1
00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,360
The podcast you're about to listen to is for adults only. Anyone under 18, please turn on

2
00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:10,880
Kitsbop right now. Any opinions or advice that we give on this show should not be taken too seriously

3
00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:16,320
as we are not professionals at all. With that being said, make yourself a drink and join us on

4
00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:32,240
our journey as a merry couple and join the lifestyle in beautiful Southern California.

5
00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:54,640
Welcome, welcome, welcome to a brand new podcast called the... Sweets. What?

6
00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:01,200
No, it's not called the sweets. It's called the sweet side of life.

7
00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:10,800
Yes, everybody. We are Mr. and Mrs. Sweets bringing a brand new podcast to you because I know

8
00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:19,840
there are not enough podcasts out there. Yes, I am a podcast junkie. So we decided or she decided,

9
00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:25,920
should I say that we need to throw our hat in the ring and I've always wanted to but it just took

10
00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:30,960
me a little bit of time to finally put my hat out there and here we are. You gotta be pushed.

11
00:01:30,960 --> 00:01:37,760
You gotta be pushed just like you. Closer to the microphone. You can't hear me. You're there,

12
00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:43,520
you're there. You're in the background, background, background. I'll get there. I'll figure it out.

13
00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:48,800
I'm not used to speaking into a microphone. You're a fast learner. Oh yeah. So anyways, we are

14
00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:55,360
a couple, a long time married couple. Very long. How long? What's the... What's the... I'm not good at math.

15
00:01:56,960 --> 00:02:04,160
I'm good at math but I don't even... Married? Married yet. 2009. So... 2009.

16
00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:11,440
It was 14? Was it 14 years? No, yeah, 14 years. And we've been together now for...

17
00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:19,360
Since 2002. So 21 years. 21 years I've tolerated you. That's a good type of toleration.

18
00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:27,200
Yes, it is. So we've been together like she said for a very long time and we just decided to

19
00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:35,840
start Chroniclin. Is that a word? Chroniclin? That's not a word. So I'm a dirty martini

20
00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:46,480
deep. Just one. My vocabulary is not the best right now. We are... So not Chroniclin. I'm pretty

21
00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:54,960
sure that's a word. You could probably spell it. You know I can't. I want to Google it but that's

22
00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:59,280
going to take way too long. So we're just going to assume it's a word. We're going to Chronicle.

23
00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:03,360
Chronicle. That's what it is. That is a word. Yes, we're going to Chronicle our journey.

24
00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:09,120
That's how you would say it. Not Chroniclin. That sounds like a type of seashell you find on the

25
00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:16,240
beach. You... What do you do when you put a Chroniclin to your ear? A conch. A conch? A conch?

26
00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:22,240
What? A conch. Anyway, we should cheers. We should cheers to this. So anyways, we are going to do a

27
00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:28,080
quick cheers. Cheers, babe. Cheers. And this is the drink in ASMR.

28
00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:42,880
Yeah. That one's dirty. So we do enjoy our cocktails and our goal is to every podcast

29
00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:51,440
enjoy a new podcast. Okay, I've had a couple drinks too. Every podcast enjoy a new type of drink

30
00:03:51,440 --> 00:04:01,920
and we will detail that in fairly detailed details. And we'll tell you how to make it. So tonight we

31
00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:08,560
went pretty simple. I am simply enjoying a vodka sprite. So you take a glass and you put ice in it

32
00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:12,320
and you put vodka in it and then you put sprite in it and you stir with your finger

33
00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:18,320
and that makes a very nice cocktail and Emily over there is drinking a.

34
00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:30,080
I like my martinis dirty. So I'm drinking a dirty martini. I prefer kettle one vodka. So I

35
00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:34,640
shake it up in my shaker with some

36
00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:43,440
olive juice and... Dirty sherry. Right. That's the olive juice. Oh, I thought that was okay.

37
00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:51,360
No, it's the olive juice. The dirty sherry is olive juice. And then I like four olives in my dirty

38
00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:59,520
martini because like I say, it's dinner and a cocktail all in one. Why not five? Sometimes I do

39
00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:09,760
five, but four just fit on the toothpick better. I'm feeling extra hungry. A fifth. All right.

40
00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:15,680
All right. So we're gonna... That could get real dirty too. I have a feeling there's gonna be a

41
00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:21,520
few more of those martinis in your future tonight. So we just, I needed to get this podcast recorded

42
00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:29,680
before she got too deep into them. Yeah. So anyways, you're almost there. Anyways, so yes,

43
00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:35,040
we are a brand new podcast. We are, like I said, a long time married couple based out of Southern

44
00:05:35,040 --> 00:05:45,440
California. And I am a podcast junkie. I listen to just about every LS podcast out there and I eat

45
00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:53,840
them all up and I run out of podcasts. So we decided to just go ahead and start our own and...

