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So the big question is this, how do young men like us who didn't listen to society,

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who are on our own, how do we grow and improve ourselves so that we can live better tomorrow?

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That is the question and this show will give you the answers.

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My name is James Redzinski and welcome to the Ascend Momentum Show.

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Welcome back everyone.

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So today is going to be another Transurfing Principles episode.

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I've done a few of these in the past and today will be part three.

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I like to do these because I want you guys to hear what I'm reading about in real time

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and also Transurfing is very important so I want to share it with you guys.

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And I also do it for many more reasons.

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It helps me understand it more by teaching it.

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It refreshes my memory because I go back from the past like ten days

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and reread all the notes that I wrote and then consolidate them all into one principles list

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that I talk about on these episodes.

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But if you guys are trying to watch these episodes in real time,

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you know that I'm documenting my journey.

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So I want you guys to know that today I recorded, this is my second episode that I'm recording

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because next weekend today is Sunday so I just got done recording episode 39.

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Like ten minutes ago.

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And today is Sunday and next weekend I will be out of town so I won't be able to record.

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So I'm trying to have a, I'm trying to record two more episodes than normal

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so I can have a backlog so I don't have to worry about catching up.

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I'm just preparing for the future because I won't be able to record next weekend

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so I will just not record next weekend.

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And with that said, today I'm recording two and then tomorrow I'm recording two as well.

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So I'm going to record episode 41 tomorrow.

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It's just going to be documenting a normal episode.

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And then 42 will be another Transurfing Principles.

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And I consolidated all of my notes from the past ten days

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because the last Transurfing Principles episode I recorded was ten days ago.

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So I have ten days worth of content to share in two episodes.

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It's about nine pages worth of notes that I wrote down.

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So it took me like 30 to 40 minutes to even consolidate all of this stuff in the first place.

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And I simply just rewrote it again.

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So with that said, I just want to review how these types of episodes work.

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So I'm going to be reading the principle.

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So I have my... I wrote down a lot of principles just in bullet points.

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In a bullet point style. I don't actually have bullet points on my paper, but in a bullet point style.

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And I'll just be reading the principle and then speaking on it.

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But if I have nothing to speak on it, I'm just going to move on to the next one.

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Okay. So with that, with all that said, let's get straight into it.

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I'm going to adjust my microphone so I can look down.

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All right. First one.

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When a person experiences feelings of sincere gratitude, they radiate creative energy.

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So this is very... I feel like this is a very important quote because I want to explain what creative energy is.

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So the world is made up of... there's a common energy source amongst everything in the world.

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And that is love. Some people call it God. Some people call it love.

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It doesn't really matter what you call it, but there's a common source of energy that flows through everything in the world.

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And it's love. And that is... that love is creative energy.

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And there's also a thing called balance forces.

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And then there's also a thing that us as humans create is called excess potential.

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So anytime we destroy the balance, anytime we think badly of someone, think highly of ourselves, do anything that destroys the balance, we create excess potential.

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And then that excess potential generates balancing forces.

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And the balancing forces aim at bringing back the balance.

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Because the world is always trying to maintain a state of balance.

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Like with the waves coming in and going out, the high tide, low tide, the night and day, all this stuff.

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And just the world is always trying to maintain balance.

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And there's never... complete balance is never actually achieved, but just trying to maintain homeostasis.

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Now, with that said, balance forces were created by their like foundational...

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their foundation is based off of creative energy, that same force of love, that same force that goes through everything, is what creates balance forces.

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And so balance forces strive to eliminate things that destroy balance.

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And when it comes to us humans, they do that through literally just reducing our influence on the world.

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So we don't have as much influence on the world because of balance forces.

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Well, it's actually because of ourselves because we're creating excess potential and then balance forces brings the balance back by reducing our influence on the world.

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So to bring everything together, if you're experiencing sincere gratitude, that is an emotion.

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And negative emotions like envy creates excess potential.

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But since your gratitude creates creative energy, so you're radiating at a creative energy frequency.

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And since that frequency is the same frequency that is a foundation of balance forces, the balance forces can't actually destroy it because that would be like destroying their creator.

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Like they can't do that.

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And that's kind of the explanation that to my understanding, that's the explanation that Adam Zellin gave on all that.

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And now he didn't give that direct explanation how I did.

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He gave that explanation in little bits and pieces throughout the entire book.

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And then I crafted it all into just that.

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Alright, so the next.

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Complaints, requests and demands.

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All inventions of pendulums create excess potential.

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Delaying action leading to a buildup of energy.

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Well, first of all, everyone knows that complaining is not good.

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It's not constructive at all.

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And in fact, it's actually destructive.

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Because if you complain, then you're not actually grateful for the world.

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And you're basically saying you're basically being unappreciative of what you have.

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And you're basically trying to act like you're basically saying, oh, why don't I have more?

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And that's a destructive emotion, a destructive attitude.

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But requests, on the other hand, is a not so much known destructive attitude.

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Many people like to request to God to give them things.

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But it's no different if you request a newspaper than if you request a mansion from God.

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They're all the same.

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If God governs the entire universe, God can do anything.

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It's the same if he gives you a newspaper as a billion dollars.

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It's all the same to him.

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But who are we to think that God would, that God will actually listen and give you what you want?

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Who are we, we think that we're so important that God is worried about what we're requesting of him?

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When in reality, God has given us the greatest gift of all, which is the freedom of choice.

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So who are we to whine and complain and demand and request for things?

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From a person who gave us the ability to get them ourselves.

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If we demand something, that's just destructive because the world gave us the ability to get things on our own.

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And pendulums are basically energy sources that are destructive towards us.

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And we like to, they hook into us and basically control us.

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And that's why many people don't really get what they want out of life.

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Because they're under the influence of pendulums.

