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Hi, and welcome to the In The Cortex podcast.

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We are your hosts.

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I'm Paloma Garcia.

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And I am Danny Paraconi.

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And we're the founders of In The Cortex, an online community with programs that show

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people the tools that they need to change their lives, their brain reorganization, no

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medication, just movement.

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When you get your brain out of survival mode and regulate your nervous system, you start

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to live in the fun, logical part of the brain, the cortex.

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Subscribe today and learn how to live your best in the cortex life.

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And now, on to today's episode.

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Okay, welcome back to another podcast from In The Cortex.

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I am Danny, and I'm here with Paloma, and we are your founders of In The Cortex.

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And we have a really exciting episode today talking about something that one of our, someone,

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a follower asked us to talk about, and it was all about dyslexia.

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And so we're going to break this down from a brain perspective.

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It's going to feel a little overwhelming because it is a lot of things.

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A lot of information.

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Yes.

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So we're going to do our best to simplify it.

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And if this is something that resonates with you, or if there's things that come up that

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really hit home for you, just know that we're all learning together.

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And we hope you can just tune into that space of being receptive and open to hearing this

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information.

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And the biggest part is that you understand that there's something you can do about it.

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Exactly.

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And that's our mission here at In The Cortex is to share the information and then how you

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can help yourself live a more peaceful, harmonious, and easier life just in a nutshell.

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So let's break it down, Paloma.

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Let's break it down.

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So let's just start really quickly with talking about what dyslexia even is.

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Most of you have probably heard about it if you don't already know somebody that has dyslexia

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because it's actually very common.

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And it affects the way that people read, write, and spell.

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So the ease of reading, writing, and spelling.

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And it has a lot to do, of course it's classified as a learning disorder because what do we

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really do in school and when we're learning things, we're reading, writing, spelling,

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and doing all that stuff.

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And it really affects the way that we see words on the page and we're able to interpret

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them visually and the way that we're able to interpret them as information.

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So it's not just what do they look like on the page, but what do those letters on the

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page together mean in my brain?

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So it has a lot to do also with decoding and the way that we're interpreting language

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as well.

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And today what we want to really focus on is looking at which specific reflexes are related

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to the challenges that dyslexia encompasses.

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So just so we can get it to be very as straightforward as possible.

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And always keep in mind that there's a lot of overlap with these things.

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Yeah, it's not just black and white and it's not like you have this, so then you have that.

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It's a lot of, there's really a symphony going on in my brain, let's say.

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And we want to read really quickly a text that explains primitive reflexes in case you're

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newer to the podcast or in case you maybe kind of need a little bit of a refresher.

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We know that that is always useful from the Child Development Center in London.

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It's an amazing institution.

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They do a lot of primitive reflex work as well.

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And so this is what they have on their website.

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We are born with a whole range of reflexes, a set of instinctive involuntary reactions

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to a certain stimulus.

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These reflexes have evolved over millennia to aid our passage from the womb to protect

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us from harm in our vulnerable early months and to provide rudimentary training for later

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voluntary skills.

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If it all goes according to nature's plan, all the fetal and primitive reflexes follow

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a similar pattern.

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They initiate in the uterus, become integrated into the neural system.

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This lays down the pattern for future controllable actions and responses, and then inhibits when

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it's time to move on to the next developmental stage.

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Usually all these reflexes should inhibit by the time the baby is one year old.

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We'll take that with a grain of salt because some people it's one and a half, two, even

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two and a half years old we've seen.

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So always take that with a grain of salt.

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But it's important to realize that these early reflexes are located in the most primitive

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area of the brain, the brainstem.

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And they operate involuntarily.

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They're not voluntary.

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That means we simply cannot control them.

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As we develop the higher parts of the brain, the cortex, which is responsible for thinking

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and reasoning, and the midbrain, the organization center of the motor and sensory systems, take

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over the functions of the primitive reflexes.

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These functions are then transformed into responses and actions that can be consciously

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So that's when they become conscious is when the primitive reflex, the primitive brain

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finishes developing and we're operating from the cortex, the higher centers of the brain.

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If the primitive reflexes fail to inhibit, however, the more sophisticated neural structures

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of the brain, that means the cortex, along with the postural reflexes cannot develop

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The normal development of motor and processing skills and the integration of left and right

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sides of the brain are affected.

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The child is stuck with immature responses to their environment.

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So act your age.

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My litter might literally be an impossibility for them.

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So that's just a really, I love the way that they talk about how it's involuntary involuntary.

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Because we think, you know, we look at behavior and we think that things that people do, we

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react the way we act, that we can control it.

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But that's where this gives us so much empathy, right?

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For looking at our own brains and looking at other people's brains and saying, whoa,

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that is not on purpose.

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They can't control that.

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And so that's where it's good to take a deep breath and say, okay, this is where I can

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help my brain get more organized and really, truly operate from the cortex, which is the

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way that we're meant, quote, unquote, to operate in this.

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That's at least that's the way that the world is set up.

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The logic of the world.

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And from that is everything is done through movement.

