So the big question is this, how do young men like us who didn't listen to society,
who are on our own, how do we grow and improve ourselves so that we can live a
better tomorrow? That is the question and this show gave you the answers. My name is
James Reidsinski and welcome to the Ascent Momentum Show. Welcome back. So last episode was
Transurfing Principles Part 5 and I said it wouldn't be the next episode but here it is.
Transurfing Principles Part 6. So if you're new here, the way this will work is I'm going to be
teaching or not teaching but I'm just going to be talking about some of the notes that I took
while reading Transurfing or while reading while studying. So I read a book called Reality
Transurfing by Vadam Zelen, parts 1 through 5 and that book has absolutely changed my life.
And so I read it once and then I'm actually reading it a second time through this time.
I'm studying so I'm taking a lot of notes and with that a lot of notes I review the notes.
So I go back over the past week or so and then review some of the stuff that I wrote down and
then I rewrite the most important ones from the past week. And then I just consolidate them all
until like 15 pages maybe because when I say I write a lot, I write a lot. I probably bought an
entire journal, an entire big notebook. It's like a classic spiral notebook size but it's in the
journal format so it's not a spiral notebook but it's the size of a spiral notebook. Maybe it's
even a little bigger I don't know but it and I write a lot and I'm already halfway like I've
filled up the entire journal halfway already. So I write a lot and so I have a lot of notes and
my review from the past week is 15 pages long and I had to split it into two episodes. So yesterday
was the first episode and then today is gonna be the second and the last for this past week since
Transurfing Principles part four at least. So all of these notes like most of these notes are
word-for-word copied from the book Reality Transurfing parts one through five by Vadim Zellin. So a lot
of these words are not my own but I will be saying the quote and then talking on it speaking on it.
That's how it will work. So all that said let's get straight into it. People are exclusively
interested in themselves so be interested in them too. So this is from the chapter on Frailing
and Frailing is basically whenever you're in conversation or whenever you're basically interacting
with anyone. Everyone is always just like interested in their own things. They're all worried about
their own thoughts, their own desires and what they can get from the other person. So if you can
attune to that person's frequency and become interested in them then they will love you so
much for it and they will be they will be of such high regard for you and they will basically the
experience will be so much better and you'll be able to get essentially if you fulfill their
desires and help them out with their stuff then they will be more inclined to help you with yours.
Your positive qualities and failings are not of your partner's concern. The sense of self-worth
they experience when talking to you is their utmost priority. Alright so as a general rule of thumb
during conversation people are not thinking about your positive qualities or their your like
downsides or your flaws. They're basically whether this is conscious or subconsciously they're
basically usually it's subconsciously there. Essentially what they're doing is they're determining
whether you're fulfilling their self-worth. So if you're helping them raise their self their
sense of self-worth and if you can help them experience higher self higher a higher sense
of self-worth while they're talking to you then they're gonna regard you higher. So they're basically
gonna be more inclined to be your partner or be your friend be whatever and or help you out and
they're not necessarily worried about your positive qualities or your negatives. When talking to
someone and displaying an interest in them do it with sincerity. So this goes along with when you
are talking to people and you're just trying to follow the principles but you're kind of faking
it and you're trying to have a good like you're trying to influence people you're trying to follow
all of the relationship principles to a T but you're faking it and it's obvious they're gonna
tell they're gonna be able to tell and they're gonna they're gonna sense that you're faking it
and that's something behind they're out for a ulterior motive you have an ulterior motive
excuse me so when you're when you're doing all these principles do it with sincerity and it's
actually this might come up later like I might read this out loud later but if you have if you
ever had a pet like a dog a pet dog they are always so happy to see you and they unconditionally
love you so every single time you see your dog they always get so excited to see you and that's
why we love our dogs that's why I love our pets because they are so excited to see us all the
time so if you can simply just do that in real life to other humans then they will like that
will be very big for you that would be very beneficial present tasks to people in the context
of how it would increase their self-worth alright so if you're a boss like if you're a boss and
you have employees and you have to get them to do something you could just say do this or
you're fired yeah you could do that and that's basically like the inner intention so that's
like that you trying to force your will on other people and they will probably do the action but
they won't regard you too highly of it because of it and then over time it may like wear off like
that that that rat may wear off over time so when you are trying to get someone to do something
try and figure out what their innermost self like what raises their self a sense of self-worth so
one example is when if you come across a group of boys and they're like competitive and you want
them to do some chores or something like that say alright so who of you is the best at washing the