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Now everyone's under the influence of pendulums in some way or another.

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It's just how much you choose to let it go in.

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Most people let the pendulums go on as much as possible.

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But transfer for us choose to let pendulums in as much as it provides their own goals.

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Wading, worrying, doubt, and desire only drain your energy.

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So let's repeat that.

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Wading, worrying, doubt, and desire.

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So if you're waiting for something to happen, then it'll drain your energy.

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If you're worrying about something that will drain your energy.

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If you doubt something will happen, drain your energy.

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If you desire something, it'll drain your energy.

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Desire, there's no constructive trait about desire.

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If you desire something, it will not happen.

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But if you intend to have something, it will happen.

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Desire alone leads to nothing.

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If you doubt that you'll achieve your goals, well, you're not helping anyone.

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They're your goals to achieve.

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And if you doubt them, well, you're just hurting yourself.

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Worrying also use common sense.

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There's no point in worrying about things.

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Like actually think to yourself, why do I worry so much?

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It's because you place too much meaning and importance on things.

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You place too much value on things.

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I was worried I wouldn't even make any money before Funnel Hacking Live.

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But then I realized that that's just draining my energy and it's just destructive towards

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Worry is not constructive at all.

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Outer intention simply chooses a certain alternative.

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So outer intention is basically giving the green light to the world to let your goals

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realize themselves or to allow the goals to realize.

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So you're basically saying, okay, world, you can let this happen.

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Okay, world, you can let me go to Funnel Hacking Live.

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It's basically outer intention.

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And it seems straightforward, but most people don't actually let the world do things for

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And I was the same way and I still am the same way.

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I'm working towards changing it.

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Outer intention does not hurry to achieve the goal because it is already a done deal.

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Now this is something that I needed to hear a while back and I did hear it actually.

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I realized that I was hurrying so much to try and make enough money before Funnel Hacking

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Live so I can actually afford to go.

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But I was like two months out.

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So it was already deconstructive because I had two months.

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But it was especially not good because I wasn't using outer intention.

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I was basically saying to the world that I can do things on my own and I don't need their

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I don't need its help.

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Because I didn't think that it was possible.

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That's why.

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The only way to understand the nature of outer intention more deeply is to practice lucid

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dreaming.

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So we're in a dream at night time.

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So when you're sleeping, things just happen to you when you're dreaming.

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You don't really know that you're dreaming or else you would be doing whatever you want.

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Things just happen in your dreaming and you're not really aware.

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You're not really awake.

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Things just happen.

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Life just happens.

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And then when you're awake, it's the same thing.

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You're not aware that you can actually choose your script.

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You can actually choose what's going on.

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But so things just happen and life just happens.

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But if you wake up and you're aware that you can do whatever you want, then you can invoke

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the winds of outer intention.

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Outer intention is basically, like I said earlier, giving the green light for the world

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to realize things.

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So when you're asleep and you summon an apple in front of you, you're using outer intention.

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Now you can't necessarily do that in real life at this point of time because your worldview

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Your mind doesn't believe that that's possible.

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So your mind doesn't allow that to happen.

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But if you practice lucid dreaming and then summon an apple, you can feel that feeling

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that it feels like.

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You can start to feel what outer intention feels like and then you'll be able to understand

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it more.

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It's basically like practicing.

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And then you can use that and take that understanding and take it into real life.

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Inner intention transforms into outer intention when the conscious mind meets and merges with

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the subconscious.

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So this can happen in two ways.

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Through your least, your worst expectations or your best expectations.

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We hate people since we are a species controlled by pendulums and we tend to steer towards

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the negative than the positive.

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Most people know exactly what they don't want and as a result, their heart and mind

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are unified in the decision that they hate that thing.

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And then as a result, outer intention manifests that thing in real life.

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And I actually have an example that is funny because I was studying Transurfing even before

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school started.

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And on the first day of school, it was the classic.

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We had to go around and do ice breakers and have conversations with people in the class.

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So the certain type of ice breaker we were doing is everyone had a card with a question

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And there were just questions about what's your greatest fear if you could have a party

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and invite anyone in history to it.

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Who would you invite?

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Like just interesting questions like that.

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And it was funny because I had the question of what's your greatest fear and there is

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this one girl that I was talking to and she said her greatest fear is spiders.

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And I had just read the part in Transurfing where your worst expectations are always realized.

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And so I was, I just remembered that when I was talking to her and I asked her, do you

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find that you see spiders all the time throughout your day?

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And she like, it was almost as she felt understood.

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She like looked at me and she was so happy and excited that someone finally understood

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her.

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And she was like, yes, they are all over the place.

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Like she always experiences them.

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Like literally the other day she had a spider crawl on her.

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And so I was just like, oh, that's interesting.

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But inside I was thinking that's, that's so cool how I like that is proof that that's

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how the world works.

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Because I'm always looking for proof to prove my mind that Transurfing actually works because

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that's how you, that's how you grow your mind to actually accept the Transurfing worldview

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is to give it proof.

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And so that was a piece of proof that I was very excited to hear about.

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So that's the worst expectation, but you can also get your best expectation through the

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To wake up in a dream, you have to train your mind to ask yourself, is this real?

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This is one of the things about lucid dreaming that they teach.

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You always have to be critical about your reality and ask yourself, are you dreaming?

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Is this real?

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And that allows you to gain awareness.

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And then that allows you to basically wake up and realize the rules of the game because

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it serves two reasons.

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your mind to realize, to ask that question when you are dreaming and then hopefully turn

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into a loose dream.

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But two, you will be aware that it is just a game and you'll be aware of the rules of

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the game are up to you.

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So train yourself to be awake all the time.

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The next one is over the course of the day, you need to ask yourself whether what you

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are saying is real at least 10 times.

