially we got really excited 100 00:11:55,200 --> 00:12:02,960 because when we first saw it on like the preview or whatever, we thought it was going to be like a 101 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:10,080 polyamory, like everybody dating everybody, like everybody's bye. Well, it was called love all ways. 102 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:15,920 And yeah, the, like she said, the trailers kind of look like everybody was just into everybody 103 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:21,120 and we're just kind of, we're like, whatever, that's cool. That's great. But then we started watching it. 104 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:28,320 Yeah. And it's a bunch of like 19 year olds. We're watching like these people are really young. 105 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:35,920 And yeah, it's 18, 19, 20. I think 20 is the max. I literally don't think anybody on that 106 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:41,360 show can drink. No, the highest person was 20. Yeah. And it's not what we thought it was. It's a girl 107 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:51,200 who's bi who brought in a group of guys and a group of girls to figure out which one she wants to date. 108 00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:56,480 I think most of the girls are bi. There's only a few like lesbians and even the lesbians said they're 109 00:12:56,480 --> 00:13:02,720 only 90%. So they're bi. And then the guys, there was only one guy that was bi and the rest were straight. 110 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:09,440 And the guy that was bi, he seemed more gay than bi to me. So I mean, he seemed like 111 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:15,360 And he already got kicked off the show. Well, don't spoil it for them. Spoiler alert. 112 00:13:16,960 --> 00:13:21,520 You're supposed to say that first. Spoiler alert. You shouldn't be watching this. 113 00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:27,520 I wouldn't watch it. It's like, it's not what we thought it was. We only watched it because we've 114 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:34,320 literally burned out all our other TV shows. Yeah. Like all the, and we have watched it today. 115 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:39,920 We literally, we were, we were setting up the fantasy football league that we're 116 00:13:41,040 --> 00:13:46,160 We're engaging in. We have an LS, LS fantasy football league. So we were half on our phones 117 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:52,640 doing that and half watching the 19 year old Dayton show. Yeah. Which is very awkward. 118 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:59,440 Very awkward. They're like, there's drama, but none of it involves alcohol. So it's very boring 119 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:08,880 drama. Yeah. It's sus. Just kidding. It's so sus. No cap, man. No cap, bro. 120 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:18,160 We're starting to learn how to speak now. So anyway. Anyway, so we started an LS 121 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:21,920 fantasy football league. So we were trying to figure out like, 122 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:29,760 well, we had a name for it, but apparently the powers that be that, you know, run the fantasy 123 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:36,640 football like, like ESPN and Yahoo and all those didn't want to let us use words. I mean, 124 00:14:36,640 --> 00:14:42,320 which is weird because they aren't. So the name of our team is penetration. The name of the league. 125 00:14:42,320 --> 00:14:47,680 The league is penetration in the backfield, right? Yeah. And that's a commonly used term. 126 00:14:47,680 --> 00:14:52,240 It's like, I've literally sat through games and been like, I'm going to take a shot every 127 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:57,760 time they say that. It's literally a drinking game. It is. Someone talks about penetration 128 00:14:57,760 --> 00:15:02,720 in the backfield by a tight end and you're just like, what? And you're drunk by half time. 129 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:10,080 Yeah. But apparently you cannot use the word penetration on as a team name. They won't allow 130 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:17,920 it. So we had to spell it wrong. We found a loophole. Yep. And what was your name? What were 131 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:26,640 you trying to be? Show me your TDS. And they wouldn't allow that. But as long as you took out your. 132 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:37,200 So it's show me TDS, which is so silly. I know. So it is. So I'm just going to teach everybody 133 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:45,120 who's listening lingo. And also if you're listening and you are younger than us, we are going to very 134 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:53,600 incorrectly use your lingo. So yes, you can write us in at the sweet side of live podcast at 135 00:15:53,600 --> 00:16:04,240 outlook.com and let us know how sus we are. No cap. On God. On God. That's a term too. 136 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:15,520 Yeah. I missed that one. I missed it. Anyways, so we're not, we're not like old, 137 00:16:17,040 --> 00:16:22,160 but we're definitely out of the old to be out of that. That's that lingo. We're more like tubular 138 00:16:22,160 --> 00:16:31,840 bra. That's you. We're from SoCal. So we're all like, yeah, totally bro. Tubular. No, 139 00:16:31,840 --> 00:16:41,680 no. You sound like the turtle from fighting. Oh man, it's tubular. Anyways, okay, so what's 140 00:16:41,680 --> 00:16:49,760 going on? I digress. That's a huge digression. We have digressed. We are now 16 minutes into an 141 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:55,920 episode and we still have not touched on anything. We said a whole lot of stuff. It's all sus. But 142 00:16:55,920 --> 00:17:01,760 anyways, let's just go ahead and end the show right now. I think we're good. I think we're good. 143 00:17:03,040 --> 00:17:13,600 Anyways, so yeah, so last volume three, last no, volume two episode we left off. Episode two. 144 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:18,240 It's not volumes. You have to have like, I've been saying, I've been saying volume. Welcome back to 145 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:23,440 volume three. You're right though. It volumes is like a collection of episodes. Yeah, a collection. 146 00:17:23,440 --> 00:17:30,720 You know, most podcasts use the term season. Okay. So we're season one episode three. 147 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:36,880 Yeah, like a TV show. Yes. Yeah. And then typically in a season, there's a major character 148 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:43,920 progressions and maybe we'll maybe we'll get structured. 149 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:54,560 Right. No, no, no, definitely no. Okay. I mean, maybe. Fair enough. Fair enough. 150 00:17:54,560 --> 00:18:01,520 We'll have to speaking of seasons though. Speaking of seasons. This has been, we're in summer. 