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So we know when babies are in utero, we feel kicks, we feel movement.

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We know babies are turning and twisting around or like, oh, look at that.

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And there's so much to it.

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So this is where we want to help you understand that the way you naturally do something gives

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so much information as to where your brain is at.

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And the cool part is the brain is so plastic.

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It can take this information at any age in your life right now and it can help you do

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it more efficiently.

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So if you give it the right fuel, all of a sudden now your brain can now process it for

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what it was meant to do.

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And that's why we love the work we do because there's so much hope.

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There is so much chance to go back and rewrite your story.

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Start right now.

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Our oldest participant is 90 years old.

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Yes.

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So with all that being said, we're going to break down the reflexes that are really connected

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to what we call dyslexia.

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And we're not really big fans of labels here because it really kind of, if you get the

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diagnosis that you have dyslexia use it, then go, okay, great.

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Now what do I do about this?

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Like, do I just always have a handicap when it comes to learning?

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And then that internalizes for a lot of people that I'm stupid.

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I'm dumb.

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I just don't operate the way I need to.

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And our take is no, that's not helping you.

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How about we look at the reflexes?

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When those reflexes aren't integrated, meaning lying dormant because they've done all the

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things that they need to do.

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So now they don't have to be keeping you in survival mode anymore.

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And once they have done their job and they're lying dormant, now we can let that cortex

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come online and do what it's designed to do.

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And we live more volunteer, we live in that voluntary space, right?

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Where we can truly control.

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Just really quick also to add, that's not saying that we're saying that dyslexia doesn't

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We're saying that let's reframe it.

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Let's look at it differently.

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Let's look at it as what can we do about this, these challenges and difficulty that I'm

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feeling or that my child is feeling or somebody that I know instead of let's put a name on

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it and then make it feel like there's something wrong with me, right?

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Cause that's not what this is about.

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The whole point is that we can, there's so much we can do to make life so much easier.

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A hundred percent.

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So, and this is what's so cool is that you have everything within you.

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And this is what we teach you in our program is how to look at the movements and how to

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make sense of them and then how to do them differently and more efficiently so that way

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your brain's like, okay, cool.

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I can now move on to the next level.

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And I love this so much because as we were doing our research for this podcast, we really,

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I was really connecting dots with so many people I know is like, oh my gosh, it's this,

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it's this, this, this.

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And while we think like from a very conscious standpoint, like, oh, I'm just not good at

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this, we have to remember what society has created, right?

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We've created this world of.

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and visually through our auditory senses.

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We're just starting to bring in movement as a concept, right?

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And like kids need to move to learn and think about all the learners out there because there

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are so many different types of learning that are done through hands-on tactile, kinesthetic

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approaches.

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What happens to their brain when they're not getting the right information, the way that

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suits their preference and helps them and take information?

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So if you are resonating with a dyslexic profile and you're, you know, your decoding

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is off or you're, you know, reversing things, that could just mean that your preference

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is not in auditory or in visual.

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And Paloma and I have both experiences because we were talking about this too really quick

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was when we were, you know, before brain, the before brain organization era, I was very

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much the athletic movement person, very hands-on and kinesthetic.

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Moving down at a desk and like having to intake information was painful and really hard for

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I had to work really, really hard.

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challenging.

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She was just like, not for me.

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I'm going to be more of what would say like the nerdy kid and I was more of like the job

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kid, right?

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And so we certain our society start to like classify people as like, oh, that's just how

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But have we ever thought of it as that's just the preference in which you learn and how

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you intake information?

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Like, that's kind of crazy, right?

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So we're all smart.

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We're all beautiful beings.

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And that's what we're trying to share is helping you find that light within you.

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It's so important to understand how the brain is developing.

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So Paloma already mentioned the reflexes, the lower centers of the brain.

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They're doing really important jobs from utero to about two, two and a half years of life.

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Then from that point forward, now we're in the space for about like until we're close

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to eight years old, we're figuring out our dominance.

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We're figuring out what side of the brain we prefer to use, what I we prefer to use.

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And we start figuring out the dominance in which our brain is in taking information.

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And there's so much research about like where you live in the world, how the information

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is presented to you as a kid that affects this.

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So it's important to know that if you are working with a child or someone younger and

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they're still reversing letters and they're still not getting certain facts, well, maybe

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it's because their brain just isn't ready to do this yet.

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And about eight years old is when the brain's ready to come online and start really picking

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how to wait and take information.

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So this is something really important to know.

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And this is why our society again, as little backwards on why we're teaching kids to read

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and write at four or five years old, it's just we're not designed to do it.

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So that's a plug for a different podcast.

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Anyway, I had an explain to us, Paloma, the concept of some of the reflexes and how they

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have a relapse with dyslexia.

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So dyslexia has a lot to do, of course, with the eyes and that's kind of, you know, natural

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and a lot of people that actually start to show some learning challenges or learning

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difficulties in the classroom.

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The very first thing that they're going to be checked for is visual, right?

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Visual challenges, visual impairment, whatever it might be.

