Hi guys, welcome to episode 5 of the Almost Living
Podcast. I am your host, Kaylyn. Welcome back,
or welcome. Hi, how's everyone doing today? I'm
having an alright day. I am off work, which is
cool. I woke up early, I deep cleaned my room.
I did a bit of reading. I ate and now I'm doing
this. Chillin, vibing. Yeah. I don't know. I
don't know. It's just been an interesting time.
I mean, for one, the weather has violently shifted.
It was summer, bitch, now it's winter. Fuck fall.
It is winter now. So fucking cold. So that's
been an adjustment for sure. I have this right
here. If you're watching the video, you see this
like white thing that's next to me. This is a
portable AC that my dad got for me this summer
because I was complaining to him about how terrible
the heat wave was and so he very kindly sent
me this and it saved my life um when it was so
fucking hot y 'all oh my god i don't miss that
at all i don't miss that at all like waking up
like waking up i remember one time this was during
the heat wave i woke up at like 5 a .m genuinely
because it was just so hot like my body just
woke me up because i i just could not continue
sleeping like i think my body literally woke
me up because it was like bitch you're going
to die like wherever you are you have to get
up and get out because you're going to die i
woke up at 5 a .m so fucking hot pissed off angry
i got out of bed i went to my kitchen oh my god
i'm like mentally like going like putting myself
back in that space like The air was just so thick.
It was so hot. Like, you felt like you were choking
on the air around you. It was just fucking terrible.
But I literally got up and stuck my head in the
freezer. Because it was so terrible. Say I'll
have to say, this is my portable AC that I no
longer need because it is so fucking cold. So
I need to figure out, like, what to do with this
and where to store it. It's really fucking heavy.
True. True. As well. That's... That's the thing.
I don't know. I don't know. I would guess and
say that this is at least 50 pounds. And it's
really big and bulky. So I'm just like, I don't
know where the fuck I'm going to put this shit.
And it's like it's attached to like there's like
a hose and it like attaches to my window. I don't
know. I have to like figure that out. But yeah,
it's cold now. Halloween is right around the
corner. I've been planning um very much started
like actually like thinking about halloween costumes
like maybe a week ago um because every year i'm
like i'm gonna plan months in advance and i'm
gonna be and then it just never happens um because
i have ad and i cannot do anything or plan for
anything so yeah i've recently started doing
that um One of my costumes is gonna be the black
swan So that's really exciting and I need to
rewatch that movie because I genuinely don't
think I've seen it Since I watched it for the
first time when I was like nine years old. So
Yeah, but I went to this vintage store Maybe
like a week ago now Near like 14th Street and
I got this gorgeous black tutu with this like
beautiful long train and then I got black wings
and the only thing left that I need for that
costume is a tiara um which I wasn't able to
get at that time because they didn't have any
but they said that they should be getting some
soon so yeah that's gonna be one of the costumes
I definitely want like two or three um I just
really hope everything falls into place because
I am broke right now I Have just been spending
money willy -nilly and just kind of like Every
day just getting a sweet treat and getting like
food and getting like weed and just getting everything
and just not really caring about like my financial
standing in this world Mmm, so I'm definitely
like stressed about that but like trying to just
pretend like That's not something that's currently
happening and it's like everything for Halloween
is 50 million dollars So yeah, that's gonna be
really exciting when Halloween is here and then
I have to pay rent and then I just like literally
have no money to my name and I Just I like cannot
think about it because I'm gonna get so stressed
out, but it's just like I I have so many things
that I would like to do and like to purchase.
Like, I would love a new microphone. I would
love a microphone that doesn't sound like absolute
dog shit, because that's really frustrating.
It's really frustrating for me, listening back,
hearing my videos and just being like, yeah,
this sounds like fucking shit. And it's like...
As far as editing goes, kind of hard for me to
do that, because again, I don't have a computer,
I just have my phone, so I would love a computer,
but then that's hundreds of dollars. So I'm just
in full belief that money is going to come to
me, a lot of it, soon. I'm just gonna put it
in the universe's hands because I don't have
the bandwidth to deal with that right now. But
yeah, hope you guys are doing good. Hope you're
doing well. I am undergoing extreme life changes
as I always am just really trying to like get
my shit together, like get on my fucking zoom,
like get productive, like Just doing it all Hopefully
after I film this I'm really really want to make
something and I think I should make something
I think it'll be good I want to either sculpt
or like paper mache looks so fun, but I kind
of have to go get shit for that like I have one
thing of clay but Why does everything cost I'm
just really stressed And I'm also like trying
not to smoke and so it's just been hard and I'm
just agitated But yeah, let's just get into it.