151 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:12,560 And we have like, I feel like our calendar is starting to slow a bit. But we have been recently 152 00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:19,520 like double things on the weekend back to back. Like just there's so much going on. I mean, 153 00:18:19,520 --> 00:18:23,920 I feel like they say summer is winter season, right? Isn't there a saying about that or people 154 00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:31,040 discuss that? Because you know, I feel that's valid. Yes, I do believe so. I think that is a thing, 155 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:37,040 especially here on the West Coast, because you know, the pools are yeah, I mean, we've been at 156 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:48,560 a pool party the last the last three weeks. The last three weeks of the last month has been a pool 157 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:56,880 party every every Saturday, typically. Every weekend. We basically had a party. It's been a 158 00:18:56,880 --> 00:19:03,520 very busy season. And this coming weekend, we're actually just gonna go free. We're not free. 159 00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:10,880 We're going on a old fashioned couples date, couples date, which we'll definitely get into 160 00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:15,120 something. I'm sure of it. It's like, I feel like with us, it always happens with least expected. 161 00:19:15,120 --> 00:19:20,240 Like we do all these parties, we go not do, we go to all these parties. And it's not that like we 162 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:25,120 don't play or anything we do. But I just feel like sometimes like the craziest stuff we do. And 163 00:19:25,120 --> 00:19:28,320 maybe that's why it's crazy because it's like, we don't expect it. It's just you and I and then 164 00:19:28,320 --> 00:19:33,440 all of a sudden like, Oh, we're doing Sunday at church. Yeah. Sunday at church is the craziest 165 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:43,120 time. No, we're doing XYZ and we're doing XYZ and it's like, who's XYZ? That's what that's what 166 00:19:43,120 --> 00:19:48,320 Saturday you just told us we were doing XYZ. Yeah, well, that's what Saturday has to say. Got it. 167 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:57,840 So yeah, Mr X, Mrs Y and Mrs Z. Say that one more time. Mr X and who was the Y? 168 00:19:57,840 --> 00:20:05,680 Mrs Y and Mrs Z. Okay, as long as the numbers are correct. You're like, Mr X, Mr Y and Mr Z. 169 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:17,440 All men. Anyway, so yeah, we have just an old fashioned couples date. Going out to some of our 170 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:23,280 favorite places. bars and getting some cocktails. But the past weekends, we've had like, 171 00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:29,360 literally so many pull parties and it's crazy. I don't know if every, it's weird because I 172 00:20:29,360 --> 00:20:36,080 have listened to some podcasts and it's interesting to like, hear kind of what goes on 173 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:42,320 elsewhere. And I don't know if it's the same like, do other places in the country 174 00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:50,480 have pool parties every weekend like we do here? And this is not pool parties at like a 175 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:58,080 venue like a resort because obviously we could hit up a resort here every weekend, Monday, 176 00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:05,440 like 365 days a year. Yes. But this is like people we know having pool parties. 177 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:13,680 No, I think living in Southern California, we are definitely lucky in that sense as to the 178 00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:20,000 amount of things that that is available to us. Because you know, with all the podcasts I do 179 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:25,280 listen to, you know, a lot of them are like, you know, they hit one event a month and they 180 00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:30,480 had to drive two hours to get there. Yeah. You know, being here, obviously, a lot of the 181 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:34,960 podcasts I listen to are in Florida. There's a lot going on in Florida. There's a lot going on 182 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:40,080 in Florida. There's a couple of a couple of the cities or the counties that are very, you know, 183 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:45,280 LS friendly. And they have some really great resorts. We haven't been there personally, 184 00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:50,000 but I do hear a lot about a few of them. And I definitely would love to visit some of them at 185 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:58,800 some point. But it's just it's Florida. That's very hot. And you know, if you Google Florida man, 186 00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:05,680 you know, the options are just crazy what goes on down there. And I'm from there. So I can speak 187 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:13,760 about that. Yeah. Anywho, there's definitely like if you open up our, you know, our social medias. 188 00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:21,200 Cassidy is a really big one down here or over here in Southern California. I know a lot of the 189 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:28,000 different social media websites are, they're very regional, like there's, you know, all kinds of 190 00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:32,720 other places, but Cassidy seems to be the probably the biggest one out in this area, as far as I know. 191 00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:39,680 And you can just look up a weekend and you just have dates and dates and dates and all kinds of 192 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:44,080 parties that are, you know, you could have, look up a random Saturday and you could have like, you 193 00:22:44,080 --> 00:22:50,000 know, 12 to 15 parties you could go to within 45 minutes of where you live. So there's definitely 194 00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:59,600 a lot going on this summer. And this summer is as opposed to like last summer, we were definitely in 195 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:08,320 the LS, but we weren't like, as openly looking for stuff. But this year, it's been like now, you know, 196 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:12,560 we're kind of like, we know more. We have a group of friends this year. We have a great group of friends. 197 00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:18,400 And we, you know, we're a little community and, you know, we've gotten all the invites and, 198 00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:26,720 yeah, it's been, it's been a fun summer so far. So yeah, I think the biggest thing is that we could 199 00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:33,360 have gone to anything the previous summers, but it is kind of like intimidating to just roll up to 200 00:23:33,360 --> 00:23:40,480 a place you don't know anybody. And there is a lot of people who are like, Oh, if you go here, 201 00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:51,120 like it's very clicky. And I mean, I'm with the group of friends we have, I would never want 202 00:23:51,120 --> 00:23:56,080 any like a new person to ever feel that way, like that we're clicky, but I thought you were going 203 00:23:56,080 --> 00:24:00,240 to say, I would never want a new person to come in. I'm like, wait, what? No, of course, I want new 204 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:04,800 people to come in. And that's why I don't want them to feel like it's clicky. So yes, I know you 205 00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:14,320 and I try to do our best to include people almost to a fault sometimes. Oh, I know. I know I've made 206 00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:19,520 very a lot of people uncomfortable because I'll, I'll see like a couple and they're just like 207 00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:24,480 sitting in the chair, you know, and they, they have like a petrified look on their face and 208 00:24:25,120 --> 00:24:29,760 I'll just go up and start talking to them. And it either goes one or two ways either a they 209 00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:34,080 loosen up and they say, Hey, you know, thanks for bringing us in or they get more petrified. 