1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:07,000 So the big question is this, how do young men like us, who didn't listen to society, 2 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:13,920 who are on our own, how do we grow and improve ourselves so that we can live a better tomorrow? 3 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:17,720 That is the question and this show will give you the answers. 4 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:26,760 My name is James Radzinski and welcome to the Ascend Momentum Show. 5 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:28,320 Welcome back everyone. 6 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:32,880 So for me, this is my second episode recording today. 7 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:38,240 So if you haven't heard yesterday's episode, I actually explained what I was doing. 8 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:45,720 I recorded my normal episode first and then I meditated and then I'm starting to record 9 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:46,720 this. 10 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:49,160 So, so far I've meditated three times. 11 00:00:49,160 --> 00:00:54,760 So I've meditated for like 90 minutes today so far and I've got another one right before 12 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:55,760 I go to bed. 13 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:59,920 I've meditated for two hours. 14 00:00:59,920 --> 00:01:01,480 Is that right? 15 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:05,760 Yeah, two hours today instead of an hour and a half. 16 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:13,160 So but I mainly did the meditation before this because I did a meditation before my first 17 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:20,640 episode I recorded which was 65 and then I meditated after just before this. 18 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:25,040 But as you guys can tell from the title, this is Transurfing Principles Part 7. 19 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:31,320 So you, if you haven't listened to the other ones, I recommend you do. 20 00:01:31,320 --> 00:01:36,920 It would just give you context on some terms like pendulums, excess potential, many different 21 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:40,800 terms that you'll be able to better understand what I'm talking. 22 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:43,760 But you can definitely listen to this standalone. 23 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:51,920 So with that being said, also I want to tell you that all of the stuff, like most of this, 24 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:57,920 the way this works, if you haven't heard past episodes on this is I take notes while I'm 25 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:04,320 reading the book called Reality Transurfing, Steps 1-5 by Vatom Zellin. 26 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:09,680 And then usually my notes are just word for word copy, like just copied exactly from the 27 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:10,800 book. 28 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:17,440 And then I go back every once in a while and recap like my most important notes and then 29 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:22,720 rewrite them down in a new part of my journal called Transurfing Principles. 30 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:29,760 And from there, I basically just read exactly what I wrote down and then talk on it. 31 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:38,520 So a lot of the stuff that I'll be saying is exactly from the book called Reality Transurfing, 32 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:40,560 Steps 1-5 by Vatom Zellin. 33 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:46,360 And it's the best book I've ever read and I recommend it 100%. 34 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:51,240 So with that being said, let's get right into the episode. 35 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:54,320 Everyone is capable of influencing the course of events. 36 00:02:54,320 --> 00:03:00,200 All right, so there are many different types of people in this world, but there's really 37 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:02,080 mainly two different types of people. 38 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:04,960 There's the 99% and then there's the 1%. 39 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:13,160 So the 99% are basically victims of, like they're victim to the circumstance. 40 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:21,240 They're basically just floating along life and kind of consciously asleep the whole 41 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:22,240 time. 42 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:26,800 And they basically think that life just happens to them. 43 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:29,320 But then the 1% actually influences. 44 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:33,560 They actually take charge of their own destiny and actually influence life. 45 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:39,200 And everyone's actually capable of becoming the 1%, but there's a thing called Pendulums 46 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:45,320 which basically teach you exactly what you need to be taught to keep you in your place. 47 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:51,640 And it's really only 1% of the world that sees through this lie and knows that they 48 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:53,920 can actually influence the course of events. 49 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:58,480 So everyone is capable of it, but only the 1% actually do it. 50 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:01,600 Life is wonderful and gets better with every passing day. 51 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:09,120 So this is an affirmation to, and just like a confirmation to remind yourself that you 52 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:13,640 basically choose whether you suffer or delight. 53 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:17,880 And you actually, since the world is a mirror, I talked a lot about this last episode, since 54 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:22,200 the world is mirror, you basically get to choose if you want your world to be on a downhill 55 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:23,600 or an uphill. 56 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:29,520 And you would want your world to be on an uphill because you'll always be getting better 57 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:30,520 and better. 58 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:35,160 So always remind yourself that life is wonderful right now and it's just getting better every 59 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:36,400 single day. 60 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:39,640 Every single day is better than the last. 61 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:41,440 Reduce importance and go with the flow. 62 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:44,920 So this is all about going. 63 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:54,440 So a lot of people have a, most people have a tendency to want to control the situations. 64 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:59,480 And when you come up with a goal, you instantly create a plan on how to move forward and how 65 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:01,520 it will be achieved. 66 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:06,160 But if you're using our intention, which is basically allowing the world to help you 67 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:08,920 realize it, your goal. 68 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:12,720 And if you're using the mirror principle, like I said in yesterday's episode, if you 69 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:19,360 send out your order to the world, then the world, like you, the world will create. 70 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:24,320 So I'm going to reference yesterday's episode a lot because I just recorded it and I think 71 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:29,960 you guys should listen to it because it's some good context, but episode 65, that is. 72 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:40,400 And basically, so once you send your order out, you send out your order and you, I'm 73 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:44,360 talking in a restaurant, let's say you're sitting in a restaurant and you send out your 74 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:49,280 order and then the waiter goes back to the kitchen and tells the chef to cook it or cook 75 00:05:49,280 --> 00:05:51,200 your order basically. 76 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:58,480 And would you go and go barge storming into the kitchen and tell the chef that he's doing 77 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:02,560 it all wrong and that he should cook it like this instead of that? 78 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:03,640 No, you wouldn't. 79 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:05,360 That's just not how things go. 80 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:07,160 The chef cooks it. 81 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:08,840 The chef is actually better than you. 82 00:06:08,840 --> 00:06:13,960 That's why the chef is a chef and you're the customer in the restaurant because you're 83 00:06:13,960 --> 00:06:18,560 going into the restaurant to get better food than you can necessarily cook. 84 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:24,080 So the chef, I'm just, okay, let's say you're in Gordon Ramsay's restaurant and he is cooking 85 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:25,440 for you. 86 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:28,960 He is way better of a cook than you. 87 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:33,880 I'm just speaking objective and I'm assuming that you're not a good cook. 88 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:37,800 So if you're just a normal person and you go into the Gordon Ramsay's restaurant and 89 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:41,280 you go barging in and tell him, this is not how you cook it. 90 00:06:41,280 --> 00:06:42,520 You should cook it like this. 91 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:46,560 No, you wouldn't do that because he actually knows more than you and he's actually better 92 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:48,440 than you at cooking. 93 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:54,560 Now the world is just like that except people tend to go barging into the kitchen and tell 94 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:58,160 the world exactly how to... 95 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:00,160 People think they have... 96 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:07,640 People have so much, so high of an ego or so high of an importance that they actually think 97 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:13,360 that they're capable of knowing exactly how their goal should be realized. 98 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:19,400 So what happens is when they see that the world is basically cooking your goal in the 99 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:25,040 best way possible but you actually, since it doesn't fit into your script, the world 100 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:30,200 is basically making it the most effective way possible but it doesn't fit into your 101 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:35,320 script so you actually try and barge into the kitchen and tell the world not to do that. 102 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:41,040 And it's just that's going against the flow and it's just not good. 103 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:44,960 You're actually hurting your chances of achieving the goal and actually making it take longer 104 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:47,440 and less effectively. 