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as we are not professionals at all. With that being said, make yourself a drink and join us on

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our journey as a merry couple and join the lifestyle in beautiful Southern California.

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Welcome to round two of the Sweet Side of Life podcast. Nailed it. All right, so every podcast

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we're gonna start with a quick drink. Cheers. Cheers. Cheers. And tonight we are drinking a

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tiki cocktail that is called the... Chewing ice. It's called the painkiller. Which is...

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Now I choked on the nutmeg. It's the... You're dying over there. Yeah, it's traditionally made with

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pussers rum but we prefer Appleton. So it's Appleton, pineapple, coconut cream, and orange juice.

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And then shaken up very vigorously. And then it's topped with a nutmeg or some sort of aromatic.

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So nutmeg or cinnamon. Something of that nature. And it's delicious. It is delicious. And you can

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kind of make it as strong or not strong as you want. I typically go on the side of strong.

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But that's just me. Well, it's called a painkiller for a reason. So it's typically made. Pussers is

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an overproof rum. Now we don't use an overproof rum. We just use extra regular rum. A lot.

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Let's just say every drink is probably about a four ounce pour is typically what I like to do.

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Really? Yeah, sometimes. If you're drinking with me, I'll bring it down to like a three just so nobody's

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dying on my watch. But I do like them strong. Yeah, I like a good strong drink. But... So anyways,

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welcome back. This is round two of the Sweet Side of Life podcast. So if you've come back...

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If you've come back... Then you kind of want... We know you kind of want to know more. We appreciate you.

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Thank you. And... Didn't stop at one. So every show we're hoping to make a little bit better.

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So you may notice possibly that there's not quite as many pop-n-peas, hopefully. We did purchase some

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new pop-n-pea microphone filters. So hopefully that takes care of some of the issues. So

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anywho, a lot has happened since we've recorded our last episode.

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We actually recorded our last one probably three weeks ago. Yeah, I would say you're accurate on that.

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And as of tonight that we're recording this, it's actually hasn't been released yet. So our first show

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isn't even on the internet as of right now. I'm just finishing up the editing. But I kind of wanted to

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be able to release a couple shows at once, so you would have a little content to dive into, you know,

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if you were interested. So here probably the next couple days I'll finish editing. I don't see that word right.

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Editing. I think you're fine. I have like a southern draw that like editing and wedding.

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My friends are like it's wedding. No, it's wedding. I'm sorry. I'm from Florida, so it's wedding.

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Thank you. Thank you. Anywho, I get stuck on little details sometimes.

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The inside voices tend to overcome. But anyways, so here hopefully pretty soon we're going to get these

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up online and then we're going to, you know, expand all the socials and get those active and

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really make a push for this. But the reason we kind of had a slow start was because over these last

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couple weeks, both of us had some procedures done. Yes, not fun ones. We had some ectomies.

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Lots of ectomies. I had a vasectomy. So sorry, ladies. I'm not producing children anymore.

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Well, I think you have a few more comes to come. They said you got to get 30 ejaculations

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or three months, whichever comes first. I think I'm at 12 ejaculations. So

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yeah, there's a few more children out there that, you know, if anybody's looking.

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But in all seriousness, yeah, so I got that done. What would you say to guys who are kind of like

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on the fence of getting it done? Because I know initially it was kind of like a thing for you.

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Like you're like, I want to make sure I still come. I want to make sure all these things happen.

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And the more research we did, we figured out like you're good. But

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Yeah, no, yeah, it's all good. I mean, right now my my ejaculate is the color of cool blue

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Kool-Aid. That's not true. No, I would say do your research and it's it's actually fine.

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Everybody has a different reaction or a different experience with everything.

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My experience was pretty chill. The procedure itself wasn't very painful. You know,

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small little pinch when they do the numb in the procedure itself, he was in and out with a scalpel.