Let's get into the topics for the week Also,
yeah, this episode is late So Acknowledging that
um, it's been a week. Okay, let's get into it.
So This week I have a lot of like pop culture
stuff to talk about which is like honestly, I'm
not even that interested in it, but I sometimes
just feel like Like yeah, I didn't have any I
Don't know. I there are just pop culture things
that have been happening where I'm like I feel
like I should talk about it Like I don't know.
Maybe someone cares But also a lot of this stuff
is just kind of like old and washed up and by
like old and washed up I mean, it's like two
at least two weeks old which like on the internet
is like girl wrap it up. We don't care anymore
But let's talk about Ned Fuller. Ned Fuller?
Ned Fuller? Fuller? I wrote Fuller, but I don't
know why I thought it was Fuller. I Don't know
and I obviously you guys I don't I'm not I didn't
do any research here. So Ned we'll address them
as such. Um He Ned Fulmer Fuller, whatever the
fuck was one of the try guys If you guys were
ever into BuzzFeed I feel like BuzzFeed kind
of ran the two that the 2010s like Internet like
pop culture like BuzzFeed was that girl. I used
to love BuzzFeed. Um I, like, wanted to work
there. I was like, this looks so fun! Like, it's
all these, like, young adults, like, working,
you know, whatever. I don't know. Um, Ned Fulmer
was one of the Try Guys. They were just a group
of dudes who would make videos together, whatever.
Ned was the least interesting one. Um, I feel
like that was always kind of the shared opinion.
Um, he, like, Yeah, all the other Try Guys had
their own thing and were interesting in their
own way. Ned was never interesting. He was a
nothing burger of a person. The only thing that
was interesting about him and what he always
was talking about, which is what makes this situation
so sinister, was his wife. He was always talking
about his wife. Oh, I love my wife. I'm so excited
to go home and be with my wife. Oh, my wife would
love this. Oh, my wife, my wife. He was always
talking about his wife. And then he cheated on
her. They had a cheating scandal. It was massive.
This happened, I think, two or three years ago
where Ned not only cheated on her and had a full
blown affair, but it was with his employee. Yeah,
I think she was the head of Some sort of each
all I don't know guys as you I didn't look I
I don't know um It's like I remember all of this
unraveling when it did but when it was happening
I didn't really care that much like I At that
point wasn't really tuning into BuzzFeed I just
heard about it, and I was like oh shit. That's
crazy and I remember like the other try guys
coming out with like their apology or their,
like, statement and whatever, but I was not as
blocked in as I feel like other people were.
But, um, yeah. Ned had an affair with his employee
who was also married, so it's like, damn, both
of y 'all some cheatin' ass, good -for -nothing
ass people. Um, and yeah. Kind of, like, broke
the internet, whatever. Fast forward to present
day. Ned came out with a podcast that I guess
is specifically for chatting with people who
have made some sort of mistake or who have done
something they're like, I don't fucking know.
First episode, he had his ex wife, Ariel. I think
that's her name. I think that's her name. He
had her on. and he just wanted to talk about
the scandal which is so hilarious like that's
just so funny as a concept like to just have
your ex -wife that you cheated on on your podcast
about like people be like I don't even know but
like that's just crazy I did not watch the full
video I very much skimmed through it um and have
just seen clips and seen people um reacting and
whatnot but yeah net is crazy and he's definitely
he definitely lacks something emotionally in
him because he was so removed In the interview
it was very very sick and very sinister like
Ariel sitting here like full of emotion like
crying talking about just like how hard it was
for you know The love of her life someone she's
been with for a decade who she's married to has
kids with etc how hard it is for that person
to fully betray her trust and I mean completely
fuck up her ability and her bandwidth to trust
any future person in her life. She's talking
about how hard that is and Ned is just sitting
there with like no expression on his face taking
not an ounce of accountability and just being
so demented. Like at one point she was talking
about how hard it was to not only deal with the
cheating but dealing with the aftermath of like
society and like people Pointing the finger at
her and being like girl. What did you do? Like
what did you do to make him cheat on you? She's
talking about how hard that is and Ned literally
goes And this is not verbatim I should have written
the quote down I did it but basically something
along the lines of this is how he responds he
goes Yeah, I'm sorry that that society Does that
I'm sorry that society Okay, yeah, um Okay So
that's insane. Um Maybe instead of trying to
apologize for society, which obviously you can't
apologize for society Maybe just apologize for
what you did and say sorry for completely fucking
over your wife and lying to her over the course
of however long it was. Just apologize for what
you did. Just say that. Apologize for you cheating
on her, which subsequently caused her to have
to face backlash from quote unquote society.