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So like I said, you have to be asking yourself all the time throughout the day.

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He says at least 10 times here, but I suspect that he only said that to not scare away the

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listener, the reader because later on he goes on and say you have to ask yourself that every

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minute of the day, literally every single waking minute.

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So basically the moral of the story is you should always be aware, always conscious,

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always awake throughout the day so you can actually take control of your destiny.

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Ask your inner guardian to keep asking yourself whether you are asleep.

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That goes along with what I said before.

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Your inner guardian is actually like your inner witness, like that thing that is aware

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of things in your mind.

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And if you instruct it to always ask yourself if you're asleep, then over time you'll get

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better and better and then you'll be asking yourself are you asleep all the time?

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And I just ask myself if I'm asleep just now.

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That's why I just went silent.

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And I am in fact awake, but it is just a game so I can manage my destiny how I want.

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It is essential to always ask yourself with a critical attitude and prevent it from becoming

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a routine procedure.

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That refers to asking yourself are you awake?

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You should never go through the motions in this.

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You should always be critical about it.

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You should always be awake because I told this story yesterday, but last night I actually

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had, or not yesterday, I told this story in yesterday's episode which was last night for

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me which I recorded yesterday's episode like 30 minutes ago.

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But last night I had a dream where someone literally said, wake up.

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Someone literally told me to wake up.

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Someone gave me the cue that I'm dreaming and that it's just a dream.

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And you know what I did?

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I didn't.

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I woke up.

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I was present.

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But I wasn't aware that I was dreaming.

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So I wasn't critical enough.

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I kind of just made it routine.

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It was just routine.

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And that was last night.

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I'm still struggling with this stuff.

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It does not happen right away.

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To subject outer intention to your will, you have to wipe all negative thoughts from your

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mind and establish harmony between the heart and mind.

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So that goes along with what I was saying earlier about unifying the heart and mind,

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the subconscious and the conscious.

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And the second piece to this was you have to wipe negative thoughts from your mind because

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you can use outer intention against your will through realizing your worst expectations.

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You don't want...

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Like that girl didn't want to always have spiders be in her life.

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But that was her worst expectation.

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Her heart and mind were unified.

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And so outer intention was subjected against her will.

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But if you want to subject it towards your will, you have to get rid of all negative

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thoughts and only think about the positive, about what you want, and then establish harmony

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between your heart and mind on those things.

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Reconsider your established views of the world.

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So this was just a passing statement in the book.

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But this is all about the book.

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This is what the book is.

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It's all about changing your views on the world because your views of the world obviously

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are not helping.

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They are obviously not working if you are in a situation where you're not happy about.

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But if you simply just change your worldview, change your view of the world, then your situation

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will improve.

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Not overnight, but it will improve.

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And it's been five months since I started and it has improved, but not to the extent

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that I was hoping.

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So it does not happen overnight, but it will be quicker than not.

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So you might as well do it.

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Reconsider your established views of the world.

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And the way you train your brain to reconsider the established views of the world, the best

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way in my opinion is to read and study.

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And just constantly read and study, trans surfing like I did, or like I am doing.

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Gypsy's hypnosis.

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Book three questions that all respond with yes.

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So this, I talked about this in a previous episode.

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I'm pretty sure it was called Ask Yes three times.

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Very valuable episode.

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And it's basically where it's something that is good for human.

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I read about it in How to Win Friends and Influence Others, Expert Secrets and Transurfing.

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So there's something in three different books that are good books.

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There's a common thing in three different books.

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It's definitely legit and it's definitely something to take into account.

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It's basically where you ask someone three questions related to the thing that you're

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getting at at that moment.

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And they, all the answers to the question, they should respond yes.

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So I'm not going to give an example because you guys can go back and listen to that episode,

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ask yes three times if you want, but that is very, like that is very valuable.

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And it's basically puts them into a daydream and then they're more susceptible to ask,

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to answer yes to the fourth question that you ask, which is usually what you want to

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get out of it with that.

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Outer intention requires an even higher level of conscious awareness.

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So that gets at what I was talking about earlier.

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You have to be aware.

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You have to be conscious.

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You have to be awake all the time if you want to use outer intention.

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And it just requires a high level of conscious awareness.

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I'm going to get some water in order to work with outer intention.

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You have to wake up.

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So if you guys notice, I'm repeating the same things just in different concepts, like different

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phrases.

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And this is because he repeated, the Vatam Zellan repeated the same things over and over

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and over again in different phrases, just drilling into the fact that you have to do

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this one thing just from different perspectives.

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Like he has talked about being conscious and being awake so many times in that book.

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That means that it's definitely a must do.

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Like you definitely need to take it into account and apply it.

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So just always wake up and it's not going to happen overnight.

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Like it over past episodes, I actually talked about how I was, I felt like I was losing

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my growth.

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I was shrinking in my growth.

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I was losing progress because I was waking up more throughout the day.

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So I thought I was falling asleep more throughout the day, but it was just that I realized that

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I was asleep more.

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So I was actually doing, it was actually good.

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It's a whole thing.

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This is essential if you want outer intention to work.

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Once again, awareness is essential if you want outer intention to work.

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You have to be awake.

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You have to be aware that it's just a game.

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In order to avoid getting completely absorbed in a role, the intensity of inner importance

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and the projection of outer importance must be kept to a minimum and the guardian must

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always be ready.

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So this once again is another statement of be awake, be aware, just worded differently.

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You only have the right to choose not to change.

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So the analogy he gave in the book was if you're in an art exhibit and you see a painting

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you don't like, you don't make a fit and ask for it to get removed.

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You simply just walk to the next exhibit.

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So you have the right to choose which exhibit you look at, but you don't have the right

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to change that exhibit.