46
00:05:53,840 --> 00:05:58,800
We also had some encouragement from some friends. A lot of friends. A lot of friends we talk to

47
00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:04,240
in the community also are running out of podcasts and apparently they want to hear what we have to

48
00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:11,520
say. It's not that interesting. It's not that interesting. They're gonna be sorely disappointed.

49
00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:16,400
But you know what? It's okay. It's okay. We're gonna take a brief pause for our sponsors.

50
00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:25,280
Oh yeah, it's our first podcast. We don't have any sponsors yet. So maybe down the road we'll

51
00:06:25,280 --> 00:06:30,720
have some sponsors. I do have some products that I would like to endorse. I'll tell you more about

52
00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:35,920
those in the next coming episodes. However, this one is just a quick introductory episode just so

53
00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:43,440
you can kind of get to know us a little bit. What to expect. And I'm gonna pre-apologize for a few

54
00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:52,000
things. One, I do tend to go into announcer mode anytime I get on the microphone. That's just natural

55
00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:57,040
because what I kind of do as a hobby. So sometimes I'm gonna get really fast like this and just

56
00:06:57,040 --> 00:07:05,600
rock like Sunday Sunday Sunday. I pre-apologize for that. And there is gonna be a lot of bad dad

57
00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:12,720
joke humor. I do not apologize for that. And one other thing I will apologize for right now is

58
00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:23,680
you're probably here in my stomach growl a little bit. It's because I was not fed. I was not fed

59
00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:31,120
at a quality dinner tonight. So it's Thursday. You should have had a dirty martini. My dinner was

60
00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:40,080
just fine. It is Thursday and my wife proceeded to make us Taco Tuesdays on Thursdays. So sure

61
00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:47,280
sounds good. But while she was in the kitchen I heard oh shit. I'm like what? She goes um. Actually

62
00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:52,720
I think I said oh fuck because that's my word. That's right. She did say oh fuck. And I was like

63
00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:58,720
what? What happened? Are you okay? And she's like um dinner might be a little salty tonight.

64
00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:04,720
And I was like okay that's fine. Sure whatever I trust you. Bad mistake. Apparently the top of the

65
00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:11,200
salt shaker came off. No it was the it was the taco seasoning for the taco. The chicken tacos

66
00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:17,680
came off. And I tried to get most of it out. I tried to get most of it out of the pan. I tried

67
00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:27,200
to add some water to dilute it. I tried all the things however. I wasn't eating the tacos. Let's

68
00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:32,240
just put it that way. I get my food delivered. What weren't you doing? I wasn't eating those tacos.

69
00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:42,160
Those tacos. I get my food delivered. Fancy. Fancy. I'm also fancy. I am fancy.

70
00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:52,880
Um so I but I did lick the spoon and know that it was going to be very salty and like tangy.

71
00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:58,560
So yeah I'm sorry. I feel like I've apologized a lot for those tacos and you didn't eat them

72
00:08:58,560 --> 00:09:02,880
anyway. I also made you beans so get over it. You haven't apologized on air though.

73
00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:06,080
And that's that's when it really matters. You know what's also salty?

74
00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:13,120
My McDonald's French. My McDonald's French fries. My dirty martini.

75
00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:23,920
But anyways moving ahead. So yes this podcast is it's going to have a lot to do about nothing.

76
00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:29,360
We're not really we don't have a format yet. We're not really sure what we're going to do.

77
00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:36,960
It's just for fun. It's going to be like I said our chronicling of our journey into the LS and

78
00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:43,040
it's going to have everything from you know drink recipes to just dumb talking.

79
00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:51,200
Stories about our different experiences and we're going to at some point we're going to

80
00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:56,000
bring in some special guests with our friends that already expressed expressed interest in being

81
00:09:56,000 --> 00:10:01,520
interviewed. So we have a lot coming on the pipeline. We're just going to kind of work

82
00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:08,800
into it naturally and see what happens. Yeah I had to kind of push him to do this because

83
00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:19,280
although he is a podcast junkie he's also a perfectionist. So this is like months in the

84
00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:26,320
making. Like I honestly just got over a cold so I was kind of like hesitant to even put

85
00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:29,920
things out there because I'm like oh I don't sound my best. I'm a little nasally.