dishes who of you can wash the dishes the fastest or wash the dishes with the most quality so that
kind of presents the task in the context of their self that's their self-worth they are very
competitive amongst each other so it will raise their sense of self-worth if they complete that
task because it'll be competitive and they're trying to compete with the other all their friends
encouragement is a true driver in human relationships so never criticize anyone when when you
criticize someone you are basically I mean you are basically just saying that you are superior
to them and they messed up you're saying it to their face no one wants that if you've ever
been criticized you know how it feels whether consciously or subconsciously you begin to kind
of despise that person and encouragement is basically the opposite of that when you encourage
someone you're like pushing them along and you're actually helping them and you're like
motivating them and it's like the opposite of criticism never blame anyone so when you blame
someone even if they did it you are basically saying that they did something wrong and people are fine
saying that admitting to themselves that they did something wrong they're fine saying to themselves
that they did something wrong but if it comes from somebody else well then that's a completely
different story it's like an ego does not want to hear it from someone else kind of like that
criticism makes the heart an enemy of the mind encourage encouragement makes it an ally
so when you criticize even when you're criticizing yourself you're basically criticizing your heart
and when you are criticizing your heart that's your mind basically saying so everyone has a
heart and a mind the mind is the left side of the brain and the heart is the right side of the brain
and the mind basically uses logic it perceives and analyze data from the external world
and it like takes in information and then it uses logic and language and reasoning and then
the heart the right side listens to everything the left side says like unequivocally I don't know
if I use that word right but it basically use it listens to the left side and does it like without
any so if the left side says your left leg feels numb to the right side then your left leg will
start to feel numb that's basically it does it without like analyzing whether it's practical or not
just doesn't no matter what but when you criticize that's basically your left side
criticizing your right side then that will it will start to place a divide like it will start to create
a barrier or put up a wall between the left side and the right side and you do not want half of your
brain being an enemy with the other half like that's just basic common sense you don't want
to only have half of your brain you want to use and be able to capably you want to have 100% of
your brain so it's just simple simple math do you want 50% or do you want 100% I think you would
want 100% it's more optimal winning an argument is like delivering a blow to their sense of self-worth
all right so this is huge first of all arguments are never end up anywhere even if you win the other
person still may think that they're right or even if you successfully convince them on the surface
that they're wrong they will never forgive you for that you're basically saying that I'm right
I'm better than you and you're wrong and you're worse and they're never gonna forget of that argument
and they're never gonna forgive you it's always gonna be a subconscious like they're always
subconsciously gonna be remembering that argument and then it will do it destroys their sense of self-worth
their sense of self-worth set the tone of conversation to agreement all right so you want
to get your let's say you want to get your way obviously you want to get your way do not try and
just start off the bat imposing your will set the tone to agreement so the next one is actually
start a conversation in such a way that the first word someone says is yes so when you when you
start the conversation you can start off light be like oh did you see like the bears one last night
or something like that and they're like yes and they start agreeing with you and then keep getting
them to agree with you more and more and more so then that like basically takes down their walls
of of their defensive walls and then when they agree with you on that you can slowly start to
shift the conversation over to the topic that you actually want to talk about like that promotion
you want to get a promotion or you want to get something from someone and then slowly start to
get there and then they're gonna be agreeing with you so they're gonna let up their defenses and be
more agreeable and then eventually once you ask them hey can I get a promotion there'll be way more
likely to say yes and even this still works even without having that like even without trying to
get something from someone if you just want to get your point across still get them to say yes
because if you're trying to explain something or teach something to someone then you don't want them
to be saying no and having their walls up and protecting themselves from all this information
you want them to be open and vulnerable to this information so it'll help them or help you move
forward and you can help help each other move forward in the relationship as well come forward
in admitting your mistake all right so this is huge whenever you make a mistake and someone else
knows it they're probably gonna come up to you and like talk to you about it or try and criticize
you about it or something like that and most of the time the person making the mistake tries to
defend themselves but the better option is once that person comes up to you or even you go up to
them and just straight up just admit your mistake and admit that you made a mistake and then admit
that you did bad basically and they will love you forever they will basically be like oh wow this
person is awesome they just admitted their mistake now I don't have to like talk to them and now I