105 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:52,880 And also reduce importance because the less importance you have, the more influence on 106 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:54,600 the world you have. 107 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:57,080 So there's a thing called excess potential. 108 00:07:57,080 --> 00:07:59,680 I'm about to see... 109 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:06,360 Excuse me, I just sneezed but that probably sounded really weird how I said that but there's 110 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:10,640 a thing called importance and people place importance on a lot of things. 111 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:15,280 It's just placing an extra excess meaning on something when in reality, let's say you 112 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:18,560 have a poster that you cherish and love in your room. 113 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:20,840 That is simply just a piece of paper. 114 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:24,320 It's like not worth that much on an energetically level. 115 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:29,000 It's basically worthless but you cherish it and you love it so much and you don't want 116 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:34,160 it to break, you don't want it to rip, you take very good care of it and you basically 117 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:36,800 all around worship it. 118 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:41,840 That is placing a lot of importance in excess meaning and that's on the far end of the scale 119 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:45,720 but it can be any end of the scale, negative or positive. 120 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:51,160 You can absolutely hate the poster and it'll still be the same. 121 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:56,880 You'll be creating importance and then it doesn't have to be to that extreme either. 122 00:08:56,880 --> 00:08:59,600 You're still creating importance. 123 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:04,000 If you inflate the meaning, you attribute to something. 124 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:07,240 And basically whenever you are... 125 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:11,800 When you have too much importance, you're basically creating excess potential and that 126 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:13,440 is basically destroying the balance. 127 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:15,680 So there's a thing in the world. 128 00:09:15,680 --> 00:09:17,840 The world likes to maintain balance. 129 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:23,840 That's why we have night and day, the incoming and outgoing tides. 130 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:28,800 The world's always trying to maintain a state of equilibrium, a state of balance. 131 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:33,000 And so when you create excess potential by having importance, you're basically destroying 132 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:34,000 the balance. 133 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:41,080 This thing, these things called balance forces, balancing forces, enter into your life and 134 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:47,200 the way they restore the balance is simply by reducing your influence on the world. 135 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:52,480 And it just makes sense to, if you want to achieve goals, you want to have a lot of influence 136 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:53,680 on the world. 137 00:09:53,680 --> 00:09:57,640 So simply just don't create importance. 138 00:09:57,640 --> 00:10:01,320 The mind has an inclination to control everything. 139 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:03,280 So offer it a new game. 140 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:08,960 Every time something bad happens, wake up, consciously reduce importance and change your 141 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:12,520 relationship with the problem from the negative to the positive. 142 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:16,880 Okay, so this is basically playing the game of coordination. 143 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:19,640 Now like I said, like it... 144 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:22,800 Okay, so that was an entire quote from Transurfing. 145 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:30,200 And like I said, that the mind has a tendency to control everything. 146 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:32,920 So that's true. 147 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:37,280 Like I said about the waiter in the restaurant, people actually... 148 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:42,400 It seems crazy in the context of a normal restaurant that someone would go barge into 149 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:44,040 the kitchen and tell... 150 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:46,200 Try and control the situation. 151 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:49,120 Seems crazy, but that's actually how people behave. 152 00:10:49,120 --> 00:10:53,760 That's how the 99% of people behave in real life. 153 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:58,080 They barge into the kitchen and tell the world they're doing it all wrong. 154 00:10:58,080 --> 00:11:03,880 And in reality, obviously we don't know how to achieve our goals or else we would have 155 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:05,200 already achieved it. 156 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:08,720 So just release the grip. 157 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:09,720 It's all... 158 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:14,040 Whenever you come up with a problem, whenever something bad happens, let's say you stub 159 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:17,240 your toe, simply just wake up. 160 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:21,160 If you stub your toe, you're most likely consciously asleep. 161 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:24,440 A lot of times during the day, people are asleep. 162 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:26,120 Their consciousness is asleep. 163 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:32,320 So when you stub your toe, just wake up and reduce the importance because you've probably 164 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:36,280 placed an inflated importance on something and then change your relationship with that 165 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:37,280 problem. 166 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:43,120 So people have a tendency to get angry and interpret stubbing your toe as bad. 167 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:44,120 Why is it bad? 168 00:11:44,120 --> 00:11:50,800 Well, I mean, it hurts, but what if it's protecting you from something else? 169 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:51,960 What if something worse happened? 170 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:53,520 Or like there's... 171 00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:56,080 Stubbing your toe is actually just like an event. 172 00:11:56,080 --> 00:11:59,400 It's the same as walking. 173 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:00,400 You could have... 174 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:06,880 You stubbing your toe, you interpret that event as bad, but if you just clapped your 175 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:09,720 hands, that's neutral. 176 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:13,360 If you just start clapping like this, I don't know if you can hear that, but if you just 177 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:18,480 start clapping your hands, most people when they're clapping, they don't really think anything 178 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:21,760 of it because there's no importance attributed to it. 179 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:26,920 But when someone stubs their toe, they get super pissed off, super angry. 180 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:28,960 And I've seen it happen many times. 181 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:33,240 And that's just simply because there's low awareness in that case. 182 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:39,360 And if you simply just wake up and you realize that you just did that, just act with indifference 183 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:44,080 and change your relationship, you can actually go from the negative to the positive and act 184 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:46,480 like that was actually exactly what you needed. 185 00:12:46,480 --> 00:12:50,000 And I'm genuinely be happy about that. 186 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:55,800 And I usually find it easier to just act with indifference because I find it difficult 187 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:57,360 to be happy about stubbing my toe. 188 00:12:57,360 --> 00:13:01,520 So I just simply just act with indifference and forget about it. 189 00:13:01,520 --> 00:13:08,200 When you encounter an event, you are at a crossroads between a negative and positive 190 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:09,360 outcome. 191 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:13,920 And your relation to the event chooses the outcome. 192 00:13:13,920 --> 00:13:20,400 All right, so basically when you stub your toe, you're at a crossroads. 193 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:21,800 So imagine a fork in the road. 194 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:23,560 There's a left or a right. 195 00:13:23,560 --> 00:13:25,600 Those are the only two options to go. 196 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:27,680 Left side is a negative route. 197 00:13:27,680 --> 00:13:29,600 And then the right side is a positive route. 198 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:35,760 Now what happens in the negative is usually your life goes downhill from there and another 199 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:39,680 negative event pops up and then another one and then another one. 200 00:13:39,680 --> 00:13:42,240 And then your life is just downhill. 201 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:47,880 For the positive, you simply just protect yourself from all those next negative events 202 00:13:47,880 --> 00:13:51,960 and then your life can actually get better and better. 203 00:13:51,960 --> 00:13:58,280 So the way you choose which way you want to go is by your attitude, your relationship 204 00:13:58,280 --> 00:13:59,960 towards what just happened. 205 00:13:59,960 --> 00:14:03,760 So if you are very mad about what just happened, you're going to go the left way, the negative 206 00:14:03,760 --> 00:14:04,760 route. 207 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:07,400 And then you're just going to get another negative situation. 208 00:14:07,400 --> 00:14:11,600 And then if you interpret that bad, another and then you're just going to go downhill. 209 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:19,840 But if you are neutral or happy about that situation, then you'll go the positive route. 210 00:14:19,840 --> 00:14:24,720 So that's pretty much anytime anything happens. 211 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:27,680 Choose to perceive anything as positive. 212 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:29,240 All right. 213 00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:32,040 So you can choose. 214 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:37,800 So one of the nice features of the human, human experience is you can actually choose 215 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:42,880 and consciously manipulate, consciously change your relationship to things. 216 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:46,160 So you can actually consciously change your attitude. 217 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:51,720 And if you choose, like most people choose to interpret things as negative. 218 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:55,400 Now they're not, most likely they're not consciously choosing. 