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That's usually what people, you know, professionals and teachers and doctors will look at first.

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with dyslexia because it's the way that we're processing the world.

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So just think about this as we go through these reflexes for us to be able to interpret

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information from the page adequately or efficiently, our eyes, our visual, our auditory systems

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and our vestibular systems all need to be working pretty efficiently because the eyes,

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of course, are the ones that are processing the actual words, right?

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The ears are also processing the sounds that made us understand what the words were, right?

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So when we learned the language, that's where that came from, right?

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is in our vestibular system.

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Believe it or not, has so much to do with it because that's the vestibular system is our

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relationship with gravity.

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It's our balance.

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at, whatever we're hearing, whatever we're experiencing.

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It's very important for, because we have two sides of our brain and two sides of our body,

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for our body to always know what the center point is of anything that we're trying to

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do, right?

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And operate because we need that point of convergence for anything that we're interpreting.

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So that's just to set the stage.

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So the moral, for example, is the reflex that is our infant startle reflex.

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And so the moral has a lot to do with the way that we process our sounds and the way

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that we process lights and changes in light.

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And so if our moral is not integrated and still present at the age when we're trying

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to read, it might be interpreting sounds that are way too loud or not loud enough.

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the page.

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And once again, language and everything, all the other stimuli that are around us.

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It also might be that if our moral is on, we're very, very sensitive to light.

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then that's going to make it really, really hard for our eyes to actually be able to focus,

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to literally focus, find the focal point of each word that we're reading or writing

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or looking at the board and think about the type of lighting that most schools have.

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It's fluorescent lighting and fluorescent lighting is very, very abrasive to the eyes,

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especially to a brain that is in survival mode, because you process that even more intensely,

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much prefer to be in like lower light.

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You know, you'll go into their house and all the lights are dimmed or the room, you know,

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the, the dark curtains are drawn down all the time.

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it's literally activated by any time there's like a loud sound.

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If you make a loud noise, you notice that a baby will naturally will fling open their

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arms, their hands will open up and then they'll have a big gasp, a big breath of air.

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to go, right?

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they are.

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So you see this activated time and time again in the first like two months of life.

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So imagine this, if a baby doesn't get to do that enough, it stays on and active because

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the brain's like, I didn't go through the right period of getting this thing integrated.

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So then these kids are in classrooms with activated, constantly activating this survival

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mechanism of it's time to go, it's time to survive.

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And it's like, could you imagine, and we did, I used to have this on very later in life,

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where everything felt like fight or flight mode.

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A threat.

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Absolutely.

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Of course this is going to affect your learning, because you're like, threat where?

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Who was?

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And it's not conscious, right?

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It's involuntary, involuntary.

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It's not voluntary.

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So our brain, you know, even though logically we know it's just a classroom, it's just a

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letter on the page.

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Our primitive brain is like, absolutely not.

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This is life or death, bro.

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Let's get out of this.

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Right.

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And so that's where we're tripping up our whole nervous system.

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When all we need to do is, all we need to do quote unquote is read a letter, right?

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But there's just so much more.

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And that's why this stuff is so complex, because we can't see what's going on instead of somebody

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else's brain.

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And so I think it can be so frustrating for teachers, for parents to be like, you know,

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they said this on the child institute, the development institute as well, their website.

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And then they say, act your age is not, is physically impossible, right?

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And so that's where we're, we have those huge disconnects.

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And we're like, what's going on with this person's mind?

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Well that might be what it is, right?

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It's involuntary.

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100%.

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Then we have the 18 are the asymmetrical tonic neck reflex.

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And so we're not going to get too much into what each reflex does in this podcast, because

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we will be here for 17 days straight.

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I don't think it'll even be able to upload.

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So if you want more information on each specific reflex, we have so much info on our Instagram

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and we have the basics of brain reorganization, which is a program that is free.

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You can find it at the Lincoln bio of our Instagram page, and we also have podcast episodes

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that have talked about this in the past.

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So there's a lot of ways to get this information, but the asymmetrical tonic neck reflex has

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a lot to do with our balance as well, our vestibular system.

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Remember that knowing left from right, because what it does is it, it's kind of like, it

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creates like a, or it has like a wall in between the two hemispheres, right?

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So we have our left hemisphere and our right hemisphere.

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And in the middle, we have a little bundle of nerves that's called the corpus callosum

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and the corpus callosum is there to connect the two hemispheres, right?

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When our AT&R is not integrated, so it's still present.

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It's like it creates this huge massive wall in between the two hemispheres.

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So what does that mean?

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It's going to be a lot, a lot, lot harder to do anything that involves crossing the

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midline, any sort of cross laterality.

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That's the number one thing you need to do when you're reading cross the midline, because

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you're going from left to right, right?

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And so that's something that a lot of people will notice, right?

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With kids that have the, the challenges with reading or dyslexia specifically is that they

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have a really hard time going from left to right or they're lose their spot, right?

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So they're reading, reading, reading, and then they're like, well, and you kind of

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are like, why, why did they not read that word?

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Well, their eyes literally just jumped from one page of the, of the part of the page to

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the other, right?