don't have to get into this argument it's just this there's a whole psychological side to it giving
your full attention is the most important aspect to attuning to your partner's frequency so when
you are in conversation and you're just conversing with people always give your full attention and
that does not just mean making eye contact when you're giving your full attention you are not
thinking about your own thoughts at all you are completely thinking about their thoughts their
desires their topic when you're you can give someone your full attention but still be focusing on
your own things like a lot of times I am in a conversation and I'm thinking oh what should I
say next what should I ask what should I what should I do next no always focus 100% on their thing
just basically attune to their frequency of their thought energy a person's name is the simplest
key to that their frequency so this is huge let me tell you a quick story I read how to win friends
and influence people um by Dale Carnegie and that book talked about giving people's names and a lot
of these um a lot of this stuff in Fralene chapter on Transurfing is in how to win friends and influence
others so the they're both say always say their name always remember their name the name is something
so special to someone because throughout their entire life that's what they've been referred to as
that's like that is who they are that's their identity they intertwine their identity with their
name so if you say their name then you like automatically get their goodwill and this is huge
because I actually I was aware of this like psychology or I was aware of this fact and
and so I would make it a point to always say people's names but then I kind of developed this
like guilt complex or like me feeling bad for people because if I suspected that they didn't
know my name I didn't want to say their name not because I was trying to get back at them
but because I didn't want to make them feel bad that they don't know my name does that make sense
so I would avoid saying their name if I suspected they didn't know my name but a lot of the times
that backfired because they actually did know my name or I just like didn't they didn't know my name
or I just didn't um I just blanked well it's I would do that but it's actually good to say
their name like just say their name because don't try and avoid hurting their feelings they would
it would make them feel a lot better if you did say their name even if they forgot yours
just unconditionally say their name and then there's another reason if I think that they have
higher status than me I sometimes I feel like I'm not worthy saying their name like there's some
if I feel that they have higher status than me then I feel I'm not worthy to say their name
but it's a it's bad like that's bad you should always say their name every single time and I
still struggle with this to this day I still feel like I don't deserve to say their name
which just doesn't make any sense it's like it does not make any sense
we love our pets so much because they are always happy to see us so I touch I talked about this
before but when you can come up to someone and be like hey John hey John like and actually be really
excited like so good to see you today John and like say their name attune to their frequency
and be excited like show your joy like you don't have to be like obsessive like our dogs are like
our dogs always like get so excited they jump for joy and they like jump around sometimes they like
scream and like get super excited you don't have to be to that extent you can just like show that
you appreciate that you you see them show someone how happy you are to see them yep that goes along
with what I just said attention and participation in a dialogue must be genuine so people can tell
if you have an ulterior motive if you're not genuine they can tell and that will go back on
you because they'll be thinking oh this guy's only out for himself like like everyone else
and so if if you are getting someone to think that you're only out for yourself you do not want
that just use common sense never tell anyone to their face that they are wrong that is huge
so there's this I haven't really been studying it but just kind of passively over the time
I've gotten very attuned to people's egos and it's like a thing that I've been
focusing on not focusing on but it's this thing that I've been passively getting better at and
it's avoiding to hurt other people's egos because if you hurt someone's egos that will never end up
positive for you and always try and lower your ego and always never never hurt other people's
egos and that's that's basically when you tell someone to their face that they're wrong that is
destroying their ego and usually it ends in an argument or sometimes they if it ends in an argument
that's bad but an even worse outcome is they accept it and what happens then is they go back
into their on their own and they start thinking about you and they start like getting mad and bad
thoughts come up whether it's consciously or subconsciously like they you hurt their ego
and they will not forget leave other people's negative slides alone so a negative slide is
a slide is basically a warped picture of reality so one of the best examples that I can think of
right now is let's say you think you're ugly then you see the world under that lens so when you're
walking around and you see people looking at you you're being like oh they think that I'm so ugly
they're staring I mean they think they're I'm ugly and then you see two people laughing they then you
think oh these people are laughing at me because I'm so ugly and even though they are not laughing
about you and the other people are not staring at you and that's basically a negative slide so
and usually when people have a negative slide they like I forgot the word was but basically they
impose it onto others in a sense where if they think they're ugly they will try and hide that fact