86
00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:37,440
But I was like I just got to suck it up because he's ready to go and if he's ready to go then I

87
00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:42,400
got to be ready to go otherwise it's going to be another two months before we get this going and

88
00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:48,320
our friends are just going to be mad. I almost called it off again. I looked over at her and

89
00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:53,680
she gave me a look. I'm like no we're not doing it. So yeah it's going to be a fun time and

90
00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:59,920
one of the other things I'm going to have to pre-apologize for is I talk a lot. So I'm going

91
00:10:59,920 --> 00:11:05,040
to do my best to pull back and let her talk as well because one of the things I do hear about

92
00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:10,320
all the other podcasts is the guy talks too much. He's annoying. His voice is annoying. Let's hear

93
00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:15,520
the women more and I totally agree. I'm going to hand her a microphone over to Emily and she's going

94
00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:26,960
to tell us a long story. Right now. What story do you want to hear? There. What? I don't know.

95
00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:34,320
It's going with that. You got to put me on the spot. That's what I do. I know. Yeah I don't have a

96
00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:40,880
long story. One of the best things to do when introducing a new subject or anything is to go

97
00:11:40,880 --> 00:11:50,240
over the five W's. Who, where, what. When, why. When and why. So let's answer those five questions

98
00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:55,360
each of our own versions as to why we got into the lifestyle. Alice all that good stuff. Okay.

99
00:11:55,360 --> 00:12:03,120
So what was the first one? Why? Who? Who? Who is us? Who let the dogs out? Oof. All right let's go

100
00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:10,400
with who. Who is a good start. So who? Who got us into this? I would say. No. Who are we? Oh okay.

101
00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:15,680
Well I feel like we've just spent this whole time saying it. I thought we were talking about who got

102
00:12:15,680 --> 00:12:20,880
us into this. Yes. Well I like your take on it. My head already had who but yes like you said we

103
00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:27,680
did kind of cover all the. Yeah. So who I would say would be, I mean if we're going way back is

104
00:12:27,680 --> 00:12:34,240
one of your friends, a female friend who was interested in both of us. What year would you

105
00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:43,200
say this was? This was when we first met. Oh three or two? I had to, I had to have been

106
00:12:44,560 --> 00:12:49,440
able to drink when we went to the club. So

107
00:12:49,440 --> 00:13:01,920
so I would say it had to have been um let's see 2002 probably 2005 I think we determined.

108
00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:07,200
Really that far? Okay. I think so or 2004 maybe? No I had to have been able to drink.

109
00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:16,480
So yeah 2005. Not at Metro. No that's not where I'm talking about though. Metro wasn't an LS club.

110
00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:26,000
You're right okay. I mean you may have done LS things there however it was not an LS club.

111
00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:29,120
I don't think theirs considered LS there was just freaky shit. Yeah.

112
00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:36,640
No so anybody that's lived in the Southern California area back in those days knows all

113
00:13:36,640 --> 00:13:45,760
about Metro and the shit that happened there. Yeah not I um but anyway so I would say the who is

114
00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:55,440
your friend your female friend and she liked you and then when I came into the picture liked me

115
00:13:55,440 --> 00:14:05,520
and then she knew about a club that did LS was an LS club I mean if can I just say that yeah yeah

116
00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:12,640
okay so she knew about freedom makers which is now defint like a pile of rubble no I think it's

117
00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:18,800
an like Amazon I think it's an Amazon ship in the house so anyway a club freedom makers and told

118
00:14:18,800 --> 00:14:24,160
us about it and I would say that I mean not that we really like fully went into it at that point

119
00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:28,960
but like like she's the who that kind of like opened the door for us because we ended up going to

120
00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:38,480
that club right? So she's the who. Okay that whole process that whole story behind there in the

121
00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:44,160
time frame we can save that one for another episode when we dive into that. Yeah yeah yeah but yeah

122
00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:52,800
she's the who. Okay yeah that sounds right. The what? LS. Yeah no I know LS and I would say the

123
00:14:52,800 --> 00:15:05,760
what would be. What what in the but. The what I would say yeah I think that's LS is the what right.

124
00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:08,800
Exactly yeah I think that's kind of an easy. And what if someone's listening and they don't know

125
00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:15,680
what LS means. LS is lifestyle. Lifestyles of the rich and famous. No no one's rich or famous.

126
00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:25,840
Oh yeah if you guys don't know what this is this is a show about lifestyles

127
00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:34,800
swinging a bunch of perverts anyways. Okay so who what where. Where where.