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And so that's something that's really important to not have.

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So to have that reflex integrated, integrated.

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This also because of that difference between the left and right hemisphere is going to have

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ambiguity in their laterality, right?

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So not necessarily knowing which hand is which, first of all, which one's the left and which

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one's the right, and not knowing which hand to use to pick up a pencil.

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You know, if you haven't really had that laterality, if your hemispheres aren't connected, it's

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hard to really establish a dominant side, first of all.

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And then on top of that, you're, you're confusing it all the time.

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That makes it even harder.

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And when you're writing, when you'll see how, when, when children are writing, and this

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goes hand in hand, this is dysgraphia more than dyslexia, but it always, it usually goes

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hand in hand is when writing there, if they're turning their head to one side, then they're,

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they have a complete collection of the other side of their body.

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And so what that creates is also kind of like a disconnect between the hand and the eye.

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And so the hand-eye coordination is going to be really hard.

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And that of course, it's extremely important for when you're writing on a page.

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Right.

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And the 18 hours really looked at as the eye tracking reflex.

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So that's what Paloma said is being able to get your eyes to track effortlessly across

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without skipping a beat.

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And here's the thing, like so many times when this sort of stuff happens and so many of

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our participants will be like, Oh my gosh, all of a sudden my son's hitting the baseball

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at baseball practice or all of a sudden when I go in my teenagers learning how to drive

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and they look over their shoulder, the car's not going with them anymore.

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Because that'll happen because whenever the head turns that hand, that arm will have

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that natural reflex to want to straighten and then open because when a baby's doing

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this, they're lying on their back with their head turned down the straight arm.

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So think about how much extra you're having to work every time your head turns.

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You want your head to independently rotate and move without your arms going with it.

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As a baby, you want that connected, but not when you're older and not when we're trying

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to learn to read and write and do all the things.

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So this is a massive reflex.

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This one you could really see effortlessly.

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If you want to check on your child really quick, you can just take your finger out in

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front of their eyes and you can have them track smoothly from left to right.

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Can their eyes stay on your finger without turning their head and can they keep their

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eyes in a smooth pursuit going left to right?

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If you have a kid that you already know has a little bit of a challenge with visual things,

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I would do something bigger than the finger because sometimes a finger might even be too

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small for them to focus on.

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So if you take like a bigger racer or like, yeah, one of these like little Lego pieces,

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put it on the top of the pen and of a pen and that'll make it easier to check it.

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And don't, and if they do turn their head when they're tracking, you just ask, do you

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think you're moving your head right now?

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And they'll be like, nope, you go, okay, great.

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That's information.

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Again, we're building compassion for understanding why we do what we do and we're not trying

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just to correct it and let them know they're doing everything wrong.

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We want them to understand.

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Oh my gosh, this is a reflex.

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Remember what is it?

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It's involuntary.

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They cannot override it.

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It has to go, this is why we say through the movement, it has to be done through the root

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so it's effortless and they don't have to think about it.

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Exactly.

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It's not about getting it right.

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It's about what information is this giving me about this person's brain, right?

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And it doesn't have to be a child, by the way.

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Then we have the spinal galant reflex is a reflex that is mostly there for the movement

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of the fetus in the uterus to get out through the birth canal, but it also works as a conductor

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for the sound vibration.

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So remember sound, we hear it as sound and melody and, you know, the cadence of somebody's

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voice, but it really is all just vibration.

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And so that's from the time you're in the uterus.

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It's important for your body to start to adapt and understand how to process these vibrations

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as sound.

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And so if the spinal galant reflex is retained, then we're going to have a lot of difficulty

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with understanding and processing sounds.

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So that's another thing, right?

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With the auditory processing that goes hand in hand with the dyslexia.

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And it's also going to help synchronize the upper and lower body because it usually is

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active.

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Well, it is active in the lumbar area.

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So it's kind of like we have the left and right midline and then we have the top and

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bottom midline.

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And so the spinal galant really helps with both of those.

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And this sounds like it doesn't have that much to do with reading.

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But once again, if you go back to what we said in the beginning, knowing where your center

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is is extremely important for being able to read.

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So if you don't even know where your own body center is, how are we supposed to find the

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center of the page and the word and the thing that you're trying to interpret, right?

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It's so much.

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And also this reflex looks like if, if it's on for a child, they have like ants in their

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pants.

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That means they're always constantly wiggling and fidgeting and they can't sit still.

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And then you tell them to pay attention.

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They're like, to what?

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Because everything is overwhelming their system right now.

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So they can't hold their focus on anything.

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So how do you decode sounds?

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How do you look at words on the page and, and, and when your brain is not able to process

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out what's not important?

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So this child is always going to be, and usually like the dyslexic profile very much matches

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the ADD ADHD profile.

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Because there's a lot of connection there.

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And again, let's look at the reflexes and how much of those reflexes are connected when

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you read what's connected to each reflex.

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So instead of seeing them as just always being distracted, it's like, huh, what?