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So we can choose if we want to go to Florida.

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We can choose if we want to go to Florida, but we can't change Chicago to Florida.

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I think that's the right interpretation.

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I don't even know to be honest.

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You have to remind yourself again and again of the need to go with the flow.

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So there's this thing called the alternatives flow, the alternative space, which has everything

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there was, is and will be.

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It's basically any possible variation in life.

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And that's where the soul goes when you're dreaming.

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So that's why crazy things happen in your dreams because your soul is basically just

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randomly flying through the alternative space.

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But in reality, in material reality, only the manifest sectors where we lived in and

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then things from the alternative space slowly begin to manifest.

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And going with the flow is basically going on the path of least resistance towards your

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goal.

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And going with the flow is basically not listening to the mind, but listening to the heart and

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allowing the heart to listen to the alternatives flow and go on the most efficient path forward.

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Conscious awareness lies in observation, not in the ability to control.

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So observe, this is the thing he talked about, step down from the auditorium.

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So if you're immersed in your role of life, in your role that you're playing in life,

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step down from the actor's seat in the play and go to the auditorium and just observe.

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And do not try and control things, just observe.

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And that's conscious awareness.

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The more conscious awareness you have in waking, the more effectively you will be able to take

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charge of your own destiny.

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I touched on this a little earlier, barely, but the more conscious awareness you have

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in waking, so if you are conscious all the time in waking, you are able to evoke the

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winds of outer intention all the time.

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So then you will more and the most effectively be able to move towards your goals and take

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control of your own destiny.

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So that sentence alone will change your life.

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The more conscious awareness you have in waking, the more effectively you will be able to take

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charge of your own destiny.

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If you don't like the way your destiny is played out, then just be conscious aware more

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throughout the day and then you'll be able to effectively take control of your destiny

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and change it how you want.

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Taking responsibility of your own fate is not a burden, but an act of freedom.

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So that's what I was thinking the first time I read Transurfing.

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I thought that it was a burden to always have to wake up and always be conscious, but it's

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not a burden.

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It's just an act of freedom.

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It's just, it's like, I'm not trying to be trapped.

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I'm not trying to be imprisoned all my life.

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So I'm going to do an act of freedom and it's really easy.

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It's not even that difficult, not nearly as difficult as I thought it would be to take

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responsibility of my own fate and just wake up, simply just wake up.

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The relative sharpness or dullness of one's mind depends more on awareness than it does

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on intellect.

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So this was very, very enlightening for me to hear the first time I read it.

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And at first I didn't really think much of it, but now looking back on it, I realize

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my mind feels so much more sharp and so much more concentrated.

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Like my mind just feels so much more clean now that I am way more aware now.

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And looking back on my memories, my mind just seemed dull back in the day.

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And plus I wasn't very, I was intellectually smart in certain areas, but I was not, I was

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not really, I was not very sharp.

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Like I don't really know how to explain it.

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I have a vague conceptual idea of what this same means, but you just got to understand

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and I don't really understand it.

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So sorry about that.

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Lack of awareness.

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Oh wait, actually no, go back to it.

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The relative sharpness of the dullness of one's mind depends more on awareness than

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it does on intellect.

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So you can actually, I want to explain something.

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So if you're more aware and you're listening to the Russell and Morning Stars, which is

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basically the intuition feeling, then you can get intuitive thoughts more often.

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So then you seem more smart, seem more intelligent.

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So that alone is making you more intelligent.

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Plus you're more clear, you're more conscious, so your mind is more clear.

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Clean of the clutter, the constant chatter.

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And you just are sharp, you're a sharp human being.

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And it's also, you make mistakes when you're asleep.

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Any time you make a mistake, reflect and ask yourself, were you asleep?

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Probably were.

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You don't make nearly as much mistakes when you're awake.

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And because of that, when you're awake, you move towards your goals quicker so you don't

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make as much mistakes.

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And I'm talking the bad mistakes, not necessarily the, actually yeah, mistakes.

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Back of awareness is the result of not wanting to look reality in the eye.

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That is why everyone falls asleep.

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Because they don't like the harshness of reality.

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They don't like reality.

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And it was a defense mechanism that our brain uses to hide ourselves from the reality.

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But it is actually hurting us more than helping us because we are losing the, when we fall

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asleep, we are losing the power of outer intention.

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And also we get caught by pendulums and we get immersed in the game.

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So it was, it's simply just a downside.

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I'm not really sure if there's any good side to falling asleep throughout the day.

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And let me tell you a story.

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The first story I heard, the lack of awareness is the result of looking, of not wanting to

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look reality in the eye.

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I was conscious of that statement throughout the following days.

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And I found myself, when reality got tough and it became harsh, I literally just fell

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asleep.

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And there's one example where I was in a situation where there was a deviation in my script.

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So we were, I don't even remember what happened, but we were at the park and then something

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00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:06,640
happened, something bad happened and then I just fell asleep.

469
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:08,480
And so reality was harsh and I didn't like it.

470
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:09,840
So I fell asleep.

471
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:13,880
But another example, the other day, and this happens like all the time and I'm starting

472
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:19,080
to become conscious of it, every time I take a cold shower in the morning, that sucks.

473
00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:21,760
Like no one likes to take cold showers.

474
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:29,360
I mean, people like it, like I like it, but it sucks, you know?

475
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:31,840
And so reality sucks at that moment.

476
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:36,480
So I literally just fell asleep right when I started taking a cold shower.

477
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:43,960
And then I realized I was aware, I was conscious of that statement that lack of awareness is

478
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:47,240
the result of not wanting to look reality in the eye.

479
00:37:47,240 --> 00:37:52,280
And then I woke up and looked reality in the eye and I just felt the cold water touching

480
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:59,800
my body and just felt the shivers going down my spine.