that they think they're ugly and they will try to like call other people ugly or like basically
put their own slide onto other people and so if you notice that other people have a negative slide
never talk don't talk to them about it do not even do not even mention it just leave it alone
because that's a huge that's very damaging to the EU you have the right to choose and if you make an
order sooner or later it will be delivered so this is all about the world the world is like a restaurant
once you make your order as long as you don't cancel it or do anything dumb to prevent it from
coming it will come to you sooner or later even if so in a restaurant even if the service is bad
you know that the your order is going to come eventually even if the service is bad
so the world is just like that once you make your order then it will be delivered and especially
if you follow the principles of transferring it will happen faster it will be delivered faster
picture that your goal has already been achieved so when you are visualizing
always picture that it's already been achieved and attune your frequency your thought energy
make sure your thought energy aligns with the fact that you've already achieved your goal
so throughout the day you should be thinking oh i'm already a millionaire and basically what
that is doing is it's sending the order to the universe and it's basically saying that you're
already a millionaire so but when you're not since you're not a millionaire in reality the world will
be like oh this is this is like this person's thought energy is manifesting a different thing so it
will give you what you're basically thinking of over time it will not happen instantly but
it will happen over time it's the same as dreaming when you're dreaming it happens instantly that's
because material realization or material realization in the material world in reality right now
is inert so it takes a little bit longer a while longer than it does in dreaming
when you set yourself several goals you spread yourself too thin so this is one of the things
the issues that i had during the summer i set myself the goal of going to florida but also
i set myself another goal of moving to hawaii and that was spreading me way too thin so if you've
ever swam in a pool have you ever tried to swim in two directions it's impossible most people have
not even tried because they know that's just impossible like there's no point of even trying
i've never even tried it and i doubt i bet most people listening to this have not tried it as well
and the world is just like that if you try and spread your if you try and swim in different
directions towards different goals it's not going to happen you're spreading yourself way too thin
and it's just like swimming in in the water you can get all these goals you just have to swim to
one at each time swim to the first one and then swim to the next one and then swim to the third one
there is no need to be shy or hold back when goal setting okay so this is
we can get whatever we want in life so there's a reason why
billionaires like if you were raised in a billionaire environment or a millionaire environment
you're gonna have you're gonna be set for life that's because your worldview is thinking oh the
world takes care of me so i don't have to worry about money ever i can get whatever i want but if
you were raised in a poor environment you think that oh i don't i have to work for what i want or
the world doesn't is not gonna not necessarily take yeah basically the world doesn't take care of me
but it works the opposite if the rich person all of a sudden thought that the world didn't take care
of them then they would be in the poor person situation and the same works in the opposite
direction if the poor person all of a sudden thought that the world took care of them then they
would get into the rich person situation and so when let's just say okay so the world which is a
world which is a synonym in my case in this case for god so or the higher powers so the higher powers
it makes no they if they they've created all of the universe all of eternity everything
so they're infinite so do you think that it would make any difference if you were to ask them
for a newspaper or a massive mansion do you think it would be any difference if you're asking
infinity for a newspaper or a mansion no it would not make any difference now we're not asking
the higher powers for anything because they gave us the the right to choose
and that's the greatest gift of all we get to choose what we want so we don't have to ask for
them and actually it's not good to ask for them because that that is basically us saying oh i'm
so important that i think the higher power will actually listen to me the or i think that the
higher power will actually give me what i want when in reality we have the right to choose we can
just go out they gave us the right to choose they gave us the right to go out and get that thing
we can go out and get the newspaper or we can go out and get the mansion it's as simple as that and
when you're setting a goal there's no need to be shy or hold yourself out hold yourself back because
you can get whatever you want and that's one thing when i was originally my original plan to
move to hawaii came into fruition i was thinking oh i'm just going to get like a 400 000 house that's
really close to the beach and it's going to be a one it's going to be a modest house that was my
goal just by that then live modestly but no it makes no difference between that and between the world
manifesting that or the world manifesting a mansion so now i'm thinking oh i'm just going to get a
mansion and live lavishly so don't don't hold back because you're gonna if okay so let me let me give
you this hypothetical hypothetical if you if i could tell you that there's a hundred percent
guarantee chance of success in you achieving your goals would you set yourself if you knew that you
would a hundred percent guarantee succeed in this next goal you you were trying to go for would you