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I will say schools, I figured a lot of this stuff out and they've figured out workarounds

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to help with the compensation.

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So they put those vestibular cushions under their child so the child can wiggle or they

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sit on balls, right?

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We see this a lot now.

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Um, but the problem with that is if it's still involuntary, guess what that ball turns

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into an even bigger distraction.

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And then we're playing with the fidget spinners and all those things and whatever it is.

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And then they become a distraction.

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So we're not again addressing the root.

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call it the TLR.

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This one is really like when the eyes begin to converge and look at one point together.

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So it's the eye teaming, eye convergence.

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And this comes from, so when a child starts to be able to get on their hands and knees,

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this is such an important reflex just to be able to come out and do its job.

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Because if you avoid and never crawl, remember when the CDC took out crawling as a major

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00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:04,880
milestone, we all shook our heads, right?

466
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:09,200
Because the way you put your hands down on the floor literally will tell us what's going

467
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,400
on with this, this reflex right here.

468
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:15,640
So you can try this, go ahead, get on your hands and knees, look at what position your

469
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:18,040
hands naturally want to go to.

470
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:22,880
So many people naturally want to put their hands out to the side.

471
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:26,800
And it's a direct indication that your eyes cannot team.

472
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:30,800
And then imagining trying to look at one point on the page with both of your eyes is really

473
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:31,800
hard.

474
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:33,600
That's something that I still struggle with.

475
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:35,240
I need to work on my TLR.

476
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:39,480
And I noticed that if I, when I don't crawl and I don't keep for a while, my eyes, I'll

477
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:42,920
see a picture of myself and make, oh my gosh, my eyes are not deeming.

478
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:44,520
I can do it right now.

479
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:50,280
If you want to check somebody's eye teaming, you can also do the same thing with the pen

480
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:51,560
or pencil.

481
00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:56,800
And you're going to hold it out kind of like as far as a paper would be, right?

482
00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:57,800
From where you're reading.

483
00:26:57,800 --> 00:27:01,880
Then extend your arm or kind of go arms length away from that.

484
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:04,080
And you're going to ask them to focus on one part, right?

485
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:05,920
So here, Danny's focusing on the yellow part.

486
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,960
I'm going to be focused on the blue part of my, of my pen right here.

487
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:09,960
Follow it.

488
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,320
And you're slowly going to bring it in closer.

489
00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:15,000
Can you see my eyes, Danny?

490
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:16,000
Here.

491
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:21,040
It's easier when someone else does it for you, but yeah, you can see that you're right

492
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:22,040
and then out.

493
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:24,080
And my eyes like that hurt my eyes.

494
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:31,160
And I'm bringing it back in and usually you can see that one eye will go in a little bit

495
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:33,040
slower and one will go a little bit faster.

496
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:34,480
I don't know which one was which.

497
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:35,480
Yeah.

498
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:36,480
First year, right?

499
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:38,520
When wasn't going in as much and then your left eye.

500
00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:40,440
So you were picking, you're like, one eye can do it together.

501
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:41,440
I can't.

502
00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:42,440
So they're not doing it as a team.

503
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:43,440
There you go.

504
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:44,440
It's one or the other.

505
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:45,440
Yeah.

506
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:46,920
So then these people will close one eye.

507
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,760
They'll tilt their head, they'll cover their eye when they're working.

508
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:53,880
And then again, they're not able to just process the information for what it is.

509
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:56,040
It's getting skewed.

510
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:57,040
Everything's getting skewed.

511
00:27:57,040 --> 00:28:01,640
Plus, if you're looking, if your one eye is looking, so this is where it's also very

512
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:02,640
interesting.

513
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:08,280
Of course, the visual system, which we're going to talk about in a little bit just right

514
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:09,600
after the reflexes.

515
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:14,280
But if one eye is looking at one part of the word and the other eye is looking at the

516
00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:17,320
other part of the word, you have to fill in the middle.

517
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:18,320
You know what I mean?

518
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:20,080
Like there's also like your two eyes.

519
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:25,480
It's just again, just more things for your brain to be processing all at the same time

520
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,520
when you're supposed to be reading a word and like immediately knowing exactly what

521
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:29,520
it says.

522
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:34,600
And it's just once again, where those expectations of like, act your age, reading at age level

523
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:37,680
or grade level, whatever it is, all in quotation marks.

524
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:40,240
That's where we're like, how about reading a brain level?

525
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:44,000
Not at a, oh, what good slogan.

526
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:45,000
That was really good.

527
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:46,000
Read at your brain level.

528
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:47,000
Reading a brain level.

529
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:48,000
Forget about age.

530
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:49,000
Forget about your brain level.

531
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:51,120
Let's read it brain level.

532
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:52,120
Seriously.

533
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:53,120
Okay.

534
00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:54,120
That was really good.

535
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:55,120
That was really good.

536
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:56,120
Yeah.

537
00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:58,800
So the last reflex then is the symmetrical tonic neck reflex.

538
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:04,760
And this is when you're able to readjust from one distance to another effortlessly.