219 00:14:55,400 --> 00:15:00,560 They're usually asleep in a basically in a daydream, in a haze. 220 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:02,760 And so, but they're still choosing to do that. 221 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:10,800 Like they still choose to get mad and they're still choosing to be asleep. 222 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:14,800 But if you just choose to perceive everything as positive, like it's all your choice. 223 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:19,400 And the more and more times you choose it, like the more and more times you choose to 224 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:24,280 wake up, the better and more often you'll be awake. 225 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:31,160 And I've discovered this because during summers when I actually started to be serious about 226 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:36,520 being consciously awake most of the day and like actually starting to become consciously 227 00:15:36,520 --> 00:15:39,760 awake, that's that happened over the summer. 228 00:15:39,760 --> 00:15:46,280 And what happened is I like in the beginning I was only awake like five times a day. 229 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:50,160 Maybe I would remind myself five times a day, maybe even less. 230 00:15:50,160 --> 00:15:54,680 And then after every single day would be like five for like three days in a row and then 231 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:58,360 it'd be like six for another three days and then seven and then eight. 232 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:02,080 And then it would ramp up and now I'm probably at like hundreds. 233 00:16:02,080 --> 00:16:03,600 And that's basically the goal. 234 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:09,720 You want to remind yourself to wake up every single minute, every single second of the day. 235 00:16:09,720 --> 00:16:19,120 And so I'm way further along than I was like a month ago, but I'm still got a long way 236 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:20,120 to go. 237 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:24,720 And it's simply just keep on going at it and then eventually a habit will form and 238 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:28,240 then you'll create a feedback loop from there. 239 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:32,360 Noiances are a deviation from the norm. 240 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:33,360 Okay. 241 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:37,760 So when you stub your toe, that's like not normal, right? 242 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:40,040 It's not a normal thing to happen. 243 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:43,040 So and it's because it's a deviation from the norm. 244 00:16:43,040 --> 00:16:44,960 And so that's why it's annoying. 245 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:48,600 But if you change your relationship like and you realize that that's just a deviation, 246 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:51,440 then that's the only reason why it's annoying. 247 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:53,520 Like it's annoying because it's not normal. 248 00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:56,440 It's not like it doesn't normally happen. 249 00:16:56,440 --> 00:16:58,760 But if you just realize, oh, it doesn't normally happen. 250 00:16:58,760 --> 00:17:00,320 So I don't normally have to deal with this. 251 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:04,480 It's just a deviation and then just go on with your day. 252 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:10,200 The moment you see a scenario changing, you must accept the change and agree to them. 253 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:11,040 All right. 254 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:18,680 So when, okay, let's say you have a big goal, a goal, the achievement of a goal requires 255 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:19,680 change. 256 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:24,760 So if you're middle class and you, your goal is to live in a mansion, then that's probably, 257 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:26,000 that's going to take a lot of change. 258 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:31,000 Like a lot of things need to change in your life in order for you to achieve that. 259 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:35,480 And so the world will actually help you make those changes. 260 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:39,880 And a lot of the times people set a goal and then they see things changing. 261 00:17:39,880 --> 00:17:45,680 And a lot of the times they don't agree with the changes because their mind actually creates 262 00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:46,960 like a plan. 263 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:51,920 Like I said earlier, their mind actually sets a path forward on the most efficient. 264 00:17:51,920 --> 00:17:55,080 And I say that with bunny ears, the most efficient path forward. 265 00:17:55,080 --> 00:18:00,520 But the mind actually cannot know, like there's, it's impossible for the mind to know exactly 266 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:01,520 the right path forward. 267 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:08,880 And the metaphor, my favorite metaphor to use is the process towards your goal is actually 268 00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:11,160 just a journey through a dark forest. 269 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:13,840 So imagine you're in the middle of a dark forest. 270 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:14,840 It's pitch black out. 271 00:18:14,840 --> 00:18:19,360 You can't see anything, but you're given a torch and this torch lights up one foot in 272 00:18:19,360 --> 00:18:20,360 front of you. 273 00:18:20,360 --> 00:18:23,800 So you can only see literally the next step. 274 00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:25,160 And that's it. 275 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:27,080 Now that's the journey towards your goal. 276 00:18:27,080 --> 00:18:30,160 You can like create a whole plan on how to get there. 277 00:18:30,160 --> 00:18:31,160 Like there's going to be a bridge. 278 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:32,640 There's going to be a waterfall there. 279 00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:35,480 Like, but that's all just illusions. 280 00:18:35,480 --> 00:18:39,640 Like that you can't actually know exactly the right path forward. 281 00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:41,240 It's just like that. 282 00:18:41,240 --> 00:18:47,720 And so whenever there's change, you just simply accept it and agree with it because the world 283 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:51,800 knows the exact, the world knows exactly what it's doing and it's going to fulfill your 284 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:52,800 order. 285 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:57,880 If you just let it and then you accept the fact that the world knows and you don't necessarily 286 00:18:57,880 --> 00:19:04,040 allow yourself not to know when you give up control over a situation, you are returned 287 00:19:04,040 --> 00:19:06,920 control except now you are going with the flow. 288 00:19:06,920 --> 00:19:12,040 So this is all about giving up direct impact, like direct impact. 289 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:14,000 So control through direct impact. 290 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:19,040 And that's like when you come across a snake in your path. 291 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:26,680 When you're in the journey through the forest, then like control when people would try to 292 00:19:26,680 --> 00:19:30,760 like kill the snake or like brush it away or like run away. 293 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:32,400 Like that would be control. 294 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:40,760 Like, but if you give that control up, then you would actually are returned with control, 295 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:43,320 but now you're going in the right direction. 296 00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:48,000 So you were actually supposed to kill the snake or run away. 297 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:52,520 You were actually supposed to just release the control and then allow the snake to slither 298 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:56,160 on away. 299 00:19:56,160 --> 00:20:00,440 The mind is incapable of anticipating every move beforehand. 300 00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:03,280 That's exactly what I said like about the dark forest. 301 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:06,000 You can't like, there's, it's impossible to know the right way forward. 302 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,840 You've never been in this forest before. 303 00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:13,640 And even if you have been in the forest before, it's highly unlikely that you have like a 304 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:19,080 perfect mental map on every single way forward. 305 00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:24,520 All you have to do is run the target side and follow the principle of coordination and 306 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:27,080 outer intention will successfully bring you to your goal. 307 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:32,880 So when you're in your dark forest and you only have that torch and your objective is 308 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:37,640 to get to the other side of the forest, this specific spot, like this specific waterfall 309 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:39,680 in the forest. 310 00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:41,560 That's your objective. 311 00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:46,680 All you have to do is keep on visualizing and you would have a general direction. 312 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:52,720 So in your goal, like you have a general direction on how you move forward, but you're not necessarily 313 00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:57,280 moving in the correct, like perfect direction. 314 00:20:57,280 --> 00:21:02,120 And so it's simply just run your target side, visualize that waterfall and that as if, as 315 00:21:02,120 --> 00:21:06,680 if you've already achieved it, like visualize it as if you've already, you're already there. 316 00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:12,080 Like visualize your life as if it's already been achieved and it's like a done deal. 317 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:13,560 And then follow the principle of coordination. 318 00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:20,360 So go with the flow, remain balanced, unity of heart and mind and just interpret all events 319 00:21:20,360 --> 00:21:21,360 as positive. 320 00:21:21,360 --> 00:21:22,360 It's that crossroads. 321 00:21:22,360 --> 00:21:26,760 So you could see a snake in your path and be mad or you can see a snake in your path 322 00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:30,160 and be delighted. 323 00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:31,960 Coordination develops with practice. 324 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:37,160 So you have to be constantly developing and perfecting your ability. 325 00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:41,080 So coordination is a skill and the better and better you get at it, the more effective 326 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:42,080 you are. 327 00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:46,600 And Van Amozalen actually said that coordination is the most effective means of traveling through 328 00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:48,280 the alternative space. 329 00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:53,320 And this dark forest metaphor, that dark forest is actually the alternative space and the 330 00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:58,480 lit up area with the torch is actually manifested like physical reality. 