set that goal to be a modest one room house or would you set that goal to be a massive mansion
with fully stocked of food lavish living luxury and so mind you both of these will a hundred
percent come to true it you just have to you have to choose so would you choose the one bedroom apartment
or would you choose the mansion yeah i would probably choose the mansion as well
so and it's the same thing with the world just choose choose what you get exactly what you choose
and when you read trans surfing and you learn all the trans surfing principles and you apply them
you'll learn that you'll learn how to do that all basically all you have to do to have the freedom
of choice is to end the battle with the pendulums so release your grip of control drop importance
conscious be consciously aware know the game know the rules of the game break the rules
and move one foot and forward in front of the other and always keep the target slide in mind
if you can allow yourself to have you will get whatever you want how it happens should not
concern you so that is that's huge all my life i did not allow myself to live uh or not that i
didn't allow myself to have like nice things basically i was right i grew up in middle class
and so i had the middle class mindset middle class mentality i only allowed myself to have
middle class items but if you can allow yourself all you have to do is allow yourself to have
a mansion that's all there is to it your worldview your perception of your place in this world
determines your lot in life determines what you get determines the outcomes
but when you allow yourself to have the mansion how that happens how you actually get that mansion
should not concern you do not be worried about how it happens that's the world's job the world is in
charge of getting it to you the world knows how to get it to you and that's the world is the only
thing that should know the path towards that you don't have to do it you just have to keep
putting one foot in front of the other and then the world will help you along the way
you do not have to justify your actions to yourself or to the two others
that is kind of like a guilt complex so
guilt is extremely destructive never feel guilty guilt never works out for good
and you don't have to justify anything to anyone or yourself
no one and no thing can prevent you from reaching your goals
once you have taken the path through the right door accept yourself
so if you can just constantly remind yourself whenever you have doubt just remind yourself
that you get exactly what you choose and doubt doubt is what holds you back doubt lowers your
chances of success every time you doubt you're radiating thought energy of failure so there's
no point in doubting whenever you have doubt just immediately dismiss it destroy it get rid of it
from your brain at that moment and just remind yourself that you get exactly what you choose
and no one no one can prevent you like no one nothing can prevent you from getting your goals
it's all yourself yourself is the only thing that can stop you
you only lack of faith and confidence can injure your progress
so confidence is coordination so confidence the normal type of confidence that people feel
when they're comparing themselves to the others that's just don't feel that that confidence
is temporary and it creates excess potential coordination on the other hand is
absolute balance coordination is all about going with the flow releasing your grip of control
reducing important levels and it's also about interpreting events as positive
receiving everything that happens to you as positive and coordination is the most effective
means of traveling through the the alternative space so coordination is the most effective means
of getting to your goal guilt cause the meridians to narrow so the meridians are kind of your energy
your energy like vessels or not vessel like your energy tubes so everyone has veins that's
basically like the the highway that blood travels through meridians are basically the highway it's
the veins of energy it's the highway that energy travels through and when you feel guilty it causes
the meridians to narrow and that causes less energy to flow through your body so that's bad
guilt destroys your energy levels confidence that is based on comparing oneself with others
is pure excess potential i said i spoke on that a couple minutes ago confidence normal confidence
is destructive now it is just temporary it is dependent on certain events and situations
and soon that confidence will topple whether it's a pendulum or like some event that happens
it will it'll topple so follow coordination instead you cannot develop confidence you cannot
develop confidence you either have it or not coordination is you let go of the struggle
for self-worth you let go of the struggle for for confidence and then the very thing you let go of
you will receive to develop self-confidence you have to let go of wanting to acquire it i just i
just said that without even looking at it this like that the fact that i just said that without
looking at it just goes to show that this study method works very well so let me explain when
i'm studying reality transurfing i am getting so let me start with the first time i read like most
books i'm reading they're the most all the books that i've read before i just read them once like i
just read them passively so that sends all the information through your brain once when you
just read the words on the book go on to the next go go go just read the whole book it passes through
your brain once but if you use this studying method so what i do is i read it and then every
single time i find something that is worthwhile i write it down so right now i read it and i find
it worthwhile and i write it down that's three or read it read it again write it down that's three
and then i read i reread the whole journal that i wrote that day the night so that's four and then
i talk to my friend about it let's not count that but that would be five but then at night
when i'm writing in my personal journal i summarize what i read that day so that's five
