WEBVTT 00:00:00.490 --> 00:00:03.310 Hi guys, welcome to episode 5 of the Almost Living 00:00:03.310 --> 00:00:07.410 Podcast. I am your host, Kaylyn. Welcome back, 00:00:07.629 --> 00:00:15.189 or welcome. Hi, how's everyone doing today? I'm 00:00:15.189 --> 00:00:18.230 having an alright day. I am off work, which is 00:00:18.230 --> 00:00:23.050 cool. I woke up early, I deep cleaned my room. 00:00:24.089 --> 00:00:30.809 I did a bit of reading. I ate and now I'm doing 00:00:30.809 --> 00:00:44.409 this. Chillin, vibing. Yeah. I don't know. I 00:00:44.409 --> 00:00:48.909 don't know. It's just been an interesting time. 00:00:49.030 --> 00:00:52.689 I mean, for one, the weather has violently shifted. 00:00:53.490 --> 00:00:56.719 It was summer, bitch, now it's winter. Fuck fall. 00:00:56.840 --> 00:01:04.579 It is winter now. So fucking cold. So that's 00:01:04.579 --> 00:01:08.359 been an adjustment for sure. I have this right 00:01:08.359 --> 00:01:10.620 here. If you're watching the video, you see this 00:01:10.620 --> 00:01:13.859 like white thing that's next to me. This is a 00:01:13.859 --> 00:01:19.260 portable AC that my dad got for me this summer 00:01:19.260 --> 00:01:23.060 because I was complaining to him about how terrible 00:01:23.060 --> 00:01:27.200 the heat wave was and so he very kindly sent 00:01:27.200 --> 00:01:31.400 me this and it saved my life um when it was so 00:01:31.400 --> 00:01:34.540 fucking hot y 'all oh my god i don't miss that 00:01:34.540 --> 00:01:40.540 at all i don't miss that at all like waking up 00:01:40.540 --> 00:01:47.260 like waking up i remember one time this was during 00:01:47.260 --> 00:01:50.900 the heat wave i woke up at like 5 a .m genuinely 00:01:50.900 --> 00:01:53.939 because it was just so hot like my body just 00:01:53.939 --> 00:01:56.459 woke me up because i i just could not continue 00:01:56.459 --> 00:01:59.099 sleeping like i think my body literally woke 00:01:59.099 --> 00:02:00.980 me up because it was like bitch you're going 00:02:00.980 --> 00:02:04.599 to die like wherever you are you have to get 00:02:04.599 --> 00:02:07.659 up and get out because you're going to die i 00:02:07.659 --> 00:02:12.500 woke up at 5 a .m so fucking hot pissed off angry 00:02:12.500 --> 00:02:17.199 i got out of bed i went to my kitchen oh my god 00:02:17.199 --> 00:02:20.840 i'm like mentally like going like putting myself 00:02:20.840 --> 00:02:25.699 back in that space like The air was just so thick. 00:02:25.759 --> 00:02:29.460 It was so hot. Like, you felt like you were choking 00:02:29.460 --> 00:02:33.860 on the air around you. It was just fucking terrible. 00:02:33.900 --> 00:02:35.800 But I literally got up and stuck my head in the 00:02:35.800 --> 00:02:39.419 freezer. Because it was so terrible. Say I'll 00:02:39.419 --> 00:02:41.860 have to say, this is my portable AC that I no 00:02:41.860 --> 00:02:45.020 longer need because it is so fucking cold. So 00:02:45.020 --> 00:02:47.979 I need to figure out, like, what to do with this 00:02:47.979 --> 00:02:50.460 and where to store it. It's really fucking heavy. 00:02:51.379 --> 00:02:53.759 True. True. As well. That's... That's the thing. 00:02:53.819 --> 00:02:59.180 I don't know. I don't know. I would guess and 00:02:59.180 --> 00:03:03.699 say that this is at least 50 pounds. And it's 00:03:03.699 --> 00:03:05.599 really big and bulky. So I'm just like, I don't 00:03:05.599 --> 00:03:08.460 know where the fuck I'm going to put this shit. 00:03:08.500 --> 00:03:10.759 And it's like it's attached to like there's like 00:03:10.759 --> 00:03:13.120 a hose and it like attaches to my window. I don't 00:03:13.120 --> 00:03:16.979 know. I have to like figure that out. But yeah, 00:03:16.979 --> 00:03:20.120 it's cold now. Halloween is right around the 00:03:20.120 --> 00:03:25.740 corner. I've been planning um very much started 00:03:25.740 --> 00:03:29.199 like actually like thinking about halloween costumes 00:03:29.199 --> 00:03:32.780 like maybe a week ago um because every year i'm 00:03:32.780 --> 00:03:36.800 like i'm gonna plan months in advance and i'm 00:03:36.800 --> 00:03:40.639 gonna be and then it just never happens um because 00:03:40.639 --> 00:03:45.000 i have ad and i cannot do anything or plan for 00:03:45.000 --> 00:03:48.060 anything so yeah i've recently started doing 00:03:48.060 --> 00:03:52.800 that um One of my costumes is gonna be the black 00:03:52.800 --> 00:03:57.919 swan So that's really exciting and I need to 00:03:57.919 --> 00:04:00.319 rewatch that movie because I genuinely don't 00:04:00.319 --> 00:04:03.180 think I've seen it Since I watched it for the 00:04:03.180 --> 00:04:05.520 first time when I was like nine years old. So 00:04:05.520 --> 00:04:09.340 Yeah, but I went to this vintage store Maybe 00:04:09.340 --> 00:04:14.180 like a week ago now Near like 14th Street and 00:04:14.180 --> 00:04:18.439 I got this gorgeous black tutu with this like 00:04:18.439 --> 00:04:21.540 beautiful long train and then I got black wings 00:04:21.540 --> 00:04:24.779 and the only thing left that I need for that 00:04:24.779 --> 00:04:27.860 costume is a tiara um which I wasn't able to 00:04:27.860 --> 00:04:29.439 get at that time because they didn't have any 00:04:29.439 --> 00:04:31.279 but they said that they should be getting some 00:04:31.279 --> 00:04:36.699 soon so yeah that's gonna be one of the costumes 00:04:36.699 --> 00:04:41.379 I definitely want like two or three um I just 00:04:41.379 --> 00:04:44.980 really hope everything falls into place because 00:04:44.980 --> 00:04:50.959 I am broke right now I Have just been spending 00:04:50.959 --> 00:04:54.980 money willy -nilly and just kind of like Every 00:04:54.980 --> 00:04:57.579 day just getting a sweet treat and getting like 00:04:57.579 --> 00:05:01.800 food and getting like weed and just getting everything 00:05:01.800 --> 00:05:06.379 and just not really caring about like my financial 00:05:06.379 --> 00:05:11.079 standing in this world Mmm, so I'm definitely 00:05:11.079 --> 00:05:13.600 like stressed about that but like trying to just 00:05:13.600 --> 00:05:16.439 pretend like That's not something that's currently 00:05:16.439 --> 00:05:18.579 happening and it's like everything for Halloween 00:05:18.579 --> 00:05:23.360 is 50 million dollars So yeah, that's gonna be 00:05:23.360 --> 00:05:25.980 really exciting when Halloween is here and then 00:05:25.980 --> 00:05:28.220 I have to pay rent and then I just like literally 00:05:28.220 --> 00:05:34.000 have no money to my name and I Just I like cannot 00:05:34.000 --> 00:05:35.399 think about it because I'm gonna get so stressed 00:05:35.399 --> 00:05:39.689 out, but it's just like I I have so many things 00:05:39.689 --> 00:05:42.930 that I would like to do and like to purchase. 00:05:43.430 --> 00:05:47.930 Like, I would love a new microphone. I would 00:05:47.930 --> 00:05:50.730 love a microphone that doesn't sound like absolute 00:05:50.730 --> 00:05:56.069 dog shit, because that's really frustrating. 