331 00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:01,400 So your life right now is the torch that's lit up. 332 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:04,560 It's the lit up area by the torch. 333 00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:08,560 And the dark forest is the alternative space and the alternative space has everything that 334 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:17,680 ever was, is or will be and it has every single possible outcome, every single thing. 335 00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:21,800 And the next one is actually coordination is the most effective means of moving through 336 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:23,920 the alternative space. 337 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:27,840 So according to your faith, be it onto you. 338 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:33,000 That's actually a script verse in the scripture and I'm pretty sure Jesus said it. 339 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:39,360 But pretty much Van Amozalen said that that really means you only ever receive as much 340 00:22:39,360 --> 00:22:41,320 as you are willing to receive. 341 00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:49,040 So pretty much your worldview actually determines your life. 342 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:54,800 And we're actually going to be getting into this in the next couple of quotes and pretty 343 00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:59,480 much you like every single thing that you have in your life, your entire life is based 344 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:02,480 off of your worldview. 345 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:10,280 And yes, that is this your worldview is basically formed by your like where you you're starting 346 00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:11,280 point. 347 00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:17,360 So if you were born into poverty, then your worldview will be basically formed in like 348 00:23:17,360 --> 00:23:21,280 in that sense because that's like what you've experienced and that's like how you see the 349 00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:22,400 world. 350 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:26,760 But you can actually change that and then if you're willing to receive more than you 351 00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:30,280 will actually get out of poverty. 352 00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:36,120 So the next one is you have you have what you have because it corresponds with your 353 00:23:36,120 --> 00:23:39,140 worldview and vision of your place in the world. 354 00:23:39,140 --> 00:23:45,080 So yeah, that's exactly like I like all this stuff is starting to make sense. 355 00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:47,040 And I've only read this book. 356 00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:48,680 I've I haven't even read it twice yet. 357 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:52,100 I have one like less than 100 pages left on my second read through. 358 00:23:52,100 --> 00:23:54,360 So I'm almost done with my second read through. 359 00:23:54,360 --> 00:23:57,680 And this stuff is starting to all come together. 360 00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:03,560 And like literally, it just makes sense that your thoughts, your like attitude towards 361 00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:10,360 the world actually affects your world because there's a reason why people most of the time 362 00:24:10,360 --> 00:24:17,920 people are born like let's say you're born into middle class, your most people stay in 363 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:19,320 middle class forever. 364 00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:27,000 Now the exceptions are the select few that are shot up into like upper class or lower 365 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:28,760 class. 366 00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:33,000 And those people do it on like, especially the upper class, they do it on purpose. 367 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:34,400 It does not happen on accident. 368 00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:35,520 Their worldview has changed. 369 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:40,960 They allow themselves to receive more and they see themself, their vision of themself 370 00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:43,960 in the world is much higher than middle class. 371 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:50,880 So that's they receive exactly what what they like their worldview and they're what they 372 00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:52,800 see with themself in the world. 373 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:56,920 And that's exactly according to your faith, be it on, be it onto you. 374 00:24:56,920 --> 00:25:04,480 And I actually really like that verse now that of Adam's arm has explained what it means. 375 00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:08,960 Your your fate is shaped to reflect your personal choices and beliefs. 376 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:17,120 So when you your fate in life is exactly shaped to reflect your personal choices and beliefs 377 00:25:17,120 --> 00:25:22,760 and the personal choices is actually is affected by your beliefs. 378 00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:26,680 So I'll go so far to say that your fate is shaped by your beliefs. 379 00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:31,120 And if you change your beliefs, your worldview, then you'll change your fate. 380 00:25:31,120 --> 00:25:33,560 And that's what I'm doing by studying Transurfing. 381 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:36,640 It is radically changing my worldview. 382 00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:39,800 So now as a result, my life will be radically changed. 383 00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:45,720 But remember, the world is a mirror and except the world mirror has a delay. 384 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:52,120 So you change your worldview and then there will be a delay between your the change of 385 00:25:52,120 --> 00:25:57,400 your worldview and actual change in physical reality. 386 00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:58,600 So just be prepared for that. 387 00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:02,200 And I am prepared for it right now. 388 00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:06,880 Fix your mind's control and shift your attention to the slightest signs of inner discomfort. 389 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:11,320 Now this is all about the the heart. 390 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:14,040 So your mind has a tendency. 391 00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:16,920 So I'm referring to the mind, the left side of your brain. 392 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:20,000 You have two sides of your brain, the left side and the right side. 393 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:26,120 And the left side is based off of logic and reasoning and actually perceives and interprets 394 00:26:26,120 --> 00:26:28,840 like information from the outside world. 395 00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:34,760 And then the right side is all about emotion, creativity, and it feels and those things. 396 00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:39,520 And so your left side actually basically controls the ship. 397 00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:46,040 Your left side talks like that's the inner monologue in your in your head. 398 00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:50,600 It's constantly talking to itself, your mind. 399 00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:52,560 And the left side is the mind, the right side is the heart. 400 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:56,320 So I'll refer to that as such for now on. 401 00:26:56,320 --> 00:27:01,760 And so if you just relax your mind's control over the situation, like I said earlier, you 402 00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:07,960 wouldn't barge into a kitchen and tell the chef how to like you wouldn't try and control 403 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:09,720 that situation. 404 00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:15,440 So then you relax the control and then shift your mind's attention to the slightest signs 405 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:16,640 of inner discomfort. 406 00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:23,720 So the mind actually has two functionalities, but most people only use their mind to fulfill 407 00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:25,480 one functionality. 408 00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:30,800 And the two functionalities are to receive and interpret information from the outside 409 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:31,800 world. 410 00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:35,600 So you're using your left side of your mind to interpret the information that I'm speaking 411 00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:37,120 to you right now. 412 00:27:37,120 --> 00:27:43,720 But it also has another, another functionality that most people actually don't even do, don't 413 00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:44,720 even use. 414 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:49,280 And it's actually to listen to the right side of the mind, which is the heart. 415 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:51,240 Listen to the Russell of the Morning Stars. 416 00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:56,520 And that's listening to the whispers, the slightest signs of your heart. 417 00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:57,880 And that's the inner discomfort. 418 00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:04,200 So whenever you make a decision or you've already made a decision and you're about to, 419 00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:08,200 then your heart will actually give its input because the heart knows things. 420 00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:13,280 So the heart will actually know how like the heart can see and feel and know how the situation 421 00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:14,360 will develop. 422 00:28:14,360 --> 00:28:19,600 So if the, if you have signs of inner discomfort, then that means the heart is not happy with 423 00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:24,760 the future result, result based on that decision. 424 00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:29,960 So you should go, you should listen to that and then go against it. 425 00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:34,920 And I actually have a story that I've talked to you about on this podcast. 426 00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:44,320 I want to say again, and it's basically I, so I've never really had a good haircut at 427 00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:51,240 great clips and that's simply because I don't really know what style to get. 428 00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:55,680 And I have a hard time like asking, but there's this one time where I was actually happy with 429 00:28:55,680 --> 00:29:01,360 my haircut and it wasn't necessarily too long to cut it. 430 00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:06,000 But I kind of just like decided to go get a haircut because I heard one passing comment 431 00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:08,120 of when are you going to get a haircut? 432 00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:14,360 And I let that get to me and then I, even though my hair, like my style was very good 433 00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:20,080 at the time and it was going to get better if I let it grow out more as well. 434 00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:22,720 So I went to go get a haircut and it was like eight in the morning. 