Instead of just completely dodging any responsibility
any um accountability just just literally going
i'm so sorry that society did that to you no
you should be sorry that you cheated and i just
i wanted to talk about this because i also saw
i saw this tiktok recently and i again should
have written down the creator's name But I didn't
think that far ahead. He's a TikTok creator that
I don't know. I don't really know. I guess he
just like gives his takes. Like, I don't really
know what else he does. Black creator. Like,
I literally don't know. Just he's a black guy
who talks. That's all I got for you. But I saw
a TikTok of his recently where I really just
did not agree with it. And it was him being like...
guys you might not agree with this but he was
talking about cheating and he was like he was
like i think we make cheating out to be so much
worse than it is and he was like guys cheating
isn't illegal it's not it's not a criminal offense
to cheat and he was basically like you know if
i if i have a friend who cheats on someone like
That has nothing to do with me. Like I don't
need to stop being friends with them because
they're cheating. Sometimes like people cheat
and make people make mistakes. Sometimes people
just make mistakes. Like I don't think it makes
you a bad person. And I think this this intensity,
I guess, in which we like treat people who cheat
is like wrong, whatever, whatever, whatever.
Interesting hot take like hot. take. I feel like
I have never heard anyone with that or I've never
heard anyone say those words out loud. Those
words have never graced my ears ever. I was like,
wow, period. That's so interesting. Like that's
just interesting. And it was a mixed kind of
thing in the comments. Some people were like,
Like a lot of like some some people were in agree
and some people were like, yeah And I might be
pulling this out of my ass But I feel like I
saw a person or two being like yeah the way we
treat Cheating or cheaters. It's it's um, I Don't
know it was something about like white not white
supremacy or just some sort of like I Don't know
people in the comments were getting really woke
with it and I was just like I don't subscribe
to this. I don't think I've talked about this
on the podcast, but I feel very strongly about
this. And I've never been cheated on. I have
never been in a relationship, okay? Let's start
there. For many reasons, which we can talk about
in the future, because I have a lot of thoughts
on dating and I feel like I've just had an interesting
go around because I, you know, a lot of people
start dating in high school. A lot of people
start dating in college and at that point have
had four or five relationships on the docket.
I have never been in a relationship. I very much
disagree with what that guy was talking about
on his TikTok. I think it's a really interesting
take. Yeah, I don't... personally give a fuck
that cheating is not illegal. i don't think anyone's
saying it's illegal. um there are a lot of things
that are not illegal that i don't think you should
do. um and yeah this this notion of like oh it's
a mistake and if i have a friend and they're
chi and that has nothing to do with me Oh, but
it actually kind of does though. It kind of actually
does. I don't understand how you could not like...
Firstly, and I don't want to spend the entire
podcast talking about this, but personally for
me, I think, I mean, cheating is not only like
obviously fucked up and I mean, you're lying.
You're just lying to someone either directly
Or you're inadvertently lying by keeping very
vital information from someone. So that's number
one. You're lying. You're also putting someone's
body in danger, right? If you're having sex with
your partner and then you decide to cheat on
them with someone else. Probably not. Maybe you're
using protection. Maybe you're not. If you're
not. then you are putting your partner at risk
because whatever this person has, you are exposing
your partner to that. If you're having sex with
your partner and then you're going and cheating
on them and then you're going back to your partner
and having sex with them. That is disgusting.