00:05:56.209 --> 00:05:59.029 It's really frustrating for me, listening back, 00:05:59.230 --> 00:06:01.290 hearing my videos and just being like, yeah, 00:06:01.310 --> 00:06:04.250 this sounds like fucking shit. And it's like... 00:06:04.360 --> 00:06:11.019 As far as editing goes, kind of hard for me to 00:06:11.019 --> 00:06:13.000 do that, because again, I don't have a computer, 00:06:13.040 --> 00:06:15.519 I just have my phone, so I would love a computer, 00:06:15.620 --> 00:06:23.480 but then that's hundreds of dollars. So I'm just 00:06:23.480 --> 00:06:27.040 in full belief that money is going to come to 00:06:27.040 --> 00:06:33.129 me, a lot of it, soon. I'm just gonna put it 00:06:33.129 --> 00:06:36.769 in the universe's hands because I don't have 00:06:36.769 --> 00:06:43.129 the bandwidth to deal with that right now. But 00:06:43.129 --> 00:06:45.170 yeah, hope you guys are doing good. Hope you're 00:06:45.170 --> 00:06:49.790 doing well. I am undergoing extreme life changes 00:06:49.790 --> 00:06:52.910 as I always am just really trying to like get 00:06:52.910 --> 00:06:56.550 my shit together, like get on my fucking zoom, 00:06:56.949 --> 00:07:02.970 like get productive, like Just doing it all Hopefully 00:07:02.970 --> 00:07:06.050 after I film this I'm really really want to make 00:07:06.050 --> 00:07:08.790 something and I think I should make something 00:07:08.790 --> 00:07:12.730 I think it'll be good I want to either sculpt 00:07:12.730 --> 00:07:16.790 or like paper mache looks so fun, but I kind 00:07:16.790 --> 00:07:19.889 of have to go get shit for that like I have one 00:07:19.889 --> 00:07:25.709 thing of clay but Why does everything cost I'm 00:07:25.709 --> 00:07:30.209 just really stressed And I'm also like trying 00:07:30.209 --> 00:07:34.829 not to smoke and so it's just been hard and I'm 00:07:34.829 --> 00:07:39.110 just agitated But yeah, let's just get into it. 00:07:39.110 --> 00:07:42.029 Let's get into the topics for the week Also, 00:07:42.029 --> 00:07:49.410 yeah, this episode is late So Acknowledging that 00:07:49.410 --> 00:07:53.610 um, it's been a week. Okay, let's get into it. 00:07:53.730 --> 00:07:56.550 So This week I have a lot of like pop culture 00:07:56.550 --> 00:08:00.029 stuff to talk about which is like honestly, I'm 00:08:00.029 --> 00:08:02.230 not even that interested in it, but I sometimes 00:08:02.230 --> 00:08:10.470 just feel like Like yeah, I didn't have any I 00:08:10.470 --> 00:08:12.870 Don't know. I there are just pop culture things 00:08:12.870 --> 00:08:14.970 that have been happening where I'm like I feel 00:08:14.970 --> 00:08:16.790 like I should talk about it Like I don't know. 00:08:16.910 --> 00:08:21.500 Maybe someone cares But also a lot of this stuff 00:08:21.500 --> 00:08:23.720 is just kind of like old and washed up and by 00:08:23.720 --> 00:08:26.899 like old and washed up I mean, it's like two 00:08:26.899 --> 00:08:29.800 at least two weeks old which like on the internet 00:08:29.800 --> 00:08:32.559 is like girl wrap it up. We don't care anymore 00:08:32.559 --> 00:08:38.200 But let's talk about Ned Fuller. Ned Fuller? 00:08:39.480 --> 00:08:44.879 Ned Fuller? Fuller? I wrote Fuller, but I don't 00:08:44.879 --> 00:08:47.919 know why I thought it was Fuller. I Don't know 00:08:47.919 --> 00:08:50.940 and I obviously you guys I don't I'm not I didn't 00:08:50.940 --> 00:08:54.840 do any research here. So Ned we'll address them 00:08:54.840 --> 00:08:59.639 as such. Um He Ned Fulmer Fuller, whatever the 00:08:59.639 --> 00:09:03.139 fuck was one of the try guys If you guys were 00:09:03.139 --> 00:09:06.299 ever into BuzzFeed I feel like BuzzFeed kind 00:09:06.299 --> 00:09:11.440 of ran the two that the 2010s like Internet like 00:09:11.440 --> 00:09:15.200 pop culture like BuzzFeed was that girl. I used 00:09:15.200 --> 00:09:19.049 to love BuzzFeed. Um I, like, wanted to work 00:09:19.049 --> 00:09:22.929 there. I was like, this looks so fun! Like, it's 00:09:22.929 --> 00:09:25.629 all these, like, young adults, like, working, 00:09:25.730 --> 00:09:28.429 you know, whatever. I don't know. Um, Ned Fulmer 00:09:28.429 --> 00:09:30.870 was one of the Try Guys. They were just a group 00:09:30.870 --> 00:09:34.289 of dudes who would make videos together, whatever. 00:09:35.009 --> 00:09:40.049 Ned was the least interesting one. Um, I feel 00:09:40.049 --> 00:09:42.889 like that was always kind of the shared opinion. 00:09:43.490 --> 00:09:49.159 Um, he, like, Yeah, all the other Try Guys had 00:09:49.159 --> 00:09:50.759 their own thing and were interesting in their 00:09:50.759 --> 00:09:54.980 own way. Ned was never interesting. He was a 00:09:54.980 --> 00:09:58.000 nothing burger of a person. The only thing that 00:09:58.000 --> 00:10:00.139 was interesting about him and what he always 00:10:00.139 --> 00:10:02.799 was talking about, which is what makes this situation 00:10:02.799 --> 00:10:06.279 so sinister, was his wife. He was always talking 00:10:06.279 --> 00:10:09.600 about his wife. Oh, I love my wife. I'm so excited 00:10:09.600 --> 00:10:11.820 to go home and be with my wife. Oh, my wife would 00:10:11.820 --> 00:10:15.610 love this. Oh, my wife, my wife. He was always 00:10:15.610 --> 00:10:22.669 talking about his wife. And then he cheated on 00:10:22.669 --> 00:10:25.590 her. They had a cheating scandal. It was massive. 00:10:26.710 --> 00:10:30.690 This happened, I think, two or three years ago 00:10:30.690 --> 00:10:35.730 where Ned not only cheated on her and had a full 00:10:35.730 --> 00:10:41.509 blown affair, but it was with his employee. Yeah, 00:10:41.750 --> 00:10:45.919 I think she was the head of Some sort of each 00:10:45.919 --> 00:10:48.580 all I don't know guys as you I didn't look I 00:10:48.580 --> 00:10:52.899 I don't know um It's like I remember all of this 00:10:52.899 --> 00:10:57.179 unraveling when it did but when it was happening 00:10:57.179 --> 00:11:00.919 I didn't really care that much like I At that 00:11:00.919 --> 00:11:04.820 point wasn't really tuning into BuzzFeed I just 00:11:04.820 --> 00:11:06.460 heard about it, and I was like oh shit. That's 00:11:06.460 --> 00:11:09.879 crazy and I remember like the other try guys 00:11:09.879 --> 00:11:12.259 coming out with like their apology or their, 00:11:12.259 --> 00:11:15.600 like, statement and whatever, but I was not as 00:11:15.600 --> 00:11:17.559 blocked in as I feel like other people were. 00:11:18.159 --> 00:11:23.360 But, um, yeah. Ned had an affair with his employee 00:11:23.360 --> 00:11:26.620 who was also married, so it's like, damn, both 00:11:26.620 --> 00:11:29.620 of y 'all some cheatin' ass, good -for -nothing 00:11:29.620 --> 00:11:35.919 ass people. Um, and yeah. Kind of, like, broke 00:11:35.919 --> 00:11:39.899 the internet, whatever. Fast forward to present 00:11:39.899 --> 00:11:44.980 day. Ned came out with a podcast that I guess 00:11:44.980 --> 00:11:51.419 is specifically for chatting with people who 00:11:51.419 --> 00:11:54.460 have made some sort of mistake or who have done 00:11:54.460 --> 00:11:56.440 something they're like, I don't fucking know. 00:11:56.779 --> 00:12:03.440 First episode, he had his ex wife, Ariel. I think 00:12:03.440 --> 00:12:08.259 that's her name. I think that's her name. He 00:12:08.259 --> 00:12:14.360 had her on. and he just wanted to talk about 00:12:14.360 --> 00:12:18.860 the scandal which is so hilarious like that's 00:12:18.860 --> 00:12:24.019 just so funny as a concept like to just have 00:12:24.019 --> 00:12:27.740 your ex -wife that you cheated on on your podcast 00:12:27.740 --> 00:12:31.059 about like people be like I don't even know but 00:12:31.059 --> 00:12:35.399 like that's just crazy I did not watch the full 00:12:35.399 --> 00:12:38.929 video I very much skimmed through it um and have 00:12:38.929 --> 00:12:43.090 just seen clips and seen people um reacting and 00:12:43.090 --> 00:12:55.850 whatnot but yeah net is crazy and he's definitely 00:12:55.850 --> 00:13:00.190 he definitely lacks something emotionally in 00:13:00.190 --> 00:13:06.789 him because he was so removed In the interview 00:13:06.789 --> 00:13:11.029 it was very very sick and very sinister like 00:13:11.029 --> 00:13:13.330 Ariel sitting here like full of emotion like 00:13:13.330 --> 00:13:16.429 crying talking about just like how hard it was 00:13:16.429 --> 00:13:18.529 for you know The love of her life someone she's 00:13:18.529 --> 00:13:21.490 been with for a decade who she's married to has 00:13:21.490 --> 00:13:25.129 kids with etc how hard it is for that person 00:13:25.129 --> 00:13:30.610 to fully betray her trust and I mean completely 00:13:30.610 --> 00:13:33.490 fuck up her ability and her bandwidth to trust 00:13:33.629 --> 00:13:37.330 any future person in her life. She's talking 00:13:37.330 --> 00:13:39.789 about how hard that is and Ned is just sitting 00:13:39.789 --> 00:13:44.789 there with like no expression on his face taking 00:13:44.789 --> 00:13:48.990 not an ounce of accountability and just being 00:13:48.990 --> 00:13:51.269 so demented. Like at one point she was talking 00:13:51.269 --> 00:13:54.210 about how hard it was to not only deal with the 00:13:54.210 --> 00:13:58.590 cheating but dealing with the aftermath of like 00:13:58.590 --> 00:14:02.129 society and like people Pointing the finger at 00:14:02.129 --> 00:14:04.210 her and being like girl. What did you do? Like 00:14:04.210 --> 00:14:09.509 what did you do to make him cheat on you? She's 00:14:09.509 --> 00:14:13.330 talking about how hard that is and Ned literally 00:14:13.330 --> 00:14:18.350 goes And this is not verbatim I should have written 00:14:18.350 --> 00:14:20.789 the quote down I did it but basically something 00:14:20.789 --> 00:14:22.649 along the lines of this is how he responds he 00:14:22.649 --> 00:14:31.940 goes Yeah, I'm sorry that that society Does that 00:14:31.940 --> 00:14:46.039 I'm sorry that society Okay, yeah, um Okay So 00:14:46.039 --> 00:14:50.139 that's insane. Um Maybe instead of trying to 00:14:50.139 --> 00:14:53.519 apologize for society, which obviously you can't 00:14:53.519 --> 00:14:57.440 apologize for society Maybe just apologize for 00:14:57.440 --> 00:15:04.039 what you did and say sorry for completely fucking 00:15:04.039 --> 00:15:08.820 over your wife and lying to her over the course 00:15:08.820 --> 00:15:11.299 of however long it was. Just apologize for what 00:15:11.299 --> 00:15:15.419 you did. Just say that. Apologize for you cheating 00:15:15.419 --> 00:15:18.460 on her, which subsequently caused her to have 00:15:18.460 --> 00:15:22.200 to face backlash from quote unquote society. 