435 00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:30,520 So I, because I got there right after the gym and I was sitting out, it was like 750 436 00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:38,000 and I was sitting out right outside the haircutterie and I was just looking inside at the employees 437 00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:43,280 getting the place open and I was sitting out there for probably like 10, 15 minutes before 438 00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:48,280 they opened and this whole time I, and I was actually reading about Transurfing. 439 00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:51,720 I knew about the, the rest of the morning stars. 440 00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:55,800 So this whole time I was actually like tense. 441 00:29:55,800 --> 00:30:00,000 My heart was actually tense and I was feeling the inner discomfort and I actually felt it 442 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:01,560 and I knew it, but I chose to ignore it. 443 00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:06,620 I was like, no, I need my mind to use the logical reasoning and remember the functionality 444 00:30:06,620 --> 00:30:10,400 of the mind is actually logic and reasoning. 445 00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:15,760 And so my mind was giving lots of plenty of reasonable arguments and then I decided to 446 00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:20,920 ignore my heart and decided to get a haircut anyways. 447 00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:23,080 And it was the worst haircut I've ever gotten. 448 00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:30,080 There was so many red flags going into it and it took literally like an hour and it was 449 00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:32,040 the worst haircut I've ever gotten. 450 00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:38,400 And I got like for the, like next three months people, I basically had like very low self-esteem, 451 00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:47,720 very low like mental because I was just like destroyed by my haircut, especially because 452 00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:50,600 of the comments from other people. 453 00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:54,600 But that's pretty much a situation in which I should have listened to the Russell and 454 00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:56,480 Morning Stars, but I decided not to. 455 00:30:56,480 --> 00:31:01,240 And ever since then I've been listening to it because I know how dangerous it is not 456 00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:02,440 to. 457 00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:08,000 So listen to the signs of the Russell and Morning Stars. 458 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:13,160 Remove the word believe from your worldview template and replace it with no. 459 00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:15,460 So no is K and O W. 460 00:31:15,460 --> 00:31:20,160 So if you believe in things, all right, whatever, belief doesn't really, when there's belief 461 00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:25,560 there's doubt and when there's doubt, your mind actually runs situations of failure. 462 00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:27,360 So that doesn't help you. 463 00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:32,560 But if you believe, if you know that it's possible, if you know that it's going to happen, 464 00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:38,240 then there's no room for doubt and it like is basically guaranteed. 465 00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:42,560 Allow yourself to have the knowing that your desire will be fulfilled and that goes along 466 00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:51,480 with just replace belief with no, like knowledge and just allow yourself to know that allow 467 00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:55,680 yourself to have the knowledge that your desire will be fulfilled. 468 00:31:55,680 --> 00:32:01,400 Because it will as long as you choose for it to the way you choose is through your like 469 00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:06,000 worldview, your mental outlook, your attitude, your mindset, your thoughts, like that's how 470 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:08,520 you choose. 471 00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:14,320 The goal will be received or the goal will be reached if there is the will to have and 472 00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:17,560 if there is the will to act by moving through the right door. 473 00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:23,160 All right, so he actually said that the earlier in the book, he actually said the most guaranteed 474 00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:30,520 the only 100% guarantee of reaching your goal is if it is truly your inner most goal and 475 00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:33,280 you're moving through it through your own door. 476 00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:35,560 And that's basically the door is your path. 477 00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:39,880 And that is like very good. 478 00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:48,240 And then like that's insane to hear that there's like 100% excuse me, there's a 100% chance 479 00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:50,360 of you actually succeeding. 480 00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:55,000 It's uncalled for, especially in today's world. 481 00:32:55,000 --> 00:33:01,840 And the but then you add in the will to have, which the will to have is extremely powerful. 482 00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:06,560 Because if you if you simply just allow yourself to have something, like you're not going to 483 00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:09,320 get something if you don't allow yourself to have it. 484 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:11,280 It just makes sense. 485 00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:15,200 So if you just allow yourself to have it, then you'll actually get it. 486 00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,000 It is your choice. 487 00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:18,000 You are in charge. 488 00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:22,520 So basically you alone, and this is what you have to remind yourself a lot. 489 00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:29,280 If you find yourself like running through possible failures or running through negative 490 00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:34,640 events or whatever the case may be, if you find yourself in doubts or find yourself how 491 00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:37,760 people are preventing you, no, you're in charge. 492 00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:42,880 Like you are the only person who can choose whether you succeed or fail. 493 00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:46,200 And yes, failure is a choice. 494 00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:48,800 Now failure actually helps you move towards your goals. 495 00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:55,160 So at times failure may be inevitable, but you can interpret that failure as simply just 496 00:33:55,160 --> 00:34:01,800 a path towards your goal, or you can interpret that failure as failed and that's it. 497 00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:07,840 You can interpret failure as that's just a stepping stone towards your goal, or that's 498 00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:13,720 the end and that's no more goal. 499 00:34:13,720 --> 00:34:18,200 The task is not to convince yourself, but to remind yourself of the knowledge that you 500 00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:19,760 will achieve your goal. 501 00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:25,200 So every single time you have doubts, just remind yourself that it's simply just a matter 502 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:27,120 of choice and you've already made your choice. 503 00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:28,920 So why question it? 504 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:30,680 Why go back on it? 505 00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:36,240 And you have to maintain that choice the entire time, the entire time until you've achieved 506 00:34:36,240 --> 00:34:37,400 your goal. 507 00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:42,160 And just always remind yourself that you're the only one. 508 00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:43,680 You're like you're in charge. 509 00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:50,520 You're choice and you're the only one that can decide whether you win or not. 510 00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:53,440 Never forget that you are in charge of your own fate. 511 00:34:53,440 --> 00:35:00,880 So like I said, the difference between the 99 and the 1% is the 1% knows that they're 512 00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:02,360 in charge of their fate. 513 00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:08,920 They know they can control their destiny, but the 99% forget and they think that they're 514 00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:15,280 the victim of circumstance, which they are because they chose to be. 515 00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:20,320 Maybe it's not consciously, but they definitely chose or else they wouldn't have gotten that 516 00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:23,760 because you get exactly what you choose in this life. 517 00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:27,800 Holding doubts in your mind is a sure way of reducing your chances of success. 518 00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:30,360 So that's like what I said earlier. 519 00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:34,960 You always have to remind yourself whenever you have doubts that you alone get to choose 520 00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:35,960 whether you win or not. 521 00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:42,880 You've already made that choice, so why hold yourself back, but also like just so always 522 00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:44,000 get rid of your doubts. 523 00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:45,280 Like that's the inner work. 524 00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:50,800 You have to shovel out your doubts every single time and they come back, but the more and 525 00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:54,960 more times you shovel them out, the less and less they come back. 526 00:35:54,960 --> 00:36:01,680 And you basically whenever you have doubts, you're basically running like scenarios of 527 00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:04,960 negative outcomes or scenarios of failure. 528 00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:09,720 And that's no good because you're just attuning yourself to failure, like lifelines where 529 00:36:09,720 --> 00:36:12,400 there's failures. 530 00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:18,720 So just catch yourself when you succumb to doubt and remind yourself that success is 531 00:36:18,720 --> 00:36:20,560 just a question of choice. 532 00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:26,960 You've already made that choice, so why go back? 533 00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:29,640 Think about everyone who's succeeded. 534 00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:38,560 Any person who's succeeded, Bill Gates, George Washington, like literally any person who 535 00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:41,800 has succeeded in life, they chose to do it. 536 00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:43,840 It was not an accident. 537 00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:51,440 They chose and people know like people intuitively understand that LeBron James did not accidentally 538 00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:54,920 become like one of the greatest basketball players in the world. 