210 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:38,480 Yeah. And they just shrink more into their chairs, but it's more the first option. 211 00:24:39,360 --> 00:24:41,280 Yeah. No, I think they appreciate it. 212 00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:49,920 I bet her. Because I'm an introvert. So for me to do that, that's a lot of like inside the self 213 00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:57,120 doubt dialogue. But you go to you go into entertainer mode, I feel like. Okay, well, 214 00:24:57,120 --> 00:25:01,200 let's get down to the nitty gritty. We're going to talk about our football league. Yeah. Okay. 215 00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:09,680 Our nitty gritty football league. No, I know we stopped last time at the part of our story. 216 00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:15,360 What? 25 minutes. That's what I'm saying. You're like, what are we going to talk about? I'm like, 217 00:25:15,360 --> 00:25:19,520 babe, we just ramble like this. I mean, our, the rest of our stories is not like it's going to be a 218 00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:27,600 45 minute story. No, I don't think it's going to be a 45 minute story. So buckle up because it might. 219 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:34,560 No, but okay. So last we discussed, we're going to, you know, move into we're NFA, 220 00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:42,400 like just to do a quick recap. What is FA? We were NFA, which is freedom makers. It's a club. 221 00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:51,680 We met a couple. We, she is bisexual and we, her and I were on the stripper pole. We did a little 222 00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:58,720 diddy for you guys and then did a little dance. Make a little love. And then we down the night. 223 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:06,480 And then we basically grabbed you guys or ran off to the back rooms, which are play rooms. We 224 00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:11,360 spotted you had set a corner in the last one, but it really wasn't. It wasn't a corner. It was 225 00:26:11,360 --> 00:26:16,480 totally a corner. It was like, we literally had a search for it though, because there were so many 226 00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:24,800 people already playing back there. So it was like the edge of a bed of like a corner of a side upstairs, 227 00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:31,440 like in a group setting. It wasn't, it was very open, but it was upstairs. So it wasn't, I guess, 228 00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:35,760 that, but there was already people playing like, Oh yeah, it wasn't, it wasn't a curtain. It wasn't 229 00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:40,560 an individual room. It was, that's what I'm saying, because I think a lot of these places, like there, 230 00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:47,280 it's a lot of individual spaces maybe, but this was not, it was an open, very open space. 231 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:52,960 This, this particular place, the way it was designed, it was like an adult playground. 232 00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:58,240 It had levels upon levels and stairs and huge beds and small rooms. I like to describe it like, 233 00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:03,280 it reminds me of like, you know, those like, we've never owned cats, but like, you know, those like, 234 00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:07,760 I've owned cats. Well, you, I said we like, you and I together, like I personally have never owned 235 00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:15,600 cats. So like those little scratching, yes, where they have like little cubbies and like, 236 00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:20,000 like they have the top and then they have the cubby and then they have like a side thing. And 237 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:24,960 then it's like, you know, it's like, but it's like a huge one of those. So there's like all the 238 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:30,000 different spaces. And then they have like a mirrored room and a dorm room and they had like a 239 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:35,360 St. Andrew's Cross and they had, it's so sad talking about this room. I know this place in the past 240 00:27:35,360 --> 00:27:40,800 tense. We've been to some other places and they're cool. They'll have a room here, a room there, 241 00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:47,520 but this was literally like an adult Disneyland. Yeah. Like you had the whole dance floor, the bar, 242 00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:53,840 and you go into the back and it was like a whole, whole separate like experience. Yeah. They used 243 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:59,360 to have a jacuzzi and well, at one time they had a jacuzzi inside. Then it became a dance floor. 244 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:04,880 That's how long ago is that we went. If anyone's listening to this, who knows about the jacuzzi 245 00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:11,360 at? Runa Makers? Oh yeah, we were there. Yeah, we were probably the reason that jacuzzi got drained. 246 00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:16,960 I definitely was not the reason. And they put a pool table on top of it and then it changed 247 00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:22,800 into a Latin dance room. Yeah. Then yeah, they had a lot of different things. Anyways, anyway, 248 00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:31,280 we digress again. Anyway, so it was the space we had and there were little cubbies. They were a 249 00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:35,520 little more, they were more private. And previously when we had been there, that's where we had, 250 00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:40,800 you and I had played. Like we would go into a little cubby, put up a towel, and for the most 251 00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:45,680 part, people respected the towel. You had a few, I'm guessing single men, even though they weren't 252 00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:49,600 supposed to be back there, kind of trying to creep in and you'd be like, uh-uh-uh. 253 00:28:54,240 --> 00:29:00,480 But anyway, this time there was- I'm going to stop you really quick. One of my favorite things about 254 00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:11,280 the FAA back in the day is it was a obviously an on-premise play club and it was open till 6am. 255 00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:17,360 So you could literally treat this place as a hotel. Yeah. So if you were lucky enough to get 256 00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:23,280 one of these little private, like two people rooms with the towel, you could do your thing and go to 257 00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:29,840 sleep. Which we did. Many times. Many times. And at 6am, this the keeper of the place, the janitor, 258 00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:36,240 