That is wrong. So there's that. There's lying
and then there's also putting people's health
and bodies at risk. There's also the third thing,
which To me, this isn't necessarily like a moral
fault, but it's just like, to be a cheater, to
cheat on someone, you're just a pussy. Let me
use another word, because let's not use female
genitalia to mean you're a coward. You are a
coward, and it's immature, and it's cowardly
to cheat, because if you're unhappy in a relationship,
For whatever reason, if you're not getting what
you need, if whatever, it doesn't matter. For
any reason, if you don't want to be in a relationship,
break up with the other person. I am so pro breaking
up and I don't think there is any situation where
cheating is a better option than just breaking
the fuck up with someone. Period. Period. Period.
And I'm not willing to argue on that. You are
a coward. Like, it is not fucking hard to be
a grown adult, to put your big boy fucking panties
on, and have a conversation and go, hey, I'm
not getting what I need from this relationship.
Let's break up. Period. End of statement. And
if you're thinking in your head, well, I don't
want to hurt them. I don't want to hurt their
feelings. That's going to crush them. Do you
think it's gonna crush them more or less for
you to break up with them rather than cheating
on them? Which one do you think is gonna hurt
more? Getting cheated on or getting broken up
with? Okay. So yeah, cheating is wrong. Cheating
is cowardly. And sure, you could say it's a mistake,
but... You could also say, I'm not comparing
cheating and killing someone. I'm not saying
those are the same thing. But you could say that,
oh, I killed this person, that was a mistake.
I don't give a fuck if it was a mistake. That
is completely irrelevant. It's like, I don't
think that really matters. I think cheating is
crazy. I think it's cowardly. Yeah. Think if
you're a cheater, you need to learn how to use
your fucking words and I do also think that if
you have a friend and like I said and thought
about it because I was like, what would I do?
Like if my best friend was cheating on their
partner He's my best friend I love him I'm thinking
about Nathan if you're if you're shout out Nathan,
I love you if Nathan was cheating on his partner
Like, first of all, like, if he cheated, like,
it also depends, like, if it's a one -time cheat
rather than a vert, like, if Nathan cheats on
his partner, I am not going to drop Nathan as
a friend. Because Nathan is my best friend, and
we go way back, and I really care about him.
But I, for sure, will definitely have a conversation
with him and be like, you shouldn't be doing
that. Don't cheat on your fucking partner. And
then if we had a conversation and he was still
cheating, like it would definitely, I don't know
if I would necessarily end a friendship, but
it would definitely be in the back of my mind
for sure. Because that's like loyalty goes across,
it's an across the board loyalty. If you're being
unloyal to your romantic partner, how the fuck
am I gonna be so stupid to think that you could
not be unloyal to me? That would be foolish.
And I've only had one friend who I know that
she cheated on her partner because she told me
about it. I'm not friends with her anymore, not
because of that, but for other reasons. But the
interesting thing about that friendship that
I'm thinking about is like, when she told me
she cheated on her partner, like it was something
where i was like she was my friend and she was
letting me know that i was like okay you know
like you're being real cool whatever like appreciate
you for just like being open and honest about
that but it was something where like i could
after she told me that i was like i could see
how you could cheat on someone because the way
that you operate in friendships you operate like
you don't give a fuck about how other people
feel which is why i stopped being friends with
old girl because again it wasn't Directly related
to her cheating on her partner, but it was the
way that she showed up in relationships that
Made me be like wait. Yeah, I can see how you're
a cheatin -ass hoe because you're very selfish
and You you want people when you want them and
you want what you can get out of people And then
as soon as they can't do that as soon as you're
bored you're on to the next thing You don't care
about how your actions affect people around you.