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He did one cut. He cut all the cords and the plumbing. He did it at all like within

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like less than 10 minutes. The whole procedure from me walking in the front door to me leaving

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in a wheelchair was about an hour. And that includes, you know, clean up time and

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clean before time by the nurse. I will say yes, the nurse took her good old time cleaning me.

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But it was well worth it. I was I was nice and sterile for the operation. And I do say operation.

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My wife says procedure. And I say it was a operation. I mean, you were in basically the same

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kind of room I get like my gynecologic exam. So maybe I felt like I was in a blockbuster.

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Like it was like you had a window. There's some videos on the wall. It was it was it was chill.

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As far as the after effects, like everything's the same. The amount, the colors, the feeling,

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the everything is exactly the same. So that's good. Yeah, I feel like that's important because I

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think there's a myths out there, obviously. There is. There's a lot of I mean, guys are very attached

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to that, that portion of the orgasm, you know, you like the product, you know, the feeling itself

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is fun. But you do like the, you know, the gratification of, you know, sending your children

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all over the place. So now it's just it's no more children in that that product.

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You're still coming. You're still able to put your come all over somebody's face.

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You're getting very graphic, Emily. Or titties. That's true. So anyways, but all in all, the

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procedure was well worth it. Recovery time, they say one to two weeks, everybody's different.

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I'm literally at the two week mark right now, like tonight is the actual two week mark. And

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I would say as far as, you know, the quote unquote pain, it's not pain anymore. I'm just

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uncomfortable, a slight soreness, I would say I'm 70 97%. You just kind of have to be a little

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careful. But all in all, it's all good. Just a small little incision and the stitches have already

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dissolved. That's the word. So I'm all good. Back in the saddle. However, Emily's procedure

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was a bit more serious or not serious. I'm not serious because serious. Just I was I was sedated.

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I was fully under anesthesia. I did have like, it was, you know, an hour that I was asleep. You

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have even said the procedure surgery is yet. I know it was a taunt elective. She's trying to get

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this build up for sympathy. I know, but it was more than yours. But no, you don't realize how much

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you use your throat until you don't have it. Oh, I know. I know all about not having throat.

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two week recovery. But she was actually a trooper and coming up on like the ninth, 10th day, you

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know, she was back to a partying with me and you know, she just had a rough voice and a little bit

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of pain. And she was like, I'm not sure if she's going to be able to get it. She's going to be able

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to get partying with me and you know, she just had a rough voice and a little bit of pain. But you

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know, she had, she had all the good medications and you know, she's back on the train now. I can't

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speak for her percentage wise, but you know, she's probably got another, I would say another week

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before you feel like you're completely. Yeah, I'm, I'm pretty good though. Like I feel pretty good.

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I couldn't take any medicine today. So this is my first day, not taking medicine. So but I

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recommend it unless you really really need it.

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Well yes, you don't do that for fun.

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if it's just like,

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I would make sure you actually really need it before you.

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When you're an adult, it's a,

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it's a pretty serious surgery, you know, there.

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and they're not like that deeply embedded into your throat.

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and told us that, you know, one of her sides was like

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so deeply like scar tissueed into her throat that, you know,

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he couldn't take all of it out

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because it potentially slice open her blood,

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blood vessels in her throat and bleed out on the table.

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I'm not.

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Have me die.

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I don't want to have me die either.

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And we're back on the saddle.

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So now we're able to do our podcast,

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which I'm sure people are like,

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thanks for giving us your medical history

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in this podcast, but we did not tune in to hear.

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You know, we're almost at 12 minutes and yes,

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so I got this hammer right, it's just killing me.

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I don't have too much.

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But anyway, so we're gonna kind of pick up

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where we left off in our last episode, volume podcast.

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We kind of went through the five W's

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and we kind of described our voyage up to this point.

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So we're gonna kind of reel it back

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and talk about officially when we,

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officially officialed, official lead, what?

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Made it official.