128
00:15:34,800 --> 00:15:40,960
Freedomakers. Freedomakers was the start of it yes. Yeah. And Southern California. Yes. One thing

129
00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:45,680
I keep saying in Southern California is I like I was saying I listened to a shit ton of podcast

130
00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:53,920
and I have not heard of one that's based in like anywhere from mid to Southern California. There's

131
00:15:53,920 --> 00:15:59,920
a few I listened to that are up north but there's no one that's repping this area. That's so weird

132
00:15:59,920 --> 00:16:05,840
because I feel like there's a big there's a huge scene here. I think I think the difference is is

133
00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:13,600
in all these other states there's a scene but there's not a lot to do maybe. So they're just

134
00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:18,320
talking about all the things they do. Yeah they have like one episode or one event a month they go to.

135
00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:24,480
But we're like you could throw a rock and you hit an event you can do it as a club there's a party.

136
00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:30,160
Yeah. So it's like it's like San Diego you know there's so much going on there it's just you don't

137
00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:37,040
have time to talk about it. You're like San Diego LA like others I mean yeah okay. So yeah it's

138
00:16:37,040 --> 00:16:41,680
interesting that that's not repped enough. Here we are. There's a shit ton of people because we

139
00:16:41,680 --> 00:16:45,600
know a whole bunch of communities and these are all things we're going to go into more details with

140
00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:50,560
as as the show progresses we're going to talk more about venues and different communities and stuff

141
00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:58,560
like that but so yeah. Okay so we got the what wait the where the when the when we already kind of

142
00:16:58,560 --> 00:17:06,400
said to I think it was like 2000 I think it was like shortly like I was barely 21 so I'm aging

143
00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:15,120
myself which is fine. You're a millennial. No you're an ex. No I'm in that weird. You're a zennial.

144
00:17:15,120 --> 00:17:21,200
I'm in my zennial. A zennial yeah yeah that's I'm generation generation X. I'm fucking badass.

145
00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:25,760
I'm fucking badass. You are badass but I'm badasser.

146
00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:33,600
Um okay so 2005 because I had to have been old enough to drink because you can't go there unless

147
00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:40,400
you're 21. Yep. And I remember they like were like asking all these questions and stuff before you

148
00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:48,880
could go they like so that's the when and the why. Is that the last one left? Yeah and that's a good

149
00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:55,120
one I think. It is a very good one but we also I have more stuff to add to the who. Oh who oh you're

150
00:17:55,120 --> 00:17:59,520
going way back you should have caught me like before. I just I just had I just had a brain

151
00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:04,480
fun. Okay who. Who we should kind of describe ourselves like you can describe me and I'll

152
00:18:04,480 --> 00:18:12,960
describe you. Oh who we are. Physically. Oh okay I got you. You go first. Well first of all

153
00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:20,080
he's decided to do this podcast with the backwards hat on so you know that's already got me.

154
00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:25,280
She's a big fan of Olympus. It's not red.

155
00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:39,280
Um but Mr. Sweets is tall. Very blue eyes like ocean blue eyes. Like the ocean. Like the ocean.

156
00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:46,160
Like the conch in the ocean that you hear. Like the chronicle in it like the chronicle in the ocean.

157
00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:56,720
And he has a very distinguished beard which oddly enough I used to not like beards but

158
00:18:56,720 --> 00:19:02,160
not a hipster. You're not a hipster. Your hair is short now. It used to be long. It's short now

159
00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:15,200
and you have a fantastic dad bod and you don't shave which I and I appreciate. I I can appreciate

160
00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:20,480
what like your body. I mean you keep things down making me sound like a hairy. No no you keep

161
00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:28,400
things. You're not squash. You keep things clean like down below like all the ladies are all the

162
00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:34,320
hair where it should be gone is gone but like sometimes guys just like get full and I'm it's

163
00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:40,720
like depends on the person but it but you're not super hairy and the shaving is not needed. You're

164
00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:47,920
a man's man. I guess I would describe you as a man's man. Like you look like you work with your hands.

165
00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:53,120
I do. I know. Very good observation.

166
00:19:56,320 --> 00:20:02,160
So that's how I would describe you. Gorgeous eyes. Tell me about my feet. Your feet.

167
00:20:03,120 --> 00:20:09,520
Being real your feet are tiny. Tiny. They are small for my size. Yeah. I'm six foot tall.

168
00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:15,360
I only have 10 foot shoes. So I'm ten shoes. Ten and you're six foot tall. That's all right.

169
00:20:15,360 --> 00:20:20,880
And that's about me. But hey guys everybody I just want you to know feet are not a distinguisher

170
00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:28,320
of penis size. It's all about the socks. Anyways. Big hands.