Like, it was themes that I was noticing and things
that I was getting frustrated with. Where I was
like, yeah, like you cheating on someone does
actually have an impact on how you show up in
the world. 100%. 100%. Yes. Yes So Yeah Again,
I said I was not gonna talk about this for a
long time I've already been talking for a minute,
but that's how I feel about you do I think about
it a lot and I I Hope and I pray and I can only
leave it up to the universe That no one in their
right fucking mind would ever get the funny idea
of being disloyal to me and going behind my back
and doing some shit like that because i'm just
gonna say it right now whoever wants to be funny
and wants to get the bright idea of doing some
shit behind my back and betraying me the people
in your life your friends your family your co
-workers They will all be mourning you. Go ahead
and tell your family right now. Tell them to
find their favorite picture of you and start
printing that shit out on t -shirts. Go ahead
right now, start printing the shirts. Start getting
balloons. Start getting all of that. because
anyone who decided to do some funny shit and
Cheat on me the people in your life will never
recover And I'm not being funny I'm being dead
ass like I Cannot even put into words how hard
how much I Would hurt someone if they decided
to fucking do that to me. I don't think it's
right. I don't think it's okay. I don't think
there's any explanation for it. And you know
why there's no explanation for it? Because if
you're not happy, or if you're not getting something,
break up! Break up, and then you can do whatever
the fuck you want to do! But to be so cowardly,
and to be so fucking selfish, and you want to
have your cake and you want to eat it too, where
you have a partner at home, and you decide that's
not enough. I want someone else. And I want my
partner at home. I don't fuck with that. I think
that's selfish. I think it's greedy, and I think
it's gluttonous. And anyone who ever wanted to
try that shit with me, enjoy, enjoy your last
hurrah. That she I hope it was worth it because
that's gonna be the last time you ever experienced
joy in your fucking life Period and we're moving
on So Taylor Swift came out with an album Um
Which I did not listen to and I will not be listening
to it. I had a little I had a thought for a second
where I was like was like I could listen to the
album and Like listen so that I can talk about
it in Length, but then I was like mmm Yeah, I
don't want to spend an hour listening to Taylor
Swift like I just don't not for free like genuinely
just not doing that so yeah not doing it, but
I Remember when I saw the cover art for this
most recent album I I didn't think it was real
like I remember seeing it months ago whenever
the life of a showgirl and I was like I was like
a fan must have made this or something because
I don't believe that Taylor would do such a thing
because Taylor Swift cannot be serious in calling
herself a showgirl like I was just like there's
no way this is for real But he was real and it
is a real album that exists in the world and
I have seen on TikTok like Taylor Swift fans
Like not fucking with it and like listening to
it real time and being like this is cringy and
this is like bad and it's like I guess it's good
that you guys are like waking up now, but like
this is how it's always sounded like this is
not new and like i hope that no one listening
or watching this is really into Taylor Swift
because i'm really sorry guys um i mean i've
talked i talk to my friends about this all the
time and like we're all very much in agreement
and like Taylor Swift is the to me just such
a glaring example of like white mediocrity. And
just a glaring example of how white people can
just be fully bad and fully untalented at what
they do and still get so much success and recognition
because Taylor Swift is one of the biggest artists
in the world. And She's just not doing it for
me. I just you because I remember Whenever whatever
her last album was that came out where she had
like, what was it? The tortured poet department
some shit. She had like 20 million versions because
she's a greedy billionaire I don't know. She's
a billionaire, but she's a greedy rich person
who Just cannot have enough money So she's like
I'm gonna do this version and this is the Taylor
version and this is the phone version And this
is the I'm in the car version. It's like we don't
need 10 million versions of the same thing But
she does it every time because she knows her
fans are gonna eat it up and buy everything but
I Remember when that last album came out people
were having conversations about Taylor Swift
and putting her in the same Putting her in the
same conversations of Michael Jackson and Beyonce
And I'm really sorry to burst your guys's bubble.
I'm really sorry to like rain on your parade,
but we're just unfortunately not gonna do that
I Will I refuse to entertain that notion Because
the crazy thing about it is like I I learned
this recently. I don't know. I don't honestly
know how old I thought Taylor Swift was, but
she's 35. So like, and I mean, she's been making
music for a really long time. So like her peers
in music are, it is Rihanna. It is Beyonce. It
is, you know, all these other artists that are
around her age and have been making music for
as long as her and are as successful as her.
Those are her musical peers. I'm sorry, Taylor
Swift is not at all anywhere near as talented,
as musically gifted, as Rihanna, as Beyonce,
and as sure as not fucking Michael Jackson. Guys,
stop. Stop. You're pissing me off. Okay? Get
real. Get real for literally one second. And
I'm not gonna act like I've never liked Taylor
Swift. When I was 12, girl, I loved it. She wears
short skirts, like, yes, of course. Like, I'm
not saying Taylor Swift hasn't made a good song.