00:15:23.600 --> 00:15:29.870 Instead of just completely dodging any responsibility 00:15:29.870 --> 00:15:38.090 any um accountability just just literally going 00:15:38.090 --> 00:15:41.970 i'm so sorry that society did that to you no 00:15:41.970 --> 00:15:46.690 you should be sorry that you cheated and i just 00:15:46.690 --> 00:15:50.110 i wanted to talk about this because i also saw 00:15:50.110 --> 00:15:53.789 i saw this tiktok recently and i again should 00:15:53.789 --> 00:15:57.679 have written down the creator's name But I didn't 00:15:57.679 --> 00:16:03.399 think that far ahead. He's a TikTok creator that 00:16:03.399 --> 00:16:06.519 I don't know. I don't really know. I guess he 00:16:06.519 --> 00:16:08.460 just like gives his takes. Like, I don't really 00:16:08.460 --> 00:16:12.759 know what else he does. Black creator. Like, 00:16:12.860 --> 00:16:14.759 I literally don't know. Just he's a black guy 00:16:14.759 --> 00:16:18.419 who talks. That's all I got for you. But I saw 00:16:18.419 --> 00:16:21.279 a TikTok of his recently where I really just 00:16:21.279 --> 00:16:25.220 did not agree with it. And it was him being like... 00:16:24.879 --> 00:16:28.399 guys you might not agree with this but he was 00:16:28.399 --> 00:16:31.360 talking about cheating and he was like he was 00:16:31.360 --> 00:16:38.000 like i think we make cheating out to be so much 00:16:38.000 --> 00:16:40.860 worse than it is and he was like guys cheating 00:16:40.860 --> 00:16:45.000 isn't illegal it's not it's not a criminal offense 00:16:45.000 --> 00:16:48.259 to cheat and he was basically like you know if 00:16:48.259 --> 00:16:50.539 i if i have a friend who cheats on someone like 00:16:50.559 --> 00:16:53.000 That has nothing to do with me. Like I don't 00:16:53.000 --> 00:16:54.279 need to stop being friends with them because 00:16:54.279 --> 00:16:56.820 they're cheating. Sometimes like people cheat 00:16:56.820 --> 00:16:59.480 and make people make mistakes. Sometimes people 00:16:59.480 --> 00:17:01.080 just make mistakes. Like I don't think it makes 00:17:01.080 --> 00:17:07.859 you a bad person. And I think this this intensity, 00:17:07.859 --> 00:17:10.759 I guess, in which we like treat people who cheat 00:17:10.759 --> 00:17:13.480 is like wrong, whatever, whatever, whatever. 00:17:15.779 --> 00:17:20.119 Interesting hot take like hot. take. I feel like 00:17:20.119 --> 00:17:26.240 I have never heard anyone with that or I've never 00:17:26.240 --> 00:17:28.960 heard anyone say those words out loud. Those 00:17:28.960 --> 00:17:34.859 words have never graced my ears ever. I was like, 00:17:35.099 --> 00:17:38.579 wow, period. That's so interesting. Like that's 00:17:38.579 --> 00:17:42.460 just interesting. And it was a mixed kind of 00:17:42.460 --> 00:17:44.380 thing in the comments. Some people were like, 00:17:45.170 --> 00:17:47.589 Like a lot of like some some people were in agree 00:17:47.589 --> 00:17:50.730 and some people were like, yeah And I might be 00:17:50.730 --> 00:17:52.549 pulling this out of my ass But I feel like I 00:17:52.549 --> 00:17:55.809 saw a person or two being like yeah the way we 00:17:55.809 --> 00:18:02.750 treat Cheating or cheaters. It's it's um, I Don't 00:18:02.750 --> 00:18:05.430 know it was something about like white not white 00:18:05.430 --> 00:18:10.269 supremacy or just some sort of like I Don't know 00:18:10.269 --> 00:18:12.250 people in the comments were getting really woke 00:18:12.250 --> 00:18:15.339 with it and I was just like I don't subscribe 00:18:15.339 --> 00:18:22.940 to this. I don't think I've talked about this 00:18:22.940 --> 00:18:28.180 on the podcast, but I feel very strongly about 00:18:28.180 --> 00:18:31.319 this. And I've never been cheated on. I have 00:18:31.319 --> 00:18:35.059 never been in a relationship, okay? Let's start 00:18:35.059 --> 00:18:38.680 there. For many reasons, which we can talk about 00:18:38.680 --> 00:18:40.279 in the future, because I have a lot of thoughts 00:18:40.279 --> 00:18:43.059 on dating and I feel like I've just had an interesting 00:18:43.230 --> 00:18:45.950 go around because I, you know, a lot of people 00:18:45.950 --> 00:18:48.109 start dating in high school. A lot of people 00:18:48.109 --> 00:18:50.670 start dating in college and at that point have 00:18:50.670 --> 00:18:52.910 had four or five relationships on the docket. 00:18:52.990 --> 00:19:01.569 I have never been in a relationship. I very much 00:19:01.569 --> 00:19:04.690 disagree with what that guy was talking about 00:19:04.690 --> 00:19:07.150 on his TikTok. I think it's a really interesting 00:19:07.150 --> 00:19:13.589 take. Yeah, I don't... personally give a fuck 00:19:13.589 --> 00:19:17.890 that cheating is not illegal. i don't think anyone's 00:19:17.890 --> 00:19:22.069 saying it's illegal. um there are a lot of things 00:19:22.069 --> 00:19:23.970 that are not illegal that i don't think you should 00:19:23.970 --> 00:19:34.450 do. um and yeah this this notion of like oh it's 00:19:34.450 --> 00:19:36.789 a mistake and if i have a friend and they're 00:19:36.789 --> 00:19:40.970 chi and that has nothing to do with me Oh, but 00:19:40.970 --> 00:19:44.230 it actually kind of does though. It kind of actually 00:19:44.230 --> 00:19:53.069 does. I don't understand how you could not like... 00:19:53.069 --> 00:19:56.170 Firstly, and I don't want to spend the entire 00:19:56.170 --> 00:19:59.650 podcast talking about this, but personally for 00:19:59.650 --> 00:20:02.829 me, I think, I mean, cheating is not only like 00:20:02.829 --> 00:20:05.809 obviously fucked up and I mean, you're lying. 00:20:06.049 --> 00:20:08.690 You're just lying to someone either directly 00:20:09.130 --> 00:20:13.130 Or you're inadvertently lying by keeping very 00:20:13.130 --> 00:20:18.130 vital information from someone. So that's number 00:20:18.130 --> 00:20:22.029 one. You're lying. You're also putting someone's 00:20:22.029 --> 00:20:25.109 body in danger, right? If you're having sex with 00:20:25.109 --> 00:20:28.109 your partner and then you decide to cheat on 00:20:28.109 --> 00:20:33.289 them with someone else. Probably not. Maybe you're 00:20:33.289 --> 00:20:35.690 using protection. Maybe you're not. If you're 00:20:35.690 --> 00:20:39.490 not. then you are putting your partner at risk 00:20:39.490 --> 00:20:43.549 because whatever this person has, you are exposing 00:20:43.549 --> 00:20:45.190 your partner to that. If you're having sex with 00:20:45.190 --> 00:20:46.509 your partner and then you're going and cheating 00:20:46.509 --> 00:20:48.130 on them and then you're going back to your partner 00:20:48.130 --> 00:20:50.750 and having sex with them. That is disgusting. 