171
00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:40,880
I'm blushing over here. Anyways so I'm I'm directly I was going to say on my left but to my left is a

172
00:20:41,680 --> 00:20:52,880
drum set but directly in front of me is Ms. Emily Sweets. She is a tall curvy beautiful woman.

173
00:20:52,880 --> 00:21:00,800
She is a natural blonde but is currently rocking a nice dark black hair. Yeah.

174
00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:11,680
With some beautiful blue eyes of her own. A fantastic fast ninty lately. That's not going to work.

175
00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:20,480
A smile that will knock you out of your boots. Like wearing boots. If you're wearing boots

176
00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:25,600
it'll knock you out of your flip flops. She's got a nice huge rack

177
00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:38,240
and a booty to die for. So that's right fellas. She's all mine. Except for you share. I do share.

178
00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:45,680
So anyway so that's that'll kind of give you a little bit. We haven't fully decided if we're

179
00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:53,040
going to show our full true selves in our podcast and on the TikToks and all that stuff. We haven't

180
00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:58,480
really decided that yet. We're kind of taking it week by week. Kind of see where we're at.

181
00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:03,760
Speaking of TikTok though. What up. We will start posting. We have not currently posted

182
00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:13,280
but we will start posting on our TikTok which is Sweet Side of Life Podcast. Yep. The profile does

183
00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:20,000
exist but it has no info yet. It has no TikToks. You just wanted to get something out there. The

184
00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:25,600
tics have not talked yet. And then yes if you guys want to reach us you can email us as well at

185
00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:33,600
thesweetsideoflifepodcastatoutlook.com. All this information will be in the the liner notes at the

186
00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:40,000
end of the uh podcaster in the the little beginning part whatever it's called. Anywho. So so I think

187
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:44,880
we cover the who a little bit more right. I think so. We both have blue eyes. That's what we've

188
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:49,680
determined. We both are tall and have blue eyes. Yeah we're both almost as and we have the same

189
00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:55,680
size feet. And we have the same size feet. So that that opens up my shoe options anytime I'm

190
00:22:55,680 --> 00:23:03,040
going out if I want a nice f*****g heel. I got one ready to go. Yeah but you stretch out all my heels

191
00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:10,400
so you can't. I do have a wide foot. So anyways enough about my sexy feet.

192
00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:14,160
All right in case you haven't noticed she has a fantastic laugh as well.

193
00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:22,080
She can be picked out of a football game like audience of 60 000 plus people. And I can like

194
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:28,000
I can be getting a drink and just walk in and I don't remember what section we're in. And I just

195
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:40,160
listen for the laugh and it's like so narping. Marco. So out of all all the friends we have one

196
00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:45,760
of the things they say they can pick her out of the crowd is her her laugh. So it's fantastic.

197
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:52,960
It's not obnoxious at all. But anyways while we are coming up on 25 minutes this I had in my head

198
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:57,760
this is only going to be a 10 minute episode. Well you still haven't edited. This is going to be a

199
00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:01,840
quick in and out. I'm not taking anything out. Quick in and out. Quick in and out. But this is

200
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:06,640
like a this is like a whole whole thing. It's crazy. You thought I couldn't talk into a microphone.

201
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:17,120
Look at me now. I'm getting paper. Anyways I'm gonna also pre-apologize for a lot of our phrases

202
00:24:17,120 --> 00:24:22,640
turn into songs just because we're both really big into music. So if somebody says like ice.

203
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:31,200
Ice baby. Pretty girls walk like this. This is gonna be a lot of annoying stuff. So I

204
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:37,040
pre-apologize for all of that. However. You should stop apologizing. I just had to get them out of

205
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:41,600
the way. You want to know what if they don't like it they could always turn us off. No they can't.

206
00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:47,600
Our friends can't turn us off. They have to listen. That's true. Our friends literally can't

207
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:52,240
stop us from talking at parties. However these people could turn us off if they don't like what

208
00:24:52,240 --> 00:25:00,400
they hear. So far. So stop apologizing. I apologize for her every. So anyways we have one question

209
00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:04,560
left. The biggest question. What was it? The why. The why. Yes. Yeah that's a good one.

210
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:11,760
I feel like we're playing wordle right now. Why oh you. I'll let you go with the why first. The

211
00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:22,000
why. Answer why first. For me I mean I was 21. The why was why not. YOLO right. That really wasn't

212
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:26,160
you know what we didn't even okay before we get into the why we need to kind of kind of update

213
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:34,560
them on dates because back in that time is when we started going to FA. Yeah we didn't participate

214
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:39,760
then. No I know and that's what I'm saying like we but but the question was how do we get into this

215
00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:44,480
like how do we start right. The question was why. No no no you said who what where when why how do

216
00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:49,280
we get into the LS right. Yeah or what why would why did we get into the LS. Well yeah that's

217
00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:54,560
I'm kind of I'm seeing that question a little bit different. Yeah I thought it was the start

218
00:25:54,560 --> 00:26:01,040
of like how we got here maybe to where we are. Okay and I guess like the very the very very like

219
00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:06,800
why we could do the scenic version. I mean we have as many podcast episodes as we want right.