I don't know, he would come along and tickle your feet to wake you up. And I'm taller. He never 259 00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:40,320 tickled my feet. I'm taller, like so my feet would kind of always hang out with the smaller 260 00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:45,680 puppies. Which is why he tickled yours. Till this day, I remember just like being, you know, 261 00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:49,280 in a deep sleep and just having some guy tickle your feet and you're like, whoa! 262 00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:55,760 And then you had to get up and go home. So it's just- Yeah. I'm literally the break-a-dun. Yes, 263 00:29:55,760 --> 00:30:00,400 I miss those days. But you're so more sober, so it worked out. Exactly. You gave you a place to 264 00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:06,720 play and sober up and you didn't have to get a hotel room. Yeah. Anyway, so. Anyway. Take it away. 265 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:12,160 That wasn't where we were. We were in like, and it wasn't, we were upstairs. And when I say upstairs, 266 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:19,520 it's hard to explain this if you haven't been there. It wasn't like two-story. Yeah, it wasn't 267 00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:25,360 like upstairs, like you go to a second floor of your house. It was like if you're in a tree house 268 00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:30,160 and you like climb the ladder and got to like the second level of a tree house, like that's 269 00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:36,880 really the upstairs. Like you're all in the same room, but there were different levels and like 270 00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:43,440 hallways and things. It was like the most- a tree house is probably the best way to start. Like the 271 00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:50,720 most extreme like tree house you could think of. I don't know. Because we were still in the- 272 00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:56,400 most fun tree house. Yeah, exactly. We were in the same space as people down below us and it 273 00:30:56,400 --> 00:31:00,480 wasn't like we went upstairs like you're going into a two-story house. It was like you're climbing 274 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:05,120 a ladder to get to the top of the tree house, essentially. So- This place used to be a school 275 00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:10,880 house. It was a school house. And it was a church at one point too. Was it? I believe so. And now it's a- 276 00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:14,720 I think we talked about now it's an Amazon. Yeah, now it's an Amazon distributing like place, whatever. 277 00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:24,480 It's lame. Anyway, so we're- we went up to the top because like there's a whole lot of everything 278 00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:33,760 going on everywhere. So we found a little space that we could go. So we go there. I believe what- 279 00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:38,720 this is how I picture it and then you can tell how you think of it. So I pictured what happened is 280 00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:45,360 we get there, basically she like- she lays me down and starts going like eating me out, going down 281 00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:55,440 on me. And then- And then he laid me down. No. And then you were like basically like I have to go get 282 00:31:55,440 --> 00:32:05,200 like our bag of stuff. Like we had a backpack with like vibrators and lube and things in it that you 283 00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:10,560 were like I need to go get this because- It was in the locker. Because basically what you know how 284 00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:15,200 we had basically pulled you guys up there. There wasn't really time to be like wait we're doing this, 285 00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:19,520 we're going somewhere, this is like it happened all so fast that nobody grabbed anything. Yeah, 286 00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:32,960 there's no no warning whatsoever. Yeah, so you went down to go get stuff and then he was like- 287 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:37,200 So she was eating me out and then he- and you left during that point and then he was like 288 00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:45,840 would he mind- No. Okay. Okay. You're right about all of that. The time you're thinking was that I 289 00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:51,840 went to the restroom. Okay. Different time. Okay, so then I think I went down on her then after that. 290 00:32:52,560 --> 00:33:00,400 What I remember is she was going down on you and he was kissing you. Okay. And you were kind of playing 291 00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:07,840 with with his penis. You can say penis. Dick. Dick. You can say dick. Calk. Okay. You could say cock. 292 00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:13,600 And you were kind of doing that and then I was kind of like fingering her from behind 293 00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:20,560 while she was going down on you. Okay. That makes more sense. Yeah, that was happening for a while. 294 00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:26,240 Yeah. And then- You probably have a better recollection of some of this. I really don't. 295 00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:34,000 I don't. Like I remember bits and pieces. I remember certain activities. Yeah. I don't remember the 296 00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:39,200 exact slow bit. This was a long time ago. I was really nervous. Yeah. We all were. I mean this is the 297 00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:46,240 first time. So this is the first time we played with another couple. At all. At all. Kissing. 298 00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:57,120 Anything. Like anything. And we just dove right in apparently. Yeah. Somebody dove in. And yeah. 299 00:33:57,120 --> 00:34:03,840 So that was happening for a while. And then I was- I think I was eating her out a little bit from 300 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:13,600 behind. And that was different. I was like, okay. Like wow, this is someone else. Yeah. And I was 301 00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:21,920 just like, I was having a good time. And but then the weird thing for me was not necessarily 302 00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:35,360 seeing you like kiss or somebody thing or somebody else. But it was like he was talking like and 303 00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:41,040 saying nice things to you. Yeah. And you were smiling and giggling and laughing. Yeah. And that 304 00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:46,800 that threw me. Right. Like it wasn't the physical act of what you were doing or what was being done 305 00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:53,760 to you. It just it was like I saw that he was making you laugh. Yeah. He was making you smile. 