539
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:09,120
So if you're looking down at your paper, you look up to the whiteboard or you come down

540
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:14,200
to the whiteboard or I literally see this in my child copying from one piece of paper

541
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:17,680
to the next where you're literally just turning your head and looking from one piece to the

542
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:18,680
next.

543
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:21,120
And this is the natural ability to do so.

544
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:22,120
Yes.

545
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:26,360
If you were not given the opportunity to get this reflex integrated, of course this is

546
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:27,360
going to be hard.

547
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:29,480
Of course you're going to mix up your letters and your words.

548
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:33,920
And of course you're going to look like you have a challenge when it comes to all sorts

549
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:34,920
of learning.

550
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:35,920
All of these learning things.

551
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:39,160
And this is something really interesting that was in the book, the reflexive learning

552
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:40,160
and behavior.

553
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:43,520
If you're a podcast listener, you know we reference this book all the time.

554
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:46,720
It's our absolute fave.

555
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:51,040
And there's a part where she's talking about Trevor Roper who is a researcher.

556
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:56,040
And that is somebody who was looking at all the visual components of learning and kind

557
00:29:56,040 --> 00:30:01,200
of looking at the up close vision versus far away.

558
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:05,280
And so the people that are myopic, that means that you can see up close and much harder

559
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:07,960
for you to see far away.

560
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:13,400
Just happen to have a tendency for more activities that are done up close.

561
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:17,320
Like writing, like writing, like art, like drawing.

562
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:21,960
And the people that have the opposite have much more of a tendency to go toward much

563
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:24,200
more out there things.

564
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:27,080
So sports and things that are further away.

565
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:31,380
They like to look at telescopes and they like to do the different things that are further

566
00:30:31,380 --> 00:30:33,280
away because that's what's easiest for them.

567
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:36,040
So these are also things that we check up to personality.

568
00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:39,480
But a lot of the time, and that's what you were saying in the beginning of the podcast,

569
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:42,080
it's not just our personality, it's our brain.

570
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:45,880
And so you might be somebody who's just decided, Oh, you know, I'm more bookish.

571
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:49,080
I'm really not into sports, but it's just because your brain couldn't do it.

572
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:53,600
So once you give your brain that ability, then you can explore also a different facet

573
00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:56,320
of who you are as a person, which is also really cool.

574
00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:57,840
Oh, I love that.

575
00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:02,360
And think about too, when you're on your hands and knees, this distance of where your hands

576
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:07,160
are to where your head's at is such a big deal because this is your reading distance.

577
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:10,320
This is how you're interpreting information in front of you.

578
00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:14,360
So that's really setting the stage for how are you going to be able to process this information

579
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:17,680
when you're at that space when it's time to do it.

580
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:18,680
Okay.

581
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:20,760
That was just addressing the reflexes.

582
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:21,760
Okay.

583
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:24,280
So reflexes, we have to remember this.

584
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:29,440
They are always interweaving with all the other sensory systems happening.

585
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:33,680
Plus, we've got our lower brain, which is our creeping and our crawling.

586
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:34,680
Yeah.

587
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:35,680
The pons in mid-brain.

588
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:40,760
So when you're doing specific movements like creeping, like on your belly where you're

589
00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:44,640
moving from point A to point B, that when you're doing that movement, it's bringing

590
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:48,640
in the reflexes that are during that time period to work together.

591
00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:53,320
And then when you go into your crawling phase, when you hit about six months, then you're

592
00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:56,800
bringing in all the reflexes that are geared towards your crawling and all your mid-brain

593
00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:57,800
functions.

594
00:31:57,800 --> 00:31:59,240
So this is why it's so important.

595
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:01,760
You can't just see primitive reflex integration.

596
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:03,520
You can't just go creep and crawl.

597
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:08,280
You have to do both pieces of it because it will affect our auditory system.

598
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:13,600
It'll affect our visual system, affect our vestibular, our proprioceptive, all the systems

599
00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:14,920
that are finally working together.

600
00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:16,520
So it's so much.

601
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:20,520
We think babies don't do anything in that first year, but holy cow.

602
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:21,600
Holy cannoli.

603
00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:22,760
It's so much.

604
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:26,960
And just really quickly to illustrate, we're not going to get too deep into the auditory

605
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:32,800
and the visual systems, but this I think is really interesting is the way that we process

606
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:40,960
sounds that the auditory part of the brain is in the left hemisphere.

607
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:47,400
And that means that when we process audit sounds through our right ear, we are doing

608
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:51,920
a much more efficient job because our right ear goes directly into the left hemisphere

609
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:52,920
to process.

610
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:55,840
And then we're able to understand what that sound was.

611
00:32:55,840 --> 00:33:01,080
When we listen through our left ear is listening, not hearing, listen through our left ear.

612
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:04,720
We have to go into the right hemisphere because that's the way our brain is wired.

613
00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:06,680
Right left side is the right hemisphere.

614
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:07,960
And then we have to jump over.

615
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:13,080
Remember, if you have that retained AT&R, that's going to be hard to jump over this

616
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:17,520
brick wall and then get to the left side to the auditory processing.