481
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:06,520
Fear and anger are extreme examples of the absence of awareness.

482
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:14,920
So fear and anger, if you see someone in a, like an angry rage, a temper tantrum, they

483
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:20,080
are absolutely immersed and they're not aware of the game.

484
00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:28,440
They're immersed in their role and it is just, I've seen it all the time.

485
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:29,640
Sorry about that.

486
00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:30,640
There was an interruption.

487
00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:33,280
I had to deal with it.

488
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:38,280
I try to limit those interruptions, but sometimes things are just out of my control.

489
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:39,800
It's okay though.

490
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:41,920
Let's get back to it.

491
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:46,760
I was talking about how fear and anger are extreme examples of the absence of awareness.

492
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:51,680
So whenever someone's in a temper tantrum, they are immersed and you can tell, like they

493
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:57,560
don't know what's right or wrong and they don't know that things just are not actually

494
00:38:57,560 --> 00:38:58,560
that important.

495
00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:02,400
And usually people get extremely mad over just the simplest things.

496
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:04,840
And at those times, they're just unaware.

497
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:08,760
They're simply just unaware.

498
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:13,800
So don't just avoid that.

499
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:18,280
Maximum awareness can be achieved as long as the inner guardian is constantly present

500
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:21,520
in your consciousness.

501
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:25,680
That is very, that's a very important sentence.

502
00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:30,680
So if you, maximum awareness, if you've been paying attention, you obviously now want maximum

503
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:36,400
awareness so you can use outer intention to get your goals, achieve your goals.

504
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:40,440
And it can be achieved as long as the inner guardian is constantly present in your consciousness.

505
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:45,840
So always be aware and always have your inner guardian constantly asking yourself, are you

506
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:46,840
awake?

507
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:47,840
Are you awake?

508
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:53,160
Just every minute of the day, make sure that you're awake and so ask yourself that until

509
00:39:53,160 --> 00:40:02,280
it becomes an attitude.

510
00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:06,680
You have to remember to ask yourself every minute of the day, are you asleep or not so

511
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:08,640
that it becomes an attitude?

512
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:10,080
I just said that.

513
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:14,960
But yeah, it must become an attitude to always stay awake.

514
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:21,240
You have to change your attitude to be awake currently.

515
00:40:21,240 --> 00:40:28,760
And here's a tip that I learned from Tufti, the priestess on one of Adam Zeldin's book.

516
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:34,480
People have the habit to fall asleep when certain events or things happen.

517
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:39,680
So let's say you start talking to someone, people have a habit to fall asleep.

518
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:44,760
Let's say a box falls on the ground, people have a habit to just fall asleep.

519
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:51,480
So right now, let's just say the default habit for humans is to fall asleep after something

520
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:52,880
happens.

521
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:56,920
We just habitually fall asleep.

522
00:40:56,920 --> 00:41:02,800
Now Tufti says reverse that habit, reverse it.

523
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:06,440
So after any time something happens, wake up.

524
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:07,760
Wake up and set it fall asleep.

525
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:13,640
So if you're about to do something, wake up, make it a habit to wake up before you do anything.

526
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:19,520
If something happens, if that box falls down, make it a habit to trigger you to wake up.

527
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:25,840
Always wake up, make it a habit to wake up.

528
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:28,240
Human neither believes nor desires.

529
00:41:28,240 --> 00:41:29,240
It simply does.

530
00:41:29,240 --> 00:41:37,040
So the example he gave is, right now I want you to desire to lift your arm.

531
00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:40,880
So desire to lift your arm.

532
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:42,800
You feel that urge, oh, I want to lift my arm.

533
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:44,040
I want to lift my arm.

534
00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:49,200
And that's what people who are paralyzed, if they try to lift their leg, they feel the

535
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:51,760
desire to lift their leg.

536
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:57,120
But it's not until they intend to lift their leg when it does.

537
00:41:57,120 --> 00:42:00,720
So intention doesn't believe that you can lift your arm.

538
00:42:00,720 --> 00:42:03,920
It doesn't desire that you can lift your arm.

539
00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:05,000
Intention just does it.

540
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:06,640
So lift your arm.

541
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:08,240
You just lifted your arm.

542
00:42:08,240 --> 00:42:09,240
That was intention.

543
00:42:09,240 --> 00:42:10,720
You intended to lift your arm.

544
00:42:10,720 --> 00:42:15,960
And that action was intention.

545
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:19,280
And you didn't believe or desire that you could lift your arm.

546
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:20,280
You just did it.

547
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:24,480
You simply just did lift your arm.

548
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:32,840
If you start walking, assuming that you're not paralyzed, if you just start walking, you

549
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:34,320
don't believe you can walk.

550
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:36,120
You don't desire to walk.

551
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:37,120
You just do it.

552
00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:39,640
You just get up and walk.

553
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:43,680
It's just an example of what intention is.

554
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:47,760
And intention is tough to explain and tough to describe.

555
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:52,760
Tough to put words to.

556
00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:59,440
The secret to fulfilling one's desires lies in the understanding that desire must be replaced

557
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:04,800
by intention, total resoluteness and the desire to have an act.

558
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:06,560
So there's two types of intention.

559
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:09,040
Inner intention and outer intention.

560
00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:13,640
Inner intention strives to impact the world directly and outer intention strives to allow

561
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:18,320
the world to do things on its own.

562
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:25,840
And if inner intention is the decision to act, then outer intention is the decision to

563
00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:27,480
have.

564
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:34,440
So the decision to have is something that will, is a theme that will pop up more and

565
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:37,120
more throughout the book.

566
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:43,120
If you simply just have to allow yourself to have something and decide to have it.

567
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:46,600
I mean, just in, let's use common sense.