306 00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:59,200 Yeah. And it didn't throw me. It didn't make me like throw my hands up and walk out. No. It wasn't. 307 00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:06,800 It was just like, okay, that's odd. And I remember I was smiling because of the moment and I was 308 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:13,600 trying to not be super awkward. But I know I was smiling like the Joker. Well, it was dark. Nobody 309 00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:19,280 could see you. Thank God. Because I know I had this weird grin on my face and like it was like a 310 00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:25,360 I was trying to smile to show I was having a good time because I was. But it was very like like I 311 00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:30,720 felt Joker-ish. I'm like, this is just really weird. Yeah. This is really weird. I can't do this. Yeah. 312 00:35:30,720 --> 00:35:36,400 Yeah. And then yeah. And like you guys are kind of doing it for a while. Yeah. He was I mean he was 313 00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:40,800 very complimentary. Yeah. And I remember you said you really liked that. I did. That makes sense. 314 00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:45,520 Yeah. I mean, yeah, I mean, anyone tells you you're beautiful, you're hot, like you turn them on, 315 00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:51,840 you're sexy. I'll pay your mortgage. All those things like and I don't even it was I mean the 316 00:35:51,840 --> 00:36:02,240 giggling was probably like obviously like uncomfortable, slightly uncomfortable, you know. But also it 317 00:36:02,240 --> 00:36:12,320 was, you know, it was I mean, part of this is like, you tell me those things. But I mean, we've been 318 00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:18,080 together so long, I'm like, well, I would assume you would think those things about me. And not 319 00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:22,880 that they don't mean less. It's just interesting to hear it from somebody else. And I know you 320 00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:27,920 know that too, because you know, when women compliment you or whatever, I know you feel 321 00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:34,480 like, okay. Yeah, women say they love my breasts. No, it's there's definitely something to it outside 322 00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:43,120 validation. Yeah. And that's a very common theme across, you know, a lot of couples is like you 323 00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:50,640 said they you can hear it all day long from your partner. But to hear it from someone else, it's 324 00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:56,560 different. Yeah, it's not it's not better or worse. It's just different. It adds it's it's more of a 325 00:36:56,560 --> 00:37:02,320 validation. Yeah. And I've gotten I've gotten to the point now, obviously, where I hear it. And I 326 00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:06,320 now I'm just like, Oh, she's having fun. Yeah. And that's good. Because if you're not having fun, 327 00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:11,200 then why are you doing it? Right. But yeah, that first time was I'm like, well, someone else is 328 00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:17,040 making her laugh. Yeah, someone else is making her smile. And it was a little weird, of course, 329 00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:25,040 coming from a, you know, a machoism standpoint and all that stuff. But at that point, after we 330 00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:29,280 were doing that for a while is when I went to the restroom, right? So you went to the bathroom after 331 00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:33,920 we got the bag, I got the bag and all that stuff. But then I went to the restroom, right? And then 332 00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:40,080 he was like, do you think he would mind if I went down on you? And at this point, we hadn't really 333 00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:46,400 discussed a ton of like boundaries other than we're not full swap at that point. And you know what 334 00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:50,640 that was really, we just knew we're gonna have sex. Yeah, we knew we were gonna have sex with 335 00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:56,960 somebody else. And then we had discussed our safe horn, which is so generic in hindsight. 336 00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:02,560 But anyway, which I'm going to say later, because I literally screamed it. 337 00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:12,640 It's full alert. Anyway, so we kind of like, but other than that, we really didn't discuss like, 338 00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:20,000 oh, if I leave, then don't like now, now you can now it's same room, you know, same room. But 339 00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:29,520 in the same token, our boundaries now are not really even same room. No, it's just don't take 340 00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:36,000 somebody to a private room alone. Like, as long as you're in the public eye, if I'm not like there, 341 00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:43,920 and same with me, if I as long as I'm in like a public space, same house, no, because, but like, 342 00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:48,720 we've kind of just been like, as long as they're not in like, as long as it's not like, let me go 343 00:38:48,720 --> 00:38:53,280 have a private like fuck session with somebody. Now, I think I think a lot of what I have, we've 344 00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:57,920 said is, um, definitely if we're going to get to the point where we're having sex with someone else, 345 00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:03,600 we need to have that together. Yeah, in the same room. Yeah. As far as like oral and stuff like 346 00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:09,760 that, it's happened in other rooms. Yeah. And that's, that's, it's just kind of, this is the natural 347 00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:15,840 flow of things. Yeah. But at this time, like she said, we hadn't even like, that wasn't even like 348 00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:19,520 a possibility. We've done nothing. Like we didn't even think that was the thing. Like, I honestly, 349 00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:23,920 we didn't even think we were going to do anything that night. No. So we really didn't prepare you 350 00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:29,760 to, I was wearing three condoms the entire night. It was really weird to put them on because I had 351 00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:36,080 to hold them on with a rubber band. I was ready to go. Cockereg wouldn't even hold them on. I was 352 00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:42,480 walking in like, okay, here we go. Um, anyway, so I said, I go, no, I think it's fine. So then you 353 00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:49,120 came back and he was going down on me and I think I was making out with her. What's the situation? 