00:20:52.369 --> 00:20:57.630 That is wrong. So there's that. There's lying 00:20:57.630 --> 00:20:59.609 and then there's also putting people's health 00:20:59.609 --> 00:21:03.569 and bodies at risk. There's also the third thing, 00:21:04.210 --> 00:21:08.640 which To me, this isn't necessarily like a moral 00:21:08.640 --> 00:21:11.599 fault, but it's just like, to be a cheater, to 00:21:11.599 --> 00:21:15.640 cheat on someone, you're just a pussy. Let me 00:21:15.640 --> 00:21:19.680 use another word, because let's not use female 00:21:19.680 --> 00:21:25.079 genitalia to mean you're a coward. You are a 00:21:25.079 --> 00:21:29.779 coward, and it's immature, and it's cowardly 00:21:29.779 --> 00:21:33.900 to cheat, because if you're unhappy in a relationship, 00:21:34.119 --> 00:21:36.740 For whatever reason, if you're not getting what 00:21:36.740 --> 00:21:40.200 you need, if whatever, it doesn't matter. For 00:21:40.200 --> 00:21:42.279 any reason, if you don't want to be in a relationship, 00:21:43.299 --> 00:21:46.920 break up with the other person. I am so pro breaking 00:21:46.920 --> 00:21:53.559 up and I don't think there is any situation where 00:21:53.559 --> 00:21:56.200 cheating is a better option than just breaking 00:21:56.200 --> 00:22:03.750 the fuck up with someone. Period. Period. Period. 00:22:05.170 --> 00:22:08.789 And I'm not willing to argue on that. You are 00:22:08.789 --> 00:22:13.589 a coward. Like, it is not fucking hard to be 00:22:13.589 --> 00:22:16.509 a grown adult, to put your big boy fucking panties 00:22:16.509 --> 00:22:20.170 on, and have a conversation and go, hey, I'm 00:22:20.170 --> 00:22:21.650 not getting what I need from this relationship. 00:22:21.750 --> 00:22:27.029 Let's break up. Period. End of statement. And 00:22:27.029 --> 00:22:29.089 if you're thinking in your head, well, I don't 00:22:29.089 --> 00:22:30.809 want to hurt them. I don't want to hurt their 00:22:30.809 --> 00:22:33.440 feelings. That's going to crush them. Do you 00:22:33.440 --> 00:22:37.299 think it's gonna crush them more or less for 00:22:37.299 --> 00:22:41.740 you to break up with them rather than cheating 00:22:41.740 --> 00:22:44.960 on them? Which one do you think is gonna hurt 00:22:44.960 --> 00:22:49.220 more? Getting cheated on or getting broken up 00:22:49.220 --> 00:22:56.960 with? Okay. So yeah, cheating is wrong. Cheating 00:22:56.960 --> 00:23:00.920 is cowardly. And sure, you could say it's a mistake, 00:23:01.539 --> 00:23:04.549 but... You could also say, I'm not comparing 00:23:04.549 --> 00:23:07.009 cheating and killing someone. I'm not saying 00:23:07.009 --> 00:23:09.210 those are the same thing. But you could say that, 00:23:09.210 --> 00:23:10.750 oh, I killed this person, that was a mistake. 00:23:10.910 --> 00:23:14.849 I don't give a fuck if it was a mistake. That 00:23:14.849 --> 00:23:20.289 is completely irrelevant. It's like, I don't 00:23:20.289 --> 00:23:23.849 think that really matters. I think cheating is 00:23:23.849 --> 00:23:31.109 crazy. I think it's cowardly. Yeah. Think if 00:23:31.109 --> 00:23:32.450 you're a cheater, you need to learn how to use 00:23:32.450 --> 00:23:37.170 your fucking words and I do also think that if 00:23:37.170 --> 00:23:40.009 you have a friend and like I said and thought 00:23:40.009 --> 00:23:42.130 about it because I was like, what would I do? 00:23:42.190 --> 00:23:45.190 Like if my best friend was cheating on their 00:23:45.190 --> 00:23:52.309 partner He's my best friend I love him I'm thinking 00:23:52.309 --> 00:23:54.490 about Nathan if you're if you're shout out Nathan, 00:23:54.490 --> 00:23:57.450 I love you if Nathan was cheating on his partner 00:24:00.819 --> 00:24:03.660 Like, first of all, like, if he cheated, like, 00:24:03.839 --> 00:24:06.220 it also depends, like, if it's a one -time cheat 00:24:06.220 --> 00:24:09.380 rather than a vert, like, if Nathan cheats on 00:24:09.380 --> 00:24:13.279 his partner, I am not going to drop Nathan as 00:24:13.279 --> 00:24:15.920 a friend. Because Nathan is my best friend, and 00:24:15.920 --> 00:24:17.960 we go way back, and I really care about him. 00:24:18.579 --> 00:24:22.079 But I, for sure, will definitely have a conversation 00:24:22.079 --> 00:24:24.440 with him and be like, you shouldn't be doing 00:24:24.440 --> 00:24:29.480 that. Don't cheat on your fucking partner. And 00:24:29.480 --> 00:24:31.740 then if we had a conversation and he was still 00:24:31.740 --> 00:24:34.819 cheating, like it would definitely, I don't know 00:24:34.819 --> 00:24:36.920 if I would necessarily end a friendship, but 00:24:36.920 --> 00:24:39.279 it would definitely be in the back of my mind 00:24:39.279 --> 00:24:46.039 for sure. Because that's like loyalty goes across, 00:24:46.259 --> 00:24:49.700 it's an across the board loyalty. If you're being 00:24:49.700 --> 00:24:53.519 unloyal to your romantic partner, how the fuck 00:24:53.519 --> 00:24:55.700 am I gonna be so stupid to think that you could 00:24:55.700 --> 00:25:05.740 not be unloyal to me? That would be foolish. 00:25:06.359 --> 00:25:11.839 And I've only had one friend who I know that 00:25:11.839 --> 00:25:13.900 she cheated on her partner because she told me 00:25:13.900 --> 00:25:17.740 about it. I'm not friends with her anymore, not 00:25:17.740 --> 00:25:21.420 because of that, but for other reasons. But the 00:25:21.420 --> 00:25:23.359 interesting thing about that friendship that 00:25:23.359 --> 00:25:30.539 I'm thinking about is like, when she told me 00:25:30.539 --> 00:25:32.819 she cheated on her partner, like it was something 00:25:32.819 --> 00:25:34.720 where i was like she was my friend and she was 00:25:34.720 --> 00:25:36.460 letting me know that i was like okay you know 00:25:36.460 --> 00:25:39.660 like you're being real cool whatever like appreciate 00:25:39.660 --> 00:25:41.599 you for just like being open and honest about 00:25:41.599 --> 00:25:44.960 that but it was something where like i could 00:25:44.960 --> 00:25:47.940 after she told me that i was like i could see 00:25:47.940 --> 00:25:50.099 how you could cheat on someone because the way 00:25:50.099 --> 00:25:53.059 that you operate in friendships you operate like 00:25:53.059 --> 00:25:54.680 you don't give a fuck about how other people 00:25:54.680 --> 00:25:58.259 feel which is why i stopped being friends with 00:25:58.259 --> 00:26:01.539 old girl because again it wasn't Directly related 00:26:01.539 --> 00:26:04.359 to her cheating on her partner, but it was the 00:26:04.359 --> 00:26:08.900 way that she showed up in relationships that 00:26:08.900 --> 00:26:13.200 Made me be like wait. Yeah, I can see how you're 00:26:13.200 --> 00:26:17.900 a cheatin -ass hoe because you're very selfish 00:26:17.900 --> 00:26:23.220 and You you want people when you want them and 00:26:23.220 --> 00:26:25.480 you want what you can get out of people And then 00:26:25.480 --> 00:26:27.359 as soon as they can't do that as soon as you're 00:26:27.359 --> 00:26:30.809 bored you're on to the next thing You don't care 00:26:30.809 --> 00:26:34.750 about how your actions affect people around you. 00:26:34.990 --> 00:26:39.109 Like, it was themes that I was noticing and things 00:26:39.109 --> 00:26:43.910 that I was getting frustrated with. Where I was 00:26:43.910 --> 00:26:48.430 like, yeah, like you cheating on someone does 00:26:48.430 --> 00:26:52.109 actually have an impact on how you show up in 00:26:52.109 --> 00:27:06.519 the world. 100%. 