539 00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:58,360 Like he did not accidentally, he did not stumble upon that. 540 00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:04,160 He chose to do that and his choice was through his daily actions and he was definitely, he 541 00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:08,280 definitely allowed himself to have like he was definitely doing the inner work as well 542 00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:14,760 because you can do the physical work, but if you don't allow yourself to actually be 543 00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:19,160 the best, then you won't. 544 00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:23,360 And so you just always have to catch yourself whenever you succumb to doubt. 545 00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:28,040 Just remind yourself that you've already made the choice and success is bait is just a question 546 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:29,160 of choice. 547 00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:30,280 It's all about choice. 548 00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:38,960 You like people who choose success get it, but people who choose not to not succeed get 549 00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:42,720 exactly that. 550 00:37:42,720 --> 00:37:47,400 Of all the Transurfing exercises, the most attention should be given to running the target 551 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,400 side and visualizing the process. 552 00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:57,200 So that is, he is talking about because there's a few exercises in Transurfing like energy 553 00:37:57,200 --> 00:38:00,080 exercises. 554 00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:03,920 There's like one exercise called the transaction. 555 00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:09,960 There's a, I don't actually know all the exercises, but he basically is saying that the most important 556 00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:14,360 exercises are to run your target side and visualize the process. 557 00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:18,600 Now I haven't been visualizing the process and to be honest, I don't really run the target 558 00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:19,600 side either. 559 00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:24,320 I just think about my goal because I don't, I can't really visualize. 560 00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:28,760 I have like a touch of aphentasia, which means that you're basically blind in the mind's 561 00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:29,760 eye. 562 00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:37,200 So maybe I'm using that as an excuse, but that's why I'm going so heavy into the gateway experience 563 00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:45,280 because I've heard that you can actually manifest things and you can actually visualize and 564 00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:51,200 people, they found that non-visualizers like people with aphentasia are actually sometimes 565 00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:52,440 able to visualize. 566 00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:55,240 And so that's, that's what I am like striving for. 567 00:38:55,240 --> 00:39:03,040 I want to be able to visualize because I, he actually said, I don't remember exactly 568 00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:04,040 where in the book. 569 00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:07,880 I believe it was early in the book, but he actually said, you have to visualize your 570 00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:13,440 goal for at least 30 minutes a day if you want to actually achieve it. 571 00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:19,400 And that, so I've never visualized it for 30 minutes, even one day because it's so hard 572 00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:23,680 for me to focus on it, but I meditate for 90 minutes. 573 00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:28,600 And so once I get to the point where I can get to focus 12 very easily and focus 12 is 574 00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:34,200 like the first date where you can actually visualize, then I'll be able to visualize for 575 00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:37,480 at least 30 minutes every day. 576 00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:39,400 So that'll be a cool thing. 577 00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:46,040 And that's, that's why I'm going so hard into this gateway experience because I know that 578 00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:53,120 visualization is a huge part of trans surfing and I'm doing like most of all other things 579 00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:54,120 except for visualizing. 580 00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:57,360 I'm doing a lot of the other things, but not visualizing. 581 00:39:57,360 --> 00:40:03,240 And this is how I can get like unlock the visualization through practicing the gateway 582 00:40:03,240 --> 00:40:05,320 experience and getting to that point. 583 00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:07,920 And plus it'll just help me everywhere. 584 00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:09,640 Like I was going to do it anyways. 585 00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:15,840 I would do it anyways, even if I, so even if I wasn't able to visualize with it, I was 586 00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:20,800 going to do it anyways because I know that it's so valuable because I meditate, but this 587 00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:27,600 is just a better, like way more effective way of getting better at meditation. 588 00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:30,040 Freedom is yours when you end the battle. 589 00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:36,960 So the battle is the battle of pendulums and a lot of like people are sucked up into the 590 00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:40,000 battle of pendulums by importance. 591 00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:45,240 So whenever you have importance, you're basically caught by a pendulum and you're like a puppet 592 00:40:45,240 --> 00:40:46,440 on strings. 593 00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:50,920 And then when you try and battle it, you're just trying to run away or like you're, it's 594 00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:55,960 just an endless battle and you're actually feeding it energy and making it stronger if 595 00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:57,400 you battle it. 596 00:40:57,400 --> 00:41:02,160 So all you have to do is just wake up, realize the game, understand the rules of the game 597 00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:04,640 and break the rules and end the battle. 598 00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:10,120 And then you actually get the freedom, which is freedom of choice. 599 00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:13,740 Everyone has the absolute freedom to choose their own destiny. 600 00:41:13,740 --> 00:41:15,920 And everyone does choose their own destiny. 601 00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:21,160 It's just some choose objectively worse destiny than others. 602 00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:27,120 And now like there's no judgment, like everyone gets what they choose. 603 00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:33,560 So just, and one of the principles of Transurfing, there's two actually I'm going to say is dependent 604 00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:36,320 relationships and allow others to be themselves. 605 00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:40,720 So dependent relationships don't judge people because you're creating excess potential and 606 00:41:40,720 --> 00:41:44,400 you're actually reducing your own influence on the world when you judge people. 607 00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:51,520 But the other one is, what was it? 608 00:41:51,520 --> 00:42:06,000 I said it out loud so I wouldn't forget it and I forgot it. 609 00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:09,080 I'm just going to start talking and hopefully I'll remember it. 610 00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:17,080 So like when you create a dependent relationship, you are like you're so you're basically comparing 611 00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:19,760 yourself to them and oh, okay, I remember. 612 00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:22,440 So allow others to be themselves. 613 00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:26,600 So one of the transfer from principles is to allow yourself to be yourself, like allow 614 00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:32,640 yourself to be yourself and allow others to do the same. 615 00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:39,200 And when you are judging them for their choice, like they're choosing to work a nine to five 616 00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:44,080 for the rest of their lives, just allow them to be them because that's what they chose. 617 00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:46,880 So allow them to do that. 618 00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:51,920 Like you don't have to save them or anything because they made their choice and they're 619 00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:53,800 probably content with it. 620 00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:57,680 And if they weren't, then they would probably make it, they can make a change on their own. 621 00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:03,040 And you don't have to like force them to do anything and just allow them to do it. 622 00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:06,360 The world is a mirror that reflects your relationship to it. 623 00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:11,480 The only difference being that it takes a few days or months to reflect back. 624 00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:18,080 So this is what I was talking about a lot in episode 65 yesterday's episode, the last 625 00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:19,640 episode. 626 00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:26,040 And it's all about you're always standing in front of a mirror. 627 00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:30,880 So imagine standing in front of a mirror that takes like a few minutes to actually send 628 00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:31,880 your reflection back. 629 00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:34,560 So you walk in front of the mirror and there's nothing there. 630 00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:37,120 Like you can only see your background. 631 00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:42,800 And then you're standing there and then it's a few minutes pass and then you see yourself 632 00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:44,960 slowly start to fade in. 633 00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:46,360 And then you realize you're not smiling. 634 00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:50,960 So you start to smile and you continue to hold your smile for a few minutes and then 635 00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:54,320 you're, you see your picture of you smiling. 636 00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:59,880 And then you raise your hand and then drop your hand and then a few minutes pass and 637 00:43:59,880 --> 00:44:01,000 nothing changes. 638 00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:05,120 And that's because you weren't holding that image for long enough. 639 00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:09,320 Like you weren't holding your hand up there for long enough to be able to see it. 640 00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:15,040 And so when you use the mirror principle in reality and you change your relationship to 641 00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:21,720 the world and you send your order out to the world, then just realize that it will take 642 00:44:21,720 --> 00:44:27,040 a few days or months for you to actually begin to see that reflection back. 643 00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:31,800 Cause remember your initial reflection faded in and it took a few seconds. 