but i'm also thinking about it so that's six and then the next morning i reread that that summary
so that's seven so the first time i i think i'm missing a few pass-throughs and then that night
after i talk about it so that's eight and then over after the week i read it back again so that's
nine and then i write down the most important things so that's ten and then when i talk about it on
again on transfer from principles just like this episode that's ten times it passes through my brain
so do you want if you're trying to learn some stuff do you want it to pass through your brain
once or do you want it to pass through your brain ten times in ten different means when you're just
passively reading it's only passing through your brain through the reading method but when you're
doing this study method it passes through your brain through reading through writing through
explaining teaching and talking and reading more and like all this stuff it passes through your
brain in many different many different forms so it's very valuable let me get some water
the notion of confidence is constructed on excess potential and dependent relationships
we've talked about that trans surfing offers an alternative to confidence coordination
talked about that awareness and intention enables you to ignore the pendulum game and claim what
is yours without having to fight for it all right this is valuable so whenever you're aware
you're awake and you're aware of the pendulum game so we live in a life of pendulums and pendulums
are striving to control us they're fighting over our control our will like they're basically
grab grabbing a hold of us and imposing their will onto us and we're controlled by them
and then that's what happens when we're asleep when we're not conscious we let that happen
but once we wake up and we're aware of the situation we can realize oh we have freedom
we have the freedom of choice and we can choose whatever happens and so it allows us to ignore
the pendulum and then claim what is ours without having to fight for it so the pendulum game is
all about fighting for your place in the sun but the fact of the matter is that's a pendulum
notion fighting for your place under the sun what is in reality you don't have to fight you simply
just have to get up and claim it where there is freedom without struggle there is no need for
confidence freedom without struggle is all about not fighting for your place under the sun just
going out and get it and being free from pendulums you do not need confidence confidence is only
needed if you're fighting against pendulums once a person is free from pendulums they no
longer need confidence all they need is coordination compose coordination comes from not creating
inner importance and having nothing to prove in reality and everything is much simpler than it seems
so that that's such a simple statement but six months ago before I started reading Transurfing
I thought the world was so complicated but once I read Transurfing it really enlightened me on
how simple it is how simple things are you simply just have to choose you just have to choose what
you want and you'll get it begin the process of doing in any way you can so that taking action
alleviates access or it like dissipates access potential access potential dissipates through
action coordination means all right so here's the definition of coordination taking pleasure
in thinking about the goal as if you had already been reached letting go of the grip of control
over the script and go in with the alternatives flow helping it along the way with the ore of pure
intention that's coordination the pendulum battle is just a game not a fight just remember that
the pet when you're struggling for your place under the sun just remember that it just remember
the rules of the game and how you can break them when you go with the flow with conscious awareness
everything falls into place without excessive effort so nature never wastes energy nature always
takes the path of least resistance so when you're go when you're in balance with nature
and you're moving towards your goal and you're aware you're consciously aware you're awake
nature will just slide things along in place the path of least resistance
it's only you that creates turmoil in the waters remember that you decide the level of complexity
a challenge represents and that adjustments to the script will play in your favor if you let them
this is all about the world is a mirror and you get exactly what you choose like all the problems
that pop up in your in your day to day life is just you you basically created that all it's all
from your mind your mind created those problems absolute coordination is achieved as a result
of harmony between heart and mind all right so the heart and the mind is huge and i'm gonna go on
a side tangent real quick i haven't begun this process yet but i've ordered the gateway process
and it's hemisync it's the wave one of the gateway process and this i actually believe that it will
help attune my heart and the mind so i think that this meditation the gateway process if you're
interested in i recommend reading that the analysis and assessment of the gateway process it's a
declassified cia document and basically explains the gateway process so i think that that will help
give harmony between the heart and mind harmony of the heart and mind is achieved by listening to
the whisperings of the heart and living true to your own credo so i don't really oh the next one
explains what living to your own credo is but basically whenever you're living life you should
always listen to the whisperings of the heart because the heart is basically telling you things
that you should or shouldn't do and the heart knows exactly what's going on living according to your
credo means loving yourself and accepting you or accepting yourself the way you are
not suffering from pangs of consciousness no wait no not suffering from pangs of conscience