100%. Yes. Yes So Yeah Again, 00:27:06.559 --> 00:27:08.079 I said I was not gonna talk about this for a 00:27:08.079 --> 00:27:09.759 long time I've already been talking for a minute, 00:27:09.759 --> 00:27:13.079 but that's how I feel about you do I think about 00:27:13.079 --> 00:27:20.640 it a lot and I I Hope and I pray and I can only 00:27:20.640 --> 00:27:26.059 leave it up to the universe That no one in their 00:27:26.059 --> 00:27:30.779 right fucking mind would ever get the funny idea 00:27:30.779 --> 00:27:34.640 of being disloyal to me and going behind my back 00:27:34.640 --> 00:27:36.460 and doing some shit like that because i'm just 00:27:36.460 --> 00:27:43.039 gonna say it right now whoever wants to be funny 00:27:43.039 --> 00:27:47.200 and wants to get the bright idea of doing some 00:27:47.200 --> 00:27:52.759 shit behind my back and betraying me the people 00:27:52.759 --> 00:27:56.200 in your life your friends your family your co 00:27:56.200 --> 00:28:06.190 -workers They will all be mourning you. Go ahead 00:28:06.190 --> 00:28:08.990 and tell your family right now. Tell them to 00:28:08.990 --> 00:28:12.309 find their favorite picture of you and start 00:28:12.309 --> 00:28:17.190 printing that shit out on t -shirts. Go ahead 00:28:17.190 --> 00:28:21.730 right now, start printing the shirts. Start getting 00:28:21.730 --> 00:28:26.779 balloons. Start getting all of that. because 00:28:26.779 --> 00:28:31.819 anyone who decided to do some funny shit and 00:28:31.819 --> 00:28:35.180 Cheat on me the people in your life will never 00:28:35.180 --> 00:28:40.880 recover And I'm not being funny I'm being dead 00:28:40.880 --> 00:28:48.980 ass like I Cannot even put into words how hard 00:28:48.980 --> 00:28:55.970 how much I Would hurt someone if they decided 00:28:55.970 --> 00:29:00.609 to fucking do that to me. I don't think it's 00:29:00.609 --> 00:29:03.670 right. I don't think it's okay. I don't think 00:29:03.670 --> 00:29:05.569 there's any explanation for it. And you know 00:29:05.569 --> 00:29:07.569 why there's no explanation for it? Because if 00:29:07.569 --> 00:29:10.470 you're not happy, or if you're not getting something, 00:29:10.829 --> 00:29:15.910 break up! Break up, and then you can do whatever 00:29:15.910 --> 00:29:21.349 the fuck you want to do! But to be so cowardly, 00:29:21.549 --> 00:29:24.809 and to be so fucking selfish, and you want to 00:29:24.809 --> 00:29:26.630 have your cake and you want to eat it too, where 00:29:26.630 --> 00:29:32.210 you have a partner at home, and you decide that's 00:29:32.210 --> 00:29:36.130 not enough. I want someone else. And I want my 00:29:36.130 --> 00:29:37.910 partner at home. I don't fuck with that. I think 00:29:37.910 --> 00:29:40.690 that's selfish. I think it's greedy, and I think 00:29:40.690 --> 00:29:44.410 it's gluttonous. And anyone who ever wanted to 00:29:44.410 --> 00:29:52.309 try that shit with me, enjoy, enjoy your last 00:29:52.309 --> 00:29:56.279 hurrah. That she I hope it was worth it because 00:29:56.279 --> 00:29:59.079 that's gonna be the last time you ever experienced 00:29:59.079 --> 00:30:03.819 joy in your fucking life Period and we're moving 00:30:03.819 --> 00:30:14.440 on So Taylor Swift came out with an album Um 00:30:14.440 --> 00:30:17.779 Which I did not listen to and I will not be listening 00:30:17.779 --> 00:30:21.440 to it. I had a little I had a thought for a second 00:30:21.440 --> 00:30:25.700 where I was like was like I could listen to the 00:30:25.700 --> 00:30:30.039 album and Like listen so that I can talk about 00:30:30.039 --> 00:30:34.619 it in Length, but then I was like mmm Yeah, I 00:30:34.619 --> 00:30:36.559 don't want to spend an hour listening to Taylor 00:30:36.559 --> 00:30:40.700 Swift like I just don't not for free like genuinely 00:30:40.700 --> 00:30:44.579 just not doing that so yeah not doing it, but 00:30:44.579 --> 00:30:48.460 I Remember when I saw the cover art for this 00:30:48.460 --> 00:30:55.009 most recent album I I didn't think it was real 00:30:55.009 --> 00:30:57.710 like I remember seeing it months ago whenever 00:30:57.710 --> 00:31:02.589 the life of a showgirl and I was like I was like 00:31:02.589 --> 00:31:04.849 a fan must have made this or something because 00:31:04.849 --> 00:31:08.609 I don't believe that Taylor would do such a thing 00:31:08.609 --> 00:31:14.269 because Taylor Swift cannot be serious in calling 00:31:14.269 --> 00:31:17.470 herself a showgirl like I was just like there's 00:31:17.470 --> 00:31:24.039 no way this is for real But he was real and it 00:31:24.039 --> 00:31:28.279 is a real album that exists in the world and 00:31:28.279 --> 00:31:34.140 I have seen on TikTok like Taylor Swift fans 00:31:34.140 --> 00:31:39.480 Like not fucking with it and like listening to 00:31:39.480 --> 00:31:42.099 it real time and being like this is cringy and 00:31:42.099 --> 00:31:45.359 this is like bad and it's like I guess it's good 00:31:45.359 --> 00:31:48.140 that you guys are like waking up now, but like 00:31:48.160 --> 00:31:51.180 this is how it's always sounded like this is 00:31:51.180 --> 00:31:54.640 not new and like i hope that no one listening 00:31:54.640 --> 00:31:56.740 or watching this is really into Taylor Swift 00:31:56.740 --> 00:32:03.299 because i'm really sorry guys um i mean i've 00:32:03.299 --> 00:32:05.019 talked i talk to my friends about this all the 00:32:05.019 --> 00:32:07.519 time and like we're all very much in agreement 00:32:07.519 --> 00:32:15.700 and like Taylor Swift is the to me just such 00:32:15.869 --> 00:32:22.970 a glaring example of like white mediocrity. And 00:32:22.970 --> 00:32:29.250 just a glaring example of how white people can 00:32:29.250 --> 00:32:34.009 just be fully bad and fully untalented at what 00:32:34.009 --> 00:32:38.150 they do and still get so much success and recognition 00:32:38.150 --> 00:32:39.789 because Taylor Swift is one of the biggest artists 00:32:39.789 --> 00:32:47.339 in the world. And She's just not doing it for 00:32:47.339 --> 00:32:53.059 me. I just you because I remember Whenever whatever 00:32:53.059 --> 00:32:55.660 her last album was that came out where she had 00:32:55.660 --> 00:32:58.460 like, what was it? The tortured poet department 00:32:58.460 --> 00:33:01.819 some shit. She had like 20 million versions because 00:33:01.819 --> 00:33:06.140 she's a greedy billionaire I don't know. She's 00:33:06.140 --> 00:33:07.759 a billionaire, but she's a greedy rich person 00:33:07.759 --> 00:33:11.720 who Just cannot have enough money So she's like 00:33:11.720 --> 00:33:13.559 I'm gonna do this version and this is the Taylor 00:33:13.559 --> 00:33:15.519 version and this is the phone version And this 00:33:15.519 --> 00:33:17.460 is the I'm in the car version. It's like we don't 00:33:17.460 --> 00:33:21.079 need 10 million versions of the same thing But 00:33:21.079 --> 00:33:23.579 she does it every time because she knows her 00:33:23.579 --> 00:33:26.579 fans are gonna eat it up and buy everything but 00:33:26.579 --> 00:33:29.960 I Remember when that last album came out people 00:33:29.960 --> 00:33:32.099 were having conversations about Taylor Swift 00:33:32.099 --> 00:33:36.299 and putting her in the same Putting her in the 00:33:36.299 --> 00:33:42.940 same conversations of Michael Jackson and Beyonce 00:33:42.940 --> 00:33:47.180 And I'm really sorry to burst your guys's bubble. 00:33:47.180 --> 00:33:49.440 I'm really sorry to like rain on your parade, 00:33:49.440 --> 00:33:52.519 but we're just unfortunately not gonna do that 00:33:52.519 --> 00:34:01.680 I Will I refuse to entertain that notion Because 00:34:01.680 --> 00:34:05.539 the crazy thing about it is like I I learned 00:34:05.539 --> 00:34:07.779 this recently. I don't know. I don't honestly 00:34:07.779 --> 00:34:10.079 know how old I thought Taylor Swift was, but 00:34:10.079 --> 00:34:13.320 she's 35. So like, and I mean, she's been making 00:34:13.320 --> 00:34:17.500 music for a really long time. So like her peers 00:34:17.500 --> 00:34:24.579 in music are, it is Rihanna. It is Beyonce. It 00:34:24.579 --> 00:34:28.619 is, you know, all these other artists that are 00:34:28.619 --> 00:34:30.880 around her age and have been making music for 00:34:30.880 --> 00:34:32.980 as long as her and are as successful as her. 00:34:33.050 --> 00:34:37.329 Those are her musical peers. I'm sorry, Taylor 00:34:37.329 --> 00:34:42.530 Swift is not at all anywhere near as talented, 00:34:43.650 --> 00:34:47.769 as musically gifted, as Rihanna, as Beyonce, 00:34:48.070 --> 00:34:52.309 and as sure as not fucking Michael Jackson. Guys, 00:34:53.570 --> 00:35:03.159 stop. Stop. You're pissing me off. Okay? Get 00:35:03.159 --> 00:35:06.920 real. Get real for literally one second. And 00:35:06.920 --> 00:35:08.719 I'm not gonna act like I've never liked Taylor 00:35:08.719 --> 00:35:14.840 Swift. When I was 12, girl, I loved it. She wears 00:35:14.840 --> 00:35:18.900 short skirts, like, yes, of course. Like, I'm 00:35:18.900 --> 00:35:21.280 not saying Taylor Swift hasn't made a good song. 00:35:23.420 --> 00:35:28.079 That song, she did captain and I'm, like that 00:35:28.079 --> 00:35:30.900 went triple platinum in middle school. yes of 00:35:30.900 --> 00:35:35.179 course i was there it was great and like she's 00:35:35.179 --> 00:35:40.139 had her moments like even um even bad blood like 00:35:40.139 --> 00:35:44.219 was i listening to it no but i can recognize 00:35:44.219 --> 00:35:47.440 the cultural impact of that song and of the music 00:35:47.440 --> 00:35:50.199 video and of kendrick lamar and all that that 00:35:50.199 --> 00:35:55.559 was cool it was cool but i'm not 12 anymore i'm 00:35:55.559 --> 00:36:01.679 23 so I don't enjoy that anymore. It doesn't 00:36:01.679 --> 00:36:04.360 speak to me. And it also never really spoke to 00:36:04.360 --> 00:36:11.099 me because I mean, let's be honest here. All 00:36:11.099 --> 00:36:15.579 of Taylor's music, all of her music is the same 00:36:15.579 --> 00:36:21.059 and all of it is about Brad and about how he 00:36:21.059 --> 00:36:23.360 fucked her over and Chad and about how he heard 00:36:23.360 --> 00:36:29.969 her feelings and Max and Clay and and I don't 00:36:29.969 --> 00:36:32.210 care. And I don't relate to that kind of music. 