354 00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:53,920 And I'm assuming that probably threw you for a minute. A little bit. It was just kind of like, 355 00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:58,640 again, like, whoa. I mean, at that point, there were so many curveballs being thrown. I'm like, 356 00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:05,040 oh, what's another, you know? Yeah. And again, nothing, nothing made me angry. It was just, 357 00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:11,440 it was like, okay. Yeah. Here we are. This is the, this is the, you know, the, 358 00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:17,520 what we chose to put ourselves into. Right. So then we kind of paired off a little bit, I feel like. 359 00:40:17,520 --> 00:40:20,160 And she was with you. And I was, 360 00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:25,360 No, there was another point. He laid back down and you actually made him come with a hand job. 361 00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:33,680 Did I? Yeah. Oh. Yeah. So I, after that, he went back to your head and I went back to kind of 362 00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:40,960 playing with her from behind. And then he, you were jerking him off. And he was like, oh, I'm 363 00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:47,600 gonna go. And then, and he came all of his hand and he was done. He kind of checked out. Yeah. And 364 00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:54,640 then that's when he got up on the side of the bed. Yeah. And then the attention turned to me with you 365 00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:59,360 too. Yeah. But for a little bit, it was separate slightly. A little bit. Yeah. A little bit. So 366 00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:04,640 then, yeah. So then the tension. So then he came obviously. And then I don't remember that, but 367 00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:13,200 good job me. Good hand job me. Go you. Go hand job me. That is actually pretty crazy though, 368 00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:19,680 that our first time playing with someone. You got him to come. I guess. Yeah. He said he was a 369 00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:26,720 professional. He rolled in like, this is what I do. This is what I do in the first five minutes of 370 00:41:26,720 --> 00:41:38,720 an encounter. No. So I can't blame him. So then she, I do remember this. So then she was like 371 00:41:38,720 --> 00:41:42,160 giving you a head and then she's like, come in here and like give him head too. So then we gave 372 00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:46,640 you a double blow job, which I know is on your bucket list of like things to do. My bucket list 373 00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:51,520 of things to do and things to continue to do. Yeah, exactly. At some point, you've gotten a triple. 374 00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:59,120 I did. But there was only two of us this night. So you got, well, there was three, but he was out 375 00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:04,880 of commission. Like God, so he was just kind of watching at that point. And he was still playing 376 00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:09,680 with himself. And I mean, I guess just because he was maybe trying to get back in the game, 377 00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:18,320 like see his recovery time. But yeah, so she, so her and I gave you a double blow job, 378 00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:24,800 which how is that? It was fantastic from what I recall. We are talking, this is a couple years 379 00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:34,960 ago. This was many years ago. So this was 2019. October of 2019. So four years ago. Yes, it was 380 00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:40,400 a really good time. I was still just kind of in a state of shock. Yeah. I was waiting for somebody 381 00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:46,640 to come in and pinch me. And yeah, that was a really good time. And there was also some 382 00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:53,200 double make out sessions going on there. Yeah. And then I recall, again, we kind of paired off, 383 00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:59,760 like I was laying on the bed and there was like a, like a two foot section between like a fence 384 00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:06,240 railing and the edge of the bed. I was fully on the bed and she, she kind of climbed on top of me. 385 00:43:06,240 --> 00:43:11,600 And you kind of backed over, sitting on the side of the bed. And you started giving him head. 386 00:43:11,600 --> 00:43:15,920 Yeah. And she was sitting on top of me or not sitting on top of me. Like, you know, I was on 387 00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:22,880 the bottom and we were making out a lot and she kind of playing like my, my, my dick. I was like 388 00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:31,680 trying to censor myself for a second. And then I'm an ask I, so I remember I was looking over at you 389 00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:39,120 and is there anything else you're thinking of? Or okay. You were, you were like going and giving 390 00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:43,520 him head and trying to get him going again. And I remember looking out of the corner of my eye and 391 00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:49,360 seeing this and I'm like, this is hot, but this is also like very weird. Like, it was just like, 392 00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:56,320 I don't know, is this right? Is this wrong? You know, and it was just, it was very weird. It's 393 00:43:56,320 --> 00:44:02,720 very hot. I was having a great time. And I remember I reached down and I was grabbing her butt and I 394 00:44:02,720 --> 00:44:09,600 was kind of pulling on it and you know, it was getting pretty crazy. And then all of a sudden 395 00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:18,400 I'm sitting there and then I see, I see her, I see Emily's head pop up over my, my top left 396 00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:25,360 shoulder screaming pineapple pineapple. So what had happened was what happened? What had happened was 397 00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:31,920 um, yes, that did happen. But so from my perspective, what had happened was so I was really quick. 398 00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:39,920 Pineapple is actually the safe word that we chose, which is like so, but at that time we had no idea 399 00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:47,120 what it actually means. Yeah. I just, I've always liked pineapple and it seemed obscure enough. 400 00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:51,920 Like who the hell would yell pineapple? Yeah. Or who would use that word in an everyday little 401 00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:56,240 did we know? Or the biggest idiot, swinger idiots of the world. Little did we freaking know that 402 00:44:56,240 --> 00:45:04,080 it's like the, you know, national like logo. Yeah. No, what had, what had happened was so 403 00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:10,400 like he said, he had come. So I was just trying to get him, you know, going again. And I don't even 404 00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:15,200 know if I knew he had come actually to be honest with you. I think at the time you did. Okay. 405 00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:19,440 Maybe I did because you acknowledged it. Okay. Just right now it's, it's obviously. Yeah. 406 00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:26,880 Yeah. So he had come obviously and I was trying to get him going because you guys had kind of like 407 00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:32,800 paired off a bit. So I was kind of like, not, I could have participated obviously, but it was 408 00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:37,040 kind of like getting to the point where I'm like, well, I could go either way, you know, I saw him 409 00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:42,160 just sitting over there like by himself essentially. And I was feeling