220
00:26:07,360 --> 00:26:13,120
That's true. I mean it's free to put them out there. All right so we'll just do just a quick.

221
00:26:13,120 --> 00:26:20,160
I'm just saying like why we went to FA for me or like why we went into it or why I why I agreed I

222
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:28,160
guess because it was like a whole thing like why did I agree to go to this club which I knew was

223
00:26:29,360 --> 00:26:34,480
a bunch of perverts a bunch of perverts. No it was like I didn't really know what I was getting

224
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:38,880
myself into to be honest with you and we say perverts is in the nicest way. Oh yeah we love

225
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:42,640
perverts perverts and we're perverts so when I say perverts it's not in a bad place. Of course

226
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:52,720
we're all fucking perverts. Got it um of course yeah so I think for me the why was why not.

227
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:58,720
Like let's try it but I also had nothing to lose at that time so I get why people

228
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:05,680
if we go back if we come up sooner I would like to our more current state because back then we

229
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:10,480
weren't really doing anything we were going to a club we were maybe getting partially naked and

230
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:18,640
and kind of like feeling out other people without feeling up other people um and playing with each

231
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:24,720
other in like a sexual environment. I don't I think that's different and I didn't have anything

232
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:31,600
really to lose because we were just dating you know it's different um and what's funny is that

233
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:35,120
when we were at that club I don't know if it was that night or another night there was a couple

234
00:27:35,120 --> 00:27:41,040
that wanted to play with us but they and not that we were going to or not that we intended to but

235
00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:45,520
they had asked us if we were married and I vividly remember this like oh no we're dating but we've

236
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:50,640
been dating for a long time or I felt like a while at that time and they're like well we don't play

237
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:55,200
with um people who aren't married and not that I not that we haven't ever played with people who

238
00:27:55,200 --> 00:28:01,520
aren't married because we have but um I get why they would say that because now that I think about

239
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:06,560
it like why did I go to f a that night or why did like why did I agree to that well why not you

240
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:12,080
know like I wasn't married we were dating it likes you know spices things up it's fun it's different

241
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:20,880
I'm young you know why not it it's just a different type of thing than like when I feel like we've

242
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:28,560
regot into it I guess yeah for sure which is different it's a lot scarier when you have a lot

243
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:32,560
into yeah like when you could potentially you have to really like think about it like what

244
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:38,560
could I potentially lose here and then just be secure in what you have to like realize you're

245
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:45,360
not going to lose anything and really just gain from it but at the time mine was a a yolo that

246
00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:51,200
word didn't even exist it didn't and it doesn't anymore are you the inventor of yolo no it doesn't

247
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:58,240
anymore though that's the thing it totally does it existed it didn't exist and then it existed and

248
00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:05,120
now it doesn't exist that's how long we've been like kind of it's coming back like in this is like

249
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:14,720
we've dabbed all through the yolo cycle did you just say we dabbed oh god we dabbed and we

250
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:24,800
yoloed and we did all the things so what's your why why did you take me to that club that night

251
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:29,520
I took you to that club that night for the exact same reason it just sounded fun

252
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:40,640
I've not always been a pervert so it was fun to let my freak flyer you've always been a pervert

253
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:50,080
but you've been a closet at pervert fine I'm coming out of the closet so yeah it was uh it was just

254
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:56,240
it was different it was fun and uh yeah kind of the all this everything you said was like

255
00:29:56,240 --> 00:30:00,560
what do we have to lose I mean we had a lot to lose I didn't want to I mean I obviously didn't

256
00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:04,240
want to lose you but like we weren't married like there's just a different perspective I guess

257
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:08,480
what I was trying to say a different level of commitment yeah like a different perspective

258
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:16,160
on it than like now so I get why that couple asked us like and was like oh well we and like I said

259
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:20,560
we really had no intention anyway and it was kind of like what do they even mean like I wasn't even

260
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:28,160
sure what that even meant but like now it's kind of funny looking back because the uh the original

261
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:34,880
girl that invited us she actually never was able to go to this club I know on the same night that

262
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:40,720
we went it was it's weird so I mean we're still friends ish yeah we're still friends and what's