00:36:32.349 --> 00:36:35.489 I don't really listen to music like that. I it 00:36:35.489 --> 00:36:39.929 has to be a certain like even with I'm like even 00:36:39.929 --> 00:36:42.510 with like SZA. SZA is very different from Taylor 00:36:42.510 --> 00:36:46.469 Swift and I like SZA but sometimes I just cannot 00:36:46.469 --> 00:36:48.989 listen to SZA because one I'm like okay the sad 00:36:48.989 --> 00:36:51.829 girl shit gotta go because I love sad music like 00:36:51.829 --> 00:36:54.289 like I said in a previous episode Lana Del Rey 00:36:54.289 --> 00:36:58.199 is my favorite artist ever. She makes music for 00:36:58.199 --> 00:37:01.199 sad people she makes sad music but it's like 00:37:01.199 --> 00:37:02.659 if i'm gonna listen to sad music i'm gonna listen 00:37:02.659 --> 00:37:05.739 to sad music about like anguish and agony and 00:37:05.739 --> 00:37:08.119 pain and despair i don't want to listen to sad 00:37:08.119 --> 00:37:13.280 music about like oh johnny made me sad because 00:37:13.280 --> 00:37:16.820 he did this because again i don't relate to that 00:37:16.820 --> 00:37:19.659 i've never been i don't relate to like music 00:37:19.659 --> 00:37:24.489 about like boys like obviously i've had I've 00:37:24.489 --> 00:37:27.170 had romantic interests and I've had experience, 00:37:27.510 --> 00:37:30.610 whatever, but like I'm not gonna listen to music 00:37:30.610 --> 00:37:33.829 about a girl complaining about the 50th man that 00:37:33.829 --> 00:37:35.670 she's dated and about how he did her wrong. I 00:37:35.670 --> 00:37:39.429 don't care. Cause I'm not a 13 year old girl. 00:37:39.429 --> 00:37:42.550 That doesn't speak to me. I have like real life 00:37:42.550 --> 00:37:46.610 issues and like real life things to stress about. 00:37:46.710 --> 00:37:51.289 I don't give a fuck about Brad and Chad. Like 00:37:51.289 --> 00:37:54.530 I don't care. So for me, that's why it's hard 00:37:54.530 --> 00:37:55.869 for me to indulge in Taylor Swift's music because 00:37:55.869 --> 00:38:02.269 I don't relate to that. I don't relate to that 00:38:02.269 --> 00:38:04.730 struggle where like the biggest and the most 00:38:04.730 --> 00:38:07.429 heart -wrenching thing that's happening in your 00:38:07.429 --> 00:38:09.869 life is like whatever man you're talking to at 00:38:09.869 --> 00:38:12.309 that point and like what he's doing to you and 00:38:12.309 --> 00:38:14.210 how he's making you feel. I don't relate to that. 00:38:14.710 --> 00:38:17.949 So I feel like that's all of Taylor Swift's music 00:38:17.949 --> 00:38:29.420 and Yeah, it just hasn't evolved. That's the 00:38:29.420 --> 00:38:30.920 thing. I'm sorry. I'm losing my train of thought, 00:38:30.920 --> 00:38:35.079 but like it has not evolved. Thinking about the 00:38:35.079 --> 00:38:38.480 fact that Taylor Swift is musical peers with 00:38:38.480 --> 00:38:42.199 artists such as Rihanna and Beyonce, Taylor Swift 00:38:42.199 --> 00:38:44.780 is not holding a fucking candle to these bitches. 00:38:45.340 --> 00:38:49.219 She's not. Her recent works are not anywhere 00:38:49.219 --> 00:38:52.320 near. Bitch, your shit isn't even holding a candle 00:38:52.320 --> 00:39:06.679 up to fucking Auntie. From 10 years ago, Rihanna's 00:39:06.679 --> 00:39:12.219 last shit from 10 years ago, Taylor Swift's current 00:39:12.219 --> 00:39:17.159 shit is not comparing to. That's a problem. Don't 00:39:17.159 --> 00:39:19.059 even get me started on Beyonce. We know no one 00:39:19.059 --> 00:39:21.739 is fucking doing it like Beyonce, but especially 00:39:21.739 --> 00:39:25.480 not Taylor Swift. Taylor Swift likes to like 00:39:25.480 --> 00:39:29.739 market herself as some sort of like lyrical genius 00:39:29.739 --> 00:39:34.880 and some sort of poet When her lyrics are very 00:39:34.880 --> 00:39:39.099 basic it's like Very much something like I feel 00:39:39.099 --> 00:39:43.219 like if I were listening in to like an English 00:39:43.219 --> 00:39:48.659 class for seventh graders Like if we had a project 00:39:48.659 --> 00:39:51.000 where like they all had to write a poem you would 00:39:51.000 --> 00:39:52.820 be finding the shit that Taylor Swift writes 00:39:52.820 --> 00:39:56.139 is shit that a 12 year old would write and and 00:39:56.139 --> 00:39:58.219 think they would think it was profound and it 00:39:58.219 --> 00:39:59.960 would be profound because it's like whoa you're 00:39:59.960 --> 00:40:02.780 12 like you're pulling these thoughts out like 00:40:02.780 --> 00:40:07.079 this is crazy but Taylor Swift's not 12 she's 00:40:07.079 --> 00:40:14.840 35 so that's why it's a problem And I saw this 00:40:14.840 --> 00:40:16.780 clip of Taylor, and I think this was from years 00:40:16.780 --> 00:40:19.019 ago, I hope it was from years ago, where she 00:40:19.019 --> 00:40:20.880 was talking about how, you know, I'm a writer 00:40:20.880 --> 00:40:23.900 and I'm this and I'm that and I love lyrics and 00:40:23.900 --> 00:40:27.739 I love, I love double meaning. And also she, 00:40:27.780 --> 00:40:30.760 she just talks about her shit like it's so brilliant. 00:40:31.199 --> 00:40:36.119 Like she'll have a line that maybe has two meanings 00:40:36.119 --> 00:40:38.159 and she thinks it's the craziest thing in the 00:40:38.159 --> 00:40:40.760 world. Meanwhile, girl rappers, Nicki Minaj. 00:40:40.989 --> 00:40:44.869 Nicki Minaj in one line will have, she will say 00:40:44.869 --> 00:40:47.570 one thing and it'll mean four different things. 00:40:47.889 --> 00:40:50.909 Bitch, double entendre, that's like an afterthought. 00:40:51.530 --> 00:40:52.670 You know what I'm saying? Like, she doesn't even 00:40:52.670 --> 00:40:55.409 have to think about it. The way she writes is 00:40:55.409 --> 00:40:59.010 just like, I'm gonna write this line and it's 00:40:59.010 --> 00:41:01.489 gonna, it's gonna, like, you know what I'm saying? 00:41:03.010 --> 00:41:06.090 Like, Taylor Swift thinks she's so profound for 00:41:06.090 --> 00:41:08.949 writing lines that. kind of means something else. 00:41:09.150 --> 00:41:10.989 Girl, that's how every artist writes. That's 00:41:10.989 --> 00:41:17.010 how rappers write. You're not doing it like you 00:41:17.010 --> 00:41:20.289 think you are. You're just not. But this clip 00:41:20.289 --> 00:41:22.949 of Taylor Swift, she was in an interview. She 00:41:22.949 --> 00:41:25.949 was like, yeah, I'm a writer. I like sonnets 00:41:25.949 --> 00:41:27.949 and I like this. She was like, I would never 00:41:27.949 --> 00:41:34.769 write a song that was like. Sorry. She was like, 00:41:34.789 --> 00:41:37.570 I will never write a song that's like. I'm at 00:41:37.570 --> 00:41:41.309 the club and dance, dance, dance. Yeah, I'm having 00:41:41.309 --> 00:41:47.809 fun. First of all, Taylor, you would never write 00:41:47.809 --> 00:41:49.650 a song like that because you don't go to the 00:41:49.650 --> 00:41:51.469 club and you don't dance, dance, dance because 00:41:51.469 --> 00:41:53.710 you're boring and you're not fun. That's why 00:41:53.710 --> 00:41:56.269 you would never write a song like that. Let's 00:41:56.269 --> 00:42:00.719 be very clear about that. Secondly, People people 00:42:00.719 --> 00:42:02.480 