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I thought we were diving into a lifestyle.

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Yes, yeah, yeah, I just had the total brain first.

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So yeah, when we made it official

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and like we decided to jump into the deep end.

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So we'll be back in just a minute and hang tight.

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Okay, so we're gonna start with the first step.

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Welcome back, we are back everybody.

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We are Mr. and Mrs.

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Sweets, Sweets, Sweets.

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So anyway, so I'm gonna take this back to my first recollection

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of kind of taking that first step was in 2019.

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It was in March of 2019.

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Wow, you remember the month?

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Well, I know the month because of where we were specifically,

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but I'm not gonna go into all those details.

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I'll go into some of the details.

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So we were on a cruise.

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Okay, got it.

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She's looking at me like,

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where are you going with this story right now?

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And should I be concerned?

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Yes, I should.

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You should be.

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So it's kind of always been in my mind,

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you know, since back, if you listen to the first episode,

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we were talking about a place called Frida Makers.

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And that was a resort or club out in the San Bernardino area

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of Southern California, which is where we are based.

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And we used to go there kind of experiment

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in just with, you know, being in a sexy environment.

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And voyeurism.

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Voyeurism, exhibitionism.

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I was literally just telling somebody is the gateway drug.

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Yes, it is.

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Voyeurism and exhibitionism is the marijuana of the LS.

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And full swap is the heroin.

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we back in the day, we did, you know, dabble.

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but we did have fun with each other in that environment.

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and we had some other changes in the family dynamic.

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kept to ourselves for a long time.

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she told me.

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I can't remember the exact context,

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but I just remember you're talking about something.

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You did that or something like that.

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than you think or I would do a lot more than you think.

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Or you said something to that effect.

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And at that time, I didn't really know how to take it.

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potentially having a conversation with the LS,

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all of a sudden that little freeze kind of came into my head

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and I was like, she might be a freak.

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And I was like, all right.

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We were only together forever.

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And you didn't know I was a freak just kidding.

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No, I know, I think married couples are together

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for a long time and they don't talk about things

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that they want for fear of like judgment.

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You don't want to fight.

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Yeah, exactly.

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You don't want to have a,

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you don't want to have a slightly uncomfortable conversation

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that might change things for the worse.

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A conversation like that, I would say would probably

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derail, you know, a good bit of couples.

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Could, yeah.

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I mean, if you said to your wife or your husband,

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hey, I'm thinking about sleeping with other people.

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What's your thoughts?

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Yeah, well that's probably not the best way to bring this up.

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I'm just trying to sum it up really quick.

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I mean, yeah, it should be much slower approach,

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but that conversation in itself or that,

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that the concept of the conversation,

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if you're not in a secure relationship,

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could, you know, cause some problems.

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in the back of your head, you're like, oh fuck.

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oh my God, I want to do this,

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but there was one day we were on a cruise

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and we were drinking like you do on a cruise.

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Especially if you get the drink package, get it,

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it's worth it.

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It's worth it, totally worth it.

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And we were in our cabin and we were having relations.

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how would you feel about sucking someone else's dick?

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And you were kind of like,

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cause you were currently sucking my dick.

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But I think me asking that and then you said,

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I can't remember the exact conversation

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cause I was drunk.

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I remember the moment.

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I don't remember the verbiage.

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Yeah.

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But-

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And I can't help you because I don't remember any of this.

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Yes.

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When I told her like this was kind of the introduction,

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she's like, what?

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So this is all my memory and I have a horrible memory,

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which you're going to hear as we try to, you know,

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tell you other stories.

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I'm going to be like, I remember driving to the place.

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I remember driving home from the place.

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It's not just cause I'm, it's not cause I'm super hammered.

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It's just my memory is not there.

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I can remember, I remember moments.

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I don't remember like every single action.

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That's probably where she's better.

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Cause sometimes she'll tell me we did things.

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I'm like, what?

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Oh shit.