644 00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:40,120 So it may take like months or years for the reflection to actually be fully faded in depending 645 00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:42,840 on the complexity of your goal. 646 00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:49,220 So the next one is no one can force you to take part in the battle, but they can instill 647 00:44:49,220 --> 00:44:54,600 the belief into your mind that no other choice insists exists. 648 00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:55,600 That is huge. 649 00:44:55,600 --> 00:45:00,280 So the battle is the battle with pendulums and really no other choice exists unless you 650 00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:01,280 wake up. 651 00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:02,440 That's what he said. 652 00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:08,600 Uh, when I say he, I'm referring to referring to Vadim Zan and he's the author of the book 653 00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:09,760 that I'm talking about. 654 00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:13,520 But uh, so that's okay. 655 00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:18,440 So the reason why people take part in the battle, like most people, the 99% most people 656 00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:25,880 are a part of the battle and they don't actually know that another choice exists. 657 00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:30,920 And they're like, no one's forcing them to be in that battle, but they're basically instilling 658 00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:37,320 pendulums instill into their mind that no other choice exists other than to battle. 659 00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:45,280 And the way, excuse me, the way you can choose to get back, like end the battle and actually 660 00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:51,720 have your freedom of choice is simply just wake up, understand the rules of the game 661 00:45:51,720 --> 00:45:53,040 and end the battle. 662 00:45:53,040 --> 00:46:00,800 But since pendulums, like I'm 18 years old, but I didn't read the, when I started reading 663 00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:02,320 Transurfing, I was 17. 664 00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:08,720 So for 17 years of my life, pendulums have been like instilling beliefs into my mind. 665 00:46:08,720 --> 00:46:14,800 And so one way to combat that is to actually destroy those beliefs and create a whole new 666 00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:17,760 belief system through reading. 667 00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:19,240 And that's what I've been doing. 668 00:46:19,240 --> 00:46:23,160 I've been reading a lot of books about this. 669 00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:27,720 I've actually only been reading Transurfing so far, but I've been reading Transurfing 670 00:46:27,720 --> 00:46:33,080 and that's basically like reprogramming my mind. 671 00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:37,040 You gain choice when you drop importance. 672 00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:43,040 We are all dreaming the death, the depth of our dream is proportional to the meaning. 673 00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:45,400 We attribute to the attributes of the game. 674 00:46:45,400 --> 00:46:47,840 All right, so this goes deep. 675 00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:54,560 I haven't fully understand this yet, but to my understanding, we're basically souls. 676 00:46:54,560 --> 00:47:00,080 So we have souls and we're basically constantly reincarnated and there's actually accounts 677 00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:01,880 of people remembering their past lives. 678 00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:06,720 And the reason why we don't remember is because we're so deeply asleep that we forget our 679 00:47:06,720 --> 00:47:10,800 past memories. 680 00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:15,000 And so everyone is dreaming because when you're... 681 00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:22,080 Okay, let's talk about a real dream when you're asleep at nighttime during REM sleep. 682 00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:25,440 You're dreaming and let's say you become lucid, you become aware that you're dreaming, you 683 00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:28,600 wake up in the dream and then you can do whatever you want. 684 00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:31,320 That's only because you have the reference point of physical reality. 685 00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:35,200 You know that this dream is not real and you know that you're dreaming. 686 00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:38,320 So you had the reference point of physical reality. 687 00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:41,160 But in real life, what's your reference point? 688 00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:43,000 Because we're still dreaming in real life. 689 00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:48,040 Like we can still control our reality and create things and stuff like that. 690 00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:49,040 But what's our reference point? 691 00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:55,160 Our reference point is the absolute and it's basically where we were before we were born. 692 00:47:55,160 --> 00:48:00,040 Like the place our soul was before we were born and we returned to this place after every 693 00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:03,440 single time we die. 694 00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:07,800 Never forget that we are all guests in this world. 695 00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:10,960 So I'm actually... 696 00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:19,920 One of the books that I'm going to be reading in the near future is about the Egyptian pyramids. 697 00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:27,160 And I'm saying this because like the people of Atlantis and the people of ancient Egypt 698 00:48:27,160 --> 00:48:32,160 forgot that they were guests in this world and they basically abused their power and 699 00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:33,480 so they got exterminated. 700 00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:34,480 They basically... 701 00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:37,760 Like when you have a guest at your house and they're misbehaving, what do you do? 702 00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:38,760 You kick them out. 703 00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:40,840 So that's basically what the world did to them. 704 00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:46,080 That's why like Atlantis, knowing from Atlantis is alive today. 705 00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:50,600 We get to choose but do not have the right to change anything or anyone. 706 00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:56,800 So if you're in an art gallery and you see a bunch of different... 707 00:48:56,800 --> 00:48:59,160 You're at an exhibit that you don't really like. 708 00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:05,320 You wouldn't try and like go take a paintbrush and change it and like try and change it or 709 00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:07,640 throw a fit and get have it removed. 710 00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:08,920 You wouldn't try and do that. 711 00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:13,480 You would simply just walk away and you would acknowledge the fact that it has its right 712 00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:20,400 in that place and you have your right to not be in that area and you can choose exactly 713 00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:21,400 where you want. 714 00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:23,360 So that's the same thing with the world. 715 00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:30,480 You have your right to choose but you don't have the right to change anything or anyone. 716 00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:35,160 If you declare to others that you will acquire something you do not have yet, you create 717 00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:37,120 excess potential. 718 00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:43,040 This is something that I am very glad that I was reminded of because I was actually declaring 719 00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:47,520 to plenty of people that I was going to achieve this one goal that I'm working towards and 720 00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:52,360 that's why I'm actually not sharing it on the podcast anymore because I believe that 721 00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:54,400 I can still share my journey. 722 00:49:54,400 --> 00:50:00,680 Like I did announce my goal earlier in this podcast so you can definitely find out what 723 00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:02,520 my goal is. 724 00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:10,640 But I'm not sharing what it is anymore because I'm just keeping my head down, acting with 725 00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:14,960 silence and or acting with humility and keeping silence. 726 00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:15,960 That's actually the next one. 727 00:50:15,960 --> 00:50:19,920 It is better to act with humility and keep silent while you're moving towards your goal 728 00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:25,320 because you're creating excess potential if you tell someone that you're going to get 729 00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:30,320 something when you haven't actually acquired it yet. 730 00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:36,240 Like every single goal that I've announced never achieved but every single goal I kept 731 00:50:36,240 --> 00:50:42,600 quiet on and just slowly worked towards, I did achieve. 732 00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:47,840 And this goal that I'm working towards, I did announce but now I'm keeping quiet so 733 00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:52,240 I will achieve it and I know that. 734 00:50:52,240 --> 00:50:56,320 If you perceive life as a celebration, whatever is happening, it will become one and that 735 00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:59,120 goes along with the mirror principle. 736 00:50:59,120 --> 00:51:05,560 Every single thing is reflected, your attitude towards the life is reflected back. 737 00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:09,560 The world is mirror that reflects your relationship to it. 738 00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:17,080 So if you see life as a celebration, you're super happy every single day, then that will 739 00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:19,960 be reflected back and then it will become a celebration. 740 00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:22,200 You will get all that. 741 00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:25,960 There is no force capable of preventing you on the path towards your goal. 742 00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:31,120 If you go with the flow, stay balanced and observe the principle of coordination. 743 00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:38,640 Now okay, this is why Transurfing is so amazing because before I read it, I didn't really 744 00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:44,360 know, I didn't really have the peace of mind of how to move towards my goals and Transurfing 745 00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:53,000 basically lays out an entire framework on how the world works and how to move forward 746 00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:59,560 towards your goals and it gives you that peace of mind of, it gives you the knowledge that 747 00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:05,400 you are guaranteed success as long as you follow certain principles. 