were bringing up that clip and like relating 00:42:02.480 --> 00:42:04.139 it to Charlie's brat album, which like yeah I 00:42:04.139 --> 00:42:06.440 think this what I think this quote was from years 00:42:06.440 --> 00:42:09.860 ago, but it does relate because also Taylor and 00:42:09.860 --> 00:42:14.679 Charlie Loki beefing right now, but It does it 00:42:14.679 --> 00:42:16.619 is just funny because it's like she's saying 00:42:16.619 --> 00:42:18.679 that as a dig of like I would never make a song 00:42:18.679 --> 00:42:22.400 That's like club club dance dance dance That 00:42:22.400 --> 00:42:25.920 was all of brat that was the whole brat and obviously 00:42:25.920 --> 00:42:28.989 not all of it That was a very big theme and that 00:42:28.989 --> 00:42:31.469 was kind of the vibe of brat and brat had so 00:42:31.469 --> 00:42:33.550 much commercial success It was also just an amazing 00:42:33.550 --> 00:42:39.110 fucking album And Yeah, Taylor again, we're not 00:42:39.110 --> 00:42:44.150 looking to you for Fun clubby dance music because 00:42:44.150 --> 00:42:49.730 you're not fun You're not cool The 12 year old 00:42:49.730 --> 00:42:55.170 girls who You know got their heart broken by 00:42:55.170 --> 00:43:00.369 Timothy Because he decided to take another girl 00:43:00.369 --> 00:43:05.630 to the to the middle school formal They are the 00:43:05.630 --> 00:43:10.010 ones that are looking for a deep sonnet about 00:43:10.010 --> 00:43:14.730 heartbreak and love That's what you Give to the 00:43:14.730 --> 00:43:17.030 world. We're not looking for fun party music 00:43:17.030 --> 00:43:20.090 from you. I Also think that's the really interesting 00:43:20.090 --> 00:43:22.070 thing about Taylor and I'm sorry we've been talking 00:43:22.070 --> 00:43:24.250 about her for a minute and we're probably gonna 00:43:24.250 --> 00:43:28.139 have to close this very soon, but um Taylor Swift 00:43:28.139 --> 00:43:31.300 I feel like she's so interesting because no matter 00:43:31.300 --> 00:43:34.360 how Successful she is. Like I said, she's one 00:43:34.360 --> 00:43:40.079 of the biggest artists No matter how big she 00:43:40.079 --> 00:43:44.780 gets she will never be looked at as cool she 00:43:44.780 --> 00:43:50.119 will never be cool and I feel like that really 00:43:50.119 --> 00:43:54.519 Hurts her I don't know or maybe she doesn't think 00:43:54.519 --> 00:43:59.780 about it but it hurts me to view because it's 00:43:59.780 --> 00:44:02.880 just like, girl, with all the money and all of 00:44:02.880 --> 00:44:07.099 the resources that you have, you should be serving. 00:44:07.820 --> 00:44:11.360 You should be cool. You should be like doing 00:44:11.360 --> 00:44:14.480 something, but all she knows how to do is throw 00:44:14.480 --> 00:44:21.599 on a red lip and wear an outfit that like a middle 00:44:21.599 --> 00:44:24.159 school science teacher would wear on her day 00:44:24.159 --> 00:44:31.860 off. And just be basic Like she will never be 00:44:31.860 --> 00:44:35.980 looked at as cool I Don't even know how she is 00:44:35.980 --> 00:44:38.699 portrayed like she she's obviously recognized 00:44:38.699 --> 00:44:41.199 as one of the biggest Artists in the world, but 00:44:41.199 --> 00:44:47.739 people just kind of look at her Like I don't 00:44:47.739 --> 00:44:53.059 know she's like the idol of like middle school 00:44:53.059 --> 00:44:57.590 girls, which is like Not inherently bad, but 00:44:57.590 --> 00:45:04.969 it's it's just not cool or it's not great. I 00:45:04.969 --> 00:45:09.849 Don't know But I I don't like Taylor Swift at 00:45:09.849 --> 00:45:15.289 all I don't like her music I Don't I think like 00:45:15.289 --> 00:45:19.730 I'm just tired of hearing about her But I think 00:45:19.730 --> 00:45:22.409 we need to like seriously be honest and I don't 00:45:22.480 --> 00:45:25.159 I don't have anyone in my life. I don't think 00:45:25.159 --> 00:45:28.639 who maybe some people like her I don't know anyone 00:45:28.639 --> 00:45:34.340 who is really into her but if I Like I don't 00:45:34.340 --> 00:45:36.280 think I could be friends with someone who their 00:45:36.280 --> 00:45:38.219 favorite artist was Taylor Swift or Taylor Swift 00:45:38.219 --> 00:45:40.860 was one of their favorite artists because truthfully 00:45:40.860 --> 00:45:44.960 I don't trust your judgment. I don't trust you 00:45:44.960 --> 00:45:48.980 as an individual and Again, I mean that's big 00:45:48.980 --> 00:45:52.739 for like I gotta trust you And if Taylor Swift 00:45:52.739 --> 00:45:57.800 is one of your favorite artists, then that shows 00:45:57.800 --> 00:46:03.420 to me that you do not have good critical thinking 00:46:03.420 --> 00:46:10.579 skills and your judgment is off. Period. Period. 00:46:12.360 --> 00:46:15.199 And I don't care about her and Travis Kelce being 00:46:15.199 --> 00:46:17.000 engaged. I don't understand why we're acting 00:46:17.000 --> 00:46:20.000 like... This is important. Like, that's none 00:46:20.000 --> 00:46:25.519 of my business. I don't care. I don't care. But 00:46:25.519 --> 00:46:27.719 Taylor was taking shots allegedly at Charlie 00:46:27.719 --> 00:46:30.039 in the new album, being like, oh, you called 00:46:30.039 --> 00:46:33.599 me boring Barbie. I guess the coke's got you 00:46:33.599 --> 00:46:38.239 brave. Bitch, shut up. Shut the fu - You will 00:46:38.239 --> 00:46:42.000 never be Charlie. You will never have an ounce 00:46:42.000 --> 00:46:45.400 of the aura and of the coolness that Charlie 00:46:45.400 --> 00:46:48.500 has. Because that can't be bought. No matter 00:46:48.500 --> 00:46:51.039 how much money Heather Swift has, no matter how, 00:46:51.039 --> 00:46:54.599 no matter how many, you know, versions of her 00:46:54.599 --> 00:46:57.739 album she releases. Girl, you can release 80 00:46:57.739 --> 00:47:01.400 versions of the life of a show, girl, whatever 00:47:01.400 --> 00:47:05.099 the fuck. You still will not be cool. Cannot 00:47:05.099 --> 00:47:10.500 buy coolness. And that sucks. But do not disrespect 00:47:10.500 --> 00:47:15.789 Charli. And then allegedly she was also Talking 00:47:15.789 --> 00:47:18.849 about I guess Travis Kelsey used to only date 00:47:18.849 --> 00:47:22.590 black women and she made She one of the songs 00:47:22.590 --> 00:47:24.889 she was like, oh, I'm not a savage. I'm a bad 00:47:24.889 --> 00:47:30.809 bit something Taylor Taylor let's not do this. 00:47:31.210 --> 00:47:36.610 Okay Let's not even go there Let's not even go 00:47:36.610 --> 00:47:40.969 there in other music news though bad bunny is 00:47:40.969 --> 00:47:43.070 gonna be the headliner for the Super Bowl next 00:47:43.070 --> 00:47:46.989 year, which is very, really exciting. I also 00:47:46.989 --> 00:47:49.809 just learned, I don't think I was aware that 00:47:49.809 --> 00:47:55.670 Jay Z, I don't think he makes, I don't think 00:47:55.670 --> 00:47:59.889 he's the sole decision maker for who performs 00:47:59.889 --> 00:48:04.789 for the Super Bowl, but he is on the panel. He's 00:48:04.789 --> 00:48:07.269 one of the people that makes the decision. So 00:48:07.269 --> 00:48:12.750 didn't know that. That's fucking crazy. Like 00:48:12.750 --> 00:48:18.179 that's just wild. But he chose Bad Bunny, which 00:48:18.179 --> 00:48:20.539 I think is really interesting because Bad Bunny 00:48:20.539 --> 00:48:23.400 is on tour or like is about to start tour, right? 00:48:24.239 --> 00:48:32.079 And he was excluding America because he was like, 00:48:32.320 --> 00:48:35.519 I don't want for ICE to be, you know, deporting 00:48:35.519 --> 00:48:37.099 people outside of my shows. Like, I don't want 00:48:37.099 --> 00:48:38.900 to make it unsafe for my fans, whatever, whatever, 00:48:38.920 --> 00:48:41.619 which is so real. And I love that he did that, 00:48:41.639 --> 00:48:46.599 honestly, because it's like... Yeah. We don't 00:48:46.599 --> 00:48:49.880 deserve that. We don't. And I think it's good 00:48:49.880 --> 00:48:52.559 if you're, you know, making it safe for your 00:48:52.559 --> 00:48:58.199 fans, a lot of which are... That doesn't sound 00:48:58.199 --> 00:49:01.159 right. But a lot of Bad Bunny fans are Hispanic. 