That song, she did captain and I'm, like that
went triple platinum in middle school. yes of
course i was there it was great and like she's
had her moments like even um even bad blood like
was i listening to it no but i can recognize
the cultural impact of that song and of the music
video and of kendrick lamar and all that that
was cool it was cool but i'm not 12 anymore i'm
23 so I don't enjoy that anymore. It doesn't
speak to me. And it also never really spoke to
me because I mean, let's be honest here. All
of Taylor's music, all of her music is the same
and all of it is about Brad and about how he
fucked her over and Chad and about how he heard
her feelings and Max and Clay and and I don't
care. And I don't relate to that kind of music.
I don't really listen to music like that. I it
has to be a certain like even with I'm like even
with like SZA. SZA is very different from Taylor
Swift and I like SZA but sometimes I just cannot
listen to SZA because one I'm like okay the sad
girl shit gotta go because I love sad music like
like I said in a previous episode Lana Del Rey
is my favorite artist ever. She makes music for
sad people she makes sad music but it's like
if i'm gonna listen to sad music i'm gonna listen
to sad music about like anguish and agony and
pain and despair i don't want to listen to sad
music about like oh johnny made me sad because
he did this because again i don't relate to that
i've never been i don't relate to like music
about like boys like obviously i've had I've
had romantic interests and I've had experience,
whatever, but like I'm not gonna listen to music
about a girl complaining about the 50th man that
she's dated and about how he did her wrong. I
don't care. Cause I'm not a 13 year old girl.
That doesn't speak to me. I have like real life
issues and like real life things to stress about.
I don't give a fuck about Brad and Chad. Like
I don't care. So for me, that's why it's hard
for me to indulge in Taylor Swift's music because
I don't relate to that. I don't relate to that
struggle where like the biggest and the most
heart -wrenching thing that's happening in your
life is like whatever man you're talking to at
that point and like what he's doing to you and
how he's making you feel. I don't relate to that.
So I feel like that's all of Taylor Swift's music
and Yeah, it just hasn't evolved. That's the
thing. I'm sorry. I'm losing my train of thought,
but like it has not evolved. Thinking about the
fact that Taylor Swift is musical peers with
artists such as Rihanna and Beyonce, Taylor Swift
is not holding a fucking candle to these bitches.
She's not. Her recent works are not anywhere
near. Bitch, your shit isn't even holding a candle
up to fucking Auntie. From 10 years ago, Rihanna's
last shit from 10 years ago, Taylor Swift's current
shit is not comparing to. That's a problem. Don't
even get me started on Beyonce. We know no one
is fucking doing it like Beyonce, but especially
not Taylor Swift. Taylor Swift likes to like
market herself as some sort of like lyrical genius
and some sort of poet When her lyrics are very
basic it's like Very much something like I feel
like if I were listening in to like an English
class for seventh graders Like if we had a project
where like they all had to write a poem you would
be finding the shit that Taylor Swift writes
is shit that a 12 year old would write and and
think they would think it was profound and it
would be profound because it's like whoa you're
12 like you're pulling these thoughts out like
this is crazy but Taylor Swift's not 12 she's
35 so that's why it's a problem And I saw this
clip of Taylor, and I think this was from years
ago, I hope it was from years ago, where she
was talking about how, you know, I'm a writer
and I'm this and I'm that and I love lyrics and
I love, I love double meaning. And also she,
she just talks about her shit like it's so brilliant.
Like she'll have a line that maybe has two meanings
and she thinks it's the craziest thing in the
world. Meanwhile, girl rappers, Nicki Minaj.
Nicki Minaj in one line will have, she will say
one thing and it'll mean four different things.
Bitch, double entendre, that's like an afterthought.
You know what I'm saying? Like, she doesn't even
have to think about it. The way she writes is
just like, I'm gonna write this line and it's
gonna, it's gonna, like, you know what I'm saying?
Like, Taylor Swift thinks she's so profound for
writing lines that. kind of means something else.