or guilt and firmly acting according to the dictates of the heart and mind
so basically accept yourself love yourself and do not feel guilt and
always act and listen to your heart listen to your heart and mind when they're in unity
it is sufficient okay this one explains this needs i need to give some context for this next one
so if you've seen the movie the matrix good it's all about
all about how the humans are living in a simulation basically but it goes deeper than that they're
basically living under the false false reality basically so now back to the transherfing pendulums
basically aim to create a false reality false notion of reality and this quote from transherfing
it is sufficient to shape the individual's worldview in such a way that they have no
notion of their freedom so that is what we're heading towards right now eventually people
people's worldview will be shaped into such a way that they will have no clue that they are free
they will just be trapped and they will think that they're trapped
the most important principle in the battle with the pendulum is to refuse to fight them
so whenever you're fighting the pendulum you're feeding it your energy and it's basically making
it stronger and stronger just refuse to fight that's all there is to it simply just say no
they're just like be empty the pendulum is always trying to knock you off course the pendulum tries
to control you and when you just refuse to fight it you get what you want you get what you choose
wake up and remember the game when you stay empty to the pendulum you receive its energy
all right so whenever you so whenever the pendulum tries to provoke you it
it spends a little bit of energy and sends a little energy towards your way to try and provoke you
but if you were to stay empty and be absolutely indifferent to it then you will actually receive
that energy and you'll get kind of like a jolt or a boost so it's actually beneficial in another way
to stay empty to the pendulum constantly remind yourself of the rules of the game and keep importance
at zero wait this next one i don't know what it says oh mass media requires the individual to be
very consciously aware do not let negative information affect you this is huge okay let me explain i
was reading about the gateway process and there was one frequently i think it was like frequently
asked questions page and it was is this hypnosis so the gateway process is basically you meditating
and you're listening to audio waves like pink noise waves crashing wind blowing you're basically
meditating while listening to pink noise and it's a guided meditation basically and so one of the
questions was is this hypnosis and they said it is or it is not depending on how you define hypnosis
so in one definition it is but so is watching tv and watching tv as the media so i was just thinking
oh wow watching tv is hypnosis i didn't really give it much thought after that but then for context
i could want to explain that i haven't watched movies in like many months i haven't played video
games in a while i haven't i don't really i kind of cleansed myself from all of that entertainer all
that and all of that dopamine stuff and so my dopamine receptor is coming back to normal
but i'm back in school now and i'm in one elective where we have to watch a movie at the end of every
single unit and so the movie that we watched after this unit was actually an entertaining movie that i
probably would watch on my own and so naturally i was entertaining and i was drawn into the movie
and i was immersed in the movie like the entire time and afterwards i was like wow that is hypnosis
watching tv is hypnosis and then i and then i biked home after that and my mind was scattered
like it affected my mind it like affected the brain waves of my mind and so mass media requires the
individual to be very consciously aware and so that is like i was not consciously aware of
while i was watching the movie i was just immersed and so that affected me that affected the rest of
my day and possibly the next day and that was like evident in the podcast that i spoke on the next
day and so you simply just have to be extremely consciously aware like especially so while you're
watching a movie so you can stay on like not be hypnotized consciously break the rules the freedom
of choice is that there is no need to fight to achieve your goal all you need is the will to have
that's as simple as that you you do not need to fight for your place under the sun you define your
goal and just go get it you're not going to be able to get it you're not going to be able to get it
you define your goal and just go get it and simply allow yourself to have it freedom is always yours
like there freedom is never taken from you it's your birthright always yours the yarn of postponement
can go on all your life this is something that really spoke to me because i'm postponing a lot
of these things for a later date a lot of these transfer from principles i was postponing for
a later date and you know what that's just going to go on forever and then i'm just going to go on
a downward spiral so it's either now or never basically and now is always now so if you say now
or never now and then you wait a year well in a year it will be now so it's either now or never
in a year as well if that makes any sense the idea that you still have plenty of time is an
illusion life is quick life goes by very quick so it goes by in a blink of an eye now while you're
in it it's it seems like you've got lots of time but everyone has experienced this when you look back
of the past like year the past week or the past day you're like wow where did the time go
and i experienced that actually all of junior year i looked back and i was like whoa that flew by
so it's an illusion so you might as well do you what you want with the little time you have
the will to have is infinitely more powerful than the will to act so you can act all you want
but if you're not allowing yourself to have you're probably going to fail and when you