263
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:45,360
funny is that we have friends in the lifestyle who we just recently found out have friends with

264
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:52,480
them or our friends with them so it's like yes it all kind of like and then yeah when we were kind

265
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:58,880
of like oh yeah we know them from this she's like I knew it I knew it and it's it's funny one of the

266
00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:04,560
things I remember is now now in the lifestyle like when we're at a party or whatever everybody's

267
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:12,480
just so friendly and there are a lot of people that are very mission-based like they'll they'll

268
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:17,040
come to you and they'll talk to you and you can they can figure you out really quick if you're

269
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:22,240
interested in them or if you're on the same level I just remember this this the first or second night

270
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:28,560
we went to FA this woman came up and she was talking to us and she was so friendly friendly this

271
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:33,360
friendly that and we're sitting there and then all of a sudden she's like so like are you guys in a

272
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:39,120
lifestyle we're like oh no she's like okay we'll have a great night and just got up and walked away

273
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:46,720
and I was like holy shit what just happened and then it dawned on me I'm like okay wow she was hitting

274
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:56,400
on us I I did not even get that I was just like oh she's friendly I still don't get it you know me

275
00:31:56,400 --> 00:32:03,040
I'm like talking to everybody just living my best life and yeah you need to uh you need to

276
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:09,280
reign it in sometimes because yeah she'll be talking to a group and she'll just be flirting away and

277
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:15,440
I'm like are you sure babe are you sure and then so I just yeah like I said I remember that night

278
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:20,560
and um I just realized all of a sudden you know this 15 minute conversation we were having

279
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:25,680
was just over in a second because she realized we weren't down and it was like it was very honest

280
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:32,960
and at first it was weird but it felt very honest I'm like that's that's cool like I I like the

281
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:42,480
honesty of it so that that's a lot of the why and then we were we did FA uh a few times we took

282
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:50,880
some friends there and uh it never went beyond just uh me and her and then we stopped going

283
00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:56,400
because we moved and then we kind of moved even further away from the place well I'm gonna pause

284
00:32:56,400 --> 00:33:02,240
you because we stopped going because we moved but we also didn't realize at the time that LS was

285
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:08,240
like a whole community like we always thought it was just our friend invited us to a club this club

286
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:17,600
just happens to be very open and free and we didn't know at the time that there were many clubs out

287
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:27,600
there like that in our area even closer to where we lived at the time and then lived when we moved

288
00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:36,960
um and so it kind of paused because we were like well we aren't gonna drive four hours

289
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:41,920
to go to a club to fuck each other

290
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:54,000
exactly so we stopped going and then we moved back closer and

291
00:33:56,720 --> 00:34:03,440
yeah we uh then we kind of um it kind of came back up again and then uh we're gonna have to finish

292
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:10,160
this story another time when we really dive into the the hardcore how we got back into it yeah

293
00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:15,360
because that's like a whole story I think there's a whole thing like this this has already gone long

294
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:22,640
enough yeah this is now a 35 minute introductory episode so congratulations if you made it this far

295
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:29,520
I can't get a prize I can't promise you that future episodes are going to be more structured

296
00:34:30,240 --> 00:34:35,840
but uh they'll probably have a few more topics that we kind of narrow down on but this one is just

297
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:41,600
just kind of all over the place to kind of get a feel for what we want to do so yeah and at some

298
00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:47,280
point we will get into some sexy stories yeah and some embarrassing one yeah there's a few of those

299
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:52,640
there's a few of those out there we have the good and the bad I think the goal is to be as honest as

300
00:34:52,640 --> 00:35:00,320
possible to an extent I mean I did talk shit about your tacos that was pretty honest those

301
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:07,520
those tacos tonight were terrible they were sorry I know and uh she didn't offer me to make me

302
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:13,840
eat nothing I did offer to make new tacos but I totally did he decided to eat cheese instead

303
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:23,600
cheesy tacos cheese instead of tacos so anyways uh yeah so we are so I want to say cheers to our

304
00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:31,360
first podcast cheers to our first podcast it looks like it even recorded so yay cheers drink an ASMR

305
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:46,560
so I think we're gonna wrap this one up and uh just remember we are mr and mrs sweets and our

306
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:53,280
podcast is the sweet side of life podcast and you can find us at sweet side of life podcast on

307
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:59,440
tiktok we're gonna have a twitter out there pretty soon as well uh we'll probably have an instagram on

308
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:09,200
myspace a facebook a twitter you know uh all those insta face all those other all those socials for

309
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:16,800
sure insta face and you can email us at the sweet side of life podcast at outlook.com if you guys