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But anyways, off track, off track.

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Anyway, so we're, she was, she was slob in my knob.

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And I love that term.

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And I think she said something like, oh, I'd be into it

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or that sounds like fun.

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And I was just like, I got super hard in like two seconds.

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Like, wha?

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And I think it was pretty much over after that point.

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And I just kind of remember, I was like, wow, that was,

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that was, that was very weird.

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Like it, that excited me a lot to, to, to say that

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and to have that thought and that vision in my head.

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It was confusing.

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It was very confusing.

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And you know how guys, you can relate to this.

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As soon as you come, you get that,

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you get that post-com clarity.

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And you're just like, oh my God, why would I even think

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about that?

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And you're like, you're kind of for maybe three to four

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minutes, like you're kind of maybe ashamed of what

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maybe had just happened.

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And then, you know, it starts to build up again

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and by five minutes you're back to your perverted self.

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But anyways, after that, after that conversation,

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it, it kind of got me going.

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And then she responded to it in a good way.

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And then I think on that same trip, we had another,

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you know, relations in the, in the cabinet.

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It's like we're 80.

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And I used that kind of, that, that those words again.

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And I think I, I was like, yeah, you know,

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I'd love to see you suck a dick.

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And, and I was kind of like, it was just me.

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Like I, I really, I didn't really have an interest per se

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and other women.

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I mean, I'm not, I'm not gonna lie and be like,

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I didn't think about it, but it wasn't my goal.

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It honestly, it wasn't a goal.

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I wasn't trying to like start this for my benefit.

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Like I, I wasn't, I wasn't feeling like I needed this.

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It was just like, it just, I don't know.

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It was just a thought of her doing that.

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Someone else got me going.

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So kind of expounded, expanded,

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expounded is a word too, I think.

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I don't think so.

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Isn't it?

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Every, every freaking podcast is gonna have like

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a dictionary lookup.

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Cause expound, I could have swore that's a word.

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Okay, maybe we'll look it up later.

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Google.

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Alexa is expound a word.

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Yes, expound is a word in the dictionary

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which is literally the final sentence

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to set forth and state in detail.

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I don't know if you guys heard that.

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To set forth or state in detail.

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That's what it means.

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Expound.

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So I should expound on this.

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Maybe it's past tense.

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I don't know.

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I expound it.

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Moving along.

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Moving along.

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We'll get at the source.

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So where was I at?

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You're gonna say to expand on this.

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Oh yes.

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So we, at this time in 2019, I'll be honest,

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the previous years we kind of went through a law.

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You know, our, our, our relationship was great.

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We were, you know, best friends.

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We've always been best friends.

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That didn't, that never changed.

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But you know, the sexual side of things

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definitely took a law as they often do.

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You know, when you're together for at that point,

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you know, we've been together forever.

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So it took a law, but then we were kind of, you know,

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kind of came back and we were getting back on it.

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And, and obviously I felt comfortable enough

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in the relationship to say something at that point.

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I didn't feel it was gonna blow up in my face.

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So after that trip was over, this was a March 2019,

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I, I started having thoughts of Freedom Makers again,

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because we had, we had actually moved again

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and got closer to Freedom Makers at that point.

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And at this, at this time, it also changed to Club FA.

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Then they did kind of a remodel and anyway,

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so we started talking about going to FA.

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I'm like, hey, would you, how would you feel about,

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you know, giving this a shot

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and maybe actually trying to do something there?

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And she was kind of like, okay, you know,

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we could discuss this.

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But like I said in the first podcast, I talk a lot.

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So I'm gonna turn the mic over here to Emily

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and let her kind of catch you up to her view of things

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from this side or her side of the conversation from here.

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Yeah, well, I don't remember really anything

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that you're saying as far as the conversations.

353
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But I do remember you wanting to go to Freedom Makers.

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And I don't really remember actually how it made me feel.