Girl, that's how every artist writes. That's
how rappers write. You're not doing it like you
think you are. You're just not. But this clip
of Taylor Swift, she was in an interview. She
was like, yeah, I'm a writer. I like sonnets
and I like this. She was like, I would never
write a song that was like. Sorry. She was like,
I will never write a song that's like. I'm at
the club and dance, dance, dance. Yeah, I'm having
fun. First of all, Taylor, you would never write
a song like that because you don't go to the
club and you don't dance, dance, dance because
you're boring and you're not fun. That's why
you would never write a song like that. Let's
be very clear about that. Secondly, People people
were bringing up that clip and like relating
it to Charlie's brat album, which like yeah I
think this what I think this quote was from years
ago, but it does relate because also Taylor and
Charlie Loki beefing right now, but It does it
is just funny because it's like she's saying
that as a dig of like I would never make a song
That's like club club dance dance dance That
was all of brat that was the whole brat and obviously
not all of it That was a very big theme and that
was kind of the vibe of brat and brat had so
much commercial success It was also just an amazing
fucking album And Yeah, Taylor again, we're not
looking to you for Fun clubby dance music because
you're not fun You're not cool The 12 year old
girls who You know got their heart broken by
Timothy Because he decided to take another girl
to the to the middle school formal They are the
ones that are looking for a deep sonnet about
heartbreak and love That's what you Give to the
world. We're not looking for fun party music
from you. I Also think that's the really interesting
thing about Taylor and I'm sorry we've been talking
about her for a minute and we're probably gonna
have to close this very soon, but um Taylor Swift
I feel like she's so interesting because no matter
how Successful she is. Like I said, she's one
of the biggest artists No matter how big she
gets she will never be looked at as cool she
will never be cool and I feel like that really
Hurts her I don't know or maybe she doesn't think
about it but it hurts me to view because it's
just like, girl, with all the money and all of
the resources that you have, you should be serving.
You should be cool. You should be like doing
something, but all she knows how to do is throw
on a red lip and wear an outfit that like a middle
school science teacher would wear on her day
off. And just be basic Like she will never be
looked at as cool I Don't even know how she is
portrayed like she she's obviously recognized
as one of the biggest Artists in the world, but
people just kind of look at her Like I don't
know she's like the idol of like middle school
girls, which is like Not inherently bad, but
it's it's just not cool or it's not great. I
Don't know But I I don't like Taylor Swift at
all I don't like her music I Don't I think like
I'm just tired of hearing about her But I think
we need to like seriously be honest and I don't
I don't have anyone in my life. I don't think
who maybe some people like her I don't know anyone
who is really into her but if I Like I don't
think I could be friends with someone who their
favorite artist was Taylor Swift or Taylor Swift
was one of their favorite artists because truthfully
I don't trust your judgment. I don't trust you
as an individual and Again, I mean that's big
for like I gotta trust you And if Taylor Swift
is one of your favorite artists, then that shows
to me that you do not have good critical thinking
skills and your judgment is off. Period. Period.
And I don't care about her and Travis Kelce being
engaged. I don't understand why we're acting
like... This is important. Like, that's none
of my business. I don't care. I don't care. But
Taylor was taking shots allegedly at Charlie
in the new album, being like, oh, you called
me boring Barbie. I guess the coke's got you
brave. Bitch, shut up. Shut the fu - You will
never be Charlie. You will never have an ounce
of the aura and of the coolness that Charlie
has. Because that can't be bought. No matter
how much money Heather Swift has, no matter how,
no matter how many, you know, versions of her
album she releases. Girl, you can release 80
versions of the life of a show, girl, whatever
the fuck. You still will not be cool. Cannot
buy coolness. And that sucks. But do not disrespect
Charli. And then allegedly she was also Talking
about I guess Travis Kelsey used to only date
black women and she made She one of the songs
she was like, oh, I'm not a savage. I'm a bad
bit something Taylor Taylor let's not do this.
Okay Let's not even go there Let's not even go
there in other music news though bad bunny is
gonna be the headliner for the Super Bowl next
year, which is very, really exciting. I also
just learned, I don't think I was aware that
Jay Z, I don't think he makes, I don't think
he's the sole decision maker for who performs
for the Super Bowl, but he is on the panel. He's
one of the people that makes the decision. So
didn't know that. That's fucking crazy. Like
that's just wild. But he chose Bad Bunny, which
I think is really interesting because Bad Bunny
is on tour or like is about to start tour, right?
And he was excluding America because he was like,
I don't want for ICE to be, you know, deporting
people outside of my shows. Like, I don't want
to make it unsafe for my fans, whatever, whatever,
which is so real. And I love that he did that,
honestly, because it's like... Yeah. We don't
deserve that. We don't. And I think it's good
if you're, you know, making it safe for your
fans, a lot of which are... That doesn't sound
right. But a lot of Bad Bunny fans are Hispanic.