568
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:53,440
If you, let's say you want to become a millionaire and that's your goal.

569
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:58,080
And you don't allow yourself to have that and you don't like, decide to have that.

570
00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:04,800
If you don't allow yourself that you can have the millionaire status, like just use common

571
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:05,800
sense.

572
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:06,800
Do you think you're going to get that?

573
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:10,000
No, probably not.

574
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:13,640
There's no point if you don't allow yourself to have.

575
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:18,080
It's all about allowing yourself to have.

576
00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:20,560
Importance gives rise to doubt.

577
00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:25,440
So if you place too much importance on something, this is what I did for the Florida trip that

578
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:28,560
I'm going on next month, next month.

579
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:37,960
And one month from today as a recording, I'm going, well actually less than a month, but

580
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:42,920
I placed too much importance on that trip and I doubted that I could actually do it.

581
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:49,360
And so once I realized that I had doubts, well, I just lower the importance and create

582
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:53,720
a backup plan, realize what will happen if I fail.

583
00:44:53,720 --> 00:44:55,880
Nothing will happen.

584
00:44:55,880 --> 00:45:00,200
When there's doubt, the rational mind desires something.

585
00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:02,120
So that's another thing.

586
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:06,320
So importance gives rise to doubt, but when there's doubt, that means that the rational

587
00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:07,960
mind desires it.

588
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:13,640
And as you know, desire does not do anything to lift up your arm.

589
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:16,080
It's intention that actually lifts the arm.

590
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:21,980
So if your goal is to lift your arm, desire won't do anything to help it.

591
00:45:21,980 --> 00:45:24,880
If anything will hurt you.

592
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:27,160
And that's the same if your goal is to be a millionaire.

593
00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:30,960
Desire will not do anything to help it.

594
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:35,920
And if there's doubt, that means that the mind desires something.

595
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:41,600
So you have to fix that.

596
00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:44,880
Accept the possibility of defeat at the outset of the goal.

597
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:47,520
This should be a one time event.

598
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:50,480
Then never think about failure or success.

599
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:55,520
Just move in the direction of the goal and set off as you would to the store to get some

600
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:57,280
bread.

601
00:45:57,280 --> 00:46:01,600
So that was a longer quote.

602
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:07,640
17, okay, so if you have too much outer importance on the goal, that means that you placed too

603
00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:11,840
much value, you interpreted that goal too highly.

604
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:14,640
You placed too much meaning on it.

605
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:20,600
Then you simply just have to come up with a backup plan or accept the fact that you might

606
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:26,880
or accept the possibility, not the fact, the possibility that you may be defeated.

607
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:29,200
Like you may fail at your goal.

608
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:40,400
So for example, for me, I accepted the possibility of the possibility that I may not be able

609
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:44,040
to make it to Funnel Hacking Live the second I created that goal.

610
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:48,280
So at the outset of the goal, the second you create it, you accept the possibility that

611
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:51,440
you might not make it.

612
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:53,000
And that should only happen once.

613
00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:59,280
Once you accept the possibility of the goal, simply just do not think about failure or

614
00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:02,480
success and just move in the direction of the goal.

615
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:09,640
And your attitude should be the same attitude that you have when you go to the store and

616
00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:12,080
pick up a loaf of bread.

617
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:14,480
You simply just go out and get it.

618
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:16,800
You don't think too much.

619
00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:17,800
You just go out and get it.

620
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:18,800
You know it's there.

621
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:21,640
You simply just get it.

622
00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:33,960
Let me get some water.

623
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:37,440
Outer intention is the unity of the heart and mind.

624
00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:39,880
So I touched on this earlier.

625
00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:46,840
Unify the heart and mind and you activate outer intention.

626
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:51,120
Once you live without conscious awareness, reality cannot be controlled.

627
00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:52,120
It just happens.

628
00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:55,240
So I talked about this.

629
00:47:55,240 --> 00:47:57,960
When you're asleep, dreams just happen.

630
00:47:57,960 --> 00:47:59,920
You don't control your dreams.

631
00:47:59,920 --> 00:48:02,560
Even though everyone knows you can control your dreams.

632
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:07,280
And if you don't know that, I mean not everyone knows it, but I didn't know that until a couple

633
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:08,280
years ago.

634
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:15,960
But now you know you can control your dreams if you are aware that you're dreaming.

635
00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:23,120
But you can control your dreams, but people are not aware.

636
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:25,040
And so it just happens.

637
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:27,200
Dreams just happen.

638
00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:30,240
And reality is just like that.

639
00:48:30,240 --> 00:48:38,080
You can't control reality unless you're aware, unconsciously aware.

640
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:39,480
And reality will just happen to you.

641
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:43,680
That's why people end up where they don't want to be in life.

642
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:51,760
They look back on the past like 20 years and they think, man, how did I get here?

643
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:55,960
Awareness is achieved by being detached from the game.

644
00:48:55,960 --> 00:49:00,080
So that's, I touched on this about the rage thing.

645
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:08,480
So when someone experiences a lot of rage, they're immersed in the game.

646
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:14,120
But if you simply detach and realize, oh, that is not important.

647
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:17,520
Like just detach yourself from the game.

648
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:21,640
So let's say you stub your toe and you just go into a fit of rage.

649
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:24,480
Well, it's not actually that bad.

650
00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:29,160
It's simply just when you stub your toe, it hurts for what, 10 seconds and then you're

651
00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:30,640
good.

652
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:34,280
So you're just in the game.

653
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:39,240
And if you detach yourself and realize, oh, that just happened, and you can actually interpret

654
00:49:39,240 --> 00:49:42,560
it as good, and that's following the principle of coordination, which I'll be talking about

655
00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:49,560
in the near, far future episodes, because coordination doesn't come up until later on

656
00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:52,560
in the book.