617
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:19,440
And then we're able to understand what it means, right?

618
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:25,040
Or to process that sound for further and more and more, more like the higher centers.

619
00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:31,360
And so when we're learning to process sounds, we are kind of like fine tuning the balance

620
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:35,740
between the left and the right ears and which is going to be our dominance.

621
00:33:35,740 --> 00:33:41,360
And it has been established that people that have a right ear dominance have a much easier

622
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:46,880
time of interpreting sounds, of hearing, of auditory processing sounds.

623
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:49,760
And of course that goes hand in hand with reading, right?

624
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:53,320
Because what you're hearing then becomes what you know, what you learn.

625
00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:55,480
And then what you read goes hand in hand with that.

626
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:57,400
Remember, we talked about that in the beginning.

627
00:33:57,400 --> 00:34:04,520
So if you have a little bit more of a tendency to go to the left ear, then this might be once

628
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:09,320
again adding another piece onto all the stuff that your brain has to process.

629
00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:12,760
So without going too much into the detail of that, I want everybody who's listening to

630
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:17,360
the podcast right now to do a quick little test, which is stand in front of a wall, look

631
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:22,880
at the wall and imagine that on the other side of the wall is the best juiciest piece

632
00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:24,600
of gossip you've ever heard in your life.

633
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:25,600
Okay.

634
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:27,720
You're like, Oh my God, I need to hear this so good.

635
00:34:27,720 --> 00:34:32,840
So now I want you to slowly get closer to the wall and put your ear up to the wall to

636
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:35,400
listen to that juicy gossip.

637
00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:37,280
Which ear did you favor?

638
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:39,160
Was it the right or the left?

639
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:40,160
And now think about it.

640
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:43,400
And what does that tell you about your brain with what you just heard?

641
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,120
That is your dominant ear.

642
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:48,840
You can do this for all of your senses, right?

643
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:53,800
So you can figure out what is your dominant ear when it comes to hearing and then also

644
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:55,320
what is your dominant eye?

645
00:34:55,320 --> 00:35:00,520
The eye is not as key, but having them work together is super important.

646
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:03,960
So if you want to put your eye through a telescope, like which eye do you close?

647
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:05,080
Which eye do you keep open?

648
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:06,360
Which is your dominant?

649
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:10,000
So I know I have a left dominant eye and I have a right dominant ear.

650
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:15,880
And what's so crazy is when we dive into all of this, I always like to talk about my son

651
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:19,560
because he's such an amazing sport and he understands this stuff because we talk about

652
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:21,760
it and he's not even eight yet.

653
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:26,960
But he has a dominant left ear and he, we didn't check his eyes, but I'm not sure about

654
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:27,960
that.

655
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:30,760
But anyways, he's a dominant left ear, but I also know he doesn't have his symmetrical

656
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:33,520
tonic neck reflex integrated all the way.

657
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:35,680
And so this is the piece.

658
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:37,320
Here's the information.

659
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:40,320
I just talked to his teachers and you know, they're amazing.

660
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:41,320
They're so sweet.

661
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:44,680
And they're like, Danny, I think we should talk about maybe a learning disability.

662
00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:46,600
Do you think Axel has one?

663
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:48,400
And I just confident like, okay, cute.

664
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:51,680
Thanks for your feedback, but I'm not going to take that because then that puts this pressure

665
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:52,680
on me.

666
00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:53,680
Oh, great.

667
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:54,680
Now what?

668
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:57,920
And on him and on him and oh, something's wrong.

669
00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:02,320
So instead of me spiraling, which I would have done before all this work, I just go,

670
00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:03,320
you know what?

671
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:06,800
I'm glad that other people can see this, but I'm going to give you a different take because

672
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:11,840
this is what our goal is, is to normalize that we're all different, but normalize that

673
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:18,080
you can do something about it to ease whatever challenge you're facing in your day.

674
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:22,000
So for Axel, and this goes for a lot of people.

675
00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:26,000
And we say this every time, if you have retained primitive reflexes as a child and you don't

676
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:30,400
do anything about it, they turn into retained primitive reflexes as an teenager and as an

677
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:32,680
adult and so on and so on.

678
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:35,640
And how many times have you seen adults that just can act right?

679
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:37,240
You're like, okay, what is it?

680
00:36:37,240 --> 00:36:38,240
Right?

681
00:36:38,240 --> 00:36:39,240
There's a lot of things.

682
00:36:39,240 --> 00:36:40,240
But anyways.

683
00:36:40,240 --> 00:36:44,480
So Axel, it's like, okay, instead of him just being diagnosed as a learning disability,

684
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:48,200
what if we looked at it and say, oh my gosh, he's working so much harder than he needs

685
00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:54,880
to because he has a left ear dominance, which we now know he has to process things differently

686
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:57,720
and he has retained primitive reflexes.

687
00:36:57,720 --> 00:37:01,960
And the cool part is, is yes, you can do stuff to help with your dominance.

688
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:05,480
But the more important thing that you can do right now is you can go integrate your symmetrical

689
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:06,480
tonic neck reflex.