a little bit like, well, he's 410 00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:46,800 been left out of the game for a minute. Like we've been focusing on, you did what you're supposed 411 00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:56,480 to do. I was thinking we've been focusing on your team player. And, and so I'm, yeah. So I went over 412 00:45:56,480 --> 00:46:05,680 there to get him going again. And he wasn't. So he was just kind of still whispering in my ear 413 00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:11,280 talking to me like, you know, I don't know, probably rubbing my boobs or something. And 414 00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:22,240 and then because you were grabbing her ass and like she was essentially writing you, but she had, 415 00:46:22,240 --> 00:46:28,960 I think she had panties on, but she was essentially writing you and he, he asked me, he goes, 416 00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:36,880 are you okay with this? And I, and for a minute I was like, am I, but in my head, like it visually 417 00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:43,840 kind of looked like you guys were fucking. So even though I basically knew you weren't, but it's still 418 00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:49,920 like just everything that was happening, the deep make out with the, the thrusting and all that was 419 00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:55,840 just very much in my head, like looking like you guys were fucking. So when he, at first I was fine. 420 00:46:55,840 --> 00:47:04,160 And then when he said, are you okay with this? And I was like, I checked in with myself essentially, 421 00:47:04,160 --> 00:47:10,080 which I hadn't done all night. I was just kind of going with the flow, going with whatever happened, 422 00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:15,680 you know, it is what to Tiz type of vibe and we'll figure it out later. But then when he 423 00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:19,280 like basically asked me that question, I checked in with myself and I'm like, I'm actually not 424 00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:27,120 okay with this. Like this looks very much like a fucking session and very intimate and not what 425 00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:32,480 I'm here for. So I like, this isn't just, this doesn't look superficial anymore. It looks a little 426 00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:38,960 bit deeper than that. So that's where I like, and then I remembered we had a word and I was like, 427 00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:44,640 I just started screaming it essentially. I mean, I don't know if I was as loud as I think I was, 428 00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:52,240 but you, you were loud. Like it was definitely a, and I know I had panic in my boy. I got everybody's 429 00:47:52,240 --> 00:47:57,600 attention because I remember the girl, she looked at me and she, her eyes went like wide, 430 00:47:57,600 --> 00:48:03,760 like she saw the ghost and then she goes, what's happening right now? I go, um, 431 00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:08,160 I think we're done. Yeah, I think we're done. I think you said that. I think you said, I think 432 00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:15,680 we're done. Yeah, I think we're done. We need to stop and then we got up and we exchanged numbers 433 00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:22,640 and pleasantries and it was, it was cool. Like it, like it halted abruptly, but it wasn't 434 00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:28,640 super weird in a sense of like, we kind of, I think they understood. Yeah, we, like we regained 435 00:48:28,640 --> 00:48:33,840 our composure. Yeah. And like I said, he checked in with me. So I think partially he might have been 436 00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:38,080 not okay with it either. Maybe. And he just didn't want to call it because I don't know why he would 437 00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:44,480 have asked me that question if either, either my face said more than I thought it did, which is 438 00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:50,880 unusual for me because my face doesn't usually say a lot. Actually, I've, I've actually done what he 439 00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:58,160 has done with other women. Yeah. That exact kind of like, are you okay with this? So it could have 440 00:48:58,160 --> 00:49:02,960 been, he was just checking in. Yeah. And he, I think we discussed the fact that we were kind of new 441 00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:13,280 and. Yeah. So whatever it was, he decided to check in with me and, um, yeah, what I had to say was 442 00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:21,600 not probably what, what you wanted to hear. But, um, you know, it was, it was fine. Like, I was good 443 00:49:21,600 --> 00:49:30,800 with stopping there. The only thing that, that bothered me that night was while neither one of 444 00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:38,320 us did anything wrong, you shut down and shut me out. Yeah. Like I did something wrong. Yeah. So 445 00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:44,240 like after they left that area, you and I stayed up there and I was still like, I'm like, okay, 446 00:49:44,240 --> 00:49:49,440 I'm here with you. And I was kind of rubbing on you. I'm like, like, let's have our moment now. 447 00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:54,080 You know, let's reconnect here and you weren't having it. You were like, you were like, I, 448 00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:59,840 you were just pissed. Like I did something wrong. And I'm like, I understand. But you know, we didn't 449 00:49:59,840 --> 00:50:05,280 break rules. You know, you're, you're having them and then like we got up, went to the bar to retrieve 450 00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:09,600 our stuff and you were just, you were just kind of shut me out. And I was like, what the hell? You 451 00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:15,440 know, and you know, it's looking back. It's understandable because you had a moment and you, 452 00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:24,720 but yeah, I, that's not how I need. Right. Like I need to be like, all right, we're good. We can 453 00:50:24,720 --> 00:50:29,120 talk about this. We can figure it out, but I don't like to be shut out. Right. And that's what 454 00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:34,720 happened. And I was like, that was like, it was, it went from like a super high, super fun. And 455 00:50:34,720 --> 00:50:42,960 then just, yeah. Right. I mean, but that's, we all process things differently and I need my space. 