657
00:49:52,560 --> 00:50:01,640
But if you, and then once you detach yourself, then you're aware.

658
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:07,000
Most people are 90% preoccupied with thoughts about themselves.

659
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:09,960
This was a game changer for me.

660
00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:17,720
So I'm, for context, I'm a high school student and I would walk around the halls and most

661
00:50:17,720 --> 00:50:20,080
people are like this, I think.

662
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:24,000
People are like nervous or not nervous.

663
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:27,400
Some people have anxiety about what other people are thinking about.

664
00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:31,640
A lot of people waste a lot of energy worrying about what others are thinking.

665
00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:34,280
And even to this day, I still sometimes worry about that.

666
00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:39,920
But then once I detach myself and become aware, then I remind myself most people are 90% preoccupied

667
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:41,080
with thoughts about themselves.

668
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:47,120
So I'm 90% preoccupied with thoughts about myself, so I'm not worried about thinking,

669
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:51,740
I'm not thinking about what other people are doing or look like.

670
00:50:51,740 --> 00:50:54,480
And that's the same with everyone else.

671
00:50:54,480 --> 00:51:01,880
And people don't even notice what you look like, particularly like they don't, they know

672
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:04,960
what you look like, but they don't notice whether you're ugly or not.

673
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:10,480
And you can ask, you can actually prove that by asking yourself, do you notice what anyone

674
00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:16,640
you encounter on a day to day basis looks like unless they're in your inner circle, like

675
00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:26,200
your closest friends, family or whatever.

676
00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:31,280
I don't particularly notice and most people don't particularly, like no one particular

677
00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:35,920
in the notice will let you look like unless you're a potential partner or competitor.

678
00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:40,800
So if you're a potential partner, then I notice what you look like.

679
00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:43,640
But that's all there is to it.

680
00:51:43,640 --> 00:51:45,800
And this actually helped me a lot.

681
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:50,960
So I have this, I'm very insecure about, because I sweat a lot.

682
00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:53,440
And I get like nervous in social situations.

683
00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:54,920
So I start sweating.

684
00:51:54,920 --> 00:52:00,040
And I also have just bad sweating genetics in general.

685
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:04,080
And I say genetics because I don't know what causes it.

686
00:52:04,080 --> 00:52:06,800
It might not be genetics, I don't know.

687
00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:09,600
But I get bad pit stains.

688
00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:16,680
And sometimes if I'm like running around, I get like sweat stains on my butt.

689
00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:23,200
And I always get super insecure about my armpits and I hold my arms close to my body so people

690
00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:25,560
don't see my pits.

691
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:31,440
And then I like, when I'm walking in the hallway, I position myself sometimes so where I'm away

692
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:35,240
from people so they don't see.

693
00:52:35,240 --> 00:52:40,160
But then I remembered that most people are 90% preoccupied or I learned that most people

694
00:52:40,160 --> 00:52:44,960
are 90% preoccupied with thoughts about themselves.

695
00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:53,480
And that was huge because that allowed me to basically drop the importance and realize

696
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:55,640
that no one's even thinking about me.

697
00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:58,840
So why should I need to waste my energy?

698
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:00,840
Worried about what other people are thinking.

699
00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:04,360
Why do I need to waste my energy?

700
00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:06,400
Worried about other people if they're not even thinking about me.

701
00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:09,640
They're just doing exactly what I'm doing, thinking about themselves.

702
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:12,920
And that's neither good nor bad if you're thinking about yourself.

703
00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:15,440
Just how things are.

704
00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:19,840
And you can take advantage of it and realize that no one's thinking about you and then

705
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:23,120
you don't have to feel self-conscious or insecure.

706
00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:28,840
And it really lifts a huge burden, a heavy weight off of you if you're like me and you're

707
00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:37,840
self-conscious about yourself.

708
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:40,560
No one particularly notices what you look like.

709
00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:41,560
That was the next one.

710
00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:43,360
I talked about that.

711
00:53:43,360 --> 00:53:50,000
Switch your attention to qualities you do like about yourself and other attributes you

712
00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:52,280
would like to acquire.

713
00:53:52,280 --> 00:53:55,240
That one is one of the oldest ones in the book.

714
00:53:55,240 --> 00:54:02,160
People always talk about don't worry about your flaws, just focus on positives or traits

715
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,640
you wish to acquire.

716
00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:11,240
And I kind of did that naturally, subconsciously throughout time.

717
00:54:11,240 --> 00:54:14,160
And I'm doing it now still.

718
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:16,560
And that is definitely huge.

719
00:54:16,560 --> 00:54:18,400
It actually works.

720
00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:24,000
So I would always, like when I first started lifting, I did not like how I was skinny.

721
00:54:24,000 --> 00:54:25,200
But I did not focus on that.

722
00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:27,160
I didn't focus on my physique.

723
00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:29,080
I literally just focused on getting jacked.

724
00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:30,840
I used to always say, I'm a beast.

725
00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:33,400
And I used to repeat that to myself with the emotion.

726
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:35,280
I used to say, I'm a beast.

727
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:38,640
Like I look in the mirror and I'm like, man, I'm a beast.

728
00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:44,680
And I would just focus on the traits that I would look that I wish I had, like me being

729
00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:45,680
a beast.

730
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:48,080
Like I certainly was not a beast.

731
00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:50,640
I'm more so of a beast now.

732
00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:55,960
I'm not sure if I'm entirely a beast yet, but I like to think I am.

733
00:54:55,960 --> 00:55:00,640
But I changed my identity to being a beast.

734
00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:03,000
And then I slowly became a beast.

735
00:55:03,000 --> 00:55:07,040
And my physique grew.

736
00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:09,960
Like I have a very nice physique now.