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I know I used to get,

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and there's still certain things that do like,

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give me that pit in my stomach feel.

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But I do know I got that

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and I had kind of a pit in my stomach type of feeling of like.

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When you were there?

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Like on our way there.

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Yeah, like on our way there, I get like a,

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just like, I would get like a,

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just like a nervousness of going into it.

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And, but then once we get there

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and we start having some cocktails and all that,

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I get a little bit, it gets a little bit easier.

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So we went back.

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How many times did we go after the cruise?

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I feel like there was twice.

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I think twice.

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So we went once and nothing happened.

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Yeah.

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We just kind of-

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You were still kind of exploratory.

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We kind of had like that,

377
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maybe we were open to possibly-

378
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Yeah, it was kind of like, let's see what happens.

379
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Let's check in a lot.

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Let's kind of just see.

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And then I think that night we were

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just very like, okay, open,

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but at the same time, like asking each other,

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like, what do you think about that person?

385
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What do you think about that person?

386
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Like, how does that couple look?

387
00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:04,400
Like, what do you feel about that?

388
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Would you do this?

389
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You know, like just kind of like filling each other out,

390
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which is a totally different thing

391
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than actually doing it.

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Talking about doing things

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and then actually doing things

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is like a full, whole nother thing.

395
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But the second time we went, we met a couple.

396
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We didn't meet them the first time, right?

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It was the second time.

398
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It was the second time, yeah.

399
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The last time we went there.

400
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:36,640
Yeah, yeah, because then they shut down.

401
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Because then the big C hit.

402
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The vid.

403
00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:48,000
But so we met a couple and she's like many women, I think,

404
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in lifestyle is bisexual.

405
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So they approached us at the table that we were sitting at.

406
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:03,600
And we kind of were all having conversations,

407
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or did you approach them?

408
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:07,280
Like, I think you, you're always that extrovert,

409
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even though you say you're introverted

410
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and you are introverted in some areas,

411
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but yeah, you're like.

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I'm gonna rewind your viewpoint just a little bit.

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Cause you'll probably remember this when I tell you.

414
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:25,320
So we were there and this loud annoying guy comes in.

415
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:27,240
Oh yeah.

416
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:29,960
He was, he must've, it was like his birthday or something.

417
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:31,280
Yeah, and he pre-party.

418
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:33,240
He was pre-party and drinking tequila.

419
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Yes.

420
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And he came in with this girl

421
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and they kind of sat down next to us

422
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:43,160
and he was just annoying the shit out of me.

423
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Cause we were already kind of,

424
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not, I don't want to say on edge,

425
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:49,560
but we were, you know, we were very kind of like nervous.

426
00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:50,440
Well, nervous energy.

427
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:52,960
Yeah, we had a lot of nervous energy.

428
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:55,080
And we were just sitting there

429
00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:56,640
and all of a sudden this couple came in

430
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and he was just annoying the fuck out of me.

431
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:03,000
And he was just talking all kinds of shit.

432
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:05,320
And he was like, I have my own mug here.

433
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:08,000
And I'm like, I'm like king something.

434
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:09,560
I'm like, I don't remember all the details,

435
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:10,400
but I'm like, God.

436
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:13,920
No, because he came in when you were at the lockers, right?

437
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:15,080
Yes, yes.

438
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:16,360
So I didn't even see him come in like that.

439
00:26:16,360 --> 00:26:18,280
He had like his own custom locker.

440
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:19,720
Yeah, I didn't see him come in like that.

441
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:21,320
You were over at the lockers.

442
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:25,480
You seen him come in all hot and like crazy.

443
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:26,800
But I didn't see that side.

444
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,280
Cause he wasn't, when he walked over to the tables,

445
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:33,400
he wasn't as animated and crazy.

446
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:35,680
Yes, that is right.

447
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:39,280
And so he, yeah, he annoyed me.

448
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:41,640
And I'm like, Oh God, we got to avoid these people.