allow yourself to have the world will actually help you along your way and help you take better actions
so it's way more powerful totally give yourself permission to have
you do not have to think about the money so that is huge this is something i'm reminding myself of
a lot lately i'm always thinking about how am i going to get the money or how much money does
this cost how much money that how much money this like no don't think about the money just think about
getting your goals like don't think about the means either when you end the battle and give
yourself permission to have outer intention will find a way to give you what you need
so any in the battle with pendulums you gain freedom of choice or you re-obtain it and then
once you give yourself permission to have that thing your goal then our intention the world
will basically find a way to give it to you it will find a way and you don't have to worry about how
you just have to worry about getting allow yourself to have from this moment onwards
unconditionally unreservedly and not occasionally but all the time this is something i'm struggling
with even to this day i am not giving myself permission to have unconditionally and unreservedly
all the time and i feel like this is a huge principle that just allow yourself to go and
when you're moving towards your goal do it as you such you know in such a manner that you would
going to get your mail from the mailbox you just do it on like unemotionally indifferently and you
just get it because it's yours do that same have that same attitude while you're walking towards
your goals earn the will to have not the money so if you listened to the principle before where
do not be shy and do not hold back when setting your goals and you set yourself a crazy seemingly
impossible goal that you have no idea will have like will be possible you're not going to be able
to convince your mind that it's possible but once you run the slide so run the target slide in your
mind along as you like just keep running it as if you've already achieved it then event there's
three stages to this actually the first stage you'll be like you won't believe it that it's
possible the second stage you actually believe that it's possible and then the third stage it
becomes ordinary and that is like the ordinariness all of your items are ordinary all the items you
own are ordinary so if you already own your goal you already your slide is basically you already
have achieved it so it will become ordinary and that means that you are on the right path 100%
for sure everyone makes their choice and receives what they were willing to have this is well this
is very deep so everyone has their choice everyone has freedom of choice and they make their choice
and they receive exactly what they're willing to have and that goes back to what I was saying if
you're if you have the poor mindset you're only willing to have porno but if you have the rich
mindset you're willing to have richness or riches your choice is immutable law and with it you shape
your reality that is another there's a he drops a lot of gold nuggets in Transurfing like every
single sentence is absolute gold do not force yourself to allow yourself to have take pleasure
in having exciting thoughts learn the difference between will and decisiveness the will to have
is the dispassionate wait what does this say I don't know what that says
the will to have is the dispassionate on
something intention to take what is unquestionably yours so it's just going back to the mailbox
you just unlike dispassionately take it because it's yours
you express your right to choose just as calmly and in uninsistently as you
you would retrieve the mail from the mailbox exactly conflict between heart and mind and
excess potential get in the way of allowing yourself to have so if you want to allow yourself to have
simply merge your heart and mind so unify them and drop excess potential and the way you drop
excess potential as you reduce importance so do not place anything inflate in meaning
when you carry around empty or when you carry around importance you waste 90% of your energy on
supporting excess potential that is okay a lot of people have importance and as a result they're
wasting all their energy supporting that the excess potential that was caused by the importance
and as a result they have less energy to do what they want and they have they feel worse also
so just drop importance if you cannot consciously drop importance take action running the target
side in your mind so all you have to do is run the target side in your mind and it takes action
automatically so these last couple ones are he basically said how to not have these specific
emotions so to stop fear get a safety net to stop getting irritated easily remember the rules of
the game and stay empty now this is huge because i used to get very mad very irritated very easily
or i would just like get mad to myself and irritated to myself whenever something like a
little nuisance would pop up but just remember the rules of the game and how you can choose exactly
what you want and just stay empty stop feeling guilty stop trying to justify yourself do not
pressure yourself to win all the time this is so transurfing in the beginning especially you're
going to be bad and don't pressure yourself to always be perfect and always win just allow yourself
to lose some time from time to time begin taking action in whatever way you can all right so i
talked about this last one a little bit earlier there are three steps to the will to have
step one wanting to believe step two belief step three ordinariness so if you make it to
ordinariness then you know for sure you are on the right path so that is it that's the last of it
and towards the end the last couple pages i just wanted to read them all out and i didn't really
and i didn't really speak on them because i was writing out a time so with all that said that's
the end of the episode so to wrap things up don't forget to download your favorite episodes
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