748 00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:12,280 So that's why I love, that's why I cherish Transurfing so much because it is telling 749 00:52:12,280 --> 00:52:18,520 you exactly what you need to do to move forward. 750 00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:24,320 You decide whether you want to paint things in dark colors. 751 00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:26,840 You decide whether you want to paint things in dark colors. 752 00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:33,320 So whenever something happens, like for example, one of the examples in the book was someone 753 00:52:33,320 --> 00:52:39,360 got fired from their job or no, someone was in an extremely great life. 754 00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:46,600 They had an extremely happy life, best part of their life and then they got fired from 755 00:52:46,600 --> 00:52:52,280 their job and then they chose to paint things in dark colors and then they were basically 756 00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:57,600 in a depressive state from there and their life went on a downhill. 757 00:52:57,600 --> 00:53:04,920 And they actually chose to interpret that job as bad and as a result, they became depressed 758 00:53:04,920 --> 00:53:11,600 and then they basically lost all of their amazing life. 759 00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:16,440 And they actually chose that but you can actually choose to paint it in bright colors 760 00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:22,880 and then you'll get exactly what, you'll get exactly that. 761 00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:24,600 Nothing bad can follow something good. 762 00:53:24,600 --> 00:53:29,480 In reality, after something good, something better always follows. 763 00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:38,680 And this is like, this is actually so, like this is exactly what I was talking about. 764 00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:45,240 His life, sorry, I was just distracted because I thought that, no, it doesn't even matter. 765 00:53:45,240 --> 00:53:51,720 And his, okay, so back to the story is his life was so great and he was like on a good 766 00:53:51,720 --> 00:53:54,640 luck streak and then he lost his job. 767 00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:59,620 Now we are the ones that interpret losing your job as bad when in reality, you could 768 00:53:59,620 --> 00:54:04,480 have lost your job and then walked like while you were not at your job the next day, you 769 00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:08,480 could have gotten offered a new job that was better or you could have come across this 770 00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:09,480 business opportunity. 771 00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:11,880 I did like anything could have happened. 772 00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:17,000 We're the ones that chose to interpret as bad and so that's what happened. 773 00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:26,720 But after something bad, okay, so after something good happens, it like nothing bad ever happens. 774 00:54:26,720 --> 00:54:32,400 Unless of course you interpret it as bad, the goodness, but like people interpret good 775 00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:34,040 as good. 776 00:54:34,040 --> 00:54:39,000 And so that's why after he lost his job, it was actually good, but he chose to paint 777 00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:46,800 it in dark colors and as a result, his reality suffered very rarely. 778 00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:50,600 You get okay, so you very rarely get what you planned for. 779 00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:55,160 And so all right, so the way he wrote this in the book is get what you plan for question 780 00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:57,680 mark very rarely period. 781 00:54:57,680 --> 00:55:05,560 So that goes along with the dark forest and metaphor as well as the fact that the mind 782 00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:12,920 like cannot know exactly like you can't know exactly the most best way to cook a burger, 783 00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:15,000 but Gordon Ramsay does. 784 00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:25,960 So you are like you do not you create a plan like but you don't very you very rarely get 785 00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:27,840 what you plan for. 786 00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:34,200 And so let's say you have a plan on exactly how the burger will turn out. 787 00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:38,600 If you go to Gordon Ramsay's restaurant, it will not turn out like that it'll actually 788 00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:40,600 turn out better. 789 00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:45,320 But as long as you allow it for like along with the metaphor of life as long as you allow 790 00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:51,600 it to turn out better and you follow the principles of transurfing. 791 00:55:51,600 --> 00:55:53,680 Annoyance reflects lack of awareness. 792 00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:58,240 So that's like what I was talking about earlier about stubbing your toe. 793 00:55:58,240 --> 00:56:02,840 When you are annoyed, it's because you're basically asleep. 794 00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:07,160 If you were like you're basically your consciousness is asleep and you're basically immersed in 795 00:56:07,160 --> 00:56:08,440 the game. 796 00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:14,880 But if you wake up, you won't be annoyed because you'll realize that it's it does not matter. 797 00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:16,640 And it's just a game. 798 00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:18,960 And you are just too immersed and now you're awake. 799 00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:20,560 So now you have awareness. 800 00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:24,400 So annoyance reflects lack of awareness and same with rage. 801 00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:32,040 Like if you're in a fit of rage, then it is obvious that you are very unaware. 802 00:56:32,040 --> 00:56:38,440 Like and that it just shows like you can see many people who are just not aware in their 803 00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:43,200 day to day lives, but just allow them to be that because they choose that and allow them 804 00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:45,040 to be themselves. 805 00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:52,440 I have to keep reminding myself of that because I use of and I still do kind of but I'm working 806 00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:54,720 towards ending it. 807 00:56:54,720 --> 00:57:00,400 It's the inner work of judging people and just just stop judging and you can't just 808 00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:02,160 stop it right away. 809 00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:03,160 It's because it's a habit. 810 00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:07,120 So you just got to keep on getting rid of it and then keep on getting rid of it and eventually 811 00:57:07,120 --> 00:57:08,120 it will get rid. 812 00:57:08,120 --> 00:57:10,240 It will go. 813 00:57:10,240 --> 00:57:16,320 The mind is powerless without the soul just as the soul is powerless without the mind. 814 00:57:16,320 --> 00:57:19,880 Like like what I was saying before about I don't know if I was saying in this episode 815 00:57:19,880 --> 00:57:26,520 or yesterday's episode where it's basically the mind is a your thought energy is like 816 00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:27,520 a lamp. 817 00:57:27,520 --> 00:57:30,520 Wait, what am I even saying? 818 00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:33,360 No, so okay, so let me explain this first. 819 00:57:33,360 --> 00:57:39,880 The mind is has willpower and you can control the mind but the heart, which is the soul, 820 00:57:39,880 --> 00:57:43,320 the soul has access to the alternate space. 821 00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:49,200 So the soul has access to the infinite power, outer intention, but has no will. 822 00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:54,880 But this the mind has will but does not have access to the outer intention, infinite power. 823 00:57:54,880 --> 00:58:00,440 So each are like very powerless without the other. 824 00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:05,680 But if you combine them, then you have the infinite power, outer intention at your will. 825 00:58:05,680 --> 00:58:08,360 So that is extremely powerful. 826 00:58:08,360 --> 00:58:13,600 Those who become millionaires work towards their innermost goals, not for the sake of 827 00:58:13,600 --> 00:58:14,600 money. 828 00:58:14,600 --> 00:58:19,520 That goes along with the metaphor that I learned from Hamza the other day. 829 00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:24,640 And basically if you have a car, the purpose of a car is not to go to the gas station and 830 00:58:24,640 --> 00:58:25,760 get gas. 831 00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:27,280 It's to get to a destination. 832 00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:31,320 The purpose of a car is to get to a destination and your business is the same way. 833 00:58:31,320 --> 00:58:34,280 The purpose of your business is not to get money. 834 00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:39,760 That's ridiculous because it's just as ridiculous to say that as it is to say the purpose of 835 00:58:39,760 --> 00:58:44,240 a car is to go to the gas station and get gas. 836 00:58:44,240 --> 00:58:45,240 Money is just a fuel. 837 00:58:45,240 --> 00:58:49,040 The purpose of your business is get to a destination, which is your goal. 838 00:58:49,040 --> 00:58:55,240 So those who become millionaires work towards their innermost goals, which is their actual 839 00:58:55,240 --> 00:59:01,120 destination through their own door, which is their business. 840 00:59:01,120 --> 00:59:07,400 Or whatever the case may be, whatever they choose to make their money by. 841 00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:11,880 Tell yourself that everything is unfolding as it should, for it is up to you whether 842 00:59:11,880 --> 00:59:13,400 you choose to delight yourself. 843 00:59:13,400 --> 00:59:17,080 And I talked about this earlier, but this is all about coordination. 844 00:59:17,080 --> 00:59:20,800 The coordination of intention is the crossroads. 845 00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:25,560 Whenever you come up across an event, you're at a crossroads between negative and positive. 846 00:59:25,560 --> 00:59:32,480 And if you see, if an objectively negative event happens, just tell yourself that you 847 00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:35,000 can't, like you don't know the right path for it. 848 00:59:35,000 --> 00:59:40,440 So tell yourself that it is happening as it should, like that unfolded as it should. 849 00:59:40,440 --> 00:59:43,200 And it's up to you whether you choose to delight about it or suffer. 850 00:59:43,200 --> 00:59:47,680 And if you choose to delight, then you won't taint your image being reflected back. 851 00:59:47,680 --> 00:59:51,680 You won't taint your goal in the world mirror. 852 00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:55,560 And if you choose to delight, then you will taint it and then you will not, or if you 853 00:59:55,560 --> 01:00:00,680 choose to suffer, then you will taint it and then you won't actually receive it. 854 01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:06,600 Success smiles on those who are convinced they walk their true path. 855 01:00:06,600 --> 01:00:11,200 That is all about the innermost goal and innermost door. 856 01:00:11,200 --> 01:00:15,720 If it's their true path, they will get success. 857 01:00:15,720 --> 01:00:18,680 And that's a great way to wrap up the episode. 858 01:00:18,680 --> 01:00:24,280 So don't forget to download your favorite episodes and subscribe to the Ascend Momentum 859 01:00:24,280 --> 01:00:25,280 Show. 860 01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:42,320 That's it before you guys leave, make sure to look up at the sky.