449
00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:45,120
And then next thing you know, we're,

450
00:26:45,120 --> 00:26:48,800
we're sitting at the tables and then they kind of sat down

451
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next to us.

452
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:52,560
And I think at this point he had started to sober up

453
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:56,560
a little bit and his attitude kind of calmed down.

454
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:59,560
And he got not as annoying.

455
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:00,400
Yeah.

456
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:01,240
I guess you could say.

457
00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:02,080
Yeah.

458
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:06,840
Like the way I am, if you come in hot on me,

459
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:08,240
like it, it takes me a second.

460
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:10,160
It just kind of like sets my meters off.

461
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:12,920
And I have to get away from you for a little bit.

462
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,240
So anyways, we're sitting there on the tables.

463
00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:18,160
And, and then yeah, she started,

464
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:21,840
she pulled you up on the dance floor on the stripper pole.

465
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,520
Yeah. I think there was a more conversations prior to that.

466
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:27,200
There's, there's a lot of conversations, but there was no

467
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:32,160
like real, I don't recall any conversations about what we're

468
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:33,000
into.

469
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:33,840
No, it was.

470
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:36,960
So a lot of things that we've listened to in previous podcasts

471
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:40,960
people talk about things of like, okay, what are your rules?

472
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:44,840
What are your, like, what are your boundaries?

473
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:46,440
You know, what do you guys want?

474
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,040
What are you looking for?

475
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:49,680
Are you full swap?

476
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:51,680
Are you soft swap?

477
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:56,240
Are you, you know, what is, you know, what are you bisexual?

478
00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:57,160
Are you, you know what I mean?

479
00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:59,920
Like we hear, and we've heard in podcasts, like these

480
00:27:59,920 --> 00:28:04,920
conversations happen prior to play happening.

481
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:08,600
But at that point, I wasn't even into podcast.

482
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:10,760
So.

483
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:11,600
Really?

484
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:14,360
No, I didn't get into podcast till like.

485
00:28:14,360 --> 00:28:17,120
Yeah. Well, anyway, so we didn't really know.

486
00:28:17,120 --> 00:28:18,680
Yeah. I didn't know the protocol.

487
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:19,640
Regardless, we didn't know.

488
00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:21,840
Yeah. Regardless, we didn't know, and they clearly didn't know,

489
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:25,480
or we were all too, had too much to drink or whatever the

490
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,600
situation was, those conversations definitely didn't happen.

491
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:33,760
We had, we talked, but not really about anything like that.

492
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:38,760
And then she brought me up on the stage with the stripper pole

493
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:41,680
and you two were sitting there in the chairs.

494
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:43,000
And by this time it was late.

495
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:44,320
People had already.

496
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:46,240
We were some of the last people.

497
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:47,080
In the dance room.

498
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:47,920
Yeah.

499
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:49,320
A lot of people had already gone to the playrooms.

500
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:50,160
They already paired off.

501
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:54,040
Because at this club, like at this club, you could play on site.

502
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:59,040
So if you've never been to Freedom makers, the front areas

503
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:01,200
were dance floors and a bar.

504
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:05,800
And then the back areas were playrooms and just tons of beds,

505
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:08,720
different types of play areas.

506
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:09,680
Really cool.

507
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:14,680
If you ever are in the Southern California area and you're in

508
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:19,680
the lifestyle, you will find people who've been there.

509
00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:22,720
And it's like their top place that they've ever been to.

510
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:24,880
They've never find a place that's the same.

511
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:27,600
Yeah. It's just iconic, I guess, in this area.

512
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:30,400
There's a couple of places that are cool and there's a couple

513
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:33,120
of places that are on-premise clubs.

514
00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:38,240
But this particular place, it was just dirty enough and just

515
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:39,040
clean enough.

516
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:39,840
Yeah.

517
00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:43,560
Where it kind of fit like you could be, you could go there and

518
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:44,520
you could floor your.