00:49:02.059 --> 00:49:04.619 And so very much makes sense that he would not 00:49:04.619 --> 00:49:07.039 want to put his fans in an uncomfortable situation. 00:49:09.730 --> 00:49:11.829 so which is why I find it interesting that he 00:49:11.829 --> 00:49:13.789 is gonna be headlining for the Super Bowl because 00:49:13.789 --> 00:49:18.090 to me the Super Bowl is like the most American 00:49:18.090 --> 00:49:22.849 it's like the biggest American thing like what 00:49:22.849 --> 00:49:29.530 else is there like big things like that like 00:49:29.530 --> 00:49:32.730 I don't know I mean there's we have like Coachella 00:49:32.730 --> 00:49:35.530 but like Super Bowl the Super Bowl is massive 00:49:35.530 --> 00:49:40.699 it's like one of the most watched programs ever, 00:49:41.219 --> 00:49:47.460 and it's so American. So I love that he's gonna 00:49:47.460 --> 00:49:51.280 be headlining and just be performing his music 00:49:51.280 --> 00:49:56.940 that is all in Spanish, but it's also like... 00:49:56.940 --> 00:49:58.380 Yeah, I don't know. It was seeming like he was 00:49:58.380 --> 00:50:00.340 standing on business about like not being in 00:50:00.340 --> 00:50:03.960 America right now, but then he's gonna be in 00:50:03.960 --> 00:50:06.730 America for like... the biggest American program 00:50:06.730 --> 00:50:09.130 ever. So I don't know. I mean, it'll be interesting. 00:50:09.250 --> 00:50:11.489 I'm very excited to see his performance. I really 00:50:11.489 --> 00:50:15.369 enjoy Bad Bunny. I have a good amount of his 00:50:15.369 --> 00:50:19.369 music liked. I really liked his most recent album. 00:50:19.849 --> 00:50:24.230 I thought it was beautiful. Do I speak Spanish? 00:50:24.329 --> 00:50:27.909 No, I don't. I know a little bit. I do like I've 00:50:27.909 --> 00:50:29.889 looked into the lyrics of like his music that 00:50:29.889 --> 00:50:33.329 I listen to. And yeah, I think it's great. And 00:50:33.329 --> 00:50:35.960 I think it's gonna just be really interesting 00:50:35.960 --> 00:50:41.940 to see how people feel about that but um yeah 00:50:41.940 --> 00:50:45.420 because i feel like you can't really make a crazy 00:50:45.420 --> 00:50:50.980 statement on the super bowl like you can because 00:50:50.980 --> 00:50:54.360 even kendrick lamar like kendrick lamar is very 00:50:54.360 --> 00:50:58.380 it seems like radical he's very like he's always 00:50:58.380 --> 00:51:06.260 been very um What am I trying to say he criticizes 00:51:06.260 --> 00:51:10.900 America a lot But it feels like with the last 00:51:10.900 --> 00:51:18.980 Super Bowl like he I Don't know like it was still 00:51:18.980 --> 00:51:22.239 a lot of symbolism that almost seemed like Patriotic 00:51:22.239 --> 00:51:24.900 in a way and I feel like you can't really go 00:51:24.900 --> 00:51:26.900 too much against the grade because this is the 00:51:26.900 --> 00:51:30.820 Super Bowl This is one of the most Viewed programs 00:51:33.199 --> 00:51:36.159 Every year and so it's just like they're they're 00:51:36.159 --> 00:51:38.239 not gonna allow you to like say some off -the 00:51:38.239 --> 00:51:44.360 -wall shit. So I Don't know. We'll see. Um We 00:51:44.360 --> 00:51:49.719 will see and then lastly Hardy B and Nicki Minaj 00:51:49.719 --> 00:51:55.400 beefing again Again, I have not really looked 00:51:55.400 --> 00:51:57.840 into this. I honestly don't really care. It's 00:51:57.840 --> 00:52:02.239 just like disappointing more so from Nikki from 00:52:02.239 --> 00:52:08.000 Nikki's side. And, I mean, we can talk about 00:52:08.000 --> 00:52:09.599 this at a later date. I have a lot of thoughts 00:52:09.599 --> 00:52:12.920 on Nicki Minaj. I mean, like, she raised me. 00:52:13.099 --> 00:52:17.539 Like, very much raised me. My older sibling was 00:52:17.539 --> 00:52:21.340 really, really into Nicki. And, I mean, yeah. 00:52:22.460 --> 00:52:25.159 Nikki is the queen of rap. She paved the way 00:52:25.159 --> 00:52:31.199 for other women to rap. and be successful. And 00:52:31.199 --> 00:52:38.199 I think Nicki Minaj was at one point really great. 00:52:39.079 --> 00:52:44.320 And over time, she's kind of just lost her sparkle 00:52:44.320 --> 00:52:47.380 in the sense that she's just been very combative 00:52:47.380 --> 00:52:57.809 and very unhappy and very very aggressive towards 00:52:57.809 --> 00:53:02.750 other, towards newer female rappers who are trying 00:53:02.750 --> 00:53:06.070 to do exactly what she did 15 years ago. They're 00:53:06.070 --> 00:53:08.309 trying to make away from themselves. They're 00:53:08.309 --> 00:53:10.030 trying to say whatever they have to say, whatever. 00:53:11.230 --> 00:53:14.329 Nicki has been so like just beefing with these 00:53:14.329 --> 00:53:16.730 new girls. And I'm like, you don't, it's just 00:53:16.730 --> 00:53:18.170 weird. Cause it's just like, you don't have to 00:53:18.170 --> 00:53:23.869 do this. Like you don't have to, you don't have 00:53:23.869 --> 00:53:27.599 to like, She still argues with people and is 00:53:27.599 --> 00:53:29.639 so aggressive as if she still has something to 00:53:29.639 --> 00:53:32.380 prove. You don't have anything to prove. You've 00:53:32.380 --> 00:53:36.739 done it. I sometimes just wish she would just 00:53:36.739 --> 00:53:41.820 sit and just chill. I don't know. Just don't 00:53:41.820 --> 00:53:44.880 be doing the fucking most. But her and Cardi 00:53:44.880 --> 00:53:46.659 were just going back and forth and like, I'm 00:53:46.659 --> 00:53:48.420 not on Twitter right now. I haven't been for 00:53:48.420 --> 00:53:51.780 a very long time. But just saying some crazy 00:53:51.780 --> 00:53:56.219 shit like, Nicki called. culture, Cardi B's daughter, 00:53:57.699 --> 00:54:01.639 ugly, basically called her like a roach, like 00:54:01.639 --> 00:54:07.000 roach something, creatures, animals, was just 00:54:07.000 --> 00:54:13.099 calling her anything, which is like, girl, I 00:54:13.099 --> 00:54:14.780 don't think we need to be bringing children into 00:54:14.780 --> 00:54:18.119 this. Like, I don't think that's okay. It's crazy 00:54:18.119 --> 00:54:20.699 to say that about someone else's young child 00:54:20.699 --> 00:54:24.139 when you yourself have a young kid. And then 00:54:24.139 --> 00:54:26.199 Cardi went back and was like, oh, you know, your 00:54:26.199 --> 00:54:30.500 son is nonverbal because so and so, and it just 00:54:30.500 --> 00:54:34.639 got really, really dark. And I don't really know, 00:54:34.639 --> 00:54:38.699 but it's like, y 'all, it makes me so sad because 00:54:38.699 --> 00:54:41.579 it's just like, Nikki and Cardi could be such 00:54:41.579 --> 00:54:45.940 a, not necessarily a duo, but they could really 00:54:45.940 --> 00:54:49.199 do something with their talents combined together. 00:54:50.659 --> 00:54:53.449 And I mean, Cardi B's definitely not rapping 00:54:53.449 --> 00:55:00.309 on the level that Nicki Minaj is or was, but 00:55:00.309 --> 00:55:02.750 I think Cardi's talented. I think she has, you 00:55:02.750 --> 00:55:05.150 know, I like Cardi's music. I think she has a 00:55:05.150 --> 00:55:08.269 fun vibe. They could be so successful doing things 00:55:08.269 --> 00:55:11.909 together, but instead, instead we're at war with 00:55:11.909 --> 00:55:14.809 one another, like literally just saying the most 00:55:14.809 --> 00:55:20.170 heinous shit. So that was wild. That was wild 00:55:20.170 --> 00:55:22.739 and it was sad and I was like... oh my god this 00:55:22.739 --> 00:55:25.659 is getting crazy the girls are fighting like 00:55:25.659 --> 00:55:28.679 that's what it is like the girls are just fighting 00:55:28.679 --> 00:55:33.559 right now everyone's beefing taylor charlie nicky 00:55:33.559 --> 00:55:38.059 cardi apparently jt and santana which i don't 00:55:38.059 --> 00:55:41.219 even care to talk about the girls are fighting 00:55:41.219 --> 00:55:48.199 right now and it's stressing me out um but okay 00:55:48.199 --> 00:55:51.340 i've been talking for long enough Sorry for talking 00:55:51.340 --> 00:55:54.239 about like cheating for literally 20 minutes. 00:55:54.300 --> 00:55:58.860 Hopefully this was interesting I'm going to get 00:55:58.860 --> 00:56:02.199 on with the rest of my day Hope you guys enjoyed. 00:56:02.400 --> 00:56:04.360 See you next week. Bye