And so very much makes sense that he would not
want to put his fans in an uncomfortable situation.
so which is why I find it interesting that he
is gonna be headlining for the Super Bowl because
to me the Super Bowl is like the most American
it's like the biggest American thing like what
else is there like big things like that like
I don't know I mean there's we have like Coachella
but like Super Bowl the Super Bowl is massive
it's like one of the most watched programs ever,
and it's so American. So I love that he's gonna
be headlining and just be performing his music
that is all in Spanish, but it's also like...
Yeah, I don't know. It was seeming like he was
standing on business about like not being in
America right now, but then he's gonna be in
America for like... the biggest American program
ever. So I don't know. I mean, it'll be interesting.
I'm very excited to see his performance. I really
enjoy Bad Bunny. I have a good amount of his
music liked. I really liked his most recent album.
I thought it was beautiful. Do I speak Spanish?
No, I don't. I know a little bit. I do like I've
looked into the lyrics of like his music that
I listen to. And yeah, I think it's great. And
I think it's gonna just be really interesting
to see how people feel about that but um yeah
because i feel like you can't really make a crazy
statement on the super bowl like you can because
even kendrick lamar like kendrick lamar is very
it seems like radical he's very like he's always
been very um What am I trying to say he criticizes
America a lot But it feels like with the last
Super Bowl like he I Don't know like it was still
a lot of symbolism that almost seemed like Patriotic
in a way and I feel like you can't really go
too much against the grade because this is the
Super Bowl This is one of the most Viewed programs
Every year and so it's just like they're they're
not gonna allow you to like say some off -the
-wall shit. So I Don't know. We'll see. Um We
will see and then lastly Hardy B and Nicki Minaj
beefing again Again, I have not really looked
into this. I honestly don't really care. It's
just like disappointing more so from Nikki from
Nikki's side. And, I mean, we can talk about
this at a later date. I have a lot of thoughts
on Nicki Minaj. I mean, like, she raised me.
Like, very much raised me. My older sibling was
really, really into Nicki. And, I mean, yeah.
Nikki is the queen of rap. She paved the way
for other women to rap. and be successful. And
I think Nicki Minaj was at one point really great.
And over time, she's kind of just lost her sparkle
in the sense that she's just been very combative
and very unhappy and very very aggressive towards
other, towards newer female rappers who are trying
to do exactly what she did 15 years ago. They're
trying to make away from themselves. They're
trying to say whatever they have to say, whatever.
Nicki has been so like just beefing with these
new girls. And I'm like, you don't, it's just
weird. Cause it's just like, you don't have to
do this. Like you don't have to, you don't have
to like, She still argues with people and is
so aggressive as if she still has something to
prove. You don't have anything to prove. You've
done it. I sometimes just wish she would just
sit and just chill. I don't know. Just don't
be doing the fucking most. But her and Cardi
were just going back and forth and like, I'm
not on Twitter right now. I haven't been for
a very long time. But just saying some crazy
shit like, Nicki called. culture, Cardi B's daughter,
ugly, basically called her like a roach, like
roach something, creatures, animals, was just
calling her anything, which is like, girl, I
don't think we need to be bringing children into
this. Like, I don't think that's okay. It's crazy
to say that about someone else's young child
when you yourself have a young kid. And then
Cardi went back and was like, oh, you know, your
son is nonverbal because so and so, and it just
got really, really dark. And I don't really know,
but it's like, y 'all, it makes me so sad because
it's just like, Nikki and Cardi could be such
a, not necessarily a duo, but they could really
do something with their talents combined together.
And I mean, Cardi B's definitely not rapping
on the level that Nicki Minaj is or was, but
I think Cardi's talented. I think she has, you
know, I like Cardi's music. I think she has a
fun vibe. They could be so successful doing things
together, but instead, instead we're at war with
one another, like literally just saying the most
heinous shit. So that was wild. That was wild
and it was sad and I was like... oh my god this
is getting crazy the girls are fighting like
that's what it is like the girls are just fighting
right now everyone's beefing taylor charlie nicky
cardi apparently jt and santana which i don't
even care to talk about the girls are fighting
right now and it's stressing me out um but okay
i've been talking for long enough Sorry for talking
about like cheating for literally 20 minutes.
Hopefully this was interesting I'm going to get
on with the rest of my day Hope you guys enjoyed.
See you next week. Bye