737
00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:15,200
And it's because I focused on positive qualities that I wish to acquire, that I would like

738
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:16,200
to acquire.

739
00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:19,560
And then I worked towards acquiring them.

740
00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:22,200
And this also is like many things.

741
00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:29,720
When I started, when I realized one month ago to be conscious, I wasn't focusing on how

742
00:55:29,720 --> 00:55:31,520
much I was asleep every day.

743
00:55:31,520 --> 00:55:36,080
I was focusing on how much I was aware and awake today.

744
00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:39,280
And then the next day I was like, oh, I was awake more than yesterday.

745
00:55:39,280 --> 00:55:43,920
And then the next day more, you know, I always focused on the positive.

746
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:46,560
Don't focus on the negative.

747
00:55:46,560 --> 00:55:50,240
And I'm going to be honest, I just presented myself as doing this perfectly.

748
00:55:50,240 --> 00:55:52,360
I did not do it perfectly.

749
00:55:52,360 --> 00:55:55,160
There's many times where I focus on the negative.

750
00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:56,840
And I got consequences because of that.

751
00:55:56,840 --> 00:56:02,800
You simply just got to catch yourself every time you do that and then just change it.

752
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:05,000
It's really all about consciousness.

753
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:06,280
It's all about being aware.

754
00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:12,360
If you can conquer the mind, I'm not sure if that's the right term, but if you can control

755
00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:17,560
your mind, then you can achieve whatever you want.

756
00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:21,480
And most people including me are not in control of their mind.

757
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:27,800
I'm training myself to be in control of my mind, but my mind just does whatever it wants

758
00:56:27,800 --> 00:56:28,920
most of the day.

759
00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:35,000
But now it's changing one month in and I'm starting to actually gain control over my

760
00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:39,800
mind.

761
00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:42,560
Get your attention from the negative to the positive.

762
00:56:42,560 --> 00:56:47,560
So this kind of goes hand in hand with the one I talked about before, but it just makes

763
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:48,560
sense.

764
00:56:48,560 --> 00:56:49,560
Use common sense.

765
00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:50,640
Why would you think about the negative?

766
00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:51,640
No point.

767
00:56:51,640 --> 00:56:52,640
There's no point.

768
00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:55,160
There's no positive to thinking about the negative.

769
00:56:55,160 --> 00:56:59,080
So then just think about the positive because it's better, makes you feel better.

770
00:56:59,080 --> 00:57:07,320
Plus, you're radiating positive thought energy to where you are literally like transferring

771
00:57:07,320 --> 00:57:11,600
to lifelines of more positive nature.

772
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:16,520
Even if you don't believe in that, it just makes sense to think about the positive.

773
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:23,760
And the rose-tinted glasses, Badem Zon said that it was actually created by the pessimists.

774
00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:28,640
That term was created by the pessimists because it was so uncomfortable to them to think about

775
00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:33,880
the positive that they just said that don't think about the positive because it was uncomfortable

776
00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:34,880
to them.

777
00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:38,960
And the other people not to, they created the rose-tinted glasses.

778
00:57:38,960 --> 00:57:41,040
But rose-tinted glasses are actually good.

779
00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:43,360
I'm pretty sure.

780
00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:49,120
Still flogging on that, but I think it's good because always focus on the positive.

781
00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:52,920
Give yourself permission to be worthy of the luxury.

782
00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:55,400
So why not?

783
00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:56,400
Why not?

784
00:57:56,400 --> 00:58:01,880
I'm still trying to convince myself to give myself permission to be worthy of luxury.

785
00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:06,400
But I'm asking myself, why not?

786
00:58:06,400 --> 00:58:12,400
My heart is just the same as everyone else, just the same perfectness.

787
00:58:12,400 --> 00:58:14,840
So why not?

788
00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:16,480
Why can't I have luxury?

789
00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:17,480
No reason.

790
00:58:17,480 --> 00:58:18,480
And I can.

791
00:58:18,480 --> 00:58:22,720
The only person, the only thing stopping me is myself.

792
00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:27,200
And the only thing that will allow me to is myself.

793
00:58:27,200 --> 00:58:28,720
So it's really up to me.

794
00:58:28,720 --> 00:58:32,800
And you simply just have to give yourself permission to be worthy of luxury.

795
00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:36,520
It's all about giving yourself permission first.

796
00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:43,840
It is essential to give yourself permission to have.

797
00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:50,160
If you can't give yourself permission to have, how can you expect to have it?

798
00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:56,800
If I can't give myself permission to go to Florida next month, how can I expect to get

799
00:58:56,800 --> 00:58:57,800
there?

800
00:58:57,800 --> 00:59:01,800
Now, I already bought the tickets in the hotel, but that's not a guarantee.

801
00:59:01,800 --> 00:59:02,800
Stuff can happen.

802
00:59:02,800 --> 00:59:06,240
I still have to give myself permission.

803
00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:13,080
I still have to give myself permission to be worthy of the luxury.

804
00:59:13,080 --> 00:59:14,560
It's all about that.

805
00:59:14,560 --> 00:59:28,960
So I actually have one, two, three, four more pages of review that I have not, that I was,

806
00:59:28,960 --> 00:59:31,600
that I have not gone on over yet.

807
00:59:31,600 --> 00:59:35,360
So I will be posting that in two days, I believe.

808
00:59:35,360 --> 00:59:42,760
I believe I will be posting part four in two days of Transurfing Principles.

809
00:59:42,760 --> 00:59:47,640
So that will help me catch up for next weekend's recording.

810
00:59:47,640 --> 00:59:50,600
And that's the end of today's episode.

811
00:59:50,600 --> 00:59:54,840
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812
00:59:54,840 --> 00:59:57,400
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813
00:59:57,400 --> 01:00:16,080
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