310
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:23,600
have any ideas any any things that have never been covered on other podcasts and you think it should

311
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:29,840
be shoot us a message and um that'd be awesome to get any input uh unless it's bad I don't care

312
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:39,200
do I hear about that just yet just gonna tell you we know it's bad we know today was all over the

313
00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:44,480
place oh everywhere and it's probably not gonna get better I honestly it's probably not it's probably

314
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:51,120
not so you just hang up now um so like I said some of the things we're gonna be doing is uh

315
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:56,080
we're gonna have drink recipes um we're gonna start featuring different uh different podcasts

316
00:36:56,080 --> 00:37:01,120
every episode I'm gonna turn you guys on to one of my other favorite podcasts and just kind of keep

317
00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:08,080
the love going we can't turn them on to one now um let me see I would say the staple can I say my

318
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:11,920
first one I listened to oh yeah yeah I don't remember the name of it I remember there are pen

319
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:18,640
and paper it was swinger diaries swinger diaries so if you're just getting into this if uh if you're

320
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:30,800
just kind of figuring out um this ls lifestyle stuff and you kind of want like just some mentors if

321
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:41,440
you will I feel like um I hate to burst your bubble this this podcast has long been gone it hasn't

322
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:47,280
been on the air for two years no I know but the can you still listen to the past ones no it's

323
00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:52,880
completely off of every social oh my god but because they they got found out no no they just

324
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:57,360
they did it for so many years and why did they take it down why do you why would you take it down

325
00:37:58,320 --> 00:37:59,600
email them I don't know

326
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:09,200
I felt like they had a really good he was also an avid podcast listener he was so now that

327
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:13,280
they're still they're still very active in the community in a sense of they go to a lot of

328
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:20,240
the podcast so why would you take down your podcast I don't know again email them

329
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:28,480
but anyways take it up with them the rumor has it um I do believe they still have a website

330
00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:35,840
somewhere um just look up swinger diaries on google and I do believe that if you email them

331
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:42,880
and request it they'll send you the entire archive I remember I did that about maybe a year ago I was

332
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:47,360
able to get my hands on it it was like a google drive um I don't know if they're still sending it

333
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:53,680
out though but just google swinger diaries hook it up or look it up email them and you might be

334
00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:58,480
able to get the uh the archive but it's definitely not on any of the that was a good one I felt like

335
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:03,280
honestly I've tried to listen to other ones before or after that since then there's been a couple

336
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:09,520
other but I won't say them because that'll just like ruin our future podcast I'm just gonna guns

337
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:14,000
blaze no no not talking shit I'm just saying like I will I don't want to put all the ones I've

338
00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:20,240
listened to that I've liked but I just haven't been able to keep up with one as well as I kept up

339
00:39:20,240 --> 00:39:25,040
with the swinger diaries just because I felt like it was very informative and I know he was an avid

340
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:31,920
podcast listener so he I feel like no they were very very good they were very very infront of

341
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:37,440
OG very informational and they're very og they were they were informational they were to the point

342
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:42,560
they had sexy stories and honestly it probably was because I started listening to them you had me

343
00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:49,440
listening to them when we kind of got back into it so they they helped me process some stuff yeah

344
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:57,040
for sure you know yeah so no doubt that's bummer maybe on uh maybe what I'll do is I'll I'll do a

345
00:39:57,040 --> 00:40:01,920
little googling and I'll see if I can find an email and maybe I'll reach out to them see if if it's

346
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:06,880
still possible to get your hands because yeah like she said they're very very good podcast and there's

347
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:14,080
a lot of them they did them for multiple years yeah and uh they're great great podcast but let's go

348
00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:19,440
on to someone that they can actually get nowadays well why don't we say that for the next one no

349
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:28,160
okay you say who you like all right so one of the most prominent ones right now uh they're all over

350
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:33,760
tiktok they're they're a big part of the swing talk community on tiktok it's called the swing

351
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:39,920
nation um they have a very good podcast very informational they have their good share of

352
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:44,800
sexy stories and they're you could tell they're two smart individuals and they they both speak well

353
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:50,880
and they they're editings very very good and it's just a nice polished project product not project

354
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:57,600
so I would recommend checking out the swing nation and then um I'll give you much more

355
00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:05,920
information on the next one however in the meantime when enjoying the sweet side of life

356
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:12,560
keep your pineapples upside down believe in unicorns and keep shaking it up love you baby love you too

357
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:16,000
babe

358
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:24,800
if you would like to get in contact with us please email us at the sweet side of life podcast at

359
00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:42,640
outlook.com or you can always find us on any one of our socials that are listed in the podcast links