690
00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:12,240
You can do all your other reflexes and we can keep working on all of our other good

691
00:37:12,240 --> 00:37:13,240
stuff.

692
00:37:13,240 --> 00:37:16,120
So then he has hope and then he's not sitting there going, great, now I'm just going to

693
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:20,200
be stupid and not, you know, ever able to achieve things.

694
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:24,200
And now we can help him understand, well, what kind of learning helps?

695
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:25,760
What preference do you have for learning?

696
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:27,120
How do you prefer to learn?

697
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:28,760
And I already know about Axel.

698
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:32,600
He likes to move movements, his language of learning.

699
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:36,440
So let's get this kid moving and let's not put him in a traditional classroom.

700
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:37,440
Because he won't thrive.

701
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:41,680
He needs to do something that is out of the box because that's how he's going to find

702
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:43,040
his true potential.

703
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:47,000
So that's just something that we want to make sure you all understand is that we're, we're

704
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all about options and hope.

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And then when it comes to the visual system, learners, this is a really interesting one

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and also the way to check if you're left or right eye dominant, by the way, is also to

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just kind of imagine that you're looking at something, you're looking at the gossip,

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you're not listening to it at this time, but it's kind of far away.

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And so which eye do you go to cover?

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If you really want to focus on, on what you do, if I tell you to cover one eye to be able

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to really focus on something you're seeing, which one do you cover?

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And so the one that's uncovered is your dominant eye.

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And this is just a tiny little tidbit and then we'll, we'll end the episode.

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Learners with left eye dominance will initially want to look at the right side of the page

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first and then move to the left.

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So in the Western world where we read from left to right, this makes it just that much

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harder because the dominant eye is the one that sets the stage for reading.

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Even though of course they're both teaming or what ideally they're both teaming, they're

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both looking at the same spot.

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The one that's leading it is the dominant eye.

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And so if the reflexes are getting in the way as well, that's just extra work for the

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eyes.

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So if you're somebody with the left eye dominance, just take that into account as well as like

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a little bit extra stuff that's going on in your brain that might be making it a little

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bit harder.

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Yeah.

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And so that's what this is all about.

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So you can look at it as there's just more to it.

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There's more to the story.

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And when, you know, you go get a diagnosis and they tell you have dyslexia, you just

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go, Oh, okay, this means that there's reflexes on that means that I can go integrate them.

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That means I have a different dominance profile and I need to take information in differently.

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And it's just the more, you know, about you, you can help navigate and make your life just

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so much easier.

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So much easier.

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And that's what we're here to do it in the cortex.

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Which is normalize all of this and help you understand that there's simple, simple movements.

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There are simple movements you can do daily that my four year old does alongside me.

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So they're simple.

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We have 90 year olds that are doing it and you do it daily and then your brain's like,

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okay, cool.

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Now I know I can see the world for what it is versus distorting it and tweaking it and

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making everything skewed.

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So if you have questions about anything we talked about today, please send us an email

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at hello it in the cortex.com.

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We have a super amazing program coming out April 1st with Dr. Greer Kirschenbaum and

747
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she is a neuroscientist in a doula and we're doing a parenting program with her and it's

748
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going to be rather amazing.

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So please sign up and we have a special logo for that.

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So stay tuned for that.

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Oh yeah.

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Buy one get one.

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So do it with a friend.

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Bring in the accountability and the excitement and motivation that comes with doing something

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together with your friend.

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It's for your own sake, it's for your family's sake and for your kids' sake whether you

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have them or not yet.

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Which is the case for me of course.

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And are we going to do it again?

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Let's just talk about our social media shall we?

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There we go.

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Our social media in the cortex underscore us is the Instagram the gram for all the baddies

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out there who like to abbreviate in underscore the underscore cortex.

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That's our tick tock.

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And the cortex underscore us is also our FB or our Facebook and our YouTube channel is

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in the cortex underscore us as well.

767
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:03,360
I believe I don't actually know that right now.

768
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Yes it is.

769
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Okay.

770
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And website in the cortex.com and just always reach out.

771
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We're super excited for the program.

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Make sure you secure your spot for the program before March 29 because we there's going to

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be a lot of stuff to like look over.

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So we want you to have some time before we get started.

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And that's really when we're closing off the the signups.

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Of course if you have extenuating circumstances and you messages afterward we'll see what

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we can do but we really want to get everybody in there so that on April 1st Monday, April

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1st we're starting with everybody and it's going to be just the coolest thing ever.

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So yeah.

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And please share and subscribe and tell your friends.

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Read it and read it and let everybody know that life can get easier.

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Yes, it's that simple.

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You just have to do some movements and then all of a sudden your life just gets easier

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and we live this and we just want the world to know about this because we see so many

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people that are feeling challenges and these are tools that will help you get further along

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on your journey to really just really enjoy this experience of being human.

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Right.

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So it's all about sharing with all your friends.

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Thank you all for listening.

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We appreciate you and you have an amazing rest of your week.

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Thank you.

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Bye.