519
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:45,320
It's like a good strip club.

520
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:46,160
What's that?

521
00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:47,000
Like a good strip club.

522
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:47,840
Yeah, yeah.

523
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,160
You don't want to walk in and everything's so clean.

524
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:50,800
Yeah.

525
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:52,160
Like you want a little grit.

526
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:52,960
Yes.

527
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:53,920
You want a dive bar.

528
00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:55,520
I like the dive bar strip club.

529
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:56,240
So yeah.

530
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:58,320
We just, we like dive bars in general.

531
00:29:58,320 --> 00:29:59,160
Yeah.

532
00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:01,240
We like a little bit of shadiness.

533
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:04,280
And this particular place, we didn't realize it at the time

534
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:08,120
because we didn't know what other clubs were in the area and

535
00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:09,960
that this whole scene really existed.

536
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:12,280
We are still like, this is crazy.

537
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:15,320
Yeah. We didn't know there was like a whole community.

538
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:18,440
But now that we know, since we've been to a bunch of places,

539
00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:19,640
none of them compare to public face.

540
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:20,600
No, they really don't.

541
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:22,360
Well, it just, it's nostalgic, I think too.

542
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:24,680
Because it's like our first place we win and all that stuff.

543
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:27,240
But, and that's probably how it is for a lot of people.

544
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:30,600
It was, it's been around for a long time or had been around

545
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:31,320
for a long time.

546
00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:36,840
So anyway, so I digress and I'm free to makeers.

547
00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:42,280
But so she got me, so anyway, the point was that people had

548
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:43,640
already gone to the back room.

549
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,760
So it was really just us in the dance floor.

550
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:48,280
There wasn't a ton of people out there.

551
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:49,800
I don't even know if there was anybody else.

552
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:51,560
I didn't, I was in my own world.

553
00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:53,240
I'm seeing it in my head.

554
00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:58,360
And I do not recall any other people in the crowd at that point.

555
00:30:58,360 --> 00:30:58,600
Yeah.

556
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:00,920
I felt like you guys just pulled your chairs up to the front

557
00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:04,600
of the stage and her and I were on the stripper pole.

558
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:09,720
And she whispers to me, I was wearing a bodysuit and she

559
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:12,920
whispers to me and she says, I'm going to pretend like I'm

560
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:15,400
looking your pussy because it's going to really make them

561
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:16,200
super horny.

562
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:17,800
So let's, so just go with it.

563
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:19,000
And I'm like, okay.

564
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:23,640
So then she drops down, gets into my like vagina.

565
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:24,440
She's like in it.

566
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:25,480
And I'm like, okay.

567
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,600
But I still had everything on and then she starts

568
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:29,720
unsnapping it.

569
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:32,120
And I'm like, holy shit, she's literally going to go down on

570
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:33,080
me right on this hole.

571
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:34,120
Please stop pretending.

572
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:34,440
Yeah.

573
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:37,240
This is no longer pretending, but she actually fully did it.

574
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:40,840
But she just really played the role really well.

575
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:44,600
Anyway, and then that's where it's like, okay, I believe

576
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:47,160
that's the point where it was like, okay, let's go into the

577
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:47,720
back.

578
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:52,520
I remember I was sitting with him and we were chatting and we

579
00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:55,560
were laughing and pointing and it worked.

580
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:56,680
It was very hot.

581
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:59,960
And then all of a sudden you two girls flew off the stage,

582
00:31:59,960 --> 00:32:02,600
walked over to us and grabbed our hands and you're like, we're

583
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:03,720
going to the back room.

584
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,360
And I was just like, wait, what?

585
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:10,760
Like I had obviously been to the back room many times with

586
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:12,760
you, just me and you.

587
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:13,400
Yeah.

588
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:17,640
But all of a sudden it was like, oh, she's like,

589
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:19,320
oh, shit, it's game time.