456 00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:49,360 For a first, for a first time, I mean, it, it went pretty well. Yeah. And this, you know, 457 00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:56,240 and, uh, yeah, I think we would have probably seen them again if, um, because this was the end of 458 00:50:57,520 --> 00:51:04,240 2019 and obviously the beginning of 2020, we know it happened. So I think, um, and obviously 459 00:51:04,240 --> 00:51:10,160 like between October and March of 2020, October 19 and March of 2020, I mean, there's Thanksgiving 460 00:51:10,160 --> 00:51:16,560 and Christmas and, you know, and we, we, yeah, we, we weren't quite ready to jump right back in. 461 00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:21,920 Yeah. We had a process. We like, all right. So we did this. Do we want to do this? Yeah. 462 00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:28,640 And, uh, yeah, I mean it, it took some time. So I think if 2020 hadn't happened, we probably 463 00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:34,880 would have seen them again. Probably. Um, because I mean they said they went there a lot and we 464 00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:39,760 would have been back, I think obviously sooner than we, we never went back, right? Cause it closed 465 00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:46,000 and we would have been back. I don't think, and yeah, and then an FA would not have closed. Yeah. 466 00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:55,840 In 2021, right. They did close, you know, here within the last year because the, the owner died 467 00:51:55,840 --> 00:52:00,000 and the wife didn't want to continue and, you know, no, I think the wife was already gone, 468 00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:03,600 right? It was the kids. Was it the kids? I thought it was the wife didn't want to continue. 469 00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:07,360 I think it's the kids didn't want to continue. I don't know. Anyway, anyway, so someone didn't 470 00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:11,520 want to continue. But anyway, so I think we would have seen them again and probably would have 471 00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:17,600 figured it out. But regardless, I mean, it was fun. Yeah. Everything happens for a reason. Right. 472 00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:25,040 And I, we still have our, their phone numbers in our phone. I'm pretty sure. Like, hey, what up? 473 00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:29,360 Cause I mean, I had the same phone number in pineapple. I'm the same phone number in phone 474 00:52:30,240 --> 00:52:35,600 from like, ever ago. Right. What's funny is that this is a small community in general, 475 00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:38,880 but it is a lot of people, but I always just feel like I'm like, we're going to run across. 476 00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:44,480 We always meet people who've been to FA. Yeah. You know, the thing, the thing, um, 477 00:52:46,560 --> 00:52:53,680 it's, it's, it could potentially happen, but they weren't even married. No. So, but they did have kids. 478 00:52:53,680 --> 00:53:03,520 Okay. Maybe. But the thing is, is, um, uh, some people like to play, like to only play, you know, 479 00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:10,800 an hour or two from where they live. We don't do that necessarily. So a lot of our friends and a 480 00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:18,720 lot of our parties we go to are like in our backyard and our same city. And where FA used to be was, 481 00:53:18,720 --> 00:53:25,120 you know, a couple hours away and they were even further north than FA was. Oh, they were. Yeah. 482 00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:35,200 So it's a, it's a three hour tour. Okay. So that, I mean, it could very well happen. We 483 00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:41,600 would go to some of our venues like that we like to go to up north, but yeah, we may. I would, 484 00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:46,560 I would recognize him maybe cause he did have a look as long as his hair was still long. Yes. 485 00:53:46,560 --> 00:53:54,560 Yes. He, yeah. Um, her. Yeah. She was, I remember, she was cute, but she was average. Yeah. I don't, 486 00:53:54,560 --> 00:54:01,360 I don't remember a whole lot about her. Um, I don't either. I honestly don't remember him 487 00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:10,320 at the end. He had long hair, which was unusual for a guy. So that's why. So yeah. So that was our 488 00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:20,960 first encounter. Our first encounter. And it was the guy. It was the crown royal rep at the store. 489 00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:25,600 No. Um, so yeah, that was, that was our first time. It seems to long go from the beginning 490 00:54:25,600 --> 00:54:28,240 when you said encounter. I'm like, I know we said the word encounter earlier, 491 00:54:28,240 --> 00:54:32,800 but I can't remember what we were discussing until you just said the crown royal. We've been talking 492 00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:38,000 now for an hour. All right. We got to wrap this up. I should probably divide this into five parts. 493 00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:42,080 We should wrap this up. Wrap it up. I want to wrap it up. Tell your, tell your podcasts. 494 00:54:42,720 --> 00:54:47,600 No, I'm not ready to wrap this up. Oh my gosh. Nobody wants to know. There's some things to edit out. 495 00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:53,120 No, there's not a whole lot. But anyways, so they can listen to it on two times. 496 00:54:56,800 --> 00:55:04,400 So anyways, that was our first encounter. So we got some more stories coming up and we'll see 497 00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:10,000 where things go. For now though, I'm going to go ahead and throw out another podcast recommendation. 498 00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:19,840 One of my favorite ones that I listen to right now is called room 77. And it's a couple that are in 499 00:55:20,720 --> 00:55:27,440 Cancun, Mexico, I believe they're still there. And they used to be do some like specialized 500 00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:36,960 massage at the RM resort and the Pearl Pearl resort. And then I think that fell apart. 501 00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:42,000 But anyways, they're still doing their show. It's called room 77. You can find them on 502 00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:48,720 Apple Spotify. And they actually have a YouTube channel and they also have a TikTok presence. 503 00:55:48,720 --> 00:55:54,960 That's pretty funny. They're they're both very loud, charismatic and funny people and they're 504 00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:58,960 they have a great show. And I actually have a strong feeling we're going to run across them 505 00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:04,400 at some point because we do like to go to Cancun and they do like to visit Cancun because they 506 00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:13,440 live there. So how do you visit somewhere you live? I don't know. That's one of those tourists in your 507 00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:19,280 own town type of things. Exactly. But anyways, so we're going to conclude this episode. We'll be 508 00:56:19,280 --> 00:56:26,640 back next time for volume five 67. It's not volume. We said it was going to be true. Episode 509 00:56:26,640 --> 00:56:35,840 one season one episode four will be the next one volume. I want to buy this is in books. Okay, 510 00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:43,200 then it's volume one chapter four. If we're going book analogy, the next one, the next one. Okay. 511 00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:49,040 I'll think about it. Okay. But in the meantime, when enjoying the sweet side of life, 512 00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:55,440 keep your pineapples upside down, believe in unicorns and keep shaking it up. Love you, baby. 513 00:56:55,440 --> 00:56:56,000 Love you. 514 00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:10,240 If you would like to get in contact with us, please email us at the sweet side of life podcast at 515 00:57:10,240 --> 00:57:25,840 outlook.com or you can always find us on any one of our socials that are listed in the podcast links.