590
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:21,480
It's go time.

591
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:26,920
And our conversations were very, still very like.

592
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:27,720
Limited.

593
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:28,200
Limited.

594
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:31,080
Like we said, okay, we're not going to have sex.

595
00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:31,720
Yeah.

596
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:34,840
At that point, we didn't really know the terminologies.

597
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:35,240
Yeah.

598
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:36,280
We didn't know soft swap.

599
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:36,600
Yeah.

600
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:40,520
Like now there's, like we know all the terms and we know the

601
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:41,400
buzzwords.

602
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:42,120
Yeah.

603
00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:44,440
And we know the conversations that you should try to have

604
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:45,160
and we know all that.

605
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:48,280
But this was literally, you know, you guys jumped off the

606
00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:52,200
pole, grabbed our hands and pulled us to the back and I

607
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:55,240
was just like, what in the hell is getting ready to go on

608
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:56,200
right now?

609
00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:57,560
Yeah.

610
00:32:57,560 --> 00:32:59,160
Yeah.

611
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:00,840
So a lot of things went on.

612
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:02,360
Oh yeah, there's quite a few things.

613
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:02,520
Yeah.

614
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:08,200
And before we go any further, let's, at that time in

615
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:11,080
regards to your sexuality.

616
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:11,640
Right.

617
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:17,160
Right now, she is what I like to call by comfortable in a

618
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:22,200
sense of she will not typically be the aggressor.

619
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:22,760
Yeah.

620
00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:25,240
But she'll go along with just about anything.

621
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:28,680
Yeah, I love making out with women and like the soft stuff

622
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:30,600
of like women with women.

623
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:34,280
But I'm not going to be currently, I mean, I'm not

624
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:35,000
going to say never.

625
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:37,880
I never say never, but I'm not currently going to be like,

626
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:39,080
yeah, let me go fuck a woman.

627
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:42,680
Like that's not really my wheelhouse or like the first

628
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:43,960
feel like I want to look her pussy.

629
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:44,520
No, I'm not.

630
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:45,400
That's not really.

631
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:47,080
That's not my go.

632
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:48,520
I'd rather suck a dick all day.

633
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:52,120
But you say that, you say that, but you have.

634
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:52,920
I have, I have.

635
00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:54,600
Which is why I say by comfortable.

636
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:56,680
Anything happens, you know how it is.

637
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,240
Right now we can sit here talking on the microphones,

638
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:02,120
you know, we're drinking, but we're not drunk.

639
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:05,000
But when you get in that moment and the sexiness is up

640
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:07,080
and shit happens.

641
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:11,560
But at this point, when we were at this club,

642
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:18,200
I had really very little knowledge of her, Emily's,

643
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:20,280
you know, binus, I guess is the word I would use.

644
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:24,680
So when all of a sudden she's on the pole making out and,

645
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:27,640
you know, doing all this stuff and then they're pulling us

646
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:31,400
in the back, I was just like the situation itself was crazy.

647
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:34,760
And then what just I witnessed was blowing me away.

648
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:38,120
So it was just like, what?

649
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:41,960
And then yeah, so we got yanked to the back and then

650
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:46,600
we found the little corner and yeah.

651
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:49,640
So I think we're going to save the rest of this story

652
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:51,160
because it gets pretty steamy.

653
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:55,000
So we're going to save the rest of this story for the volume

654
00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:59,080
three, round three coming up here pretty soon.

655
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:02,840
But in the meantime, I hope you guys have a great rest of your week.

656
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:07,160
And when enjoying the sweet side of life, keep your pineapples upside down,

657
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:10,120
believe in unicorns and keep shaking it up.

658
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:11,960
Have a great night and love you baby.

659
00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:13,080
Love you too, babe.

660
00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:15,080
Bye.

661
00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:21,960
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662
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:25,720
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663
00:35:25,720 --> 00:35:33,240
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